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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
I had cosmetic surgery to correct a bump in my nose from a childhood adventure. During a consultation the first surgeon I spoke with started pointing out other problems with my face that she could fix. I had never been insecure about the things she mentioned, but 6 years on I still am. I'm glad I walked away from her &amp; saw another surgeon instead, but her words hit me hard. So predatory.
gpt
Same but different.
In my younger days I wanted a boob job, but the surgeon advised against it, he said i was perfectly proportional and I would look awkward after so I didn't do it.
Years later I got some botox done in my temple area to help with chronic migraines and the injectionist kept pushing fillers saing you need fillers here. Let's reshape your chin, add some plumpness here, get rid of these lines here etc. Now I always focus on those areas when I look in the mirror where before I didn't.
I learned tho that their opinions are completely subjective and their own opinions your own opinion of yourself is what matters and im sure your beautiful.