requested even to make a video about this. I don't think anybody was surprised that Black China did this to Rob. I mean, I think we were all expecting it. I think everyone knew what type of person she was from the get-go. I knew that's why she became like the icon for gold diggers because she knew what she was doing and pretty much, you know, won. I feel like guys are upset at this but they already knew what she was. Rob should have known because he has a bunch of sisters. You know, he should have, he should have known. He should have listened but, you know, he wanted to do what he wanted to do and the first time I saw them together I knew she was using him. It was obvious. It was in her eyes and I feel like he should have known that too and maybe perhaps, you know, you know, in the in the beginning of their relationship, if y'all watched the reality show, she thought he was cheating on her. Like he kept texting people on his phone, texting other women and she was pregnant. Okay. So while she's pregnant, he's texting other women and blah, blah, blah, blah. So she's like upset about that, obviously.  What do you think they're going to do? You think they're going to forgive you and just be a happy family? Oh, no.  Then after the baby, you know, you try to make up for it by paying for plastic surgery and all this stuff, but that still is not enough.  Plus some, like, you know, plus more.  And so, she saw a way to get even, get revenge, get paid and, you know, even more. And that's what she did. She took it. She took the opportunity. She was an opportunist and very smart about it. You know, I feel like if you watch the old Kardashian shows, you'll see how he treated his last girlfriend, public girlfriend, Adriana, I think her name was. I saw it floating around somewhere on Facebook, but he cheated on her. And they were arguing and, you know, fighting. And he even slapped her on camera. It's on camera.  And that's how black China served it.  I'm going to get you, you know, and I saw this other meme floating around saying that she's the only one to survive the Kardashian curse and come out with money, more money than she came in with. So, you know, I feel like y'all wanted me to talk about this. So what do y'all want me to talk about? Like, I feel like if I were in her shoes, I would have done the same thing. I might not have had a baby. I probably would have got married and had the baby because if you get married, like, that's the one thing she should have did first or at least while she was pregnant. She should have married him too because, you know, he's about to come into his inheritance and when he gets 35, he's about to get 25 million when he turns 35. So, you know, she should have sealed that deal as well because if she did, she could have got a lot more than what she got, you know what I'm saying? But I think she was just in and out like quickly, like most real gold diggers, like real gold diggers, they won't marry.  But she knew exactly what she was doing. And I think I heard that he repossessed all her cars. But I bet you by next week, she'll have another car. Like, I'm serious. This is how they operate.  So, women always come out ahead, even though men try to expose them, it just makes the man look dumb, you know, it's just like, okay, and what magical powers does she have to make me do all these things?  I want to go find out. Now, other guys are lining up to find out and to lose money on her, because you just promoted her. You just promoted her as some magical unicorn being that got you for all this money. That even the Kardashian coven couldn't stop. You know what I'm saying?  And I don't think he should have outed her like that and posted all those bad pictures of her online.  So, he should have done that, you know.  He's just promoting what everybody wants and, you know, sponsors these days anyway, you know, it's not like he married a nun or it's not like he had a child with an innocent girl. She was a stripper, you know, a known stripper. So, what did you expect? Did you expect her to change for you? Oh, I don't think she's going to change for anybody. I think she was going to get what she wanted, get her revenge on her last baby daddy, get a new baby daddy. So, now she has two checks coming in. Don't really have to do anything.  So, I don't know. So, for me, I think this is a reality check to most women that, you know, there are guys out there that will do anything for you. You just have to find the right one. And it's also a wake-up call to men, you know. It's not free. It never will be, never was, and if you're getting it free, it's not the one you really want, okay? So, it's kind of like, oh, here's a coupon for a free ice cream, but it's in the flavor you don't want. You know what I'm saying? So, you got to understand that sometimes women know their worth and they value it so much that they're going to get the most out of it. And that's just going to be it. So, if y'all have any questions, put them down there so I can see what y'all are saying. Okay. She's not winning. She's sleeping with a man that's trying to come up on her again. Oh, yeah. Well, that means she's just free to choose who she wants to do things with.  All she gained was exposing them. Like, she exposed them that they're broke.  So, now, she's probably going to attract someone that is about something. You know what I'm saying?  Then she's going to be like, okay. So, it's even more publicity. Now, go, go, we go.    So, remember, but that doesn't work in real life. Like, if you're dating scum and nobodies, at least make them seem like they have something so that other guys will think that they have something. But, you know, in this situation, it's different. Like, celebrity rules are so different. It's not the same as real people rules. Anyway, she's still making money.  I'm pretty sure she's getting some type of deal to show up in clubs all the time and getting people to try to get reality shows for her or blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. I'm sure she's getting a bunch of stuff. You know, maybe Beyonce should have sent that Kardashian baby pack to her instead of giving it away to charity. That would have been hilarious. Yeah, Kim Kardashian sent like a box of baby products by her Kim K line to Beyonce for her new twins and Beyonce sent that stuff right on back. She's like, I don't want it. I'm like, she should have sent it to Black China and Black China should have opened it up on her Snapchat or Instagram. That would have been hilarious. But all I'm saying is you can't, you know, you can't expect a person to change.   Even Rob supposedly cheated on Black China.  That's what I say. Especially when you're pregnant and you think your man is cheating or all you're doing, the whole pregnancy is plotting your revenge.  You're like, okay, as soon as I drop this baby, I'm going to get him to play for my plastic surgery. I'm going to dump him. I'm going to go on vacation. I'm going to do this. I'm going to do that.  And y'all saw how mad she got on that reality show.  I mean, hormonal, pregnant. You don't upset a pregnant woman because after that it's over for you. It's like, it's gone. Someone said, I believe in getting what you want the honest way. Don't deceive people. Okay.  But some people can get it early by taking a shortcut. And I say this not because I'm a bad person, but this is reality. This is not some movie with a happy ending and doing the right thing is going to get you, you know, what you want. That's that's fantasy. Everyone who is successful in this world did not do it the right way. I'm telling you, I'm serious. Everyone, 99% of the people in this world did not get successful by doing the right thing. They got successful by doing what was right for them at the moment and time, taking risks, doing things that might not have been morally correct. But they got there, you know what I'm saying? So if you believe in doing everything the right way, it's probably, you know, going to take you a while to get there. And if somebody like me or Black China comes along and does everything the wrong way to take what you have and can get it, what are you going to do about it? You know what I'm saying?  It's like in this world, there's two things, predator and prey.  