  STBXH, access, crying kids...advice please  (65 Posts)
Redoubtable Wed 26-Feb-14 18:14:06  Sooooo...STBXH has a
reasonable access schedule. EOW, evenings each week. Exactly,
what he requested. He is emotionally manipulative, gaslighting,
finacially abusive but vvv charming to the point that my
(former) solicitor told me how much pressure he is under...  He
changes access as it suits him, but I darent change for any
reason- I will be called inflexible, called repeatedly while I
am on the road to collect kids, called names in front of them.
He goes abroad occasionally for work- he'll tell me a week in
advance, although many countries need work visas applied for in
advance.  Anyway. Today, he returned from a trip. Had arranged
(with kids) to collect after school run. 10 minutes after due
time, he telephones to say he's just woken up and will collect
them later. For various reasons this doesnt suit and reeks of
his attitude that he can do what he wants and we (kids and I)
will rotate around that.  AIBU to have