headline: Kelly Khumalo: Ungabubona njani ubuhle komnye umntu ungabuboni kuwe?
text: UKELLY Khumalo uthi kumthathe iinyanga ezilithoba zonke ukupheka icwecwe lakhe asandul’ ukulikhupha elibizwa Kelly Khumalo Unleashed ngenxa yendlela azive ngayo ngethuba esalipheka. UKhumalo ebencokolela I’solezwe lesiXhosa eMonti ngethuba lohambo lwakhe lokwazisa ngeli cwecwe eMpuma Koloni. 
   Le mvumikazi, eqhayisa ngeminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu ithubeleza kumanzithinzithi endlela yomculo, ithi igagene neemvakalelo ezohlukeneyo ngethuba isenza eli cwecwe. 
   “Eli cwecwe lifune ndikhangele zonke iikona zobomi bam – ezo zimbi kwanezo zintle,” utshilo. 
   UKhumalo uthi ebekhe wafikelwa nalilixa apha ebesele ekhalele nokokubhala loo mculo. 
  “Ndikhe ndafikelwa lixesha apho besele ndingafuni nokokubhala, ndahlangabezana noxinizelelo lwengqondo kuquka nokwamkela ubizo lwakwamoya,”  kubalisa uKhumalo. 
  Uthi kwangeli xesha ebezibuza ukuba uthando olu luyintoni na. 
  “Oku kundincede ndazikhangela, ndazazi ukuba ndingubani kwaye ndazithanda kunjalonje ndazixabisa nangakumbi.” 
   Uthi eli cwecwe ulibize Kelly Khumalo Unleashed kuba ebekholelwa ukuba ubani kufanele azigocagoce. 
   “Akusoze ukhululeke xa ungakwazi kwamkela izinto ezithile ngawe,” utshilo. 
   UKhumalo uthi eli cwecwe befuna ibe licwecwe lolonwabo. “Kodwa ngoku liveza iimvakalelo, ukudandatheka nokuphoxeka.” 
  Iingoma ezikulo ezifana noJehova, Strong Woman, Ngiyazithandela, Intliziyo yam nezinye zithetha ngolonwabo nokwamkela iimeko ngohlobo ezilulo. 
    
  Usebenze kulo noVusi Nova kwakunye noBrenda Mtambo nanjengoko becula kwezinye iingoma. 
    
  Ebalisa ngokwamkela ubizo lobugqirha, uKhumalo uthi ubani akazikhetheli koko lubizo olumkhethayo. 
    
  “Bendihleli ndisazi ukuba kukhona okohlukileyo ngam kodwa bendingazi ncam ukuba kuyintoni na.” 
    
  Le nzwakazi ithi ukuzinikela akukho lula kuba kufanele uyeke ezinye izinto ezikombetheyo zife. 
    
  “Ke ngoku kuye kufuneke uyekele amandla angasentla akulawule. Uye ubone izinto ngokohlukileyo ngoku. Apha uyakhokelwa, wenza nezigqibo ezizizo uthe qwa ngokuba iindlela zakho zither tye,” kubalisa uKelly. 
    
  Ukwathi akuthandanyo ngobomi kukuphaphama kusasa usaphila, uncokole nabantu ze ubachukumise ngamazwi akho. 
    
  Simbuza ngendlela aziva ngayo ngezinto ezithethwa ngabantu ngaye. 
  “Oko ukuthetha ngomntu okanye ukubona komnye umntu kusisipili somntu onguye, ubona isiqu sakho. Ungabubona njani ubuhle komnye umntu ungabuboni kuwe? Ungavuyisana njani nawe ungavuyisani nesiqu sakho? Ungawathetha njani amazwi akhayo ngomnye umntu xa ubona kungekho nto enokwakha wena ? Yonke le nto iqala kuwe,” uvale ngalo mazwi. 
    
  Icwecwe lakhe liyafumaneka kuzo zonke iivenkile zomculo. 
    
  Simphiwe.freddie@inl.coza