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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
if a guy gets hard while kissing and i’m not ready to progress yet is it ok to ignore it
gpt
Yes. Just be vocal about it. (If it's an issue)
 But you should understand that a penis will do whatever it wants, especially at younger ages, and isn't a reflection of his mental state.

Some men have problems rising to the occasion (until they're truly comfortable) and that also isn't a reflection of you or him.

Patience and communication is extremely important when exploring sex with a new partner regardless of how experienced someone thinks they are.

If you express yourself and are ignored, that's when it's a problem. (For both sides)