system
A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Honestly, if you’re not actively hiding some complicated past and the only thing that’s keeping you from telling him your name is the idea that he *could* be able to find this information *if* he even wanted to look all of that up (and that’s a huge if), then I think you should talk to someone to get to the root of why you feel this way because this is not at all normal and has a high chance of impeding your social and romantic life moving forward

(although disclaimer: if this is online dating then yeah don’t give last name until 100% sure)
gpt
Spot on here. Also, he’d be finding out her family’s names and jobs down the road anyways. Just wild