In today's video, we're opening every gold series ever made. What's up guys, we're back with another golden video and in this video We are opening every single gold product English edition that's ever been made before we hop into it I do have a giveaway if you guys remember the every pack opening I gave away this sealed 10 Well, actually it was Ian Musa who actually gave it to me a member of the channel and this was not claimed So you have one more chance to get the sealed gear free the iron knight 10 We're gonna be re giving it away like the video be subscribed turn on notifications and let me know your favorite gold series of all these And let me know about what we're about to talk about. Hey, have you checked the community tab on March 4th? I'm cutting off all giveaway claims because I'm getting overrun by giveaways So make sure you claim it by March 4th, or you will not be able to win your giveaway So go to my YouTube channel scroll over to the community tab scroll down to all the different winners You can control f search your name if that helps because it might help you find it and scroll all the way for the past Two three years see if you want anything because I'm getting overrun by extra giveaways that have not been claimed if you don't claim it By March 4th. I'm officially taking it back for more giveaways and stuff like that So I'm giving you guys about a week and a half to claim all of these so that I can clear out my area So the reason we're doing this special gold series video is this is my two-year anniversary of daily uploads I've uploaded a video on YouTube every day for the last two years So figured we do something really really awesome like open every gold series including this weird pyramid edition one Which is impossible to really store or take a picture of anything because it's shaped like a triangle. Let's not delay any longer Let's get right into it first of all Thank you guys so much for watching for two straight years if you've been here the whole time if you haven't if you're new Thank you guys for showing up in that two-year span in the last two years We have grown the channel a lot We've done a lot of epic openings and of course we've had a lot of videos since I've uploaded every single day So if you guys have liked the the long-term stuff if you want to keep seeing daily videos Let me know in the comments, you know, should I continue this two-year streak? Should I make it three years or should we scale back on the videos a little bit? So first we're starting at maximum gold elder out of the most recent gold series. This came out in 2021 It's the most recent gold series. They didn't do one this year So I don't know if gold series is done or not. They usually bring it back and stuff like that So it'll probably be back at some point. We're gonna start off with maximum gold El Dorado Let me know in the comments which gold series you think will win We're gonna be doing a giant battle to see which one pulls the most value Some of them only have like one pack and some at four. So we'll see so we're starting off with maximum gold four packs Let's see if we can get something big deep-sea diva Conquistador, that's pretty decent and invoke mecha bone one of my favorite cards for the invoke deck very awesome We got hot red dragon archfiend and prank kids battle butler. All right second pack maximum gold El Dorado Let me know in the comments which gold series is gonna win maximum gold El Dorado does have the advantage of having four packs So that helps but a lot of the other ones have like mega packs. There's a rocket tracer Lambda we've got an oracle of Zephra and familiar possessed lina very cool and a number 41 Bagusca the terrible tired to pierce third pack not second pack We have two more packs to go maximum gold El Dorado the newest gold series Rainbow neos was a great card until it got reprinted here. It kind of killed the value danger. Nessie. That's a nice card We got super express bullet train and evils or a loggy. Uh, that is a nice dinosaur card And of course speaking of dinosaurs and a shooting code talker. Okay one left for maximum gold El Dorado Can we get that access code? I haven't pulled access code in forever. I always bring it up and I never pull it We have a zivraxie. Okay back to back golds. We have scrap chimera and Rescue cat pretty decent one actually a good card. Uh people play that master duel a little bit I've been back on the master duel train So if you guys want to watch the master duel check out my twitch channel We've been doing a lot more streams of that. I don't know. I just got the yugio bug guys And I'm back. I'm back in the master duel game. Okay on to our next gold series So we have our total of maximum gold El Dorado now we're on a regular maximum gold this came out in 2020 November 12th to be exact. So maximum gold. This was a pretty sick set when it first came out I mean people it was pretty it was pretty controversial because the new gold rarity a lot of people don't like it I've done multiple videos on this just regular like gold new versus old gold and stuff like that And uh, some people like it some people hate a lot of people hate it actually This one has the same setup as maximum gold El Dorado has four packs inside So we're gonna open them up and see what we can get who will win this battle Will it be maximum gold El Dorado? Will it be maximum gold? Will it be neither artifact lancy a good card? We have an upside down shared ride Super problemarization another good one and then a graph for those dark world decks three to go Will we pull something epic out of maximum gold borosal dragon? That's pretty epic alternate art We got number 39 starlight junction and Infernity mirage. This is another one that kind of killed the value That was a super rare for like 10 bucks for a while and then they're like no We'll put in gold series, which is a good thing because it was a $10 super, which is ridiculous. Two to go maximum gold Will we get what is the big card in here? I don't think it's access. I think access codes El Dorado So I don't remember what the big one was. I know there's like blue eyes and dark magician Obviously, we got the ash blossom. That's pretty good. That's a great pull that'll give them a chance to win I'm not gonna lie cosmo town. I'm sure it's worth about eight bucks or something like that one more pack maximum gold Can you perform for our two-year anniversary special? There could only be one we got ghost bell haunted mansion alternate art Very cool machine dupe transcode talker for new mirage again. Okay, so not a terrible mini box getting that ash blossom It's pretty good. We got a link karibo as well now We're going back in time a little bit there was a pretty big gap between premium gold and maximum gold It was march 17th 2016 so st patty's day. We got a little premium gold action So yeah, it's been a long time. So if they do take a break from from gold, you know, they've done this before So we might see more gold maybe in 2025 You know something like that if they do four years later like they did with this one So premium gold infinite gold. I think this is premium gold. They have like three packs inside, baby Let's see the original they only have one I think so Premium gold we've got yeah, definitely multiple packs one two three. It looks like okay very cool looking packaging I'm a big fan of this. I like it more than the maximum goal where it's gigantic and just very awkward This is a lot smaller still a little excessive, but at least reasonable I think all right premium gold infinite gold some of these have some really nice looking cards So I think premium gold infinite gold might be the one where it's a little excessive like they've got that really shiny name I'm not a fan of like how shiny the name is but I do like the gold. I think it looks pretty nice Oh, that was rucks and special right past the secret gold rare the black horn of heaven Yeah, this is the the little bit crazy mass change to Start us charge where yeah, look how crazy the gold series is I'm not gonna lie I kind of like the gold secret rare there It's just really hard to read the name. My my phone is not focusing I got a new phone and I need to adjust the settings a little bit very nice We got a Dante pilgrim the burning of this shout out farfa very nice little pack there I don't know if any of those are really worth anything though two more packs infinite gold Let's pull something awesome first card is You see like there's a problem. I can't read them if I don't know the card I don't know what it is. This is a Draco Slayer card, but I can't read it because it's so shiny Grand horn of heaven secret rare another horn of heaven card for the gold secret We've got to remove brainwashing. That's an old school card. They got a reprint pretty She looks very confused. I mean she is brainwashed so it makes sense But yeah, I guess that's pretty good artwork shining hope road secret rare. I don't even remember seeing this card ever I'm sure I have but Oh, and we've got a burning of another burning abyss card, but I don't remember the name Virgil I think maybe is the name very nice if I remember correctly This is one that doesn't have any crazy high value cards But the thing with gold series is they usually have a lot of like few dollar cards Which makes them nice castle the sky blaster musketeer is a very good one cosmo farm girl That's a secret rare very nice for the cosmos. Yeah, this might be the one with all the cosmo reprints Monarch stormforth for the monarchs was really good around then number 84 ping gainer That's a cool looking spider reminds me of the hobbit and Oh, we got a cow car middle bunch of the burning best So this is basically burning abyss and cosmo it seems if I had to guess I'd say premium gold infinite gold It's probably not gonna win next up But we have the premium gold return of the bling premium gold return of the bling came out march 19th 2015 So this is a pretty nice one. There's some pretty cool stuff in return of the bling We're gonna open this up. I love the presentation of this one. I think it's one of the best looking gold series It just looks clean. It's a really nice box Okay, three packs pretty sure. These are not first edition. I didn't really pay attention to that but unlimited. It's so cool Let's see what else we can get. I didn't even I guess they did an unlimited run. We have parallel twister very nice That's pretty. We have absolute king blackjack or backjack I think this was like it was like three bucks that it got a reprint still pretty decent master hyperion Don't think it's too great. Tell them all the kings. That's a classic throwback to odion and a silvin So sequio, sequio, I don't know how to say that. Okay. I don't I don't know if anything's too crazy in there Two more packs five cards per pack. So not a ton of packs or not a ton of cards about 15 cards