1 0   Going the distance  Published on August 22, 2013 by
blevey884  Hi YourTango,  I desperately need some guidance. I
have been on and off with my boyfriend for 5 years now. I just
graduated college and am living in nyc with a new job. My
boyfriend graduated 2 years prior and has been employed roughly
3 hours away from the city. He has promised to find a job and
move to nyc ASAP but its been a few months and I've barely seen
any progress (i.e. he's applied to very few places and ones he
doesn't expect to hear from). Recently we have been fighting
more and more because I am stressed out about our situation and
his lack of urgency to find a job STAT. I keep asking him to put
in more effort and time into the job search and he just keeps
saying he will, the move will happen eventually, don't worry. He
also has a very stressful job currently so it's been difficult
to spend time job searching after a hectic day. Well, I'm
defiantly starting to worry about our future now. I don't want
to put my life on hold waitin