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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Thank you
gpt
Your welcome, also keep in mind the mass majority of human suffering is derived from reality not meeting our expectations and fantasies. So learn to be okay with the idiom "no plan survives first contact", especially so if you're one of those people who likes to try to plan things out so they won't fail in your head. 





This is where inevitably looking a fool comes in and is necessary because inevitably plans fail and relationships are all about a willingness to be vulnerable with another person so that's not a bad thing, it's only when people stop trying to protect themselves from potential attack that they are able to open up enough to truly connect with others. There's no way to harden our heart with a semi permeable material, we have to be vulnerable enough to be hurt in order to love and be able to accept love in return