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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Thanks for that edit, you have no idea how many people just wont date disabled people
gpt
Yup, I had one guy get angry at me for not telling him before we met that I had a previous history of cancer. As in, I had it 20 years ago and it has zero current impact on my life and I still have all the body parts I started with. But there's a scar on my ribs and apparently this was more "baggage" than he expects from a middle aged adult. (We were both late 40s at the time.) The topic only came up because we got to the making-out stage and he was *horrified* that I didn't think to warn him that I had a minor, flat scar several inches long on my ribs. Clothes went back on at that point, and dude went out the door by mutual agreement, never to return. I saw the next day he had updated his profile to say "healthy women only," which still wouldn't have ruled me out.

I really feel for those with actual disabilities and chronic conditions when there are people who set the bar this damn high.