Going on after sudden loss of a loved one  Editor's note: Former
CNN correspondent Pat Etheridge is a journalist specializing in
children's health and family issues. She previously hosted CNN's
"Parenting Today."  (CNN) -- A young woman loses both her baby
and her mother in a massive Washington state landslide. Halfway
around the world, an elderly woman cries alone on the floor of a
Beijing hotel, not knowing the fate of a loved one aboard
missing Malaysia Airlines Flight 370.  These extraordinary,
tragic events present profound, not-well-understood challenges
for those who are survivors of sudden loss.  "They're not just
dealing with loss. They're also dealing with personal
traumatization," said Therese Rando, a clinical psychologist at
the Institute for the Study and Treatment of Loss in Warwick,
Rhode Island.  "It affects the ability to get on with grief and
mourning, to bend your mind around what has transpired. There is
no warning, no time to prepare and gradually start to take on
the notion."  Increasin