But everybody else is going to be the predator. And just because you think, oh, I'm going to do things the right way. Think again, because other people don't have those same morals and they will get what they want by any means. So you got to remember the world that you're in. You know, it's nice and sweet that you want to say that and believe it in your heart. But in reality, that's just not how it works. Okay. Why didn't Rob get Lypo himself? Well, you know, if you all watch Dr. Miami, a lot of plastic surgeons won't give Lypo to people who are over a certain BMI. So he would have to lose weight first and then get some Lypo suction. You know what I'm saying? He would have to get the gastric bypass first. That's what I would have done if I was well. I was like, give me this gastric bypass surgery or something. Okay. But you know, like also his gastric bypass surgery, he probably has like medical issues that won't let him get it. Like sometimes if you got like high blood pressure and stuff like that, they won't do surgery on you. You might have tried. I fully expect him to take her back. Yep. They'll be back together. I'm pretty sure but she'll probably do it again. And the way that he told on her and told all her business, I'm pretty sure she has some business to tell of his, but she's not going to do it. You know why? Because she's smart. She's saving it up for the big chick. Okay. She got stuff on him too, but she's saving all of it up. Like this ain't nothing. Everybody knew that she was doing, you know, all this kind of stuff because she puts it on Snapchat. I follow her on Snapchat. I see her with other men all the time on Snapchat. I'm like, this is not new to me. So everything he told and showed was like 90% of it was already known. Like maybe two things that were revealed were a shocker, but that's it. So she's saving up all her good stuff. She's getting all the secrets and everything. You know he was confiding in her when he was mad at his family. So she got all the juicy details. She's saving it up for the right moment. That's what smart women do. They save everything up for the right moment. When they try to come for her in any type of way, she has a lot of stuff on them. That's why they haven't came for her yet. They haven't came for her legally or anything because she has too much information on them that could ruin them. And I feel like that's why she's getting away with this. You know, that's what you got to do. You got to play dirty in this world to win. Think about it. Lawyers, judges, all those people in the judicial system play dirty, you know. Everyone plays dirty. If your hands are clean, you're losing. And that's just honest to God's truth. It's not fair. And the world is never going to be fair. It never will be fair. And once you realize that and get in the game, you'll be winning too. Evil bitches. I don't care what you call them. They winning. Okay. Go look for the nice girls. They're sitting there watching somebody's clothes, be it somebody's maid in a broke environment, talking about I'm a nice girl and I'm good. You know, if that's nice, if that's good, fine. How many good girls do you know that are on top? None. I don't know any. Like, I don't know any good girls that are on top. Everybody's done dirt. Every woman I know that has a good life is not good. I'm just gonna tell you. They appear good. They act nice. They have a smile. They look pretty. But they did some shady stuff to get there. And you know, they did what it took. And that's all. We can't down another woman because they got what they wanted. You know what I'm saying? We can't down them because they got what they wanted. They knew how to get it. It was the shortest, quickest way to get it. And they did it. You know, men have been using women for centuries, for thousands of years to get what they want. Why can't a woman do the same thing? If Black China was a man and he did this to a woman, it wouldn't even been made a big deal. Look at Mary J. Blige and her husband.  He was cheating on her. It wasn't a big deal like this is. Of course, she didn't expose him or whatever, but they're a lot older and more mature and things like that.    She's a slut. Okay. But she got your money.  Right. So double standards. They got to go. You know, this is a business deal from the get go. And everyone knew that. Everyone knew this was a revenge plot and a business deal. You know, how do you get somebody to buy you to a Lamborghini, a Ferrari, a Bentley, a Range Rover? You know, if he did all that for her, who knows who's coming after her next. Like, oh, my God, I wonder what is about her that made him do all this crazy stuff.  I promise you, even if it's just a publicity stunt.  You know, he was a mark and she got you. You should have seen that coming. Um, you know, if everyone's telling you something and you don't listen, that's your fault. And he allowed her to treat him that way and do all those things because he knew he was wrong in the beginning for cheating on her while she was pregnant. That's why he kept trying to make it up. Like, well, how much do I have to pay now? You know, how much do I have to do until you forgive me? Never enough. She will never forgive him for that. You know, so she just probably changed her whole mindset to let me see how much I can get at this before he realizes I don't want him anymore. Okay.   So now he's marked with this, you know, gold digging mark to say, come get me, you know. So now, even if he tries to have a relationship with another person, either A, they're not going to ask him for anything or he's not going to give them anything because it's going to be like so hurt and upset and never repeat his mistake or he's going to repeat his mistake again thinking, you know, maybe this one will be different. And she's going to give get them even worse. So I think whatever results of this, you know, I think the whole lesson of the moral of the story is make sure, make sure you know what you're doing, male or female before you have a child with someone. Okay, make sure you know what you're doing and who they are. And I feel like this whole thing is going to turn into a very elucrative and profitable thing for Black China.   And then like even Joanne, the scammer is on her Instagram talking about Black China scam today or be scammed tomorrow.  So, you know, everyone seems to be kind of rooting for her. She's like the underdog in the situation. Everybody's kind of rooting for her that I know of, like maybe they're not rooting for her on your side of the track, but over here in my world, everyone is rooting for her because, you know, she's done what a lot of people couldn't do with the Kardashians. She's exposed them, got them for their money, came out good, you know, and didn't get affected by the curves. She got too much dirt. Anyways, I don't think anybody's gonna murder Black China because everybody will know who did it. That's just, that's too obvious. You know, back then they didn't have this reality TV. Now, everybody, there's cameras everywhere. There's Google Earth, there's Snapchat, there's paparazzi's following everybody. So, they will figure it out. And I don't think that she's worth going to prison for on their end. You know what I'm saying? They'll just have to find a way to make more money. Okay. So, yeah, I think now women are starting to wake up when it comes to these guys, you know.  I've had people come to me saying, what do I do? My ex is threatened to put nudes up on Facebook because I won't, you know, I won't get back with him or such and such and such and such. And I'm like, well, you know, either A, post the news yourself first and get paid or B, stop giving out nudes. And I think this whole thing is going to stop people from giving out nudes too.  Black China's probably going to do it. She's already a stripper. They haven't seen everything she had already before she even became famous. So I'm like a nude on Facebook. It's nothing to her. That's like advertisement. It's like, okay.   Why would you expose someone who is already known to take their clothes off for money? If you wanted to expose someone like that, you could have exposed other things, like, but see women like that, they don't have anything to hide. They're just like, bam, I don't care. This is me. And then people love them even more for being real. So you can't expose someone like that.  That happens all the time every day in certain areas.  Do you know any black people? Okay, that's normal.  You know what I'm saying? That's like, not even something that's, you know, that's like normal for a lot of people. So yeah, it's not normal for people that are, you know, marry and have exclusive relationships and try and raise their children, right? But that's not something outlandish that that's everyday life for some people.  But you know, that's nothing you go go and watch world star, go and watch all these different YouTube videos, cheaters getting caught and all that kind of stuff. That's nothing. Anyway, so anyway, I think people understand Black China side of it. And they don't feel sorry for Rob. I don't feel sorry for Rob. I think it's hilarious.  And that's a lot of women are just like that. There's no more love in their hearts anymore. There's no more love because men dog them out so long and mistreated them so bad, they can't even love a man anymore because they know what men are about. And so instead of loving them, they put on a pretty face, smile, treat them nice and get what they can out of them because that's all that they're good to them for anymore. You know what I'm saying? Now, I'm not saying all men are like this. I'm just saying the men that she dealt with have turned her into this and a lot of women have been turned into a similar type of woman because of how the men treated them in their past. And it's not an excuse. It's just a reason. You know what I'm saying? There is no excuse, but that's the reason why a lot of women are like that because they've been scammed too. And you know, just like Joey is to say, Joey is to say, Joey in the scammer says, if you don't scam today, you'll be scammed tomorrow. And you know, if you're not the predator, then you are the prey. And that's just how it goes. There's no in between. There's no in between. You either the predator or you're the prey. There's no in between. There's no unless you're both prey or unless you're both predators. And those don't go together. You know what I'm saying? Unless one is cheating. So someone said Rob is also a Pisces. They get off on being victimized. A male Pisces especially, you know, they don't, you know, they're not, they're into their emotions and very selfish into themselves.  And I feel like water signs are no match for certain other other signs, especially when it comes to love, unless you already know the game. And you know the game and you have been practicing it. Then like after this, no other woman is going to be able to, I don't feel like after this, another woman is going to be able to get as much out of him as she did.  