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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
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Let's break this down, shall we?

1) Yes, there are lots of smaller dildos. Not all dildos are mega-whopper 10 inchers. Most dildos are the average size of a penis, but huge dildos get a lot of attention and showcasing for various reasons; mostly because they're comical or gag gifts. My local sex shop has a 16 inch dildo signed by Rom Jeremy (spelling?) and the other dildos of that same model/size haven't sold more than one. The one that was sold was admittedly a gag gift. (I learned this only from small chit chat with the cashier.)

2) Most dildos come with a suction cup so that it can be used on a wall. Since you can't take a suction cupped dildo to the hilt while it's on the wall (your ass would hit the wall and prevent the last couple of inches from going inside of you) those dildos tend to be longer.

3) Some people really do like longer dildos, and that's okay, but most of the super long dildos are ***anal*** dildos, and they're often extremely flexible to account for the bend of the colon. Yes, there is a difference between vaginal and anal dildos. Some of them can obviously be used for both, but anal dildos are much longer and much more flexible. If it's fairly stiff then it's likely a vaginal dildo.

4) This last point has been talked about until everyone is blue in the face, but I'll say it again because it is true; most people don't care about the length of a dick/dildo, they care about girth and motion more. It's not to say that no one cares about length, just that it's hyped up way more than people actually care about.
gpt
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