Wedding Gift Robbery, the Correct Way to Make Pudding, and Other
Questionable AdviceS   Last year, I invited a college friend to
my bridal shower at my house. She came, brought a gift, and
seemed to have a good time. She also stole one of my gifts—a
$300 gift card to a housewares store from a group of my
husband's aunts—and then re-gifted it to me for my wedding.  I
found out what she had done because I cancelled the missing gift
card when I discovered it was gone. I assumed it accidentally
got thrown into the garbage. Months later/after the wedding, I
tried to use the gift card the friend gave us, but the cashier
said it was cancelled. This raised red flags so I asked the
employee to trace the purchaser of her card. It turned out the
name was one of my husband's aunts.  I had the chance to
confront my friend shortly after my discovery, but I was so
shocked and betrayed that I did nothing. Since then it's been
eating away at my insides whenever she posts hypocritical
messages on Facebook, like "The thief who