per mini box Number 14. We have the greedy ceremony, okay, we've got the ghost cannon the underworld boat man All right, a little one-piece action rank up magic numeron force ceasefire old-school fair of servant card getting a print and Rekindling, okay I'm not seeing anything that I'm like crazy about but I do like to look at these cards Make sure to let me know in the comments the best gold series in terms of look from all these all these 10 I guess there's 10 of them. I want to know the best looking of all 10. Sardis respark. That's a secret rare very nice junk giant pretty cool elements around us alias cool. I can print for you know, I have to play in that Edison veil of darkness and mystical beast of circuit very nice pretty cool card I'll give them that it's pretty cool card. But I think we pulled anything crazy there now We're on to the original premium gold, which is not the original gold but the original premium gold So maximum gold usually came out in november or december I think it was november the premium golds looked like they always came out in march, which is interesting So they switched up that strategy. This one came out march 27 2014. All right. Let's get this thing open And let's see. I think there's gonna be three packs inside because it is a premium gold And seems like that was the consistency they stuck with seems like they kind of have a little series So maximum gold at four packs came out in different times premium gold three packs came out Certain month or whatever. So it seems like these were the reprint pack of march because like for a long time We got a march reprint set now they've turned and I turned into the ghost or the past or whatever But it seems like these used to be what you would get you just get premium gold because there are a lot of Reprints in here. Let's see if we can get some of the big premium gold little warped here We got some warp action for ben chalice. That's a beautiful card. Uh dine ethereum also cool the junk puppet mystical space typhoon one of the 100 prints, but it still looks good and Exploder dragon pretty good in speed duel for a while pretty nice looking gold. I really like these premium They just get better and better each time we go backwards one. It's like they got worse slowly as it went along Okay, second premium gold pack. Let's get something big. Can we pull a huge card? We have a gaga magician That's not huge utopia buster also not huge. We have a oh a little shiny here We've got the day ob diablo dragon. I don't know phoenix wing windblast nice for those Edison and goat decks And swords of revealing light a classic gold series card Well, just a classic card in general nice Maybe a little bit of value there and then the final pack of our premium gold first edition Let's see what we can get. Ooh nice galaxy eyes photon dragon looks very nice and gold. I like that We have a silent wobby little fish action ancient fairy dragon alternate art. Hey came off the ban list It might be worth a little bit Right go the lights were in hunter. I might put this in my my lights were in deck That's a nice version and then an icarus attack if you want to use that What is this black wings you can use that so that's a nice version as well pretty nice pulls All right a little halftime here's going to show you the scores of what we have so far Let me know if you think something in the future is going to beat it speaking of future The next one up is gold series haunted mine. This gold series came out june 6th of 2012 So this is pretty old over 10 years old at this point. This does have a guaranteed ghost rare So it's going to be hard to beat this one It's going to have to pull like the worst ghost rare to give some of these a chance to be honest So let's see what we can pull from haunted mine Out we already opened the other four packs from this We did get a blue eyes, but you can get two or three blue eyes in a pack So it doesn't really matter or a case I should say all right gold series. Here we go Ghost rare guaranteed inside if you have a lot of cards So like we're get we're to the point where it's only one pack So not multiple packs. They got one chance to pull something epic So let's see what we can get. I remember the ghost rays in the middle somewhere We got a rucks and special right off the bat. We're not going to care too much about the comments here We're just going to go through them. We got a vampire lady. There's some cool stuff Like hidden spell book might be worth a buck A copy knight body made of apophis. I think Don's Luke's in here. It's worth a dollar. It's coming up. There it is It is another blue eyes. Let's go The double blue eyes display shout out to old school expert for selling me this by the way Wow, he sold me a double blue eyes display and this one does not have the ding on the side like the video the other day Go check that one out if you guys missed that but we had a little damage on the side I'm not seeing any damage here Wow a double blue eyes display talk about a nice special for two years two two years two year anniversary of uploading That is amazing a great pull. Yeah, it's getting really hard to beat that. All right the rest of the cards We have gold rares. We have a fabled and a master hyperion nothing too insane there This is actually a nice card for Edison book of light or not Edison. I should say goat Anything else crazy. I want to pull out lady in white. It's not bad and patrician of duck All right, that was a great pull but we still have four more to open We are on to june 22nd 2011 gold series for pyramids edition one of the weirdest products ever it is literally a pyramid I mean it makes sense because it's you yo, but let's open this thing up. I don't even think they sealed these is very weird Yeah, like this is the seal. It's very strange. Um, so we're gonna open that up There's a math that they give you it's very bent up though So it's probably never flattens out to be honest Then you get one pack right here gold series for pyramids edition So a giant package to give you that mat in this and that is it. So it's very strange. Uh, yeah, pretty weird product Will we pull something out? It's right at the beginning. Oh, no, okay. Let's not ruin the rest of them. So let's do uh Three I think like that and okay, we'll go like this. We'll just go through the rest of them trade in That's a good card. That might be worth a little bit.  Very cool. We have a chance at crush card coming up So two dark magician girl and judge a fair lily those could be worth something as commons and pull those out Rom and goblin. Millennium seal. I'm gonna keep that just for the personal. You got a white horn dragon and lich lord Okay, so a lot of cool cards in there, but now here's what really matters We got a trap stun her at the beginning. We already saw that That's nice for black wings and a lot of like glad beasts use this as well in Edison Royal oppression. I bet that's big because even the uh, first edition rare from lod's like 12 bucks that's probably pretty good and then Morphing jar not a bad pack pretty good performance there from the pyramids edition You also get to add uh the uh the bad I guess well, we're not gonna do that probably the mats Probably only worth five bucks, but maybe we'll throw it in there on to gold series three We're up to june or back. I should say to june 17th 2010 gold series three. This is og we opened some of this the other day in another video If you want to see more of it make sure you check that video out when we opened gold versus ghost I think it was gold ghost and new we did gold series three one pack inside Will we pull something big something epic? There's some pretty cool stuff in gold series three. Let's see if we can get it All right, gold series three. I believe that we can pull. Oh, it's right at the beginning. Yeah, yeah Okay, I won't you guys might have seen it, but uh, we'll cover it up if you could have seen it We'll have the editor cut it up. Here we go. We go like this. We have freya miss valley Soroka, there's so many black wings. I remember. Yeah, there's a ton of black wings amazonas is cool Ages of gaya. This is bringing back early dual links memories. We've got an amazonas We've got dramatic rescue black wing collute. There you go. Sema. We got to keep that for sema We've got the amazonas archer goblin zombie reset malicious That's a good card low piper and bore the spear a lot of black wings basically the black wing set All right, now we have our three gold rares. We have exploder dragon again. Why does this keep getting gold prints? That's weird. Okay mazuki nice for those zombie decks and And a smashing ground. Okay. Now we're getting those, you know, it's Edison time It's 2010 so all the good cards of medicine are getting reprints now, which makes sense So not a bad gold series three pack only two gold series left. We're on to gold series 2009 This is from april 21st 2009. These are some of my favorite looking ones the gold series two So I think they look really nice. Let's check them out Let's see if they live up to my my memory of them my recollection pretty interesting looking pack I mean, I don't know. It's a little bit too gold for me. It looks a little weird. I don't know It's kind of yellow. Also, this one's weird. It's got the things on the edges. I don't know I don't love the look of that one. I think it's okay gold series 2009 Let me know your favorite packaging as well favorite packaging favorite look at the cards, you know, everything like that Okay, it might be at the front. So I'm gonna do three. It seems like it is because they came off pretty easily Okay, we're gonna go through these. We have six samurai zanji. Okay, so these like Shuffle a lot better.  That's solos in here is a common begon name. We got iru We got lakunga zabor. That's pretty nice neos alias and exile the wicked So a lot of monarchs. That's awesome. All right. The moment of truth are three gold series 2009 gold rares We have future food that looks good. Look at those. They like shine so well. This is my favorite gold series I think future fusion des Volts the gulf. I think I pulled this in my first every pack opening. So that's a cool memory and then A veil of darkness a glass secret rig in the reprint Wow and look at the edge around like the the border of the picture the frame I guess you would call it that is awesome. That looks so good Once again, I want to thank everyone who's been around for two years or even less But just thank you guys for supporting for so long. It's been amazing and I'm really amazed by the growth of the channel It's been really awesome. So thank you guys for all the support over the years Let's get into this final gold series the original 2008 gold series the og gold series from april 2nd 2008 this one can contain the crush card, which is very very hard to pull So if we do pull it, it's gonna be insane. So let's go for it our last pack of this video Hope you guys have enjoyed this two-year anniversary special I definitely have with some pretty awesome pulls so far to pull a crush card That is the that would be insane. Let's see if we can do it So if you remember with semo, they're like kind of win in order this thing is beat up man Look at this.  