Hello everyone, welcome to the NARC Survivor YouTube channel. Before I begin, please hit that thumbs up button down below to show your support. Thank you. The Narcissus Strange Sexual Behaviour. If you have been involved with a narcissist, you're probably aware that their sexual behaviour is quite strange to say the least. In the beginning they're completely in favour of you. They've had close links with you and then they deliberately become less close to you, which is very strange and peculiar. It's very different to what is typical, usual or expected. It's different to what you might normally experience, which is how it catches you off guard and causes you to overthink about it, because you just can't understand it.  But I'm here to shed some light on this topic, because I can understand that it must be very confusing for you, especially after you've already had this intimate connection and experience with them in the beginning, and everything seemed to be going well. And then suddenly it's as though it was all in your imagination, as though nothing really happened, because they're not like that anymore, and they're making you think that something is wrong with you, which is affecting your self-worth and self-esteem, when it really has nothing to do with you. It's just that they have problems in developing emotional attachments, because in their childhood they didn't experience healthy attachments to their parents or caregivers due to neglect, so they were unable to consistently connect with their parents or caregivers, which resulted in this behavioural disorder, which has affected their ability to form and maintain relationships. Because unlike ourselves, they have difficulty experiencing positive emotions, and they may even react violently to love and affection, they experience fluctuating moods, a flight or freeze response, and a strong desire to make their own decisions, which is why the relationship and the connection that you were supposed to have soon stops, and naturally as an empath it may cause you to blame yourself, when in actuality it's just that when you're dealing with a narcissist, at some point it will become toxic, because they always have an agenda, so they will use the relationship for other means, because they're disconnected from themselves, they don't even understand themselves, so of course they can't connect to you or understand you, because they can't even do that for themselves, so instead they use intimacy as a means of gaining an advantage over you, which means that they will become very manipulative and controlling, and they will try to limit or restrict any intimate or sexual acts, or it will have to be on their terms, so that they can feel like they're in control because they're very insecure, they've never experienced a secure attachment in their lives, so they've got to feel like they're in control, and that is why they seem to resemble the characteristics of a robot, to where they're very stiff and unemotional, as opposed to being energetic and enthusiastic, and that is when you begin to blame yourself, or you assume that they're no longer interested in you, or that they've found someone else who they like more than you, so it causes you to ruminate and you think about it again and again, because you just can't wrap your head around it, you don't understand what went wrong, when it's because your ideas and perspectives of the narcissist being sexually attracted to someone and enjoying sexual activities are actually inappropriate, irrelevant, and incorrect, because narcissists are not sexually attracted to anyone, and they do not enjoy sex, because sex is about giving someone another attention, it's about giving someone else power over yourself and your bodily reactions, which is something that narcissists are very uncomfortable with because they're very insecure, so they always have to be in control, the last thing they really want is to give a person power over their own body, and they also don't want to have to think about you or trying to please you, because they're only concerned about themselves, they don't care about your sexual pleasure, that does nothing for them, it doesn't make them feel anything, it means nothing, if anything it actually makes them feel sick, they are repulsed by the idea of love, intimacy and connection, and that is why they're so manipulative and controlling, because they don't want to be involved in that, they don't want to connect, they don't want to do anything for you, they don't want to bond with you, because they have an attachment disorder, they're incapable of doing that, and that is why it all seems so strange and peculiar, because what you're anticipating and expecting is normal, it's supposed to happen, it's how you're meant to connect and grow in a relationship, and they don't want you to suspect that anything is wrong, they'd rather you just blame yourself when the regarding is that it is then, even if they've had many relationships and sexual partners, the truth is that they were not sexually attracted to any of them, and they didn't enjoy the act of intimacy or sex, what they enjoy is what happens before that, such as their manipulation, love bombing, and gaslighting, that's what excites them, they may also enjoy pornography and masturbation, but they do not enjoy being intimate with another person, they just use it to gain an advantage over you, to get you to agree with them or to get something from you, or especially if they think they're about to lose you, then they might do it just to stop you from leaving, or they may also do it to get you back, but that's really all that it is, and that's all that it's ever going to be, they use intimacy and sex as a means of manipulating and controlling you, they do not enjoy the activity, it repulses them, it makes them feel sick, but many of them will play along and try to pretend like they're into it, because they want to look normal, they don't want to feel like something is wrong with them, but deep down they do know that it's them, because you're the one who is always trying to initiate it, and they're the ones who are always pulling away, so of course, they know it's them, but even then many of them don't really feel like they're missing something, they're just not even concerned about it, it's not something they even think about, they could quite easily go years without sex, and only use it as a means of manipulating and controlling their victims, because it doesn't do anything for them, and this is why they're so dismissive of it, because for a lot of them it really is unworthy of their consideration, they don't even think about it, they just do it to pacify you, to keep you at bay, or so that you don't ever suspect that they have a serious problem, because it is a natural human need to desire to be close to someone, there is nothing wrong with wanting or needing that, it's completely normal, but when you're involved with a narcissist, it's all very weird, and it's actually very harmful to you, because you're not bonding or connecting to each other, which is unnatural, and most things that are unnatural are harmful, but it's because they just don't have the desire or the sexual drive to do it, there's nothing inside of them that makes them want it, unless they can use it to support their agenda, otherwise they can do without it, and you will see this throughout the relationship, not just during the act of intimacy, when you hug them they pull away, when you kiss them they pull away, they do not like affection, they do not like intimacy, they just don't like anything that is outside of their control, because they're very insecure, and even if everything is on their terms, even then they haven't got any desire to actually do it, it's only something they use to manipulate and control their victims, and even then it's only if they feel like they have to do it, if they feel like they can do that without it they will, but naturally it will make you blame yourself, it will make you question your own sexual attractiveness or even your sexual technique, it will make you feel like you must have done something wrong, because it's just so unusual for someone to not have any sexual desire, so you may feel like it's you, you may feel like you're not good enough, you may feel like you're the problem, when really it is the narcissist, they don't know what love is, they're disconnected from themselves, so how could they ever connect to you or anyone else, how could they ever be vulnerable, how could they ever show you their emotions, they could never do that, because they see that as a weakness when really being vulnerable takes strength and courage, but this is just how they were raised to see it, that love is a weakness and it opens you up to being used and exploited, to them there is no such thing as intimacy or connection, people can only use or be used, they can't connect, because they never saw a vision of love in their childhood, all they saw was people using each other, so it was conditional, when it is unconditional love that allows us to develop a sense of self, narcissists have no sense of self, so there's nothing for you to connect to, and they have nothing to connect to you, any representations of intimacy or sexual behavior are used purely as it means to manipulate and control you, they're not concerned with the act of sex or sexual attraction, they just want to possess you like an object, they want to feel like you belong to them, and as though you exist to serve them, so that you can meet their emotional needs, if they can do that without any representations of love, sex or intimacy, they will, thank you for watching, if you found this video helpful, please give it a thumbs up, share your thoughts in the comment section, hit the subscribe button to receive the notifications, if you would like to support the channel, you can donate at paypal.me-survivor, you can book a one on one with me on my website, it's narcsurvivor.co.uk, thank you for watching, and I'll talk to you soon.


