serenedisturbance is doing 29 things including…  Be a better
friend  2 cheers   serenedisturbance has written 2 entries about
this goal  Bought a bunch of success cards for some friends
that have helped me quite a bit this semester. Hope they like
the surprise.  Today, I wrote an email to a previously close
friend  We used to be very close but after some incidents,
decided not to talk to the other. It was one of those weird
fights were no fighting words were exchanged. We just decided to
not speak, inevitably holding grudges  Today, I decided to write
this friend an email, asking for a favor. The friend then
responded to my email by calling me and in the process we began
talking about why we had decided to part.  All the real issues
came out, the resentment, the pain, everything from both sides.
A huge part of the problem was our interpretation of a series of
events and our pride. We interpreted certain events as slights
and decided that instead of talking to the other about it, we
would just hold grudges.