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Welcome to this special masterclass.
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We ve brought some of the top experts in the world to help you unlock the power of your life through this specific theme today.
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It s going to be powerful.
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So let s go ahead and dive in.
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Why do people create fears that hold them back from attracting or manifesting more?
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So many people are held back by, I ll take a step back.
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So when I look at fears, I categorize them in two different types of fears.
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There s primal fears, and a primal fear is there is physical pain or death that s attached to it.
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And so we should have primal fears, what kept our species alive.
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But there s actually two fears that people are born with.
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It s the fear of loud noises and the fear of falling.
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are the two that are built into the human circuitry.
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Everything else is learned.
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And so out of all the other ones that are learned, you have primal fears, which is actually like physical pain or death attached to it, which we need to survive.
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The other ones are intellectual fears.
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And an intellectual fear would be, like I ran a webinar last night with a few thousand people.
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We were talking about the book.
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And, um,
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And I said, what s your number one fear?
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Everyone put in the chat.
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The thing that s holding me back the most, 90% of them was a fear of failure.
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So it s like the fear of failure, the fear of rejection, the fear of not being loved, the fear of running out of money.
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All of those are intellectual fears, because they re not actually existing in reality in this moment.
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And there s a quote that s in the book that I really loved, which is, fear, an intellectual fear like we have and we re talking about, is a perception of a imagined future event.
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And the key part is imagined future event.
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It may never happen.
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And it s not happening right now.
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And so what s happening is we have these, we think and we feel like intellectual fears, feel like primal fears in our body, which is there s danger.
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I shouldn t go and do this.
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And so it s like, I have this fear of failure.
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There s danger.
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I shouldn t go and try to create the life that I want.
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I shouldn t try to manifest the life that I want.
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And so we have these fears.
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And then so people say, okay, like Lewis, I ve got this fear of failure.
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Tell me how to overcome it.
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And then here s the craziest part is when you look at a fear that is an intellectual fear and you say, okay, now that I ve identified it, how do I overcome it?
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The key to it is you can t overcome something that doesn t exist.
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So how do you let go of it then?
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Right, so that s the key, right?
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So first off, people need to really get into their heads first off, is you cannot overcome something that doesn t exist.
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You are creating in your mind the boogeyman, and all day you are fighting the boogeyman.
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But the boogeyman doesn t exist in the first place, and that s your fear of failure, the fear of rejection, the fear of not being good enough, not smart enough, not pretty enough to have the success that you want, the imposter syndrome, all of those are just figments of our imagination, and we re fighting them all day long, and they don t actually truly exist.
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And so what it comes down to is, okay, I can t overcome it, but it still kind of lives inside of me from my childhood, right?
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And so what I ve been teaching people is it s not about overcoming the parts of you that exist.
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It s about integrating the parts of you that exist.
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And so it s like, you can have the fear of failure.
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Like I m afraid of failing all the time.
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And I screw up all of the time.
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Right.
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And that s just the way that it goes.
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But it drives me to create better content.
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It drives me to create better stuff.
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And so the way I like to look at the fears that you do have that are intellectual fears is they are tools for your tool belt, where it s like, OK, I have this fear of failure.
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I feel it inside of my body, which is usually where you feel it first.
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You don t notice the fear in your brain.
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It s usually like, I feel kind of anxious right now.
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And so you notice the fear inside of your body.
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It s like, what am I afraid of right now?
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I m afraid of failing.
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OK.
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I notice it.
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I m not trying to get rid of it because you can t get rid of parts of you.
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You know, if you look at like internal family systems, it s a version of therapy.
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It s the different parts of you.
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And so I can say, okay, this part of me is afraid of failing.
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I can listen to that part of me or I could say, how can I use this fear to actually help me create better content or help me create, write a better book?
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You know, if I m afraid of like putting this book on it, just completely flopping.
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could do that, right?
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Or I could say, I remember when I was writing it, I was like, I really want this to be good.
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It made me do more rounds of edits, which in turn, hopefully made it a better book.
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Yeah.
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And get more feedback from people and make sure you re more prepared and things like that.
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And there can be a, how can we make sure that we,
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pursue the things we want and not get paralyzed by needing to be perfect due to our fear of failure.
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Yeah.
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So that actually goes perfectly, which is the third part of chapter one, which is what holds people back.
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So there s part one, which is identity, which is fears, and then the purpose that people have.
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And there comes a point in your life where you have to realize that failure and success are not different.
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They re two sides of the same coin.
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When you look at the creator of Honda said success is 99% failure.
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You and I, we ve put out over 1,000 podcast episodes.
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I think I m at like 1,300, 1,400.
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I think you re at 1,500, right?
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Who s keeping track?
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We ve had some flops, right?
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We ve done some things which are not the best.
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We ve put out content that has not done really well.
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But what it s really about is like,
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You stop looking at the numbers and you say, what s my purpose actually behind this thing?
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One of my very first mentors used to always say to me, you ve got to get off yourself and you ve got to get on purpose.
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Off yourself is thinking about all of your intellectual fears.
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You know, if we re talking about creating podcast episodes, right, because we re both podcasters.
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If I don t want to start a podcast because I m afraid of my, I work at a job and I m afraid of Nancy and HR making fun of me for it, right?
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It s a fear of failure.
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It s a fear of judgment.
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It s a fear of not being accepted, kicked out of the tribe, whatever it might be.
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And so we can look at it that way and say, well, I m not going to start because I m afraid of people judging me.
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And that s being on self.
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I m thinking about myself.
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But if my purpose is, like for me, my purpose is, I remember what it feels like.
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I was nine years old.
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My dad was an alcoholic.
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I remember him passing away when I was 15 from being alcoholic.
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I remember the trauma that came from it.
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And I remember what it felt like to be in absolute suffering in my mind.
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And it was hell.
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And I would never want to go back there.
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You couldn t pay me enough to go back to that moment.
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But through years of working on myself and trying to become better and coaching myself and reading books and going to courses and doing therapy and doing all of that, I ve gotten myself to a place where I can overcome things that become hard.
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And I feel obligated to teach that to other people.
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That is my purpose.
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And my purpose is to have people not be in suffering that I was in at one point in time, because I know what it feels like.
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And I hate that other people are in there.
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And so I don t care what anyone else thinks about me, because my purpose is so strong that it doesn t matter if somebody says, this podcast sucks.
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If it doesn t matter when I get a one-star review that people are like, I love his content, but I hate that he cusses.
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And I m like, but that s authentically me.
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And so.
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It sounds like when people get in alignment with their purpose, it doesn t matter what fears they might have, or it doesn t matter what people, what they re afraid of people saying them, because when you re truly on purpose,
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you re willing to risk making a fool of yourself, being judged for failing because you care more about the purpose than that fear, for sure.
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I care more about what... And what s interesting about is like the fear that we have of, oh, I m going to be judged if I put this out there, if I do this thing.
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there s such a small amount of people that judge you or that will be... There s such a small amount of haters in the world and there s such a huge amount of people who will actually say, this is amazing, this is great.
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And so we think there s gonna be way more haters than there actually are.
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There s such a small amount of haters and there s a large amount of lovers that are out there in the world.
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And a lot of people just don t start the thing that they really truly want to because they re afraid of just that one person they could possibly say something to.
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That s true.
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Something I think about a lot
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and this has helped me overcome any insecurity about putting something out or launching something or the fear of failure, is really thinking about my future self and saying, would my future self be proud that I didn t take the shot?
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Or more proud that I actually did take the shot, I failed, I learned something from it, and it led to something even better after that failure or that loss.
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And I don t think our future selves will ever think, I m proud of you for not taking a chance.
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No.
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I m proud of you for having a dream and not going for it.
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I m proud of you for playing small and for shying away because you were afraid of what a few people might think or say about you.
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I m proud of you.
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Way to go.
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I don t think our future self would ever say that.
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I don t think our mentors would ever say, you know what?
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It was a good thing that you didn t go for it.
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You didn t give it a try.
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It doesn t matter if we succeed or win in everything we do, but it s the effort of doing it, I think, is where we gain pride in ourselves.
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So, I think that s really cool.
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I think that s also where confidence comes from.
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Like, a lot of people will ask, like, how do I, a lot of people ask, how do I get confident, right?
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How do I build confidence in myself?
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And they think I have to go do something and I have to succeed.
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That s not necessarily the truth.
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Sometimes I think a lot of our confidence comes from feeling fear, doing it anyways, maybe not having the results that we actually wanted to, but in turn, looked at it and said, I m really proud that I showed up for myself.
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And that builds confidence in you.
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Huge time when you show up for you.
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That s big.
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But a lot of people don t know what their purpose is, or they feel like they have too many ideas, too many passions, and they don t know which direction to go.
