Keeping It Real  Keeping It Real         The topic of sexuality
came up almost immediately at your first group lunch. Can you
talk about what it was like anticipating that you'd have to put
your hand up as the gay guy? When we were in the airport in
Phoenix, the question came up. Jonna said, "OK, how are we going
to talk about that? Are you going to just come up and tell
people that you're gay? What are we going to do?" But I said,
"Well, let's just wait until it comes up in conversation." I
think she just wanted to help me have it come out more easily.
As soon as Ayiiia asked, "Who's the gay person?" I put my hand
up and said, "Yeah, that's me." I wanted to say it there. I
thought, Let's see what everyone thinks; let's see if everyone
is going to be up-front with me right away.  You promised a true
portrayal of yourself. Do you think others did the same when it
came to talking about your sexuality? Everybody who I talked to
from that first lunch and in individual conversations throughout
the show was open wi