All About Connecting: Five rules for the first date  Dear Nancy:
I am recently separated and starting to date. After my first
three dates, I am rather frustrated. It seems the men I date
just want to talk about themselves and thus, it is no surprise
that I’m never asked out for a second date. How are they
supposed to get to know me if they don’t ask any questions about
myself?  Lisa - 57, West Chester  Dear Lisa: This is a great
question and one of the most frequent concerns I hear from
clients. In order to avoid classic first date missteps such as
yours, I go over five rules with my clients prior to any first
date. Since one of my rules clearly tackles your concern, I will
take this opportunity to share with you my “First Date Rules.”
1. Do not discuss your other dates - Period.   2. Do not talk
about money – This can make you sound obnoxious, leads people to
assume you’re materialistic, and can give off the impression
that you’re prodding to see how much money they make or have.
3. If you like your date,