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116_163 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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116_165 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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117_1 Uh, just I'm sick of my drinking. I'm drinking too much. Um, I just thought, uh, maybe I need someone to talk to, get some help about it. change communication behavior
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117_3 Yeah, it's just- it's just got worse over the last six months? neutral communication behavior
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117_5 Well, I guess, I drank, you know, like most people do before, um, but I broke up with my boyfriend, uh, about a year ago and then six months ago I guess I wanted to go out again and see if I can meet people. neutral communication behavior
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117_7 And I've been, yeah, getting into this habit of going out every Friday and Saturday, now, uh, drinking a lot. neutral communication behavior
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117_9 Um, to try to meet guys. neutral communication behavior
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117_11 And, uh, in the last few months I've been, you know, just drinking even more on week nights, and I never even used to do that before. neutral communication behavior
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117_13 Yeah. Well, I just, I don't feel comfortable talking to guys normally. [chuckles] neutral communication behavior
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117_15 I don't know what to say, um, and I just, drinking helps. neutral communication behavior
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117_17 Yeah, for sure. neutral communication behavior
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117_19 Yeah, definitely. neutral communication behavior
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117_21 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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117_23 I mean, I guess, like most people do when they go out they drink. neutral communication behavior
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117_25 I've been doing that and just drinking more and more I guess. neutral communication behavior
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117_27 Um, and it's just
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117_29 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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117_31 Yeah, I mean, I've maybe talked to people but it's just, uh, that I've just I think I'm just too-too drunk and I just, my friends drive me home and just the end of the night I don't
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117_33 I guess I just wanna stop. I just feel like I'm drinking more and more 'cause I'm doing it now in the weekdays- change communication behavior
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117_35 -and I mean, I just don't
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117_37 Yeah, I'm just I'm not eating properly anymore, I'm just eating less or just getting takeaway, getting crap food and- neutral communication behavior
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117_39 -um, I'm just, I feel like I'm not exerc
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117_41 Yeah. Yeah I do. Yeah. change communication behavior
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117_43 Yeah. I don't wanna- I don't wanna, I mean, I don't wanna stop altogether, so. change communication behavior
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117_45 Yeah and just and all my friends go out and drink. Like I- neutral communication behavior
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117_47 -I'd have no social life if I didn't. neutral communication behavior
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117_49 "If I just said-said, ""No, I'm not drinking at all,"" and, you know, I don't feel like I'm an alcoholic-" neutral communication behavior
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117_51 -or I don't feel like I need to neutral communication behavior
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117_53 Yeah, it just got a bit out of control. change communication behavior
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117_55 No, this hasn’t happened before. neutral communication behavior
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117_57 Um, due to just circumstance of, I mean, I just yeah, had my boyfriend for six years before that and- neutral communication behavior
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117_59 Um, before that yeah just my friends weren't drinking so much, and yeah it’s just not, it's just new. Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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117_61 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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117_63 I believe 80, I mean I guess that’s why I’m here so— change communication behavior
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117_65 Yeah. change communication behavior
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117_67 Um, I don’t know, I just-just I don’t know, it just sort
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117_69 -it seemed, as just, yeah, for the reasons I was saying, just seeing like I need to do something about it now. change communication behavior
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117_71 Just seeing it’s just gonna get worse, uh, wha
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117_73 Yeah. change communication behavior
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117_75 Yeah. change communication behavior
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117_77 Um, I guess that’s why I’m here. [chuckles] change communication behavior
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117_79 Just to, uh, but um
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117_81 Um, and then, I don’t know, try to plan it out a little bit more on the weekends- change communication behavior
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117_85 Yeah, yeah. Yep. change communication behavior
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117_87 No, that’s good, that’s-that's, yeah, that's- that is definitely what I’m gonna do. change communication behavior
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117_89 I just, you know, I'm so out of the routine, not exercising, I need to get back into things. change communication behavior
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117_91 Yeah, but I mean, I guess, just talking about it makes me think oh yeah, I need to- I need to do something about it. change communication behavior
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119_1 Well, I, um, I did get an interview for a job. Um— neutral communication behavior
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119_3 Yeah, but I wasn't able to go, um, cause my kids, I didn't have any one to watch them. And, um, you know, so the- that was sort of game over. I just, I had to cancel the interview and this, it's too bad because it was a really, a- actually was a job that would have been good, but I don't know. neutral communication behavior
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119_5 Well, yeah, because it's- it's, you know, I didn't really have a choice. I guess I have to be- I have to make sure my kids are taken care of first. And, um, you know, I'm worried that this is gonna keep happening. change communication behavior
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119_7 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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119_9 Um, it sits about at a 10 because yeah, I mean, I'm the only one supporting my kids and, um, you know, it's just, what I'm getting from welfare is just not cutting it. So I really need to have a job and soon. change communication behavior
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119_11 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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119_13 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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119_15 I mean, right now, I think I'm about at a three. I just seems like, you know, even if I'm able to get into the interview and get childcare, you know, when I show up, I've got this resume that it's- it's not impressive and it's got all these gaps of employment and I'm not as educated as other people going in for the same job. So I just feel like I'm not, um, I don't know, that employable. sustain communication behavior
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119_17 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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119_19 Yeah. Yeah, because it's so limited and I've been out of the workforce and even when I was working, I mean, it's not, I don't know, it's not stuff that I feel like can lead to the job that I want now. sustain communication behavior
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119_21 I just want something that is- is gonna be steady and where I can be, you know, even if my kids are in childcare during the day, that I can be home every night and spending time with them and, um, know you really like to get something where, um, I'm just making good money and- and I don't have to worry all the time about money. change communication behavior
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119_23 Yeah. It would be huge. neutral communication behavior
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119_25 Yeah. And it'd be nice to just know what I'm doing and just have my routine. change communication behavior
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119_27 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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119_29 Right. Well, it would be good if I knew, you know, that my kids are taken care of too- change communication behavior
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119_31 - so I'm not worried about them while I'm at work. neutral communication behavior
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119_33 Right. neutral communication behavior
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119_35 Well, I mean, being able to make the interviews would be the priority. change communication behavior
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119_37 Um, so chi- you know, taking care, having some childcare, having- change communication behavior
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119_39 - having someone I trust that I can call when I know I've got an interview. change communication behavior
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119_41 Right. Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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119_43 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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119_45 Um, I just wish that I had- I had more experience or, um, you know, more education. It seems like everyone's got a college education and I don't have that on my resume. change communication behavior
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119_47 I get asked about education and training and – neutral communication behavior
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119_49 - um, you know, I just, it, as soon as I asked about it, I just feel just like I'm not good enough- sustain communication behavior
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119_51 - since I don't have that. neutral communication behavior
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119_53 Yeah. Well, something I could talk about in the interview too. You know, even if I was some type of certification where I could say, I could, you know, with confidence talk about- about that. change communication behavior
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119_55 I mean, I guess, I just don't really know what it's gonna be because I need to have a job now so I'm not really sure. change communication behavior
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119_57 Right. I almost feel like that's more important than what I'm interested in, you know, because I'm like, I'm not going to go back to school for four years right now. change communication behavior
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119_59 Yeah or something
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119_61 Yeah. Great. Exactly. neutral communication behavior
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119_63 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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119_65 Yeah, because even those jobs right now don't feel accessible for me. They seem like, you know
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119_67 Yeah. I think so- I think so because I don't
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119_69 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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119_71 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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119_73 Yeah, that would be great. change communication behavior
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119_75 That would be great. neutral communication behavior
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119_77 Well, find the childcare resources- change communication behavior
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119_79 - is- seems to be- that seems to be the— neutral communication behavior
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119_81 The priority 'cause I can't even do an interview without that. change communication behavior
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119_83 And then, um, I mean
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119_85 - like maybe there's a weekend, I mean— neutral communication behavior
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120_1 Oh, thanks so much doctor. I'll just take it easy for a couple of days. neutral communication behavior
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120_3 Yeah, I suppose. I know my weight is a problem, but every time I try to take it off, I end up gaining it back. I don't know what to do. change communication behavior
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120_5 Okay, thank you doctor, but I'm just concerned about how I can possibly lose weight now since work is so busy and the kids take up so much of my time. sustain communication behavior
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120_7 Okay, that sounds great. So, what should I do? neutral communication behavior
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120_9 I knew you were gonna say that, but I don't have time in my schedule. I can't afford to take an hour to go to the gym every day. sustain communication behavior
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120_11 I like to walk. change communication behavior
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120_13 Wait a minute, isn't walking too mild to help you lose weight, though? sustain communication behavior
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120_15 Oh, wow, that sounds good. You know what? Come to think of it, I have some time before I have to go back to work and I saw a nice park on the way over here, maybe I can take a short walk after this appointment. change communication behavior
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120_17 And you know what? I used to really love to dance, but I haven't done that in such a long time. change communication behavior
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120_19 Hmm. And I know my family would support me if I could just find some place where I can go dancing. change communication behavior
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120_21 Yeah, and you know what? I really like to try that. change communication behavior
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120_23 Actually, I really would. I'm kind of excited about it. What else you got? change communication behavior
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120_25 Mm-hmm. I can do that. change communication behavior
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120_27 Diet, the D word. neutral communication behavior
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120_29 Yeah, I like that. Okay, I'll make an appointment and I'll start dancing right away, doc. change communication behavior
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121_1 Thank you. neutral communication behavior
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121_3 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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121_5 From my GP? neutral communication behavior
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121_7 Uh. neutral communication behavior
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121_9 What's led me to come here? neutral communication behavior
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121_11 My GP. neutral communication behavior
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121_13 Well, um, you know, I had my sort of, uh, checkup. neutral communication behavior
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121_15 And it revealed that apparently, I might have diabetes 2. Well, that's what he says. sustain communication behavior
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121_17 Um, I-I think that I feel perfectly well. I-I'm, you know
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121_19 But, um, that's really why I'm here. I'm on his command, almost. sustain communication behavior
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121_21 Well, he did. He says he's going to put me on some sort of program if it gets worse. sustain communication behavior
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121_23 But as I say, I-I feel absolutely fine now. sustain communication behavior
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121_25 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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121_27 Mm, I'm very surprised. neutral communication behavior
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121_29 Yes. I think it did. neutral communication behavior
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121_31 Mm. neutral communication behavior
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121_33 I- neutral communication behavior
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121_35 That's what I understand. neutral communication behavior
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121_37 You know, and I'm not overweight. sustain communication behavior
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121_39 I-I sort of look after myself to a limited extent in that way. Um, but I'm a busy person, I suppose I burn off the calories. And- neutral communication behavior
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121_41 I don't know, really. neutral communication behavior
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121_43 My lifestyle— neutral communication behavior
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121_45 No. neutral communication behavior
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121_47 No, not at all. sustain communication behavior
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121_49 Well, I-I thought he must be joking. To be honest. I thought- sustain communication behavior
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121_51 -you know, why you are
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121_53 um, I just felt that, um
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121_55 Right? neutral communication behavior
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121_57 Um
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121_59 He's got a job to do. And obviously, the tests have come through. And I have got these signs of diabetes 2. neutral communication behavior
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121_61 Right? Um, I just think that
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121_63 Um— neutral communication behavior
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121_65 I feel absolutely fine. sustain communication behavior
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121_67 Yeah. Well, physically, I feel absolutely fine. sustain communication behavior
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121_69 I'm-I'm
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121_71 I mean, I get around, I sleep pretty well- sustain communication behavior
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121_73 I sort of you know- neutral communication behavior
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121_75 - I'm-I'm compos mentis. So I don't— neutral communication behavior
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121_77 What is the problem? sustain communication behavior
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121_79 Well, uh, yes. I mean- neutral communication behavior
