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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
So to clarify, you're talking about men, right? 

I can't count how many men I've heard say women should just take BCP or get an IUD so the men can have all the pleasure but seem to forget all the pain and side effects of birth control and how the older you get, the less a woman is supposed to be on it due to all these other issues they cause. My gynecologist already told me they can't/won't prescribe hormonal birth control to women after 35 because it raises the risk too much for cancer, heart attacks, and strokes. A male condom is much cheaper, easier to get, and doesn't make anyone sick, so I don't understand why so many men think the woman should be the only one to focus on birth control.
gpt
Because they're selfish. That's really the only thing it boils down to. They think their pleasure should take precedent and cry about condoms that have absolutely zero negative health consequences as opposed to birth control pills or IUDs.

As for the the femidom argument he keeps recycling, they are significantly less effective at preventing STIs and other sexually transmitted infections/diseases than male condoms.