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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
I found that at some point you just have to let go of the notion that someone is going to explain themselves in a concise manner at all times. And that's ok, I mean even those who ingrain logical thinking into their daily life will run out of energy to keep that level of thinking, so just chill out a little.
gpt
Yes, I learned that the hard way, but I don’t think “so just chill out a little” is the solution. In my experience, many people have impenetrable beliefs and ideologies about things they don’t even understand very well, which is frustrating beyond belief. 

If you’re a person who likes to rationalise things, be concise, think through things before speaking and is taking the effort to do that, you’d expect a bare minimum similar effort from the other person too, which is often lacking because people want to come across as smart without doing the legwork for it