Life Keeps Score and FYI, not everyone gets a trophy...  My
oldest by a minute was working with his mother on a first grade
project the other evening that, for a week, allows him to be the
"Superstar" of his classroom.  Pretty heady stuff when you're
not quite 7 but also very telling when you're a parent listening
to your child describe who they think they are.  "Post your
picture and tell us your favorite, food/color/fun thing to do
and please share with us 3 supercool facts about you that we
don't already know, etc."  In my mind I had all of these blanks
filled in for him and he started down that track but then he did
something incredibly honest and at my wife's encouragement, he
told us who he really is.  When's the last time you tried that
in a professional setting, the being completely honest part,
without fear of recrimination or negative judgement of some
sort?  Wow, right?!  Turns out one of the earth shattering
things I learned is that he doesn't consider himself an athlete
because he really doesn't