What would you do in this situation?  (4 Posts) MumOfMissy Mon
04-Feb-13 02:22:01  Firstly, never, ever let her stay there
again. Secondly, I'd very discreetly speak to the other Mums of
the girls who also stayed to A) find out if their DDs also felt
uncomfortable; B) to make sure they know the possible risk of
letting their DDs stay again in future and C) to rule out the
possibility that he may have used the sleepover to actually
approach or abuse one of the other girls.  Agree also with
MissyMoo to ring NSPCC, it just feels like you should tell
someone official about this but I don't know who or how.  Lastly
I would discuss with your daughter again, make sure she knows
that if there is (god forbid) any more to the incident that she
has kept secret, that she can confide in you (it's horrible to
say but what if she was testing the waters to see your reaction
and something else did happen?)  I don't want to picture a worst
case scenario but am just trying to put myself in her shoes, as
a past victim of abuse m