  Advice needed - OW problems resurfacing.  (125 Posts)
Lilly3000 Sun 10-Feb-13 17:35:33  My husband of 22 years had an
emotional affair about a year ago. A woman friend (married
without children) came to him and told him she was in love with
him, had been forever. He / we were going through a difficult
time with work, money shortages, his mother dying and general
day-to-day shite. They had lots of things in common and she said
that they were soul mates, destined to be together blah blah
blah. She said she knew how to help him find happiness ( yoga
teacher) and that her love was 'unconditional'. Like an idiot he
got hooked on the escapism and flattery. It went on for a couple
of months; clandestine meetings and a kiss. It all came to a
crashing halt when I felt suspicious and listened to a message
on his phone, telling him that her husband had found out and had
asked her to leave. DH admitted what had been going on and I was
absolutely devastated. He wrote to her severing all contact the
next morning.  Since