For 10 points, name this first major female psychoanalyst, a collaborator with Freud who wrote a firsthand account of Nietzsche's life and work, and fit into a predominantly male intellectual scene by calling herself "Lou."
This woman is reluctantly photographed as Phyllis, riding her friends like Aristotle, in a 2016 biopic titled In Love With her. Her best known idea was her notion of narcissism as a positive, creative force. Ernst Pfeiffer compiled this woman's autobiography Looking Back, after the Gestapo raided her home in Gottingen upon her nemesis Elisabeth FÃ¶rster's slanderous suggestion that she was Jewish. This woman planned to live in a sexless arrangement with Paul RÃ©e and a more prominent male friend who incorporated one of her poems into his Hymn to (*) Life, but nixed it after they both fell in love with her. In her memoir You Alone Are Real To Me, this woman recounted suggesting that Rilke change his first name from "Rene" to "Rainer" to project more masculinity, early during their affair. For 10 points, name this first major female psychoanalyst, a collaborator with Freud who wrote a firsthand account of Nietzsche's life and work, and fit into a predominantly male intellectual scene by calling herself "Lou." 
This woman is reluctantly photographed as Phyllis, riding her friends like Aristotle, in a 2016 biopic titled In Love With her.
Lou Andreas-Salome 