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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
It doesn't add up well, because all of the words we have to describe complicated sexualities were invented by and for the benefit of cis/straight people.

If someone has a more complicated sexual and gender identity, it's best to just trust that they've put way more thought into it than you have, and accept it on the terms they give.
gpt
&gt;it's best to just trust that they've put way more thought into it than you have

I love that sentiment! I will definitely steal this explanation.