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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Not really constant but definitely not a one off. But it was a long time ago and he's been sober for years
gpt
Right. So you're still struggling to reconcile what he were like then? How has his behaviour changed?
Has he acknowledged the harm he has done? Are you able to safely bring it up with him now that you're still affected without fear of retribution (that may be a clue as to where your relationship is at)?
IDK this stuff is super complex. Hope you find some peace around it