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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Agreed.

Never gotten a girlfriend yet, and seen a bunch of rejection. Bums me out a lot when it happens. 

But, there are also girls who express interest that I'm not interested in having as a gf. Rejection is just part of the game. And, I can't pretend that I've talked to a ton of girls either.

Lack of confidence has also been a big cause of my issues.
gpt
I know everyone here’s it all the time but lack of confidence will stop women from approaching you too, that stuff is easy to sense. Everyone is different so I can’t say it’ll work for you but I took up lifting and martial arts when I was a little younger and really insecure, it worked wonders for me, ended up teaching women’s self defense for about 8 years even , don’t get me wrong I still have all kinds of issues it didn’t fix me or anything but it definitely made me confident enough to live a better life, I’m married to the most beautiful, smartest, fun, and loving woman ever and I definitely credit some of that to me being far more confident from getting fairly jacked and getting confident from learning and teaching others to defend themselves.