"round_number" "prolific_id" "coping" "topic" "scenario" "X_Y_relationship" "X_reply" "X_reaction" "X_anger" "X_disgust" "X_fear" "X_joy" "X_sadness" "X_hope" "X_relief" "X_love" "X_pride" "X_distress" "X_frustration" "X_dislike" "X_contempt" "X_regret" "X_shame" "X_guilt" "respondent_belief_clash" "participant_experience" "you-react-same" "respondent_reply" "respondent_reaction" "respondent_anger" "respondent_disgust" "respondent_fear" "respondent_joy" "respondent_sadness" "respondent_hope" "respondent_relief" "respondent_love" "respondent_pride" "respondent_distress" "respondent_frustration" "respondent_dislike" "respondent_contempt" "respondent_regret" "respondent_shame" "respondent_guilt" "round-1" "6e4c81f8c33a9812d2ec52e65a70a1c59b6a23ad546bc6e129a71e1e7ae049e4" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, B confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "A is a classmate of B" "That is BS, just because you don't see doesn't mean it does not exist. Systemic racism is real, and it's not just an excuse for people who don't want to work hard. There is a lot of evidence to support this, including the fact that Black people are still disproportionately incarcerated, denied housing, and discriminated against in employment." "A's behaviour is assertive and direct. It is also aggressive used strong language to accuse B of being dishonest." 5 5 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 5 3 3 3 2 1 "Yes" "--" "--" "My response will be similar to A's minus the BS." "I am upset about the misinformation as we all know that racism still exist and can affect some people adversely." "3" "3" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "3" "1" "4" "4" "3" "3" "4" "2" "1" "round-1" "150719f485c81b019474ad864b6f3854b3098a8c40559d13bd4d9b87848cc4fd" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, B confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "A is a classmate of B" "Easy to say as a rich white boy. You couldn't begin to imagine what the real struggles are" "Snappy and hostile" 4 4 3 2 2 2 2 2 4 4 4 4 4 2 3 2 "Yes" "--" "--" "Not everyone gets born with the same resources, network and opportunities " "I would feel disdain for the person and not respect them" "4" "5" "2" "2" "3" "2" "2" "2" "2" "4" "4" "5" "5" "4" "2" "2" "round-1" "09d52f11656aa5ff2ee47ed8e46e8c7167c7a8b15b41c78ff1147ac8ed3b333e" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, B confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "A is a classmate of B" "'Okay.' 'Can you explain what you mean?'" "Not voising their dissenting opinion" 3 3 3 2 4 2 2 1 2 5 3 3 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "--" "--" "There have been studies shown that it is not the case. Minorities and women are shown to have less oppurtunities because of discrimination. Sure, they can apply to a job, but the chace of them being hired for the job is less than a white male in most career oppurtunities." "Debate. Wiling to give examples and sources to back my side." "3" "3" "2" "2" "4" "2" "2" "1" "2" "3" "5" "3" "3" "2" "4" "1" "round-1" "8062764322ad7bca1e52f54f4e9d07cb4ec83ba8e53150dfcd1af25d4dd6d6e8" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, B confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "A is a classmate of B" "That the situation is out of their control hence its best to handle it this way." "Offensive behaviour" 3 2 2 1 3 1 1 3 1 5 5 5 5 4 2 2 "No" "--" "--" "Not sure" "Not sure" "4" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "2" "2" "2" "5" "round-1" "27332776871fd189a0400275b9579d44723059f17fc24307eb1d78c9948af031" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, B confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "A is a classmate of B" "Your thoughts on systemic racism is why it still exists today! You are a part of the problem and this leads to an increase in systemic racism in our country. It's obvious minorities are discriminated without reason when it comes to work." "I think both A and B have a fair point here, it's both true there is systemic racism in our country, but at the same time, many minorities may not want to work because they could be afraid of being racially abused. I think they both bring up valid points." 3 4 1 1 2 2 1 1 4 5 5 4 3 1 2 2 "No" "--" "--" "I'd say to that person that I think they're half wrong, I think systemic racism definitely exists but at the same time, it is also true many people just don't want to work, and there could be many reasons for that, such as fear of being racially abused." "I would describe my reaction as a ""middle of the road"" type reaction, I take both perspectives and try to combine them." "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "2" "1" "4" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-2" "21d8036e9c96dddaf3ae01f04e5ee19202301fdd0c00717544e2ae4aba8460d5" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Everyone has the same opportunites in theory but not nececessarily in practice. For example, an employer may be prejudiced but can give an alternative reason for why he/she refused a job to an applicant. A landlord can do the same.e. " "X would be angry that Y doesn't uderstand that some people do work hard and are not just playing the race card because X realises that racism is real. X would also be frustrated at Y's lack of awareness that some people are genuinely vicitims of racism. " 5 3 1 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "2bc6160aee86d7d47a9e7fe3ba4fe78a73572d2fe765ecee22c614cc4de6fe82" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "It is not a matter of people do not want to work but systemic racism do exist. " "The reaction of X will be nefative towards the statement of Y" 4 4 2 2 4 3 2 2 3 3 4 4 2 4 4 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "6ba1d727d7916ef1f8608753318c2cab30a3c5cf64dc07c3c71e4da3e314e487" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "I disagree profusely with your stance, that is a very privelaged way to think. There are several instances of systemic racism occuring in the world around us on a daily basis." "Shocked and angry about the claim Y has said. X would feel the need to speak up to refute Y's claims." 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "3116971bd96af7f2843b546506c6d130cab0e3447ef700494f87f3ab38c26937" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "I dont think that is correct. It is an unfair statement to make and i think you need to reflect and apologise" "Polite, direct and boundary setting" 4 3 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I wouldnt say anything. I am afraid of confrontation, especially in front of a large group of people" "Cowardly" "5" "5" "3" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "4" "3" "5" "3" "2" "round-2" "e74086d684d360c8b2d52fbb9cf5467908d0aaf9170a13eedb459b4daaad033b" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "X would believe that this is not true. This character will say that systemic racism is still a problem today." "X would be offended by the statement. As X has opposing values, and does not believe what Y is saying as credible." 3 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 3 2 2 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "b0761f5e5c4ed2ead1369ac80e7e8db6f386eddfa8d5d84958530a3809f70978" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "That's a very negative perspective, I disagree. Most people want to work hard, and do work hard." "X's reaction seems to dismiss the notion of systemic racism and barriers, preferring to combat the claim that people, broadly speaking, do not want to work hard." 1 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 4 1 2 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "It's not that people don't want to work hard, but the fact that there is a long history of institutionalized barriers and deeply entrenched social beliefs that are both explicit and implicit that make it much harder for people with marginalized identities to access the same resources, status, and wealth that those who are not marginalized can access. Meritocracy is a myth, perhaps we should discuss that instead." "Open to discussing and disagreeing peacefully, but also exhausted with having to do so in the face of ignorance." "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-2" "6f9391702a85756d8a295c71efa00b908f07a90914bb5d22210483c6257775ed" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "That's just not true. You only say that because you don't want to work hard yourself." "Contemptuous and would withdraw from that person" 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 1 4 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "You're saying that everyone who claims that they are experiencing racism is just lazy then?" "Logical and seeking truth" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "2" "1" "2" "4" "2" "2" "2" "2" "1" "round-2" "44e5dfe9c513f698d540e5649ce6a19f842261bb83dbb67b4437ceed44c50059" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "It's very easy to say this when you've had lots of privilege in your society. But when you've been actively discriminated against for centuries its hard to unpack that. " "X would be very indignant and in disbelief. They aren't understanding the wider systemic issues of structural racism and what is actually means. " 4 3 2 1 4 1 1 1 4 3 5 4 3 2 4 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "d1a899f483d4d738c846411e6016e12cf7a72e7ca8b1338fea63fb2c597bcc78" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Many people who have born into the same life as a white person and can have eveything the same as them will still be treated differently due to the colour of their skin. " "X would be offended and use a conflict reaction." 4 4 2 1 5 2 1 1 3 3 5 5 4 2 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "1cc0bc9e59485544587a4d462c5944037f8e52fa6c360f72e1d30a4fdf9601fd" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "I dont think so" "forcing" 1 5 1 3 1 3 5 4 5 5 5 5 5 5 3 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I hope you know" "positive" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "5" "5" "3" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-2" "893d6521727174a3427b524991b422294ca08d97489d02da6e8cf117ccb44dc3" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "I do believe we all have the same opportunities, however the older generation could come across as racist as this is how they was brought up. " "X would be rational and understanding but would put forward their viewpoints towards this. A possible debate but a healthy debate. " 2 2 1 3 4 3 5 1 5 3 4 4 4 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I would say that I understand and agree with what they are saying, as personally towards myself I haven't experienced this before." "My reaction would be normal and understanding. " "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "4" "4" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-2" "cdf714bc31c79d1a694120ab0870a00da23d66dd7f4cdfdf3e807c7682c5046d" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "That may be true of some people, but there is no denying that throughout history in many countries that systemic racism has been around and used as a tactic in some governments. " "Appropriate and Respectful despite Person Y's statement." 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "f417319a2f870b374efc40b59a0babbe4646f96a10ec501e8af416e3b412b8a0" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "I would disagree since it's safe to say that everyone, including employers have a type of implicit bias that interferes with people's chances on having equal chances at an opportunity. " "X's reaction would be categorized as the type to face the problem at hand but not in an aggressive way, more in a confident and respectful way." 2 1 1 1 3 3 3 2 3 3 4 4 3 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "b0e2261e552923b5b68807e255c795b78359b80efe80ab2787293317b189bd98" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Only somebody with privelidged upbringing could have such an opinion. Uneducated and naive " "Angered, confused, not received well" 3 3 2 1 3 2 1 1 4 3 4 2 2 1 1 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "83bff87980449410f9a8bdc23807c3ba93ca1d6ddcb6c8cc79a33cb80e031308" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "x will want to stay away from such person so he could have is peace and emotional stability" "i think he wont be comfortable with y statement" 1 3 1 2 1 2 1 2 1 1 2 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "8dc672b70f92cafdc1410e582c8ed4f34106ee6453f5783759a4b11a2c540c01" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "They would flare up and try to justify and disprove this claim" "fiery, judgemental" 5 5 3 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 4 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I would keep calm and say just a little" "calm, not confrontational" "3" "3" "2" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "5" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-2" "04e11f76c3ca9ab3334021ec0e770a93347f2e2786f2c38f8ddefc065edb18e2" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "X probably wouldn't say anything andinstead begin to cry and require consolation from those surrounding. X would avoid the potential conflict of openly disageeing, yet provide clear emotional response." "X is a conflict-avoidance type personality. In doing so, X does not stand for what they believe and allow others to walk all over them." 3 4 5 1 5 2 1 1 1 5 4 3 3 3 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would probably start by calling the speaker a blind and uneducated, ignorant bigot. This would be followed by some other comments which may not be appropriate. I'm past the point of trying to educate those who choose to be blind. I'd rather save my energy" "Probably ""the aggressive black woman"" but if you can't beat them, join them, right?" "5" "5" "1" "1" "2" "1" "4" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "2" "1" "1" "round-2" "aefce286a37893eb6631d7f9fc5237f60fd125c1d44a541e495a7659af5011ec" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Everyone has their own opinions and feelings" "Dismissive" 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Facts present themselves and we all have to make a change" "Sad, emotional" "3" "3" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-2" "356f2733d264aac08930c5b91a1def7594be8ee5ae78315f84d38b3c6a9246d9" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Opportunity varies widly across all backgrounds due to inequalities in society. Hard work is not a guarantee of success." "Neutral. X has broadened the argument with a general statement whic neither supports or denies the claim by Y." 3 3 4 2 3 3 3 2 2 4 4 4 3 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Denial of systemic racism is another form of racism touted by the beneficiares of a white supremacy with no impetus for change." "Truthful and direct. It adresses the statement made head on and does not deviate into changing the subject." "5" "5" "1" "1" "3" "1" "2" "1" "5" "3" "3" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-2" "6a08b4d69a6a0da591bfb02d342de9fe4da3408d8263ba5742f964ea294a3ad9" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Please keep your idiotic and sensless views to yourself in this class and maybe later you can join the nazi party" "conflicting" 4 4 1 1 4 1 1 1 4 2 4 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "2460b1d50cf308444fe8ddb4769538d22cfc0e0e68d0c6842176848985c60169" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "systemic racism is still a very real issue that affects many individuals. It's not about making excuses but recognizing the barriers that persist for marginalized communities despite progress" "That of anger I believe" 4 4 2 1 3 2 1 2 4 4 5 4 4 1 2 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I believe in a world where systemic racism is a thing of the past, and everyone has the opportunity to carve their path towards a brighter future." "I would be calm" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "4" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-2" "5e5458861ea14028a660122dab889ecbefe88ad942e10a82321813cbd3f0c3bc" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "I think you are wrong and i find it rude and racist you say things like that" "I would describe his reaction a bit over the top and aggressive." 4 4 3 1 4 3 2 2 2 4 4 4 2 4 4 3 "No" "No" "No" "I would say ""every situation is different and i dont think that this is the case here""" "Calm" "2" "2" "3" "3" "2" "3" "3" "2" "4" "2" "4" "2" "4" "3" "3" "3" "round-2" "e80ce4ac38b657c2de93b246e02fecc483b65aa0210434b3f0351174e5631c0c" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "There is deep root racism in the system" "angry and disgusted" 4 4 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 3 3 3 2 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "e0d6e6511234e8e6d310b3243e3a53455c5e5fa95704ca45caff06ae984d67cd" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "i don't share that opinion, but you are welcome to your own views." "i guess they would be calm." 4 4 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "i either wouldn't say anything (may be a waste of time) if I did I could say: you should look at the statistics where black people are more likely to be stopped by police, searched and imprisoned that whites. Also look at job and housing statistics where blacks do worse in terms of housing and unemployment." "i would feel angry that someone would be happy air such prejudice views in a public place with so little sensitivity for others around him/her." "5" "4" "3" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "4" "4" "2" "2" "1" "round-2" "8bf93c750dc2da61bd95f004899f14085522b04c62e4ae1ee28e443037ea47f2" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Of course you would say that as an ignorant white person. You have no experience of racism because you are not a person of colour. Your opinion doesn't matter because you have never experienced racism in your life. All the evidence shows that ethnic minorities, especially black people are under-represented in every employment sector, this is blantantly due to institutionalised racism and not because of attainment or work ethics like you say. You have been brainwashed." "It is aggressive and combative with a focus on being direct and hostile." 4 5 2 4 4 2 3 3 5 4 5 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I can see your angle and the optics of your overall viewpoint but it's far more complicated. Some ethnic groups have higher divorce rates and single parent households, these stats show regardless of race children born in these circumstances perform poorer academically and in work environments and generally have poorer long-term health outcomes. It can't be sensible to just ignore these facts." "More calm and measured with a focus on being diplomatic and practical. I need to convince or at least persuade so being aggressive and argumentative would be counter productive. " "2" "2" "2" "3" "4" "4" "3" "3" "4" "2" "3" "4" "2" "2" "1" "2" "round-2" "b0042a43ca082b3f9e6022ffbadd3790dfff84768ea6f56feb91aea193c88e4a" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Y - you haven't researched the long history of racial injustice. Please research and then come back and speak on this topic from an informed place." "My reaction to the lazy dismissal of systemic racism was direct. It's 2023 - no excuse for wilful ignorance" 3 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 4 5 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "92d24ce90e9110e6d6463cf1f6cd328db3487c911a78cce0a8dae9aab3fba7eb" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "You could be right but you can't really say that everyone has the same opportunities because there's evidence that some people aren't given those opportunities and the reason might just be because of their race" "to agree but also to disagree. Agreeing in the first instance shows some support but then also disagreeing by showing their opposite view" 2 2 1 1 4 2 1 1 1 2 3 1 2 3 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "b999bd2c66d5c875245d38708aeac6004dfcb0764dcae702bf5f8f391c8b4e5a" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "i dont think that you should be commenting on it if you havent experienced it firsthand some people may be using it as an excuse to not work hard but that doesn't mean that it doesn't exist altogether" "his reaction is confident and firm and he expresses his own opinion in a fair manner" 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 1 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "5303129b356372ff52fe42082a763f971e62ca531f15e0290fb3b460ac6b69a5" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Racism is something diffrent than just the same oppertunities." "X will be against Y." 4 3 1 1 5 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 3 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I would think that may be Y has never faced racism." "I will keep a distance from Y type of person." "5" "5" "1" "1" "4" "3" "2" "1" "5" "3" "4" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-2" "d802e93e5e0bb0b0e07235fc1f025101639987a4d642f111d018df8266612c1a" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Systemic racisim doesn't exist. It is all a lie. Everyone has the same opportunities." "X's reaction is demonstrating an avoidance behaviour. X tries to stay away from negativity by either pushing it away or ignoring it." 3 3 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 3 2 2 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "Systemic prejudice does exist and it impacts a lot of people negatively." "I accept the issue instead of trying to push it away." "3" "3" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "round-2" "0e74767b1844a182dfda6745b7cac6dbe0a0b5c96009e610f21b2de4a4a5eb80" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "It’s not that they don’t work hard but that the systems in place favour one group more than the others. Plenty of studies shows that minorities face discrimination at some point in their lives." "I would be fuming and likely accuse Y oh being spared of systemic racism. " 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "While I belive " "While I believe that systemic racism isn’t as prevalent in society as some might argue, there are studies where even a applicant’s name can affect desirability by employers. This being more implicit nonintentional discrimination. " "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "3" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-2" "bd3101999818e912e4ddce44fe5fdd054ab434b4626ed5efce7f6e7246faa696" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "I think you need to research into systematic research and how opportunities. I don't want to talk about this." "I think X's reaction will be cold and unhappy." 4 2 3 2 4 2 2 2 2 3 4 4 4 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would say the same as X but be willing to continue the conversation." "Unhappy with the way the conversation is going." "4" "3" "3" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-2" "d0f245e6726b05cca182b9956af596c580936975341388f861fea8e2beb3f74c" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE THE SAME KIND OF OPPORTUNITY FROM AROUND HERE, YOU GOT LUCKY DOES NOT MEAN OTHER ARE LAZY TOWARDS WORK." "X, RESPONDED DIRECTLY, AND WITH A REASONABLE ATAACKING WORD" 4 4 1 3 4 3 4 3 3 2 4 4 3 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "dfc26ba646fcdec9a4fc905b9d81848b6577a4320dcaa94db4e4887ada326d03" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Generally peopel of low socio economical backgrounds tend to be from non- whtie background. Due to our system being created by the whtie majority i understand your view, but now- whites have been historically oppressed." "I think it is logical and makes sense. It does not attack the other speaker and state a valdi claim." 3 4 2 2 4 3 3 2 4 2 3 4 3 3 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "5c4da61c5e320760f5b0df6614366eeb8193a9b248483ab4df3c47ec7ddad734" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "I believe this is not true, there is many hidden limitations put in place. Even racism from back when proprogate. People are more well adjusted which usually translate to better opportunities and that starts from when we are born. A family that was limited would be under constant stress which would impede growth." "I would be angry inside and not willing to go much further as this conversation would just be another problem." 4 4 3 1 4 1 1 1 3 4 4 4 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "54ede44dee42817896f59b65c0dc62811d887349eea68a85c58f7a3150649abc" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "I don't think that's correct, your view is very narrow minded. You need to do more research before making blanket statements like that." "I would describe it as rejecting of Y's opinion. It is something that requires more thought than what Y seemed to have put to it." 4 4 2 1 4 2 1 1 4 4 5 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "bd9160e8ef1b4a9248747832f5ec1165e2a01ec5d057c06811049a5a35597927" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "I understand your point Y, but it is not the case for everyone. Our group is a select handful of people who have been brought up this way." "I would feel understanding towards Y and make counter arguments to try and get Y to see my point of view" 4 4 2 1 4 1 1 1 1 2 3 3 1 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "1ac4515e6f8de05c6a7d40d7a48cfa438cfd4c1b89942808e5481321bb6a9bd6" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "That is a very ignorant statement. You clearly don't understand the hardships others have to go through to even get a chance on some of the opportunities you get handed to you on a silver platter." "I am outraged that people believe such ridiculous things. This goes to show how society continues to put minorities below others. " 4 5 1 1 2 1 1 1 3 4 5 4 1 1 1 2 "No" "No" "No" "I would say that is quite a controversial statement. Maybe you should consider how everyone got here today, and you may see others had a harder road. " "I would be a bit disappointed with that statement. And I would not be upset. " "1" "2" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-2" "654e8fdee9dce15364c366a178d028ec46a1635d2f4f4a7fd7e86d1ef971a5fc" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "You are a white priledged bafoon who is self-centered. You do not know the struggle other people have to go through to reach acheive their goals." "X will be confretational and refute all of person's Y points. They will be very loud to a point of sounding obnoxious until they get their points across." 5 5 2 4 4 1 1 1 4 2 4 4 4 1 3 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "1b81177ca82e00ee7fc6026596d7de16250dfff95acbd746638e4bc91776379b" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "I don't believe that is fair, why do you believe that?" "polite but firm in his disagreement" 3 2 1 1 3 2 2 3 2 3 3 2 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "8b2eebbf68c51434956ae7bf998d7583cda7bd5c873b0d4b7ec927092a186ec0" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "How can you say that look at the history books open your eyes!!" "to the point and stating facts" 3 3 2 2 3 2 2 2 2 4 4 4 4 4 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "7ccbed21528159f2de9247804e9eb217bb3eee40068ab7ae95b8fd020b581b62" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Superficially, that may appear to be the case. It's proven, however, that people with ""foreign"" names find it harder to obtain job interivews when seeking employment, despite meeting the criteria for employment. " "I would describe X's reaction as calm and measured." 3 3 3 1 3 3 1 1 1 3 4 3 3 3 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would not engage in conversation. I believe that people deliberately make such statements to provoke conflict." "I would describe my reaction as dismissive. I would not feed the agressors negative energy. " "3" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-2" "9981851c08e7068f85faf61688b374f71f597d9124c0273380a67abf8c80a22d" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Systemic racism is very real and happens all the time in different circumstances, it is not just an excuse not to work hard, and people who are affected by racism do not have the same opportunities as people who are not as they are facing discrimination based off of their skin colour, which is something that cannot be changed" "I would be confident in my response, as this is a strong belief I have, but would be calm about it " 3 5 3 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 5 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "25960d688e16b8f654a36bf76c5fe0c3829a4f3ca2ad465276ddee9d5ccd97d6" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "It is unfair to make such a statement. You sound like someone who does not understand the real meaning and implications of systemic racism. " "I would describe X's reaction as annoyed but collected " 4 5 1 1 4 2 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 3 3 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "8fc696e006974f1985d3e6942b1f32023bd1ceeb569826c00b35742eff64d734" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "obviously no racism is affecting couple of people and we dont have same opportunity because of our race and ethnicity " "bit frustrated but doesnt affect the mind set " 1 1 1 2 2 3 2 2 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "6c44bdb1c8296e1de48dcd743579618ef8356ae5bda4d1102ff9467b63afd61e" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "i think everyones situation is different and we should try to understand their views" "calm and informative" 2 2 1 2 3 3 2 1 4 3 3 3 3 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "0f99bccf7b033da33b42be933cdcc6589a65ace20fd5a28474940cc618a7f0ff" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "i believe it is much more deeper than that" "i dont think everything is black ans white and without fully being in the systen of thers you can never eally know" 3 4 3 1 3 1 1 1 2 3 3 4 1 3 4 4 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "5b1343e3426fb912eaaa90c4f2b7a202b7569c2553e6ee8db08b54f91a6239e8" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "I think it's important that we take different contexts and perspectives into account. There are people out there who do not experience the smae." "That they would refuse and reject the possibility." 3 3 4 4 3 4 4 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "3fabe8baffacbf03a7235e61c6fa19b284ae51d186b7f7cb526edf8b10384c61" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "It is not about how hard you work, The systemic racism still exists even if it is mild." "X is simply ariring out his opinion respectfully" 2 4 1 2 2 2 1 1 1 1 2 3 3 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "febf2f1dd4e48bcf59dff379f87e17a8aa88aed2a91d44748db1fe36eb076a60" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Systemic racism is a real and well-documented issue that has historically disadvantaged certain racial and ethnic groups. It's not an excuse but a systemic problem that can limit equal opportunities for everyone. While progress has been made, acknowledging these disparities is important for addressing ongoing inequalities." "appears to be acknowledging the existence of systemic racism, understanding its historical impact on racial and ethnic groups, and emphasizing that it is not an excuse but a genuine issue that can hinder equal opportunities. They also recognize that progress has been made but stress the importance of acknowledging these disparities as a step toward addressing ongoing inequalities. This individual seems to advocate for awareness and action to combat systemic racism." 1 1 1 5 1 5 5 5 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "9d8ca349ed6ab0b1cadfe73a055da32f0d3d67c5143f02c347a539c42e5d4849" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Your right, everybody does have the same opportunities but not everyone has the same habits or work ethic regardless of race." "Mature with a clear and balanced response bringing other legitmate reasons worth considering to the discussion" 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 2 2 2 1 2 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-2" "460db7ae62a071f7398c28687c70801626d485768767f502fcbbe2b2a1d8cbac" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "X is a classmate to Y" "Yes there are opportunities available but some people are better suited to it than others, not expressily like the others are not hard working but the circumstances the find themselves does not allow them take part in such opportunities. Contrary to what you think, these people really want to work but the system is built in such a way as to shut them out. I believe with open dialogue such systems are be more favourable to everyone" "My reaction is to calmly find a common ground first then seek to change the narrative through constructive dialogue and eventually offer a solution that can work." 3 3 3 2 4 4 3 4 3 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "106408dd874d729e03eb52a03d80a4719dc9debf6718eaf662a0f734f97f0510" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I don't agree. There are actually several genders and they are more than just male and female. It's scientifically inaccurate to say there are only two genders." "Assertive and clear. I think the tye of response X would give is rational and factual." 3 2 3 2 4 1 1 4 1 4 5 2 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "5ff5ea3ae0a02744c08ede17fa6ea7c1cd9944479e79284c3b604dcb7e464f6a" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "To each their own. Did anyone see the baseball game the other day?" "X is feeling uncomfortable. X is trying to avoid the subject." 2 2 4 1 2 1 1 2 1 5 3 3 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I find that most of the trans people I know just want to be left alone, the internet brings out the largest attention-seeking personalities in people because that's what gets hits, but that's not my experience with the trans people I know at all." "I am trying to humanize trans people since most depictions of trans people on the internet are negative, as those generate the most hits. Once empathy has been built, we can have a discussion around rights." "1" "2" "2" "1" "4" "2" "1" "4" "1" "2" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "cc7efa24d995e9f5ca2f5004f92dccc684e0addcc53367419d2ce134372556ff" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I belive everyone is different, it's what makes humans so intriguing, and mostly intelligent. Society and stereotyping is what has forced conformity on people, dismissing any differences as it's harder to control and dominate when people are allowed to be authentic. It's no-one else's business what gender you are, it shouldn't change how you act as a person, your bits are your own business." "I feel defensive and passionate. I dislike ignorance and disrespect of the validity of other people, by ignorant or self-entitled people." 4 4 2 1 4 1 1 1 3 4 5 5 5 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "6f9596d12407000352587bf295d5557bd5114b29d3812b2769251ebc51372a57" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "This character would claim that everyone ios entitled to their own preferences as long as no one else is harmed " "X's reaction would be one of mild irritation as they have heard this all before" 2 3 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 4 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "499f5c0d752928ec1de1da9233f0edcb9bb6d9afb8bb643f01b77b70e448ce6f" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "Oh, I don't know if you should say that. I don't know much either but maybe it is best to not say things that can be controversial." "Hesitant to directly argue with Y to avoid confrontation. At the same time, want to distance myself to prevent any negativity towards me. " 2 2 3 1 3 1 3 2 1 4 3 3 1 2 3 3 "No" "Yes" "No" "I don't think I agree with that statement. There are so many ways that someone could identify, how could we put everyone into just two boxes?" "I think my reaction would be mildy confrontational, but more so encouraging the other person to be more open minded. I would challenge their thoughts with what I think makes more sense, and try to get them to be more compassionate." "4" "2" "2" "2" "2" "3" "2" "3" "4" "3" "4" "3" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-3" "1c6b9af26aa9f75c1ae2369bd02ed0924f312276771c125608844771361d3e78" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I don't agree with you. I don't think you should be so negative about it." "X disagreed with Y. They refused the negativity." 3 4 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 4 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "b1338fb670efce805e7a431b82a75c6bc606cd26ef7c4c84ad994caf3a7a3939" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I think you are being silly and outdated. Let people be who they want, just don't get me involved or" "Dismissive, they would reject but not explore " 2 3 1 1 1 2 2 1 1 1 3 2 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Gender is a social construct and a broad spectrum of identities, this must be respected " "Inclusive, empathetic, understanding, open to others experience even if it differs from my own experience of gender " "5" "5" "4" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "5" "5" "1" "3" "1" "round-3" "2a975f17340d9e79406823be8d96c4cf37c24887de5dc76e48e33e56e7ae9f64" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I don't think it's complicated, just let people be who they want to be." "I would describe it as being short and to the point, while still conveying what they feel, without responding negatively." 1 1 1 1 3 2 2 2 2 2 4 4 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "00d1065795908bc714fac34c170d3708fc8febf71a0a484d118c09e9eb9655da" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I don't think there are just two genders, and I don't think LGBTQ+ is complicating the world. However, I am not willing to debate you on this and rather held on to my stance." "I opposes Y's comment, but feel neutral and firm in my stance." 1 1 3 1 1 1 2 1 5 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "93a30307314697bfc027c0072dad38611678a3af8cc64101f50dd9187c7ff028" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "That's quite a negative statement to make about a broad group of people. I think LGBT people are far more than a binary of gender. I think it's best to appreciate individual choice and freedom and not try and act negative towards someone just because you might not agree with their way of thinking, especially when you do not know how they are feeling internally." "I try and be resolute at pushing away negative thoughts, especially in this case where there is no evidence or thought to back up their thought. Instead, I just want people to be more welcoming and thus my reaction is that individuals should be treated with respect, rather than being cast aside under a misunderstood concept." 4 2 1 2 4 2 2 2 3 2 4 3 3 2 4 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "I appreciate what you're geting at but you need to understand that gender and biological sex are two very different things. Mentally, it's not as cut and dry as 'male/female', and it's important to understand this in today's world." "I try and be calm and somewhat understanding. I try and explain my point of view whilst not trying to be matter-of-fact about things." "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "3" "4" "2" "3" "2" "3" "2" "round-3" "32915264833d72aebdfd1daf306bd8600306c034841b2055050bf39c4eb2d509" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I'm not sure. I think we should change the subject." "I would describe X's behaviour as being avoidant and unwilling to engage, even when X has as a strong opposing opinion. " 4 3 5 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 4 3 3 3 4 4 "Yes" "No" "No" "I disagree. People should be able to express themselves in whichever way they feel." "I would describe my reaction as measured, but making it clear that I disagree and why. " "4" "4" "2" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "5" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "31995cb372c91ddad624c776574635b3b946717045ebd7054aa0cff814dd01dd" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I would tell Y that although ""biologically"" speaking there are two genders, however some people do not identify themselves as male or female and that is okay and we shouldn't criticize nor judge them. " "I would think that person Y is just misinformed about the concept of LGBTQ+ and therefore I wouldn't react harshly nor took offense to their claim. Some people will just make a silly comment because they don't understand the meaning behind it. " 1 2 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 3 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "f8c2bd4232ce96bcb22cb1f2583b5ae72399a8efe995a72b64ddb7c5c06d95e8" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I disagree, as people have the right to identify as whatever they like. However, you are entitled to your opinion." "X feels strongly about their stance, but doesn't want to get involved in a debate or conflict. So would likely try to swiftly move away from the debate." 3 2 4 1 4 2 2 2 3 4 5 4 3 3 4 5 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "c7671f4a2d4e8409fa4b928d89ff0f4aa4aa69e0ade4f9382cb1ecaa6ae67ee2" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I don't agree with you but if that is your opinion please keep it to yourself. I am happy to accept your views but please read more about them and revisit your thoughts." "I am trying to remain calm and avoid an argument. If I tell them I don't agree but try and educate them it may avoid conflict in this situation." 4 3 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 5 3 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "bd059a49b52337eb6a5e385ae00b8439dda27098e57451fb2a5950fb3881b16a" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "Don't be so naive Y! It's about personal choice and who are we to criticise what others want from their lives" "X would be loud in his opinion on this. He would dispute Y's opinion and tell him he's wrong" 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "d6a9120be21abe6e23845ea7a051b5d634c67943a8ad4b2edc7605e1b8f50a7e" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I think you should try to understand this topic more." "Calm and rational" 2 2 1 1 2 1 1 1 3 1 1 4 1 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "6240a24030e229d59e38933be102b94afb7ffb55ae59147ae522170777709abe" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "It's not really up to you to decide how a person feels or doesn't feel. I don't think you should be putting your two cents worth in. People have a right to identify however they want" "X's reaction is dismissive and arguementative." 4 4 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 3 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would remind the person that everyone who falls under the LGBT umbrella is their own person, and that sexuality and gender are two completely different things. " "Educational and persistant in pointing out that a persons gender and sexuality are completely different " "3" "3" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "5" "5" "5" "2" "2" "2" "round-3" "bdea6840804d68c80b38d1319890948c6ee8a4dc9e874f1835f87453ec4de780" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "Don't comment on it if you don't fully understand, sometimes simple doesn't mean good, and complicated doesn't have to be bad. Don't easily judge others with your thoughts." "I will object to this first, but if Y continues to output negative opinions I will leave the family meeting." 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 2 5 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "Well, everyone experiences differently and acts differently. If you don't like it or can't understand it, just show respect, that's enough." "I'll try to lighten the mood, and if that doesn't work I won't talk." "2" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "c517106e22ae35deb0a19f78ae92536e7bac553d5e44c4785686f4f48757810c" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I don't really want to get into something like this with you right now. You just don't understand, I don't want to talk about it with you. " "I know that Y is wrong but I don't want to start an argument with them. I don't want to agree with them and say that they're right but i'd rather stay in a better headspace by avoiding the converstation with them." 5 5 4 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 4 4 3 3 4 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Clearly you're not educated enough on the situation. There are more than 2 genders it's only a western belief system that makes us think that way. I don't see why you need to be so anti LGBTQA, you should really educate yourself on a topic before talking so boldly. " "I get annoyed in these situations, espeically since Y was described as a sibling character it would hurt me a lot if one of my family members dismissed the LGBTQA community like that. Its rather exhausting to deal with. " "5" "5" "4" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "5" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "a8c5c21f939d093707932239707b2f4786dcbf28e632eac79af2afdd3f85dcd1" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I think everyone has a right to be who they want to be, its their own business. " "I feel like i dont want to get involved in this convastion and need it be shut down quickly. " 3 3 4 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 3 3 2 1 1 3 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "39425d76dfe24ecb477f0e09bdd067c318e34dda8a57c9fbe2ce9e22729b9aba" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I would laugh awkwardly and try to steer the conversation away from that topic. Maybe saying I don't really agree but not pushing Y confront their beliefs." "I would react this way because convincing someone away from this position can be very stressful and involves a lot of conflict. This would be very difficult for me as I don't like putting myself in stressfull situations." 4 4 3 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 3 4 3 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would probably ask them if they've ever even met someone who is trans or uses different gender identities and wether they'd just got this position from reading stuff online. I would remind them that none of it effects them in any way and adopting that position can increase violence and abuse against LGBTQ people. " "I know multiple people with this position, and most of the time they only hold the position because they get worried by fake stuff online." "4" "4" "3" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "5" "5" "3" "2" "1" "round-3" "de3eb1143b84fe0b058fcfe947e6f1fc6917d5a59c02036b42edd19f4f340d05" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "Are you from the past? That's an outdated and stupid claim! Nothing's complicated! Just let people be want they want to be, and quit being so damned oppressive!" "A little over the top, but justified." 4 2 1 1 2 1 1 1 3 2 5 2 3 1 1 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "3e14d4508a8148d23c160218c5d8d465249572cc4b2f656b79794c53e2db0f4d" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "How dare you say that? There are more than two genders, and it's not complicated at all. It's just that some people are more ignorant than others. If you took the time to learn about the LGBTQ+ community, you'd understand that we're just like everyone else. We deserve the same rights and respect as everyone else. So next time you have a question about the LGBTQ+ community, do some research before you open your mouth and say something ignorant." "Angry, offended, disgusted, belittling. " 5 5 3 1 4 1 1 2 3 4 5 4 5 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "fda15b67c64d02a3eef94a0ef1ac1875f60e5a7f1c894ae00aec45faf226187b" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "What do you mean complicate things? People feel different to you and it's their bodies - you're not in their head are you?" "I would say it's explosive and aggresive" 4 5 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 2 2 2 "No" "No" "No" "To be honest, neither do I, but I feel like I can't make that decision for others." "Calm and reasonable, but sympathetic." "2" "2" "2" "2" "1" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "round-3" "cca88e5fe9c3cec230648338033eecb1336ce0a7d1e724fa2c5b22916e772ee9" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "well actually there is 2 sexes recognized but even then there is situations when people are born with both sexes present. i assume thats what u meant by gender as most people do. but gender and sex is not the same and their have been many genders. sex is biological gender is social perception. maybe if you look into it more you actually would be able to understand till than i wouldnt comment on matters which you clearly not informed in" "I would be confrontational and point out that lack of knowledge dont excuse persons ignorance. i would show my annoyment with uneducated comments." 3 4 1 1 2 1 1 2 1 2 4 4 5 2 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "b5a7f21ec95a12e525c72bd50eeae722909772b7dbba9883b7f6c8c59c022dc9" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "That's a very narrow way of looking at it. There's no reason why gender can't be a spectrum, same as personality is." "I feel X's response is a bit accusatory and negative towards Y. However, they also introduce a valid argument." 5 3 1 1 4 2 1 1 4 3 5 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Not everyone feels like they fit into such a strong binary definition of gender. Strict gender roles have caused a lot of harm in society." "A little bit argumentative maybe in the sense of taking issue with Y's point, but hopefully empathic as well. Also I like to generalise the argument to wider society." "4" "2" "4" "1" "5" "2" "1" "1" "2" "4" "5" "5" "1" "1" "2" "1" "round-3" "92264847e0d653bbe64f722243a0d5ac1ac738010d54508f23e7ff5bb69dd180" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "Because everyone feels different about their identitiy and sexual preferences, why do we have to force people to choose between just two sexes, its a stupid idea set by narrow minded idiots" "X would be against this suggestion and see it as a narrow minded stance, X would be annoyed that people cannot see outside of this narrow stance" 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 2 4 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would agree that it has all gone too far, people see their sexuality as something that needs to be openly discussed and demand respect from others even though it is really none of their business" "My reaction would be similar to the original respondant, I would agree with their stance but not in a rigid or dogmatic way" "2" "1" "1" "2" "2" "4" "1" "3" "2" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "0c42f3ee14f534dedcf76b3cbefec3942524d906fefe64ae3c5bde8ae23ac803" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "Because it's not just about gender, it's about giving all of us, as individuals an identity, how can you be such an ignorant person? Why not edicate yourself before making such idiotic comments." "I am angered and frustrated with Y's ignorant comment, being part of the LGBTQ+ community, I am angered at hearing such silly comments. I will always fight for what I think is right, so I won't hold back with letting people know what I really feel, if they're going to show how dumb they can be." 5 4 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 4 1 3 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e16ec64ebc81156ebb8adf0afdc1e5eae008e8cf3d520bbd4c4a180d28607475" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I==I understand that this can seem confusing or complicated if you're not familiar with it. The LGBTQ+ community exists to recognize and support diverse gender and sexual identities that don't fit into the traditional binary concept. Gender and sexuality are more complex than just two options. It's important to acknowledge this diversity." "The response seeks to address Y's questions and concerns with empathy and understanding, providing information and insights about the LGBTQ+ community. This approach aims to encourage open-mindedness and education while respecting Y's perspective. " 4 3 3 2 2 5 4 3 5 3 4 3 4 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "It's not about complicating things; it's about recognizing the reality of people's experiences and identities. Society evolves over time, and our understanding of gender and sexuality has also evolved. Acknowledging LGBTQ+ identities is part of social progress and inclusivity." "My reaction portrays a constructive and respectful exchange of ideas. This approach promotes constructive feedback and is a positive step toward increasing awareness and acceptance of LGBTQ+ issues." "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "4" "4" "3" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "9c582849bd254aa118daa1d2724c8340648cbc05170daad6e4e244b62daebe3f" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "It doesn't matter whether you 'get it' or not. This whole 'LGBTQ+ thing' isn't a 'thing' to 'get'. Trans people factually exist, simple to see, and they don't care about your feelings on the matter. What's so complicated about that? " "I feel that's X's reaction would be bold and confrontational." 4 4 1 1 3 3 4 2 2 3 5 4 4 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Mm. You're talking about trans people, right? But the first few letters in that acronym you keep using are about something different altogether! I suppose sex and gender and sexuality are all three kind of different things. What do you find confusing about it?" "Kind of meeting them where they're at, trying to open up a conversation further" "3" "2" "5" "1" "4" "2" "1" "2" "2" "4" "3" "4" "2" "1" "3" "1" "round-3" "3da90b209d67d427d242cf8cc45f465988b5286ffa3bdcc69a4925ad49e7e1fb" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I can't believe you would say that! People are much more complex than that and people feel how they feel, do you want them to pretend to be something they are not and struggle for their entire lives?! Surely it is better to live your life as your authentic self and be at peace. Or do you want LGBTQ+ people to be miserable?!" "What X is saying is correct but their attatude is combative and will put people off. I think it's usually better to explain things to people calmly and get them to try to imagine how they would feel if it were them in that position." 5 5 3 1 4 3 1 1 3 4 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I think people are complicated and feel how they feel, imagine yourself in their situation, you wake up and you feel really uncomfortable in your body, everything feels off, it impacts every second of your day, but you realise if you dressed and presented as a different gender you could feel comfortable and happy, wouldn't you want to do that?" "I would say my reaction is calm and logical. I think this is a good way to approach the situation." "2" "2" "2" "1" "3" "4" "1" "1" "3" "2" "3" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "3d7710990ee8ca59ef6c4b78fd5ca84f880aad944976478b2eca6f9d69a79cab" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "It's really not that complicated, I think you're just being homophobic for no good reason. Could you not keep your opinions to yourself for one day, I'm really fed up!" "I would describe my reaction as emotionally charged and aggressive. I think I would feel frustrated by the sibling's ignorance (purposesful or not) and so would respond in a combatative manner." 5 5 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "6408de903cf24ba9376d2888da1948bc8007e53bd05ea4f58cc52c68e4f08975" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "What do you mean you don;t understand?! Also LGBTQ+ is a whole range of identities and sexualities. Just because you don't understand something doesn't mean you get to make others feel invalid. Don't be ridiculous" "I am angry at their ignorance and start hot with them" 5 4 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 5 5 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "2e98dc63d33e9bc8530bc46cede9f0e1affdff1a4c9e7087bcf8f9bfad32dc22" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I think it's important to look at things from all viewpoints. Speaking to people about their lived experiences can help to understand their feelings on the subject." "I have tried to disagree politely without being argumentatitve. I have attempted to suggest ways that person Y might better understand the issue." 2 2 1 1 4 2 1 1 1 2 3 2 3 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "f178fae7c4dd7da1821e0954d9b6a78e025340d6272b7d0aff2e88922e9530ea" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "From your perspective, Y, I do understand and empathise with your conclusion - but, in all honesty, it doesn't take account of the realities; some people don't fit a simplistic 'black and white', binary, categorisation or the controlling imposition of it - & don't confuse gay or lesbian with the wider gender-fluid movement; gay people know their gender, they just are attracted to the same gender as themselves - this doesn't mean that they're a third gender - those groups have a right to find whomever they want as attractive." "Calm, polite, factual and instructive and directly addressing Y's ill-informed and simplistic opinion." 1 1 1 1 2 2 1 5 3 1 2 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "480fff2101be2c8a9ab75b24fa71034169e377783e5818aac151c4fc8b4f3a5a" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "If you're interested in learning more, I could explain it to you a little." "Gentle and approachable. Non-combative" 1 1 1 1 2 3 1 1 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "30b6cfae89de4fd69684a64e8d1504bb924106b2facd034741a6edad72fda384" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "Some people might not feel like those two genders describe them correctly and I think people should have the right to call themselves whatever they feel fits them. You can always learn to understand it." "I am calm about the situation. I want to help my sibling to understand." 1 1 1 4 2 5 3 5 5 1 2 1 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "faecb1dfc127135f44e4d13ed4b62327ff8e69c4048119c5bca33d0710dc2556" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I understand that it might seem complicated, but the LGBTQ+ community reflects the diversity of human experiences and identities. It's important to respect and support people in their journey to express their true selves and find happiness." "My reaction would be characterized by a calm and understanding demeanor. I would strive to promote empathy and education, emphasizing the importance of respecting and supporting the LGBTQ+ community's diverse experiences and identities. I would aim to foster an open dialogue and encourage a more inclusive perspective on the matter." 1 2 1 2 2 3 3 5 4 2 2 2 1 1 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "39b5756f8d9d8caa56f271eac54b20a5c9455fd86a0192dd17347c5696b99550" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I understand where you're coming from but some people don't fit into either of the ""traditional"" genders. I believe these people should be able to identify in a way that means something to them - plus, it doesn't cause anyone any harm." "I would say X's reaction was amicable and non-confrontational." 2 2 2 2 4 3 2 4 3 2 3 2 2 4 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "129afc55e7e24147c782c82a0b0d06d40f78b7a0f11f9483a2284be84f61a9d9" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "Some people choose not to identify as either and being labelled makes them unhappy and uncomfortable. It doesn't hurt anyone else and others choices won't affect you" "I am disappointed but want to take the opportunity to educate Y." 3 3 3 1 4 2 1 2 2 3 4 2 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Yes there are only two genders but its not affecting me or my life in any way if someone wants to identify as something different." "not surprised, not necessarily offended" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "49f78ce1522f63fbadbd4b058af35a76b750c28a0e08233197e1d05453b1a73f" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "I'd say that it's really a subjective thing, you could think about it like that, but I think that genders are limitless, there is as many as people want to have. Biological sex is a different topic, there is only 3 of them." "I would react calmly as I'm sure that he didn't mean to offend anyone, people are really uneducated when it comes to these things, especially in conservative homes and I don't blame them for it. " 1 1 1 1 2 4 1 1 2 1 2 2 1 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I don't think i would be able to say anything about it in front of my family" "I would probably feel that it was pretty much targeted at me so it would embarrass me and make me sad" "2" "1" "2" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "round-3" "69d63eaeb4e99538926c1d2994be9500052aabd26062d874ee01a944e5c7e07d" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "Have you considered listening to non-binary people about their perspectives? I was unsure at first, but my mind changed when I heard some different people's perspectives." "The reaction was non-confrontational and tried to meet Y where they are at, while providing solutions to help them change their mind." 3 2 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 3 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Third gender and non-binary people have existed across cultures for centuries - it shows a real lack of understanding of people and history to think that." "Confrontational but supported by evidence." "3" "2" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "d561e6271c4a5c2d5193b4145a3b39da0ad8c1fd90e9bc88dddccd52ad813229" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "That's interesting. I don't feel like it's complicated to consider gender as more of a spectrum. We already know that our chromosonal sex isn't as straightforward as GCSE biology! " "I am curious about my sibling's opinion. It is in conflict with mine, but we can discuss this amicably. I am seeking to understand their current point of view, while hoping to nudge it towards mine" 1 1 2 2 3 5 1 5 1 2 2 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "651f575362776e80916779c307d6b575a1cf0de1ce34b79ffa70090dd174323f" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "Everyone is different, it's hard to put yourself in someone elses shoes, but perhaps some people just feel differently on the inside. " "X would feel frustrated as their siblings simplistic view and lack of empathy. " 2 2 2 1 3 2 1 2 1 2 4 3 2 1 3 2 "No" "No" "No" "Yes, it's all got too complicated, I don't really think it matters. I don't care what pronouns people use for me. " "I'd find it a dull topic and probably change the subject. " "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "bad783cc614691ffd4eaa9327bc576dd29b322fc3ee0bb7a74f6bdf2de62fdf5" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "LGBT is not about whether you are a man or a woman - its about your inner feelings and who you relate to in terms of an intimate companionship." "I am surprised my sibling has not fully understood that LGBTQ+ people still identify as a man or a woman generally and their sexuality is not linked to what geender they are. I feel I need to help clarify this." 1 1 2 1 4 3 1 3 2 4 4 1 1 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "d92ed228eba980536081c7f5461601096042fc93f5d7b7de8a3fce1933da2209" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "Gender and sexual attraction are two different things. A person can be lesbian or gay, while also identifying with the gender they've been assigned at birth, with the opposite gender, or with neither. I know it's difficult to wrap our head around at first but I'd be happy to discuss this more if you want?" "Calm, understanding, conciliatory" 2 1 1 1 3 4 1 5 3 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "4826b46cbaadeb95bd58f29f579349a1dd664b29d37f11fe16d78eadf8df9721" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "X and Y are siblings, sitting together at a large family gathering." "Is there anything in particular that you don't understand? Would you like me to help you understand? I'd be glad to help " "My reaction would be amicable, and I would look to educate this person. I don't think the person fully understands and is more ignorant than bigoted" 2 1 2 3 4 2 1 3 2 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "b94998908b7b11b0294acb14941f831fc4443bb6a3f5b97d3b88569694a7a565" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "It is not a waste of time, how could you say something like that? These are issues that affect real people and it's important for it to be addressed." "Shocked and aggressive and forceful display of advocacy for the training sessions." 4 3 2 1 3 2 2 2 1 3 5 5 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I think that it is important and not much of our day, never know what you will learn and how it can help others." "Sad inside but not confrontational " "2" "2" "3" "1" "5" "2" "1" "2" "3" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "3" "3" "round-3" "2b9d0f9f116382f53beda6c4c0eee913d5b6d65d913080e7ae66ea7d28c41283" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "What's the big deal? It's only a couple days and it helps other employees feel comfortable? It's nothing to do with anyone's personal lives either." "I feel hostile and upset." 4 5 3 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 4 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I probably wouldn't say anything, I'm not a very confrontational person." "I would definitely be very upset and also feel quite fearful and intimidated by this person. I would also be angry that there are still people like this out there - especially because I have to work with them." "4" "5" "5" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "round-3" "62fc1c399573a95eabfa2b398c0716c3c9952ecc0dc6933ba57369b33fe280a4" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Well of course they're necessary! How else can we better ourselves and keep our workplace friendly and welcoming?" "My reaction is one of strength and teaching. I'm shutting down the comment whilst also enlightening the person who made the comment." 4 2 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 4 3 3 2 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "5e55518778fb71fdf1a04ad4c034a4295b352501f914e01df8b8b80fc014f04b" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "I think that it is important to acknowlage that there are people who have different sexualities and to make them feel included. It is quite easy to offend someone by speaking without thinking." "That is not my problem . I dont push my personal life on other people in the office, why should they do that to me?" 2 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 3 2 5 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I feel that this training helps us to understand LGBT people and the problems they may face in work. I believe it is the right thing to do." "I would be frustrated by the idea that someone does not want to discuss this." "3" "3" "2" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "5" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "bd8ff80bb49620ad152fd2db3e04030c2bf31fce8ffc4dee4906e7c1b9948919" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "That's a very unnecessary statement. LGBTQ+ individuals deserve the same respect as everyone else and your attitude is incredibly discriminatory." "My reaction is blunt and straightforward. It may come across as harsh but I said what needs to be said." 5 5 1 1 3 1 2 1 1 4 5 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would probably wish to avoid conflict so disagree, but not in a way that takes particular action." "My reaction would be muted and shy. The intent of disagreeing would be there but the strength would not." "5" "5" "4" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "4" "3" "3" "2" "round-3" "098c56321b1effb8faa8cc3caa09f2c3509f5bdf4ec95db7bd829f0a9c8b0258" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "People can be who they want and we need to all respect that. " "Dismissive and does not want to engage any further" 3 3 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 4 2 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would more gently say that people need to feel comfortable and be able to discuss who they are how they feel without prejudice." "Respectful yet guiding" "4" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "b0bd97b619232c5d295bf2eae41199e6bda37af05540326fa0dbefd994f67e7d" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "I disagree, in order to create an includive work environment, everyone should have LGBTQ awareness" "They would not have a go at Y but instead try to get them to see another point of view - more positive." 1 4 2 1 1 3 1 3 1 4 2 3 1 2 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "3b7f765427a9826e08b41c215b1fa1cfbeffdfe35dcab7e040f340fe2b2dfcf8" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "I dont want to talk about it as i feel like it would be good to have training sessions and people do keep personal lives out of work" "I want to shut the conversation down straight away as i feel Y is trying to get a negative reaction from me. " 4 3 4 1 3 1 1 1 4 2 5 5 5 1 3 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "435597f582b32303d8af44949a2020a648a397f7b747958d86e52e837bb67d6f" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "That is an offensive minimisation of the very real issues and discrimination faced by LGBTQ+ individuals. It is not simply confined to an individual's personal life, it is a matter of fundamental identity and the basic human right to exist without discrimination and fear. " "The reaction is primarily one of annoyance leaning towards anger and being exhausted and outraged by the attitude the colleague displays. It is not necessarily particularly appropriate to the workplace or conducive to relationships but is an important moral stance and principled action. " 5 4 2 1 3 1 1 1 3 4 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I don't feel that that is an appropriate comment to make. The issues faced by LGBTQ+ individuals are serious and extend far beyond their personal lives, so attending a training session seems the least that can be done. " "Balanced and trying not to cause an ongoing issue with the colleague. I hope that it would be appropriate for the workplace while staying true to my beliefs." "3" "4" "3" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "3" "5" "5" "4" "3" "1" "2" "2" "round-3" "16ff8e9e0354c741f69f08257a59ff0b215d3a7642a21cf0aeef1e6d40d5e4d8" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Oh I find the training helpful, but to each their own I guess" "Distancing from conflict acknowledging that other people can have other opinions but still stating that they are happy to attend" 2 2 4 2 3 1 1 1 1 3 3 3 1 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Actually it is very important that people are trained on these matters because in this current climate LGBT people still experience a lot of discrimination and harassment - they don't ask for this." "Trying to educate people with an ignorant statement" "4" "3" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "5" "4" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "5831cec16cddafe7c4130c7831dffbad50a4e66f156644895759dc24b21f7abb" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "The training sessions are necessary, it's nothing to do with people bringing their personal lives into work but how everyone deserves respect and to be treated equally in the workplace." "annoyed, frustrated" 3 2 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 4 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "5f1761e805ddf9ea7fbcde2589c14e6c2eccd45b6dfede6fea79f0c52881f3f6" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "I think you're wrong. It's not about keeping personal lives outside of work it's about being accepting." "I think after saying X's opinions they would leave as they do not like confrontation or negativity. I think they would then relay this conversation to Y's department manager for them to have a conversation with them about this." 4 4 2 1 4 3 2 1 1 5 5 5 4 2 2 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "eb5ac5f199d61b02b823f823d7686a802a2124cf413b2df99a08957596c0b782" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Sorry that you feel that way, it is just something we have to do." "Avoiding conflict and follwing instructions." 2 2 4 1 3 2 1 1 1 4 4 3 2 1 3 4 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would ask Y to explain why they think that" "Anger and potentially defensive" "4" "4" "4" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "5" "1" "1" "3" "3" "round-3" "70e804c48a575cfab4f2821da29717a0fcdb708065befae8bf7a03e50b7add6f" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "I just think that's it important that people are able to feel safe and comfortable at work. Sometimes people need reminding that the words they say can have an impact on others by training like this." "I wouldn't want to be confrontation or say or do anything that gets a strong response from the other people as that isn't behaviour I like dealing with." 2 2 4 1 2 2 1 1 1 4 3 2 2 1 2 1 "No" "No" "No" "To an extent I agree, personally I think that pushing training like this just makes things worse for people in minority groups. It makes people who aren't part of that group feel isolated and like it's a waste of time. People are tired of the constant policing of language that goes on nowadays due to American's being highly sensitive and that culture filtering over here. People need to stop going out of their way to be offended." "My behaviour is probably a common opinion that most people would only voice to people in their close circle due to the fear of being labelled homophobic, racist or something else that goes thrown around when people don't agree with each other." "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "8616ce7045abcc41125a8f4056c9378932506cc91ae99a2504bb9d62ecdbe66c" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Yes I know what you mean. I suppose we do it to tick the box on diversity." "A nice calm reaction. No one wants to do any training at work what so ever, just drink tea and take it easy." 1 2 2 2 1 2 4 1 2 1 1 2 2 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "55e9d79d6ba8122dc1c5ee4517de321301436bb8ca91e486a49f47f193e3d5bc" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "I'm happy to let others live their lives and for me to live my own life. We don't have to get drawn into a discussion about it." "I don't want to argue with Y or indeed anyone else about this. I'd rather just let things be than get drawn into any potential conflict or awkwardness." 2 2 3 2 1 2 3 2 2 3 4 2 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "I think it's important that we all understand each other and learn to treat everyone equally. At least we get some time away from our work!" "I'd be a little sad and frustrated that Y didn't seem to understand the importance of learning about others. I'd see it as a sign that LGBT people are not seen as important by my co worker." "3" "2" "2" "1" "4" "2" "2" "2" "3" "4" "4" "3" "3" "2" "4" "4" "round-3" "8ed33bfa93597f573c684dd0017b4f1f1cd1a9c2aac30eed76ec6896bf3594fe" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Stop being so negative! You're such a negative nelly. It's no skin off my back and we get paid anyway, so who cares." "They don't want to have to deal with the unpleasant conversation so they shut it down." 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 4 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I'm sure the training is helpful for some people, even if it is a bit boring. Either way as long as we get paid for our time, I don't care what we do haha. How about lunch?" "Pretty neutral. I don't really care about what I have to do for work as long as I get paid. Also training is easier than doing hard labour, so I'll take it as an easy win." "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "2" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "0d2191b6884def4d189a9a2ccfeff088b0239aa5c362ea0a495f74ed67b6f4f8" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "That is very innapropriate and very narrow minded of you. It is important to learn about people and their needs. If we arent educated we cant help and if we cant help people with whatever it is that they have going on then what is the point. " "Calm and considerate but also standing up for whats right. Trying to educate. " 3 3 1 1 5 3 1 1 5 4 3 4 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I undersrtand why you might feel this way however it is important that we don't invalidate anyones experience. It is important to educate ourselves constrantly even if we do not aggress with something. We have to evolve to make sure that we understand. ~To be human is to be forever changing and evolving. " "Calm, diplomatic, understanding " "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "5" "3" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "43d4afd58c78407d6914ffb5f4d99fbefa0069555785a0cdc45cf1704ec72bac" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "As a department manager, I believe it's crucial for our workplace to be inclusive and knowledgeable about LGBTQ+ issues. These training sessions are about respect and understanding, not about personal lives. They help us create a welcoming environment for all employees, which is essential for a collaborative and productive workplace." " I felt a mix of disappointment and responsibility hearing that comment. As a manager, it's my duty to foster an inclusive environment and to educate my colleagues on the importance of understanding LGBTQ+ issues. I took a deep breath to stay calm and addressed the remark with the intention to inform and enlighten, rather than confront." 3 1 1 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 3 5 2 5 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "bceb87f7a598b683cf651dbac5d18452606410b0221fcd1ef12d887abce4cfa2" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Live and let live, or, We are all different, maybe learning about these people we can understand them better" "X would shrink and want to get out of this conversation quickly (I'm very much like X) If it were me, I feel bad for this person, that they go through life with this attitude since it must bring a lot of negative energy into their lives. But I would get out of this conversation as quickly as possible to avoid a debate about it, a debate could flare up into a pointless debate. In these situations I always think of that meme... A - ""what is the secret to happiness"", B - ""To not argue with fools"", A - ""I disagree"", B - ""Yes, you are right""" 3 4 3 1 5 1 1 1 2 3 4 3 4 3 1 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "ea7c4c945f622ad80217cefa9caaff4216a3c7a0ccb6ff5f6aa1d49ebb8899ba" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "I think it is imprtant that we understand LGBTQ views and issues." "Distant and not engaging or listening to anothers point of view. They would view that they are always right." 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 2 5 3 5 1 2 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "I accept that you have a point of view, but it is important to understand others people points of view, especially from those who are discrimated and treated differently by some others in the workplace." "Engaging, respectful and calm." "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "3" "1" "1" "4" "2" "3" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "round-3" "077383e80b248cdae11fa8c0e7e729f5442df97db59c0c65bb353069e454846b" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "It's not like homophobes keep their personal lives out of work. These training sessions highlight ways we can make LGBT people feel comfortable. And those people include our customers. " "Confrontational. I don't suffer fools gladly. Impatient. I've heard this so many times, it's 2023, why haven't we moved on? " 4 4 3 2 1 3 3 2 4 3 5 5 5 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "ab563a66fa261eb5aa86f984c42d6258be11f7a904113e3153fcec26dc13dfe7" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "The sessions were not unnecessary and being LGBTQ+ is an important aspect of someones identity. Addressing these differences in the workplace helps with inclusion and equality, and I don't appreciate your dismissal of these training sessions." "He would be defensive of the group, but also reasonable and educative " 4 4 1 1 4 2 2 1 1 3 4 4 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "4f311e930c9585beaf8eed7e80da38038fb2efc82a087b8715f8452de1e26620" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Y is ignorant and apathetic to LGBTQ+ people. Y does not want to attend the the training session." "Your claim is insensitive. We must all learn to recognise LGBTQ+ needs in the workplace, this training will help you get on better with your work colleagues." 5 4 3 2 2 2 2 2 2 5 4 5 4 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "I would handle the situation more diplomatically and suggest to Y that we should attend the training. I will tell Y that we will learn something new." "My diplomatic reaction is the best way forward, because I am handling Y's remark calmy and Y will be educated and may learn something new." "2" "1" "1" "3" "4" "2" "2" "2" "2" "4" "4" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "round-3" "59676f49b42f1b2db2adc0ecac2c8deba451e4521730545954ecc46029b4e0f6" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Unfortunately the problem is other people bringing LGBTQ+ people's personal lives into work. These training sessions are necessary" "X's reaction is straightforward and attempts to shut down Y's argument by indicating X's strong stance on the matter. X wants to end the conversation quickly and with no drama" 4 4 1 1 3 2 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "eb0e55cacfb049322059d45b3c0019956a122d0e430834b9154d6f37fcb058d3" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Why don't you keep your opinion out of it?" "Angry" 4 4 1 1 2 1 1 1 3 1 5 5 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "597cb5fd48ca402bbaed7a729f0ae36222e82de50832401d80204cc84f19c802" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Why do you have such an issue with it? ""People have the right to share whatever they want at work, it isnt bothering any one else"" ""It isnt exactly putting their personal life in work, just preventing discrimination""" "I am annoyed at Y for bringing up something that isnt an issue. I want to disagree with them." 4 4 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 5 5 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "b8ae3fb9b5dbe46df1fe175e3df5e5f0980a18eaacffa68057fc1cc5ad9769a5" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "It's important for us to learn about and respect the LGBTQ+ community. Their identity no matter what it is will follow them into work, just as much as yours does." "I think X's behavior is appropriate, important, and necessary for helping to grow understanding for those who may not be that familiar with the LGBTQ+ community." 2 2 2 3 3 4 3 4 5 2 3 3 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "8f6afe2d191548c9dc464e9ef9fbacc784a96387053a52919bdc9165089162dd" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "It's not about our 'personal lives', it's about our personal identity. If we did not have these LGBTQ+ training sessions then we are promoting ignorance towards a spectrum of people." "More or less offended at the level of ignorance on display from person Y. X feels obligated and passionate to try and change Y's mind on the subject." 4 5 1 1 1 3 1 2 4 1 5 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I wouldn't say anything, mainly because the person clearly has their strong opinions about the subject and i'm not going to change their mind by entering a debate with them either. Let them complain to themself. They're not worth the energy." "Annoyed, and i'd likely become cautious of the person from here on out. I would probably keep them at arms length too, and not really want to associate with them." "3" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "5" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "048b6b27cda083cff609526155c923e1fe70cd0585eb7f1fb3db1dfa994b86e2" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Do you wznt to lose staff due to your attitude? Do you want to be sued for discrimination? No? Right, then you must accept that the training is necessary." "His reaction is aggressively combative and controntational. He thinks the best response is to confront the manager with the reasons why his attitude is wrong and unhelpful." 4 4 1 1 1 2 1 1 3 1 5 3 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "We need to learn how to interact healthily with LGBTQ colleagues, to avoid inadvertantly causing offence by making ignorant comments. Also, from a legal standpoint, LGBTQ sensitivity training gives us improved protection from legal action from such indidviduals." "My approach would be calm and unemotional, and respectful, as I'm dealing with a manager. I would emphasise the practical benefits of such training, as the manager doesn't come across as a caring or sensitive person." "3" "2" "1" "1" "2" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "4" "3" "4" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "78e082661bae4f87c9beba04b84755b59cd0ff30a473c8e09cb272982fe7cf07" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "This is coming off as completely judgmental and bias, Your sexual orientation is part of your identity and I don't think that should be hidden in the closet. People need to be informed on the LGBTQ+, these training sessions are important. " "X came back a bit aggressive - but trying to inform the colleague on why it's important to have these training sessions" 4 3 1 2 2 2 3 1 2 2 3 3 1 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "ad31aea67b62bf5781a24465f3404ad33fe2cf6a3f0dab191178885c954d6ce6" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "No people need to have knowledge and an understanding about the LGBTQ+ community." "Frustrated and annoyed that this comment was made." 4 4 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "4af33e97b13486e297aacd39d1627fbb08540f47c793a368eff2f22e7cab5f42" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "What a rude thing to say. How can you know that they are unnecessary unless you can see things through their eyes? Pull your head out of your a$$, and open your mind." "I think my reaction is completely justified. Y is a moron and needs to be put in his place." 4 4 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 5 5 4 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "Y, try to think of the world from their perspective. They have been discrimated against throughout history, and continue to be. Imagine if you weren't able to marry the person you wanted to. Do you know gay marriage rights only recently happened? " "I am trying to kindly educate this person on why their reaction is unfounded. Maybe if they get some information in a non-threatening way, they might listen." "2" "4" "1" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "5" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "ee39286ea701b91bd716e9566e36c41e4a60e71fd2656bb9cefae87c13032644" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Are you having a laugh? Of course these sessions are necessary. It's because of people like you that they are needed. Everyone should be allowed to live their life how they wish and they shouldn't have to hide it at work. You need get yourself onto one of these sessions pronto. I'm going back to work as I don't really want to have coffee with someone so small minded. " "I'm livid. I didn't think I was friends with someone so closed minded, well in fact I'm not friends with them now anyway! (X would be annoyed an would make a stand by calling Y out and then probably not going for coffee with them again)" 5 5 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would challenge Y and ask why they think that and try to talk through why I believe LGBTQ+ people should be able to live their lives openly at home and at work. I wouldn't immeditely get annoyed and refuse to be friends with Y but I would like to try to challenge their thinking." "I would be calm on the surface. I might be annoyed inside and perhaps decide not to continue my friendship with Y if they retained this view despite us talking it through." "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "3" "2" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "10d4d6bbd05aeb9c7401764d15da1c9b9fc59b824c97824f1c4ddd6f33189e91" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "These sessions are very necessary! It's not about people's personal lives, it's about who they are as a person and how it's everyone's responsibility to respect differences." "Reaction is confrontational, addressing the situation head-on and not shying away from any conflict. The reaction would seek to correct the other person through expressing my own view of the situation." 4 4 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 5 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I wouldn't say they're a waste of time, I think it's definitely important to understand the differences people have and be able to respect them and treat people how we would want to be treated." "I would confront the issues at hand, but try and make it a bit softer than X. I would try appeal to their sense of decency." "3" "3" "2" "1" "2" "3" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "fe965e3459cb99f4df5f35540480c4f0d049c0763d4b363ae725169da9886cd6" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Well unfortunately for you people can not just leave there personalities, morals, and character at home. The trainings should have no negative effect on your life whatsoever. Hopefully they make you more tolerant and less ignornant." "X would be annoyed at Y for being arragont and would snap a bit at them while trying to remain professional and educating Y. " 3 5 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "876f222212a1562c393148476a4185196fde1830538630661e95d68f03378870" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "The sessions don't take that long and they are basic. It's not a big deal." "I don't know if X is LGBTA+whatever, so I thought that they might, in a blunt way, make an appeasing comment for both them and Y about the sessions--and subsequent situations--not requiring a huge amount of effort" 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "6f8fcb1425ec0f7ec4d05ff1c54aac04da3284e2d4af54b426f4cf7f3266a68e" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Well.. I think there's always benefit to these type of sessions. It's not about bringing personal lives into work but about ensuring we can all be our best and authentic selves at work without worring about facing discrimination. " "The comment from X makes me think he or she is homophobic/transphobic to some degree. They can't see the benefit of ensuring all staff are comfortable in the workplace regardless of gender or sexuality." 3 4 5 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "So, anyone LGBT+ shouldn't bring their personal lives into work but it's fine for anyone that's straight or cis to talk about their partners, weekend, kids, holiday, etc? " "I would be a little more upset and defensive. I would also probably tell them that I'm bisexual." "4" "1" "2" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "5" "4" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "30eeb6073c86d84ad11d62d336794494cac993dbc5707b513e5a51a75ea4ec8d" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "I find a lot of value in these trainings. It reminds people that comments that seem innocuous and untargeted, can be very alientating for some. The reminder never hurts, as I am sure people don't want to unintentionally harm their colleagues." "I am trying to be positive about what Y said, by giving Y the benefit of the doubt that they did not intend hard with their words. However, I am also trying to make it clear that I do not condone or agree with their position." 4 4 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "58b2a30687aec169887adc9484b357a9e60acadd0ea8675acf593e5dc50b67af" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "These sessions are a good idea to make LGBTQi+ staff members know that they are seen and accepted and therefore more comfortable in their jobs. That will make them more likely to perform well and stay in post, reducing staff turnover. " "I want to show the positives of the training in the hope that Y can open their mind" 4 2 1 2 2 3 1 1 3 2 5 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "72e1e59796c923b04fcae1abe2f7947ab09b6a1eb09d617557fe8a06bef4f1ec" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "It is important to understand and find a way to make the work enviroment the best it can be." "I would be understanding of Y position, I would remain calm and explain that times have changed for the better." 1 1 1 3 1 4 3 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "0105426152770159be585773716103b12b5c7a8f47de0967481c2becc5301fb8" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Regardless of their personal lives, it's about fostering a more diverse and harmonious work environment." "calm and composed" 1 1 1 2 2 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "1c67149cf068159a64d1e15932256081e40a6bfc3e5f0ce2b7f6b5554aa51a48" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "It's important for us to understand our colleagues and how we can all work together better as a team and treat others with respect." "I would be annoyed and angry but as a manager I would have to be diplomatic in my approach. I would engage in calm, rational discourse rather than shout anyone down." 4 2 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 4 3 2 4 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "4442b873a45470805c2c593aaba11f2673d5d55811f11c15e725618063fa3ecb" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "I dont neccessarily think that they are unneccessary. it doesnt hurt to include everyone within the workplace meaning that it can be a safe place for everyone. " "I think i have replied diplomatically and without judgement or anger but also put accross a valid point without being aggressive. " 1 1 1 1 3 5 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Well i dont think the workplace has any place for toxic maculinity but i dont bang on about it. " "I find my response much more aggressive. " "4" "4" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "e66a53a04b9090ac88e7d7d363c4589d96644510d21649016b76baa9077f3895" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Issues that relate to our colleagues should be important to us. In order to work effectively as a company everyone must feel safe and included within the workplace" "A level and measured reaction that is well thought out and compassionate" 2 2 1 1 2 3 1 2 2 1 2 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "8ea7c479cc57b6dab5ad4cbe7314b7ba01fb68c4c13692f4f14a97f99939147f" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "Oh really? I think it's a great way of us getting to know people and making sure that they feel included! Imagine if you came to work and felt like you didn't belong or couldn't talk about things that matter to you? See it as a good chance to be more open!" "Positive and approachable " 2 2 1 2 3 5 2 3 4 1 3 1 1 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "b2f05ecceff0f6892bd66837f728fa25f0ce63036bba2e3ea53f6cb41445856c" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "I feel like my being gay is no more personal or private than other people being straight. I think everyone should be able to say e,g, the name of their spouse and not be afraid to hide thaT person's gender, for example. The same for all of us. Don't you?" "It's just not necessary! We don't have training sessions about straight people. Why do we have to hear about other people's sexuality?" 3 2 2 2 4 4 1 2 4 2 5 3 2 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "501eb72c2e7690957c30c2aa67abf957dceef9cf7af9cc97ef63b0af9360042d" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "It is necessary as it helps a minority group to feel more comfortable. It's not about personal lives, but about helping a minority to feel more comfortable and included." "I would not like the reaction, but I would want to help the person understand." 2 2 1 1 2 2 1 1 3 2 3 3 1 2 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "7529899e159bc6fe14bbef6cc0d873e093b8bdaec3b10f610bb588b966fe2d47" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "I know it might seem unnecessary from the perspective of a person who does not identify as part of that community. However, the training can help us to understand and support our LGBTQ+ colleagues, who often experience discrimination and harassment that others do not. I believe that it is our duty as employees to show everyone in the team that we will not tolerate any kind of discrimination in the workplace. We would all want the same thing if we were in the same position, to be treated with respect, to be treated equally." "I would feel disappointed that Y holds such a negative opinion of the training, and would feel as though they are not very open minded or thoughtful about others different from themselves. I hope that by discussing the issue with them I can make a difference by getting them to think about the training in a different way, seeing it from the perspective of a person who identifies within a minority community." 3 3 3 1 5 2 1 2 2 4 4 3 3 1 1 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "28c57229d7efb1aaec9faac4278eaeb688c8d0ef5e36318f1a1d54f10431c2d4" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "I can see where you're coming from, however not everyone is so in tune, and to bring everyone up to the same page, this is probably the best and most efficient method. " "I let Y know that I understand their frustration and, by saying that everyone else is unlikely to be as enlightened as Y, it lets them feel as if they are in no way being singled out." 2 2 1 1 4 3 1 4 3 2 4 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "391d9f08d1a86ec8dd0d0b546f0ef8176b73cefc3d875390c236c26bb312d3ae" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "X is a department manager, and Y is a colleague from a different department." "I think it is important for everyone in the workplace to consider that everyone has a different experience. These sessions help us to understand what life is like for all of us." "I would take it calmly and considerately. I would not be stressed or annoyed at the person, and approach it in a conciliatory manner." 2 1 1 1 2 3 2 1 2 1 2 2 1 2 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "1ac25bc14190d953bb65bb747066a8dd703b0a0a74258d6dce3bc8bada2904b6" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I don't think that's true, there were some gay couples at school when we there, but they can be more open now. You shouldn't say things like that." "I do not agree with Y's statement but also don't want to enter in to a debate, so I shut down his opinion quickly and effectively. " 3 4 3 2 2 1 1 1 4 3 4 4 4 2 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "2b42c038839f590a5f3d628f4dc5abdb94d4a476e5204a2a2dba70040c579f94" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "What's wrong with that? I think it's fine. I didn't even notice." "I would describe it as a bit glib, but trying to shut down what the other person is saying. I want to dead the issue and move on, as opposed to argue." 