Monday, October 29, 2012

Why We Don't Celebrate Halloween

A couple of weeks ago, JD and I carved a pumpkin with the girls. It was the first one any of us had ever carved and we had a lot of fun doing it. We were all really proud of our first creation, but I felt compelled to learn about the history of jack o lanterns. My family never celebrated Halloween growing up so I knew very little about the holiday and its historical beginnings.

Later that night, I googled and found out jack o lanterns originated in Irish folklore. There was a guy named Stingy Jack who was a rotten scoundrel and played dirty tricks on everyone, including the devil. The devil made a deal with him that he wouldn't let him into hell if Stingy Jack let him out of a trap. When he died, true to his promise, the devil didn't let Jack in hell, but tossed him a burning ember from hell to light his way in eternity between heaven and hell. Legend has it that Stingy Jack put his ember in a hollowed out gourd, or pumpkin, and that every Halloween, his spirit can be found lingering about jack o lanterns. Read more here.

After I read that, I threw away our carved pumpkin. I know that we carved it totally innocent of what jack o lanterns represent, but JD and I were not comfortable having something on our porch that had affiliations with satanic folklore. I live my life in the Light of God's Truth and make efforts to avoid dark things in this world. I don't want to have anything to do with the devil or hell's fire, even if it is just a silly fairy tale. We have new pumpkins now, all faceless and flameless and we love them just as much as the first one we carved.

After learning about the historical beginnings of jack o lanterns, I researched the origins of Halloween next. I wanted to know for myself what the holiday was all about since I never celebrated it as a kid. What I read really sealed the deal for our decision to not celebrate. Much like the jack o lantern, Halloween's origins are deeply rooted in paganism and satanic folklore. Here's a short history:



Now, I know that 99.9% of people that dress their kids up and go trick or treating are not summoning up evil spirits or acknowledging any sort of satanic ritual like the Pagan Celtics did in the first Halloween celebrations. They just want free candy and to see their kids dressed up like super heroes. I get it (heck, I want to participate just for the free candy!), but for us, we cannot participate in something that has origins in paganism and worship to false gods. Not when we're raising our kids to lead godly lives and stay away from dark things of this world.

JD and I decided long ago that our kids wouldn't celebrate Halloween. We will go to pumpkin patches and harvest festivals and have costume birthday parties, but we will not trick or treat and participate in traditional Halloween festivities. We have always felt comfortable that our kids would not be missing out on anything if we opted out of this holiday and even if they do, we are comfortable saying no to something we believe is not for them.

When I started this blog, I never wanted to get very personal. I wanted to write about my kids, my interests, and have a creative outlet for, well, writing. Over the years, I have gotten personal from time to time and while it's been met mostly with support and kind gestures from readers, sometimes I've received some pretty ugly criticism. It's caused me to not want to write about the personal beliefs my family has. If I don't put it out there, I won't get any negativity, kwim?

Anyway, I feel really compelled to write about Halloween and why we choose not to celebrate it. Mostly because practically everyone we know does celebrate and is probably wondering why we don't. Also, I want to express our beliefs for our family. Most of our friends and family celebrate Halloween and we don't think they are evil or horrible people. We love them and respect their decisions to celebrate however they see fit. Most of all, we do not judge anyone's beliefs or decision to participate. We realize not everyone has the same convictions and we aren't here to conform anyone to believe like we do. I just wanted to give a little insight to why we do not celebrate.

Happy Halloween! Just kidding ;)

1 comment:

  1. Great post! I think so many people are ignorant about the darkness that is behind halloween. My parents watched a film called Halloween: Trick or Treat? (still available) when I was a kid and made the decision after that not to celebrate it anymore. Interestingly enough, I was always quite sensitive to darkness as a child, and never liked the particular "holiday". People do not understand the implications of spiritual warfare, and how the enemy preys on the hearts and minds of our young people from a very early age. I see halloween becoming more and more realistic and gruesome with each passing year, and I gladly teach my children from the start that halloween is something we just don't have anything to do with. God's Word tells us in 2nd Corinthians 6:17 to come out from among them and be separate. All of that to say, I don't think by not celebrating any certain mainstream holiday it makes us any better than one who does, but I am SO encouraged by other families who make this stand to protect their children's hearts and minds. We can't shelter them from every evil in this world, but we can make a Biblically based decision not to put them IN it. Anywho. Thanks for posting! I'll climb off my soapbox now. ;)