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human
You're getting a lot of unfair and chud replies OP. I say ''step out of the synagogue bro' bc the assumption is you're enveloped within Catholicism moreso as a social structure rather than the spiritual structure we all wish Christendom would be in the modern advents. 
You are yourself. 
Who do you want commit yourself to? Who would you like to find committed to you in return? 
Consider your personal values while also being Christ. But also don't be Christ to the point where you confuse yourself with Jesus, and start telling parables to your peers. Just be good. Consider who you wish to love based on their heart and emotions and actions and never consider who you wish to commit based off of yours or theirs intellectual identity. Bc that shit washes away at death. 
God bless you OP and may you bless yourself
gpt
Chatolicism is literally adopting all the dogmas from the catholic church and accept their interpretation from the bible as gospel.
I dont know if this is any worse or better in other churches but yes chatholicism is basically social before spiritual.