DSD1 (the eldest of 2 DSDs) refuses to see her biological dad
(36 Posts) stairdad Mon 24-Dec-12 10:42:47  I have two DSDs; the
eldest is currently 9, the youngest is 8. Both DSDs live with me
and my OH (their biological mother (BM)). The formal
arrangement, which has been in place for a few years, is that
they see their Biological Dad (BD) every other weekend, every
Friday, and either every Tuesday or Thursday - basically they
see him a lot and if ever they want to see him or speak to him
outside of this they are free to do so - something we encourage
and something he wants. So far so good.  About 18 months ago the
kid's BD moved into a new house with his new OH; about 12 months
ago he and she had a new baby. Good for them.  Over the course
of the last year our eldest DSD has been wanting to see her BD
less and less; she has stopped wanting to sleep at his house all
together and is now starting to refuse to see him at all. Not
good for anyone (I think?)  There is some obvious stuff in here
in that the eldest