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human
It's called realism

It's not a coincidence that the old saying 'there's someone out there for everyone' was created in a time when women didn't have rights and couldn't own resources, so EVERY GUY was 'a catch'.

Fast forward to the modern age and women pretty much only want the best of the best.

They spend their best years fucking around so they aren't even virgins if you get married.

The men they spend their best years fucking wouldn't marry them anyways so they end up quite literally 'settling down' and settling for a guy they don't want to begin with (average guy) for the sake of 'not dying alone', 'dont being lonely' and resources (he's just her provider)

These marriages obviously won't last because women being fickle will even give up on settling.

This is why:
50% of first marriages fail
67% of second marriages fail
74% of third marriages fail
and so on and so forth

Some guys just can't accept reality so they keep repeating the process till they are tired or broke.

70% of divorces are initiated by women, and that number goes up to 90+% of you filter down to college educated women.

Men pay 97% of alimony and if a woman is college educated she's 98% more likely to marry a man that makes more money than her.

I don't go by hopes, and dreams, I go by stats, I go by reality, that's the only logical way to make decisions.

The numbers even show that women on a consistent basis rate around 80% of men on dating apps as 'unattractive'.

People seem to forget (or maybe they pretend) that women only paired up with average men to begin with because of 'enforced monogamy' through patriarchal constructs. So today some men are pretty much excluded from 'the game'.

You can either lie to yourself, keep failing and get taken advantage of. Or you can simply opt out of the game.

Not all men are going to 'make it', most men today are settling for used up scraps.

Makes more sense to just build your wealth and fuck whores in Colombia or something.
gpt
I'm not reading all of that, especially with your shitty spacing. Yes going mgtow is a solution, but self improvement isn't bad per se. Just enjoy the ride and don't worry about women or the lack thereof.
I know this rabbit hole very well and it does nothing to 'red pill' yourself into misery, the best of men are those who perservere despite the odds. t. virgin
human
>I'm not reading all of that, especially with your shitty spacing
Lack of spacing is what's shitty, something being more readable could never be a bad thing.

>but self improvement isn't bad per se
It's bad if you are doing it for a specific goal that won't even be achieved when you improve.

If you are an average/below average man in this day and age, and your goal is to have sex, then your time is better spent building wealth and fucking prostitutes, rather than playing the endless game of 'gamble for pussy' and hope you get laid.

Either way you're paying, so you might as well pay directly and get laid than gamble, play mind games, and hope for the best.
gpt
But it's not readable, you should put extra spacing in between each paragraph and not each sentence.
Hit the enter key once to create a simple line break, this should be common knowledge.

>if you want sex, just hire a hooker bro
Yes, but who said OP wants to have sex, he wants the emotional companionship.
If your standard is a virgin wife who loves you, you shouldn't lower your standards because you feel it it's unttainable.
But you should be equally comfortable with not finding any.

The true goal of self improvement is to become the best version of yourself and not being bothered by things outside of your control.
human
>Yes, but who said OP wants to have sex, he wants the emotional companionship
Good luck with that,lol at 'emotional companionship' with the sex that has literally evolved to have zero loyalty and to quickly move on from partners and fuck the invading enemy.

Here are two simple stats that paint the picture:
1. If a woman makes more money than her husband the chances of divorce increase by 33%

2. Can't remember the specific numbers or study (google. it's so specific you'll find it):
If a woman gets a raise or loses fucking weight the likelihood of her leaving her partner goes up lol.

You can't make this shit up, what 'emotional companionship' is he really expecting from the opposite sex of this species? lol

 is watching too many romantic movies and anime, women aren't like that in real life. The data shows the cold hard truth.

Women 'love' men for what they do, men 'love' women for what they are. OP is expecting a woman to 'love' him the same way a man 'loves' a woman, but women are for the most part incapable of that kind of 'love'.

I'm sure there are some exceptions, but it's just not in their nature.



>you shouldn't lower your standards because you feel it it's unttainable
Not 'feel', KNOW, numbers don't lie. Also come on dude, don't be ridiculous, if we applied your logic to the old parachute analogy you wouldn't take the jump.

If someone's handing you a parachute that had a high statistical likelihood to fail, you would not jump out of a plane with it. Accepting reality is what every adult has to do at some point in their life, or else they will just keep failing.

>But you should be equally comfortable with not finding any
So endlessly chase the improbable dream of a virgin wife that 'loves' you but be 'equally comfortable' with being sex starved your entire life, gotcha, makes perfect sense.
gpt
>if we applied your logic to the old parachute analogy you wouldn't take the jump.
I wouldn't bother with women at all, but that's my personal (rational) choice. I can't tell people what to do and neither can you.

>So endlessly chase the improbable dream of a virgin wife that 'loves' you but be 'equally comfortable' with being sex starved your entire life
Yeah, if you expect your wife to be a virgin you shouldn't fuck random whores, would be a huge double standard. Some people, believe it or not, have inhibitions about casual sex.
If OP does find a girlfriend he'll find out whether that life is for him, then depending on his preference he can go the escort route or the abstinent route.
I've made my choice, I won't moralfag on you if you want to pay for temporary pleasures of the flesh, we're all free to decide.