Question: Why are maintaining relationships so hard with ppl with ADHD? Relationships fall to either a) not enough contact b) being misunderstood c) in a fight that the other person can’t get past. 
  
  Second question: why is it so hard not to ”suck” other peoples emotions in to yourself? Is there any way of preventing that?
Answer: Relationships are difficult because ADHD symptoms can be annoying to others.  For example, a partner may not like it if their partner with ADHD forgets important events or impulsively interrupts during a conversation or doesn't pay attention when the other is speaking.  Treatments for ADHD should help but it also helps to educate the partner about ADHD.
  
  I don't know the answer to your second questions.  I've not seen that as an ADHD issue.  Sorry about that.
content: Q: Why are maintaining relationships so hard with ppl with ADHD? Relationships fall to either a) not enough contact b) being misunderstood c) in a fight that the other person can’t get past. 
  
  Second question: why is it so hard not to ”suck” other peoples emotions in to yourself? Is there any way of preventing that?
   Ans: Relationships are difficult because ADHD symptoms can be annoying to others.  For example, a partner may not like it if their partner with ADHD forgets important events or impulsively interrupts during a conversation or doesn't pay attention when the other is speaking.  Treatments for ADHD should help but it also helps to educate the partner about ADHD.
  
  I don't know the answer to your second questions.  I've not seen that as an ADHD issue.  Sorry about that.