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A chat on subreddit /r/PoliticalCompassMemes
human
Honestly, nuclear families part of the problem.

Parents who believe their familial responsibilities end when their kids turn 18 and they can live their own empty nest and fat pension lifestyle all on their own for the rest of their lives. Offspring who long to become radically independent dictators in their own homes once they're 18, like their parents before them.

It's basically single parenthood lite. In particular, it's big weakness is its fragility. One death or serious illness in the family (or, lets face it, extended loss of employment), and you've effectively lost the lite.

You want strong extended familial bonds. Siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, all banding together, living in proximity to each other, eating meals together. Bonds, familial responsibilities and mutual support that lasts a lifetime. Intergenerational households. Experienced grandparents who know how to make big family meals and help take care of the children while the young parents are still fumbling through life. That's how you create a viable and fertile environment for being able to manage having kids at a young age.

I'd also expect a lot less family abuse and DV behind closed doors if everyone is held inter-accountable to one another like this. Or gross parental incompetence.
gpt
Stable nuclear families are the solution.