    Secrets of a 20-year marriage  Derek Rielly's secrets to a
20-year marriage.  Derek Rielly's secrets to a 20-year marriage.
Life is a fast ride. One minute you're 12 years old, trembling
at the threshold of high school and a blink of an eye later
you're on your deathbed, surrounded by sixty-year-old children
and your squealing (precious) grandchildren – a morphine clicker
your gateway drug to the other side.  Marriage, too.  Wasn't it
just yesterday that you signed your life away to the slimline
creature in the designer gown who promised you the world? Twenty
years in a marriage swings by faster than you'd think. My gal
and I hit will hit the mark next year. And it seems like only
yesterday we ran away to Bali, just a pair of kids, without any
reason to elope except we didn't want the 30-grand wedding with
the tiered cake and speeches and waiters and a public waltz.
Under a frangipani at the Nusa Dua Sheraton we said our vows and
spent the next two weeks smashing every cent of our savings on
room service