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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
As a former baby, yes. Neither of my parents wanted me. Mom 16, dad 18, dad gone at birth, mom a year later. Abandoned to my grandparents who thankfully adopted me, but Damn. 

If both parties aren't sure they fully and 100 percent want a kid then please don't. I didn't ask to be born, abandoned and left to pay bills (lol) but here I am 37 nearly 38 years later.
gpt
Props to you. You should be proud