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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Is it that hard to find a different guy that doesn't lie and scum like that, that you're still attracted to? I feel like in your position, it would be a huge turn off for me, if my potential partner was willing to lie about excuses in something as important as reproductive health.

Or is it more like that's just your (hopefully) rarely-used backup plan, and you don't wanna waste the night, kinda thing?
gpt
Oh no, I never sleep with a guy if they refuse a condom, I just have fun with the excuses, if it's got to the point I'm knocking back excuses, I'm leaving the second I can get my stuff together. I'll accept one excuse/reason like the allergy one, and if they're all good after I pull out latex free, that's fine. But the shitty ones that don't matter (like how it feels), I just drag it out until they run out of excuses and then leave, so I at least have a good story the next day for my friends. But yeah, the excuses are a turn off, my current partner will wear a condom the second I ask for one, and will go out of his way to make sure the condoms he's getting are ones that are safe for me, and that's a bigger turn on than anything 😂