system
A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Perception is reality. 

Appearance of impropriety can be as bad as actual act of impropriety. 

Getting a general consensus on hypothetical actions from the group of your peers might give you confidence in your plan of action.
gpt
Intentions are everything. Appearances deceive. 
Asking for group concensus is essentially finding a test audience over something looks rather than if it's the right thing to do.