It's easy to think of a kiss as automatic—something you get out
of the way before you proceed to the other stuff. But it
shouldn't be taken for granted. A kiss is an amazing thing, and
one of the best indicators of whether you and your partner have
good chemistry.  •  Lay off the lipstick. Red lipstick can look
hot, but it's not very kissable. A man doesn't want to worry
that he'll end up looking like a clown after a make-out session.
We recommend lip balm that has just a hint of color.  Freshen
up. If you're self-conscious about your breath, order hot water
with lemon. Then, when your date goes to the bathroom, suck on
the lemon wedge. We also love mint breath strips that dissolve
instantly, rather than gum, which you have to spit out, or a
mint, which you might have to crunch.  •  Lighten up. A kiss
should have a natural rhythm. Let it build up slowly. Start with
soft, light kisses and proceed if you're feeling it. A hot and
heavy kiss doesn't mean wet and messy. A lot of people think
they have to prove the