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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Agree with this. Kinda messed she brought OP in like that though.
E: I feel like I need to clarify this. It's not messed up she asked him to be support. That's good. The fact that she asked BEFORE she told her husband is garbage. I can't believe this needs to be spelled out. Imagine everyone knows you're getting a divorce except you.
gpt
Is it? It sounds like she wanted her husband to have support when she does something she knows will hurt him. I would personally have reached out after rather than before, but I think she’s doing it because she cares at least.