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b asks:  Is there a test you can take to tell exactly how many
guys a girl has had sex with?  Heather Corinna replies:  No,
there is not.  The only thing you can do is to ask your partner
-- giving you're willing to be forthright and share the same
information about yourself -- and take her word for it.  If
you're asking this because of concerns about sexually
transmitted infections, understand that knowing how many
partners a potential or current partner has had doesn't offer
any protection at all. Someone can get an STI from their first
partner just as easily as they can from their twentieth. In
order to reduce your risks of STIs, what you and any partner
need to do is to practice safer sex. That means at least six
months of monogamy (only being with each other sexually), latex
barriers during those six months for any genital-genital or
oral-genital sex, and TWO full STI screens for you both, with
negative results, before ditching those barrie