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Welcome to Mini-Sewed Monday.
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Happy to be here with you kicking off the week with something quick and actionable that you can implement right away that ll make you more magnetic and effective.
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So the other day I was holding the ladder for Jen while she installed some cat stuff on the wall.
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We have a lot of cat stuff around here as you might imagine.
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I had plenty of time covered in drywall and sawdust holding the ladder to think about a few things.
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Now my role here was kind of strange, right?
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Usually I m working and others are holding the proverbial ladder, and I just kind of fell into this role of holding the ladder while she held up one of those scratch poles and drilling into the wall, and it got me thinking about other roles that I hold and have held in the past, both in my relationships, in my life, in professional circles.
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These roles have simply taken on by default or by inaction.
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I mean, I went to law school, I became a lawyer, I ve had friends, I ve even dated people and been in relationships by the choice of the other person or by circumstances and not really on my own volition, not by my own choice, but by inaction or by default.
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So this week, think about the role that you play at home.
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Think about the role that you play at work and with your friends.
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Which roles do you have by choice?
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And which do you have by default or by inaction?
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For whom are you holding a ladder when you shouldn t be?
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Let me know what you come up with.
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Shoot me a note, jordanattheartofcharm.com or you can tweet at me or something like that.
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I d love to hear from you.
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I d love to hear about the ladders you re holding and whether or not you chose to be there or it just appeared in your hands.
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And don t forget about the AOC Challenge.
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It ll help you connect better with others, create more productive personal and business relationships.
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Step-by-step challenges every single week to help you move forward.
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Actually, multiple per week.
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I think we stepped our game up on that front to get people really involved.
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So text CHARMED to 33444 in the USA or go to theartofcharm.com slash challenge and get rockin .
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Alright, here s Producer Jason with this week s coming attractions.
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Thanks, Jordan.
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On Tuesday, we re talking to Bob Berg, co-author of The Go-Giver, a parable with great business and life lessons and principles that we can all apply.
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We ll discuss why the world isn t dog-eat-dog, the five rules of stratospheric success and how they apply to your business and personal life, how we give and not get obsessed with results, and a bunch of other things.
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On Thursday, we re joined by social psychologist, Amy Cuddy.
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Amy s prolific TED talk has been viewed over 35 million times.
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She s the author of the book Presence.
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So we ll be talking about presence, authenticity, how to bring out the best version of ourselves virtually on command, nonverbal communication, and social power versus personal power.
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And as always Fan Mail Friday, where we answer your questions and drop the knowledge.
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You can get more from AOC at theartofcharm.com.
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For information on our live residential boot camps that we run every single week in LA, head over to bootcamp.theartofcharm.com.
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If you want to really dig into this stuff and work on your skills with us as your coaches, there s no better place to start.
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That s bootcamp.theartofcharm.com.