BY SAYING A SIMILAR SITUATION THEY WENT THROUGH THAT HELPED LIKE WHAT HELPED THEM GET THROUGH IT OKAY I UNDERSTAND BUT THERES A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN DOING THAT AND SOMEBODY LIKE BEING LIKE THATS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL GROW UP WAIT BUT LIKE IT ALSO DEPENDS DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT CAUSE PETTY DRAMA AND THEN TRY TO VALIDATE YOUR FEELINGS OKAY ALSO JUST LIKE ON THAT I FEEL LIKE OKAY IM GONNA DISAGREE WITH YOU FOR A SECOND I THINK ITS OKAY TO LIKE 