Sex & Relationships   comments_image Comments  The Myth of
Perfect Lesbian Sex  There's a pervasive myth that lesbian sex
is better than hetero sex because women have the "same parts".
Newsflash: all women are different.  I've gotten to thinking
about a very pervasive myth about sexuality, one that I held
myself for many years. (I hate those, don't you? I always get
more cranky about misconceptions that I once believed.)  The
myth is this:  Lesbian sex is better than straight sex ...
because who knows better how to make love to a woman than
another woman? Who knows a woman's body better than another
woman? Who knows what sex and arousal and orgasm feel like to a
woman, better than another woman?  Okay. So. Can anybody tell me
the flaw in this myth? You, there. Making out at the back of the
class. What's the flaw?  That's right. Gold star for you. The
flaw in this myth is:  Women are not identical.  Oddly enough,
different women are, you know -- different. We have different
sexual responses, and we like differ