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August 1, 2008  1. I've tried to gently show and tell him
exactly what makes me feel good in bed, but he's so not catching
on. I'm running out of ideas--not to mention hope.  Kudos for
trying! "The biggest mistake women make is that they don't say
anything and just kind of bear the bad sex," says Hilda
Hutcherson, M.D., a New York City ob-gyn and author of Pleasure:
A Woman's Guide to Getting the Sex You Want, Need, and Deserve.
Subtle cues may not be enough, so place your paw on his to show
him the way--softer, faster, higher, in circles, whatever. Make
your wishes clear verbally, too, when you're in the heat of the
moment. "Say, 'I like it best when we kiss without a lot of
tongue. It feels really sexy to me,' or, 'I think I could have
an even better orgasm if you move your hips more slowly when
you're on top,'" suggests Dr. Hutcherson. There's nothing wrong
with MapQuesting a route for the man who has lost his way.  2.
The guy I'm living with wants