Hopefully the cards inside are not beat up gold series the original There's nothing after it just gold series. It's the original one. I don't remember where the gold rares are I think they're actually at the back. Here we go We have doomdozer final pack swarm of locust rivalry good yard rear metal dragon need a worm. Hopefully we do get that Um skill drain which was in last time when we pulled a bunch of them fire princess mist body Old vindictives a good card seven colored fish including the lips. We've got not spoke as the area new doria Special type eights good silva scarab a swarm of scarabs. There's a skill drain. That's beautiful It's a nice card. It's worth like 10 bucks or something nightmare penguin a claus scorpion Needle ceiling we're getting close. We're generating mummy Summoner of illusions here it comes. Okay Brain control. So look this got the nice shine to it as well I think 2009 looks a little better though because they don't have the frame in this one, which is shiny This still looks good brain control Give us crush card Okay chimera tech beautiful remember we pulled one of these was super scratched up with simo go check that out If you guys missed that simo video pretty cool. That's a pretty good one and finally Oh a cyber dragon. I'll take that that's beautiful a cyber dragon gold rare great way to end this off I've really enjoyed opening every gold series if you had make sure to subscribe to the channel for more epic content like this


You too team keep it clean. What's going on? It's angry even here with another video and in this video We got NFL questions from subscribers. Thank you for everybody that have been sending the question from subscribers This question came from Joshua Lusky and Marcus. Why she's sort of a two-for-one Because they asked two questions that go hand-in-hand with each other The first one with Josh. He asked Will the Ravens signed CJ Mosey to a long-term deal He said why haven't the Ravens signed CJ Mosey to a long-term deal and then Marcus Marcus Why she asked oh, there he goes right there too.  But anyway, you talk about that somewhere else No disrespect to anything, but just just not the channel for that stuff. But anyway Team keep it clean Me I'm engraving vids. This my YouTube channel engraving vids, and I'm a Ravens fan But on here we do just talk football So no matter what team you're a fan of make sure you subscribe and if you want to be part of the NFL questions from subscribers Make sure if you want to be part of it. Send me a DM on Twitter or Instagram Follow on both both more engraving vids just like the YouTube channel or snapchat if you want to send a DM on there Either one is fine And send me a question anything about football no matter what it is What it's about anything in regards to football you send me a question on there We answered in the video y'all make sure you leave a like on the video to me click the thumbs up button We don't we got we got how we got 20 people in here, but it's only four likes y'all make sure y'all click the thumbs up button But anyway, I'll get into this question The first part of the question came from a boy for love Josh Pulaski He asked if he asked why haven't the Ravens sign CJ Moldy to a long-term deal yet Well, I think that's me they said they have been talking to his a whatever about a long-term deal So I think it's because they didn't they got to work out all the numbers on the long-term deal They got to see exactly How much they can and can afford to offer him right here and right now? And if not, then I think it'll be pushed till next year now right now The Ravens he is their future. He is their current. He has been there past for the past couple years CJ Moldy has been nice for the Ravens. He has been great for the Ravens He's been solid the only thing he does is struggle in past coverage But they're other linebackers to do the same thing, but he he has been a beast for the Ravens He's been healthy. He what do you miss like one game? Maybe two? I forgot how many games he missed but not much He's been solid. He's been consistent He has been he's just been nice man. He's been nice for the Ravens And yeah, definitely Robert Roberts that they will sign CJ trust leader to defense. Yeah, he's definitely he ain't going anywhere I highly doubt if like I said if I was a better man I will put money that CJ Moldy would not be to another team and the Ravens won't let him go because they can't they can't they Can't afford to they can't afford to they can't afford to they they couldn't afford to do it with Ray Lewis And they they can't do it with CJ Moldy When you have somebody that's special and like really special with your team like really really special really special What's up George? Um You can't you can't let them go you can't when somebody is like one of them cornerstone players for your team Somebody that can help you transition from one star player to a next from one just not even star player But one great player to the next and I'm not saying he's great yet, but he's been pretty pretty pretty good pretty good Oh, pretty appreciate that QC He's been pretty good. Yeah, make sure I leave a like on a video too, but anyway So they're definitely gonna get it done I think it's more more so of working out the the small stuff the contract talks the offset. What's up, Fleckle? Just just working out all the minor details of the deal now We while I'm still answering this question We have to tie in the other question from markets because markets ask will they break the bank to sign CJ Moldy now? I think that's part of the reason why they haven't signed CJ Moldy yet Because they know they will have to break the bank form. They'll have to because he um He appreciate that Robert. Thank you, man He He's been a beast. He's been a beast and I think they have to I mean you who just got signed to the 50 million dollar deal Was it Eric Kendricks? I think from the Vikings. Was it him? No, or was it the one the linebacker from the Texans? Was it McKinney? Was it McKinney or Kendricks? I forgot which one of them just got a deal, man Which one of them got a deal was it Brian? Was it Brian McKinney or Eric Kendricks? I know y'all know I can't remember off the top of my head, but oh, it was both. Okay, even better. Okay Well, I'm given that those guys got deals then Given that those guys got got deals He got to get paid more than both of them and one of them just got a 50 million dollar deal a couple days ago So with that being said the Ravens, they know LLK was McKinney with the most recent They know that um, they're gonna have to break the bank for CJ Mosey It's not and if it's not a will they it's a they have to and it's more like a when they when they will They got to man. They got today. Uh, it's it's tough, but This is for sure. He said CJ is focused on football not the contract, which is good Yeah, that and that makes it like man if I was a Ozzie Newsom or biscotti or Newsom or whatever I mean, yeah, Ozzie Newsom or biscotti or the Costa to Harbort to if I was any one of those guys and I'm looking around the league. I'm looking at dudes like Khalil Mack. I'm looking at dudes like Aaron Donald I'm looking at dudes like a CJ Mosey. I'm looking at dudes like Julio Jones, I'm looking at dudes like The old they'll beckham. No, a little bit. Oh, they'll beckham junior didn't do it yet But I'm looking at I'm looking at dudes like Levy on bail. I'm looking at all these different guys who They want new deals and they out here holding out they're holding out and I'm somebody who believes yeah, you should get your money, but at the same time. It's like if And you you see all these dudes holding out not reporting and whatnot. That's on them. That's fine. That's all dandy whatever But then you look at CJ Mosey He ain't have to be there at the OTAs He didn't have to be there He didn't have to be there You watching on your phone. I'm streaming it from my phone, but um, he ain't have to be there at the OTAs He he but he's been showing up. He could easily have gotten hurt He's risking getting hurt and not having had not having signed a big deal But he's still showing up man. The dude still shows up for work Still shows up for work shows up for work doesn't complain Doesn't make a big media scene like oh man. These Ravens need to pay me blah blah blah He ain't do that. He ain't do none of that stuff. He just showed up and that's it So if I was one of them one of the big shots calling it calling the shots Like I said, like a hardball I see the Scotty whatever the caster if I was one of them That would almost make me want to pay him more Because it's almost like being a parent like when Carter with me when Carter's acting up. Oh, man Can't stand them Love them, but can't stand when he's acting up when he's being bad But when he's good and when he's doing what he's supposed to do Just being on point and whatnot that makes me want to reward him more That makes me want to reward him more for when he does that good when he's when he's on point So With that being said I feel like CJ Mosey the same the same way It makes it should make them want to reward him even more since he is a better player than or not more impactful player than those guys then a McKinney then a Kendrick's and He's still been showing up He's still been showing up. So CJ Mosey deserves it man, and we need him. We need CJ Mosey. We we need him He is a necessity to the team Um, we need a something next to CJ We do man peanut was he was there but peanut disappears a lot. He gets ghosting games man And it will for long stretches of time too There was one time where peanut will be next to him and or peanut was just a playmaker man But he just got ghosts a lot of times He got ghosts Um, did he on the show speak for yourself that Lamar Jackson will be a good fit for the raise But the raise will not be a good fit for Lamar Jackson I mean It just all depends on how they use them. It depends on what they put around them It just depends on a lot of things. It's a it's a lot of different factors, man Mosey will not be there at OTA next year if you don't get a new contract. I mean, it's too early to say that now But we'll see.  Lamar loves to get hyped. Hey, we love to get hyped too. But anyway Um, so yeah, why haven't they signed Lamar to a long term? I mean, why haven't they signed CJ Mosey to a long term contract? I think they're too busy working out the auto minor details of the of the deal Um, and are they gonna break the bank for CJ Mosey? Oh, yeah They have to ain't no doubt about it. They have to because CJ Mosey is a Raven That guy he's probably going to be one of them lifelong Ravens But they they have to they have to sign them. They don't have no other option They don't have no choice in this matter. CJ Mosey is a must sign CJ Mosey is a will sign and CJ Mosey is That's a deal that you have to get done. Appreciate y'all again If y'all want to be part of NFL question from subscribers Oh, we ain't forget about Kenny Young, but this is about CJ Mosey, man But if you want to be part of NFL questions from subscribers, make sure you send me a DM on twitter or instagram Follow on instagram too if you just want to see Carter doing all type of crazy stuff, whatever Um, you can follow on instagram twitter snapchat all three are engraving vids appreciate y'all. Thank y'all love y'all Dustin, please be patient. Thank you very much and we out


