History and location 
The church at Dode was built during the reign of William II of England at some point between 1087 and 1100. It was built on a man-made mound. The nearby hill is known as "Holly Hill" which is a corruption of "Holy Hill", and the lane which leads to the village is "Wrangling Lane", showing that the mound could be the site of a meeting place. The church stands at the end of a 10-mile long easterly running ley line connecting three pre-reformation churches, two Roman sites, a Bronze Age burial ground, and two of the Medway megaliths - the Coffin Stone and Kit's Coty House.
The village of Dode was virtually wiped out by the Black Death during the 14th century, and its church last used as a place of worship in 1367, then deconsecrated on the orders of Thomas Trilleck, the Bishop of Rochester. It was originally twinned with another Early Norman church in Paddlesworth (now in Snodland).
According to local legend, the last survivor of the Black Death at Dode was a seven-year-old girl known as the Dodechild. It is said she took refuge in the church after all the other villagers were dead, and died within its walls. The Dodechild is supposed to haunt the churchyard, having first appeared on a Sunday morning each month for several years, and then every seven years.
Rebuilding of the church 
Following the Black Death, the village was abandoned, and the church stood empty for centuries. In 1901 it was purchased by an antiquarian, George M Arnold, Mayor of Gravesend. He restored the walls and roof of the church and in 1954 the Arnold family returned the building to the Catholic Church. It was rededicated as the Church of Our Lady of the Meadows and mass was celebrated there at least once a year.
Eventually the building deteriorated again and was vandalised. In 1990 Doug Chapman, a chartered surveyor who had worked at Canterbury Cathedral, purchased the church and began restoring the building, originally with the intention of turning it into a weekend home. Since 1999 it has been licensed as a civil wedding venue.
The wedding venue hit the British press in December 2009 because of the snowfall which occurred across the country. A bride-to-be called BBC Radio Kent for assistance when she realised that the transport arranged for her wedding would not be able to travel down the narrow lane to Dode. A number of volunteers stepped forward, providing enough four-wheel drive cars to transport the wedding party and their guests both to the venue at Dode, and then afterwards to the Leather Bottle pub in Cobham.
See also 
- Glancey, Jonathan (1996-04-16). "One man's revival of ancient English rites". Independent.co.uk. Retrieved 2009-12-19.
- Chapman, Doug. "A Brief History of Dode". Dodevillage.com. Retrieved 2009-12-19.
- "The Lost Village of Dowde". Haunted Kent. Retrieved 2009-12-18.[dead link]
- "A brief explanatory note on the churches and parishes of Paddlesworth and Dode". Medway.gov.uk. Retrieved 2009-12-19.
- "TQ6663: Dowde (or Dode) Church". Geograph.co.uk. 2006-06-26. Retrieved 2009-12-18.
- "George Matthews Arnold". Discover Gravesham. Gravesham Borough Council. Retrieved 2010-01-14.
- "A History of English Martyrs Strood". Church Handbook 1975–6. English Martyrs Roman Catholic Church. 1975. Retrieved 2010-01-14.
- Pattison, Jo (2009-12-14). "Discover the lost village of Dode". BBC News. Retrieved 2009-12-18.
- "Snow almost stops bride getting to the church on time... until some kindly villagers step in". Daily Mail. 2009-12-18. Retrieved 2009-12-19.