it is hard to believe that there is no connection ( especially since inwe ' in the cottage of lost play is emended from ing , i.22 ) , yet it is equally difficult to see what that connection could be , since inwe of the lost tales is an elda of kor ( ingwe lord of the vanyar in the silmarillion ) while ing ( we ) of 'the aelfwine story ' is a man , the king of luthany and aelfwine 's ancestor .