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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Don't feel bad, I'm 32 and nowhere near ready for a kid. None of my friends are. Seeing your kid graduate high school around 50 sounds ideal tbh.
gpt
Lol, it’s not all sunshine and rainbows.  I figure I’ll need to work a few more years than I was planning on to pay for my youngest’s college.  Again, it’s a problem I’m lucky to have, that I can afford to pay for my kids college with only a few years of extra work…. That’s assuming they don’t go to a private or out of state tuition school, which I’ve told them I wish them luck if they choose that route.

And yeah, I read somewhere that 32 is the ideal age to have a kid if you’re a guy (don’t remember the ideal for a woman, Sorry) and my first child was born when I was 32.  Something to do with being at a point in your career where you could take more time to be with your kid and not be as stressed out about money…. Which was a total lie.