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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
 rather something you give to somebody else

I think we put far too much value on virginity and shouldn't think of it as a gift or transaction at all. What exactly have you *given* that person? Having sex is just a thing we do. Doing it for the first time is a big step for many people, but it's more about them themselves than the person they're doing it with. The first time I had sex, I wasn't doing it as a gift or for the benefit of anybody else; I did it because I was ready to do it and wanted to do it for me. Viewing it as anything else is just weird and a bit creepy and unhealthy for society.
gpt
I wouldn't call it a gift.  More like a participation trophy.