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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
If you forgive someone, you let go of the hate. That's healthy. But forgiving someone doesn't mean forgetting. You don't have to pretend it never happened or trust them again.
gpt
I can see it for some things, but if someone has egregiously wronged or damaged me on purpose without any sort of guilt, then I should hate them for life.  I dont think about it constantly, its not like its all consuming, just if I am reminded by them, I wish them death or whatever.  I think if you want to forgive in every situation then it just seems like they werent all that perturbed by the wrongdoing, or they lack conviction.  Hatred is a valid emotion just as any other, and you can use it responsibly.