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human
heres my dream. 

my late mother, myself and this girl who i am told is my cousin are all living in a old studio flat i used to live in between 2011-2014. 
as you can imagine its quite cramped. clothes, washing, bedding, screens computers etc.
this girl is fucking astonishingly good looking. platinum blonde hair about 5ft 5. shes very quite. i keep having this dream. normally once every couple of months or so. 
we are just chilling there. the flat is very different. the bed is arranged differently. a couple of times i try to come onto to her but she just ignores me or something. but i can feel she likes me. i am not related to this girl IRL. i have never even met her before. but i cant quite remember if i am told she is related and she is staying with me. i left home back in 2008. so its odd my mother would be living near me never mind in my old studio with this girl. the vibe of the dream is that its just another weekend. no work/preparing for the week ahead etc. 
everytime i wake up i miss the girl loads and i feel like she misses me. this has been going on for the best part of 2 years. 
i always forget it/put it past me until it happends again.
gpt
Interesting I have had similar dreams with a girl i've never met but am deeply in love with in the dream and feel sad when I wake up. This has been going on for probably 5 years for me. It could be someone we know from different lives/soulmate who knows. 

I think the fact that your dream is an old apt and your mom is living there all cramped shows that this probably effects the dream girl liking you but not reciprocating affection. You are holding onto something from your past related to your childhood and relationship with your mom that is hindering your future potential to move forward with your own life and future partner. The fact the girl might be related to you shows there is an obstacle that seems out of your control for achieving the life you desire. Perhaps what you want to make you happy is looked down upon by society or your upbringing and that's preventing you from moving forward to pursue your path.
human
sorry for the slow reply i have genuinely just been staring at it. 
i cant for the life of me think of anything in regards to holding myself back or anything related to my past. i am not even dating anyone either. i am really grateful for the read. your assessment of the dream is spot on.

>Perhaps what you want to make you happy is looked down upon by society or your upbringing and that's preventing you from moving forward to pursue your path.

it certainly feels like that anon. pretty much anything i try with genuine thought and hope is struck down. 

does your girl also have platnum blonde hair?
the werid thing about the dream is i know she isnt my cousin but i am told she is if that makes sense? or shes a family freind. again never met anyone like this girl in the waking world. 
the fact that is occurring does spook me abit.
gpt
>i cant for the life of me think of anything in regards to holding myself back or anything related to my past. i am not even dating anyone either. i am really grateful for the read. your assessment of the dream is spot on.

I get the feel not for a specific person you dated or thing but more of a character trait developed that hurts your mindset, some kind of self-limiting belief. Also I'm not expert dream interpreter or anything so take it with a grain of salt it could be completely wrong.

>it certainly feels like that anon. pretty much anything i try with genuine thought and hope is struck down. 

It could be related to this, struck down by who or what? If you have the intuition that you need to do something you should do so even if people doubt you or you fail, knowing you're on the right path and can keep trying. At the very least you gain life experience and confidence.

>does your girl also have platnum blonde hair?
I don't have the same dream with her, they're always different and she always looks different, but I can tell its the same woman by the energy if that makes sense. I get the sense that you equate her with family because she knows you and may be connected to your soul in some way and you interpret that as part of your family. It could also be a representation of your feminine side (emotions, artistic, creation, ability to go with the flow, love) that is being repressed somehow as evident by her refusal to reciprocate affection, showing a sort of disconnect, again going back to the circumstances of an old cluttered house with your mom showing maybe some kind of past experience has formed a mental block with this side.
human
>I get the feel not for a specific person you dated or thing but more of a character trait developed that hurts your mindset, some kind of self-limiting belief. Also I'm not expert dream interpreter or anything so take it with a grain of salt it could be completely wrong.

that does sound alot like me, thank you anon for taking such consideration. 

>It could be related to this, struck down by who or what? If you have the intuition that you need to do something you should do so even if people doubt you or you fail, knowing you're on the right path and can keep trying. At the very least you gain life experience and confidence.
 
you'd think anon. but i am clawing back alot of my life from the pandemic. 

>(emotions, artistic, creation, ability to go with the flow, love) that is being repressed somehow as evident by her refusal to reciprocate affection, showing a sort of disconnect, again going back to the circumstances of an old cluttered house with your mom showing maybe some kind of past experience has formed a mental block with this side.

i know this doesnt help but you both right and not right. 
i think i know what that is. but i am not sure :/

>I don't have the same dream with her, they're always different and she always looks different, but I can tell its the same woman by the energy if that makes sense.
i understand. does the location change? any other variables?