Dear Abby   DEAR ABBY: My nephew "George" -- who dumped his wife
and children for a barmaid -- died recently. He was dead broke,
so my sister paid for his funeral. I didn't attend, but I was
told that George's cremated remains were put in a whiskey bottle
by the barmaid, and the bottle was going to be buried in my
mother's grave.  Why my sister, his siblings and his kids went
along with this idea I'll never know. None of us were raised
that way. I found out about it only after the service and put a
stop to it. As far as I'm concerned, they could have buried him
in a condom, but NOT in my mother's grave! Was I wrong to put a
stop to this travesty? -- DISGUSTED UNCLE  DEAR DISGUSTED UNCLE:
No, you weren't. Your sister, nieces and nephews may have agreed
because it seemed like a low-cost way to dispose of George's
remains. But I'll bet they didn't know the cemetery would charge
a hefty fee for a second interment.  Because your nephew spent
his life with a woman who worked in a bar, there's a certain
symmetry to