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individual owns a set of messages programmed in his brain that
describes his likes and dislikes. This program includes the
person's preferences in searching for his suitable mate. Details
like hair and eye color, voice, scent, body structure and
personality are programmed into the brain from childhood. A
person falls in love with the one who resembles that someone
imaged by the program.  Another theory is that our mother's
characteristics shape our program of our ideal mate. We look for
people who bear strong resemblance's to her physical features
and personality.The mother is the major female influence in a
man's life. She also lays the foundation of what the man(son)
expects from his future mate. He looks for a mate who resembles
his mom because that's his perception of how an ideal woman
should be. This same argument reasons why fathers influence
daughters.  Fathers can also wield power and influence over the
children's choice of mates. It's be