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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
We know. The subreddits for women are full of women complaining about this.

If you’re attractive, you can’t be nice to everyone, even if it’s in your nature, because men will misinterpret.

And if you’re ugly, men are extra mean to you because they misinterpret kindness as interest, and they’re afraid of making an uggo think they’re interested.
gpt
I’ve had to entirely change the way I behave around men. I used to give everyone compliments, I like making other people feel good by acknowledging good things about them. But then these men want more, or develop feelings, and I’m absolutely clueless bc I really did just mean it to be a compliment with no hidden meaning. I’m much more careful with what I say, how I say things, and the frequency of any compliments I want to give now (which unfortunately have decreased a lot as a consequence).