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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
If you know and it’s permissive then it’s not cheating. That’s the whole point of having an honest conversation about whom you like to have extra relational sex with. Seems like maybe it just brought up fear and assumptions because his are fantasies that would likely never happen and she has found herself attracted to people that are in their everyday lives. That’s fair to be scared about what that could mean, but that does not in any way indicate that she has cheated or is doing something that’s unsavory.
gpt
I get that, if they were having an honest conversation. But also why would you admit that? 

Like that used to be the joke it family sitcoms in the 90s that the husband thought the wife's sister was more attractive. Like even if you can be honest SHOULD you be that honest. I think it would scare me how honest she is lmao.

Also, it makes you wonder. The guy brought up fantasies, is it because he never really pays attention to other women locally because he has no interest in cheating. And does the wife actually bring up local people she knows because she HAS thought about cheating.

It doesnt garuantee anything but I also cant say I think her admitting to that should just be ignored.