  Advice please...  (21 Posts) izzyizin Thu 10-Jan-13 10:20:18
It's not so long ago that priests dispensed a form of
relationship counselling as a requirement prior to marriage and
I believe some continue to undertake this service.  Marriage is
not about the distraction of the big day and it seems to me that
if more couples availed themselves of counselling before tying
the knot, they'd have less problems after.  The type of sexual
incompatability you have described, buzbee, will gradually erode
your self-esteem and sense of self-worth if it is not addressed
before you wed, and you would be ill-advised to marry this man
if it is not resolved prior to the date you have set aside for
your nuptials.  mummytime Thu 10-Jan-13 10:13:46  Apart from the
texting to other girls I wondered if he is Gay and in denial?  I
would be seriously be reconsidering marriage to him, sorry.
dequoisagitil Thu 10-Jan-13 09:57:13  I presumed they were
living together, so felt it would be more palatable to the OP to
try something lik