 However, respondents also cited “not finding the right one or someone who met my expectations” as the top key reason for delaying marriage.Other top reasons cited included “not enough opportunities to socialize” and “lack of time” as career and other commitments were viewed as more/equally important, or as milestones to be achieved in life before they would think about marriage.In the beginning, activities that the former SDU organised included personal-effectiveness workshops, computer courses, barbecues, dancing lessons, cruises/tours to the Maldives, Club Mediterrannee and Japan.