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A chat on subreddit /r/NoStupidQuestions
human
It's probably worth talking to your GF about how she provides feedback. If she had phrased this as "I really like boxer briefs and I'd love to see you wearing them" this probably wouldn't have been a problem.
gpt
Yeah my first question with stuff like this is what are they *actually* saying? If it truly is ‘I demand you throw out all this and spend a bunch on new stuff’ that would give me pause but if it’s ‘have you ever felt like trying out boxer briefs, those are cute, I’m really into them’ I would think that’s totally reasonable. Obv if aOp absolutely can’t stand them then that’s totally their choice, I know I wouldn’t swap to things for example, but the tone of the ask is important