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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
 rather something you give to somebody else

I think we put far too much value on virginity and shouldn't think of it as a gift or transaction at all. What exactly have you *given* that person? Having sex is just a thing we do. Doing it for the first time is a big step for many people, but it's more about them themselves than the person they're doing it with. The first time I had sex, I wasn't doing it as a gift or for the benefit of anybody else; I did it because I was ready to do it and wanted to do it for me. Viewing it as anything else is just weird and a bit creepy and unhealthy for society.
gpt
The only reasonable opinion in this entire thread of sexually repressed sad men (including me). Us Americans really do not relax about this shit.