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human
I understand exactly how you feel. I am manifesting great things in my life, but as a woman, beauty after years of ugliness to invisibleness, would be such a bitter experience. I am currently shooting for the low humble bar of being cute, but at the end of the day, billions of women who have never known and never will know nothing but being attractive exist. I can try revision, but I won't truly get all those years of even ugly/average men averting their eyes when they see me or never being asked out on a date, while other women are already on their second marriages with great wholesome family men. I know people complain that women get too much validation, but getting zero validation as a woman is basically alluding to your entire existence being meaningless.
gpt
How old are you? I was ugly until age 23. It’s a bitter feeling yes, that I’m beautiful now but got nothing for 23 years. In a way I’m also grateful because if I were always beautiful I’d have turned into a spoiled brat and wouldn’t have been forced to improve my personality. 

There are worse things than having grown up ugly.
human
>In a way I’m also grateful because if I were always beautiful I’d have turned into a spoiled brat and wouldn’t have been forced to improve my personality.

Not the person you replied to, but I don't agree with that. Generally speaking attractive people have an easier time to develop a pleasant personality. Ugly people are more likely to turn out bitter and ugly in personality too because the world rejects them. Saying beautiful people are spoiled and nasty is a cope most of the time.
gpt
this is true. If you are born ugly or unattractive then you are going to get more negative feedback than positive whereas a beautiful will get far more positive feedback than negative. Whatever feedback you get helps instill a positive or negative outlook and your confidence level is very much determined by this
human
>ugly people manifested themselves being ugly
What makes people subconsciously do this to themselves?
gpt
I never said that and how could that even be possible