to want a religious wedding?  (126 Posts) flaquark Sun 29-Sep-13
11:13:35  I had always promised DP that if I ever got pregnant
we would get married - so we are getting married. He is letting
me decide all the bits and things. I came to the decision that I
wanted to get married in a Jewish ceremony. We are both jewish
but both raised secular and dont believe in a God. But do and
did all the other bits. DP doesnt mind either way so there we
go.  I have had more than a couple of comments from people that
we shouldnt be doing this, that it is distrispectful things like
that.  And it has me doubting and thinking that people will
think we are just doing it for a 'pretty' wedding day.  Because
I think it's relevant - I'm adopted and dont look 'jewish'
(being black with white parents does that) (technically means
I'm a convert) so I think I tend to wear my Jewness on my sleeve
a bit.   sonlypuppyfat Sun 29-Sep-13 21:26:40  confused every
days a school day!!  Catsize Sun 29-Sep-13 21:32:06  I have been
in a civil par