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121_81 -I must admit, I haven't done too much research. I've been a bit busy. neutral communication behavior
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121_83 Um, but he-he was saying something about, I don't know, family or whatever. I don't know. neutral communication behavior
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121_85 And I don't know if it's hereditary. neutral communication behavior
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121_87 I think he said something about it being hereditary. neutral communication behavior
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121_89 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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121_91 Yeah, it could be- neutral communication behavior
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121_93 -because, um, my mother mentioned- neutral communication behavior
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121_95 -that, uh, my father had diabetes- neutral communication behavior
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121_97 -diabetes 2. And if I think about it, um, his brother- neutral communication behavior
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121_99 -uh, I haven't seen him for years. neutral communication behavior
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121_101 But he might well have it because he is- neutral communication behavior
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121_103 -a pretty cuddly guy. You know- neutral communication behavior
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121_105 He's pretty big. neutral communication behavior
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121_107 Well, yes, the stereotype,- neutral communication behavior
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121_109 Yeah, I guess. neutral communication behavior
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121_111 Well, yeah. I mean, as far as I know, I hadn't seen him for- neutral communication behavior
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121_113 -I don't know how many years. neutral communication behavior
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121_115 Apparently so. Yes, apparently so. change communication behavior
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121_117 Mm, I mean, it is hereditary, is it? neutral communication behavior
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121_119 A genetic factor. And so, does that mean that if you've got, um, if you've got a history of this within your family- neutral communication behavior
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121_121 -if it's a gene
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121_123 Also, it's— neutral communication behavior
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121_125 Right. Okay. neutral communication behavior
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121_127 I'm sure you're going to tell me what they are. neutral communication behavior
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121_129 To be frank, Mark, I honestly don't know. I mean, I honestly don't know what causes it because I've never had any reason. It came upon me from the GP and it took me back. neutral communication behavior
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121_131 Um, the hereditary thing I thought, well, maybe that's the explanation. neutral communication behavior
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121_133 And why go any further, it's there? neutral communication behavior
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121_135 Can't help it. sustain communication behavior
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121_137 They live pretty long lives, they did, all right. neutral communication behavior
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121_139 Relatives relatively went into their 70s. neutral communication behavior
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121_141 Well. neutral communication behavior
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121_143 If there's something that you think that
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121_145 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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121_147 I've heard of it yeah. neutral communication behavior
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121_149 Right. neutral communication behavior
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121_151 Are you saying that they-they like they can't digest insulin or is that? neutral communication behavior
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121_153 Oh, I see. So-so it's like a-it's like a balance. neutral communication behavior
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121_155 So insulin you-you. neutral communication behavior
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121_157 You have yourself draws bar. neutral communication behavior
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121_159 Or something, and then what balances that out in the body is the insulin taking off the excess. neutral communication behavior
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121_161 Or-or digesting? Should I say the excessive sugars? neutral communication behavior
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121_163 Is that what happened? neutral communication behavior
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121_165 Why? neutral communication behavior
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121_167 Right. Okay. neutral communication behavior
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121_169 You mean, personally? neutral communication behavior
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121_171 Well, I didn't know. I mean, the thing is you see that
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121_173 As you get older. neutral communication behavior
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121_175 I mean, I don't-I don't leap over five bar gates like I used to, you know, um, as opposed to, uh, running with the backs now, I tend to spend more time, you know, with my old mates in the bar. neutral communication behavior
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121_177 At the rugby club and-and-and the such like, yeah. And, um, the fish I'm hooking, I'm not after the kings anymore, I go for the snapper now, it's a bit easier, you know. neutral communication behavior
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121_179 Yeah, absolutely. You just do. neutral communication behavior
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121_181 You just do. Um, so you're less demanding, I guess, on your-on your body, you realize, and you don't really want to do these things anyway. You know, you let the youngsters get home. neutral communication behavior
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121_183 "Been there, done that. So you don't really notice. So I'm coming back to this diagnosis I had from my GP and him saying, ""You've got diabetes 2,"" well, I should feel like that, shouldn't I?" neutral communication behavior
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121_185 Yeah, I mean. neutral communication behavior
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121_187 Yeah, I mean I'm a busy person. All right? I uh, my work uh, I work in insurance, so I'm always hopping from one place to another place. neutral communication behavior
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121_189 Um, I haven't noticed. neutral communication behavior
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121_191 I really haven't noticed how, um, okay I get a bit
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121_193 If I rush too much that-that's true. Um, I suppose, um, I don't go upstairs two at a time anymore, I use one at a time. change communication behavior
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121_195 Oh, certainly the energy I have is-is not what I-what I had. I mean I do need to, you know, I'm busy but I do need to sit down, um, uh, I do need to sit down and relax with a cup of coffee, you know, and, uh, things. change communication behavior
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121_197 Um, more than I would normally. change communication behavior
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121_199 But that would be, that would be about it. neutral communication behavior
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121_201 Um, is it getting worse? I don't know. I-I-I suppose. What worse? Is it-is it increasing? Well, to say, I don't really notice it. sustain communication behavior
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121_203 Yeah, yeah. Um, at least, that's what I think. I mean I don't know if you're telling me that I should be more active or my GP is saying I should be more active. neutral communication behavior
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121_205 Um, as I say, uh, you know I-I don't do any regular form of exercise, I have to say, not anymore. neutral communication behavior
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121_207 Um. neutral communication behavior
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121_209 But maybe I-maybe I don't know. neutral communication behavior
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121_211 I mean I've got uh, well I-I mean I've got a great lifestyle. I mean if it's very-it-it's very good. I mean I've got all my mates in down at the rugby club. And I've got uh, you know even in the summer when that's a bit damn. I used to coach rugby and I coached cricket when I finished playing. So-so I've got the-the guys in the cricket club, um, you know, for the-for the, uh, for the summer evenings. And, uh, and then, uh, the-then, of course, we've got the fishing, and that's all of us combined. We're a big gang, really. neutral communication behavior
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121_213 Oh, I think my life yeah. My life is great. neutral communication behavior
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121_215 "My life is great, and then you turn around and say, ""Hey you've got-- you-you're ill, you're sick." sustain communication behavior
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121_217 And um, no I'm not. But you see, he said to me that he's gonna put me on some sort of, uh, a daily monitoring of, is it sugar levels? neutral communication behavior
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121_219 And I'm gonna have to take regular pills. neutral communication behavior
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121_221 Well frankly, the only pills I take are sort of paracetamols. neutral communication behavior
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121_223 For a bit of the head in the morning, you know. neutral communication behavior
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121_225 Um. neutral communication behavior
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121_227 Come on, you know. neutral communication behavior
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121_229 Well, life is too short. sustain communication behavior
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121_231 You know it's the truth. neutral communication behavior
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121_233 I mean you know— neutral communication behavior
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121_235 Well there is-there is something that you sort of prompted me to think about, and, um, I split up
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121_237 And um, I think she used to look after me because she used to do the cooking and-and-and stuff like that. neutral communication behavior
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121_239 And I have to say that I'm not the best cook in the world. neutral communication behavior
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121_241 Um, and-and being on the run all the time and you know once I get back home, it's, you know, it's time to go down to the rugby club or whatever it might be, uh, we're out with the mates. And, uh, I-I do I suppose my food is not as healthy perhaps as it used to be when she was around. She's moved down to Hamilton to live with her mother, if you've met her mother. Anyway, but, um. neutral communication behavior
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121_243 Yeah, I mean mates and their wives are pretty cool about it sometimes. neutral communication behavior
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121_245 Because, you know, they'll invite me for dinner and so on. neutral communication behavior
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121_247 And, yeah, yeah, yeah. I guess, you know, that's when you, well, or whatever reason, you split up in life. neutral communication behavior
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121_249 "You start looking at the home life of somebody else, you're thinking, ""Hmm, I use d to have this.""" neutral communication behavior
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121_251 "And you think, "" This is nice food, "" isn't it? and you know." change communication behavior
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121_253 Oh, she would do all the cooking. Yeah, yeah, neutral communication behavior
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121_255 I mean, I never bothered to boil an egg in the water, you know. neutral communication behavior
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121_257 Totally. I mean, I was just in charge of the wine, you know. neutral communication behavior
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121_259 Well I
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121_261 Maybe I'm just— neutral communication behavior
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121_263 You know, because it
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121_265 And then there's
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121_267 -or Kentucky Fried or whatever. neutral communication behavior
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121_269 You know, it's very easy. and then, um, then you think to yourself, well
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121_271 So you bring those in and you open them up and put them in the microwave and there's vegetables there. neutral communication behavior
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121_273 Yeah, it looks- it looks fine, you know, et cetera. I mean, so that will happen occasionally if I've got a night in. But cooking-wise, no, I haven't cooked anything, um, other than boil the water for the kettle for a cup o coffee. neutral communication behavior
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121_275 -for ages. neutral communication behavior
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121_277 Yeah. I do miss her breakfast. I have to say, we used to have get a nice breakfast. neutral communication behavior
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121_279 Well— neutral communication behavior
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121_281 Well, I used to be quite a heavy smoker, right? I mean, I'd smoke a pack in a half a day. And I knew that wasn't doing me any good. change communication behavior
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121_283 I mean the thing is when you're a
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121_285 Well, the two things they balance out, you know and everybody else is sustain communication behavior
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121_287 You know, you pass a cigarette down the backline almost, don't you? You know, just before the game gets— sustain communication behavior
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121_289 Yeah, part of the of the whole thing. And it's changed a bit now, because in my day when we were playing, of course, it was a very much more of a social game, which was spent-spent in the rugby club. neutral communication behavior
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121_291 That's why you played and it was a big buddy-buddy thing. neutral communication behavior
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121_293 That was rugby and cricket was the same really. neutral communication behavior
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121_295 Um, but now— neutral communication behavior
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121_297 "Well I-I, yeah. I was getting a bit sort of-- I was getting a bit, you know, a bit wheezy and I thought, ""I'll cut this out.""" change communication behavior
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121_299 But I enjoy smoking. I really do enjoy it. So I cut it down to I suppose it's about 10 a day now. sustain communication behavior
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121_301 Yeah, yeah. neutral communication behavior
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121_303 Yeah. change communication behavior
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121_305 Yeah, yeah. I sort of— neutral communication behavior
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121_307 "it-it-it's-- you know, she will, ""Why don't you give up? You've gone so far, why don't you just stop?"" But I don't want to." sustain communication behavior
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121_309 It's-it's
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121_311 Well, yeah. I mean, you know, the thing is that you get to, you know, you've got to
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121_313 You know, you have to be quite strong-willed about, I suppose, in a way. neutral communication behavior
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121_315 "So you say, ""Okay, well, you don't have a cigarette unless you have a cup of coffee. [laughs]" change communication behavior
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121_317 Of course, that's a double-edged sword a bit, because then I found I was drinking more coffee, you know. sustain communication behavior
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121_319 Oh, yeah, yeah. I have two sugars. A couple of sugar in coffee. Yeah, yeah. sustain communication behavior
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121_321 So we cut that down as I say. change communication behavior
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121_323 But the problem goes that coffee, we're up to 8 or so, 10 cups of coffee a day now. sustain communication behavior
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121_325 "No, you know, there's a friend of mine, one of the guys down the rugby club, he said- he said, ""I'm going for my annual, you know-" neutral communication behavior
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121_327 -warranty of fitness, sort of thing, you know. And I thought, now that's an idea, not been to one of those. change communication behavior
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121_329 So I'm 55, and you read in the papers, you know, it's that at 55 you will
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121_331 "-and all these sorts of things that you get around this middle-age time. So I thought, ""Well, I'll go and have one."" And frankly, when I went along, I was very confident. I thought, you know, the doctor is going to saying, ""Hmm, I wish I was as healthy as you,"" sort of thing." neutral communication behavior
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121_333 Um, but unfortunately, uh, he-he came up with this. And it's the only thing I think he really came up with. I think- neutral communication behavior
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121_335 My cholesterol is quite good, not too bad. change communication behavior
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121_337 Yeah-yeah. Not too bad. neutral communication behavior
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121_339 Well, yeah, I've cut it down, yeah. I mean, that's been three years, mind. change communication behavior
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121_341 Absolutely. neutral communication behavior
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121_343 And then we come to this- neutral communication behavior
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121_345 -too much sugar in the tank, or something. I don't know. neutral communication behavior
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121_347 So, yeah. neutral communication behavior
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121_349 No. neutral communication behavior
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121_351 I mean, yeah. I mean, you know, the thing is, you see, the thing is, and I mean, and probably you've
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121_353 You shouldn't smoke. neutral communication behavior
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121_355 "And then I think to myself, ""Well, maybe I shouldn't socialize."" And then after that, ""Well, maybe I shouldn't be alive.""" sustain communication behavior
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121_357 You know. I mean, what-what-what's going on here? This is- this is- this is so many people's lives. sustain communication behavior
