 In 2000, Hakim married Dutchman Jeroen Lezer, a film producer, writer and actor.They live in Cibubur, East Jakarta, with Hakim's mother and adopted daughter Shena; Bruce Emond of "The Jakarta Post" describes her home as being "like a lush secret garden amid the creeping suburbia".Hakim generally avoids discussing her personal life with the press and is unwilling to discuss topics that are not of public interest.