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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Sounds like you need to (1) find better partners who know how to please you and (2) communicate your likes and dislikes.
gpt
Or continue with toys and wait for someone I am interested in.

Finding better partners would mean having a place to live where the men are not conservative.   I have not enjoyed conservatives idea of sex.  It's very male dominate and that's a turn off.  

Again, wait until I am in a better place.   A city with more urban knowledge.   They men here are pretty under educated.  

I communicate.  I am extremely clear about my preferences. I have even bought an app so the guy could learn how to play with my clit.  It was a waste of money.   He wouldn't try it.

Men have told me that I am supposed to adapt to their way of doing sex. 

So, I have a magic wand and my imagination.  It gives real orgasms