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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Bro. It’s easy easy. YouTube is your friend. Go slow and don’t force anything. Usually those fucks at oil change places crazy over tighten the filter and drain plug. Ridiculous. Don’t do that. It needs hand tight plus about 1/4 turn. Lube the gasket first and make SURE the old one comes off by looking at the filter your just removed or you’ll blow oil everywhere. Trust me.
gpt
I honestly don't even do fully hand tight, just nice and snug.  No problem in 40 oil changes.  I initially did fully hand tight but would need the filter wrench or a screwdriver stabbed through it to get it off so backed off on being that tight.

My tip would be always change your oil with nitrile gloves on.  Some not great stuff is in used oil and also it helps if the oil is warm and your filter likes to dump all over your hand.

I have 3 5gal home depot buckets that I fill with the used oil and dump at the eco station and have a 4th for filters but the father in law just refills empty jugs as he goes which seems to work well.