In a Rush to Get Married?  Are you obsessed with getting
married? If so, Dr. Phil suggests that you ask yourself some
questions before rushing into marriage with Mr. Right Now
instead of waiting for Mr. Right.    • What is it that you're
focused on exactly? Are you obsessed with having a fantasy
wedding or being married? If you're consumed with thoughts of
the "perfect wedding," remember that fairytale weddings don't
exist. Things go wrong, even at the most carefully prepared
events.     • Have you planned out the details of your wedding
even though you're not engaged? Dr. Phil cautions against having
a philosophy from the movie "Field of Dreams," which is "If you
build it, they will come." If you plan out your ideal wedding,
your future husband will not magically appear.     • Keep in
mind that if you are desperate to get married, you could be
giving out signals that are actually scaring away the opposite
sex. Seven percent of communication is verbal and the other 93
percent is nonverbal. What kinds of nonve