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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
&gt;  If it’s super true love and no bullshit or jealousy, some relationships can handle sex outside the relationship for reasons like this.

Can confirm, am poly. My spouse dates other people and I am chill with it. We as partners fill different roles imo, and he always meets people who are interesting af. 

I'm free to do the same as he does, I just choose to socialize infrequently so I meet far fewer people. My only complaint is that my own nature is to be extremely introverted, and my partner can do fuck all about that.

The only drama we get is people who don't understand the up front given 'rules' that we're both aware of what the other is doing and no, we're not divorcing, and we're not cheating. Some don't believe that and it gets wild. 

I can't really understand how monogamous people work, but I try to be empathetic when they're going through shit and be a decent friend. It seems so odd, just like OPs question.
gpt
I'm guessing this got negative likes just because it's about poly?