  DHs possible unknown child  (54 Posts) beatbox Wed 21-Aug-13
21:59:12  What a shitty mess.  Turns out that DH is possibly the
father of a child from his last relationship. I am all over the
place right now and I can't really order my thoughts.  Me and Dh
met Feb 2008 this relationship ended Nov/Dec 2007. The ex was,
according to her 2 months pregnant when they split however she
didn't know she was pregnant until about 6 weeks after they
split.  She never told DH until now, He doubts he is the father
as the relationship was not exclusive on her part plus he says
he used protection. He thinks she has only come now since a
relationship break up/money (which he should rightly pay if
child is his).  I feel like the bottom has fallen out my world.
DH has a lot of anger towards the ex and is adamant the child is
not his, he doesn't really want to engage in any conversation
with the ex (or anyone, including me) about it. the ex is saying
the child is his for sure as it looks like him but doesn't
really want to disc