Thread: Advice View Single Post Old 07-02-2012, 10:18 PM
sparklepop sparklepop is offline Senior Member Join Date: Jun
2012 Posts: 265  Speaking as someone who is relatively new to
poly... I understand your feelings.  I'll tell you my story
briefly, in the hopes that it might help you to relate.  I have
been in a poly relationship for about 16 months.  My girlfriend
has a husband - I knew this when I met her.  I've actually never
felt a speck of jealousy/insecurity about their relationship.
However, when it came to her with other people, new people, I
find that difficult and so does she, when I do.  I'm certainly
no expert... all I can give you is my personal experience and
hope that it helps.  I consider myself poly because: - In rare
circumstances, I can love more than one person at a time and
have no preference between the two - More often, I can love one
person completely, but still want to explore other things with
other people (different dynamics, different types of sex, new
experiences) - I want (even