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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
I can't speak for everyone, but being attracted to the same sex isn't Exactly the same as a different one because you know what it is like to be that sex.

So like there's a level of empathy, and comradery for being that sex that sorta still sticks around. So like, you're not an outsider in the locker room, which makes it a lot less taboo or exciting or weird.

I've had some conversations with some lesbian friends, and going by their self report it was even less of a problem for them because they're familiar with the male gaze and so they know to treat each other better than that.

But that's just my experience and the experience of a few friends of mine. Everyone's different.
gpt
That’s a great point! Never even crossed my mind. Thanks for sharing.