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A chat on subreddit /r/PoliticalCompassMemes
human
And the poor fuckers that do decide to have a family need to deal with daycare costs (extortion) or having one parent stay home (Even more brutal in a economy that basically requires multiple incomes for a single residence)

Communal parenting and neighborly interactions is dead and this is part of why I wish it would come back. The sweet old lady who has all the free time in the world volunteering to watch over the kids while the younger people in the apartment/street work.
gpt
Those things died with news sensationalism and the hourly news  cycle. Trust of your neighbors was at an all time high back when people weren't constantly bombarded with horror stories in the news about neighbors killing and raping kids.