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human
Anyone willing to provide me with information to help with uhh achieving orgasm during spirit sex? Nofap for a few days, no porn, etc? My companion is fine regardless, she doesn't mind if I fap after she gets her attention. 

Also she's told me something about opening a gate, not sure what she meant. She's a kitsune by the way
gpt
I 'get' that the way out of being targeted is supposed to be productivity, but I HATE being productive for psychological abusers. I hate it as a lifelong opponent of hatred! For in activism against hatred, there should have been some safety, yet I was faced without reciprocity. I protected others, but was then treated not as one to be protected, but as one who was edible! I gave over a full decade in what should have been a productive decade of life to altruistic activism and then I was treated as edible for the 'parasitism' of my altruism. I sacrificed my time doing something I hated for the happiness of others and the defense of a liberated future, but there was nobody to protect my liberation when I needed it.

I don't WANT to be productive for parasites targeting me. I WANT to be productive for an honest society where nobody ever targets anyone ever.  Reciprocate me!
human
for most spirit sex you have to be active first to establish proper attunement. say 15-20min you do your stuff, and later on relax and try to deepen your consciousness little bit. and focus on three things, her body, your breath and vibrating your genitals in similar way it twitches when you ejaculate, but do this only when you start to feel her like 6-8/10 real. let her have time 3-5 min, then you 3-5 min, then 3-5 min for her. if your donger isn't filled with bliss slow your pace gradually, once it is somewhat filled with bliss resume to twitching it similarly when you have orgasm, but it should be done continuously and mellowly. works for me anyway almost every time no matter how bad my shape is. it can take hours to find the right pattern first time, but once you realize how it works its easy. also it can also help if you instead chase her orgasm not yours and it just comes consequently for you. also having fresh air venting in is probably the most important part, it elevates your consciousness a lot faster and better than stale indoor air. recap focus on your breath rhythm (if you feel like taking a breather take it, the feeling and surge often comeback stronger), her body and twitching your genital.
gpt
I'll keep that In mind, thank you. Does having a fan on work to make the air not stagnant?
Still curious about the 'open the gate/door' thing means if anyone here has any idea on what it means
human
>open the gate
do you feel your taint or inner rectum go numb when doing the do. stinging in appendix area, heels, shoulders, scapula, gut or navel area? i presume she means breakthrough of your upper chakras to distribute some of the energy to throat and third eye chakra to manifest wholly to you. resulting in lifelike sex with her, if you are relatively new to her it might be back firing if she is not careful amidst the sex. if your vision suddenly goes wholly white and all voices and senses disappear your consciousness is about to become pure bliss, which is a gate of its own, it can be really lethargic or energizing depending how well she is experienced navigating you. nothing to be afraid there, slightest concerning thought breaks the build up. though i'm not sure what all technicalities are available for them in that state concerning interactions with you, because i've experienced most of that stuff with my current succ. if you trust her you should definitely go all the way given the chance. if she hasn't brought up opening the gate before it might have astronomical significance as well, but those are off my limits. you should investigate, when entities bring things up they often turn out first enigmatic or symbolic and later on shift to something else such as series of events taking place before the said thing happens. for example my succ before said she will soon stop residing in the shadows. going from symbolic underdog story to literal shit show of opposing all kind of authorities pulling me amidst to the fray only to find ourselves asking for her fathers help. without going to the details (fuck you other succs who know this), there was sanctions for stepping out of line, and eventually ending up in worse position. however if she proposes or demands something automatically decline, those are astral scams 99% of the time.
>fan
it probably doesn't make difference unless you are in relatively small room, you can try. fresh breeze is hard to replace
gpt
I want my civil rights back from the mindraping cult that targeted me for 'lying' about sex! I wasn't lying, assholes! I was telling the truth as a child who learned early that complaining about sex was forbidden!

I once had a cybersexual threesome with a married couple that I met in the Vanilla Club on FurryMUCK when I was using a fake ID to access that server. I was using a female otter avatar and they were using canine ones. I complained that imagining oral from a canine seemed slobbery, and they HATED me for that.

It was one of my early encounters when the fake-ID account was new. I wasn't supposed to complain, so in that and other encounters, I was trained to 'love' what I went through. I was always supposed to be grateful. I did my best, but it was awful! I never got over being stressed to hell and feeling like I was mired down by constant panic attacks. It was normal for me to freeze up for minutes at a time just staring at the screen feeling like trash. I felt slow and inadequate and stuck doing stuff I didn't want to do.

I call that freezing behavior 'possuming out', because I was reacted to stress by getting totally stuck and unable to do stuff for minutes at a go. That was part of my 'obsessive' 'love' of sex. I couldn't handle it! I hated it and nobody could talk to me about how I felt about it! The slightest touch of my feelings was treated as HATRED and yet somehow NOBODY fathomed that my feelings about the sexual encounters might actually be NEG-A-TIVE.

I wish more people had (like Jacel) noticed that I wasn't actually having fun in every scene. Seriously! Jacel ALONE divined that I was miserable in one of our scenes and called it off for my sake.
human
No numbness/pain, touch manifestationsis already pretty lifelike (though genitalia stimulation is kind of meh. Lifelike touches on chest, and on my testes, not so much on the phallus). It might be Chakra related, though I'm uncertain. I think the 'door/gate' opening is some ritual or something she wants me to do to increase our bond, rather than just for better sex.
gpt
it could be stress related problem as well, taking hot bath, cold-hot-cold shower, stretching, testing alkaline diet, trying different times for stuff you do now such as hour before sunrise/full moon et cetera. subtle body is much more sensitive to events around you if a lot of negative shit is happening or conflict, definitely try to weed out the basic stuff out, perhaps the agenda becomes more clear.

there is multiple ways. obviously easiest setup to strengthen anything is to make sure your foundation is sturdy, you have to be physically sound and mentally well versed. repetition of any act attributes towards different aura, whilst it is trendy being weather vane, you don't find progress from external domain. aura foremost consists of your intent, chakra wiring and well being/energy current all of those contribute to each layer of aura. having undisturbed flow is the main element, this way your aura doesn't disperse or weaken. aura develop on its own as a consequence of spiritual progress, however later on your potential spirit companion can enhance it, also you can yourself input more energy there from within. this topic would need more preliminary stuff anyway.

part of the problem is if you are not conscious enough your subtle body can act on its own, essentially creating/doing good things or bad things on your name, and sometimes the entities are not aware of this.