  DH cheated and we're in a right mess, could use some advice
(65 Posts) sima123 Fri 22-Nov-13 14:24:53   I've been lurking a
while but this is the first time I've decided to post. DH had an
affair that lasted about 6 months. It's really a 'classic' thing
with a much younger woman that works with him. I had suspicions
that something was going on, I noticed that he was acting
somewhat distant. I trusted him and told him that if he ever
wanted to talk about what was bothering him, I'd always be
there. Well, he didn't talk to me or confess. Instead, I found
out accidentally one day when she sent him photos of herself by
text. This was several weeks ago and things have been getting
more and more complicated. We've talked about it endlessly, he
told me the whole story (or rather his side of it). Again, it's
the classic story - she meant nothing, she came onto him and he
was weak, etc etc. I honestly don't know what to believe. I've
always trusted him, perhaps too much. Anyway, we have 2 young
daughters and have d