TV scoop header   Will & Grace's Sean Hayes: I'm Gay  Sean
Hayes, Debra Messing, Will and Grace NBC  Just Jack just came
out.  Four years after ending his run as Will & Grace's scene-
stealing sidekick, Sean Hayes has confirmed the long-swirling
rumors of his sexuality by proudly taking this month's cover of
The Advocate.   As for why Hayes waited so long to speak so
candidly about his personal life, well, there's one simple
reason: It was—and despite his sudden forthcomingness,
remains—nobody's business.  "I believe that nobody owes anything
to anybody," he said. "Nobody owes anything to anybody. You are
your authentic self to whom and when you choose to be, and if
you don't know somebody, then why would you explain to them how
you live your life?"  And despite his previous reluctance to go
on record about his personal life, Hayes still rightly feels he
has done more than his part for the community.   However, the
road to his coming out was long, and Hayes is not without
disappointment for those who did their