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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
My now husband loaned me a good chunk of money very early on in the relationship so I could move across the country for grad school which we were gonna do long distance. I insisted we write a contract, go to the bank, have it notarized stating I would pay him back within 3 years (post grad school). I never did pay him back because we got married and he was like "eh, its all our money now". I now make a good bit more than him but I wouldn't have gotten here without that help. I hope to buy him a shiny new car one day to repay him. 

He also had an inheritance and I offered to do a pre-nup.
gpt
That honest communication is awesome.