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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
If anything he is the more sexist from how this sounds.

You chose pretty good descriptions of feminity: gentle, affectionate etc are all good. Its not like you are saying 'women who only wear pink' or anything. Him saying women are not like that anymore is just inaccurate and rude.
gpt
To expand on this - the point of feminism is that a man or woman can be or do anything. If a person thinks that woman can’t be or are not allowed to be feminine than that is sexist.