One of the sad things I see in the human mating practice this day, these days, is that human beings oftentimes give their power away to another human being. What does that mean to give your power away? Well, sometimes giving our power away is accepting bad behavior, thinking that by not setting up healthy boundaries, by not having standards, a person might remain in relationship with you. Just might remain in relationship with you. In other words, the fear of losing someone causes so many people, women in particular, to accept bad behavior from men. And I've often wondered, why is it that we, I think women more so than men give their power away? Because traditionally, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. That's right. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. It's men who do the asking of marriage. It's men who have traditionally been the provider protectors in relationships. So to some degree throughout history, women, sadly, have been subservient to men. And thankfully, we're seeing that narrative change substantially these days, because as, listen, I'm a promoter of human behavior. I'm not here to sink to sit to, that's the word I'm looking for, to suggest one gender is better than the other. Nor am I here to suggest that things have to be a certain way because that's the way they were in the past. I'm here to, I believe that we can find a coexistence in our empowered behavior instead of the masculine and feminine traditional expectations. So coming back to accepting bad behavior. One of the renowned psychologists of the world, husband and wife team, I should say, doctors, John and Julie Gottman, they have what's known as the Gottman Institute. I believe they've studied over 30,000 relationships and I could be off on that mark. That's just what I hear heard once before. In those relationships, they've studied, they've done this love lab, if you will, to study human couples. And one of the common things that John Gottman's ability is he can sit with a couple within, he can sit with a couple and within 15 minutes determine the success of their relationship with roughly about a 95% accuracy. Isn't that interesting? 15 minute conversation with a couple and he can determine with a 95% accuracy if the couple is going to make it. And so if you're not familiar with the Gottman Institute, I highly recommend checking it out. One of the books they wrote together is called Eight Dates. And this is a great book and I'm mentioning this book and I really want to encourage you to go to their website, the Gottman Institute website. Because one of, and this is a great book for those single or in a relationship and want to improve your communication skills. By the way, there's a link below to all the books I recommend. Why I'm bringing this up is John Gottman some years ago suggested there's the four horsemen of the apocalypse to a relationship. And while those aren't going to be those five behaviors I'm going to discuss, which I will talk about in a few minutes. It's really important to understand what causes relationship friction and what causes relationship endings and he concluded that there are four key things that happens in relationship that causes them to fall out of love with each other. And those four are contempt, criticism, stonewalling and defensiveness. I'll repeat that contempt, criticism, stonewalling and defensiveness. By the way, can someone write that in the comments or write it in the chat box. So think about how often you've been in relationship where somebody has treated you with a bit of superiority over you. In fact, I once was watching a movie I think it was called The Ghost of Girlfriends Past. And where where Michael Douglas is telling Matthew McConaughey, young Matthew McConaughey, that the person who cares least in the relationship has the power. And what he said was to have the power in the relationship means you're in a superior position and oftentimes when you're in a superior position, you have contempt for the person below you. This is why traditional one up one down relationships, meaning that the man is superior and the woman is below the man, in my opinion, sets up for a lot of contempt, but also can set up for a lot of failure, especially if you're in a subservient position. This is why I appreciate relationships that are conscious where they travel like it's a two lane street traveling together to like two cars traveling on street together at the same speed, instead of the one up one down contempt type of relationships. In addition, when you have criticism in a relationship, criticism is the death to a relationship. That's why he calls it the four horsemen of the apocalypse to criticize your partner to judge them is setting oneself up. Now, I think it's it's important to differentiate between just traditional jest that oftentimes happens slight sarcasm versus real criticism of their behavior. You're doing it wrong to quote a line from the movie. Oh, what was that movie? You're doing it wrong. Mr. Mom. I do like to quote movies, you know, to suggest somebody is doing something wrong to judge them to criticize them. All of that sets up for discourse in the relationship. Stonewalling to you know, stonewalling is another way of saying ghosting pulling away, you know, taking space from the relationship to avoid the problems is a form is a form of stonewalling. Stonewalling is avoiding the real issues concerning the relationship.  And if you're not familiar with my chart on emotional maturity and relationship skills, I highly recommend checking this out. By the way, this is not in a fact. This is merely an opinion. I believe roughly 20% of the population has clinical issues when it comes to their relationship skills. I mean, they're terrible at it for clinical reasons. Why do I suggest 20% are emotionally healthy? I'm probably being ridiculously generous here. The vast majority of human beings are dysfunctional. Folks, when it comes to the dating process today, we oftentimes bring up my relationship iceberg chart to illustrate a point. We hyper focus on attraction and chemistry. There's such a hyper focus on attraction and chemistry that many of you missed the warning signs to determine. Do we really share the same values together? Do we really have lifestyles that are blendable with each other? And lastly, does this human being or do I have the emotional maturity to actually navigate this relationship? And most human beings are rather delusional to this. And what I mean by delusion, there's this fantasy that I'm good at this and everybody else is poor at it.  He's pointing at her. She's pointing at him. Instead of looking in the mirror and saying, how have I contributed to the challenges in the relationship? And one of the challenges I said a moment ago is stonewalling, which most humans do this to some degree. And lastly, defensiveness. These are the four horsemen of the apocalypse. When we get defensive, when our partner either shares a concern about us or shares a concern about the relationship, it's natural to get defensive. It's just, I think it's just built into our DNA to get defensive. And yet that defensiveness create walls between two people and the thicker the walls are, the harder it is to actually come closer together to form a healthy, happy relationship. Let me tell you something. I shared before, I believe roughly 90% of the population is terrible at relationships. Really, I do believe that. And because of that, if you're in midlife, which that's the demographic I serve, which I say is after baby making years and before retirement, the vast majority of human beings are experiencing casual relationships and a very small percentage are actually feeling that real fully committed relationship because they do a terrible job of vetting each other during the dating process. By the way, if you need help with that, that's my area of expertise. It's right here. Schedule a free discovery call with me to see if work. Looks like my middle finger. Schedule a free discovery call with me to see if working with the coach is right for you. My job is to teach you what questions you should be asking based on your personality to determine is this person emotionally mature enough to actually lean into a relationship. But Jonathan, I keep being told that all I'm supposed to do is sit in my feminine energy because a man will just gravitate for me when I'm in my feminine energy.  Let me tell you what matters most. Emotional grownups and since we're we're swimming in a sea of emotional immaturity men and women alike. Our real job is to determine does this person have the capacity that not only the desire to want a fully committed relationship, but do they have a capacity? And let me tell you when I say women are just as bad at this is so many of you are glomming on to relationships. You're accepting such bad behavior. And then you're wondering why it falls apart later. Is this sinking in? Is this resonating? Ladies, if you're not familiar with the book, where is it?  By the way, there's a link below to all the books I recommend. Why am I recommending this book? Because if you're accepting bad behavior continually, if you're accepting crumbs, if you believe that. But Jonathan, we have this amazing chemistry together and I've never experienced chemistry like this before. And I've got to make this really dysfunctional relationship work. All the magic fairy dust of chemistry cannot cure a dysfunctional relationship. Ladies, I speak to women mostly because you have a propensity to see the good in men. You have a propensity to give men to see the potential. But many of you are operating on such a small piece of the puzzle without really stepping into your empowerment and say, does this person have the capacity to lean into commitment? And I will tell you, men in midlife in particular, if they've got burned in their last relationship, it's a small percentage of men who will actually lean into commitment. And this is why, listen, these devices, these apps, I don't have my dating apps on here anymore, because I'm with my beloved now, there she is. These apps bastardize the dating process. The fact that we now think that we can just a swipe away to replacing someone that didn't used to be in the place, didn't used to be in our lexicon 50 years ago. This belief that we can just, if it doesn't work with this person, we can swipe. Do you know how many people have a relationship end on a Monday and they are back on a dating app either Monday night, Tuesday morning, Tuesday night, Wednesday morning. I mean, some people barely wait 72 hours to jump back into the dating realm once a relationship ends. And this is men and women alike, because there's this fantasy that where someone is just a click away. The other thing I want to say before I dive into the behaviors is I want to be very clear with all of you.   