Because after this, you know, he's not going to trust nobody else. Okay. Well, so anyway, I'm like, you know, why, why get mad at the woman? All she did was what she was supposed to do. You know, she saw an opportunity and she took it and took it as far as she could and that was it. I saw meme the other day and it said, I think it was in my group and it said something like the world is a business and women have the merchandise.  I don't care if it's just, you know, getting all your bills paid or at least getting a very expensive vacation or something. But if you're doing everything for you, you're doing everything wrong. That's all I'm going to say. If you're not getting, if you're not benefiting from your relationship, even if it's a bad relationship, like arriving China, even if it's a bad relationship, you still need to be benefiting from it. Okay. If you're in it, otherwise you don't need to be there. You could be doing bad with someone else and benefiting. You know, it's not about like, if you're young and you're still trying to find love and stuff like that, and you're struggling and you're having issues and problems with your man, remember eventually, you're going to understand that you need more than love to have a good relationship. You need way more than that. So when that feeling wears off and when that fairy tale wears off and you understand what you need and what makes you happy and what makes you not a victim or a target to certain men anymore, then you're going to start getting it.  I don't fall in love. He can't hurt me and I still benefit and he loves me. I'm going to get whatever I want. And some ladies will do this and they might fall in love with a guy and they might not. It just all depends on what he does and how he treats her and you know, stuff like that. So if you get a good one and they treat you nice, they don't cheat on you and stuff like that and they give you whatever you want, you could fall in love.  It's because none of your feelings are involved. You just knew what you were already getting into and for the same reason for money. That's why you got into it. But if you just so happen to fall in love and y'all are happy together and live a good life together, great. But most of the time, that's not the case. How many guys have you been with over under 20? I don't know who you're asking. I don't know. So someone says I have a pentagram branded on my chest. That's three. And they're not pentagrams, they're stars. And it's alchemy. Don't worry about it. You don't know nothing about that. But you know what, even if I did have a pentagram on my chest, I wouldn't hide it because people wear a cross on their chest. People wear whatever. This is America. We have freedom of religion, blah, blah, blah, blah. But the whole thing is, Black China won on this one. It's over. She's got to be on magazine covers now. Y'all know her business is going to go up. I bought some of her products actually. I'm actually wearing some of her lip gloss. She sells lashes, lip gloss, powder. She sells makeup. She has a lash bar in California. I think Calabasas.  And then she has clothing store online as well. So she does have some businesses, which is good. She doesn't use all her gold digging money for frivolous things. So she does have three businesses or two businesses, maybe more. I don't know. She's doing good for herself. And maybe her lifestyle is a little bit extravagant. But all in all, she really don't have to work hard to give what she wants in this world. She doesn't have to go put on somebody's uniform, sit in rush hour traffic, and work all day, come home to a man, pay half the bill. She don't have to do any of that because she used what she had to get what she wanted. And she's probably lived a lifestyle that she never thought she would live. She never probably thought that she would have Bentley's, Ferrari's, Lamborghini's, Range Rover's, and you know, mansions and pools. She probably never thought that she would live that grand until she started doing what she needed to do. And now it's even more obvious that she's not going to stop. She's just going to have to find somebody with real money, you know what I'm saying? Or someone who's just curious enough to get God again. You know, she might get back with him after he gives his inheritance, and she might marry him this time.  But see what you do, like after this whole thing, she could still get him back.  He doesn't understand. I'm a Pisces too, but I, I understand how the game works.  You have to understand the prize, the prize. Keep your eye on the prize. Okay. And that's how, you know, things will work out for you.   You know what I'm saying? So think about it. Don't get wrapped up in romance and the idea of love until you're ready, you know, or when your mind is right, or if that's what you really want. She did not approach him for love. Okay. That's not the type of person you say, oh, I want to fall in love with him. And he knew it. He just didn't want to face reality and just like a lot of women out here will get with a man who looks way too good for them and just think they, oh, it's my lucky day. I hit the jackpot. Oh, he sees me for me. He loves me for me, but he's just using her for a place to live and for her to take care of him while she's at work. And he's cheating on her while she's at work.   So this should be a wake up call to a lot of women. Men do the stuff all the time to women. That's why women feel the same way that black China does about men. They're like, you know, all you're going to do is mess over me anyway. Let me get you first. Let me get you first. And it's a problem when women flip the script. Now it's a problem. But before it wasn't a problem.  Like his mom and sister spoiled him, took care of him. He never had to go out and do anything for himself. That's why he's like, you know, doesn't even have that much money compared to his family, because his mom enabled him. So he grew up, he was weak, he got, got. And, you know, that's just it. If he was, if he was smart, you know, he would have finished school, went to school like his dad became a lawyer, or whatever, started his own firm because he had enough money.  So what did you expect him to attract? Someone's going to, you know, help him get his life together, a life coach, or somebody that saw a target and said, hmm, this is too easy. She's not the kind of person that's going to help you and build you and build a man. She's the kind of person that's going to take what you got and wish you look after she's gotten what she wanted. Good luck. Anyways, you know, there are women every day looking for somebody like him. Every day they're like, oh, it looks like he'll, you know, I remember when I was younger, I had a friend and she would date like these guys that I would never date. And I was like, oh, why you dating him? This is before I was like smart. Girl, he got money.  She's like, a lot. And so I was like, okay. So we would go out and he would pay for everything drinks, food, everything for the whole night, you know. And one day she was like, okay, well, he's married. I'm like, he's married. She's like, yeah, he's married, but he pays everything. He buys me, he bought me a car. He bought me this, he bought me that. So, you know, his wife was probably a nice lady. And she probably had everything she wanted.   So I'm going to do this.  They don't exist because there's women like Black China. There's women like my friend who will take your husband or have him cheating on you with her and buying her cars and stuff like that. So I don't know what people who are saying, oh, I'm going to find me a rich man and everything is going to be great. I'm going to do it the right way and blah, blah, blah. Okay. Don't forget, there's other people out there in the world too that does it their way. And the moral of the story is, you know, if you don't want to get got, you got to get them first. That's just it. There's no other way around it. I think that was in a Medias movie that Dr. Phil's seen when he was, she was in anger management and she was like, I'm going to get the guy before they get me. So I don't get that. So that's how you have to look at it. You know, you always have to be on your guard because the relationship might start off innocent at first. You might think you have a good guy or a good girl. But as soon as you mess up and don't, and they don't get what they want, they're already plotting their revenge. You know, they're plotting it or they never intended on being with you forever in the first place and they're just waiting for their opportunity.  I'm reading this question. Okay, so this girl was in a relationship. She wait, she made the guy or her boyfriend wait a long time before they had sex. He was treating her like she was all that and then after she gave it up, he didn't treat her that way no more and slightly different. How do I remind him that he's lucky to have me? Oh, men are very possessive. So you have to make him jealous. That's just it. Make him jealous.   Men are very possessive and have an ego. So all you got to do is work on the ego and jealousy and you'll be good. That's why Rob did all this stuff because he was jealous because Black China knew how to get the reaction out of a man. Start sending him pictures of her with other men, his robes and his bed.  He went crazy. Okay. And she's just going to get paid off of this. And like, if he's trying to fight for custody for that child after doing all that crazy stuff online, it's going to look bad on his part. You know what I'm saying?  