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human
I dated a guy for a short while who never called me by my name. I was convinced he didn’t know it until he introduced me to his parents. That was the only time I heard him use my name. It makes you feel weirdly subhuman. That relationship didn’t last long at all
gpt
I was also from the other side. I started dating a guy, waiting for my "like" to grow into "love", it instead faded. And I was not sure for a while, but I guess the deep understanding that this is not it, was there. So, I broke up with him after 2 or 3 months of dating, and he said " Could you please for once call me by my name". I didn't even notice I wasn't. I analyzed it and came to a conclusion that calling someone by their first name is bonding. And as I was preparing to end it, I avoided bonding, because I didn't want him to get more attached to me