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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
I apparently do this to dudes without knowing it. Literally never knew. I almost always find something to compliment in a person and make it a goal to compliment at least one stranger while I'm out. I'm a big smile, strike up a conversation, aggressively friendly person. Turns out a lot of guys have thought I was flirting with them and flirted back. My husband pointed it out a few years ago.

I feel bad, like I'm leading them on.
gpt
Don’t feel bad, this is a society problem… not an individual problem.