This god is often depicted in the form of
 Nataraja, the cosmic dancer.
On a holiday sacred to this deity, bilwa leaves are placed atop a symbol of him, which is bathed in yogurt
 and rose water every three hours. In one story, this god appeared as a massive pillar of fire and challenged
 two other deities to find its endpoints. This god is often depicted crushing the evil dwarf Apasmara. This
 god incinerates the god of love after being woken up by Kama. This god is often depicted in the form of
 Nataraja, the cosmic dancer. Worship of this god can involve "linga", or sacred stones. This god rides the
 bull Nandi and uses a trident as a weapon. His wives include Parvati and Kali. For 10 points, name this
 Hindu god called "the destroyer".
On a holiday sacred to this deity, bilwa leaves are placed atop a symbol of him, which is bathed in yogurt
 and rose water every three hours.
Shiva