Now, that's unstable. Okay, so he ain't going to get nothing. That's just that's out there and people have all the receipts, all the pictures, all the snapshots of his Instagram. And, you know, so I don't know what he thought about trying to get custody doing stuff like that. That's just that's just dumb.  And that's the difference between making decisions based on emotions and calculating. She's a calculating person. That's why she's going to win. That's why she still has her other child. That's why she's going to have this child. And that's why she's winning because she calculates. She doesn't react on emotion unless it's to get the reaction she wants out of that person. You know what I mean? It's all acting. Anyway, the whole, the moral of the story is be calculating. You know, if you don't have a plan, a goal, and you're not calculating, then you're, you're doing everything by chance. And the results that you want might not be gotten if you're not planning it out. Like, I plan everything. She already knew what I was going to do with my life from the get go. There was not going to be anything that I was not going to do to get what I wanted. So, I know I have a lot of people on my channel that kind of agree with me on some things and then the only other things they don't. And that's fine because I don't agree with everybody on everything either. And we're not all supposed to be the same. So, you know, take what you like from this, get the information you like from this and leave the rest. I don't think that everybody should be like me. I don't think everybody should be like China. I think we do need nice people in the world to remind us that it is possible. But I also feel like a lot of those nice people are being transformed and to mean people because there's not enough, you know, nice people that are going to keep their word, be faithful, and do all those things that nice people expect them to do.   You can't change a man, okay?   But usually those girls like that don't want those type of guys. So, if you're, if you're wanting to be good and get everything the right way, go for that type of man. Go for the man that wants the exact same thing, to do it the right way, to be faithful, to be honest, to love you.  So, stick with those type of guys. Don't try to go for these bad boys that you think you can change by being good because all they're going to do is change you. They're going to lower you and you shouldn't be looking for projects to work on. You shouldn't be looking for build a man, you know. If you're looking for that, you're going to get left every time. Once you've built them up and made them a man or created something better out of them, they're just going to move on to somebody else who doesn't know that there were a build a man, you know. They're going to think he did all that by himself. So, don't waste your time ladies.  Okay.  That's, that's old news. Any woman who's riding dying is probably dying, you know, alone at the end, you know. So, don't do it. It's not worth it. Anybody who says, oh, I'm a ride or die, it means I can't get any better. So, I'm going to try to be a pick me chick so they can pick me because I know that there's other women out there have raised their standards. So, I'm going to lower mine, which would give me a better chance at getting a man, even if it's just for a little while until he leaves me for another chick. I don't care because it's better than having nothing, you know. Those are the kind of women who make men expect women to do more for less and they just have to understand, oh, you got a pick me chick. So, we know you settled. They feel lucky for the moment. And as soon as reality kicks in or you get a better situation or some more money or a better option, you're gone. So, why would we lower our standards? Because someone else did out of desperation. That makes no sense, you know. You should never lower your standards because you never know when that person is coming that's going to match them.   You got to hold out until you get what you want. If you don't ever get it, at least you're not suffering and they're not dragging you down even further because that's all they're going to do. They're not going to make your life better in any way except you're not alone, but they're going to be training you and living off of you and not giving you what you deserve. So, it's best to hold out or do bad by yourself. That's my opinion. Yeah. If Rob had been, you know, if Rob had any type of brain in his head, he would have stopped buying her cars after the first car didn't work. He bought her so many cars. Oh my gosh. She had a car locked or he gave her some cars. I don't know. Maybe I don't know, but I feel like if you start off buying someone's love, that's what they're going to expect. That's how you show them your love. That's how he started off buying her. So, every time she gets mad, he got to buy her something. So, why do you think she's always mad? Why do you think she's always tripping? Why do you think she's always kicking him out? Every time she gets mad at that fool, he buys her more and more and more. I mean, why wouldn't she get mad? You know, being mad is lucrative. That's just dumb. Why would you ever be happy if you could keep getting cars from being upset? I'm just asking because a lot of people are like thinking this whole thing in reverse. You know, why is she always mad? Why is she such a, you know, why is she doing all these things to him? Because the more she does, the more he buys. And that's just how it, that's how it was. And finally he got fit up and took everything. I guess what's coming next, I predict. Well, maybe. Just depends on if he learned a lesson or not. If he hadn't learned anything, you know what's coming next, the wedding. After he gets his inheritance. Okay. So, you know, she's looking at all these people. I know someone just said Janet Jackson done the same thing. Mariah Carey was supposed to marry this billionaire and he called it off and she sued him and got $50 million. I don't know. That's a lot of money.  So she still got paid. Okay. When you're that smart, you don't let me and get away with stuff. You, you, you take something away from the relationship and you take more than what you came in with. Because your time is valuable, very valuable. Okay. You know, Mariah Carey's ex billionaire boyfriend exposed her saying she was too hard to get along with. She was too extra. She was too extravagant. She was doing it. Okay. Well, we already know that about Mariah what you didn't know. He was under a rock. She thought you could handle it. You was a billionaire. Come on. She's like, next time I'm getting me a real billionaire. No, cheap one. So Beyonce stay and ride her demo like her mom did. Well, Beyonce knows that her man makes money. Okay. There's a difference between Beyonce staying with Jay-Z. Okay. That's money. That's wealth. That's not rich. That's wealth. Okay. She knows if she stays there, she's going to benefit for lifetimes. Her child, their children. That's, that's what people do when there's wealth involved. Not, not just some little chump change. That's wealth. You know. So and also you know, if she were to divorce him, what would she do? Like think about it. Who else would she go for?  And who would he be with every, every some random chick every couple of months, you know, trying to get pregnant by him. So they have nowhere else to go but down. You know what I mean? She already has money. If she got some billionaire, it wouldn't really be what she wanted.  Oh, I got me a super billionaire, blah, blah, blah, but it's not going to do them any good. You know, they're about to try to, they're trying to take over the music industry and that's a goal that a lot of people have not, you know, realized yet. So she's not going to divorce him.   So somebody else can take it. That's how a lot of people do. They stay married because they're not giving up the wealth that they built, the empire that they built, you know, the goals that they're still trying to accomplish, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. So maybe when they get super old and they've got all those goals accomplished, maybe they'll separate. But I don't think right now they're going to do it. They have too much writing on it. Anyway, so at the end of the day, get what you, get what you can get, use what you got. And, you know, if you're still, you know, young and trying to find love, find love, go, go through it, go have love, go, go be in a perfect relationship. And, you know, if it works out great, if it doesn't, you know, try again, if that don't work out, try again, if that don't work out, get smarter. Okay. And once you get smart, you're not going to start going for looks and love anymore. You're going to start going for things that are tangible, that you can take with you, that you can leave with, that you can profit off of. Okay. So remember, when you judge people, you don't know their back stories, you don't know why they are the way they are. They are the way they are, because they probably no longer have faith in what you have faith in. You know what I mean? And they probably understand that if I'm going to be in this type of relationship, I'm going to be compensated for just in case. It's like having life insurance.  So, you know, being in love without being compensated is like not having car insurance. When you crash, you own your own. That's it. Okay. So make sure you're smart enough to get that insurance.  And make sure you make sure you know your value, you know your worth. You know, you can't put, you know, the insurance for a sports car or a luxury car is different than the insurance on a hatchback. Okay. So make sure your insurance matches who you are. You know, if you, if you're, if you're not getting what you deserve, you're not getting that full coverage on a luxury vehicle, then that's your fault because you're the owner. Okay. Make sure you know what you're doing. At the end of the day, women are winning. Smart women are winning. Okay. I'm not going to label Black China. I'm just going to call her smart, strategic. She had a plan and voila.  