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So what have you discovered about how to discover or find your purpose at this stage of life?
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And is there a formula you teach people?
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Yeah.
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So there s a couple different things.
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The thing that I hear more than anything else is that most people don t know what their passions are.
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And they don t know what their purpose is.
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More than I hear that I have too many of them.
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I heard a couple of that last night when I was live.
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And some people said that they did have too many things that they could do.
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But majority of people are like, I don t know what my passion is.
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I don t know what my purpose is.
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And then I ask them, I m like, well, how often do you do something new?
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And they re like, not very often.
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And I was like, so here s the key to it, is it s okay right now, if someone s listening, not to know what their purpose is.
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It s okay to not know what their passion is, but it is not okay to not wake up every single day and not be in constant pursuit to find what that passion is if you don t know what it is.
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And so if it s- And that takes trying new things.
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Of course.
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You have to try a ton of new things.
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Like, for instance, my wife- And ruling out things you don t like.
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Yeah, exactly.
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And try things and be like, oh, that didn t work.
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I don t like that at all.
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And the other thing that s important to know about passion and purpose is that your passion doesn t have to be your paycheck.
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You can look at people and see like, I m lucky enough, you re lucky enough that we re so passionate about this and we happen to be paid from it.
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That s amazing.
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By the grace of God, the best thing that s ever happened to me.
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Right.
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But there s other things where it s like some people like I really enjoy riding horses and how do I make money off of horses?
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How do I make them my passion?
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I was like, you don t necessarily have to make money off of it, but maybe you start going, well, you know what I would like to do?
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I like to take my horses and I like to teach people that are in the inner city how to ride horses.
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Or I like to teach people who have
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have maybe psychological symptoms and they have anxiety or bipolar and I ve learned that horses end up calming them down in some sort of way and you decide that you want to help them.
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It doesn t mean you have to make money off of it, but I always say if you found something that you love so much, why don t you try to spend as much of your time doing it?
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And so if it is this horses thing and maybe you make like five grand a year of horses or maybe it costs you more money,
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Can you have a job that you at least somewhat enjoy?
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Not hate, but you somewhat enjoy, but it gives you enough free time to do the thing that you actually makes you feel alive.
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And so people always say like, well, how do I find those things?
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I think my personal belief is I think that, that God, the universe speaks to you through energy of the energy that we feel doing something like when I get done with this podcast, I am going to 100% have more energy than when we first started the podcast.
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Cause this is what actually makes me feel alive.
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Like I feel the most alive doing this.
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And so I think a lot of people need to think like, where s the most energy for me?
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Where do I have the most curiosity to try to learn something?
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What would I do even if it didn t make me any money?
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Like I would still, I mean, for years, I didn t make money off of the podcast or anything that I did, right?
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For years.
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You kept doing it because you loved it.
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Hundreds of podcast episodes before I made a dollar off of it, right?
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Just because I love learning about people.
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I m obsessed with neurology.
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I m obsessed with learning about like, sitting down with someone and be like, why is Lewis Wayne the way that he is?
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I want to know about his mom, I want to know about his dad, I want to make connections and put this puzzle piece together of this person.
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And so it s like, it gives me energy to meet people and find out what s going on and where they come from and how they became that.
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Yeah, I was interviewing someone yesterday, her name was Jenna Zoe, and she had a curiosity and a love for this thing called human design, which is about understanding kind of your
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You re not personality type, but you re energy type.
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Right, based off of when you were bored and that.
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Exactly, yeah.
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And she had another business where she was working in the food industry, creating something around food.
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And it wasn t really succeeding, but she loved doing this other thing on the side for years, like reading people s charts and really helping them identify their energy type and making sure, are you in alignment with what you should be doing?
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And just supporting them in that creation of life.
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And she did that for years and, you know, she didn t make any money for a long time.
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Then she made a little bit of money, but she enjoyed it so much that eventually she s like, why don t I just try doing more of this and see if I can make money.
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After five, six, seven years and eventually started making money and then said, you know what?
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Okay, now I m going to go all in on this.
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It doesn t have to be all in right away, or you don t have to monetize something you enjoy right away.
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Maybe if the timing will come later, like it did with you in some ways as well.
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And maybe if you lean into the curiosity and just keep doing that on the side or on the weekends or with your horses, eventually you could make money.
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Maybe you can, maybe you can t.
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But finding the time to dive into things that you love more, I think is always going to help you.
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You know that sound that kind of goes with that too that s important?
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Is that people want to start something and they think they should be like making a bunch of money in three months.
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I found that for the majority of people who I met that have become something big and they ve been able to do something very successful, it takes at least five years.
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Five to seven is pretty average before it really starts to take off.
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I don t know if it s the universe testing us to be like, do you actually want this?
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Because you better keep on this path.
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But I think the path of mastery is something that I really love.
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My first tattoo is a Roman numeral for 10,000 because I love the 10,000 hour rule.
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It s on my wrist right here, so I see it every single day.
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And I just love the idea of mastering something.
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And I think that if we find something that we re kind of interested in, that seems interesting, that seems fun, and we start putting energy into it, we start getting better at it.
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It s like Tony Robbins always says, progress equals happiness.
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When you feel like you re progressing towards something, not making money, but just progressing towards something, it makes you feel good and you want to keep doing it.
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Right.
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And you fast forward five years or seven years, and you ve become one of the masters of that thing.
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That s usually when people can write a book about something, they can start a podcast, they can grow a following on it, and that s usually where they can start to monetize.
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Yeah, you ve got to have some type of skill set or some type of mastery.
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Maybe you re not the master, but you ve mastered a part of it.
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And you ll start to attract more financial opportunities that way.
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But one of the things I feel like holds people back from discovering their purpose, tapping into their purpose, taking action on their purpose, is the old character they ve been playing for so long.
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You talk about this in your identity chapter, you know, they ve been holding on to an identity that has been developed for them that isn t in their highest, best way, right?
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It s been the way society wants, parents, kids, whatever it might be.
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How can we get the courage to eventually kill off the parts of ourselves that are no longer serving us for our highest sense of purpose?
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Have you ever seen the documentary Jim and Andy on Jim Carrey?
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Yes.
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Incredible.
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It is incredible, right?
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So everyone should watch it.
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Jim Carrey is amazing.
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He did the movie, The Man on the Moon, like in 1999.
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Andy Kaufman, right?
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He was playing Andy Kaufman, right?
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So he was playing Andy Kaufman, and he s a method actor, which means that he had to literally become him.
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And he had to play him all day long for three or four months straight.
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To the point where even his driver said when he would pick him up in Hollywood and drive him home, he would still be Andy Kaufman in the car.
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On the way home he d be Andy Kaufman on the way to go and shoot every single day.
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The crazy part about it though is that Andy Kaufman also played other characters.
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So Andy Kaufman was also Tony Clifton which is a whole other character.
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And so if they stopped shooting and he was Tony Clifton he would go home and be Tony Clifton.
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And so he was Andy Kaufman some days, he was Tony Clifton some days, he was never Jim Carrey in those three or four months.
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And it s really interesting when you watch it because the people who were in taxi with him and they were on the show were like, he was almost indistinguishable.
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He was the closest thing to Andy Kaufman that I ve seen since Andy Kaufman.
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To the point where even his daughter, Andy Kaufman s daughter, went and did sessions, almost like mini therapy sessions, sitting down with Jim Carrey as Andy Kaufman as being her dad.
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That s crazy.
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Crazy, right?
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And so what s crazy about it though is that when it ended, he said he forgot who Jim Carrey was.
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Like he literally forgot, there s a point where he, there was that song, I think it was R.E.M.
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did the song Man on the Moon.
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They re like, can you be, you know, we re gonna shoot the video, the music video for it, can you be Andy Kaufman?
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And he s like, I don t think I can.
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He s like, because I lost myself so much in that role that when it ended, I forgot what I liked, I forgot what I didn t like, I forgot my belief systems, I forgot everything about who Jim Carrey was.
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And the quote that he says, and it s actually in the book, is, I realize if I could lose Jim Carrey so easily, then who the hell is Jim Carrey?
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And he realized it was just another character that he was playing in his life.
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He was waking up and unconsciously, every morning, deciding to be Jim Carrey.
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And he was being that person.
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And if you ve seen the spiritual awakening he s gone on in the past 20 years, that was the beginning of it.
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It was because he lost his identity.
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He forgot who he was.
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And it shows you that our identity is just something we re choosing to be every single day.
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And we can look at parts of ourselves and we can say, do I like this aspect of myself?
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Do I not like this aspect of myself?
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So there s aspects of myself that I like, there s aspects of myself that I don t like, and I ve changed over years.
