Sutter: Gay marriage hasn't won (yet...)  By John D. Sutter CNN
POSTED: 8:47 AM Mar 30 2013   UPDATED: 8:49 AM Mar 30 2013 (CNN)
-       But then the question becomes: How soon?  And: What
happens until then?  Finally: Doesn't this in-between part
matter?    The trouble: America hasn't.     How long, exactly,
is the subject of some debate.    Trajectory, locked. Awesome.
And these delays matter for real people.  In Mississippi, I met
folks like L.B. and Sara Bell, who are legally married in
Connecticut but don't get any of the rights that go with that
partnership in the Hospitality State. They told me they would
like to start a family but worry about both of them getting
custody, since Mississippi bans adoption by same-sex parents.
Sara, who would like to carry the child, is 31. If same-sex
marriage isn't legalized until, say, 2030, she would be 48.  It
would be nice to overlook this mushy, awkward middle period --
our county's pimply adolescence on gay rights -- and jump
straight to an all-inclusive