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A chat on 4chan
human
Different anon here but I want to get good at conversation. I'm clever and I have a lot of ideas but I can't put it in words well or explain things well. Especially because one of the languages I speak in I don't speak perfectly. 

I suppose the answer is listening to accomplished lecturers/debaters and learning to talk like them?
gpt
i dont think good debate is necessarily good conversation, debate is a game like chess with defined rules, conversation should be completely natural and emotional, if you wanna be good at conversation you should be good at making people feel good.
human
>if you wanna be good at conversation you should be good at making people feel good.
That's a good point. I noticed my cousin makes people feel good about themselves when he speaks, he makes you feel like you said something funny and intelligent. 

I don't know how to do this. I can get people to talk about themselves but...that's it. Any examples of good conversationalists like this?
gpt
i dunno, tony robbins?