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One of the things that was the hardest for me
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was, you know, with my father not being around, my mom working a lot, is I don t feel like I really felt a safe space of love when I was a kid.
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I didn t feel like it was just there and omnipresent.
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Like my wife, you know, her mom and dad are still together.
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She s got her two sisters.
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They re all really close.
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We were never really close.
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So I never really had that.
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And so we ve been together now for 10 years.
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In the first couple of years, she was way more loving and I couldn t open up to the love.
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Like it was hard for me to, because I felt uncomfortable.
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Like my nervous system was like, what s going on?
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This person s too close to me.
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It almost didn t feel safe for you because it was unfamiliar.
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A hundred percent.
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Even though it should be the safest feeling in the world, right?
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But you re like also afraid of it, but you want it.
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But you know why.
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And so it was like me, me noticing different aspects of myself was like, I m not as loving as I think I probably truly am or what I could be.
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So let me, that was a part of me I didn t like.
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And so I was like, how do I open myself up to be a little bit more loving?
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Which is hard because, you know, opening yourself up to be vulnerable
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allows you to be vulnerable, especially when you love somebody, allows you to be really hurt.
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Especially when you ve gone through heartbreaks and you ve been heartbroken, cheated on, divorces, all these things that people could have.
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I think it really comes down to how we try and have the courage to do it.
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It s funny because I literally have two tattoos and I m referencing both of the tattoos.
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So the only other tattoo that I have is a tattoo on my arm.
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When I was first starting the podcast, I was really nervous.
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And when I was, I left my job where I was making like a quarter million dollars a year.
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And I was like, I m going to do this thing.
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I don t know why it just feels right.
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Like the feelings felt right.
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And, um, I was really fearful.
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And I was like, I might go back to work for someone else.
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And my sister comes out, I went home and, uh, I was back for Thanksgiving, uh, in 2015, the year I started the podcast.
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And she goes, Hey, have you ever seen these box, this box from dad of dad stuff?
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And I was like, no.
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And my dad had passed away, you know, 14 years ago at that point.
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And there were these, you know, it was like a t-shirt of his, it was his glasses, and there was these letters.
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My dad was in jail for a little while and he wrote letters to us.
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And he wrote a letter to my sister on her 20th birthday, which was a year before he passed away.
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In the very end of the letter it says, I hope you live your life with courage, love, and laughter.
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And I read it and I was like,
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This is actually speaking to me, because I m in so much fear right now that I m going to go back to work for someone else and literally throw my passion away.
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And I took my dad s handwriting, exact handwriting, it s on the inside of my arm right here.
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Yeah, it s on the inside of my arm.
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That s cool.
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You want to see it?
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Yeah, I do.
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Anybody that s on YouTube.
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So it says, live your life with courage, love and laughter.
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It s in the exact handwriting.
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And it s the end of that letter.
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It says courage, love and laughter, right?
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Which if you think about it, I was in so much fear.
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I was in so much fear that I was about to give up my entire passion and everything that I felt like I was born to do, because I just wanted to go back to what was safe.
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And I think everybody feels it.
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And it s like, when you feel fear, we re always like, what s the hack?
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The only hack is you re going to have to get yourself to a point where you re like, I have to do this or else I m not going to be able to create the life that I really truly want.
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Right.
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And my biggest fear, like I have, I have fears, of course, I m just a normal person.
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But my biggest fear, like I remember, Lewis, I remember sitting, the first person who I ever knew that passed away was my dad.
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Nobody I d ever known that had passed away before.
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I remember flying up, we had flown up to go see him and he was still in the hospital at the time.
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He was unconscious and we were flying up to go see him.
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And by the time we got to the airport, we got the news that he had already passed away.
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So I went up there to go see somebody, ended up going there for a funeral.
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And so we were in this tiny little room and we were viewing it, the casket, and he was in the casket, and we were on this sofa that was right there.
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And it was myself, my grandmother, which was his mom, my mom, my sister, the four of us are just sitting there.
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And I was looking at him.
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And my dad was a dreamer and he was an amazing person.
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But he had a lot of demons that he had in his life.
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His father killed himself and he walked in the room and saw it right after it happened.
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So he had demons that he just didn t overcome.
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And he was a dreamer and he was an amazing person.
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But I remember looking at him at 15 and being like, this guy had so much potential and he didn t follow his potential.
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I know that he didn t create the life that he probably would have wanted to.
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And I was like, that will not become my life.
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It will never become my life in any sort of way.
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And so can I feel fear?
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Of course I can feel fear, but at some point you ve got to decide, am I going to live a life that s full of fear or am I going to start being more courageous and live a life that s courageous?
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Because we all have a choice and we could go one way or we could go the other.
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But really what it comes down to is like, I know I ll be ridiculed for putting stuff out there.
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I know that people are going to bash different things that I put out there, but it s more for me of like, what feels right in my heart is what I m going to follow.
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And I think that s what people should think of.
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It s like, where do I have energy?
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Some people are like, I m 45 years old.
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I ve been in this job.
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I went to college for this.
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I m like, you could live to 90 years old.
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You re halfway through your life and you re going to live the rest of the 45 years doing something that you don t want simply because you went down the wrong path for a little while.
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And so I think you just got to get to a point where you realize there s going to be fear that s omnipresent.
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It s always going to be there.
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It s just the way that we are as humans.
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You ve just got to be courageous at some point in time.
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So when did you realize that you actually were worthy of love, of being rich, of having nice things or buying a house with the money you ve earned?
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When did you realize you were worthy?
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I was in Barcelona.
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and I was just recognizing my own life.
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I was working with this woman, Stephanie, and I was just kind of, I was outside, there s Arc de Triomphe in Barcelona, and I remember being outside, journaling on this iPad, feeling like, wow, like what a cool life I created.
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Actually finally recognizing my own life.
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It s reflecting back on the last 20 years and all the different things, ups and downs.
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The sadness of what I ve done to the ex-fiancee, how I ve created this company that I finally get to actually live my dream, and just kind of being able to reflect on all of that.
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It helped me accept it and just enjoy it.
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Like, hey, money is great.
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I know people say money can t buy happiness.
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It s definitely made me happier now finally being able to embrace it.
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Once you love and accept yourself and believe you re worthy, then money can buy you additional happiness.
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But it cannot buy you happiness if you feel unlovable.
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You don t accept yourself and you don t face the challenges and the pain and the sadness that s within you.
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Then it s just more sadness because I make this money, but I m like still shameful about who I am.
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Yeah.
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It s still chasing.
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It s still this external side.
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And so with Stephanie, it, and, and it s the simplest thing.
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It s just day by day.
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Yeah.
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Like do something for yourself.
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Do something that you re proud of for yourself.
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Like back in the day, we had this thing called Gabby.
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That s me and my buddy Adam from My Body Tutor.
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It s basically gratitude, exercise, breakfast, you.
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And if anything, it s just like, how do you do one thing for yourself each day?
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Or you feel good about yourself.
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Maybe it s in a relationship.
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So for me, it was like, all right, I m dating these women.
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I did have a goal.
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I was like, I d like to have kids.
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And I d like to have a real partner that I m getting what I want.
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When did you realize you wanted to have kids and a partner where it was like a harmonious relationship?
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When did that come about?
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It took, it took years, man.
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It took years.
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After breaking up with the fiance, it was like back and forth with her.
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And then working with Stephanie, it was like, I really did have to close the door in the past.
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And there was a visualization and I couldn t swing to my next branch holding onto my previous one.
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Oh my goodness.
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You know what I m saying?
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Wow.
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I was holding on because I was like, I like partying.
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Your previous identity, the lifestyle.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Wow.
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And it was feeling more harmonious just daily.
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It was honestly like a daily practice.
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I really enjoyed being in Barcelona.
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I felt like, wow, I get to work on this business.
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I get to meet interesting people.
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And then it was directionally.
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I didn t know, kind of faith, what you were talking about with your stuff.
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I m like, I had faith there s going to be someone out there that I d eventually now start meeting.
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But I was being intentional about it.
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And I told the ex, I sent her a message like, I can t reply to you anymore.
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And that was hard.
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I was really.
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You closed the chapter.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And I m sure she was mad and all these things.
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I was like, you know, you I want you to find someone that is good for you.
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And so it was still kind of lingering energy was like, OK, we re not together, but.
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hey, how are you, and checking in, and every once in a while.
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Yeah, waiting for a text.
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Intermittently, yeah.
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So you made the decision, like, hey, I cannot communicate with you anymore.
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Yeah.
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You sent that message.
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Yeah.
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Did your coach or therapist kind of guide you in that, or was that something within?
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Yeah, so she was like, you need to send this message, and I was like, I m not doing it.
