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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
I suspect you're probably going to get downvoted to hell for that but I'm going to sign off.  In my life I've had girls do shit to me that would have gotten me arrested or at least had the shit slapped out of me.  Being touched in my sleep, breasts and vaginas that I didn't want to see exposed to me, caressed way more than I was comfortable with.  


And you weren't allowed to say jack shit about.  You've got to be diplomatic on just getting out of the way so you don't hurt their feelings or you don't come off as "weird" for not wanting it.  


I'm talking cases where a girl could scream bloody murder and be right to do so, but a guy just has to smile and get out of the way or misdirect the action to something else.
gpt
honestly, most men who do this to women are not arrested or punished. it's a problem for everyone. I'm sorry you've been through that.