Skip to main content    My husband has ADHD, we've been married
for 19 years.  We didn't know he had ADHD until we were in our
late 20's and we're now 42. I have stayed with him although he
has cheated on me three times (one being with my now sister in
law).   He has not been able to keep a job more than a year for
over 10 years and because of this we are now in bankruptcy.
 I've kept us in this house as long as I can, I've exhausted all
of my savings and 401k.  I've given up on what was once our
beautiful house.   I tried for 11 years to keep it clean and
beautiful as a source of pride for our family.  We have two
children, 13 and 8 who ar a constant challenge to keep up with
and I get no consistent parenting teamwork from my husband when
trying to lead by example.   Two years ago was the final straw.
 My husband was unemployed and supposed to be looking for a job,
while I was working a full time job, cooking, cleaning, managing
our finances and the children's activities.   I discovered my
husband having an