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human
'Desire' exists in all realms, just in different forms. The desire for safety, to teach, to spread, to protect, to destroy, to escape, to run, to find.
Many-a-person can be lost, but it's their own journey to find. How can a ranger call themself a ranger if they cannot find their way home in the wild?
Perhaps they are lost and confused. Why are they lost and confused? Statements help no one. Questions and answers do.
gpt
I never implied desire didn't exist in most realms. Only that this is the specific realm of desire.
human
>beings who have to learn to balance desire exist in the realm of desire
water is wet
gpt
>water is wet
not for OP
human
and not for many
gpt
OP you attracted these habits because something in your inner isn't fully expressed. It's like an internalized cope that you cannot see until you poke your head out of the shell. You won't find healthy sexuality in a room or watching shit online. I remember when I was younger I was very sheltered and that shit was a sort of outlet, but it only was an outlet always. After that is just becomes habit. Something mechanical, and you end up with a massive disconnect at heart. In part this is because of the way the brain works with reinforcement learning. That part you have to undo with cold and stoic discipline. In part it is because you simply lack an experience in life. Thus you must grow yourself to break away from that old self. But in a respectful manner too; you cannot repress your younger self. You must guide yourself towards more fertile emotional grounds.
>If I stop porn and start nofap, will I get interested in womens and hopefully get a gf?
These are two separate concerns. You should discipline your behaviour because that is your duty to yourself. Whatever follows afterwards once you have changed you will have to wait and see. But your first walk is a walk alone.


Playing with fire and water is fun