  To not want my son to spend equal time with his dad?  (57
Posts) mrspinkspanx Mon 22-Apr-13 07:49:44  My eldest son is
from my previous relationship and is now 11 years old.  His dad
is now asking for him to stay every other week with him. Which
I've initially responded with a no.  Currently we have a every
other weekend arrangement, where he'll stay from Friday to
Sunday eve, and one evening every week where he goes for a few
hours.  I want my son to have a place he calls home, so not
fitting with a 50/50 arrangement.  I deal with all his school,
medical and emotional needs and I don't know how I can now
divide this. I also feel implementing this at 11 is too late and
disruptive.  Also, my ex got my back up by saying that now his
daughter is at school age their home life is accommadating for
him to be able to do this. So it made me feel like this is an
idea based on convenience.  Should I reconsider?  theaub Tue
23-Apr-13 00:24:02  Message withdrawn at poster's request.
mrspinkspanx Mon 22-Apr-13 16:03:46