Mma Abɛɛfo Mfiri Nnnye Wo Mmmɔ So | Mmoa a Wɔde Ma Abusua No\nKENKAN WƆ Afrikaans Albanian American Sign Language Amharic Arabic Arabic (Lebanon) Armenian Azerbaijani Belize Kriol Bicol Bislama Brazilian Sign Language Bulgarian Catalan Cebuano Chavacano Chichewa Chin (Hakha) Chinese Cantonese (Simplified) Chinese Cantonese (Traditional) Chinese Mandarin (Simplified) Chinese Mandarin (Traditional) Chitonga Chitonga (Malawi) Chitumbuka Chiyao Cibemba Colombian Sign Language Croatian Czech Danish Dutch Efik English Estonian Faroese Fijian Finnish Fon French Ga Georgian German Greek Gun Haitian Creole Hausa Hebrew Hiligaynon Hindi Hindi (Roman) Hungarian Iban Ibanag Icelandic Igbo Iloko Indonesian Isoko Italian Italian Sign Language Japanese Kannada Kazakh Kazakh (Arabic) Kiluba Kimbundu Kinyarwanda Kirghiz Kirundi Korean Lari Lithuanian Luo Malagasy Malay Malayalam Maya Mongolian Myanmar Ndebele (Zimbabwe) Nepali Norwegian Nzema Oromo Pangasinan Papiamento (Curaçao) Persian Polish Portuguese Portuguese (Portugal) Punjabi Quichua (Imbabura) Rarotongan Romanian Russian Russian Sign Language Samoan Sango Sepedi Serbian Serbian (Roman) Seychelles Creole Shona Sinhala Slovak Slovenian Solomon Islands Pidgin Spanish Spanish Sign Language Sunda Swahili Swedish Tagalog Tamil Tatar Telugu Tetun Dili Thai Tigrinya Tsonga Tswana Turkish Twi Tzotzil Uighur (Cyrillic) Ukrainian Urdu Urhobo Uzbek Uzbek (Roman) Valencian Vietnamese Waray-Waray Welsh Xhosa Yoruba Zapotec (Isthmus)\nMma Abɛɛfo Mfiri Nnnye Wo Mmmɔ So\nAbɛɛfo mfiri ayɛ ɔdomfo-kumfo; ebetumi ama w’aware ayɛ yiye na ebetumi nso ama no ayɛ basaa. Aka w’aware sɛn?\nNea awarefo aka\nNea ɛbɛboa mo ama moasusuw ho\nSɛ wode abɛɛfo mfiri yɛ adwuma ne kwan so a, ebetumi ama w’aware ayɛ yiye. Awarefo sei, sɛ obiara kɔ n’adwuma a, wotumi de di nkitaho sɛnea ɛbɛyɛ a obiara bɛte ne yɔnko nka.\n“Sɛ wokyerɛw text message ketewa bi kɔma wo kunu anaa wo yere ka kyerɛ no sɛ ‘Medɔ wo’ anaa ‘Mafe wo’ a, ɛboa paa.”—Jonathan.\nSɛ woamfa abɛɛfo mfiri anyɛ adwuma ne kwan so a, ebetumi ama w’aware ayɛ basaa. Ebinom wɔ hɔ a, daa na wɔn ani si wɔn fon anaa wɔn kɔmputa so. Ɛba saa a, wonnya wɔn yere anaa wɔn kunu ho adagyew papa.\n“Minim paa sɛ da bi wɔ hɔ a, me kunu nyae a anka ɔne me bedi nkɔmmɔ paa, nanso fon a m’ani si so nti, ɛyɛ a na wapɛ ne baabi atena.”—Julissa.\nEbinom ka sɛ, sɛ wɔn ani si fon anaa kɔmputa so mpo a, wobetumi ne wɔn yere anaa wɔn kunu adi nkɔmmɔ kama. Awuraa bi a yɛfrɛ no Sherry Turkle asua nnipa ho nsɛm kɔ akyiri paa. Ɔkyerɛkyerɛ mu sɛ, “Sɛ obi ka sɛ obetumi akeka nneɛma abɔ so ayɛ ne nyinaa yiye a, ɛnyɛ nokware.” Ebinom adwene yɛ wɔn sɛ, sɛ wutumi keka nneɛma pii bɔ so yɛ ne nyinaa a, ɛkyerɛ sɛ woyɛ adeɛ, nanso ɛnte saa. Awuraa no toaa n’asɛm no so sɛ, “Sɛ wokeka nneɛma bɔ so pii a, ebiara nni hɔ a wubetumi ayɛ no yiye.” *\n“Sɛ me ne me kunu bɔ nkɔmmɔ a, m’ani gye paa, nanso sɛ yɛrebɔ nkɔmmɔ na ɔresan ayɛ biribi foforo a, ɛmma m’ani nnye. Sɛ me ne no rebɔ nkɔmmɔ na ɔde ne fon anaa ne kɔmputa reyɛ biribi foforo a, ɛyɛ me sɛ me ho nhia no.”