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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
I personally find "it/its" pronouns a bit problematic as well. They were often used to bully kids that were a bit outside gender norms growing up. So to me, these pronouns will always sound a bit derogatory to me
gpt
Yeah it's derogatory as fuck. They/them is fine and pretty standard gender neutral.

I'm more than happy to use they/them. But if some one invents their own pronouns I'm out.

I'll be polite and refer to them by name or they/them but I'm not going xe/xem/xir or ze/hir or whatever, frankly it's rediculous and makes a mockery of people.