  DP taken our son to his ex's  (76 Posts) Piercy Fri 20-Sep-13
21:55:13  My DP has a son by a different relationship, and he is
due up tonight and DP has gone to pick him up, DP has just rung
to say he has met his son and they are going to ex's house with
his son (DSS) to collect clothes etc.  DP has taken our 5 month
old son with him, I'm a first time mum and our DS was in
intensive care for 6 days and I feel I'm incredibly protective
of him he has reflux and I'm struggling to keep my confidence up
that I am a good mum and doing right by him, when there are days
he screams won't go down for a nap.  DP ex I know has struggled
with us having a child together, she smokes in the house and
smokes cannabis and I just don't want our son in a smokey house,
being flaunted in front of her. I know he is going to be picked
up like some trophy and he has already been sick tonight I just
wanted him to have a car drive (hopefully to help send him to
sleep) and come home. I don't want other people "pawing" over
him, and I