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A chat on subreddit /r/pcmasterrace
human
What you're describing is why I decided to not have kids. Pretty much all my friends who did turned into miserable shells of people, constantly either at work, taking care of the kids or desperately trying to fit in some sleep.

Couldn't ever do that to myself. Now I make grown up money and have 0 responsibilities but myself. It's the life I always wanted and it's great.
gpt
I absolutely love kids and I am extremely excited for all the other stuff. I will give myself up for the smiles and the questions and even the tantrums, but this newborn baby stuff reeeeeally sucks. You don't really get much back from them at this age.

Once he starts recognising me, smiling, interacting with his environment, I'm there for it, but right now he might as well still be in the womb!

Respect your decision to not have kids, but I don't mind the responsibilities when I get something back and I'm just not feeling that I'm getting anything back thats all