How Emotional Baggage Can Improve Your Marriage  Everybody comes
into a relationship dragging along issues from their past, but -
if handled well - those lingering issues can actually bring you
closer together. Here's how to make those skeletons work for
you. By Holly Corbett, REDBOOK.  The conflict: His jealous
streak is making you shut down He once confided that his father
was a womanizer, and he thinks he may have cheated on his
mother. It seems like he's moved past it, but some recent
behavior is making you feel otherwise. "Lingering insecurity can
show up in seemingly unconnected ways," explains Dr. Tammy
Nelson, a couples psychotherapist and author of The New
Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity. "He may
put you in situations that feel like a test. For example, he
asks you to meet him out after work, but then shows up later
than expected to see if you get lured in to talking to another
man while you're waiting." To keep the peace, you may find
yourself shutting down or rearranging you