Share a personal story about dysfunctional family members and recommend a book to the reader.
My grandfather was a dead end dead beat social parasite who would not lift a finger to support himself, wife, or 12 kids he leeched off of. In an act of desperation my Uncles booted him out of the family, kidnapped my grandma and their siblings, and hitched a ride to Oregon from Oklahoma coming here destitute. In this large family some were physically disabled, some mentally disabled, and some took after my grandfather, and they too were booted out of the family so they couldn't inflict their criminal dysfunction on my family. My family that took care of the ones who couldn't. The ones who take after my grandfather are never going to address their obnoxious dysfunction, and what makes them dead end dead beat social parasites. I would highly suggest you read the book The Ant and the Grasshopper.