Life According To Lenson Get The 'Love' Back In Your
Relationship By Eileen Lenson Mar 24, 2013 - 5:42:59 AM  UNITED
STATES—Remember the wonderful feelings you had when your
relationship with your spouse was fresh and exciting? The
initial weeks, months, and perhaps even the first few years of
being a couple were filled with upbeat feelings about yourself,
your loved one, and life in general.    Everything was easy when
love was at its best. A client of mine refers to this point in
her relationship as feeling "light." It is the feelings people
longingly wish for years later, when the same relationship is
characterized more by criticism, apathy, and resistance, than by
love, openness and trust.   Cynics claim that the joyous
feelings experienced in a new relationship cannot sustain
themselves over the course of a lifetime. That theory garners
support when observing controlling, angry couples, who have been
married for a lengthy period of time, communicate with each
other. But it does not explain the happiness