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121_359 "And um, I suppose, you know, if it came down to it, then, and somebody said, ""Well, you can solve this problem by taking a pill once a day, um, you know, it will keep it down, and there will be no problems,"" Then I-I could go with that. But what I don't want to do, um, the doctor was saying, or insinuating, that I'd have to change my lifestyle." sustain communication behavior
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121_361 Yeah. It was um, and I-I said, well, no. I'm sorry. [coughs] I'm not going to change my lifestyle. I've got to where I am. I'm reasonably happy. Okay, I wish I wasn't separated. Okay, I wish my kids were-were still around, um, you know. One of them is off now in, um, in
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121_363 No, I don't want to, because I don't feel that I need to. sustain communication behavior
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121_365 I mean, it's you know, why? neutral communication behavior
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121_367 Um, I can't argue with a medical professional, Mark, because I know nothing, you know. neutral communication behavior
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121_369 So, I mean, what-what-what-what suggestions would you have? I mean, what-what sort of- change communication behavior
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121_371 Is smoking related to diabetes then? change communication behavior
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121_373 Oh. neutral communication behavior
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121_375 Don't help. change communication behavior
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121_377 Is it okay if you have one without the other? I'm sorry, it's a silly question. [laughs] sustain communication behavior
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121_379 Where would I start? Well, I
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121_381 I think I could- I think I could probably handle that. change communication behavior
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121_383 Something of a rollover effect. change communication behavior
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121_385 Domino effect, yeah. change communication behavior
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121_387 I mean, how much exercise should I do a week? change communication behavior
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121_389 Right. neutral communication behavior
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121_391 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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121_393 Okay, so— neutral communication behavior
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121_395 So, a-are we saying then that-that, really all I need to do, for this moment, is I can forget about everything, but cut out the sugar, uh, in the coffee and the milk
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121_397 Well, I mean that's something that's not difficult to do. change communication behavior
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121_399 You start off at breakfast and get yourself an apple, a bit-a bit of apple and-and so on. Um— change communication behavior
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121_401 Maybe. neutral communication behavior
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121_403 Yeah. change communication behavior
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121_405 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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121_407 Well, you know, and this is difficult because I don't feel unhealthy now. sustain communication behavior
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121_409 So, I suppose it would be fun to
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121_411 I love the social aspect of it, and, um, there's-there's
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121_413 -till
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121_415 So yeah, so to get that balance, and maybe that's what I'm actually missing in life, and maybe this is, um
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121_417 You know? Even after a decent night's sleep, you know? change communication behavior
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121_419 And you need
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121_421 And that gets me going. Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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121_423 Yeah, the sugar gives me the boost, I suppose. I-it's fantastic. sustain communication behavior
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121_425 Hmm. If I give up sugar in my coffee, give up the milk, black coffees, right? neutral communication behavior
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121_427 if I find some social form of exercise, like squash. change communication behavior
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121_429 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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121_431 Yeah, and then— neutral communication behavior
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121_433 "And then, you know, give this, say, six months, I don't know what period it would be, then go back to the GP and say, ""Test me again.""" change communication behavior
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121_435 And so maybe that would, uh— neutral communication behavior
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121_437 Maybe it's an idea. I mean— change communication behavior
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121_439 Yeah, like my wife used to. Yeah. change communication behavior
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121_441 "Well, you see, I mean, I'm thinking, ""Actually it might not be a bad idea this,"" because [chuckles] it would mean I could socialize harder, couldn't I? No, no I'm just joking. Uh, but, um, yeah, I mean, why not? Why not? Why not? It might be fun, it's a new path." change communication behavior
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121_443 Well, it would appear that there is something to gain, and
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121_445 Um, yeah I don't mind. I
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121_447 I'll talk to Billy about, um
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121_449 I'll have a word with him because I'm due down the club tonight. change communication behavior
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121_451 Really. change communication behavior
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121_453 Yeah, I think that you say where-where you're at now, where you're going, where— change communication behavior
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121_455 -and-and-and this is what I've got to do. I think I'm in a rut. I think that's where I've— change communication behavior
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121_457 I'm-I'm just
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121_459 -which he says can be managed, and you seem to be insinuating that it can be managed. change communication behavior
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121_461 Uh, maybe this is a blessing, actually- change communication behavior
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121_463 "-because I think to myself, ""Well, if someday, I am diagnosed with diabetes, I'd just carry on and-""" neutral communication behavior
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121_465 """-sitting in the corner of the bar, and chat, and talk and probably get fat."" I don't know, and make it worse. And, yeah, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe." neutral communication behavior
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121_467 Yeah, that's cool. change communication behavior
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121_469 That's really cool. change communication behavior
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121_471 Mm. neutral communication behavior
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121_473 Yeah, I mean, I think you're quite right. I think you just— change communication behavior
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121_475 I don't know, you become sedentary, don't you? No, it seems that
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121_477 "I think to myself, I think, ""Oh,"" I think go—" change communication behavior
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121_479 Yeah. I mean, this is- this is- this is cool, it's like an old challenge again. change communication behavior
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121_481 This is good. And, um— change communication behavior
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121_483 "I think I am. I mean, I never thought about it, but when I think about it now it's, ""What am I doing here?"" Why am I like this? Why am I just happy contented to drift?" change communication behavior
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121_485 Yeah. change communication behavior
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121_487 Oh, so if I was obs- if I was sort of- neutral communication behavior
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121_489 -observing as it were? neutral communication behavior
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121_491 Watching myself, what would I say? I-I
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121_493 That
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121_495 Yeah. change communication behavior
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121_497 I think you're- I think you're right. I think, um
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121_499 That, okay, do a bit of this and do a bit of that. change communication behavior
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121_501 Yeah, but I don't have to give up anything really, do I? change communication behavior
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121_503 No. change communication behavior
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121_505 No it's not. It's not. change communication behavior
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121_507 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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121_509 True, true. neutral communication behavior
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121_511 Now that I think about it- now that I think about it, maybe. change communication behavior
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121_513 Maybe they were. neutral communication behavior
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121_515 Yeah, you see— neutral communication behavior
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121_517 Mm. When your life comes to a halt- neutral communication behavior
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121_519 -your family splits up, or whatever, and you don't have anymore, I-I think you stop caring really. Uh, y-you know, you stop caring about yourself change communication behavior
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121_521 Because everything is just f- neutral communication behavior
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121_523 Nobody there, [crosstalk] it's true and so,- neutral communication behavior
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121_525 -you know,- neutral communication behavior
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121_527 -you don't care. neutral communication behavior
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121_529 So that's maybe [crosstalk] neutral communication behavior
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121_531 Maybe, a bit selfish but maybe why not? change communication behavior
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121_533 Why not? Yeah, that's a good idea. change communication behavior
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121_535 Oh right, well, wha-what we talked about. Now, you know, uh, okay, uh, coffee. Right? No sugar. change communication behavior
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121_537 I'll start with that. change communication behavior
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121_539 Um, I'm gonna, um, I'll be talking to Bill, uh- change communication behavior
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121_541 -about the gym but- change communication behavior
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121_543 -I like the idea of, actually again doing squash- change communication behavior
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121_545 -or something else- change communication behavior
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121_547 -and I'm gonna go down to the rugby club and I'll- I know that will be accepted. I'll offer my services again because- change communication behavior
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121_549 -it was reasonably successful. change communication behavior
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121_551 And, uh— neutral communication behavior
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121_553 "No, [crosstalk] oh, well, okay, yeah I didn't- yeah, I'll go back and say-- Well, look, I'd-I'd rather not go back to the doctor and say, ""I'm gonna do this, this, this-" sustain communication behavior
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121_555 -this and this. neutral communication behavior
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121_557 This is between you and me. change communication behavior
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121_559 All right? change communication behavior
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121_561 But this is what I'm gonna do. All right? And like I said, I'm gonna make the inquiries, I will start there- change communication behavior
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121_563 -I will give up, uh, I'll give up the V drinks,- change communication behavior
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121_565 -I think, um, look for some better wine. [laughter] Um, and-and I-I'd take an interest really. change communication behavior
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121_567 I'll take an interest really and-and, uh, but it is quite exciting, Mark. change communication behavior
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121_569 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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121_571 Not too much. sustain communication behavior
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121_573 Yeah, yeah. change communication behavior
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121_575 Just give me a bit of background, really. change communication behavior
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121_577 Oh, yeah, and what it is- change communication behavior
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121_579 -because I don't really know. Yeah, yeah. change communication behavior
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121_581 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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121_583 Wha-what are we talking about, sort of few months down the line? change communication behavior
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121_585 What, in about a month's time? neutral communication behavior
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121_587 Yeah, okay, I'm up for that. change communication behavior
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121_589 I'm up for that. Yeah, now-now that's putting me, um, that's very gently putting my head on the block change communication behavior
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121_591 -and I don't mind that because, um, yeah, that's cool. change communication behavior
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121_593 Yeah, yeah. I'll see you in a month. change communication behavior
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121_595 No worries. change communication behavior
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121_597 And I appreciate it. Thank you. change communication behavior
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122_0 Well, I'm here because my mom wants me to be here. sustain communication behavior
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122_2 I don't really wanna be here, but it-it
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122_4 Um, she-she found my stash- neutral communication behavior
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122_6 -and she freaked out, and she's going crazy over it. Um, I don't why she was going through stuff in the first place, but whatever, so, now I'm here. neutral communication behavior
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122_8 Um, I've been hanging out with a new cool crowd of people that I really like. sustain communication behavior
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122_10 Uh, a-and-and that's-that's basically it. neutral communication behavior
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122_12 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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122_14 Yeah, basically. neutral communication behavior
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122_16 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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122_18 I am. neutral communication behavior
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122_20 I mean, it's my stuff, I don't know why she's— sustain communication behavior
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122_22 I-I don't go- I don't go through her s- I don't go through her stuff. I don't go through her purse. I don't— neutral communication behavior
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122_24 Right. neutral communication behavior
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124_1 Well, I think, um, like when I was really active in the past, I enjoy going to the gym and I like that regardless of what's happening with the weather outside, that-that's always an option. Um, so I've kind of already started to look and see, like, how much gym memberships cost in the area. Um, I really like one that's like month to month and doesn't require me to pay out for like a year because, in the summertime, I just don't use that when the weather is nice, I like to be outside. change communication behavior
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124_2 So, um, I do think that that would be an option. Um, I did enjoy doing yoga in the past. I, um, I don't care for swimming, uh, because it requires a lot of extra prep time, and like, I don't- chlorine in my hair just doesn't really go very well usually. Um, but I really like walking, um, weightlifting, running is okay. Um, that was more at my, like, peak activity level, so I don't think I could start out running now, but I'd like to work up to it. change communication behavior
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124_4 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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124_6 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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124_8 "Yeah. So I just- on my phone, if I'm like in the grocery store, I'm kind of just looking through, and on Google, I'll type in like ""Gyms in the area"" and I'll look and see what's there. And, um, I don't ever want to sign up to learn more 'cause I feel like then they just keep emailing you forever. So at this point, I'm just trying to kind of figure out what I can, based on their website as far as cost goes, but that, um, month to month is kind of really important for me. Just like I mentioned, I don't want to be paying for six months or a year out." sustain communication behavior
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124_10 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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124_12 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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124_14 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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124_16 Yeah, I think, um, you know, I've kind of looked around and seen what I- what's available to me. Um, I think the next step would be to maybe go visit one place and just see, like, what equipment they have. Um, I also think too, I'd like to be outside when the weather permits. I like to walk. I just- I don't like rain or snow or cold, like, um, I don't like doing things when I'm just not in a climate that's enjoyable. So if there is, uh, decent weather, I think going outside and, you know, getting some steps in or just walking would be a good first start for me. change communication behavior
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124_18 Right. Yeah. change communication behavior
