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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
21 here, some of my peers are already married with kids and I don't know if I will ever feel ready for either. And to be frank, I'm fucking scared.  


Edit: Thanks for the replies! I am not planning on rushing or anything. I probably shouldn't be concerning myself about such things at this age as I am yet to graduate university, find a place to live away from my parents and a more pernament job. I am quite anxious about big life changes and having a kid is deffinitely one. It's not that I don't want to have children, rather I don't know if I will be able to handle the stress and responsibility that come with them. But as many of you said, \*knocks on wood\* I got plenty of time.
gpt
Personally we waited til we were around 30 to ensure we were a bit more financially secure by getting further in our career. 21 is still young, you can easily put it off 10 more years to figure out if you want kids or not.