New stories  My Fiance's Wandering Eye: a Deal Breaker?  Ask
Demetria: By ogling other women, he may be sending you a
message.  Generic image (Thinkstock)  (The Root) --  "When my
fiance and I are out, I often catch him looking at women who,
let's say, look more like his ex than me. It makes me feel some
kinda way. I try to ignore or look away, and I know all men
look, but it still makes me feel insecure." --E.I. 
Unfortunately, your man's disrespect is an issue that a lot of
women deal with and chalk up to "men being men." It's deeper
than that, though. It's profoundly disrespectful to ogle other
women, period, and it's additionally disrespectful to do so when
your partner is present.  You're right. Men look. And women do,
too. "Committed" doesn't mean "blind," and being in love doesn't
make everyone else in the world unattractive. But when he's
looking hard or long enough that you, his partner, take notice,
it's a big problem. And it's rude. And though a small act, it
could have big implications for how he