     Destined Question: Evan Rachel Wood and Eva Amurri are
asked to choose.  Diana's Choice  High school tragedy haunts
'The Life Before Her Eyes'  By Richard von Busack  Some twist
endings should be left to twist slowly in the wind. Still, The
Life Before Her Eyes' punch line—and it was fresh 125 years ago,
anyway—isn't completely unworkable. A poetic director,
preferably female, could have made something out of this story.
Despite Sofia Coppola's limitations, this is material that would
have suited her perfectly. As it stands, director Vadim Perelman
(House of Fog and Sand) is out of his element.  Diana (Uma
Thurman) lives the luxury-car commercial life, inhabiting a fine
old two-story house surrounded by what appears to be at least a
half-acre of perfect flowers. She drives her seemingly perfect
little daughter to Catholic school. In the opposite direction,
her husband, a perfectly bearded philosophy professor, pedals
off to college on his bicycle. But Diana's perfect day is
shadowed by the anniversary of