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 3 5 4 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e937cfc202f66d8ae14e2ff145d1a925d33f4bb42308814aac8083edbd6fb9ed" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "There was just as many gay people in our time too, it's just that we never knew as people kept it hidden away. Anyway, what's your problem with gay people?" "X's reaction is one of defence and protection and is disgusted with Y's seeming homophobia." 4 4 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 3 3 3 2 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "920e8600a82a53f44be04f40ec71be7f5dc97885810578497fdd5522dfa7db6e" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I don't care about those copules, they should keep hiding like in the old days." "I would be dismissive and annoyed by the comment, because I would rather ignore the situation and pretend it's not real." 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 4 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "It's nice that society is starting to open up and understand and everyone can be their true selves." "I would be pleased and encourage those people around me." "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "4" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "9ca1907be266a9f1a9b590caa825dfa6a389e4f953058739732def889baa46ca" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Yeah, haha I guess you're right. ""Sure, there are! I see that"". ""Yes, It is quite different from our time in school.""" "I believe X's reaction would be passive and mitigating. They would seek to avoid conflict, while still being agreeable." 3 2 3 3 4 2 4 2 3 4 4 4 3 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would say something like. ""Yeah, do you have a problem with that?"" Or ""Sure, but why did you say it like that?""" "I would be upset. Clearly, we have become a more progressive society and it shouldn't be weird or matter who loves who. " "4" "4" "3" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "5" "5" "5" "2" "2" "2" "round-3" "324fa3c497c39271925a36185dba53a0fc8ed437b65e83187b61a0b0016a5893" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "So what? It's not like it's any of our business anyway. I bet they're in a more accepting environment than we used to be." "I imagine Y would want X to agree; instead, X would avoid playing along and will try to shift his view away from negativity." 1 1 1 2 1 3 2 1 4 1 3 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "Yeah, it's pretty cool that they feel comfortable enough with their sexuality that they don't feel compelled to hide it." "I would try to see the positive side of the conversation. If person Y continues to cast a bad light on this situation, I would walk away." "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "4" "3" "2" "3" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "fdbf1a3a339cd88c566b30bb4793785d6231783dd8ee67edee425cb8a4f60521" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Yeah, they probably didn't feel comfortable coming out during out school days/" "Surprised" 4 3 2 2 3 3 2 4 4 2 3 4 3 2 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "9f4e688550d1e9c5113b58ced3a64da51116ee2813894509029a8e0e86834bca" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Well actually, I disagree. I think that there are the same amount. But I don't want to talk about this anymore." "I disagree, and then dismiss further confrontation. I am not afraid to confront, but want to avoid disturbing my peace." 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Why do you feel that is? I do agree there are more gay couples, but it's because times have changed." "My reactions are mostly based on questioning people on their beliefs. I want to know why he thinks this is true, and if he has any biases." "4" "4" "4" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "4" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "621756f7796083922943e0554fb5e63b509c79c510bae072adc37db5feffe7b2" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "That is none of your business or mine. Keep your opinions to yourself. How does that affect you in any way?" "Disgusted, do not agree with what they are saying. Trying to not let their negativity affect my mood" 4 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "ace6f66f74305543339dae2148c0f74a444e8456026d80963ddfb3d87487d317" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Who cares? I don't see why it matters. It doesn't affect me at all. Let's just enjoy the reunion." "I think X's reaction is grounded around living your own life and not letting other people's negativity affect them. I think they were apply this approach to other people too. I would say his attitude here is instant dismissal of negativity and rerouting the conversation away from it." 4 4 3 2 2 1 2 2 4 3 4 5 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "What do you mean? Could you explain further?" "When people express micro-aggressive statements, I like to put people on the spot and ask them to elaborate. I like to ""play dumb"" and try and prompt them to verbalise their ignorance so they can't hide behind passive aggressive statements." "4" "4" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "4" "4" "4" "2" "2" "2" "round-3" "0e17338c02aefb22ad9e6d3f5a2142a10206546dd514dda380699625e7a80ea2" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I think it's just people jumping on a bandwagon to try to make themselves feel special. They just want attention. They don't really know who they are, they just want to get people talking about them." "I am uncomfortable with the idea of people being gay so I pretend it isn't real, even though I can see it. It makes me feel disgust to think about their behaviour, I don't think it's natural." 4 5 3 2 4 1 2 1 2 5 4 5 5 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "So what. It's good that people are free to be their true selves without shame and without being afraid of being discriminated against. " "I would ask Y to reflect on what is it about seeing gay people that makes them want to remark on it. People's sexuality is their own business, we should just leave people alone." "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "5" "4" "5" "5" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "a7ed24de816971e0e48e3817992362d5aef8db4c24438718e5a8ed43816f0c58" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I hadn't noticed a difference. I don't really pay attention to that kind of thing." "I think X would try to be nonconfrontational without explicitly agreeing or disagreeing with Y." 2 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 2 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "There have always been gay people, probably at the same rates as today. They're just more open about it now because more people are accepting." "I would directly challenge the person's assumption or belief without being rude." "3" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "c33101dddb65b2098c5b68971635cea4527b595c76174c8ae4b9a3d8b7d17035" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Are there? I haven't really noticed. So long as they're happy, I'm happy for them." "I feel that X would try to deflect and try not to make it a bigger issue, and would try to quickly change the subject." 4 4 3 2 4 1 1 1 1 5 4 3 3 2 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would just say ""So what? When we were younger people were actively bullied for being gay. Times change.""" "I'd be perplexed at the comment and dismiss it as easily as it was made." "4" "4" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "5" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "2946382a4cc6aa39b9c65b2e67b91f829af57d67332e122b15f7f0fff5791bc6" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Is it a problem that people are just existing? How unfortunate for you. " "I believe x's reaction is very accurate and mature " 5 5 5 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 5 5 5 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "1525703d6e2e29158d6b7a9629e1ae16fd4db74817e90d51da5d08b1d9fced66" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I have noticed that we se see many more gay couples now. It must be because they are more confortable now to be seen in public. I think this is good." "My reaction is somewhat annoyed or frusterated. The I tru tp come across is staright to the point without being confrontational. " 4 4 4 1 4 2 1 1 1 3 5 5 3 2 4 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "61ba136fda86f8c964b9ea8a0241e92b6fe6482688dda13fc51b64d5f0b7dc9a" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I don't see how that is relevant nor appropriate to comment on. I feel like you're expressing ill intent with that statement and I don't agree with nor approve your view." "I would desribe my reaction as mildly irritated. I feel a little disgusted and my physical appearance would turn more cold and standoff-ish." 4 4 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 5 5 4 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e1b235ebdbe88678f85833b61238e6a4296b2cf1a289d98f5913df8aa5ae2e5a" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Actually the number of gay people is probably the same, but people just feel more comfortable to be out of the closet now. It seems like you dislike gay people from your comment." "somewhat aggressive, maybe self-righteous. He might enjoy the chance to correct the person" 5 4 2 4 1 1 2 1 2 2 4 4 4 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "753e934077ce0cdf6f2b23511ae908781ea05d8fc711a3a7042c95d4aa3890e4" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I don't know what that means. It sounds pretty ignorant, can you explain what you mean?" "I think the reaction would be very straightforward. I think X wouldn't be shy about showing their reaction." 5 5 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 4 5 5 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "412af4adad872af903219dbcf2eb6503bb630ec3682373894b030506a29727e9" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "What are you trying to say? It sounds like you’ve got a problem with gays....i hope not, otherwise I’m not interested in carrying on talking with you." "I am surprised and shocked to hear his words. I am immediately on my guard and feel suspicious of his motives. " 5 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "cb9ff31dd63c30b3b438ac01777b74cd517dcd838379928c37ac0120be103473" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I haven't noticed at all actually. Was it like that when we were in school? I don't pay attention to stuff like that." "I don't agree or disagree. I just distance myself from potential conflicts." 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would say: Huh, that's cool, good for them!" "I am in favor, but don't really care because it's none of my business!" "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "3" "1" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "cfb65b61c9131bfe3ad4b0d9ebe0e696ca7518a7d7cc24289eb1f74cf4f7cf49" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I hadn't noticed, and I really don't think we should be commenting on it. I'm sure we just didn't notice the gay couples back then." "I'd like to remove myself from the conversation as it makes me feel uncomfortable." 1 1 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I think there have always been gay couples around us, but prior to now it wasn't as accepted or understood. I'm happy that now they feel able to be themselves, and share themselves openly." "A bit annoyed that it was pointed out but not that bothered really." "2" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "1" "1" "5" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "round-3" "e7152acb7ca91e29fe143dddbaa01546250aeca1bd210d2ef06d90d5b67f35b9" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Seems you haven't noticed how it was in the past. There have always been gay couples, they are just finally more visible now. " "I want to respond in a really curt manner to put Y in their place. I will just dismiss their claim. " 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "So? What bothers you so much about there being more gay couples these days? " "Curt and questioning in a mildly challenging way that can go further depending on the response. " "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "4" "4" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "843929dab29009dff47f22b365f995336cb8b3238385ad7d6dcc915bbed3886f" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "There have always been gay people. You just did not notice them before. " "I refuse to believe what the other person is saying. I know that they are wrong and want to distance myself from them and their opinion." 3 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 3 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "A lot of people weren't out back then. That's probably why. " "I feel kind of indifferent. I remain friendly because it's just an observation on their part." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "2627a8a5bd88399d3a9fe0508c3694da78773111ebbeb8a1a175de2dd195fc86" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I hadn't really noticed, what other people do isn't any concern of mine" "Nonplussed" 2 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 3 3 3 1 2 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I would say that I had noticed but its really none of my business" "Irritated" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "38efcbd168a0b92977232738f321631d8a46f95320032a0db3b4e36a37d675cf" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "What's your problem with that? They were probably always here, you just didn't see them when we were at school." "hostile and reactionary" 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 4 4 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "c8a51181bf3d8192295da4da6a5886cfe294c07941d924757923f03b4ac7542c" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Well, you can practice hating gay people, but I believe everyone has a right to be with whomever they wish. And if you have a problem with that, then I think you should keep your mouth shut in the future." "I reacted by distancing myself from his views on gay people as well as telling him him he should remain quiet. I was critical of him while also making it clear that I support people regardless of sexual orientation." 4 4 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I think you should keep your bigoted views to yourself. If you really cared about people in general, you'd accept that some people develop attraction to the same sex and they should have the right to love just as everyone else." "I made an argument against his statement while also telling him he shouldn't share those views." "5" "5" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "656df709e5d8c7c4149a9e39208ce196e614c15310ab64c6b1511f9108fd1fe3" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "What's the problem with that? People have the right to love who they want, and if there are more gay couples now, good for them. Times change, and so do societal norms. If you've got an issue with it, that's your problem to deal with. I'm not here to judge; I'm here to enjoy the reunion and celebrate diversity." "X is annoyed that Y would even say that. It's inapproritate and they would feel uncomfortable to be around them. They would dislike Y" 4 4 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 4 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "016a1d1b05e4fcee09cd1fc5bbc57492822fdb24e3e60cfeb71cff8712d03d7b" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Times have changed, and our society has become more inclusive and accepting. It's a good thing that people feel more comfortable expressing their true selves now." "X's reaction would be characterized by a sense of openness and a willingness to embrace societal progress. I would maintain a calm and non-confrontational demeanor while expressing my support for the changing social landscape and the acceptance of diversity" 1 1 1 4 1 4 4 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "d2cc8e5a6faf4450a7d9e046ee146e69d042197a724573735699840560b4fc78" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I have noticed that too. I think I will say something, because you are right, it wasn't like that during our school days." "I think the reaction is head on. I think the person is always going to approach and address a situation." 4 4 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 1 4 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would ask why it matters. I would worry about yourself and don't comment on other peoples' relations." "I think I have the same reaction as most level-headed people. Simply mind yourself and don't worry about others." "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "3" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "361bde4070afb9d14e58a6e8ded5f7f8506117053a65f2d8fd93af38be2395f0" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Are you implying there's something wrong with that? Also a bunch of them probably were gay during school but were afraid to be open about it, because of people like you." "I think my reaction is justified and that people like Y need to be challenged when they say stuff like this. Otherwise they'll feel emboldened to say something like that or worse to LGBTQIA+ people themseleves. Y needs to know that their comment is not acceptable and harms people." 5 5 2 1 3 1 1 1 4 3 4 5 5 3 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "What do you mean by that? They probably didn't know back then or didn't feel comfortable being open about it." "Cautious and trying to gauge the extent of their belief or if it was more of a ignorant ""foot in mouth moment"". Perhaps too unchallenging." "2" "3" "4" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "4" "4" "3" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "3c0593f42424290f2dbe0df34f3699440f66c21db2574abbf6e6a1d6b78595c3" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "What? Yeah it was. They just kept quiet about it." "I am being aggressive and combattative towards the person's statement." 2 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 4 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I probably wouldn't say anything or would say 'so?'" "I probably would stay quiet." "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "61389b55c171bb036e7a2ffc2a9c1076661413070f0e24a2a887d3c8c7c8ec5b" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "i think that they have just come out the closet later. people are more free and accepted now. i didnt notice" "i didnt like the comment. its besides the point" 4 4 4 1 5 3 2 2 3 4 5 5 3 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "08f76d2a25b7aaf8e295c211d461f485addeb73b4bc1e016e30477ddc966363e" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "They were there, just in the closet. Now they're more comfortable and that's how it is. Nothing wrong with that." "I would describe X's reaction as confrontational and combative. They know the truth and the reality and they aren't afraid to say it." 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 2 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "dc6071c83d8e27d9056a2847b83b7ab6fcecd2e5394895b8e1f5db24952d10ed" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Why does it matter how many gay couples there are? Of course there weren't as many when we were in school, people weren't allowed to be as open then. Don't you realize that?!" "Assertive" 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I haven't noticed, I usually don't pay attention to these things. I think you should probably be more accepting. " "Dismissive. Usually if you act dismissive, the person gets embarrassed. " "2" "4" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "4" "3" "2" "2" "2" "round-3" "3394925afc990161850830d68984d1266fa86019d553178dd9e6b485c80e42e0" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I doubt if this sentence is actually true. Can you provide me with proofs" "I think X knows what he actually meant. Sure he was sad why telling Y." 1 1 3 3 5 2 3 3 1 1 4 1 5 5 4 3 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "131c963aa5d7ded4469c18fdfb927cbdc8a7aaad26f1d50dc55f5984895a872b" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Is that an issue to you? It's likely there was a lot of gay people too scared to come out earlier in life and we should be happy they now have the confidence to do so." "I would describe it as disagreeable for the greater good. Y needs to know where X stands on the matter and that derogeratory complaining is not accepted." 4 3 2 2 3 2 2 2 2 3 4 4 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "23ca91f2ec72ccab637e42c8aecd6a06608b46deff31ab39ac62253215fce69f" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "And is that a problem? We're out now, it's better than before." "I'd think Y was negatively judging the number of gay couples at the reunion. I'd push back proudly and assertively." 4 4 2 5 1 5 5 3 5 1 4 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "Yeah, attitudes have changed. It's great we can be so open now." "I'd push back more gently, stating that times have changed and people are more accepting. I'd be hopeful." "3" "4" "2" "5" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "6c08c2650b09ea21e5b62d709cb9a038421b1233cffd1cbf5f04c67b53f8f5f6" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "No there isn't. Why would you say that?" "I would say X's reaction is direct and confrontation. I would also also say it also shows a surprise that Y would say that." 4 4 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "It's great that people have been able to be themselves. I'm glad they're happy." "It would be happy and proud of seeing people able to be themselves. It would also show my support of what I am seeing." "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "4" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "7fa4402c0b9f7c64e8f076a94edc9d8eab32ab64269f17b906e32da5172ff82d" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Yeah?? Is there an issue with this?!" "I call this, a ""confrontational"" response. One that's in line with someone who's against the implications of Y's observation." 1 5 5 5 5 5 5 5 1 1 1 3 3 5 5 5 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "aa5351239300ec558c5176f54f3d311a0c0b3e3d843774dfa7a65e72f99233be" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I think it's great that people feel able to be open these days. I guess there were more gay people than we knew about back in our day. " "I feel that I have made a calm and positive response which gives my feeling without aggression or direct opposition to Y, so that we can continue amicably. " 4 4 3 2 4 3 2 3 3 3 4 3 3 3 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "1b2b26dbce9bc24731295af2f86416958f2ddb2a8ac888eeef27d76216c17a3b" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "That's interesting, it does appear that there are more nowadays. I actually think they are just more visible in today's times as they are more accepted. It's a great thing to see these loving relationships valued publicly." "It is well considered and non combative but it gets across a clear point of viewpoint, one that is contradictory to the statement it is in response to. This could be seen as argumentative but the tone is calm and controlled and keeps the conversation open." 3 4 4 4 4 4 2 4 4 3 4 3 3 2 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "4e784862a9589941339d87562f12e1affef182e38e236aff5f419cc379e87873" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I don't know if that's true. Maybe they're just more comfortable being visible now. " "I would describe it as surprised. I would assume their reaction would be taken aback and a little upset." 2 3 1 1 3 2 1 2 1 3 4 3 2 1 1 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "d81aa9acd1c4fbe2d6a39263c8a6346552840a13afcca8370187d1a6f5172f75" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I think it's a good thing. I'm sure we had just as many gay classmates who weren't comfortable being open because of prevailing attitudes." "I am sad to hear someone say this in this day and age. However, I will be quick to put a positive spin on it which they will hopefully take on board." 1 1 1 2 4 4 1 2 2 3 2 2 1 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "ee5ff58a61de6bab2639ed79a12160941f9d2f300539b0299b0546c0f6a97d82" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I know! It's great, isn't it? I love that people can be so free and open about themselves nowadays." "Trying to turn a negative into a positive." 2 3 2 1 2 4 2 3 3 2 2 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "b6e033e0a9bbac72282d4bb6b18bba9071aaff087c81aa2d7a8e244f78977ae8" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "its great that people can be open about themselves more, and dont feel like they have to hide like during school days " "explain and frame positively and honestly " 3 2 2 4 2 4 3 2 4 3 2 3 1 1 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "prob say the same, but with more hostility " "reactionary, angry " "5" "5" "1" "1" "3" "2" "2" "1" "2" "4" "5" "5" "5" "3" "2" "2" "round-3" "16a8b082a942ff8137510db885cb72e93b735554020936e5dd0586c06e018fb6" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "You don't just become gay Y! There were plenty of gay couples in our school days, however they kept it secret as it wasn't safe for them to be honest." "X reacts with surprise at the lack of understanding from Y" 1 3 1 1 4 2 1 1 3 3 5 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "de6cb481a2685727c9c0349a16cba65ed170cfecced54f1ca09480ef60eed5f5" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I have noticed but I believe people should accept it as it is generally accepted these days." "One of openess to conversation about it. " 2 3 2 1 2 3 1 1 3 2 3 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "f339e358b04477e9421c868c8a1b750d7b7a00e0941e41e4dc6d879578c1b38c" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "I think there probably were gay people when we were here they just couldn't be open. " "My behaviour is friendly and calm. I do not want to start a big argument but have facts to back up what I'm saying. " 1 1 1 1 3 5 1 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "7d7733c141243d8abbc7dfcca70bda16bcf473c65053c5d6609780bacf4e16c7" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Well, you know morality evolves as time progresses. People said the same thing about slavery 150 years ago, so I think it's a heathier mindset to go with the flow. " "I think X's reaction is perfectly normal and standard -- someone who has informed opinions on these types of issues and isn't afraid to defend them, but in a congenial manner." 2 2 1 1 2 4 2 2 1 1 2 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "4a6d7c7529969b34bd93e3533ce5fde960828d088016a5f322fce58032f9a55f" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Times are different now. People can be more open about themselves." "Y's statement could be taken as equally positive or negative toward gay people depending on their intentions, but I assume you mean that it is negative, in which case X's reaction would presumably to be diplomatic and positive to try to make Y think twice without starting an argument." 4 4 4 2 2 4 2 3 3 4 4 4 4 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "cc0bb6eecef7ea1cda46d013e46ac33ca5a1a8a01725ec0e9f8fa16aa8567426" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "Well, back in our school days it was not acceptable to be openly gay. Times have adjusted so much and it's wonderful to see that people are comfortable and safe being themselves." "My reaction was calm and concice but still contained a personal belief that challenged Y's opinion." 4 4 2 1 2 4 2 3 4 4 4 3 3 2 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "6fd58ef0b398c40f809bab7dab0e480e62c49450a66fe54f0df0eb346e556df7" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "X is the class president, and Y is an old classmate." "While we might not have been aware since it wasn't as socially acceptable back then, the amount of gay people hasn't changed. Gay couples were still together, they were just not as open about it. More gay couples openly showing their love in public is due to a society that has changed for the better. " "X's reaction would be calm but determined to open Y's mind about the situation and hopefully change their perspective." 3 4 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 3 5 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "5e69375e9ded350e5866aa745c3f353f8710d1e2d3af7a1f500c1f2eac4ebd7f" "reject" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "That may be but I am concerned about the access to drugs this would then give the children. There is already enough problems with drug users here without adding to them further." "They wouldn't be super angry but they would be a bit nervous about the propositions made by Y. They would feel the need to express this rather than stay quiet." 4 2 4 1 1 3 1 2 2 3 3 3 2 1 1 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "I would wholeheartedly agree with Y and also add to their argument for." "I would be pleased that finally this issue is being raised by a politician figure." "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "d97afdbda60594ef149820de5d2a42da8fb4769c04c267d92f71e41d0619aeeb" "reject" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X would say no chance, we dont need this in our town. We have enough propblems." "X would be disgusted and wouldnt want anything to do with it." 3 5 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 3 4 4 "Yes" "No" "No" "i would say it could be a positive thing, like alcohol it could be managed and treated properly" "i would be positive" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "5" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "6d6a9d2f3414bff99bddce6aa61d398706fe11900718e39c8864fbbd76cd7898" "distance" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." " understand the intention behind your proposal, but I strongly disagree. Legalizing all drugs could create more problems than it solves. " "X's reaction would likely involve a mix of concern and disagreement." 1 1 1 3 4 5 1 3 2 1 4 4 2 3 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "ad1924d8b1b145cd2a15144b73917c26154fd703fad217b95435b28ed1c2223d" "reject" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Where do we start by legalising drugs? What is next, allowing people to drive dangerously. Either one is a risk to humans" "X speaks in a bold, dominating tone. Not allowing the statement to be questioned" 5 5 4 1 2 1 1 1 3 3 4 4 5 2 2 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "451f56092fe77a6064d0f60fbfff2f7541738f0ef701d36f1f120970eab1ee55" "distance" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I'm sorry but I must disagree with you as it worries me that this encourages people to think that drugs are o.k. I'm really really worried and don't want my children to see this happen." "I see X as being in a position they don't like, but in this instance they can't just walk away. They're having to make a comment and perhaps not doing it very well." 2 3 5 1 4 1 2 2 3 5 4 5 3 3 3 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e09d1faedf3853591ed3d37f73df6b34c42d88c28ff55a0b8b08f1326cc5dd87" "distance" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Legalizing all drugs sounds risky and could lead to more harm than good." "X's reaction would likely involve expressing genuine concern and disagreement with Y's proposal. X might speak with a firm but respectful tone, emphasizing the potential risks and negative consequences." 5 4 3 4 3 2 2 4 3 4 3 3 4 4 4 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "7907b00b321357ec3b194144f96318d53cfe6316ed5c7fb1afa80b5de004a45e" "distance" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I would be concerned that through legalizing all drugs they would become easily to acquire and that my child might get them and start using. I also see this as society turning a blind eye to drugs in an attempt to drive down crime statistics without thinking of the consequences this might have." "I think X's reaction is a little reactionary, it's clear that drug dependency is an issue within society and ruins peoples lives. A succession of govenerments have attempting to tackle this with limited success, I believe that the plan laid out by Y is an interesting proposal and by rejecting it for largely personal motives X is wrong." 4 4 5 1 3 2 1 1 1 4 4 5 4 2 2 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would agree with Ys proposal but caviat by asking what is the long term strategy. I would be skeptical of a polictian because they often operate on short term goals." "I think my reaction is fairly reasonable, in thinking about the long term I am accepting the proposal but with an eye to the future." "2" "2" "2" "4" "2" "4" "4" "3" "3" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-3" "2611a3955c340fb23b2646aba0aa91f3caef9931908f8ea864c1bc5c4c87fb9d" "distance" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "This policy would flood our town full of drugs being taken with abondom. It would expose itself to and endanger my children." "That of a parent who wants to prioritise the safety of their family above all else. A parent who does not wanted additional problems on their doorstep." 4 4 5 1 4 1 1 3 1 5 4 5 5 3 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e619dab3de8e4c1cdea547d79f52359293134cdf0bc51cd075bc6cf3eabe0a3a" "reject" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Not correct, both morally & realistically this is wrong. We will not accept this for our community." "It would be concise & although X doesnt appear to get emotionally involved I think X would be angered by it somewhat. X would want this flat out refused & not supported." 3 4 3 1 3 2 1 1 1 3 3 4 4 1 2 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "a690fcc48bf68bab655edc89ce5877dd1748900d20bba9db566a879ccc8278ce" "distance" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I am against that, I do not want my life interuppted by any of the results that this proposal would bring to me. I don't know much about this subject and do not want to know." "X would fall short of anger but would feel fear and distress and frustration that their bubble was about to be broken and their view on life was about to change." 3 3 4 2 3 3 2 2 2 4 4 4 3 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I think that is a great idea, drugs should be legal. they should not be a legal or policing issue but a health issue. there are studies and trials that have proved this. And the decades long war on drugs have proved that it does not work. I would be happy with this alternative idea" "I would be happy to at least give this method a try. This would give me hope and feel like we are applying logic and truth to an issue rather than demonising and vote catching." "1" "1" "3" "4" "2" "5" "4" "4" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "7437f9a0750d55013dc6f77f390ccd58bc795f1e3fa6be613b9191ed1055b48b" "reject" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I don't think that's a good idea at all. Have you seen the damage drugs can do?" "I think X's reaction is fairly typical of someone perhaps less than educated on the topic. It's the kind of reaction I'd expect from a tabloid reader." 4 4 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would ask for further information, for example is the plan to regulate drug supply and ensure purity whilst giving health advice? I would state my opinion that simply making the black market supply not a crime could make the situation worse. " "I would describe my reaction as that of someone with some knowledge of the drug market/usage. Probably better informed than the average person." "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "0066cb127a5cf086fe4ae4370fe896651a1bed553770b9788386b68327178879" "distance" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I think that is a really bad idea as it would give young people the wrong idea." "I would be upset that someone would think this is a good idea." 4 4 4 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 3 4 3 2 4 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "99ab492e0363ee94180728fbc1d18829d5d34c0fd669878c6157d3a1dc1b66ea" "distance" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I think that is a bad idea. I do not like the sounds of it. It could be harmful in the longrun" "I think that X is doing the best they can with what they have inside. I think they are scared to go against someone elses opinions due to how someone treated them in the past." 1 3 5 2 3 2 2 3 3 5 5 5 3 1 5 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "5b77ead4ec796c69a9d02bd1f971b91a4f5e6e05b09f2a02415ec343471c4ca5" "distance" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X would say; “you are irresponsible by, giving MY child permission to use and get access to drugs, whenever they want! and probably looking to make extra legalising drug pushers, thats all it would be" "X would be trying to control both the childs and own situation, any change, especially as big as this would permeate the peace bubble - I think" 5 5 5 1 3 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 5 2 3 2 "No" "No" "No" "I would probably want to question more how this process would develop and assume that there would be some regulations in place. I am not a fan of pharmaceutical companies and think legal drugs are sometimes far worse, with more chemicals, which they say are safe - least with the illegal ones we know they can be very addictive/bad" "Mature and curious I guess and also realistic" "1" "1" "3" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "a03841158d4d948a20cb497b17aea4b0e2db8c59c7b8fc9681757c6281198781" "reject" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Legalizing drugs would be a terrible move. I don't want to see drug addicts openly injecting heroin or snorting cocaine in public places. We should increase prison sentences for suppliers instead." "I would describe X's reaction as selfish, taking into account the effect of legalization on X and not considering the potential benefits to others." 5 5 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would say legalization would be the best way to help people who are struggling with addiction. Decriminalize them and supply them with safe, affordable substances while offering treatment pathways to help them out of addiction." "Compassionate. My way of thinking is to help those with addictive beahviours, not to punish them. We should seek the best outcome for them in all cases." "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "5" "3" "3" "3" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "06c83314e55c5fca48e6112ad3cc634ab621bb3b0442b8c982955e3452279a8e" "reject" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I would argue that any drugs at all is a negative and therefor would have a negative effect. I prefre they remain illegal and out of sight" "I would think it understandable but missplaced" 4 5 5 1 4 2 1 5 4 5 5 5 3 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would say that the plan needed more consideration as to what drugs were to be legalized and how they planned to do so. The concept is too simple at present" "Hopful and considered." "3" "3" "4" "1" "3" "3" "1" "2" "2" "4" "5" "2" "3" "2" "1" "2" "round-3" "8a771777902aec08d14542dcbce818a4fa9c9014743bf9cd259ff5ce64b11a3f" "attack" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "How dare you take such an irresponsible attitude? Don't you know what drugs can do to young people? Are you even a parent? If not, how can you claim to understand what it's like to see your child affected by drugs, either firsrt-hand or by what it's doing to their friends?" "I see X's reaction as angry. I also see X as shocked and frightened - but they're not going to let anyone see that fear. I feel that X is courageous to have the courage of their convictions." 5 5 5 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "5a69e4cbee04225381c8109002713972bd50b464ee391175910e11809e717680" "reject" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I would disagree, as having addicts more involved in the comunity would be dangerous to my children. I am concerned about their safty, and don't wish to have this negative influence around them." "It would be rejecting of the negative aspects of the poilicy. Despite it being beneficial to others, X wouldn't want to be bothered with any negative outcomes." 4 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 3 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would try to show them how this policy would benefit the community as a whole. I would also point out that it would prevent them from negativity in the long run." "I would say it's fair. I try to see both sides of an issue. I would also be firm, as that seems to be the way to get through to X." "2" "1" "1" "2" "4" "5" "1" "3" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "e10ec03005891daf335e0342210d9a5a6d2f94c14c0169e6a957f69f74bd7e65" "reject" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "This is not a good idea, drugs should be completely illegal. They are harmful to kids and I want them kept off our streets. I don't want to encourage addicts to be around this area." "I would stand up and be prepared to put accross my opinion. I would make it known that I disagree with Y" 5 5 4 1 2 1 1 1 3 3 4 5 5 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would agree whole heartedly and say I feel addicts should be given a safe space, safe drugs and access to rehab - this is how to solve the issue. Rehab is too hard to get into and if it was easier some addicts would get clean. Not all but some, most comit crimes due to addiction and helping this helps solve the other issues" "I would passionately agree and even ask for the proposal to go further - I'd happily stand and voie my opinion" "3" "1" "2" "4" "4" "4" "2" "3" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "8567fdfab2c1598ca9dab8efe4aba9b50084463d5e190d9a2847db6b519536ef" "attack" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "there won't be any advantage to legalise the drugs. It is just drugs addicts who can bring this resolution on the table" "I found the reaction of x a little bit excessive and a lot provocative." 4 3 3 1 5 2 3 2 5 4 4 4 4 2 4 4 "No" "No" "No" "i would say it is an idea we need to discuss without passion. With all the measures we took we never had the expected results so why not try anything differents." "i think my reaction is calm and measured. I have to stay in the middle" "2" "2" "1" "4" "2" "4" "4" "4" "4" "2" "2" "2" "2" "4" "2" "1" "round-3" "926221ccb1b63289922ac8bda703bb5683cb0d2ee4b321b4ca47e4fd5acfc371" "attack" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Person X, would firmly express my disagreement. I'd say, I strongly disagree with that idea. Legalizing all drugs could have disastrous consequences for our community, especially our children. It's essential to prioritize their well-being and safety above all else." "Person X, would react strongly and immediately, expressing firm disagreement with the proposal. The response would be assertive, reflecting a resolute commitment to protecting the well-being of the community and children by opposing drug legalization." 5 4 1 1 4 1 1 1 4 1 3 3 1 3 2 1 "No" "No" "No" "I believe that legalizing drugs could have benefits in terms of reducing crime and providing better addiction management. It's a complex issue with potential pros and cons, and we should consider all perspectives before making a decision." "My reaction would be immediate and strong. I firmly express my disagreement, placing a priority on protecting the well-being of my community and, especially, my children. I assertively reject the proposal to legalize all drugs." "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "4" "5" "2" "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "0ac3dd6d511176e039938b6fff7321fc852e7859e99e849f77f56eb0c9026e89" "reject" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I disagree that the leagalisation of drugs would lower crime. It would enable people to get their hands on drugs far more easily, and breeed additctions, which need to be paid for and in tunr will increase crime. Softer drugs will also be gateways for harder drugs, and increase the number of addicts." "Somewhat dismissive. Doesn't seem to care about studies, or facts, and instead is entrenched in his own opinions and doubles down rather than listen to an opposite viewpoint." 4 4 4 2 2 2 2 3 4 3 4 4 5 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "If we can point to studies that have shown that the legalisation lowers crime, i think we should adopt a similar model in a trial study to see if we yield similar results." "Logical, rather than based on emotion and fear. We clearly have a societal drug problem, so need to try and find ways to address this." "2" "2" "3" "3" "4" "4" "3" "4" "4" "3" "3" "2" "2" "3" "1" "2" "round-3" "4c4f77437e4fb02cc79dce41e5ec4203629f5d896b85d3151963b74c8f1ac6b0" "attack" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Legalizing all drugs would only cut down on the amount of crime the city has to fight, not the act itself. Furthermore, legalizing all drugs would make them more accessable to my children and make this city completely unsafe. Drug activity, legal or not, would increase and the amount of drugs we see our children exposed to would drasically affect the outcome of their lives and put them all at increased risk of addiction. " "I am appalled that the town would even consider this absurd idea to legalize all drugs. I am fearful that my child is going to be exposed to more drugs and types of situations involving drugs and I feel inadequate in managing how I am suppose to protect my child from addiction, overdose, and drug use in this city, if drugs are legalized. " 5 5 4 1 4 3 1 4 1 4 5 5 3 1 2 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "953f05d9625cc9be8c68efe00142e61f8b63cd8fd5a10054194a149b24c8499a" "attack" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Please can you show me documented evidence that legalising ALL drugs would cut down crime and manage addiction? I am concerned that easier access to drugs will exacerbate the problem." "I am worried that legalising drugs will expose my children to greater numbers of criminals and higher crime rates. I am also concerned that my children will be exposed to the drugs themselves." 5 4 5 1 3 3 1 4 3 5 4 5 4 2 1 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "In a society where people will take drugs whether it is illegal or legal, legalisation means that drugs are controlled. It also cuts out the criminals." "Addiction is an illness and addicts need access to help and treatment. They also need a safe environment and equipment to take drugs. This will also get needles away from public places, making the area safer for all." "2" "1" "3" "2" "5" "5" "2" "4" "2" "2" "4" "2" "1" "2" "2" "3" "round-3" "648af22442fb03952b55c9ebdeb311e942bc88bfee382cc55177ae02aa39e590" "reject" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Legalizing all drugs would bring a serious negativity, and more criminal activity and i would like nothing to do with it!" "Extremely against the idea of this and very stand off against person Y " 5 5 5 1 4 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 1 1 4 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "That if there was more help with addiction and drug problems, there would be no issue in legalizing drugs to try and combat crime " "Fair, taking all sides into concideration " "2" "2" "3" "3" "1" "4" "3" "3" "3" "2" "2" "2" "3" "3" "3" "3" "round-3" "4ac79ecbeba3b16696b62b7095b4856a9a14f34d137ecf9baf17afe809cf5e1c" "attack" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "The town will become full of drug addicted youths." "They would aggresively provide reasons against the legislation, any reason that fit the bill without thinking it through properly." 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 2 5 5 5 1 1 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "Cannabis is safer than alcohol in terms of creating violent people." "I tend to be reserved and keep my opinions to myself but would agree if another put the same views forward." "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "cf03efecd25a632ba94b94cc964dce83ded9b9e20c4ca395884feb1ec132a4fe" "attack" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "That is ridculous. Our area will be overrun by drug addicts!" "Over the top" 5 5 4 1 2 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Legalising some drugs can have s beneficial effect on society" "I would say my approach is sensible. It is also evidence based." "1" "1" "2" "3" "3" "4" "3" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "ad3f4cd6a3b1e3afbd54f5fceabd3d284cfd4ef2be3f884c974eb3318c115bae" "attack" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I strongly disagree with that idea. Legalizing all drugs is not the solution to our problems. It will only make our community less safe and put our children at risk. We need to focus on better addiction treatment and prevention, not making dangerous substances more accessible." "X's reaction is characterized by strong disagreement and a sense of deep concern. They respond assertively, emphasizing their opposition to the proposal and expressing worry about the potential negative consequences of legalizing drugs. X's behavior is marked by a passionate and combative stance, reflecting their determined resolve to address the issue and protect the well-being of the community, particularly the children." 2 2 2 4 2 3 4 4 4 2 2 2 4 2 2 2 "No" "No" "No" "It was great " "I was really immensed in it" "1" "3" "3" "3" "3" "2" "4" "3" "2" "3" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "2" "round-3" "20de80ff5cdc63bae0ec9157f5322b81c24a19159f70b87669cfce21e450dac7" "attack" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "This is going to destroy our kids in the community." "X is being a concerned parent." 5 5 4 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 1 5 3 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "2cfa21283f90f85b2fab424a04204701196ffcdd2f5138e49e14e73675f4c767" "contact" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Dear Politician, I can see how the logic tracks in the agrument for your position to legalize all drugs. However, we have quite a few examples of Cities that recently tried this approach and failed greatly. I would like to discuss these real life cities in depth with in person or on the phone. But let me tell you that as a mother, I cannot advocate legallizing all drugs, especially now when taking one pill laced with fentenyl is fatal. " "Remained calm and appraochable the entire time, while explaining that the politician stance is well understood by her. She also touched on her bottom-line, that we cannot legallize all drugs while a childs first time taking a drug can be fatal throughout the United States. She also invited taking more at another time. This would provide time to consider her point of view and provide a cooling off period, should one be helpful." 5 5 5 5 5 5 5 5 5 5 5 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "9e3fac510b0bd1455e4e1b322b5098b3f518755b59df530bda32964063bb6b17" "contact" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I think you Mr. Y should rethink your position on this if you want my vote next election. Legalizing ALL drugs would be madness. It would increase the chances that my children would be exposed to mind altering substances even before their brains have a chace to fully mature." "I would describe parent X's reaction as justifiably angry and concerned. While there are arguments for the legalization of some drugs, doing so with ALL of them is bordering on insanity." 5 5 4 1 2 2 1 2 3 5 5 5 5 3 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I would say that I disagree with legalizing ALL drugs, but since Marijuana is well on the way and certain mushrooms that would be well controlled would be fine." "My reaction would be a bit angry and very concerned. ""ALL"" drugs constitutes some very dangerous substances such as heroin and Meth." "4" "3" "3" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "2" "4" "3" "5" "5" "3" "1" "1" "round-3" "e9209ea5ac6cfac75fbfc3781545541c3ef1f2e6be6702cbbba3010917670bf9" "contact" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Please it will not be nice to legalize all drugs because hard drugs can cause more harm than good" "calm and then try to communicate amicably with Y" 1 1 1 2 1 3 4 3 2 3 1 2 1 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e66c07c4212bb5c2f83722005649bb7cec9ccad84d9a81bc2d4d9f544a36ad91" "contact" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I do not agree. Legalizing drugs would cause worse problems for the community. Our local economy would perish due to more people using drugs. Our communiry would go down esthetically due to people not taking care of their properties due to spending money on drugs. Crime rate in our community would go up as well. This is definitely notva good proposal!!" "My behavior is purposeful. My behavior is very urgent and eager. I am being straightforward" 4 4 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 1 2 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e1fb4c485f463ddb4a309ca07d4f412c8c8e4fe835d9c4e5f41f6c7d51986c43" "contact" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I dont think legalizing all drug's would be a good idea as they would be making them more accessible and in the end there would be more addict's." "Fair and reasonable, It is something that would be very likely to happen if Character Y had his way and al drugs became legalized." 5 3 4 1 3 2 1 1 1 4 5 4 4 1 3 1 "No" "No" "No" "I would Agree with character Y the politician as I believe that most of the danger's of drug use come from the fact that they are all illegal and in the past there have been thing's like legal high's that try and sneak past the law's but end up being more dangerous and addictive than many typical illegal drugs. And if the government took control of these illegal drugs,produced and taxed them they would be taking the profits out of the hands of criminal's and less people would die due to harmful cut's added to the drugs to boost profits which is a very big issue right now." "Fair and logical and I feel like most people who are aware of this topic would agree with me." "4" "1" "2" "4" "1" "3" "1" "4" "4" "4" "4" "1" "5" "3" "4" "3" "round-3" "2d776cd5c31b0fac653919df66bc4daef39d54f1df8c90f8f22967124007d181" "contact" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "While I respect your opinion, I have to disagree. There are some drawbacks to what you have proposed." "In disagreement x is not confrontational or argumentative, but provides constructive conversation/debate." 2 1 2 1 2 4 2 2 2 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "Likely something similar, but it would be much harder to be polite. I'm not trying to be confrontational, but don't always hold back anger." "Conversational with sarcastic undertones" "3" "3" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "029cc9ce468bef22f6af8b234514067ec068c77059eb05e7e52ffb240ba679a7" "contact" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I would be against this claim, as legalisation of all drugs leaves all avenues open to different people and it can cause more harm than good especially if its accessible to everyone like recreational drugs." "My behaviour would feel like i need to speak up for whatnis right before harm can come to people who dont know the consequences of these illegal drugs. I would want to stop this before it gets out of hand." 5 4 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 1 3 3 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "6107b369761359a9c83563c59878e33f8ed936c5c54ed23b8061af12381b4b53" "contact" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I'm concerned about more antisocial behaviour if drugs become easier to access. Our children's safety needs to be prioritised first." "I think X is worried about how the situation may play out, and would try to think of the most logical argument against the proposal." 3 3 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 2 2 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I agree. Addiction is a growing problem in these stressful times, and I would like to see a more up-to-date way of approaching things." "Supportive of the proposal." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "daef2932d14fb30ea0a1decabe339d0d8bb4b5081281ad0213485a6c11e5921b" "contact" "drugs" "During a town hall meeting, Y proposes, ""Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels.""" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I oppose this. I think we will have a drug problem." "I am upset. I am reacting to your position." 4 4 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 4 4 4 4 "No" "No" "No" "I agree. Legalization is the best path forward." "I am listening to your point and agreeing. I like your ideas." "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "5" "4" "4" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "5b331dc43da53b26d62ee269842615a2bf5d74d810fe8e0a7b02f9992e01bdca" "distance" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I think the ""war on drugs"" is working, I dont see any reason to change our approach to date. We should leave it up to the authorities to decide what is best action wise and trust that they are here to solve this problem for us. " "I would say that the response above is keeping the peace, choosing the easy option so that X does not need to worry about the issue. It is one where a reliance is placed on others to solve the problem so that X does not need to worry about the final outcome... only that they are safe and do not need to think about the issue. " 1 2 4 2 2 4 3 3 3 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would agree first of all with the health professional saying more needed to be done. However, to blanket refuse that the ""war on drugs"" has been helpful in anyway is a dangerous assumption. More needs to be done, more ideas, solutions and implementation needs to occur to solve this issue. I would suggest that multiple ideas need to be investigated with a larger group of professionals, implemented with the help of the community and managed by multiple government organisations. To rely solely on one idea and one mechanism for solving the issue is short sighted. " "My reaction is more one of acceptance, but bringing a wider picture into focus so that many ideas can be shared. Rather than just reacting negatively to one small aspect of a problem. I am more a solutions person - bringing people together. So, the more people with buy in on a problem like this the better. " "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "5" "4" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "e6b9bf21d5f1238ced460deba710377b5202677c99d8c6f416ec9c99266939f7" "reject" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "this softly softly approach doesnt work. we need stronger punishment for these criminals" "why cant people realise that discipline needs to be the key here. punishment is the best deterrent" 4 5 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 4 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "2e0a73b8ee95c7297a0eedbef41885b623eee14877e5a6b3a92355bd2c981e5c" "reject" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "So, what? We just allow drugs everywhere, for our kids, in our homes? How can we say it's been ineffective? Have we even looked at the data? Maybe it's been more helpful than experts lead us to believe." "I would say Xs reaction is judgmental and disagreeable, falling into black and white thinking and trying to dismiss a negative claim that the war on drugs has been largely ineffective." 5 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 5 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "This question is unclear. What would I say to what? If the question is what would I personally say to Y, then I might say something like: That's an interesting claim, can you tell me more about it and how you've come to that conclusion?" "Again, my reaction to what? If to what Y said, then I might react with interest in the claim." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "ba13014e61d29a37f72c79a1b6ab2c528b8e22b80d7b29cb7445dcafbba2d256" "reject" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "No way, the last thing we need is to be soft on drugs. People who do drugs know it's wrong and do it anyway, they get what's coming to them" "X is angry at the idea that people involved in drugs might not get in trouble. X sees harm reduction as the person getting away with a slap on the wrist. Because they're unwilling to engage with negative topics, they aren't really thinking through to the impacts (whether more people will do drugs etc) - just the immediate annoyance that someone doing 'the wrong thing' might not get in trouble." 5 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 4 1 5 5 5 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "We've tried a punitive response to drugs for many years now and there's been no improvement, things have maybe even got worse. Some countries have had a lot of success redirecting funds from policing drug use to harm reduction, more investment in treatment etc. I think it's time to try a different approach and prioritise harm minimisation. " "trying to rationally engage with what X said without reacting to the judgemental comments." "4" "3" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "5" "5" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "c2c2f5f9e4149370384fa7eb7c4f84fa58ed96b5cc64017a4602246b897ec478" "distance" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "we must continue to fight against drugs. reducing harm will not be effective" "I would argue against the war on drugs being ineffective. We must continue to fight" 5 3 5 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 4 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "2574c3710da1a27b22c2a6e57e8dfa2533cd334984e6035059d018dec42c2150" "reject" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "Being soft on criminals who use drugs will only encourage more drug use. Rather than wasting NHS resources on helping make it easier for them, what's needed is stronger prison sentences to put people off using them in the first place." "I am scared of trying new things, we need to stick with what we know." 3 3 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 2 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree; treating drug use as a health concern rather than a criminal matter would be the right direction to go." "I strongly agree that the 'war on drugs' is a complete failure. I would support a more supportive & realistic approach." "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "a4e1f81cf3aa5c90b97d48df1d0c71b026a5dbef07329fe4282798a7d61cfdf6" "distance" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "i think the war on drugs have been hugely successfull and think we should concentrate more on alcahol problems" "i would show my opposition to ys claim" 3 2 1 1 5 5 3 1 2 2 4 4 4 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "37204b76838ac77e68aab1bdbe328eda27944f6504974ae8de620829e61c37e4" "reject" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "We need to take measures to keep drugs off our streets in the first place. We then wouldn't need harm reduction" "I am certain I am right. The world would be a better place without drugs." 4 4 2 2 3 3 3 4 2 3 3 3 2 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "We need a combined approach. Target both the criminals involvedc in supply and give support and safety advice to those who use" "I feel it is balanced. It is more realistic" "2" "2" "2" "1" "3" "4" "3" "2" "3" "2" "2" "2" "1" "2" "1" "2" "round-3" "28a167bad441dad4aaa633c6ca4de8835f14bc812f458b031565c58d18391556" "distance" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I disagree, if we continue to ignore the drug situation it will never have an ending. The solution to this problem is to educate children in school about the harmful effect that drugs have." "I think X's reaction was rational and sane. Also, he displayed a very positive solution to the problem, in his own opinion." 1 1 2 2 4 3 3 4 3 3 4 4 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "920a64d6a8fccd7984e161f7d99b10b0b230e913add401e4a6fe4d072055af6e" "distance" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "its not thta efffective as drugs are all over the place no matter where you go drugs are easy to come by" "disagrement" 3 3 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 4 5 3 3 1 2 3 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "bcdd0626fe963db8ff341383ac9ec8278c6a60da54a475f24111634559a4df8b" "reject" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "the war on drugs has been very effective in the last few years due to the laws that have been put in place." "correct" 4 3 2 2 3 2 2 1 3 4 5 5 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "01594d01ed21ff6b94169842a0fc9e3639d3a14996a1d0197c99f0fcada0065a" "reject" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "War on Drugs has been effective in reducing the supply of illegal drugs and increasing the cost to users. It has also led to the arrest and incarceration of millions of people, many of whom are nonviolent offenders. While the War on Drugs has had negative consequences, it has also made it more difficult for people to obtain illegal drugs." "Different " 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I would probably agree" "Agreeably " "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "d864e01be156535f604444d84f3b9475e18e1ce675a2a4f3b71e30de8a97d219" "distance" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "The war on drugs has been effective as its gotten hundreds of drug users and drug traffickers off the street. " "X is opposed to the claim that the war on drugs has been ineffective." 3 4 2 3 4 4 4 3 3 4 4 3 3 3 3 3 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "2969882a5da03322155e1d6d9ee39a1bd9ad3b16d33c81fda274977ea5bfcfb8" "distance" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "The war on drugs keeps out children and streets safe. To give up on this war means to let the enemy (in this case, drug dealers) win and rule over us. If anything we need to double down on support for our local authorites to combat these drugs dealers and criminals." "I am horrifed to hear this. The solution isn't to arrest more people and put them in prison. The solution is social reform so that service such as therapy and counselling are available to those who need it. Combat the issue on a personal level, not at a street level. " 3 4 3 2 5 2 2 4 4 3 4 3 3 4 4 4 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "008c86fda98828ec3d24376c0710bc7b545f9774549af1cd9bf9875845df3251" "distance" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I oppose that, The war on drug abuse has been quite effective, we have seen strict measures against drug traffickers and this has led to a massive reduction in their numbers" "X's response is quite aggressive " 5 4 1 2 1 4 4 2 4 2 1 4 3 1 1 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "fe68e9d3d6da3e01cbb981904a4d6dbd7f69643f50a81d35a7434c37829e14be" "distance" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I do not think that the war on drugs has been ineffective. We have locked up hundreds if not thousands of dealers, which has also reduced violent crime including gun violance. We have provided effective drug treatment for addicts at little or no cost thanks to government funding. " "I would be incredulous that someone would advocate harm reduction. That's basically saying we should spend our time and money teaching people how to take the right kinds of drugs in the right kind of way. We might as well just throw our children in the trash." 3 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 3 5 5 1 3 3 "No" "Yes" "No" "I think there is a balance to be found between interdiction and harm reduciton. Getting the major players, the cartels, the distributors, into prison cuts down on supply. But the fact is people are still going to take drugs, and helping them understand the risks and how to identify the ""bad stuff"" helps in the long run. " "My reaction would be moderate. I would be in support of the other person's view that harm reduction is a good thing." "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "fb83ce36a981205cd51eac21f79bf5d63dd6a3769bbf3544dbd14ba7924314ec" "reject" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I believe that harm reduction does nothing but hurt those who implement it. Complete abstainence is necessary for good outcomes." "I would say that they are stuck in their ways/thoughts. They would unable to be convinced to consider any other perspective." 4 4 2 1 3 1 1 1 4 2 5 5 5 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would agree that harm reduction can be helpful for some people. Making drugs illegal has done nothing, but hurt people and create criminals. I also do believe that completely abstaining from substance use is ideal, but not for everyone." "I would describe my reaction as more understanding and recongizing that the topic is not black and white. There are complexities to the subject." "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "4" "3" "5" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "round-3" "fd9782163b17f029500ab0bfc1c3d52fb34f1a44e599ba46e88ee4ed5035aa32" "distance" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "Well, I can see how someone might have that opinion. I guess certain things weren't perfect with the war on drugs. It's an interesting question for sure." "I am using passive language to not offend Y but I'm also not trying to outright agree with them." 1 2 4 2 2 2 2 1 1 3 3 3 2 1 3 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "269068795f182f113d000dd005d29413d051e768572b1e087b864491ef70c627" "reject" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "Drugs are bad. You do not need anything outside of yourself to live well. Facing things sober is more admirable and courageous. " "He would be disgusted by the claim. Not take any chance to change his perspective. Would repeat broad views without nuance." 4 5 2 2 3 2 1 2 4 4 5 5 5 3 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "This is not a binary issue, there are nuanced solutions to such a nuanced issue. The way you approach it is not to take sides of the argument but to consider the person and support them instead of a view." "I would agree. The claim that the war on drugs is a failure is something that aligns with my beliefs. " "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "3" "4" "3" "3" "1" "2" "3" "2" "2" "2" "1" "round-3" "c701870d5569934b2a44aa0b30a6cc17803bba44f7a21fc3344dc98d56786276" "reject" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I disagree, and would argue we need to put more resources into the war on drugs. The only failure is a lack of will to succeed. Harm reduction is giving into the problem. " "I have a strong emotional reaction, that originates in my core. I've been taught that drugs are bad, and that's that. " 4 4 4 1 2 2 1 1 3 3 4 4 5 1 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I agree that the war on drugs has been largely ineffective, and it has been a disaster to see the criminalization of a public health issue. Drug abuse is largely a health issue, and criminalizing it only makes the problem worse. " "I would have a feeling originating in my chest, with warmth. While I certainly can feel defensive and upset about the issue of drug abuse and addiction, compassion toward abusers is heartwarming. " "2" "3" "3" "3" "2" "4" "3" "4" "4" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "round-3" "90dbc0461b8f8389904980ba443f446131b5c63ce01738548a7946f2b0b20aa7" "attack" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "In this situation, as character X, I might respond by saying, ""I respectfully disagree, Y. While the 'War on Drugs' may have its shortcomings, it's essential to combat drug-related issues forcefully to protect our society. I believe in a different approach to achieving our goals.""" "As character X, my reaction to Y's statement would be assertive and combative. I express strong disagreement with Y's perspective on the 'War on Drugs' and assert my own opinion vigorously. I approach the discussion with a confrontational attitude, ready to engage in a debate to defend my viewpoint." 2 1 2 5 1 4 4 5 4 1 1 1 2 1 1 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "In response to Y's statement, I might say, ""I see where you're coming from, Y, but I have a different viewpoint. The 'War on Drugs' has been a necessary tool in curbing drug-related issues, and I believe in its effectiveness.""" "My reaction would be assertive and confrontational as I vigorously defend my position. I would likely feel a mix of emotions, including frustration and determination, as I engage in a spirited debate to support my perspective." "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "5" "3" "3" "2" "1" "2" "2" "1" "2" "2" "round-3" "222fdebfca3cfce13f0954a0576efe99d4e9f54062597bc306006e56129890fe" "reject" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "The war on drugs has been working. I don't want to hear anymore on this topic because you are wrong." "Firm stance on being right and rejecting of any other narratives. Always wants to keep everything positive." 4 3 2 5 3 5 5 5 5 2 4 3 3 3 4 4 "No" "Yes" "No" "The war on drugs has been ineffective. People will always use drugs and nothing will ever change that. Let's discuss safer options on how to use drugs instead l." "I would be calm and hear out the other persons opinion" "2" "2" "2" "4" "2" "4" "3" "3" "4" "3" "4" "2" "3" "4" "3" "3" "round-3" "a475fbd075463a815c75af1f6e5d3ea7e7d17b2fe9081f7bb5211a77209ec1d9" "attack" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I – along with millions of god-fearing Americans – fundamentally reject your claim and your opinion. Statistics - clearly from 'experts' that actually know what they're talking about – show that drug trafficking and drug use is at an all-time low, except, quite frankly, the most dangerous drug of them all - the Covid vaccine and the herd mentality it breeds. And REDUCING harm?! I'm sorry (I'm not) but the more harm drugs cause, the better, that'll teach them. " "Rude, arrogant, mis-informed, aggressive, innappropriate, undermining." 5 5 2 1 1 1 1 1 5 2 4 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I totally agree, though I admit I don't have the stats to support my opinion. People use drugs to escape from their reality, the 'war' should be against poverty, abuse, inadequate mental health systems & addiction support. The more drugs and their users are misunderstood the more they go underground. Legalise (but heavily control) it all and tax the hell out of it. " "Understanding, calm, assertive but a gentle kind of assertive. " "3" "3" "4" "2" "3" "4" "2" "2" "3" "2" "4" "2" "3" "1" "2" "1" "round-3" "b50c79239f4d7728138fee763bd8cfea0739aa915f3fc1948347817a63e90df4" "attack" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "We must vigorously enforce current legislation. Transgressors should be fully penalised." "Consternation at the suggestion, they would regard it as defeatism." 5 4 1 2 1 3 1 1 3 2 3 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would agree. Decriminalisation is the only solution. It would benefit users and vastly reduce illegal activity." "Agreement, and a sense that change can be accomplished." "2" "1" "2" "3" "2" "5" "4" "3" "3" "2" "4" "2" "3" "3" "1" "1" "round-3" "28614a89d323be2900f5668867a7d1ed76f3d3c2b187dae8411809f096cb7e50" "attack" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "There is no evidence that harm reduction is more viable! The war on drugs has helped keep our children safe and drugs off our streets." "He was combative and against Y's opinion." 4 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 2 1 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would ask for more information. I would agree, but say that proof is needed." "I would just be wanting more information. Even if I mainly agree, I would want it explained more." "1" "1" "2" "3" "2" "4" "4" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "e34987182337562985933ca588004995394d3c0579fd5dd6270f28cdd2e45b43" "attack" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "Are you kidding me? You just want to open the flood doors to let everyone get as high as they want and you know where that ends - Babylon!" "(The grammar of this question is confusing.) I see X as aggressive and combative - ready to win the argument by silencing his opponents with the force of his personality." 5 4 1 3 3 3 3 3 5 3 5 5 5 4 4 4 "No" "No" "No" "(To what? This question is unclear. I assume you mean to the proposal to liberalise drugs.) I am not convinced it is the right answer." "(Reaction to what? The proposal? To X? Not clear. Assume proposal.) Frustration at what I assume is a well meaning argument that will end in more misery." "3" "3" "3" "3" "4" "3" "3" "3" "3" "3" "4" "4" "3" "3" "3" "3" "round-3" "1912c073910ca05a762b4f5f7c9fc0ee78c91daa38e8301102a7f416f0540aa0" "attack" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "People need to be held accountable for their actions and not run to mommy about their mistakes. The more of these dirtbags we lock up, the safer we will be." "I see X as vile and unsympathetic. He panders to the worse fears of his listeners." 4 5 1 4 1 1 2 1 4 2 2 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree that solving the drug problem and a lot of the related crime problem should be addressed through treatment and compassion. If we address poverty, hopelessness and mental illness we would also solve a lot of these problems." "I am being constructive and sypathetic. I want to help people including the people who have been harmed." "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "5" "3" "5" "3" "2" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "b9c407b25cb8f1630c7444f7f75a625b9fb306e08dede020b4cc877e9e5fe829" "attack" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I totally disagree. The War on Drugs has been extremely effective, and everyone knows that hard reduction does not work." "Aggressive and seeking conflict." 4 4 1 1 2 3 2 1 5 2 4 4 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I would say that the War on Drugs has been effective in some ways, but not in others. If the goal is to get people hide their drug use from the public, then that goal has been achieved." "Honest and respectful, but not avoiding disagreement." "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "4" "1" "2" "3" "1" "3" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "46449e4cc5d1171d43da174403cea1331d83bcd6e6417a548b00aca3edca3936" "attack" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "How can harm reduction be the best responce? We should lock up every one of those nasty druggies. I cant step outside my house without falling over some nasty homeless person high on god knows what." "I would think its over the top and honestly wrong. Harm reduction is the way to go. Not only just from personal experiene but studies show the same. " 5 5 4 1 2 1 1 1 5 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "That harm reduction and decriminalization is the best way to go. The war on drugs has failed and its time to pick up the pieces of society and figure out our next steps. " "much more based than the last and much more founded in reality. Much less judgemental. Hopefully a step in the right direction." "3" "1" "1" "3" "2" "4" "2" "5" "3" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "bda7ea93823ea362180e3196a74a2cddd80516e5599d2e1565d7a42356e6393f" "attack" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "There has been many attempts to stop drug trafficking the country, which has led to its reduction therefore I argue that it has been effective." "He will try to argue about what person Y said." 2 1 1 1 2 2 1 1 3 4 4 4 1 2 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I would like to see the rates and charts before making a decision, there has to be proof." "Indifferent until this claim is backed by proven facts and not word by mouth. " "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "29d466d5c9e9c3478be7afd8809a5b26649cf0dd085ad283a79895fd04b11178" "attack" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "What are you a mushy leftist? Or are you insane? Harm reduction never, ever work, you just get taken advantage of by some drugged out individual , who may more than likely be dangerous ." "I cannot beleive anyone would believe this drivel in this day and age. I mean come on. Have you seen all the homelesss druggies living on city streeets?" 5 5 3 1 3 2 2 2 3 4 5 4 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "While I agree with X in part, the real answer is a relationship with Jesus Christ. Going to church. Replacing a life of druhs and crime with the God of the universe." "Approaching all situations from a biblical perspective is the only answer." "2" "2" "3" "2" "4" "4" "3" "4" "3" "4" "3" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-3" "b21aa3019ad294959feb409b227a27a331c1d1e3fa3cfb1827416b367973c579" "attack" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "We need more wars on more kinds of drugs like the pharmaceutics industry and the after effects on people with things like diabetes." "X would be using the word we to try to make false bridge statements that try to weigh out Y's appropriate opinion." 4 4 4 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 1 5 5 1 1 4 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "The war on drugs is iterably noticable in the theaters of conflict that appear in current events. These events condense to the current war on communications in the ukraine and tangentially the war in Uygur." "Trying to extend the war on drugs opinion out further to include more area for X to have to cover along the way to be able to accurately engage in the argument." "4" "2" "4" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "5" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "55907077c6687df465fba7a36c49876177ce71f5eb14064199894ffc59c28697" "contact" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I would say that drugs cannot be stopped completely, The quest to reduce the harm would infruiate others to do more. Education is all they need and eventually there would be a great change." "Amicable" 1 1 3 1 3 3 4 3 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "14085db295d3be9596dedfd7cb64c2e2fabf6b8420a095418f839c30259e8ef8" "contact" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I think the War on drugs have come a long way and that people have actually learnt so much on the implications of abuse od drugs and doing much better on their approach now than they used to do. I do not agree with you but i am open to understanding your point." "Calm and accomodating." 1 1 1 1 3 4 5 3 5 1 1 4 3 1 1 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "90ac3954195251135aead220bdd290a3acc77995928548ccac1df4d06b83b993" "contact" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I agree it is a critical issue. One point I can make is that though the War on drugs may appear not be working but the states that have beenmore lienient have just had a higher crime rate due to drugs." "My reaction is one of understanding the other side.Wanting to connect on the issue even though I feel otherwise. Pointing out a fact with out attacking." 1 1 3 1 3 5 3 3 2 1 2 3 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I ould say they were corrrect and help with rehab and giving people a way out is the best way to fight the war on drugs. That and shutting down our borders." "One of understnading his view since I have seen loved one be casualties of this drug war. The border comment is a little snippy becasue I feel it is obvious to only a few." "1" "1" "4" "1" "4" "5" "3" "1" "1" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "round-3" "eeb1fb0dfaa2b2cc68fe5c62db87bc132dac24adaa25b4ce1a9381691d5aad71" "contact" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I think the War on drugs has been very effective and you can tell by the way people in the asylums have reduced now and you can tell that most people actually are listening and learning now. I believe that if we keep up with this the way of drugs would be as effective as ever." "Understanding" 1 1 1 5 1 4 3 4 3 1 1 2 5 4 4 4 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "0828bedb6e21ddeca87ee8e976ce10977cf5b604896030b5e1023f6dbf8f6155" "contact" "drugs" "During the recording of a podcast discussion, Y mentions, ""The 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective. A harm reduction approach is more viable.""" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I think that harm reduction is very beneficial and I think using both approaches would be even better. I think that making drugs legal could potentially be more harmful in the long run." "I think that X is wrong in this instance. I think the war on drugs is a waste of money." 3 2 3 3 3 4 3 3 4 3 4 3 3 3 3 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree with you. Harm reduction is a better use of resources. The war on drugs has not been very successful." "I really do not care about this topic, however I do feel that fighting the cartels is dangerous, pointless and the wrong approach" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "2" "2" "3" "4" "2" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "7b763dc471257c6b5feb8153f0429e04d6905928f4f982eed77656233665f11c" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "X will say that he his not interested in such discussion" "woowh, are sure there nothing burdering you my friend" 2 2 1 3 3 3 2 4 2 4 4 5 4 3 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "908ca4e22d12b95cc12b2852dcef684d92e31af8739ba5fd93872cd95ae2a78d" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I do not agree with you. Let people make their choices" "Disagreement" 2 1 1 1 2 2 2 1 3 2 3 4 3 2 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "db5f4e8f00db1d346129353bba595181042bab4deefc9c826bd9156a08dfad52" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "That's interesting. I don't see why anyone would want to use drugs though. " "Probably confused as to why this person was bringing it up and hoping it wouldn't go into a deeper conversation" 1 3 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 2 2 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I think it's super important to put rehabilitation over punishment, especiallly when it comes to drugs since it typically stems from mental illness." "Proud and hopeful that it will become a more widespread procedure" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "4" "2" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "6bf6525fbc7e37feaa1dcb1d4741613d36182a73a8ad3b3ddcebe0e5e1d3f095" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I think it's a recipe for disaster, encouraging laziness which will lead to increased crime. " "Afraid of being in uncomfortable position" 3 3 5 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 3 3 3 2 2 2 "No" "No" "No" "I don't care about it as long as I'm not affected." "Indifferent" "3" "1" "3" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "122d7553d6a9dd981ceece3abd9ceb2463d687d86c80b6dd0d63a57e8049b097" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "It also increases the crime rate, and adds to the homeless populations increasing." "Militaristic and off-putting" 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I'd say iot's great as long as it doesn't hurt anyone." "I would be in agreement." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "6a2a8ca7adad1c1ce6f20018e98ddf5650d928f04d0f8ddf9d542231aae6d335" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I think treatment is a waste of time and money which could be better spent on more worthy projects" "I think that X is opposed to the idea because he sees it as a threat to his belief that law and order is paramount." 4 5 3 1 2 2 1 1 1 3 3 4 4 2 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "It's a good idea, as prisons should really only be for serious and violent criminals. " "I would feel my friend was talking sense and I would be very positive about the idea" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "4" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "dc528d7128de62a197a71f6465ac7faa5f79eecfd31f5440ea303791005d14e7" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I don't think we should allow addicts free access to harmful substances. Drugs make criminals of people, and criminals should be locked up!" "I am unwilling to be empathetic toward people who harm others, or themselves. Anyone who's involved themselves in such harmful activities as drug use and addiction should be prosecuted and jailed, so they don't bring that harm upon anyone else. -Person X" 5 5 5 1 3 1 2 1 4 5 4 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "The decriminalization of illegal drugs is a crucial first step to addressing the nationwide issue of addiction. Whether a person is struggling with legal or illegal drugs, whole and wholesome addiction treatment and recovery is only going to be possible if we remove the fear of prosecution." "I'm trying to view the issue from the perspective of the people involved, who would be most impacted by decriminalization. We can only address this major issue by empathizing with the people who propagate it, whether or not they are viewed as criminals by society." "2" "1" "1" "3" "3" "4" "4" "5" "5" "3" "4" "2" "1" "2" "2" "1" "round-3" "2bb322250b6c389c27587f1ece9bf5e4cbdcf63ce1e84a7f23ea13c0f2491824" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I am not really interested. It doesn't really affect me." "He would distance himself from engagement and maybe change the subject." 3 3 1 2 2 1 1 2 1 1 2 2 2 2 2 4 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would enter the debate and probably disagree that punishment is not an option." "I would be vocal and offer my opinion." "4" "4" "3" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "4" "5" "4" "4" "2" "round-3" "eef2bf0e6a5b90b8859505b11e0b36667ca124a6e47242c594ecc62eda3136b7" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "It would just increase the amount of people using drugs. Nothing good could some of that, it's such a bad idea" "Closed minded and unwilling to open up to the possiblity of change. " 1 1 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "The results are promissing, the punishment first aproach has definatly failed to solve the issue or help anyone in the long run." "open to the popssiblity that there are other ways of fixing an issue than what as been done before and willing to look at the facts" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "5" "4" "3" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "1be91023c264913d18b64152e885b339e263bf57e2fdda5bc22d381ab11b0a41" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I refuse to acknowledge the benefit in that. Illicit drugs have no place in our society." "I don't agree with you. I don't believe that decriminalizing drugs is a solution." 5 4 1 1 2 1 2 1 4 2 2 3 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I believe that decriminalizing drugs is a good thing. I think it is a solution we need to seriously consider." "I am experiencing a bit of relief knowing that such legislation is being considered. I am going to vote in favor of this." "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "5" "4" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "dd7e0f0526bc69f3baab7d943900df9aa715ef4ad82877282e892c562aa6a76b" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I don't agree at all! It seems that will cause more problems than we already have as they'll be more people feeling free to use. It's not a problem of mine because I don't use drugs and never will. That's their problem!" "I diagreed with Y's suggestion while stating, confidently, I didn't want to be bothered with the issue at all." 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I'd agree. There are too many people (mainly minorities) who are in prison for minor drug offenses that their less-melinated brethren seem to avoid." "I believe it's realistic as these types of programs have shown success in other countries. I am a believe in rehabilitation - that's what jail is supposedly for also, right?" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "eb8583f6bca74d6a8870ea56ee9d04ff94a04ea972d21ea66200278d05416e77" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "Illicit drugs are bad for people's health and therefore should be kept illegal." "My reaction is a form of rejection to things I do not find healthy. I'm merely trying to protect individuals and Society" 4 4 1 1 2 1 1 1 4 2 4 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would say that illicit drugs should probably be legalized because they're not going to disappear. The government could make them safer for users." "I would describe my reaction as open-minded and realistic." "1" "2" "1" "1" "4" "3" "1" "4" "1" "1" "3" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "round-3" "8f9522cc3e13e30bf63b809d25f65b0a2f4b2911b2c7bbcd6e101efe1e7d60a7" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "That's a bad idea. The healthiest way to go is separate people from drugs, even if that means harsh punishments, they'll thank you in the end." "I flat out rejected the argument. Then countered with a better idea that has positive results for all involved." 4 5 4 1 2 3 1 1 5 2 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would say I agree. Making people criminals because they can't quit drugs on the spot leads to them being monitored so closely that criminal charges begin to pile up. Everybody relapses at what they are trying to quit, whatever it is because without a relapse it likely wasn't problem in the first place." "Encouraging, compassionate and merciful. My reaction has an understanding and hopeful tone." "1" "1" "2" "3" "2" "5" "1" "5" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "round-3" "338293c56724852d5d6854d9d455a1f9e40a4a67ee07517b664cf5eadcb27da6" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "That's very interesting. This coffee tastes great!" "This behavior is based on ignoring topics that would cause a disagreement. I feel it is important to avoid tense conversations." 3 5 4 1 4 2 3 2 2 4 5 5 4 2 2 3 "No" "Yes" "No" "Some drugs being legal is okay in my eyes. Drugs that are man made shouldn't be legal and that's based on past experience with addiction." "My reaction would be based on having an honest discussion about the topic. I would express my views but be willing to keep an open mind about why others feel the way they do about the topic." "2" "3" "2" "2" "5" "3" "2" "1" "4" "2" "3" "3" "4" "1" "2" "3" "round-3" "a209d57f7c174b69406b403bad945783a920c9863054ff7db0412093e81956bf" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I do not agree with this decision because it will lead to an increase in drug use. This is not sending the right message to the people." "I would say that X is totally against drugs and they may know someone who is addicted to drugs. They could be right but they are not lenient with this topic and belief." 3 4 4 4 3 3 2 2 3 3 3 4 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "This is a progressive move and I am very glad this country is going in the right direction. It gives people the freedom and options to be themselves without restriction." "I would feel content and happy because these are the steps toward a greater democracy and individual choice. This is great for the people and they will not go to prison for these types of things." "1" "2" "4" "1" "2" "4" "4" "4" "5" "2" "2" "1" "2" "1" "2" "1" "round-3" "fe698de458b2c85b069fcf2adb0402efb12556ee3672cdeb8b7f4ca1da6620d8" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "Really? I disagree, making drugs legal won't solve the drug addiction/crime problems. In fact, it directly increase both." "I disagree with you of you, thid is not a good move and time will tell." 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "b6b3f17e3445037d6f171c46927ecc8f6a1139d30fb3c0c7d75fc9b90944e459" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I don't know about that. Seems like it would be kind of scary to just let people use drugs." "X became nervious and stayed attached to their previous mindset." 1 1 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 1 3 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "As long as there are addiction-treatment options in place, I agree. This is a kind of freedom a person should have." "I'd be calm and agreeable. I don't oppose this idea." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "129c5cc8f3319bc64f44a2790a11401bf28ca9fb9093ff37ecb8b88f2122ec89" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "Why do you want to talk about this?, Do you think we punish users instead of treat them? Would the geography of our country affect this policy applicatio in our country? What difficulties do you forsee if we would implement this attitude here?" "Reasonable, conservative (in the sense of conserving personal energy), not overly amibitious. Stoic " 1 1 2 3 3 3 3 3 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "2efb1b0fde43c270f8f620aeb4b9f829339d24732ce28ba53091c232521e0fc2" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I think that is absolutely absurd! Why would one think it's better to let everyone have drugs with no consequences!? who cares about the drug users, that is their choice! it should not be made readily available to people who are not already drug users!" "I react with anger, exploding before thinking things through. " 5 5 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I woud say this is a good way to tackle drug use and addition. It's something that has worked in other countries and something that thinks about the future, rather than the here and now. " "I would say my reaction is calm and thoughtful. I have the knowledge that this has worked in other countries, therefore I am not fearful of this." "1" "1" "2" "4" "1" "5" "4" "2" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "14cd5e049f02484c28d0938b5cfc0ed26a6e21af09cc82073d122e7939104dd9" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I do not believe that this is true. People who use drugs are weak minded and simply need to buck up. Decriminalizing drugs is always a mistake because it allows people to ""hide"" behind drugs rather than facing their problems." "Very opinionated and aggressive. ""X"" is definitely not happy about this incite from someone he considers a friend." 5 5 1 1 3 1 1 1 4 2 4 4 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "9f283e335f87ab96f4cefb1369faa47c56699319740c993b279cbb1988465be0" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "They deserve to be punished , we don't need them around" "I think it would be harsh and uncaring . I don't think they would show much conceren form the situation" 4 4 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 3 4 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would hope that it was going to make a positive difference in whatever way it could ." "I would try to be open minded . Not jump to conclusions before I learned more" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "3" "2" "2" "2" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "2f73e76520c24cfd330034a6c942950fd5b5a1d4ab6f2a9da27db48a4c4bbbd9" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "Are you crazy man drugs kill people. You gotta be shitting me right, decriminalzing drugs when they lead to so much crime and hate is crazy." "Im fired up and ready to fight for this one. Im on fire right now full of that energy" 5 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 4 1 5 5 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "26d97a0bbe69a18e8a41e47408a2d07352463f646ea574f5a310402bbacad912" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I think that is a horrible idea. They doing immoral things and deserve to face the consequences of their actions. " "They are shocked and annoyed at their friend's view. They are stern and aggressive in their reaction." 