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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
Exactly, it's definitely wtf but I've been on other dates with guys who have had similar perspectives although he was the most upfront about saying his messed up thoughts. 

I think when some of these guys actually meet women who have their stuff together,  they get confused. Most of their interactions with women are only from online where they go on dating apps. Many of those accounts are scammers looking for money or women looking for attention. In the real world, there are many good women who don't seek attention, have made good lives for themselves through intelligence and hard work and just want to share their lives with someone...no ill intentions. It's not a rare thing!

Sounds like you have a great relationship and marriage. Never take that for granted!
gpt
I do and I'll hold onto it long as I can ❤️ good luck in your efforts!!