  Quick poll please, WIBU here?  (42 Posts)  Ex is due to have
DS today, it is the last weekend of the month, and he has him
Sat and Sun. Today is DNephew's 4th birthday, and he is having a
party that DS has been looking forward to for two weeks. Ex is
well aware that the party is happening, DS had been refusing to
go to EX's house in case he missed the party, so we (me, ex and
ds) have had lots of conversations about when the party is to
persuade him it's OK to go to his dad's, he won't miss the
party.  Today ex text me "Where and when am I getting him?" I
say "Dsis address, party ends 6pm" He's gone off on one saying
he knew nothing of the party (so why ask where and when he's
picking ds up?) and has said "I will be at your door at 6pm.
Have him ready"  I say it it his responsibility to collect ds
from the party, he says I have to trek all 3 of my kids 2 miles
in the snow, leaving the party early in order to be at home for
him coming. Our written agreement states "UNDER NORMAL
CIRCUMSTANCES Ex will collect