situation: My husbands brother was getting married.  My husband was bestman so I wanted to get the most perfect dress.  I spent weeks searching online and in the shops.  I finally found it, tried it on and fell in love with it but couldnt buy it as I didnt get paid until the following week.  The next day my husbands sister called in to see me. She had been shopping and had also found the perfect dress for the wedding.  She took it out and showed it to me and I nearly dropped with shock. It was the exact same dress.  If jealousy could kill she would have been dead on the spot!