Okay. It doesn't matter what the situation is. If they strategically planned this, if they got what they want out of it, then they win. It just doesn't matter what they did to do it. They won. You know what I'm saying? Just like on the, on the award shows or in a race or in the Olympics, it's not, oh, you're a great Olympian.  If you won, you won. If you lost, you lost. There's no in between. Okay. Um, let me see. Do I really believe Jay-Z cheated? Oh yeah. I do believe he cheated. Like, why wouldn't he? Like, think about it. You're on tour. You have all these women throwing themselves at you.  Like, no big deal. They, you know, they'll tell you, they'll do things with you. They got a friend will do stuff.  He's drunk. I mean, she would never find out, you know, unless something went wrong. But most men, especially famous men are going to cheat. You know, so I felt like he cheated. Like, seriously, I'm pretty sure he cheated a lot during the beginning of their relationship. You know, especially how he was raised and, you know, his background and things like that. Listen to the lyrics of his old music, you know. I feel like he did cheat and he thought he could get away with it.  A lot of people say it's for the media, it's for the media. But you don't write a whole album on somebody cheating when they never cheated. You know, it's kind of stuff you keep hitting. But, you know, she knew she could make money off of it. And he saw her make money off of it. So then he did his song and made money off of his song, you know. If you're going to cheat, get caught, and the person's going to forgive you, you might as well get paid off of it because there were so many rumors going around that he cheated and stuff like that anyway. And, you know, inquiring minds want to know it's the best way to sell your album, how to get people, you know, subscribe to your, you know, title, switch phone services. If it's going to take all that, if it's going to take air in your dirty laundry to get it, then why not? The paparazzi, we're going to get it for free, you know. So, I feel like he did cheat and cheating is not like, most people with money, you know, with big money, cheating is not what I call a deal breaker because they have so much to lose, you know. And also, if you think about it, a lot of people cheat and they're still married because their wife or their spouse or their husband, no, it's cheaper to keep her. And think about the reputation, you know. Your reputation could be ruined and they don't want to do any of that. So, together they're stronger, no matter what, just how it is.  This isn't that. I need to do better. I should have done better. It also gives men a wake up call saying, hey, you got to be responsible. You have to respect this woman because this woman could have ruined my career. Beyonce could have ruined Jay-Z's career, like seriously, if she had left him. So, by her mercy, he still has a career. You know what I'm saying? He understood that the power of a woman, the power of fame, like she could have ruined him big time. Like that whole elevator scene, if she had divorced him right after that, he would have been ruined. Nobody would have liked him no more. No woman would buy his music anymore. You know, they would just been haters. And he couldn't have came back from that. He would have been labeled forever.  They couldn't, he would be ruined if he messed over Beyonce and she didn't forgive him. You better be glad that, you know, she loved him because she was black China. There would be no more Jay-Z. Jay-Z would be like trying to be on somebody's album right about now. So, I guess I'm getting ready to go. I just, I had to cover this topic because y'all wanted me to and I came on and I did it. And that's that. You know, there's nothing more to be said. Black China is the winner of this one. Let's see what happens next. Tell me what y'all think is going to happen next. Like, what are your predictions? Like, what are your predictions? You think he's going to marry her? You think they're going to be back together? You think this is it? You think she's going to find somebody better? Or what? How do, someone says, how do you get, how do you react when a man giving you to run around? Do you ghost him or pretend to be unbothered and act like I don't know what he's doing? Just block him and cut him off. Men chase what they want. If they're giving you to run around, either A, they got somebody else already and don't have time for you or B, they don't really want you no more or they're bored of you and they don't want to connect with you.  Like, you're not even going to have the chance to do that. Know your value. Okay. Know your value. If you have to chase behind somebody and they're not chasing you anymore and give you the run around, it's a red flat.  You can't try to make excuses for these men.   If you can't find someone who wants you, then you know, you're going to have to figure out a strategy. See what you're doing wrong. You know what I'm saying? Sometimes you give away too much information and they felt like there's nothing else to get to know. You're no longer a mystery. You're not exciting anymore. You're probably blah. You talk too much. You know, it could be that they know too much about you already and you know, remain mysterious. My daughter's in there laughing. Are you laughing at me? I hope she has her earphones in. Okay. Oh, how do you deal with? How do you deal with a fear of STDs from being cheated on?     Don't go down. That's it. That's the best way. Um, stop trusting people. You know, if you think he's doing something, he probably is. Someone says, you're very beautiful. Let's get dinner. I'm married. I can't, I can't go on dates. But thank you. That was sweet. How do you remain mysterious?  Don't talk too much. You know, don't tell your life story to a man. Give very vague answers. But show interest. Ask them more about themselves. Let them talk about themselves. That way you get all the information you need. All the ammunition you need like Black China. You know, she knows everything about that family. You know, when Rob was at his lowest point, he didn't hold her all the tea, all the juice. She got too much information. That's why they're not coming for her. Like they should, you know. And I think even on one of her responses, she was like, you know, she was like, just wait or something like that. Like, is that all, is that all you have? Are you ready for me to air my stuff? You know, I have stuff I can air too. And then all of a sudden he stopped. It was just over after she said that. So, you know, she don't want all the info. He doesn't want all his family's information out or what he said about them because they can cut him off. Like, oh, he said that Kim was such and such and such and such, you know, or his mom is such and, you know, if all what he probably told her in the wee hours of the night for pillow talk and stuff like that came out, he would be rolling his family would disown him. But then and then what, you know, how can you not feel bad about making a man jealous on purpose when I see him upset? I get soft. I don't feel bad because men have been doing that for women for centuries, thousands of years even, you know, using them and abusing them and making them do all this. I don't feel bad. You know, why should I feel that? We've been trained to feel bad. We've been trained to do all that. I don't, I'm untrained in myself, but I don't feel that.   No, I'm saying men treat women like trash every day. I don't feel sorry for them. I'm sorry. You get what you get.  I can't feel sorry for someone who already knew what was coming. You know, that's like, it doesn't make sense to me. I don't feel sorry for people who, you know, obviously knew what they were getting into. It's like, you know, he cheated on his ex-girlfriend slapped her on the Kardashian show when she was trying to break up with him. You know, he mistreated her. He cheated on her, slapped her, made a fool out of her on TV. And I don't feel sorry for him. I just don't. Like if you start feeling sorry for men, you're starting enabling them to be mediocre and be less than what they're supposed to be. Like no real man would have done what he did. But he went out and acted like a little girl and like he was crying and, you know, getting revenge. But really what he did was set himself up to not get custody, to look unstable, to look like he sells drugs, you know. What smart person would do that? None. She got him exactly what she wanted. You know, that's how they get you in court. You ever watch law and order where, you know, they can't win, the defense can't win. So they start trying to upset the person on the stand to make them blurt out the truth.  You know, look what he's doing. They can't trust him with a child. So she was smart for not reacting like, you know, like he did.  You can be a fool all you want. All it's going to show is that you're the crazy one. And I'm respecting myself and your family, but you're going to disrespect mine.  Okay. Even Instagram says you're unstable.  