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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Who said it was super loud?
gpt
Who said it wasn't?

I've considered it from both angles.  The biggest assumption being made is that it was quiet enough that asking to turn it down was the best solution.

Maybe it was.  In which case she was rude for sure.  Even in that case though, I personally think driver was \*more\* rude for not asking about the music before turning it on.

And maybe it wasn't low enough for her to ask, in which case her action was justifiable to begin with.