instruction: hi doctor this is regarding the personal health of my husband I am suffering from a very bad sex life due to very low sex interest of my husband to tell about the past we had a long courtship period of 2 years in which I was able to understand from his conversations that he has very low interest in sex I ignored that and got married to him right after our marriage we had sex daily and then it started reducing gradually the frequency fell drastically from having sex once in a week to once in 15 days whenever I tried to initiate or have a word with him about it he said that a man needs to be very free to have sex and busy people generally have low sexual engagements I know that it is not true and I believe that he gives some excuse to his own weakness now at the end of one year of our marriage the sex has reduced to once in a month so you can understand the level of frustration I have landed into which is severely affecting my own personal health and interest in staying with him he hardly gets aroused once in many days and does not react sexually even after I make advancements he does not react does not understand and most importantly not able to enter me without putting a condom he says he gets support with the condom so the second issue you can understand is that with that condom I cannot conceive also he has very low interest in anything related to sex and he is not able to enter me properly as he says it hurts him otherwise he is such a loving husband and its tough for me to believe that he does not want to make love to his wife for any other reason I would like to tell you that he does not have a separate skin from the shaft it rather covers the shaft and that pretty much indicates he even masturbates very less could you please help me could you please tell me if this is normal with some men does the case of my husband look abnormal what are the tests that he must get done to affirm that he suffers from sex issues or low testosterone what line of treatment should I take him to thanks in advance please help me as this is ruining my personal health and would probably push our marriage to the end of divorce as my family knows about it now and does not want me to stay in a marriage with a man who cannot keep me physically happy and still not accept he has some issues thank you so much
output: hi I read your query and understand your concerns for further information consult a sexologist online