Skip to content Why Do I Find Sex Degrading? How Can I Fix This?
Nicoleneedshelp posted: Hey everyone! My name is Nicole, and I
am twenty years old. I decided to post on here because I'm
having a serious problem concerning my attitude on sex and men,
and I'd really like to change it. I'm currently in a long
distance relationship with a guy who is 23 (7 months in) and he
is the absolute sweetest. He is very caring, very concerned, he
makes me laugh and he misses me often. He's great! And I love
him very much. However, going out with him has awoken certain
things and opinions in me that I used to not hold so strongly.
For a long time, I was afraid of sex, and it kept me a virgin. I
found it animalistic, embarrassing, and degrading. The thought
of someone I loved doing that with me inspired more fear and
very slight disgust than it did love or connection. It's what
kept me from having sex with my first boyfriend. I've always
been very sensitive to sex, however my current boyfriend took my
virginity (with my cons