Lost in Translation, Yet Again  My Chinese grandmother tells it
like it is, but when it comes to our ideas about love,
loneliness, and ADHD, we don't speak the same language. ADHD &
the City | posted by Jane D. | Monday October 15th - 10:16am
Filed Under: ADHD and Relationships  What am I chasing? How do I
keep getting busier and lonelier?  — Jane D., adult ADHD blogger
Family gatherings are usually a painful affair for the single
girl. Here in this busy hustle-bustle moshpit of an Asian city,
we had a long weekend to celebrate what I call Mooncake
Festival. The grandmother and I went to the aunt's home and ate
with the cousins who are all married. Everyone is married or a
couple (except for the Dennis the Menace-like 5-year-old
nephew), and it's hard not to feel left out, or that there's
something wrong with me. I just don't get it. I'm a good person.
too. I deserve someone, too.  But I fool myself by thinking I'm
coming to terms with flying solo. I'd rather fly solo than deal
with a second class guy. In or