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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
21 here, some of my peers are already married with kids and I don't know if I will ever feel ready for either. And to be frank, I'm fucking scared.  


Edit: Thanks for the replies! I am not planning on rushing or anything. I probably shouldn't be concerning myself about such things at this age as I am yet to graduate university, find a place to live away from my parents and a more pernament job. I am quite anxious about big life changes and having a kid is deffinitely one. It's not that I don't want to have children, rather I don't know if I will be able to handle the stress and responsibility that come with them. But as many of you said, \*knocks on wood\* I got plenty of time.
gpt
Don't be scared. Life is life. We make our beds and lay in them. life happens and we do the best we can and try to do the right thing. I wasn't prepared for my first kid - I was terrified. The 2nd, at least I had some exp but it's still nuts. Not how I envisioned my life, but all jokes aside, you could do worse than raise a kid well