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human
I have always told my kids they do *not* start fights but they sure as fuck finish them. Someone hits you you make you sure they can’t hit you again. 

We’ve had some bullying problems. One of my kids is the type to bottle it up and ignore it until they snap. I talked to the school about the billy multiple times. Eventually I told them “my kid is going to snap one day and turn around and punch her in the face and I’m not going to say they were wrong. And my child will not be getting in trouble for it either”. Sometimes going full Karen is warranted.
gpt
My mother told me the same thing. I'll have to tell my kids the same thing too. Neurodivergence (autism/adhd etc) runs in the family and they'll probably be picked on like we all were before them. But nothing stops bullying faster than a fist from a kid with pent up anger.