Spider Smiles     [Image description: From "Coraline", a stop-
motion movie. The main character, a girl named Coraline, is
standing there as her "Other Mother" (a spider-like monster
pretending to look like her mother, but with buttons for eyes)
leans over her with a creepy smile.]       About these ads  17
Responses »    1. That you’re having to go through this makes me
very upset. Please don’t feel that this is something that you
have to accept without resistance. Do you need help figuring out
what to do about it?    2. The people who insist that they’re
incapable of abusing power because of any reason at all are
people I do not ever trust, because it seems to me that they say
it before, during, or after one of those impossible abuses.
3. Wow, having someone like that have power of you is scary. I
would be afraid to even write about this. Maybe you are and did
it anyway.      I read the same thing about there being people
who looked for people who did not “push back” when they violate
someone’s boundaries