Advice Columnist Tells Gay Sorority Girl To Out HerselfS  What's
the ethical thing to do when you're questioning your sexuality?
According to one advice columnist, you should tell all your
sorority sisters! Immediately!  "Nervous Katy Perry Fan" writes
to the Cornell Daily Sun's Everyday Ethicist Elisabeth Rosen:  I
have recently been struggling with my sexuality. I think I'm a
lesbian, but I'm not ready to come out. However, I live in a
sorority house where a lot of the girls walk around in skimpy
clothes, bathing suits, etc. Is it ethical for me to pretend to
be straight? I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable, but I
feel bad living a lie, especially because if the other girls
knew, their opinions of me would undoubtedly change.  Rosen
responds, in part,  Everyone has secrets. Your roommate might
not know how to put in a tampon, or the skinniest girl on campus
might have secret Twinkie binges every night. But these secrets
don't affect anyone else, while yours does. Some girls might
have chosen to live i