  Yet she was at the Meadowlands in East Rutherford, N.J., on
Sunday when the Pittsburgh Steelers beat the New York Giants
24-20.   Davis and many other fans tailgating outside MetLife
Stadium said they were thankful NFL commissioner Roger Goodell
did not postpone the game or order it moved to Pittsburgh. And
Goodell stopped by to do some tailgating himself, then meet on
the field and congratulate first responders, calling them
"heroes."  The game was never in real danger of being called
off, unlike Sunday's New York City Marathon that was canceled on
Friday after growing public pressure.  Given the gas shortage in
the state -- New Jersey has implemented a rationing program --
and a depleted mass transit available, the Giants urged fans to
carpool to the stadium. In their conversation before the
weekend, Goodell was assured by Gov. Chris Christie that the
game wouldn't divert any major resources from relief efforts.
Giants coach Tom Coughlin emphasized how important the game was
-- and how upsetting the defe