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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Okay, what you're describing I've never really thought of as an orgasm. That's the sex part. Haha. That slow build is amazing, the final "popping off" is what's Meh for me. As an aside, that slow build type orgasm was way more common for me in my teens, when life basically revolved around experimenting and treating my penis like a visiting dignitary. In my 20s and and now early 30s, it's mainly a "let me get this out of the way so I can get back to doing things I have to do, like pay bills, or play Skyrim" lol
gpt
Yeah, that's just ejaculation. The ecstasy I was describing is something else entirely. You can begin orgasming and THEN ejaculate. The difference is kinda similar to eating food. Are you just eating something so you won't be hungry? Or are you preparing a beautiful meal that looks amazing and as soon as it hits your tempted taste buds it melts in your mouth causing you to forget the world and only focus on the mouth-watering delight? That's an orgasm.