For 10 points, name this Hindu god of destruction, a member of the Trimurti along with Brahma and Vishnu.
After this god's wife built a child out of the mud, he sliced that child's head off. This figure voluntarily drank the Halahala poison, and he fathered a war god named Skanda. This deity was often depicted with a blue throat on the dwarf Apasmara holding an hourglass. This god, whose dancing form is known as Nataraja, was forced to put the head of an (*) elephant on Ganesh. This husband of Parvati is most often shown as a four-armed cosmic dancer. For 10 points, name this Hindu god of destruction, a member of the Trimurti along with Brahma and Vishnu.
After this god's wife built a child out of the mud, he sliced that child's head off.
{Shiva} [or {Siva} or {Siwa}]