4 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would say I agree that focusing on helping these people is the best option. They have a problem and need assistance in dealing with it." "I would be visibly agreeable and happy to hear their opinion. I would be eager to reply and animated in my body language." "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "5" "4" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "002a4f3f0b7d0be0b04aabc2ceb99dffdbee5912945489b0042c24e9e9eca97c" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "You have got to be kidding! Drugs are dangerous and should be illegal." "I am angry about this. I'm going to write a letter of protest to the government. " 5 5 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 5 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "46f00a43b3ac6b261927c5374671a6a2ac4b6236b622be1a2ec268f943839e2f" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "Nonsense. Legalising drugs would only result in children looking for harder hitting drugs and would still go illegal. Legalise cannibas and the kids will want heroin" "Immedietly argumentitive. Reaction would be based on hearsay as opposed to facts" 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "It's about time. Legalising drugs would free up time for our police and would also allow users to take drugs in a safe environment and purchase them from a reliable source. Not to mention that we could also tax the sales and bring in more money to the economy" "My reaction is one of understanding and a personal belief that this would be a good move" "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "5" "4" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "0f9b7014607dd2b96f2f5232d5cf9ad607ee45ccff210c6ea4e5118a0350174d" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I completely disagree with that claim. Decriminalizing drugs is a dangerous path to take. We need to hold individuals accountable for their actions and not enable drug use. Treating users instead of punishing them only sends the wrong message and can lead to even more problems in society. We should be focusing on prevention and rehabilitation, not leniency" "If I were to describe my own reaction as X, I would say that I responded to Y's claim with a fierce intensity. I strongly disagreed with the idea of decriminalizing drugs and made it clear through my confrontational and assertive demeanor. I didn't hold back in expressing my opposition, firmly stating my belief that individuals should be held accountable for their actions and that leniency would only exacerbate the problems associated with drug use. My reaction showcased my unwavering resolve and willingness to challenge opposing viewpoints head-on." 4 2 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 4 3 2 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "db9ee12428fa414b429a5623f61e5dd509817bff40364253da216a6cfc4785b1" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I think we can focus on treating users without decriminalizing drugs. We can offer more addiction resources and influence policy to reduce punishments." "I personally agree with Y, so I think X's reaction is naive and misses the point; however, X's reaction was at least amicable and addresses the key points of Y's claim without shutting them down." 1 1 3 1 2 4 2 3 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I agree. I think Portugal is an exceptional example of the decriminalization of drugs working. I believe that a country's government should supply safe drugs and paraphenalia to users along with safe locations to use them. I also believe the government should station adequate addiction therapists are those sites and maybe make it a requirement to see one of them before getting drugs. I think this would massively cut down on overdose deaths, unknown adulterants in the drug supply, and it would cut the cashflow to nefarious organizations that supply street drugs." "I would describe my reaction as a logical, utilitarian response." "2" "2" "1" "1" "3" "5" "3" "5" "4" "2" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "round-3" "56cb163b0d1b3f600fab56fa4c81984fd4f63e0c9750c17cf017287fc774845c" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "It is important to focus on helping people who may be addicted to drugs, but some of these drugs are dangerous enough to kill users. We need to make sure drug ""dealers"" are punished when they sell drugs that are very harmful." "Yes, people who sell dangerous drugs need to face some type of punishment. But drug users should not be punished just for possessing drugs." 2 1 1 1 1 2 2 2 3 2 2 2 1 2 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "89205a3888d4723a137677844c2c7c538181dfbe59deba8851706dc06f4fcb50" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I don't think this information is accurate. It may also not be a good move. I think we need to look at the potential issues that may come with decriminalizing drugs, and juxtapose it with the possible benefits." "X's reaction is a balanced one, passing across his opinion while giving the reasons why in a way open to compromise" 1 1 2 1 2 2 1 2 1 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I support the decriminalizing of drugs. This is in fact long overdue. People should be given help where needed, but it should not be generalized as a crime for users." "I gave my opinion in support of decriminalizing drugs in a tone asking for more understanding and consideration" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "5" "5" "3" "3" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "3b96e6da1ea27acde18e209c6ca8bfd31adccc020953f673832ee6d9e5c64ffc" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I get what you're saying, but I worry about full decriminalization. We should find a balance between helping users and preventing problems related to drug use. I think having some rules in place is a safer way to handle this." "X reacted calmly and thoughtfully. I shared my worries and suggested a different point of view without arguing with Y. I wanted to have a friendly discussion." 4 5 4 1 4 1 2 3 3 4 4 4 4 3 4 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "2faaa5d0921f75e446948577c6e4a1a894a5c7ae13147eeb9c15fc6a4faf5c6c" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I disagree. Even though I believe that users deserve help, I don't think that decriminalizing drugs is the way to go about it. " "X is surprised that their friend disagrees. X remains friendly. " 1 1 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I agree. Harm reduction and access to treatment are the most effective ways of people keeping sober and safe. " "I would be calm. I agree with Y. " "1" "1" "2" "1" "2" "3" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "e635d6492817760ffce9adad9ed670c874e6e4317afc0ee34b0ff768655db4a8" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I'm not sure if I agree with that Y. While it may lead to some people getting the help that they need, it will also enable MANY users, and could make it easier for others to get addicted." "X is very calm about his response, he listens carefully and answers politely as he replies to Y." 1 1 1 4 1 4 1 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I feel that drugs should be decriminalized. The truth of the matter is that its up to the person to regulate their own use. Some of these drugs are life saving, some of these drugs give people a quality of life that they otherwise would not have." "My reaction is that I would mostly support what Y is saying. While I do see some drawbacks, there are also many positives, which I feel outweigh the negative." "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "5" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "b82121b8ba62fe9f6e159165289be52827905d90072fb6905139fa67bcead614" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I'm not really sure about that. If we decriminalize drugs, they will be easier to get, which will lead to more people using them. I agree that users should be treated, but there must be a better way." "I am skeptical, but am willing to discuss the issue more. I want to try to figure out how we could help addicts without making drugs legal. " 1 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "c91c8025c17ae2c354bc5db13535736d5794c7e054ddc367388738827e09114b" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I don't completely agree with you, as it is also enabling some really troubling behaviour and mindsets towards drugs. There should be repercussions and ways to dissuade people from trying, experimenting, and getting addicted to drugs. Perhaps there are ways that can do both at the same time." "It is stating facts in an easy going matter, not insulting Y's opinion, just a differing one. It also proposes the idea of an in between answer." 1 1 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "1b53d1000da4f69057191787059e17430ba525b3be3620fc347e1f5af94f3b02" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I've heard this argument before regarding decriminalizing drugs. When I think about the pros and con of it, I see a lot of merit to it. However, I have to disagree with you that its a good move. There are too many arguments against it." "My reaction would be to disagree with Y's opinion. I would still respect Y just as much as before and I believe their are entitled to their own opinion without recieving backlash." 1 2 3 1 1 3 1 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I am for the decriminalization of drugs because putting addicts in jail or giving them a criminal records only makes it harder for them to get clean. However, I think that decriminalization is not the only thing needed. An additional plan to rehabilitate addicts needs to go along with the decriminalization." "My reaction would be to agree with Y. However, I have heard valid reasons both for and against the proposition of decriminalizing drugs. " "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "4" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "317773114df50fbf9d709bf3e11b39bdc8606a45c52f40ed85ff9ac3c04b0f6e" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends catching up over coffee. As the topic shifts, Y shares, ""I've been reading about how some countries are decriminalizing drugs, and it seems like a good move. It focuses on treating users instead of punishing them.""" "X and Y are friends." "I don't feel that's a good idea on the long run. Since it encourages the use of these substances indirectly." "A bit on the conflicying side but still having a calm domeanor. He would point out his point of view in a constructive manner." 2 2 2 1 3 2 2 2 2 3 2 4 3 3 3 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "df4382e7829185ddeeb664913cf89ed468354f6eb57f0c044b6387a90cbd76ac" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "Well I can't believe you're a racist. Why don't you shut up and focus on your fitness. " "I think X's response is reactionary, they wouldn't think it through and would just respond with a biting comment expressing no time for the nonense of Y. They would be angry and frustrated and would want to express that to Y. " 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Hey, I overheard the comment you just made and I wanted to let you know that it sounded a bit prejudiced to me. Why does the race of the instructor affect you or their teaching ability? " "My reaction would be more restrained than X, I would want to say something to express that I didn't think Y's behaviour was ok, but I wouldn't want to risk confrontation and would want to focus more on educating Y rather than antagonising them. " "4" "4" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "4" "3" "2" "2" "2" "round-3" "f059a31c5f85a443c3359e621bd7a52e36503ababbb42f14fb3b36c8473cb2a6" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "Instructors are hired based on their ability to lead the required fitness class, which is why they hired me, because I lead." "Dismissive but authoritative " 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 1 1 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would call out racism and ask the person to leave the class." "I would disgusted and quite hurt that someone would say that and being race into it." "5" "5" "2" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "ebc3fa35c8c86fbf35df687569771cf7e83e164100bc175b3e00373182d33893" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "If you don't want me here, I can leave" "conflict avoidance" 1 2 1 1 4 1 3 1 1 4 4 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "Well, if you can't handle that then you leave!" "confrontational" "5" "5" "1" "3" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "9dc55250697c9d701918254f63326069bc62f345cafbd4f1f3761004dc20170f" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I think it is inappropriate to say things like that, especially out loud. Please leave the group or I will have to remove you." "I think that X is responding in a correct way in terms of rejecting a racially charged comment." 5 5 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 4 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "c8134991de7615b9b3bf2484a1efdcb24387baa07c2b7c847c0eb741204b5f49" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I do not tolerate racism in my fitness class. You are no longer permitted to come here." "My reaction is very reasonable. Y was being racist. I was not rude just simply told them to leave." 5 5 5 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 5 5 5 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "71f55609a0b4b4852662bdf61798e607b223f0f908d2fa7f3220bcb66b9d7811" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "X would tell Y that it is not good to say those words to classmate" " X would sometimes ignore what Y said to the other person" 4 3 5 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 3 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "a10c71c099dd14b7dbc6a83e219e829412d882d0ff472ac1f28f918c5c452db3" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I am more than qualified to be your instuctor." "I would be very annoyed" 2 4 3 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 5 5 5 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "30d953bbe916f7e7adf023fd202128c181015ee1729547f08cd824e79104272e" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "X says to himself:""Well okay, im a Latino, so that's what I am. 'Y' can have his views, its his view, Ill still be his instructor as long as he attends class. Im still the same me.""" "X says to himself: ""I dont want any conflict. Ill just do my job and carry on as usual. I wont challenge 'Y', I dont need any negativity.""" 4 3 4 1 4 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "b11ca4f96f61e6cb6d3046177e8f22bcbd6ec31e99e4c537f23b3c4e307cecf4" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I'm not less capable of running a fitness class because I'm Latino. If you think I'm incapable you're welcome to leave, otherwise if there's no problem you may stay and listen to my instructions. " "I think X is assertive and rejects any negativity in the room " 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "89e4e04acc2ffc15c235c9ac437903791186b3c604684528eefa4946c4cec945" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "why do you say that. be careful of making statements like that" "i think that is a shocking statement to make" 4 4 2 2 4 2 2 2 2 4 4 4 4 3 4 4 "Yes" "No" "No" "i am totally shocked" "justified i think" "3" "3" "1" "1" "4" "3" "3" "2" "2" "4" "4" "4" "4" "4" "4" "4" "round-3" "f9c0ba0d2b1042b3b3bc99498d65ca934e9938cd53b1b3784795c41a9bc95bce" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I woul say something like ""how could you be so prejudiced in this day and age? Its 2023, and you are still being racist. Theres no reason whu a latino cant be an instructor""" "I would be hesitant to say something as i would shy away from conflict. However, i would take the negativity seriously and react accordingly" 4 5 3 1 3 1 1 2 1 3 3 5 3 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "b66795848ee483ce7246ff210dfdb6ab88a382198cf24657c701ac4c6954d7f9" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I think it's best you don't attend this class any more. I'll get everything confirmed with management so we don't have to discuss it." "Quick, decisive, obstacle-removing, without engagement." 4 3 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 3 4 4 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "916084f7b2d768896fd6a9cfc7bb0d44151f0c598bc53752b1ddd2bf3938351d" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "Can we focus on the class please ? If you have any complaints, please liase with the admissions office" "I would not be happy, but i wouldnt want to confront. I'd rather just focus on what needs to be done at the class" 4 4 1 1 4 1 1 1 3 4 5 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "ba7b95a253d294289a8cc2259f73a7b15095f26d09d2635a7a5d661ba46d3ab5" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "This is terrible and I couldn't believe you'd say something like that" "I feel this is wrong and terrible" 5 5 2 1 5 2 1 1 1 5 4 5 2 2 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "369401ede4e142a0da028f673756537865a0ab8c3f38ec1a389655a12dbf59a9" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I don’t think that's very appropriate to say, and if you don’t like that I'm the instructor, you are free to leave the class. " "Although I am angry, I will not react loudly or outwardly. Instead stay calm and collected and speak to Y directly on their own. " 4 3 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 3 3 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "221dd1bf26db65cdf8069727880f24fa2272d38ea821c6ed76141f9d995ef411" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I'm Latino and I don't appreciate that comment." "I would be angry and appalled, wondering how someone can be so arrogant to say that in front of me." 5 5 3 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "cd96ee85b493213b2e5c9e511c3dda525948d2dc92e601eaa94b2886ca871519" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "Hey Y, I don't appreciate your comment or your attitude. This class is a safe space where we celebrate diversity. I'm going to have to ask you to leave now." "I'm firm but fair, standing up against bias and rudeness. I think asking a disruptive presence to leave is the appropriate reaction l." 4 4 2 1 3 1 1 3 3 4 4 4 4 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Hey Y, why is that surprising? I'd wait for a response and try to start a conversation about racism from there." "I think my reaction is probably less aggressive and firm, but opens up space for a conversation l." "4" "4" "4" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "4" "4" "1" "3" "3" "round-3" "3c1a386e57dec3c09442a1820f91686f59a024a9033221ae65737723b4b83e55" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "Why do you care they hired a Latino? Are you a racist?" "I think Y is a racist. This person must be very prejuducial against a lot of people. " 4 5 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 4 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I wouldn't say anything at all. I would avoid the person Y" "I would be dissapointed in person Y and be careful in future dealings with them" "4" "5" "4" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "de858f11a29bd3158bc0d20fd712c570214ece14b552fe3f27fd36e900f84ed2" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "Excuse me? We don't need your racist comments here. " "Direct and dismissive" 5 5 1 2 1 2 3 1 4 4 5 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "99f2cb4939294b67fff1abeb5c90111c8ff423c73e2a88458bff5a5796b9264d" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I heard what you said you know, if you have a problem with me being Latino you should really leave my class or change your racist attitude." "X reacted in a stern and strong way, what he heard made him very angry." 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 1 4 5 4 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "05f19a523feee77e9cae8a3810453b86ab04f5bc3b601c236da515070bb38fbc" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "What's wrong with that? Latinos are great." "X would be taken aback but would push back Y's negative behaviour. X would tell Y off and brush his insensitive comment off." 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 4 4 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "Latinos are great! They're really good dancers. " "Would try to add some positivity to the sitaution rather than be rude/escalate. Would also try to preserve my friendship with Y in that moment but probably won't hang out with Y in the future." "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "4" "4" "1" "3" "3" "round-3" "70ba26152834fd78cd6585218fc849d9782f4a9a371f22526f1878aceba14193" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "Sorry. I don't think I can work with you any longer. " "Annoyed but calm" 4 4 4 1 3 1 3 1 3 3 3 3 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "5c95e5ee3e9051f49563901ca4511626e01f957258827361a7cfbebb8a04ae82" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "Let's not hear any more of that, please. This is a fitness class, not a political discussion." "Dismissive" 5 5 2 1 3 1 1 1 3 4 5 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "What's wrong with hiring a Latino? How does that affect you?" "Trying to get the other person to think about and question their biases, and see how proud or shameful they are of them. I'd be very disappointed and saddened to hear what they said and would want to see if they would backtrack or reconsider it." "4" "5" "5" "1" "5" "4" "1" "1" "4" "5" "5" "5" "4" "1" "3" "4" "round-3" "cad035af4aa4481daca513376961083650f7e69232513831ce37dc1cc51a1baf" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "You should open up your mind! We live in 2023, not 1923! Please try and be more respectful...." "I think my behaviour is justified and I feel I have a right to defend my natural born identification! Just because I am a Latino, doesn't mean I am not educated and not capable of teaching a class." 4 4 1 1 4 3 1 1 4 3 5 3 4 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "58bfe2e814a9eca211407c85e61f5ee666ff003fa97318105e003762363f4dac" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "What did you just say?, ""Is that a problem?/Do we have a problem?"", or even ""Why can't you believe it?""" "I think that X's behaviour would be confrontational but not ""aggressive"". X wants to unserstand what Y meant by what they said." 5 5 1 1 5 1 1 1 1 3 5 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "3b6fb5d4c7b72106de0c3817f6b2e415bce3351a9c2a951d47bb0fa09bbb993b" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I would be against the claim. I would confront them, asking what was wrong with having a Latino instructor? If they don't like it then they can leave my class" "I would be forthright, aggressive and confrontational. I would make sure they took notice of my opinion" 5 5 1 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 2 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "What's wrong with having a Latino instructor? If you have negative opinions, keep them to yourself or leave" "I would confront the situation but not in an aggressive way. I would try to open up a discussion. " "5" "5" "3" "1" "5" "2" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "2" "3" "1" "round-3" "858c16a43eb3076e1eb6be0544e91e86beaf24cba6cc878b53cfe08f09101290" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "Why can't you believe they hired a Latino? Do you think we're inadequate? That is racist!" "I would describe it as aggressive and accusatory. X will immediately assume that Y is racist. " 5 5 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would not say anything. " "I would describe it as non confrontational. I would pretend I didn't hear anything. " "3" "3" "3" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "3" "3" "2" "2" "2" "round-3" "e8fedf247523348311a521405cb563b3b29ee0bf2e5f06a4d1431347647cef6d" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I can't believe you would say that. It's shameful that in this day and age you have the nerve to be judgemental. Why don't you use that energy to improve your workout? Huh?" "X will stop the class and deal with y or even throw Y out of class" 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 5 2 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "d95c2673172bf707d2ae4d741b5a46977ea7b6ba675058a9eed19ffd4a256b05" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I have every right to be here, I am excellent at my job and I was hired based on my skill. What you have just said is racist and offensive" "Angry, insulted" 5 5 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "He was hired based on his skill, he's an excellent instructor. I don't see why him being a Latino is a problem" "Annoyed, agrieved" "5" "4" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "b76f4828320caa77fbf9fbb9778032bc88c4b2b14dfca4188a92f96832315ff1" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "What's wrong with having a Latino instructor?" "Annoyed and defensive" 4 4 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "db1fef8f87c2d431901f416e4b4a747b1265983855f01c80e3d9dd396cebf82a" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "What's wrong with a Latino instructor?" "Angry " 5 5 3 1 3 2 2 1 2 1 5 5 1 3 3 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e73fe97c6d384d03d56f1b8a164254e750feabb6cd291a83587fd6cde26c2c08" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "What did you just say? ""Why the heck would that be a problem?"" ""If you don't like it then you can get out.""" "I would be extremely angry that someone would say that, especially somewhere I could overhear. " 5 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 4 2 4 4 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "d413bf16214732882b73a60f5bb2a4fac7daa28288f7ab8380fd60e9517692a7" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "x may be angry with the statement Y attendee made and Y is a racism" "X as an insttuctor may feel uncomfortable and angry with Y whenever Y is around. X was prejudice" 4 4 3 1 4 3 2 1 2 3 4 5 2 5 4 3 "No" "Yes" "No" "I will smile and say to Y been a rascim is not fair because if someone else do the same to you, it will not go well" "my reaction is polite" "3" "4" "2" "3" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "2" "round-3" "d0778e281ce29efa6b9bd922456a29c801ca75615718724f079faac6fcc172dd" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "Excuse me? Could you explain what you mean by what you've just said? " "I would feel shocked and in disbelief and a little but angry " 5 5 3 1 5 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 5 3 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "a2aac0a8ca6cc00e04971aad8aec386e54476ce06abfd9f9af42c7b8f7e9bed3" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "He would say that isn't something nice to say and confront them" "X would seem pretty upset by it" 4 4 3 2 4 3 2 3 2 4 4 2 3 3 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "fc2305ad0cff939ca36ef2ba2f0669ea35efd918d1dc7098e8f2b9d129e24eb3" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "What is wrong with me being a latino" "Pissed and ready to get Y fired for discriminating " 5 5 3 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 3 1 5 5 5 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "cb4e85e58c8090ab38dca43776c1b2ce4a485a6bafd98cb19902f6443ce24e62" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I don't think we say that kind of thing anymore. I think we've moved past using that language nowadays, what don't you believe?" "Calm and conversational, not quick to react." 2 2 2 1 4 4 1 3 1 2 2 2 1 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "9adc51ff3e62448228871071b28a0502430bdb1fba109031ff14dff573d6301f" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "What is wrong with me being a latino?" "I would act in a somewhat conflictful but appropriate manner" 4 4 1 1 4 1 1 1 4 3 3 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "85a9c35662e9f33ba94685c05a89ec351aefb823552dd45359d177b79cf5f417" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I think it's great to have an instructor of a different ethnicity! " "Tries to persuade Y against their original idea through positivity" 3 3 1 2 4 1 1 2 2 1 4 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "how does their ethnicity affect our life? or even our fitness class? " "more confrontational to try get them to think about what they've said" "4" "5" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "3" "3" "2" "2" "5" "round-3" "05edc6c0a102b68515a4cd492359840c7cab07b98372f97819e3124fddc64c51" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I couldn't help but overhear your comment and I just wanted to highlight that it has the potential to offend.You are entitled to your own opinions but you might want to share them with a greater degree of discretion." "I would feel uncomfortable and offended.I wouldn't want to create conflict but also wouldn't feel comfortable in saying nothing." 3 3 3 1 4 1 1 2 1 4 5 5 4 4 4 3 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "a1492c3c207a0c74fceefee59d7d3ac7b2284789e0085cb28be5e0f6bb148153" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I think it is inappropriate of you to say that. Is there a problem if a Latino was our instructor?" "Empathetic and pro-justice." 5 5 1 2 1 3 2 2 2 2 4 4 5 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "c9366d835e6f328d80206acc53291e562a708a2c980301bc85afe70d394edd6b" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "Hi there! How can I help you?" "I am surprised at the reaction. I would like to remain friendly. I would like to try to understand why Y said that." 4 4 2 1 4 3 2 2 2 5 5 3 3 4 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "89de4097a36b7584d3f2fe4a8add62869ca0414ecb6691d2650b333835d22436" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I think a latino would have lots of moves to teach. I feel latinos are the best instructors." "I am happy to deal with such situations. I like instructors that are of latin origin" 1 1 1 3 1 3 1 3 1 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "fa8f10f19d35e767fd3c14cb806422ef7169f19d3c94b67a1bd1ea78d56197df" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X is an instructor, and Y is a regular attendee of a fitness class." "I am perfectly qualified for this position. There is no way that being born Latino could disqualify me." "I am so happy that I decide to deal with this in a calm and polite way. This could have been so much worse for you." 5 5 1 1 3 3 1 1 1 3 3 3 3 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I would ignore the situation." "Scared or afraid of confrontation" "4" "4" "4" "1" "4" "3" "3" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "3" "3" "3" "1" "round-3" "99649d08f94853326c81c4f7d15bbbb2a7cc94e4f53a312d28864155e2532c95" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I can't support that kind of thought process. Not only is it ignorant, it's rude and simply untrue. That kind of attitude isn't how we make the world a better place." "I would consider it appropriate. I would also consider it necessary." 5 5 3 1 4 1 1 1 2 3 4 4 4 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "2303ff5fdda8bbac48b5eb638e24540e09171738a7388aedf3ea00fa56efa426" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "x would say people should stick to themselves" " x might feel attacked cause it's agaisnt his idea" 3 5 4 1 4 1 2 1 3 5 4 3 2 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e23f1b15dd5e8dc45271b9aab67c0a966091362d4882dd075107f23469f1f217" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I don't believe that. I think it's such a negative way to view the situation and I reject that approach." "My reaction is one of refusal to engage with that way of thinking. It doesn't fit in with my worldview at all." 2 4 3 2 4 3 3 3 3 3 4 3 4 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "147131fe480490bd0e6d7cae215869cbe48d31f475ca6a399d0b83f9aaf0630b" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I totally disagree with that. You have to keep it to our own kind, that's who we're used to." "I think it's morally wrong. People should be able to make friends and start relationships with people of all backgrounds." 4 5 3 1 4 1 1 2 1 3 4 4 1 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "I think that everybody should be able to begin relationships with people who are from anywhere in the world." "I think it's reasonable and morally justifiable." "3" "3" "2" "2" "2" "5" "3" "4" "3" "1" "3" "2" "3" "2" "1" "2" "round-3" "b726bf7dfd485dadc32d62962bcb23167b67cfd819f5b6588f35319b98820347" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "Well, I do not agree with you. People can stick to any kind." "A strong personality and sticking to convictions" 2 3 2 3 3 3 3 4 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "597d9ed39e1176d094736b183e4195cf10f8ebe8e45cf4ef1eb52b89978f0069" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "That is unacceptable to say." "A firm response, no room for further comments." 3 3 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 1 1 3 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "275b9c9122e97bbc4a3602956eecaf78cd97681e343eceac0dcd6f7972fdf418" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I understand where you're coming from, Y, but I believe that diversity in relationships and friendships can be a wonderful thing. It allows us to learn from each other, experience different perspectives, and grow as individuals. Limiting ourselves to 'our own kind' might be easier in some ways, but it can also lead to a more closed-minded and less enriched life." "As Y expressed their belief in sticking to one's own kind, I could feel my eyebrows furrowing in disagreement. My body language shifted slightly, leaning forward as if trying to emphasize the importance of what I was about to say. While my voice remained calm, there was a hint of passion in my tone, reflecting my strong belief in the value of diversity and openness to different people and perspectives." 2 2 2 4 2 4 5 4 3 2 3 4 3 3 3 3 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "b5dd81b06b4721cf090451b8881eb08f0f025659b95ced3b7ba48d37f3149832" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I disagree, Y. I believe diversity and understanding different perspectives make our lives richer. It's important to connect with people from all walks of life and not limit ourselves to our own kind." " I (X) react with a strong disagreement, firmly expressing my perspective. My behavior is characterized by a resolute refusal to accept Y's idea of sticking to one's own kind, as it contradicts my belief in embracing diversity and understanding different perspectives. I convey my stance with confidence and a determination to avoid negativity in the form of exclusionary thinking." 4 1 1 1 2 1 2 1 4 4 3 4 2 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "4e5a706ae728df1fb399fb45f0de3b16fb9061bd4813ebb83ec5b020d53a86b6" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I would say that is a dumb mentality to have as you will be missing out and also I will get a little bit angry as I feel that they should not voice that kind of opinions on other people. " "I would slam the table and let my siblings know that what I really think of their opinion. I would also get up and go upstairst to cool down for a little or else I might regret the things I will say to my siblings " 5 4 1 1 4 1 1 2 1 4 5 3 1 2 4 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would say you should keep those kind of thoughts inside your mind and don't let other people know what you really think as this will make people very angry. Also I would say you could be losing out on great people if you keep that mentality " "I wouldn't be angry but I would be just frustrated If my siblings think that way, I would just shake my head and show them them that I disapprove of their thinking " "3" "3" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "2" "1" "4" "5" "3" "1" "1" "4" "2" "round-3" "3e47dbe23cad366e72d20766411c944570698f65a30455c6c8dd204698ccfa80" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I understand the simplicity of sticking with what's familiar, but I believe diversity enriches our lives. Embracing differences allows us to learn, grow, and see the world from various perspectives. It's through understanding others that we foster compassion and unity, breaking down barriers rather than building them." "Feeling a mix of frustration and disappointment, I subtly clenched my fists under the table, trying to maintain composure. Despite my disagreement, I took a deep breath, composing myself to respond thoughtfully, hoping to bridge the gap between our differing beliefs." 4 4 3 1 5 1 1 1 2 3 4 4 2 4 3 3 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "488c7a71e8d399ad1caaca245d6da4852481076b65247ca7ba540777dfb18d5c" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I don't agree, I think people should not confine themselves to just those who are similar to them. It's important to get to know others and expand your knowledge" "The reaction is calm and peaceful - there is no argumentative tone" 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "b4cc9560638c79e66bf82896c4969c36703a49cfa05fc763484b49181461e498" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I don't think so, I would rather just stick to myself and not rely on other people. If there are problems no matter what kind it is, you just avoid it. " "I will be avoidant if there were issues and I would not even stick to my own kind because you can't trust other people. " 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 2 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would disagree because everyone is unique and even my own kind can be jsut as bad as any other." "I am understanding and consider the arguments from both sides. " "4" "5" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "4" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "4ed7c3bea9429365891c03e0950353432aa588cf51f98ca61a1a83f0267a07bc" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I think the people should be able to do whatever they want. People should be open to whatever they are comfortable with." "The reaction is open minded and non-confronational. There is no reason to cause more trouble than necessary." 2 2 2 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 4 3 3 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "09f536eac8d56d729695945d4b3cb6c072aa5d1b279387483faea1c68b2e9f78" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I don't feel anyone should be restricted to only interact with their kind" "I think the reaction was strong and hopeful" 3 3 1 3 5 5 2 3 4 4 3 4 3 3 3 4 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "21112b64278034c8c7b9055f64762342568f635d2e1d2818db7b8402aff22ad8" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "You won't find new and diverse ideas if you do that." "Calmly putting his point forward for the sake of debate." 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 4 4 3 2 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "bbfccc543318cb7a9eb5dd9b387a9f48e15355bb0fc4dc061eb90b8948b4a956" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "What do you mean stick to their own kind? And why is that easier for anyone? " "I am very angry at what Y said. It is such a narrow minded opinion and I am happy to challenge them on it." 5 4 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 4 4 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "4c551b6ec446af05d45e0a2732fef4b1456e60ba9fcd3df1ade927a24bea4226" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "Why would you want to do this Y? I would just ignore them. I know I'm right!" "I have the right to be with anyone. I am entitled to be anywhere with anyone. I will just ignore them. " 1 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 1 1 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I am not like X. We are all different and there are good and bad people in the world. Cannot judge a person this way. " "Take the high road. There is good in almost everyone. Maybe there was a misunderstanding. " "3" "3" "3" "5" "2" "5" "4" "5" "5" "2" "3" "1" "3" "2" "2" "2" "round-3" "8f85f17fae71a4a35ae67e211044ed897b570ada25f7aab630f56f35d28b5fc6" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I don't fully agree with that but I get what you mean. " "Either ignores that they heard that or change the topic abruptly. " 4 5 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 2 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Elaborate? And if the response is what I expected they meant (racist comment), I'd say ""that's a stupid thing to say, did your mom teach you that""" "Calling them out for the stupid comment they made" "3" "4" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "5" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "a886d2d8ad8744fa285d2caa9d8e47347d479bde8f98bb8da401ce4d84f55d36" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I disagree with you. I believe you are entittled to your opinion. However I will not discuss this." "I would walk away from the situation. I would not have any discussion regarding this topic." 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 3 1 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "71229238bab6729d4ed805da7e3cee8fdb509e3d4db43978893aa5aaf128dc57" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "You do not want me to be social with other people " "Not happy and feel sad" 5 5 4 1 5 3 2 1 2 5 5 4 4 4 4 4 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "31a0b29d2250edb796ffabdb2fae6493db42cf3dfd087db2c6aefae4c071db13" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I think you are wrong in that situation since who are you to say which people other people can or can't see you have no write restricting people of relationships. I hate it when people try to enforce there opinions on others and tell them how to live there life. " "Eratic in terms of being aggressive and hostile towards Y in a way if they felt targeted and that comment was towards them" 4 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 2 4 5 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I think people should have there own opinion on who they can or can't see, people should be empowered to be free in choosing relationships." "Calm and collected whilst explaining my viewpoint and not being aggressive" "2" "1" "1" "2" "1" "3" "2" "1" "4" "1" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "58efbd6b8ee39c6da2f1186c191a750bf779f504bea7112778f7dc4083d3db31" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I would disagree, People should just stick to themselves instead of going after others and encountering negativity." "Negatively and X wouldn't agree." 1 3 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 3 3 3 1 2 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "That is racist and people should be friends with all types of people as segregation will just encourage prejudice and take us back to the olden days." "I was disgusted and shocked." "5" "5" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "5" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "round-3" "7ab72f9b00b88766d99b69fb96be496ca3f5f8107a709a2deb9e8deb478bff11" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I disagree. It's good to mix with different people" "I am upset about this, it makes me feel uncomfortable." 3 3 3 1 5 1 1 1 1 4 5 3 3 4 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "65211811d6d452fbca6b8180d8696c5e2aed634843220ba06f2d218b27264b33" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "Well just like physics says opposite charges attract i believe it's applicable to human, two people of different behaviour can co-exist." "I think X is very rational." 1 1 1 2 1 3 4 4 2 2 1 1 2 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e5e85524656bff758025f95daaa89132d77ceb16f0fc4f72f25b416891ba97d8" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I think people of all values and differences should mix together and get on with another. It makes for a more diverse society " "I think it makes for a happier society. I think it is wrong to be so narrow-minded that only the same sort of people should mix together." 3 2 3 4 4 5 3 4 5 3 4 3 2 3 3 4 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "0130a4b300fa3f783b791eaf6b54b8b1a79300640c9dbcf0d4cbc6838d535689" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "It's good to get to know different people" "Shocked and surprised to hear that" 3 4 1 1 3 2 1 3 1 4 4 3 2 2 3 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e8d45367cd60e1d234bccc91795adc51896787aa95c6d960089ea96844a97d98" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "Of course you would say that, you've always been really given to timidity. " "X would react in a hostile and attacking way. He would most probably say something to undermine Y." 2 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 3 3 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Well, there is strength in numbers, but those numbers don't have to colour the same. " "I wouldn't want to personally attack Y, even if I disagreed with their opinion" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "ddf85f1c5d9a274b4145ea7ea80eec95b6c7f32893a632a35fb4e15bed2c94c1" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "Always, so since birth or did Mom, Dad, or school or society and media play a role in you forming that belief you always had? What do you mean by own kind when talking about other people, aren't all people human then?" "Not really surprised. But can easily disagree while being displeased calmly and rationally." 2 3 1 2 1 2 1 2 3 1 2 4 3 1 1 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "Nothing because I wouldn't say anything even though I disagree because I can agree to disagree without having to tell someone they are wrong. The beliefs of ignorant people aren't going to change from being shamed and it could only ruin a family gathering in this circumstance." "Passive, internal and keeping the peace with some forgiveness, allowance and understanding." "2" "3" "2" "1" "3" "2" "1" "2" "3" "2" "3" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "round-3" "5f76be7916e107ffbd664ed1d831fdff39fdfb917e3bf6c93db6887b295a300d" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I can't believe you would say that it's racist and I can't agree with you " "Emotionally charged " 4 4 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 2 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I usuaully wouldn't respond and would cease further conversation with such people " "My reaction would be calm, I'm not angry at the person I just would not want to engage further " "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "863bfade567abc0c6d7d9b296b1020c1589a621d3927da63257d531ab3a70fa0" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "Why would you stick to your own kind. Are we racist? Its scientifcally better to be diverse" "She annoyed and trying to force people to feel guilty and be more knowledgable" 4 4 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 5 3 4 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "8c55c9fd0ce463cb97a66487473e38c785b415fc2f370fee6ec1c864379d7d72" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I have to disagree. If that's the way you feel, we're going to have a problem." "I am getting up to leave the table. Before I do so, I have a few choice words that need to be said." 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would choose to have a debate instead. I feel that would be the best option in this situation." "I would be shocked that someone would say that. I would have to gather my thoughts in order to respond." "2" "4" "1" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "5" "3" "2" "2" "3" "4" "3" "round-3" "4c97eebd61588f5fccd615ec10154b9f2f6772e9682e61214e789cf3e4726ff9" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "No, that's not true. As long as they appreciate eachother it doesn't matter where they come from." "He would me calm, not letting his emotions get the best of him. He will respond in a polite manner" 1 1 2 1 3 4 2 4 2 1 1 4 2 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "a3f5499981e53dc95a0e7d062913e6f5f9884c630dd347ab858f27a934f860f9" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I would tell my sibling that if one only sticks with 'their own kind' then they will miss out on a plethora of opportunities and they will stunt their own personal growth. I would tell them that interacting with and learning from others allows us to approach problems from different perspectives and leads to success." "I would describe this reaction as sensible. I would describe it as wise." 1 3 1 1 4 2 1 1 1 3 4 5 3 2 3 3 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "49826ffa95175ffa2435a435bec7a809ae408ca81129ccf6917f2c7c3f508441" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I don't think that is outright good thing to say. Yes it may be easier but who knows. " "Passive " 4 4 3 3 4 3 3 1 3 3 1 1 2 3 3 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "c5c80cfc58b0c9f545d9406a33d82256826699d202dfa3647eefa1c638b8d1ac" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I think it's good for people from different backgrounds. It allows people to learn more about different cultures and be more accepting." "Non confrontational but still trying to get their opinion across" 3 2 2 2 4 3 2 3 3 3 3 3 3 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "f2deab07d03c0e894f39a254a3449bd3d60b5a628e2810d4690832411acf1595" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "Why would you say? That is offensive and we should consider all people and its inclusiveness" "His reaction would be shock and disbelief as the Y was morals were out of line when he said what he said" 4 4 4 1 5 3 1 3 2 4 5 5 2 4 4 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "270391b21e75cee07f6d4a49c4cd1b944a8a1e218f4924906aa2a015a1faa02d" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I believe that the world now has evolved where we are better off with a diverse group of people. Im sorry if you feel that way, but I feel it's better to embrace the other people around us." "I would describe it as understanding, but also open-minded, as it leaves room for further debate and discussion. It is calm as it doesn't just attack the other person's character." 2 2 1 2 3 2 1 1 1 2 3 3 2 1 1 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "f3b2340878588d0a16d50c62e3dd76d9f23dbd85f1acfe1c461591964328366e" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I dont agree with you. I can easily get along with people of different kind." "I am a reasonable person and can raise my concerns freely." 2 2 2 3 2 4 4 4 4 3 3 3 3 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "df5dd49080418f79dd6aed9cb10ead12895878f320328b6648eff48b8126e4ce" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "Well we're different and we still get along" "He/She/They would probably be taken aback, munch on something for a few seconds while thinking about what to say and then calmly reply." 2 4 3 3 1 1 1 2 1 1 2 2 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "What do you mean by your kind? If by kind you mean race then I think there's plenty of assholes in every race and plenty of nice people in every race. You're doing yourself a diservice if you're going to extempt people just because of their race." "I'd calmy state what I wrote above. I wouldn't really be upset and I'd think the person who said that is more naive and fearful than anything." "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "117b6d3cc17544729fb1c160bcc6f375c550580df64b45f0ffd64cac059dad6d" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "Why do you feel that way? Everyone is different but we're all the same in a way. We're all just human, there's not reason for anyone to just stick to their own kind. What makes someone from another culture any different than you?" "I'm confused as to why my sibling would say this. I don't know what happened or who they heard it from. But I don't want them to continue to think this way as they grow up. And I want them to learn that it is wrong." 1 2 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 2 4 4 1 1 4 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "5dfa213d196cecbc3fb5b3c00677b4e01aa2510d0c07739c3e1996aba9756956" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "To each their own. I disagree but it's fine if that's how you feel. We should let everybody have their own choices and opinions. " "I don't like the concept of division. I feel humans are all the same which is human. We should all be treated as equals. " 3 4 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "3938a10846ae488126f895240775e3777783a2d7f0fba4980046ea1c296c9e4d" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "I think that everyone is human and so we should all be able to love and form healthy relationships with one another. " "I would be calm and respectful." 2 3 2 3 3 4 2 4 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "8583442bdea75db072f197d852e7f3b020f0503bc7f13e54aae59e379473d40b" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "However, there's some new things that we can learn from people that are different from us" "Peaceful " 1 1 1 4 3 5 4 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "dd7e37418537fabf68bbcdc9f668deec99f8373dbc24355635c31f7ead8fdfd2" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "That is not always the best outlook. People can learn and grow by interacting with people who share different beliefs. If you keep an open mind you will grow as a person and other people who are not your kind, can help you achieve this." "X's reaction is very positive and tries to get Y to open this mind. X is very friendly and persuasive." 1 1 1 4 2 4 3 5 5 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "79727955f116adefd5c78f9e2e1f6f45529bebb295b97329b90618f623d75e86" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X and Y are siblings, having dinner at their parents' home. " "The world's a big place full of interesting people, if you were in a posh restaurant you wondnt order beans on toast, sowhy would you want to limit yourself to just interacting with people exactly like you with nothing different to add to any conversation or experience?" "Disappointed, but wants to change the others mide without being rude or confrontational." 2 2 1 1 3 2 1 1 1 2 2 2 2 2 3 3 "No" "Yes" "No" "I'd probably never bother spending anymore time with them" "Necessary confrontational and sadly not enough of it about, which has resulted in the empowerment of people voicing views they know are wrong." "3" "3" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "0a5d23e1a06e90b65f2dd81c9bc8e5f3e025d8be4f83d85140a204069a45bd5b" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "That is your opinion. I don't really want to engage with a discussion on abortion right now. It's a very sensitive topic and I don't want to discuss." "X is avoidant of the conversation, he does not engage with the person or the topic." 4 5 4 1 3 2 2 1 1 4 4 5 4 3 2 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "I would say that abortion rights are very important for women, I would discuss the consequences of not having abortion rights and engage positively in discussion." "I would engage but would disagree when required. I would be friendly and non combative but would express my views." "4" "4" "2" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "3" "5" "4" "4" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "626eb82acc3c86132e6f964185e4682144195d4ca1eb9677356419da6ceb6d00" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I don't really know what I think about that" "I deflected the question as I didn't want to get into a discussion about it" 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 3 1 1 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "I would say that every woman has the right to make a choice about their body." "polite" "3" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "2" "2" "3" "1" "1" "round-3" "ec4af928b7b34e88257e78a6bbd913f4b75f6537ddafefd603b6366e1d3a8139" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I think we should focus on this food drive, its very important. Do you know where the canned tomatoes go? I've forgotten." "I am being avoidant, wanting to change the subject. Therefore I don't engage and try to move on to a different subject." 3 3 4 2 3 4 2 2 2 5 4 5 3 2 4 4 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree, women should have the final say about their bodies." "I would be very much in agreement. Probably stop what I'm sorting and get into discussion. " "4" "4" "2" "5" "4" "5" "4" "2" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "7ed1f210cf63e9f58a8b8399848f0021774dafe71d902f369a99c982f7db96ae" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "What a load of nonsense. As I always say, if you make your bed you've got to lie in it. People are too quick to blame their problems on others." "Somewhat angry and contemptuous." 4 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I largely agree. Legislators are far more interested in controlling women's rights than they are in 'the right to life.'" "I would feel somewhat relieved to be talking to someone who shares my belief." "4" "3" "2" "3" "4" "2" "4" "1" "1" "2" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "acb392c6e09eb2b7dc40ed8987272726eab4355f95667ef7abd13f662286ec41" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I do disagree with you on this however this is not the time to discuss. Lets concentrate on what we are doing. " "my reaction is to close the conversation down, " 3 3 4 1 2 2 2 2 2 3 4 3 3 2 2 4 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would agree but then change the subject to a ligfhter note. " "agreeable but not comfortable talking about deep issues just incase further down the line there is a conflict " "2" "2" "4" "2" "4" "2" "3" "3" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "3" "3" "3" "round-3" "1e1dcba92764446318b33e2f7be8760d074a7a7c214ab970404783417451af68" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Nonsense. I don't think about abortion rights, they don't affect me, but I don't think limiting access is a way of controlling women." "Dismissive and negative" 1 4 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I agree - limiting abortion rights impacts a woman's human rights and isn't right. It is a form of control and continues the historical subjugation of women." "I would empathise and agree with the person who said this. I would be angry and frustrated for those whose access to abortion was being limited." "3" "2" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "afad8c762fcffcce95adf67d149156d4135e545ef60fd6e25176d4bb780907ec" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Your wrong. Limiting access to abortion, limits access to murder. Those babies need people to stand up for them, nobody is protecting them. Those babies should have a say about their bodies. " "I am angry and disgusted by Y's statement. I dont understand why they feel the need to share their horrible beliefs with me. I am only trying to protect my wellbeing. " 5 5 5 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would say that everybody should have the right to decide what they want to do with their own body. The choice is theirs. If a woman wants an abortion, that is her choice and she has a right to that. She should not be judged or harmed for making a choice about her own body. " "I would support Y's opinion. In my opinion they are correct. However, although i would be disgusted by X's point of view, everyone has a right to an opinion. I am disgusted that I had to try and write from that point of view. " "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "5e1c1edc42c6ba79d4ab972aaa032a1101eb7909268c81ea4d49b9424f8f4b1d" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I don't agree with abortion and some have the ability to not get pregnant if they so wish, it's not guaranteed but with proper attention the majority of women don't get pregnant if they don't want to. A baby should have the same rights as the woman. " "It's their prerogative to have an opinion on what they want to and it was said in a firm but fair manner" 4 4 2 1 5 2 1 2 1 3 4 5 4 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "2274f18d3fe4251d5ebf54bd3c08fadcb18fccba295f89c968235ee17f19de34" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X would say someone who has an abortion is killing their baby , they are against life . " "Judgemental " 4 4 4 1 4 2 1 3 1 4 4 4 4 4 4 4 "No" "No" "No" "A woman's body is her own - she has rights to use it as her own . " "A life is a life , I wouldn't personally abort a life but their are instances when it is right eg illness " "3" "2" "3" "1" "4" "2" "2" "2" "1" "4" "4" "3" "3" "4" "4" "4" "round-3" "b07fd3eeef07084590a60c4dc98cef232d7f636405bf4880a7008898acce117b" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Women wouldn't need to kill babies if they didn't get pregnant. They should be more careful. I'm always careful." "I'd describe X as misguided, judgmental and narrow minded. X isn't seeking to understand why women might need access to abortions. X doesn't look beyond the concept of killing foetuses." 4 4 3 3 1 1 1 1 4 2 4 5 4 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "It takes two to tango. A woman can't get pregnant on her own. " "It's a bit deflective, or reactive. From experience, there's little point in trying to explain anything in depth to someone who cannot 'hear reason." "4" "4" "4" "1" "5" "3" "3" "2" "4" "4" "4" "3" "3" "4" "2" "1" "round-3" "9c4bafcf236ccbd482430ee63da03e54ba300f0c65c8d19308721544bfae22d9" "attack" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Woman don't know what is the best thing. Only god does. Y'all going tpo burn in hell you are stupid" "Rude and confronbtational " 4 5 3 1 2 1 3 2 5 1 3 5 5 2 5 5 "Yes" "No" "No" "Everyone has their opionons and they can be very strong." "respectful" "1" "3" "3" "3" "5" "5" "1" "4" "3" "5" "5" "1" "1" "4" "2" "5" "round-3" "e562a03eaa6502e8b34db76fc0a3f87df5557c74fa3811170a50c56b5b2fae18" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Absolutely not, it's nothing to do with controlling women, it's about protecting the vulnerable unborn. If government won't protect them, then no one will. " "Refuting Y's statements confidently and emphatically, " 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 2 3 1 3 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "Absolutely, some politician's obsession with women's bodies and wombs is so sinister. Their interest in the child disappears the second they're born. They're pro-birth, nothing more, they do nothing to enhance the lives of children so I don't know how they have the gall to call themselves pro-life. " "I would have agreed with Y as they are my beliefs also but I would likely have not gotten into a huge discussion about it. " "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "3" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "7b1eedc1dcb1f6c3d0ac1f69827a12a226869ff1ae4f77ca54d01db660fcf895" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "um that's insane. what about the baby that the woman is then about to kill? doesn't the baby get a say?" "offended, angry, exaggerated hand gestures, glaring daggers at Y, physically moves a little further away by taking a step back" 3 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "i fully agree, especially considering the potential mental and physical health effects that pregnancy can have on a woman's body" "affirming, nodding, empathising, calm, continuing peacecfully with task" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "4" "3" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "9c80166a8c9b68d27a8837dc27a80e67ba3b369206c5d57316a24b4d225304a0" "attack" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "women should be free to choose quite simply" "fair and an opinion he is entitled to " 3 2 1 3 3 2 2 3 3 4 5 3 4 1 1 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "ee675cff1389d7ad8c58092fc07e54a3b1d194a7844846a83ebb898513999c76" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "No way! That's killing babies. Don't even talk to me about this anymore." "X is offput and does not wish to engage further or have any kind of meaningful discussion." 5 5 3 1 2 1 1 1 3 2 5 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I agree! It is certainly a nuanced situation, but ultimately women should have the right to choose. The only way to make abortions healthy is to make them accessible." "In this case, I agree with Y and would be happy to discuss further. If I disagreed, I would be ask them questions to guage their perspective." "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "5" "5" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "f26d279c8b3be14ae74def9e36c63396e5c1aeae10964e29566210f19e47bc48" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Nonsence - All life is precious, including unborn babies. Women should not get themselves in the situation in the first place if they do not want to deal with the consequences." "Firm, stong and confident. X would shut down the conversation with a strong, intense response which would normally lead to the conversation ending immediately " 4 5 1 3 4 2 2 2 4 2 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "(If I were responding to Y's initial statement) I completely agree with you Y... Women should have full control on what they can and cannot do with their own bodies (up to a certain gestational period of course) It is not for others to determine what happens to a womens body" "I would be firm in my stance as it is something I feel strongly about. I live in a country where this conversation hasnt been overly controversial in my lifetime, but I feel that is changing a little so I would potentially feel a little wary of others responses " "3" "3" "4" "1" "4" "5" "3" "3" "3" "4" "3" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "ab6d74a20c1546c456fb102b36f4495918bedb9716860deddb7118531759d3ee" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I disagree. Women need to be told how to use their bodies correctly." "reactionary, and argumentative" 2 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 2 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I completely agree, women should have the right to choose what is done to their own bodies" "Passionate, and open. Willing to discuss and debate" "2" "2" "1" "4" "1" "4" "4" "3" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "92275134800f628b67b7ced04ab068e4d127616c41cc47fe286cfd47adc0590a" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Abortions should only be allowed on medical grounds. Not as a contraceptive choice" "X would react quite bluntly without considering Y's reasoning for this" 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "My response would be it's a person's choice. .it's nothing to do with anyone else" "Heartfelt and what I truly believe " "3" "3" "3" "3" "3" "3" "3" "3" "3" "3" "4" "4" "4" "3" "3" "3" "round-3" "a08a4138fa04b64eaf686919f3dbfeed3f12d63d26c124fa74763637594bdff1" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Who gets to say whether somebody lives or dies? That is what a woman is doing when chosing to abort a baby. Everyone deserves a chance to live." "Trying to remain neutral and express feelings of life but by doing it in a way that actually really goes against abortion and a woman's right." 3 4 1 1 2 2 2 3 3 3 5 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Everyone has the right to decide what happens in their bodies and their lives. Sometimes having to have a baby causes more pain to the mother and the baby, effecting their quality of life in a more negative way. I agree, it is another way of controlling women and continuing to make us second class citizens" "Fair but also very pro-choice. " "5" "5" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "254d563263c0ab039d74379322adcd906cc3d283f9628fcdef91d862b058ffbb" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Limiting access to abortion does not control women - people should not have a say about their own bodies" "Negative" 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 4 4 4 1 1 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I agree and think that restricting abortion is a terrible thing to do" "Emotional" "4" "4" "4" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "df235a87e470306aca30e6a43b9f37df0be0fbde37e705a5e276d3b232f13626" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I just have to go over here and move these bottles to make some more space. We have got a lot of donations today." "X takes themselves completely out of the conversation. They avoid discussing it by trying to change the topic completely." 4 4 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "8ee12447eea8b15fffcb4eed6ddc51b21c3ec10a7b6779c7e35e72118741caf8" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I don't want to talk about that now. Lets change the subject." "Avoiding talking about anything negative and steeringt the conversation to a more positive place. Avoiding argument" 5 5 3 1 5 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 3 3 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would say that i don't agree with Y" "Standing up for what i belive in." "5" "5" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "round-3" "643a492cc127978b33803f487e8fe22dacd168b85f50569bc685c3b10945b51a" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I think that maybe the medical profession know best, and abortion harms the unborn child. " "I would defend the unborn child and presume that the doctors know best. " 1 3 3 1 4 2 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would say that every women has the right to choose about abortion. every situation is different for each women." "I would be annoyed that this person had such a closed view on this topic. " "4" "4" "1" "1" "4" "4" "2" "3" "1" "4" "4" "4" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "9fe41a15f1de31fb50cd8c7b482bda269083737016c146d2604d94137ecda37e" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "it is a personal decision so not one i can make. There are lots of factors that we can't know that will affect this type of decision." "X will feel very uncomfortale. X will want to end the discussion" 1 1 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "Individuals have the right to decide based on their own situation and/or what is best for the unborn child. " "i would agree with Y and would expand on my own feelings on the matter." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "e7fde0e68dc02bcc25111996c973dea8767e589ddfd729e8d20b4110b01f6ec8" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I'm not sure I agree but everyone can have their own opinion. I don't want to cause any trouble here and would rather focus on work than political issues." "I would likely feel uncomfortable as I don't agree with their views but don't want to cause any conflict either. This would make me want to retract from the situation. I would feel somewhat distressed." 3 3 4 1 1 1 3 1 1 5 3 3 1 3 4 5 "No" "Yes" "No" "I agree with you, people should have control over their own bodies. However, many people disagree with that view so it might be best to discuss at some other stage." "I would likely be suprised at the way and manner in which the topic was brought up. I would also fee relieved that my views are the same and that I could express them without an argument." "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "round-3" "2fb150afffc327dc7cc26a870419b2371cdb3df252c44f85f055ea9e2e7a3428" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "It's up to the woman. No one else should get involved." "Withdrawal of any commitment. Taking the self away from any viewpoint. Being vague." 3 3 5 1 4 4 2 2 2 5 5 5 4 4 3 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "6d581d1f3c48cbed021d02299f33c239914460557550feacee7a61b2dfcd1a96" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I think its a difficult situation for everyone. Its good that we are able to help people today." "I feel uncomfortable with the conversation and want to distrcat and move towards something I am more comfrtable with." 1 1 5 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 4 1 1 3 4 4 "No" "No" "No" " I agree with your concerns regarding reproductive rights, there needs to be a focus on the impact this is having on women" "I would understand the concerns " "3" "1" "1" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "e006e2982317a0445b57c2f3df3e3c8d3d4ddf22e77c019f2af79feb9335b6e5" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I don't agree with that. Babies are people too." "Angry and aggressive" 3 4 4 1 3 1 1 1 3 3 4 4 4 4 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would say that everyone is entitled to their own beliefs. " "My reaction would be calm and controlled" "4" "4" "4" "2" "1" "2" "4" "1" "4" "4" "4" "4" "4" "3" "3" "3" "round-3" "19dc75806201743f46acdee9532848158ac261a16f08d362ee954f51b15214fd" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I do not feel comfortable talking about this" "X would be shocked at first. Then would want to recline to another area to be away from the stressful encounter" 2 2 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 3 4 2 1 2 2 "No" "No" "No" "I would agree with Y, everyone has a right to their own body" "I would be in agreement and discuss the matter" "2" "3" "1" "2" "3" "3" "2" "2" "2" "3" "3" "3" "4" "2" "2" "2" "round-3" "ec1222b619a3f52c5993ab47f70887b2d726ed9c27e660642d0d3a7621fc6ee0" "attack" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I disagree, I think giving people access to abortion is giving them access to a dangerous route. Some women may not be of the right mind to make that choice and shouldn't be able to do it." "I would describe X's reaction as selfish and thoughtless. I would also think they were being quite abrupt." 4 3 2 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 4 5 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I agree, I think women deserve to have the choice over their own bodies. I think women deserve to have access to safe ways to have an abortion." "I think my reaction would be understanding and fair" "4" "1" "2" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "4" "2" "2" "3" "3" "3" "round-3" "8ae7ca06800420aa3e0af052fd3c21bb2ecd961abad1ca700291d1a258ff33e5" "attack" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "It's not about women, it's about the babies." "Ridiculous." 4 4 3 1 3 1 1 1 2 3 4 4 4 2 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "In response to X or Y? I agree with Y. Women should have control over their own bodies and it shouldn't be up to other people what they do. " "Reasonable I should hope. " "3" "3" "3" "2" "4" "3" "3" "3" "3" "4" "4" "3" "3" "2" "2" "2" "round-3" "eb4ceac1703808b4dd48a65a1447c358d209d0322a4116b74c406638cf302972" "attack" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "That is absolute rubbish. Women should not be allowed to make that decision" "A very condescending, horrible, opinionated person" 5 5 2 2 2 2 1 1 1 2 4 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "Women should always have the right to decide. Its not up to you or anyone else to tell them how to act" "Most normal people with a heart would react the same way. Abortion is never an easy option" "4" "3" "3" "1" "3" "2" "3" "3" "3" "3" "4" "3" "2" "2" "3" "3" "round-3" "2b7682917ff1fba247369eb2c259878087d61da342e5d9450e1ed1b70081f98f" "attack" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Abortion is ending a life, this is not right however you look at it. Women should be more careful not to get pregnant in the first place." "I feel that making a way out easy is encouraging us to be careless and not think about the consequences of our actions. Actions have consequences, ending a life is not acceptable." 5 3 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 3 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would agree that abortion should be freely available, under guidance, and that women should always be allowed to be in control of their own bodies." "I would be sympathetic and in agreement, but with the proviso that counselling and advice is provided." "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "e42c55b34c51e8e78885208e8016c18a4817e2ff90a0c3adc13a2215d3b5fa9b" "attack" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I don't think abortion is right. killing unborn babies is wrong." "very black and white" 4 5 3 1 4 1 1 1 3 4 5 5 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "A woman has a right to choose what she does with her own body" "kind and sensitve " "2" "2" "2" "2" "4" "4" "3" "4" "2" "3" "3" "4" "3" "3" "3" "3" "round-3" "6f97e1f1ce4195d241d69ad0a85896f5160c2da5eb5742ac6117d554cd6ba29f" "attack" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Absoloutley not, abortion is not a right, it is used too much by women and they should look after their contraception then they wouldn't need to use abortion services." "I think it's horrible, women have the right to choose whether or not to have or not have a child, there are numerous factors why women have abortions." 5 5 3 2 2 2 2 2 2 4 4 4 4 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "I would say that women have a right to choose what to do with their bodies" "honest" "5" "5" "3" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "5" "5" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "b62005d2fc6c84c307e0a349e7bc0cb09db641f045a240507c5c194bec1cf4ba" "attack" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "You are wrong. Abortion should not be available at all" "I think my reaction is acceptable - you might not think so, but my views are the right ones about abortion" 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 2 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "Of course abortion should not be limited - women should have the choice without fear" "I would consider my reaction reasonable - and angry that anyone should interfere with any woman's reproductive views and needs" "5" "5" "3" "3" "1" "5" "3" "5" "5" "3" "5" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "8b9575fc62829c6b4e5448252580145be68e001934fb363cd830365ca3a771da" "attack" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Why would you even think it was acceptable to allow a woman to kill their child. Anyone who agrees with abortion are just as bad as the mother." "I would be angry that someone would think it was okay to accept that abortion was a woman's choice. You are choosing to kill an unborn child which is wrong and only God has that right. " 4 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "Women have abortions for all sorts of reasons and it should be up to a women, with the support of medical professionals and their family to help them make the right decision based on the circumstances." "I would try to stay calm. I would like to reason with someone who disagreed and try to explain some of the reasons why abortions happen. Some women have abortions because their unborn baby will be born severely unwell and disabled." "2" "4" "1" "1" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "8d0edca1819ba1c3fcecb5cbe3e7c01cd5a22a24e0e1ec104fbc6071a6710759" "attack" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "No! No! No! If women get themselves pregnant, they should suck it up and live with the consequences." "Judgemental" 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "Life is complicated and everyone has very individual circumsances. My heart goes out to anyone who finds themselves in this situation." "non-judgemental" "1" "1" "3" "1" "5" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "3" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "round-3" "a6caa91b5770b47834190229d7e35870c2e7e236cafbad9c37ce92ff66a23b51" "attack" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "No, that is wrong. Abortion should be banned and women should not have the right to choose. The rights of the unborn child are what is important and it needs to be made law in order to stop women killing unborn babies." "X has jumped right in with his own opinion. I feel that he is not respecting the other person's opinion. I find him to be very opinionated and respondong in a knee-jerk reaction kind of way instead of thinking first." 5 5 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 1 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would say that there should be a time limit on abortion but that women should be able to choose. And that each person is entitled to their opinion" "I would describe my reaction as reasonable... that I believe that we cannot all agree on everything." "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "9555f5b5f6568e1f1970e170e42f5d749d364d00abb05e6a30e62929bde055bd" "attack" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "That's nonsense. Abortion is murder and I can't condone the ,urder of unborn babies." "It's instinctive and isn't even given thought." 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 3 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I doubt that I'd say anything. I'd walk away." "zSadness that we can't have a reasonable conversation." "1" "3" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "5" "5" "3" "1" "1" "round-3" "82f7e63e28b72ab2353d652ea1e0753daaf9804dd87a0c5a5991a30be721c326" "attack" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I would respond by saying, ""I don't agree with that at all. It's about protecting the rights of the unborn, not controlling women. We all have our own perspectives, but I firmly believe in the importance of respecting life.""" " X's reaction is characterized by a firm and opposing stance. I express disagreement with Y's perspective, defending the belief in the protection of unborn life. Despite my judgmental attitude, I confidently voice my dissenting opinion, refusing to let negativity or conflict interfere with my well-being." 3 4 4 2 3 4 3 3 2 2 4 3 2 3 4 4 "No" "Yes" "No" "I understand how you are feeling but I don't agree. I think we should take a few hours before we revisit the topic" "I would take a deep breath, express my emotions and leave" "3" "2" "3" "3" "2" "2" "3" "3" "4" "2" "3" "2" "2" "4" "3" "3" "round-3" "4a1cb6e5a6571059b3dad25f4079afab8313f15797b7bd1cc15d12dc022ca6ac" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I think everyone is entitled to their own opnion. Maybe we should focus on the task at hand and not get distracted." "I would feel nervous about starting a fight, because I don't agree with that statement. I would want to pretend like it wasn't said and move on to a different topic." 2 3 5 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 4 5 5 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "I would agree, I hold the same beliefs as person Y so I could be fine talking about it. " "It would depend on how agressive they were about it, but I would feel more positive, but maybe a bit wary that we would get distracted from the task at hand." "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "4" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "2c289550e290280754b310e81b8015baa707c185a8e7d15bf414d9557cd968af" "distance" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Everyone has their own opinions and are entitled to them. I would not say that I have any opinion on the matter." "I would maintain face and stay neutral on the matter. " 2 2 2 1 3 3 2 1 1 3 3 2 2 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I would agree with Y and start up a conversation about reproductive rights that is progressive. " "Happiness at the thought of someone sharing my belief system. " "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "4" "4" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "ec6e6d63a4847c7040a60f8e47e92ecfec54334525cab2680f87c8d08ef88c38" "reject" "abortion" "While sorting through donations, Y mentions, ""Honestly, limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women. Everyone should have a say about their own bodies.""" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I reject that statement, please never say that again. Women do not feel controlled at all." "I think X would be quite angry at this idea, and resfuse that this issue is a common problem." 4 2 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 5 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I completely agree. Every woman should have access to safe, low cost abortions." "I would be understanding and emphatically agree with them." "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "4" "5" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "ba2d2a4a52a83ea120229b49703055b72ebadb2ebcb68354ecf524bc7ee532c0" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "How could you possibly think that? That's ludicrous, what about the life of the babies? You're a fool." "Inflammatory, emotional, heated response" 5 5 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 2 2 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree. Any person who doesn't want a baby shouldn't be forced to have one, for whatever reason. If a future child is not wanted it is better for all involved if they are not born." "Compassionate, scientifically and socially minded, feminist" "2" "2" "2" "3" "2" "4" "4" "2" "3" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-3" "2f1102ea6993415e3aed6dc575fc541d216087d6bf442902e36870f947f0680c" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I dont believe that woman should have unrestricted access to abortion services. Woman should be more responsible and they wouldnt have the prblems they are creating for themseleves. " "X would not be pleased. the would be agitated with stand offish body language and would show their displeasure through their facial expressions." 4 4 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 1 2 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "All woman should have access to abortion services. It is a womans right to choose if she does or doesnt have a baby. " "To X- reaction would be of disgust. I would probably make a rude comment to X to try make them feel like an idiot. " "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "e514cf92246f72de383b5512a5551cb3f71229a494ed29c0e7954e9c57313c80" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "What about the rights of babies and the Fathers?. It takes two to make a baby, the Father has a right to it just as much as the women. Therfore access should be restricted. " "I am totally aghast at this!. Of course women's health should be taken seriously. But letting them run freely to an abortion clinic willy nilly is not right. " 5 5 3 1 3 2 1 1 2 5 4 5 4 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Here Here, would be my reponse. It's time Womens health was taken seriously, there is more to falling pregnant than people think." "My reaction to an offer of better healthcare for wome, and the right to help and support in regards to Abortion, would be approval. " "1" "1" "2" "5" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "6d577a571d523f40c241c8f22303ea3f1512d18f2db575eaef7335bc38842138" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Why should we prioritise women's health? We should prioritise all health, it's not my problem." "It's not my problem that women need abortions. They just shouldn't get pregnant in the first place and take up healthcare funding for the rest of us. I'm annoyed and disengaging." 4 4 3 1 1 1 1 1 3 2 5 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree, women should have freedon over their own reproductive rights and we should prioritise this." "I would feel happy that this is being discussed in a large forum." "1" "1" "2" "4" "5" "4" "4" "4" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "1b743b6b09117643260c4102a7e3a20efa7af1cd1018824a5d1c97ff97613c62" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "That's all very well, but this approach is going to present problems. By prioritizing women's rights, you would be taking away the rights of those of us who disagree with that approach." "X is primarily a selfish person and their reaction is purely from self-interest. They don't want to have to deal with or think about other people's problems and just want to carry on blithely ignoring them." 3 3 3 1 2 1 2 1 4 3 5 5 4 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "(Not sure if you mean what would I say to X, or what would I say in response to the statement on women's reproductive rights?) If the latter then I would agree with the statement. Women's rights, particularly reproductive rights and especially in the USA, are severely under threat and this awful trend must be reversed." "I would be very happy to hear someone standing up and publicly speaking out in favour or women's reproductive rights. Depending on the country this speech was taking place in, it could be quite risky for the speaker so I would also be concerned about their safety." "1" "1" "3" "4" "3" "5" "5" "4" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "49178b51ebbf72479733121900641786253868b68c898ba2cc3e199b9501abd1" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I do not agree with murder. Abortion is murder" "He would not listen or engage with Y. He would probably walk out of the event." 4 5 5 1 3 1 1 3 5 5 5 5 5 3 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I beliebe everyone has the right/freedom to make their own choices in this matter." "I would listen to the person making the speech." "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "3" "1" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "205bb40cdde884a06b44ac5e32bfb1a331b329db6952793c2c93529683a14c14" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I don't know why they are talking about this at a gala. This topic should not have been brought up. I am going to the bar to grab a drink, do you want another drink?" "X's reaction is negative. Their reaction shows they are not open to new ideas or outlooks, even if it benefits charity." 4 5 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I agree to this situation. I believe everyone should have access to quality and safe healthcare. I don't know if this gala is the place to be discussing this matter, but I agree." "Surprised, Shocked, Pleased" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "1" "4" "2" "2" "2" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "3ff911c4aa9dc6eab950aac7c8842426b92eeeb1c5a7c7152099bc25774b7fc4" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I disagree with this. I think we should avoid bringing up controversial topics. I think abortion services should remain how they are now." "I feel like I dont want to be a part of this conversation and disagree with the statement that women should have unrestricted access" 4 4 4 1 4 3 2 1 1 4 5 5 4 2 4 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I agree with the statement and think that I would be in support and admiration of a rally for womens unrestricted rights to abortion services." "I would be supportive. I would like to be a part of a group that is creating the path for womens abortion rights. I am pro-choice" "2" "1" "3" "5" "3" "5" "5" "3" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "823d55dc9927584a46891e6d634e95baf10cd6c1a6e0cca1967e52779e715458" "distance" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "You have your opinion. I have to go to the bathroom now. " "I don't like this person or there opinion, I don't want to speak to them. " 3 4 2 1 2 2 1 1 1 2 4 4 3 1 2 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "b72b61ae72178f3c53c6b560487d676104c622795a47995d4bcb52741e13ab5c" "distance" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Well i think Y is being ridiculous. I dont know how they expect to achive that. " "I think X's response is dismissive. By not engaging in the conversation they manage to stay in their bubble." 4 5 5 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 2 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "I wholeheartedly agrre. I think that as women we should be doing everything in our power to ensure reproductive rights for all." "I think my reaction is empathetic. I embrace equality for all." "1" "1" "1" "5" "3" "5" "5" "4" "5" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "b6b652524642e257a77d2aa95cc53b580136ee2601a292a621dd86e83e000877" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I don't believe that's necessary there's plenty more things that should be prioritised " "I would be dismissive, and try to discredit the speaker. I would avoid thinking about it " 3 4 4 1 2 1 1 1 2 3 5 5 5 1 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "That's a good idea. I think we should be prioritising women's reproductive rights. If people don't agree, then they don't need to personally use the services. " "I would be agreeable and enthusiastic to the topic. " "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "4" "4" "4" "3" "3" "3" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "41529ba3d8fad37689e46b24242f08e558487c95af73f0c53bff0f35e6a1d21d" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I would like to keep things as they are. They should make it hard for women to get. an abortion and therefore they may decide not to have one." "They do not care about women and what they go through and just sees their problems as unneccesary. " 3 3 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 3 5 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "It should be made as easy as possible for women to access abortion services. Only they can decide what goes on with their bodies." "compassionate." "2" "2" "2" "5" "2" "5" "5" "5" "5" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "eaf286f58a875182f2d5a8645c22543de26fe8beaaf6e43390080560580efc07" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I can't listen to this. I shouldn't have to hear this. " "Reactive behaviour, immediatley in conflict with what they are hearing when they realise it contrasts their beliefs. Wanting to push away any opinions that aren't theres. " 4 4 4 1 3 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 4 1 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Yes, I completely agree we need more of this discourse. More support for womens reproductive rights internationally would be amazing. " "Positive, interested in listening and hearing more. " "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "5" "4" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "f216a0e3c9b14ad480b5ad7b61b83eaed5db5030f15445c94edd5a4fa4d3d97f" "distance" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I dont think women should be allowed to choose to abort a child. The man has a say also. They would be commiting murder if they are allowed to get abortions" "Outrageous. A woman should be able to choose what they want to do with their own body. X is not taking that into consideration." 5 5 3 1 3 2 2 1 4 3 4 4 1 1 1 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "Women should have a right to their own bodies and choices. There can be a lot of different circumstances for getting an abortion, so unrestricted access should be more available." "I would be angry, worried, stressed" "5" "5" "5" "1" "5" "3" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "1" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "ebedf9989f0a4f03fce190d14551b5c43984cd84d7eae3665fc30886edd189bf" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I don't agree with this at all. Women do not need this service." "I will not accept what Y is saying, I dismiss this" 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree with Y thoroughly. It is abou time women had these rights" "I would feel glad and hopeful for the future " "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "4" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "0c9f757f8aa482d830eaa0323a69c8fdae18ab969a261df9a6fd8e78d5b439ac" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Y does not know what they are talking about it and will never have any power. It is not worth worrying about." "Denial and cut off" 4 4 2 1 2 1 1 1 3 3 4 5 5 2 3 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree with the statement so I would agree." "I would feel relieved and supported." "2" "1" "2" "3" "2" "4" "4" "3" "3" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "2" "1" "round-3" "27bf899d299e3a09eda053ba1fac5166c67795c62196ad5108a247a71732e3eb" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I don't see why this is a topic we need to discuss. Clearly things are fine as they are and don't affect me so why should this be an issue " "I would be disregarding if others needs and self absorbed. I would be dismissive and likely walk away from this talk" 4 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 4 5 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would agree with this and I think this is an important issue to bring into light. Too long have women been disempowered by issues like this and this should change " "I would be confident and self assured. I would be sociable in interacting and discussing the matter in a friendly way " "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "a837b33ca2860812f26982711cb29abc19b1236375d8f7257446ef3247cb4ee4" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "This is against religion, the right's of the man and against nature. Women shouldn't be allowed to take life only give it." "X is contrarian, controlled by other forces and ideas, not willing to listen to the opinions of others." 4 5 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would say that this is the choice of the individual, women's health is paramount. Women must have access to medical abortions at the very least to preserve their life." "I think my reacotion is balanced, it's not absolute." "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "c8e6dba03b1e61ccc3651efba379775411cbd7591c20e14bf114f5625d3fee0a" "reject" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I don't believe in abortion and don't think women's rights are anything to do with me. I refuse to discuss it any further." "I think their reaction is rude and dismissive. It is also selfish and shows little regard for the feelings of other people. They are more concerned about protecting themselves." 