Attitude is Everything in Marriage  Your Attitude Determines
Your Feelings and Actions  How you think about your spouse, and
what you think about your spouse, will determine your feelings
and actions.  Your attitude is everything in your marriage. If
you are expecting and anticipating that your spouse is going to
be complaining, that is what you are going to hear more of.
Since you are expecting it, it will be what stands out most when
your husband or wife speaks to you.  If you expect your spouse
to be dissatisfied with you or to be nasty to you then you are
going to prepare an "appropriate" response in advance, even when
that might not have been your intention.  Negative Attitude
Creates Negative Responses  When you think negative thoughts or
expect negative responses, you develop a negative attitude.
Attitude is what you get after you develop a style of thinking
(positive or negative) and then practice it so well that it
seems like you don't even have to think it out before you
respond. Having an attitude