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human
not lame, I see why you guys are compatible. your fire venus and mars (love leo venuses btw, so romantic) as well as your earth sun and rising + libra mercury all play well with hers
gpt
Actually, we're both recluses. She has a tiny friend circle really. She's been a scapegoat for a building burning down in her area, and the people around view her as a black sheep, despite it being her arsehol peers what did the arsoning. She likes to roller skate. I like Aries bc I appreciate directness and I feel they don't take things too seriously but often view things sacramentally still, or so I feel. We urge eachothers schizoid qualities too much sometimes. Thank you for the insight fren keep on rammin. 
Wait one question, could my aquarius moon and it's aspects n such be seen as a problem? Esp as it relates to her chart
human
another thing I’m noticing about her chart are some malefics (mars in detriment and saturn) present in the 10th house of reputation, this could be related to the situation you mentioned. but with the good placements she has and how young she is I’m sure this is just a flash in the pan. I don’t think it’s such a bad thing to have a small friend group, quality over quantity in my book. and with all her 9th house placements and Aries moon maybe it’s a good opportunity to leave the town where this happened and see the world.

I agree us aries get over things quickly and don’t take them too seriously in the long haul. don’t worry about your aqua moon, it’s compatible to aries moon. and the harsh aspects are only a problem so far as theyre affecting your behavior to her negatively, if they are. I dated a guy who similarly had an Aqua moon conjunct Uranus - he was a bit unpredictable and at times distant but we were overall emotionally compatible. that def wasn’t the thing that put the nail in the coffin in my case, and considering your charts are so compatible in other ways I don’t think it’s a concern. just keep working on yourself and how your placements are manifesting.
gpt
Yeah, she of all people has seen the worst of my behavior, and thankfully due to her big heart she doesn't hold my feet to the fire. She's said I'm unpredictable, I guess namely with my emotions. She says she basically can never get a bead on what's happening in my head. It feels like an Uranian storm in there often. I noticed in her vedic chart all those Aries signs are pisces. She has the kind of vivid imagination that reaches out and touches her sometimes, and often it's scared her. 
I noticed in my own chart how poorly aspected my Venus is overall and I could probably personally relate that childhood I guess. (L)Only child, up until 6yrs old was a wonderful dream but life quickly degenerated soon after that. How she feels, and let's her feelings come on, I have a hard time doing that. Surrender. She makes me want to be more like her in ways. She's something of an inspiration to me in my best moments. I have a tendency to let myself be the bad boyfriend at times, and I suppose that's reflected in my Venus and it's relationship to my moon, which takes dominance over my chart as far as I can tell. 
Ty anon you further prove to me Aries are cool as heck
human
no don't be worried! I would think this would be an attractive quality of your appearance, and cap risings already normally have great bone structure and such lol, just something that makes you more unique- and neptune presence here may make you seem dreamy in some way


it does apply to you too as you have the same planets in the 1st and the same moon placement, but his are closer to the Asc which will have more of an effect there, yours are in aqua which will effect the moon more than in his case. I read your chart a bit earlier earlier but didn't focus as much on yours as your gf so I can do that if you want :)

but in regards to this  would you mind drawing up a synastry chart of the two of you? it'll be easier to view all aspects
gpt
Have you disappeared anon? I've been anticipating your reading of the synastry chart between my gf and I