How to Wake up Happy Every Morning

Co-authored by Paul Chernyak, LPC

Updated: May 23, 2019

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Part 1
Getting a Good Night's Sleep

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    Go to bed at a reasonable time. The first step to waking up happy in the morning is getting to bed the night before. Experts say adults should aim for between six to eight hours nightly, so organize your evening activities around getting a full night sleep. Additionally, experts also recommend finishing the use of electronic devices at least an hour before bedtime to give your brain time to shut down and prepare for sleep. This may be difficult if you work odd shifts or have a new baby to care for, but do your best.[1]
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    Don't sleep with the lights on. Other than making it difficult to attain sleep, research indicates that when we sleep or dream in mild to moderate light, we rest less and wake up feeling less happy than we ordinarily would. This includes sleeping in light generated by TVs, computers, nightlights, and streetlights, which have all have been shown to negatively impact mood of sleepers. [2]
    • Try a sleeping mask or blackout curtains to block out light while you sleep.
    • Exposure to light interferes with our body's production of melatonin, which is a hormone that helps control your sleep and wake cycle.[3] Dimming your lighting as you're preparing for bed and making your room as dark as possible can help keep your melatonin production on track.[4]
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    Clear your mind with relaxation techniques. Meditation, deep breathing, or progressive muscle relaxation are ways to help calm anxiety, tension, or troublesome thoughts that might keep you awake. Try incorporating one or more of these practices into your nighttime routine.
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    Sleep on your right side. Want to enjoy peaceful dreams and wake up happy? Researchers have discovered that sleeping on your right side increases the chance that you will have positive dreams and also decreases the likelihood of mood dysfunction throughout the day. Having trouble keeping your sleep position to the right side? Consider purchasing a body pillow. Having it on your left side will shape your sleep posture and prevent you from rolling to the left.[5]
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    • Decorate with soothing colors. Repaint if necessary.
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Part 2
Waking Up Refreshed

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    Don't hit the snooze button. When your body wakes up suddenly and goes back to sleep, only to wake up again a few minutes later, it creates a kind of dissonance called "sleep inertia," which makes you feel lazy, groggy, and can persist for up to two hours after waking.[9]
    • Select an alarm tone that will ensure that you wake up less grumpy.
    • To ensure that you aren't tempted to snag a few more minutes of sleep after the alarm goes off, put your alarm on a shelf or table across the room from your bed, forcing you to get up in order to turn it off.
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    Take in morning light. Studies have shown that morning light between the hours of six and ten am triggers melatonin release in our brain and has an antidepressant effect, more so than later day or evening light. To ensure you get your daily dose, take a half hour to sit outside in the morning.[10]
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    Get flowers. Not only are flowers pretty to look at throughout the day, but Harvard psychologist Nancy Etcoff has discovered that women who wake up to the sight of flowers reported substantially improved mood, less anxiety, and more energy throughout the day. A nightstand arrangement of fresh or artificial flowers will brighten up your bedroom and, more importantly, serve as something positive and refreshing to wake up to.
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    Take a warm shower and finish with a cooling rinse. The thermogenic hypothesis argues that raising core body temperature relaxes muscles, which relieves tension, promoting an increased sense of well-being. Showering in warm water also increases circulation. Psychologists also argue that finishing your shower with a cool, five-minute rinse can duplicate some of the positive antidepressant effects of electroshock therapy, increasing brain function and the release of serotonin.[11]
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    Start off with yoga or stretching. Adding a few poses to your morning routine can help you feel energized and increase your ability to deal with stress throughout the day.[12]
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    Don't rush. While getting a few extra minutes of sleep is tempting, the rush required to make up for it can increase stress, lead to muscle tension, and cause us to be more forgetful than we ordinarily would. All these things have a negative impact on mood and create a negative association related to morning activities. So be sure to wake up early and tackle your morning in a well-paced, thoughtful way.

