system
A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
See this is why any time someone asks a question like this I assume they’re just trying to assuage these nagging feelings. They know what’s going on and just don’t want to deal with the fact they’re cool with it.
gpt
Seriously, what is the point of asking the question here, when no one can answer properly cuz OP omitted a pretty big detail. Like, everyone is answering rightfully thinking he's trying to rope her into an affair. But it'd change things if they knew OP already did participate + is interested in pursuing this situationship.

Him acting distant with his wife around sounds like it ISN'T an open relationship &amp; he's lying to both his wife and OP.

And in another comment OP said "why would he tell me he's married if he wants to pursue something with me?". Like.. isn't that completely contradictory to the other post where OP knows he's married, they already hooked up and she is still interested?