View Single Post Old 04-16-2013, 07:46 AM Dirtclustit
Dirtclustit is offline Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Middle of
Oregon Posts: 431 Wink It does take courage  to bring the
subject up to your spouse, and I would agree with the others
that talking before being stupid and uncaring and cheating on
the person you are with is a good sign. Like Gala Girl said, you
would do well to find a way to tell him how much it means to you
that he felt close enough with you to speak up. Obviously it is
hard for you to deal with, but honestly I don't believe that
there is a person alive who has never had a least a fleeting
thought that was of a sexual nature about somebody other than
their spouse, no matter how perfect the relationship is.  It
just happens,  maybe not frequently (but for some it is
frequent) because we are by design/nature (however you choose to
view life) regardless of your religion or lack of of it, sex is
THE strongest motivators/pangs/urges whatever name you give it,
it is by far the strongest desire that