My older brother's wife is also a young white woman, and although my parents don't know English, however, they still try hard to take care of her and her two boys. They make gestures like that, so both sides must make allowances.
我大嫂咪又係鬼妹，雖然我父母都唔識英文，但都努力照顧佢同兩隻鬼仔，指手篤腳噉，兩方都要體諒。