Special Offer  Page 2 of  6  You spend a jam-packed weekend
together going from one party to the next, but come Sunday
night, you feel like you haven't seen your guy at all. "That's
because when you share your space with other people, you pay
less attention to each other and it can be a real challenge to
feel connected," says Murray. "Being in the same room isn't
enough to create that intimacy you need to stay close."  Little
check-ins over the course of the night can make all the
difference, according to Murray. So before you enter the party,
schedule a couple of moments when you will meet up throughout
the evening — say, at 8:30, 9:15, and then 10 o'clock — even if
it's just to say "Hey, hot stuff" or share a quick story about
your night so far. It will keep you both feeling linked and
attuned to each other, despite the crowds.  "Also, sometimes
just touching each other — not sexually but lovingly — while
you're socializing with other people can be enough to make a
connection," says Murray. "Subtle and freq