Ghazal 43, Verse 4   de vuh jis qadar ;zillat ham ha;Nsii me;N
;Taale;Nge baare aashnaa niklaa un kaa paasbaa;N apnaa  1) no
matter to what extent he might abuse us, we'll {ignore it / let
it go}, in laughter  2a) finally/once, her Gatekeeper {became /
turned out to be} our friend 2b) at length, our Gatekeeper
turned out to be her friend   ;Taalnaa : 'To pass over, go
beyond, exceed (a fixed time); to put off, defer, postpone; to
reject (a request); to elude by subterfuge, to evade,
prevaricate; to avoid'. (Platts p.354)   baare : 'Once, one
time, all at once; at last, at length'. (Platts p.121)   That is
to say, it was excellent that the beloved's Gatekeeper became
our friend. Now we've obtained an occasion for this: however
much he may abuse us, we'll keep accepting it laughingly, and
we'll make it clear that he is our old friend, that for ages
this has been our behavior. ==Urdu text: p. 142 in Hali,
Yadgar-e Ghalib   == Nazm page 40  Bekhud Mohani:  At this
thought how happy he is, and he doesn't reflect t