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A chat on 4chan
human
I am also getting over an ex. She cheated and lied and manipulated me. She was the first girl I fell in love with. We were togehrrr for a year and I left her at the end of last summer, haven’t talked since early October. 

I’m doing really well getting over her and I finally feel like I can open up again. Dude maybe she cursed me or put a hex on me. I don’t know.
gpt
Spend some more time resting up first. Your cool might still be off and women can sense that, even if it's just a tiny fragment. You'll see women pursue you and make themselves available again when you're ready.
human
Yeah man. I feel like all of the failure is a sign that I have to stop. Like I gotta forget about it and do my own thing

Maybe something will work out again someday but for now perhaps it’s just not in the cards 

Granted I have a lot to get stoked on and I’m doing well all other things considered
gpt
That's good. It really sounds like you need to figure out how you affect people before you focus on doing that. Finding your true personality under your insecurity is one of the biggest challenges you can face.
human
Honest to god man, regardless of anything, I do believe I’m beginning to find my own truth, and being true to myself in interactions / meeting new people 


Like I’ve definitely stopped giving many fucks and I’ve just been able to be myself way more lately 


I dunno man I’ve been through so much fucked up shit in my life man so much dark deep shit and none of it has stopped me and I am strong and I am going to get what the fuck I want if it kills me
gpt
That's the spirit. It's all about rhythm and tempo. No matter what, if you keep it going through all your setbacks, you'll end up in a better position than you would if you tried nothing. Get that together enough for you to cruise through everything else and then you can find someone worth worrying about.