Dildos for Dudes: In Defense of Boy ToysS  When it comes to
masturbating with sex toys, why should women have all the fun?
I had never heard of the Fleshlight until a few months ago, when
my friend pulled up a photo on her phone to illustrate a point.
If you haven't seen one, it looks like an oversized flashlight
on the outside. But pop off the lid and voila, a pair of flesh-
colored, fake labia are exposed. Instead of the tried-and-true
hand technique, men thrust into a soft, stretchy, artificial
vagina, transforming masturbation into an experience closer to
penetrative sex.  Amazing, I thought. Surely, an upgrade from
old-fashioned jerking off. Now why doesn't every man I know own
one? Almost all of my girlfriends have a vibrator — or five —
stashed bedside. But none of my guy friends or boyfriends had
ever even mentioned using masturbation toys. Odder still, when I
started asking all the men I know if they'd used one, their
reactions ranged from incredulity to defensiveness.  Turns out
masturbation toys fo