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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
The idea of red flags is gaining in popularity, I don't see this as a helpful way to evaluate anyone. There is always more to any given situation than meets the eye and without taking into account all factors and the consistency of questionable behaviour you risk simplifying a complex situation. Also, is there no room for redemption in your heart... you would judge a person on what they did 11 years ago? People do change. Look at the person that's in front of you.
gpt
Exactly. You don’t write off entire human beings and consign them to the garbage bin of life because they have some flaws.