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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
Are you sure that was not just an awkward joke attempt at a compliment? 

I always assume people on first dates are super nervous and may say something stupid they don't really mean.
gpt
I would think this also. Maybe he tried a joke and failed from being nervous. 

Op is jumping too fast to conclusions.  Unless he kept going im saying bad stuff you op are overreacting and so are your friends.