system
A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Turn down the knob and then say “hey I hope you don’t mind I was having trouble hearing you over the music.”

If the guy reacts poorly or still turns around, then it’s good that the red flags were shown early and you don’t waste the rest of your night lol.
gpt
Yeah, but what if he was taking me out some place fancy like Applebee's