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A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
If you’re respecting women just to have sex with them then you aren’t actually respecting women and that’s why you aren’t having sex with them lol
gpt
Yeah, idk about other women but the biggest green flag/red flag litmus tests is how a man treats a woman he doesn't want to fuck.

My husband and I ended up hosting an old friend of his for a night at my parents' house because his car broke down. I had plans for my childhood friend to come over and eat appetizers and play board games. We figured the more the merrier, right? 

(For some background, my friend is an awesome person with cool hobbies and an awesome job, but she is a bit overweight and has acne due to PCOS)

My husband's friend had always been exceptionally kind to me, but when he met my friend, he completely changed. He pretty much bullied my poor friend the entire night until we cut the night short. 

A year or so later, he got a girlfriend and she had a 21st birthday party. Once again, he was rude to the girls that he thought were too black or too fat. 

My husband no longer speaks to him, but we still keep in touch with his now-ex girlfriend who has married a great guy.