system
A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Ive never heard the "prove that your mature" reasoning, but ill bet its shockingly common now that im thinking about it.

How about kids to "keep the marriage together" or "so I can have someone that will love me". Those are always good ones, very healthy environments for kids.
gpt
The “to prove your maturity” thing isn’t one I hear too often, but often enough that it makes me think “wtf is your relationship with your kids like then”