text: A man in this novel marries the widow of a fellow matchbox cover collector.
full_question: A man in this novel marries the widow of a fellow matchbox cover collector. In this novel's epilogue, the narrator visits a chapel and remarks on a "small red flame" burning, which "could not have been lit but for the builders and the tragedians." This novel's author's note reads "I am not I: thou art not he or she: they are not they." This novel's first section is titled for a phrase written on a skull in the narrator's dorm room, "Et in Arcadia Ego." This novel's narrator befriends a man who carries a teddy bear to Oxford, then gets divorced so he can marry Julia, who changes her mind after her father's deathbed reconciliation with the Catholic Church. For 10 points, name this novel in which Charles Ryder visits Sebastian Flyte at the title estate, written by Evelyn Waugh.
first_sentence: A man in this novel marries the widow of a fellow matchbox cover collector.
raw_answer: Brideshead Revisited, The Sacred and Profane Memories of Captain Charles Ryder