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So she was, um, and, and this is kind of a weird, I would say hack for others.
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If you do have coaches or you meet with other people, I d record my conversations with their permission.
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It s not secret.
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Listen back to it or I listened to myself.
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And I noticed, I m like, huh, are you proud of how you re, what you did with these dates?
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Are you proud of how your work is?
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Are you proud?
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And then just kind of an interesting moment of reflection.
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Like when you do content, when you do anything, you get a chance to actually learn.
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And so through that, I was listening to it.
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And then when I was ready, you know, it takes time for all of us.
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How many times has someone given you advice?
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And then you read the book or you listen to something and finally, like the 18th time, you finally accept it.
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And I kid you not, it was probably about four weeks later when I finally sent it.
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And then four weeks later, I met Mafe.
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Isn t that fascinating?
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I know.
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I know.
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I hate that story.
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But the key part, I don t hate the story.
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I love that story.
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But one thing that I ve changed my perspective on, based on what Isaac was asking, I believe I m more optimistic.
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And not optimistic because, yes, things are good, all this stuff.
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But how do you be optimistic when things aren t good?
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And there s a book, Learn to Optimism.
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Phenomenal book.
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And that optimism is a choice.
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And so, okay, business isn t working out.
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Business, we still have problems.
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I told you, the YouTube team, most of them quit.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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AppSumo, we still have partners complaining or different things happening.
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How do you stay optimistic then?
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Do you think the future s gonna be better than today or not?
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Yeah, I think it s gonna be bright.
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Yeah.
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But that s hard.
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Even when things are going down and there s challenges and there s stress, I m like, this is all happening in my favor for a brighter future.
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That s tough though when it doesn t feel good, man.
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You know?
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It didn t feel good.
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Yeah.
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For like many months this year, I was going through a lot of challenges just like, man, there s a challenge here in the business and this person and this is challenging and revenue is going down and you know, all these different things.
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And I was like,
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You know, after, you know, a period of being frustrated, you know, internally, I was like, okay, how can I look at this in a way?
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Because being frustrated and stressed is not going to cause me to feel better.
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And it s probably not going to get me into flow and creativity.
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Yes.
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And I m probably, you know, stressing my, you know, girlfriend, now fiance out or whatever, people around me with that tense energy.
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It s not like I was explosive or anything, but it was more like I just wasn t my happy self all the time, right?
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And I started to shift that energy internally and say, this is all happening in my favor.
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And maybe this continues for six months or a year.
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And knowing that I m going to make sure I put my attention on it.
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I want to align the right people towards it.
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We re going to be figuring it out.
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And eventually you will figure it out.
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Hopefully it figures out today, but if not, it s going to be figuring itself out and just take care of my health, my mindset, my attitude.
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I think that s really the only thing we can control is who we are and how we show up.
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I m curious about this.
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Where do you think you d be if you didn t emotionally and physically send that text of like, hey, I need to close this chapter with this relationship?
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Where do you think you d be right now if you kept that door open, whether it s with that or any type of door from a previous thing that was kind of holding onto you?
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Where do you think you d be?
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Do you think you d be in a peaceful, loving, beautiful relationship with a child on the way, or do you think something else would be happening?
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How many times has something bad happened that turned out to be great?
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For me, every time.
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When people say, do the work, I m always like, what s the work?
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You know, you hear it and you re like, do the work.
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I m like, can you tell me what it is so I can do it?
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And I think the work is just really trying to understand ourselves.
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understanding what s going on, like, do I want to live the way I ve been living?
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And it s like, no, this is not what I want.
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I m like excited to have a family one day.
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And so, okay, what is necessary for me to feel worthy to then lead to that kind of... So what was that thing that was necessary for you to feel worthy of a different life?
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Financially, emotionally, spiritually, you know, family, relationship, what was that thing?
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There s not one thing.
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There s not one day that I magically woke up because I meditated or something especially happened.
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I think it was literally like each day, can I just be a little kinder to myself?
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Just a little bit more generous to myself and then to others.
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Let s just take it piece by piece.
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I have noticed that when my relationship s going well, guess what else is going well?
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Everything else.
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And when one thing s going bad, it s like, maybe these other things are going bad, so let s start working on these different pieces of it.
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But I feel like you ve always been a very generous person to others.
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Since I ve known you, you ve always been generous, giving, willing to jump on a call and say, let me help with anything, strategy, or you need an introduction.
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You re like that with everyone.
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So you re very generous outwardly to other people, where you re not generous to yourself.
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Yeah, generous with the money.
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Really?
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Yeah, I didn t really enjoy the money, I told you.
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I lived in an 800 square foot house that s falling down, literally cracks in the floor, cracks in the walls, and that s what I thought of myself.
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This is actually kind of an interesting experience, and I do want to answer your question, but I m trying to think more through it.
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Go back to your old life.
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Go back to three years ago.
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I went to my old house about three months ago.
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I was like, huh, wow, this is what I thought of myself.
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And I think- Your environment.
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Yeah.
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It was a representation of what I thought I deserved.
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And it s interesting for all of us like what we think we deserve.
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Do we deserve great families?
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Do we deserve great money?
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Do we deserve a great where we re living?
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And then you start realizing like, okay, what s really holding me back from that?
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And every time it s yourself.
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And so going through therapy, talking with therapists, talking with Stephanie, I wouldn t say it s like some, it wasn t some overnight thing.
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It usually isn t overnight.
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It s usually a series of events, a series of conversations, reflections, integrations, closing of chapters, practices.
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And then over time, it comes together.
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It s usually not like, oh, the first conversation I had, I learned to love and accept myself.
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It s like unwinding and unpacking things that caused us to believe we re unworthy.
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Yeah.
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And learning to finally integrate that emotionally and physically.
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Yes.
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With the present day, doing things over and over that show you that you believe you re worthy.
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Yeah.
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It s not less like, oh, I m going to think about it and now I m worthy.
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It s like you ve got to act on it.
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Yeah.
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Continuously.
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And usually when someone s like, okay, I m going to let go of this old apartment or whatever that is really serving my vision of what I want to be stepping into.
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So let me transition from this to the next thing.
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Let me leave a job that really isn t the vision I have.
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And I leave that and I don t know where I m going to go next.
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But then magically something unfolds when we leave a relationship, we finally say,
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I love you, I appreciate you, but this is not good for either of us.
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It s time for me to close this chapter. 
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How hard that is emotionally, especially if you ve been with someone for years and you ve already talked about the future and unwinding that is extremely hard.
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But then, boom, something unfolds magically, it seems like.
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Isn t that funny how that happens?
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Isn t it crazy?
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I would also, I was thinking how it s also experimenting.
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Yes.
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Like, okay, what if, what would a great relationship, can I go on a date and just see what a great relationship would be like maybe?
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Could I try, and I told you, like try nice houses, see what that s like.
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Can I try first class?
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I d be like, that s pretty good.
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Right?
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And then you start feeling like, okay, what do I need to do so that I can feel more comfortable doing these all the time?
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Besides just the money part.
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Yeah.
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And I think with The Worthy, it was just day by day, just doing things that I felt proud for myself.
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Yes.
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Like, is my behavior making me proud?
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Like there s a lot of times where if I m out to have a drink, I m like, do you think you ll feel proud of yourself for making this decision?
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And that s what I think a lot.
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And sometimes it s like, yeah, have a drink.
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Great.
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And other times it s like, no, let s not.
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And I m like, good.
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Keep saying these kind things to yourself.
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That s something that I always think the word generous and generous.
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I think people think of money to others, but I think of generous as words to yourself.
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Just be like, and you can also be generous with words to other people too, with your partner or with people you admire.
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Be generous to yourself.
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Be like, hey man, you re doing well.
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Even if it s not great or you didn t get the success immediately, you can just keep doing it.
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Yes.
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And there s no one stopping it.
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It s unlimited.
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I know.
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How do you think someone can
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become more valuable in the marketplace, become more worthy of financial abundance, of making and earning more.
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What are some things they can do internally and externally to appreciate in value?
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Like to get a better salary or to start their own business?
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Either one.
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Yeah.
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I think the thing that I ve always found the most fascinating.
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Or to get a great relationship or all these things, you know, just appreciating in value.
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Yeah.
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The thing that I ve always come back to is how can you just go help one person?
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Like a lot of times on my YouTube channel or at AppSumo or with this book, like I don t just go help one person.
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I think we get, you know, when people want a business, they think about million and they don t get the dollar.
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And when you actually help another person, you really realize like, oh, I have a lot more ability.
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and capabilities, really, than I even realized.
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Yes.
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In the workplace, I think, one, everyone should be an entrepreneur so that you have some control over your destiny.
