The Home of Steven Barnes Author, Teacher, Screenwriter  Friday,
October 30, 2009  The Man Project  Intelligence. Support.
Honesty. Fierce love, emotional openness...these are the things
women (all, I believe, over 20) have been saying they want from
men. All we need to do, then, is coordinate this with what
younger girls say, and see where the two overlap--this will be
the generative material to attract women all your life.
Comfortable in their physical bodies. Prepared to defend their
ideas and principles. Unafraid to be honest and open. Capable of
total intensity, and total relaxation. Deep self-love and self-
acceptance, enough to spill over to all those around him. Can
walk with Alphas without intimidating Betas.  So secure that he
has no need to dominate others...but God help you if you try to
dominate him, or hurt the helpless. Polite to a fault, but
capable of being a total kid at times.  Highly sexual--no guilt
or pain in this arena. Capable of controlling and guiding those
sexual urges (CRITICAL if