When Women Don't Like You  Page 3 of 3 You should feel
embarrassment, anxiety, high blood pressure and all the rest of
it when you hit on a girl you don't know because you're going up
to a complete stranger. So that's not abnormal in itself. But if
you're introverted and shy, the first thing you need to do is
grow a personality. You need to take speech classes and then
give talks on "The System." You also need to go to improv class
and learn how to be funny. And you have to keep improving
yourself until you calm down when talking to people about my
material and making them laugh with my material.  Like I said
before, pretty much every guy feels some sort of anxious
discomfort when he's with a woman he likes. But if it's so bad
you can't control your physical reactions and symptoms, you have
to go and see someone who has a sheepskin on his wall. If the
whole process is that painful for you, you should go and consult
some type of professional counselor who can help you. On the
other hand, I do know this: If you