Well, hello there. I'm Sandy Allknock artist and paper crafter here on YouTube and today's card is called jump for joy It's got a stamp set and two dye sets and the dye sets you can choose one or the other I got both of them because I can see a use for both of them and both of them have the same arc for the tree So just know you're gonna get a duplicate there But you have different leaves in each set and if you want if you get both sets You get all four different shapes of leaves and that was one of the things that I wanted to have all of them for so I could use them in different ways taking my washi tape and taping one of the arcs on Top of the one that's already die cut I'm gonna show you the vertical one, but I did do a card with the horizontal as well to show you that and I'm taping it down with the washi tape kind of not as sticky since I rubbed it on my fingers so that it's not Gonna wreck the surface of my Nina cardstock and Then I'm gonna pull out just those pieces that I want to die cut it from if I went right through the whole thing I would chop right through the tree and I didn't want to do that, but you can see those pieces now are going to fit right back into the the whole scene and make one flat piece for my background I pulled it all apart and I'm going to apply different distress inks to it and The distress inks are applied using the round ink blender tool And I'm just taking a couple of different browns and mixing them on here Doesn't really matter what colors you use you can do this in a spring kind of theme You could do it in a fall kind of thing I'm doing it as a fall card since that's the season in which this video is being made But you could do a winter scene you could do a spring one you could do summer these Background dies have a year-round use so if you were to pick up one you would be able to use it all year long for a lot of different kinds of cards I Am gonna ink around the edges of this frame, but I'm gonna cut it off later So you can decide whether or not you're going to chop it off or not depending on what kind of look you want on your card Now these are the inside pieces for the tree, and I'm just gonna tap some ink onto them to to cover up the Each one of those shapes and then I'm gonna do the same thing to do the sky portion in those large sections The surface that I'm working on by the way the black shiny metal thing is called a craft assistant And I love to use that when I'm doing inking things. It's so easy to clean up It's just an easy wipe down and it stays really flat It doesn't get crinkled and stuff like other craft mats that I've used So I will have links to that and all of the supplies for this card in the doobly-doo and over on the blog as always So I'm creating a couple of colors to bring a little bit of transition through it I ended up by the time I was done not seeing much transition because I just kept applying ink because I was having so much fun doing it and at the bottom I wanted to put some green and as I was putting the ink on and Working on blending it in I realized you know that would be kind of interesting to make it look like bushes I was going to start with some swirly bushes and I have a little bit of blending going on And I thought what if I really load up the mini ink blending tool and just make some circles that will actually act as little bushes And I really liked how that was looking. So just load up Between each one of the applications of it make them at different heights and just make sure you do it across to the other side So that it also translates onto that little piece on the other side of the tree Next I took all those leaves that I die cut and this is one set of each of those dies So you could do multiples of them to have a lot of one particular leaf And I'm just tapping on a bunch of different colors onto them But they're adhered onto a sheet of scratch paper I just put some adhesive down to put them all in place so they wouldn't walk around on me So it's kind of fun to be able to just keep tapping on different colors to make them look like fall colors Again, you could do a bunch of greens if you're doing a spring card and be able to use the same technique for another time of year Also note that you get one set of leaves with one Dyeset and one set of leaves with the other the reason I have Both of them is because of course I bought both die sets and that was one of the reasons I wanted to make sure I had all those leaf options when I start making cards now to adhere all this together I took a piece of thin card card stock for my base and I put B creative tape all over it You can do different adhesives just make sure there's plenty on there and then it's super sticky This stuff is so sticky that once you put it down you can't peel it back up And that's one of the reasons that I like to use it But I put the frame down and then it's really easy to pop all the other pieces in just don't do any pressing Until you're sure you have it in the right spot But once it's down, this is going to be a very very flat background for the card Practically looking like it's all one piece even though it's all pieced together and glued inside each other So here is the top of the tree with all of its little bits and pieces going in It's just like a puzzle. I used to love puzzles when I was a kid so this satisfies my inner child to do this kind of thing and Next up I'm going to start doing some Copic coloring from the jump for joy set This one has a couple little creatures in it has this little pile of leaves And I'm coloring two of them because I'm making two cards. I'm making the horizontal and the vertical and I actually ended up only using the stamp here in the Vertical one, but you'll see the horizontal card at the end of the video And I'm just applying some random colors to it Copic colors You can do this in whatever colors are appropriate for the scene I'm just using some yellows and oranges and mushing color over top of them and Getting some soft blends going little by little And then I'll throw in a little bit of green very pale green so that I don't get a whole lot of color But there's just a little bit of a difference there And this is a super easy way to do it if you're going to be die cutting it Of course you want to leave white around the outside edges, but I'm going to fussy cut these So I'm not really concerned about coloring right up to those edges or anything