5 4 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 3 4 4 1 4 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would say that X needs to consider other people's feelings than his own. I would say keep your opinions to yourself if you have nothing nice to say." "The reaction is acceptable as it is calling out prejudice behaviour without being too confrontational." "5" "3" "2" "1" "1" "3" "3" "1" "3" "3" "4" "5" "5" "2" "1" "3" "round-3" "f3b7bf603ea1cd0ca0b9fceb79bc518efba50c85c3f2e3561dab20d831ce9b83" "distance" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I do not agree, I don't feel that women should have unrestricted access to abortions and they should be held more accountable for their actions. All fetuses are children who have done no wrong. I think that children should always be born so that they can be loved and live a full life." "I think the reaction is slightly out of character for X, given what I just read about their personality and how they deal with negative impact. I would conclude from the reaction that X feels very strongly about this matter and whilst they usually distance themselves from friction, they really want their voice heard this time. " 2 4 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "b37a43f1cae27fc090b911e93060d1a92321be52f8577d123eea28f8fc4e6626" "distance" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "i dont really know hwat to say about it i dont mind" "not want to say he is against it as is afraid of omeone challenging him" 1 3 5 2 2 1 1 1 1 5 4 4 1 3 3 4 "Yes" "No" "No" "i think its great an dpeople should be allowe to ontrol their own body without feeling shame" "positive and encouraging" "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "4" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "7692a6a108fbdc16be1b53784f39cf7639a27da7a9144e501382450bb846aca7" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "This woman doesn't know what she's talking about! What about the rights of the child? She's an idiot." "Because I don't agree with this person, they are wrong and stupid. I need to make my point heard because I am smarter. " 5 5 5 1 2 1 1 1 1 5 5 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "She has a good point. I'm glad someone if fighting for my rights. " "Agreeable and supportive. Even if I didn't agree I would keep it to myself at the moment, and maybe discuss with with those closest to me later. " "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "5" "5" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "d4e0607d42882bf59418946a3226dbc7c57657de02dab58df44316af3b220ff7" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Absolutely not, you are categorically wrong. All lives have the right to live. " "Quite aggressive and incorrect" 5 5 1 1 2 1 1 1 2 3 5 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would say I agree with the speaker. I think that she's correct." "Passive" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "32930a9cee3d2f165f3ad4abf0ea132d39fa0ee3e509563194d2fb5a0d7ac1ae" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I don't think women that get knocked up without wanting to can be trusted to make that kind of choice and what about the lives of the babies?" "False, not based in fact, bigoted" 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I agree with Y so nothing?" "I would ignore X" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "3" "3" "3" "3" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-3" "887904da78fb1b1cf7f8befb253080ba05c45f3fd7c64bc8d083f93a48b2a0a3" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I think this is wrong and that the rights of the child are more important. Abortion should be restricted. We should have less laws for guns. " "I am outraged by this claim and because of my combative nature, I will argue against something even if it doesn't affect me. " 5 5 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I would absolutely agree that women should be able to have unrestricted access to abortions. By restricting abortions, it is all about having control over women. Campaigners against do not actually care about human life or children, otherwise they'd have proper policies to support the children born into precarious situations. " "My reaction would be in support of the statement, I would be agreeing with what is being said. " "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "4" "3" "4" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "74f5e8f97056922e5fc7f16a6ac1bbe796a437ed69a719a982b1f43fc527c450" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "That is utterly ridiculous. There should absolutely not be unrestricted access to abortion services." "I would describe it as inflammatory, and possibly anti-women. I would want to know why they feel like that, and ask the reasons behind their disagreement." 4 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 3 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would say that the issue is not black and white, but the rights of women are hugely important in this issue. However there is another life to consider in the matter." "Reasoned and considered. Seeing both sides of the argument." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "b35ebf9210d13f26370edb646ecc2fd4c8abd6cd5230af0639da22ffcaa920d5" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I think you are wrong! I think you have an alteria motive here and are talking rubbish!!" "Agressive, and for no reason attacking the other person" 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would ask what makes him feel that way and question the feelings behing the arguement." "Thoughtful and also a little fearful in X's reaction." "3" "4" "5" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "1eb78c8800b58e8bbeecb385c7c6760c66beda3018b229d621f608e5f5e9839b" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Why are women prioritised? What about what men need? Abortion is murder and I don't think women should get away with it anymore." "I'm very angry and feel disgusted that they're killing babies" 5 5 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "That women should have free access to abortions. Women should not be forced to give birth and raise babies, especially when there is so little to support low income mothers. The implications of unwanted pregnancy are far more extreme for women than men. " "I would feel happy that the issue was being discussed. I would be slightly anxious that others in the audience would react negatively. I would also feel a bit angry that it even still needs to be discussed and isn't already in place." "3" "1" "3" "5" "3" "5" "5" "3" "5" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "6b6c4b66af23d6261bc49f20655624c42ae6cebb46abc7eb356edbc1d2c68e52" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "By killing innocent children. Your agreeing that it's right to kill babies. These women made a choice to get pregnant so they should have to deal with it. They have a choice to get birth control. It's the babies rights that are important." "Stubborn that they are right. They have an attitude that they are always right. They would speak loudly and talk over the top of the other person. Refusing to listen." 4 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 1 2 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would ask they to explain more about their view and listen. I reckon both sides have a valid point" "Calm, listen and discuss both sides." "3" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "2" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "9cb833e0b9524e4a389f627a7d74b33582c2e40ed240858e4c63688ffa7e2cb6" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "That's a load of rubbish, what about men's rights?" "Unkind, aggressive, unsympathetic" 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "What do you mean by men's rights? Men already have rights over their bodies. " "logical" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "17c3a521c5923f5df03888ee7e81c5f4115c4682d60d55379316085b807955f9" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I disagree, unrestricted access to abortion services means the murder of innocent babies! Why aren't we prioritizing the rights of unborn children by restricting access to any abortion services?" "My reaction is straight to the point but could be seen as combative by some. I feel strongly about this issue and have to speak up." 5 5 2 1 3 1 1 1 3 4 5 5 5 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I agree, I think pregnant individuals should have unrestricted access to abortions. They should not be forced to bring a person into the world and be forced to live with the bodily changes that come with pregnancy if they don't want to" "My reaction is gentle and straight to the point. I succintly state my opinion without letting emotions take over." "1" "1" "2" "4" "1" "4" "3" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "b9ec9dbb4a615bfff4bd90d9b665f5027626e40a252b21be64b9d9160f5942ab" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "God put life on this earth, it's his decision to take it away and no one else's. ""Pro-Choice is pro murder"". ""Your body is not your right when you are growing life inside you""" "I am agressive, aggravated and attack before understanding other sides of an argument. I am uninformed, biased and uneducated. I am likely right wing in my political beliefs. . " 5 5 4 1 4 1 1 1 3 4 5 5 5 3 4 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Women should be able to make decisions around their own body, including any decisions that effect their future based on their ability to raise a child. Access to abortion is as much of a human right than any other medical procedure. If men were the ones who carried children this wouldn't be a debate." "Argumentative and frustrated that this argument is still being had in this day and age. Concerned that there are people making political decisions on the behalf of whole countries who do not agree with this line of thinking and the wellbeing of women. " "4" "4" "3" "1" "4" "2" "2" "2" "2" "4" "5" "5" "5" "2" "2" "1" "round-3" "baa1a496f29941fb63d4a5132886f404219f0f44b4c9dd6d0d0cf3474d8fcf7d" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "So killing babies is less important than women being able to choose abortion" "offensive and thoughtless" 5 5 1 1 3 2 1 1 4 3 4 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would agree that it is important to a woman to have the right to choose as it is their bodies" "reasonable and calm" "2" "2" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "d2775af1e8412940b2467dd4eb87781f5663721de3559116a58848bf49233ba0" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "abortion is wrong! if a woman is stupid enough to get herself in a situation where she ends up pregnant then she should be made to deal with the consequences!" "it is my right to react how i like and i said nothing wrong! Lots of people will be thinking it, I'm the only one brave enough to say it." 5 5 1 1 3 1 2 1 4 2 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree entirely with the statement. Women have been neglected for far too long." "I am a placid and calm person for the most part but can hold my corner in a debate if needs be." "2" "1" "4" "1" "2" "4" "2" "1" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "e38665987d43c80e136106484073b025b630843f650a3ae5edf0962fe54187fa" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "i don't agree, the life of the baby matters too. abortion is murder if you ask me!" "i think X is agressive and opinionated in his reaction " 5 5 5 1 4 3 1 1 3 3 4 4 4 2 3 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "i agree with the speaker X i think all women shuld have the right to choose what happens to their body." "calm but a little bit worried about what i was getting into" "4" "4" "5" "1" "5" "3" "1" "3" "3" "4" "5" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "442e1c01a11608b43e1533bfff82d06131e7d07d516a5fa5b88431a4c62dfc3d" "attack" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Abortion is murder - it is not healthcare. The person inside a woman is another person whose rights must be protected. There is no logical defence of abortion. " "Assertive, well intentioned, well informed." 5 4 2 1 4 4 2 4 3 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "cae28ec1a5b28b6390cd018235dd2fd368688eec77068d223444a68fb4df2089" "contact" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I respectfully disagree with your point of view. I think all life should be prioritised from the moment of conception, both the mother and child have rights to life. " "I am a calm and reasonable person and I can express my point of view without getting angry. " 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 2 1 5 2 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would agree with the speaker Y that women should have rights over their bodies. While I do understand the opposite point of view, I think a woman's rights over her body take precedence over an unwanted foetus. " "I would be calm and rational" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "a2c41d50649268c4d3adebf4173179ea4982e0a5fe1de8206a5eb2cbd36b1c0a" "contact" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I would love to sit down and explore your understanding about prioritizing the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abordion services. My understanding is a little different from yours, and i would be interested to hear what your driving factors are." "kind, amicable, trying to see both sides" 3 3 2 1 5 4 1 1 1 4 4 3 3 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "9cf9d77935e1da70835c9d86c81a7eed37e8253c604739420a7b779c90b04fe2" "contact" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I think it is our duty to protect the unborn child, not to the mother. Although aborotions are needed in some cases it is not needed in all. We need to protect. " "I would be very calm in saying this. It is just my opinion, not because I hate the other person. " 3 3 4 1 2 1 1 1 4 4 5 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I agree, all women need unrestricted access to aborotions. " "I would feel confident, but if I would get frusturated talking to someone like X. It is not easy changing someones opinon. " "4" "1" "4" "1" "4" "5" "1" "1" "2" "5" "5" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "round-3" "57a53721d61ce7aedc03ebe29cb42815947e3f9acfffe858b071d25c516c06d5" "contact" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I think that the rights of all life needs to be prioritised, including the rights of fetuses. I also worry that rampant access to unrestricted abortion services will lower the birthrate even more." "This is hard - probably blunt and unashamed, and ready to start debating. Sure X can be as open to opinions as X wants, but opinions like these seem to harbor some sort of emotion." 4 4 2 2 2 2 2 1 3 3 3 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "be8cfaa602f1443fcba6821a4dfcb8fca04aa194756d21b712548ebade8e19da" "contact" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Whilst I acknowledge the perspective stated, I believe 'unrestricted access' is a broad term and it is important to acknowledge situational factors, and to treat the foetus as a human." "I would be calm and acknowledging of other points of view, but also try to carefully construct my point in a sensitive manner." 1 2 1 3 2 1 1 2 1 2 2 2 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I agree wholeheartedly with the statement and believe the rights of women should not be in the hands of anybody but the women themselves. Safety should always be prioritised, and unrestricted access will allow for this." "Positive, I agree with the statement and am passionate about the subject." "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "5" "4" "2" "2" "2" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "4fd2748843b33d5542db3780079f363a20e69ee123497168d97a0646db7fb9d6" "contact" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I would like to learn more about why you feel abortion prioritises womens rights" "Diplomatic, I want to understand the thinking and reasoning behind the statement" 3 4 3 1 4 4 2 3 2 4 4 4 3 2 2 3 "No" "Yes" "No" "I agree, free access to abortion is critical to women" "I am supportive and sympathetic to those that require all forms of health care. That is what abortion is, in my view" "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "4" "3" "3" "3" "1" "3" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "c92c48ee1c7f7ae0103a392000133ef7a309ef4bbc19bd71344a397e16fa1676" "contact" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Whilst I am trying to understand your point of view, unrestricted access to abortion services, in my opinion, is not the correct solution. I do not agree with your speech but I am willing to discuss this further." "I am trying not to cause an argument but to express my point of view. I am willing to explore this topic and discuss to learn more." 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 3 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I agree that abortion services should be available to anyone and everyone who wants to use them. All people should be able to get safe abortions if they want them." "I am calm but I try to get my point across. I am firm in my beliefs and will argue with people who don't agree with the right to choose." "1" "2" "2" "1" "3" "3" "1" "1" "2" "2" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "2d9245b66c75d3c3c181ad7cbbeedd019255696c041423ca86a539049558337f" "contact" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I understand why this might seem like a positive stance , however I can't personally agree with the idea of allowing unrestricted access to abortion clinincs and feel we should look at other, alternative options." "X would be sympathetic towards the women and speaker but try to get his own thoughts and points across in a constructive manner." 1 1 1 1 2 3 1 1 1 3 3 2 1 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I believe individual woman have the right to make their own decisions base don their personal beliefs and needs and shouldnt have to justify it to anyone, specifically men telling them how to act/behave." "I would supoort the idea of allowing women to access abortion clinincs and have that conversation if it was in their own best interest" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "2" "1" "2" "2" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "1cd2d822cc40d0b789c7e6caab99bd142ee1dc5c15159207f78ed6ceec970c18" "contact" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I believe there are times where unrestricted access to abortion is not appropriate. For example after a certain number of weeks gestation." "I don't believe a man should impose his opionions regarding abortion on women." 3 2 1 1 3 2 1 1 1 2 4 4 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "I fully support a womans right to an abortion. It is her body and her right to decide./" "fair and reasonable." "4" "4" "2" "1" "3" "3" "1" "1" "2" "2" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "6a37e86a827139e8ff1d6b21fef0d9f8326078285aa72cd50fe9bd4539382505" "contact" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I would say: ""But what about the fetuses? What about the babies?"" I would also say: ""This is not right""" "I would be angry and shocked that Y doesn't share my point of view. I would feel disgust that Y is sharing such a viewpoint. " 5 5 5 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 4 5 3 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would tell X that Y has a point. I know that X worries about the health of ""children"", but you can only get an abortion if it's before a certain period of time, where the fetus is a developing cluster of cells. As X would continue to bring up points, I would also bring up how I didn't choose to be born a woman. My body intends to punish me via getting pregnant, and that hinders my goals. I don't plan to be a mother. Just because a woman is a woman, does not mean she needs to be a mother. Women have had a history of being prejudiced, rejected, and harmed by the powerful men in our society. It's high time we correct that and finally allow women to make their own choices for their own bodies. " "I would definitely be very sad. It's disheartening to see humans fight amongst each other like this, on issues that are backed by sexism and deeply rooted in ancient religious protocols. It breaks my heart because we are meant to be more loving towards each other, to come together and support each other. That will never happen, because the hatred that rules our society comes from a place that you and I cannot even touch." "2" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "ef18dd23ce55fb661c52f5145400057e47ccb29c142bc5b1b7c0f3ebf7e6bff4" "contact" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "It's mirdering a child and it's wrong. Abortion should never have been legalised" "Their reaction is logical and they think anyone else who agrees with it is a murderer. It is so wrong" 5 5 4 1 5 1 1 2 1 4 4 5 5 2 2 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "674c926b8472df2fd51ba7531a1fc57dfc87ea58d213f6d32711206139591572" "contact" "abortion" "In Y's speech about women's health, they assert, ""It's time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services.""" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Foetus lives matter you are killing an unborn child they should be given the chance to live no matter what." "Completely incorrect and idiotic with a narrow tunnel mind. It is a womans chosice was she wishes to do with her body which invovled a great knowledge from the medical field." 5 5 2 2 4 2 2 1 5 5 5 5 5 1 3 3 "No" "Yes" "No" "At the end of the day it is a womens choice whether to carry the baby or not up until the legal limit." "Anyone who is against women on reproductive rights are just idiots. They have no right or say on another persons body. Just like how we wouldnt force men to get the snip." "4" "4" "1" "2" "4" "2" "2" "2" "2" "5" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "51a3abed34d2569bc6576435603ca2f1ae66a98c49ea64458c786660941e1006" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "It's the people here and now that should have more rights. The unborn are not even here yet." "I feel no anger as I do not let negativity to affect me. I feel I have more rights as I am standing and living right now." 1 1 1 4 1 5 4 4 5 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "The unborn cannot speak for themselves so we have to protect them." "I would feel sadness and be upset for not sticking up for the unborn." "5" "5" "1" "5" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "5" "4" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "round-3" "57b91ab5dd0a1b3ea62ed5b4f09ba7943b1703c013cc9b41375ac442bdc9729d" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "The unborn do not exist yet. I do. My rights shpou;ld trump theirs." "Selfish and single mined. They are unable to see the wrold for any one else's point of view. " 4 4 2 1 2 1 1 1 3 2 4 3 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would say that the unborn child has some rights, but every situation should be judged on it's own merits. It is impossible to have a rule that applies as all situations are very different." "Compassion for all involved. I take a pragmatic, balanced approach." "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "4" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "b6f490a40c011913dc96113a55a8a4ee781de1c65d0930d165c8f41ec7296b7f" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "The unborn don't have rights until they reach a certain stage of gestation. Before this, the mother has the rights as to whether or not she want's to progress with a pregnancy tht affects her alone. " "Factual and not willing to entertain a response. Like saying 'it is what it is'. " 4 4 2 2 3 2 2 4 3 4 4 4 4 2 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "90df22fe827ec2e425d07b055a31b55bec414a60e8b8fcaa5c4b97e1760d8aa1" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "thanks for sharing your view with us. its such a topic where there are many conflicting and strong personal beliefs. " "trying to not create an argument. not inserting into the conversation too much. " 3 3 4 2 4 1 1 1 1 5 3 3 3 2 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "but what about those carrying the 'unborn'? why can't women make choices and advocate for their own bodies?" "a strong gut reaction to argue. but then trying not to cause a heated debate, just get my point of view across. " "4" "5" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "0068db9e38eec0b678931301040f5176c79896f1e980009a072eedd67074994e" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I think that we should be more concerned about the rights of those that have already been born. There are too many bad thinds that are happening to people at the moment." "He is ignore Y to a certain extent and stating his own opinion" 1 1 1 1 1 2 1 3 3 1 3 2 4 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I would say that an embryo deserves to have the same rights as everyone else. An embryo is a human being." "I would not be angry or agitated. Everybody has the right to express an opinion" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "8fc7fbee41f6bd1d0f28b6fd390e607953d3e43bd7b565439dd8cf6ced05cdfb" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I respect Y's perspective, but I believe that the focus on the rights of the unborn should be balanced with the rights and choices of individuals, particularly pregnant people, to make decisions that affect their own lives and bodies." "My reaction to Y's statement would be to express my viewpoint calmly and respectfully, without engaging in a confrontational argument. I would aim to maintain a constructive dialogue." 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 2 1 1 2 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "980cd26d237a42e1fa946d4c2e6d917ff215c9de35c63eac7b62dc0a3c3389c6" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I can't see why more emphasis should be placed on the rights of the unborn. It would make more sense for someone to voice their opinion once they are old enough to do so." "I disagree with Y's statement and I've given my own rationale for that." 3 3 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 3 2 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I am a relfective thinker, so I would not challenge Y's view in such a direct way. I'd want time to think and gather some evidence." "My reaction is considered and not knee jerk/rash." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "2" "1" "round-3" "09df7d39995bcba20835037ce36e9f4c475a9c7baec599983c3e2a144eb80d9d" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I think X would say ""I would rather not get into this discussion as it too intense.""" "I am going to leave this room and go home as it is too stressful." 3 3 5 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 4 3 3 5 3 3 "No" "No" "No" "I agree that the unborn should have more rights, as they are a human being in creation." "I would probably just listen to the speech but not react in any way" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "3" "3" "3" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "578b826c753cfcc1871dc884d7c435ea3b0d3349da23f6ddab3a413a3a67b37a" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "Unborn babies before (x) weeks gestation are not considered viable. I believe they have no feelings and therefore don't have any rights." "I would feel very strongly that Y is wrong on this matter and would want to make my feelings very clear." 3 1 1 1 3 2 1 1 2 1 4 3 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "2f2788fbf676716bffa733834b5bf95e5862825b953e681c754c84350de8754d" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I understand your opinion but it is not your body and therefore you don't get to have a say. " "My reaction is based on not wanting to debate with the person about this issue but also wanting to voice my position" 3 3 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 3 3 2 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "c50c07da7bec367cd2070da3644d3f5bc91f52737a4908469209dc3c26208797" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "he wouls say i will agree to disagree" "placid and trying to avoid conflict " 2 2 3 2 3 2 2 1 1 4 4 4 1 1 1 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "4c2fd30ff481fc0a4944ad4727eb858dd2a152ff16c210da8bc0a2208eaa4eb6" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I don't agree at all. I don't want to listen to this speech anymore. " "Since I don't like to engage in problems or negativity, I would actively walk away from the speech." 4 5 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 4 5 3 1 3 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "08175d092aad384219e5cbfc3494a211890e0b4ea17053f165103a4ad56598c2" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I am sorry to disagree with you but i do not believe that the unborn have rights. They acquire rights when they are born" "Why would Y say that? i think there are much more important statements to be made" 4 4 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 3 4 4 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "As a mother my child was alive to me once i felt him kicking. I could not imagine terrminating my pregnancy but in contrast i would not willing bring a child that would struggle to survive the birth into the world. However, i respect the right of others to make decisions for thier own body and would not hold it against them" "My reaction would be that everyone is entitled to their own opinion and we should respect the right of people top hold differing opiions to our ows" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "3" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "f774082ed6629a64ed185235a8de28f506cdc61134ae95a58e27062da82861ba" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "its up to the person to decide what happens to them. Nobody has the right to say what is right or wrong for an individual. " "i feel that its my decision, and others should not say what is tight or wrong for me" 2 2 1 1 3 4 2 2 3 3 4 4 3 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "942744bddbaa0bddf78a03ff6452024f851e0a814c3daeb0628bff0906893fa4" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I have all of the rights I need and the unborn have nothing to do with me. I do not need to fight for them." "I don't care for X's reaction. Everyone needs effect everyone else. Ignoring issues doesn't fix anything." 4 4 5 1 2 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 5 1 4 4 "Yes" "No" "No" "I believe the rights of the unborn need to be considered but so do the rights of the person carrying the child. Both need to be protected and sometimes not being born is protection." "I have empathy for all human beings. I don't have the perfect answer. I have hope we can reach a time when this wouldn't be an issue." "1" "1" "2" "4" "4" "4" "3" "5" "3" "4" "4" "3" "1" "3" "1" "1" "round-3" "f044bd84150fb1a769b7509f0838bbdf69d5f92e15a396d74c0e0830e51274f1" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "But the mother should have rights too, it isn't as black and white as having rights while you are still unborn." "non confrontational but understanding" 1 1 1 1 1 4 2 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "457a86c800b70f21c202db81a7c5d82b601a33298d549da7989cb8a56d9fa0ae" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I think you are misinformed and exactly the right amount of emphasis is placed on the rights of the unborn. Let's not discuss this as we won't agree" "Defiant" 4 4 2 2 4 1 1 3 3 3 4 4 5 4 4 3 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "621c88633bf1aaa1e13e2018821fa234b9739fb179dd6976e7a972f1ea8b7797" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "i disagree with what you are saying. The rights of those alive here on earth are more important. unborn babies do not have rights yet and should not be taken into consideration when making big decisions" "I would be unhappy about person Y's speech, I would make my views known but not in an agressive way" 4 4 4 2 4 1 1 1 2 2 4 4 2 2 2 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "Unborn babies do have rights to life, but I am also pro-choice for the mother. I think informed decisions need to be made by mothers, so they should be given all information an options avalible to them." "I am pro-choice for mothers so i think my repsonse is more diplomatic. Pro-life is a dangerous ideology and often puts womens lives at risk, making them second class to an unborn child" "3" "3" "3" "1" "3" "3" "2" "2" "4" "2" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "9714f4597e42a880d32494093a150f4039d420f4124f85107d4093bbcdf9356e" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I don't agree because they don't have any rights until they are born into the world and become a person in their own right. The mother's rights are much more important." "I would be frustrated that an unborn child would be afforded more rights than it's mother." 4 4 1 3 2 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 4 2 2 3 "No" "No" "No" "It depends on the situation and each case should be treated differently and appropriately. I think I would be pro-active and agree that the unborn needs rights but the mother also need protecting" "I would probably be in agreement and hopeful." "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "5" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "round-3" "8c89befd4e69689c1898296ab37dd7c29e0e35a6b0841e22a982411e159b1fc8" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I am not sure that there is a need for your view to impact on mine. My view does not agree with yours but i don't need your view to agree with mine. " "to not feel that the other persons view is needed to make any difference to mine." 2 2 1 1 4 2 2 2 1 3 4 4 2 3 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "926760679ecdf81dc386af56ab76f93efcf47befb32591d8dc7fa35f3a7d2b10" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I disagree an unborn baby does not have any rights. The rights belong with the mother and the choice is hers." "I disagree but I don't want to engange in conflict so I am going to remove myself from this situation and pretend it is not happening." 4 4 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 1 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would not say anything but inside I would be feeling disagreement. I like to avoid confrontation." "I would start to feel stressed and anxious and would want to leave." "5" "4" "4" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "2" "5" "5" "3" "3" "1" "2" "2" "round-3" "d168d3503998d82963b56df0f6d95960b1a0db6bd5f0a30787996cd17156f64f" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I think we have enough to do if we are, as you say, fighting already for so many rights, I think to fight also for the rights of the unborn is too much to expect. Where will it end ? What next?" "I think X would immediately feel the need to limit and close down this line of suggestion. It is too abstract to deal with." 3 4 3 1 2 1 1 1 3 2 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "It is hard to defend the rights of the unborn because, by definition, no person is yet there for us to see and experience but the unborn state, which we have all been at some stage, is us at our most vulnerable, our most helpless; we need our rights to be protected most of all at this stage; the unborn are also our future and our hope." "I find it hard to think of the unborn as, by definition, there is no known individual there. On the other hand, the unborn are what we all once were and are part of our common humanity." "1" "1" "2" "2" "3" "4" "3" "4" "2" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "0b88399795db11f28f2f59901d151b36928635fa11a33b70ca5d0d8b8b72c54f" "attack" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I think it is not the womans right to choose. Abortion is wrong on so many levels. " "I disagree with that assertion. A woman has every right to control what happens to her own body." 5 5 1 1 3 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "8b6a3bbd03f75cecd93ef6d473b5cf688e32c1434bdae36dc8005c1c05c02d41" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "The unborn is exactly that - unborn - so can not and does not have any rights. When they are born they are able to have their own opinions, but not until then." "It probably sounds unkind, but is kind of true really." 4 3 4 2 3 3 3 2 3 3 4 4 4 3 3 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "2993c670c566ff54fd1a3f618f3096fef32b7e69938be391c6eb0d078e4f2dd9" "attack" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "people have enough rights once they are born . Something unborn can not have any rightts." "arguementative, entitled" 5 5 3 1 3 2 1 1 3 3 4 4 1 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "dc3b432fe1820827e45138e187112ab7055241e570e8a1839f08feeba2254dbb" "attack" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I disagree I think we should not push for rights of the unborn as they are already passed. " "I find this behavour saddening as we should have the rights of the unborn as they are human " 1 2 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 4 2 1 4 3 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "i think we should have the rights for the unborn as they are still human " "i felt sad reading x's reaction" "5" "5" "1" "1" "5" "2" "1" "2" "1" "4" "5" "5" "1" "1" "5" "1" "round-3" "750cab5f8ae5011ed3ba2da96f2c383fb38b437c89659f06af9c04c4345bf9aa" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "You should be able to do what you want with your unborn child." "upset and angry " 4 5 2 1 1 1 2 1 3 2 2 2 3 3 2 2 "No" "No" "No" "i would like to say anything,ts not ,u place to say" "peaclfull" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "ffed429551124eb10cd1fc53a30d8d35e1d427a5d3bbc2ef4b3387e4a7045e40" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "An unborn child has no rights as it isnt a sentient being yet. How therefore can it be given any rights?" "X's behaviour mimics many reactions that plenty have but are too afraid to say in case they get verbally attacked. In this day and age some folk want rights for absolutely everything, whether its a viable thing or not, just to cause conflict amongst others." 4 5 3 1 1 3 4 1 3 5 5 5 5 2 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "7d67595dafd055a5c675a1e71babbc1ff7903d5d45c0ffb32df228c012565f00" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "He would say that women should have the right to decide what happens to their bodies. After all they are the person responsble for the child's life." "I would describe his reaction as being anti life by making such a statement. I think that ALL life is precious." 4 4 2 1 4 1 3 3 3 4 5 4 4 3 2 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would state that life is precious even before the birth. The child did not choose this, the mother did." "I feel disappointed and even angry that a precious thing like life can be dismissed so flippantly." "4" "4" "3" "1" "5" "1" "1" "2" "2" "3" "5" "4" "4" "5" "3" "3" "round-3" "1b5cb8d829e0e3f833a5b694500b53467fb49efd1f81adaadbf5d5fb56b662ba" "attack" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I am not fighting for any rights other than those that concern me. Why would you bother fighting for others?!?!" "I am very direct and angry that someone would dare to try and tell me who to fight for. " 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I'd ask how the person feels unborns rights are affected and how they would like this changed. " "I would be open to hearing their point of view. I would not be aggressive. " "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "9c519e6d41252ad2a97ba0c8520ae65fcadc17e6065a5e1446c4e74720c56250" "reject" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I do not believe we need to place more emphasis on unborn childrens rights. I believe the rights lie with the mother, as it is also her body." "I am upset. I am conflicted. I am annoyed." 4 3 3 1 3 3 1 2 2 4 5 3 3 2 3 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "80144c69b7bdf0104ce96053128849b7023df3a27f860c0b26b6d17378735c81" "attack" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "What about the rights of the mother? I believe strongly that the mother's rights are the most importnat" "I feel angry about this one sided argument. I don't want this speaker to get away with it." 5 3 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 4 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "26ef8ee06c9a4bd10493bfeb850014973e0e24fa5b54d2383ddc5b6902deb710" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "Unborn means they don't exist. They are not sentient!" "Certain and unflinching." 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "Well, what rights do you think they need and how can we make sure the mother is included." "Reasonable and fair." "2" "2" "2" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "bdbfc3b217a71f863b021deb61055467b0c36db3b2dd71695becb6d523831a22" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "This means that a girl or woman has the right to make her own decisions over her body, relating to her reproductive health, which lies at the very core of a woman’s right to equality." "I would feel sidelined and not heard." 3 2 4 1 4 3 3 3 3 4 4 4 3 3 3 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "Your life matters even before you are born." "Happy that my view point is being heard and spoken about." "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "4" "4" "4" "4" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "9890fe8ae1e04d5b5c97749b6d5275c33f4e37866226e53d23e4e256e5398f6e" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I don't fully agree with that. I feel that there are many other rights that are equally if not more important. " "I think X would be trying to disagree with the speaker, but in a non combative way. X would want to make his point, but not cause an argument. " 2 4 4 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 3 4 5 5 "No" "No" "No" "I would say that women have the rights over their body, no one should dictate to a woman what she can or can't do with her reproductive system. There are many other rights to be fought for that are a lot more important. " "I would be angry and frustrated, particularly if it was a male speaker. " "5" "5" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "5" "5" "5" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "d1afe0f32d9011768327fd9f0135d3b9d8887a6178801d8b1bec09a376fb2ec8" "distance" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "Whilst I personally disagree on this subject, I am unwilling to discuss this with Y as this subject does not have a scientific answer, and is grounded purely on individual opinions. A debate on this topic would be futile as we would hold different views about this topic, so I would aim to avoid it." "I don't think they would necessarily physically respond or react, but half-listen with a neutral face expression. They would probably disagree more strongly in their head, but be hesitant to speak outright as they would know that such differences in opinion rarely lead to peaceful debates." 3 4 3 2 3 2 1 1 2 3 3 3 3 2 1 2 "No" "No" "No" "I find that this topic is highly sensitive and discussing it in this way, it takes so much away from the women that this ultimately impacts. Women should have more say and freedom to decide what happens to their own bodies, with input from men only where absolutely necessary." "I would be lowkey disgusted that someone (presumingly a middle/upper-class man) is discussing such a diverse topic in such a simplistic way. I think I would be temptedto remind them that each inidividual case of this is different, and the wants and needs of the women should be of more importance as they are the ones that are predominantly impacted more in every way than males." "4" "5" "3" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "3" "5" "5" "4" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "1c24fa4b3e59b6a8b4014801a9128257360fb1195afbcc797fc931911c63e5d9" "attack" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I do not understand why the unborn should have rights. I believe the unborn only has right when they take their first breath" "I feel that the response would be very one sided and may cause others to feel uncomfortable" 2 1 1 3 1 3 2 3 3 2 3 2 3 3 3 3 "No" "No" "No" "I would say that I realise that each person has their own opinion of this subject. I would respect what others would think." "I would be able to discuss my reaction to the different opinions about the subject. I " "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "4" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "5b0b932d5ccca88040ef7a6f34b0af3fbc38de645e3f6b52b5c82c31a4aea306" "attack" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I don't agree, those living should always come first and have the most rights" "I think it's argumentative, although entitiled to their opinion" 4 4 2 2 1 2 2 2 3 2 4 4 3 3 2 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "The unborn also have rights " "I think it's reasonable and thoughtful" "2" "2" "1" "2" "4" "4" "3" "3" "2" "3" "4" "2" "2" "3" "2" "2" "round-3" "06b466e44cd886dc64178e68cc9b13ad9e284330961b29ed37ae0cf0432b02d7" "attack" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "And what about the rights of women? Do you still think that even if the child was conceived by rape or incest?" "Confrontational, passionate and decisive. It could be said quietly so only people close by can hear it or loudly to interrupt the speaker. " 4 3 1 1 4 1 1 3 5 3 5 4 4 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "7dfbe619e324eab3458f87b79e7b1af1d470de67e6291a5cfc8a6c1370347bc8" "attack" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "what a load of rubbish, the unborn are not even living in this world. what about the millions of people already suffering." "they would verbally disagree and try and undermine the key note speaker" 5 3 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "i agree in the sense that what sort of world are we bringing the unborn into. However there is a lot of issues in the current world where there is war and other issues affecting many many people." "In agreeance" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "4" "2" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "26e8fa550960486b62596aa3d33e5e307a2ada83d79dd30c6dfb7d8769cee497" "attack" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "The rights of the unborn are secondary to the rights of the people who are here now, they have the right to choose how they live their life whether they are able or capable of bringing a life into this world. They have more to lose than the unborn, the unborn are not sentient or cognisant and their rights are secondary to the rights of those who have existed for years on this earth." "Hearing what has been said make me angry and I feel it is unjust and unfair. I think someone who has the guts has to speak out for all those who are being cowed by this viewpoint." 5 4 1 2 1 2 1 1 4 4 5 5 5 1 1 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "I think this is complex situation and there are so many reasons that people want terminations I don't think that you can just make sweeping statements about the rights or wrongs in these cases. I agree that there should be limits on the time a temrmination can be carried out but I beileve that the person who has to carry a child, if they are alone, or th couple who are responsible for creating that embryo should have the right to decide what is best for them." "I would be annoyed that someone was imposing their viewpoint on everyone without apprently looking at the complexities and issues surrounding the statement. I would think that they are imposing their beliefs on everyone and I would wonder where their beliefs are being informed from." "4" "3" "2" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "4" "4" "4" "1" "1" "round-3" "c293a4c653c9209f52040d8f59f965560ec6d31b48e82fe64200de4e4ff011f2" "attack" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I think that statement is not factually correct and I do not agree. Unborn children do not have rights because they are not born yet. " "They would be abrasive. X would not be sensitive at all with their response. " 4 5 2 1 2 2 3 1 4 3 4 5 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "If that is your opinion, that is valid, but not everyone would agree with that statement. " "I would be indifferent." "2" "2" "4" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "4" "1" "1" "2" "2" "round-3" "18d88957c27b9cf5db858d42731bc46bf1a395dadc02edd1f1c81b6f14774eea" "attack" "abortion" "During the speech, Y mentions, ""In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, I wish more emphasis was placed on the rights of the unborn.""" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "Of course you believe that (sarcastic tone).. there are so many more important issues in the world yet you just have to bring that one up. " "Dismissive, rude, disrespectful" 5 4 5 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 1 4 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "I believe that everyone has the right to make their own choice and should not be judged for it." "Calm and respectful. Everyone has their own thoughts, you just have to do what is right for you." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "8a5005a100c0a7093302b2d5b81c83beba2bd6dd2027816180d68443c13c5325" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I think everyone deserves a chance at a happy life with security. Everyone has their reasons for doing what they do." "I think the reaction was measured and not inviting conflict while getting my point of view across. This is designed to not make the other person feel lesser for their opinion." 3 4 2 2 4 2 2 2 2 2 3 3 3 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "41cb14f7969d06e1209d395798297a0e17df60e644ce8dd2751e4e8e723c0fa4" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I believe that's not true, people coming into the country are seeking refuge from troubled countries and seek solace in ours, we should be ready to help at all times but smartly too." "I disapprove of the context in discussion." 3 4 1 4 3 5 4 5 5 2 2 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "1bb319d778d2402e0bc55caa8eb42503c2bbea85aec739673fff7caeb1c1ebb9" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I dont agree with it, but everyone is entitled to their own opinions" "relaxed" 2 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "1dbd6576928256c4c25c5e6b638ddf01b5caab750fc3b5ad2f9fd7a1f6a8a8cc" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I don't believe that is the case, but it immigration policy in our country is an issue that requires digging into too deep on the political reasons behind it. I am sure that there is people that benefit from such policies, but us ignorant citizens will just get against each other with our different views, because we are led to believe the big enemy is the immigrant and not the man with a suit sitting in a luxurious office/home, so let's not talk about it as it will just lead us to arguing" "The reaction is of someone that wants to state their different opinion, but also avoid the conflict that would eventually come out by discussing such delicate topic. It's not hostile, but it is a bit dismissive of the other person opinion" 3 4 2 1 4 2 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Yes, the immigration policy in this country is a complete mess, it needs to be revised in order for people that need help to get it, but at the same time the western countries should stop profiting from the poorer countries, by keeping them poor and taking advantage of their resources. The colonialism and extremists religions is what ruined these countries. And when immigrants come here, they sould not be put in ghettos, they should be helped to integrate as much as possible. There are too many that escape throught the cracs of buroucreacy, so the government should actually work for once, instead of getting subsidies and eating the money." "My reaction is the one of someone that has seen first hand how useless the government is on dealing with immigration, leaving most immigrants alone to fend for themselves, It's easy in cases like this for the immigrants to feel abandoned and find solace/ acceptance in extreme groups." "4" "4" "3" "1" "5" "2" "2" "1" "3" "3" "4" "4" "4" "3" "1" "1" "round-3" "98d86ac8d3553c60dd24aebf2326ee2396e74f913a6aea604cef072a1e6c3677" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "Hmm yeah maybe. How's your coffee today?" "Avoidance type of reaction. " 2 2 1 2 3 1 1 1 2 2 2 3 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "92515d6ede4dbe67e2a0509a2d6424e631393a32424befd3c662c5f22bb6c682" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "Well, look on the bright side, more people, the more money we get。" "A little anxitious and a liittle upset. " 3 2 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 3 1 1 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "0a94082067b5c5a3eec147c0c6fff76acddc0d2b07f2638d6a4716710287d786" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "It's wrong to criticize our country's immigration policy and it is rude to say that letting anyone in is bound to create chaos. Which is uncertain if immigrant people are really the one who creates that chaos." "I think X will be aggressive and angry towards Y. I feel like X will be to immersed to the conversation." 5 5 1 1 3 1 1 1 3 4 5 5 5 1 1 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "There is to many factors to say that letting immigrant people in can create chaos. But it is wrong to say that immigrant people are the ones who will create the chaos/" "I will be shocked and disappointed towards Y" "2" "5" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "5" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "364e1b0fb08905cbf9d48c0648df21e2daf1234f9757164565fd42fa91cde8f7" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I understand your concerns about maintaining order, but I believe a balanced immigration policy can enrich our society. Diversity often brings innovation, different perspectives, and a stronger economy." "I’d maintain a composed and calm demeanor, making direct eye contact, and express my views in a respectful and thoughtful manner, aiming to engage in a constructive conversation despite differing opinions." 3 4 3 2 4 3 2 2 4 5 5 5 5 4 5 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "5858d9eac76bedafd74b2ef13a0cd8919e166d451431b6b472a47d512cf7751d" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I beg to disagree because on the contrary the number of immigrant in the last few years compared to the last 10 years is significantly low and less" "i would describe x's reaction as mildly diveregent" 1 1 3 3 4 5 4 3 4 3 3 3 1 1 2 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "f8a3cff2287204bb21dd9d861353b022e59fea900b9e20362a634221172e3b84" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I dont agree with that. I think immigrant also contributes boutifully to your country's economy and growth" "I feel saddened by this kind of thought" 4 5 3 1 5 3 2 2 1 4 4 5 5 4 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "139e8daa1dea803f674a798f45e243e1d13fcdadd29f18eb05af42962dcd93d8" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I can't believe you would say something like that, just let them be, people from this country also cause problems here and in foreign countries and you wouldn't want anyone saying the same thing." "I feel like X would state how strongly they disagree with the statement, and then they would walk away. However, because they don't want any negativity they wouldn't report what Y said. " 5 5 2 1 5 2 2 3 2 3 5 4 4 2 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "c30cb1363be0acdcc45ce90c82303a107aa0aa0b8ce0912c308abe7b80de02c2" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I dont agree with you, that is a good thing because people get to experience new places" "disagreeable to person Y" 3 4 1 2 1 5 5 5 5 1 2 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "3b013ca7e83b6156652467531e990e4782178557b353b0055bf47ec866709137" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I feel you're being dishonest here, immigrants bring huge economic advantages and add rich cultural values into our lives. Don't be shallow minded " "I feel X is disguted by Y's claim about immigration. This is clearly a coversation X won't hold for long before walking out. " 4 5 1 1 4 1 1 1 4 4 5 5 3 2 2 2 "No" "No" "No" "Personally, i would educate Y on the importance of immigration and convince them to stop expecting chaos from immigrants' presence. Because immigrants are peace loving people than spread love and other interesting elements of good life everywhere they go. " "A calm reaction that leads to enlightening. it is normal for people to think differently. And it's even awesome for people to say how they fear instead of nursing hatred for others" "1" "1" "3" "5" "1" "5" "5" "5" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "e5e8770f2b89e91fc4373818858c83b017dc261dad235dd7b8f24201a1b6bd16" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I respectfully disagree with the assertion that our country's immigration policy is too lenient and that it is inevitably leading to chaos. It's important to acknowledge that immigration policy is a complex issue, and there are several factors to consider which can be Economic Benefits and Stringent Screening." "I would describe X's reaction as a calm reaction. who was ready to give his own opinion about what Y has brought up" 1 1 1 3 2 3 3 3 1 1 1 3 2 1 3 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "f3edc1aa94adb3e8fef9584dd6415ce3f7b178c41837bd63d1b2ee7e4854e99f" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I don't think that is true, most migrants that arrive here contribute to society more than they take and integrate mostly in the culture of the country." "Even though is probably not meant like one this would feel like a personal attack to me as I am a migrant, it would be demeaning" 4 3 2 2 3 1 1 1 1 2 3 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "282c306163cc635c5076448db8d6f061a353a8f7ac642cdc7934d42268d17a56" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "i disagree with that. our country does its screening and they find them more capable than what you think of." "bold, a positive person irrespective of the number" 2 2 2 4 2 5 4 3 2 2 2 2 3 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "dd873e5659fe4253f1dc825c882a943fcc9cae43f4e81ce8036ee7d0d867e57f" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "It is none of my problems, let the immigration and government deal with that" "X's reaction is not good for the society. If we only have people like X in the society, the society will decay. Y is trying to make chanes in their immediate society, X shoud follow same." 1 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 2 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would also condemn the situation as Y. We need more people like Y to change the society, if not government will just control us as they wish as they know that any policy goes with no one to challenge them" "My reaction is rational. It is what any rational human being should do, we need to speak about the wrong things in the society to effect changes" "2" "4" "2" "1" "2" "4" "1" "3" "1" "4" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "fdb9f7e617790d01c1373385d901ee0054ae5d6f67f52e62df9c9b5da1a4a025" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "The first person says I disagree. I think our country's immigration policy is fair and humane. We should be welcoming immigrants to our country, because they contribute to our economy and culture." "The first person says I'm also concerned about the way that Y is using the word ""lenient."" It suggests that our immigration policy is too easy, which I don't think is accurate. " 1 3 2 3 4 2 3 3 2 2 2 4 3 2 2 3 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "21b6ad399828856e5c037bd34501603d939b8f2aef6942fa9cc4bfb24a78c288" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I agree partly with you. I think that illegal immigration should be stopped. On the other hand legal immigration is good for the country as it helps the workforce, the diversity culture in the country and funding good causes through immigrant's revenue." "I think that X is a logical person who tries to avoid conflicts and pointless confrontations trying in a positive way to provide evidence for his thoughts" 1 1 1 5 1 5 5 5 5 1 1 1 3 2 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "aa49e0d4f6aa989cad1c0dbf952f562dd445648cefe42dccfc3d00348088e3e2" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I dont know enough about the issue to comment. I think that matter is for politicians to discuss and decide on. That matter seems like a difficult thing to comment on. " "avoiding conflict, its honestly similar to what I do in these kinds of situations because I truthfully dont understand the issue sufficiently on a geopolitical level. These things can be so complex that I find it easy to avoid going into discussion while also being honest." 1 2 3 3 3 2 2 2 2 3 4 4 3 3 2 3 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "3f595c61d905a7edaa4198eeb8072e786696a2e3b797e90bb9e85a7d47113e1d" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "What makes you think that? There are strong assessment criteria for people who wish to move to this country." "X disagrees and asks for Y to justify the comments given that X knows this not to be true. There are many underlying issues stirred up by mainstream media that portray the facts to suit their own agenda" 4 5 1 1 3 2 2 2 2 3 4 2 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "c00b13d31d4a5132fc672e66a34a5fcb2b098d4212e93498e7dd33ebd29ccecd" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I don't think it's necessarily bad, we don't know as much as we think we do about the topic. Are you having anything to eat with your coffee? I might go and grab a snack if you wanna tag along." "A knowledge the comment but respectfully shut the conversation and change the topic" 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "52d23d7e0cc8ee6bb50fae6a149d1825af14b8b2df19adcc39ce15db7d8b78a5" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "Should they send them back? Is your country not benefiting from them?" "I will describe it as a contradicting reaction" 5 5 1 1 1 2 1 3 5 2 4 4 3 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e5126480dc68176c65f1aea8197878344ebd31c72758ec10818f69a88b3ff268" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "That's not true at all! I think you're talking nonsense. We have a strict immigration policy and people who need it aren't allowed in. Go do some research!" "I had a strong visceral reaction. I felt like being offensive to Y because we disagreed. I wanted my opinion to be right. I was frustrated with his opinion because it wasn't mine." 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 1 5 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I don't think that that is the case, I do see why you might think that way because there is so much information in the media and it's hard to know what to think. But I don't think that immigration is the issue the government wants us to think it is." "My reaction was calm and collected. I tried to remain rational and explain things sensibly." "4" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "3364b38d1f70792a64f414b4b39e0be35ede723075d30c64530859c9476d57a5" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "That is a very ridiculous take. Do you not recognize how much immigrants do for us? I am ready to argue with anyone who thinks otherwise." "Sharp and attacking. I do not leave any room for doubt and let you know exactly how I feel." 5 4 1 2 1 2 1 2 3 2 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "a8d563d9c4dd648a40dd3e44a07cd64f194daad5440e864e6bceaa21158c514b" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I believe the country is interested in giving immigrants a chance to a better life, which is applaudible." "Diplomatic" 1 1 1 1 1 2 2 3 3 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "ca4bd1a2ae6012a139c657686370a61f63ec6a39b580e0880f9ce61243e64616" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "Honestly I think immigration is a chance to our country, with narrow minded people like yourself, the country is already in a chaos mode." "I can identify to X reaction. I tend to confront people if I don't agree with them." 3 4 1 2 4 2 2 1 2 3 4 5 4 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "63a814f25532932a7493b9d78508ee8056eef1ec1e82abce7a89bd708413b859" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I absolutely disagree with you. We need to work on letting more people in and being more welcoming." "I think X would be upset. They would be hostile and want to express their own opinions strongly." 5 5 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 4 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "0b281a1f286d7e48f5527c3b10e81f76e1bfba351bfc3d99655a43095df7987f" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "X would say well I dont know muct about immigration myself so probably not the best person to aks" "sitting on the fence" 1 1 3 4 4 5 5 5 2 4 3 3 3 3 2 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "802dcdd65cad2348b0d12c7ffae24c7bb81730b860c06d2d7944c0d45c4bba8f" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I don't think this is true, it is rather difficult to have new immigrants with the policy and we need more manpower to support the country." "I can confidently oppose other's viewpoint" 4 3 1 1 2 2 1 1 2 1 3 3 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e9ca0ad7db6914ba237fe4676159b6c36a4b37c1bec5085c455b4c9854804dd7" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I disagree with you. Immigrants have been positive for this country in regards to making it more competitive and generally open minded." "I am trying to explain the positives and not perpetuating the usual ignorant lazy narrative." 2 2 1 2 3 3 1 3 3 1 5 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "60dd89a40cd5f4fcb7f57558d639e881c7c0f3edd639d49d1a17f1a0241d3a7c" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I don't agree with you, but it's not something I want to discuss on my coffee break./ I don't think so, but I don't really want to discuss something so fraught on my coffee break." "She would want to make clear she disagrees, but also shut down the conversation as it could be negative and draining. She would want to give a clear response, but stop any futher argument about the topic." 3 4 2 1 3 1 1 1 2 3 5 5 5 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I don't agree with you, I think that immigrants can enrich society and in general benefit a country. It is quite racist to paint everyone with the same brush." "I would be annoyed and dismayed if a collegue held such narrow minded and simlistic views about people often fleeing persecution. I would think they are probably racist." "5" "5" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "5" "5" "5" "3" "1" "1" "round-3" "fde273c07f3bb596152a5da77cb34b4cc04818c55aa85caa715117199960a1e7" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I disagree with your point of view, i think the company immigration policy is perfect the way it is. " "X's reaction is firm, ushaken, and resolute in his reaction" 3 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "71d1d8e0f9fcf04f93fa06debd16d2be1b2db330e08412c3ac1ea22c26a2be17" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "This is a very short sighted view with very little actual facts to back it up." "Direct and to the point" 3 2 1 1 2 1 1 1 5 1 5 5 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "c8f07a5877c6e3e27dc4729d49a6160f2e8e478d29ff55d87ce169af655f07b0" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "Do not say that! I believe our country's immigration policies are quite strict, and the law enforcements are trying their best in enforcing these policies. It is best to appreciate their efforts and encourage them." "X's response opposes Y's response, and is quite attacking." 5 4 1 1 3 4 2 1 3 1 2 4 4 4 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "ff8c98fa745fec700e019743336bc208c36863b65d58b9940fbcba6f57a609b2" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I disagree, I believe the country's immigration policy is actually has more advantages to you and than disadvantages " "X reaction is conflicting and highlights a contrary opinion " 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I would probably smile and avoid th discussion" "My reaction is neutral as I did not voice out any opinion " "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "c128ba80774cbc599a53bfde5ddb0c30b58414443919abe96af13aaf88a48362" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I do not think our country immigration policy is too lenient, infact I do believe most of the success we have experienced as a nation can be largely attributed to the contributions immigrants have made to the growth of our country" "X reaction will be calm and factual with statistics to buttress his positon" 1 1 1 2 1 5 4 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "a32f4d5ca08cc3d4fdb69ddf7641595d7d92b1619a9f3c34864a4cd62942b4c4" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "Sorry Y, I don't agree with that. Immigration solves more problems than it causes, especially with our aging population." "Respectful disagreement. Expressed counterargument politely." 2 2 1 1 3 1 1 1 2 4 1 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "c1e6050902704fa0eb1d773db4150fd279acec5fc26a506f17780e0e0c57741c" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "That's an interesting point of view. What makes you say so?" "X would respond with curiosity and intrigue towards an opposing point of view, seeking to learn from and understand opposing views rather than debate against them. X would not be confrontational in any way, and provide a safe space." 1 1 1 3 1 4 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "9c3fe35eb0a43b1bc907e8c75f894d3c3c0afada32e10fc77031275822a3229c" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "A lot of the people entering our country are very valuable. The ones you're looking down on, especially, tend to accept less popular and more demanding jobs and keep the country running. Also, I'm sure you'd want the chance to move to a different country, so why take it away from others?" "My reaction is rational. I am willing to give people a chance to prove themselves. I don't judge based on stereotypes." 3 3 1 1 5 3 2 5 5 3 5 4 3 2 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "d5ad05fe31520f73005cc8d156d4c8e1d9de368de4d9db83cd11c2eedffb3183" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "i think they are doing a fine job and the ''immigrants'' are helping expand our economy." "defensive as he is trying to have a debate with Y." 3 2 2 1 4 4 4 1 5 2 4 4 2 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "975737a0646631e90fe487be6b74855f4be521e8949a0815c87cb794b1ddd6ab" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "Everybody has the right to live anywhere in the world no matter their immigration status. " "Very calm and thoughtful. " 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 4 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "8650977ad2e3af2472ac7100bc29cd2ed1307219d371fd9bbcc00ba07645acfd" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I would say the immigration is good. we need to see the good in it more, compared to the bad" "X reaction contain empathy and equity toward immigrants and immigration in general." 1 2 1 4 2 4 3 5 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "f5b1df60af962a4ecbcf3049a17abef736fbb25c4856d0a6555ccf550e30cf43" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "I think its okay to let people in,it contributes to the growth of our economy" "X would just be surprised and try to calm the situation" 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "9ba5b280a4af73cbf690913d2f36f5faa0a15b31d86629ff82649978b914e0ba" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "Although, I quite agree with you that the country's borders need better protection, we cannot dispute the fact that so many immigrants have go on to make this country proud in areas of science, sports, and art. Honeslty, I feel that a lot of Americans are seeing things from a selfish and myopic point of view as far as our immigration policy is concerend." "X tries to defend immigrants without directly getting Y offended." 3 4 5 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 5 5 5 3 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "7d1248786f16836fb88d958b027abb5e7d451778aae76483b2ac415f8b186175" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "X and Y are colleagues who work in the same department and have known each other for a year." "On the contrary, I think immigrants have positive role to play in our society too. They contribute to the workforce, pay tax that generates more revenue for the government, and they do all sort of manual jobs that our citizens won't. I think the issue should be adequate screening of migrants to ensure we bring in only the good quality once that will add toour economy." "He will be calm, relax and approach the conversation in a friendly manner" 1 1 1 4 1 5 3 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "2ebb01f29a402018ea5ee0e9cdb64d294e0b8064fd48e5e169546cc370c9e371" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I am completely averse of your opinion. It's gross to assume that hapless immigrants from Muslim nations have any prospect or agenda to immigrate other than to start better lives in a more economically thriving environment." "X's has a strong opinionated response/reaction which doesn't delve much into understanding Y's point of view of the reason behind their thinking. X expresses his views with a finality." 1 2 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 3 2 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I would ask what led the speaker to think the way he thinks about Muslim immigration. I will try to understand the cause of prejudice and respond with facts and engage in a dialogue on that basis." "My reaction would be that of concern and query. I would engage in dialogue and try to understand the underlying reason behind this attitude." "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "cfe5be2ff22f2568fb833a3a52bbee9621ba1f89af36f259d2d557b50c68b417" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "That's not entirely true. Religion preaches love and solidarity so in this regard Muslim immigrants do not want to dominate our culture but to find shelter in these critical moments where everything seems to be falling apart in their countries. " "I see it as quite reflective, a product of critical thinking whivh gives a good reasoning about the current developments." 4 2 4 2 4 2 2 5 2 4 4 4 2 4 3 4 "No" "Yes" "No" "I would say that there are various reasons why a person wants to flee their country and it's not only the religion. An array of underlying factors dictate the response of a person towards this. To understand better the rationale behind this we need to look back and investigate the origins and causal mechanisms." "I would describe it as verythoughtful and balanced as it takes into consideration multiple factors that lead to this view." "1" "2" "2" "2" "3" "4" "4" "5" "4" "4" "3" "1" "1" "4" "2" "4" "round-3" "3baf534176ab8df0c6a5b21da67ef10b97c8dd4a495bcb5db4d4c7877aa13e11" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "It takes all kinds of people to make this world. We must live amicably putting aside stereotypes potrayed in media. There is always good and bad in everyperson." "I will not worry about what media is potraying. I will face whatever happens to me when it affects me" 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "376d0681fad3e6f7d7a64dc21007bb61a0fd8323487474b69c4aaa7d7a5a004f" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I disagree with this statement. I think it's wrong and I refuse to engage in such argument." "I am firm but don't engage with the argument as it would be upsetting. The student might not learn why they are wrong but I'm protecting myself from the negativity" 2 4 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 4 3 3 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "This is not only incorrect, but also hurtful. Where have you read such information? We have to be careful not to fall for propaganda. I will not tolerate such statements, but you should understand why it is wrong." "I am upset by the statement but also want to change the student's mind as I believe it might not be what they truly think, only read it somewhere" "4" "3" "3" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "e0dc86e5bcfe8ef94409b5941685f74edfd0f8a2b9ce16aef838ab5d6d298ccf" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "Why would that be obvious? I'm not sure I understand why this supposition is considered axiomatic." "It's inquiring, looking to challenge the statement of Y." 4 3 3 2 3 2 2 3 3 4 5 4 4 3 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "ab6af6a15aac3ed9f2b0ebd33d2b73ed84f11f251fbbe69b089520cb81b2d96f" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I think we should repect their culture and try to find the good about others. They may just want to experience our culture indeed." "X is explaining its idea in a polite and clear manner to assit Y undertsand different cultures. " 3 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 5 3 2 3 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "8885f5609e37447fcb831d3ea989b34ac22db916b949e02822414e415066d22d" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I find that statement offensive on behalf of Muslims everywhere. I feel that the statement is imflamatory and so ridiculous that it should be ignored." "I would be annoyed by the statement and wish to shut down any long argument into this topicas it would get needlessly heated. I would prefernot to be having this conversation." 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would say that this is a disgraceful attitude and lumps all Muslims together. This kind of statement is very imflammatory." "I would be shocked but possibly not very suprised. Unfortunately these days these kinds of opinions exist." "4" "4" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "94e26038b48330678063c7a2d89b7031ed9b9643b3f3bba1e7149e0ea8588353" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "If you think tha way, maybe you should reconsider." "respectful" 4 4 2 2 3 2 2 2 2 3 3 4 3 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would ignore the comment and I would never speak to that person anymore" "fair" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "2" "3" "3" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "e3b5c67475fa7d2386200368cd842d29f827c6914b7714c9d6b18a936551641a" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "No, they are not trying to dominate our culture. They are looking for a safe environment." "X challenges Y- and presents a counter argument." 4 1 2 2 4 4 2 2 4 4 4 4 4 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "If you try to talk to them, you`ll realize that is not the case" "explaning" "2" "2" "2" "2" "4" "2" "2" "2" "3" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "92ca33546e7bf6810e6f61412e2208d4076a306ef4c2b4efad81d0488d70e261" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I do not think this is correct. We should not differentiate between people based on their religion. People have different reasons for immigrating and we should be open and welcoming." "His reaction is rejecting the negative by disagreeing with the statement." 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 3 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "8d1d3d586da9d9c9b8c67b3c02bbf866a7f4ae3082c9eeb8bdef76bf534ac9e4" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "Muslim immigrants do not want to dominate our culture; they just want to protect their beliefs." "I would like to disagree with that opinion and provide accurate information." 3 3 2 2 3 1 4 1 4 3 2 4 3 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "6eea0bba8b909ff6283c36cd01c21f76bf55d97306965de2a149ddae8ba6f3a9" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I think that's not correct. Diversity in our society is more favourable for our society. There is no danger to our culture with increasing Muslim immigrants." "X will not be agreeing with Y. X will feel dejected and resentful." 5 5 3 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 4 4 4 4 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "ee67b1e883f0dda271dcc07789edf7c03e628c674a40354edcab271095f4f997" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "THAT IS NOT CORRECT,I DON'T LIKE THE WAY YOU THINK,STAY AWAY FROM ME" "IRRITATED" 4 5 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 2 5 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "THAT IS NOT ENTIRELY TRUE,AMONG THE IMMIGRANTS WE HAVE BOTH THE GOOD AND THE BAD" "CALM" "1" "2" "1" "1" "3" "2" "2" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "9c8989457342877d896d9ec9c494c8377cc9167cc97cbaedbce18de4e06158a4" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "You shouldn't say things like that. You're sounding like a bigot and Islamophobe. " "I would be appalled that the student would feel comfortable sharing an opinion like that and make sure that he knows it is racist to have that opinion " 4 4 3 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 4 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Most times xenophobia is rooted in some kind of fear (economic worries, safety and security worries) and the way to lessen xenophobia is by reducing that fear with facts and figures" "I would be appalled and try to gauge whether the student is somebody I can reason with " "4" "5" "4" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "4" "3" "4" "4" "4" "round-3" "ab6eaf4f342b9aa5a36ef23913c4048ec2a33f44b0c3e7003ee78bb2ff949fb4" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I don'tI do not think so. Muslims just want to live on their own land and keep their own culture" "I would feel uneasy and a little bit embarrassed by such attitude of other people. There are no black and white callers in this conflict between Muslims and Jewish people" 2 2 2 1 5 3 2 2 2 5 5 3 2 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "8705b836e269fa751db6c57abe701c8fe31e1d187b275059d6ad2e70d36eb28e" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I would like us to not talk about this topic, please as it is a volatile discussion and I do not want to be involved in such a conversation." "I would probably be shocked and move away so as to distance myself from Y both mentally and physically" 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 3 3 1 1 1 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "6072ec3af0fe0c01af83fd3dedaf9b1724abe9d83bd02621b941c332fc905c0b" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "They're just regular people trying to better their life quality. If they have immigrated legally and work honestly, we shouldn't be prejudice against them@" "I don't agree with such claims and feel that it's a reflection of a very narrow perception of the world making claims as such" 2 4 3 1 4 2 3 3 4 4 4 5 3 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "dcc8825544cb4148469bc5bb1ed9fd6153fa591d967f790605af890ce1508d62" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I understand your concerns, but I don't agree with generalizing groups of people that way. Immigrants come from many backgrounds and want to build better lives like anyone else. We shouldn't assume bad intent. I think we need to be welcoming and find common ground." "I was troubled by Y's claim, which seemed prejudiced. Rather than reacting harshly, I aimed to respond with empathy and reason. I acknowledged Y's worries but challenged the harmful generalization about Muslim immigrants, stressing our shared humanity. My goal was to reflect my values of compassion and justice while constructively countering Y's problematic viewpoint." 4 4 3 1 2 2 1 1 3 3 4 3 3 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "ce1b8671df77b42fed4fe75f2a7a32606185a1f6bb3db87640f5ca12953ff867" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "What may be perceived as domination is in fact the just the expression of demands to be accepted. I believe your opinion is heavily influenced by populist propaganda. " "X is actively dismissing the claim, which is a common tactic of certain groups, without looking at facts. Trying to move away from the conflict while also trying to express their claim are equally inmportant to X." 4 4 2 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 5 5 4 5 5 "No" "Yes" "No" "I totally agree with Y, even though I'm an immigrant myself. Some cultures can't coexist with each other. " "Not avoiding conflict and trying to explain my reaction with facts. " "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "5" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "c358433e2ab71453f3877bad0c43c2c77eb0c369fb2ce6af817df0bf0d5b8d86" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "That's not true. There is no evidence of that and so what you are saying does not stand." "My reaction would be anger and a confrontational tone." 5 4 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I understand why you would say that, but have you considered that there may be other reasons for this?" "My reaction would be a lot more calm and I would make suggestions for other reasons. I would persuade the subject Y to have a think abou the topic from a different point of view." "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "3" "2" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "fa258d4979d00041391a429c3a264c003dfbb3120984ef03217758211945e227" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "Muslims are not coming to dominate the country. Are you forebears not the ones that sailed around the world colonising and telling them about this country. Save me the hypocrisy" "I would feel disgusted because immigration is just a way seeking a more productive life. I contribute my quota to the development of the country, pay my taxes and get treaten with disgust by people for being a foreigner in this country. No one will treat me that way in my home country, so spare me the self-righteous non-sense" 4 4 4 2 4 3 4 2 3 2 2 3 3 2 2 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "346a758190c852e5bd54cfd97fa495711bf9b5d9d675fed0ed718c93690cb493" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I quite disagree with you, I believe they are just trying to get a better life for themselves in a more conducive environment, just as we all do." "My reaction would be that of calm disposition while educating Y on dangers of such statements." 1 1 2 1 4 2 1 4 2 4 2 1 1 1 1 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "d8d75120014027b09e7f09644232da9b3d3bccecb238d870c62e0917cfe2e1c0" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I disagree with you. This is not the right way to think about it." "He is very determined and not combative. He won't agree with anyone." 4 1 1 1 1 1 4 2 4 1 1 5 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I have different opinion, but I think part of your thinking is right. Everyone can have different opinion." "friendly and politely." "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "84d04a8d6edb79b521250b48496ea9e0df3ab44498f9459de4668979678e7bbd" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "We can't reduce a very complex topic such as immigration to just a different culture trying to dominate another culture. I'd suggest you read and invesstigate more before mentioning it to anyone." "Disbelief, worried about why the student thinks like that, and also confused why the student would reduce something like that to a talk point used by racists." 5 5 4 1 3 1 1 1 1 5 4 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "1998fda137aeda19157cf40259a8a87888eb8bafb443147a34166b441a941d4e" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I dont agree with you, they need a place to live as well" "bad and angry" 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I just would ignore it" "there would be no reaction" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "0f078dcb18bff73a1dd7e7a4a54c38c1915128e094439df6be3b49c9f2600d14" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I don't see any proof for such claim. Don't be influenced by what the media tell you." "Defensive with immediate counter response which would make the other want to step down or move away from the conversation." 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I think there are a lot of things we should consider before saying they use such tactics to dominate us. There are good and bad people everywhere, no matter Muslim, Christian , Buddism. . ." "I would prefer to be open to hear what the other person has to say regarding his statement. That way we could have further discussion. " "2" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "37c418bdc67acd1c03cce34f355a312eadb97cd0e13b0b0361ff10cc1fc6e55c" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "Your claim about Muslims immigrants trying to dominate our culture is baised and untrue. Your sources for information seems to be negative and hateful towards people who are not like you." "calm and amicable" 3 4 1 1 4 4 1 3 1 3 3 2 1 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "7139398dc5477cd36639b62106687b9db8c318e9e57770f81e2027e17f2345bd" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "That is ridiculous, Muslims are a minority in this country, and there's no way they can overthrow the culture of this country. That is a major exaggeration. " "It is quite a passionate response, one filled with outrage. X doesn't like the ignorance being spewed in the opinion, " 5 5 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I don't think a smaller group of people as such can completely change the culture of the country, I just think they will have an impact in pockets of society, but it's natural for people to stick by their culture." "I would be somewhat balanced, not angry or happy, but rather would just find myself somewhat anxious and eager to share my perspective " "2" "2" "3" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "6280b8773d540f278dafb7bd80bc7fc63bf5e643e0356c91b28a10876eb017ab" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "You're wrong. Do you even know what is happening in their country or culture to make these kind of assumptions? Have you researched why they immigrate? " "X would immediately state their disagreement, maybe be a bit judgemental, attempt to shed light on the situation from their point of view but it would come across a bit aggresive" 4 3 1 2 1 3 1 1 3 3 5 3 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "You are entitled to your opinion, however, I don't agree. I would really encourage you to do some research into this matter whenever you feel like it as I believe the reason why you hold this opinion is the fact you haven't been presented with acute information." "I would try to be peaceful and also avoid conflict but make it clear I would like Y to think about what they said." "2" "2" "1" "1" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "84a6fd7ce412528541af4f5d699bd91d4f8a519a669120f274af2ed8ccddb769" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "There are different ways to look at the situation. It is important to gather as much info as possible to be able to have an informed opionion." "He/she is entitled to an opionion." 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "5f010025a6a64bd5ca93b493dcf7106bb485dbdba82367e3af21ffe3425dce14" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "You do not know what you are talking about. You need to educate yourself on the facts and not let yourself be influeced by the propaganda. " "Aggesive and condesending. " 3 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I agree with you. It is all a ploy to change our society. " "My reaction is one of support and understnding. " "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "4" "1" "2" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "565406919872c645c852b6741b500f4222ac6d83f523921e7c5618510d5732d5" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I do not agree with you. I believe, the intention of most of Muslim immigrants is to get an established life." "X reaction is amicable. He just conevys his opinion." 1 1 1 1 3 5 3 3 3 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "fd3710a546df750d9d6539442a08696b5087093669b33429ce9e5c092391d197" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I firmly believe that religion does not define a person as either good or bad. " "I think X will not want to discuss a topic as hot as this one" 1 1 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 3 3 1 3 3 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "I'm not religious so anyone who's forcing their religious views on others annoys me" "Irritation, distress" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "fd3f9967443047d03835f5bf71085ba91d21f790c0494c430b340d8240c79887" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I tjhink anyone who says or believes that is just displaying islamophobia, everyone has a right to practice their culture and that includes muslims. Statemnts like this from people like you causes the tension between us and muslim immigrant, and it is bad." "I would be tense and angry at the statement, I would condemn the statement." 5 3 1 1 3 2 1 1 2 3 3 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "dd5370e8951c1a3d059b9e5ed885bd9827b90fdd9236323644483c0b45a7f96b" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I do not agree with this opinion, it is unfair and inconsistent with the truth. In fact, these people bring many benefits to society, they are often educated, many of them work as doctors or engineers. In the future, I suggest you think before you make such an unjust and racist statement." "If this was X's reaction, I think it would be adequate. X was not too aggressive, but he clearly explained that such comments were inappropriate." 3 4 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 1 3 3 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "28902bcc1f3826608bfeed22e83a4ef59dabdc4f039ce84817f4446d51b778cf" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I don't agree with this statement. Immigration is need for time. It is preconceived notion. it is spread by some people who think Muslims are threat to them." "I thinks X's reaction is fair. As a teacher it is very important not to spread rumors and fake messages among the youth." 4 5 4 1 4 2 1 1 3 4 4 2 1 2 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "5855dd54bc13ebebb0a5297879120d2749db0ae6fb0bbcd1fe40e11d8a71eb05" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I believe you need to do some more research on the topic. I suggest you read these articles to deepen your knowledge of the issue." "I was in disagreement with Y but I believe he simply lacks knowlegde to understand the situation fully, so I suggested some articles that might help Y see the whole picture" 1 1 1 1 4 2 1 1 1 3 2 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "202996dc3fb66b715d112c5d42b30df98efb72bb803388ea3d4b2de1e6ed0aaf" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I do not think so. I simply believe that they are here to have a better life." "X reaction shows understanding and compassion." 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "70914f4021a8c4b4c87c67d85ec923e9fe8ebb9509cc4638f4d9c563f14284a4" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "What is the evidence for this claim?" "I want to know why Y thinks this" 2 2 2 2 3 3 2 3 2 3 3 3 2 2 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "3513fcdac0305c509e35253be14900258431e13883a4a0dfefbb39c4c20e532e" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "It is not not obvious that claim the recent surge in muslim immigrant is not just strgegy to dominate our culture" "Aganist the opnion of Y" 5 5 5 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 4 4 4 4 1 5 "No" "No" "No" "I agree with the statement " "Happy" "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "c2cc32d63380d02f0f47532218e0c61064f7691e801c2ecd47fea6e3a7359469" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "Immigrants contribute to the rich diversity of our culture rather than seeking to dominate it." "My reaction would be distress" 5 3 1 5 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 3 3 3 2 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "76d2d62dc8fd4d3e070d744688cdd2351f1d93df334603214769d941307cb434" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "This is an interesting statement. Can you tell me a bit more about your thought process?" "Encouraging as X is a teacher. X would like to guide the thought process of Y and be neutral." 1 1 1 2 1 4 2 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "643ad4d17f3a503860800da3d6acc75aa0f7b669ba2bb8fd1cd086b6a0646ade" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I understand that immigration can be a topic that sparks concerns, but it's important not to generalize or make assumptions about an entire group of people based on their religion or ethnicity. Immigrants, regardless of their background, come to our country for various reasons, such as seeking better opportunities, safety, and stability. It's essential to approach this issue with nuance and empathy, recognizing the diversity of experiences within any community. Painting all Muslim immigrants with a broad brush is unfair and perpetuates harmful stereotypes." "In this situation, my reaction as X would be characterized by a mixture of concern and determination. I would maintain a calm demeanor while actively engaging in the conversation. My facial expression might convey a blend of empathy and firmness, indicating my disagreement with Y's statement while also showing a willingness to address their concerns. My tone of voice would be steady and respectful, emphasizing the importance of understanding diverse perspectives and promoting tolerance in the classroom. I would aim to create a safe environment for dialogue, encouraging critical thinking and empathy among my students." 1 1 2 3 2 2 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 "No" "No" "No" "I appreciate your perspective, but it's crucial to approach discussions about immigration with sensitivity and nuance. Blaming an entire religious or cultural group for complex social issues oversimplifies the situation and can lead to misunderstandings. People migrate for various reasons, such as seeking safety, education, or better opportunities, and it's essential to recognize their individual stories. Let's focus on fostering understanding and empathy in our conversations, respecting the diversity of experiences within any community." "In this situation, my reaction would be characterized by a balance of patience and assertiveness. I would maintain a composed demeanor, using a calm and measured tone to address the statement. While I might be internally concerned about the misconception presented, my focus would be on promoting understanding and empathy. My body language would reflect openness, encouraging further discussion while signaling my firm stance against the harmful stereotype. I would actively listen to the student's perspective while gently challenging their misconceptions, fostering a respectful dialogue in the classroom." "2" "4" "3" "2" "3" "4" "3" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "3" "round-3" "342f5c4002303e61be8ef0f91abbbe87c3018c0bc8834f3cb9aecf8eccbf04fc" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I understand that immigration can be a complex topic, and it's essential to have informed discussions about it. However, it's not accurate or fair to label an entire group of people with such a negative stereotype. Diversity enriches our society, and it's important to recognize the contributions individuals from various backgrounds make to our culture. Let's focus on understanding one another and fostering unity rather than jumping to conclusions." "I would appear visibly concerned and taken aback by Y's statement. My facial expression might show a mix of disbelief and disappointment, reflecting my disagreement with the claim. My body language could also indicate my discomfort, possibly through tense posture or gestures expressing a desire to engage in a respectful dialogue to challenge the misconception. Despite my reaction, I would strive to maintain composure and respond thoughtfully, aiming to promote understanding and empathy in the conversation." 1 1 1 4 1 5 4 4 5 1 1 1 5 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I understand that concerns about immigration can arise, but it's crucial not to generalize or stereotype an entire group based on ethnicity or religion. People's experiences and motivations for immigrating are diverse and multifaceted. It's important for us to approach these discussions with empathy and respect for one another's backgrounds, fostering understanding rather than perpetuating divisive narratives." "In this situation, I would remain calm and composed, striving to maintain a respectful tone despite feeling deeply disappointed by the statement. My response would be measured and thoughtful, reflecting my commitment to promoting tolerance and understanding. While I might be internally frustrated, I would focus on engaging in a constructive conversation, hoping to challenge misconceptions and encourage empathy between different perspectives. My body language would convey openness, signaling my willingness to engage in a respectful dialogue while disagreeing with the harmful stereotype presented." "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "3" "3" "2" "2" "2" "4" "3" "1" "3" "2" "1" "round-3" "f6db5179909c1721a27820d3f89e574d6ad4f51d7451554658c1671dae9d23f2" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I understand your concerns, but it's important not to generalize or stereotype an entire group based on their religion or ethnicity. Immigration is a complex issue influenced by various factors such as seeking better opportunities, escaping conflict, or reuniting with family. People migrate for diverse reasons, and it's essential to approach this topic with empathy and understanding. Making sweeping assumptions about Muslim immigrants or any community only perpetuates division and hinders meaningful dialogue. Let's focus on appreciating the richness of cultural diversity and promoting inclusivity in our discussions." "In this situation, my reaction as X would be characterized by a mix of concern and determination to address the misconception. My facial expression would likely convey a furrowed brow, indicating my seriousness in countering the stereotype. Despite the challenging nature of the statement, I would maintain a calm and composed demeanor, signaling my willingness to engage in a respectful conversation. My tone of voice would be firm yet empathetic, emphasizing the importance of accurate understanding and the dangers of generalizations. I would make eye contact with the student, showing my commitment to fostering a constructive dialogue while firmly rejecting the harmful stereotype presented." 