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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Cisgendered guy here. That's really interesting. I always assume our orgasms were easier to achieve (I mean, I've had them accidently :/). But can I ask a totally inappropriate question about orgasms? Feel free to tell me if I'm totally overstepping. 

I've never felt like our orgasms are particularly good. Like, sex/masturbation feels good, and the orgasm is a relief, but it's not particularly earth shattering or anything. It's just sort of like... Hey, that happened. 

So my question is: am I just a weirdo who has meh orgasms? Women talk about orgasms like they're this incredible thing, and most guys act they're the best thing ever, but I've always suspected they're saying that because they're supposed to, and because they're trying to keep up with the women. 
So, like, comparing what you have to compare to, do you care to weigh in on my personal dilemma? Are male orgasms any good? Lol.

Edit:

I fucking love reddit sometimes. Never did I imagine so much excellent advice from random strangers who seem to genuinely care about a random stranger having a good orgasm. If we could harness this altruism and use it for other areas of life, we'd live in a much better world.
gpt
Males have two types of orgasms. There's the typical ejaculation, which sounds like you describe. The other is the sensational build up of wave after wave of increasing pleasure that makes your body squirm and muscles tighten as the final orgasmic release makes you moan and arch your back in complete ecstacy 🥵

To get the second one, you have to be more gentle with your penis and let it gradually build up instead of forcing it to happen. Interestingly, this technique works well for women too 😉