All of men's lives that they ruined, they'll never get custody. The drug problem he probably still has, he'll never get custody. You know, his is on record. And, you know, all the drama that goes along in that family, they'll never get custody. You know, who's going to be watching the baby, the nanny while he goes out and does drugs and look for new women. The mom, Chris, who's always busy promoting their children. Who's going to get custody? You know, who's going to be actually taking care of the child? Anyway, yeah, like I'm, I'm immune to not feeling sorry for men. Okay. I'm sorry. I'm immune to it. I don't feel sorry for guys. I feel sorry for women who are taking advantage of and, you know, get the bad end of the deal. But today is a good day because somebody actually came up, got what they wanted, probably going to get even more famous now. I'm pretty sure her Instagram followers are way up now. Like even on her Snapchat, before you could write her or, you know, send messages and stuff now, she can't even have that option because so many people are following her and messaging. So it just made her more famous, like Amber Rose. She's going to be like Amber Rose.  It's time for people to understand that you can't do stuff and get away with it anymore. Like women aren't the same anymore. We're very different now. We're very calculating now and we're, you know, proud of it. It's not going to work in your advantage anymore to mistreat women. You're just going to get, this is going to backfire on you. I know people in other countries and other cultures, they don't understand this yet. But it's coming soon. You know, everything usually follows 50 years later over there, wherever y'all are. But it's coming. You know, hopefully it won't be 50 years. Hopefully it'll be like more like five or 10 because a lot of people, they're like, oh, we can't do that in our country or women aren't like this in our country and that. Well, it's coming.   Yep. Like if you're going to go for it, go big. You know, if you're going to go for something, go all the way. Don't just stop right here because you feel bad. Keep going. You know, like I said before, the matter, she makes him no more. He buys her. So, now what's he gonna have to buy to get her back? An island? You know, he's gonna have to give her half his inheritance or what? You know. So, it's all a game and everyone's a player. You're gonna play to win. You gotta play dirty. That's just how it goes. So, I mean, look at Kris Jenner. What kind of example was she? What did she do? She left his dad, married Bruce. She probably cheated on somebody because I know Chloe is not from the same dad. So, there was some cheating going on there too. She married, she was the biggest gold digger. She married for money. She married for money again and again.  He's all around all these women and he didn't learn anything about being a man. Like he was around sisters, mothers, secret women, you know, Bruce Jenner who was secretly wanting to be a woman. He didn't learn any valuable lessons, you know. He didn't learn how to be a man. He didn't know how women work on men, you know.  I love her. He didn't see anything wrong with what she was doing. So, when Black China walked up and started doing the same thing, oh, she reminds me of my mother. Oh, yeah. This is the one. Oops.  Okay. So, but back then, gold diggers were a little bit different.   They don't even want you to live with them. They're like, no, you can't live with me. You know, you can leave your robe here. You can leave your robe here for other men to try on what you're going to. You can leave your robe here. He's like, I want to leave something here so that people know I'm here. Okay, leave your robe. Meanwhile, Instagram, all these other guys are posing and taking pictures in the same robe that he left there at her house. Like, that's crazy. Somebody going to put that robe up on auction and it's probably going to sell, I bet you. You know, that's how, you know, the robe that the infamous raw Kardashian and Blood China robe wore at last. Big question mark. So I don't know, this should be a wake up call for everybody. Name the last couple that you know that really has true love and married for the right reason. Name the last people that you know that are happily married in love for the right reason and are, you know, prosperous. And there's more you can think of that are not that there are, then there are, excuse me, I'm tongue-tied. So just think about it. Name how many married men who you know are, you know, successful and faithful. So, you know, for me, the right reason is stability and, you know, for future generations. Making a decision from marriage solely on love is not the right way for me because that can fade and that's an emotion and it's not permanent. You know what I mean? So I would rather aim for something that's a little bit more tangible and long lasting. And this marriage is a business. Which is true. It is. That's why you have to sign contracts and that's why you have to have a lawyer when you want to get out of it because it is a business. It's not, you know, something that you just do for love. It's a business contract. You got to change your name. You got to, well, you don't have to change your name, but you got to change, you know, a lot of things, make compromises. This is a net, you know. So it is a business. It's like a partnership. You're going into a partnership with someone in like a law firm and if you don't, if you don't partner it with someone successful, your business could fail. You know, you might be friends with that person, but, you know, your business is failing and you're not eating and you're not paying those bills, that friendship is going to start to dwindle real quick. You know what I'm saying? Why did I get taken out of your Facebook group? I was enjoying the group. I have, you know, I have some people that were not a good fit in that group and they were either a judging other people or B, not being politically correct in some certain situations.  You know what I'm saying? Because either A, they got too comfortable and or B, they were not on the same page as we were. So I have to dismiss a few people because it was for their own good. It was for their own good because they were just getting more upset and frustrated at the stuff that we were starting hosting, you know, because it's not for everybody. Like this group is like for the black Chinas, not the people that are looking for love and happiness and the perfect life. No, this is for the black Chinas. Yeah, this group is like for the black Chinas, not the, not the nice, not the nice girls. This is for people that want a certain lifestyle and will do whatever they need to do to get it. It's not about the other things. That's why everyone's not invited because it's not for everyone. Now I might do another group that's for everyone, like that are looking for love and stuff like that. And who can give each other advice and red flags, I want to look for with your partner. I might do another group for that type of, you know, that type of crowd. The one that I have now, it's not for, it's not for the light at heart. It's for the people who are looking for a lifestyle, not the love. Okay, so I might start that other group for, you know, you want to go 50-50 with a man and you want to pay half the bills with a man and you just won't love and struggle love. Maybe I can name the group struggle love for people that are struggling and love. I could start a struggle love group and y'all struggle love women can talk amongst yourselves and figure out how to come out of it or to make it work. But like I can't have struggle love women in this type of group or women who are offensive to other women in this type of group. I can't do it. You know, it just don't mix. There's two types of women, nice women, good girls and bad girls. There's bad girls. Okay, and then, you know, sometimes some people get in and I give them a trial period. If I don't see them, they're improving or learning or, you know, becoming what they said that they want it to be. I just, I just miss them because they're sitting there judging other people because they're doing what it takes to get the lifestyle they want now. I have women in my group who, you know, are sugar babies. They date older guys. They get to go on vacation. They get, you know, they're taking pictures and sending to us from yachts and, you know, private jets and stuff like that. People going on shopping sprees, showing us pictures of stuff that they got, you know, stuff like that. So if you're not about that life, then the group is not for you. This is a group strictly about women who want what they want, you know, and it's a private and I mean it's a secret group.  I got to look through their profile and stuff to make sure they're not secretly, you know, another way because I had some people on that group who were taking snapshots and posting it in other places for men to see. And I'm like, that's none of their business. They already know they're a target if they got money. But the funny thing was she was showing them to guys who weren't even a target, like broke guys, like, why are you showing this to them? They're not even a target, you know.  Okay, still winning, always will be winning. Think about it. All the women that are winning these days are winning because they use what they got. How can I get power over my man from the way I talk and do things? Take things away. If you've already been in a relationship and you've already set your rules and your man has been treating you like that for years and now all of a sudden you want to change, it's probably not going to work. You guys started from the get go. That's why I say when you go into any relationship, you need to have strategy. If it's 10 years later, five years later, two years later, now all of a sudden you want to change, it might not work. You might just be like you tripping. That's not who you were when I met you. I'm going to go find somebody else, you know, because if they met you with certain standards, that's how they want to keep you. Okay, if you want to up your standards and the man is not, you know, responding, you got to change the man.   