DP and his divorce  (103 Posts) Alibally28 Thu 05-Jun-14
19:06:10  Ok so DP is finally filing for divorce after 5 yrs of
separation which I am delighted about it all but I am annoyed
she wants to keep his surname.  I know it's not really a big
deal and she says she wants to have the same name as the kids.
I don't even know why but it really really bothers me. The only
connection I want DP to have (and he wants) is the kids.  I know
it's a bit selfish of me but is it normal to feel like this?!
MummyA1984 Tue 17-Jun-14 16:56:07  I would hate my dh ex to have
what I see as "our" name so I kind of understand. However they
were never married, if they had been I would have known all
along she had that name and it wouldn't be my place to expect
her to change it. I get where you're coming from entirely tho.
Do u think u and dp will ever marry? If so you, him and you lo
will all have the same name in the future.  NigellasDealer Mon
16-Jun-14 10:40:29  you want the ex to change her name? I have
heard it all now. un -