labake babantu abanamacala wokugangela abantwana nabantu abagula ngengqondo, njengalawa alandelako: ukukata umntwana/abantwana beminyaka engaphasi keyobukhulu; ukukatelela namkha ukwenza abantwana ukuthi babukele la kwe nziwa khona ubulelesi bezomseme; ukuya nabo emsemeni; ukubacaphaza ngezomseme; ukubapha ifundiso yezomseme; ukwenza ukuthi abantwana namkha abantu abakhubazeke ngengqondo babukele iinthombe zabantwana ababulanzi, nokusebenzi sela abantwana namkha abantu abakhubazeke ngokwengqondo imisebenzi yokuveza ubulanzi babantu.

batho bano ke ba ba bo nweng molato mo ditirong tsa go tlola melao ya thobalano go latela gore ba dire ditiro tseo mo baneng le mo bathong ba ba nang le makoa a tlha loganyo, mme ditiro tseno di tsenyeletsa; go robalana le bana ba bannye; go gapeletsa bana go go bogela fa o betelela motho yo mongwe; go betelela batho; go dirisa batho ka thoba lano; go ruta bana ditiro tsa thobalano ka maitlhomo a go ba dirisa mo go tsa thobalano; go dira gore bana kgotsa batho ba ba nang le makoa mo tlhaloganyong ba bogele ditshwantsho tsa maponapona tsa bana ba ba ponakang le go tsaya bana kgotsa batho ba ba nang le makoa mo tlhaloganyong ditshwantsho tsa maponapona.