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124_20 Sure. Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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124_22 I don't know that I've looked closely at that. I don't know much about their pricing or anything like that. neutral communication behavior
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124_24 I agree. neutral communication behavior
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124_26 Yeah, definitely. change communication behavior
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124_28 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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124_30 Yeah, no, yeah. That's a good-good recommendation. I'll definitely check it out. change communication behavior
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124_32 Mm-hmm. change communication behavior
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124_34 Yeah. I think, you know, finding ways to walk more would be good, um, even if that is inside somewhere. Uh, I've done the like trick of parking in the back of the parking lot and walking up to the store. Um, and like I've also been in Target and taken an extra lap, which is kind of dangerous too 'cause you might spend more money. Um, but I- I think if the weather's nice too, I would like to get outside and try to find a place to walk. Um, and two, I really did enjoy yoga, it's- it was good for my, like, flexibility and posture, and so I would be interested in maybe seeing too what classes are available in the area. I haven't looked at that at all. change communication behavior
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124_36 Home workouts have never really worked for me in the past just because there's so many distractions, and I can, like, set the mat out there and everything and get everything ready, like bottled water, everything's good to go. And then it just sits there and I don't actually do it, whereas if I go somewhere else, I'm already there. And so I'm doing it. change communication behavior
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124_38 Mm-hmm. change communication behavior
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124_40 No, that sounds good. I-I definitely think, um, I'll walk probably more than one time in the next couple of weeks, but, um, I also have this app on my phone that tracks my steps, uh, and it was like built into the phone. It's nothing I downloaded or anything. So I can also use that to kind of see if I'm getting more active 'cause right now I think I'm averaging like 2,000 steps a day, so it's like a lot of sitting. change communication behavior
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124_42 Yeah, I think so. change communication behavior
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124_44 I think I'm at a 10. change communication behavior
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124_46 Yeah. I think that, like I said, I think I'll find ways to walk. Um, and I'm at a point now where I've done as much research, I've found out as much information, I think, as I can on the gyms that are local here. Um, but I will check out the- the Y to see if it maybe is a bit cheaper and also a bit more, like, welcoming and doesn't require a- like, a six-month contract or anything like that. So I feel like those would both be good starts. Yeah. change communication behavior
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124_48 Um, well, if I'm trying to walk outside, the weather's always going to be one, but I, again, like I said, if I'm checking, uh, using the app on my phone to see my step count, I can maybe make more of a priority to walk indoors, um, and just find places inside that I could walk, even if it's just around the hallway or whatever that looks like- change communication behavior
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124_50 Yeah, but hopefully there's one. So, yeah. change communication behavior
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124_52 No, I feel really good. I think even coming in, I didn't have a like step-by-step idea of what I wanted to do next, but no, this has been helpful to know what those small steps are, and like you said, hopefully, I do start feeling better. Yeah. change communication behavior
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124_54 Thanks for having me. All right. neutral communication behavior
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125_0 The baby was up all night and I'm exhausted. neutral communication behavior
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125_2 Yes. She was up every three hours to eat, I don't understand it. neutral communication behavior
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125_4 Yes. My mom told me that I started sleeping through the night when I was a month old, Lilly is six weeks. neutral communication behavior
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125_6 Well, what is normal for a baby this age? neutral communication behavior
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127_1 Mm-hmm. Um, yeah, my asthma has just been out of control lately and my doctor says that might be connected to Oscar. neutral communication behavior
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127_3 Um, I've got allergy testing. It's just, uh, the dust makes it bad. I thought the smoking was the main thing- neutral communication behavior
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127_5 -that's cut down. Um, and then they said the drinking might contribute to it, too. So, I got a lot of different things I'm working on. So that's what I know. change communication behavior
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127_7 The drinking, the smoking and the dust that I got, the, um, the scratch test for. neutral communication behavior
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127_9 And-and-and that's what I know, and that I take the medicine for it. neutral communication behavior
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127_11 No, I've had it for-for 12 years and now it's a concern. I don't understand. neutral communication behavior
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127_13 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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127_15 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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127_17 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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127_19 Yes, just that work with the [unintelligible 00:01:24]. neutral communication behavior
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127_21 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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127_23 Mm-hmm. I'm a little I'm a couple of down. I used to drink four at night, now I'm down to three at least. change communication behavior
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127_25 Uh-huh. neutral communication behavior
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127_27 Mm-hmm, what's next, yeah, yeah. neutral communication behavior
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127_29 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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127_31 Well, we keep them clean, like he's cleaned. So, all the dander doesn't really make sense, but I have been noticing that sometimes when he comes on the bed or just beside, I wheeze a little bit, but I think it has to do with, um, the hair, the, in my lungs cleaning itself up from the smoking. sustain communication behavior
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127_33 So, I don't know if it's that-that's where I'm confused. I don't know how this could be happening. neutral communication behavior
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127_35 Mm-hmm, Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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127_37 But-but the wheezing is something that I've definitely noticed a little bit. neutral communication behavior
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127_39 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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127_41 Mm-hmm, Mm-hmm. I just want some medicine and I want to keep Oscar and I wanna feel better about myself because I'm making all these changes in my life and it honestly feels like my-my nose is just above the water. sustain communication behavior
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127_43 Mm-hmm. Yeah, no, that feels good. That I, you know, at least it is my choice. I just feel like just about, I'm not feeling happy about just all these different things that are coming up. Um, and I'm kind of sad about things. neutral communication behavior
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127_45 And I don't know, I don't know what to do. neutral communication behavior
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127_47 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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127_49 Mm-hmm. I want- I want John Carlos to grow up with Oscar. So he has his friend when he's young, too. And, um, I just, it's a lot of stress and a lot of things you-you gotta think about then, um, I'm not feeling good about it. neutral communication behavior
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127_51 Man, uh, how would I know? I don't know. I think if my asthma got really bad and the medicine- she gave me the strongest medicine and it wasn't working. neutral communication behavior
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127_53 That would be the way right now 'cause I can't see, I don't know how I'm going to give this dog up. sustain communication behavior
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127_55 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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127_57 No, no. It's something I got to just sit there and-and kind of, um, put the pros and the cons on the table about, but- neutral communication behavior
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127_59 -something's going on. neutral communication behavior
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128_0 Wow, I can't believe he stopped crying finally and fell asleep. Poor guy. neutral communication behavior
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128_2 No he wasn't. neutral communication behavior
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128_4 Yeah, absolutely. neutral communication behavior
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128_6 Well, you're right actually, I-I did quit smoking but just last week my mom took Jake for the first time. It was a Friday night, so friends were going out to celebrate a birthday. neutral communication behavior
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128_8 Yeah. At one point in the night, though, they all went out to have a cigarette and I joined them. Since then, I've been having a couple of cigarettes at night, but never near Jake and never near his clothes or his toys. I mean, I've heard about second-hand smoking. And I-I don't want to be- expose him to it, so I've been avoiding him when I smoke. neutral communication behavior
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128_10 Yeah, sure. neutral communication behavior
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128_12 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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128_14 Exactly. neutral communication behavior
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128_16 Yeah, well, you know that sounds okay. While he's sick, I might be able to smoke outside in the next couple days or so, but the thing is, usually I'm craving a cigarette the most when I have a glass of wine at the end of the day. I put Jake to bed, I open up a bottle and I pour myself a glass and I'm finally able to unwind, so, I get a craving for a cigarette, so, I'm not sure long-term I'd be able to smoke outside. sustain communication behavior
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128_18 Yeah, exactly and another thing is that sometimes in the morning, after I've had a couple of glasses of wine, I kinda feel tired or groggy or low on energy, so, even that I'm not sure is completely relaxing. Especially if I've had a cigarette the night before, I always feel so bad. neutral communication behavior
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128_20 Exactly. neutral communication behavior
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128_22 Sure. I've never heard of them. neutral communication behavior
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128_24 Well, usually I'm having more than two glasses but if you're saying that's gonna minimize some risk and I guess some of the grogginess I'm feeling the next morning, then maybe I should just try and have one glass of wine in the evenings? neutral communication behavior
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128_26 Yeah, I-I'd absolutely maybe reduce. I'll try my best to reduce, but I'm not sure about the smoking. change communication behavior
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128_28 Yeah. I think that sounds okay. change communication behavior
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128_30 No. I think just talking about it was helpful, you know, and I'm- I'm glad you've given me some information. Maybe just this week I can think about it a little more, you know, I-I feel pretty overwhelmed right now. There's so much to do. My days are pretty full, so, maybe I can just s-sit on it for a week. change communication behavior
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128_32 All right. That sounds good. Thanks, Dr. change communication behavior
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129_0 Dr. Morrow, I'm so relieved I'm not pregnant. neutral communication behavior
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129_2 I really feel like I dodged the bullet. That was- that was probably the scariest like two days of my life. neutral communication behavior
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129_4 Yup. neutral communication behavior
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129_6 Yeah, it went so slow. neutral communication behavior
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129_8 Even just being here today is like minutes ticking by. neutral communication behavior
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129_10 It's really good news. neutral communication behavior
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129_12 I don't even know. I'm-I'm not ready to have a kid. I know that. I know my life is not ready for that step. neutral communication behavior
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129_14 Yeah, no. neutral communication behavior
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129_16 Um, I don't really want to go there. I just
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129_18 No. sustain communication behavior
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129_20 Yeah, I mean I'm-I'm careful. I do what I can, but I don't wanna take anything for that. sustain communication behavior
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129_22 "Yeah. It's-it's scary. I mean, this is the first time I've ever had that sort of feeling of ""What am I gonna do?""" neutral communication behavior
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129_24 And-and that fear was like
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129_26 Yeah. No, it- it's just- it's just weird for me. I don't- I don't like thinking about that stuff, yeah. sustain communication behavior
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129_28 Yeah, maybe another time. Just, I'm not ready for it. sustain communication behavior
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129_30 I'm not ready for that conversation right now. sustain communication behavior
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129_32 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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129_34 Thank you. neutral communication behavior
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132_1 Well, I suppose you're gonna give me a row and tell me it's all self-inflicted and I've got to change my ways and give up the things I enjoy. sustain communication behavior
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132_3 The doc said I've got to take pills for the rest of my life. neutral communication behavior
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132_5 Well, I feel fine, but the-the doc said it could save my life. neutral communication behavior
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132_7 Okay, what should I do first? change communication behavior
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132_9 Where do you think I should start? change communication behavior
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132_11 Yeah, uh, you tell me, stop smoking and lose weight and take more exercise, wouldn’t you? neutral communication behavior
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132_13 Uh, I loved to lose weight but it's so hard giving up the things you enjoy. sustain communication behavior
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132_15 I really should do. Or shouldn't I, neutral communication behavior
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132_17 Well, I'd like to see my children settled and my grandchildren growing up and I should,suppose I should be an example to them. change communication behavior
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132_19 Yes. I want to be there for them, but not a burden to them. change communication behavior
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132_21 Uh, I've been thinking about them a lot lately, and I want to be there for them. So have to do what I need to, to improve my health. change communication behavior
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132_23 You know, to start with, I could cut down on my drinking. Um, that's adding to my weight and to my blood pressure, isn't it? change communication behavior
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132_25 In fact, I think I'll try and cut out the booze altogether. My wife says I drink too much at the weekends. change communication behavior
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132_27 And I suppose I could cut out the crisps and pies at works. change communication behavior
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132_29 I'm gonna start having soup at lunchtime. I suppose a big bowl of soup would be far better than two pies. change communication behavior
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132_31 Well, there's one, one thing uh, I've done already, I've stopped adding salt to my food. The doc said that would help with my blood pressure. change communication behavior
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132_33 Well, I didn't know that. Um, it's good to know. I'll tell my wife, um, she's still very fond of her salt and her mother had osteoporosis. change communication behavior
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132_35 I feel if I go ahead and do as I say with cutting down on the pies, the crisps, um, and cutting out the booze, I feel I'm making a start but let's take it a step at a time and see how it goes. But, uh, the next day when we look at it, the figures might be a lot better. change communication behavior
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132_37 Yes, that’s fine with me. neutral communication behavior
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132_39 Thanks. You too. neutral communication behavior
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133_1 Mm. neutral communication behavior
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133_3 Right. Neat. What, um, what have I changed, what am I— neutral communication behavior
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133_5 I've been thinking about how easy it would be to deal P again. sustain communication behavior
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133_7 I mean, I've been thinking about, um, how I could actually set myself up the right way doing it the wrong way. sustain communication behavior
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133_9 Mm. neutral communication behavior
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133_11 Well, at the end of, you know, that last week inside, I was- I had that kind of, okay, what's next buzz? And, you know, it just doesn't work out here. sustain communication behavior
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133_13 I don't have a, uh, uh, I don't know what that is. sustain communication behavior
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133_15 Yes. sustain communication behavior
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133_17 Yeah, it's worse. sustain communication behavior
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133_19 Yeah. sustain communication behavior
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133_21 I haven't yet, I mean- change communication behavior
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133_23 -the, uh, the offer's there. sustain communication behavior
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133_25 Um, I don't know why I haven't said that I will yet but I mean- change communication behavior
