shared this question 4 years ago    Relates to    Lusting after
my husband's friend...Help!  My husband and I have been together
for almost 8 years. We are very "open minded" people and have
"played" with another couple. It was an amazing experience that
we both enjoyed and feel we grew closer because of it. Basically
we had a foursome that included oral sex (everyone, girl on
girl- guy on guy-guy on girl, etc.) and watching each other have
sex with the other couple. We never had intercourse with the
other couple.  That was a few years back... so considering our
open sexuality... it's only natural that curiosity would start
up again. Well, it has and I am really confused.  My husband and
I have a mutual male friend who is very much a part of our
family. We do basically everything together. Family outings,
night's out, traveling and he is my husband's business partner.
We have been flirtatious from the start. My husband included and
egging it on. He kind of just offered me to give this guy head
from the moment