Dear Miss Manners: We had a dinner with our nephew, who was
bringing his fiancee to meet us for the first time. He also
brought her mother and younger brother (6 years old) to our
home.  My husband had four beers during their 3½-hour visit. I
was quite aware of this because no one else was drinking, and he
was setting his empty bottles on the kitchen counter. After the
dinner, I told him since no one else was drinking, it was more
socially acceptable to have had only two beers.  We are quite at
odds about this situation -- he is upset that I am correcting
his social etiquette. What do you say?  Gentle Reader: Miss
Manners is unable to locate a two-beer cutoff rule in the annals
of etiquette.  Can you get your husband on some other charge?
Disorderly behavior? Un-hostly behavior in not offering beer to
guests? If not, your husband is right that you are the one who
overdid it.  Dear Miss Manners: My favorite nonprofit group
holds many social and fundraising events. One regular attendee
is a major donor who make