system
A chat on 4chan
human
What kind of a person would you normally say you are? Different people have different appeals and there must be something about you that seems to be striking as too generic.
gpt
I’m a fairly laid back guy. I don’t push hard when it comes to that shit in the beginning. Pretty straight forward but I’m also good at using light hearted humor and pretty decent at flirting dude. I think I definitely have my own kind of character. Granted I could always Improve but I’ve never had bad luck like this. Like I’m doing all the same stuff I’ve done that’s allowed me to succeed in the past and it’s just not working 

I seriously believe something else is going on. It’s like something doesn’t want me to meet a girl or something doesn’t want things to work out. Or like maybe it’s just not time yet and there’s something else down the road I’m waiting to run into at this point. I don’t know. I really don’t know. Something isn’t right. 


I’ve been doing a lot of introspection lately about who I am and what I want
human
How old are you? If you're mid-20s, your luck with women will typically begin changing somewhat. Women around your age will want to find someone who will help them settle down and older women won't dote on you as easily depending on how you've aged
gpt
I’m about to turn 26. I like older women. 

Older women tell me that I’m really really mature / different for my age and that all the dudes they meet at my age are like lost or immature or “just bodies” 

Many many have called me an old soul
human
Are you actually having sex with older women though? Who do you actually pursue?
gpt
Not at the moment. 

The last time I went to bed with an older woman was like 2 months ago and for whatever reason I couldn’t get it up. Like that’s never been an issue and I think I just got nerved out in the moment and it didn’t work and I never heard from her again. Shit like that. Idk what happened. Like finally I’m gonna get it and I fuck up some magical stupid way 

I went out on a date with an older woman a couple weeks ago. She turned out to be a cat fish and talked herself up the entire time and it was just weird and I turned out to be uncomfortable 

Right now I don’t like actively pursue anyone. I network. I go out sometimes and I use a couple dating apps. I don’t take anything too seriously and I try and keep it light hearted / fun and if I’m having a good vibe with somebody I’ll try and make a plan to get them one on one 

But most of the girls I get dates with, even if they flake, are like 21-23. Or they’re a couple years older. No one around my immediate age