ITS NOT GONNA HAPPEN PEOPLE ARE GONNA SAY WHAT THEY WANNA SAY AND JUST BECAUSE THEYRE FAMILY OR FRIENDS OR WHATEVER YOU KNOW JUST DONT EXPECT THAT THEYRE GONNA BE DOING THAT AND IM NOT SAYING THAT EVERY PERSON DOES THAT FOR THAT CERTAIN REASON BUT A LOT OF ITS BECAUSE PEOPLE IN YOUR FAMILY AND STUFF ARE JUST WANTING TO PROTECT YOU BUT LIKE I SAID EARLIER YOU HAVE TO PROTECT YOUR ENERGY AND IF YOURE NOT GETTING THE ENERGY THAT YOURE NEEDING YOU KNOW MAYBE YOU NEED TO SIT BACK AND REALIZE YOU KNOW WHAT CAN I DO OR WHAT KIND OF BOUNDARIES DO I NEED TO SET AND THEN GO FROM THERE