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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Idk man. As a woman I've had so many shitty dates and also bad relationships. If I keep giving anyone the benefit of doubt, that will continue. It's not about being picky or lacking empathy, it's about setting boundaries for yourself and sticking to them no matter if that person is the most charming and attractive human being ever. I don't have the time and patience to wait until people drop their facade so I wanna find out as quickly as possible. I really don't see the harm in red flags unless you are weaponizing that term.
gpt
Fair enough, I can't blame you for wanting to identify toxic people so they don't cause you grief, but this is a different issue. Your talking about discernment, I'm talking about the dangers of labeling people before you really know them.