Beauty and the Beast  My good friend (and surrogate sister)
Beauty has a new boyfriend, Dick. They have been dating three
months, and he is about to move in with her. Dick is into
dominance and submission. Not something I care for, but I don't
have to sleep with him. The first time I met him, he was trying
to get everyone to care/think/whatever just like him. He didn't
get any takers. I really didn't care for him and thought he was
just a big overgrown bully/narcissist.  Yesterday Dick started
taunting me. At one point, he put his hands on me and started to
tell me what a nice man he is and how nice he could be to me. I
(loudly) told him to get his f#$!ing hands off me. He also told
me that I probably liked passive, weak, intelligent types. He
taunted me all through dinner (Beauty repeatedly told him to
stop), and I either ignored him or used humor to deflect his
taunts.  I need advice. Please tell me how to deal with this
bully without giving up my surrogate family.  Sad Sister  Don't
you hate it when bad bo