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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
of course, i think people need to understand it's a learning curve. I'm sure people that have been identifying this way for years are frustrated but i'm in my 30s and this is new even to me. 

While I know it's annoying, I think intention really needs to be taken into account. Is someone being a dick or was it a slip of the tongue.
gpt
The convent of gender neutrality isn’t even new to me. I’ve been working with people from India for more than a decade. Their names are very often gender ambiguous/neutral so it’s very common for me to simply refer to everyone as they/them until I know for sure what their gender/pronouns are. It’s just with people who I’ve known as one thing and now suddenly have to know or refer to as something else that I have a hard time with.