DEAR AMY: There is a woman who works in our office who never
washes her hands after using the toilet. She comes out of the
stall, turns the water on and off quickly so it sounds as if she
is washing them. Lately, she has not even been using water. She
just runs her hand over the auto paper towel dispenser and wipes
her hands on the towel.  She also has a hygiene problem. She
smells so bad that you can hardly be near her. You can see that
her clothing is dirty. She also has chronic infections that add
to the odor. This is a delicate situation as she is physically
challenged, and she comes from an agency that helps place
challenged employees. She is a hard worker, and everyone likes
her.  At Christmas, the employees took up a collection and put
together a basketful of household items such as soaps,
detergents, towels and shampoos. Our human resources department
contacted her agency and informed them of the situation. They
were supposed to have talked with her, but we have not noticed
any change.  We even had ou