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human
It might also be worth nothing that in the animal kingdom it is also the males trying to attract the females… makes me wonder if there is more to it than even societal expectations.

I know as a female 1 night stands tend to also be a bit disappointing… likelihood of getting off is a lot less.
gpt
Biologically speaking one male can go around and impregnate as many females as he wants, but females have to choose one mate and carry and raise those young for a long period of time, so we are more selective.