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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Hmm I'm a woman but I don't like the feel of condoms, to me it feels the same as if i use a dildo.. And at that point... But idk for men. I know some partners said it does take a way but not enough to be unejoyable. one couldn't at all with condoms. Like we legit can't have sex with one, we tied so often it doesn't work. So we barely had sex. Cz I'm not gonna take the pill or any hormones anymore and my IUD slipped out after a MRI years ago and caused me horrible pain for my period. I don't have the money for it anyway.

I see it like that. Its fine and valid to not like the feel of a condom as much as raw, but it's no reason to be unsafe. And if you can't even be hard with one, then don't do penetrantion. It's not needed for bonding, horny stuff, the penetrantion is the least exciting part about sex anyway, and from my experience... Yes for both partners if you really explore all the other options together. (got feedback on that.)
gpt
&gt; Hmm I'm a woman but I don't like the feel of condoms, to me it feels the same as if i use a dildo.. 

That's what my partners always said. They enjoyed it less. I enjoyed it less. It made sex a chore and not much better than masturbation. At that point, might as well skip the penetration and just have oral or manual sex. 

But let's be clear: Some partners don't do all that other stuff well. Some partners outright *suck* at doing anything other than penetration (and that's not a pun.) That sort of sexuality is even less stimulating when you don't have a strong connection to your partner. So for those people hooking up with strangers on Tinder, there are only two choices: Wear a condom, or take a risk.

Good sex without the need for penetration is a really difficult thing to do with someone who you're not emotionally involved with, at least a little.