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07-04-2013 alert! this could get long! Thu, 07-04-2013 - 6:43pm
I will try and keep this short, but no promises. 4 months ago I
told my husband I wanted a divorce. We have been together 16
years, married for 12 and have 3 children ages 18 12 and 11. The
reason is that I haven't been happy for a long time and I
realized that he couldn't be the one to make me happy. I also
decided that I was interested in someone else who's also married
(more on that later). So for the first month he really
tried...really, then things went back to normal as expected. I'm
not sexually attracted to him anymore...he feels like a best
friend, but I want my freedom and I know it will crush him. Our
deadline for making any final decisions is looming in the near
future. Meanwhile, I started an affair with a married man a few
months ago (I work with him) and all of a sudden over the last
couple days I haven't heard from him. I have no idea what's
going on there but my life in al