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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Don't feel bad, I'm 32 and nowhere near ready for a kid. None of my friends are. Seeing your kid graduate high school around 50 sounds ideal tbh.
gpt
Had our first at 39 and second at 41. We were not mentally or financially capable of having kids before the time we did. I do stress about my age and the kids growth timeline but then again, we travelled the world and lived our lives quite well before them. Now, I truly enjoy spending my money on my kids, before, I would have wanted those $300 selvedge denim jeans. Now, we going Coco Melon live, eating out, and buying out the gift shop without stressing about the utilities and my upstairs neighbors working out their high flying trapeze routine at 11:35pm.   

We run our own race. I was 100% fine with out having children up until our first was born. Now, I kinda regret waiting so long to meet these neat little weirdos.