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human
Yes. The commonly used term is demisexual. I recommend doing a quick Google search because that will go better info than I can.
gpt
As per Google - "Demisexuality is a sexual orientation in which a person feels sexually attracted to someone only after they've developed a close emotional bond with them. Forming a bond doesn't guarantee a person will feel a sexual attraction, but the bond is needed before sexual activity is even possible."

Yes, this is exactly it. Thank you so much, that's helped me more than you know