13 Questions You Should Never Ask at Thanksgiving  Thanksgiving
is a high school reunion for relatives. Everyone gathers
together to reflect on where they've been, how far they've come,
and how much better or worse they're doing than before.  It's a
Butterball of nerves, particularly when you factor in
Thanksgiving other high-stakes ingredients: the doomsday
traffic, the one crazy relative who shows up and does his/her
crazy thing, the underlying family feuds, the love, the all-day
drinking, the hunger--the extreme hunger!--for the perpetually
"almost-ready" turkey, and those ghosts of holidays past. The
result is a minefield of emotions and the reason family baggage
has become such a cliché.  We've all got it, and we bring it to
the table on Thanksgiving. All it takes is a seemingly innocuous
question to snap that luggage right open and turn dinner into a
Eugene O'Neill play. To bypass such family drama, avoid asking
the following questions, or answering them.     Don't ask: "What
happened with that guy you