And so many of you just expect it to be easy. You literally expect it to be so easy. Why isn't it so easy? Why isn't it easy that I find my partner? Folks, I'm here to say it's a job. And if you don't treat it like a job, what's the definition of insanity? Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Listen, I went on what seems like a thousand internet dates. It wasn't that many, but it seems that way before I found a really great partner in my life. And the reason why I'm bringing this up is I didn't give up. And yet many of you either give up seeking that partner or you accept bad behavior. So here are five behaviors that I just hope to God you don't accept going forward. Is this sinking in? Is this resonating? Please let me know. Please hit that like button. Please share this video. Please subscribe to my channel if you're brand new. All right, these five behaviors. I have to clean my glasses. I forgot my cloth here. Number one, your partner exhibits controlling behavior. Many of you just again, because you've indoctrinated that men are the leaders of the relationship that you allow. There's I think there's a propensity because of that narrative. And by the way, you are in charge of your relationship destiny, not a guy, but that belief that they're the leaders sets possibly sets you up for being controlled later in the relationship. This is why I'm a big proponent of initially right from the get go is taking turns in the dating process. If you haven't read the book, if the Buddha dated, if the Buddha dated, I love this book because it throws out the bullshit gender rhetoric and says, how can we approach the relationship at a more heart centered level instead of the expectation level. And again, if you're expecting the man to lead, you could be setting yourself up for controlling behavior. But then again, whether the minute you begin to see someone trying to control your life or control the narrative. That should be a warning sign of a behavior that should not be tolerated. Number two, your partner gas lights you. And by the way, for the record, I got this off the internet, so I don't want to take credit for these five. He gas lights you if you're not familiar gas lighting. It's a method of if it's defensiveness in the sense of being it's a way of taking what you've said and turning it around. And if let's say, for example, you have an issue with your partner for some people, there's such a sophisticated. There's a sophisticated method in their brain that can turn it around and make it your fault. And they have this ability to to actually convince you that it is your fault. I want you to think about that. You have an issue with your partner. I'm going to use a cheesy one, but this is I'm only for for humor's sake.  You know, and someone turns it around.  Now, I'm being tongue in cheek, but it's basically turning something around and making it your fault. Instead of taking ownership. Oh, my gosh. So I'm so sorry. I'm going to do a better job of paying attention to that. Now, I'm using a very benign example. In many cases, it's centered around secretive behavior. It's centered around their lack of intention in the relationship. Gaslighting is a way of making you wrong for your feelings and don't ever accept that from anyone. By the way, if you're not familiar with my book, what the heck is self love anyway? A journey of personal development, self health and spiritual work. By the way, there's a link below why I'm showing this is chapter one. I want to just take just go to chapter one for a second. Speak your truth. Do it with kindness. By the way, folks, you should never be afraid to speak your truth in a relationship. Just do it in a kind, loving way. You have every, and your truth is your genuine feelings about something. That's your truth. That doesn't mean it's the truth. It's just true for you and no one should ever diminish that. That's why a good partner, by the way, I got something in my eyebrows here. A good partner listens to your point of view, acknowledges your point of view and accepts it for being true for you. They don't turn it around the gaslighting. Number three, they partner abuses you emotionally or verbally. Verbal abuse should never be tolerated in a relationship. And yet sadly, because of that fear of losing someone, oftentimes cause men and women to accept verbal and emotional abuse. And number four, physical abuse. That should never be tolerated. I mean, that's an obvious one. And look at, I'm sure there's been situations where someone might have grabbed your arm out of just sheer frustration for a moment. But I'm talking about genuine, you know, and again, once is one thing, habitual is another.  And lastly, and again, I found this on the internet.  You should never feel inferior in a relationship, especially when it comes to the physical realm of the relationship. When it comes to the physical realm in the relationship, I think it's important to have regular and constant communication with one another to determine that you're on the same page. Are we really on the same page both from the totality of our relationship from the emotional as well as the physical aspects of our relationship. And this is why I continually recommend reading this book. I love Barbara D'Angelo's work, How to Make Love All the Time. What I love about this book is this is a blueprint to turn your relationship into a constant loving relationship. Folks, men don't buy these books. Women do. The goal is to practice this book. And it starts by being with a partner open to doing the work. Many of you are sitting in casual relationships. And ultimately, where do casual relationships end up? In the gutter. Folks, I'm here to encourage deeper conversations, not to surface conversations. How's your day going? Did you have a good day? Versus many of you are also, you know, are in these long distance relationships. I had a woman write me today. I've been in a three year relationship. And I'm like, and then she said, but I've never met him. I'm like, no, you're in a cyber relationship. A healthy relationship is built through time and physical connectivity. Trust isn't built over the telephone. Trust isn't built over emails. Trust is built through social activities, hobbies, mutual interests, spending time with family and friends, traveling together, teamwork, building skills, both in your personal and your professional life, intimacy, both physical and emotional intimacy. Trust is, can I, isn't just about fidelity. Trust is, can I count on this person to be there for me? Can I count on this person to be there for me when I need them? Or more importantly, does this person view my best interest at hand? Does this person view my best interest in hand? That's what trust is. God, universe spirit. I'm in a loving relationship where we have amazing chemistry with one another and our communication with each other is off the charts. And our lives have blended with one another and we share the same values and we have built the deep roots of trust so that even if we have a bump in the road, our relationship can withstand this God, universe spirit. I'm so grateful to be experiencing this in my life right now. Start from the perspective as if it's already happened, not wishing for it in the future. Build it, they will come. I invite you to make a shift in your life, to not accept bad behavior and more importantly to do better job of vetting people. And again, if you need some support with that, check out the link to a free discovery call with me to see if working with a coach is right for you. All right, I think this will be a good place to start with our Q&A. If you have a question for me, write the word question and post the question there after or you can purchase a Super Sticker Super Chat. All the monies from the Super Sticker Super Chat goes to a scholarship fund in the name of my son, Connor Asley. That's him right there. It's my son who passed away a few years ago and in his honor, I've started a scholarship fund to defray the cost of personal development and to donate to places like the Hoffman Process and Insight Institutes, just name a few. And if you want to donate, there's a little dollar sign in the chat box or if you're watching the video on the replay, you can hit the super thanks button and donate and I'd be truly grateful for that. All right, I noticed we had a donation to begin with so let's put Punch up on the board and she writes, he wanted to pick, I sent him one in a swimsuit. He was I heart, asked for more. I said, you just got a teaser and got me confused with future me after he went on a few dates. He said, okay, let there be intrigue. I left it there. What's next? And she says, should I reach out to him? We never met in person. I was sick before. He's sick now. He was asking me how I was sick. He's supposed to meet me today. Crickets. Okay. I'm a little confused because you said here, he got me confused with the future after we went on a few dates and then you went on to say, we have never met. So I'm not a big, listen, I have a rule of thumb folks. And this is where long distance relationship rarely fits this narrative. But I call it the three, two, one, three. Okay. Three, two, one, three. First off, no more than three text communications or email communications to get onto one or two telephone calls. And within that one telephone call, within one or two telephone calls, you should schedule one date within a three week period of time. If it takes longer than three weeks to set up a date, don't invest time in someone. This is why proximity creates relationship success. This is why many of you are having these long drawn out cyber conversations with people and they don't work out. Men don't fall in love for the telephone. They don't bond through the telephone. We might use you as therapists. By the way, a lot of men are using women as their, their confidant therapist because they're emotionally, you know, emotionally distraught, emotionally frustrated. And so you can spend our, and many of you are bonding with people through trauma bonds, your bond and his, excuse me, his trauma and your trauma.  