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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
I don't think we are able to better handle our emotions than men innately, it's just that society views "being emotional" as a female trait which is considered negative/weak due to it being "female".

But in actuality both men and women have equal amounts of emotion. So since society sees women as emotional and men as stoic, the men then have toxic emotional outbursts because they're taught to suppress their emotions their whole lives.

What we should be doing - and I think we are, over time - is not applying gender to states that both genders share.

Mass shootings are a by-product of a few things, but one of them is this view that men ~should be stoic, because emotion is female and therefore weakness, and it comes out in the wrong ways.

But I don't believe that it's only that. I think it's also a dark kind of showing off as they imagine themselves in the news and what that would look like after suicide. And also, a grip for power they have lost in life (eg angry with their inescapable poverty, trying and failing many times at life, victim of domestic violence, etc).
gpt
Yes I agree that women have as much emotion as men. I'm not saying that men have more emotion. My point was just that since the sexes both have emotions then these red pillers can't claim that men are more stoic. They just aren't. men have emotions and outbursts and unlike when women have them, the ones that men have often result in violence, even leading to death. Sometimes of others, but sometimes of themselves. men commit suicide in shocking numbers. So to me the solution is to, yes help men deal with their emotions better and show them that it's ok for them to be vulnerable and show emotions. But these redpillers and the manosphere make that so difficult because instead of helping men show emotions and battle their emotions they tell them to do the opposite. Bottle everything up, not show your emotions and that in fact it's the women that are the emotional ones and bla bla bla. It's so damaging and it's so sad to see men fall into the thralls of these men. These charlatans aren't helping them. Andrew Tate isn't helping them. He and the other ones are dragging them down into an ever darker hole.