Skip to main content  My boyfriend is overweight and has a
smaller penis: how can we make sex better?  Share | Pam asks:
Hello my new partner is Wonderful. He is everything I've wanted
in a man. There is just one problem, the sex isn't great. He has
a small penis and he is overweight. I am 135 and he is 250. I
don't want this to be a problem and I know he is working on
eating healthier and trying little to loose the weight. I am
very scared to get intimate because I feel like he is either
embarrassed or I might unconsciously make dissapointing
gestures. In sex, who likes to be unsatisfied time after time.
Can you give me helpful tips on love making?  Heather Corinna
replies:  Sex doesn't have to be (and for most people to feel
satisfied, really shouldn't be) only or solely about
intercourse, and neither a smaller penis nor being of size means
that sex has to be, or will be, unsatisfying for either partner.
My good friend and colleague Hanne Blank literally wrote the
book on sex for people of size, or those