Happy Ever After the Second Time Around  Many people pick the
same wrong match for themselves the second time around, picking
the same sort person they did the first time, when it did not
work.  By Judith Holzman February 22, 2011  Imagine walking
around with a ball and chain, or walking around carrying four
(4) large suitcases at all times. This may appear to be a very
dramatic description, but that is what happens to people after
divorce. They carry the baggage: the pain, the suffering, their
regrets and their anger around with them. That is not a good
recipe for a happy second relationship and many people enter
second relationships with unresolved issues from their first
relationship.  Dating after Divorce  In fact, many people pick
the same wrong match for themselves the second time around,
picking the same sort person they did the first time, when it
did not work. For example, many women who have been in abusive
relationships will choose abusive second partners and many men
who were very unhappy about th