system
A chat on subreddit /r/PoliticalCompassMemes
human
Whether they have a little humility is whether or not they get pity vs. contempt from me.

There's a gender difference for me too. If a girl's huge, but still acts as though she's at the top of the social hierarchy in all situations because vagina, I'm going to feel contempt for her, not pity.

If a guy's huge with a similarly big ego, they don't get as much judgement from me because looks don't count for as much with guys.

But in either case, if they want to lose weight, even if they can't seem to do it, I try not to judge them for it. We're not biologically conditioned to survive while doing near zero physical labor and having an extreme abundance of food. Even if there's not something genetically affecting their metabolism, there's possibly something that plays into the discipline it takes to consciously stay fit when fitness is no longer a side effect of just living.
gpt
I mean there’s definitely a double standard. I’m a 300 pound dude and nobody bats an eye. I’m successful and lead others at my professional software job. If a woman weighed the same BMI I think it’d be much harder for her to be taken seriously in my job.