How To Model Values for Your Grandchildren  Kids learn about
courtesy, persistence, and loving nature from watching and
listening to you  By Carolyn Jackson  Lon, a Manhattan
grandfather, often walks his 9-year-old grandson, Evan, home
from school. One day Lon bought the boy a bag of candy, but the
kid wouldn't share even one piece. "Don't be selfish,” Lon
scolded. "I spent good money buying that for you."  But the
child would not give in. Later, Lon told his wife about Evan's
behavior; she made a suggestion that would show the child the
value of sharing. When Lon next walked Evan home from school, he
bought a huge candy bar, ceremoniously unwrapped it, and then
offered Evan a piece. As Evan took it, Lon says, the proverbial
light bulb went off over the boy's head, and from that day, he
began sharing his treats with his grandpa.  Sharing a single
candy bar may not instantly make your own grandchild more
generous, but it could definitely help. Retired child
psychiatrist Elizabeth Berger, the author of Raising