varena ; tootsie ; me ; the other bridesmaid , janna russell ; my mother and father ; jess and lou o'shea , the one in his capacity as minister and the other in her capacity as church organist ; dill ; berry duff ; dill 's unmarried younger brother jay ; a cousin of dill 's , matthew kingery ; the florist who 'd been hired to supply the wedding flowers , who would double as wedding director ; and miracle of miracles , dill 's mother , lula .