From Poly Living 2009: Poly Weddings and Gay Marriage Rights
Diana Adams’ talk on Poly Weddings: the legal impact of same sex
marriage decision on your poly family with Diana Adams. (I did
record audio of this session with permission; check the Poly
Weekly feed soon)    • There is a legal bias against those who
are sex-positive   • Discussing “emotional pre-nups”–discussing
what your relationship will look like and the terms of your
breakup beforehand   • She uses a forensic psychologist to help
refocus on the issue of which of the parents is doing more
negative parenting–the one who never puts the kid to bed or the
one who does and who happens to have a locked cabinet of sex
toys   • The vibrator laws aren’t about vibrators but what it
would mean if we allowed that: “You have the right to sell
Tupperware, but not if there is a dildo in it.” Now focusing on
how and whether these rules are actually to prevent harm.   •
Definition of “prostitution” in New York: sexual conduct for a
fee. That is, whatever a jud