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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Because asshole doesn't work anymore. It's a common blanket term, it doesn't deliver the impact you want. 

Insults are meant to trigger.
gpt
I guess with those you use this against it would really sting. That makes more sense to me. Does it have a cost?  I just would hate for some teen whose growing up self conscious to take this insult out of context and hate themselves more. This isn’t about “manly men” not being able to take it.   Dudes are self conscious and this could have an impact.