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A chat on subreddit /r/PoliticalCompassMemes
human
Kids really aren't that expensive.  Depends on how materialistic you are I guess. Priorities.
gpt
It's all about priorities. 

Before I got older and was still in a lower paying job, I went without things(especially unimportant material things)to make sure my kids had what they needed and as much of what they wanted as possible. Now I have 2 teenagers and a tween and it's still expensive, but I make more and they're not spoiled so it's not terrible.