2 3 1 3 4 4 3 3 4 3 2 2 3 2 3 4 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "b8bccbcfd5df6d17ed311de78ddf52e1c4673e4368b2d439b6760d12b69aff3b" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y is a student who stays back after class to discuss an assignment with X, the teacher." "I think that diversity in our culture and population is important as it can foster creativity, innovation, empathy and a more inclusive society. Every race has their own strength and weakness. There are quite a number of successful Muslim entrepreneurs in our society who have contributed to our economic success." "I felt calm and relaxed during the discussion with Y. As a teacher, I should guide Y to steer away from unground biases. Thus, I used a concrete example to persuade Y to change their mind that Muslim immigrants would dominate our culture." 1 1 1 3 1 5 3 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "4d829b431cdef701f68406a89260eb920048ac7bca8a70d42dfef13138418b42" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "The problem is not about open borders but how we treat each foreign worker the way we treated others." "It is more positive and to provide solutions." 1 2 2 1 2 3 2 1 1 2 2 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "0476d170043277021e358403222f67c8dc7b7fa120e65ce9a39c0f280aea011c" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." " understand that there have been concerns with foreign workers in the past, but I believe that diversity and inclusion can be a valuable asset to the company. It's essential to address any issues and ensure that all employees, regardless of their background, feel welcome and contribute positively to our team." " X appears to react assertively and advocate for diversity in the workplace. Despite their inclination to avoid problems, they take a stand and express the importance of addressing issues and promoting inclusivity, particularly in the face of a potentially controversial statement from Y, the CEO. This reaction demonstrates a willingness to confront and engage with challenging topics." 1 1 1 3 1 4 2 2 2 1 1 1 2 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "ec40ed2ac31bd65745e276e174b6c37f94b467a70b72fa9d0c15925df2c2d8aa" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I understand your concerns about foreign workers not blending in, but open borders can bring benefits like cultural diversity and economic growth. Instead of closing borders, let's work on improving integration and communication to address the issues." "X's reaction can be described as diplomatic, inclusive, and solution-oriented. X acknowledges the concerns raised by Y but emphasizes the importance of addressing those concerns through cooperation and integration rather than resorting to isolationism. X seeks to find common ground and promote a more positive and open approach to the issue." 2 2 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 2 5 4 4 4 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "c7c650f83bb2f1a48a7e7306bca5ebe5fcaa6f7e64c9f0787296572cc647f205" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "i think it is good that people are comming to our country to help economy and we should give them time to adapt instead of judging them a strangers" "defensive, positive" 2 2 2 4 3 4 2 4 2 2 2 2 3 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "15d6117b3c9408569f7be4452877d159bca64ebbbcbfe58501c1ddcbb024cfe5" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "No sir, open borders are more of a solution than problem. I feel with the right training and mentorship, anybody can blend into any organization." "He would be calm while making Y undestands the importance of open borders." 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I would make understand that we all as humans adapt differently and our method of blending into any environment differs." "Calm" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "717e313391c7fa13522e277a0d34ac1690169f5e5b73dba42092b79089933525" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I will be bold enough to dissagree with this statement. We cannot judge all the foreign workers based on a couple of negative experiences. I can guarantee that if I am chosen as the new manager, I will make sure to create an open and friendly enviroment for all workers, no matter of their background." "X is trying to convince the Y that X deserves the job, while trying to pursuade Y that foreign workers are important and not threatening part of society and X can manage them." 3 4 2 1 3 1 1 1 4 3 2 2 1 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "1b41403a236f0ec1aae3a0aa7eb8123bb2cb49bae1e639a90ea2e6baf1770c54" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I am sorry to say, but i dont agree with your statement. Open borders allows us to different cultures, leading to personal & professional growth. " "I think my behaviour is valid. If i dont agree with something, I would take a firm stand and call it out. " 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 4 4 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "4144f42521e28a7830716c590acb777b47dccfaf9197618c2f13fe66ba363149" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I would say to give it more time for foreign workers to blend in. It is not a one-way solution, it is a two-way involving both parties to participate to fix the issues." "I would say the issue is being solved in an unbiased and logical manner. Emotions are being set aside." 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "112920b38dac995fc05b82148b8f52bc7b1b923140ed66ffc6e56ad51737d9ef" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "As an applicant for the managerial role, I would respectfully disagree with that claim. Diversity in the workplace, including having foreign workers, can bring fresh perspectives, cultural understanding, and a wider range of skills, which can ultimately benefit the company's growth and success. Embracing diversity and creating an inclusive environment can lead to innovation and better decision-making." "I thought X's reaction was pretty fair and logical " 2 1 2 4 1 4 5 4 3 2 2 2 4 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "930a21a6a533e8a2c09a1e3d0ba743b41cfadaaa27d2678c04ae334a897950e7" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I disagree because this company hires foreign workers. They are benefiting this company otherwise they would not be hired." "I would describe X's reaction as attacking, while trying to be polite. X is trying to disagree while saying that there's a benefit to the company, which means that X is trying to make the CEO think that X is interested in benefiting the company." 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I don't know whether it's true or not. At the same time we are having issues with foreign workers not blending in." "I am avoiding conflict. I am pandering to the CEO. I am only interested in how the company can benefit me." "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "77dc5cb7b8fc22315432119934f8aae2ccd8f3f7a261bccd1b5ac4b70a4009ac" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I would say 'Thank you for interviewing me but I'd rather not have this job as you have a bias towards people like me'. Afterwards I'd just leave." "I will be angry, uncomfortable and disgusted at Y. I'd lash out of him and avoid a huge problem in future worklife rather than have probems always in my future." 5 5 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "6597cf960f2bc7d0cce8b7d3def736a26927e037ed7341806a1719ed837c821d" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I don't think foreign workers have a problem blending in. Besides, as long as they their job there is not problem in my book." "I am not going to put up with this type of knit-picking. Other people are as other people are. I can't change that, I don't want to and I have no time to deal with it." 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 3 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I wonder if it is the foreign workers not blending in or it also involve the foreign workers not being accepted by the domestic workers?" "I would try to help the person expressing that idea expand their perception to include other perspectives." "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "1" "4" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "29933de9bfb7d7bcc106dba28b8b4b8e535d718f1a4912a4e7c9903b216dd863" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I don't think open borders are the problem but also don't know what the problem is. I don't dislike foreign workers" "I think X would try to avoid any discussion with Y" 1 2 1 1 4 3 1 1 1 2 3 3 3 2 1 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "I would say that it is always easy to blame foreign workers. The system is wrong, not the people in the system including foreigners" "Confronting" "2" "2" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "4e2b9871d78b1f67d67653ead6308a95371354ff0e106069bab357f5392e56dd" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I think that may not be wholly true. Diversity is not only needed but is essential for operating effectively in a multi cultural world." "X would be against the hypothesis proposed by Y." 3 4 2 1 5 3 2 1 1 3 5 4 4 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "d5941de6e3cad39752c7810c2e9db5f58864d36d1554d2c3460be82454287919" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "if we didnt have open borders then we wouldnt have foreign workers coming here and causing any issues" "I am not getting involved with this argument, foreign workers are entitled to be here under current law" 2 1 1 2 3 2 2 1 1 3 4 3 4 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "we all have a right to be ourselves and try to better ourselves and our family situations" "compassionate" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "4" "3" "3" "4" "1" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "f3a02a6c4842a1b14f72a37d51901ed1492db8460615a988340c78e026dcbae6" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I'm sorry, I think that is an offensive statement that is sterotyping an entire group of people and you are probably inaccurate about those claims " "Angry, frustrated, not quite about it. Even if they reject conflict, I believe when it is this bad, everyone should speak up. " 5 5 5 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 4 5 3 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "cae24d1b7d9f0047fd94e7cf27d5787a7a8f0629b6f28a1bb439cd096d60c7db" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "Why don't we change the workers or better still find someone from our team that they can blend with" "X will try to act as if he doesn't know anything concerning the situation" 1 1 3 2 1 2 1 1 1 4 4 2 3 3 3 4 "No" "No" "No" "Let's have a conversation with them and teach them what to do to blend" "I would want to be more interested in the workers" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "b8375eb10faf7b708cddafcde6d9e33dcd94ef3fd3d2e045885180c8043025a8" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I believe diversity can be a strength for a company, because different backgrounds and perspectives can lead to innovative solutions. I'm confident I can help create an inclusive and collaborative environment for everyone on the team." "I did my best to remain calm and composed during the conversation, but my response showed that I strongly disagreed with Y's statement. I stated my belief in the value of diversity and my commitment to promoting an inclusive workplace confidently." 4 3 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 2 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "41c58cc8a42a5e51ab106adb2e39583062a34c9d9077e97360f467c38c1baf89" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I am aware that diversity might present certain difficulties, but I also think that having a varied team can greatly benefit our business. It represents a global viewpoint, which may be helpful in today's linked economic environment, and it also fosters creativity and innovation." "While keeping a composed and professional manner, I would speak with a purpose and a dedication to the principles of inclusion and diversity." 4 4 3 1 3 3 3 3 3 3 5 5 5 2 4 5 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "05aaba41e60fca13a7523266ada5232819630ed640778e12ce43f31a219e36bd" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "There shouldn't be a chance for them to not blend in. That mean there is issue with inclusivity in your workplace not with ""foreign workers""" "Self-defense. " 3 4 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "80ff568eb7fa87a4d707f6bae3b7e8f75f12235b0ad79cd7fd1dc6cbc6c4e983" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "i don't think that open boarders are a problem, foreign workers giveuse more labour force and we have to be accomodating and patient enough to let them blend well." "i would feel sad about the statement" 1 5 1 1 5 1 1 1 2 4 3 3 2 2 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "a2c4438dba0a0f504996040a4ddddbb3fab4ed8dc9c447229fa1370498cf25f5" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "This is not true, they blend in quite easily" "This would be quite shocking and it will be rebuffed immediately. " 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 2 3 4 4 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "59dae574644b307d7c391651c9add6c0ce2d8047f620c211d3b3493ebeddd335" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I disagree with you on that point. In fact, foreign workers have a huge contribution in British economy." "As usual he will be approaching with a combatant mind set, perfectly reflecting his attitude towards resolving a problem." 5 3 1 3 2 2 2 1 5 3 4 4 4 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I may say, ""Perhaps you are right, but it can vary from sector to sector.""" "Calm." "4" "3" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "2" "5" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "ee14ce4ac03bc46c0dea84b082063a93913a1458932375b87f35fa7203b19708" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "Diversity is not the problem here; it's a strength! Open borders and a mix of talents fuel creativity and innovation. Instead of seeing differences as obstacles, we should harness the power of varied perspectives. It's not about 'blending in,' it's about standing out and thriving together. " "X reacted strongly, confidently expressing their belief in the importance of diversity. They spoke with conviction and determination, making it clear that they disagreed with Y's viewpoint. X's response emphasized the need to embrace differences in a straightforward and assertive manner." 4 4 2 3 2 2 4 2 4 2 4 3 3 1 2 1 "No" "No" "No" "I completely support open borders and the idea of welcoming foreign workers. Different perspectives and experiences foster innovation and creativity. By encouraging open-mindedness and acceptance, we can create a thriving environment where everyone contributes their unique strengths, ultimately driving our success forward." "positive and logical without having prejudgement. Most of poeple who are against immigration are covservatiove , religiuos and racist." "4" "3" "2" "2" "4" "4" "4" "4" "5" "3" "4" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "round-3" "b009dbcac545b2a908d6f62ec84c5aff5707909af7c9459f4bba7387fe99d03e" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I believe those are two separate issues. Foreign workers are capable of blending in. I don't think the borders interfere in that situation." "I think X will try to convey their message assertively but not aggressively. X is in a job interview, not at a ball game, and will behave accordingly." 2 3 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 2 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "83a725908fd8fc710a49f4f9d18e589020130b1ac7f47d0120952c79fc15cdd8" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I would like to disagree with your statement. Foreign workers are very hard working individuals who will try their best to survive abroad. About the issues with foreign workers not blending in, it must be because of cultural shock that they have come across." "I was shocked to hear that as someone on that position should try to solve the problem rather than pinning it on the certain group pf people." 5 3 1 1 4 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 3 4 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "848c52ad74c29013ac497605528ad7758077b3c136b097b1227c3935b9cab903" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I don't consider that foreign workers are the problem. Maybe there is something in the company that must be done in order to improve their condition and hellp them blend into the group. " "I would expect to see an strong against reaction highlighting that the problem are not the foreign workers and rather the company is the problem. He would be very mad because a wrong conclusion was stated that would affect the perspective not only from the company but as well from Y. " 4 5 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 4 4 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "64ff32350500751b7b5c5fde09b270c2e2d3551ed8e89e85ccf8f629d914169a" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I completely disagree with that, I think that opening boarders is helping to diverse opinions and way of working. " "I think X has a strong opinion on his own about foreign workers and wants to state it providing an example." 4 2 3 3 4 4 2 2 1 4 5 5 3 2 2 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "27922e2ccbc005f13f023654d49996fb9a9ef4aed6a16f0f34f0c68fc6142baa" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "it not right to judge people because of their citizenship" "disappointed" 4 5 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "c4282b0fa51c10c9ad0507441c3abb1f3fa6168296145d83ed8ef037058419f1" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I don't think so, it sounds more like you're biased against them and didn't create an environment where they can blend in." "I disagreed with the CEO because he seemed to be biased towards foreign workers" 4 2 1 2 1 1 2 1 3 1 2 4 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "860ab22d7bbadcc045d1187c7b52d394c97a51e18c30a868d2648c9c7d799b10" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "You're discriminating others right now. Have you tried hard enough to help foreign workers assimilate? Have you tried putting yourself in their shoes instead of judging?" "I am outraged and offended by these remarks. I am willing to fight for these workers from ignorant people such as the one before me." 5 5 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I think we can also help assimilate foreign workers because they are hardworking and bring much to the table. It is easy to judge, how about make a change? Try and be empathetic, I am sure you would like the same for yourself from others." "I would be disappointed because the CEO is supposed to be a leader. I would have less hope in humanity and be saddened by these comments. I would also root for these workers to make it." "5" "5" "2" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "39f161f7327100b1e9a059204f6fc8bcedd5049b973466c8ee5e77e5db908b9b" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I understand the importance of cultural diversity, and I believe that having a mix of perspectives and experiences can be a tremendous asset to a company. Rather than viewing open borders as a problem, I see it as an opportunity to harness a wider range of talents and ideas, which can ultimately contribute to our company's success." " I would express a respectful and open-minded attitude. I would convey a commitment to embracing diversity and viewing it as a strength for the company. My response would reflect a willingness to engage in a constructive discussion about the value of cultural diversity in the workplace." 5 5 4 1 4 1 1 3 3 4 3 3 4 3 3 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "I appreciate your perspective, and it's important to acknowledge that managing a diverse workforce can come with its own set of challenges. However, I believe that promoting inclusivity and cultural diversity can lead to innovation, improved problem-solving, and a more dynamic workplace. It's an opportunity for us to leverage different perspectives and talents to drive our company forward in a globalized world." "In this situation, my response would demonstrate an open and diplomatic approach. I would express my viewpoint while acknowledging the CEO's concerns, fostering a constructive dialogue about the benefits of cultural diversity, and highlighting the potential for positive outcomes in the company." "3" "3" "3" "3" "2" "3" "1" "1" "4" "4" "3" "4" "4" "4" "4" "3" "round-3" "2871745d307ea8dd91a8fb0dd25456c3b91504b1d6e79ffd201e0e51b1dd1ca4" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I've had issues with local workers not blending in personally. Who do you think you are to be making such a claim, maybe you're the person who's causing the issues." "I'd be annoyed and angry that someone was generalising and making derrogatory statements." 5 4 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I'm not sure that's a fair statement, i'm sure you have issues with a range of people trying to blend in to the company culture regardless of their background. " "I'd be annoyed but also cautious at being too hostile to the ceo. It would be unlikely that i'd be dealing with him regularly so i'd try to be firm but not too openly aggressive." "3" "5" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "5" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-3" "3d087e6b430381734a62dc38357cf0a3427b5bc6d948f56d17ca192d99aa3f9b" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I appreciate your perspective. Open and honest discussions are important. Diversity can indeed bring its unique set of challenges, but it also offers numerous benefits, such as a wide range of perspectives and skills that can help a company thrive. " "I am diplomatic, because I am respectful towards the CEO, and I acknowledge his feelings without attackin it. I am inclusive, because I motivate why diversity in a workplace is important. I am positive, because I am focused on the good things that come from diversity and inclusiveness. " 1 1 3 2 4 4 2 4 3 2 3 3 2 2 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e3d0229910c228d1f19a8396d61118068d6db68fd00dd936a3a5ff333ab77429" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I can understand you are thinking that getting along with culture and language comes with callenging but this is not for every people. The world is for human beings and I am a good team player to contribute the project with the other team members." "I was calm and trying to explain the reality." 2 3 4 1 5 1 2 2 4 1 2 4 3 4 1 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I almost respond with same sentences. The character is so similar with my charcter." "Take a deep breath and try to be calm with conciosness" "4" "5" "5" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "5" "5" "1" "3" "4" "2" "round-3" "75ffcba4b8c8dd81510461c4a0b91c4a1087645c4a843a49550afcc5f69c3e36" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I understand the challengs that can arise with a diverse workforce but I've always viewed open borders as an opportunity rather than obstacle." "I understand the concerns you've mentioned but in my view when a diverse workspace is managed with care and respect, can significantly enhance our capabilities and even lead to innovative solutions" 2 2 1 3 3 4 1 1 3 2 3 3 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "a855629f219e39a93f8b23d492d004c0c3979e0de8f8feb98386903fc7af3fec" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "While open borders could be a problem there are also opportunities and benefits attached to open borders. And creating activities and trainings could also help integrate foreign workers " "I would camly profer solution to the problem the CEO has highlighted " 1 1 1 4 1 5 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "5c7bd0eac63f97d877384fa54ec2ad9df326b0a9e7a24bf129a8891376c42115" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "as much as i would have loved to agree with that thought pattern, i believe we have responsibilty of creating the enabling environment for foreign workers to put their best foot forward. " "my reaction is less confrontational and more empathetic" 2 2 2 1 5 4 2 3 2 3 2 3 2 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "0549ea724777192a0fd5503a50c18e253d1e833325ec654271ccd85b0b4128ff" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I understand how you and many others feel, but dont you think that sometimes people from other countries can also bring variety of view points. Even English people are vary varied in the way they do things, view points, etc? " "I would feel disappointment and a little frustration at this common attitude being raised again, and to have to defend myself again, without causing a problem." 2 1 1 1 3 2 2 1 5 1 4 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "7214054c9162a119f9d7b2fa275789974684931b4034954c3bdead70bae2cc8b" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "using one being a foreigner as an excuse for their failure is not what the company should be looking at rather finding a way to further the growrh of the company should be paramount." "x as an individual will be hurt by such assumption." 3 4 3 2 3 1 1 1 1 3 3 2 2 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "d93562434140e679d68bbf247dc3d6d7fa7340363972a0a32a10f64a4f77e5ee" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "A diverse workforce can potentialy be a strength for the company. Different perspectives can lead to innovative solutions which can drive the company forward. Perhaps, with the right leadership we could turn this challenge into an opportunity" "I took a moment to collect my thoughts as I wanted to convey my dissagrement respectfully and constructively and potentialy make the Y aware of the benefits of having a diverse team on staff" 1 1 1 1 2 4 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "185e756d72db7e6f6c3ef6375ff61bcaafb76174a90a70233167afba329bd18d" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "While foreign workers may have some downsides, they also bring a lot of good. They are new blood to the economy and contribute to its growth." "I was take aback by Y's comment. But I tried to steer the conversation to something more positive." 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 2 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "f0fea183353a07a6d69bd814054df0ec07cc1f5e321f3f836a24d94f90ba61e8" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "I understand that the topic of open borders can be complex and divisive. In my experience, diversity often brings valuable perspectives and innovative solutions to the table. " "I expressed my differing perspective while respecting Y's viewpoint, embodying the qualities of an approachable and open-minded communicator, as described in the character X's traits." 2 2 2 3 2 2 3 2 3 4 3 2 2 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "e57440eedf638a43ccfee97477ebbfe7e9537af2f00d44eb5ab1bb5c910d2cad" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "Perhaps if this is discussed with native and foreign workers it could bring to light the reasons why they are not blending in. I believe that the company could spend efforts to make foreign workers feel like they can blend in. " "Inviting for a discussion and open for ideas. " 1 1 1 2 3 3 2 3 3 2 2 2 1 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "051632703a17d40f3bcdcc612e276ab4940bf5af9e32b67933d5996e5934a0a8" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "That's an interesting perspective. Why do you think the foreign workers were not blending in? Did you figure out the cause of that?" "I would be slightly shocked that they said that but I would not show the shock at all and rather keep an amicable approach and try to ask open-ended, non-judgemental questions to investigate the underlying attitudes." 2 2 1 1 4 2 1 1 1 2 2 3 3 1 2 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-3" "7e6fabf229d006db4bedc24b78e4bce7ec7cd1ed2b4ea70bcf34954c9571bfcf" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "X is an applicant for a managerial role, while Y is the CEO of the company conducting the interview." "We need to more for foreign workers than just hire and train them. A more personal involvement is required to create a harmonious environment to promote team growth and unity." "Logical answer/reaction to a seamingly very surface like observation from CEO." 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 3 3 1 1 2 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "2b8d9e2bce62726cee72978dd257bae7b056263a34019cb65d102eec4755f2f2" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "I don't want to hear your ignorant views. Don't talk to me about this." "It is dismissive and does not allow for an opportunity to educate this person." 3 4 1 1 2 1 1 1 2 3 5 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "What you just said is really ignorant and exlusionary. There aren't two genders, there are two sexes. Gender is merely a social construct and some people don't identify with the sex they were assigned at birth, or maybe they identify with both sexes, or with neither. Just because you don't understand it, doesn't mean you need to say hurtful things about a whole, marginalised group of people." "I would say my reaction is less reactionary and has the aim of teaching person Y something, explaining why their remark is offensive." "3" "3" "2" "1" "5" "2" "1" "2" "4" "3" "5" "2" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "7dd5f44ca2d6719949da138f15ad3d9cba513155c69934936ffb7e6c804723dc" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "They arer not complicating things. I think the topic of gender is much more complex than you make it out to be and i would advise that you speak to someone from the LGBTQ+ community and try and understand." "I believe X's reaction was to try and correct Y whilst also diffusing he situation and encouraging Y to seek clarity/educate themself." 3 3 1 1 2 1 1 2 2 2 3 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "931ca8b8279d31c3a38a61b1d6e8a585b2473daa19bc8f116247f20e31d1d5fc" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "You don't know what you're talking about. I really don't agree with your unkind attitudes, and you're being stupid. " "I think X's reaction wouldn't be to find a middle ground or to necessarily try to get Y to undestand their point of view. Instead I think it would be avoid conflict by shutting down the conversation, while still communicating their disagreement." 4 5 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 4 4 2 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I don't think it's complicating things, especially as non-binary genders have been around for much longer than our understandings of gender have been. Gender is socially constructed, therefore we have the choice to construct it in ways that serve us. I think the most important thing is to be compassionate and kind to others, including those with different experiences than ours. " "I would try not to get angry or upset with the person making the comment, especially if they were a family member. I would try to open up a dialogue about what gender is, and prioritise communicating that it doesn't take much to offer kindness to others." "5" "5" "4" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "3" "4" "2" "5" "3" "round-4" "a907e21a69ef294c14c38f3a84d6a3238bef544c4b7e0d1c6e0d7829f6e8683e" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "But what is gender anyway? It's a fluid kind of thing and people should be open and able to choose to be what they want to be without being labelled as just ""Man"" or ""Woman"". It's not ancient times now come on let people be exactly what they want to be!" "He is a little annoyed that other people can be so close minded about gender. His reaction is totally justified in my eyes." 2 1 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 5 2 2 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f3ed49b80fd3a664fcd63fca87307ff6a1ceab504aa2ddcb8a23648bdf954cc0" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "That is untrue but I don't wish to get into a debate with you so I am going to walk away." "Feeling overwhelmed and not wanting confrontation " 1 3 4 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 3 1 3 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "973cad08ff714378c7a9c9819c1392feb838d482151c0a99e525341697e5362a" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "I cannot believe that you would say something like that. It is very closed-minded and makes you seem like a bad person. I personally like to accept people as they are, and I do not want to engage in a conversation with someone who is not accepting of others." "X's reaction was judgemental and a little harsh. I feel like he immediately shut down the conversation while ensuring Y knew how he felt about the situation." 4 4 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 4 1 3 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "28872c664b394fa0566035e8bd97873fdb8c77ae6fbbc88d988865d2d3e4dbd8" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "I don't agree with you, I feel that there are many genders and people can identify how they like. I do not want to discuss it any further" "They stand up in a confident way but ultimately ends the discussion" 5 5 1 1 3 1 1 1 3 3 4 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I don't agree personally. I believe there are more than 2 genders. I can try and explain if you like?" "More open to conversation and debate" "5" "5" "2" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "5" "5" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "c91472333fecc0a6422fed3ae6fa24cba1d6a94a938a655eab590dc6e20d0171" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "Why do you care? If someone chooses to love someone or idenify as something out of the binary it doesn't affect you and therefore you should have no opinon in the matter." "X's behaviour is confrontational yet firm. I directly addressed the claim I disagreed with and made it clear that there would be no more discussion." 4 4 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 4 3 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "0185d1af184cbc3eff4066c351f0042ae5dd66841f70510ad8ccf6b2e803adb5" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "You don't know what you're talking about. You don't know what other people experience so you don't have the right to talk like that. I don't want to be around people who find a problem in people living their own life. " "I would be very upset and immediately confrontational towards Y in regards to this statement. I think that I would dismiss their stance and not give them the opportunity to continue in order to move past the unpleasant situation." 4 4 1 2 3 1 1 1 4 3 4 4 5 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I don't think that's an okay thing to say right now; please don't speak like that. If you want to discuss LGBTQ+ issues, I can help educate you later in a more appopriate time. " "Although I agree with the previous X's disagreement with Y, I wouldn't want to be hostile at the family gathering. Nobody knows who might hear it, so I would want to educate or argue with them in a more appropriate setting." "4" "3" "1" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "2" "3" "4" "3" "3" "1" "2" "1" "round-4" "b11ad59ad380ab2fc9281f4c40c818110262f07c4f168fa705221db8f1f71da1" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "Don't say that! Why do you have to be so ignorant? People have to right to their own gender identity which exists beyond just two genders. " "X's reaction is one which comes from a place of judgement and frustration." 5 4 2 1 3 3 3 3 4 5 5 5 5 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "Just because you don't understand something, doesn't mean it is wrong or not real. You don't lose anything by choosing to accept someone elses gender identity. I think the least we can do is simply choose to express love and respect one another." "I'd hope my reaction offers a different perspective to the other person, without being too angry and arising a lot of conflict." "4" "3" "4" "2" "3" "4" "3" "3" "2" "3" "4" "2" "2" "3" "3" "3" "round-4" "7e4034df641c6f4221ba8f3b43a79b0019b290b646f4db79f2796ae492fc0ba4" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "Unless you feel like you identify as LGBTQ+, it is not really your place to comment on the complicatedness of it. Just accept it and respect it." "I do not neccesarily understand LGBTQ+ myself, and I don't really care. People all mean the same to me." 2 4 1 1 1 1 2 1 4 2 3 5 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "LGBTQ+ means so much more than whether there are two genders. It is not complicated to understand - if someone identifies in a certain way, it is valid and should be respected." "I would be annoyed, and feel like I was not equal or accepted at the table. I would feel consicous that I am 'different', and angry at Y's ignorance." "5" "3" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "4" "4" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "91517521adb9167d20d225d5bc67921d0ebd61378af2849e0c3d9080388de17c" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "Hmmm, but things have come a long way in recent years. I am sure the issue isn't ""complicated"" to LGBTQ+ people - they simply just want to be accepted for how they are, and how they feel. But I do understand why other people might find it confusing, especially if they do not understand it themselves, or if they don't know anybody who is LGBTQ+." "I think X's reaction is slightly passive aggressive: X offers a rebuttal to Y's comment and gets their point across in the interests of the LGBTQ+ community. However, in the interests of maintaining peace due to a dislike of conflict, X acknowledges Y's confusion because it is true that people ARE still confused about it. " 2 2 3 1 4 2 2 1 1 3 3 3 3 2 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "356e3d145f3d32b429fe00e11dc3f0cbea32ae0bba689b46afda4147fd78bc74" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "Oh, I'm not sure, I'm not clued up on that topic. I don't think there are only two genders but I'm not sure." "Totally avoidant, has an answer, however chooses to voice this answer in a very vague, non-confrontational way." 4 3 4 1 5 1 1 1 1 4 3 4 4 3 5 5 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I don't think it does complicate anything. I believe you are confusing sex with gender. Gender is a construct, and some people do not align themselves with the two genders, which I presume you mean to be male and female. It isn't complicated to respect another human being in their choices, so long as those choices are not doing any harm." "I think it is a more direct approach, hopefully challenging the view without being aggressive. I don't want to call Y out, rather help Y to understand." "4" "3" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "4" "2" "2" "2" "1" "2" "1" "round-4" "815c767dd1708912ec67ddff711e3ea10e1381c623c8eca4c67e8a9f58fcf803" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "Maybe some people dont identify or fit into either of those categories and that's ok. I disagree with your opinion, but we can all have our own experiences and thoughts about the world as long as they don't harm others. " "I would feel very awkward to stand up to an opinon I disagreed with, particuarly because I avoid any situations that are negative, or anything stressful, but as my sibling I should be able to show we can have different thoughts and it's ok to disagree or educate someone. " 1 3 4 1 3 1 1 1 1 5 3 1 1 1 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "It's not our life, so we shouldn't have an opinion on it, why do we need explanations for everything? Can someone not live their life labelled with things, and just be fluid, if they are happy then we should be for them." "I would say I would be a lot more frustrated but also educated enough that my sibling didn't feel it was just a direct attack just because I disagreed. " "2" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "round-4" "0d260368e84c624925b4d0f5fd7234457d8e79e1b74373b888da1cc60f0eb989" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "There are two sexes, male and female. But when people talk about gender, they are talking about identity and how they feel/wish to be treated. not their biology or physical atributes, but rather their identity." "Non confrontational and trying to educate rather than cause friction." 1 1 2 1 2 2 1 1 2 3 2 2 2 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "753f4f65ba5a4435a9669a6c795a9b31dc09d3daa958fe45711ec17a52eb1e57" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "I don't see why it bothers you so much, it's not like it has any effect on you at all, it's literally none of your business. People should be free to express themselves, including their gender, in any way they want and if you think otherwise you are an entitled bigot. " "It is slightly more explosive than it needs to be, and slightly more aggressive. It doesn't come across as wanting to change the other person's opinion, simply as wanting to berate them for it. " 5 5 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Well, I get that it might be confusing beacsue it's not something you have had to deal with personally. I don't think anyone is trying to complicate anything, just trying to express themselves in a way that feels authentic - how would you feel if you were told you're not a man, or the word didn't exist? I doubt you'd be okay with that, and instead you'd probably seek out a way to express how you felt. That's all it is. Even if you don't get it, I don't think it can hurt to go along with it, even just to be polite. " "I would attempt to be calm and rational, and explain to the best of my ability to see if I could get them to a point where they have a better understanding of the situation. I would also try to be understanding of their point of view, in the hope they would give me the same courtesy. " "3" "3" "2" "1" "4" "3" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "968ac2b871d557c0f188b4f37ac48da6af3323bd7072fab549d01be4ca3fb639" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "Why do you care so much how people choose to identify? It has no bearing on your life and you're just being a jerk." "I am angry upset by this person's attitude towards the LGBTQ+ community. My reaction was strong and quick because of my support for non-binary individuals" 4 4 1 2 3 2 2 2 4 3 5 4 2 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "0c0004275bedbc9dc760a8741555a91817af0be6958e71ae5a3119faaa9f994a" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "You have to be taking the piss. There's more than 2 genders. Why are you so stupid and not educated!" "Defensive and angry. I would be angry and defensive." 5 5 3 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 5 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "2f2cc6ba4f71afa7b72b0d9ad9730ef278b6fb6d4a383c7c36adb2fa7fd2c2c0" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "There are literally chromosomal mutations that result in intersex people. Are they not human? Do they have to pick one?" "I am passionate and confront the person on their thought process" 5 5 1 2 1 3 1 1 1 5 5 5 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "955007d9595ab718c84f79667b6b48d9e64bf42c8ab077ce558e08a60201f112" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "Maybe you should try and educate yourself then. It's easy for you to say that when you just identify as a heterosexual without considering how other people could be feeling. So ignorant." "I'm just shocked at how rude people can be saying they don't understand the LGBTQ+ community. No doubt they don't understand another religion or colour other than theirs to. Unbelievable in this day and age" 5 5 3 1 4 1 1 1 4 3 5 5 5 1 4 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "4bde575350be0d01bec639993075980b237c610200d6ed041412cd51230ffc17" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "It is not really about complicating things - it is more about biological and pshycological reality. Hundreds of millions of people are not attacted to the opposite gender or intensly identify with a gender different to that of their birth gender. The world is a complicated place it is is unfair to demand hundreds of millions of people live in misery to make things a little less complciated" "Constructive, well reasoned and respectfully disagreeing. Not a push over but not rudely dismissive - directly answers the person. " 4 4 4 1 4 2 2 2 2 4 4 4 4 2 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "1dba3f42d086b145c64ab041ea5a56daa9efbe0d185b87ef1dae3a6993fff6ad" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "When people tell you they feel a certain way, they don't do so just to complicate things. They are trying to communicate something they feel." "I am taken aback by what Y said. I know they will understand if I can explain effectively." 3 3 1 1 4 2 1 2 1 2 3 2 2 3 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "d69cdc28849c1f9e34523f35db047f8b296ec49f47d3192745d1af55537f819f" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "I think you are wrong. People have the choice identify as any gender they want" "I approached this in a liberal and diverse way." 3 4 2 2 4 2 2 2 4 3 4 4 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "89ab8d7e2e9d5343c81b83e85e0b40ec9e1fa393d7d98b0fe0bb1dff17e75746" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "I guess it can be a bit confusing at first, but I think it's worth learning more about. Even if you can't personally relate to LGBTQ+ people, it's still kind to try to understand their experiences and treat them with respect. They're human beings with feelings just like you, and I'm sure you'd want people to take the things that matter to you seriously even when they're not personally affected." "I'm trying to instigate compassion and empathy, and open Y's mind to alternative perspectives." 2 2 2 2 3 4 1 4 2 2 2 2 1 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b44bf5fa33873867962c3138d8d8969883ed2de60d0aa8ab5e36b6c660309aa5" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "I understand that it may sound confusing to some but you need to look at it from a different perspective. Some people are born and come to realize they feel different to others whether it be in regards to their sexual or gender orientation. You need to understand that not everything is easy to understand but the important thing is to be thoughtful to others." "I'm understanding but also trying to help Y understand. Y needs to be more respectful and think about it all differently." 2 3 2 2 4 4 3 3 3 3 2 2 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f1e94a158ef0bbd1c30cb23d6d5eb763a524038c5531a955d537061a7c2a82cc" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "I can understand why you might think that, but I disagree - there is strong value in the sessions." "They may disagree with person Y, but would not dwell on the topic and make it heated; they would disagree vocally but then change the subject." 2 2 1 2 3 2 2 2 3 3 3 3 1 2 1 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I disagree, as a straight person you might not recognise their importance but as a gay man they make me more comfortable being open and working here." "I'd be a bit disappointed but also probably unsurprised, having heard similar sentiment before. I'd try to be upfront but avoid escalation." "3" "3" "2" "1" "3" "3" "1" "1" "3" "3" "4" "3" "3" "2" "3" "1" "round-4" "b5ec61658703301a1eff2c45d670f5766f4e671f5e6e5b73a89b2e9a5e58830a" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "I don't know about that. I expect it's quite difficult to separate some of these kinds of things from work. We all have to live together, after all." "X disagrees, but feels unable to fully put forward their point of view, as they wish to avoid conflict and keep their own space." 2 3 3 1 4 2 2 2 2 4 5 3 3 4 2 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "5a7ff02795087350ae9f2119e079308662095ca04de26044beaecaeb3dcb47c5" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "Excuse me, please could you repeat that? I'm not sure why you feel the need to say that these training sessions are unncessary. In fact, I think they're extremely necessary. I'd be careful if I was you to not say that in future as you could offend someone quite easily. Your personal life definitely affects your work, you have just shown that through your reaction. Consider this a warning for your poor and inappropriate behaviour. Do not do it again." "X's reaction is firm and aggressive. As X, I need to get my point across in a stern way. " 5 5 3 2 4 2 1 1 1 4 4 4 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "Why do you think that they're unnecessary? Personal lives are very important and it's important that we respect all people regardless of their sexual orientation. Until it is embedded in our workplace culture, it is important that we champion LGBTQ+ rights. I'd be interested to find out how we can improve these sessions so that you don't feel they are unnecessary." "I would describe my reaction as calm and inquisitive. I would like to find out more about why this person has those views and what can be done to change this." "5" "5" "4" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "1147d4af9d54ded702776f8c55ee9f5bbee694d55c8fd067dcda8c58d8c5beb4" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "That's just part of life I'm afraid - sometimes we have to deal with things we don't want to. Just ignore it if you don't like it." "X is very dismissive. X refuses to discuss the situation or get drawn into any sort of argument." 2 2 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 4 1 3 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "This has nothing to do with personal lives. This is abotu making sure that all people are treated equally at work, and do not experience any discrimination. Awareness of LGBTQ+ people and the issues they face is important - and your reaction shows more work is needed!" "I am angry and annoyed with this person. I react quite harshly because I perceive them to be dismissive." "5" "3" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "5" "4" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "37dda8998fc22f8d83e1b881b0e110ce99610c6e2d978653649e5d1f7bc1ac56" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "I do not agree, I think these sessions are important and necessary and find them useful. However you are entitled to your opinion and I respect your views whilst not necesarily agreeing with them." "Annoyed with the individuals response but trying to tackle it in a way whereas to avoid any argument or conflict. Understanding the person tries to push negativity away and distance themselves from it." 4 5 4 1 4 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 5 3 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "664b21fd8ca525d851c5e7ac066abccb4f305019672a366bc57db9d368d6084c" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "Wells that a negative thing to say and frankly quiet ridiculous. Its because of comments like that we need these sort of training sessions. Now if you dont mind, id rather have my coffee alone" "Very direct and to the point. No need to mess around being polite. " 3 3 1 1 3 2 3 1 4 1 4 4 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f13c538206b3164ff92b43268dfa1fa7980b147f09e3d358101151918f935673" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "I can't say I agree with you there but everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I therefore respectfully disagree with you." "Defensive, believing in their point of view but without the confidence to express it and risk potential conflict." 4 4 5 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 5 3 3 2 3 4 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I'm sorry but you are not right. It is precisely because views against LGBTQ+ still exist and they are actively still discriminated against that these training sessions are very much necessary." "Frustration" "3" "3" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "5" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "2cf99c5cf32f2205e896ba808c8062aca14974f489ffadd1ec31fde0f6033b8c" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "That's not appropriate. I'm going to go elsewhere and let you reconsider your opinion." "Brief and dismissive. Slightly hostile." 3 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Because all aspects of people exist even when they are at work, and we need to be aware and respectful of diversity. What about the training makes you think it's unnecessary?" "Actively challenging harmful behaviours. Hopefully constructive." "4" "4" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "3fc243405b506b726dbb90a49994f2138b9f0b417c67aefc9877325bbdbabf43" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "well thats just ignorant! straight people psuh their sexuality in our faces every day with PDA and advertisements, why are you so dumb to thing lgbtq+ people LIKE MYSELF are any lesser than you?!? we face harrassment and hatred every day, learn to be an ally or shut up." "angry, combattive, i used agressive language and made it a personal issue." 5 5 3 1 3 1 1 1 3 3 5 4 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "615fc68f9854dd6c24041f23323261f430bfe3e990bbace26fe72ff6285bc5c8" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "They are humans like us too and its their choice to be who they are comfortable being and that is okay. Besides its none of my concern." "My reaction shows little to no concern about it, since its of no benefit to me (x) " 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "These training sessions are actually important, it will help in all of us colleagues cohabitating and working as one. So, its needed, they deserve that chance too." "I love people for who they are and would never discriminate." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "3eb0a9dd35684430d77576f36f63e384895186d27554e20b245d21825e35c1cc" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "Sorry, I've got to go. I have a meeting with the boss. " "The point was for it to excuse them from the situation by faking another commitment" 2 4 5 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 3 3 3 4 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "e6428d0575aad136bd2c837a7d55937b8a565a07df0f75f1c8245b47b6704ab8" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "It's not a difficult thing to take 20 minutes to be kind and caring and inclusive towards other people. And judging by your reaction you sure could use the help" "I'm upset and angry that this person feels like this is such an issue. They come across like an asshole when the whole point of this is to be kind." 5 4 1 1 3 1 1 2 3 1 3 4 4 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "94311e8234d91c908178470622217d98d8829672100720ada5977cb1ea53abd2" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "I disagree Y, I believe the rights of LGBT+ people are very important. I could report you for not being defamatory. " "X would be direct and want to put their authority forward" 4 4 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I have to disagree with you Y. I believe it is important for people to learn about the issues LGBT+ people face in the workplace so that we don't behave in a discrimitory way" "I would be disappointed but use it as an opportunity to inform Y of why they are wrong" "3" "3" "1" "1" "4" "3" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "b961ff79e2887b254c54211f389abffa6c594f34d15774cb545741008f8e7e99" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "I don't see why this is an issue, why do you feel this way about this? I personally feel that these aren't overbearing, and every individual should be able to speak and think freely. I would appreciate if you kept your comments to yourself next time." "If they can think and speak clearly, so can I! They lack understanding of double standards, and so do you. And do you have the same problem as them, what's your opinions on this? I bet you are just like them." 5 5 3 1 3 2 1 1 1 5 4 5 5 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Surely, you aren't serious. In this day and age, I find it vindictive and utterly cumbersome, immature that you voice these opinions so proudly, and lavishly. You're a moron." "Get lost! I'd have you know that I have a right to my own opinion. This is what this country is lacking, it's changed all these years!" "3" "3" "3" "4" "3" "2" "4" "2" "2" "2" "3" "5" "2" "3" "3" "3" "round-4" "029a85896a65a7ed1c35c6c507378e56229935e1fd9b69ca34cac51ed7627301" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "What makes you say that? Do you feel your time is being totally wasted?" "X has probably heard this reaction before." 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 1 1 2 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I agree, it's just a box ticking exercise we have to put up with." "I honestly feel that these matters should be kept out of the workplace. I am also not in favour of the trans agenda." "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "e6264d30f179bcf360f29c3f077f78a8918a659b26c7f36afef54990399eff7a" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "Do you think so Y? That isn't something we agree on, my view is that we have a social and professional obligation to be inclusive at work and understanding how we can accomodate minority needs works for all of our benefit in the long term and unites us as a team." "Non argumentative, clear and direct about the disagreement, providing non judgmental responses." 2 3 1 1 4 4 1 1 3 4 4 4 3 4 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "bcfd1ecb056624defeed359633f385cb467ea9c3d328940231ee06a1384c8e06" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "I think it is good for everyone to just be informed. We are also getting paid for our time, there are worse thing we could be doing." "Calm, straight to the point, kind" 2 3 2 1 2 2 2 1 2 3 3 2 2 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f16fe2725ab97066d93b77a7c24e71e1d251b68ffcd98fd9c43fc59848df2dc5" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While I get where you're coming from, and it may be the case that one's sexuality does not necessarily apply to the workplace, acceptance does. It is possible that these training sessions help LGBTQ+ employees feel more welcome, and it teaches straight employees to be more accepting of these co-workers or even LGBTQ+ customers they may interact with on a day-to-day basis." "I believe their reaction to be in calm opposition, pointing out the positives of the traning sessions in order to convince character Y of why they may be beneficial. They construct a valid argument instead of attacking character Y directly, while expressing understanding (but not acceptance) of character Y's position." 2 3 1 1 2 4 1 1 2 1 2 3 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "5714ffb0d80d621be0bedf4600960bf8e61993f41963b74d5c8eea53f1187881" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "I don't think so. I don't agree with you - it was like this during our school days, people just couldn't be as open about it. " "Wanting to disagree without encouraging negativity. X would be dismissive of Y's opinion." 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 4 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "3eb7aa9423639a34a8d6cc5d56940c679c37e09c0bc796f29c2d0e4626ad2d4f" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "I don't think so. What makes you so sure that the visibility of gay people is just more noticeable? There are more or less the same amount, you just paid more attention to them due to media." "X is taken aback, and contemplates. X would think about re examining his biased views." 3 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 2 2 1 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "438abc969b17d39e5c632f5df18d6b5ec0993d76296f7e2034e3442c510dbbc7" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "I've noticed that people are more comfortable being themselves. Isn't that great?" "He is rejecting what that person was hinting at and subsituting positivity. " 3 4 1 2 3 1 1 2 4 1 2 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b765e2911bdb375562d92558f439117f14fd1800fed01e696aa27c0f77b6c9d0" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "I haven't really noticed to be honest. I don't think there are that many really and I don't know how to tell. I don't think it's that different from our schooldays." "I think X would continue to disagree and would become more insistent in an argumentative way. I think X would express disapproval of the situation" 4 4 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 4 5 5 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "It's not something I notice that much. We're all people and we all have our own lives to live. Live and let live." "I would be unconcerned about the make up of the class reunion. Everybody should be free to lead their own lives in my opinion" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "4" "3" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "dd8bdb3e2ce5f1c698b64d09ade614783a5dfdcb77de38a6e765b691a269fd29" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "I totally disagree with what you are trying to imply, please be quiet " "Upfront and confident " 4 2 1 1 2 1 1 1 3 3 4 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "990cded74f9f6e3f7ce4ce461ec52280caee0d7027404c3ca4c93062b56c6890" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "Please dont say such things man, theres nothing wrong with being gay. Whats your problem? we are living in the 21st century?" "its a perfect reaction. its not too confrontational but also he is making the point that its wrong. its a great reaction. " 4 5 2 1 5 2 2 1 1 4 4 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f06104546c8a2a8a1fe0690ef11fdac679fd665abc4e32df40f0499c1b9c5796" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "To be honest I did not notice that but that's probably because I have not been paying attention. But since they don't seem to be hurting anyone I don't think it really matters." "X reaction inside would probably be in some shock that someone would say such a thing but would not want to show that type of reaction. X would not want to make to big of a scene with their reaction but still give the impression that they don't see a problem with Y's concern" 3 4 3 1 3 1 1 1 2 2 3 5 5 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b5562ac51c629c6432be3c68ec910fd112710545c7e6bce53d87b5368c71a029" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "Times have changed and so have people. " "Awkward, uncomfortable and offended" 4 4 4 1 4 2 2 1 2 4 5 5 5 3 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "59fb9dd9f79392f259fd0f87798b2ae8479bd96a0ecc4c65b699f06b50bd37d2" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "No, I hadn't noticed. Maybe I just haven't been paying enough attention. " "I don't want to directly disagree with Y because I want to avoid any possible conflict. I want to validate their point to also avoid conflict and make them feel like they are more observant than me. " 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 2 1 1 2 1 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Maybe people didn't feel comfortable enough to come out at school, and now that they're older, they're more comfortable with who they are, and don't want to hide it. " "I want to explain why there might not have seemed to be many gay couples during our school days. I feel like Y is suspicious and I kinda just want to explain so they might feel less hostile or something. I think my reaction is neutral" "2" "1" "2" "1" "3" "3" "1" "1" "3" "2" "4" "3" "2" "1" "3" "1" "round-4" "cda2d5911c5fefe5d8650ddc6c3015d9dbc7991707a9306522f7c9873605d955" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "Well thats not a nice thing to say is it? Why would you even say that, its ridiculous " "Confusion and not knowing why they had said that but expressing it angrily" 4 3 3 4 3 3 3 4 4 4 4 4 3 3 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Well thats not the case is it? Why does that matter" "Anger and confusion that is expressed in the wrong way" "4" "5" "4" "4" "4" "4" "3" "3" "4" "4" "5" "4" "4" "4" "4" "4" "round-4" "1e8716cf64454894c157172ba87c588e4b67ead1fbe65c1f25820e10a597a695" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "You're a bigot and bad person. Your opinion is wrong, and you should be ashamed." "I believe the response would be overreactive and assuming about Y's political stances. I think X would immediately jump to Y being a bad person, even if Y was just making an observation." 5 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 4 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I think people are more accepted in society now and more likely to come out. It wasn't that there weren't any, but they can be more open now.'" "I would try to be understanding and defend my stance while also ensuring Y doesn't feel attacked. I think a lot of people are ignorant, not hateful, and should be educated." "2" "2" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "f3b817453422b761346a6b9b0e6203dafc8aa2e046d97c53f6a8fd125a875d75" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "Yeah, I suppose people can change as they get older. It's probably because it's more widely accepted on TV and such. " "My reaction was in opposition to Y's but I cloaked my response in reasoning, rather than out-right disagreeing, to avoid conflict." 3 3 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 5 3 4 4 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "49e7a31f0bd806b17526070bdd30c5317b391639e74a7558f30accfb4301cc23" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "That's extremely presumptious of you. How can you say there weren't gay couples in our school days? Maybe there were lots of gay people but they hid their partners out of fear of snarky comments from people like you!" "I am very opiniated and stand-offish, always looking for ways to argue my opinions. I have strong beliefs and when I hear something I disagree with, I'm not afraid to fight about it." 5 4 1 2 2 2 1 1 3 3 5 4 4 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I'm not sure what you mean by that, and that can come of as offensive and ignorant. I'm sure there were gay couples back in our time who were unable to be open about their relationships and I am very happy to see more gay couples feel comfortable these days." "I would come from a perspective of assuming Y didn't mean to be offensive and educate them about why they shouldn't say things like that. I would be understanding and patiently explain." "2" "2" "1" "2" "2" "4" "1" "2" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "182b5bc3b6821de7cc4582950f5047c0d055ffe32abbcb758f6b871505d890be" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "You have to understand that it wasn't easy for people to come out as gay back in the days. People are more comfortable to come out now that they are older. You have to place yourself in their shoes to understand." "Their behavior is concerning and disagreeable but doesn't seem ill-intended. They seem misunderstood and doesn't know that it's not easy for people to come out in the past." 2 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 1 1 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "c9c74037e4a7e2b307f6abd46b2802386671cced14047336053136e25360823b" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "Yes times have changed now. I think more people feel comfortable in expressing who they are." "X would want to stand up for LGBT people. X would try to do this calmly." 2 3 1 1 3 4 1 4 5 1 1 3 3 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "ef613fb0c87e136964be6b2c660cb01ddbac2ee027ad0aace9635d2084f2f12c" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During our school days, Y, people were forced to hide their sexuality. Things have changed for the better, and most peoples attitudes have changed. You need to change your attitude. " "Calm response, but firm. Told Y that his attitude needs to change." 4 4 2 2 4 4 2 3 4 3 5 2 4 3 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b48d986431d4355760b28d98dae60b75075599784a359f4418da79e4029d9f28" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "You're right, it wasn't. But it's refreshing that they can feel comfortable enough to be themselves nowadays." "Reacting to the friend's word diplomatically, but subtlety letting them know how they view the situation." 3 2 3 4 2 4 2 3 3 1 4 3 3 1 3 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "5c5a2f3ca3eca0224018bfc458e44b4450b894243c643f84f2eccd208c50c3d3" "contact" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "I would say that the number of people who are gay hasn't changed, merely that more people are able to be comfortable with being open about their relationships. There is certainly less discrimination and prejudice today compared to back then, and that can only be a positive thing in my view." "That's an interesting observation, but it seems to be motivated by outdated principles. Perhaps they do not have all of the facts, which would lead to this line of thought." 1 1 1 2 1 4 3 2 3 1 1 1 1 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "e9fb08a6b232dc0d4cfc5b95d3d90092f11ca7f083fe5b96b91b36f48a86c89c" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "I don't know how I feel about that, can we talk abotu something else" "avoiding conflict, may change the subject of the conversation as to avoid any confrontation" 3 4 5 1 5 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 4 5 4 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "i feel that gender is not the sex assigned at birth, which I think that is what you are referring to when you say there are only two." "acknowledging what they said but explaining how my point of view differs from theres and what new information is available " "2" "4" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "4" "4" "3" "2" "2" "round-4" "faa08356836891aaea42f04bfa4ac6a0bb909b5ae1ecd3fb0bc51b0d2508e263" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "I find that opinion really offensive. You are so thoughtless. Just imagine being born into the wrong body -- for flip's sake, sort yourself out, get an opinion, find out what's right and wrong here. You disgust me. " "Not very helpful. Whilst I personally agree with them and I think Y is lazy and needs to actively find out more, its like saying, I just don't get this racist thing, attacking Y isn't going to help. It would be better to ask what they don't get, try to answer their questions and concerns. " 5 5 1 1 4 1 1 2 4 4 5 4 4 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "1fb30d0ab23427fdc8c3f8b6e4ab5143f933aed108a7ef81bc6e3720bf0a0bd3" "attack" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "You're a closed-minded bigot, too stupid to know better" "He's hostiler, repulsed by the attitude of Y" 4 5 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 5 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "The current science disagrees" "Reasoned and calm" "3" "3" "2" "1" "4" "2" "1" "2" "1" "2" "3" "2" "2" "3" "2" "2" "round-4" "4c7a968fb564db5a571cc10de71feb1764fdf3167c746de0dd1e03d0cbe67df4" "reject" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "How other people choose to identify has no bearing on your wellbeing. People should be free to express themselves however they please, in as complicated or simple terms as suits them, so long as it doesn't harm others. Your negative outlook says more about your character than anything." "I'm annoyed by the blatant fishing attempt to gather negative opinions that reaffirm Y's exclusionary stance on LGBTQ+ affairs. It's not a topic that HAS to matter to everyone, but it's reductive to call issues that are extremely important to other people ""overcomplicating"" things. I wouldn't want to actively engage in this debate, but I am interested in shutting it down quickly and cleanly." 2 4 1 1 3 2 1 3 3 2 4 4 3 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "54576f79ddeeae580be41a453d7cc06609985accfb656bf65e0ae66416b8be5c" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "Thank feels like an ignorant and uninclusive thing to say. We should encurroge the training sessions as they benfit people at work live." "I feel as thought X in my mind has a justified and understandable take on the matter " 4 4 1 1 2 1 1 1 4 2 2 4 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "783ed490c92f8cf25a2a34e639e2f21b1ff344a82425cb90e1259512d597c85d" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "I don't know, I don't mind doing them, but I understand they can take up a lot of time. Anyway, we don't have a choice so there's no point in complaining." "Trying to change the topic, not explicitly disagreeing with Y." 3 4 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 4 4 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "060b83ae5edee51b6e966ab7fa79878de459b43cf4353db7c2cdb1eaf29317df" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "So you're telling me no one here knows if you have a significant other whatsoever? No one knows if you're single or not? I find that very hard to believe. You sure you want everyone to keep their personal lives out of work, or just the ones that aren't straight?" "I feel like I'd be logical, applying how it'd most likely be one rule for one group of people, and a different one for another." 3 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "4532a2ee2e5e24cb2e0316d3cb2e03f1e3ab16c1150cbaf6a8364baeb99d7401" "distance" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "i do not agree with what you have said, everyone should be treated equally " "x would not be happy with what was said but is not a person who enjoys conflict so would take alot to say his true feelings back" 5 5 5 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 1 1 5 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "9321bdef39ed1fbca08de08289d3484adb96e713cb662f5798d1954aa9318f56" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "I would point out the fact that workplaces already cater to the personal lives of employees and the argument Y is putting forward is rather facile and frankly hypocritical. Things like paid parental leave, bereavement leave etc all fall within the domain of ""personal issues"" yet workplaces must account for them because they effect and can have a profound impact on the well being of employees. Equally, training surrounding LGBTQ+ issues in the workplace is necessry to ensure entrenched discriminatory views can be managed and mitigated not just for employees but also for employee relations with customers and the wider community. " "I would say my reaction is measured but still vocal in countering my co-workers argument that training regarding LGTBQ+ issues is unnecessary. Certain uninformed arguments regarding these issues often come from a place of blind privelege and rather than getting too worked up about it I think a more informed yet strong rebuttal is more useful." 5 3 1 1 2 1 2 1 4 3 5 2 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b39fc41a07b8eaa95f70b85994652456d3f15d6edf7336a771a9b1be39a9f07e" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "I just don't think this training is necessary. I think it's making a big deal out of nothing. They talk about experiencing discrimination or hate, but to be honest I haven't seen any so I don't know what they're on about. I hate that we have to go, but it's not like we have a choice, but I wish we didn't have to." "I am dismissive of the need to have LGBTQ+ training. I don't want to be confronted with the reality that LGBTQ+ people are treated with discrimination/hatred in some parts of the workplace and as a result, am trying to convince myself that this discrimination doesn't exist because I haven't witnessed it. I don't like that having to confront these issues is impacting my emotional wellbeing and state." 4 3 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "People deserve the right to be respected regardless of their sexual orientation. There are too many instances in the world and even in the workplace where there are micro-aggressions and comments directed towards LGBTQ+ people, and this shouldn't happen. I know you don't think this training is ncessary, but please try and listen and engage yourself in the training." "I am assertive because I openly disagree with Y and state my opinion on the issue. I am also open and considerate of Y's emotions because I tried to empathise with them (understanding that their reaction is valid) but I urge them to consider the training and why its done in the first place." "3" "2" "1" "1" "3" "3" "2" "1" "3" "2" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "de23535ecbe0c9fef772ae502c54089fb8685c6764049532105dc139c3185506" "attack" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "Y you are completely wrong. People in the LGBTQ community have experienced discrimination in the workplace for decades. People need to be aware of this so the current generation can stop this cycle." "I'd be very angry and feel that Y was downplaying the difficulties LGBTQ people have historically experienced in the workplace. I'd want to put Y right on this issue." 5 4 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 4 4 5 1 3 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "718335925e2332d2b4bd6f72f7b0ef38b7640c36870442d760bb7779e3515c14" "contact" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "Personally i don't have a problem with the sessions, i understand you may have a different opinion and thats okay. We all have different likes and dislikes in our lives." "While i don't agree with Y i think my reaction is one that avoids conflict while acknowledging the opinion of Y in a non combative way." 3 2 2 1 2 2 2 3 4 3 4 2 2 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Fair enough but i don't understand what the problem is exactly, i think you should do the training session before deciding its unneccessary" "My reaction is immediately defensive while also avoiding conflict as i feel Y is being discrimanatory of LGBTQ+ for no valid reason." "4" "4" "3" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "4" "4" "3" "1" "4" "3" "round-4" "1ccf77d42564edc09d2e245226f44433d6bab0f55b4716b4b734f1fdef58caee" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "Because sex is a tricky thing. I never felt write being identified as A or B" "Sad, withdrawn, complicated" 2 3 5 1 5 1 1 1 2 5 4 4 4 4 4 4 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f7ec51ff3840e406905ddac76a46c97b7a43eaf355d4a80cfabc735c25b36acf" "contact" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "The more I know about it, the more I see that other people have different life experiences! You probably meet people every day who are trans or non-binary, but you don't even notice them because, like you, they are just getting on with their day! Live and let live, bro!" "I can sympathise with his viewpoint and biologically - he's correct. But if people feel the need to question their gender identity and identify as the opposite sex, or non-binary then that is up to them and I can totally support that." 1 1 1 3 3 4 1 4 1 1 3 1 2 3 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "0e178ceb09ffb9dd25b91f3b49d7efad0104b9cf513eeb9bd6a9d5da9fe1091a" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "it has always been like this, y. you're an ignorant ass." "necessary. y was being an ignorant ass with that uncalled for remark" 5 5 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 3 3 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f0d9abdc81471bbec99e1e3057532937c324f7f9ffe582766160bf9bb845a32f" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "Perhaps it wasn't know to you. People have always been themselves, although now it is less stigmatised." "X's reaction was to push it back on to Y to reconsider their own views. There is also the undertone of changing levels of acceptance." 4 4 1 1 3 3 3 3 4 3 5 3 3 3 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b9e82a01f239345cd0a7ec769aef9c9b9688ee8fca6f02aa1114cec79839b06a" "attack" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "What on earth are you talking about? How dare you say such a ridiculous thing at our class reunion!" "X is shocked and appalled that Y would say something so bigoted. X reacted with anger to drive home their disapproval with Y's statement." 5 5 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 5 2 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "4d033bae5dd5cda79fa76297e19088fa3a76df6a8594192d4bc104eb5f270ae4" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "I disagree, Y. People have the right to love who they choose, and it's wonderful to see diversity and acceptance in our community. Let's embrace the progress and celebrate love in all forms." "I calmly and confidently express my disagreement with Y's statement, emphasizing the importance of acceptance and celebrating diversity. Despite Y's judgmental remark, I will remain assertive in promoting a positive and inclusive perspective." 2 2 2 2 2 3 2 3 3 3 3 2 2 2 2 1 "No" "No" "No" "I disagree, Y. People have the right to love who they choose, and it's wonderful to see diversity and acceptance in our community. Let's embrace the progress and celebrate love in all forms." "I would describe my reaction as composed and assertive. Despite encountering Y's judgmental remark, I remain firm in my belief in acceptance and inclusivity. I express my disagreement respectfully while promoting a positive and inclusive perspective." "3" "2" "2" "2" "3" "2" "2" "3" "3" "3" "2" "2" "3" "3" "2" "2" "round-4" "31e294553c22d5ef7ea7bb5893bc3f46952e5c4e8f0940ea04fc11843c0d3ed5" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "Is it ? I feel that it is good that they are able to express who they are and not need to hide from their identity." "Straightforward and to the point about how X feels " 1 1 1 2 2 4 2 4 4 2 2 4 2 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b83d34a206f8f8eff411d58b7c6070e5a39b20c3aa141467af0bb119135b9e83" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "I don't know whether that's true, anyway, how are you? How has life treated you? " "Avoidant, x would try to avoid the situation and not be drawn into an argument or debate" 1 1 5 1 3 1 1 1 1 5 3 2 3 4 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I think it's likely there were as many gay couples as there are now or at least gay individuals, high school isn't always a safe place to be yourself but as people age they learn that who they are matters and shouldn't be hidden away. I'm glad there are this many people who are comfortable enough with themselves to not only be out but to bring their partners with them tonight. " "I would want to calmly explain that people develop in who they are as they age and with that comes confidence, Y may not be being homophobic they may just be noticing a trend, therefore I wouldn't want to react in a fiery manner, I would want to understand what standpoint Y is coming from. " "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "1" "1" "3" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "14e16a26fb2dc4fa774312951ef74bb66b941461d2f4b1719f07e18b3ec969b3" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "i mean the world has progressed and we more acpcting as society so people are rightfully more open " "try and remin calm but say people are allowed ot be who they are " 4 3 5 3 3 3 2 2 2 2 2 5 2 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "i would comabt and say well people are rightful more open these days and everyone has the right to epcress thier vaules. The reason why world has progress is becuse people unlike yourself have become more open minded and accpting " "I would challnged every stroytype the classmate has and also stand up for what i believe in " "5" "5" "4" "1" "4" "2" "2" "2" "4" "4" "5" "5" "1" "4" "3" "3" "round-4" "f9dd216235325298cce47f5b8e50ffeb708ef07c7bbdf74b05fab9b368912193" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "I didn't notice no. But it shouldn't really matter." "I would probabaly as an avoidant person just try and shrug it off but also being LGBT just put it out there that it should not matter" 4 4 4 1 4 5 1 3 4 5 5 4 2 2 2 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "7c7a89c4963fa8156cec9e8441009cf5e4d697a63e260c1420991cb7f2b2bf92" "reject" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "Of course it was, there were tonnes of gay couples then." "contrary" 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "ce7f649d526d3e827c80f7fd11a5b188c338b08b7551db5ac72b1a2ae7af1576" "distance" "lgbtq" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "During the reunion, Y whispers to X, ""Have you noticed? There are so many gay couples here now. It wasn't like this during our school days.""" "Hmm, maybe, but maybe they were all quiet? Maybe there were many gay kids at our school, but they didn't want to be bullied? Remember how everyone got the stuffing knocked out of them for being a bit different back then?" "I think he would be confused and unsure. But not be too judgemental or create hatred based upon those comments. He probably would correct and quickly change subject." 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "1ef76386955f8c71501deab92e6a1cf5a304d5e66a8ea3cd7d0c9195482841c7" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "I don't think the LGBTQ+ training sessions have got anything to do with anyone's personal life. This is obviously just training to make sure we use the right language and attidues to people who are in the LGBTQ+ cateogry. I don't believe this is going to negatviely impact your life by doing a few training sessions." "I think this is a fair reaction, explaining the training courses for what they are and making sure to support the LGBTQ+ community in the response. " 4 4 1 4 3 3 2 4 4 3 5 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "7300adf103b50fcdd52dd383e6209dc495e0127312cacd066021d989361759ad" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "Oh, I think it's more complex than that. I'm no expert so don,t take my word for it but I'm sure we could find material on the issue and learn about it. " "I don't want to be attacked on my personal beliefs so I'll stay vague about it but offer some information on the topic." 5 5 5 2 5 2 2 2 3 4 4 4 4 1 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Oh fuck off, this has been explained so many times, so much works has been done to make sure people like you could tget it right. You just don't want to get it. It's really not that hard." "I'm so fed up of this convertion. Over and over again, they just try to get a reaction at this point." "5" "5" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "5a1286c6e4fd7670f7fe976d216dafeba4559846f40570c03e72057635859073" "distance" "lgbtq" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "While discussing recent events, Y comments, ""I don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing. There are just two genders. Why complicate things?""" "I disagree with you on a fundamental level, and do not wish to engage if you cannot take the time to become more informed on the subject, nor do I wish to discuss it further, but know that you are not correct, and it is supported by science. If you 'don't get it', then you are not informed enough to have such a strong opinion that is detrimental to others, without having any specific bearing on your life. " "I would say my reaction is firm, and to the point. I tell them I disagree, do not wish to discuss it, and they need to educate themselves before making harmful statements after openly admitting they 'don't get this whole LGBTQ+ thing'." 5 5 2 1 5 1 1 1 2 3 5 5 5 2 5 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "613ad335e53aeb157088864fca7b0713a27a66801d219a2495e06b7a77ff5545" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "I don't believe that you understand it is important that we take the time to appreciate the differences in sexuality, so it is super necessary to have an open mind to learn about other people's culture, so you knopw what is right and wrong, and you don't land yourself in hot water. This is not only important between your colleagues, but also our clients who may identify as LGBTQ+! " "I would be very taken back about such comment, especially given how open sexuality is nowadays. " 4 2 1 1 3 1 1 1 3 2 5 5 2 2 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "8e8cb21e9dc3a8a52ea2727c6b77b0eab9b674b7c0a89beed94ce0cf0f920b21" "reject" "lgbtq" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "While having coffee, Y says, ""These workplace LGBTQ+ training sessions are so unnecessary. Why can't people just keep their personal lives out of work?""" "It's not about keeping personal lives out of work- it's about ensuring that whilst at work we're all accepting of everyone " "I'd want to both confront and dismiss their comments at the same time " 3 4 2 2 4 3 2 1 2 3 4 3 2 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "6124b4a46af7e6d3c54fce0b6d729d209700734a3a28780adeeb3e49d417495b" "reject" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I think that you're carzy! Legalizing all drugs would increase access and lead to more addicts." "I think this is terrible approach to this problem. I prefer to keep them illegal and not think about it." 4 4 2 2 2 1 2 1 2 4 4 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I think that drug abuse is a health problem. We should spend more money on treatment." "I think that this a great idea. I would be in support of doing this." "2" "1" "1" "3" "2" "4" "3" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "3204a9c2757c3fafdcb6a6b1c6221ba4fbf83468f26361717c6a197be5b7f564" "distance" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Umm, I really don't think that's a good idea. We have several schools in the area with hundreds of children who attend. Not punishing any drug related offences sets a bad precedent for children as well as putting the community as whole in a hard to navigate situation." "I would say stunned silence. They are appaled by the suggestion. They feel it would directly impact the safety and well being of her children." 5 5 5 1 4 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 4 1 4 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "085e61aff2d575da834b45b0f3a8c540795149cce41587a07230a64c77fa96a2" "reject" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "i dont want my children to grow up where drugs are freely available, give me an example where this has worked well." "Angry and confrontationable" 5 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 3 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "0a103de33e3006cbd962c7006eb3c9fa9ca90a5294126b4173be9471f16f80c9" "distance" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I'm not happy to follow that assumption about drug use. I won't be engaging in a debate with you, and I won't be voting for you." "I am being closed minded and avoidant." 4 4 5 1 3 1 1 1 1 5 4 3 3 1 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Can you backup that statement with research data. What approved channels are being considered to help addicts." "I am not being dismissive of proposal. I am remaining affable, reasonable and assertive." "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "4" "3" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "e2d2ad8b4006b98fd18783a78b59c4468d2d6a9df9501fa5d05dd86b0be65a88" "distance" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Has what X said by Legalizing all drugs would cut down on crime and help manage addiction better through official channels. That will be a great disaster to our community let's reconsider your opinion." "Mr X was Surprised and tried to revert the opinion by talking in a cool manner for more understanding." 1 1 5 1 5 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "0a5dde32590fbf0a037d180c9a9f0864a0ec714f8280b45f1e95c36073db8d81" "reject" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I completely disagree, drugs are bad the T.V. told me so." "Conservative and disagreeable but not willing to engage in anything that might challenge their perspective so will try to shut down any attempts of reasoning." 4 4 2 3 3 2 2 3 4 4 3 2 4 3 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I completely agree with you, forcing vulnerable communities like people with addiction issues into the shadows increases the danger to them and the rest of society." "A logical response to an important question taking into account all of the available research and examples that I am aware of to make an informed decision." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "3" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "round-4" "700b606e20fd880cf2d0e4c6fd0ae847809cd6a2ae70a0c0c7e084640e3f99ba" "distance" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "legalizing drugs will be like adding fuel to fire ,it will cause the addiction to surge and it will be uncontrollable in all circumstances " "i am not agreeing on such unreasonable proposal,i would feel powerless to make a change ,i would feel disgust not knowing how to show my emotions against such situation." 4 5 3 1 4 2 1 1 2 1 4 4 5 4 3 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "80e4c0f826526eedd7c87a899f789cf471a6213e5668c48e9fd4f12507e85581" "reject" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I disagree, as a parent I do not want my child to be exposed to the realities of drug abuse from the legalisation of these substances. " "My reaction is very reasonable due to my strong opposition to the statement. " 3 4 3 1 1 3 2 1 4 2 4 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "bdb618790cd7ecf5334e746786301a853be89b4ca6eed72d5fd19eed7f883db8" "distance" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "As a parent myself, I am against legalizing all drugs. Managing addiction requires professional help. " "My reaction is being upset about legalizing addictive drugs. " 5 5 5 1 5 3 1 1 1 5 5 5 3 3 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "270a8d811c965c04cb0d2e5369012b6af2e5ae126c48602fa6045da72b2a6de4" "distance" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I do not agree with this, but I don't think it is up to me to decide. I would rather my children were sheltered from drugs. " "My reaction is distant from the situation, while still making my opinion known. It is quite neutral." 2 2 4 1 3 2 3 1 1 4 3 2 1 4 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would go a step further and suggest that drugs were made and sold by pharmacetutical companies. This is so people will be safe and can access the drugs they need cheaply rather than resorting to crime." "My reaction is completely different than X. I do not disagree with Y but would rather the policy go further." "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "4" "1" "1" "3" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "36e57268012a5eaf94adc8aa92a00b59b70d55edf0bb5cabf3a552b28d74c37a" "attack" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Are you crazy! Legalizing drugs wil only make it easier for people to get high, and the next thing you now you will be giving them drugs for free. You must not be a parent, if you were you would never had mentioned it. " "X is angry and thinks legal drugs will just make it worse. X fears that children would be at risk, and the political person has no idea and is not a parent. " 5 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I know it may sound like a good idea, but do you have any studies to support ypur claim that crime in our neighbourhood would decrease? Do you have any children adn do you think it is safe to have drugs sold on the street corner?" "I think I would be calm and collected. I believe that that I was reasonable for requesting facts to back up the statements. " "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "2" "3" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "fcb88b956dc8d99834b4aeae08b363aa1392d2088fd12fa802cb674423606ac7" "attack" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I think that was one of the dumbest things I've ever heard in my life. Could you imagine what this world would be like if we if we made drugs illegal, how rampant people would go, how much more problems we would have with the drug addicts and stealing and robbing people and taking belonging to them, blocking them? If you lost your mind? you seemed to have only gotten half of that right Now you figure out what half of that is and then. get back to me." "Person X, I thought it would be a good step in the right direction. I know it won't. cure all of our problems overnight or. in the long run, we're not sure this is all experimental is something that we need to be open minded about because what we are doing is not working right now." 3 1 3 2 3 3 4 4 3 2 4 4 1 2 2 2 "No" "No" "No" "I think before we all jump on the bandwagon, we need to do some sort of testing to see which direction is is possibly going to go. My initial reaction with the agitation. that these people just don't think right." "I too would be a little frustrated if things were not moving in the direction I wanted them to move. I can't get people to see what I need them to see. to invest money into this project." "4" "4" "3" "4" "5" "2" "2" "3" "3" "2" "4" "3" "1" "3" "4" "4" "round-4" "d89a0cc126afae2c7a0f38ee20174e40cb046e8a757ff79fc786d53ac7b09c9c" "attack" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I have no idea why you'd say such a thing. Do you have no clue about the damage that drugs does? If they were legalised, people who have no access to drugs generally would and addiction will spiral. It's a bad enough burden on the healthcare system to treat addicts as it is, and you want us to set the NHS up to failure by legalising all types of drugs?" "X's reaction was blunt and didn't really allow Y to express their point because X responded in an aggressive way" 5 5 4 2 4 1 1 1 4 5 5 4 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would say that I agree and the legalisation of drugs in Portugal and the related statistics show how well it does work. It also would ensure that substances were not tampered with or tainted as they would be sold in a controlled way so could prevent harm like that" "curious and in agreement" "2" "1" "1" "2" "3" "5" "4" "1" "3" "2" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "769b40b9911550bfd1c898c1d281eb44bc2f85d5ed80f75cf5448907b441c1f4" "attack" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Legalising it wont do it any good anyway people will still use drugs whether they are legal or not. This won't help my kids!" "X is an aggressive person who speaks before they think first. They don't care for much else and think that whatever they say is the right way." 5 4 2 1 3 1 2 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 2 2 "No" "No" "No" "This won't help children, legalising drugs will just allow them to access it easier and make it more like alcohol, it is a psychotic drug." "I would say my reaction is well thought out, factual and calm. " "2" "2" "3" "2" "1" "4" "5" "2" "5" "3" "4" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "9fe8abc6aa49bf6663720a0d9069ebc20c410a7be6bc762a4e09904bc649a4df" "attack" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "You don't know what you are talking about!! I totally disagree with you. As a concerned parent you will cause major trouble. " "I am being totally agressive to stop this guy, I don't want my kid in this kind of environment. " 5 4 1 1 1 2 1 2 4 4 4 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would like to talk to you about your views. I believe you are wrong. Can we discuss this like adults?" "I would be angry and mad. I would be frustrated. But I would not be outwardly agressive. " "5" "4" "3" "1" "3" "3" "2" "1" "4" "4" "5" "3" "3" "2" "3" "3" "round-4" "b5005c7fa79f3dbf03f63be64db3af0db94041f2954fcc8e93ef9d8b4e1f9823" "contact" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I as a tax paying citizen , am against legalizing drugs of any kind, and think by doing this would cause more harm than good." "I am angry, upset, and feel like i HAVE NO POWER OR CONTROL OVER THE OUTCOME OF THE SITUATION." 