  To not want to deal with DP anymore?  (109 Posts) attheendnow
Tue 08-Jan-13 14:34:17  MY DP has been out of work for over two
years now. In Jan 2011 he was working in finance with a generous
salary. but was made redundant as his boss wanted early
retirement and closed the company.  In Feb 2011 dd was born and
I am now 6 months pregnant with DC2 which is what we both
wanted, we are delighted after trying for a year that I fell
pregnant and feel very blessed.  I do a bit of book keeping in
the evening when dd is in bed, but this pays only about £200
pcm. DP had a huge amount of savings and this is how we have
managed to survive and pay the mortgage on his flat and live
frugally for the past 2 years. (He had the flat before we met,
we have been together for 5 years but not married - both fine
with this.)  He has had job interviews (not many) but nothing
has come of them. He is a wonderful man and father, but without
a doubt, the type who waits for opportunities to come to him,
rather than seeking them out.  I