View Single Post Old 10-25-2009, 02:40 AM Legion's Avatar Legion
Legion is offline Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: California
Posts: 95  Ygirl - I think she was saying, "I'm not shallow, I'm
not just about looks." You are in concurrence.  As for midnight
sun, I am jealous of your 90wpm because I too, am a rambler...
but more of a 35wpm rambler so it takes me much longer to type
my long winded, meandering, tangential posts.  Sounds like your
hubby is a little afraid that if you have a BF you might start
to like him, love him.. "too much" i.e. more than your husband.
I don't see there being a problem (logically) with you visiting
a BF while hubby is home if he has a GF to go to? He might not
be getting YOUR attention, but he'll be getting attention.  I'm
a little unclear. Are your relations more of the swinger (purely
or mostly physical) variety or are you talking about developing
more intricate ties with BF and GF? Not here to judge, just to
understand the dynamic. and to interject that if it is more
"swingerish