I’m working on an ebook titled “6 Powerful Mechanisms Behind Personal Change”. This post is a part of the chapter about positive attitude. I will show you what attitude is and how you can use it to be proactive.
The Nature of Attitude
Daniel D. Droba claims he was the first to define the attitude concept and he did so in his article The Nature of Attitude from 1933.
Droba based his study on 55 books on sociology and psychology and he concluded that attitude is a state of preparation to action.
“Attitude is a state of preparation to action”
Carl Jung’s definition of attitude
I’m surprised that Droba only used American sources and studies because the attitude concept has a central role in Carl Jung’s Psychological Types published in 1923.
Jung’s work is used today in personality tests and development of organisations.
In his work “Psychological Types” (pp. 526-30) Jung gave his definition of attitude:
“Attitude is a readiness of the psyche to act or react in a certain direction.”
Jung places great emphasis on the attitude concept because it is a powerful mechanism that is based on experience:
“To have a certain attitude means to be ready for something definite […] having an attitude is synonymous with an a priori direction towards a definite thing.”
Jung believes that we have both a conscious and an unconscious attitude. I you want to act in a certain direction you have to be conscious about it; for that you need attitude.
“Active apperception is impossible without an attitude.”
Jung has identified certain types of attitudes that are based on habits.
“When a function habitually predominates, a typical attitude is thereby produced.”
This means, that habits can develop both consciously and unconsciously; these habits will produce some kind of attitude.
If you want to change something you need the right attitude to do so. That is why you can combine habits and attitudes and thereby create personal change.
Experience → Attitude → Action
It’s raining. Rain is wet and cold. → Rain is bad → Cancel date
Habits → Attitude → Action
Bad habit → Negative attitude → Negative projection to other people
Unhealthy diet → feeling of guilt → healthy people are patronising
You can use this mechanism to create change. Changing a habit is difficult and it takes time, but you can choose to adopt a certain attitude, e.g. a positive attitude, and thereby change your action.
Another type of action will lead to a new experience. That new experience is your resource to the attitude you desire.
Your attitude is not predetermined. You can choose to take responsibility for your actions and adopt an attitude that will help you to personal change. This is being proactive.
Make your choice:
I choose to be reactive and let my bad habits control my life and actions I choose to be proactive and take charge of my life and actions
Is it that simple? – Yes, it is that simple! The difficult part is to make the decision about being reactive or proactive. If you chose to be reactive then you don’t have to read anymore – just carry on with your life as usual.
Did you choose to be proactive? What are you going to do to be proactive?
Maybe you are already in charge of your personal development, please share how you did in the comments.