The third question:  You tell me to follow my feelings, and when
I finally dare to and am feeling much freer and simpler and
happier, you say I am immature. What does it mean?  It is from
Madhuri.  It means exactly what it says: you are immature. What
is immaturity? Whatsoever you are doing, you are doing almost
unconsciously. Yes, I say be spontaneous, but I don’t mean be
unconscious. I mean be alert and spontaneous. By “being
spontaneous” you immediately understand to become driftwood; so
whatsoever happens, whatsoever and wheresoever the mind leads
you, you are led by it. You become accidental. Immaturity makes
a man accidental; maturity gives man a direction.  Maturity
comes from the Latin root, maturas, which means “to be ripe.” A
fruit is mature when the fruit is ripe, when it has become sweet
and is ready to be digested, can be eaten, can become part of
anybody’s life. A mature person is one who has come to know what
love is, and love has made him sweet.  Now what Madhuri is doing
is not love, it is ju