Creative Commons License  Is motherhood really the hardest job
in the world? | Babble  cuz then you come over here, where you
have another white woman being all, mothering isn’t that hard!
(and woah, if your list of “hard” shit is focusing on diaper
changing and dora, you are but a wee lass on the mine laden
yellow brick mommy road), it’s not the greatest thing you’ll
ever do! etc—  and you have to really ask the question: what
does it mean to have a white woman say that mothering isn’t all
that big of a deal, when a woman who typically should’ve been
*taking care of white woman’s babies* is positioned in a more
powerful place than white woman, based not just on her ability
to *have* babies, but on her ability to be a *mother*?  what
does it mean that when a black woman reaches the “top” position
the nation/state offers women based on their mothering—white
women as a whole are like, well, it’s no big deal to be a mother
and we need to stop making it the most important thing!  there
are different manifestation