Sɛnea Wɔde Mfomso Firi | Mmoa a Wɔde Ma Abusua No\nKENKAN WƆ Afrikaans Albanian Amharic Arabic Armenian Bulgarian Cebuano Chichewa Chinese Mandarin (Simplified) Chinese Mandarin (Traditional) Chitonga Croatian Czech Danish Dutch Efik English Estonian Ewe Finnish French Georgian German Greek Hebrew Hiligaynon Hindi Hungarian Igbo Iloko Indonesian Italian Japanese Kinyarwanda Kirghiz Kirundi Korean Lingala Lithuanian Macedonian Malagasy Maltese Myanmar Norwegian Polish Portuguese Romanian Russian Sepedi Serbian Serbian (Roman) Sesotho (Lesotho) Shona Sinhala Slovak Slovenian Spanish Swahili Swedish Tagalog Thai Tigrinya Tsonga Tswana Turkish Twi Ukrainian Vietnamese Xhosa Zulu\nSɛ akasakasa si wo ne wo hokafo ntam a, wotaa kɔfa nsɛm a atwam ba, na wosan tĩ nsɛm dedaw mu. Dɛn na ɛma ɛba saa? Mo baanu nyinaa anaa mo mu biako nnim sɛnea wɔde mfomso firi.\nWubetumi asua. Nanso, nea edi kan no, susuw nea enti a ebetumi ayɛ den ama okunu anaa ɔyere sɛ ɔde ne hokafo mfomso befiri no no ho hwɛ.\nTumi. Okununom ne ɔyerenom bi mfa mfomso mfiri wɔn ahokafo na ama wɔatumi anya tumi bi wɔ wɔn so. Enti sɛ akasakasa bi sɔre a, wɔde asɛm a atwam no pa wɔn tiri ho de hyɛ wɔn aniwu.\nMenasepɔw. Egye bere tenten ansa na ɛyaw a obi di wɔ biribi ho no afi ne mu. Ɔhokafo bi betumi aka sɛ ‘Me de akyɛ wo,’ nanso na asɛm no da so ara hyɛ ne mu—a ebia adwene a ɛwɔ akyi ara ne sɛ onya no a, ɔno nso bɛyɛ no bi atua ka.\nHuammɔdi. Sɛ nnipa bi rekɔ aware a, wɔn adwene nyinaa ne sɛ asetena bɛyɛ ɔdɔ nko ara. Enti sɛ akasakasa bi sɔre a, ɛyɛ den ma wɔn sɛ wobegyaa nsɛm mu, mmom wɔkɔ so de wɔn adwene si nea anka wɔrehwɛ kwan no so. Akwanhwɛ a ɛrentumi mma mu betumi ama obi ahwehwɛ afoforo ho mfomso na ayɛ den ama no sɛ ɔde mfomso befiri.\nNtease a wonni. Awarefo pii mpɛ sɛ wɔde mfomso firi efisɛ wonhu nea sɛ wɔyɛ saa a, wobenya afi mu. Sɛ mfatoho no:\nSɛ mede firi a, ɔrenhu bɔne a wayɛ.\nSɛ mede firi a, ɛnde ɛsɛ sɛ mema me werɛ fi nea esii no.\nSɛ mede firi a, mereboa bɔne.\nNokwarem no, sɛ wode bɔne firi a, ɛnkyerɛ sɛ nea yɛaka ho asɛm yi mu biara yɛ nokware. Nanso ebetumi ayɛ den sɛ wode bɔne befiri—titiriw bere a nea ɔfom wo no yɛ wo kunu anaa wo yere.\nHu nea bɔne fafiri kyerɛ. Bible mu no, ɛtɔ da a wɔkyerɛ asɛmfua “fa firi” ase sɛ “gyae ma ɛnka.” Enti ɛnyɛ bere nyinaa na nea fafiri kyerɛ ne sɛ wobɛma wo werɛ afi nea asi anaasɛ wubegyigye bɔne so. Ɛtɔ da a, nea ɛkyerɛ ara ne sɛ wubegyae asɛm mu ma aka esiane w’ankasa yiyedi ne aware no nkɔso nti.\nSɛ woamfa bɔne amfiri a, hu nea ebetumi afi mu aba. Abenfo binom ka sɛ, sɛ wode obi ho asɛm hyɛ wo mu a, ebetumi ama woanya nyarewa ahorow te sɛ adwenemhaw ne mogya mmoroso—na mpo ebetumi asɛe w’aware. Ntease wom sɛ Bible ka sɛ: “Mo ne mo ho nni wɔ ayamye ne ayamhyehye so, na mumfi mo pɛ mu mfa bɔne mfirifiri mo ho.”—Efesofo 4:32.\nHu mfaso a ɛwɔ bɔne fafiri so. Sɛ mutumi de bɔne firi mo ho mo ho a, ɛboa ma munya mo ho adwempa sen sɛ mode mo ho mfomso “bɛhyɛ mo mu.” Ɛno boa ma musiw biribiara a ebetumi ama moanya mo ho menasepɔw no ano, na ɛma ɔdɔ sɔ.—Bible nnyinasosɛm: Kolosefo 3:13.\nNhwɛ nneɛma akɛse kwan. Sɛ wugye wo hokafo tom sɛnea ɔte biara a, ɛrenyɛ den sɛ wode ne mfomso befiri no. Nhoma bi a wɔato din Fighting for Your Marriage ka sɛ, “Sɛ wode w’adwene si nea wo nsa anka no so a, ɛrenyɛ den koraa sɛ wo werɛ befi nea wo nsa kae no nyinaa. Emu nea ɛwɔ he na wode w’adwene besi so afei?” Kae sɛ, obiara—a wo nso woka ho—nyɛ pɛ.—Bible nnyinasosɛm: Yakobo 3:2.\nDa ntease adi. Sɛ daakye wo bo fuw wo hokafo esiane biribi a ɔyɛe anaa asɛm bi a ɔkae a, bisa wo ho sɛ: ‘So ɛyɛ biribi a ɛsɛ sɛ mema ɛhaw me? So ehia sɛ mema ɔpa me kyɛw, anaa metumi agyae mu ma aka?’—Bible nnyinasosɛm: 1 Petro 4:8.\nSɛ ɛbɛyɛ yiye a, munsusuw asɛm no ho. Fa ntoboase kyerɛkyerɛ nea ɛmaa asɛm no yɛɛ wo yaw ne nea enti a wotee nka saa no mu. Ɛnsɛ sɛ wunya adwemmɔne anaa wokasa tia wo hokafo no, efisɛ ɛbɛma ɔde nsɛm ayiyi ne ho ano. Mmom, ma wo hokafo no nhu sɛnea ne nneyɛe no kaa wo.\n“Ɔdɔ kata bɔne pii so.”—1 Petro 4:8.\nBERE A ƐHO HIA SƐ WOPA KYƐW\nSɛ woafom wo hokafo wɔ ɔkwan bi so a, fi wo komam pa no kyɛw. Sɛ mpo ɛba sɛ wonte wo hokafo no ase a, wubetumi apa no kyɛw wɔ nea woyɛe a ama ɔredi yaw no ho. Sɛ woyere wo ho sɛ worenni mfomso koro no ara bio a, ɛbɛma wo hokafo no ahu sɛ kyɛwpa no fi komam.\nAyɔnkofa Asomdwoe Ne Anigye Nkɔmmɔbɔ Aware Ne Abusua\nText Baabi a wubetumi atwe nneɛma akenkan NYAN! September 2013 | Halloween Ho Nokwasɛm