But it's so hard to do that when we have this desire for companionship connection and sucks. And yet most people, as I said earlier in this broadcast, might desire commitment, but are they really capable of commitment? And some people don't even desire commitment. They're not even capable of commitment. So my, my suggestion to you, I'm going to put this, my suggestion to you is stop sending pics, get the date on the books, meet each other. And if he's crickets, he's probably just not that into you.  Okay, I'm going to tell you one other thing. Men who are highly attracted to a woman from their photographs want to meet them right away. Except for one type of guy, the guy who, excuse me, two types of guy, the catfisher or the guy who is a pussy. He's a wimp. He's a simp. He's just afraid of his own shadow. Please forgive the P word. But I'm here to say, by the way, if you can't meet right away, then do at least a FaceTime together. Stop spending all your time on the telephone and start spending it face to face. Punch, that's my suggestion for you. Thank you so much for your question and the 1999 Super Sticker. I really appreciate it. All right, let's go swim in. Oh, Arlene just gave us a $4 Super Sticker. Thank you so much. Okay, let's see. Oh, let's go swim in. Let's go swim in. Let's go swim in. Bum, bum, bum, bum, bum. Didi writes, question. Out of all the women you dated before you met your beloved, did you have chemistry with? Did you have chemistry with? You look sharp tonight, by the way. Oh, thank you, Didi. I had chemistry with a lot of women. Now, I think there's different forms of chemistry. I think there is physical attraction, which can lead to lust or limerence. There's sexual chemistry. There's emotional chemistry. There's intellectual chemistry. I mean, what I mean to say is you could have an emotional connection with someone, but they may not be your type. You can have an intellectual connection with someone, but they may not be your type. You can have a sexual desire.  Sadly, and I'm going to be judgmental here, but I will tell you this. It saddens me now that I look back at how many women use sex as a way to entice myself and other men in the dating apps. And then they wondered why we lost interest in them. Folks, here's something I've learned about chemistry. Chemistry is chemicals, okay? Brain chemicals being released from the brain in the body.  And we don't know why. The thing is for most men, they don't even know why this happens. It's a biological thing. We don't do it intentionally. We go, I don't like this person anymore. And then you're trying to figure out and you're trying to come up with rationalizations as to why you don't like them. And then the easiest thing to do is goes disappear or crickets because sometimes we don't understand why. Because this is why jumping into bed too quickly doesn't pay dividends for you ladies. It's better to vet the person to build some trust. And it takes about a hundred hours of face to face time just to build the first layer of trust. Remember I talked about trust earlier? By the way, in the book, Eight Dates by Doctors John and Julie Gottman. I just want to share something with you. Chapter one, right there, trust and commitment. Folks, if you don't understand, I got to tell you something.  I'm sorry.  But if I ask you what does commitment look like? I had this one woman reach out to me, Jonathan. I want more commitment in my relationship. Okay, great. What does commitment look like in this dynamic? She goes, Jonathan, I just want more commitment in the relationship. Well, great. What does that look like for you? But Jonathan, I just want more commitment out of him. You're not hearing me. No, I'm hearing you. You're not saying anything. Folks, if you can't establish what commitment looks like, then how can you ever know what it is? I've made it so simple for many of you. Hold that thought. I've made it so simple for so many of you. I made it simple by giving you an easy blueprint. Do you know what it looks like? We spend three or four days and nights a week together doing shared activities, hobbies, mutual interests, spending time with family and friends, traveling together, teamwork, building skills, both in our personal and our professional life, intimacy, both physical and emotional intimacy that leads to either moving in together or getting married. That is a blueprint. But Jonathan, I'm supposed to be in my feminine, let the man lead the relationship.  Stop leaving it up to the man.  You set the standards of what you're looking for. And you choose people who meet those standards and when they cross lines with you, you set boundaries with them. And I love the way Brene Brown talks about Brownie's boundaries. If you're not familiar with her work, there's another book I highly recommend of hers. It's called The Gifts of Imperfection.  If you haven't watched one of Brene Brown's videos, I highly recommend checking it out. Boundaries are simply what's okay and what's not okay for me. That's what a boundary is.  It's not so much a boundary, but it's simply a making a request. It would be really great if you'd be more mindful of that. That's a request. We oftentimes think of boundaries as a no. But a boundary isn't a no. A boundary is simply saying what you prefer. And I love the Gottman's work because they talk about making requests, bids. And so it simply could be, sweetheart, I'd really like to build a stronger relationship between the two of us. Would you be open to doing a couple's workshop or retreat with me? That's a request. If he goes, oh, we don't need that. Our relationship is perfect. That's a person that's oftentimes clueless. I will tell you some of the healthiest some of the best relationships are couples who continually renew their vows with one another on a regular basis. They're constantly working and tweaking their communication skills. If you're not familiar with the book, I hear you by Michael Sorenson, the surprisingly simple skills behind extraordinary relationships. Why am I recommending this book? Because folks, many of you are just as bad at this stuff. Listen, it's going to take a herculean. It's going to take major effort to get good at this. Stop living in the delusion that you are good at this. Many of you, I know some of you are better communicators than others. But sadly, many of you believe that you're good at this. And I can tell you most people aren't. They haven't done the work. Anyway, I'm going off on a tangent. Coming back to your original question. Well, thank you for looking sharp. Coming back to the chemistry question. Yes, I've had chemistry, but a variety of different forms of chemistry at people. All right, thank you so much for that one. Did I thank Arlene for the $4 Super Sticker? Thank you so much. Barbara writes it. By the way, I'm happy to, before I answer this, I just, folks, I am very happy to share personal things about my beloved. Neither she is right there. And she's agreed to start to shoot videos with me at the first of the year. So let's hope she'll come out of the closet, so to speak, and come on camera with us all. So if you have questions about us, I'm more than happy to share like the previous one. All right, question. When you're in a relationship and in the fourth month, and in the fourth month, do the dynamic change? We went out almost four to five times a week traveled. And now it's kind of slowed down to three to four. Holidays are planned. Okay. I don't see a question there, Barbara. So what is your question? You know, why did it change? I don't understand your question. And by the way, it's went from four to five to three to four. That's a slight change. I mean, that's, if you'd said you went from four to five to once every other week, that's a big deal. Barbara, I don't know your question. So if you have a question, ask it later. Question. What's your favorite outdoors activity with your beloved? Okay. Here we go. Beloved questions.  Okay. I think she and I tend to be, we're both kind of homebodies. Okay. We both, and when I mean by homebodies, we're not like going out, parting on the town type of couple. But we like mundane things. Like, I mean, it's so funny. We think grocery shopping today. And we've got this little tinier cart. Not the bigger car, but the smaller cart. She's pulling one side. I'm pulling the other.  I mean, it's so funny. Our little, what I love about this relationship is our little kids come out to play. I think we like the mundane things. We like, we're just saying like, we like going to Costco. We like going to grocery store. What I find most interesting though, is I just like her company. It's like, it's beyond my lover. She, it's like my best friend. There's a quote, friendship on fire. It's like, it's like, I get to hang out with my best buddy. And I get to make love to her. And I'm hoping it's vice versa for her. Only she can share with you. But it's the mundane things that I really appreciate most. And we do have two cruises planned in the next two months. So we're going to be on cruises for the next two months. All right. Thanks for asking that question. I really appreciate it. All right. Esther writes question. What do you do when you've been out of touch for over a year with someone that they are having sexual intercourse with? Call them on the phone. I don't know. I mean, wait, with some, with some, wait. Let me read that one more time. What do you do when you have been out of touch for over a year with someone that you have had sexual intercourse? You call them if you want to call them. That's what you do. Or you put them, or they're just somebody you used to know. What do you want? Folks, what do you want? There's a scene in the notebook where Noah says to Ally, what do you want? She goes, it's not that simple. He goes, yes, it is. Why is it human beings aren't like, you just don't say what you want. Just say what you want. Then we can figure out the pieces around that, but everybody's afraid to speak up folks in my book.  Okay. Chapter nine. Where's chapter nine? Read that. If it's sincere and from the heart, you can't say the wrong thing. You can't say the wrong thing to the right person. If it's sincere and from the heart. So just speak from the heart. What is it that you want?  