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human
Looking for a dream analyst.

Im in a house and it looks fine internally also i attend a college class with a girl I know irl, but havent seen in years, and a girl that has been in previous dreams but isn’t real. We are in a group project. Over the semester I rekindle my/make friendships with both of them. As I do every time I come home the house is more visible damaged by water. Think stains on walls burst pipes. It gets really bad, like flooding from light sockets. At the end of the semester I can either partake in the presentation or fix my house; if I fix my house then I won’t see either again is what Im told. I decide to fix my house. After fixing my house they appear their and then I have to choose between them. I chose the girl I had known irl; the other is visibly upset but not saying anything. At the end, the girl I chose and I lay down on a couch together she tells me “not to leave and to not make her hurt like the last…” it cut out. The other girl sat there with us but just smiled sadly. I then woke up. What does it mean?
gpt
Girl you know and the group project/presentation is everyday you and your everyday life. The wants and needs your are contiously aware of.
The unreal girl and the grandually destroyed by wated appartment is unfulfilled subconsious desires. They try to break from within you like water from overflown pipe, but fail, because you look at them as unreal, deny their reality.
By deciding to fix the house you side with subcontious. By picking known girl you chose contious. So neither is really satisfied.
My 2c: figure out what both want and go the path which fullfills desires of each, then the girls and you yourself (what the girls represent) will be happy.
human
Well the girl who is from my dreams has appeared in other dreams. The first time I saw her in a dream, I was at a party she invited me to go to a church so I went. When I went in the church she and the whole church began to become a temple to Satan and I ran out and drove away. The second time I saw her in a dream, I was having sex with her and slowly began losing my sanity, I woke up screaming no. So she hasn’t been a good character in my dreams but she was docile in this dream.
gpt
As inner desires are overlooked and suppresed in favor of consious desires, which we consider more desirable, then inner ones will be seen as unwanted, unpleasant, even evil (satanic ritual, insanity).
What the girl wants from you is good (church), but you prefer to see it as evil. What she wants to give you is pleasure (sex), but you prefer to see it as torture (losing sanity).
Why you see it this way and because you are very used to your everyday desires and their fulfillment. The evil and torture is not in the urges of the inner self, or the result of their fulfillment, but in the sacrifice of current consious status quo.
human
Okay I see, the dream girl is my desire but Ive been suppressing it. While the girl from my past is who I have been and what I have been content with up until now. I chose to live in the past rather than look towards the future. So if I see the dream girl again I should just go along with it?
gpt
Try to ask the dream girl (yourself) what it is that she really wants. What will be shown to you may be unpleasant, but still not the thing intself, as you are not ready (being too scared and painting it in dark colors) to face it. Then take that information and keep it in your focus trying to figure it out as a puzzle, what it reminds you of, what memories, feelings it awakens in you. When you are pretty sure that now you know what the inner desire is, look at it from you current situation, try to figure why is it so, that you were not able to fulfill this desire before this moment, and why is it so, that what you are doing right now is the opposite of fulfillment of that desire. There will be an 'Aha!' moment, which will show some decisions as wrong and unfruitful. Now you know why you were not able to fulfill inner dream, and what kind of unfruitful mental conditioning was blocking it. Since you are aware of that mental blocking now, you can decide to act without it affecting you. It may be not an easy thing to do, but since you will clearly see now the wrong choices you made you are not bound to repeat them.
From own experience with dreams.