  sod the elephant, looks like its really over.......  (992
Posts) skyebluesapphire Fri 11-May-12 02:41:01  So, after our
great date on Saturday and lovely day on Sunday, tonight he
emails me his letter which basically details how unhappy he was,
how long he had been unhappy, all the things that made him
unhappy.  skyebluesapphire Fri 11-May-12 02:42:42  He says that
I was so stressed out it was impossible to talk to me and I took
it out on him and my daughter. He says that when he was ill I
didnt care (I was ill myself at the same time). He felt that he
was doing most of the housework and I didnt appreciate it. I
spent too much time on facebook and tv (he was on the computer
every night). I was too controlling because I organised our
entire lives and we were always busy.  Now that he is on his own
he is happy making his own decisions, does not feel pressured,
he likes living in town with everything in easy reach. I never
supported him in his work.  He enjoyed the date last week, but
still feels no desire to