 After James IV's marriage by proxy, he met Janet at Bothwell Castle in April 1503, then she was sent to Darnaway Castle in August just before Margaret arrived.It is not clear whether she is the same as the "Janet bair ars" who received gifts from the king in 1505–12.She also had relationships with two other men, one of whom was John Ramsay, 1st Lord Bothwell whom she married in 1505.