Kink Community Tells Sexual Assault Victims It&#39;s All Their
FaultS  Chalk off FetLife, a members-only social network run by
and for fetish enthusiasts, as yet another purportedly non-
judgmental, welcoming online community that hosts a shocking
number of slut-shaming misogynist assholes.  FetLife user Dayna
posted about being sexually assaulted on Halloween on the site,
where she has a "bunch of friends" who she thought would be
interested in hearing her story. By the next day, her piece had
over 500 comments — many of which were from people telling her
that she wasn't really assaulted, just an irresponsible idiot
who got what was coming to her.  Dayna was walking through a
populated campus area in Belfast, Ireland on her way to a bar —
sober, dressed in men's jeans and a zipped-up hoodie — when she
was approached by a "gaggle of revelers" who asked her what she
was dressed up as. She smiled and said she didn't have a costume
this year. Should she not have smiled, she later wondered?  From
her story (which