—Sarah.\nNea yɛreka akosi: Abɛɛfo mfiri betumi ama w’aware ayɛ yiye, na ebetumi nso ama no agyigya. Ne nyinaa ne sɛnea wode bɛyɛ adwuma.\nYɛ nea ehia ansa na woayɛ nea ɛfata. Bible ka sɛ: ‘Yɛnhwehwɛ mu nhu nneɛma a ehia paa no.’ (Filipifo 1:10) Bisa wo ho sɛ, ‘Enti bere a me ne me yere sɛe no wɔ abɛɛfo mfiri ho nti, ɛmma yennya adagyew mma yɛn ho anaa?’\n“Ɛtɔ da a na barima ne ne yere apue akɔtena baabi redidi, nanso wobɛhwɛ na obiara ani si ne fon so. Ɛyɛ awerɛhow paa. Yɛmpɛ sɛ abɛɛfo mfiri de yɛn bɛyɛ nkoa ama yɛn werɛ afi ade a ɛho hia paa no. Ɛno ne adagyew yebenya ama yɛn ho.”—Matthew.\nMma no nnnye wo bere nyinaa. Bible ka sɛ: “Monhwɛ mo abrabɔ yiye paa na sɛnea monantew no anyɛ sɛ wɔn a wonnim nyansa na mmom sɛ anyansafo, na momfa mo bere nyɛ nneɛma a ɛho hia.” (Efesofo 5:15, 16) Bisa wo ho sɛ, ‘Text message a ɛho nhia sɛ migyina so kan na mema ho mmuae no, metumi ayi bere bi asi hɔ a mede bɛyɛ ho adwuma na ankɔba sɛ message a ɛbɛba biara megyae nea mereyɛ akɔkan ama ho mmuae?’\n“Ɛyɛ a mede me fon to silent sɛnea ɛbɛyɛ a sɛ obi frɛ anaa obi sɛnde me message a ɛrenyɛ dede. Mahu sɛ ɛboa paa. Ɛntaa mma sɛ menya call anaa text message anaa e-mail a ehia sɛ migyina so ma ho mmuae ɛhɔ ara.”—Jonathan.\nSɛ ɛbɛyɛ yiye a, mfa adwuma nkɔ fie. Bible ka sɛ: “Biribiara wɔ ne bere a wɔahyɛ ato hɔ.” (Ɔsɛnkafo 3:1) Bisa wo ho sɛ: ‘Meba fie a ɛyɛ a meyɛ adwuma wɔ fon so ma enti minnya bere mma me yere ne me mma anaa? Sɛ saa na ɛte a, bisa wo ho sɛ, aka m’aware sɛn? Sɛ yebisa me yere anaa me kunu a, ɛdɛn na ɔbɛka?’\n“Abɛɛfo mfiri nti, yetumi yɛ adwuma bere biara wɔ baabiara. Mabɔ me ho mmɔden paa sɛ, sɛ me ne me yere wɔ hɔ a, merentaa nhwɛ fon so na merentaa nyɛ m’adwuma ho biribiara wɔ fon.”—Matthew.\nWo ne wo yere anaa wo kunu nsusuw ho nhwɛ sɛnea mode abɛɛfo mfiri bɛyɛ adwuma. Bible ka sɛ: “Obiara nnhwehwɛ nea eye ma ɔno nko ara, na mmom ɔnhwehwɛ ne yɔnko nso de bi.” (1 Korintofo 10:24) Wo ne wo yere, sɛnea obiara de abɛɛfo mfiri yɛ adwuma no, monka ho asɛm. Na sɛ ehia sɛ mosesa mu nso a, monka ho asɛm. Asɛm a yɛato din ‘nea ɛbɛboa mo ama moasusuw ho’ no, mubetumi de ayɛ adwuma.\n“Me ne me kunu nyinaa, sɛ obiara hu sɛ fon anaa tablet reyɛ agye ne yɔnko abɔ so a, yɛka ho asɛm; yɛmfa nsie. Yɛn nyinaa hu sɛ ebetumi de ɔhaw aba, enti sɛ obiara ka n’adwene a, obiara tie no yiye.”—Danielle.\nNea yɛreka akosi: Hwɛ na woamma abɛɛfo mfiri amfa wo anyɛ akoa.