Passive-aggressive struggle won't solve fiance problems
Passive-aggressive struggle not the answer for fiance woes  Q:
My fiance and I have been together for nearly five years. One of
our biggest bones of contention has been his relationship with
his friends. I feel like he puts them above me.  He says he
views them more as family than friends and treats them as such.
We live two houses away from one of his closest friends. My
fiance often goes over to his friend's house just to hang out.
The issue normally arises when he tells me he will be home at a
certain time. I will plan on that by making dinner or other
plans. Almost always, the time he told me will come and go, and
he will not be home.  It varies from minutes to hours, but my
issue is that he doesn't value me enough to come home when he
says he will. I mean, it's not like he's stuck in traffic or
anything — it takes just a minute to walk home.  He is on time
for everything else, and I feel like he takes me for granted by
not making it home when he s