 Safety Sensitivity comes from when a caregiver believes growing close to their child means that they will lose the ability to control their own life due to forced acquiescence to the desires and needs of their children.This arises when caregivers struggle with intimacy and leads to them enforcing their own isolation so that they will not be engulfed by the intrusions of others in general and especially by the intense emotions of their children.Children of these parents will often be forced to explore because they cannot develop closeness with their caregivers, and from this they do not have the place of comfort that they need.