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A chat on 4chan
human
There is no purpose of cooming aside from reproduction. People have lived their lives without lusting after women's holes, in fact chastity along with fasting is part of many religious and magical practices.
It's sad that you identify so strongly with your lust that you think it is inseparable from your being, i wish you luck on your journey.
gpt
Do you identify with your need to breathe? 
Here's the thing... 
Our sexual urges have been used to enslave us. Thus we are at an impasse; it is our urge, and as such perfectly valid - just like our desire to eat, breathe, sleep... It's a need. Not something to oppose. Or do you hate bedtime, still? 

No, you hate being enslaved. Sexuality renders us vulnerable... So we need to ask, why is it that this aspect can be used to enslave us? We find out by comparing it to other needs. 
Food can also be used to enslave people. 
>Food - in a society this requires compliance and/or currency to acquire; a permanent need
>Food hasn't always been an obvious thing, however, and our survival instinct has grown a horrible monster out of it: Gluttony, which has its spawns in disease and obesity alike
Does not mean we need to oppose our desire for food. Though I get where it comes from. 
Now, let's look at sex urge. Satisfying this need: 
>In a society requires that you pass social hoops (aka selling out your soul), have enough currency, or meet your 'divine counterpart' - alternatively you become addicted to pornography, which is 'free' and full of psyops meant to degrade and hurt you
Pretty much the same thing. 

Don't be fat. Don't be obedient. Don't be attached to money. But don't hate yourself for wanting food, or sex, pleasure, comfort etc. They are all valid desires. You just have to prioritize because we live in psychological world war trenches.
human
This hit me hard anon, I absolutely feel enslaved by my 'need' for sex and intimacy. I don't know what to do about it though. I am making personal progress that may eventually pay off but I don't foresee it getting anywhere for several years at least.