Any Future You Want   Blaming Yourself  Blaming yourself for
your problems Bad things happen to everyone. Things don’t go the
way we expect or desire. This is a common part of life. However,
our interpretations of these events, how we frame them in our
minds, has huge influence over how those things affect and
change us.Firstly, there is a huge difference between taking
responsibility for your life, and the decisions you’ve made, and
blaming yourself for everything that goes wrong. If it rains or
you get a flat tire, do you say “Oh, bad things always happen to
me”? or “I have the worst luck ever”?. Unless you control the
weather, or deliberately put a nail in your tire, this is not
productive. It’s blaming yourself for something that simply
isn’t your fault.  As soon as you stop blaming yourself or “your
lousy luck” for the things that “go wrong” in your life, the
sooner you will be freed up to a) take positive action, and b)
resolve whatever the problem actually is.  An important note
here, just because thin