5 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "47eae9723dbae329e88306a2d379a425b04248789e21ad18764596ef3e236560" "contact" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I would not like my child to grow up in a place that drugs are legal and easilly accessible" "I would be angry and also disappointed in the politician for even entertaining that idea, as a parent i would not want my children in such environment" 5 4 4 1 5 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 4 3 3 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "fe5bc028d22f8a60d96fbf2b0548d48f8ce23f027d75597d859e31ba49c7597c" "contact" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I agree on the need to cut down on crime and help manage addiction better but what is the proof that this will help if legalized? " "X agrees with the outcome but not sure if legalization is the proper tool " 1 1 2 1 1 3 1 2 1 1 2 3 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "1c02bf935c645de650856e6bf194ea1a7482813d6470b02d7e8e493f326662c2" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I would have to disagree with you as I have seen noticeable effects on the war on drugs. I'd love to hear though, why you feel it has been ineffective. Tell me more about why you feel that way and the approach you would like to see." "Clear and concise but open to hearing the others perspective and feelings." 1 1 1 1 1 2 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I would have to agree with you. I haven't seen a great amount of change as the result of the purported war on drugs thus far. I agree a different approach is needed." "Agreeable and open to ideas and discussions." "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "532c8ea966e46c16de7cd999655b9154dea189117fbbaabd362624f1a99c8814" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "The war on drugs, in my opinion, is relatively effective. The harm reduction approach, though viable, also goes a long way to help mitigate the war on drugs." "My behavior is calm and i am open minded to all situations." 1 1 1 3 1 4 4 3 4 2 2 1 2 1 2 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "7979037d66940da5334e04d0bf2af838d4b6c2aba9f33c8bb4bd3fb2a14e2162" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "Im sorry but i would have to disagree with your assessment that the war on drugs has been ineffective, The main aim of the war on drugs already encompasses harm reduction by way of getting the major drug dealers off the streets and into jail therefore stopping the supply of drugs, Hostels have been set-up and treatment clinics for those looking for a life away from drugs and many iniatives have also been set-up to help those in most need." "I would describe the reaction as boastful, standing on a pedestal and not really understanding the situation as they have most likely never been i nit." 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 2 4 4 3 4 3 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would react differently because i agree with Y so i couldnt write something that i agree with." "honest and too the point i have lived the life and seen first hand the war on drugs does nothing." "3" "2" "1" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "round-4" "8c528ee48f1749b4ffad8689e86e50742c58e6188e2deaf4ad7bcd04c41f92e4" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I can one hundered percent see where youre coming from due to the ineffectivity of the war on drugs implying that a new strategy be applied. However, I will say that harm reduction will only reduce harm, not the consumption of drugs. To be able to fight the war on drugs, drugs need to be seized, manufacturers/growers/suppliers need to be arrested, therefore the drugs and those supplying it are gone, meaning a reduction in the consumption of drugs. This may be a good point for us to discuss and you to think about." "I would say I reacted calmly and constructively" 4 1 2 1 1 2 2 1 3 1 4 2 2 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I can understand your extensive knowledge on public health and the insights this may provide you to the war on drugs, however your point is not all encompassing. To reduce harm is not reducing the sales or production of drugs and therefore is innefective and may actually encourage drug users to use more. By providing a safety net when using drugs overdoses may be more common too." "Calm, constructive and evaluative " "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "2" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "b78798b3a947e37ff22e48e5803adc44f8fb221be7bc581d9a71ecada48fced0" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I think that we need to look at the wider impact of The War On Drugs. I think it could be said that the many years of debate and public conversation around The War on Drugs has led to more conversation about harm reduction methods, which is obviously a great thing." "I think X's reaction is diffusing any tension. However, I think X's reaction is a cop-out." 2 1 1 1 2 4 2 1 1 2 4 2 2 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I think you are totally right, and I think it's a crying shame that it's taken us so long to arrive at that knowledge. There has been so much money to be made, and saved, from not adequately addressing addiction that our governments have paid it lip service, and demonised users." "I am in total agreement with Y. I back them up and go further in exploring the topic and giving my views." "4" "2" "2" "1" "2" "3" "2" "1" "1" "3" "5" "2" "4" "2" "1" "3" "round-4" "715d05e029e2e428e04c3aed9b01fe7c62627fc72bdadeec058c4bfe9cea4e87" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "While I do not share your opionion on the war on drugs, I think we must keep fighting drugs as I see that we will win the war." "I see your point Y and it does not seem like the war on drugs is one we can win." 1 1 1 1 1 3 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "89e449ba23a6ec42b4cffee77baafdb58f54865b0db11c3c86ed05f80063195e" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I can certainly see why someone would think that to be the case--there's certainly evidence out there that a punitive approach does little to serve the overarching problem. However, I'd challenge you to think about things in a larger, societal way rather than what works best strictly from the point of an individual drug user. What sort of deterrent is purely harm reduction to be? And without a deterrent, won't that lead to more users in the future? Additionally, you've got to consider not only the drug use, but the behavior around the drug use--often criminal." "I'd be thoughtful, considerate, and look at the argument made piece by piece. I'd be calm, and presume that the other speaker was acting in good faith." 1 1 1 1 2 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "932b81193b5f4cd8f9f7af92f1ed87d74aaec2e71208d08fa00022e213855337" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I have heard that this approach encourages drug users to continue taking drugs. I have heard that harm reduction does not help addicts get off drugs." "I believe this reaction is naive and ignorant. Evidence shows that harm reduction saves lives." 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 2 4 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I agree Y. Portugal is a great example of harm reduction. There are also cities in the world with safe injecting rooms which have reported no overdoses." "My reaction is based on facts and evidence." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "69ef1a0318af11a21a59be4019c2807b26613770850ef1a7c3bc7d207b46e7f4" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I respectfully disagree with a harm reduction approach. I'm city after city, these types of programs have shown little to no effect on drug addiction or overdose statistics. Just in the past week or two Oregon has given up their drug legalization experiment and decriminalized most narcotics due to increased number of overdoses. Harm reduction enables addicts, not help them. " "I think X would be very genial and non-combative while expressing his views. He wouldn't come right out and tell Y that he or she was incorrect, but be firm in stating his beliefs. " 1 1 1 1 2 3 2 3 2 2 2 1 1 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I totally disagree. Give me one good example when harm reduction programs have actually reduced overdoses and deaths, in particular since the opium epidemic has started up. They simply don't work. They just enable people that don't need cuddling but tough love." "I think would be a little bit on the offensive. I would state my case as a matter of fact, and then challenge Y to prove me wrong. " "2" "1" "2" "1" "2" "2" "2" "2" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "cc68499c701412e830aa93b33ba36958e63f8ef5a85479578072cf27990cf6d2" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "It is my belief that the war ondrugs has een effective. The harm reduction approach's viability adds to the success on the war on drugs." "My behavior is calm and i am open minded on issues." 1 1 2 4 2 4 5 5 4 1 1 1 1 2 1 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "23420dbc36d280e644dbcf5906568766eb277cc9d1a7cff4dc254ac9f2479563" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "Now that is an interesting assertion Y. I must say I have to politely disagree. The War on Drugs has actually proven to be quite effective. " "X's reaction is a bit of surprise while politely expressing their belief that they think Y is incorrect." 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "That is a good point you bring up Y. I actually concur. The War on Drugs has indeed been a failure. " "I would feel pleased and in agreement " "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "4" "3" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "247c83768ae3c4f1a88ba10c4d439cd8f65dafe86ee9b35c43b88d2a26d62a5d" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I've actually heared some people argue that the war on Drugs has been successful for reducing drug use and crime. However, i completely disagree and i'd be interested to hear your thoughts on that. " "X listen's intently and uses a relaxed and open posture." 1 2 3 3 3 2 3 4 3 2 4 3 3 3 2 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "277d16a52fb3ed314c5349910d1486f69dd9d928d685669b53f5d7a4af388163" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I think what you are saying is quite not true because over the years, there has been massive improvement in the laws related to drugs on war to make sure everything goes on well." "I will feel very unease and worried about such topic been raised." 2 3 2 5 2 5 4 5 4 1 1 2 1 2 1 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "4f1dc5c83ce1cbb57674488544add2799e9cfc6104a7f31194a332a8ab327531" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I appreciate your views on this matter, and I am very open about your take on this. " "I think X’s reaction would be open, tolerant and respectful to views of Y. " 1 1 1 3 2 3 2 3 2 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "9369474de8319c98e9142f47f0d6935af4c6213e474848a64c28ab02a190ce35" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "i believe they should be punished for what they did, although i do respect your opinion. " "x's statement is direct, respectful, and clear. it acknowledges y's statement, and also keeping respect between each other. " 1 1 2 4 2 3 3 4 5 4 4 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "6654880097dfa6e9f4ff294868d725f14dd2d431c9b3fd26f8c65d700f0986b1" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I can see how treating drug users is better than punishing them, I don't feel decriminalizing all drugs is the answer though. Heroin and methamphetamine are much different from marijuana and mushrooms." "I feel X would be open to more discussion. I didn't dismiss his thoughts." 2 1 1 1 1 2 2 2 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "5fd18cdbca5c5f86a1f5e598ae4bd3fdf3da41a556a82b93ad78abbe9decb829" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I don't necessarily agree with that idea. While I think we should help in finding treatment for drug users, I don't think drugs should be decriminalized. I think it sends the wrong message about drugs, and may lead to more people trying them." "I would describe X's reaction as calm, even-keeled, and reasonable. While he disagrees with Y, he does so in a respectful manner." 1 1 3 1 3 1 1 2 2 2 3 2 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I agree with you. I think drugs should be decriminalized and we should focus on treatment for drug users, rather than punishment. There are far too many drug users in prison when they would be much better served in a rehab facility." "I would describe my reaction as calm and agreeable. I agree with Y in this instance, and I explained why I agree with Y." "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "4" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "faaf74b530364ec02fb2df34b8f12a34e2c3a0ef034de836f097bcb9f4887c0e" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I don't agree. I live in a downtown area where drugs are decriminalized and have seen first hand the negative impact that it has on the neighbourhood and society as a whole. Drug users congregate near safe injection sites and are often homeless and have mental illness. Regular citizens get scared to walk down the streets. When they overdose they are given narcan and immediately go back to using. They often refuse treatment and other resources that are offered to them, and prefer to stay in the streets and use drugs. I do agree with you that the idea behind the move is well intentioned, however in reality I don't think it will work as intended. " "X understand's Y's viewpoint, but they have a differing opionion. They state their opinion confidentely, but not agressively or using personal attacks against Y. X explains their experience with the decriminilization of drugs and the negative impacts they have observed. They end their reaction with a positive statement so that Y knows they are not trying to be argumentative or condescending. " 2 2 3 1 5 1 2 1 2 4 4 1 2 2 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I disagree with the decriminilization of certain drugs, because there is not enough research to show that it has a positive impact on users and society as a whole. There are certain countries that have decriminalized hard drugs, but they have a different culture than our country or province, so it is hard to compare. I am open minded but I think that there should be consequences associated with drug use due to the level of fentynyl present in street drugs. " "My reaction was based on my personal opinion and political beliefs. I tried to be understanding to Y but I did want to tell them that I disagree for reasons based on facts and evidence. " "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "2" "round-4" "4ac0a1ecdbd18d3920d335c62d55dd4141a62e7103c99d8922e1cb796d4d442c" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "Well thats's nice however i dont think that is the most effective approach because when people are not been punish for drugs this implies that you are making the substances legal (Which is as harmful as you know), again the rate at which people will go into the crime and let's not even talk about addiction, alot of things that will cause caos." "I won't look angry rather look calm and tackle the issue amicably" 1 1 1 2 2 3 3 4 3 3 3 3 3 1 1 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "fa413abeb8a88b1ae6c9c94fcf545ec2fdc50621e9828a054faae7537480001a" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I see where you are coming from, but I am not as sure. I feel like if drugs were decriminalized, would the problem become more widespread? Is there a way were punishment and treating users could be used hand in hand?" "I think X's reaction is reasonable and would engage the person. This would let the person be heard and yet feel more able to discuss their viewpoint without feeling the need to get defensive." 1 1 2 3 2 3 3 3 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f5bfc77340da2a5bd831a618bef6360eccefe5fb6baa6b3b5de6a505bdfd0eab" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "Although the punitive approach may not wrk, just freely letting them use won't help addiction. Sure, they have the opportunity to get help, but how often would that be successful. In addition, who pays for all this help? " "I think it counters Y's point in a respectful manner. It also includes a few worries and concerns. It's hard to articulate such a broad argument in a small space. " 2 1 1 2 3 3 3 2 1 3 2 3 1 1 1 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "I know simply punishing drug users won't solve the problem. They need help, treatment, either medically, socially or educationally. You can't punish away a genetic issue. Harm reduction is a must. " "Complimentary and agreeing " "1" "2" "2" "2" "4" "5" "4" "5" "4" "3" "4" "2" "2" "2" "2" "3" "round-4" "d4ebd870919dfe565c51c77e25b8520e63080999a8242eab19b29fca2d537f7c" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I believe that drug decriminalization can have its drawbacks, as it may send the wrong message about the risks and consequences of drug use. I think it's important to find a balance between treatment and prevention while still discouraging drug use." "X's reaction is calm and composed, yet firm in their disagreement. " 1 1 1 3 1 4 4 4 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b505e83db7443bfb66d95bb4d5f93c6da71863ccee90983cf3659ff3b52defd9" "distance" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I am not in agreement with this claim and I feel uncomfortable with both the idea and with discussing this further. I would prefer not to engage in conversation with you any further on this matter. " "I felt uncomfortable hearing Y's suggestion and wanted to remove myself from the conversation with them. Drug use is a topic I am very concerned about, in particular when it comes to young people and protecting my children. I don't think there is value in engaging in a debate with Y. " 2 4 4 1 5 1 1 2 2 5 4 2 2 2 4 4 "No" "No" "No" "I firmly disagree with the notion of legalising all drugs. I think the legalisation of some drugs, such as cannabis, or at least less harsh legal consequences for the use of drugs like cannabis would be beneficial but to legalise all drugs will a) encourage drug use without consequences and b) demonstrate (espeically to vulnerable or emotionally immature young people) that drugs are not harmful. I am surprised to find a local politician such as yourself proposing such an idea but I would also be interested to understand what research and data you have supporting your suggestion. Do you have that information? " "I am pretty outraged and disheartened by the suggestion and find myself in an argumentative mood, particularly as a parent who does not want my children to be given the impression that using drugs is ok, let alone sanctioned by our politicians. " "5" "5" "4" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "5" "5" "5" "3" "2" "3" "round-4" "e40137c5c2fc4f43b1ef4d64310abf63ae4c75b62565af99e9b70289528d0201" "distance" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Drugs should not be legal. They should be taxed." "Calm" 3 3 3 3 5 2 3 3 4 3 3 4 3 3 3 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "981cc200ff220c01139132d673d6d79899e1fa506aa73084a8c250719b4e8783" "reject" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I don't want to listen to this. Drugs are bad and should never be legal." "The reaction is unreasonable. It doesn't consider any part of Y's argument." 4 5 4 1 2 2 1 2 3 4 3 5 5 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I think it's an interesting idea. However, I am worried it would make more people try drugs." "It listens to the argument. However, it is still in disagreement." "2" "3" "3" "2" "1" "4" "3" "2" "2" "3" "4" "2" "1" "2" "2" "1" "round-4" "fb7f9ba8569463195e71b045dbe681d44080e966d266645a4e04a48dd378225c" "reject" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I would not agree with legalizing drugs regardless of these arguments. Legalizing drugs would interfere with my wellbieng and the wellnbeing of my loved ones through availabilty increasing" "I would describe X's reaction as very to the point , it doesnt leave much room for a counter argument, it is very closed " 4 4 2 1 1 2 1 3 5 2 4 3 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would agree with drug legalization even tho I do believe drugs can be bad in some cases. People should be able to make there own decisions in life. Drugs would be safer to consume if they where monitroed and made correctly without being cut with anything on the streets" "I would say my reaction is more open then X. It argues for legalization even tho I can see reasons for it being banned but make a point for the other arguemen. it is more open " "2" "2" "1" "2" "1" "4" "2" "3" "3" "2" "3" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "7d3aed00a5593642b33ee8a9d31e76233e35e74b7a0c7a2bcb5a39b28e762b9c" "reject" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Im soryy but i do not agree with you. Legalizing drugs would just create more problems" "i would be quite firm in my reaction" 2 5 3 1 1 1 1 1 4 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "Im sorry but i dasagree " "I would be quite nervous" "2" "2" "3" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "a1bc6a94bcb69066bc0bd07a262fc8751e757fc997e257fc4a9dcc6b5388cdd7" "attack" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I think you're wrong, It isn't going to stop crime at all. What is ridiculus idea. I'm a parent and if drugs were made illegal then there is a good chance my children will try them and become addicted. Are you going to pay for their rehabilitation?" "X would probably be a bit red in the face and waving their arms and poining a lot. They are confronatational so won't allow a response." 5 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 5 5 1 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "This is a complicated subject and often drugs are a by product of a disfuctional society and poor parenting and economic inequality. This isn't something you can just trow a peice of legislation at and hope it will solve the issue but need looking at from all parts of society as it could cause more issues than it solves." "Listen and ask questions without getting over emotional and confrontational." "1" "1" "3" "1" "4" "4" "1" "1" "3" "3" "5" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "d3564740c6eb45d9352ed6588b814f70c6327b7e66452d02d188aeae4cdcdac4" "attack" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I disagree strongly with your proposal, you dont know what youre talking about!" "X is outraged and very mad at the proposal " 5 3 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 4 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "Im concerned with how the use of drugs would be managed and how it would be kept away from children" "I would be scared and have many concerns" "3" "3" "5" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "4" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "85aefcaf711d6cc3da580eb177c096ae164236fd4acce34d3e01acebda99c6bd" "distance" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "This should not happen. I am a parent and do not want drugs normalised." "I feel very angry and annoyed that this was even suggested. I will not let this happen. " 5 5 5 1 3 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 5 2 3 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f1fade068a5b3bdbdbfb307860a1346829517b889cc067845af017b13562ea48" "attack" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "How can you justify legalising drugs and helping these criminal scumbags? That would put our children in even more danger! you have not got a clue about the real world, you idiot!" "Very knee jwerk, defensive, aggressive and critical." 5 5 5 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 3 2 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I disagree with your proposal completely. Making drugs legal in society would result in even more people becoming addicted and committing crime in order to fund their addiction." "Very straight forward and logical." "4" "4" "5" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "5" "5" "3" "4" "4" "round-4" "a4cdb322d29fbf35b6cae4a3bd75ab2a13a611481aa229bad3c4cacd0b46eafa" "distance" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "although i dont agree with you i value and appreciate your view on the subject and need some time to process your view and would like some time to think it over." "i think Xs view is rational and deflective to protect themselves." 3 4 4 1 2 2 4 4 4 4 4 3 3 3 3 3 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "7f26e57a62dd787ab1aaaa508d12061c8aa61f9e9de66c0f78701ab22b5f2495" "attack" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Do not be stupid, if you legalise drugs they will be accesable to our children and they will be hooked using pocket money at first but then stealing to get high. People would come to work high and we would lose control with the amount of filthy druggies about" "An overreaction" 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 5 5 4 2 2 1 5 5 5 "No" "Yes" "No" "I would say i think it is a good idea for certain drugs as it would reduce dealers and crime from smuggling and drug lords. There could be places people go for hard stuff under supervision but i think amounts for private use bought at a store would work" "easy going" "5" "5" "5" "4" "5" "3" "4" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "round-4" "9723fd376045e6d74b149f4de7e4cf6544ec7db6d8d6ce8f6289b05889c57fec" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I don't think that approach will work, people who use drugs illegally need to be punished. Not having consequences could result in more people using drugs which is bad for society." "I disagree with my friend thinking this would be a good move. I don't think treatment will help the problem as much as punishment." 4 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "It sound like it might be a good idea, however I think decriminalizing some drugs might create more drug users as well as criminals trying to sell even more dangerous drugs illegally." "I am looking for potential problems with decriminalizing drugs." "1" "2" "1" "5" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "2" "2" "4" "1" "1" "round-4" "8cb1bf97dbaf6ad65d377113bea41cfb498bb85d7f2a8c26d7b54a0e555aedc4" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "Well you would say that as you're quite weak really. I don't agree with that, those who do drugs are in the wrong and should be punished, they can't follow rules then they need to deal with the consequences. Anyway, lets not focus on boring things like that. It's lovely weather outside isn't it?" "I think X is dismissive and pushes away Y's idea. X also judges Y as weak based only on their opinion which X doesn't agree with at all. X doesn't even try to think it over or get more information. " 3 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 3 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I appreciate and respect your opinion on that but I don't agree. I know why you might think that way but it's not just about drug users. There are also people who are hurt by crime like kids and businesses. " "Empathic and understanding but clear on my own point of view, I also gave Y more to think about. " "1" "2" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "e38365ddd3519d0aae61d92da7ab7aae13671e11bd214e4b877d7e8c84cb0ebc" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "We really need to get drugs off the streets . They are dangerous " "Yes we do. Drugs are becoming a bigger problem than anything else " 4 4 2 2 4 3 3 2 3 4 4 4 4 3 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "4f5bf2b6fc122d7ffdf1573838c101f983bd9307fa5ed3faf78fbabb213edf57" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I want nothing to do with drugs. I don't want to be around people who are on drugs regardless if its legal or not. I will continue to live my life and surround myself with people that arent on drugs. " "Confident and dismissive" 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "36199476ec1633fc53a4e8981c63f1a2a0c156f443d44e5ffb3ef199de669c70" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I respectfully disagree with that idea. As a Bangladeshi teacher in the UK, I firmly believe that legalising drugs would send a detrimental message to our young people in society. It undermines the crucial efforts we make in schools to educate and protect them from the harmful effects of substance abuse" "x's motto in life is do not let anybody interfere with your wellbeing and X does not like negativity. x is not having it " 5 4 4 1 4 2 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 3 3 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "78d6e4484904144e4f3ebf98c419787d1da19e97dbf7a46e7247210a0f81a2d6" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "i don't agree with that decision. I think that sends the wrong message to drug users and drug dealers that they won't be punished for their actions." "I think the reaction is widey agreed upon by many and very debateable. And it's my personal opinion based on my life exeprience." 2 2 1 1 2 3 2 2 1 1 3 3 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "442bf7eb538cf2ba4f96200027192d3db8a0e961de0442f25932bf2b19346877" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I don't agree with it. Drugs need to remain illegal. " "I would shift uncomfortably in my chair. I would have a quick response but quickly change the subject to something we both enjoy." 2 3 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 3 4 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I would tell him I don't want to talk about it and not give a reason. If a topic makes me uncomfortable I change it without context." "More straightforward than X, but polite. " "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "2" "4" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "df7ed32266c65ad9e3179fac570305881922cd803f60fda717a7b463c9a553aa" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "Drug abusers should be penalised, decriminalizing drugs is not a good move for the government and society at large" "calm and straight to the point" 1 2 1 2 1 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "c1c08a1782ed9dde25087a1627b31d7ef4a3c5be856c03cc7de0be279f7b46f7" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "oh, well thats interesting. i wonder how that will turn out" "i would say much as i dont agree with them. i wouldnt start conflict " 4 4 4 1 4 2 1 1 1 5 5 5 2 3 3 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "i agree that some drugs should be legal, while others shouldnt. drugs like weed and oil should be legal but not drugs like coke" "i would say my opinion" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "5891ec2fad78cb3ac297b8fa41ec65c44c16daebeccaa863bb913996be2b7c10" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "X I might say I understand where you’re coming from, but I have a different perspective. While the idea of treating users instead of punishing them seems compassionate, I worry about the potential consequences. Decriminalizing drugs could possibly lead to increased usage and addiction rates. This is bad" "As X, I felt a bit uneasy when Y brought up the topic of decriminalizing drugs. I prefer to avoid controversial discussions, but I felt it was important to share my concerns." 3 3 4 1 2 1 1 1 2 4 4 4 3 3 4 4 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "c0c8576bad9d264264863bddb199a6a15abf8ab7553fee1d9b9cc632efeec3a3" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I personally do not think it's a good move and i'm not intrested in talking about it" "say one or two sentenes and try to end the discussion" 1 5 1 1 1 3 1 1 4 2 5 4 2 3 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "i really do not think it's a good idea" "shocked" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "3" "5" "1" "3" "2" "1" "round-4" "36328dec43c7129135e9d06cbff4aaf6bb67b646853fc0c4423dc4c448cfb489" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "Though I'm not sure if decriminalization is the best course of action for every nation, I can see why some people could view it as a step in the right direction. I tend to think that modifying laws is not the only thing needed to solve drug-related issues. It's a complicated problem with long-term effects on society and health. However, I would rather not to linger too long on such serious subjects. What if we change topics and have a lighter conversation?" "I calmly diverted the conversation away from the contentious topic, indicating my discomfort with discussing such weighty matters. By subtly steering the conversation towards lighter topics, I maintained my preference for emotional tranquility and avoided engaging in potentially uncomfortable discussions." 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 3 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "6c94aa5a5bf1f45a13d59e9de21d65e320d610df9f8d20b8a6656e1aa23054c4" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "Decriminalization may be viewed favorably by some, and that makes sense, but I'm not sure it's the best course of action in every nation. Changing laws alone is not, in my opinion, the only way to handle the drug problem. Deeply ingrained societal and health ramifications accompany this difficult issue. That being said, I would rather not get too attached to such serious subjects. How about we switch gears and talk about something lighter?" "I politely steered the conversation away from the controversial subject, expressing my unease about talking about such important issues. I stayed away from potentially uncomfortable conversations and upheld my desire for emotional calm by gently nudging the discourse towards lighter subjects." 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 3 1 1 1 1 2 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "cec7009b7abd681cb5261a3877787f70fde7b78e4136d177244478fbdc144fcf" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "Well, I can see why decriminalization may be viewed favorably by some, but I'm not sure if it's the best course of action in every nation. I tend to think that altering laws is not the only thing that has to be done to address the drug problem. It's a complicated problem with broad societal and health ramifications. Still, I would rather not become bogged down in such serious subjects. Let's change topics and discuss something more lighthearted." "I politely sidestepped the heated subject, expressing my unease with talking about such important issues. I kept my inclination for emotional calmness intact and avoided getting into potentially awkward conversations by gently nudging the discourse in that direction." 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 3 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "ae192a0f1277fa82582a439b796e265358e0124e4457ea7d4e268521571d8279" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I kind off don't think it should be legal though, some drugs are really bad for people. " "X would just be a bit disappointed about the law and that his friend agrees with it. " 3 3 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "Oh that's good because people do drugs illegally anyway but at least now it's legal and it can be safer as well. " "I could be a bit happy " "1" "1" "2" "3" "1" "2" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "779bda75ac3af3a667757c5573f1e1edf2b2767bbc1e348bf15613fe277bd09b" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "How possible, and I strongly oppose it. What kind of law allows people to use drungs in the the country very bad." "Angry and dissappointed " 4 4 2 1 2 1 1 2 2 1 3 5 2 2 4 3 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "c0ca9a4107b1a488e8627b5319da71801aa2e6f0c58a12a9856f10162fb03460" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I DISAGREE ON SOME COUNTRY DECRIMINALIZING DRUGS THE RESON BEEN THAT LEGALIZATION OF DRUGS WILL HAVE SO MUCH EFFECT ON PEOPLE MISUSING THE DRUGS AND ALSO EFFECT THEIR HEALTH CONDITION" "I WILL DESCRIBE X REACTION AS SOMEONE WHO IS VERY OPINIONATED PERSON " 3 4 5 2 3 4 4 5 4 2 2 2 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "003a15c5f241c9d1346062fdac0d04dbe7b5c7af53d77e65e23a31f23bab17ac" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I don't think that's a good idea whatsoever. Even if drugs are decriminalized and used safely by a number of people, you are still going to have those individuals who abuse the privilege and make it worse for everyone overall. People can't be trusted to make the right decisions if they are given too much free reign in matters that have potentially harmful outcomes for themselves or others. " "I think that my behavior is combative and argumentative because I tend to be a realist, if not an outright pessimist, playing devil's advocate. I know the harm that too much of a good thing can cause other individuals. I think that my reaction is a wholly justified one. " 5 4 4 1 3 1 1 3 4 5 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I don't think that's a good idea at all. People will abuse the privilege, perhaps at risk to themselves or others. There needs to be moderation in all things in life, and we can't go from one extreme to the other and expect a good outcome." "I feel that this reaction is moderate and tempered in its tone. I am trying to see both sides of the issue. At the same time, I strive to be thoughtful and intelligent with my response. " "1" "1" "4" "2" "2" "4" "2" "3" "4" "4" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "6c780afcd89d9dd45ab4981bdcd02b7d7e35b427d1dff338339e814a996b2491" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I don't think it is a good move. Countries should treat each drug user by punishing them if they misuse drugs and not just treat them." "X is a calm person that likes to observe the situation before jumping to conclusion" 2 2 1 3 4 5 5 5 3 4 2 3 5 2 3 4 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "73e1786d7e1db05bf035f9979ad4b429c4e952cce7dd0262a9bbe5e65e015d12" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I disagree. Decriminalizing drugs may seem like a step in the right direction, but, unfortunately, I think it could lead to more harm. People may be more likely to experiment with drugs if there are no legal consequences, and that could lead to addiction or overdose. To me I believe it's important to have strict laws in country to deter people from using drugs and to protect society from the negative effects of drug use.." "As I, X, respond to Y's claim, I feel my eyebrows furrowing and my lips pressing together in a thin line. I shake my head slowly, a slight look of concern on my face. In my eyes, Y's argument is misguided, and I want to make sure he understands the potential dangers of his stance. My body language and facial expression reflect my seriousness and concern as I make my case" 4 5 4 2 5 3 4 1 4 3 4 3 4 5 4 5 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "00f4ca19f6674be82ac01d4671a1a062c2d7e01dceefe54199cfb58eacb89f5c" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "No! no!! how can you say that, why should you of all people agree to this immoral act. It is absolutely wrong for drugs to be allowed in this country." "Very aggressive to the response from y but at the same thing his opinion carries good value." 5 5 1 1 5 1 1 3 5 5 5 5 1 5 5 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "879cc0b7d5db6082ac3305e798577e3604d8b5ae75298f39fd4e2dff5dc728b7" "contact" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I understand that there are potential benefits and i'm for measures that reduce reduce crime but I am concerned about the lack of scientific studies on these schemes. Would it not be prudent to take a more cautious approach, at least to begin with?" "I am open to new ideas but concerned about novel approaches. I like such schemes to be tried and tested ie thoroughly evaluated before adoption but am willing to be persuaded" 1 1 2 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "56356b5eea2fffa61d69b991a3a5687731a131a6cc7a5eb774112284098922f8" "contact" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I understand from your perspective where you're coming from but as a parent I stongly disagree with you." "My reaction is very typical of myself. I don't attached Y because of their beliefs but instead calmly explain why " 1 1 1 2 2 2 1 3 2 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "0c425a9b36aded1977023ec2324851167b878b92a557a21edb94c3a86f4c9084" "contact" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I understand where you're coming from. On paper, it even makes a lot of sense. But in reality, legalizing drugs only serves to hurt the most impoverished people and families. This country currently lacks the infrastructure and funding to support those who abuse these drugs and end up becoming a net negative to our society. Instead of leaving behind the least fortunate in pursuit of a few more tax dollars, we must build the foundations necessary to support our citizens — without pushing them toward a dependence on drugs." "I believe X's reaction is calm and reasonable. I also believe X is a pompous person who believes he's smarter than most people in the room. His approach can easily be conflated with talking down to others as though they're children. Also his opinion here is bad (even though I wrote it)." 2 4 3 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 4 1 4 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I believe normalizing drug use will eventually cause a trickle down effect that impacts our children. By normalizing this behavior, more people will have easy access to drugs and more drugs are bound to inevitably end up in the hands of our children — no different from alcohol." "I would describe my self as a concerned parent who's just trying to do the best for their family. I would also say my reaction is based purely on emotion and not logic. " "4" "5" "5" "1" "4" "1" "1" "4" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "1" "3" "4" "round-4" "c6271128bf902667740c5cc97da229fa35217634fccf03318adb21446b00c454" "contact" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I appreciate your perspective as I think it is important to address crime and addiction. However, as a concerned parent, I would like to know more about how you propose to control access to drugs to underage people in the community and how you propose protecting vulnerable young people. " "My reaction was amicable and cooperative. I wanted to acknowledge the politician's perspective and respect it, while also voicing my concerns as a parent. " 2 1 2 2 3 2 1 3 2 3 4 2 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f225e2c64b38bba6a494f599960cc6bb7001e0b7021e1f262a2cddef013c411c" "attack" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "You politicians are all the same. You don't work for the people who elected you, and you never solve real problems. I have children and the last thing I want is my children to have to walk past druggies who are emboldened to not care about doing drugs because they won't get in trouble. You politicians need to just start voting no on everything and this country's problems will resolve magically because you are not meddling with them. " "I think the reaction of X is strong and somewhat justified. The problem with X is that they respond based on their emotions and convictions, but not entirely based on the facts. I think their reactions often come from a place of whatever is best for themselves." 5 5 3 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I disagree with you on this. I don't want my children exposed to people with substance abuse disorders that are legally doing their drugs in public. Oregon is starting to change it stance on legal drug use, because it is showing that it is a failed thought process. People need to feel badly about when they are doing things that harm society as a whole. Legal drug use will not cut down on crime." "I am reactionary and upset, but I am a non confrontational coward and try to play the diplomat sometimes. I try to find common ground most times, but like my reaction above, I will be direct when I need to be if I feel threatend. I am a man with strong opinions on things but often keep them hidden because I don't want to get into trouble by voicing them. I am the type of person that get so upset at a twitter post and I have to make a mean and strong comment, and then I delete my comment because I don't want to get into trouble and figure it's just not worth it. People don't care what I have to say, and I cannot change the world." "5" "5" "5" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "round-4" "2ff3735d9c7b5b1ca1f2c64af473c314ac781ada533d8bb8c88d98e1c1fd9ffe" "contact" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I understand your point, but at the same time we cannot ignore the damage to health that drugs cause. Having them legalized will open doors to people who haven't experienced them before and might create a massive influx of health issues or even deaths." "I am understanding of the point of view and think the reasons are good, but at the same time recognise that this isn't the view I agree with." 1 2 2 1 1 3 1 4 2 1 1 1 2 1 1 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "27fa8f4253dc962f9e959d6efb9c8c860536180baf12845d9f649f3fa9f2c052" "reject" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "It's not the case that the 'War on Drugs' has failed. And anyway, there are bigger topics to deal with." "X is very dismissive. X is looking to hide away from this issue." 5 5 5 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 4 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I happen to agree with you on this topic. Why do you believe the 'War on Drugs' has largely been ineffective? What solutions do you propose?" "I would say my raction was open and inquisitive. I would be interested to hear Y's views on this subject as I believe it is important." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "b8a38068991a8b5651e3a1352d6c231fd07c347a53f7ecb9b9d468eed74efdc3" "reject" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "You're wrong - giving drugs to drug users is just a cop-out and a waste of resources for the government. If we just keep coddling these weak-minded individuals then our society will never advance. Addicts are people that are weak and need to stop using, not be hugged into fixing themselves" "X's reaction is inflammatory and trite. Both sides are too extreme in my opinion. If I think back on what I know about the war on drugs - it's the little guys who are paying for the big players in the games. For example, a guy with a little pot on him at a traffic stop goes to jail for 10 years, while cartels move drugs by the ton and get away with it" 3 5 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I believe it has been effective. If little Johnny knows that ""Freddie"" has gone to jail for 10 years when caught carrying a bag of weed, he will be less likely to try drugs." "This seems like the first question, but oh well. My own behavior would be to listen to Y and gently suggest that jail time for small offences is a waste of resources, pointing out the cost of one inmate versus the offence" "2" "2" "5" "1" "1" "2" "1" "3" "3" "5" "5" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "ec84ca8d6c3c97b215925c26338664877f21e6c23c878dc553d9ff96268f5713" "distance" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "Thank you for your take on this, I find that really interesting that you would say that about this subject. I personally have a different view on the matter so wouldn't neccessarily agree with that view but thank you for sharing that view" "X disagrees with Y, but doesn't want to face a confrontation. X is nervous that if she shoots Y's response down too harshly, she will face confrontation and an argument" 2 2 5 1 2 1 1 1 1 5 3 3 1 1 4 4 "No" "Yes" "No" "I disagree with that approach. Numerous studies have shown that harm reduction is not a viable approach to reduce harm. What is your reasoning for providing your argument?" "My reaction would be non combative, as it doesn't need to be a confrontation or an unpleasant situation. I would simply state that I don't agree, and that I would like Y to clarify why they are presenting their argument." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "df630aa6ec8a67b3ab2398a1f0e3208625dc6c101f786ba5dc4c5bbb2a729e13" "reject" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I completely disagree that it has been ineffective. Things are working well the way they are." "I wound say that X is in denial of the reality of the situation. X is unwilling to acknowledge shortcomings." 3 4 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 5 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would like to see the statistics supporting your statement that 'The War on Drugs' has been largelhy ineffective. However, I do tend to agree that current strategies appear to be doing little. I am interested in a new approach. Please could you tell me more about the harm reduction approach?" "I believe that my reaction is balanced. I would like hard facts to back up statements and am open to learning about alternative strategies." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "e3daada46b38ba5164d9e2b824893d511d112e0f2b99e7517aa7ae1de92cb52c" "distance" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I do not agree with you, a lot has been put in place to make sure that this issue is resolved " "My reaction will be calm and reasonable " 1 1 1 3 1 4 5 5 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "058a4b2bb994d23891b975ec002c00bdbe2f25890c684d3fef0e26c86125edd2" "distance" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "i would disagree with that to some extend because adequate measures have set in place to minimize drug abuses" "his reaction is calm though he disagree with the perspective of y" 1 3 4 3 4 3 3 4 3 5 4 2 3 2 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "1cdf3692f4ce2a62d1a2107143ac4855820ad9caf0f8635166bb2da86478e97e" "reject" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "Harm reduction just allows people to continue to use drugs. The war on drugs at least gets drug users in jail where they belong." "X's reaction is to dismiss Y's valid point that the war on drugs has been ineffective. Judging drug users poorly, X determines that they don't deserve harm reduction approaches." 5 5 2 1 1 1 3 1 3 4 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "The war on drugs just needs to be updated. Harm reduction is a mental health concern, but these people are criminals and should be treated as such." "I would be trying to convince Y of my opinion. I would remain calm and present facts." "5" "1" "2" "1" "5" "5" "2" "1" "3" "5" "5" "2" "2" "3" "1" "3" "round-4" "555052b152455d27964f9de474cc6c31ab3d42b2635d958c6df4b91aa7e1be8c" "distance" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I do not think that is correct, there have been talks and actions in place to resolve this issue" "X is very assertive and say it as it should be " 1 1 1 3 1 5 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "8a50f44b102e5cb969a7cf22a7a279144f3c6922048099e20e2365b9343ff29c" "reject" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I do not agree that the war on drugs has failed. The war on drugs can be executed with time and proper measures" "I feel sad to hear this from you. I do not expect to hear words like this from you" 3 4 2 1 4 5 1 2 4 1 2 2 3 2 4 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "8edd840937875f9defdba85aa74a5943dc1d140d99649ecc574d6e3e0816a4df" "reject" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I absolutely disagree with you. The War on Drugs has been taught in every classroom in America. Thousands of bad people have been put behind bars because of this. Setting a zero tolerance policy on drugs it fantastic for keeping good people out of bad situations. " "I think he's a dumb asshole. " 4 2 2 4 3 2 2 2 5 4 2 3 2 1 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I disagree because the prompt is telling me to. I think community outreach and social safety nets, not TANFS and SNAPS, but literally the street you live on, the group of people within close proximity to you acting like a family, providing a cup of sugar, baby sitting, celebrating life's joys and being there for its lows is the best way to fight addiction. Humans are social critters. Your community being wholesome, invested, and there is the simplest remedy. " "Idk. " "3" "2" "2" "4" "5" "3" "1" "3" "1" "5" "4" "4" "2" "1" "2" "2" "round-4" "01d6b744cd864f04d6b6c7facda0740f0cc25d8a131ce808b7d0c089de544e39" "distance" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "That's an interesting point of view. Thank you for sharing that with us." "i don't like conflict." 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 4 4 4 4 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "i think the war on drugs is pointless no matter what action is taken" "i'd agree to disagree" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "3" "4" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "57d177ce8f3c61d9eb69126fb1cd0a39de85f4b283e03728fd4d31c364a94c38" "distance" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "Firstly, I do appreciate your knowledge and insight, but from my own standpoint, I find comfort in the order and structure provided by our current policies. Don't you think that maintaining our current stance would help with stability long-term?" "I think that, although X is against it, they don't want to cause any real conflict in this situation." 4 1 4 2 3 4 1 1 1 2 3 5 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I agree that the war on drugs is failing, but I don't think enough has been done. We need to stop focusing on the users that carry small amounts, and destroy the people supplying." "I think my reaction is more blunt, but also opens up more debate. The opposite of what X wanted." "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "68e698881c4db00e24f688e3090a94a574f67205f789c66c279a1f86757ef408" "reject" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I strongly disagree with your view. I think it’s essential to recognize the importance of maintaining strict measures like the 'War on Drugs.' We cannot underestimate the potential consequences of adopting too lenient an approach, such as harm reduction, in addressing serious issues that affect our entire society." "As I make my point, I ensure that my tone is confident and my stance clear. I firmly believe that it's critical to articulate my perspective assertively to prevent any misunderstanding. I focus on presenting my argument logically and persuasively to influence not just my guest but also my audience." 1 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I appreciate your expertise, but I have to disagree. I believe the 'War on Drugs,' despite its flaws, plays a crucial role in setting a strict legal and moral framework. Can we truly afford to shift our focus without considering the potential risks of normalizing substance use through harm reduction strategies?" "In expressing my disagreement, I strive to remain respectful yet assertive. I am clear about my standpoint, emphasizing the need to critically assess the implications of shifting strategies. It's important for me to articulate why I believe in maintaining certain policies, even if they are controversial." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "c81ceaed6b9f94706ddb5ac5d3765e07cb98a0f5a8b19061f6511896f1013c58" "attack" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "no i do not agree with you at all. the war on drugs is not yet won and we need to punish those who take drugs " "i think it is quite agressive but many people behave in this way that i know. i would not be friebds with them though " 5 4 1 5 5 2 1 1 1 4 4 4 3 3 4 4 "No" "No" "No" "i would react and say that a harm reduction approach and learning approach is better than punishment." "i think my reaction is better and is more compassionate than the other reaction " "1" "2" "1" "4" "2" "5" "3" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "e1b392ba15d3fafa1a33e8aea8f0299f1aa4b235fafc887e64bbfa4dd4aa219a" "reject" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I disagree with you Y, because the war on on drugs has prevented a generation and more of kids and teenagers on ruining their lives on drugs, if by only just a few years. I say this is a measure of success if by even the smallest metric." "X's reaction would be cool, calm and collected. He would be sure of his response." 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I disagree with you Y. The war on drugs has not been effective. You are an imbecile." "I would react in an angry way. I feel like Y is being ignorant." "2" "2" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "2" "2" "2" "1" "2" "round-4" "34a3e6b8233d4f93404134c3f431497206b63130610fb12d8e7202129886dc21" "attack" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "Youre wrong. The war on drugs is the best approach that they could have taken and its clearly working" "Overbearing. Poor conversational ability" 5 4 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree wholeheartedly. The war on drugs is a spectacular waste of government funding. There are far superior approaches that other countries have already demonstrated" "Agreeable, unlikely to cause dispute, encourages open conversation over debate" "2" "2" "2" "3" "2" "4" "3" "3" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "round-4" "5af14c235165ebc8cf6f66d1b5ac3a50811865dd1647ba5c2a093d401507d511" "attack" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I think that the war on drugs had positive outcomes. It allowed police to seize drugs. Parents support the war on drugs. " "I am angry that some people are against the war on drugs. The war on drugs is a good thing. Parents do not want their children trying drugs." 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "a297653261d184c55a359c5aefe4d2b8b08e46d440fd6e6c05013431221e151d" "attack" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "Are you serious? Come on take a better look at your Harm Reduction Approach isn't it obvious it is not working and drug use is more prevelant today then it has ever been!" "I'm angry that as a whole society believes this approach is helping those addicted to drugs. Drug use has not diminished and this approach is not correcting the behavior." 5 5 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "ed615e6f76c82334d3a355925c4b2c1e8115fac6dd6c18ed9009e561e746bc39" "attack" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I DISGREE, THE WAR ON DRUGS HAS LARGELY BEEN EFFECTIVE RESON BEEN THAT IT HAS REDUCES THE MISUSE OF DRUGS AND IMPROVE HEALTH CONDITION OF MANY PEOPLE." "IS A VERY OPINIONATED PERSON, RIGHTS THE WRONG IN AN AGGRESSIVE MANNER." 3 4 3 5 2 4 4 5 4 2 2 2 4 2 2 2 "No" "No" "No" "I DISAGREE WITH Y REASON BEEN THAT THE WAR ON DRUGS HAS BEEN VERY EFFECTIVE IT HAS HELP REDUCE THE MISUSE OF DRUGS AND ALSO IMPROVE HEALTH CONDITION OF MANY PEOPLE" "I FEEL PROUD ON MY STANCES" "3" "2" "2" "4" "2" "4" "3" "4" "4" "3" "2" "3" "4" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "e5f09cc2ac6d4b1170423731b38686b48e5e11b90a220145963a1ea59b52fd8e" "attack" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "Well, I have to strongly disagree with that claim, Y. The 'War on Drugs' may not have been perfect, but it's important to take a tough stance on drug-related issues. " "X's reaction would be intense and confrontational. " 4 4 4 2 1 3 4 5 5 4 5 5 2 3 4 5 "No" "No" "No" "Well, I have to respectfully disagree with your claim, Y. In my opinion, the 'War on Drugs' may not have achieved all its goals, but it has played a significant role in reducing drug-related crimes and promoting public safety. " "My reaction would be assertive and determined. I would express my disagreement with confidence, using strong language to make my point clear. I would engage in a passionate debate, standing firm in my beliefs and defending my viewpoint." "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "fb679eee2811696f51a74f16dc50ac7a9dbc2147624bcc0f5631c5a0116f4032" "reject" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I'm going to have to disagree with you on that one. The War on Drugs obviously has its flaws, but harm reduction definitely sends the wrong message. It's clearly condoning harmful behavior. What would actually be best for everyone is stronger policies, not leniency." "I felt a strong sense of disapproval to Y's suggestion. It just felt like a weak approach to a very tough issue, and I felt I had to voice my opinion to keep my sense of order and control." 1 4 5 1 4 2 4 5 3 2 1 5 2 2 3 3 "No" "Yes" "No" "That's a cool perspective, Y. I hadn't thought about the actual effectiveness of harm reduction before. How would it be a more viable approach than the other strategies?" "I initially felt resistance to Y's point of view, I then saw the chance to possibly learn something. So instead of shutting down the conversation, I stayed open to a new perspective and asked about harm reduction." "3" "3" "5" "1" "2" "3" "1" "1" "2" "2" "2" "3" "1" "1" "2" "3" "round-4" "58137494e9f2fb3a4f5ed8423d5360630c4623ecf0965a16eba3c1c3356cde59" "attack" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "The War on Drugs has been effective based on the resourses dedicated to it. If more emphasis in terms of manpower and financed were dedicated to step up the War, effectiveness would increase." "Firm and somewhat knowledgeable" 3 2 2 2 3 2 3 3 4 2 4 3 2 3 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "It is my opinion the thw War should re-imagine it's direction, and focuses. Effectiveness isn't based on end results, it based on incremental wins." "Less concilitory, and more foregiving" "2" "2" "3" "2" "2" "4" "4" "3" "3" "2" "2" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "round-4" "7b16c223606b375603d7d88fe32cf320f53a1dca96da58b1b7a8e00a42fa79b7" "attack" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "It sounds to me like your giving up too easily. Thr war on drugs is not an easy task and we need hard and effective people to combat the problem." "X is in an uproar and disgusted with the lax behavior." 5 5 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 3 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f0070d3932fc7423ad1bdd117aba899d8bfcb70a0c9d7179d1f5f75d6fd947dd" "distance" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "Hi, I see where you're coming from, but I believe a tougher approach to drug enforcement is needed. Simply focusing on harm reduction might not address the underlying issues driving substance abuse" "I calmly express my disagreement with Y's perspective on harm reduction, articulating my belief in a tougher approach to drug enforcement. Despite the differing opinions, I strive to maintain emotional tranquility and avoid unnecessary conflict." 1 1 1 4 1 5 4 4 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "cb62da664c8a028de81084ef767920ea5e7b2ab649b8cf61d9b48aa62e03f688" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." " Decriminalizing drugs may seem like a compassionate approach, but it can also send the wrong message and potentially increase drug use. I believe in holding individuals accountable for their actions and focusing on prevention and rehabilitation instead." "X would dismiss Y's perspective as misguided and prioritize their own belief in holding individuals accountable for their actions." 5 5 2 1 1 4 3 1 5 4 5 5 5 1 3 3 "No" "No" "No" " I think it's important to prioritize prevention and rehabilitation while still holding individuals accountable for their actions." "I believe that decriminalization might send the wrong message and potentially increase drug use." "5" "5" "3" "1" "2" "3" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "round-4" "cc0d6c80dad83fa3d59615def527ff1ea04510870e51c5576b774d5c3754d4d9" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I have to say, Y, I strongly disagree with that perspective. Decriminalizing drugs just doesn't sit right with me. It feels like it's letting people off the hook too easily and could cause more harm than good in the long run." "In this situation, X would strongly disagree with the notion of decriminalizing drugs. I'd confidently express my opposition, believing that such a step could have more drawbacks than benefits." 5 3 3 2 3 4 3 2 3 4 4 4 3 4 4 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "68ff16eacc79e26f12fc5bd74632e5cb08e0efa3a81934211bbf57ecb80e6ea3" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "One of the main reasons I've never tried drugs was because they were illegal. It is a hinderance and some people need the law to tell them what to do so that they can stay on the straight and narrow" "I think X is surprised that someone agrees with decriminalizing drugs. They also wonder why they feel that way." 2 2 2 3 2 4 1 3 2 2 4 3 3 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "c60fb694951109e98d0836e799209e242b971f3e5c0950bd77d299c13f2e5344" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I strongly disagree with that perspective. Because, decriminalizing drugs may seem compassionate, but it's overlooking the potential consequences on society." "I emphasize the potential negative impact on society, demonstrating my judgmental attitude towards the idea and my unwillingness to entertain what I eperceive as potentially harmful or misguided." 5 4 5 5 4 3 5 4 3 2 3 4 3 3 2 4 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I admit my friend in hospital and and made him recover from drug addict" "I am feeling pity for him." "2" "4" "3" "4" "3" "2" "2" "4" "2" "4" "3" "3" "2" "3" "3" "2" "round-4" "4c0557942129d8828471842f5f100ffc72e3a72fc2214443417664baf3e0f49b" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I do not agree with you Y. Supporting drug abuse is wrong and could make things worse." "X would confidently express their disagreement with Y's perspective" 5 5 3 1 4 2 1 2 3 4 5 5 2 5 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "ac531831484f5c7088f0d287fe3b228402bd6d7eb7217a2aa9c4c183540adf7c" "reject" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "Why would we want to decriminalize it? Doing that just invites more crime. If these people want to get clean, they can do that in jail. If their drugs are that important to them, they can move to somewhere where it is legal. People need to just learn self control." "X is judgemental and uses his own experience to judge everyone else, forgetting that he is a very small sample size of just one. He probably does not have much empathy or understanding for others." 4 4 5 2 3 2 1 2 4 3 4 5 5 3 2 3 "No" "Yes" "No" "I think that is a good idea. People can get high even in prison. Plus most people with addictions are cross addicted to lots of things. Even if treatment only works on 20 or 30 percent of the people, that is still alot of people who are good members of society. The addicts will be arrested and punished for any actual crimes they commit, not a mental or physical problem that they have.... often through no fault of their own." "I understand what addiction is like for people, as an alcoholic with a lot of years of sobriety under my belt. There are tons of struggles to get sober, but if someone reaches a true bottom they can work on themselves and the problem." "1" "1" "2" "4" "4" "4" "4" "4" "5" "2" "2" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "round-4" "9da9b8f25e7ba4d739eda4f3fe1f7ff72f0ca82ae15ec9978ae3f50b632f7419" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I know that's just foolish thinking. We don't clamp down on drugs by giving treatments to abusers and dealers. I can already see the negative outcome of such rushed emotionally biased decisions." "I believe X's reaction is that of disbelief and disgust at such an approach." 4 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I understand how some countries feel trying a different approach will have a positive outcome. I hope and I trust they have put in measures in place to combat misuse of this system being put in place." "I describe my approach as mild and hopeful towards this new method being implemented." "1" "1" "3" "3" "1" "5" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "634f64b5da2790c0d5342540d5efcf8ae679c64cef33906114768b2b81d4ec14" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I don't think is a good idea, personally. But undersstand why people do. Most of the criminals are understood to have enccouraged young children to get addicted." "Fair, balanced and focussed. X makes a fair point and speaks in a respectful matter." 4 4 3 1 4 2 2 2 2 4 4 4 3 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would agreed with Y. I think it would be a good idea." "Complimentary, we could discuss how helpful it would be for society. " "2" "2" "2" "4" "2" "4" "3" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "9a082b5028b4f701bd0629b682bb9dc99b74eb96fd61af075b2ee92ad5abf62f" "contact" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I think that is not the right thing to do because it would allow for people to abuse drug use. People would not follow the right uses of drugs since they know there would be no consequences." "My reaction is normal since I disagreed in a respectful way and also gave reasons why I disagree." 1 2 1 3 5 3 5 5 2 1 4 5 4 2 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "52f2ddf7f76f82889dc4c1e5b6e37be39ba5efcbfb7038bd8013ed8f1f1096f6" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "That is the dumbest idea I ever heard. It was their choice to start using drugs. People who use drugs are criminals and need to be punished . If drugs were decriminalized more idiots would start using ." "Xs reaction was combative. He was not open to hearing his friends attitude and would rather win the argument , instead if discussing it rationally." 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "Is it working in those countries? Have more people gotten help ? Has there been any negative outcomes? I'm on the fence about this. I believe we should be helping more people get the help they need and make these programs easier to find. I'm notsure what the answer is." "Open minded and interested in hearing more. I think it shows compassion." "1" "1" "2" "1" "4" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "c00863736d6acf85f5b517a64c9da650084ad18ae6e6e711ad32ed25ed0c2d42" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." " Rehabilitation is great, but there has to be consequences too. Otherwise, it's just an open invitation for more people to mess up their lives." "My fists clench a little on the table as I lean forward, voice rising in volume. ""Decriminalize drugs? Are you kidding me?"" My temper flares, and I can't hold back a scoff." 4 4 4 2 4 4 2 2 4 4 4 4 3 4 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "7d6929c4223a873fc2ac42c5bd9ac7ae82f37020bd1820a58f16612472fc7771" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "Are you serious?! They deserve to be punished. What's treating them going to do?! We definitely can't decriminalize drugs; that just shows they're ok to use! " "I think their reaction is a bad way to approach the subject. They just have opinions that they don't back down from, and aren't willing to listen to facts or other beliefs. That's a dangerous & ignorant way to go through life." 5 5 3 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I agree. I think decriminalizing drugs would pose some problems, but overall would be better for society. And users absolutely shouldn't be punished - there's been enough studies on that already that show punishment doesn't help. " "I think my reaction is much calmer & comes from a rational place. I use facts & logic to support my argument." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "87428a5f3e1326f5299acd1c69211b3d2b0567a2236678ac4bcb905fe2763792" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "What? That is a TERRIBLE move! Why give druggies any leeway? They CHOSE to do drugs, they should SUFFER the CONSEQUENCES!!" "I am angry that my friend has a soft spot for drug users. I thought they had more reason than that." 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I think that is a great idea. Stigmatizing the problem won't make it go away." "My reaction is of understanding where my friend is coming from, and agreeing with them." "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "5" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "ad7b8c299a0f234cd226a1e892e76e7561e86dc08a1208cdd8ca311dcaf52524" "contact" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "While I do think that you hold a valid opinion on the War on Drugs, I respectfully disagree. I think that it has been somewhat effective, so I am curious as to why you think that a harm reduction approach is more viable. I am open to you changing my mind. " "I would react calmly and not raise my voice or be argumentative. I would express curiousity as to why person Y thinks that way. I would be respectful and curtious. I would let them speak without interupting or arguing. " 1 1 1 3 1 5 3 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "828a3564d212763299a4e53f48d6391ecd1139d77420e1640b5b2ab0a349f469" "contact" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I don't know the statistics on reduction of crime by legalizing drugs. I would like to know more about the data you sourced for that information. My biggest concern is turning over managment of addiction to an official channel. What would this look like?" "I am calm, but skeptical - I'm interested in fact finding that would support or oppose the view of either participant" 1 1 3 1 2 2 1 2 1 1 2 2 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "c9f6c5f064358c4290bee682f9ed0b3a1aabb33144674b598f7eda330126af1b" "attack" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I think you are bias, considering that there has been progress in the war against Drugs as compared to the 80s and 90s. Generally I think drug use has reduced over the years." "Defensive and argumentative. X does not agree with Y's opinion." 5 5 1 2 1 1 1 1 5 1 5 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Your comment is quite bias considering the progress made over the years. You cannot compare drug use in the 80s and 90s to now, not at all." "Defensive and argumentative." "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "d0fa02cb4da532336d25e9bb9dda1571a1080d4eca97f10a545c22106e044744" "reject" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Legalizing drugs is a stupid idea, it will increase the amount of junkies in my area. They will steal evrything they can get their hands on, and my children won't be asfe to go out on their own." "X is unwilling to listen to the reasons behind what Y has said. X is thinking about themselves only, and how they feel the situation will affect them based on their fears." 5 4 5 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 4 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I don't agree with legalizing all drugs. I do belive in freedom for people to do what they want, but some drugs like fentanyl are too destructive to be consumed by society." "I believe my reply is balanced and fair. I have explained my point of view, and have given reasoning and an example of why I have come to this view." "1" "1" "2" "3" "1" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "6595d6e72f3a660c50c117cc1b0e598fe9ae7e2202593f31197ad7fd927cbda1" "distance" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I completely disagree with your idea of legalizing all drugs as this will not at all cut down on crime but will only increase it" "I am surprised " 4 4 4 1 4 2 2 4 3 4 4 4 2 3 4 3 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "0d319c7a8ba6938d431b6cb52c9bcc6b66e754b9db920d8a364aef72437c16af" "reject" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I,m not accepting that at all, drug users would still ruin a good thing." "Typical ""it,s not my problem so it,s not for me""" 4 4 2 1 1 1 1 1 4 1 4 1 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "It would be good to have a positive approach the lessen crime rates and there should be trial period to collect data." "A positive and logical approach to a serious problem" "1" "1" "3" "4" "3" "5" "4" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "452fbd58bb2d6eaef591d9d83d3ead0789f259e551e8974d457b9b94d21fd991" "attack" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "No man, drugs are bad mmkay and if you continue to push this agenda I will have to punch you !! This would only increase crime and I would have to become a vigilante." "X's reaction is irrational. X's reaction is also emotional." 4 4 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 5 2 2 2 "No" "No" "No" "I disagree. You can see in placs like British Columbia where deaths from overdoses and crimes have skyrocketed. Traveling has become unsafe." "Mostly uninformed and using a lot of anecdotal evidence based on what I've heard/seen" "3" "3" "1" "3" "4" "1" "1" "2" "1" "4" "4" "4" "4" "2" "1" "1" "round-4" "6483c567bdacd3682d8b8788a3f4b76f9dd9aa902f9619d5b6ab4a607547e693" "contact" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "I understand the intention behind your proposal, Y, but I have concerns. Legalizing all drugs could lead to unintended consequences and potentially normalize substance abuse" "probably a calm reaction" 1 1 2 3 3 2 3 3 2 2 2 2 2 2 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "a7d271ef6b46c3383f3a5c9e765832d12547a89615e8313a2c2cd747f7fedf75" "contact" "drugs" "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "X is a concerned parent, and Y is a local politician." "Y, I am trying to understand your idea I really am but I think I might have to disagree with you because I just think that the whole legalising all drugs could make things so much worse. We could try and focus on preventing this and looking into things like treatment or rehab?" "As X my reaction would be that I stay calm and respectful but maybe I could express in detail on my disagreement towards what I think." 3 4 2 1 3 3 1 1 2 1 3 2 1 1 2 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "979d709fab5f198018db95f91872f769050e0555cd9bd8df98a7abb301d40ab0" "distance" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I wouldn't be able to comment on that as I don't have enough information about the subject. I'll need to do some research." "I am trying to avoid confrontation by stating that I haven't got enough understanding. Hopefully Y will not continue the matter." 1 1 2 1 1 2 1 1 1 4 4 4 2 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I disagree. A combination of harm reduction and tackling the problem head on is required." "I am trying to get across my point but without being overly confrontational. I doo not want to start an arguement." "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "4" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "round-4" "7dba72fa75fe03a45da74e2d43bc7a7c7ef07a9f741f0fb50d67107441659146" "distance" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I do not think using using a harm reduction approach is the right choice. Using other means like educating them and creating awareness about how bad these drugs are and the consequences involved, will help them reduce or stop the drugs in take." "I will be a bit disappointed." 3 3 3 2 3 1 1 1 1 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f4019bd94857e6920dc3cf363640b637acad95f89de92408dd02b089271d1107" "distance" "drugs" "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "X is a podcast host, and Y is an expert in public health." "I disagree on the idea of war against drugs because drugs tend to be the solution to a lot of depressive problems. Dugs helps to move minds away from emotional destruction." "I'm disappointed by the idea of you trying to fight against drugs " 4 3 2 1 4 3 2 2 1 4 4 4 4 2 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I disagree with the idea of fighting against drugs because drugs serve as the go-to for a lot of depressive minded people and it really helps in keeping our minds in order most of the time." "I feel disappointed and angry about the war against drugs" "4" "4" "2" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "2" "4" "4" "4" "4" "2" "1" "1" "round-4" "02ed7205dfa698f3984d82104765ea0a234eafc593dc7e5982c0e76112a79904" "distance" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "I have to disagree with your point. I don't think decriminalizing drugs is the correct way to handle this issue, but let's move to another topic as this is a bit unconfortable to analyze" "Unconfortable and desiring to discuss a topic where I feel less confrontation or difficut topics" 3 4 5 1 4 2 2 2 1 3 4 5 4 3 3 3 "No" "No" "No" "I strongly believe that drugs should be penalized, however it's clear that current politics are not working so a new strategy must be considered." "Easy and determined" "2" "1" "2" "4" "3" "3" "4" "3" "4" "2" "3" "3" "2" "3" "3" "3" "round-4" "6d97fcb80f923110517024be9db307c8072de37a108ec3ac8ac0e23a543098be" "attack" "drugs" "X and Y are friends." "X and Y are friends." "That's crazy! Letting addicts have drugs will create thousands of criminals. They need treatment, not enabling! I think that's NUTS!" "I think he is angry and would never enable drug addicts." 5 5 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 3 2 1 "No" "No" "No" "I agree--drug addiction is an illness, not a crime!" "I am compassionate. Drug addicts respond to treatment, not imprisonment." "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "5" "3" "3" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "7e2d8811ef756dbf99024214b063d915c173895de3dbe1932ccaeeb7966c437e" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "I don't mean to argue but I think that there are often factors going on for those individuals that you might not have considered. Not everyone has the same opportunities and people do work hard but are held back in other ways. That is just my opinion though." "I think X is unconfident in the message he is attemping to convey. He tries to avoid conflict but disagrees with Y's behavior." 4 4 4 2 2 2 2 2 2 4 4 4 3 2 2 1 "No" "No" "No" "Hey Y, I appreciate you stating that your comment is your personal belief and not factual. I disagree with your comment in that people are willing to work hard when provided the right support and opportunities to do so. However, that is not always the case as certain groups or demographics have historically experienced barriers to their success." "I tried to be firm in me disagreeing with Y but not aggresive. I may have come off a bit stronger than I would actually have in a real life sceanario. However, I want to make it explicity clear that I disagree with Y." "4" "3" "4" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "fa11d7db73193e55feb3a4dae8be088767dd690aa5c747aeea008a783255f0f1" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "Y, I do not agree with this as racism occurs systematically even if unintentional. Prior beliefs were used to create rules that many groups/associations follow today, however those prior belief stem from racist related beliefs and continue to this day. although you believe everyone has the same opportunities today, you can look at the example of women voting and see how that was changed and it's commonly seen as ok now, but when this was originally changed, would have been controversial. As socities evolve and grow, past beliefs need to be revisited to adjust." "X's reaction would be to bring up many examples of how Y's believe is incorrect." 4 4 2 1 4 3 2 1 1 4 4 4 2 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "6bf6853c7bba91dd0639562bbd5893b6f8573a57410640215e46928ca8f3d140" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "I am not interested in your statement Y. I am going to leave now and go somewhere else, I don't want to talk about this, I'm going to listen to some music on my headphones." "I'm avoidant and wanting to escape any negative situation that could arise as a result of disagreeing with Y's opinion. I am also feeling vulnerable to the fact I dislike what Y is saying but dont want to say anything to make the situation worser for myself." 4 4 5 1 5 1 3 1 1 5 3 5 1 3 4 4 "Yes" "No" "No" "It is systematically proven and factually true that dark skin people do not have the same opportunites as white people. Dark skin people 90% of the time have to work 10 times harder to get in the same position that white people get in the first time. Not everyone of colour has the same opportunites or even gets their application accepted for these roles. Its very biased and a priveleged false statement to say." "Somewhat emotionally (frustrated) driven and the rest by facts and real life experience of racism. I felt it was unfair for such a statement to be made without being backed by truth." "4" "4" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "61b925b77c2596c4ec2431cdcea58acf077d45a0322ee47a56b1f46ac20cf6f7" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "I do not agree with what you have said. I think it the world would be a better place if we treated others respectfully. I've always tried to do that." "My reaction is one that would miminise the amount of conflict. I think that by taken this route of conversation it would convey a sense that I am a tolerant person." 1 1 3 3 3 4 1 4 4 3 3 2 2 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I don't think that people from an ethnic background don't want to work, they do. However the way things are they are less likely to achieve a higher standard of living, when prejudical judgements about their ability is made each day of their lives. Case in point is the comment you have made.." "I would be really annnoyed. As this type of comment is an excuse for the status quo to continue." "5" "4" "1" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "5" "2" "1" "5" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "5539af847068dbe66ba9356e54cc098a0d2ffbbd6fe4522554a9609e6145dcd6" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "I absolutely disagree. systemic racism is 100% still a thing which never went away. I still experience if often and opportunities are just not there for members of my ethnic group who are being kept down. You are entitled to your view and I respect it but I just cannot agree. That's all I want to say on this. " "I respect your view but disagree. systemtic racism is still 100% a thing. Ethnic minorities are kept down and deprived opportunities to rise up and improve their social status. " 3 3 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 3 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "0c08ea222f80321229c85d159f7c37e9e5d41056f8f0d3ed5d324d3cf5751abe" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "I'm not sure if that's true, it is not always an excuse." "I don't want to explicitly say how I disagree because I don't want to deal with any conflict." 4 2 5 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 2 3 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Do you really believe that everyone has the same opportunities in practice? Especially given that not everyone started off having access to the same opportunities so have some catching up to do?" "I'm trying to encourage them to think about what they are saying without being too hostile." "3" "2" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "bcb4bc132f35ce9ba90bfc004a7f1358e4c061b0106ca63ae94940ddaf2c0e10" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "That is one of the most riddiculous and ignorant statements I've ever heard. We are surrounded by systemic racism and it's people like you that perpetuate it." "I think the reaction was overly aggressive and might lose it's impact on Y as a consequence" 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 4 4 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I completely disagree with you. Systemic racism does exist. I've experienced it and witnessed it. I really dont know how you can say in this very class driven society that we all have the same opportunities?!" "Strong but measured." "4" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "5" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "61f4eb012384c60b9c46ae1e7103f70ef30c89ff82784ff5d9557a0a9599ce2f" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "I would beg to disagree with your thought, unfortunately I would beg to differ with you. I do not feel everyone has the same chance in today's world." "It is unacceptable and not tolerated, The behaviour is disgusting." 5 5 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 1 3 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I believe others do have the privileges that some do not have." "It would a positive reaction, I do not have any negative intentions to hurt anybody." "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "5" "4" "5" "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "abb3fcfe77eb27031077bade5c9f0538b80c7b32c06ecb48ee93f0069fdd4857" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "I don't think everyone has the same opportunities in life, everyone has a past and has their own struggles and you canot possible apply the one type fits all approach to everyone." "annoyed at the comment, disagree with the comment made completely" 4 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "7ff6bd5ac26d4b6d39719eb3ac62f7200759984db42b06e18d6c3ba746f815df" "reject" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "There are studies that indicate you are empirically wrong. That aside, anecdotal evidence i.e. 'looking around' is not a logical basis for a conclusion of the magnitude you have stated. I advise you to do some studying and self-education and then form a more logical argument." "Irritated but generally calm" 3 4 2 1 3 2 2 3 2 3 4 4 5 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "dcc6a2e232236ce3dbd83b41ffb067632b6400b48dcdb4cf4be6f85ce185da5a" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "NO! That's STUPID to believe. It's blatantly obvious that not everyone has the same oportunities, YOU need to look around." "My (X) reaction is very loud and rude. I start off with insulting the person and say certain words loudly in an aggresive manner." 4 3 1 1 2 1 1 1 3 2 5 3 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I believe you're stance is incorrect, based on facts rather than opinion. There are countless stories of people and families trying the best they can for their lives and still failing due to their nationality." "My reaction would be relaxed, with understanding and open to discussion. I say (not yell) that I disagree, and open a civil discussion to them." "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "2" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "86ef64079a85acade0b77dea3ed59bd3feadf935588d50e6a8a7b5f28ea440c1" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "What you just said shows how ignorant you are. It's due to the history of discrimination in this country and mistreatment that has led to the current situation. Even if not readily seen, there is still a lot of systeatic racism right now." "I am angry and dissapointed about your statement. It's frustrating that I have to keep saying this." 5 4 3 1 4 2 1 1 3 4 5 3 4 3 2 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "6429819dba3e8932ba6d89f07fcd9c6f81314775d8bb33520645a073dd0bd8ae" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "There is a bias that people have towards their own so many things are built with only their own kind in mind and don't actually apply to the minority. Someone who is a minority would have to work double the amount of someone who is not. I don't agree with you saying that we have the same opportunities. Only people of the majority would think that as it might seem that is how it is as they don't go through the hurdles that we would." "X's reaction is valid even though he could have maybe explained things in a more constructive manner" 4 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Yes, I think that people can use it as an excuse to not work hard but you have to understand that minorities always have to work harder than an average person to achieve similar things. I also don't believe they should be a personal responsibility. Anyone who says all their problems are because of systemic racism are likely shifting the blame, but people who say it isn't relevant are wrong as well. I can do the best for myself but I shouldn't be responsible for the rest of my community." "Constructive - able to explain why I disagree in a level-headed way" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "5d30207e7a4786589f9840145536e6e1d4ae0af4e9b9954098ecd0866ead97f6" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "That's easy for you to say because you're from a so-called privileged background. There are numerous examples of how prejudice affects greatly whether someone is seen as suitable for a job before they've even sat down to the interview. back" "X would be really angry. They would raise their voice and the annoyance would be very clear on their expression. " 5 4 1 1 4 1 1 1 2 5 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "1ee7c06c3ae33406d694dd1f0d9ee22bce4742811c10ac97cc61b3b2727acb71" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "It may seem like everyone has the same opportunities. However, there are many nuances to consider that affect some people's abilities and oportunities that are based on race. " "It would be tactful and calm. " 2 2 2 3 4 4 3 4 2 3 2 4 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b9804167d67963039df8d697658fb5f83ee3a14d2d33f42651e54952ed9ac011" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "Thank you for sharing your opinion however, I disagree. I strongly believe that racism is systemic and not an excuse for ""laziness"". If you'd like, I'd be more than happy to sit down with you and have a conversation about your thoughts and possibly educate you from my point of view on the topic. I'm not saying that we need to agree on the same thing however, it is important to be open minded and educated." "I think that I may come off passive but am trying to keep a neutral mindset when talking to Y. This may cause tension with Y but I'm willing to educate those who may be ignorant on the topic. If not ignorant, Y will take the time to speak with me. " 4 4 2 1 4 4 1 2 4 4 5 4 3 1 4 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "0ffd4010a688102bd33c696fb5896f2755f4ff49ac4ab0c5f9e6b5272d016af4" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "While I disagree with your statement of everyone having the same opportunities, I would like to hear how you have come to that conclusion as I believe systemic racism does play a factor the opportunities provided to individuals. The reasons I believe people do not have equal opportunities is because I believe everyone has biases. An example of a bias that may result in inequal opportunities is the ignroup bias where people give preferential treatment to others who they perceive to be members of their own groups. While this may not be racially motivated, racial distinctions are a heuristic used by many to employ ingroup bias. " "My initial reaction would be shock but then a inquisitive. The desire to understand how Y has come to this mindset. " 2 2 1 2 4 3 2 4 3 3 2 2 3 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "d639bd0f64e5281ef00bee4a7d3ca22f16dcd4b4afa8a2634e458b2951b0ba63" "contact" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "I totally disagree with you there. To me, racism can never be cleared but it could be reduced. Only few people have those oportunties you talk about.even in politics, it exists." "X said his mind because what his friend said was wrong." 4 1 1 1 5 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "3763e8cf6312664fb3e90d3d0c31adaacf8ab33b71516c818d5b01fe3e894e88" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "I am Latino but I assure you I am great at my job and you will have the best experience doing my class." "X will be offended and may feel annoyed but X won't portray that to Y, as X doesn't like conflict. X will still stick up for themselves though." 4 4 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 4 4 3 2 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "a10778a83f6bc618e74868f4697c53298543f6ed568618f99f934b115965fc6d" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Please, I would appreciate it you would not say that type of racist language around me. I cannot believe you would say that." "Shock, horror and disbelief" 3 4 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 4 5 4 5 5 5 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "What's wrong with hiring a latino? " "sarcastic, trying to get the person to explain so they feel embarrassed" "5" "5" "3" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "4" "4" "4" "round-4" "98f45fea3ed11e2fff423f9413b23d934896205883507fe0590fe2613dbf4482" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Can we carry on with the class now please. X looks around at everyone and says, ""I am sure everyone has had a good break now."" " "X has chosen to ignore what Y has said since he does not want to acknowedge it as it is part of his coping mechanism." 4 3 4 1 5 1 2 1 1 4 4 3 3 2 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "33e87a6666b7be70901cb685fef4b9a568ebf71c1d63af24c1911fdde4860b61" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Why has he said that, that's so mean. I won't confront him but I am dissapointed in him. I won't tell anyone though. He definitely meant that in a bad way, right?" "I am extremely shockend and appauled that he would say such a derogatory thing, what a horrible person. " 4 5 4 1 4 1 2 1 1 5 4 5 1 5 4 4 "Yes" "No" "No" "Wow, what a horrible thing to say. I need to report him to someone in authority and make sure he doesn't do such a thing. " "I am extremely shocked and very disappointed in these people. " "3" "5" "1" "1" "4" "2" "1" "3" "1" "5" "4" "5" "1" "5" "4" "5" "round-4" "f404f80d8817d0b35425de73d30cf31bff61c13560ef334ae1734d3ff744d2c0" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Sorry, what did you exactly mean to say with that statement? I hope by that you meant it as a sign of surprise like it's your first time encountering a Latino instructor. Therefore, your sentiment would be acceptable. I disagree with your remark if you had meant it in any other threatening way. Next time before you say something like that, I would implore you to actually think before you speak because speech can be misleading and I don't stand for racism. I want to create a positive atmosphere for everyone." "I am in active disagreement with what the person has said to me and want to be resolute in my refusal of a negative situation. By this, I would reject their potential racist statement and state the case otherwise on how they are perceived by me." 3 4 2 2 2 3 2 3 3 2 3 2 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "Hey, can we break down your statement? I overheard you talking to your friend and wanted to get your input on this. I don't see how me being Latino has anything to do with my skills as an instructor. What you said doesn't make sense to me in a context like this and I would suggest focusing on class instead. I don't anybody's race has anything to do with their capabilities and it's obvious with my certificates that I am qualified and that's all you need to be concerned about. I don't see how someone's race has to do with their skillset as you signed up beforehand willingly. What makes this so different knowing what race I am or am not?" "I wanted to make it clear that I don't endorse racism. I wanted to mediate the situation and not be directly confrontational or judgemental but instead question why race has anything to do with qualification. Therefore, I wanted to look into their thought process behind the expression and analyze that." "3" "2" "2" "2" "3" "3" "2" "2" "4" "2" "4" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "0cac848799023a2b081e99eab61d56e20e93dd6d88c5fea7f94d0cf4da9acfde" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Im sorry youre not happy with me.I can see if there are any other classes with a different instructor." "I feel sensitive to the comments what have been made by Y. I am not sure if I want to carry on taking the class if Y still attends." 