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133_27 -it's there. sustain communication behavior
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133_29 Yeah. sustain communication behavior
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133_31 No. sustain communication behavior
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133_33 How long have I been out? neutral communication behavior
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133_35 Three weeks, one day. change communication behavior
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133_37 Three weeks, one day. change communication behavior
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133_39 I don't know. neutral communication behavior
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133_41 Um, I'd- I- you know, I kind of told myself not to, you know, just before I left. And then I'm just kind of with it and I don't quite know why. [clears throat] I dunno, if, uh, there's no real reason why I haven't yet. It's just that I don't- I just don't think it'll work the way I always dream it will you know, I see myself up like, whatever, if I do that again, the next leg is a long one. A real long one. change communication behavior
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133_43 And I-I can't go back there. There's no way I'm going back there. change communication behavior
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133_45 No, never lasts. change communication behavior
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133_47 Yep. I've been in crossroads for 12 years. neutral communication behavior
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133_49 Yeah. And- [crosstalk] change communication behavior
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133_51 -sort of opposite, yeah. neutral communication behavior
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133_53 You know, we're in the middle, you know, and it's actually at the moment, I guess. neutral communication behavior
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133_55 But I don't know. You know, that's quite clear that no fucking idea. neutral communication behavior
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133_57 Do you have an idea? neutral communication behavior
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133_59 Mm. neutral communication behavior
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133_61 Fiona? change communication behavior
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133_63 Yeah. change communication behavior
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133_65 She's told me that it's over if I do it. You know, I mean, she
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133_67 -something. change communication behavior
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133_69 12 years. neutral communication behavior
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133_71 Yeah. She's actually got the black and white line down now. change communication behavior
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133_73 It's pretty she- you know, she could be pretty full-on. change communication behavior
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133_75 Yeah, so it's hard to ignore that line. change communication behavior
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133_77 I mean. And it comes with a whole lot of different rules, and you know, she's never been quite like she is now. change communication behavior
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133_79 Yeah. I think she has. I don't think I have. neutral communication behavior
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133_81 She just wants me. I mean, she just wants someone to be there. Me. She-she remembers me and she wants- she wants him. change communication behavior
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133_83 The one that, you know— change communication behavior
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133_85 Yeah, that's the one. change communication behavior
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133_87 No, no. No one would want him. I don't want him. He's a fuckwit, right? She wants the one that she fell in love with. change communication behavior
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133_89 Yeah. change communication behavior
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133_91 If I had the answer to that, I wouldn't need to be sitting here. neutral communication behavior
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133_93 And I mean, I honest- I don't know, man. I don't know. I-I wish I knew somewhere I could start that, you know, could give it to her, but I-I can't. I-I don't know. neutral communication behavior
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133_95 "I was pretty romantic. I mean, I was pretty quite smooth, and, um, you know, I was on top of my game, like, she- and she loved it. And we used to laugh in the [unintelligible 00:06:45], you know? And just- it was always really sweet, and people used to say, ""Oh, man, you two. You two have just got it,"" you know? And we lost it, so whatever that was, that's what she wants. We were young. How do you become young? Uh, you know, I'm old, and we'll keep growing old, but you know?" change communication behavior
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133_97 Like if I'm not careful, I will be. neutral communication behavior
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133_99 Yeah, certainly. neutral communication behavior
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133_101 Yeah. change communication behavior
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133_103 Yeah. change communication behavior
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133_105 Yeah, yep. change communication behavior
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133_107 You know what? She hasn't even talked about the dealing, like, she won't even broach that subject. That's how black and white she is. She's- she'll be- she offers suggestions, you know? What I could do, and- or I kind of go with that, but none of them are
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133_109 A little bit that. Yeah, little-little bit tense. Yeah, that's fair. neutral communication behavior
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133_111 No, they are. neutral communication behavior
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133_113 I mean, not like they have been because we've only just started on the new road, but I mean, yeah, tense is the right word. neutral communication behavior
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133_115 Well, I don't know. I haven't got little, um, nuggets of where I could go. I've just got like this feeling that I should go somewhere. change communication behavior
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133_117 Yeah. change communication behavior
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133_119 Yeah. No idea. neutral communication behavior
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133_121 [nods]. neutral communication behavior
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133_123 Yeah. Well, um— change communication behavior
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133_125 Not many. neutral communication behavior
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133_127 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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133_129 Um, oh, I've got. Yeah, one. [chuckles] neutral communication behavior
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133_131 One. neutral communication behavior
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133_133 Mm, yeah. neutral communication behavior
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133_135 Okay, so, um— neutral communication behavior
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133_137 Well, he-he was- he was inside with me the first time I was ever inside, and now he's a drug counselor. change communication behavior
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133_139 So, he's the- he did it. change communication behavior
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133_141 I don't know how the fuck he did that, but, 'cause because he wasn't even a real addict, he was just
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133_143 Really good at talking, and, uh, but anyway, I don't know how he did it. neutral communication behavior
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133_145 Yeah, but I can't ever be a drug counselor. neutral communication behavior
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133_147 Yeah. change communication behavior
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133_149 Yeah. I think he would have found some higher power. They find
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133_151 Yeah. sustain communication behavior
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133_153 I don't know. That's why I'm here. neutral communication behavior
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133_155 I don't know what that is. neutral communication behavior
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133_157 Okay. change communication behavior
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133_159 Good luck. sustain communication behavior
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133_161 Yeah, I don't mean to be rude- neutral communication behavior
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133_163 -but I do mean it's a big ask. sustain communication behavior
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133_165 Fucking guts. change communication behavior
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133_167 Is it a quality? neutral communication behavior
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133_169 Yeah, I'd need some of them. change communication behavior
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133_171 Am I? neutral communication behavior
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133_173 No, not yet. sustain communication behavior
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133_175 Well, no I'm not. sustain communication behavior
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133_177 No, I don't have that-that-that much courage.\ sustain communication behavior
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133_179 Oh, I have to. neutral communication behavior
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133_181 Yeah. change communication behavior
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133_183 Oh, okay. neutral communication behavior
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133_185 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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133_187 All right. change communication behavior
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133_189 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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133_191 It's a bit awkward. neutral communication behavior
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133_193 Ah, yeah. I could've done that neutral communication behavior
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133_195 I'm older, you know? It's not as much fun. change communication behavior
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133_197 I used to take the piss outta you guys- neutral communication behavior
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133_199 -all day long. We all do, but- neutral communication behavior
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133_201 -it's not funny. I mean, and you're-you're a good guy, I imagine. I mean, in fact, you don't deserve my shit. I just
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133_203 Oh, sadness. You know, I don't wanna wallow, you know? You know, you've gotta take, you know
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133_205 I just never did. sustain communication behavior
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133_207 Do they? change communication behavior
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133_209 All right. Not to me. sustain communication behavior
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133_211 Oh, yeah. Oh, heaps of those opportunities. sustain communication behavior
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133_213 Yeah, well, the different world isn't offering me opportunities. The different world is offering me a night shift, and minimum wage, and, you know, nothing. So it's like, set-set yourself up, set your goal up, or, um, don't, and that's your-your pro-social living, and that's your, you know, old behaviors. sustain communication behavior
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133_215 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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133_217 The system? neutral communication behavior
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133_219 Man, I've been fighting that system- change communication behavior
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133_221 -and all it takes me back is to the-the inside- sustain communication behavior
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133_223 -I mean— neutral communication behavior
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133_225 Well, I can't see it. sustain communication behavior
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133_227 You know what, if I knew what they'd look like- change communication behavior
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133_229 -I-I might, you know, buy that. change communication behavior
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133_231 Did I? neutral communication behavior
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133_233 Oh yeah. sustain communication behavior
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133_235 Yeah, that's not much fun. That doesn't look very good. sustain communication behavior
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133_237 Yeah, that looks really hard. sustain communication behavior
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133_239 I know that's the right thing, uh, don't get me wrong. change communication behavior
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133_241 That is gut right there, going to a job you hate, going home, cooking yet missus a dinner, looking after your kids. I mean, that is
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133_243 I
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133_245 No. You know, convince me because, you know, I kind of want to be. change communication behavior
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133_247 Right. neutral communication behavior
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133_249 Mm. neutral communication behavior
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133_251 It is the little things, yeah, like waking up, and having a cup of tea and sitting on the porch is kind of cool. change communication behavior
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133_253 Yeah. change communication behavior
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133_255 No, you don't get to sit outside- neutral communication behavior
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133_257 -on the porch. neutral communication behavior
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133_259 No one. It's morning, it's just me. change communication behavior
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133_261 Birds, trees, yada yada. change communication behavior
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133_263 Mm, you know, maybe. change communication behavior
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133_265 I don't
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133_267 -you know, pay your-your wages, I mean your-your mortgage and-and- neutral communication behavior
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133_269 -it's just massive. neutral communication behavior
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133_271 It is. neutral communication behavior
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133_273 You know, people like me are unaccepted into that world though. You know? I've got
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133_275 No, I'm definitely not convinced. sustain communication behavior
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133_277 No. sustain communication behavior
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133_279 Yeah, I know. sustain communication behavior
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133_281 Yeah. I mean, yeah, it is obviously, it is first steps, but I mean, what's that? What's the first step into the pro-social life? neutral communication behavior
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133_283 I just know if I get a job that I hate, I just won't do it. sustain communication behavior
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133_285 You know, I can make in an hour what I can make in a night or a week of nights. It's pretty
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133_287 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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133_289 "I just told myself I wouldn't this time and then Fiona said, ""You will not"" this time." change communication behavior
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133_291 Yeah, even if it's the wrong one, yes. neutral communication behavior
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133_293 Yeah, but I'm that kinda guy. neutral communication behavior
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133_295 "Oh no there wasn't a decision to made, I just said, ""I won't yet""." change communication behavior
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133_297 Yeah, I said yet. neutral communication behavior
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133_299 Yeah. sustain communication behavior
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133_301 I hate that. neutral communication behavior
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133_303 Mm. neutral communication behavior
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133_305 Mm, yeah. change communication behavior
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133_307 And we're still no closer. neutral communication behavior
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133_309 But I mean yeah it's there. change communication behavior
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133_311 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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133_313 Oh, fuck. neutral communication behavior
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133_315 With anyone other than Fiona? No time at all, I'd say for about 10 hours with you. neutral communication behavior
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133_317 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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133_319 Mm. neutral communication behavior
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133_321 Yeah, 12, nearly 13. neutral communication behavior
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133_323 Mm. neutral communication behavior
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133_325 Uh, that it-it does kinda seem exciting. change communication behavior
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133_327 It does, because it's so different. change communication behavior
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133_329 And I'm kinda over that one. change communication behavior
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133_331 Yeah. change communication behavior
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133_333 Okay, I. change communication behavior
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133_335 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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133_337 Yeah-yeah, it does work for him. neutral communication behavior
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133_339 Uh, ringing him. change communication behavior
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133_341 Mm, yeah. change communication behavior
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133_343 You-you know, it was a long time ago that we were inside. I just know that's what he's doing. It would be pretty odd calling but the- he'd probably be okay with it. change communication behavior
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133_345 Possibility to call yeah. change communication behavior
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133_347 Yeah. change communication behavior
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133_349 Mm. neutral communication behavior
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133_351 Mm. change communication behavior
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133_353 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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133_355 Well, I just have to do what I'm told. I don't know. change communication behavior
