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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
I'm not saying it's not a serious issue, that example just only includes the ones with the problem.  Statistical how does it average against those couples who have no issue

I fall into the category of barely even changed not removed.  My wife and I rarely even do things without each other.    So where does it stem from.  My real life experiences don't represent the totality of that subreddit.   I have a hunch, obviously just that a hunch.. it's more likely they weren't super compatible in the first place.   Akin to wide spread divorce.. how many don't get divorced but just stick in there which probably leads to loss sex too.

My own speculation, take it as a grain of salt.
gpt
&gt;I have a hunch, obviously just that a hunch.. it's more likely they weren't super compatible in the first place.   Akin to wide spread divorce.. how many don't get divorced but just stick in there which probably leads to loss sex too.

100% agree. I think many couples get pregnant accidentally and stay together for the kids but end up realizing they aren't compatible and just kinda stay stuck because they don't know what to do and are afraid that they'll somehow damage their kids if they leave/divorce the other parent. 

I learned young that it's much better to divorce early than to stick around and make the entire family miserable for years like my parents did. I wish my parents would have divorced instead of staying together when they haven't gotten along in 20+ years.