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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
This really depends on the person- when I meet new people, I never think about whether they are or aren’t attractive. People just look like people to me, because I’m not looking for a sexual partner so I honestly don’t even know if they’re attractive. Most people look pretty generic. Relationships for me completely start at whether or not I enjoy their company and think they’re a good person.

With my husband, we met in an online video game and neither or us even knew what the other looked like until a couple weeks or so before we had already planned a meetup; and at that point it really didn’t matter what he looked like- he could have been a hunchback with a snaggletooth and it wouldn’t have made a difference because I already knew who he was and I loved that person.
gpt
&gt;neither or us even knew what the other looked like until a couple weeks or so before we had already planned a meetup; and at that point it really didn’t matter what he looked like- he could have been a hunchback with a snaggletooth and it wouldn’t have made a difference because I already knew who he was and I loved that person. 

Oh man, that's precious. I truly hope you guys have a wonderful life together.