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133_357 Oh, yeah, I was being, um, chipping, I mean, yeah she has more hopes than me, you know. change communication behavior
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133_359 Um, like I do- I do but what it would take, you know, I mean, that's pretty freaking scary shit. neutral communication behavior
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133_361 Yeah. And I would never admit to that. neutral communication behavior
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133_363 Yeah. change communication behavior
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133_365 Yeah, but my-when I made my decision to not do that yet like I was very clear I understood I know that picture. If I'm gonna make a decision to do this, I kinda need to really-really know what that is. You know, not only to talk I mean- neutral communication behavior
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133_367 -what is the whole plan to-to call-call up you know and say, hey bro, hey bro, uh, how did you do that? I mean, really? Is it— change communication behavior
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133_369 Yeah, like, I guess I could be wondering that too. change communication behavior
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133_371 Hmm. change communication behavior
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133_373 There's Fiona. change communication behavior
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133_375 [unintelligible 00:26:37] getting out so what-what he did. Um, dad's only as mean. There's Fiona. change communication behavior
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133_377 Yeah, okay, uh, all right, yeah. All right. change communication behavior
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133_379 Yeah. change communication behavior
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9_3 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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9_5 Not really, I haven't been stressed. Uh, I've been working steady, you know, these days, I'm glad to have a job, I really am happy that I'm working, so. neutral communication behavior
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9_7 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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9_9 I don't smoke. I smoked, you know, as a young adult, quit 20 years ago. I went cold turkey. I was proud of that, haven't even thought about smoking. neutral communication behavior
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9_11 Uh, I do drink beer, I drink, you know, two to three pints on weekdays, sometimes on weekends, maybe four or five. neutral communication behavior
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9_13 Well, I
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9_15 Maybe a little bit. change communication behavior
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9_17 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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9_19 I don't use heroin or cocaine. I've never even thought about using the hard drugs. Back in school, 20 years or so ago, I smoked reefer, you know. Once I got out of school, I haven't used that at all. neutral communication behavior
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9_21 No, I don't- I don't, uh, really like the idea of taking pills. Uh, as a matter of fact, a couple of years ago, I had this jaw surgery. They gave me a prescription for Percocet. I took one, maybe feel weird. I think they're still sitting in the medicine cabinet. neutral communication behavior
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9_23 Well, I guess I'll try. change communication behavior
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9_25 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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10_1 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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10_3 Well, I'm supposed to come to learn about my
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10_5 Yeah, that's what doctor said. She-she really laid into me about that. Said it was
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10_7 That's, uh, that's a huge amount of stuff to do and, I'm not- I'm not certain I can do all that, and on top of it, it's-it's
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10_9 [sighs] neutral communication behavior
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10_11 Well, I-I [unintelligible 00:01:35] neutral communication behavior
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15_1 Uh, yeah. I just got off work, and apparently, they're going smoke-free, so I'm
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15_3 Maybe like da
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15_5 Well, I don't really wanna quit. I mean, I like smoking. I like go
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15_7 Yeah, yeah. Okay. neutral communication behavior
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15_9 Okay. Well, what are my options? You know, assuming that I'm right, what are my options? neutral communication behavior
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15_11 Well, I mean, I s
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15_13 Sounds good to me. The more nicotine, the better. Is it like gum or something? Could I chew it like while I'm in the office? That sounds pretty great. I mean, do you have— sustain communication behavior
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15_15 Oh. Okay. Well, where is that? neutral communication behavior
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15_17 Well, I
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15_19 Oh, well. Okay. Well, thanks. I mean, I guess that helps a little bit. I'll
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17_1 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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17_3 No, I would bum cigarettes in college, but I was never a smoker. neutral communication behavior
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17_5 No, not really anything. neutral communication behavior
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17_7 Um, a few times a week. Uh, Wednesdays, I'll go to happy hour and have about two or three. And then, um, Thursdays, seven, um, seven or eight. Fridays, probably just a couple of glasses of wine with dinner. Um, but Saturdays are bigger night. And I would probably have a few drinks before I went to the bar. And then have four or five at when-when I was out. So— neutral communication behavior
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17_9 I guess, it sounds like a lot when you say [chuckles] like that. But yeah. neutral communication behavior
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17_11 No. I-I smoked weed in college, but just a little bit. I wasn't a regular smoker. sustain communication behavior
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17_13 No. neutral communication behavior
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17_15 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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17_17 That's a lot to change. I don't know. sustain communication behavior
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17_19 I mean, the stairs were really steep. So— sustain communication behavior
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17_21 Where are these limits from? Um, old- an older population? Because, uh, I drink just as much as my friends do. I mean, everybody drinks like I drink. I'm not even the biggest drinker in my group. So I'm pretty middle of the road. sustain communication behavior
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17_23 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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17_25 I don't know. It's what we do. It's
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17_27 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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17_29 Thanks. neutral communication behavior
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27_1 Mm-hmm. Yeah, I de-I definitely don't wanna come back here. But, uh, the doc said Oscar, my dog, is connected to my asthma symptoms. But the- neutral communication behavior
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27_3 -ridiculous part is I've had him for 12 years before, and now it's a problem. neutral communication behavior
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27_5 Yeah, but I
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27_7 -I have even read them. All I've been doing is taking the medicine. So, I don't know that much about this. neutral communication behavior
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27_9 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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27_11 John Carlo, yeah. neutral communication behavior
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27_13 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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27_15 Uh, this is a little too much for me now. First of all, John Carlo is taken care of. That's fine. He doesn't have- no asthma from the dog. It's just me. I don't ha— sustain communication behavior
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27_17 "So, Oscar is gonna make me die? He hasn't made me die in 12 years, and the doctor is saying, ""Oh, I don't know if it's the stress, the finances, the drinking."" So, what are we doing saying Oscar could make me die? I've had him for 12 years." sustain communication behavior
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27_19 Well, they can keep giving me more medicine and give me the strongest one, and I'll keep Oscar. sustain communication behavior
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27_21 I understand, but I don't think you get my situation. I've had this dog for 12 years. So, I'm not just gonna up and get him out of my house when I don't even know if that's the main thing. sustain communication behavior
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32_1 I-I guess, uh, I don't really remember much. I like it was a week ago, so I was kind of drunk too. neutral communication behavior
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32_3 Hmm. I mean, not really. I'm gonna be 21 in a couple of months. Um, once I turn 21, the cops can't give me a minor and I mean, I'm not a heavy drinker, like-like my friends or anything. I don't get wasted at all. And, uh, I just need to be careful. I just won't get caught. I'm just trying to find, like, a normal college student. sustain communication behavior
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32_5 Whatever, I-I didn't though. I called my roommates for a ride. He was sleepy. So I had to get home somehow. And this isn't even my fault. I give him rides all the time, but I didn't do anything. sustain communication behavior
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32_7 No-no. Like I said, this isn't even my fault. Like, are we done here? I have class in 15 minutes. sustain communication behavior
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32_9 Look, I really like going on the [unintelligible 00:02:29] and I get what you're saying. You, you're making some really good points and I'll think about them. Okay? change communication behavior
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32_11 $150, are you serious? I can't pay that. All right, I'm done with this. I'm over it. neutral communication behavior
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44_1 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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44_3 Uh, well, my name is Andrea, as you know, I'm, uh, in the marching band. I play the tenor sax. neutral communication behavior
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44_5 Yeah. I'm involved in music. So I'm also in the jazz band, the wind ensemble, and um, yeah, that's about— neutral communication behavior
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44_7 I'm an IB student. neutral communication behavior
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44_9 Well, saxophone. I started about four years ago, but I've been involved in music for about 10 years now, so. neutral communication behavior
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44_11 I started off on the violin first. neutral communication behavior
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44_13 So I played that for like six years, once a clarinet, dabbled here and there with different things. And then I found the one- the one for me. neutral communication behavior
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44_15 Yeah, the tenor sax. neutral communication behavior
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44_17 Marching band since freshman year. So like three years. neutral communication behavior
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44_19 It's fun. It's a- it's a lot of work, long summers taught, but it's fun. neutral communication behavior
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44_21 Oh, I really like the-the group setting. neutral communication behavior
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44_23 You know, getting to work with my other classmates and things like that. And putting on this entire show- neutral communication behavior
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44_25 -it's very exciting, very exhilarating once you're in competition. neutral communication behavior
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44_27 It's very cool. neutral communication behavior
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44_29 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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44_31 I have, um, you know, I have two-two separate groups. I have my friends from class and then my friends from bra
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44_33 So. neutral communication behavior
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44_35 Oh, well I have one brother he's older than me, about nine years older than me. neutral communication behavior
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44_37 And, uh, my parents and my dog. [laughs] neutral communication behavior
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44_39 He's a golden retriever. neutral communication behavior
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44_41 Charlie. neutral communication behavior
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44_43 He's a big boy. Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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44_45 Yeah. He's about eight years old now. neutral communication behavior
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44_47 Uh, well, I'm planning on going to school. I'd like to become a doctor one day, so. neutral communication behavior
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44_49 I'm interested in psychology, psychiatry, something like that, so. neutral communication behavior
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44_51 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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44_53 Yeah, psychology, I haven't really thought too about which school, I mean, I- neutral communication behavior
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44_55 Everyone wants to shoot for the Ivy leagues, so [chuckles] neutral communication behavior
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44_57 Uh, they're pretty good, you know, high three-point somethings. neutral communication behavior
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44_59 Uh, I usually go out with my friends. Uh, we'll go to the movies or we'll most likely we'll just meet up at someone's house- neutral communication behavior
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44_61 -and just hang out and things. neutral communication behavior
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44_63 Sometimes, [chuckles] I'm gonna be honest sometimes. neutral communication behavior
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44_65 Um, depending on how much schoolwork there is When there's not, it might be like every other weekend or like three weekends out of the month or something like that. neutral communication behavior
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44_67 A little, yeah. neutral communication behavior
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44_69 Um, I don't, we don't get blackout drunk or anything. It's more of like a little tipsy kind of thing. neutral communication behavior
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44_71 I have gotten blackout drunk before- neutral communication behavior
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44_73 -but I kind of did that, learned my lesson, didn't like it. neutral communication behavior
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44_75 Like how many drinks? neutral communication behavior
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44_77 Um, it was a good amount. It was the first time I ever drank and it was like three or four cups, but it was mixing different things. neutral communication behavior
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44_79 So, I'm not
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44_81 Yeah. Yes. Not all of them, but some of them do. neutral communication behavior
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44_83 More or less the same amount. So right now the most we'll have is maybe like one cup after that one time, but sometimes one or two, but they can be kind of heavy. neutral communication behavior
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44_85 Oh, it's a red, you know, typical. Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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44_87 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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44_89 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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44_91 A little bit. neutral communication behavior
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44_93 Not too much, to be honest. I-I've always thought since it's, you know, within my small group of friends- neutral communication behavior
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44_95 -and we usually sleep over each other's house, we don't get into the problems of drinking and driving, and possibly sexual assaults and things like that. neutral communication behavior
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44_97 But I haven't really thought about possible alcoholism or anything. neutral communication behavior
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44_99 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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44_101 Yeah, I think I could. I don't need it. For instance, it-it is
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44_103 But we haven't always had it- neutral communication behavior
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44_105 -obviously. So, I think it would be possible to stop drinking. change communication behavior
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44_107 "Um, I would probably start off by like, because my friends are also involved, so I'd be like, ""Hey, guys, I don't think I'm gonna drink today.""" change communication behavior
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44_109 And kind of see how that goes. Because— change communication behavior
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44_111 Yeah. It's, you know, it's one thing to control my own drinking, and it's another thing when everyone else around me is drinking and then there's like that pressure- neutral communication behavior
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44_113 "-of, ""Oh, they're gonna think I look stupid.""" sustain communication behavior
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44_115 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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44_117 My close ones, I know they wouldn't be, you know, have a problem with that. But the ones that I'm not that close with, but I'll still like hang out with- neutral communication behavior
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44_119 -those are probably the ones that like might ostracize me for something or. neutral communication behavior
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44_121 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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44_123 Probably, might be too judgmental. neutral communication behavior
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44_125 Okay. change communication behavior
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44_127 Okay. change communication behavior
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44_129 Um, I think
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44_131 I think if you make a good plan, like I think I'd be able to follow through with it. change communication behavior
