, Gloucester, MA  November 25, 2012  One marriage too many?
Dear Abby Gloucester Daily Times  ---- — :Dear Abby: I’m a
51-year-old man. Three years ago, my first and only marriage
ended after 20 years. Over the past two years, I have been in a
wonderful relationship with a very bright woman, “Toni,” who
told me she had been married twice before.  A year ago, her job
required that she move out of state, but we have successfully
maintained the long-distance relationship with frequent visits
and daily phone calls.  A few days ago, I learned by chance that
she was briefly married a third time while she was in her early
20s. I’m having a difficult time with this news — not for the
additional marriage, but for the fact that she chose not to
share it with me. I have bared my soul to her and thought she
had done the same. I’m sad and disappointed.  Toni doesn’t know
that I know this, but it has changed my feelings for her. Trust
issues are in question. Do I bring this up now? If so, how? Do I
wait for her to bring i