So I'll add some colors that are basically some of the same colors that I used in the leaves for the little Fox that I stamped and I masked him out I first stamped the leaves and then cut out a mask so I could put the fox behind Because the little hedgehog is going to be the one jumping a little fox will already be on the ground So I'm going to use the same colors to blend him out But of course if you would like to color him and the whole scene any of these elements in Whatever medium you'd like the technique for all of that inlaying and everything will still work This is just elements that are going to go on top of that background So I'm just throwing some more colors in here to soften out some of those edges I have the rakes that I'm going to stamp onto the background But I'm just going to use the handles to glue on top and that way I don't have to fussy cut around the tines of the rake and I still have the impact of color on the handle Here's my little hedges that I'm just going to throw some color in and you can make the coloring really simple Don't worry about doing shading if you aren't good at shading that sort of thing some simple coloring on this sort of a Card when you've got lots of elements. There's an interactive element. There's all the inlaid die work Don't worry if you're not an amazing colorist and you just want to make these much simpler A lot of times I remind everybody who watches my videos to focus on the thing that's important If the interactive portion is the part that's the coolest on the card Then you can let some of the other parts go because people are going to be so amazed by the interactive element They won't really care if there's perfect shading or if you've chosen a light source or any of that kind of thing on your card But if you do want to learn more about coloring I do have a Copic Jumpstart class on my website and you can take that to learn more about coloring Now this is a slider die set from Lawn Fawn that I also love it's got a lot of different shapes You can make things slide and stuff all over your cards in different directions I'm going to take this kind of wiggly one and die cut it out of the piece and The background piece that I already created and I'm also going to go around the edges of it with a brown ink Just to get rid of some of that white edge and you can see I've already stamped that rake on there so now I can add on the little teeny tiny Handle for the rake and my little hedgehog is going to be the one sliding down and at the bottom I'm going to place my little fussy cut leaves with the little fox This is going to cover up the messy end down there at the bottom since I was die cutting that slider through so many layers of Paper and adhesive I did have to use a craft knife to get some of the parts to cut all the way through but now with some adhesive I'm adding dimes onto the back of the little Hedgey and on the back of the card and then I have a piece of dimensional adhesive that's smaller than that slider piece So that it will slide through and then he will make his way down from the tree into his little pile of leaves In order to make this work on the card the Background piece has to be up off the surface of the card base So I put some dimensional adhesive on it to lift it up to give the dimes some area to slide down Some people use pennies. I use dimes just because they're thinner So here he goes tumbling down from the top of his card This is a great idea to give a card to a kid You do it for a birthday or just a hello card or happy Thanksgiving or Halloween card lots of fun So here's the one with the vertical leafy background die So it looks really cute came out really nice And he tumbled from high up and then there you see a cute little foxy friend that he's going down to visit When he makes his big jump Now if you wanted to try the same thing with the horizontal one you can do A whole different look for it. I didn't use the fox on this one I decided to just use the leaves And I glued them onto the card using some dimensional adhesive for some of them and some of them flat down on the card And I stamped the sentiment and split it so that jumps is on one side and four joys on the other But my hedgy still will spin down the card And I really really enjoyed making these there were lots of fun It is just a lot of work, but for somebody really special it's worth every minute of it So here's a couple more videos for you interactive ones if you're interested in seeing some more of that You can hit the subscribe button if you would like to and you'll get more videos from me Make sure you click on the option to have them emailed to you So you don't miss any And I will see you guys next time. I have a video up here on youtube Which is about three times a week. So it's not more than just a few days away Thanks so much and have an awesome day. Bye. Bye


I got cake. We were starting to film this video and then a woman outside this room was like, do you want cake? And I was like, yeah. There's that old saying of like, you know, let them eat cake. Right, Marie Antoinette, let them eat cake. Okay. This is a tip in entrepreneurship. Someone ever, if you're in the middle of a business meeting, if you're in the middle of closing a deal and someone comes up to you and says, hey, I need you to drop what you're doing and eat this cake, drop what you're doing and eat the cake. Hi, everyone, thank you so much for watching this week's episode of Jules and the Trade. My name is Jonathan, this is Noodle and this is, this is Jules and the Trade. This is the show where we find out what everyday items everyday entrepreneurs need to get through their day.  