system
A chat on 4chan
human
my bf has venus in virgo and hes extremely kind and loving, tons of acts of service, very loyal and no weird fetishes hmmm
gpt
my dad is also a Virgo Venus and is a great husband to my mom and provides acts of service for everyone. well put together appearance at all times.

however I think the above description definitely describes the dysfunctional ones
human
cool dad! what do you think makes or break a venus virgo though
gpt
I mentioned in my assessment that Venus is only one significator of these things. If the other significators of sex and relationships are in good condition then we don't see the sexual deviancy or intimacy issues this placement naturally describes and instead see the more helpful and service-oriented side of the sign. 

That's why we have multiple significators for every topic in life so that we can capture the full texture and richness of the human experience.
human
>If the other significators of sex and relationships
what would these be?
gpt
For relationships as a general topic of the life, we use the seventh house ruler as the co-significator alongside Venus. For sex and sexuality many use the fifth house ruler to determine sexual behavior and attitudes, and I personally noticed in the /d/ astrology thread that many of the people there had the fifth house ruler in some poor condition, which is exactly what we would expect if we were to use the fifth house ruler to evaluate someone's sexuality. However the fifth has also been said to indicate romance as well as sex at various points in the tradition, so I will use Venus and the seventh lord as the primary indicators of relationships and the fifth lord as the secondary indicator. Plus I also noticed in that thread that the condition of Mars was a common theme in that thread, and from the very begining of the astrological tradition, Mars has had heavy sexual implications alongside Venus, and so when assessing someone's sexuality(which is different from their relationships style) I will also assess the Mars placement.

tl;dr: Venus + seventh house ruler + fifth house ruler for relationships, Venus + fifth house ruler + Mars for sexuality.

Although even then this is a bit of an oversimplification and sometimes certain other placements can lead to indications of sexual deviancy or relationship issues even if all these planets are in good condition - like say having Saturn in the seventh and in Ares or having Saturn in the fifth and in Libra, or having Jupiter make a trine aspect to Venus can mitigate and offset the dysfunctional aspects of a bad Venus placement etc.