mhlari uthi umuntu omsikazi unamathuba amanengi wokuzithwala umntwana ongeze ahlala ngendlela ejayelekileko, lokhuya: nakanamatjhubhana wesibeletho alimeleko namkha angakajayeleki, njengokuthi nje nakube akhe aba nokugula okuthathelanwa emsemeni namkha nakube amatjhubhanakhe akhe ahlinzwa; nakube wakhe wazithwala umntwana ongakahlali ngendlela ejayelekileko; nakube akanambeleko; nakube wabelana umseme namadoda amanengi; nakube uyabhema.

ugqr mhlari uthe umntu wasetyhini unamathuba amaninzi okufumana ingxa ki yokukhulelwa okwenzeka ngaphandle kwesibeleko ukuba; unemibhobho yesibeleko eyonakeleyo okanye engaqhelekanga, enokususela kukuba wakhe wanesifo okanye usuleleko lwesifo kule mibhobho alufumene ngokwabelana ngesondo okanye ngotyando kwimibhobho; wakhe wanayo ingxa ki yokukhulelwa okwe nzeke ngaphandle kwesibeleko ngaphambili; akanayo inzala; unamaqabane okwabelana ngesondo amaninzi; utshaya imidiza.
