 Caphisodorus died with Epaminondas at Mantineia in battle.They were buried together, something usually reserved for a husband and wife in Greek society.As for Asopichus, Theopompus (as quoted by Athenaeus) also confirms his liaison with Epaminondas; the historian describes him as a fearless warrior who had the trophy at Leuctra, acquired by his lover, depicted as relief on his shield.