system
A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Something to consider is the valuable mental health resources available at most Universities that is free to students.  In my experience a lot of homeschool parents aren't big on therapy or psychiatric treatment either from religion or extreme granola/crunchiness.  College may not be a good idea but if OP'S parents can't help him find resources and they can't find them himself, College might not be a terrible idea.
gpt
That's a fantastic point I hadn't considered.