So if it were me, I would just say, look, I want us to do better. I want you to make more money because I want, you know, or I need this, I need that, you know, and make sure he knows if you don't have it, you're not going to be happy, you're not going to be giving him anything, you're not going to be doing anything for him until you get what you want. Either A, he could leave you, or B, he don't care, like whatever, I don't want it anyway, you know, or you can switch man. Anybody that's calling women thoughts, gold diggers and stuff like that no more, that's not, that's not a derogatory term anymore because who's winning? Nice girls finish last and we already know that. So who's winning? Who's an example of a nice girl that's winning? Let me, let me ask you, which nice girl is winning? None, right? Okay.  Whatever.   Do what you want to do. Where is the best place to meet a target man? They usually hang out alone in bars. That's what I meant when I, are online looking for sugar babies. I don't know, you know, sugar sugar daddy websites, dating sites. Nowadays, back in the old days, they used to be laid us at nice bars, like expensive bars and steakhouses and restaurants with nice bars and live music and, you know, or drinks cost a lot of money, where there's not a lot of competition except unless you're rich, you know what I'm saying?  Don't, what, if you're going to stay in your neighborhood and you don't live in such a nice place, that's what you're going to meet.  Of course, you're going to start attracting men with money and it's that simple, you know. How can you look more powerful, superior, and attractive? Well, for a man, you got to wear a suit and have a good career, you have a nice car.  Travel alone, don't travel with a group of people, you know, make yourself easy to approach. Anyway, how can you be independent if you rely on a man's money? I'm not independent. I have a husband, you know, and if I rely on his money, that's still my money because I'm married to him. Half of it's mine. So you can't be independent if you're married because you have a husband. But if I weren't married and he was my boyfriend and he was giving me money, well, I would be saving it and investing in myself, starting a business, you know, things like that. So then I would be independent after I took his money, you know. Everybody gets money from somebody. And if I left, I would still be independent because I've saved so much money. So there, that's how you can be independent and depend on someone else's money, just like you can work at a job and depend on a paycheck. The same thing, you know, unless you own your own business, you're not independent either because that job can be going like this. Let's see, a gold digger is smart. They're going to go start their own business so that when that man is done or when she's done with that man, now she's truly independent and can go higher and get an higher caliber of man to also contribute to her independence. Okay. And then when he asks her to marry him, now she has even more money. Okay. So this independent woman stuff is fine. But if you work for somebody, you're still not independent. Remember that. I'd rather be a gold digger and save money and start my own business instead of working for somebody, call it myself independent when I live paycheck to paycheck. That don't, that don't make no sense. Only, you know, the true independence is freedom from having to work for someone. So, you know, a lot of people get confused on the term. Like, if I'm independent, I own my own business. If you're independent and you work for somebody and can get fired tomorrow and get kicked out of your place, you're not truly independent. And in my opinion, okay, that's just my opinion. Other people will say different, but that's my opinion. Right. Like China, she's independent. She has her business. You know, she's going to invest more and more into it. The more men she gold digs on, at the end of the day, they're her businesses. She doesn't work for anybody. So, gold digger, hoe, prostitute, business owner, at the end of the day, she don't work for nobody. So, she don't have to ask nobody for money either. She gets it automatically every month. Child support. Rob got to go ask for money from his mother. Or he has to find a way to make it, doing appearances or reality shows or whatever. God is in the business of family.  It doesn't matter if they're together or not. They're still related. So, she's in the business of getting paid. You know, somebody wrote a comment that said God is in the business of family. Like someone, someone talked about Melania and Donald Trump. She's watching Black China taking notes like, how can I escape? I need to escape from Donald Trump. How do I do? She's probably at, she's probably on Twitter at Melania. I mean, at Black China. Call me. Anyways, yeah, being a gold digger can get you first lady of the United States even. First lady's a gold digger, y'all. That's funny. And she ain't nowhere to be found. Like, she don't even want to live there. It's like, I'm gonna live over here separate from you. Like, he's a real sugar daddy. He don't even, she can't even, he can't even live with her. So, even the same bed. Anyways, I'm gonna go. I've been out here too long talking about this. I'll see y'all on the next video. All right.


Hey Psych2Go family, welcome back to another video. Do you have an overwhelming fear of losing your loved ones? Do you just trust other people or have anxiety about being abandoned? Abandonment issues typically arise in childhood, but can develop later on in life as well. The fear of abandonment is a serious type of anxiety that often stems from a traumatic experience. Some aren't even aware of their own repressed emotional trauma, but it can manifest into unhealthy behaviors over time. So here are seven signs you may have abandonment issues. 1.  Do you want to impress everyone you meet? Whether it's your friends, acquaintances, or family members, you try to meet their expectations to get on their good side. You're the one who tries harder in your relationship and you're willing to put everyone else's needs ahead of yours as long as it gets them to stay. If you have a strong need to please people and gain their approval, you may still have some unresolved abandonment issues. 2. You struggle with insecurity.  People who are afraid of being abandoned often struggle with feelings of insecurity and inadequacy because someone you loved has walked out on you in the past. You've internalized the emotional trauma. You may have wrongly believed that it was your fault that they left. This can result in low self-esteem and a need for constant reassurance. 3. You find it hard to trust people. Do you find it hard to trust others to keep their promises or to be there for you? You want to be in control of your relationships and know everything that's going on with your loved ones. Because you've been hurt in the past, you have a strong fear of being left alone. In certain cases, it can lead to feelings of unreasonable jealousy, suspicion, and possessiveness over your friends and romantic partners. 4. You're afraid to be vulnerable. Do you feel uncomfortable during moments of emotional intimacy and honesty? Are you scared of getting close to someone or needing them too much? Your deep-seated fear of abandonment may manifest into a fear of intimacy and emotional vulnerability. You may unconsciously sabotage your relationships by pushing people away just as you start to care for them. You may struggle with commitment and act detached and indifferent when you really do care. 5. You look for reasons to leave. Do you always look for reasons to leave in fear of getting too attached to someone? You hold your loved ones to unrealistically high standards and you only focus on their flaws. You don't give them any room for mistakes. You do this knowing that they're bound to disappoint you, and when they fail to meet your expectations, you use it as an excuse to give up and leave. 6. You move on too quickly. Do you have difficulty forming meaningful relationships that last because of deep-seated fear of abandonment? When you cycle through relationships one after another and move on too quickly, you're not allowing yourself the time and space to deal with the emotional fallout. Instead, you dive into something new and exciting to distract yourself. You never want to be alone because it would force you to confront the personal issues you've been repressing for so long. 7. You cling to unhealthy relationships. Do you find yourself gravitating towards all the wrong people? Have you stayed with someone knowing that they're bad for you? The trauma of being abandoned, especially at a young age, can stay with you for a long time. And since we're all hardwired to recreate our early childhood experiences for the comfort and familiarity, your childhood taught you the wrong things about love. It's not uncommon for you to be drawn to people who treat you poorly. Do you relate to any of the signs mentioned here? I know I did. Is a fear of abandonment harming your relationships and keeping you from being happy? Let us know in the comments below. If you found this video helpful, be sure to like and share this video with those who might benefit from it. Don't forget to subscribe to Psych2Go for more videos. Thanks for watching and we'll see you in the next one.


