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Divorce = $100,000  Divorce = $100,000     An alternative to
traditional litigation, mediation involves al third party hired
by the couple to help dissolve their marriage. The mediator’s
goal is to resolve the same issues that an attorney would
handle, such as child custody, support and visitation, property
and asset division and spousal support.   “With divorce
mediation you get nuetral help, which is less likely to be
adversarial,” said Katherine Stoner, an attorney based in
Pacific Grove, Calif., and author of “Divorce Without Court: A
Guide to Mediation and Collaborative Divorce.” Many mediators
are also attorneys; others have counseling backgrounds. A
mediator with legal training can help draft the actual div