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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Hahahhaha wtf. If I was single/dating and the woman I was starting to court said she owned her own house, I would just be impressed and maybe even intimidated but in a "damn she's the fuckin boss and it's hot" kinda way.

I told my friends the other day that one of the reasons my wife and love each other so well is that we both don't NEED each other. We both enjoy each other's company and companionship, but we also have self confidence in ourselves and our values. One of the sexiest things a woman can have is zero fear to be herself, which usually ends up in them being successful in whatever they choose to do.
gpt
Exactly, it's definitely wtf but I've been on other dates with guys who have had similar perspectives although he was the most upfront about saying his messed up thoughts. 

I think when some of these guys actually meet women who have their stuff together,  they get confused. Most of their interactions with women are only from online where they go on dating apps. Many of those accounts are scammers looking for money or women looking for attention. In the real world, there are many good women who don't seek attention, have made good lives for themselves through intelligence and hard work and just want to share their lives with someone...no ill intentions. It's not a rare thing!

Sounds like you have a great relationship and marriage. Never take that for granted!