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A chat on 4chan
human
experiences change you as a person. receiving love from your family makes you a loving person, the abused tend to repeat the behaviour. 

falling in love for the first time as a teenager and it being reciprocated is a beautiful experience which makes you value it more, while never having it usually makes you bitter.


i figure things like a near death experience have as big a 'lesson'
gpt
Nah they describe the NDE itself as enjoyable not just the return to life or “lesson.”
human
It is weird, its a very comforting sort of feeling. Almost like getting into bed when you're tired as hell but 100 times more relaxing