How To Take Control  Save Your Date From Crashing And Burning
Page 2 of 2 On the other side of the coin, women tend to have
control over all things physical. It hardly bears mentioning
that sex doesn't happen without her consent, but it goes deeper
than that. She knows that you want to jump her — that much is
obvious by the fact that you’re explicitly on a date and not a
friendly outing. Knowing that, she becomes a kind of gatekeeper.
From the initial acceptance of the date, to the first touches,
all the way to subsequent dates and intercourse, she’s calling
the shots.   She can, at any point, refuse an advance, kiss, or
a sought-after ticket to Scoresville. And man, that will really
torpedo a date in a hurry. Nothing takes the wind out of your
sails like going in for a kiss and getting an awkward head-
dodge-turned-hug instead. It’s mortifying. It’s worse than
getting rejected for a phone number or even a date, because at
that point she hardly knows you, so it’s hard to take it
personally. But a kiss? She’s