Michele O'Mara  Sexless in Seattle  Filed By Michele O'Mara |
May 28, 2008 3:00 PM | comments  Filed in: Living Tags: advice
column, gay men, low libido, sexless relationship  I'm young
professional - recent grad, same as my boyfriend. Neither one of
us has communicated what the other needs and I'm not sure we
know how. He is a not a very sexual person and I am, and that
has put our relationship in jeopardy. He just doesn't seem
interested in me anymore and that is causing all our arguing. I
do love him and want us to work through this. I have been
talking to other guys that show interest in me just to get that
feeling that someone does still find me attractive. Can you help
us or give us any advice?  Seems to me you two need an
intervention. That's code for therapy. What your partner is
feeling is important for both of you to understand and believe
it or not, he may be as baffled by his decline in interest as
you are... there are many possible sources for his change in
sexual appetite.  Perhaps you had an ep