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human
Everyone is going to have their own viewpoint that is skewed by their own perspective. Even if you're good at intuition and empathy, you're never going to know someone as well as they can know themself (or they know you as well as you can). 

I don't fault anyone for allowing the bullshit that happened to them askew their perspective. It's easy to do. I just think at some point one has to either allow that bullshit to forever define their future or take chances to find the exceptions. Not saying it's easy or should be done in one rip of a band-aid. 

Me personally...I don't know who the person I want to be with is. But I want to. I know aspects and pieces of them that I highly adore, admire, and respect. I know how they make me feel. And that drives me to take the chances. That gives me a pure desire to get to know who they are and who they will be. 

That might be cheesy, but there's nothing fake about it.
gpt
>I don't know who the person I want to be with is

Clarification: I know who they are (whom they are?) I just don't know who they are (fully as a person).