That's my invitation for you anyway. All right. Thank you, Esther. I appreciate that. Let's go swim in. Sherry. Howdy back. Let's see. I'm a homebody and I love the mundane things too. No matter the destination. Exactly. All right. Do we have any questions? It looks like we're bashful in the group. If you have a question, write the word question or post the question there and post the question there after or purchase a super sticker, super chat. It's that little dollar sign right there. And if you're watching the replay and you've got this far, please purchase a super. Thanks. If this is making a difference in your life, you can donate to places like the Hoffman process and insight Institute, just to name a few. All right. What else? Do we have any questions? If we don't have any questions, there we go. Nicole writes in question. I'm 45 dating a man 10 years older who says 55 year old men don't fall in love. What do you think? I am 55 plus. And I am deeply deliriously madly in love. My circle of friends are men who are all in their late 40s, early 50s, mid 50s, 60 years old. I have dozens of male friends who are deeply in love with their partner. And I'm talking deeply in love. These are men who have done personal development, self-help and spiritual work. See, you have to be able to, you know what ladies, the real challenge for many of you is so many men are deeply wounded from their childhood wounds and traumas or their adult traumas. And it makes it very difficult for them to men to actually receive love. Now it's partially because of two reasons. One is they might have had a trauma with their parents and they might be reliving that trauma. And if you're not familiar with the work of Harvelle, Henricks and Helen Hunt, I'd highly recommend checking out Getting the Love You Want. This talks about the Amago. I am a G-O, the Amago. We oftentimes choose partners, men and women alike, like the parents that raised us. And it's one of the reasons why men might be incapable of loving because they can't receive love. And in addition, if you haven't checked out the work of the Hoffman process, I talk about this incessantly. This is a deep dive into healing your own child in wounds and traumas so you can be able to receive love. Do you know one of the hardest things for human beings to do is to receive. It's easy to give. Women, you are amazing givers, but even yourself, many of you have a hard time receiving. And men particularly have a hard time receiving. Most relationships are with two people who can receive love. And that means tearing down the walls that created the blocks to love. Very few people, listen. If you're not familiar with my three types of people actively dating, by the way right here, this is merely an opinion. The first group of people I call them users. These are the people who seek short-term game, the love bombers, the players, the gold diggers, the entitled people, selfish people, only caring about their own needs. And then the next group is what I call the spenders. What I mean is they're spending time with you. They seek connection, companionship, coupling or sex. No direction, uncertainty, fearful, usually have dysfunctional life. And then there's the builders and the growers. These are the people that seek long-term commitment. They're emotionally grown up. They have good relationship skills. They have their act together. Jordan Peterson wrote a book called The 12 Rules for Life. I believe chapter one is clean your room. Folks, many of you are dating people that don't have their act together. They literally don't have a clean room like Rebecca Romain Stamos did in the Friends episode when Ross went to go visit her at their home.  If the ground underneath them isn't solid, it makes it difficult for them to lean into a relationship. But more importantly, folks, we're swimming in a sea of dysfunctionality. And what's interesting is like attracts like. So when we individually do our own work, we become more of a magnet for attracting what we want. It's interesting. The clients who go through my private coaching, it always amazes me. When I make the investment in the program, all of a sudden they start meeting great guys. I get calls all the time. Jonathan, I met a great guy. Jonathan, I met a great guy. Jonathan, I met a great guy and they know the difference. Because when you do work and you get clarity, clarity breeds confidence and confidence leads to better choices. And that's here when I'm here. This is what I'm here to encourage you is to make better choices for yourself. Because this is all about not accepting bad behavior like we talked about in the beginning of this broadcast. And more importantly, standing into your power. Because the person who cares the least has the power. That's not how a relationship should be. A relationship should be two people who want to co-create a life together. At least that's the world I live in. Maybe I'm in a delusional world myself. I can own that. But that's my invitation for everybody. Is this syncing and is this resonating? Please let me know. Please post a comment. I'd like to hear your thoughts on this. All right, time for a few more questions. Oh, let's see. Roxy says, my husband says loyalty can be learned. Do you think that is true? Yeah, I don't know if loyalty, I think loyalty happens through trust and time. Trust and time. When loyalty comes, okay, let me give you an example. After my divorce, I was an emotional wreck. My best friend, my best friend, Jeff, he called me every day to check in on me every single day. I was doing drugs. I was addicted to cocaine. I was drinking. I was self-medicating through online dating. Interestingly enough, my drug of choice, my self-medication was online dating 15 years ago. It led me to the profession I am in today. A blessing in disguise. But he called on me every day. That was loyalty. But that loyalty was built over the years prior that we built trust with one another. So yes, I think loyalty is something that is built or learned. So thank you so much for that question, Roxy. By the way, does anyone know who that is? I'm just curious if anyone knows who that is. All right, let's keep going here. Charlene, question. This guy will be intimidated with me. Then never contact me unless I contact him. Should I stop dealing with him?  Is that what you mean by intimidated? Listen. Intimidation is usually from an insecurity. If it's a genuine intimidation. What might be happening, and it's hard to say, is the fear of commitment is what you might be experiencing if these kind of comes and goes. But ultimately, ladies, coming back to what I said earlier, what do you want? Do you want a guy who's all in? Or do you want a guy who's flaky? Make your choice. If that doesn't resonate with you, start singing the Ariana Grande song next. All right. Let's see what Rose has to say. What do you do when you're in a friends with benefits since June, but in September he started seeing another woman, who got her pregnant and then ghosted. I'm so heartbroken. So do I move on? Okay. You're in a friend with benefits.  Friends with benefits means no strings attached. But you got emotionally connected with him. He got a woman pregnant. It's time to put your big girl hat on and put on your logical thinking cap. Do you want to be, do you want to be entangled in this person's dysfunctionality? Because if you're accepting that dysfunction, what he's going to go through, he's going to be raising a child. There's going to be a lot of headaches. It's with some woman he just met. It's probably going to have some contention. Why do you want to choose that over a potentially healthy, by the way, can other ladies comment on this one? Do you want to give your two cents on this one? But my feeling, yes, you should move on. It goes without saying. Okay. Reubarb says, why do I attract dysfunctional men? Because nine out of 10 men and women are dysfunctional. I'm a project for magnet men. I'm a magnet for project men. Stop it. Stop. Stop treating them as a project. Start becoming a magnetic attractor for what you want. God, universe, spirit. I am a magnetic attractor for a man that we have amazing chemistry with one another, and we can communicate with each other for hours and hours on end. And he shares the same values with me, and he has the emotional maturity to lean into a relationship, and we can blend our lives together. And lastly, we can build the roots of trust together through emotional maturity and good relationship skills. That's what I'm a magnet for. Choose which wolf you want to be. That's my suggestion anyway, Reubarb. Question. Your thoughts on a 59-year-old man never married, no kid, six months is the longest relationship. He wants to read eight dates together and discuss. Is this too much of a red flag? God, you know, I don't... You know, here's the thing. Just because someone married and then divorced, does that make them any better in relationship? Yeah, they made a commitment once. Do you know the vast majority of people who've gone divorced are less likely to get married unless they have co-dependent behavior? They feel like they got burned. They're less likely to get married. So is it a red flag? Yeah. Is a woman 59 never married red flag? We men think so. We think she's got to be, you know, she's got to be crazy. Here's the thing. If he's reading eight dates with you, that's a good sign. So take each sign that's positive and move forward and maybe hold off the sex. But ultimately you've got... By the way, get through chapter one of eight dates and then ask me that question. If you can get through chapter one of eight dates, I think you guys will be... There's a good... There's a 50-50 shot for you. All right. Thank you so much for that question. Hey, folks, you know what? I want to take my sweet out out to dinner and drinks tonight. I'm going to wrap up this broadcast today. Thank you so much for allowing me an opportunity to share what I think are five behaviors you should never accept. Please read the books I recommend. Please start doing the work internally so you can be better prepared, so you can be a magnet for those men who are ready for a juicy, delicious relationship. And if you need some support, check out the link to a free discovery call with me to see if working with a coach is right for you. There's a link below in the description. All right. You know what? I think this would be a great place to wrap up today. First off, I'm going to give myself a big, gigantic Jonathan Barrock of self-love. I'm going to reach into the camera and give you a hug of love if that's okay. I'm going to ask you to turn to someone, a pet, a teddy bear or a pillow. There's a teddy bear. And give it or them a hug of love because hugs are a great source of love. And let's face it, we could all use more love in our lives. And by the way, this was a gift from my son. If I mentioned this before, this was Dexter, one of our favorite shows to watch. So I'm going to put that up there. I want to thank Penny and Melanie and rhubarb and Rose and Cara and Cindy and Harmony and Melanie. Big Melanie. Thank you so much for that email the other day. Alexandra, Didi, Cia, Sherry's in the house. Rose, Charlene, punch, punch. I hope I answered your question. Thank you so much. All right, folks. Big hugs to you all. Wishing you a fab evening. Bye now. Bye bye.


