 ", a poetry collection published in April 2018, and "Space Between", a memoir published in September 2019.Speaking to the "New York Post"s Page Six in June 2016, Tortorella declared themself sexually fluid, and identified as bisexual in an October 2016 interview with "Vulture".In November 2017 Tortorella and Bethany C. Meyers (whom they had been dating for 11 years) talked about being in a polyamorous relationship, a revelation that got them uninvited from their respective families' Thanksgiving dinner.