No one knows what you’ve been through unless they’ve experienced a deep loss but to each individual their pain is their own and only you ( they ) know and experience your own loss/ pain in your (their) own way.

Ƙididdigar geographically-specific ba cikakke ba ne, kuma dole ne kamfanoni su sanya wasu ƙananan ƙoƙarin kafin su sami ganuwa.
