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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
My bf gets this all the time and I'll offer to help him out but sometimes, he's just too tired or not interested. He says it's just his body's natural reaction and it doesn't always mean he wants to have sex lol
My whole life I've thought the opposite. Is he normal or weird?

Edit: my response was to the comment above mine where the person mentions making out and getting boners then hoping it will lead to sex. So my response was, when I'm making out with my bf and while he has a boner, he doesn't always want to have sex as I previously thought. This has nothing to do with random boners as people are assuming I mean. We'll be making out and he'll be feeling me up so I expect that he wants sex, but apparently that's not always the case :)
gpt
What? Thats perfectly normal. If a guy gets an erection it could be from any factors of things but sometimes it just randomly happens and you just keep going about your day til it goes back down by itself. It does not mean theyre in the mood for sex or they need to release just cuz theyre hard. Who would lead you to believe that was the opposite?!