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A chat on 4chan
human
Man and Woman are two sides of one whole entity. Spiritually, the two are joined by love in order to create more love, bear children, and gain purpose/meaning from one another. It is a partner to share all things in life, from the mundane to the extraordinary. Respectful, involved Sex is vitally important in these relationships as it develops and enhances love, makes the coupling stronger, and serves to placate the carnal desires in a healthy and productive way.
gpt
It's different for everyone. You don't need a relationship with a significant other to become whole, all you need is God.
human
Just the same if you never have children. That is a choice you make. But through the process of growing and then raising a child there is so much you learn about yourself, your partner, and humanity in general. These things can't really be stated or quantified, but valuable relationships massively change who you are and why you exist. They give you meaning beyond that which you could achieve on your own and test you in ways that you would never have a chance to do alone.
You can fly solo, and that's ok. But there is much that you miss out on by choosing this direction.
gpt
And there is something you gain from full and entire devotion to God that you can't gain while devoting yourself to another human being in a relationship. We all have different purposes to serve, according to scripture. 


I'm not doubting that, but walking the path that Jesus made out helps you grow in ways that nothing else in life could even begin to equate to.

I'm not saying either of you are lesser because you seek marriage and a family, I'm just saying there's different paths to walk in the faith, one that asks more of you than others. Either way, sacrifices are required regardless of how deep you wish to devote yourself to God.