So some of you might recognize Cynthia Johnson from some work we've done with her in the past. She was listed as one of the top personal branding experts in 2017 by Entrepreneur and is one of the top 50 marketers on Snapchat by Mashable. So, Cynthia has clout to her name. She has her own PR marketing firm called Bell Plus Ivy and she's someone who we are so grateful to be able to see the items that she curated for us. Gonna open this box. Gonna do, do, do, do, do, do, go. Do you see the large donut? So the first item we have in the Cynthia Johnson box is what looks to be sort of a large donut. I believe this is a throw pillow but it is ultimately a donut. I don't know a whole lot about Cynthia personally. From here I can say that I think she has a penchant for whimsy. So this makes me think that this woman started her business and she never kind of lost sight of that she can have fun and that she can enjoy herself with it. Is it also weird that I started this episode by eating a random piece of cake that was delivered to me? My therapist actually calls a noodle a little donut. What do you think of this here donut? He is indifferent to the donut. That is something we've picked up. He is indifferent to the donut. Okay, the next item we have are organic gummy cubs. Okay, so it says right here that it's like biting into cubilic, cubil, cubilic, yes, cubilisis, cubil, do you know what that word is? Based on these gummies, I think I can pull a couple things together. So she loves these, because she just likes to snack on something sweet when she's in a creative meeting. I think she's got a little bit of a sweet tooth and instead of going for like a hardcore, you know, like a peanut M&M, right? That you can just kind of waste away eating. You know, I can't tell you how many evenings I've spent just knee deep in a bowl of those. They've got the little sugar on the outside so you know they're tasty. They've got raspberry, blackberries and boysenberries. They're gelatin-free, gluten-free, GMO-free, no corn syrup, vegan kosher. They're California approved. Okay, the next item we've got is another item that I really can't wait to pull out of this box right now because it's pasta. Because it's pasta. They're noodles. Noodles not a spaghetti. He is more of a stuffed shell. So Cynthia f***ing loves noodles. That's something that we know. I don't know if it's particularly spaghetti or if it's some of that bomb, those bomb noodles you can get on the street somewhere in LA. But Cynthia really likes noodles. So I love this because I think she's someone who works really hard and she knows how to treat herself and she knows what she likes.  There's nothing better than eating afterwards. We got a marinara sauce here. This looks like a good marinara sauce. It's called Gilmama's original marinara sauce. Bam, right? Kind of a two-parter. You know, you can't have one without the other. You can, but it's not the same, right? It's like getting me or noodles separately. Like noodle and I as are a pair. We're strongest when we're together. Guys, we're getting information kind of as we're doing this, which is sort of how this whole process works. But we found a little more out about the red sauce and the pasta outside of the fact that they're delicious. So, here's another item in this box that you're gonna, that it's all gonna tie together. So here's, bam, bio-hazard coffee. So here's something we learned about Cynthia. She is not unlike a lot of our other entrepreneurs in the fact that she drinks coffee every single day. She wakes up with coffee. I'm sure she has more than one cup. I'm sure she even starts to kind of, yay, you want to smell coffee?  I were asked what my last meal would be. I think I'd probably just say, I think I'd pull a run Swanson and just say breakfast food. I think I would need eggs. I think I'd need bacon. But Cynthia likes her pasta and her red sauce. And I bet that she, whether it's this sauce or another one, I bet she knows how to find the good stuff. So the next item we have in the Cynthia Johnson box is, okay, it's just a little zippy. All right, it's a blue little zippy. First of all, zippies are amazing because it's never a bad time to put a zippy. I have one at my desk because when I sit at my desk, I walk in, it's a fine temperature and then the temperature will fluctuate and I'll need a little boob. But Cynthia tells us that she, it's not this, it's not this hoodie in particular, but she has one blue hoodie that her husband gave her a few years ago that is a security blanket for her. So she says that she wears it whenever she needs an extra boost of confidence or when she needs to feel like home or when she just needs to feel at her a-game. And now, if you win this box, you can get your own blue hoodie and start your own, you know, make your own memories in. The next item we have in the Cynthia Johnson box is, oh, it's a portable charger. Okay, so portable chargers are really useful, not only, ooh, ooh. This one straight up plugs into the wall. This one actually has a little, sort of the outlet prongs on the back of it so you can actually charge it, just literally in an outlet. This is a really incredible item for any business owner to have. Amazing, I love it, so thoughtful. I'm gonna put it right on my donut. Okay, and the last item we have in the Cynthia Johnson box, it's in a bag that's called My Box, which I love, because it was a bag called a box, in a box, it's quite meta. And there's a box inside of the bag. Are these tampons? Yeah, they're organic tampons. No!  If you need to know what that is, I would argue talking to your mother, or honestly at this point, put your dad on the spot. So she said, ugh, when she put this in there, so I bet that this is not necessarily an item that she loves, as much as an item that is very useful, and it's something that, you know, most women have to deal with. I'm hoping, and I think this is kind of, might be true, because I know they do this at WeWorks, and I know they did this at my old office I was in too, is I bet the bathrooms that are business are probably stocked with this stuff. All right, you guys, that is everything, that is everything in the Cynthia Johnson box. We had donut pillow, we had pasta sauce, we had tampons. Honestly, it sounds like a wild Saturday night to me, just to really kind of put a button on it. I am, again, I'm so grateful that Cynthia took the time to curate this box for us. I love seeing these little insights into these people's lives and the things that they do to take care of themselves and help set themselves up for success in whatever their business is. If you liked this video, and you wanna see other videos like it, or you wanna see just like more tools of trade videos, go ahead and like and subscribe to our YouTube channel so that you can see all the content that we have coming out every single day. And I encourage you to ring the bell so that you can get notifications every time a new tools of the trade video, or another video series that GoDaddy produces goes live. For Noodle, for myself, and for, honestly, for the box of tampons. Thank you so much for watching and I can't wait for next week.


