 —This was for losing the good deed [of self-restraint].Hence [he followed her] to [the town called] Bahurim (literally, "youths"), implying that they both had remained like unmarried youths and not tasted the pleasure of marital relations.British reform rabbi Jonathan Magonet has described the episode as 'one of those remarkable subversive moments' when we are forced to confront the dark side of a heroic character (David), to ask what really matters, and what price might be too high to pay for something.