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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Your right, but I think what op means is when a guy says they're horny on the Internet where is the bunch of gross women who show up offering to help.
gpt
There was this one comedian who summarised it pretty well. You know how every guy has a funny crazy bitch story. When women have a crazy guy story in their life it often isn't funny because they sometimes just get killed.

I think the same principle applies here. Men don't feel threatened by crazy female creeps so they are down to engage with total strangers women do feel threatened by crazy creeps so they try to avoid that.