system
A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
I think a lot of it is the difference between "virgin" and "celibate" too, it's not just "I've never had sex and it's not by choice" but "I never will have sex and it's not by choice" which is where the alpha male conspiracy theories start.
gpt
Or hear me out, there are plenty of reasons that someone could never have sex despite wanting to do so that don't have to do with being a sociopathic misogynist. Physical deformities which make sex acts impossible, for example. In my case I'm extremely unattractive and my autism/lack of social skills makes finding a partner next to impossible.  

It sucks, but not every lonely person out there goes insane and starts blaming the opposite sex. What does bug me however, is when people fail to realize that people can, in fact, have extreme difficulty or even an inability to find partners based on things that are outside their control.