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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Good sex is definitely important to many women! Just not important enough to try on any Tom, Dick or Harry to find one capable of delivering it. 

Especially when, like you say, a lot men don't bother to learn how to do it right and then also act shitty besides the point. 

Lastly, lust starts in the mind for women and just like your experience with the guy who treated you right, women can't just go out and find any "willing dick" and be satisfied that way. 

There are subsets of men (we all know who they are) who constantly complain about women's standards and how impossible we are to please while you see women all over the internet making it really clear what we want and how few men are willing to live up to those expectations

You have the right idea, wait until you find the right guy. 

Best of luck finding him!
gpt
Thank you, and if you have not found yours yet, good luck