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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Grades K-12: “Sit down, stop talking and do your work!”

College and beyond: “It’s not enough to go to class, come home, do your homework, go to bed and get good grades! You need to network and make connections for your career as well!”
gpt
Not the experience I saw with my daughter (now a freshman in college). K-12 was full of team projects, presentations, performances, leadership activities, etc. 

The issue is she hated all of that and does everything she can to avoid it. Seems mostly to be anxiety related. There was a good NYT “The Daily” podcast about the causes of that. Mostly attributed to an intersection of social media and earlier puberty.