\n“Anwummere a yebetumi de adidi yɛn ho nkɔmmɔ ahu nea ɛkɔɔ so saa da no, yɛanhwɛ yiye a, yebetumi de yɛn ani asi fon so ama anwummere no asɛe kwa. Nneɛma bebree na ehia sɛ yɛka ho asɛm wɔ yɛn abrabɔ mu. Enti bere a ɛsɛ sɛ yɛne yɛn kunu anaa yɛn yere didi yɛn ho nkɔmmɔ no, enni sɛ yɛde yɛn ani si fon so.”—Trista ne ne kunu Georgel.\n“Ɛsɛ sɛ wunya wo kunu anaa wo yere ho adagyew paa. Text message, e-mail, ne nneɛma a ɛtete saa deɛ, da biara ebi bɛba yɛn fon so. Nanso dodow no ara, wubetumi ahwɛ no akyiri yi. Sɛ woreka kar a, wuntumi nsɛnde text message, efisɛ wunim sɛ ebetumi ama woanya akwanhyia. Ɛnde, adɛn nti na ɛsɛ sɛ wotena hɔ ma fon sɛe w’aware?”—Jonathan ne ne yere Katelyn.\nNea edi kan, obiara nsusuw nsɛmmisa yi ho. Muwie a, mmuae a obiara nyae no, ɔne ne yɔnko nsusuw ho.\nAbɛɛfo mfiri a wode yɛ adwuma no, ɔkwan bɛn so na ama w’aware ayɛ yiye?\nSɛnea wo kunu anaa wo yere de abɛɛfo mfiri yɛ adwuma no, wohwɛ a, ɛde nsɛmnsɛm reba mo aware mu anaa? Sɛ ɛte saa a, ɔkwan bɛn so na ɛde nsɛmnsɛm aba aware no mu?\nWohwɛ a, wo kunu anaa wo yere bɛka sɛ sɛnea wode abɛɛfo mfiri yɛ adwuma no de ɔhaw aba mo aware mu anaa? Sɛ ɛte saa a, ɔkwan bɛn so na ɛde ɔhaw aba aware no mu?\nBiribi wɔ hɔ a enti ɛsɛ sɛ text message a ɛbɛba wo fon so biara, wohwɛ na woma ho mmuae anaa? Sɛ ɛte saa a, ɛnde dɛn na wobɛyɛ na wei amma w’aware anyɛ basaa?\nSɛnea wo kunu anaa wo yere de abɛɛfo mfiri yɛ adwuma no, sɛ ehia sɛ ɔsesa mu a, nsakrae bɛn na wopɛ sɛ ɔyɛ, na wo nso, nsakrae bɛn na wopɛ sɛ woyɛ?\nYɛbɔ No Mua A: Mma Abɛɛfo Mfiri Nnnye Wo Mmmɔ So\nYɛ nea ehia ansa na woayɛ nea ɛfata. Mma wo werɛ mmfi ade a ɛho hia paa no, ɛno ne w’aware.\nMma no nnnye wo bere nyinaa. Wubetumi ayi bere bi asi hɔ a wode bɛyɛ text message ho adwuma na ankɔba sɛ message a ɛbɛba biara wubegyae nea woreyɛ akɔkan ama ho mmuae?\nSɛ ɛbɛyɛ yiye a, mfa adwuma nkɔ fie. Esiane sɛ abɛɛfo mfiri nti yebetumi ayɛ adwuma bere biara wɔ baabiara nti, ɛsɛ sɛ yɛyɛ no saa anaa?\nWo ne wo yere anaa wo kunu nsusuw ho nhwɛ sɛnea mode abɛɛfo mfiri bɛyɛ adwuma. Abɛɛfo mfiri reboa w’aware anaa ama no agyigya? Ehia sɛ moyɛ nsakrae bi anaa?\n^ nky. 6 Efi nhoma a yɛato din Reclaiming Conversation—The Power of Talk in a Digital Age mu.\nSɛn Na Ɛlɛtrɔnik Mfiri Betumi De Ɔhaw Aba W’aware Mu?\nSɛ awarefo de ɛlɛtrɔnik mfiri yɛ adwuma yiye a, ebetumi aboa ama wɔn aware asɔ.\nMunnya Bere Nnidi Mo Ho Nkɔmmɔ\nƆbarima ne ne yere betumi atena dan baako mu nanso wonni nkɔmmɔ. Awarefo wɔ hɔ a, dɛn na wɔde wɔn bere bɛyɛ na ama wɔn ani agye?\nWopɔn a, Woapɔn\nHwɛ nneɛma nnum a ɛbɛboa wo na adwuma annye w’aware ammɔ so.\nWugye di sɛ wubetumi akeka nnwuma abɔ so na woayɛ ne nyinaa yiye?\nSɛnea Mobɛka Mo Ntam Asɛm\nƐsono ɔbarima na ɛsono ɔbea; obiara ne sɛnea ɔkasa. Wuhu no saa a, ɛbɛtew ɔhaw bebree so.\nShare Share Mma Abɛɛfo Mfiri Nnnye Wo Mmmɔ So\nijwhf asɛm 10