  H and I had heated and possibly over honest confrontation in
counselling, now he is not speaking to me at all  (127 Posts)
feelokaboutit Thu 04-Oct-12 16:20:30  We have had two bad
episodes like this before when he blanked me for a period of
weeks following a bad argument. (Once up to 6 weeks, the other
time a little less I think). When I bring this up in counselling
he says yes but what was the argument about - as if what I did
or said (which I don't agree with as on both occasions I was
very angry with him about the way he behaved so it's kind of a
swings and roundabouts situation) warranted him not speaking to
me for six weeks hmm.  We have been in counselling for a few
months now but we have probably been for a total of 6 sessions
together so far as often we can't go for various reasons. What
has happened is that I have finally been able to say what I find
so difficult, and he has basically reiterated again and again
that the state of the house is the main issue for him. In fact I
think he went to couns