﻿ The problem of psychological incompatibility of children and their parents

The problem of psychological incompatibility of children and their parents, that leads to diseases of the locomotorium.

According to WHO the problem of congenital pathology of locomotorium has increased from 25 to 43% of child population and annually is growing for 1.5-2%. There is a growing number of children with diseases such as osteochondrosis, scoliosis, dislocations and subluxations of joints, and other diseases of the locomotorium. Besides, these diseases form after-effects or may act as a pathogenetic mechanism of another disease, forming a complex of psychosomatic pathology. Recently, physicians have note a serious problem of somatic and psychosomatic vulnerability. Methods commonly accepted as traditional medical and psychological treatment becomes ineffective. In this connection let’s examine the mechanism of formation of psychosomatic complex.

Psychological incompatibility, misunderstanding in relationship of parents, wives and husbands, unawareness of their behavior and actions. All of these are units of one psychosomatic process, in particular process happening during fetal development, the formation of perinatal matrices. During fetal development not only physiological processes of growth and maturation are taking place, but also the first emotional patterns and emotional function blocks appears. Fetus does not feel neither the need nor the motivation, it is unable to respond to emotions in utero. Due to the absence of mechanism of reaction. But the emotional coloring of functional emotional blocks and emotional patterns occurs, and is kept in long-term memory till the birth process. Also the fetus gets all the functional blocks of both parents without parental emotional coloring. While baby-bearing parents experience different needs and motivational messages, that form their own emotional dominants and their own, different from each other, dominant attitude towards pregnancy and the fetus. And the emotional coloring of dominants and dominant attitudes toward pregnancy and the fetus of a man and a woman are diametrically opposed. Even expectation and perception of the future child, how it will look like after the birth, has different emotional coloring. So persistent dominant relationships form in parents, fetus and infant. Difference of emotional coloring of these relationships form emotionally different cores of aggrieved affects. Later on its basis pathological dominants form, triggering pathogenetic mechanisms of psychosomatic diseases.

So prerequisites and mechanisms of pathological childbirth and child diseases laid in utero, including diseases of the osteomuscular system, just as the pathology of mental and emotional status. Fetal hypoxia, gestosis, presence of somatic disease in women before pregnancy, her bad habits affect the health of the fetus and the formation of locomotorium pathology. Undoubtedly, the very process of childbirth lays the long-term pathological mechanisms of osteomuscular system diseases, as at the time of the first birth pangs early emotional patterns starts, and the fetus resists labour activity, which certainly has an additional load on the cervical spine and form pathological dominant of pathology of the locomotorium, and its emotional color. After childbirth the mechanism of dominant reaction starts, fetus-infant, infant-child, parents’ dominants and functional blocks emotionally. So parental functional blocks and dominants get emotional color that does not match with the emotional coloration of parents. It generates in long-term memory of the child a core of aggrieved affects with its own emotional color, different from both parents. In the process of interaction between parents and children, conflicts and misunderstandings, and often rejection of each other occurs due to different emotional response to the same situation. We must notice also the ambiguous impact of free baby swaddling on the formation of the locomotorium and nervous systems pathology. There is a slow migration of cells in the gray matter of the cerebral cortex, the maturation of the central nervous system and the formation of connections between neurons and the central nervous system departments slows down. There are no conditions for the formation and maturation of the central nervous brake systems. In such way of swaddling gravitational effects are not equivalent to the osteomuscular system of the baby, intensifying pathology. With the growth and development of the child, the formation of his character, the interaction with parents, not only manifestation of the psychosomatic complex takes place, but also pathology of the osteomuscular system actively progresses. Besides, the pathological process gets worse cause child understands the secondary benefit of the disease and provides strong resistance to the treatment and recovery.

During the treatment of locomotorium diseases, chiropractor should pay attention to the problem of psycho-emotional state of the child. And strongly recommend parents consultation and supervision of the child by psychologist or therapist. At the reception chiropractor must necessarily apply the elements of psychotherapy, in particular musical therapy. Music therapy simultaneously affects both the psychic and somatic processes, balance emotionally. It breaks the vicious cycle of pathological effects of mental and somatic pathology. As a basis we took the music program of E.P. Dedinskaya (patent №2150301) «Method of improvement of the human body through a constructive way out of stress."

About 67 children was treated, from 2 months to 16 years, average age 10.3 years, with diagnoses: scoliosis 1-3 degree, birth trauma of the spine, congenital pathology of the locomotorium system. Comorbidities: autism, psychopathy and depressive disorders of varying severity, residual-organic borderline neuro-psychiatric disorders, deviant disorders, psychogenic anorexia and other pathology. The number of procedures of manual therapy was on average 28-30 sessions. All the procedures of manipulation included psychotherapy, music therapy in particular. All parents attend family therapy, psychotherapy visits was 10-12 sessions.

The use of music therapy significantly reduces the emotional strain on the chiropractor balances the emotional status of the patient and his parents, and allows them to stabilize emotionally each other for a long time after the procedure. It motivates the patient to a rapid recovery. Family therapy allows parents to understand better physical state of the child, motivates parents to treat each other and their child right. Corrects psychological relationships and behavior of all members of the family. The whole set of procedures enables you to work on all parts of the pathological process and leads the patient to full recovery.

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Moscow, Russia 2015