TERRI SCHLICHENMEYER: In "Saturday Night Widows," young women
cope with their husbands' early deaths  You never paid close
enough attention to the "part" part.  You were young (too
young!) and in love when you walked down the aisle, nervous and
sparkly-eyed. "For richer, for poorer" were just words. "For
better, for worse." Marriage has its ups and downs; everybody
knows that. No problem.  Then ... "In sickness and in health,
until death do you part."  Whoa. That's a long way away, right?
For author Becky Aikman, it wasn't. Blindsided by the early
death of her husband, she explains how it takes a small village
to raise one's spirits in the new book "Saturday Night Widows."
Life was not supposed to happen that way.   He was not supposed
to die young.  But he did, and once the shock had softened a
bit, Aikman tried finding support at a widows group. There, she
learned that she was decades younger than those peers and that
they seemed to resent her. She was uninvited to return.  Years
later, once returned to n