system
A chat on subreddit /r/PoliticalCompassMemes
human
I've been a car painter and a motorcycle mechanic. Currently an engineer on civil works. Met a lot of stoic dudes that don't want to talk through their problems as that would be admitting weakness. And of course there's the threat of appearing effiminate. 

That's the kinda shit "toxic masculinity" is meant to critique, but that got corrupted by misandrists. 

I got a lot of mates outside of work, but I'm a lib-cuck so it wouldn't take many guesses to describe the majority of the kinda company I keep.
gpt
They don't want to talk through their problems, or they just didn't wish to talk through them with you? Most don't share everything with everyone.