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44_133 Yeah. I think I can do that. change communication behavior
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44_135 Um, not-not really. The ones that drink more are the ones like my class friends. My band friends, we’re focused on band- neutral communication behavior
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44_137 -so I can't really— neutral communication behavior
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44_139 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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44_141 Not too much, to be honest. neutral communication behavior
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44_143 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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44_145 "Um, what should I-- uh, yeah, I do. So what should I say like once, let's say, I hang out with my friends and they're like, ""Hey, why aren't you- why aren't you drinking?""" change communication behavior
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44_147 Like how should I go about that situation? change communication behavior
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44_149 Mm-hmm. change communication behavior
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44_151 Mm. change communication behavior
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44_153 Yeah. change communication behavior
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44_155 And-and you know, like professional life as well. change communication behavior
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44_157 I don't want that biting me in the butt, [chuckles] in the back. neutral communication behavior
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44_159 Okay. change communication behavior
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44_161 I think I can do that. change communication behavior
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44_163 It'd be easier as
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44_165 No. I think- I think I'm good. neutral communication behavior
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44_167 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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44_169 Okay. change communication behavior
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44_171 Sound good. change communication behavior
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53_1 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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53_3 Okay. Um, my name is Laura and I'm 17 and I'm a senior in high school. neutral communication behavior
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53_5 Um, mostly just hang out with my friends and stuff on the weekends, things like that. neutral communication behavior
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53_7 Uh, yeah, if it's school-related, maybe like a game or two, or go to the mall, like, to shop or go to the movies or something, and at night, maybe like a party or something if someone's throwing. neutral communication behavior
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53_9 Um, I like to read and I like to go outside and, like, take walks and, like, hike and stuff. I'm very outdoorsy, so- neutral communication behavior
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53_11 Well, I plan to apply to college and maybe, you know, have a good career and something like that, hopefully. neutral communication behavior
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53_13 Well, I'm-I'm looking at the journalism, maybe pre-law. neutral communication behavior
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53_15 -which is a little different, but- neutral communication behavior
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53_17 Yeah. Thanks. neutral communication behavior
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53_19 Yeah, I'm doing okay. I'm getting mostly A's and B's, so I'm pretty good, I'm okay. neutral communication behavior
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53_21 Um, I think all my grades are A's and B's, so, yeah. neutral communication behavior
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53_23 Um, I'm not sure yet, but I'm looking into schools like in the area, so maybe, I don't know, maybe I'll leave home or something. neutral communication behavior
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53_25 Um, well, I'm definitely not a math or science person, so I started off by there that I started looking at careers that maybe I would like. So- neutral communication behavior
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53_27 Um, not really. Maybe one or two drinks at a party at the most. neutral communication behavior
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53_29 Um, maybe like once or twice a month at the most. neutral communication behavior
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53_31 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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53_33 Possibly, yeah. neutral communication behavior
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53_35 Yeah, I guess you can say that. neutral communication behavior
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53_37 Um, just two drinks at a party at the most. I don't
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53_39 Um, no, not really, maybe tipsy, but not like drunk. neutral communication behavior
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53_41 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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53_43 Um, yeah, yeah. neutral communication behavior
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53_45 No, I have drunk-driven and never got in a car with a drunk driver. neutral communication behavior
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53_47 Um, I mean, I have some friends that drink some more than others, like, my close group of friends don't really drink as much because I'm not really interested in that, but I know that there are people that drink a lot more. neutral communication behavior
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53_49 Yeah. There are kids that drink a lot more than I do. Definitely, yeah. neutral communication behavior
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53_51 Not really closely, like, I know who they are and I'll say hi, but not
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53_53 Um, yeah. That makes sense. neutral communication behavior
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53_55 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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53_57 Yeah, yeah, I have. That's, uh, one of the main reasons that I don't like to drink that much. neutral communication behavior
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53_59 So- neutral communication behavior
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53_61 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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53_63 Yeah. Definitely, yeah. neutral communication behavior
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53_65 Um, yeah, I mean, I guess it's the thing to do at a party, so- neutral communication behavior
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53_67 Um, definitely not. That's why I don't try to drink that much. Just- neutral communication behavior
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53_69 -make it look like I am, kind of. neutral communication behavior
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53_71 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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53_73 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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53_75 I definitely agree. I know that there are some other risks involved in alcohol, they are the ones you mentioned, like, health-wise and things like that, so, I agree that alcohol may not be the best thing. change communication behavior
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53_77 Um, yeah, I mean, it's not, like, a really big part of my life, so. change communication behavior
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53_79 Okay. change communication behavior
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53_81 Yeah, yeah, definitely. I'll just not have a drink. change communication behavior
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53_83 Um, I really can't control what they do, but I'll definitely try to get my closest friends to maybe stop like I will. change communication behavior
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53_85 Well, then, I guess, I'll just try to hang around them less or something. I'll try to find things for us to do that don't involve alcohol like a party or anything. change communication behavior
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53_87 Okay. change communication behavior
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53_89 Yeah. change communication behavior
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53_91 Okay, yeah. change communication behavior
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53_93 Okay, yeah, definitely. change communication behavior
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53_95 They would be pretty upset. Yeah. They don't really condone alcohol use. change communication behavior
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53_97 So- neutral communication behavior
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53_99 Okay. change communication behavior
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53_101 Um, no, no. I think I'm good. change communication behavior
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53_103 Uh, no. neutral communication behavior
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53_105 I have no questions. neutral communication behavior
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53_107 Okay, thanks. neutral communication behavior
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57_1 Yeah? neutral communication behavior
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57_3 Uh, I talked with my doctor about my medicine. That's his job. sustain communication behavior
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57_5 Well, to be honest with you, I'm not even certain I'm going to take the medicine. Now, I know I got high cholesterol, I've got to get that down, but on the other hand, this medicine can cause some severe muscle weakness and I just can't afford that. I'm a truck driver and I haul those heavy boxes in on the dollies and I just can't afford that, so you know. sustain communication behavior
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57_7 Yeah, down the line, but- sustain communication behavior
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57_9 Well, right now it's the muscle weakness that-that I'm concerned about, and that's, uh, you know, that's the present, uh, I've got to do my job. sustain communication behavior
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57_11 Well, you know- why don't you just give me the medicine, I'll take it home and I'll think about it? But you know, I'm worried about my job. sustain communication behavior
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57_13 Sure. Fine. Just— change communication behavior
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57_15 Whatever. neutral communication behavior
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57_17 Okay, sure. Fine. change communication behavior
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59_1 Well, it was raining. I didn't want my science fair project to get wet. I knew my parents were— neutral communication behavior
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59_3 It really wasn't that big of a deal. neutral communication behavior
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59_5 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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69_1 I'm sorry, but are you the pharmacist? I just had a question about citalopram. neutral communication behavior
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69_3 Okay, but I just wanted to know if it interacts with phenelzine? neutral communication behavior
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69_5 Okay, thanks for that. I have an appointment to run to. neutral communication behavior
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72_1 Right. Actually, I do want to speak to you about something that happened during this past weekend. Usually, as, you know, I'm, um, I'm an honor student. I-I usually I'm studying over the weekend and my parents don't let me go out to parties, but I kind of use that to my advantage, to convince my parents to go to this party that my friends were pressuring me to go to. And when I- when I got there, like I'm not used to this like party environment where everything you see in the movies is kind of what happens, where you have people just drinking out of the bottle- neutral communication behavior
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72_3 -or playing random games with alcohol, just to get drunk for no reason. And because I was there in the moment, I felt pressured to do and like conform to what everyone else was doing. So I wouldn't be- I wouldn't be ostracized. sustain communication behavior
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72_5 I understand. neutral communication behavior
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72_7 Okay. Um, I know that it's bad for me. It's-it's bad for my body. It's bad for-for-for-for being on the team, for being an athlete. It hinders my performance. Just, I don't know. I-I feel that my-my friends pressure me. I don't know. I feel I should like go with different friend groups. Maybe. I don't know. change communication behavior
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72_9 I don't know, like being in a sports team, y-you feel very, you have to like be unified with the group. neutral communication behavior
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72_11 Right. And as being one of the leaders, my fellow teammates expect me to be
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72_13 I could, but that could also backfire on me. I feel that I could be ridiculed for being, having a stick up my butt, you know. sustain communication behavior
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72_15 I mean, it's just one
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72_17 I understand. neutral communication behavior
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72_19 Well, I'll dedicate the time, not to party and night. Well, not-not-not party, but, you know, get involved with alcohol to that extent. And like, have it publicized on the internet. change communication behavior
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72_21 Like on Facebook, all the pictures that you saw on the internet. Like I w- I will avoid those situations where I have to go to a party where I feel pressured to actually drink alcohol and allow what I do in my own private time to put on the internet so others can see, even though. change communication behavior
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72_23 Right. I'll stop. change communication behavior
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72_25 I promise. change communication behavior
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72_27 Shake. change communication behavior
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72_29 See you later. neutral communication behavior
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74_1 I'm doing all right. How are you? neutral communication behavior
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74_3 Oh, I got my lip pierced. neutral communication behavior
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74_5 Why? I don't know. I wanted a change and- neutral communication behavior
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74_7 -it seems kind of cool neutral communication behavior
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74_9 Well, I mean, nobody needs a piercing, I wanted one. It was a- neutral communication behavior
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74_11 -nice change. neutral communication behavior
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74_13 Oh, I mean, it's my lip that's pierced, not my teeth. neutral communication behavior
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74_15 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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90_1 Um, I mean, it was just the, like a social gathering. It wasn't like I was looking for it, uh, the drinks were there and I
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90_3 I-I get what you're coming from, but I-I-I really did. I-I thought that I had it under control and I didn't let myself get too far gone. I-I didn't want to be, um, how do I put this? Like, I want it to be in control and I wanted to make sure that all my friends were okay, so I didn't let myself drink too much. neutral communication behavior
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90_5 Yeah. I-I understand exactly what you're saying. And— neutral communication behavior
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90_7 I-I don't think I'm drinking that much. I mean, it's-it's mainly for social gatherings. Like it's nothing that I do, like by myself or whatever. It's just the— sustain communication behavior
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90_9 Every other weekends, I would say. neutral communication behavior
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90_11 Um, I-I guess I can. I-I can probably be more productive in my schoolwork and rather than going out to parties as much and I-I do get you're coming from and— change communication behavior
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90_13 Yeah, I guess I haven't really put it on myself. I guess it's really been forced on their account. And I've just been following in their footsteps just to
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90_15 Mm. Yeah. I-I-I do see that maybe me drinking not as much would possibly better my life to-to a certain degree. And I
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90_17 Yeah. I mean, alcohol is just so prevalent in our society and it's just around me, wherever I go and parties and stuff that. I-I kind of feel like I should just, uh, get used to it or at least understand its, uh, its effects before I should let it get out of my life entirely. I don't- I don't really see it as something that will completely destroy my life. neutral communication behavior
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90_19 Yeah. I-I-I just
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90_21 You're-you're right. I-I don't want- I don't wanna be too far gone before it's too late. Like I-I can imagine something possibly happening where it's to a degree where I can't escape. And I-I guess I've never really had any-any real experience where the alcohol has really affected me that much or affected anybody close to me that much. So I guess it's something that I feel like I'm control of, but in reality, I might not have as much control as I think. change communication behavior
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92_1 Mm-hmm. Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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92_3 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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92_5 Well, I did a research on the chronic inhaler, and I saw that there were steroids in it, and I do not want my daughter taking steroids. I read about all the side effects of steroids and all the potential health problems. I don't want her taking them, and I just want to tell you right up front, I do not want to hear anything about the fact that I do smoke. Um, I smoke outside, I smoke away from her. I do not ever do it around her. So I do not want to hear about that. sustain communication behavior
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92_7 Okay, I-I am not going to allow her to take any kind of steroid. I am not going to allow that to happen. She's my daughter. She's my responsibility, and I'm not going to allow that to happen, and I absolutely make sure that the smoking does not affect her. sustain communication behavior
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92_9 Fine. I'm in a really big hurry, and I need to get those prescriptions filled as soon as possible, please. neutral communication behavior
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92_11 Fine. I just need to get my prescriptions. neutral communication behavior
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102_1 Sure. neutral communication behavior
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102_3 Well, [sighs] I've been thinking about working out lately. I really want to start working out again. It's-it's been in my mind, I know I need to do it. It's just getting the motivation to do it. change communication behavior
