The Secrets To An Interfaith Relationship   The Secrets To An
Interfaith Relationship How couples find compromise living with
two gods under one roof.  And her pointing and clicking paid
off. She felt relaxed and welcomed, she says, especially when
Joe's stepdad invited her into the kitchen to taste-test the
charoset—an apple and walnut dish which symbolized the mortar
Jewish slaves used in Egypt, Wendy now knew. And yet, "I wasn't
sure what symbolic mortar was supposed to taste like!" she
confesses. So she went on instinct.  "I think it needs more
cinnamon," she finally pronounced.  Joe's stepdad nodded his
approval. "That's when I got a total case of the Passover warm
fuzzies," says Wendy. "By making me a part of the ritual, he had
helped me belong."  And that may be the secret to the interfaith
recipe: Make it up as you go—and question often—to be sure what
you're creating suits both of your tastes.  The Big Questions
Are you ready for interfaith? Joel Crohn suggests 10 things to
ask before you merge belie