My DS wants to see his dad, but he's a nightmare.  (6 Posts)
Mumfortoddler Sun 10-Mar-13 00:50:25  Hey folks,  Advice please,
DS has not seen his dad since last August, except when we bumped
into his dad in a park, where he proceeded to shout abuse at me
and totally fail to give any kind of decent hello to his son.
Prior to that over 3 years DS' dad has been very badly behaved
at handovers, breaking my phone, threatening me, and general
D.A. threats, combined with anger/ then begging to come back. DS
came back last summer 3 times saying is dad had hit him and came
back more and more unhappy after visits.  Its been a living
nightmare at handovers when his dad saw him before, he often
refused to take him and told him I had to take him back saying
he couldn't cope, usually when he knew I had something else
planned. I left him after 1.5 years of domestic abuse turned
into domestic violence, and he started putting his hands around
my neck and pushing me to the ground and things like that.
Since we stopped seeing