bekah. Sabalinka again to the front of Rebekah. Sabalinka making moves as we had a forehand down the line from Rebekah. That's a good shot. Sabalinka gets it though. Slice, Rebekah. Sabalinka gets a forehand. Forehand to forehand now as Rebekah hits it wide. 15 all. Rebekah now hands on knees. And she's finding out it's hard to go toe to toe with Sabalinka. I mean, look how many winners she's hit. She's gonna hit 50 winners. At this stage, I mean, she's almost there. She's four winners away from 50. And Rebekah is looking tired. Sabalinka looking a little tired, but not as much. But Rebekah are definitely looking on the tired side. 15 all. Serving out Rebekah now. It's a false flaw. She cannot buy a first serve. Second serve. Sabalinka steps in. Second serve. Into the backhand of Sabalinka. Backhand every backhand. That's a good shot. Sabalinka gets it. Forehand every backhand inside out. Sabalinka's there with the backhand. Into the front of Rebekah. Rebekah now in control. Sabalinka down the line is out. 30-15. Sabalinka having to do it a little bit more running on that point. She's being controlled in the baseline for the set. Now chat again. I'll say it. Can we please have five sets of this? Like one day, can we get with the five setters? Can you imagine if this was the third set going into a fourth? Just an idea. Just saying. 30-15. Rebekah now serves. Down the tee. Good serve. Comes back, but it goes along from Sabalinka. 40-15. Rebekah now as cool as ever. On the outside. She's probably freaking for Keener out on the inside. Let's be honest. 40-15 to make Sabalinka serve it out. And it would be poetic for Sabalinka to win this on her serve. Considering that's been the problem for the entire career. And the thing that's limited her the most.  That's a redemption arc. Second serve. Into the backhand of Sabalinka. Return goes into the front of Rebekah. Bit of a shank, but it goes in. Sabalinka down the line. Rebekah digs it out. Into the front of Sabalinka now. Sabalinka gets the point. Rebekah slices it. In the net. 40-30. It would be kind of poetic if Sabalinka won it with an ace. Right. Won her first slam with an ace. That would be, I mean that would be pretty epic. Again, don't forget to subscribe if you haven't already. Appreciate everyone being here. Don't forget to like the video as well. The match of the tournament. Hands down. This is the match of the tournament. No doubt. 40-30. Still a chance for Rebekah now. To stay close. Good serve. Rebekah now with a forehand open court. Sabalinka can't get it. Okay, people. Okay, people. This is it. The moment of Sabalinka's career. Coming up next. She's serving for her first ever slam. Let's see what that serve is made of. Has she come a long way? Or is that the same Sabalinka that's still there? Let's see. This is the moment. This is her moment. That's the answer question. This is the moment. Write it down. I've written it down. She will be nervous, of course. She's got to sit down right now. Think about this for 90 seconds. You've got to sit there, go. All right. Just get the serves in. I've got to serve big. I've got to serve. She's got to win the first point. Get the first point. 15 love. That'll be a start. Are you not entertained there? Are you not entertained? If you're not entertained, then I can't help you. Sabalinka getting up early from the changeover. She's walking over a little earlier. Rebecca is taking a little extra time. The moment of truth. Tennis update right now. That's it. That's pretty much it. Again, thank you so much for joining us. If this is the final game of the match, we've got the men's final tomorrow. Come back again. Do it all again. I think the men's final is going to be just as fun. That is, I doubt that's going to be straightforward and boring. Two hours later. Here we go. Arena Sabalinka serving for the slam. She's never won one of these, and her serve has always been a problem. Let's see what she can do. She serves into the front of Rebecca. Good return. Sabalinka gets it. Rebecca in her backhand. It is wide. Oh man, Rebecca had a mad, bad miss. That was the easy shot. 15 love. Sabalinka gets a freebie. First point. Sabalinka. Sabalinka with a serve. Three points away. She serves a fault. Second serve. Sabalinka to the back end of Rebecca. And a good return to the front of Sabalinka. Rebecca in her forehand. Sabalinka, forehand in the net. Ooh. Halfway up the net from Sabalinka. 15 all. That was surely some nerves. Sabalinka's coach looks just as nervous. I mean, look, he'll get some credit if she wins this. For sure. 15 all. Sabalinka with the serve. Why am I nervous? I'm not even playing it. I'm nervous for Sabalinka. I'm like, Jesus. I wasn't this nervous when Barty won this thing last year. Serve. Here's a fault. Second serve. Second serve is in. Rebecca in her gets a back. Sabalinka hits it out. 15-30. 15-30. Man. How are you, Chad? Am I nervous? Are you nervous too?  Are you nervous? Jeez. Serve down to the front of Rebecca. A good return to the front of Sabalinka. Point out Rebecca. Again to the front of Sabalinka. Into the front of Rebecca. Sabalinka gets another free point. Rebecca hits it long. 30 all. Two errors from both ladies. I mean, two errors each in this game. It's nervous. Am I about to die? Camilla, sit down and take a deep breath. 30 all. Sabalinka with the serve. Down the tee is an ace. This is going to be on Finnish TV. Sabalinka with championship point. And she brings it up with an ace. Championship point, Sabalinka. To win her first major title. Match point. Championship point, Sabalinka. She serves. Out wide. It's a fault. Second serve. Second serve, Sabalinka. She serves. Oh, no friggin' way. It's a double fault. It's a double fault. And she shakes it. She tries to shake it off. She brings it. Brings up championship point with an ace. She loses it with a double. You knew it was going to happen, chat. Come on, chat. You knew that was going to happen. You could have, you could have bet on that. You knew we were going to get a double fault in this game. And championship point, why not? Serve again. Down the tee. Rebecca returns. Four nows from Sabalinka. It's a winner. Unbelievable. Ho, ho, ho, ho. Championship point again. Sabalinka championship point number two. All that was on the line. Good forehand, Sabalinka. Good shot. All right. Sabalinka championship point number two. To take her first grand slam. She serves. Down the tee. That's good. No, it's not. It's a fault. Just long again. Second serve. We're back into jumping around. She's ready. Sabalinka second serve. Championship point. Second serve goes in to the back end of Rebecca. Back in our Sabalinka. To the back end of Rebecca. Into the forehand of Sabalinka. Rebecca on the stretch gets it. Forehand Sabalinka goes wide. Unbelievable. Unbelievable. We're back to deuce. We are back to deuce. Just a little... Look, she went for the same shot in the last point. She won it. She just hit it wide on that one. Back to deuce. The dramatic zoom into Sabalinka's face. Just a slow zoom for dramatic effect. It's dramatic. Back at deuce. She serves. Oh, that's a fault. It's wide. It's a second serve. Second serve. Rebecca looks ready. She's found the energy. Second serve is good to the forehand of Rebecca. Forehand Sabalinka into the back end of Rebecca. Sabalinka on the stretch. Rebecca on the point. Back in now to back end. Sabalinka again to the back end of Rebecca.  