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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Yes. Just be vocal about it. (If it's an issue)
 But you should understand that a penis will do whatever it wants, especially at younger ages, and isn't a reflection of his mental state.

Some men have problems rising to the occasion (until they're truly comfortable) and that also isn't a reflection of you or him.

Patience and communication is extremely important when exploring sex with a new partner regardless of how experienced someone thinks they are.

If you express yourself and are ignored, that's when it's a problem. (For both sides)
gpt
Just remember, a penis might do whatever it wants but a man will always observe consent.