system
A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Personally I feel like social media has a lot to do with declining rates in people interacting with and making friends. Everyone's trying to make a brand out of themselves, make money at all costs, always be grinding. Leaves little room for being human and having friends.

I mainly speak from an area of frustration with dating apps in-general. Out of the 1 genuine potential matches I get, I also get 3 "sorry I'm only here for friends" matches, and 5 people using bots to advertise their instagram or onlyfans, and then of course the rest who never match and/or never message or message back. As someone who is aging pretty quickly and has never been married and watched everyone around me develop entire families I'm at a loss and simultaneously sick and tired of the state of dating and the apps I'm expected to use in order to fix this problem.
gpt
Make friends first, then see if one is the person you actually can live with. Worked that way for centuries - and for good reason. Meet the folks that just want to be friends. And don't try to push it. It happens or it won't - but you have companionship in the meantime.

There's no quick fix. That's what dating apps sell you as an illusion.