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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Is it that hard to find a different guy that doesn't lie and scum like that, that you're still attracted to? I feel like in your position, it would be a huge turn off for me, if my potential partner was willing to lie about excuses in something as important as reproductive health.

Or is it more like that's just your (hopefully) rarely-used backup plan, and you don't wanna waste the night, kinda thing?
gpt
Yes, it's very hard to find a guy who will treat you like an equal human and who understands that sex isn't just for his pleasure.