  Dh secret savings  (100 Posts) Lotsofswearwords Thu 05-Sep-13
19:19:31  My lovely dh has always been a secretive bastard.
Keeps all his papers, bank statements either in his office or
under lock and key at home. I tried snooping once and when I
finally found the key to his filing cabinet I came across old
love letters from his affair during his first marriage. I knew
about her, but not about letters. No matter, you might be
saying, its all in the past... But of course I'm not allowed
same privilege, I have to get rid of such stuff! And being a
very open person who doesn't hide things, I thought it better to
chuck the lot. No regrets except anger at dh and his double
standards. Snooped today, actually on legit business, looking
for online banking details of my and our joint accounts in the
hope of being able to do this myself and not be forced to rely
on dh. Same folder held details of an account worth about 15,000
pounds... Let me stress its not so much the money, its the
secrecy and the actual lying to me