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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
That's a fair comment. False accusations can occur but it's real enough of a concern that I still believe we need to give benefit of doubt to the alleged victim to investigate accusations thoroughly. 

But the comment they were downvoting basically says "drunk women can't consent, so don't" which is good advice. Caught me off guard to see someone disagree.
gpt
I think the downvotes come because it sounds kinda victim blamey towards men to a degree, so does your phrasing here tbh, it should be "drunk *people* can't consent"

We've created a situation where men are viewed as the sexually aggressive party in all cases (yes data backs this up but it's conveniently left out how men will underreport a LOT more than women, see the end of ~~my comment~~ this paragraph for why), where trust me, women can try that shit too, I've been on the receiving end of it and it's not fun when you bring it up and people go "was it really rape?"

There's a lot of muddy waters around this topic and I think you both clarified it well enough between each other what you meant, just explaining how you might have triggered (using that as a descriptive neutral here, I get triggered all the time in small ways lol) some

EDIT: see strikethroughs