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And you can keep your data.
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We have a lot of entrepreneurs at AppSumo.
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We have Amy, she has a flower shop.
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Nick has a teeth whitening business.
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Olman s wife has a facial business.
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And that s great.
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And so you can have that option.
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Within the company, I think it s really, this has been really fascinating, who gets paid more and why?
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Like how come an engineer makes 200 and someone in customer support makes 35?
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And it s within everyone s ability to recognize like what things are getting paid more for.
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And there s no limit that they can go do those other things.
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Like we have a lot of people in our company, like Matt Bean went from a launch operations to now he s a product manager.
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Pretty cool.
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And there s all these people within our company and elsewhere.
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It s like, well, if you want more money, it s, there s no limit to what you can create.
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And so figuring out what is more valuable in a business and then how do you move up that chain?
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What do you think are the three most important skills for people to earn more money that they can develop?
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Number one is follow up.
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No one follows up.
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Just being consistent with following up.
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Bro, no one follows up.
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It s unbelievable.
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I like deleting people s emails just to see what happens.
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Let s see if they reply in a week.
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DMs, emails, texts, just see what happens.
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No one follows up.
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If you really want something, you follow up, you persist.
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So I d say that that s one of the best things.
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Number two, I mean, coming back on it, I would say it s how are they learning?
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What is their learning approach?
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I ve seen different people that are like, yeah, I m good.
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This is where I want to be.
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And it s like, well, you ll stay where you are.
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And I ve seen other people like, let s take Sean, for instance, he s the head of revenue at AppSumo.
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He was six years ago, our junior salesperson.
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Now he s responsible for $80 million.
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And that s because Sean kept learning.
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Wow.
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Right?
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He has different coaches.
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He s taking different courses.
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And I m like, ah, there s something there with that.
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So you re following up.
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You re learning.
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All these skills are available for everyone.
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There s nothing exclusive.
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I d say the last one is attitude.
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Oh, gosh, man.
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I know.
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It s something that s obvious shit, but it s like, it s been interesting to see the attitude of people, especially we ve had hundreds of people work at AppSumo, YouTube team, all these people.
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I ve seen a lot of different friends of the company.
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It s like, whose attitude?
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And I like people that have a solution attitude.
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Like, Oh, this didn t work.
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What else can we do?
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That s huge.
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And it s not exclusive.
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Everyone can work on their attitude no matter what, if you re starting your business, if you re as a.
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an employee at a company or whatever it is, in a relationship, whatever that is.
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Half my team is virtual and half my team is here, and Alexandra and Sammy who are in the office here, every day I walk in and they just have a good attitude.
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And for me, you have no idea how far that goes, especially as someone who s got challenges.
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If you re the business owner, you ve got challenges with fires you re putting out all day,
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just different people you re dealing with throughout the day, right?
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Decisions to make.
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So when someone is just consistently following up with a good attitude, even when they got challenges, they don t have to be perfect every day, but just like a consistency of a positive attitude, a solution oriented attitude, you have no idea how valuable that is.
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Yeah.
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How, how much people appreciate that.
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There has been so many times that I ve played sports on teams where
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There was some incredibly freakish athlete, just so talented, just way better than everyone else, but had the worst negative attitude.
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And it ruined the entire dynamics of the team.
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But you re like, oh, but they re so good.
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But they re just bringing everyone down with their attitude.
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And the moment you remove that person, or they remove themselves,
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It s like, wow, there s this flow, and there s this connection, and there s this collaboration, and there s just this progress that s more effortless when you remove one person with a negative attitude, or they remove themselves for whatever reason.
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It s incredible.
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I d rather have a team of people who would just have a solution-oriented attitude than the superstar, talented, technical engineer, or graphic designer, or video editor with a negative attitude.
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all day long, you can do so much more with positive attitude.
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I always talk about the three things we look for are attitude, energy, and effort.
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It s like, if you can be consistent with those three things, you ve got a place here.
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And those are all things in your control. 100%.
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They re all in your control.
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And if you have a learning mindset as well, and you keep growing, like, then the earning potential just keeps going up more and more.
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So faster.
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Yeah.
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Man, I love this, man.
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This is powerful stuff.
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I don t know if this is what you were thinking about.
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No, this is the opposite of literally what I was thinking we re going to talk about, which is, it s good.
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It s like, I like getting outside of the, um, like our auto narrative.
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Yes.
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Yes.
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And, um,
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But I don t think it s unique in the sense that we re all going through our own different challenge.
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Like everyone, you have your own personal life going on.
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Everyone watching has their own like, I ve got a family and I m struggling and maybe I d like to be an entrepreneur or I ve got a day job and it sucks or I want to get a job.
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And we re all going through it.
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Exactly.
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The real answer is that we re all figuring it out.
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We are, man.
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And so, it s been a journey that I m happy to share, and I ve been fortunate to be able to figure it out at 40 where I m at, then figure it out at 60 or 70.
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Figuring it out.
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We re still figuring it out.
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Once you have your kid and, you know, the relationship dynamics, it s gonna be like, uh, I don t know anything.
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What do I do now, right?
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Yeah, but I think one of the things that s cool is there s so many other people that have figured these things out, or at least have gone through what we re going through.
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So, it s been super cool having the baby that I call up friends, I m like,
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what outfit should I buy?
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Well, for my baby mama, I was like, what s cool clothing for her?
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So this week I was buying cool clothes for her, or I m talking to my business partner and he has a baby, and I m like, what apps do you use?
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And he s like, oh, Wonder Weeks.
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You gotta check out Wonder Weeks and The Bump, and so I have these apps now.
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I gotta check these out in the future.
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I mean, I m not.
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Yeah, let s get you there, dude.
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Now I m like team baby, let s go, everyone.
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Once I m ready, I m gonna be hitting you up.
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Dude, please.
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You ll have like a year of experience by that time.
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Oh, I d love, if you have, people have kids out there, they ve babysat kids and they have comments or feedback, I d love suggestions.
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Give your parenting tips below.
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Yeah, man.
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So that s been, but there s people out there that have gone through it and like, same as AppSumo, who s these coaches that have already gone through it.
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And so there s been a lot of people that we ve asked for help.
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I ve got a few more questions I want to ask you, but I want people to get the book, Million Dollar Weekend.
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I don t know if anything we talked about here is related to the book, but get the book Million Dollar Weekend, The Surprisingly Simple Way to Launch a 7-figure business in 48 hours, packed with battle-tested entrepreneurial strategies.
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You know, I think it s interesting because probably when you wrote this book, you were thinking about, okay, what are all the tactical things?
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that I did and other people have done that they can actually launch with strategy and game planning, goal setting, and team, and delegation, and optimization, and all these different strategies which are time tested and backed.
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But a lot of these entrepreneurs, they are successful in that, but then they forget how to love themselves, love other people, have healthy relationship with self.
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feel worthy and deserving of the success they re having.
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Manage the success without overwhelming stress.
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Like there s all these other emotional things that we need to learn once we create that, if we don t learn them before.
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And I m glad you re talking a lot about those things right now.
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Speaking of having kids and billionaires, you ve interviewed a lot of mega millionaires, billionaires who do have kids.
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And I m assuming some of them have regrets around not being there for their kids as much as they like to, or not being as emotionally available, focusing more on the business than them.
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And then there s others that maybe did it really great, and they showed up for their kids in a beautiful way, and they built their business in a big way.
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How do
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Without being a parent yourself yet, but interviewing a lot of parents with a lot of money, what have you learned from rich people with kids on how to not ruin their kids with access to a private jet, with access to unlimited money, with access to the best private teachers and everything, just without spoiling their kids?
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How do you raise conscious, loving, generous, healthy, kind humans when you are mega rich?
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Yeah.
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I ll find out.
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I ll tell you.
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What did you learn from people you ve interviewed?
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Yeah.
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I mean, I d say the number one thing is how are you leading by example?
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In all aspects.
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Yeah.
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So how are you showing up yourself?
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Are you... I heard a story where these rich people hired a nanny and then the kids never even saw the parents.
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Wow.
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Are you doing the dirty work?
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Are you doing the dishes?
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Are you showing up for it?
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Are you just outsourcing everything?
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and not showing up for your responsibility.
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And how are the parents treating money?
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Because I think if you earn money, which I think everyone should have a chance to do it, which they do, and you have access to be able to have help, to get groceries, to buy whatever things you want, you shouldn t do that.
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You should definitely do it.
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It makes your life easier.
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But I think it s figuring out what are the parts you really want to impact on your kids and how are you teaching them that by doing it yourself.
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And so that s something that with Mafei, it s talking about like, how do we wanna, do we wanna have a bunch of stuff?