Part 3
Creating Happiness

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    Find the positive. Everyone has a meaningful impact. What is yours?
    • Think deeply about your day—conversations with friends, favors you've done, actions taken. Think about the outcome of these actions. Do they have positive effects? If not, how could they? Change your behavior when needed so as to confidently bring a positive influence to the lives of others.
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    Remind yourself of the aspects of your life where you feel the most fulfilled. Are you good at a certain hobby or task? Do you have a good sense of humor and make other people laugh? Are you a fantastic problem-solver? Take the time to remind yourself of what you are good at and why that makes you a worthy person.[13]
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    View your work as meaningful. Studies have shown that thinking on a "big-picture" level about your job and its meaning leads to greater overall job satisfaction and increased ability to take pleasure from the work you do.[14]
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    Find things to look forward to every day. It could be something as simple as a phone call with a loved one or lunch with your coworkers. Finding daily milestones of gratification is an important way to improve overall life satisfaction and put less enjoyable tasks in perspective.
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    Embrace PMA. PMA is life-coach shorthand for "positive mental attitude," and it is an essential part of creating personal happiness. Having a PMA means being able to believe in good times to come despite challenges in the present. It also means remaining confident that you will surmount challenges as they present themselves. Research has shown that this is not only a means of facilitating good mental and emotional health, but a PMA can actually have a positive influence on physical health as well. Below are seven steps to develop your PMA:[15]
    • Focus on the present. The past can remind us of episodes of fear or regret.
    • Use positive language. Don't gossip or put other people down. Use praise whenever possible for others and yourself.
    • Don't expect perfection. When we make the perfect the enemy of the good, we are never satisfied. Accept when things are not ideal and make them work anyway.
    • Interact with positive people. Find friends who share your desire for positivity. Support each other.
    • Do good deeds when and where you can. Something as small as paying for a stranger's coffee can make an impact.
    • Be a learner. Don't assume you know everything. Always keep an open mind and welcome new experiences and ideas.
    • Be thankful. Take stock of the things in your life that matter and bring you joy. Remind yourself of your good fortune.
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    Build a positive self-image. It is understandably difficult to tackle life's challenges when we feel that we are unworthy and lack the ability to succeed. Therefore, the first step to happiness is learning to love yourself and being able to have a positive perception of your unique qualities.[16]
    • Stick to the "1:1 Ratio:" Self-criticism is an important part of self-improvement. That being said, it's easy to tear down yourself esteem if you get too focused on the negative. To combat this tendency, for every negative thought you have about yourself, try to balance it with a positive observation.
    • Give yourself the ability to succeed at something. Everyone looks for tasks that will validate their self-worth, and it is important to provide opportunities for regular success. For example, if you are having a hard week at work, find a hobby or project at home that will let you derive satisfaction from your skills and abilities.

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    How do I get negative stuff out of my mind?
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    Write it all down and burn the paper. It may sound silly, but it really helps with letting things go.
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    No one likes me, and every morning I wake up to teasing from my siblings and kids at school. How do I laugh at myself/deal with the teasing/be happy?
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    Talk to your parents about how you feel about the teasing at home. I'm sure your siblings love you and they would stop teasing if they knew it was really bothering you. At school, make sure you have some good friends to spend your time with, this will make the teasing by others less upsetting. Remember that everyone gets teased, and it doesn't mean you're a bad person or that people don't like you. If it's really bothering you, talk to a teacher or guidance counselor. When you wake up in the morning, try to think of three things you're looking forward to that day. This will give you reasons to get out of bed with a smile on your face.
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    How can I be happy in the morning when I have to waste 7 at school every weekday?
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    Think of what you look forward to that day, even if it's something small like seeing your friends, eating lunch, taking part in an after school activity, etc. School is not all bad. There's probably even a class or two you enjoy. Focus on the good parts of school, not the parts you hate.
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    How can I feel happy in the morning if I had sad dreams?
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    Try to understand that it isn't real. Maybe do five to 10 minutes of meditation or yoga to calm down or you could even keep a dream journal.
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    Why do I always feel so lonely?
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    It could be that you are actually lonely and need to join groups or do other activities that help you be social. If you feel you are not actually lonely, but only feel that way, you could be depressed. If the feeling continues, consult a doctor.
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    • If you are unable to experience joy or positivity over an extended period of time, consider speaking to a doctor or mental health professional. You may be suffering from depression.

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    If you want to wake up happy every morning, start by making sure that you're getting a good night's sleep. Try going to bed early enough to get 6 to 8 hours of sleep without hitting the snooze button. Once you wake up, take half an hour to sit outside, since studies show that morning light from 6 to 10 a.m. triggers the release of melatonin in our brains. Because rushing can increase stress and forgetfulness, as well as lead to muscle tension, try not to sleep in too late. By waking up earlier, you'll have more time to do things like yoga or stretching, which can help you feel energized and decrease your stress levels. For more advice from our co-author, like how to develop a positive mental attitude, read on!

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