Does everyone bleed their first time?  My friend had sex with
her boyfriend. It was her first time, but she didn’t bleed. Now
she is upset because her boyfriend doesn’t believe that she was
a virgin. It has caused major problems between them. She is
feeling really insecure and afraid that he is going to break up
with her for “lying,” or spread rumors about her. I have never
had sex so I don’t know what to tell her. Does everyone bleed
their first time? What can I tell her or her boyfriend to make
things better?   Liked this question? Tell your friends about it
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I'll tell you that I didn't bleed when I lost my virginity.  You
should tell her and her boyfriend that women today often don't
bleed at all because women do more today than they did in the
past.  Women ride bikes, do gymnastics, ride bikes, all things
that could break the cherry/hymen.  There is no reason why a
boyfriend shouldn't believe his girlfriend just because he
doesn't see blood. 