   (131 Posts)     WIBU by not challenging her choice of
language?  Ugh what a horrid word. I agree with the others she
sounds like a thicko. sad  Sorry, have I entered yet another
parallel MN universe?  When has Nig nog ever NOT been racist,
she's with a black guy, yet she's using that foul word about her
unborn baby. Yes, under the circumstances YWBU not to tell her
to shut her stupid trap.  CaptainVonTrapp Thu 03-Jan-13 21:08:26
Exactly Holly and thats the problem with accusing someone of
racism.  Nixea I really hope there is no one here is offended by
a discussion about the use of a word. Perhaps if someone had
discussed it with your friend she wouldn't have used it.  KRITIQ
Thu 03-Jan-13 21:22:11  Just because someone is in a
relationship with a person who is Black or from another minority
ethnic group or has a mixed heritage child doesn't mean they
can't be racist. In a similar vein, there are plenty of men who
are sexist with very low opinions of women, despite having
female partners or daughters.  It