There's been a forehand now for Rebecca. Rebecca is a winner. No freaking way. Break point for Rebecca. Break back point. And she hits it. She gets it with a winner. I mean, that was huge. Huge winner for Rebecca. She looked nervous the entire game. She finally hits a winner. Sabalinka looks... Worried. Serve. Out wide. It's big serve. That goes in the net on the return. That's how you save it. That's how you save it. Back to deuce. Oh, chat. What a way to finish this. If this is the final game, what a way to finish this match. It's the exact... It's the way that Sabalinka was going to finish her match, right? Win or lose. She gets back to deuce. She's had two championship points. She saves the break point. She serves. A fault, man. She is trying to smack the cover off the ball. She does not want to play rallies. Just give her two aces. Come on. Second serve. Don't forget to subscribe. You haven't already. Men's final tomorrow. Second serve. Out wide to the front of Rebecca. That goes in the front of Sabalinka. Rebecca. Point again to the front of Sabalinka. Into the front of Rebecca. Sabalinka gets the point. Rebecca in the net. Rebecca in the net. Sabalinka. Championship point number three. Man, what a nervous finale to this match. Here we go. Third time's a charm. That's what they say. Sabalinka. Championship point number three. To take the Australian Open. She serves. Out wide a fault. Jeez, that would have been a nice two. Second serve. Crowd of hyperventilating. Second serve. Second serve is into the front of Rebecca. Back in out Sabalinka. Down the line. Rebecca gets it. But it's out from Sabalinka. The return, the backhand was out. And we're back to Deuce. Chat, I want you to tell me with one emoji, how are you feeling? That was out by this much. How are you feeling with one emoji? One, I mean the emoji for me is... Like I don't know why I'm nervous. I'm just nervous. I'm nervous for Sabalinka. I'm nervous for Rebecca. I'm nervous. Good serve though Sabalinka. Four now into the open court. It's a winner. There's another one. Okay, she just needs to do that one more time. It's as easy as that. Championship point number four. The roller coaster that is Sabalinka. Full effect right now. Advantage Sabalinka. Fourth time. Look. It would be a fairytale finish if she serves an ace. Come on. It would be a fairytale finish. She would have come full circle. Championship number four. She serves. Down the tee. The front of Rebecca and her return goes in the back of the Sabalinka. For now Rebecca and her into the front of Sabalinka on the stretch. Rebecca and her forehand down the line is out. Sabalinka is the champion. She's on the ground and she is the champion.  She's laughing. She's having a... She's laughing. It's hilarious. The funniest thing ever happened. She finally gets the trophy. It took her four attempts. She is bawling her eyes out. Sabalinka's the champion. What a win. And look. Rebecca and her Sabalinka they hug it out. That's... No, I love to see that. You'd love to see that. Good sportswoman ship. Rebecca will have her time again. Don't you worry. She won't be... She will be back again. Don't you... Don't stress. But Sabalinka takes the dub. And she's only dropped one step for the year. She's won 11 matches in a row. 11 matches in a row. Sabalinka. She's the Australian Open Champion. GGs. Love that. Love that for Sabalinka. Didn't quite finish with an ace. But her serving tonight. Off the charts. Almost 50 winners. Almost 50 winners in the match. And what a... I mean tennis. How different does it look now? We've got champions in the top 10 that are young. We've got Sviontek on three. We're Sabalinka on one. This could be a game changer for Sabalinka.  She might be on a rampage after this Sabalinka. Rebecca is in the top 10. She's got a slam. Jabez, two-time finalist. I mean that we're just getting started. It's 2023. WTA tennis might be getting back to its best. Rebecca in a wave to the crowd says thanks for the support. And that makes it seven in a row. Coming back from a set down at Slams for Sabalinka. I think it's hard court Slams. Is that the thing? Man. What a win. Love that for Sabalinka. She is bawling her eyes out. She cannot contain herself. Now, I'm a man of my word. I'm also, oh, I could just kind of do it. I'm also mad enough to admit that I got it wrong, just. And because I didn't get it right, I'm going to give the chat and congratulations to Zach. This is why we trust Zach. That's why Zach knows. I'm going to donate 10 members in the chat. Stick around. If you are leaving, don't forget to subscribe and all that stuff, but you've probably gone already. So, whoops. Whoops. Here we go. Like the video on the way out. But thank you, everybody, for playing along. Man, what a match. What a match. What the best match of the tournament? Best match of the tournament. 10 members coming to you. Good luck to everybody out there. Who wants a membership? Hello. Who wants a membership? All right. There you go, chat. All yours, chat. You weren't it, I think. Did you? I mean, well, you got it. There you go. The winners are Vipin, Hector, Sheshear, Tim, Natalie, Princess, Neil, Gokul, and Tridev, and Margarita. Oh, wait. No, you guys were just checking your points. Sorry. I just named a whole bunch of random people that didn't even get members. Hang on. Take that back. Margarita, Kuros, KC, Emily, Manuel, Vims, Rashad, Manan, and Amelia. Congratulations, you guys entered. There you go. There you go. I was reading out all the people that were checking their points, so.  Who went back? If you went Sabalenka, your points just went through the roof because most people bet the other way. Man, GGs, what a match. What a final. We're going to stick around for a while. We've got nothing else to do. I don't know where to be. I don't know plans. Chat, we're sticking. We're sticking around. What's going on, Chat? How are we going? I went Sabalenka. Win-win. By the way, we're almost at 122.1K. We're only nine away again. Thank you so much, everybody. This is the final time we see you until the next women's event, which is happening in a couple of weeks. So stay tuned. Sabalenka, Rabakina, Fiontech, all in action. Thank you for joining us. It's been a great couple of weeks. I don't know how many women's matches we watched, but I'm pretty sure we watched at least half of the streams of being ladies matches. So I'm so happy that we've done that by accident, not on purpose. It just so happens that sometimes the women's matches are better and more exciting to match up. So again, thank you so much, everybody, for sticking around. Do come back for the final. If, for the men tomorrow, if you care about that, if you don't, we'll see you next time Sabalenka is so powerful, no one will stop her all hail Sabalenka bow before the lady from Belarus, IGA Time, is over. The future number one is here. Yeah, calm your cold. I bet all my points on Sabalenka. Yes, go Sabalenka cam you were hard on on her and she proved you wrong Yes, she did. Thank you soul for pointing out the obvious.  