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Where the gay boys are  By Dan Savage · October 29th, 2003 ·
Savage Love  I'm a gay, healthy, native dude from the Midwest
attending a sleepy university. I've got a great group of friends
and a pretty well-rounded social life. With school and all the
organizations I belong to, you would think that I was swimming
in a sea of eligible gay men to escort to the local hoedown.
Unfortunately, I'm not attracted to many gay men nor the gay
scene itself. I know it's self-defeating, but I can't end this
cycle. I'm tired of seeing everyone but me with a boyfriend.
What would you suggest?  -- Single Dude P.S. I have tons of
women always trying to seduce me for real. Where are the gay
boys?  First, the slap: This often comes as a surprise to
I'm-not-attracted-to-other-gay-men-and-the-whole-gay-scene
types, but the overwhelming majority of out gay men can smell a
gay man who's repulsed by other gay men at 20 yards -- and you
know what? Most of us find the st