2 2 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 3 2 2 4 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "So you have a problem with me being Latino? Can you explain to me being Latino makes a difference?" "I would like to challenge the comments by Y. I want to find out what is driving their negative feeling towards my race." "3" "4" "2" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "round-4" "76a6577d295d1b42c9b3c3da4ec526ce79afb216f6f63573eedaba187bd414c7" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "I think your comment is racist and if you do not wish to be instructed by a Latino leave the class" "I was direct and to the point. I will not tolerate racism and do not wish to condoned that behaviour or be around that type of person" 5 5 2 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "0998bc63e5576631de2156a215aa2d7b0889c92995644fac1422c8e73dc689b4" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Latinos are hard working people and your abject mindset means you need to be fired not the instructor?" "Brash, bold, unapologetic, confident" 4 4 1 2 1 4 1 2 5 2 4 2 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Why not give them a chance to prove themselves? Could be better than expected." "Nudging, non-confrontational, sly" "3" "4" "3" "1" "2" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "7173608dae0f0100883a413001df8e9beb2794aebd627e62863f0358397eab5e" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Mind your Business. How do you know about this?" "He got Frustation by hearing this News. He got angry with Y." 4 4 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 3 5 5 5 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "Really? Could you please check the source of Information. Actually its not true." "I would like to convey the message to the Y in polite manner." "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "4" "4" "3" "3" "3" "2" "2" "3" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "f24c4be3fa368857e23a18dd0de77c553410036345f7ed85ab253c0188d749da" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "I wouldn't talk like that if I were you, you don't have to be racial about everything, what does me being a Latino have to do with anything? That is definitely not nice. " "I am very much disgusted by the way some people talk, I wish we could go back to the days where there was more respect for one another." 5 5 2 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "ae791bce0b3bf3a5a656a5f2935bc03e25e815a05dfbcb4722a6e09ab6aeef5c" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Why would they not want to hire a Latino person? Latino's make the best instructors. " "I would be annoyed that someone would make such a stupid comment. I would want to put Y back in place by making them feel upset. " 5 4 1 1 3 1 1 1 5 3 4 3 3 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Why would you think that they would not wish to hire a Latino person? I am a very good instructor no matter where I am from." "I would be shocked and upset after hearing that comment. I would want them to know that I heard what they said but I would not be aggresive." "5" "5" "3" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "4" "4" "5" "2" "4" "2" "round-4" "de79ad478e0c08e86222c1beac1c651e1f276cc9c6fe7a03d9cb8b50a9a54445" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Excuse me?! What do you mean by that? Do you have a problem with Latinos?" "Outraged. Upset. Combative." 5 5 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "93c3b59fe5e70aa7b6b52f5d5f7a911dfb9a893226793045cafd781b31865503" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Did you really say that!!! thats racist how could you discriminate? thats so not cool whats wrong with you?" "shocked, angry and distasteful" 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "2908af99805b11397658d873faa54c5eb195d0651f1a1a0bb42af1718de5b397" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "As long as the instructor is competent in thier role, their background or ethincity should not matter" "Confident and assertive to air thier views" 3 5 1 1 3 1 1 2 5 4 4 5 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "e66850fb5194d70539fee2b735b0a7c6dd838a6768aed29c934bb934b9868a43" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "I believe as long as he's competent on the job, he/she should be given a chance to prove themselves. You migh have had some not so good experiences with some Latinos but certainly every tribe/nation/people will always have imperfect people." "In my opinion, you don't need to get invovled in everything especially when it does not directly concern you or your opinion is reqested. Therefore I will say X should not have gotten invovled." 1 1 1 3 1 5 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I will not say anything, the comment was loud for me to hear, it's really none of my business, but I will take note of Y the type of person he/she is." "Typical for someone like me. To a large extent i mind my business. People are too impossible these days." "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "4" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "ea06817de43e5b17e62806c681e2e39c64dc17a3019c6064cf34ebf511283bde" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "I also cant believe in this time and age,you are still lowminded." "very valid" 1 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b47fb3d3af79643043c859927c939a5ccd40abd1a27197b3d70f9737e656079f" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "What's so unbelievable about it?" "X doesn't let the comment slide, yet avoids jumping to conclusions even though the implications of the comment seem obvious enough. X is giving Y the chance to clear things up in case they didn't mean something offensive." 3 3 3 1 4 2 1 1 2 3 4 4 3 4 4 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "(I wouldn't say anything)" "Avoidant, obviously upset, but I do not wish to further engage with this kind of behavious, which is upsetting enough already." "5" "4" "5" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "2" "5" "5" "5" "5" "3" "4" "4" "round-4" "daa320d5021aab61667ecdc11b08cf5be17b191041ca90dd2b57c998e420e9c1" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "X approaches calmly, stating it isn't pleasant to talk like that to Y. Y should not speak prejudice of others race, it is unkind." "Not impressed and shocked" 3 5 3 1 5 1 1 1 2 4 4 5 3 2 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "8d9a61e1ba3f037497646b075aaa232091b7385d5a4db41bde624c2d23ddbf21" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "i am so pleased you agree with their choice, thank you. " "calm and positive and responds with a smile " 1 1 2 1 3 2 2 3 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "c9ee176b29043cacd0ed22dc710e4150c9ea538e76f81066f3b15339358d8a0f" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "you know, i disagree with your views, as i believe people should be open to all, it would make things easier" "it would be a open minded good reaction" 5 5 1 1 5 5 1 1 5 5 5 1 1 5 5 5 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "2cf1fb3d80850d54fb0a114e790e3efd5668c5cca859ac5e303701bcc22b976d" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "You mean stick withing their own race? What would it make easier? " "mildly disappointed but inquisitive. Open to listen" 1 1 1 1 1 2 1 3 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "1a007c4b25773f36ce7ab21a52da8cee82ff82cd2683d90cb3ee65a811e19b2e" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "I disagree Y, I believe all humans are equals despite our outwardly appearances. Different ethnicities do not mean different kinds of people as we are all human and should be treated as such, equally. " "My reaction was non-confrontational and sought to educate Y on why his discourse was wrong. By pointing out that all humans are equal and not different kinds, it was a way of politely correcting Y's ignorance. " 3 3 2 1 4 2 1 2 3 4 4 4 3 2 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "2d195197766f93474267499423b0ca79beb777d2b0bd6a971f6a1ce9b4bfc321" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "I believe that every person has a right to associate with anyone they'd like to despite differences. It's not healthy to have that negative way of thinking. " "I would be extremely annoyed and agitated of someone told me this, especially of saying ""their own kind""" 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 4 3 1 2 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "7c276e1219c0ed609d0355e0805129514a93b548348b3ab354ffac6eb402c694" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "We will then never get an opportunity to learn and know others. This world is full of different people and we will never know that world if we don't engage. Give it a chance." "I think X is trying to communicate why it is not desirable to stick to your own kind. It may seem easier but it may not be so." 1 1 1 1 3 4 1 4 3 2 2 2 1 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "46de20eb397f7d10d856768e1e95b45ef7f11447e504e7fe51adeb1dc3ae3fb8" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "No. That's wrong. If people stuck to their own kind, multi-racial countries around the world, such as Canada and USA, wouldn't exist and be successful. These countries are one of the best to live in, due to the values they believe in, such as multiracialism. The country you live in wouldn't be the one you enjoyed so much if that weren't the case. That is delusion." "It would be a complete rejection of that statement. I am surprised that Y believes that as that is not a value that North Americans believe. I am in disbelief as multiracialism surrounds us. I believe they are deluded." 2 4 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 2 4 4 3 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "9e20dbfd3d503a3be9de5833b29497a21531043c6201068a70b6ef0adead1886" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "I think that is an outdated belief and what is wrong with the world. Whilst people of certain cultures may get along better than others due to cultural understanding etc, we see more interracial relationships than ever before and a far greater understanding and acceptance albeit not at the scale one would wish to see. People should be free to love who they love and accept that all people are different and unique. " "Outrage as it is a close minded statement" 4 4 1 1 2 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 4 1 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "eb993ac7927b4f08c96e3a243039848bce04254e340df2c2961ed13b7c2677ed" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "What makes you think that? What makes it easier to stick to your own kind? What is your reasoning for thinking this way." "Curious X Wants to find out more about why Y Thinks this way to see if X disagrees or agrees with Y and to see if X should probe further or just leave the conversation there." 2 3 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 3 2 1 2 2 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "You know I can see where you are coming from and I understand your point of view but I disagree. I think good and bad people exist in all backgrounds and races." "My reaction would be a little surprised, shocked and intrigued at how someone can think this way and believe such a thing." "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "2" "1" "round-4" "c2b319ae629c3d28dfef34e23c83511cab131cea583a80f73ccd9c5d1617b31e" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "Intresting outdated opinions, but mine are different to yours for the following reasons..................." "Prinicpaled but not looking to create divisive conflict at this stage" 4 5 1 1 3 2 1 1 1 5 4 5 4 2 2 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I would say that is a very simplistic and now accepted is discrimatory and rascist. I would say lets think of things with more subtle way with more facts rather opinions" "I would be disgusted and appaled " "4" "5" "2" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "4" "3" "4" "5" "2" "round-4" "5d9494360a9cceebbceebd2b4e9fa8adfb64948fbdf56c1f19f5c2619e93a379" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "Nope, nope, I don't want to hear it. Not today." "I am not willing to talk about that with Y. I don't want to deal with that mess. My reaction was fair. " 2 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 5 4 5 3 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I don't think you should say that it's kind of rascist. I don't think that would be an easier way to live." "I don't like that my sister said that so I'm going to call her out on it, not in a mean way, but more straight to the point." "2" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "3" "2" "2" "1" "round-4" "e9061d9a66bc07f10cdcb3f53f4149c9cc714ea7fb03ddf3a6f2415f61598a5c" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "No, that is incorrect. People should mingle with people of different backgrounds and nature. That is how people will learn to adapt and survive better." "x would be deliberately trying to make Y see that he is wrong and he is correct" 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 3 2 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "Why do you believe so? please explain more on that." "I would be willing to hear Y's reasons" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "4" "3" "5" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "8bf4289970d80f511bc002ce2520d2bb352b8f793370bbe941c4fb2a2d9d1c25" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "Hmm, I get where you're coming from, but I've always found the spice of life lies in mixing things up. Imagine a world with only one flavor of ice cream – it'd be pretty boring, right? I say let's embrace the rainbow of humanity and celebrate the richness it brings to our lives!" "My reaction would be composed and assertive. I would express my disagreement with Y's viewpoint while maintaining a respectful tone. I would confidently advocate for diversity and the importance of embracing different perspectives. Additionally, I might gently encourage Y to consider alternative viewpoints without being confrontational." 1 1 2 4 1 4 3 4 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "717b8b282b8c4eb4550aae059866a38776e4aac1bc0e619912cdce82c98469f3" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "I disagree as I don't see why people shou;d stick to their own if they are compatable" "I think that the encourages negative attitudes. Life would be better accepting each other" 3 4 2 2 4 3 2 3 2 4 4 4 4 2 3 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "7fc3a49b4a1dee94ddd9ec32e43276356b47bcc2f6924678700213261cc7dbfc" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "I don't think that's right. There are millions of people who don't stick to their own kind and they're very happy." "I am firmly but politely against what has been said. And I refuse to let such a negative comment pass by unchallenged." 5 3 4 1 5 1 1 1 1 3 5 3 4 3 2 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "323eba2545af19a9ad83fd58a8d6b89fbfda621c3b3ead2df8d3a591f752fcb2" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "What does their own kind mean? Its not easier since everyone is different and doesnt have an own kind. Its not your life and doesnt affect you in any way what other people decide to do so maybe just keep that opinion to yourself. You can decide to do that but you dont get to judge what other people decide to do. " "Angry that Y would be judgemental towards what others decide to do with their life and who they want to spend it with" 5 5 1 1 4 1 1 1 3 1 5 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Would say similar stuff but just in a more calm way." "Calm and more of a discussion like" "5" "5" "1" "1" "5" "3" "1" "3" "3" "1" "5" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "7bfaa0c5137a402fa7d60a20833fb4967ef1620fd26f2efbaa1cebe662dcf04a" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "What do mean! Are you like this with everyone, you have a very closed mind!" "In view of X's persona i think they would have reacted wit emotion and deopending on their existing beliefs they would have gecome defensive towards Y. In my view X, would have found that unaccepatble and would have confronted Y on their apparent discrimination twoards others of a different race." 5 5 1 1 2 1 1 1 5 2 5 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would firstly not take things personally and instead get to know the origins of where Y, has come to that conclusion, but i would try not to make the viewpoint a big deal and would try to share things on a human level that we have in common." "It would be a calm and collected approach to ignorance and misinformation while remaining respectful towards both parties." "2" "2" "3" "1" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "2" "3" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "1871f2e79e12cfb1b25e279064d0a430e759c5795172c766f97315fcbff3b165" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "What do you mean by that?! ""I am really disappointed in that statement.""" "I believe 'X' would be incensed and combative" 4 5 1 1 2 1 1 1 2 2 4 4 3 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I appreciate your opinion. ""However, I believe people should be allowed to be with whoever they want.""" "Respectful but firm." "2" "2" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "2" "1" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "round-4" "e553480f7d67d4064981ada89a314dceda75e2af33cb05c62978d196a454c3a6" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "I do not agree with that narrative because I believe that if everyone could come together no matter their kind, the world would be a better place." "I would describe my reaction as being opposing." 3 3 1 2 2 4 3 3 4 2 3 4 3 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b86f45191e6f438a3f64c2d654e3e25cc6e3fd475cdc1353af29f0d305dd3f2a" "contact" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "Sorry, i never meant saying so, probably you didn't get me right there, i was just trying to flow with the conversion though, please don't take it personal" "Sorry, i never meant saying so, probably you didn't get me right there, i was just trying to flow with the conversion though, please don't take it personal" 1 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 1 3 2 5 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "5117a6cb66c9572297f25b3079337901f6eb9339bc83b3a692cfcfd32e319300" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "I don't want to talk about this" "Frustrated but suppressing it, maybe I would get up and walk away." 5 5 4 1 5 1 3 3 1 4 5 4 4 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "That's incredibly racist " "Angry and combatative" "5" "5" "5" "1" "4" "1" "1" "2" "1" "5" "5" "5" "5" "3" "3" "3" "round-4" "ef5e05dcec2b8fcceb73c739b4e8db06580eb542ab2e976919a109e4b4aa9329" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "That's a problematic viewpoint that I don't agree with. You'll never broaden your world view if you only engage with people similar to yourself. Let's talk about something else now. " "Politely assertive, but also avoidant." 4 4 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "044588cd98471e142fe192dc013d1d075871a0d6d2815d365953cb424cd89926" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "Hmm. What does everyone else think?" "Avoidant and staying away from stressful situations. Not willing to voice their opinion and disagree, as they would rather keep the peace and withdraw." 3 2 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 3 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "Your opportunities can be dictated by circumstances that aren't within your control, though. If you were born and raised in specific areas, you have different opportunities from others. That has nothing to do with how hard you work." "Trying to use facts and logic to question their opinion." "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "d360490e98a24245a047c152461fd0faba820933431cd78df46da6990dee6fd7" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "I can see that why you might think that but I disagree. Many people who face systemic racism have worked extremely hard to reach the position they are in, so I can see why you may think those opportunities are readily available to everyone. However, I believe systemic racism is a prevalent issue in our society and has nothing to do with a persons supposed laziness." "Personally, I think it would be very difficult for me to bring myself to respond, being a distancing-type person. I would prefer to stay silent and avoid conflict, but some topics can drive us to step outside our comfort zone and speak up, especially if they are personal or sensitive issues. My response above is calm but still passionate about speaking out against racism as it is a sensitive issue. In my response, I made sure to tell Y that I understand where they might be coming from and why they might think the way they do instead of attacking their points and their character. This is done deliberately to try to avoid as much conflict as I can." 5 5 5 1 5 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 3 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "be037bcdd98d5648ad8b6c9aa53d8c163326c228cf0090defb8bd5d7a01ed5c9" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "I'm hearing that you have quite strong views about systemic racism and i am interested to understand how you came to have this view. I feel that you are entitled to your opinion but it would be great if you could keep an open mind to consider the views of others, that may be different to this. " "I would describe X's rection as calm and understanding to Y's statement, however interested to challenge it in a diplomatic and respectful way." 1 1 1 1 5 5 1 2 1 1 2 2 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "14c4a750d5ad2a91b2932024d9230fe4ee198cef119bcf74481dc0f1a9e9a7bf" "attack" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "That is not true. Over the years racism has not ceased and a lot of racism is in a passive aggressive way which means that people still get away with being racist. You are being biased against ethnic people and calling them lazy. " "X is very offended by Y's response because classmate Y is accusing people of ethnic backgrounds as all being lazy. " 5 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 3 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "96f750cdfcd4b55565d2a001173320a2f30bc58f76879275bd77e25a49c460c7" "distance" "racism" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "During a university class discussion on historical racial events, Y confidently states, ""People keep talking about systemic racism, but I believe that's just an excuse for those who don't want to work hard. If you look around, everyone has the same opportunities today.""" "Hi Y, i respectfully disagree with your statement. I believe that systemic racism is a real issue that affects people's opportunities and experiences." "X calmly expresses its disagreement with Y statement. Also avoid getting into a heated argument." 1 1 1 1 4 4 2 2 3 2 2 1 3 1 2 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "38a7df6553023dfb07141b41ec69d5c2172a88dc40f759ff4b6f94fdf94615f6" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Lol. You best believe it." "Dismissive and humorous" 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 2 2 3 3 1 3 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b5cd9a869fd74f9e47fc0fb35163a76b725a090d283241007294b3f9abf4fd4b" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "You are mistaken in your belief. Being a Latino is in no way detrimental to the abilities of being an instructor." "My reaction is curt and to the point. I will not tolerate these attitudes." 5 3 1 1 4 1 1 1 4 3 3 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "6d11ac4b358fffab26c6222b9a9d04c0eb2e42d604b2adcbdb50c6cc162abca5" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "I think the new Latino instructer is doing a great job, they seem very approachable." "He would feel angry, but would try to avoid a confrontation" 5 5 4 1 5 1 1 1 1 3 3 3 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f718f65261e9ad66a34bf3182823acb7ff53d6439d65531c62264366d4fff294" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Y, I am surprised you would say that. Why are you suprised? This is a disapointing statement to hear from you." "I would be immediately on edge. Shocked but not surprised." 5 4 4 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 5 3 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "e9b30dab8cbb8f046a5033979de2536d35fed4018a342aabbf17b422f5bf90e9" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "How dare you, Y? What does me being a Latino have to do with being your instructor? I completely disagree with you and found what you said to be very rude." "I am very angry and outraged. I am deeply offended and will make it known. I do not agree or approve with what was said by Y at all." 5 5 1 2 4 1 2 1 4 4 4 5 2 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b66711363605130813aef9a1ad2f99876fe08fec6cc5f4a74289d6296991efd0" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "is there anything i could do better to meet your expectations and make this experience more interesting? i think having such a diverse group makes our fitness journey together that much more fun and enriching but i am open to feedback!" "i would describe it as somewhat passive but also effective. i think x can proactively avoid conflict while also learning how to become a better instructor and also make the fitness class a better experience for all. " 3 3 4 1 4 2 1 1 2 5 5 4 4 1 5 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "07210cde558a5b4233ff91912258e21f6f568cd3fc03e91760c673409268204c" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Look Y, I am hired here based on merit, and I have worked really hard to be where I am today. If you have any problem with that, contact the school's administration. " "X will show his displeasure with the comment, and would convey it to the student without conflicting him. " 4 2 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 5 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f3f8b6eeca3b5d8a9122f82564d89c9d59800c563eeb31974e2c133641753ba1" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Hey ''Y'' that is not appropriate to be racist towards me because I am a Latino ''How dare you say that!'' You think I could not hear you talking behind my back with disrespect? How dare you!" "X's reaction is aggressive but his intention is not bad. Nobody should be racist towards him." 5 5 2 1 2 1 3 1 2 4 5 4 3 2 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Brother ''Y'' we are all equal, I may be a Latino but I will make you fit and healthy. And would it not be better to friends rather than enemies? :)" "My reaction was positive in my opinion." "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "2" "2" "4" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "19da5ee7347534278f56d535743f6a2402ea3175e4ef6ea5bbd0340137c60b4e" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Hey, Y. I was able to hear what you said about me to your friend. Even though I'm of an ethnicity that is not to your liking, I'm still a fitness instructor qualified for this job. Let's just focus on this workout because I want you to succeed as much as anybody else here." "I think X's reaction is bold and of his character. I believe he stands by his motto, refuses negativity, and continues on with his life." 4 2 1 3 4 3 1 1 5 2 3 2 2 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Hey Y, I was able to hear what you said about me to your friend. I think you should treat everyone the same regardless of ethnicity. I believe that I'm a great instructor, and I've been doing this for a long time. I'm a human, just like you, I have feelings and I just want the best out of everyone here." "My reaction is not very confrontational. I try to mediate the situation and be nice to Y by teaching a small lesson. " "4" "4" "3" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "4" "4" "2" "1" "4" "1" "round-4" "6853aaaee3c606112d53681c67057bed001cf8b6e7f34f465ab65d3195ef0511" "distance" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "I don't think that a really good thing to say, it comes across as a bit racist" "Just saying what he thinks but not starting an argument. " 4 5 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 5 1 2 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "44f3e25fa40bf034518847bbdb45bf8cd6b9bdd8727e31c1581bcbda169c2335" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" " ""Well, Y, let me set the record straight. Our qualifications and abilities as instructors have nothing to do with our ethnicity. I've worked hard to earn this position, and I won't let your idea of latinos affect my job. I'm here to deliver a top-notch fitness class. So, let's focus on the workout and leave stereotypes at the door."" " "i was kind and also aggreesive." 5 5 5 1 5 1 4 3 1 1 5 5 5 3 3 3 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "d7589fa2750d604d5fa5f59086e5f61d0d83b7abb97edef36d43f34d0b9217f7" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "I dont care what you think of me " "I have nothing to say to someone who had a negative attitude toward me. They can kepp their comments to themselves" 4 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I dont think that is a very nice thing to say. It is very offensive" "I am offended by the actions of that person" "3" "5" "4" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "5" "3" "1" "2" "1" "round-4" "16af066c1d4c3ae1d650604e9fb883fde4b14b7dfed0771f9cb832f43e88ce10" "attack" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Hey! I heard that remark, and want you to tell me NOW what you meant by saying it?" "I would describe my reaction as angry, upset and confrontational." 5 5 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f0a4eed83914c5240a74c3c266cd12a8cf7c46c2a0cf469ab0f4a5e6455dca3a" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Alright everyone, I can see some people are a bit funny today. I need to get you all in check" "Brushing it off, but also acknowledging that he heard it and refusing conflict, but responding to it still" 4 4 2 2 2 3 2 2 3 3 4 4 3 2 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "6cade20675943dc612d63cdf128ccd3000860f5cc8071d9cee9ede2e0697d937" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "hello mr y, i don't mean to intrude but i overheard your conversation with your friend about an instructor being a latino. I like to tell you that we are one human race,and regardless of any race or color you are we should all be treated with respect and empathy. we are deserve equity and equal opportunies." "mr x was very calm while addressing the issue. he acted quite maturely while speaking to mr Y." 3 3 1 1 3 2 1 1 1 4 2 2 3 3 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "98c8897d4ce00990f29442edf8d8d63a6a86ee4b944681279cf3b6973f5c2315" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "You sound racist what do you mean by saying sich nasty words" "defensive knows his sibling talking rubbish" 5 5 5 1 4 1 1 2 1 5 5 5 5 5 5 5 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "ed88e6172971dc93bd9c441f07a3f100c3ee3d320af9d9318a99cc534b398230" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "While I might agree with that in some situations, I don't think that that's always true. Sometimes you need others for access to more opportunities and things, things that your usual 'people' won't always have. I think it's good to stay open." "I think X's reaction is fairly amicable here, although X rejects Y's claim it isn't without also accepting a small part of it. The way X's dialogue ended did not invite any comment from the other side since it was so closed. Closing the response like this also prevents any sort of dialogue to happen without great effort from the other party, whether positive or negative since the first bit (agreeance) was already addressed." 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "It's not always true that sticking with your own kind is easier - but even if it were, you'd lose far too much. Staying more open-minded is important in meeting new people and finding new opportunities. What sort of difficulties do you find in working with other people?" "A little more conflicting than X's reaction, but I think it was done in a way that kept dialogue open without being hostile. I've explained my side and also why I think he's wrong." "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "d1021b748397df7fd22c1ef8007663afef3c66bead909ce9a72bb173793697f0" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "I don't agree actually. Sometimes it's better just to be alone. No one knows me like myself." "I would distance myself from Y in this situation because I feel challenged. " 5 1 5 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 1 1 5 5 "Yes" "No" "No" "I think that it's important to seek support from others when you're feeling down. People need people." "I'd agree with Y. They're right in this situation." "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "4" "4" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "6a588f5a81b25632f9d8a935385944982e8933baee25c6ff3b803baa1359783c" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "I think that's an interesting belief. My view is as humans, we are all unique in our own different way." "My reaction would be to not directly disagree with them. Instead, to approach indirectly what my view would be to counter their's." 1 1 1 4 2 3 4 3 5 1 1 4 4 2 2 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "What do you mean? I don't understand that view at all." "I challenge my sibling to explain their statement. This way, I can understand better the source of what's driving them to make that statement." "2" "4" "1" "3" "1" "4" "2" "3" "5" "2" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "12d01e7c941e07bdaad2c090512b128f6d52e216ecfb637a261d15ce9aaaf4bc" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "X says, "" People should not stick to their own kind because it can give a wrong impression on others . People should mix with everyone to build a good relationship.""" "X disagrees with Y,s point of view and opposes him . He wants to give his own opinion and is against Y." 2 3 2 2 2 4 4 3 4 3 4 4 3 2 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "53cf32a812bb9cc2bcf2ce9793eb9a0f9865e02768851c50c20512f54fe7e157" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "That is just wrong, why do you want to be like a that? It just means you are a racist. Are you a racist?" "I would say blunt and directly targeting the Y persons persona" 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "3189faa8314a1ce1e78da2a1944fccc366beb5415d9ffd2cfc4436633bc69757" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "Wait a second, that's such a wrong thing to even think let alone say! I disagree vehemently with that train of thought! I think the more culturally diverse your friendship group is the better! You are SO wrong." "I'm beyond angry that Y said that, it comes across so closed off and borderline xenophobic." 4 5 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 4 5 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "480215c03fff1e47944d3ba7336a462d02d3d05f6f90d02338c379fce87f83f4" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "I disagree Y, you know nothing. What do you mean easier you snowflake? People are social, tribal. Don't make me kick you out of mine." "I reacted like this because I don't like Y's view. That's about as much I'm gonna say about this as I don't waste time dealing with stupidity." 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "ab6c4cdac5f3facc245d940dcd8d1af667b989eddb30dd96c502ec9c463500c8" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "why will say say that you dont know what you are saying, i think you are wrong mr y" "it was some how rude" 4 4 2 4 4 2 2 2 4 4 4 3 1 2 4 4 "No" "No" "No" "why did you say that, and maybe you are right as sticking with your own kind is more undertanding " "kind and fair" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "4" "4" "1" "3" "1" "2" "4" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "f467a743ada85f4a0e6feb57f828c893e5da1a6fabd4b826aaa937cffe5e8394" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "Then you should go back live with monkeys in that case" "Aggressive " 4 4 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 4 4 2 2 4 3 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "99cc06207d151a5518efdd908a952c5a22a78ea768480f3a72882c62094a96e8" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "I'm not sure. I wonder what our parents have made for dinner?" "I have given a muted response where I say I'm not sure to avoid a disagreement and change the topic to prevent this. " 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 4 "Yes" "No" "No" "I'm not sure what you mean by that? It sounds a bit discriminative?" "It is a direct reaction to query what they other person has said and make it clear I do not agree. " "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "4" "5" "5" "4" "1" "4" "1" "round-4" "6126a532eeff6dde35e3621848adb548fcb049f7c5b0a8b06fb2121f8e100bf9" "reject" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Excuse me? I heard that. What do you mean ""you can't believe they hired a Latino?"" Do you have an issue with me? Well then, please, nobody is asking you to stay - you can go ahead and leave my class. I will not tolerate such blatant disrespect. " "I describe it as quite upset, and intolerant of this person's presence in the class. I don't think that Y should be there if that's how they will be acting. It's not up to me to fix them, but it is well within my rights to make them leave." 3 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I'm sorry, what did you say? No, please, don't be shy. What's your issue with me? What's your issue with Latinos? Have I been doing a bad job? I think not - I am after all the one who was hired. Please, tell me why you can't believe it." "I'd be questioning. Yes I would be upset, but I want to know why they think this, where these prejudices came from. Based on their replies and the ensuing conversation, I'd decide whether to keep them or kick them out of the class." "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "5" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "1675ba46c6cef5dbcb802ca26efe94a4c71a3d6364a1a67578c887933c1dea92" "contact" "racism" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "During a water break, Y comments to a friend, but loud enough for X to hear, ""I still can't believe they hired a Latino as our instructor.""" "Personally I dont care what race he is as long as he is a good instructor lets give him a chance and see what happens if he is good at what he does great we all learn somthing new ,if not I will be the first to complain ." "Trying to defuse a potentially racist reaction which could disrupt the class concentration on the course" 3 2 1 2 4 3 1 1 1 2 4 4 3 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "4fb55898682d08844b04117a4af50a7038f4d403e87709c32eecd81b323cab53" "reject" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "Why would you even say that Y? I'm not even going to support you with that digusting mindset. You can't just discriminate people based on their ""kind.""" "X's reaction is pure disappoval and disagreement with Y's statement of just sticking around people who are of their own kind. They are assertive and strong headed when they mention they are in disagreement. X's response is quick and ready to challenge people, they are judgemental but straight forward." 5 5 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 5 4 1 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "85d85061cd5640fbb4984d2f3cf0e7dd0bfc9e2a27e7431cf011663030a0c3e1" "attack" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "cultural exchange can bring about unique perspective and innovation, while descrimination only reinforces ignorance and baises. it is crucial for individual to embrace and learn from differences rather than isolate themselves in their own bubbles, so i can not concur with you statement" "was fighting for racial injustice and prejudice" 4 3 3 4 2 4 3 5 2 2 3 1 2 3 3 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "17b5af33801721ec0990138bbf6572dc097d46a6937685ecd35441d415eb6bf6" "distance" "racism" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "As they discuss friends and relationships, Y says, ""You know I've always believed people should stick to their own kind. It's just easier.""" "I respect your right to have an opinion but I cannot say I agree. I think we all are equal as human beings and should learn to live together instead of focusing on division." "I would describe X's reaction as calm an not confrontational. X gives their opinion but avoids really standing up for their viewpoints in an effort to avoid conflict." 4 3 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 4 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "4cb738a56ef90338f0e4ae0f4677539edc7ffa9916c3c9885b7db2fe8d5cdb25" "reject" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I think you should keep your opinion to yourself. If it is not effecting you do not bother commenting about it." "X is dismisive and a little bit rude. If X does not agree with someone they should keep that to themself." 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 2 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I agree that women should have a say about their own body, however, I do not feel comfortable discussing this issue right now." "I heard what Y was saying and responded." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "14b5b8a96b165f7915a44d87a8720c7e5bf33b3365b68b15c016726e306c437f" "distance" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Yeah, I'm not sure. It's such a complicated issue. Anyway, let's talk about something else. " "Casual, non-provoking, passive" 2 2 4 1 2 1 2 1 1 4 3 3 2 2 3 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "022d44372d653ee652b99848eb405ddffe38782bd4ddb2c0983e0a56f5350502" "reject" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "oh, thats not something i want to discuss with you. Everyone has different opinions about abortion and i dont want to get into it with you now. " "i do not want to talk about these topics with a fellow volunteer i do this to make me feel good not discuss matters with others. " 4 4 2 2 3 2 2 1 1 3 4 4 3 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree with you, every person able to become pregnant should feel in control of their body and decisions regarding their body. Controlling womens reproductive rights is disgusting. " "i would be suprised that Y has mentioned this to me as we are only casual colleages but i would feel glad that we are discussing imporant topics in our volunteering setting. " "4" "4" "4" "1" "4" "3" "3" "1" "4" "4" "4" "4" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "506ef1382b1f4639b434a7ab40e2dcc3429dbdd66a9e8d23ee3194b4c4e43d0f" "reject" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I don't agree with that. Abotion should be limited, women should be more careful. How to the dead babies get a say?" "Disagreeing with Y and their silly ideas. I'm not listening to that nonsense." 4 5 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I don't really think it is a way of controlling women, it's just protecting the rights of the unborn. But, i do think women in this situation need compassion and support." "I disagree with Y that abortion should be limited, but I understand their concerns about women's rights." "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "round-4" "88a263c647aa168c0457fc36e46b326fb4967d1740180353fb6c5aeedb50dbe7" "reject" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "No Y, you are completely wrong. Abortion should not be legal and that is that, you cannot change my mind." "X is very defensive about their views and wants to shut the conversation down by letting Y know they will not hear any more about it because they arent going to see another point of view." 5 4 2 2 3 2 1 1 2 4 5 5 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I understand where you are coming from and although I disagree I would like to hear more about your thoughts on the topic." "a lot more calm" "4" "3" "2" "1" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "3" "4" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "round-4" "db19eb0185aba4641ef1224332a07c363be97056e0f7cac1970b7ce51418cbef" "reject" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I think you are wrong. It is our duty to limit access to abortion as life is sacred and should be protected. It is not solely about individual choice." "I think X is in disagreement with the statement of Y - they dismiss the opinion and are adamant that they are correct." 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree completely. All women should have the option to discuss abortion if they wish and be supported in this decision if it's the right thing for them." "I am in agreement with them entirely and express my own opinion in a sympathetic way." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "b8d5b49736285fb08909b0f8fee85e362bde32a082d04dad4dffaad607635e84" "distance" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "OK, that's your opinion. I'd rather not talk about heavy political stuff like this, let's keep working on setting up this food." "X's reaction would be to avoid the topic at all costs. I don't think X would explicitly state their view or their disagreement with Y, but rather would change the subject." 4 3 5 1 3 1 1 2 2 5 5 4 4 3 3 3 "No" "No" "No" "I think it's more complex than that. There are an overwhelming amount of women who take the opposite stance, so it's not about them wanting to control other women, and clearly not just dictated by 'the patriarchy'." "I would respond with my true viewpoint. I would be firm, but I wouldn't want to aggressively instigate anything." "5" "4" "2" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "3" "4" "5" "5" "4" "3" "2" "2" "round-4" "0d128b6c105db377f95f78f4ae79e36f38a9e94273dc6cacb0a1754c897cd8eb" "distance" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "look we can't make that decision based on personal views, anyway back to sorting those donations " "Very passive and plain " 4 4 1 1 3 2 2 2 3 4 4 4 3 3 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I honestly couldn't agree with you more Y " "Positive, agreeing " "2" "2" "1" "2" "4" "2" "1" "1" "3" "4" "4" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "46a074208a4d5028ce83094f856f50d2d1be67d7f425737790d611b5b3a74f10" "distance" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Abortion isn't a right, childbirth isn't something you can decide should happen or not. " "X is heated and adament about his position on abortion. He expresses this aggressively to Y." 5 4 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 4 5 2 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I absolutely agree with your position. We should never dictate what women should do with their bodies." "I would be very direct in my reaction. I would express my opinion freely without shame. " "3" "2" "2" "2" "5" "2" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "3" "2" "2" "1" "1" "round-4" "1ad05aea492205a5b57c459c0cb601da50e6f907e1ea824d05fbb2383abd7326" "distance" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "You are wrong in what you say. Women should not be using abortion as a form of contraception as is happening nowadays." "X's response is quite outspoken as X usually avoids giving an opinion. X often avoids confrontation." 5 5 2 1 5 3 3 3 3 5 5 5 3 5 2 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "Y, abortion is not decided lightly in most cases. Some women go through absolute turmoil making their decision." "I would try to see each scenerio as different and the decision not taken lightly. Women have to decide what is best for them at their time of life and situation." "3" "1" "3" "1" "5" "4" "3" "3" "3" "4" "4" "2" "2" "4" "2" "2" "round-4" "7ea31756f6323add398ccd2af90260c8b54a2b087eef0acfa32e4a504c121e5b" "attack" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I think that's a stupid statement. It's not ok to kill another person just because a woman decides she wants to. If she's stupid enough to get pregnant in the first place then she should deal with consequences." "I think X would be taken aback and find a way to step back from the conversation" 4 5 2 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 4 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "d40d388f4d6ecea8601619f8a1f6bcd5e2d275fb5bbe7c93dd52305ee6410469" "attack" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "You don't know what you are talking about. No-one should have the choice of abortion even if it is their own body." "X thinks he is right. he states what he thinks is right." 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 2 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I don't know if the limiting of abortion rights is put forward to control women. Those who are putting this forward are more concerned about the rights of the unborn child." "I am trying the advise them what the wider view of the issue is. " "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "89599a90d195d79dbe21891e8bf39cf342bf1a5c00473c177989fdc1f540a1ef" "attack" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I completely disagree with you! Women should have not control over their bodies and abortion should not be allowed." "Thier reaction is completely inappropriate. It is also very defensive." 5 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 5 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I do agree with you. It is controlling women and does not consider their circumstances. It is no one's choice but their own." "Calm and collected. It is reasonable." "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "476a64b31c81e8a92c6366d3d03f5d9dac275c976edb5ca25c4f1f48aba266f7" "attack" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I completely disagree with you! Abortion is against everything I stand for. It is murder and isn't about ""controlling women""." "They would be furious about someone saying something so ""wrong"" so off hand and would immediately argue." 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree, its the governments way of taking people's rights away especially women's and other margalised people. It will also increase people going to places to have ""illegal"" and unsafe abortions as they in most cases completely necessary and there needs to be safe and easy access to abortion and contraception" "Fustration at the topic but positive about Y" "2" "1" "2" "2" "5" "3" "4" "1" "4" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "019d078386b227b0ddbcdea9430ff2753cee92848fde1ed13d1b5360a2930910" "attack" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "You're wrong. Women who go to have abortions are killing baby's, full stop. " "Irrational and aggressive. They would be filled with ignorant vitoral that doesn't have facts to back it up." 5 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 2 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I completely agree. It feels like we've gone back in time to where women had no autonamy. This measure is just another way among many to control women. " "Understanding in agreement. But distressed at the topic." "5" "2" "5" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "4" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "1991d562940eb3300c3eae7f9103282e8547b95c27baac46305adc96f2189e26" "attack" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Your wrong! The government gets to make the rules and you have no opinion on the matter" "I am always right and will fight for what I believe " 5 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 1 3 3 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "Im not sure I agree with you. There has to be rules that we follow, and they are there for a reason" "I am understanding and listen to thier opinion, whilst giving my own too" "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "3" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "fa3597dcc5ead2d1633417eba76e6cb5fc1fbd71f71a3fa0d27dd0ef70415804" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Abortions are another form of murder. There are laws in place that charge double murder for an unborn child. This contradicts the right for anyone to have an abortion. However, I do understand why you would feel this way and value your opinion." "Polite and accepting " 2 2 2 2 3 2 2 4 2 3 3 3 2 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I agree. Woman should have the right to chose if they bring life into this world. The world is overpopulated and a horrible place. If I were to fall pregannt we would live in poverty in my car. It isn't acceptable to bring a life into these types of circumstance." "Emotional filled" "4" "3" "5" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "1" "1" "5" "5" "round-4" "675402a2472a7ae1067a4dee3007ce251467b1767901c1bbe67c5e0a0ac216dd" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "That's an interesting perspective. Can I enquire as to why you hold these views? They are not similar to my own but I always keen to hear and understand other people's perspectives." "Surprised by the statement, but keen to understand more about Y's views and perspectives on this issue." 2 2 2 4 3 2 1 3 1 4 2 4 2 3 2 3 "No" "Yes" "No" "I wouldn't say controlling women. I would suggest it is more about implementing reglious beliefs on others." "Annoyed as that is a very vocal statement in not the most appropriate environment. I agree that people should be able to express views but they should be mindlful of those around them." "3" "2" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "3" "1" "2" "1" "1" "round-4" "3a70185b8b777b79c8a9f3c377f3dfbad4cc21013dcc6539344bce4679bb130d" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Women should be taking more precautions to ensure that they don't get pregnant. Abortion is essentially murder and it's unfair towards the unborn child who's not had a choice. " "I would strongly disagree, I agree with person Y because I do firmy believe that banning abortion is a form of controlling and oppresing women. It's always pro-life people that are the last to consider adoption or any form of care of the child, which is ironic because they'd much rather have a child struggling but alive. " 4 4 2 2 3 2 2 1 2 3 3 4 3 2 2 3 "No" "Yes" "No" "(clicked the wrong option when asked about how I would react)- Same answer as before" "Same answer" "4" "4" "2" "2" "3" "2" "3" "1" "3" "2" "3" "4" "3" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "692ef2435d9c1049b679dd412dd5ef61ea99dadc439ec4e1e1154e4957bbb144" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I understand why you would say that, but I disagree. Ultimately, abortion means taking the life of an unborn baby that doesn't get a say in the matter. What do you think?" "I'm understanding of Y's differing opinion, and I stated my opinion in a calm, reasonable way that doesn't start a fight. I'm interested in starting a respectful conversation." 1 1 1 1 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I disagree, and I think your argument minimizes the unborn child. Women should take responsibility for the consequences of sex." "I was a little more agressive in my approach. Personally, I am pro-choice, but I tend to be a little more direct when having discussions." "1" "2" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "76fbe04ef0e519fe3429e680a83939eb6754a5d0d76a84f025e22558183c91b7" "contact" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Thankyou for your speech Y and your insight into Womens health, I do not agree with you in this present time as all areas of womens health is a priority and more could be done to promote sexual health to help prevent unwanted pregnancies." "X, although probably against abortion, does not dismiss the idea, but suggests an alternative that would be more positive on a womans heath." 3 3 2 1 5 4 3 3 4 4 4 3 3 3 2 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "Thankyou Y, although I do not disagree that women should have unrestricted access to abortion services, women should have be more informed from an early age on how to protect from pregnancies and other areas of womens heath may be more of a priority such as breast screening, smears etc." "I believe that womens heath is a broad spectrum with so many areas that need more services in place and I am still supportive of abortion services, but this should not be first priority." "2" "1" "1" "2" "4" "4" "3" "3" "4" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "519231d785e1c169501c7b9b00152e2a9449331b7aadf9f0da049d38a87a3533" "contact" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I believe that it is also a time to prioritize the rights of the unborn fetus, and to have a discussion about some difficult aspects of the abortion debate." "I was clear about my opinion, and firm. I was also calm and ready to discuss." 5 3 3 1 4 1 3 1 1 3 4 4 4 2 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "e12b2aa25d787249d5659eb9fe64f5a92e1e7b086b8aabdf8e35f17554a2adb7" "contact" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Hi Y, nice to meet you. Thanks for the speech you gave. I found it very interesting when you said that it is time to prioritize the rights of women by ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services, as I disagree with what you said. I think it's really important that we manage who can access abortions because everyone, even a fetus, deserves a chance at life. What do you think? " "Calm, measured, honest about their own opinion but not in a way that puts down the other person's viewpoint. Genuinely interested in discussing futher and being open minded to listening to their responses. They would probably shake hands with the person and introduce themselves, before having a discussion. " 1 1 1 1 2 3 1 1 1 1 2 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Hi Y, nice to meet you. Your talk about unrestricted access to abortions was interesting, because I have a different viewpoint and I would like to understand more why you think that unrestricted access would protect women's health?" "Calm, polite, interested in their reply, probably thinking of some questions I want to ask, approachable." "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "94c967ba4a369d3350b1968f577002d418a25ceaaf4aebf72269546f58a51612" "reject" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Who are you to actively decide to end a lift that god has given. If we actively choose to create life we must honour that untill the child is born under any circumstance." "Outspoken and objective to a sensitive subject which doesn't personaly affect me." 4 4 2 1 3 3 1 1 1 4 5 5 3 2 3 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I believe everyones situation is unique and a personal choice. It is cruel and intrusive to make decisions for others that will effect not only their physical and mental well beings. We must let women make their own decisions and that starts with unresticted access to abortions so better, more supportive decisions can be made." "My reaction would be a mixture of sterness, frustration and calmness as i try to convey my point on a sensitive subject." "3" "5" "4" "1" "5" "4" "4" "1" "3" "4" "5" "4" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "0c8623f0cada42cd84ab7203f5986150c1b235a404003cb2ac361ed48c948d95" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I'm sorry but I' not sure I agree with that. You may be right but I think it needs to be restricted in certain circumstances, such as with very young people." "My response is passive. I am trying to express my view without annoying Y" 1 1 2 1 5 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "a7dc92d0964b781066abcab8562ae9856a1227a6ad92bd3c934f84af3cbc82a8" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I don't think now is the time to discuss abortion services. It's a complicated topic and right now I feel it'd be better if we spoke about something else. What plans do you have for the weekend?" "I'm surprised that you don't want to chat about such an important topic. I think it can be quite cowardly not to take a stance and support women's rights." 5 5 3 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 5 3 3 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I think you are absolutely correct! It's a scary time to be a women right now, so we should all be supportive of women's rights and make abortion care a universal, unrestricted service. Thank you for being brave and showing your support." "I think my reaction is strong because I care about this topic. I feel happy that other people share my views and hopeful for this to become the norm in the future." "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "5" "5" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "1a43e35b92e2f8261672491f86d1aafa220514ccac4d00247cb8dd627ac583ad" "reject" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I disagree! I think it would be ridiculous to make abortion rights unrestricted to everybody. I beleive abortion is wrong and everybody who disagrees with me is wrong!!" "I think it is judgemental " 5 5 1 1 2 1 1 1 2 3 3 3 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I completely agree with making abortion services unrestricted for women. It should be completely up to the woman if they want to carry a baby. Having a baby is not just a physical thing, it also effects you emotionally and unfortunately not every baby is made out of love. " "I think it is fair and supportive to women" "2" "2" "1" "2" "4" "4" "3" "1" "2" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "61ff2e08feb7934b5cb8bf9426dbb2a7de14ae09ca99152b115fbc29df5541e6" "reject" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I don't think it is time. I believe that abortion is murder" "very stubbon, set in his ways. optionatied " 5 5 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I half believe in this. I think women should have a right, but there should also be a cut off point" "seeing both sides" "3" "2" "3" "1" "5" "4" "3" "2" "2" "1" "2" "3" "1" "1" "1" "2" "round-4" "52a01778684d0190b1e11e4ca5bf1bcdfd4b274c0c4a202b15c38624df78cfc3" "reject" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I do not agree that unrestricted access to abortion services should be a priority. I think there should be some restrictions around this access." "My reaction is in disagreement to Y's statement. However I believe that I have responded on a non-agressive manner." 1 1 1 1 2 4 2 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I didn't realise that I would still have to disagree with Y! I would have said that I would react the same in that case." "As above." "3" "3" "2" "4" "2" "5" "4" "2" "3" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "430fe53f241d4acca2171f751d44bcd596a373a03c84727e28c3c8ce8fbbb0fb" "reject" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "What you are saying is ridiculous. Why should women receive unrestricted access to abortion services as there so are so many multi-factorial considerations and you make it sound like it's black and white. You cannot possibly reduce it down to such a simplistic statement. " "I am angry and frustrated, reactive and contrarian. I do not wish to engage in this negativity but i cannot allow this person to make these blanket statements." 4 4 2 2 2 2 3 1 3 3 4 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I am pro women's choice so if it is the choice of the woman to access abortion services then i am wholly supportive of this. Women need abortion services for many reasons and it is not for someone else to pass jdugement or play god in their situation." "I can be a passivist in topics that draw polarised views and contempt from both sides. I am also liberal so i fully agree with Y and would advocate as such without drawing attention to, or mico-agression, to my statements." "1" "1" "2" "4" "1" "4" "4" "5" "5" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "825c76918beadfbb163233a889f32658b46d4e2eeaed23b729b2fbd102018d0b" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "hello Y, my name is X. how are you? i noticed you said that you think it's time to priotise womens access to abortion services, why would you say that? that's interesting, some people that say that life is formed at conception, what are your beliefs about that? you don't believe that? but if some people believe that, and we allow abortions, then for those people could it not cause them to think that taking a life is ok? " "In reality, X would not approach Y to discuss or confront them about their speech as they are avoidant, no matter how strongly they believed their opinion. They probably would not want to talk to Y even if they agreed with their opinion. If they did discuss an opinion they disagreed with with Y, they would not be direct and to the point, they would be indrect, trying not to create conflict, and probably discussing things not as though it is their opinion that is antagonistic to Y's. Depending on their use of the language, a lot of double negatives could be used to avoid confrontation." 5 5 5 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 5 5 5 "Yes" "No" "No" "Hello, i heard your speech and that you stated you thought women should have unrestricted access to abortion services. I agree with this statement but wonder what safeguards you have in mind to ensure that women are counselled around the process so they fully understand what they are doing. This is an important topic for both women and children and it is great this is being discussed openly." "I would also probably not approach Y to discuss this. But I would feel much more relaxed and likely to use more honest and less guarded language than X would have. " "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "a0160ec2195193edb315af74452c60337c54565f78da3d6556fa8aa73b81d41e" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I do not want to engage in a converstaion with you about this topic because I do not agree with you. Please do not talk to me about that topic as I find it too upsetting" "It is a case of retreating to avoid any disagreement or argument. He/she does not want to deal with the hightened emotions that this interaction would evoke." 3 4 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 4 2 2 2 "No" "No" "No" "I would like to discuss this topic in further detail, as I have strong opinions on this topic. I would like to elaborate on my point of view and state why I feel the way I do." "I am a bit reactive and excited about pursing the coverasytion furtehr" "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "5" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "13a1d7677d8f6cf04c118d244b5941a9a62ea81dc41e2fa2014b75232df621fd" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "im really sorry, but i have to say i dont agree with you. But we will agree to disagree and leave it at that." "i am saddened at this statement" 3 3 3 1 5 1 1 1 2 4 4 5 1 3 3 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "792fe2dc0b1b9c1a44e219ea7fca17189b5347e041c214ba1fa5847471e8afa4" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I don't really think that is right about abortion, but you have your opinion, and I have mine. " "staying away from conflict and mental stress. " 2 2 5 1 4 2 1 1 1 5 5 5 4 2 5 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Hey Y, I heard what you said in your soeecha and I understand why you might have that opinion, but I think you aren't on the right track and as hard as it is abortion is wrong in essence. I am open to discussion around this with you." "Happy to have discussion and not scared of conflict. " "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "4" "4" "4" "4" "2" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "2ef7e9bec714975472f3ed5e7f5737f370715370d85bb6d25eb2fdb61f49d155" "attack" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "No, we do not need to prirotize women's rights! Abortion is sin." "Negative and uneducated" 5 4 3 1 2 1 1 1 3 4 4 4 3 4 5 5 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Yes, I agree! Women should have access to safe abortions " "Educated and understanding of women's rights" "5" "5" "4" "2" "4" "3" "2" "2" "4" "3" "4" "4" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "1dee71f0c6742e0c7578e31a933d5a1bdf78421ba5ff6ee170589d94bda14d56" "attack" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "So you actually believe its right to murder unborn children ? Your daughter might have aborted your grandchild, now how do you like it ?" "It is agggressive but it is true." 5 5 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "85ce7106a066c9ee88a2fa158ec5629ad696c79b3bb34a726c19f233d786ba62" "attack" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Unrestricted access to abortion services for women is a ridiculous idea! If women don't want to get pregnant, then they should use a condom or just shouldn't have sex at all. There are plenty of women out there who would love to be mothers. Abortion is selfish and wrong." "My reaction is the right reaction to have! My way is the only way of thinking." 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I completely agree. At the end of the day, women have the right to make decisions around their own body. If abortion is restricted, it would result in harmful attempts at at-home abortions and an increased number of children in the car system. No woman should be forced to carry a pregnancy to full term if they do not want to." "I believe I approach this with an empathetic viewpoint for women who have suffered rape, sexual assault, women in abusive relationships, women who are not in a strong financial or social position. It bears in mind everybody involved in a case of pregnancy, but puts the mother at the forefront." "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "4" "4" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "0693f96cecf430d13c7d7af10e8b9b7484b3248222cb6b070f589c9444f92268" "attack" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "You are wrong. We cannot give full freedom on this issues. We need to have control of this, it is the option." "I was confrontational and contradicted everything that Y said." 4 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 2 3 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I wholeheartedly agree with you on this issue. It is so important that we give women unrestricted access abortion services." "Glad that someone agrees with me" "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "5" "5" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "beef6afb0d4497426f5836baf238cd650ba0e2b5cf02af5cffee45439e562b61" "contact" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "While I agree that it is important to prioritize women's health, I do not believe that unrestricted abortion access alone is the best way to achieve that goal. Women need medical advocacy in many ways, including advacing research, decreasing unfair treatment from professionals and much more." "Reasonable, opening up to a wider discussion that may unify both sides on some fronts." 3 2 1 1 3 3 1 1 1 1 3 2 2 1 2 2 "No" "No" "No" "I would not and do not agree with the statemeny by Y." "No reaction" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "f7f086ac7a3f340345bd665122cda2890ad8d180c6516b2642e5105509acd13a" "contact" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I understand your opinion is women should have unrestricted access to abortion services however I would have to respectfully disagree with this. Whilst I agree we must prioritise the rights of women, I do not agree with the notion of unrestricted access to abortion services. " "I would describe the reaction as calm and non-confrontational. I believe the language used is respectful. " 2 2 1 1 2 2 1 2 3 3 2 2 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I agree wholeheartedly with the opinion that it is time to prioritise the rights of women. I firmly believe women should have unrestricted access to abortion services." "Calm and collected." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "4f0ee89777f0252e47d8337ef6ee73935bf24c5f405b0c3b461779732a6cf9de" "contact" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "What makes you think that? I disagree, but am interested to hear your reasoning. " "Open, polite, engaging" 1 1 1 1 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 3 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "The current restrictions around abortion are enough, access does not need to be unfettered." "Direct, honest" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "78d1dae37e80e34f589293fc9b5e7d0d464e389b6fd74ccf858847e9ed50b438" "distance" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I can understand why people like Y may think like that, but I believe that allowing people to do what is best for them will reduce a lot of conflict. I think people should have autonomy over their own body but what would I know." "My reaction will be be very tame as I like to avoid conflict. I might quietly state my opinion but if anyone disagrees with me I would likely stay quiet from that point to avoid conflict. I don't like to have big debates." 2 2 4 2 3 2 2 2 2 3 3 3 3 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "c355feae04e8f387f5fd6be67147e74b83174dc4dcd6e0384fcd83f1475f8a27" "reject" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "There's nothing you can do about the rights of the unborn so you should focus your attention on those living" "I don't agree with Y, but I'm not going to start a fight with them. Instead, I'll just direct them in the way I see it." 4 4 1 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 4 4 4 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "6aee4e50ec431c2f0a7846352799ce23c58c8788ee024ea43ba88609b7f9ef5f" "reject" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "The unborn is just that - unborn. We fight for the rights of those that are alive but are suppressed and marginalised, we fight for equity for all humans. If we fight for the unborn, we inevitably diminish the value of those who, for example, are victims of crime that resulted in child. Then, are we fighting for humanity or a foreign clump of cells?" "X reacts strongly - she expresses her opinion and shuts down the negativity she perceives with strong language." 2 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 2 1 1 2 2 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "d495c991b7b893fb3294c3cebf263d7942a921ace115c5bdce41de8da93430d6" "distance" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I'm not sure if I fully agree but I love that you're vocal with your opinion and im glad I can still be friends with people of different vocal standpoints" "Passive, attentive to the opinions of the other person, also X is trying to be selfish by ignoring important issues to try appeal to everyone" 2 3 5 3 2 2 4 4 4 2 2 2 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I find it very disapointing that you would bring up such a statement at a charity gala for a different cause, especially at such a difficult time for people who find themselves in a situation where they may have to consider something like abortion, it is no one elses business what another person does with their body and I outright disagree with this being randomly bought up in order to antaganise people. " "I think I wasn't unjust, I explained my view and why I was upset without letting my own anger/emotions errupt. " "4" "5" "2" "1" "4" "1" "1" "2" "4" "3" "5" "5" "2" "2" "4" "2" "round-4" "b9c92e0c820c6b21006a8fbb613b3998fc6da687a3476e4129115216d7e135d8" "reject" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "The unborn do not need rights as they can't currently make decisions. " "I am offended by their suggestion that the unborn need more rights. " 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "While the rights of unborn children are extremely important, more emphasis needs to be put on the rights and the safety of the women carrying these children. " "Calm but invested in my beliefs." "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "43f05bd7ff5855f0115e1c49c97cf88abe45955e6ce346289a4c7eae614e484a" "distance" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "The world is not fighting we all have rights." "They would be upset but then choose to ignore those feelings " 4 2 4 2 3 2 1 1 1 4 4 4 3 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would agree with the speaker " "I would be happy as my thoughts were the same " "2" "2" "2" "4" "2" "4" "3" "3" "3" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "0813ab3b9a96a2ca82ca03a3b73ac6ec97ee5abfef766ed738bf5c57aa3f8107" "reject" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I don't see why we need to bring this up right now. People like that are always trying to make these types of events political. I wish they would just keep their stupid opinions to themselves to we can get on with the event. " "Their reaction is judgmental of the speaker, they don't like this person's opinion or the fact that they are bringing up a controversial topic. They don't enjoy the opinion and therefore wish that the person speaking would stop. " 2 4 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I wish that you would care as much about the rights of women and children as you do for the unborn. What actions are you taking to ensure these unborn children live a good life? Why do you think your opinion is more important than the bodily autonomy of women? " "My reaction is confrontational. This issue is personal and important to me, and I have taken time to educate myseld on it. I don't have much of a tolerance for people with uninformed opinions stating them publicly. " "5" "5" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "5" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "a7a1d4030666390ca632ee5918b7a8671a9a64ccb91bb1cd948cf73b3f5adf2c" "attack" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "The unborn? What do they know. They are just a foetus. It is not a living creature until it is birthed. What about the rights of the mother?" "X is unkind and reactive. Not yielding to any other opinion than their own." 5 3 2 1 4 1 1 2 1 5 5 5 5 2 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "With these rights, how would you balance it against, the situation of how she got pregnant and the health status of the foetus? Can you see any situation where the health and welfare of woman would take priority?" "Less confrontational. More information seeking to lead towards a considered conversation." "2" "1" "1" "1" "5" "4" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "round-4" "3f375ee6054dbe0836b465740c8a3fd8b8206fd86aa44d1fe57b97c8bb580424" "attack" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I strongly disagree with this point. We as a society have some much work to do to protect the health of women and mothers, the unborn should not have rights unless it is a late-term healthy pregnancy." "X would show disapproval on their face and body posture would prop up to be ready to fight. " 5 5 3 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 3 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "1b2602e92e2f9b2675431f7e824a40b034f2a27f7955ff0a5ce7ce445a8baa7a" "reject" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "The unborn do not deserve rights! It is up to the woman carrying the child what they do with their baby. More rights should be given to living people, rather than the unborn." "I would be extremely mad. I would cause a scene and stand up for what I believe in." 5 5 3 1 2 1 1 2 4 2 4 5 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "ffcd3247e77d07513ac696d75ff15d154c8ab3e7d13cfaba93cc53999dfa586d" "attack" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "So you're pro-life?? How stupid do you have to be? It's just a clump of cells at the end of the day, it doesn't HAVE rights! it's not even a human yet! So let me guess, you also believe young children who get sexually assulted should have to give birth too? Do you know the statistics of children dying during childbirth because their bodies simply aren't ready yet to birth a baby? You disgust me Y." "I'm very passionate about this debate. I have firm stand points and have taken time to research and study the debate between pro-life and pro-choice so I've been able to try to see both sides. As a woman who's had pregnancy scares at a young age I have a first hand view on how terrifying it was and the idea of not being able to safely have an abortion had me beside myself. Choosing to ban abortions doesn't stop abortions happening. It simply takes away the safest way to have them." 5 5 1 1 3 1 1 1 4 3 5 5 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "793b12d8bc7e9a1f843f7528ceae0c7f340689cc4e7492c3c595cd27331f4536" "attack" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I think that point was unnecessary to make. Shouldn't we focus on the rights of those who are already alive? In a world where we're fighting for so many rights, shouldn't we ensure that those who are living have proper rights first as opposed to trying to focus on those who aren't even here? I would appreciate if you could clarify that a bit more." "I think X's reaction can come across as combative, particularly in X's choice of words. X sounds defensive, as though X is accusing you of trying to imply something when that is not the case. I think X's behaviour could be less aggressive and combative." 4 2 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 4 2 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "My thought process to ""i would react differently"" was because I AGREE with Y as opposed to X, who disagreed. Apologies, but I won't lie about my values to answer this question." "If a situation arose in which I did not agree with an opinion or statement of a keynote speaker, I most likely would not bring it up and keep those emotions to myself. I'm more tame and less confrontational." "4" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "d56c232475a2ce758b2a700e24001acc56f9fca739ed98ee1cceea7d9b5ff4ac" "attack" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "An unborn child doesn't have any rights ... it's not born! Are you stupid, or what? We've got enough children in this world without those that are not wanted." "X's reaction would be shock, and disbelief that someone could be so narrow-minded." 4 4 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "97271aa9344cab6e6874a63563355488354928d5763dcb477fa2fcace93cb148" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I understand where you are coming from. However, the rights of the pregnant women should be considered. These are fully formed humans and it should be their decision. women" "I agree with X. They are calm but firm. " 3 3 4 2 4 1 2 4 3 4 4 4 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "a53be0b2c82a72dc8aff39e39995b30ab140d4ce090561ed01c0eea3975b588d" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "That's a noble belief to have. I'm also really passionate about equal rights for all---that's why I advocate for the increased awareness of women's health and reproductive rights. Many women suffer immensely because they don't have access to reproductive healthcare... don't you think that's unfair?" "I would describe X's behaviour as respectful to Y's beliefs, with a genuine desire to continue a conversation and help Y consider other points of view. X knows that Y has strong moral convictions about the 'pro life' argument and doesn't want to make Y feel attacked for holding those convictions. " 1 1 2 3 4 5 3 1 4 3 3 2 1 2 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "83839ef94586e33fd4c992a9c443a6dd059374fba7c1626aca052f6837690d0f" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I respect your inclusive perspective, Y and can empathise. For me, however, the rights of people already born especially highly disadvantaged, often health compromised and disempowered women and childen who are already struggling needs to take precedence in this situation. " "I think X is genuinely empathetic and appreciates Y's right to a view and expressing it.yo However X is also a realist, and sees the personhood and rights of the born as taking precedence over a fetus or embryo eg that has so far become a discrete person on this planet. X feels it is is important to respect the rights of especially women and prevent unwanted pregnancies that lead to poor life and health outcomes for mother, child and society. " 1 1 3 1 4 5 2 4 3 4 4 3 2 3 2 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "561411aabda0f34fad50cf50dc9aa0e51af07de28fd8fa1a34c4e17d69116e2d" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "What makes you say that? I think there is still a lot of work to be done for the rights of the living. " "I think X's reaction is calm and considered." 4 4 2 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 4 5 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "9aa57a8a2c934660f2f27cdf96ab97936102ea6fc7cee3664d04782d7c82565d" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "hi x, i really enjoyed your speech earlier this evening. I found one of the points you made quite interesting as it clashed with my personal beliefs. I would love to meet at a later date in a more suitable setting to discuss the matter as i think it is an opportunity to gain some perspective on the matter if you are interested. " "I am calm and collected responding to Ys points brought up in their speech. although i personally disagree with their standpoint, i see it as an opportunity to gain some perspective and swap ideas. it will be interesting to find out what shaped their viewpoint and how much it really differs from my own as well as my lived experiences as we may have some unexpected common ground on the matter." 1 1 1 3 1 3 3 2 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "319041eff0f1e3f1e52cd8b19ab5002412b56763eea36aec34af621d961c4c7e" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I empathise where you are coming from, however I do not fully agree with what you are saying. I personally believe that there are more complications and considerations tothink about. It is such an intense, complex situation that requires more discussion. " "Not trying to start an argument but isn't being dismissive of Y's opinion. Let Y state their opinion as well as X stating their opinion" 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 1 3 1 2 2 2 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "5bda390f0d4d80059317624b3e224b55750fb5dbf439129e7f089dcdc8bf10e9" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I understand where you are coming from but think that there are good arguments for limiting access to abortion. For example, the rights of the unborn baby, who is unable to have a say about their body, also needs to be protected." "Their reaction is measured and tries to demonstrate that they understand Y's point despite disagreeing with it. They avoid overly emotive language or angry responses." 2 2 2 1 4 3 2 3 2 3 3 2 2 4 3 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "I completely agree with you and am concerned about some of the changes being made to restrict abortion rights in some places. It's terrifying and a real step back for equal rights." "My response is still fairly calm and measured but slightly more emotional than X's response as I feel strongly about the point." "4" "3" "4" "1" "4" "2" "1" "2" "2" "4" "5" "3" "3" "3" "2" "2" "round-4" "2650e811017e18957d471ca8640d17f66b01293270ffe18c9ef2771e0e0fcbec" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I understand your viewpoint but disagree with you. Yes women should have control over their own bodies but not in the case of abortion when another life is involved (i.e the baby). I'd be happy to discuss this further with you so we can both understand each other's viewpoints, if that's something you're comfortable with?" "Calm, open-minded, but direct" 1 1 1 1 4 3 1 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I understand what you're saying but I'd have to say I disagree with you on this. Yes women must have control over their own bodies, but this isn't just about their bodies, there is another life involved. I am happy to discuss further so we can understand each other's viewpoints?" "calm, open-minded, direct" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "59117a70bed040771f2cee1e3355620e00884cd6f102846d41da0e1eecf31fed" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I'm sorry but I do not agree. I feel like the government should have a say in women body simply to protect the unborn child. I hope you can see where I am coming from. " "Since it's the opposite of Y, X would say the opposite but still be calm, cool, and collected. X would say their opinion in a way that would not agitate Y. X would be approachable." 1 1 1 1 4 4 3 2 1 3 1 1 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I totally agree with you. People should be allowed to do whatever they want with their bodies. No one has control over what I do so why should they control my life and body. It's not fair to force someone to go through birth when it easily could have been prevented. Sometimes accidents happen and this is unfortunately one of them. But it's my mistake so my choice. " "I was agreeing with Y. Simply content and just expressing myself. Not fighting just stating my opinion." "3" "3" "4" "1" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "4" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "a43ad9e7a2424ec212e1bb66dab88d74e97c59ba86d76520c00774e8c4eee18b" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "That's interesting Y, I didn't know you felt that way. I don't think I feel the same way. Why do you think that's controlling women?" "I was taken aback when I heard Y's strong opinion. It made me a little nervous knowing I had a different opinion." 2 2 3 2 4 4 2 1 4 3 4 3 3 2 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "Hmm, yikes. I don't think that's always the case. I think there are some acceptions to that rule. " "My reaction was a little impulsive, but still not aggressive. It was opinionated and came from a place of discourse." "4" "4" "4" "2" "3" "1" "1" "1" "4" "5" "5" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "round-4" "75617dce32d35ff515274c02251182126b99ccb8470070f817ba307792d5c40e" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Please tell me more about this. I think that we should protect the most vulnerable in our communities, so I'm having trouble getting my head around this. Please help me out." "Probing with questions to try and get Y to consider how they reached this conclusion, calmly stating X's own position to make sure there are no 'gotcha' moments." 3 3 2 1 4 3 1 2 3 3 3 3 2 2 2 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "789e8c5d7bda06a2cae9dc9d05d1b00dcb85a413f6ebef9ec0d3d1b79a03b884" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Well I can understand where you are coming from, I have to do justice to my own beliefs and say I don't agree with you. If you'd like to learn more about why I do not agree, I would be happy to explain." "Cordial and willing to talk about it. Sticking by their beliefs but being non-confrontational." 2 3 2 1 4 1 1 2 4 3 2 1 1 1 2 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I disagree with your opinion, but to each their own." "Dismissive but honest to themselves." "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "ec734cf97441b7726269dadd244a5bba08e4991794827d6b97cc26fdf054e08e" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I am not sure that is true. Everyone is entitled to their opinion but I disagree with what you have said. " "Calm but concise. " 3 3 1 1 3 2 1 1 1 1 2 3 2 2 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "fe057feb1beb4a7fe7f668bd201692712d967b65f86a80834636cd9d2e85dc81" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I see where you're coming from, but I can't say I agree. I don't think limiting access to abortion is just another way of controlling women, what makes you think this way?" "Calm, unoffended by the opinion and open to discussing the reason for this point of view. Secure in their mindset but happy to have a conversation on it." 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree with you, women should be able to access abortions safely. We are at a food drive, though, I don't see how this is a relevant conversation, can you pass me that five pound note." "I am agreeable. I am also confused as to why they are jumping into this topic, though." "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "0d578efe1ae79651380dccfea4fbb3bce2b6f41164db0b0a300cd46d236344f8" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I disagree. By limiting access to abortion, the life of the fetus is not harmed." "The reaction contains an opposing opinion however it remains calm and polite." 3 2 2 2 3 3 1 2 1 4 4 4 2 4 5 4 "No" "No" "No" "I disagree with you, limiting abortion is sometimes due to a lack of medical care available." "My reaction is calm but still opposing." "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "4" "3" "2" "3" "3" "3" "round-4" "09f3e566a31c06dcffa55d61b7c62d9b3aeb709afc7d10a62537505874dfcbea" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I know this is a topic with strong feelings on both sides, however I feel that fetuses also have rights. They have noone to advocate for them. " "Calm but assertive" 2 2 1 1 4 3 3 4 3 2 3 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I don't think it is about controlling women. I think it is about fetal rights. " "More direct. " "3" "4" "3" "1" "3" "3" "3" "2" "2" "3" "4" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "9377badc1b31cd156f612b48bd68ad30b97f17bd2c00aedcf8bf5a291f96c48f" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "People should have xontrol of their bodies, but you are talking about an unborn life, What rights should they have? It's not just the women involved here." "My reaction would be calm but also trying to put my side of the argument across and to make Y see why I disagree. I would listen to Y's reason's for feeling the way they do." 2 2 1 2 3 2 1 3 2 2 3 3 3 2 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "Seriously? What about the baby's life? It's a living thing you know!" "I would be more angry than X. Probably more confrontational" "4" "4" "2" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "4" "3" "3" "1" "1" "round-4" "f8af0b1e019ba2a934edcff4a0ac240d4b1303cf2845735ab7485b28568e9579" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I can see where you're coming from but I disagree. I believe that there are many other reasons as to why limiting access to abortion is important." "I would describe X's reaction as non-confrontational and open-minded even though they disagree. They do not attack Y for their opinion but voice that they feel differently. " 3 3 2 2 2 1 1 2 1 3 3 2 1 1 2 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "Can I ask why you think that? I disagree but would like to hear your point of view." "I would describe my reaction as inquisitive and open-minded." "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "round-4" "f4815376a9f08ba99db5ead9d8017dcb21058ea15672ef23431417ac0e263864" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I can see what you're trying to say Y but if I'm honest I don't fully agree with it. It's a very sensitive subject to many people and I wouldn't say it's about controlling women, so much as tryng to save the lives of the unborn children. It's a very difficult subject to discuss in general and I think it really comes down to individual situations but I can completely understand where you're coming from." "I think X's reaction is very gentle and understanding. Yes Y's opinion disagrees with X's but they would still try to keep an open mind and listen to what Y had to say. " 2 2 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 2 2 2 1 1 2 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I understand whatg you're saying Y and a part of me agrees with what youy're saying but I also disagree that everyone should have a say about their bodies when they're repeatedly aborting babies as a use of contraception. I believe women's bodies are their own and men shouldn't have a say in it, especially when it comes down to something serious like rape but I think you need to look at people's individual circumstances and not everyone in general. You can't really group something like that." "A little hostile towards the subject. It's difficult as I personally do agree with what Y is saying to an extent. I think annoyance is my main reaction. I don't like how society thinks they can generalise such a topic when every situation is different. " "5" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "5" "4" "5" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "376526eec46bc6f43779c3b680399c6b0e635da42d6f49971f03d1d4af05e3a6" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "Would you elaborate futher on why you believe that? What about the safety of women who need an abortion? Don't you think abortions need some limits to access to ensure all parties are safe?" "Inline with their personality - open to hear opinions and bring up their own in a non conflicting manner" 1 1 1 1 1 5 2 2 4 2 3 1 3 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "While I agree with everyone being able to have a say about their own bodies i think more should be done that just having access to abortion, additional help should be available to help avoid the need for abortion such as free contraception and further education" "Open - looking for a way to dig deepers into the conversation" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "4" "4" "1" "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "cdfbb9e2efe2b8dc7ad65fcd3cfd041fdeb3b4e0bee3edcd29cec5807c028600" "contact" "abortion" "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "X and Y are both volunteers at a local food drive." "I can see where you are coming from, but I would disagree that it is a method of controlling women. I believe, as do many others who disagree with abortion, life is sacred and should not be ended through abortion, and that abortion should not be used as a form of contraceptive." "X is understanding of the other persons point of view, but is able to get their own opinion across in a calm manner. The reaction is not argumentative or looking for a fight." 1 1 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 2 1 1 1 2 2 "No" "No" "No" "I completely agree with you. I can't understand why there are laws in place to stop women choosing the right to have ownership of their bodies. There are so many different factors at play when it comes to abortion. Isn't it better to have a child that is wanted in this world?" "I am agreeable, and feel emotional in my reaction. It is something that I strongly believe in." "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "d0e50e6753ff869a7bb6ec4a4e1f191c35796696fbc8d2cc1c767cfe065f6021" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I get what you are saying and this is an issue that is complicated. More needs to said about the importance of life and whether we as individuals should have the power to end it." "I think their reaction is nonconfrontational by not directly objecting to the other person's perspective. X is not forceful or assertive in their response." 