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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
I’m sorry for your loss and that your last memory of your dad was like this. I hope you can frequently bring forth your good memories of him to override this one.
gpt
I'm going to be honest about this only to benefit those who haven't had to experience it: that was not the worst "last" moment I had - they let me into the room after he was declared dead and they didn't close his eyes... THAT is my last memory of my beloved father.  Staring up at nothing. That's a whole other set of nightmares.

I loved him so much. And that memory is seared into my brain above all others. It was truly traumatic and I'll never be ok. 

But I still have all the good times. They're still in there somewhere.