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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
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They/them when you don’t know someone’s gender literally goes back to chaucer. It predates modern english. People losing their minds about it are very silly.
gpt
People also have also done it in business when they *do* know the gender but are trying to protect someone’s privacy, since like forever lol. You’re completely right that people losing their minds about it now are silly!