  Slideshow Iconslideshows MORE   The 14 Rules of Long-Lasting
Relationships  14 of 15  Contentment Is a High Aim  You know
that feeling you get when you first fall in love? Weak at the
knees, stomach churning, can't think about anything else? It's
great, isn't it? On the other hand, it puts you on an emotional
roller coaster that makes almost everything else, from work to
eating, really quite difficult.  Some people get addicted to it.
They just don't feel alive unless they're "in love." Of course,
relationships don't stay like that. Sooner or later you become
confident and sure enough of your partner not to worry and fret,
and you get used to having them around so you don't jump at the
sound of the phone. So if you're addicted to falling "in love,"
you'll have to keep ditching your partners and finding new
people to fall for.  You may be wondering why I keep putting
quotation marks around "in love." Well, there are two reasons.
The first is that you don't have to be in love to have this
feeling, and you may