I want to just give a quick intro as the maritime man. What's well known, of course, is that there's three of them.  She has a friend in her family. That was inspirational. Thank you. And me wearing my lejeune d'ornais. Nice. Yes.


Is manifestation in the Bible? Now everyone can obviously interpret it differently but I do believe 100% that manifestation is in the Bible even if it's not called manifestation. Now I do think some people are reaching but I'm gonna give you two verses here that will help back me up a little bit. I'm currently reading the book of Mark so that's where these two examples come from. So in Mark 9-23 Jesus is casting out a demon from a little boy and he says, anything is possible if a person believes. And then later on in Mark 11 23-24 I tell you the truth you can say to this mountain may you be lifted up and thrown into the sea and it will happen. But you must really believe it will happen and have no doubt in your heart. I tell you you can pray for anything and if you believe that you've received it it will be yours. Let me know what you guys think.


So team keep it clean. What's going on? It's engraving here with another video and I'm sure by now a lot of y'all have heard the the latest report That came from Stephen A. Smith saying that he got contacted directly from Lamar Jackson's camp And we're gonna get into that in a little bit But just to really preface this with something that I think a lot of people should have on their minds and continue to Have on their minds because we have literally and it's not gonna stop Nothing's gonna change, but we have literally gotten new reports new rumors new stories every single day And then that's just gonna continue every day. It's literally something new every single day So what I said before I'm gonna say it again Just so you can save your own sanity whenever you hear new stories because you're gonna keep on hearing new stories And just gonna be new twists and turns and all of that until there's a resolution Just continue to remember that we don't know we don't we don't know what's going on. We just we really don't know Obviously Ravens they not saying anything directly Lamar Jackson his camp they not saying anything directly So we all on the outside not even looking in we just on the all on the outside just wondering Wondering and waiting So if you continue to have that mindset then any new story that you see you ain't gonna trip about it Any new report that you hear you ain't gonna get worked up about it because I mean and a lot of it sounds similar to each other We do hear some new stuff here and there but We don't know and that's the best thing I could say about the whole situation But anyway, Stephen A Smith he talked about how Lamar his camp Lamar Jackson's camp reached out to him Personally and this is what he had to say he said that they never like Lamar Jackson never asked for a fully guaranteed contract and That it and this is all alleged because again, we don't know we don't know so this like Don't get mad over it. Don't get upset over it. I mean if you want to get happy over I can't tell you how to feel about it, but we don't know Again, we just don't know but anyway, they said Lamar Jackson never asked for a fully guaranteed Contract and of course, I mean recently just I think it was yesterday yesterday there was a story going out that Lamar's counter offers were for Now did they say it was it was for fully guaranteed or if it was for more guarantees than the shine of Watson? because those while very close those are two different things because fully guaranteed is obviously a deal that will be 100% guaranteed But more guarantees than the shine Watson. That doesn't necessarily mean fully guaranteed There's a lot of guaranteed, but it doesn't necessarily mean fully guaranteed But anyway, that's what Steven. They said Lamar Jackson in his camp. They never asked for fully guaranteed do Then he talked to me then he said that Raven stopped Their guarantees stopped at 133 mil And he proceeded to say they stopped at 133 mil guaranteed with Watson getting 230 mil guaranteed with Kyle Emery getting 189 mil guaranteed and when Russell Wilson getting 165 mil guaranteed so Raven stopped at 133 mil guaranteed If that was true, yeah, that that would be unfortunate But again, we don't know all the details of everything if if if it was 133 mil guaranteed like total guarantees for the entire deal just 133 mil. Yeah, that would be pretty bad if that was true But I'm not sure if this is a hundred thirty three mil at signing a hundred thirty three. It just we just don't know Um So but if it is just one hundred thirty three mil fully guaranteed That's the total guarantees on a deal then that wouldn't be good, but again, I gotta say it again. We just don't know He also said that uh He said that he heard Lamar was never Consulted he was never talked to and he was never asked his opinion on Todd Munkin Raven's new offensive coordinator He said that Lamar was just informed that this is your new boss and this is your new offensive coordinator So Jeff's Rebek Jeff's Rebek he said Maybe about a week or two ago a week and a half ago. Jeff's Rebek said that Lamar was given opportunities To give input on Todd Munkin I mean, excuse me on the next Ravens offensive coordinator. Justina Anderson. She said that um What did justina Anderson say? She said that they did get Lamar Jackson's opinion and some other offensive players some key players Their opinion on like the philosophy and whatnot and what they wanted to do. So now it's it's conflicting stuff So again, we don't know We don't know that that's them again That's the best thing I could tell you just to keep that in your mind. Just remember. We don't know This is it. We don't know Because there's all these stories and all this stuff that that that's Conflicting with each other and one story's on this side another story's on that side. We don't know and that's it so And then he kind of started to go left a little bit Because he talked about how Lamar Jackson doesn't have a number one wide receiver. It's like, okay, cool. Yeah, that's true I think Rashad Bateman could be that one day. He's not there yet, but he could be that one day But he talked about he brought up Rashad Bateman and he brought up Devon Duvenay He was like, no, not Ava Duvenay, but Devon Duvenay I'm not sure who Ava Duvenay is But anyway, he talked about how those guys can play but they're not number one wide receivers. I'm like, okay, cool That's fine But then he said Lamar Jackson doesn't have a number one tight end And I was thinking what like what are we talking about? I Was I was disappointed in Stephen. They were then I know Stephen. They like he He has those moments. We all have those moments where we slip up where we just Forget stuff, but on a team where the wide receivers are talked about so much And you you on national television and and with you he obviously prepared to share this report You got to be more prepared than that saying Lamar Jackson don't have a number one tight end It's like come on now, man But again, like I was saying a team like the Ravens where the receiver talk is highlighted so much You got to know like who didn't tighten this because it ain't just any tight end is Mark Andrews But anyway, and then he finished with if the Ravens are offering anything lower than what Kyla Murray Got then that's a low ball offer and he said if that is the case Then there's a PR campaign to make Lamar look bad and make them look good and he isn't standing for that That's what Steven a pretty much finish his report with But anyway with the whole back and forth and there's gonna be back and forth with PR We know that that's part of business is part of negotiations. It happens There's something that we've highlighted several times throughout this entire process and it has definitely been a crazy process But that's how it's gonna be. It's negotiations It can get ugly it has gotten ugly some things have been uglier than others, but it's part of negotiations So that's why I really said I really hope That we can just get a resolution on this whole thing I don't want Lamar to leave but I think Lamar is gonna be going I wish they could come to resolution that would him stand with the Ravens But I still don't see it regardless of whatever report comes out next or whatever man, but um, that's that so again Every report you hear just continue to remember that we don't know