system
A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
There’s multiple variables here. People finding it hard to adjust their language is one thing, but also most people don’t agree with the ideology in the first place so they’re even less inclined to put in the effort. And people get stubborn when demanded to do smth
gpt
Coupled with the impossibility of identifying non-standard pronouns without additional conversation, it is just a headache.

That said, you wanna be they/them or whatever, no biggie. Just tell me.