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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Good advice but a word to the wise. I never counted. I always told myself the other stuff, as in my love and respect for my spouse as a person, was more important. Turns out, sex was more important to my stbx, though I was never informed of this, and now we're headed for a divorce. If your count hovers near zero, try to up it, or try to fix whatever the problem may be, or go ahead and reserve a U-Haul. I kid because it's too painful to not.
gpt
I'm so sorry. I wish you a lot of strength!