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Projecting (blames others) Remember they may shift the focus from themselves to you (e.g. Sir, you have kids/wife/husband-you know how it is). Convey that abusive behavior of any form is not acceptable. Restate consequences.
If she would have done what I told him/her. Those people don't need to be in my business. Yes sir, it happened, but it isn't my fault. We have done our share.
Commander's Desk Guide, Intervention