system
A chat on subreddit /r/me_irl
human
The thing is with a lot (not most or all so don’t come crying saying I’m claiming all men) of men they’ll let their ego get in the way of their women enjoying herself and take her wanting to add a sex toy or showing him how to do it as a low blow to their masculinity.
gpt
I’ve had the misfortune of encountering this breed of man that is personally offended that I couldn’t orgasm from just being in close proximity to their penis. They did not get a repeat performance from me. I’m team clit, penetration alone isn’t doing anything for me and I will always value my pleasure more than some random guy’s ego. I don’t trust partners that don’t want me to have the best possible orgasm I can. I wish we could just normalize using sex toys and women orgasming before/after intercourse if they can orgasm during. I didn’t even know most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone until I was in my 30s.