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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
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Yeah and also let me add to this. There are a few areas you might want to hit, or hit differently. I'm going to say she/him a lot for vagina/dick, but this works with strap on play as well or if you're another gender. I can elaborate more with prostate play if people would like but I bet there's a dude really into that, that could explain better.



. 1) The deep muscles at the entrance to the vagina, thigh muscles, and also the butt muscles. Some like having that impacted/compressed. It feels really good. Sometimes when I ask for "more," "deeper," "harder," what I really mean is that I would like a heavier impact on that area, typically easiest with your pubic bone (I also saw someone stimulate this by spanking with a metal knight gauntlet at a sex club, this was enough to give multiple people orgasms). In vanilla sex, doggy style works really well for that as long as you aren't too long. If you are long, you'll want to try to angle your dick to massage those muscles or use your hands.



2) The entrance to the vagina (like the labia and first inch in) being stretched. This is typically what people mean when they say "angles." This feels satisfying, it can only be done at the dorsal (backside) and lateral (thigh sides) areas of the vagina. Stretching out the pussy from the front just puts hideous pressure on my pubic bone, it can't be done. There's a bone there. However, in missionary, you can slide up a little, grind your public bone on my clit, and stretch the back of my pussy with your dick which does feel nice. You can tell stretching is happening because the pussy lips should have a little grip to it when you go slower, and will be taut. Massaging that tight area with your hands feels really nice btw. Even bigger dicks should utilize angles, the different sensations feel nice for the recipient. Grinding in a circle in cowgirl typically gives a lot of stretch. 


The inside of the pussy itself (deeper than that first inch) doesn't really feel a lot of stretch- a lot of times those deeper sensations are the muscles being stimulated from the inside like in 1). This is why fisting is a thing, and why the hand has to be so narrow to get in, but then can be a fist inside the pussy. Digging your dick into the side of my vagina to stretch it is not a great feeling.


3) The clit being touched. This can be too much, the best position for this would probably be either missionary, laying down cow girl, or the side scissoring one. Ofc you can get little vibrators or masturbate as well. A lot of guys think their balls smacking and hitting us in the clit in doggy is amazing, and it is just a kinda hot sex thing. As a sensation, it's not doing much, fyi.


4) The gspot. This is behind the pubic bone, the clit from the inside. I really dislike any kind of pounding there, I don't like pressure on my pubic bone. Sliding your dick past this feels nice but not being pounded here. Doggy style, or missionary with her legs on his shoulders works good for this.

5) Cervix. Okay, so the cervix is kinda like a tiny donut. A direct hit to the donut hole is not good especially early on and can lead to cramping (like I just got terrible diarrhea, and actually cramps can sometimes cause diarrhea, so don't do this if you can help it). Rubbing the outside of the donut is really nice though. Granted I really like cervical stimulation, and not everyone does. My favorite position for this would be both of us sitting on a chair with me on top, my feet on the ground. If someone isn't long enough, it's possible they won't be able to stimulate the cervix. I've learned how to move my cervix/vagina myself so this is pretty rare for me, there's always fingers or dildos to stimulate that area though.

6) Anal stimulation. Some women really like having the back of the vagina pounded, or having a lot of anal stimulation. I feel like reverse mating press (woman on top) and reverse cowgirl work well for this.

With those areas, speed, pressure, wetness, all change the experience for women. Many times more than one thing is being stimulated at once in different ways.
gpt
Thank you for the insight.🫡

But this is reddit, we don’t know what sex is