  WIBU, a long time ago but now I worry about it (absent father
thread)  (54 Posts)  To cut a verylong story short--er--, there
are bits of this that I am not proud of and don't need anyone to
make me feel any more guilty than I already do. When I was young
I had an affair with a married man, I knew he was married and
make no excuses for myself at all. It didn't last long and we
seperated. I then found out that I was pregnant (I am against
abortion for ME, so it wasn't an option). I told him and he was
shock. My parents threw me out and I was housed in temporary
accommodation. (Not complaining, trying to give a picture). I
then found out that ExP (easiest way to describe him) wife was
also expecting a baby. He showed very little interest in my
pregnancy. When my DS was born he came into the hospital to
visit. He brought him a cuddly rabbit and a second hand car
seat. He visited several times that week. When we were
discharged (after a week), my DS was referred for a kidney scan
at 15 do. My ExP rang to see ho