What's Wrong With Having Frenemies?  I've had a frenemy or two.
Haven't we all? The thing that pisses me off about this article
in the Daily News (title: "From Frenemies To Player HateHERS,
Women Just Can't Get Along") is that they make it seem like this
is an exclusively female phenomenon. Writes Leah Chernikoff,
"There are different types of frenemies… There are 'black holes'
who bring constant drama and are always in crisis. There are
frenemies who'd rather hear about how miserable you are than
hear about the successes in your life. Then there are the fair-
weather frenemies who only want to see you when they're single,
and ditch you as soon as they pick up with a new guy… So why do
women act this way?" Here comes the old women-are-sensitive-
creatures-at-the-mercy-of-their-emotions bullshit. When
Chernikoff asks, "Why do women act this way?" here's what she
gets:  Engaging in frenemy or player hateHER behavior can be "an
outlet for aggression and negative behavior," explains Long
Island-based psychologist D