instruction: hi im a 20y female with average health I have always been afraid to ask about sex whether with my gun or my doctors I am not always sexually active but when I am with my partner I do not feel anything vaginally during intercourse during foreplay I feel some but not much however when masturbating I am perfectly fine and I feel amazing I have some slight anxiety and I have had major depressive disorder in the past but now I am doing much better on zoloft 50mg with limited symptoms now im aware that my medication has proven to have negative effects on my sexual libido but my real concern is why there is such a difference in my sexual experiences when with my partner versus myself thank you
output: hello feeling satisfied in intercourse depends on a number of factors sexual desire spontaneous sexual interest including sexual thoughts erotic fantasies and daydreams etc psychological issues relationship issues another important point is that during masturbation you are aware of the pleasure points in your body and can therefore attain maximum pleasure while with a partner a lot of other factors are involved also maybe you should consider using another drug instead of zoloft 50 sexual desire is typically more psychological and situational in women influenced by how they feel about their bodies as well as the quality of relationship with their partner I suggest you talk with your partner so that you can experiment with different techniques also to find what suits you and your partner best so that both of you can understand each other better sexually many women do not experience desire until after they are genitally aroused and arousal may require an extended period of foreplay