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102_5 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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102_7 Well, I don't know if I'm really being lazy about it. I think it's just that I have a busy schedule. sustain communication behavior
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102_9 I just need to find the time to do it. And, yes, I might be lacking a little bit of motivation, but I think it's more timing and trying to fit it in. sustain communication behavior
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102_11 But I think that part of the problem is that I-I don't have three to four times- three to four times a week to do it, or an hour even. I mean, hour is a long time because if I'm working out for an hour that means I'm leaving home to get there- sustain communication behavior
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102_13 -time there, time back. I mean, it's not just an hour, it's like two hours, realistically. sustain communication behavior
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102_15 Well, oh, um, okay. change communication behavior
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102_17 Okay. change communication behavior
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106_1 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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106_3 Yeah, it's pretty stressful for both of us. He gets really upset. neutral communication behavior
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106_5 Yeah, I
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106_7 I-I don't know. I mean, I try really hard not to smoke around him. I don't smoke in the car. Um, when he's home, I go outside to smoke. I just
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106_9 No, but I don't smoke. I'm
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106_11 I know, I know. I've heard
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106_13 I just don't have time for any of that. sustain communication behavior
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106_15 I understand that. I know it is. I mean, everybody has problems, right? It's just really
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106_17 I don't know. neutral communication behavior
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106_19 I'll-I'll-I'll go look at all those things and-and I'll find
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106_21 Okay, whatever. Okay. sustain communication behavior
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115_1 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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115_3 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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115_5 Oh. neutral communication behavior
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115_7 Gonna get that again. neutral communication behavior
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115_9 I do all the above, yeah. neutral communication behavior
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115_11 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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115_13 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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115_15 Okay. Sure. neutral communication behavior
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115_17 I've heard it all. I
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115_19 I did a pill thing, so I did try it. So like, I did try try it. I just did the pills and they didn't work. sustain communication behavior
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115_21 It was a waste and it caused more side effects sustain communication behavior
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115_23 Or seven lectures along the road. sustain communication behavior
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115_25 No. No, I just feel that way. I get really
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115_27 -but it's not easy to quit. sustain communication behavior
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115_29 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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115_31 I guess I got to really want to and
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115_33 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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115_35 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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115_37 Okay. Well, can I go now? sustain communication behavior
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115_39 I-I-I know it, I know- I know, doc, what you're trying to
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115_41 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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115_43 I appreciate your care. neutral communication behavior
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115_45 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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118_1 Well, I've got myself all worked up now I've been sat outside. neutral communication behavior
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118_3 I'm not
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118_5 Ah. neutral communication behavior
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118_7 I've been sat here for half an hour. Do you not want to know a little bit more about it, or? I mean, it- it's really painful. I- I've barely been able to swallow today and I'm so worried about passing things on to the kids. Um— neutral communication behavior
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118_9 [sighs] Well, I mean, this is gonna affect my job. I talk on the phone quite a lot at work, and I'm just
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118_11 Well, I don't think my employer are gonna take that. I mean, they- they've given us so much hassle at things in the past. I mean, can- can I get a private note? Can- can I ask you to write me a letter, at least? neutral communication behavior
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118_13 Just- it's just not good enough. I just
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118_15 Parace- paracetamol. Do you understand how difficult this is gonna be for me? I mean, I could lose my job or something. neutral communication behavior
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118_17 I'm sorry, uh, I think I'm gonna say something that I don't- I don't want to, so I'm actually going to go. neutral communication behavior
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118_19 Thank you. neutral communication behavior
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123_1 That's great. neutral communication behavior
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123_3 I don't smoke cigarettes. neutral communication behavior
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123_5 Well, the only thing
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123_7 And, um, you know, sometimes they're those- those, uh, nice young men that gift you different sorts of things. And we got some of those mini cigars that are Swisher sweets, they come in peach and-and grape and-and, you know, that's the only time that really, you know, I've ever really used anything that-that's got tobacco in it. sustain communication behavior
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123_9 Really? Bad? But they're just little, mini, little, cute little girly cigars. sustain communication behavior
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123_11 Well, I only use them just to relax. I mean, it's not like it's something that I would smoke 20 or 30 cigarettes a day, I mean, I only do it when we go out. sustain communication behavior
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123_13 Well, I didn't really know I'd started. sustain communication behavior
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123_15 I didn't really think that it was anything more than just like social drinking, just something that I do in a social setting when me and my friends go out to the bars. sustain communication behavior
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123_17 Uh, maybe. neutral communication behavior
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123_19 Well, it's something that I'll have to think about. neutral communication behavior
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123_21 Well, it's just something that I do to relax, and I don't do it that often. And so I probably could cut back. change communication behavior
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123_23 Well, I don't believe that they are cigars. And what I do believe is that it's a choice and it's my right, and it's something that I choose to do. And so I will think about cutting back, but I'm not at a point where I'm ready to do that. And I'm not really sure that I even believe that what you're telling me is real. sustain communication behavior
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123_25 Well, it's something that I'll think about. neutral communication behavior
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126_1 Yeah. My doctor said he called something in. neutral communication behavior
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126_3 No, not really. neutral communication behavior
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126_5 No. neutral communication behavior
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126_7 Okay. Um, why am I taking this medication? neutral communication behavior
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126_9 No, I guess not. neutral communication behavior
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126_12 Yeah. My doctor said he called something in. neutral communication behavior
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126_14 No, not really. neutral communication behavior
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126_16 No. neutral communication behavior
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126_18 Okay. Um, so why am I taking this medication? neutral communication behavior
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126_20 I guess not. neutral communication behavior
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126_23 Sure. I'm just getting a few groceries. neutral communication behavior
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126_25 Well, he told me that I had a blood test for cholesterol, and that I should start taking this. neutral communication behavior
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126_27 He didn't really tell me. He just phoned it in. neutral communication behavior
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126_29 Well, I take all of my other medications right before I go to bed. So I guess I could take it then. change communication behavior
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126_31 I store my medications, uh, in my nightstand, right by my bed. neutral communication behavior
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126_33 No. neutral communication behavior
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126_35 He didn't mention anything about that. neutral communication behavior
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126_38 Sure. I'm just gonna take one tablet right before I go to bed with my other medications. And I guess I will switched to orange juice. And if I notice any muscle pain that is severe, I'll call Dr. Ferris right away. change communication behavior
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126_40 Uh, I think you answered all my questions. Thank you. neutral communication behavior
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126_43 Sure. I'm just getting a few groceries. neutral communication behavior
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126_45 He told me that I had a blood test for cholesterol so that I should start taking this medication. neutral communication behavior
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126_47 He didn't tell me, he just phoned it in. neutral communication behavior
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126_49 I take all my other medications right before I go to bed. So I guess I could take it then. change communication behavior
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126_52 I store them all in the nightstand by my bed. neutral communication behavior
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126_54 No. I don't have any kids. neutral communication behavior
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126_57 He didn't mention anything about that. neutral communication behavior
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126_60 Sure. I'm just gonna take one tablet of the cholesterol statin, uh, in the evening with all my other medications. And I guess I'll switch to orange juice. And if I notice any bad muscle pains, then I'll be sure to call Dr. Ferris right away. change communication behavior
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126_62 I think you answered all my questions. Thank you. neutral communication behavior
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130_0 Wow. I can't believe he fell asleep after all of that crying, poor guy. neutral communication behavior
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130_2 Well, you're right. I-I did quit smoking when I was pregnant, but actually, um, a couple of weeks ago, I went out, my mom was able to take Jake for the night and my friends they were having a birthday party and we had a couple of glasses of wine and it felt like old times. So before I knew it, I was out having a cigarette with them. And since then I've been having a couple of cigarettes a day, you know, just at the end of the day after I put Jake to bed. But that sounds like it has nothing to do with what you're talking about, right? sustain communication behavior
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130_4 Well, I had no idea that it was such a big deal. I-I didn't think it would have anything to do with Jake getting sick or, you know, hurting him. neutral communication behavior
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130_6 Well, you know, I-I was doing perfectly well. It was just when I went out with my friends and, you know, usually, I'm fine with the cravings. It's just when I have a glass of wine at the end of the day. And if I have more than two or three, I just get that craving for a cigarette. And if I have cigarettes in the house, it just happens. You know, I'm doing pretty good. sustain communication behavior
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130_8 Okay. Um, well, yeah, I-I guess I can throw the cigarettes. And tomorrow night when I have my glass of wine, I'll-I'll just try to avoid that craving. change communication behavior
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130_10 Only a couple of drinks a night. You know, it's pretty rare if I have anything more than that. It's just my way of relaxing at the end of the day. It's been so stressful since Jake came along. It's just how I fall asleep at the end of the night. sustain communication behavior
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130_12 Well. neutral communication behavior
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130_14 I guess about- I have about a half a glass a night and maybe two. Very rarely I'll have more than that. You know, it just helps me kind of relax. sustain communication behavior
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130_16 I didn't know it was such a big deal. I-I never thought that there would be any impacts on Jake because of it. neutral communication behavior
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130_18 I guess I'll do the same thing. I'll go home and throw out the bottles of wine and stop having a glass at the end of the day. change communication behavior
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130_20 Okay, I'll try my best. change communication behavior
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131_1 Good morning. neutral communication behavior
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131_3 Well, I need some medication if you can offer me some. change communication behavior
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131_5 And, uh, whatever else you can do just to get me to go smoke-free. change communication behavior
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131_7 It's, uh, just these days
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131_9 Especially the other night I was at the restaurant, it was a bit
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131_11 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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131_13 Um, it's expensive these days. change communication behavior
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131_15 It's-it's about
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131_17 £7 a day today, so- change communication behavior
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131_19 -you're talking about £40, uh— change communication behavior
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131_21 £50 a week. neutral communication behavior
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131_23 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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131_25 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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131_27 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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131_29 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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131_31 Well, what you do
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131_33 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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131_35 Um, it's just entertainment. Something, um, when I bored, it's got
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131_37 -or sometimes I go out, but as I said, I'm the only one kind of outside. change communication behavior
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131_39 The
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131_41 Just, uh, when I- when I go down, uh, for-for a break at work. neutral communication behavior
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131_43 I never go down, I just need a break away from it all, just shut off. So, uh, I-I really enjoyed that. The cigarette just helps me calm down. sustain communication behavior
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131_45 It's definitely the one at the end of the evening. sustain communication behavior
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131_47 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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131_49 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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131_51 I guess, um, I'll just- I'll just have, you know, some fresh air as well, but this time without a cigarette in my hand but to try and give myself regular breaks maybe, I don't know. change communication behavior
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131_53 It's one of those tough things. neutral communication behavior
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131_55 I've managed for a couple of weeks. change communication behavior
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131_57 It was, um
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131_59 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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131_61 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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131_63 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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131_65 I guess, um, at the weekend I've got a party coming up. neutral communication behavior
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131_67 So, uh, maybe Monday morning. neutral communication behavior
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131_71 Yeah. I'm thinking, um, one of these patches. change communication behavior
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131_73 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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131_75 Mm-hmm. neutral communication behavior
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131_77 I just get irritable. neutral communication behavior
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131_79 Yeah. neutral communication behavior
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131_81 Hmm. neutral communication behavior
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131_83 Okay. neutral communication behavior
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131_85 Yeah, absolutely. neutral communication behavior
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131_87 Well, definitely. neutral communication behavior
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131_89 A nice phone call. neutral communication behavior
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