  I do. I think about it all the time.        When I ask Melissa
if she is going to cheat, she is horrified. Probably because it
would ruin everything we have here. Also, though, I don't think
she's attracted to him.  The problem is that I think she is
getting more attracted to him. Which gets me thinking about how
you can tell if someone will cheat.  1. Cheating is a lot about
proximity. We are most attracted to the people we see most
often. I have read this in a lot of places. Most notably, a co-
worker is more apt to like you if you work in the same office,
as opposed to telecommuting, or working in another field office.
But the proximity research works for families, as well. A
psychologist I interviewed, around the time that the Farmer was
dumping me because his parents hated me, told me that if I were
living on the farm, his parents would start to like me more
because proximity leads to affinity.  This never happened, by
the way. The Farmer's parents hate me more than ever and they
disinherited the Farme