I Really wish she served an ace on championship point. That would be an epic But I love that for her, but hey a wins a win. You take it, right? You'll take it. Okay By the way, who? Oh Thank you, Bryce Rise with a five give you never do that, mate. Appreciate it. I Thought you went with it. Weren't you against weren't you on the other side? Appreciate that. Thank you so much for the five. So dragon Chris carry EJ and son all members Welcome back. Welcome back dragon carrying EJ back in new member son and Chris. So appreciate that Thank you, thank you, Bryce. That was very generous wait a stick around for a while or ceremony all that fun stuff Unbelievable Arena Thorolanka goddess of thunder if I am a WTA player I would not want to play her on hard court or grass court. This will only fuel her confidence Exactly. Thank you ready for the donation. Yes Thorolanka lady Thor. I Mean look, that's that's been the nickname of the tournament We haven't made it many nicknames up this event for that one that one sticks that one's gonna stick Lady Thor Thorolanka Hammer Lenka, I mean, that's the name That's the name And yeah, look I picked it a win Wimbledon And I'm feeling pretty good about that now I'm feeling pretty good about that now Hopefully she can play Wimbledon apparently knew a bit of an update apparently Wimbledon are feeling the pressure of the world saying let him play so Hopefully that pressure Makes them cave. All right, Todd Woodbridge master of ceremony is getting this job done on the on the mic Let's have a listen what they have to say. I can't play it if I could I would maybe one day Sabrina only 4,000 points behind Fiontech. Yeah, look only 4,000 is a lot Only 4,000 is a lot. That's two grand slams. She's got to win two more slams to catch that Indian Wells Miami. I mean look Saber Lenka could win Miami Right out of the two slams coming up to so the two masters coming up Saber Lenka could win Miami and I still I say cam she'll fill your prediction Number one in the end of the year. I'm still thinking Shreontek's number one at the end of the year But Saber Lenka is gonna make it interesting and that's what we wanted at the end of last year things will you know Everyone's not everyone but a lot of people are saying hey look Having Shreontek wins great, but she needs we want. Where's the competition at? The competition is here these two ladies of the competition At least two of them anyway, there might be more. I mean Garcia is still there Goff Beach Shreontek 2 so look WTA tennis is getting familiar names. I love it That was a slug fest. We've been waiting for in the grand slam final for at least a couple of years. Yeah Yep, if you don't like women's tennis and you only like men's tennis this match Would probably be the closest to a an ATP match based on power if that's what you like You like big shots hard-hitting winners The I mean this was the match if it maybe hopefully this converted a lot of people into watching women's tennis because this is what it can This is what it can be like I mean these ladies are probably gonna hit harder than tomorrow's men's matches. Maybe not served but I Mean, I don't think city pass Jocovic. You're gonna hit the ball as hard as these two ladies off the ground Or maybe even close to equal I mean close Billie Jean King by the way is on the court giving out this trophy It's been traveling the world and now it is back with a couple of scratches. I Thought Rebecca would win as she was playing Shreontek for much of 2022 She was playing playing like Shreontek, but Sabling found a way. Yeah Like I said at the start of this match I I picked Rebecca I wouldn't I didn't care If Sabaleca won it wouldn't be devastating because it's still awesome for tennis that we're getting young grand slam champions And look Sabaleca is consistent. She's been in the top 10 the last few years She now has a slam Rebecca is also, you know two times slam finalist now. She's in the top 10 to We're just getting started We might I don't like to say big three in any of that because I don't think we have a big three That's not gonna be a thing, but we do have We've got Pagola who's been around for a while consistently We've obviously got Shreontek dominating Jabir's been in a few slam finals. So as we're back in an hour She's got a win and a loss and Sabling is now gonna win. So it's like that's a nice five That's a nice five. Plus you've got, you know Garcia in the top 10 Zachary's been in the top 10 for a while Golf is only getting better, right? So it's a very nice looking top 10 Very even looking. Shreontek's on the points way ahead, but These two ladies beat Shreontek You know, so it's it's not all it's not the Shreontek to her She's just on top of the but I think she will win that I still think she'd be number one But I think she's the most all-round player the best all-round player, but I we're getting we're getting challenges I love it. Barty's gone 12 months ago. Barty won this, right? Last 12 months was Shreontek taken over here, right? And now it's like all right Now we've got we've got some real real interesting matchups to want to want to see I want to see what they play like on the on the Honestly what they play like on the what do you call it on the clay against Shreontek these two ladies? All right, I don't know who this is talking about Amazing believe Unbelievable unbelievable I don't care about what I was saying the good news for Ego with Thorolanka as number two means.  