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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
So not communicate your desires to your partner and lie is the better way? So they don't improve for the next time? Lol got it.
gpt
Purely talking from knowing what women experience (i don't relly think ive heard this being an issue for men but if so please correct me) but I've heard countless times of women talking with their partners or literally showing them what they like countless times and they are either met with the man not caring, getting straight up told that its not right at all and the way they do it is correct, seeing things like vibrators or toys as the enemy lol, or saying they'll try that the next time and not. Sometimes they are even met with anger at the "corrections" so lying about it and dealing with it themselves later has become to be see as the easier, better option.