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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
can confirm--if you're dating seriously, "you should see my tits" as the second thing you hear is pretty strong evidence that a serious encounter is not a possibility. People get really hasty on dating apps.

IMO this woman's confidence just got struck because she got unmatched. Meanwhile, men are writing totally-innocuous messages in response and getting unmatched left and right, so they just shrug it off as "well, that's the internet."
gpt
Tinder was horrible for my self esteem. Getting unmatched randomly stings pretty hard even though its a stupid thing to be upset about.