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And I m like, no, we should, both of us have agreed, like, let s do the hard work in the beginning.
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And then we figure out, okay, where is it, we don t need to always do these things and we can hire help around that stuff.
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So that to me is how we re looking at it.
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I think most of the people probably have been so focused on this money.
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And I remember with Mafei, I brought her to my house.
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It s a $2 million house.
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It s gone down because the market s going down.
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Maybe it s one and a half by the time you watched it.
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I remember I brought her to my house,
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And she goes in the door and I m like, when I ve brought over dates in the past, it was a very long time ago.
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I m like, look at this house.
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I m the man.
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Look at this house.
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Look at this.
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I have a photo of me once you walk in, you know, right there.
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And, um, she didn t give two.
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I was like, I did all this work.
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You re supposed to be impressed.
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She s like, and I remember, and I asked her about a few months ago, I was like, you came over to my house.
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You didn t give two, you didn t care about it at all.
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She s like, I just care about who you are.
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Wow.
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And I was like, what, you know, I was like, ah, I gotta do all this work.
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And it was a beautiful moment of just for all of us.
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Like, who are we without any of these extra things, right?
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Who are you as a parent?
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Who are you as an individual?
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How are you showing up for as a partner in your business, in your relationship, at work, whatever that is?
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And that was a great moment.
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I m very lucky to be with someone like her.
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Wow.
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That in parenting, I have a great partner in that.
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And then how am I showing up that just as a dad?
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And I asked a friend of mine, I was going to say, how do you, how do you be good parents?
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I feel there s people who had great parents and they go to therapy.
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There s people who had bad parents go to therapy and all these things.
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The friend was like, it s hard to say how that s going to happen.
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You just have to give up.
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And that s it.
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And that s it.
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Just show up, lead by example, and give a **** on these kids.
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And you can t really control all the other outcomes of this stuff.
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But if you re doing that, you re doing your best around it.
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That s beautiful, man.
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When we enter a relationship from survival or stress or lack of worthiness or neediness, I need someone to make me feel more love because I don t have it myself.
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What do we usually attract and create when we re attracting from neediness, survival, and a lack of wholeness?
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Yeah, I think that all of that lack, all of that separation is separation from love, right?
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And the problem is that we ve just been conditioned into thinking that it comes from out there.
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It comes from that person, that drug, that circumstance, that thing, that object, the app, whatever it is.
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You re relying on your outer world to change your inner world.
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And so when things are good, you feel good.
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When things feel bad, you feel bad.
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So you re out of fact.
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You re not a cause in any way.
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So what if, though, you had a way to find that independent of your outer world?
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Data we have suggests it s absolutely possible.
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Now you re free.
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You re free, like you don t need anybody or anything.
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You ll be a lot cooler to hang around with.
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Everybody will be like, wow, that s just, that would allow them, I know this, your presence
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would allow them to move out of survival.
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They would open their heart a little bit more, they d trust you a little bit more, they d be more kind, they d be more soft-spoken, less egocentric.
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Your presence would do that and may not be the first time, but they would start figuring out like, wow, this guy is
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really different, you know, something s different about him.
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And that s just because you re present and you re giving them your attention without judgment.
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You see how hard it is to change.
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You ve actually made that change because you ve made that change and you see that you ve made that change, but you see that in them, you re no longer judging them.
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You have compassion for them, like, dude, it s a tough one.
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It took me a long time to get over that.
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But you re not judging them.
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Like, what s wrong with you?
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You re like, oh my God, I totally know what that s like.
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You ve crossed that river.
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So, of course, you would never offer them advice unless they asked you.
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You would probably give them a one-liner.
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I mean, people who heal in our work, so many times,
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You know People in in a state of desperation will say what meditation did you do and they laugh at them like There s nothing to do with the meditation.
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It was just I changed like and it was a it was a it was an arduous process But yeah, they re telling a difference.
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They re telling the story of their future They re not telling the story of their past their ex or their betrayer or whatever that person is They have no regrets about that because why they wish them well
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It s not even it s not like they re even trying to forgive to be spiritual You know people who try to forgive like I m really gonna try to forgive that working hard Yeah, it s just not how that works like you were in love like you don t have to try to forgive You re just you just don t want to lose this feeling and you take your attention off that person.
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You re good You there s a lot of freedom in that and that s how people heal They re they re building their own field.
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They re they re they re giving their body their energy back again.
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They re taking their power back in so many ways so
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And then there is community, a collective consciousness.
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I like great conversation.
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I like spirited conversation.
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I like to be scientists or people in my life that I love.
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I like to engage in just what the limit is and let everybody take us on a journey to see how far we can go.
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I don t like to talk about things where there s pain or suffering.
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or there s ego, I don t really like that.
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That s a consciousness and everybody s done it, but if you re truly on the path of evolution, you outgrow it.
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You outgrow complaining.
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You don t want to make yourself unhappy anymore.
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You outgrow talking about yourself like you re better than anybody else, because if you do, you ve got to face off with that person tomorrow and overcome them tomorrow.
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After a while, you re like, dude, just stop that so you don t have to deal with you like that anymore.
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So you just start outgrowing things that are just the side effect of your evolution.
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It s not like you have to try to do it.
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It s just the side effect of a change in consciousness, a change in energy, a change in awareness, a change in emotional states.
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And so in the heart,
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It is the selfless place.
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It s a selfless place.
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We give up from the heart.
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We care from the heart.
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We re kind in our heart.
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We re compassionate in our heart.
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We re inspired in our heart.
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You know, we fall in love with our heart.
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We re grateful in our heart.
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And so I think people feel with every other part of their body but their heart.
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Like they just don t feel with it, right?
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So practice feeling with your heart.
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And God, we have such great data.
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You know, we put these monitors on people for 24 hours, right?
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I used to think primarily it was women that had these moments.
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Now we re seeing that men have them too.
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In fact, the men whose spouses take them or partners take them to an event and they really don t want to come, these guys are going to be fine.
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They have really, really big moments.
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So we see them in their meditation where
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You can these little blocks of five minutes and you see the heart just drop into coherence and it s just beautiful lines, beautiful looks.
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You can see this, it s very easy to see.
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You see this person sustaining it for 45 minutes during their meditation.
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So you re like, hmm, all right, this person nailed it.
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You go to the next meditation, another 45 minutes again, done it once, done it twice.
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This is, looks like this person s getting a skill.
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All of a sudden they do it a third time.
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Another 45 minutes, and then lo and behold, those three meditations in one day, then they re in their room, and they re unpacking and getting ready for bed, they re still wearing a heart rate monitor, and while they re not in a meditation, for one hour, while they re just unpacking and getting ready, there s an enormous amount of heart coherence that s taking place for a whole hour.
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Why?
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Because, just like a person who has a panic attack,
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who s embracing the worst case scenario in their mind every day and emotionally feeling the anxiety and the fear of that event actually occurred.
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That image of that emotion, that stimulus and response, that thought and feeling has conditioned the body to become the mind of anxiety.
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The body has a panic attack
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With you or without you, try as you may to control it with your conscious mind.
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You can t control, you program it subconsciously, right?
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So is it possible to have a spontaneous love attack?
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That s what she had.
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She had one hour or her body went into ecstasy.
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Wow.
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And you could see it.
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A love attack?
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A love attack.
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Wow.
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She, I said to her, what did you do?
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She said, and I saw it.
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She, she laid, she got on in bed and she laid down and rolled over and went to sleep.
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So you see her about an hour and 10 minutes, perfect heart coherence, and just see it drop off into sleep.
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13, 1400 different chemicals released to restore and repair the body.
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So.
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The love that you feel is the glue that creates connection on a cellular level, on a molecular level, on an atomic level.
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Peel the atom all the way back right to the center of the nucleus and you have nothing but energy.
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And that energy is what s called low entropy.
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And low entropy is high order.
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And high order is high energy.
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And it s a lot of power.
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So as you move closer to that source of everything physical and material, we have such great data to show that people actually run into it.
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And when they do, their autonomic nervous system goes into these elevated states of high, high, high gamma brainwave patterns.
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Now gamma is super consciousness.
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Gamma is very conscious, very aware.
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So the person s whole entire autonomic nervous system is processing hundreds of standard deviations of gamma outside of normal.
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That s not a little gamma.
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And it s so coherent.
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Now the autonomic nervous system touches every single cell in the body.
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It controls and coordinates all those systems, right?
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So now imagine stress is autonomic dysregulation, incoherence.
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This is autonomic regulation, but this is not a little,
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regulation, this is Enormous amount of energy that s taking place in the brain and the autonomic nervous system is on fire And every single cell in the body is getting touched by that frequency and that frequency is carrying information And energy is informing matter and that connection creates that feeling of pure love of ecstasy or bliss And now the person takes a piece of it with them.
