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 Arizona.
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That's a goal.
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But the more important part is the growth.
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What vehicle are we taking?
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Is it fueled up or have we charged it if it's an electric car?
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What route are we taking?
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What are the pit stops or the milestones along the way to know we're going in the right direction?
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Is there somewhere where we need to take a break halfway to re-energize?
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Which part do you think is more important?
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Successful people don't just point to the map.
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 They come up with the journey to follow on the map.
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I want you to set a goal and then I want you to set the growth plan.
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The growth plan includes everything from what skills do you need to develop?
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What coaching do you need to get?
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 What do you need to learn?
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What do you need to build in order to get there?
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I could say I want to build one of the biggest companies in the world.
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The biggest gap between building one of the biggest companies in the world you think is revenue, but it's actually people and leadership.
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It's management.
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It's understanding people's emotions.
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It's consumer behavior.
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The goal is financial, but the growth is emotional.
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The growth is mental.
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Notice the difference there.
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 So ask yourself, with the goals that you're setting for the end of the year and the goals you're setting for 2022, have you focused on the growth plan?
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You may have a goal plan, but do you have a growth plan?
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What do you need to learn?
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What do you need to develop?
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How are you going to know you're in the right direction?
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What are the pivots in the strategy you're going to make?
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What are the shifts?
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 And the sixth way successful people spend their time instead of wasting it is that they understand the value of both therapy and coaching in their life.
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 We're living in a world where therapy is booming and I love to see it.
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I think therapy is such an incredible practice, such a need in today's society and in today's world and forever.
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Whether you're a beginner, whether you're a leader, whether you're a artist, a musician, whatever it may be, we all have trauma we need to unpack.
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 And I share a lot of clients with therapists because I find that therapy helps people make sense of their past and coaching helps people work towards their future.
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And together, this is an incredible combination.
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So while most of us are talking to our friends and family and hopefully finding moments of vulnerability, finding moments of
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 connection and depth there.
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When we're ready, it's amazing to take it to the next level of therapy and coaching.
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Working with a professional in each of these areas can make a huge difference in our life.
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And I found that everyone at all stages of their life needs a coach to help plan and get curious about the next five to 10 years of their life.
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So I hope that today's session has helped you in understanding where some of your time is leaking.
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 And that's really what's happening with most of us.
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It's not that we're wasting time.
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It's not that you're sitting there doing nothing.
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It's that time leaks away.
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And we can't control time.
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Trying to control time is a battle that we're always going to lose.
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There's never going to feel like there's enough time.
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We're always going to want more time.
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So we can't get more time.
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We can't control time.
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What we can do is make sure that we're investing and spending it wisely.
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 So stop putting pressure on yourself saying, I keep wasting time.
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I keep doing the wrong things.
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I'm not doing the right things.
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That guilt will actually block your growth.
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I was speaking to a friend about this the other day, and we were talking about how beating yourself up doesn't make you work harder, right?
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Critiquing yourself doesn't actually push you with joy.
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 So when my ego says arrogant things, or when the voice in my head says negative things, what do I do?
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I laugh at them both.
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I choose to laugh over critique.
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 when I hear my ego say things that makes me feel despicable or wrong, or just sometimes it can say ridiculous things, I just laugh at it.
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I think, wow, the ego is so funny that it can come up with these things.
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And when I'm critiquing myself, I laugh at the critiquing voice too, because I think, wow, it's hilarious that I'm able to talk to myself like this when I wouldn't talk to anyone else like this.
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So being able to laugh, and this is why in the Vedic tradition and in the monk tradition, the mind is compared to a monkey.
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 Because when monkeys do something, you just laugh.
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They are being funny.
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They're being silly.
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They are just, you don't want the monkey to be anything else.
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You're able to appreciate it's just a monkey.
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It's fine.
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It's going to be funny.
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It's going to be silly.
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It's going to trade a credit card for a banana and then want it back.
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It's going to go and run around.
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And so when we see the mind and the ego behave like a monkey, just laugh.
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 Thank you so much for listening to today's episode of On Purpose.
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I am so excited and so grateful for this to be out in the world.
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I hope you tag me and share your best insights.
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