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human
I think I could relax a bit. 

My mentality is that I have to eagerly pursue my goals otherwise I will never achieve them. Like if I keep trying and I keep failing, is it a sign that I shouldn’t give up or that I need to take a step back and just accept that I can’t have what I want?
gpt
No not that
Work hard when you have to, but when you're not working you need to stop thinking and worrying about it. Relax in between
human
I see. These goals are all mainly geared toward achieving certain kind of relationships and maintaining them. 

The only mental qualm I have is what I described; I either try l, fail and keep going, or I stop and put myself at a stand still. 

I wish I knew how to relax more in this regard
gpt
No, you try while detaching yourself emotionally when things are still in teh beginning stages. That'll make everything easier
human
So like lower my expectations and just focus on being more natural without any intention?
gpt
>Without any expectations
Something like this. But more like because you don't care not because you don't want to be let down.