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They become more of it and it becomes them and so we measure
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their blood and there s a lot of oxytocin.
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We measure their blood and there s information in that blood that wasn t there before that heals cancer, that reverses Alzheimer s, that causes viruses to not enter the cell.
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I mean, it causes the microbiome to change in a matter of days.
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So that interaction with that unifying field of energy that exists beyond our senses, whose signature is oneness, whose signature is wholeness, whose signature is pure love,
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Means then that it lives within you and all around you then you d be remembering who you are and where you came from Which is pure love and it is the most familiar Unfamiliar feeling you ll ever have and it s not chemical one.
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It s electric when you have that moment many times
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there s an upgrade that takes place in the body.
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There s a disease, now it s gone.
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There s the eczema, it s gone.
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There s the myasthenia gravis, now it s gone.
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There s the Parkinson s, now it s gone.
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There s the blindness, now it s gone.
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There s energies in forming matter and that enormous amount of regulation, high, high amounts of regulation is raising the body in frequency.
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It s raising the body in light and all diseases lowering in frequency.
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So the person is connecting to something
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way bigger than their senses, way something beyond their senses and it s coming from within them.
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You only need one of those and you re okay.
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From that point forward and the way you see life, some veil, some illusion, some conditioning, some hypnosis is removed and you re now way more relaxed
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in your heart and way more awake in your brain instead of unconscious, stressed out in a program, right?
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And when I think you re more awake in your heart and your brain, you start to attract more great opportunities and you start to see, is this person in a line
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with my type of... Resonating.
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Resonating in that consciousness.
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Exactly.
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You ll be able to find your tribe.
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It ll be as obvious as anything.
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Exactly.
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Whether you re looking for a partner or friends or community or you know a place to work.
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Or a business partner that you can trust.
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Exactly.
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You resonate and you feel that and the heart is a strong element in the creative process.
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So if you have a coherent brain
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then you re sending the signal out into the quantum field.
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That s the potential in the quantum field that you re selecting that already exists and you got to have an intention.
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The more coherent the brain, the more the electrical signal takes place in the field.
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But if you want to create the experience, the synchronicity, the opportunity,
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You gotta need a coherent heart, and the heart is the magnetic field, and the magnetic field draws things to us.
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So now we don t have to go get it any longer, because that s what we do in three-dimensional reality.
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All of a sudden, you start noticing, I really didn t do anything.
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Well, I got the email, I got the phone call, I got the opportunities, and I met this person who led to this, and wow, and all of a sudden, I have this life.
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And so, if you re gonna believe in that future that you re imagining with all of your heart, it s gotta be open and activated.
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We train people.
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to get in that place and when they re in that place they have wonderful relationships with everything and everybody because they re okay with themselves.
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Yes.
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Can you explain, I love this explanation, at your retreat
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You talk about this over and over, sending an attention with a signal from your thought out into the field.
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And then with your heart, drawing this intention from the physical world to you physically.
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Can you explain?
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Every time you say this, I love it.
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And it just reminds me about the power of intention and having a coherent heart and brain connection, right?
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Those are the tools.
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Being so clear on your thought and thinking of why you want this thing, not wanting it from a place of lack, but already feeling grateful, all these different things that you teach in the retreat.
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But can you explain what this does when you have a signal from the brain and you have a magnet from the heart?
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How does that work in the physical world?
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And how can we apply this to
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You know if someone s been single for a long time and they re like you know what?
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I m ready for love.
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I m ready for a greater connection and I ve let go of my past.
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I ve forgiven.
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I feel like I m in a space that s allowing me to feel love myself and I m allowing to bring a partner to me.
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How does this connect to that as well?
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Well, let s talk about how we typically create, okay?
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We basically create in lack of separation.
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You re walking down the street and you see someone with a nice car and you re like, I love that car and you don t have it.
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You want that car because you don t have it.
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So, you re going to go out and work
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or do whatever you can to get that car.
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And in order for you to get that car, we re in the plane of demonstration, you got to do things.
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So, there s the thought of having the car and then there s the experience of having it.
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And the distance between the thought of the car and the experience of getting it is called time, right?
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That s separation.
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So then in three-dimensional reality, everything that we do to bring those two points of consciousness together takes time and energy.
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So we ve got to do things.
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We ve got to get up and go try things and try things out and do things and work.
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And then you buy the car, finally, and then you may have to make payments.
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So you ve got to keep working to pay it off.
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So it takes a lot of time and energy.
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So in three-dimensional reality,
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the plane of demonstration, there s a separation between the thought of what you want and the experience of having it, and you gotta do things to get it, and that s called time.
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So then the cause and the effect, one point of consciousness, another point of consciousness, the separation is called time.
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Okay, well, you can get really good at that.
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You can get trained, you can go to school, you can make a lot of the right choices, you can meet the right people, you can figure out ways to accumulate more things and get all the things you want that you think that makes you happy, right?
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But after a while, you re like, some people never actually create the thing they want.
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They spend their entire life in lack.
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Because they re waiting for that event to happen to take away the lack of not having it, right?
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So, their senses are fooling them into the illusion of separation, right?
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So, they re creating matter-to-matter.
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And matter-to-matter takes time and energy.
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You can get really good at doing it.
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Okay.
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So there s this invisible field of unifying energy that exists beyond the senses that s unifying everything physical and material.
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And the forces of nature, quantum physicists have been trying to unify gravity and strong and weak nuclear forces and electromagnetism.
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There s some intelligence that s keeping all of this in order after an explosion.
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Like after an explosion is normally disorder, but we ve got a lot of order here.
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So unifying all those principles is really what quantum physics is about and finding mathematics to do it.
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But undeniably,
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In this realm in the quantum realm, there s no separation.
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It s there s nothing physical.
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There s nothing material There s no matter that s all taking place in three-dimensional reality.
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It s all energy.
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It s all frequency.
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It s all vibration It s all information.
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It s all consciousness.
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It s all thought
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That is that invisible field of energy.
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So, okay that invisible field of energy Einstein said the field is the sole governing agency of the particle.
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He didn t say the particle controls the particle, he said the field controls the particle.
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So if I can change information in the field, I should be able to affect the particle matter.
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So it turns out that
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An atom is 99.99999% energy, information.
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There s nothing physical or material there, .00001 material, when the probability of us seeing the truth of reality is zero.
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And we are only seeing a small spectrum of frequency, the rainbow, visible light, bouncing off the most stable form of energy called matter, giving us this hologram, this illusion of separation.
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So if there was a way to create from the field,
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instead of from matter and move closer to source and create from a place of wholeness and less from separation, I d have to be able to get to the field.
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So then if where you place your attention is where you place your energy, and you develop the ability to take all of your attention off your body.
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all your attention off all the people in your life, all the objects and things, your cell phone, your car, your house, whatever, all the relationships, all the people, all the places you need to go, the place you re sitting, the place you grew up, the place you sleep, the place you work, and nothing about the predictable future or the familiar past and settle into the present moment.
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You would go from a somebody to a nobody.
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from a someone to a no one, from something to nothing, from somewhere to nowhere, from some time to no time.
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That is the moment of your pure consciousness.
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You ll be disinvesting all of your attention, all of your energy out of this three-dimensional reality, out of the known, and placing it on the unknown.
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Now, let s demystify the process.
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Take away everything physical and material in the universe.
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Take away the Earth, take away the Moon, take away all the planets, all the moons from the planets, take away the Sun, the light from the Sun, the stars, all the light from the stars, galaxies.
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Take everything away.
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Wipe everything out, physical and material.
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What are you left with?
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Nothing.
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Turns out that that nothing is filled with a lot of frequency and energy.
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And I don t know how to explain nothing to a materialist, but when you can linger in that place without a name, without a face, without a body weight, without a diet, without a disease, without a profession, without an identity in any way, without a past, and you can linger as pure consciousness, something really profound happens to the brain.
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Different compartments of the brain that have been modulated or compartmentalized or subdivided because of the stress hormones, you know, shift your attention from one person to another person to another problem to another thing.
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That habituation fragments the brain.
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Brain becomes a house divided against itself, and you narrow your focus, you over-focus, you become obsessive about something.
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That s what we do in stress.
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It turns out if you open your awareness to nothing, the brain starts getting highly organized.
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Different compartments of the brain that were modulated start unifying.
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The brain starts firing this more holistic state, and the whole entire brain is resonating at the same frequency.
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Now you get that brain going for that period of time like that,
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Waves that are coherent start interfering with each other, and when they do, they create bigger amplitudes.
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The higher amplitude, the higher the energy in the brain.
