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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Well my fault was to invite that stranger to my home. I used to be way colder (ironically the greatest time I had to find girls)
gpt
Ironically had a similar thing not too long ago. Met a girl online and we hooked up but then she dragged her feet on leaving after hanging out for a few hours and drinks. Rubbed me the wrong way but decided to give her one more chance and next time she wanted to spend the night. 
I straight up told her no and she gave me some sob story about being afraid of her ex, which reeked to me. Either she’s full of shit and trying to kick in my protective instinct or she regularly dates abusive men, which is a lose lose in my book.
Call me cold but I don’t want one night stands hanging around; I don’t know them and I could easily wake up robbed blind or with a knife to my throat. If I’m dating a girl then obviously it’s different but you gotta be careful these days even as a guy.