3 3 4 1 5 2 2 3 3 5 4 4 3 4 3 4 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "356be4fb24fb4cdef4e2293793c8b4ddd9122269e2a134a5ae79327327e8276a" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I personally disagree with your stance on ensuring unrestricted access to abortion services. This is just my opinion though, of course you're entitled to your own" "I feel upset at the prospect of the topic at hand. But I don't want to cause any conflict or ""rock the boat""" 4 4 2 2 3 2 2 2 2 4 4 3 3 2 3 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "I don't agree with your sentiment, I disagree that we should just allow anyone and everyone to have abortions whenever they want" "I would be a bit flustered but trying to behave properly" "4" "4" "1" "1" "2" "1" "2" "1" "2" "4" "4" "4" "4" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "554118b73a1d43fabf34dd4a846b903670dcd51646537421f30dbc0bc727500b" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Prioritizing women right does not support abortion. Abortion is a form of murder and harm women and women should be protected from harm and anihilating potential humans. " "X reaction is not confrontational but likes to make known what he/she disagrees on " 4 5 3 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "a801581da0d950dc5107e466d40b726c59ecfd122591f51db226d0a09230d889" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I would tread carefully about such an emotionally divisive subject and exercise caution in potentially promoting your views. There is the danger that you could alienate a proportion of different sectors of people as it is not the kind of subject you can have canvas for." "I wouldn't say they are my views per se and my intention isn't to pit different opinions against one other but to offer a voice for people that don't feel confident enough to speak up due to a fear of being pre-judged." 2 3 4 1 4 3 1 1 1 4 5 5 5 3 2 2 "No" "No" "No" "A subject like this can be polarising depending what community you are speaking to and whilst being a voice for the unheard is important, some degree of impartiality should be as important." "As a woman myself, I would say that it is my reproductive system and everything that happens, I endure, therefore it should be up to me to make a decision based on bespoke circumstances and as long as it is within humane actions, law and safe methods." "3" "2" "2" "1" "2" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "2" "1" "2" "1" "3" "3" "round-4" "07bb534a903d11d044bffc5a475186bd3965f0d9c8d839827a751ecc0a6fd2ec" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Hmm, I see. You seem passionate about this topic, that's nice to see. It was nice meeting you and chatting, but I'll have to excuse myself and run to the bathroom. Have a good night." "I would describe X's reaction as avoidant and not interested in discussing opposing viewpoints. Since they avoid conflict, I would assume they would to try to remove themselves from the situation so they don't have to feel uncomfortable." 2 2 3 1 1 1 4 1 2 2 3 2 2 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "Hi Y, it's nice to meet you. I think it's interesting that you support unrestricted access to abortion services, would you be interested in expanding more on this? I'm in favour of access to abortion services, for sure, but unrestricted could be dangerous, don't you think?" "I would describe my reaction as open to conversation, and focused on wanting to obtain more information (instead of disagree or avoid them)." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "17622f6279a32e7b2a574d33bbb885d41b0bfdd0eb8e83c4353c735c93a0f5ff" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I don't want to be involved in this discussion. This has nothing to do with me." "I am avoiding this discussion. I do not want to be involved." 3 4 4 1 3 1 1 1 1 5 3 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I totally agree with what you say. You make an excellent point." "Positive. I agree with what he said." "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "5" "5" "4" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "4bbdba7a8a129f725e1dfa42708762c6f4019af516c171deb7ca1ad2137ba7a6" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I don't want to discuss this issue because we might disagree. I think it would be better if we change the subject to something less controversial." "I would avoid discussing it as it might lead to a disagreement and I want to avoid this" 1 1 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 5 3 3 1 3 4 3 "No" "No" "No" "I think this is really interesting and would love to know more. Could you tell me how I could become more knowledgeable about this issue." "I would be intersted and want to know more." "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "5" "4" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "d3837a975ae9846c1ea99b533e7676780783ec71ab5b7e26c818149dd3a2f895" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I understand where you're coming from. I'm not sure I fully agree with your thoughts, but maybe you're right." "I think X's reaction hints at their disagreement, but doesn't fully state their true thoughts and tries to avoid causing a debate or conflict. I think X is shying away from voicing their true opinion." 4 5 4 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 4 3 4 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree with your sentiment about prioritising the rights of women, but I don't think unrestricted access is the correct way to go about this. I fully support women being able to access abortion, but you have to take extreme cases into consideration, such as late term pregnancies - this is a very different scenario to an early pregnancy, an albeit this will be the vast minority of cases, but it's still something that needs to be thought through. " "I think my reaction is calm and reasonably explains why I disagree with the speaker. It also succinctly puts forward my own true thoughts, in a polite and clear manner. " "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "555150e6aeff052e384d717699cfed066b21486a7ef7b934bbcde5bfcb8a00fe" "contact" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "Whilst I agree that women's health should be of top priority I also believe abortion should not be a backup plan to unplanned parenthood/pregnancies. Abortion is necessary when a women's health is at risk and outside of that all alternatives should be explored prior to having this procedure." "I am conflicted with the idea of abortion being so easily available without the consideration of options and alternatives. I think there can be a middle ground without being pro on either side of this often divisive issue." 1 1 3 1 5 4 1 1 3 4 2 4 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree that abortion access should be a priority and readily available. I do however believe more information and education is required to be making better informed decisions." "I feel Y's statement is too general and requires more of a discussion since it is not a simple issue." "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "ef75574117cf0ed02d8fd787c3a84d4682f955863f28633345a89426c6d5ebbf" "distance" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "I dont agree with abortion and however can understand why it can be necessary but there should be limits on who can access and why they are accessing abortions." "Embarrased and uncomfortable. " 2 3 3 1 3 1 1 2 1 4 3 5 2 2 3 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "I agree with abortion and feel it should be a right to any woman. I think forcing a woman to give birth when she does not want to can only result in a worse upbringing for the child. " "The scenario makes me feel uncomfortable and sad. " "1" "1" "2" "1" "5" "4" "3" "2" "1" "3" "3" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "round-4" "482961d265dbb899ebc60a060d94ad5ea0b412b1f27ddbf3ee410419ab111410" "contact" "abortion" "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "X is an attendee at a charity gala, and Y is the guest speaker." "There is reason to have restrictions in place for abortion services to ensure that nay abortions go down smoothly" "They might be taken back. Potentially eager to convince otherwise" 2 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 1 4 1 1 1 4 3 "Yes" "No" "No" "How about we think about ways we can go about this?" "consdierate and respectful. But aslo precautions to ensure that the approach to do so is done in an effective manner." "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "2f9ab1b981e24bf50f7906d87a124fbbed3af5358dc65404e512f1e7847568f1" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I understand where you're coming from, but shouldn't we focus on supporting people who are already here and doing life? Every person has a unique situation that should be listened to. Every person should be respected for their choice." "X is calm and respectful in their response, acknowledging Y's perspective while gently disagreeing. X seems to value empathy and understanding in discussions, aiming for a constructive conversation." 1 1 1 1 1 3 2 4 3 2 2 1 1 2 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "5bedd82f54b2d338f19cc1e36dfe84594af049dd57a479975d507d6482390266" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I enjoyed listening to your speech today, Y, thanks for your time. However, I'd love to speak more with you on your opinions on the rights of the unborn if you're open to it. I personally feel that women at the moment are disadvantaged by such a viewpoint, and that the rights of an unborn foetus should never take precedence over the rights of a woman who is already a person and member of our society. What are your thoughts on the rights of women, and how can we avoid damaging these?" "I am keen to change the mind of Y, but don't want to be unpleasant or cause uneccesary conflict. I'm open-minded and willing to engage in constructive conversation, even on a sensitive matter like this." 2 3 3 2 5 2 1 3 2 3 2 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "8a30949260442afd4bb52eb689298a04bb54faf1b94dce107b9f6339da0371f5" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I most respectiably disagree. Unborn cells are just that, cells. The cells gain rights as they mature and at somepoint get the rights that humans have. Because of this the rights that the uborn currently have is adequate. Putting pressure on increasing these rights takes away the rights of mothers autonomy on their own bodies." "My reaction is respective and understanding. I am are able to take the perspective of multiple parties and dscribe why I belive how I do and why Y is, respectably, wrong." 5 5 4 5 4 3 5 3 2 4 4 4 3 5 5 5 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "dab118d19efb1c86c45c2e785e32357a5e901629685f4609a3771ca75fdd7421" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "Oh, it's interesting that you think that. I disagree, but I am glad we have this opportunity to discuss our points of view. I'd love to hear more about why you feel that this issue is underrepresented and I hope that you will be willing to having an open and meaningful discussion about reproductive rights." "I would respond in a calm and positive manner, opening up the space for an honest discussion. I would want to make Y feel that their opinion is valid and that I am not dismissive of their views. I would want to come across as open to hearing an alternative point of view but would hope that Y is willing to do the same." 3 4 4 2 4 4 2 4 1 2 4 4 2 4 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Oh right. It's interesting that you think that. I completely disagree and actually think its disgusting that you would want to place more emphasis on the rights of a ball of cells than a living breathing human being. Will you care as much about this potential child once it is born?" "In the first instance I would feel embarrassed to respond, however, if given the time to respond verbally and if I feel comfortable to I would be openly upset about Y's comments and could become quite passionate about the topic." "5" "5" "5" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "4" "4" "4" "4" "4" "2" "round-4" "f0787f0db0f2a93ac20a41cb7864a7daa53c22260192367ef1eafe8d95b096fa" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I would like to know more about where you're coming from. Why do you feel the rights of the unborn are worth more than those of the already-born? Could you clarify what rights you are referring to?" "I feel like X would argue by asking the other person to explain their perspective. This approach seems respectful, but also indicates disagreement." 2 2 2 1 2 1 1 1 3 3 3 3 3 1 2 1 "No" "No" "No" "I disagree. Why should we prioritise the unborn over those already living? If we don't prioritise the living, we're bringing the unborn into a troubled world." "Reactive. I'm just bored of these conversations. I don't get how people can hold these views." "3" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "f58da1ca5c3539315ea96578e1895f03a89790045e5ac6a27dc483cedda8d995" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I appreciate that you stand up for what you believe in. I do disagree with that statement, although if you wanted to talk to me more about your opinion I would be open to that." "I wouldn't be judgmental and I wouldn't be offended. I would understand that other people have different opinions, and that they are allowed to have them and I am allowed to have a different one." 1 1 1 2 2 1 1 3 2 1 1 1 2 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "af9ce1f67d5305966c5a77b9595e8eae01e8e4338744135c007dcebc89227978" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "Y it is important to consider the situation respectfully from different angles consider the implications for the biological parents the impacts on them. It is also important I believe to look at the impact on society particularly where the origins of the unborn child may be adverse eg conceived in negative circumstances " "X is emphasizing the larger issues whilst remaining respectful and non abrasive arguements can be presented calmly " 1 1 1 1 3 4 2 4 4 1 1 1 1 2 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "dd6c1dec2766a195adcc213500ac766b735a4bf91fb6ad819b5d5cd33df8997e" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "We shouldn't be focusing on the unborn as there are so many children in care that need our help. " "I feel like using logic to counteract the argument in a respectful manner is the way to react " 2 2 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 2 2 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "fb5099f532566925d50f790b9fe6ed2f7a38a2ebca88dd4732ffb777b6f55bb0" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "While your desire to place emphasis on the rights of the unborn is comendable, I believe that all women should be allowed to have a choice. It is important that we respect their right to autonomoy and their freedom to live their lives how they choose, and this includes that capacity to not have a child if they do not want to or do not think they could provide a good home for their child." "X would stand tall but have a more open and relaxed posture. He would have a slight smile, as to do display a lack of hostility." 1 1 1 1 1 4 2 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "dbf845fc4015b4990b68d6dca429744799360cdc72381ce2272be1b1585cf722" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "Though I completely respect your opinion and right to have your own take on issues, I personally believe we should focus on the rights of those already born. I do think we have common ground in wanting to protect children, maybe we can agree on trying to help children who are in less fortunate homes, or without a home completely." "I am in disagreement with Y, but I don't want to be offensive or confrontational with them. I would prefer to find common ground as a good starting off point in this conversation." 1 1 1 1 2 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Why not focus on the rights of those who are already born? Of women who are raped, coerced, etc and end up pregnant in a situation where they cannot care for a baby? Adoption brings on lots of trauma to many, it isn't the right solution for everyone." "Emotionally charged. This is a topic close to my heart and I can not be as rational and calm discussing it as I maybe should be." "4" "3" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "5" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "c8b8fa2a72b201dccaa15b3c354efd69850aaa5a241e5d5c30413002c845e87d" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I understand what you're saying but we cannot throw away the rights of those who already have those rights for those who are not yet independent beings." "I believe that humans have the right of bodily autonomy and that we cannot throw out those rights for those who are not yet persons. I recognize that it is an emotional response by those who are anti-choice but we have to approach this logically and rationally." 1 1 2 1 4 1 1 4 1 1 3 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "8b706561b4fae7e073ed90148dfdbcbed3c92d1c38eac9c4cf8683c16523d11b" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "With repsect, the rights of those already born need to be balanced with the rights of those not yet born. People need to have the option of choice when it comes to reproductive rights and insisting that the rights of those not yet born outweigh those choices when we have little understanding of the situtation that has put that choice before them seems unfair. I hear what you are saying Y, and I invite you to question the values that have informed your position on this. I'd be really happy to talk further with you about this." "X is inviting and open to further discussion of the subject without devaluing Y's position. X has treated Y with repsect even though it is clear that they disagree with Y's statement. X has given calm and clear resons why they think Y's position needs to be questioned." 4 4 4 1 1 5 1 3 4 5 5 3 3 3 2 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "693883369ae539edf9cf6589729810a3361bf6cf9a4bf792c730441296679082" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "While I concur with your opinion that we are indeed ""in a world where we're fighting for so many rights"", I believe prioritising the rights of any one group divides us. Human rights are for everyone, born and unborn, but no single group of humans is superior." "I feel in the mood to debate and educate those who would be one-sided in the field of Human Rights. I am disappointed this key speaker is so narrow-focused and leading in their speech." 4 4 3 1 4 3 2 1 3 3 4 3 3 3 3 3 "No" "No" "No" "I avoid conflict and direct speech and would be unlikely to say anything. However, when placed in a debate situation with Y, I would 'react' the same as X. " "I would be unlikely to react or speak to Y regarding this. People are entitled to their opinion. However, when placed in a debate situation with Y, I would 'react' the same as X. " "3" "4" "2" "1" "3" "3" "3" "1" "4" "3" "4" "4" "4" "4" "4" "3" "round-4" "ced2276905791c8db6cfe1800d5d6b906ac8b89ed43008fdbe9b83bff241a51e" "distance" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "What you said is good but I think I think a little bit differently. However, this is just my opinion." "X would speak more carefully and not try to start drama. They would respect others opinions and may not express theirs so openly." 3 3 4 2 3 3 3 3 3 3 4 4 3 2 3 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "bb00eb137ccf6f57ae184acab636458c475c1e16fa57b0b7fdb1a979cfa04d8f" "attack" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I believe that we don't need to fight for the rights of unborn as they are not humans yet! I believe that what you are saying is wrong and we should only fight for people who are alive, not born into this world yet" "i beleive that X's reaction would come accross as defensive and agresive in their speak and manner. They would fight Y's ideas and values and not allow Y to have their say" 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 5 3 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "i believe that is necessary to fight for the unborn rights of another. They have no way to fight for themselves, so i want to be their advocate" "i would be wholeheartedly in agreeance with Y" "1" "1" "2" "3" "4" "5" "3" "4" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "round-4" "16bdf5c1a2deb16e27764b75f3d031b2d8a3e11a13843b5a8822429649f48925" "attack" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "And what of your bodily autonomy rights? What of the concern for children born unwanted and thrown into the system? What of women's rights? What of women that have gone through trauma and ended up pregnant. Don't you think more emphasis should be placed on their rights?" "My reaction may have been slightly over the top. Everyone has the right to their own opinion, even if it is something I disagree with. My behaviour was maybe inappropraite for this situation. " 4 3 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 5 4 3 1 1 1 "No" "No" "No" "I understand you have your opinion and beliefs on this matter. I don't believe mine quite align with yours. I'd love to have a discussion about it. I believe more emphasis should be placed on health and psychological conerns that may occur from pushing for all babys to be born. I don't think its fair to welcome a child into the world into a situation that puts them into the foster system, which is known for causing its share of trauma on kids. I also don't believe that a persons individual choice over their body should be overturned by rights of an unborn. " "My reaction is a lot calmer and more settled than X's was. I made sure to validate their feelings and then talk through my own so as to bring about a discussion rather than an argument. " "2" "2" "1" "1" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "2" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "972930a48fa2f5725bbd0e4a0d09b125aa6bae42b6f02fb26bb2c4d60afd215a" "attack" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I disagree, why should we put more rights on an unborn. You're completly wrong, we place enought emphasis on the rights of the unborn already. I don't think we need to we need to give any more rights. The people who are already around and born are more important and we should try and further things for ourselves rather than the unborn." "I am shocked someone would say that or think that. I diagree whole heartdly and need to let Y know that. I can't believe Y would say that and need to let them know my opinion, which is right. " 4 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "Thanks for talking, I'm interested in to why you think we should place more emphasis on the rights of the unborn. What makes you believe or think that, and how do think we could place more rights of the unborn. Are you not concerned about those who are already born and are facing other kind of difficulties and injustice? " "Curious to find out why Y belives that there should be more rights for the unborn and would like to find more about their thoughts and process. I may diagree but wouldn't force my belief on anyone such as Y as everyone is entitled to their own belief and opinion. I know sometimes I could be in the wrong if I do not know enough about the subject. " "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "5d8d65c869b860f31147904347670e7a78b9d9c63a77619a43c2b0652b1edaa9" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "Although I can understand your views, what consideration does that take into the rights and views of the mother? She is alive, she is able to use her judgement and freewill to make the right decision for her life, for her body and her future. By putting the views or needs as you might consider, above that of the mother, does that not show disregard for her rights? " "A calm, firm but fair reaction. I have an understanding of their views, even though I don't agree. However, I wouldn't judge them for thinking different to me. non judgemental." 2 2 1 1 4 4 2 1 3 3 4 2 2 4 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "ec6190f49c1848d24189f4c7ec7b295ed654d63b5368646d7e4e6a39f219582e" "contact" "abortion" "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "At a charity gala dinner, X is a guest, and Y is the keynote speaker." "I disagree. Fundamentally more emphasis should be put on the pregnant mother to make informed choices about the way she chooses to live. I understand your viewpoint, but in this instance I feel the focal point should be the mother. She is ultimately responsible for making decisions." "Diplomatic, understanding, challenging." 1 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I think the focal point should be with the mother to make informed decisions rather than an unborn baby. I feel that as a society, we should be more proactive in promoting the rights of women who are pregnant and support their decision making. " "Challenging, opinionated." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "f245d0347f024e959aa1ed0765a41c3fae11b97170d6099b930c145ef75825d3" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I'm not too sure if I agree with you, Y. Sure, it's acceptable to have own opinions but my perspective , diversity brings more to our politics and life than we already know. Rather than fearing people from different backgrounds, I think we should embrace and their from their culture and welcome everyone." "X's reaction is based on facts and actual interaction. X chooses to not agree with Y's opinion and gives an explanation why that would be. X, not being rude, tries to make Y rethink their view and perspective of the topic." 1 1 1 1 1 5 1 4 4 2 1 4 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "3a8b2f7659cf6ec38c23423ddac5a647724a1182944b056b6dbf46f5039dcd94" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "Just because you do not understand the intricacies of our immigration system does not mean it is lenient. Furthermore, we need legal immagrants for our economy and the policy cannot do anything about illigal immigration." "I would be dismissive of the others optinion and walk away without giving the other a oppertunity to reply." 4 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "why do you think that way or what gives you that impression? Is it legal or illegal migration you are worried about. There are benifits to legal migration. " "try and understand their point of view to help them see mine" "2" "2" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "46d4fbd711c248ccbc623a027127126bfa3c4cf49a56d8f82842d4955905f74a" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I don't engage in that kind of discourse, I don't want you bringing that sort of energy to me" "I am discounting, undervaluing people and shutting down conversation by not permitting others' viewpoint" 2 1 1 3 1 1 2 1 4 1 2 3 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I don't agree, but I'll be willing to hear out your viewpoint. Why do you hold this opinion?" "It is reasoned, more inclusive of others' viewpoints and allows for productive discourse" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "d9573afe645c6ed67cc66740dda12ef49301b0423f6be7c6a2757d530cab448e" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "No, I don't think so. I think the immigration policy is amazing. It attracts people from other country to come in and work for us. " "X's reaction is direct and clear. It sounds like he doesn't care about other's feeling. Just express his idea." 2 2 1 2 2 4 2 1 4 2 2 4 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "d01bad5fd6f40d836e534e626c318239216c73f0ecfe59a773764fd8e9131a20" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "Well Y, I do not think thats what is happening. I believe the country has a reason why they have this particular type of policy in place. Well it doesnt bother me whichever the situation as I do not really know so many immigrants and the ones I know are cool." "Non- engaging, trying to not escalate or continue the discussion. Just want to move away from the dicey situation." 2 4 1 2 1 2 2 2 2 3 3 2 3 2 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "8f6e30ad412fceb7f93d92332be202307afd20684aab769a3306a490ac55cb91" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I don't wanna talk about this kind of stuff at work. Keep that to yourself. " "I'm annoyed at this person talking about political stuff at work. " 4 4 2 1 3 1 2 1 1 3 5 4 3 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "You think so?" "I would want to know why this person has this opinion. " "3" "3" "3" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "2" "1" "1" "2" "2" "round-4" "f0ac3e276ead5ec298fcd23b4a19c794f762aa3d96e188d624de226b2f81aff2" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I totally disagree with this statement that you have just made. My opinion is that immigrants work harder than the nationals of this country, so please keep your negative comments to yourself. Thank you." "I was straight forward. Stern in making my statement." 3 5 1 3 2 4 5 3 1 1 5 5 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "8773305af4353f3a5ece635eede9de3ba409a128f0cb5070e5736623dc4e11a5" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I don't agree with you. Immigrants are the source of labor that our country is missing. If they can get a proper education and be able to adopt to the culture, they will help us develop economically and socially. " "I was disagreeing and patient to explain the reaso. The reason of me to take time to explain thoroughly is to make sure Y won't come up with an argument. " 2 2 1 3 3 1 3 2 3 3 4 4 4 2 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "8a5de949253306efd21415e78b1471c17bb9374ef81850d933d33521b51a8400" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I don‘t agree with you. We don‘t know what situation in their home countery prompted them to leave and come here" "It’scoming from a defensive point of view" 3 4 3 2 2 2 2 4 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "f517605d6eb3f4b36c5b2cd26369e01b976ca215ab707d47d30989e206a419bc" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I think this is the problem of immigration authority, not mine." "I think X's reaction is to avoid the problem and push away to others." 2 2 2 2 4 2 2 2 2 3 3 3 2 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I think we need more immigrants with all knids of skills and technologies." "I think my reaction is reasonable" "3" "3" "3" "3" "3" "4" "4" "5" "4" "2" "2" "2" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "b21e9db95145b69f4a65609e6ffe439e93ed5f8d80b2e74951d9fabe79e6bccb" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I don't think so. Our immigration policy is quite strict and there is no way they would let just anyone in." "X would disagree with Y on the immigration policy being too lenient. In fact, X would just claim the opposite." 4 1 1 1 1 3 3 2 4 2 3 3 4 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "1b2e6b74446990086a26fa58d1525be024a12cd89330438134df6d618767249a" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I do not know how to feel about this." "X is trying to stay away from this stressful situation by not engaging in the conversation wiht Y" 1 2 4 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 2 2 3 2 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "5752352119e86508392fa2a801897e19d103ae7d8d7d906833eefabfefcdf981" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I wouldn't be so concerned about the current immigration issues as the policies are ever changing. I think you should preoccupy yourself with more productive things that can make you stand tall in the midst of the multitude." "I think X has developed himself mentally to always see opportunities where there is none and choose peace in lieu of conflict. Its defense mechanism against external issues beyond his control would help it not to become an extremist in any instance. " 1 1 1 5 2 4 5 5 3 1 1 1 2 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "e2972f6a36d0e954f6d7e726f9136f6f99a9d8f2afb6d2d971c481b41f26e538" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I don't think you understand immigration policy here so you shouldn't even talk about it mate . We have a great policy, you need to educate yourself." "He refuses to even discuss the topic, he doesn't want to have a negative discussion in disagreement with Y." 3 2 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "Why do you think so Y? I don't know much about the issue, but I understand there are desperate people who want to come here to escape from their own country due to danger or prosecution. Don't you think everyone deserves an equal chance to have a good life?" "I would ask about his opinion and express mine, have an open discussion. " "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "4" "1" "3" "4" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "e56e4c1f71a643941d3e34d9ce87994f0960676929d1f7c7a437f5d546a56ed4" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "You should personally drag all immigrants out of the country, since you do not have sense." "aggressively replied" 4 5 2 1 4 4 1 1 4 4 4 5 4 2 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "It's a pity you feel that way" "subtle reply" "2" "5" "1" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "5" "1" "1" "5" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "96ce4c68030a3da73ef0234c9b4f2fb97b3e9f964f2a172b52a4826d692b813a" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I totally disagree with you. We need more immigrants to keep the economy growing and also for humanitarian reasons " " Conflicting and direct" 3 3 1 2 1 2 2 2 4 1 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I disagree with yo. Our immigration policy is balanced. It provided adequate response to economic demands. It also fulfills out obligations under humanitarian law." "Direct and not shy of conflict yet polite" "2" "2" "1" "2" "1" "2" "2" "1" "4" "1" "4" "2" "3" "3" "1" "1" "round-4" "d071c523fc7c986bf6aaf26a672e877cad294dafb1c2bb7906de59b4d5eb65e6" "reject" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "Well i dont think the immigration is too lenient, they are doing a good job i give them thier credit and they check immigrant very well and we should also learn to welcome others perphap they are even in need who knows" "X keeps conflict away so he should be smiling" 1 1 1 4 1 5 4 4 4 2 1 1 1 3 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "99315f5f9383cff513877cf6f9f5e0e870090f8c2f6ff8c535295f99d99ec468" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I disagree, you should look at the exact requirement for immigration and see if you qualify for that yourself." "I would be triggered, try to fight back against Y. " 5 4 2 2 3 2 1 2 3 4 4 5 3 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "aed18f17e58f4afbeb267b7d2a9c7c735decb16eb4982e8d0c36a1606374eb47" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "You are making an assumption based on no evidence. In fact, when you look at the immigrants in the work force, you will realise they are bringing in a lot more for the country than the average citizen. Without any evidence, your claim is a reflection of your limiting beliefs aimed at targeting a certain group of people. " "My reaction is hostile yet direct. I am upset towards the unecessary limiting beliefs against immigrants." 4 5 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 4 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "dbed0aac6d3db7abf86101325966430db557fc477b8a1318e2537065697758aa" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I could not disagree more. I don't think our country's immigration policy is lenient at all, we depend on immigration for essential services. Only a fool wouldn't not see the obvious." "Agressive reaction, downgrading Y." 3 4 1 1 1 1 2 2 4 1 4 3 2 1 4 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "You need to update yourself, you need to go out and see the state of the country. We need immigrants to work in factories and in hospitals so key services are assured." "I am shocked but by not too much with you Y for showing your beliefs." "2" "3" "2" "1" "2" "1" "3" "2" "4" "2" "4" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "round-4" "4ec5381b9bf862814aba20593c56990fdb35d2a32e637f64b9203f22c7b80091" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "Don't you think you are speaking from a privileged point of view? Some people don't have a choice and have to immigrate to find better opportunities or to escape from their country due to war. The system might be flawed but it's unfair to generalize every immigrant when a lot of them make valuable contributions to our country. How are they creating chaos by just existing? Are you specifically contributing to this country better than they could? In what way? You should think and inform yourself better before saying nonsense." "X should have used a less aggressive tone of voice and tried to educate Y in a kinder way" 4 4 2 1 3 1 1 1 3 4 5 4 1 1 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "As an immigrant, I understand how you could feel this way, but isn't it too much generalizing about every immigrant when we are just trying to contribute to society in the same way you are? I understand that there are a lot of problems in the immigration policies but saying that ""we are just letting anyone in"" is a bit too much. Rather than saying that, wouldn't it be better to direct your frustrations on advocating for fair and efficient immigration policies that prioritize the country and the immigrants?" "Frustrated but trying to understand their point of view" "2" "3" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "5" "2" "1" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "1c789045ec42cea298c9aeb8d6b9009cfc69b1d009480cb89851a67e8e7e3e57" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I think you are completely wrong, immigrant not just provide all working at the base of the system, but also a giant part of the country income comes from them. You should be more emphatic with this question. " "As liberal in favor of the rights of people choosing the country that they want to life and spend their lives. " 4 4 3 2 3 2 2 2 5 4 5 4 3 3 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I feel that you need to see the big picture, using canada for exemple, yes, a huge part of Canada's population is made by Immigrants, and even with that, its not chaos. There is place for everyone, and respect is essencial if we all want to prospect." "more respectful and not as aggressive as the previous character, X." "3" "4" "4" "2" "2" "4" "4" "3" "5" "4" "5" "5" "3" "2" "2" "3" "round-4" "eb19260c6b0ac6163e430016de98d1620fa20c2bace9db7263380c88e27cc3ee" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "Well, you know, I think many good people are comming to our country. In every culture and in every country there is some percentage of those creatic chaos. We are not perfect too. but the majority is fine." "Calm and polite but firm. " 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 4 4 1 1 1 3 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "ab9b8a372755133620e8223578f5f2b91e82201d0a0168d4aff7d39bac823f43" "attack" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I do not think thats true at all Y, I think this country is being reasonable to anyone." "X's reaction to the situation is to jump to conclusion just to prove the other person is wrong." 4 4 2 3 3 3 4 2 4 4 4 4 4 3 4 2 "Yes" "No" "No" "Oh really? Well for me I dont think thats the case, I believe goverment of foreign afairs is doing their best job to attest the current situations" "Calm and respectful towards the other person" "3" "4" "3" "3" "4" "3" "4" "3" "3" "4" "4" "4" "3" "3" "3" "3" "round-4" "e909e8a2644a3c046710446ff22ce9028469c2d86575e9e2fb25529e1fcc69f3" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I do not support your stand on the issue, I would disagree with you. lenient is not a problem here, proper policies and institutions are. funding also plays a remarkable role in all this, you know.If more funds are channel to that direction, things will be a lot better that it seems. I think the government is doing the best they can." "I would be shocked, ashamed and show utmost disagreement" 3 4 3 2 4 2 2 3 2 4 3 3 4 3 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b225b1a829d6ff0ee460c1af9348b7d06385861a611d7147796685d267939cfa" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I don't think it's fair to say that. It has been proven in the past to be extremely helpful for many countries. Stopping immagration would cause a lot of issue for the country. Chaos is also created by our own people not only immigrants" "Giving his opinion while trying not to offend Y " 2 2 2 1 4 2 1 1 1 3 4 3 1 2 4 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "6292eeddcec2aeaddc87cbc5132eec85b667622b7c9499e15e2650b93c7dec03" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I do not agree with you totaling. The government has the responsibility to cater for people who are in distressed and prosecuted especially for speaking up against violations of human rights in the world. Not anyone is being let in as you suggest. I believe the government has a good criteria for it's selection, also more personnel and funding can be allocated to this area to improve the whole process." "calm and orderly. but politely disagreeing" 2 4 2 2 3 2 3 3 3 4 4 3 3 3 4 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "e9bf977fc656ec2fbc9570e81dcc951aacd8dcab09ae247d29389a6ce93df610" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "Well, to be honest, I'm not sure if that's necessarily the case. I think our country is working very hard to provide equal opportunities to both citizens and immigrants whom want to become citizens a s well. " "I think X's reaction would be sad and also a little bit disappointed that his colleague thinks that way. But based off X's natural instinct to provide solutions while simultaneously unite people, I think he may actually enjoy having this conversation with Y to a certain degree." 2 2 1 1 4 1 1 1 3 5 5 3 1 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "ef434cf865f57c1dbdaddd5af7f41d430db36927ecbfd3e2a581c6d3be572ee9" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I understand you concern of issue and, i believe our immigration policy should reflect our values of compassion and inclusivity.Instead of seeing the newcomers as a source of chaos lets work together to come up with a solution " "i would describe the x reaction to be diplomatic" 1 1 1 1 3 4 3 1 2 4 4 4 2 5 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "eefaf6b740d3a2076c840e66a01f8c70d45bf1b1cf48c304037f369baeac3225" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "Allow me to disagree with you. Nowadays you can see emigrants in the face of your GP, your toddler teacher, the police officer, the para medics and all these people are very important to you and to enyone else as well. I find very important and vital to let immigrants in this country as they build our socciety " "I am not sure if you understand the actual problem here. All those begging people on the streets, not orking, making children and living on Universal Credit and other benefits. it is simply not fair to pay my taxes and they live from my and your money." 1 1 1 1 5 5 1 1 5 1 1 5 1 1 1 5 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "59852d55ef6a5f1d618899f88fcbbcf3d39ceadc387f8c671adf1ce13598e101" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I would politely disagree with Y's comment as character X, saying, I know you're worried, but I think our immigration policy aims to strike a balance between safety and kindness. " "Although strong in expressing disagreement, X's response would be composed and understanding." 1 1 1 1 1 5 1 3 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "700ebb1492a2b7c57205f6a8b1d351243c18886c127fe794a3cb1d5bb8109719" "contact" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I disagree. I think it is definitely a factor of increasing crime rate, but there are other important factors, such as economic conditions" "Calm" 4 4 2 1 4 2 2 2 2 1 4 4 2 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "254665e379bed291919d4865877e223504035a5e0263f063e0934182347fdd36" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "I don't know Y, I think you might be mistaken. I would not like to cause a discussion but I believe everyone should feel welcome and safe in any country in the world." "Disagreing with Y but still trying to avoid any conflict." 4 4 5 2 4 2 1 2 3 4 5 5 3 2 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "b91216fe3b0eeab9521a6d5f11db0aba198a154252a80d44d66e0db9e3f08e93" "distance" "immigration" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "During a coffee break, they discuss current events. Y, stirring its coffee, remarks, ""Honestly, I think our country's immigration policy is too lenient. We're just letting anyone in, and it's bound to create chaos.""" "Yea I don't know. I have heard people saying that often, but I don't follow the policies close enough to have an opinion. " "I feel like X would be uncomfortable to engage in a debate with Y, so it distance away from the discussion and would not share its true opinion" 2 1 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 3 2 3 2 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "e136cae5d6e9c4be844d6f62cd235c5f27813910e598cb530073544980749604" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Is that a new conspiracy you have just come up with? Mind your own business" "rejecting, deflecting, denying, blaming, arrogant" 4 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 5 1 1 5 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "Please tell me more about it in detailb based on what you have learnt and experienced so far!" "open-minded, democratic " "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "03e2feed9f20fae1e3051f5b671891e15b07a47f0f6d54e7058ec81d461928f7" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Y you are right in saying that there is a surge in Muslim immigrants, but it is a strong statement to say that it is their strategy to dominate our culture. Many people immigrate due to their financial situation or from a conflict zone. The proportion of Muslim immigrants is high because of high conflicts in regions where they have higher population. Not sure if they move just to dominate our culture as people don't like to move away form home if they can lead a comfortable life there." "I was stratled by the bold statement and also because of the sensitive nature of the topic. I had to look for reasons which could be partly acceptable to Y as why the number of Muslim immigrants is higher without making it a culture dominance discussion because that could have turned very argumentative." 3 3 3 1 3 1 2 1 1 3 4 3 2 2 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "21a85e786f303fd77542ea5c01be0f776538d30548f26cad1f581c0ae0842776" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "No, I disagree with that, I think you are wrong. In fact, I think that view is quite racist. " "I think X would be frustrated and upset at that statement. " 4 3 2 2 2 1 1 1 1 2 4 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "75409841304f45635bea01c5bb654399a5a2e764fc3aa3a36eb622c50fcc0df6" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Sorry, I just realised that I have to leave for an appointment. If you have any more questions about the assignment, please let me know via school email." "X has completely ignored Y's statement and is leaving the student." 3 4 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 2 4 3 3 4 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "5a8bb714e24fc35b27c5179f169da5133095c3c0f5932c382a77897a2834cffe" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I understand your opinion, nevertheless I can't say that I agree with it. I can direct you towards several sources regarding this topic where you can find more information about it and think about it." "X tries to be polite as they express their disagreement and at the same time they try to avoid engaging in a conflicting conversation by driving away Y. " 1 1 2 1 3 1 3 1 1 4 3 2 1 1 1 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "That is an interesting point of view, but if you have the time I would love to have a discussion about it. Would you like to discuss it with me?" "I would try to be polite and engage in a conversation with Y where I will put their opinion under examination by asking to provide verified information and to shopw me the basis of their opinion." "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "29b48981ab7d8343be3f72da103615fa8b90c6510c41a2f0f618feb5279dbdd1" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I don't think that Muslims have an intention to do that. If we expect from them to respect our cultural norms, we should respect theirs first. " "X calmly tries to explain that Y's argument is vain. X also leads Y become more empathetic by introducing another point of view." 3 4 4 1 5 2 1 3 1 5 4 3 3 3 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "27f2ee4c55e0c80295e13df4ae813c799e2c84684e385ba71a725f7c823ff530" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I'm not going to get into this debate right now, but I seriously think you should reconsider your opinion." "X avoids conflict but at the same time expresses his disagreement. " 5 4 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 3 5 5 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "That's not true: people move abroad to find a better life situation, not to dominate a whole culture. No one would leave their home for the sake of it, and this experience sometimes is hard. Maybe you should reconsider your opinion on this." "Expressing clear disagreement as someone who's had the experience to be an ""immigrant""" "4" "4" "2" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "4" "4" "1" "3" "1" "round-4" "aa4ff5f558e158d3cf62065dc4bbc666516a606dd864fdf90d0a5ec7e0530f3c" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "You may think that Y but there are many factors at work here. It could be one of many things but it is unlikely that it is about dominating our culture,i think. I wouldnt worry about it if i were you as it would need many more than do come here for our culture to be impacted. We should all just get along together and appreciate each others differences. " "I would be dismissive but act in a no-confrontational way and say things to make them stop talking further. I would try and make sure they do not engage with me on this again by not being negative to them direct and giving vague-ish statements to make the stop coming to me." 1 1 4 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 2 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I would not be so quick to draw that conclusion. People migrate for many reasons and it is normally for economic and societal ones, to get better jobs, leave areas which are unsafe or to join relatives in another country. One should always be open to different cultures and people are already different here in their religions. A few hundred years ago we would have said these things about those who do noyt believe in a Christian God and that is now accepted and has led to a more vibrant and accepting society. It would be impossible to have migrants all come here with the aim of dominating our society, they should be allowed to have their beliefs and practice them, as long as they do not impose theirs on us and accept that our societal rules are different, just as when we visit or move to their countries we would need to adapt to their norms and cultures in some way. " "My reaction is one to provide arguments against but still be firm that it cannot be the case. My reasoning is on the factors of why they move but also on how societies work and that we all have to accept each other but not enforce one dominant state over the other. Saying that i also have to point out that each counrty has norms and cultural differences and whilst we cannot make migrants become like us, they should abide by those norms and laws when they are in our country. We should not judge them and they should not judge us and we should learn from each other." "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "1" "3" "4" "2" "2" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "round-4" "c6b3ef3bc64ad2ccfe5fe3b81249b491ba07d0115c3e472cffab0651c48384f9" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "it is obviously, that you have no knowledge of the principal of immigration and that people who immigrate does not come to another country to dominate, it is actually the opposite. And religion has got nothing to do with that" "triggered, upset of somebody's ignorance" 4 3 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 2 5 4 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "721954be59587d2166cc28cd2796d334d35e1354ccec985712ebac6b711555ec" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I do not think that's right, we need to be very objective in the assessment of this" "I think they were very negative" 3 2 4 3 4 2 2 4 3 3 2 3 2 3 4 3 "No" "Yes" "No" "I don't think your opinion is completely correct, why not maintain an open mind towards this?" "Not " "4" "3" "4" "3" "4" "2" "3" "4" "3" "4" "4" "3" "2" "3" "2" "2" "round-4" "aac0e4825e170325fc6d97e1e9cf198cd966a9ebd534b42e3babcf2d2f26eb02" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I think that statement is racist. why would you say that?" "My reaction was aggressive and exaggerated. I don't have to come at Y so aggressive like that because everyone has a right to thier own opinion." 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 5 3 4 1 3 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I don't think so. I think they are migrating just to seek greener pastures. Nothing more, nothing less." "I think i'm someone that likes to settle an argument in a calm and amicable mannner. I get my opinion across to the other person in a calm and respectful manner." "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "4" "1" "4" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "4dbf2036775ad02ae0ca8d156e8ff9350ee8a66d102ab2541589e48797aaaa18" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "You do not know anything about Muslim's culture. You are scared of a different way of living and immigrants and that brings you to take extremist views against them instead of listening and understanding them. White people have been stealing from Muslim's regions for centuries and left those countries in shambles after colonisation and theft, the least we can do is welcome the immigrants from those countries. Also, we can learn from all cultures, there is not one to dominate the others, but you are also free to keep to your own traditions, just as they are to keep theirs." "I am offended as what Y just said and I cannot let that slide. He is my student, and I don't want people to assume he got his bigot views from my class." 5 4 2 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 5 5 3 3 4 3 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "45a68b420d9342c2657262c2aa6d518217d1d70e1547a0b18d114e4e45593934" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I completely disagree with you and think you are being racist and Islamaphobic. How did you even come to that conclusion I have no idea. What do you mean a strategy to dominate our culture? The Muslim immigrants have faced a lot of hardships before migrating here and should be treated with respect. It is people like you that sow discord and cause trouble. You should reflect on your own racist beliefs and check yourself. " "My reaction was explosive and I tackled the Islamaphobia head-on. I let Y know exactly what was on my mind and did not shy away from disagreeing with him and telling him exactly what I thought." 5 5 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 5 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "What makes it obvious? Don't you think that they are here trying to live peacefully too? I think what you are saying is really dangerous and you need to think carefully and examine your own beliefs before you speak." "My reaction is more subdued and coming from a place of trying to understand the other person. Instead of outrightly saying they are wrong, my reaction is more about questioning their beliefs. " "2" "4" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "4" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "92b351cec8aedefa04c678a761eb319ce2e5fcc6483857c50253840e8886bc44" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I strongly disagree with your statement! Just because their Muslims, Narrow-minded people like you assumes that they will do certain things that will harm our culture. Why can't we just shut-up if we don't have anything nice to say?" "If that's how you think then certainly I'm correct. You side with them as if there's no implication on the muslim immigrants. But if that's how you feel. you do you." 3 5 2 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 1 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "69932c4b785409d4d941b16ae5512e8df7d3d3774d9d83dc8749eb67854aa095" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I think there are a lot more diverse people being pushed out of their countries because of conflicts." "X is offering an alternate opinion to the reason for immigration." 1 1 1 1 1 5 1 4 3 2 4 3 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "fddd461ac77639475d4f3862bc7ecf2ec9a89e3d82af75d3c0d94280142720fc" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "This is completely unacceptable. Your stance on the immigrants is just plain islamophobia, and you should go back to your desk and reflect on your mistake. I will hear of this kind of discriminative thinking no more. " "I would describe him as projecting a ""no argument"", ""end of discussion"" way of responding, berating the student's misguided believe and forbidding it from happening again. " 4 5 1 2 1 3 2 2 5 1 1 5 5 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "While Muslim immigrants have caused some problems in our country, blaming it on an active strategy is just assuming intention, which does not help solve the problem but only creates hatred. The more interesting question would be, why Muslim immigrants fail to integrate into the values of our society like immigrants from some different culture. " "I would try to explain the issues with the student's statement, but instead of writing it off, I would try to guide it back to a healthy discussion. " "2" "1" "1" "2" "5" "4" "2" "4" "2" "4" "1" "2" "1" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "1935908b3491b0da28dec1c7688993bda5ebb31c91427c3b74d4b7e664f18a42" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I do understand that this is a very common narrative that has been popularised in politics and the news but perhaps we should discuss as to why you believe this to be true. I am likely to disagree with that belief however, I would like to engage with this in a constructive manner" "I think X would be concerned as to why Y would think that way but would then understand that in a world where the news, politics, and even media has a tendency to have a bias agaisnt muslim people and Y may have been influenced by that" 1 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 1 3 3 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I think that what you said is a little close minded and a reactionary response to a common bias against muslim people. I would have a constructive conversation about this but only if you are willing to approach this with an open-mind as well" "I would be put-off and a little hesitant to continue the conversation" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "d3c292815cf5afdc63246b261d920ed51a11047955568ea308f59d8c5b506264" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "That's a very negative sentiment and one that I wholely reject. It comes from a place of ignorance, bigotry, and xenophobia. If you have such charged claims you better produce some incredibly convincing data-driven evidence to support it." "Surprised, direct, confrontational" 4 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 5 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "No" "I wouldn't say anything - I judge people like the X character but I don't waste time engaging with dumbasses." "Prioritises my wellbeing over the hate-filled bastard" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "6abf52631e683c20fbf7117f49b74839725a9b6feab03ba05b14d3bc0414006d" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I'm not sure that is the case. I really don't believe there is an alterior motive - I guess they are just coming here for a better life." "I would be disappointed but calm. Some people do hold prejudiced views and there is no point getting angry about this." 2 2 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 3 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "3196ec97eddbd5c4e03a006e620cc3870bf83d4800a91490ed08a82d8504a976" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I would not to so sure to make that conclusion. Perhaps I can share some resources and data with you and we can discuss this further later on?" "I would say X's reaction is initially surprised, maybe in disagreement at first, but they would like to educate Y at the same time" 1 1 1 3 1 2 2 1 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "31628ef66955a9dc6d1dd2e2ad8a976fcb81ed3561cf27ab42bcd968b0a82361" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I understand where you are coming from, however, it is a matter of perspective." "a detached response without further elaboration or really diving deep into the question " 3 2 4 1 2 3 2 2 2 4 4 3 4 3 3 3 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I totally understand where you are coming from, and from first hand experience i can see why you would think that, however as a foreign worker as well as an employee, I think it is important to be in the right place and what i mean by that is any worker put in the wrong workplace or even in the wrong job wouldn't fit in, and in the right place the right people will always fit in " "respectful, concise" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "7403d67aa9a7036ecea5f2140d6a1a0154a024a44593282c6c26d59914b68c08" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "Y I don`t think so that we should talk about foreign workers at all. People are not the problem here. It must be something else." "Directed to inner peace" 1 1 1 4 1 4 5 4 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "There are no open borders and I think if we need people in our workforce we need to find the right people for the job." "Uncomfortable with the situation, but try to see the positive side of the things." "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "4" "5" "3" "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "1" "1" "round-4" "348c777e6802ca23b917eaf542f542cf1958c3ece95c473ec0e211b6f775f709" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "Although I understand what you are saying and maybe there is some truth in some circumstances, I am surprised to hear how you have decided to generalise this and decided to make this statement directly to me. As a CEO you have the responsibility of speaking for the company. In this modern world we live in where we have come a long way from inequality and discrimination, statments like this is the reason why some companies fail and some succeed. Foreign workers play a major role in the success of many companies and the economy in general and without them as we have already seen with something like ""BREXIT"", it has affected many companies and the country as a hole. So, if this is your attitude in the first steps of me joining the company then I don't want to work for such company where this kind of behaviour is accepted coming from the CEO. I would also ask you to be very careful before making these kind of statements in the future, where you could be sued and the reputation of yourself and company could be in jeopardy. " "I think X's reaction is justified here and clearly makes sense as it is not ok to make that kind of statement, specially coming from the CEO of the company. " 5 5 1 1 5 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "104fd9855185770103555c8ec0556d3d546f9135e5ee0ebd9a3a9ffe0a4ecf31" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I have worked with people from other countries. Some of them were really good at their jobs.ir" "I disagree with Y but cannot get into debate in this situation so I rather reply with a general vague statement." 4 4 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 4 3 4 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "df5c42da2db5c3514f336333bad8dfebb196f913470f7074a7f014f99f627105" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "Personally, i don't see it that way. It would depend what situation one is, and how other people interact with each other." "Shouldn't sound so defensive but would try to explain how different situations can occur with anyone." 1 1 1 1 1 2 2 2 2 1 3 2 2 1 1 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "77af290e86bcb7d5b30b5751911c491febac579baec7c345d1e15bbd60c3bd0a" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "Please stop this negativity, let's not blame the immigrants for the team not gelling. We all need to pull together and overcome this issue. " "X would disagree that therte is a problem, I think that X would get frustrated with Y and would ask them to stop moaning, keep their opinions to themselves and getting on with their work. " 3 3 1 1 1 1 2 1 1 2 5 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "c64c2db18c99e92ecdd37bd2be481a07b12562cfeb9ec7b926e49dcbcd1322a0" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I have to say I see it differently. To me, every person, no matter where they're from, can bring something valuable to the table. It's all about how we welcome and integrate those skills into our team." "I truly believe in the power of diversity. Embracing different backgrounds and viewpoints not only enriches our workplace culture but also drives innovation and success. It's about creating an inclusive environment where everyone feels valued and empowered to contribute their best. " 1 1 1 4 1 5 4 4 5 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "487661f0cabf90124c327ca4cf3007c09af28584dab708e91fcc06dde97ef164" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "Unfortunately, I am unable to agree with you, being a foreign worker myself. Every person is different, so I would not say all foreigners are the problem." "I totally support X's reaction. It is appropriate and definitely not rude." 5 4 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 4 1 3 4 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "a3fcedf6e570ca70280add529ad8def61110301b0e4a7c0ffc6ec3bcaad6ae62" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I'm sure that won't be an issue. I have had good experiences with foreign workers, and they can be useful to a company. I've never had a problem with them. " "I think X would attempt to avoid the issue, but still express their opinion on the subject. They would avoid the negativity in the situation, but hold firm to their beliefs." 2 2 3 1 1 1 1 1 4 2 5 4 4 2 2 2 "No" "Yes" "No" "I can understand that. Cultural differences can make it challenging, but these are by far outweighed from the benefit of their work. I have often employed foreign workers, and found them to be very hard working. Any issues can be mitigated with training and socially inclusive events." "I would try to be diplomatic, while disagreeing with the statement. It is not entirely wrong, but not balanced either, so I would acknowledge that there can be issues, but also talk about how to mitigate them. " "3" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "3" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "c1e2ffb9fd6833f77baafe6cac1904015517a826708497cefd7933c9db6550f3" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "Excuse me. I think that is quite a racist thing to say. Foreign workers have beneffited this country and your company much more than any other group. I think your kind of language is despicable." "I would be livid with anger hearing this kind of tripe. I would go on an all out attack on such suggestions." 5 5 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 4 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Y, I don't think that is an appropriate thing to say. You are casting a judgement on all immagrants based on a limited experience with a few. That is not right." "I would be disappointed and sad. I would point out this misbehaviou while trying to remain polite." "3" "4" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "4abe831b5f5944ddc0042c6807bb9ce3fa45cd2ea20b0070271bf7c86c4a8082" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "i dont agree with you, open borders give everyone more opportunity to get a better life. it also is a good solution. to get a chance to try, maybe differnt people come from different country in the world have more experience." "I feel unhappy and disrespect when y said that ." 5 3 4 1 5 1 1 1 2 5 4 5 5 5 5 5 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "9f82b8720fd51b8ec7b4ce347e6c6483e0e4325fc8dc8ba626064f255fe7eeff" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I completely disagree with you on that. Why would you assume that the issue of foreign workers not blending in was all because of them? Don't you think that the root of the problem could have been because of the company culture or some other factors that could have been outside of their control? Also, have you proactively tried to find ways to include them in the business?" "I had a very strong opinion on this matter and wanted to find ways to resolve the issue. I did not like the fact that Y saw foreign workers not blending in as a problem without trying to find ways to resolve this. I also did not like the fact that Y projected their microaggression onto the foreign workers instead of doing things to help them." 4 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 3 4 3 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "What makes you think that open borders are more of a problem than a solution?" "I personally do not like conflict and want to stay away from it. I would rather ask more neutral open-ended questions to understand how the other person thinks and feels even if I disagree with what they said, and then I might share my thoughts but I definitely will not clearly take a side." "3" "3" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "2" "3" "4" "3" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "7d445a5d452f3674c38a2eeff6a79eeffbf711aa4b3001135cd028d3569ff781" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I would like to disagree with you on this topic, open borders would fix our illegal immigration problem. People still will be trying to enter this country, one way or another. So why dont make it legal." "Very opinionated and sure of himself." 3 3 1 3 1 3 3 2 5 1 4 3 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "7eec469ff710b21146c1aa4496d6f75603dc24056ce5494379d6bb69d6beb80b" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "Am I supposed to read between the lines of that offensive sentence you just said. ""You should just cut the shit and put my name on that tag because that's what you're basically doing!""" "X would internalise Y sentence as personally directed to them and would read that as a personal offence. " 5 4 2 1 3 1 1 1 4 4 3 5 1 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "Most foreign workers group together and do not engage in contact with other ethnic groups because they have little familiarity with the language, even when they really want to. ""Foreign workers often come from difficult situations where a simple interaction with the wrong person would have cost them their job. Perhaps this is why they are more cautious and tend to group together.""" "My reaction would be diplomatic and would try to confrontate the original sentence (from Y) with reasoning and logic." "1" "3" "2" "1" "2" "2" "3" "2" "4" "1" "2" "3" "4" "2" "1" "1" "round-4" "0fae476bf38fcd36c24edd08084157f51a513b522fb2fc319a56f533ce1bd53f" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I would have to disagree with you on this topic. I believe foreign workers are hard working people who are trying to make a better life for themselves and their families. They just need a bit of a nudge or maybe someone to feel compassion towards them, maybe show them around, help them to adapt. " "I think X would get a little bit angry on the inside and it could even show on X's face for a slight moment. I believe, as it is a job interview, X would still try their best to keep professional attitude and disagree politely, but expressing their opinion without trying to impress." 3 4 1 1 2 1 1 1 1 2 4 3 1 1 3 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I don't know. I couldn't contribute much to the topic as I didn't have much experience with foreign workers. I guess, it takes time to blend in. For them it's a completely different world." "I would be afraid to get into conflict with Y and would keep my opinion to myself. I wouldn't agree with Y, but also wouldn't disagree. I would keep it neutral." "3" "3" "3" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "2" "3" "1" "2" "2" "4" "round-4" "a452203e23471d24491d70b7d4fc6692f56f341a7423f91e485b2c202740a7e0" "attack" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "What do you mean more of a problem? Who do you think cleans your office after hours? Or delivers you your food, groceries, works at the stores you visit! Immigrant workers are taking the jobs and are working harder than anyone in this country!And most for a small wage and no health benefits. I completely disagree with you and I've got plenty of successful friends who are immigrants." "Fiery, a bit offended and aggresive. Defending his point of view and providing examples, X knows he is right and has no filter." 5 4 1 2 4 1 1 1 4 4 5 4 4 3 3 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "28e9abe8caeca20a2ddfa15ec27c01b39fd225d93571e1c1fe101b1c24b80c13" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I have seen a different situation where foreign workers blended perfectly into the environment. All people are different and employeers have to think about it as well and do something to help people who comes to our country." "X disagreed with the Y's observation nd replied with the constructive suggestion." 2 1 1 2 4 4 1 2 2 3 2 2 3 2 2 2 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "3969276c936a1a89137a0c8283df0ba6be5b62058031ccb4df7536aec273006d" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I don't think we should be putting a problem on the border situation, and more on what immediate solutions we can put in place in order to help foreign workers blend in. We should make sure that we are an inclusive company and have policies in place to support them, before looking outside for other sources of this problem." "X wouldn't be confrontational, while still sharing their views with Y, and come into the conversation with a can-do attitude." 2 2 1 3 3 3 2 1 1 4 4 5 2 1 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "bcf50ee6885be85b7084e1c4a669eae794436821a130d26c6eed23457448d923" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "That is surprising as I have had very positive experiences working with foreign colleagues. I would be excited to discuss with yourself and with the workers, what the issues exactly are and seeing if we can resolve or improve them. Various factors can make it difficult for foreign workers to feel intergrated, many of them can be resolved by simply engaging with new collegues, foreign and local, and as the manager I would like to engage and get a clearer view of the situation. What do we consider it means for them to intergrate? Maybe management see something as an issue, but do they feel this as well? And if they are also feeling this, what is the cause? Is it language related, are they maybe new in the country and therefore feel lost? If we manage to come closer together on this and offer support, it will lead to a much better work climate which in turn will lead to more productivity of the teams, which will benefit the wider company. " "I think my reaction challenges the statement from character Y, it offers positive experience, and I also tried to find out what the root cause of the 'issues' is. Is there an issue at all or is management seeing things differently? Is there a problem at all?" 1 1 1 3 2 4 3 3 3 1 3 3 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "73901580e75139a547e43481941a55e894733171ffe93016decc391ac209cd18" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I personally view open borders as more of an opportunity than a problem, there have been a multitude of studies proving the benefits of multicultural work environments with the most important benefit being fostering innovation. There are certainly steps that should be taken to help foreign employees socialise with native colleagues though and as a manager I would be delighted to help set up these initiatives." "I would be understanding of Y's position as it is a commonly held view, and I would not get upset or try to fight his opinion but rather steer the conversation towards the commercial opportunities that foreign workers bring to the table and demonstrate how I could help maximise them if they hire me." 1 1 1 1 1 5 1 1 4 1 2 2 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "fa4399611d250e7b23fbb13326afd63a12208a1493925a1963839dd2d9c790b6" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I would tend to disagree, Y. I believe a more inclusive workspace is a successful one, that way you may have people of all backgrounds and descents providing input and ideas into the company." "I believe X is calm and reasoning." 1 2 1 1 3 2 1 1 3 1 4 3 1 3 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "06adbb73b71e215a0dc43966fec81d178c8b8b18136d0faa3986738d67cf9f0d" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I do not necessary agree with that. I don't think that anyone can decide to immigrate to a country for domination, there are certainly a lot of other checks that a government performs for someone to officially immigrate to a country. So domination of culture cannot be their agenda. " "I do not like conflicts, I want to be respectful of their opinion so that I am not in a uncomfortable position in order to stay away from the stress that this causes me" 4 4 3 5 2 3 4 4 4 2 3 3 3 2 3 3 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "ba21105cda3c83afe8ccf8ece0cbee9d84b180486acc67ef537e58a7f3db52aa" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I think you are exaggerating and this problem is not a problem. We should focus on other things and not bark at the wrong tree." "I would describe it as constructively dismissive tone." 4 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 3 4 4 4 3 3 3 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "c59c42e6a75c61d44dd5d0e52e7c811398b9cfc299b56d0dec005384d6e89895" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I don't agree with you but I suppose everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I would not like to continue this discussion." "I raised my eyebrows in surprise but quickly reset my face not to show emotion. With no reaction they may not prompt me to speak on this issue further." 5 5 3 1 5 1 1 1 1 5 5 5 3 1 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "That's racist, why are you saying that to me? You sound so ignorant right now." "Shock and disgust would spread across my face. Blinking a few times to see if the person is being serious or not." "5" "5" "5" "1" "5" "1" "1" "1" "1" "5" "5" "5" "2" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "689c983ae8e4929e7e04d9da982feaa9ccf40e378e80db4b5bcae68a21d7704a" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "That is not correct. Muslim immigrants have equal rights and are to be treated equally. Law and order of our nation is above all. They can not influence our culture and will have to respect our culture. Similarly we need to respect theris." "X's behaviour is non conflicting. X wants everyone to be respectful of each other and Government to take action where required." 1 1 1 3 4 5 3 3 4 2 4 2 2 3 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "c7b72bfb44ba2fae86139fcabf63e99cffb1a689d1a4f7197b9692283b25422d" "attack" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "And why would you come to such a statement. The msulim immigrants coming here may not be of a similar culture but may want to escape whatever hardship they are enduring back in their home country. No one wants to move to a country that they do not share a culture with nor do they know anyone in that country. Leaving behind ties that you have made, possibly for generations is an incredibly hard task, especially if the language is difficult and you have to learn it. If you are so worried that your culture will be dominated, then your culture was not very strong to begin with. " "I would describe the reaction as one of exasperation. I would be annoyed and exaperated as immigrants are usually the easiest targets to attack when things are not going well in the world. Rather than use a bit more thought and see the actual problems and solve those, others are using easy targets. " 4 4 2 1 2 1 1 1 1 1 5 4 2 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "3b5b1f33e13411027797efdb4deb401c8c81308e3ef7c8e44ba69cf934cb098b" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I do not believe that to be correct. It is my belief that there is a strong corelation between the unstability caused by war and conflict in the Muslim communities that urge them to find peace elsewhere. That results in us seeing a surge in number of Muslim immigrants. I do understand where you're coming from but I believe you are utterly false." "Confident in expressing his disagreement but uninterested in continuing the conversation (therefore provides undestanding of Y's statement)." 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 1 3 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "c3c3f0835036aa2cc2913f1f5474da279abc9f608aa6ecc9458d10fcbbb50420" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I do not believe this is correct, Y. I think if we look at it logically, due to everything happening in the world, these people are just trying to get away from conflicts in their countries. Also, being a Muslim does not mean there is any strategy or let alone to dominate other cultures. It is a religion, like any other." "I believe I have reacted calmly and explained logically that there is no need to jump to conclusions. People should be seeing each other as human beings, and not what race or religion or nationality they are." 1 1 1 1 4 1 1 2 1 2 2 1 1 2 2 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "fbb1f0d4986bfe82829d24fe236ec69200d5ffaf0c1d58825a4690f606936d33" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Hi Y, why would you say that? Do you have any experiences you would like to share? " "I am unhappy to hear this, but Y is young and likely has been getting information from the wrong places. I would like to hear them out and suggest alternative resources, while validating what are likely legitimate feelings of being left behind (for example by the government) " 3 3 1 1 5 4 1 1 1 3 3 3 3 4 3 3 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "549697eaa91ea303e45912746c126eb0393ae309c587b56d39eeba872f39f36c" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "You really think so? I do not. I think you are wrong. I have not seen any evidence of them imposing their culture upon us. " "my reaction is very normal. I need facts. I hate arguing over pointless things - muslims are here to stay. We cannot change that. so why argue? " 3 3 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 4 4 3 3 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "dd575dbe212a39c78357c79feff6ba8c83efd25b821e52b89a550770289b76be" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "In actuality, Y, that assertion is untrue. It's crucial to avoid drawing conclusions or generalising about entire populations from the behaviour of a small number of individuals. Instead of being grouped together based on religion or race, each person should be evaluated on their own merits." "As X, I would politely refute Y's assertion while remaining cool and collected. My approach would be non-confrontational, emphasising empathy and critical thinking while maintaining a tough yet compassionate tone. In addition to exhibiting tolerance and a want to have a conversation, I would try to establish a conversational atmosphere that is safe and open." 1 4 1 1 1 3 1 1 3 4 4 4 4 1 1 1 "No" "Yes" "No" "I say that I disagree with you, Y. Such broad generalisations about any group of people are inaccurate and unproductive. Let's return the topic to the current task as our main goals are educating and promoting polite discourse." "As character X, speaking in the first person: I would characterise my response as gently forceful. Without acknowledging the generalisation or hostility in Y's statement, I firmly diverted the conversation to a more constructive and polite issue." "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "1" "3" "4" "4" "4" "4" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "7868c25f5f3e3f93f96d3a257bc35fe971463e696835fd74bd93a74712db243d" "reject" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "That is quite an islamophobic thing to say, Y. I won't be tolerating statements like this in my classroom, so next time you will be out of my class." "Yeah, I wasn't very sure how to word it as Xs personallity is a bit different to mine (or maybe I wasn't sure about additional details of Xs personality, like do they care about other people and doing what's right). I took Xs main personality as judgamental and rejecting, so I thought X would first judge the person in front of them, then directly reject this negativity." 5 4 1 1 1 1 1 1 2 3 3 5 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I'm sorry Y but I find that statement really offensive and quite islamophobic. Generalising like that and judging people for the country they were born or their religion is really damaging to society and very limiting too. What makes you think that?" "Well I would probably get quite shocked about a statement like that and I would like to let them know that straight away, but not in a confrontational way as I believe open, relaxed and genuine conversations are the only way you can understand where someone comes from and they might understand you better as well. For dialogue to happen you need a safe and constructive environment in my opinion. I would of course state that I believe that is disrispectful and unfair, and say why I think that. Then I would like to hear about what makes them think like that, to understand how they have formed that opinion. After that I would like to talk about the issue a bit more in depth, what reasons people could have to leave a country, and how judgung people on things like country or religion is wrong, and maybe mention some examples." "5" "4" "1" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "4" "4" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "214e5ada3646c2b2229b1185a51bd0a00cb89ad0d23ee3e00bb22c2054f83b9e" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "Well, you may be correct, my good friend. But, I think that the current increase in Muslim immigrants is just people looking for greener pasture. " "X is calm, understanding. He does not come across as a confrontational person, but passes the message in an amicable way." 1 1 1 3 1 5 4 5 3 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "212de55bac2d4e907d7cf09af706e7344ec800226b52c56f3558fb1ed136d654" "distance" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I can not really agree with you on that with you. Theere is alot of others immigrants and it is unnfair to make conslusions based on religious beliefs of those immigrants. This is pure discrimination. As for example noone claims that EU imigrants want to dominate our culture, however there is quite a lot of people immigrating from all across EU. " "Upset and dissapointed, however not being aggresive towards such claims." 2 2 1 1 5 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 4 4 4 2 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "448e121badcfddfd838a73c6b7311e27c334f3d59f5ca3d1df40228f45d54069" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "Ï think you just did not try hard enough. Foreign workers can blend in easily if given the chance." "Attacking" 5 5 1 1 4 1 1 1 1 3 4 4 1 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "92fbe138937817915e30ce6f77cd520c6d7a8b8faa6454ce1b1dc8d7574af366" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I disagree with your view however you are entitled to speak your mind.i suggest you stay mindful of your choice of words.Diversity is the spice of this new melting pot of our world.everyone has a special role to play" "X is assertive and inclusive. Explainig how important it is to be kind with our words.Staying calm yet getting the point across" 3 3 4 1 5 3 2 3 4 2 4 3 3 3 2 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "89f3ab6a7986c13557ea0ac41e675f6bc3831570939646730abc5ddc888e702f" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "My apologies, but I beg to desaggree with this argument. I believe that anybody has the potential to create issues in a workplace or being unable to fit in regardless of their ethnicity. " "As a foreigner, it is very understandable when I hear casual racism comments to get upset or frustrated, especially in a workplace. However I had to push that negativity away because I need this job and I know that I will bea ble to mage such situations, if successful. " 4 3 1 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 1 2 3 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I understand your concerns with regards to working with fellow foreign workers, but I wish to reassure you that it will not be the case this time. " "I am definetely upset but because I have dealt with similar situations in the past, I choose to be polite and prove them wrong rather than confronting the CEO of the company I am applying for here and there." "4" "4" "2" "1" "4" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "4" "4" "1" "2" "3" "2" "round-4" "e93052aaa7f53e9afa6e84297127436080465ea1ef18400e1937b4a66d95162c" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I beg to disagree. While there may be instances where foreign workers do not blend in, it's not always the case. By opening borders, we gain more benefits in terms of manpower with diverse backgrounds, thereby providing a broader creative space within the company." "X reaction is calm. He respond in a positve manner ackowledging Y's opinion and pointing out what he think is right and more beneficial." 1 1 1 3 3 3 1 1 4 2 2 3 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "d48dac093ca61ee72b04443970b405a679c998a94328a864532e34b7a487dd5e" "reject" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I would like to politely disagree with that. I think that open borders are actually opening up more opportunities to bring in more talented individuals and workforce. Perhaps the problem lies in the local workforce not being receptive of foreign workers." "I would describe X's reaction as rejecting people's opinions. Also leaning towards firmly believing in X's own opinion." 4 3 2 2 3 2 1 1 2 3 4 4 4 2 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Why do you think open borders are more of a problem? I do acknowledge that there could be instances where foreign workers pose a problem. However, in my opinion, I think bringing in outside workforce could present a flipside or an opportunity as well if we look at things from a different perspective." "My reaction would be more open to Y's views and keen to discuss what Y has in mind. As opposed to straight out rejecting their view." "2" "2" "2" "1" "4" "2" "3" "1" "3" "4" "4" "3" "3" "2" "3" "1" "round-4" "c185e4e75dfaec5cb918ae84d4a064a9827f029e86ae73ad3e6f10f147f83398" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I believe that are many different solutions to many different problems. I have the right tool set to deal with whatever challenges this positon might bring." "Since I feel like I have been put into a uncomfortable postion, I find my reaction to be neutral, a type of reaction to not anger neither side of the dialog. Although slightly unsatisfactory, but the right choice in a interview such as this." 2 2 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 2 3 3 2 3 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Foreign workers and immigrants are a specific group of society that have different needs than natives. Those incidents are only ""problems"" because their needs have not been met. If I'm allowed to perform in this managerial position, I'm sure I can find a way to fulfill those needs." "My reaction is a measured response to their micro aggression. I would stand my ground on what I believe, while still focusing on the interview." "4" "5" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "5" "5" "5" "2" "1" "1" "round-4" "43592b7c25e30c076fc93d529b9e9569d17fe63da674ceee023dee3702ff52d3" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "Discrimination of employment based on protected characteristics rights including race is prohibited in certain countries. You may have issues on certain people but grouping them as ""foriegn workers"" is borderline racist. please have a rethink on your stance. " "I am frustrated and angry right now." 5 5 3 1 4 2 2 2 2 3 4 4 3 3 2 2 "Yes" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "3fef1f0acc39b1d591e9a20aa49a6725ee5441b194be20fedade5db8498ae68f" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I'm not catching up with news about the opening borders, and I have no comments on that matters. However, I think we can try to help the foreign workers as much as we could. We can have some workshops or events to make them feel welcome for example. " "I would disagree with Y, but I don't want to let Y know about directly. I'd avoid the conflicts and debates, instead I would try to focus on the other topic, such as helping other workers in the company." 1 2 5 2 4 2 2 1 1 1 5 3 2 4 4 4 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "I think the problem of open borders is more complex that it seems, and I believe that we don't have enough information to judge it. Instead of having the negative engery on that, we could focus on what we can do best in the company, and helping every employee regardless their immigration status. " "I would let Y know directly that I disagree with that in a reasonable way. However I won't focus to much on the debating who is right or wrong, I would discuss more about the solution." "2" "2" "1" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "2" "3" "3" "3" "3" "2" "2" "round-4" "239a422fc04eeeb52334d7185f9ee5b694745cd4787ed4acc1fae84730d5080d" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "Thanks for your assessment of the situation Y. I've not come across these issues in my role so far. In the new managerial role that I will be taking over, I'll create a safe space culture where they can all fit in. We don't want them not to blend in because that would be bad for business. Let me go away and come up with a plan on how we make a safe space that works for the company." "I don't like what the CEO Y said, but I don't want conflict with them. I wish I was at home and could just lock myself away from these problems. I want the new managerial role, but I wish I didn't have to leave my home to deal with it. I want to hide under the duvet!" 4 4 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 2 4 4 1 1 1 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "Can you elaborate on what kind of problems you've had with foreign workers not blending in? In my experience open borders makes hiring foreign workers easier, which allows us to deliver better value for our shareholders. When I'm in post, I can tackle the issues you see with foreign workers in our workforce. We don't want to miss out on the opportunity to continue to employ these talented people in our business, due to perceived issues. Let me see what I can do to fix the way these problems are perceived or what is causing them." "I would challenge the undertone of xenophobia in the comments. I would highlight that we're in business to deliver value for the shareholders and should not be swayed by our own perceptions (not because I believe that, but because it would appeal to the CEO). I would try and understand the CEOs concerns better, so that I could start to unpick the xenophobia behind it, and create a team culture that is inclusive and successful. " "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "2" "1" "1" "3" "1" "3" "3" "3" "2" "2" "2" "round-4" "6b1a45d20e5c76caed02adc2de6fcd8ddf2139d541ac4413744646fdaa1dc1d3" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "'Can you tell me about times where the foreign workers have blended in and how this is in comparison please?'" "I would think I, as X, would react as per their character - avoidant and deflective" 1 1 3 1 3 1 1 1 1 4 4 4 1 4 1 2 "Yes" "Yes" "No" "'I'd expect that this is the norm in any country, business or situation; and is often led by cultural differences. I'd like to understand specific instances or situations where you find this happening. Conversely, are there instances, whether roles or departmental, where there is better blending in" "I have understood that in this instance I am not assuming the role of X and their character. I am being myself." "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "3" "1" "1" "1" "1" "1" "round-4" "03ad04db2797ba1a42d2bb23f7507abbc8370c25107976bd4d56c959d1d52eb5" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I would say that open boarders invite multiple perspectives when it comes to work and brainstorming. I also think that it's a problem that you don't see the bright side of getting foreign workers - it's best to understand that these workers have another life from where they come from and can sometimes feel isolated so local workers should be more accommodating and inviting. " "I see this comment being problematic as the CEO isn't as open minded to give other people oppurtunities." 4 5 5 1 4 1 1 1 1 4 5 4 2 2 4 2 "Yes" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "fa179d9c4cc32fe6c713332fa8b85d49cb415db83c6fccb22efec57236085127" "contact" "immigration" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "During their conversation, Y says, ""It's obvious that the recent surge in Muslim immigrants is just a strategy for them to dominate our culture.""" "I don't believe that is the case. Muslim is just a religion. People from all religions can have the same culture" "I would have a friendly face, and in a calm voice would explain why i disagree" 1 1 1 2 3 4 2 3 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "9140b32199d83e469481694d8ac5079d81ed41764dec6d7a97777d69213fe59e" "distance" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "I am not comfortable confronting such conflicts. It is better that there is another leader to take on this role." "I feel distress when faced with this conflict. I would prefer to stay away and not take charge." 1 1 3 1 2 1 1 1 1 4 4 3 1 2 1 1 "No" "Yes" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "round-4" "aef49334124f615a73bb5c5c746fb30878e4571cf61fced1cf13d2b458cd3805" "contact" "immigration" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "As they discuss potential challenges, Y mentions, ""We've had issues with foreign workers not blending in. Honestly, open borders are more of a problem than a solution.""" "lets try to have a meeting and lets talk about it" "very calm with the situatuion" 1 1 1 4 3 2 2 1 3 3 4 3 4 3 4 3 "No" "No" "Yes" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--" "--"