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So now you have resonance in the brain, and the brain starts getting very mathematical, very organized, right?
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So that brain that s coherent, the entire brain is functioning as one neurological network.
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The two hemispheres are coming together, and there s this kind of psychic union called wholeness.
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Now that state of coherence in moving out of the beta brainwave states into a slower brainwave state produces electrical signals.
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And that electrical signal is the intention.
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The more clear your intention is, the more coherent the brain is, the stronger the signal.
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Okay, so if you decided to create from the field instead of from matter, and you were just pure consciousness, and I asked you to send the signal out from a coherent brain, and whatever that thing is that you wanted, we trained you how to do that, then you would be
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Shimmering the entire vacuum that entire void you were you are that you re not you any longer.
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You re the source, right?
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so if you re the source and you re sending the signal out then you re you re touching the consciousness of Everybody of everyone of everything of everywhere every time though the entire field is Becoming electric because of your intention.
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Wow.
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Okay, and
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Now, if your source...
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Why would you go anywhere to get anything?
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And so consciousness is coherent brain, and then the energy of the heart is love, and pure love is source.
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So if I asked you to fall in love with that future, and I asked you to draw the future to you with the magnetic field of the heart, the heart produces a magnetic field up to three meters wide.
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That s studied.
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So now,
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Love is the glue that holds the atom together, okay?
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Okay, if I get a coherent heart, the more coherent my heart is, the more energy in my heart, the more I can draw my future to me.
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So you send the signal out, you draw the experience to you, and now you don t go anywhere to get anything.
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When there s vibrational match between your energy and some potential in the quantum field, that when there s a match,
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You start seeing those synchronicities, you synchronize your energy to that possibility.
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And so you start seeing the coincidences and the synchronicities and the opportunities.
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I m not talking about a parking space.
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I m talking about like real life events.
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Yes.
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This is a critical moment for people.
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Because I think people don t realize how powerful they really are.
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When that event happens in their life, they will look back at every single betrayer, everything that happened in their past, and they won t care any longer.
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That s the moment their past no longer exists, because they re proving to themselves what they innately already know that they may have forgotten.
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Which is what?
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That is the creator of their life.
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And when you have that synchronicity, you are humbled,
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by the truth and you feel this sense of greatness, like real greatness, like I am honored to be human.
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I m honored to be alive.
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I m honored that I actually created.
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It s not the it s not the wealth.
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You can ask anybody in our community.
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It s not the health.
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It s who you became.
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And people think they want this or they want that, but I m telling you what they want is wholeness.
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Yes.
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And you have wholeness that you no longer want.
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How could you want when you re whole?
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Game change is really amazing.
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And so the closer we get to source, and that s our work, how deep can you go?
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And we teach people how to go as deep as they can.
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There s a brainwave state that takes place that I can predict.
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When we see it, I know the person s going to have a big moment.
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In fact, we can predict it, we can replicate it, and we can induce it.
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And the person goes into these really slow theta brainwave states, and that s when they re in a hypnotic state.
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They re very suggestible to information.
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and they re in coherent theta, and when they move outside of normal, we know the next moment is they re gonna hook up, and the brain s gonna go into gamma, and they re gonna feel a whole lot of love, not a little love, like a lot of love, and it s gonna be an arousal, and it s gonna be ecstasy, it s gonna be bliss.
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To them, they re having, they re seeing the unknown self, the 99.99% of reality that we re unaware of, and don t exclude yourself from that.
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And so the person has a moment in the unknown,
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a profound mystical moment or an understanding or a download or a connection, a source or a healing or something that takes place, they took a bite of wholeness.
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They took a bite of it.
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They became more whole.
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And when you re more whole, you don t need as much.
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That s right.
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When you don t need as much, you re really cool to be around.
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Like it s really easy to be around you.
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In fact, if you re so whole that you feel so abundant that the only thing you want to do is give,
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We have people in this work that have created millions of dollars and they re giving it away.
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And the more they give it away, the more money they keep getting.
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That s the experiment for them.
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That s their experiment.
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They re trying that out as an experiment.
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Why?
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Because an abundant person would never hold on to anything.
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They have more than they need.
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The side effect of creating from the field instead of from matter shortens the distance between the thought of what we want and the experience of having it.
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And that means there s less time.
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And the greater frequency, the closer we are to source, the less separation is two points of consciousness.
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It means there s less time.
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And it should happen in a shorter amount of time in three-dimensional reality.
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In that event, it s none of your business.
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when it s going to happen or how it s going to happen.
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That s the key.
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Because the moment you try to predict it, you re back to the Newtonian model of reality.
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You re wanting and needing again.
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You re laying a known over the unknown.
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And the consciousness that lives within us, that source says, I honor free will.
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Go for it.
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Do it your way.
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Yes.
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And so we have to lay down the very thing we used our whole life to get what we want for something greater to occur.
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And that s not an easy thing, is it?
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Because there s such a propensity to jump in there and do, right?
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Control it or force it.
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And so we control, we force, we predict, we fight for it, we manipulate, we cheat, we lie, we steal.
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We do everything when we re trying to change matter to take away that lack of separation.
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But if there s an alternative way to do that, to shorten the distance between one point of consciousness and another point, between cause and effect, and you start believing that you re the creator of your reality, you stop trying so hard.
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People in this work, I think that the excitement for me, and what I m proud of in terms of our community, is that they do the work.
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Not because they have to, or they want to please God, or do the right thing.
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It s not that.
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They don t want the magic to end in their life.
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They don t want it to end.
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It s not like, oh geez, I got to go create my life.
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It s kind of like, someone sent me a text just yesterday, a very, very, very wealthy, very successful person.
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And he said to me, I need to take a break from creating.
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Like I m going to take a break.
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Is that okay?
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Is it okay?
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His whole life has just gotten super beautiful, and he s so alive again.
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All these wonderful things happen.
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He said, I almost don t feel worthy.
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I almost don t feel worthy of so many great things.
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You know how many times you showed up for yourself?
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You aren t worthy.
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That s why it s happening.
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You aren t worthy.
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You showed up, man.
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If you don t show up, you don t believe you re a creator.
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You show up, it means you do believe.
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And so many people, as I said, they may say, well, I think this stuff works, but I don t know if it works for me.
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Well, this is a big moment because if you don t show up, then you don t believe it s possible.
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But if you show up, you still believe it s possible.
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So showing up for yourself every day, investing in yourself, is investing in your future.
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And people say to me, well, I did it for two weeks and nothing happened.
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And I always say to them, you re not that good.
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Like, I don t know what else to tell you.
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It s not like it doesn t work for you.
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It s just like, learn a little bit more knowledge.
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Understand what you re doing.
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Your health condition isn t changing.
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Okay.
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Your relationship, you want a relationship and you want a relationship and love and you re living the three quarters of your day in fear.
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You think you re going to attract love.
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You got to be able to feel that feeling instead of fear.
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And when it s the hardest, it matters the most.
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Then you re worthy.
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You re worthy of love.
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You are worthy.
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When you get to that point where you re worthy of love, it s not like entitlement.
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Like, I m worthy of love.
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That s not how that works.
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You are worthy of it.
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You re so worthy of it, you re okay without anybody.
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That s when it gets really good.
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That s powerful.
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When you don t need it.
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Because you don t need anything.
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Because you feel whole.
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Exactly.
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Now, I call that the natural state of being.
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That s why we practice so much relaxed in the heart and awake in the brain, because there are so many biological changes, neurological, genetic changes that take place in that present moment.
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So many wonderful changes.
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So the person who wants the wealth, the person who wants the relationship, they can t be saying, or the health, they can t be saying, well, how come I m not healed?
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The person who s in the process of healing would never say that.
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That s the old self that says, how come I don t have a new relationship?
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Well, figure it out.
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The two weeks went by and were you spending the rest of your day in fear and in lack?
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Were you hating yourself and hating your life?
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Who do you think?
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You think you re worthy of love at this point?
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You re not going to be happy.
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No one s going to make you happy until you make you happy and that changes everything.
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You find that person and they re happy for no reason.
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And not just happy like always happy, but a sensibility that they can manage themselves and manage their emotions and manage their attention.
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in such a way that s admirable.
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Like you re inspired by that person.
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Your relationship, the person that you re with is an inspiration to you.
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Like wow, I m inspired by this person.
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I m moved by this person.
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I want to show up for this person.
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I want to give as much as they give in this relationship.
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I want to care as much as they care.
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I want to be as kind as they are.
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I want to see when everybody else reacts
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This person doesn t react something is cool about that person.
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That s that gives the person or the people that were in relationship permission To show up differently and that s that s when it becomes infectious.
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That s when it becomes wonderful
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