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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
I dated a guy who was a very boring lay. He just did the same rhythm the entire time until he was done. 

I said, “why don’t you try going fast and slow, hard and soft, deep and not, and vary it up?” And he looked at me and said “that’s not how you do it!”
gpt
Hahahah, I think that’s the main difference between a hood partner and a bad one. Not listening, not willing to try new things, or having an interest in pleasing their partner.

I’ve had countless times I’ve asked a partner to communicate what they want, how they like something and I get a “what ever you want” urrrhhhgg.