negotiating childcare arrangements- help needed  (15 Posts)
typographicerrors Tue 19-Mar-13 16:09:11  my partner and I are
separating; after a long period of unhappiness on both our parts
I have met someone else and cannot attempt to make things work
any more. Partner is deeply hurt, angry, upset - understandably.
I want to be sensitive to his feeling but also want to work out
how we look after our two children - we have always shared
parenting evenly and fairly as we both work full time. Partner
wants me out of the house immediately and to retain custody of
the children; I want a proper conversation about what we think
is best for them rather than him dictate the terms. I dont
really know where and how to begin to sort things out; me being
in the house is creating tension that the children are picking
up on but I feel anxious about leaving the family home without
having some agreed arrangements in place about the children. Am
I being unreasonable?  Lonecatwithkitten Tue 19-Mar-13 18:58:50
I would make a lis