the captain's arm band. This is how my lines will set up and they'll be in the general 4-4-2, which is what they like to play. Peter Harrison in the gold sack, Sergeine Frankson, who has been steady at the back for them. Enrique Gordon, the interesting and expressive wide player. Ramorio McPherson, Tariq Wilson, Sean Dua, a new face. German Nelson is back from suspension as well. You need to find himself staying on the park. Devon Brown, always good in the midfield. Devon Davis, a young addition from McGraw High, a player to watch and of course Jason Wright, their most potent of goal scorer's right. Yeah, they're playing a 4-4-2 formation, but I'm looking to see how Davis transitioned from schoolboy to the Premier League. He was really hot in schoolboy football, scored one of the goals of the season as well, so it's good to see and you know, his coach knowing well because he's the coach of McGraw as well and these youngsters will look to do well. And the new additions of Dua and Sam was, we look to see how they really bring some quality to this malign steam that really needs to get away from that drop zone. Yeah, of course, German Thomas, the head coach at McGraw, taking the reins here, so we'll know Dave is very well and he's really desperately trying to find a partner for Jason Wright. Humber Lyon, this is how they all shape up. They all they're playing with a 3-5-2, Briscoe between the sticks for them. Pascoe, Kriski, Christie, Malik Robinson, Henry Scott, Kareem Bryan, who scored in that one-all fixture. Last time out at Kareem Bryan, Andrew Vanzi, they have a present captain look out for him on the dead ball as well. Afiba Chambers, our player to watch, Evrol Swaybe, James Thomas, and Rashane Sharpe, who has so much quality they're number seven. Yeah, and they're playing a 3-5-2 formation, not surprising for Vassarino's team because he likes structure organization. He said that's what he worked on coming into this game, so at times it would look like five at the back. He looked to plug those half spaces. They haven't conceded in over 200 and odd minutes. He looked to continue that, but looked to nick one on the counter. That's the all mark of Vassarino's team. Yeah, Vassarino's just managing one window in his last five game. Andre Farkasen, the one in charge of this fixture, the full match highlights. Humber Lyon with the header over the top. That was Afiba Chambers, and in this moment, Sergini Franksson, after just eight minutes, adding his first of the season, a brave head at the near post from Enrique Gordon delivery, and Malines were away. It was a very impressive first half from the German Thomas coach team, and they continued to come forward. Good work there by Enrique Gordon, a strike from Jason Wright, which was wide of the upright, and then this delivery towards the back post. The heads went up in the strike from Franksson, was looking for a second deflected and over the top. It was all Malines in the first half. Javon Bryant towards the back post came to German Nelson, cutting inside Nelson. Couldn't get it under the bar. This one was certainly under the bar and inside of the upright. What a free kick from Tyreek Wilson, his first of the season to go with his two assists, and it was two nil to Malines after just 41 minutes. Wilson was impressive. A real man of the match performance from the Malines number 20. And then this good work from Jason Wright. He had all it all to do, all on his own. Then the help came from Wilson. This was intelligent from the number 20, slipping it inside. And then that tough touch from, tough touch from Jeremy Nelson, and Jason Wright with his fifth of the season, first of the afternoon and third from Malines, three nil. And that was in second minute, stoppage time in the first half. They would go into the half with the three goal advantage, the captain scoring the third of them. Then Humboldt Lyon coming to life slowly but surely. Roche and Sharp out to Kareem Bryant, his third of the season. Good finish by the Humboldt Lyon number 27. Scored in this fixture on the fifth of November. Scored again today on the 28th of January. Good finish. Three one at that point. That came in the 68th minute. Just seven minutes later. And Humboldt Lyon were up to it again. Look at the work from Roche and Sharp, who had to assist Roche and Sharp at each of the delivery towards the back post. Not the best defending from Erika Gordon. And not the best goalkeeping were from Peter Harrison, who did command the six yard area. And Humboldt Lyon made it interesting for the final 20 minutes or so. Anderson is first of the season. Three two at that point. But unfortunately for the Lyons, three two it would remain. Four shots on target from the Lyons from their 11 attempts. They started well. Didn't finish the strongest but got the job done. Three on target from six for Humboldt Lyon. It just took too long for that engine to get going in out of first gears. Twenty four falls between the two Lyons. Very guilty, very aggressive within the middle of the park. And they picked up majority of the yellow cars as well. They had more corners to double the amount of Humboldt Lyon. And they enjoyed majority of the possession at 53% Lyons. Leading in all categories and especially the important one. Three two winners over Humboldt Lyon this season. Excellent work and Dwight Jeremiah is with our man of the match. None other than their midfielder, Tyreek Wilson. Tyreek, really good performance from you today. Epitomized by that free kick. How much did you love that goal? Love it a lot man. 100% man. Something you practice a lot? Not really practice. Just have it. Have it naturally. Yeah. And one other thing that stood out to us as well was the intelligence shown in the game. That third goal scored by the Lyons probably would not have been scored had you not made that run to create the overload for Jason Wright. Um is this a sequence of play that you practice over and over on the training ground? Yeah, sure. Yeah. So what does this three points mean for you and Mullines? It means a lot. Take time, come up on the table. To get away from the relegation zone. Yeah. Good performance from you and as long as you continue to do that, Mullines will have a chance to do that. Continue on that track. All the best. Yeah. Thank you. All right there. You have it. Our man of the match. Wilson really putting a very good performance today.


Welcome to All Hands Update, I'm Petty Officer Jonathan Pancall. Sailors and Coast Guardsmen from Coastal Riverine Squadron 11 are participating in this year's Rim of the Pacific or RimPak exercise. Members of the squadron conducted several training exercises such as maneuvering drills and stranded boater search and rescue. Joint exercises like these help the U.S. Navy and Coast Guard work together more effectively. The Navy leverages some of the Coast Guard expertise in the search and rescue fields and some of the smaller boat operations and learn from the Navy as well and then take some of their expertise back to the Coast Guard. This has been a really good immersion into how the Coastal Riverine unit works in this community and what the capabilities are. The Navy and Coast Guard exchange valuable training and expertise in small boat and port security operations during the exercise.