What century is it again? A teen girl was purposely left out of
her high school yearbook because she wore a tuxedo in her senior
portrait. We're used to hearing stories like these come out of
small rural towns, so you'll probably never guess where this one
took place: Sacred Heart Cathedral Preparatory in freaking San
Francisco. If something like this can happen in what is,
arguably, the most liberal city in the country, what hope is
there for teens who identify as gay, lesbian, or transgendered?
When Jessica Urbina sat for her senior portrait last year, she
made a conscious decision to wear the outfit offered to boys: a
tuxedo jacket and black bow-tie. What's the big deal, you may be
asking yourself. Angelina Jolie has rocked a tux -- as have
countless other female celebs from Princess Diana to Kate Moss.
What difference does it really make?  Well, it's a bigger deal
than you may think. Jessica attends a Catholic high school, and
according to school officials, the Archdiocese of San Francisco
has a policy t