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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Bears &amp; jocks who aren’t visibly/audibly gay (I.e. fit the “gay” stereotype) fly under the radar a lot if they’re not publicly out/more secular.  Also bi folks can fly under the radar often too if they’re not publicly out/ just in a hetero relationship at the time.

I’m bi, and don’t fit the stereotype so generally everyone who’s straight assumes I am too.  If you’re part of the community it’s usually easier to notice other queer folks, but not everybody’s “gaydar” (gay radar) works great.
gpt
I think it helps a lot of media depicts the more “femme” type of gay men rather then the traditionally masculine ones.

Obviously it’s not just that but I feel it’s part