Yeah, she wouldn't lose a lot of points True true. Thank you gratitude for the 2 so for the 5 um. Yeah. Yeah. That's that's true That is true She'll be number 2 a void of to the finals Incredible Hey, thank you, Yen, for the seven. Appreciate it. Can Lady Thor win Wimbledon? Yes, she can. I picked that. Yes. I want to see these two play the Wimbledon final. Let's get that. Let's get this replay on grass. I want to see the defending champ versus the old open champ versus the Wimbledon champ. Let's get it. Here we go. Rebakken is going to have a nice big vibranium frisbee. Here we go. Look, people in the chat that are like talking and not happy with the ceremony, look, cry more, all right, cry less. Just if you're not happy with the ceremony, just mute it. It's fine. Cry less. Cry less. All right, the big frisbee. The big old disc. She's got two of them now. One's a Wimbledon one. And then there's a whole other frisbee that she's trying to open. It's just a less fancy frisbee. It's a silver frisbee. First, I would like to congratulate Irina. And she's like, I know how hard you've worked. And I'll see your team. And good luck for the rest of the season. And we can have many more battles. We can have many more battles. Yes, please, please. Women's tennis also needs rivalries. We don't have any. We don't have many. We're like, I mean, Sabalenka, Fjontek's getting there, right? Rebakken of Sabalenka? Still, what do I say, Chad, about matchups? Does anyone know what I say about matchups? I didn't even listen to myself. So I should really probably listen to myself more often. What do I say about matchups, Chad? Thanks so much for the support to her team, she says. What do I always tell you guys about matchups? All right. Thank you for someone whose family is watching. Thank you for this atmosphere. It's amazing. Felt really good playing here. Everyone was cheering for us. And everybody is unbelievable. And hope I can do it again next year. Oh, yeah. Matchups matter. Sabalenka's never lost against Rebakken of 4-0, all three-setters though. So it doesn't matter a time before it goes the other way, but we know that every time they play, it's going to be three sets. That's a given. Love for that. A lot of ball kids. Thank you so much for the ball kids. Hit two weeks for me. Hopefully next year I'll have the same result and even better. Well, look, Rebakken has already got to win because she's now going to be validated as a champion and in the top 10. So she got the points. She didn't get 2,000 points, but she got the points that got her into the top 10 that should have been for Wimbledon, right? She would have been number three with Wimbledon, I think. It would have been Fionnsek Sabalenka, Rebakkena, one, two, three. All the champions from the last 12 months, right? Great speech, by the way, great speech. Great speech. For someone who lost, that was a very composed speech. No, she cried more in the Wimbledon final when she won it. Good speech, good speech. All class, yep, great speech, great speech. Tell you what, that trophy does look good on Sabalenka. Not going to lie. That does suit her. Finally a champion. First, I want to say sorry for my English. Love that. Because I'm still shaking, love it. Billie Jean King gives the trophy. Thank you for, it's an honor talking to Billie Jean King. Honored to have you here. Thank you. Not that neon, neon green, neon green glasses from Billie Jean. You're such a great player, talking to Rebakkena now for the last two weeks. Hopefully we make another final of Grand Slamms. Congrats to your team. You guys are amazing. Now Sabalenka is in hysterics. Rebakkena is laughing too. This is probably the best ceremony. This is the nicest ceremony ever. Everybody's so happy. Even Rebakkena. This is a lovely final. This is a lovely ceremony. Thank you everybody who makes this happen. All the, thank the sponsors, thank the ball kids, thank the Lions people that aren't there. So thank you Hawkeye, but also who cares. Thank you, their referees and blah, blah, blah. Sponsors, thank the crowd. Tick the boxes, you gotta tick the box, he's saying. Thank you crowd for the atmosphere. Thank you so much. That was a short and sweet, short and sweet. Oh, she's still gone. And thank you to my team who are the craziest team who are off. This guy, I don't, like, I think Sabalenka's coach is really young. You're really young, but he's just jumped on the Sabalenka team, right? He's not like a relatively new coach to her, right? Straight away, it's like. You deserve this more than me, her team. I love you guys, thank you. Good speech. And they all give the heart. They're all giving hearts. Good team, love that. Good team, love that. Still talking. Hopefully I'll come back stronger next year. And play even better tennis. It's gonna be hard. And you can support me again for one more. Thank you. That was a good speech, good speech. By both, that was a very class of speech by both.  But hey, when you win a slam, I mean, she was laughing when she was crying. Okay, what? I mean, look. Chat. Goat, goat. Greatest of all ties, Mount Goat. Hey, thank you, Joe for the 20. Appreciate that, Joe. Appreciate it. Hey, and thank you, Angia, for the $5 Super Sticker. I appreciate that as well. But Chat, look, she has only lost one set and she's on an 11 match win streak, Sabalenka. 11 win, zero losses for the year. She is on a wreck at the moment. Watch out. Love Sabalenka's personality. Yeah, she's kind of like, she has got a mevadev, like a little quirky, kind of personality, joking. She's a very, she loves to dance on TikTok. She is, she is a personality for sure. Well, thank you, Liz for becoming a member. Appreciate that. And thank you, LA for coming back for three months. Whoops. Unbelievable. Thank you, LA for the three months. She dances on TikTok, or she did. I don't know if she does. Still. Okay, Sabalenka kissing the trophy, getting the photos. Now the tennis world looks very interesting. 24-year-old Sabalenka winning a trophy. 23-year-old Rabakin has got Wimbledon. 21-year-old Shfiantex got three. Jabirah, 26, has got two finals to her name. Goffett, 18's got a final. Pagula's got a million quarter finals. She needs to convert that to semis. I mean, these are the names. This is the future, the future is now. Is that right, Chad? The future is now, is that what they say? The future is now. This is the now generation.  But they're the, that's the players. They're the players. Okay, now, it's a ground for a little bit longer. Because some of you might be like, Cam, when are we gonna see these ladies play again? I'm gonna tell you, that's my job. So the next time we're gonna see Sabalenka and Rabakina at the very earliest is it gonna be in Doha. Because in Doha, Qatar opened very big tournament in February, two weeks. Actually on Valentine's Day. So I might actually be busy that night that day because Valentine's Day, I might have a date. You know what I mean? Like I might not have a date. Anyways, so, when are they playing? That was the question, right? So the question, so Abu Dhabi is happening in a couple of weeks. We've got Jabir playing that. Kazakina, Kudamatova, Benchich, Collins. Rabakina is playing that, but she might not play that, depending on how she pulls up after this. So that possibly is when we see Rabakina again and that is happening in two weeks time. Sorry, yeah, two weeks time. Oh no, Monday week. Linz, we have Sakri playing that. No, Sabalenka, Sabalenka won't play for a while. When she does play, it'll probably be in Doha. Because we're gonna have Shveontek, Jabir, as I said. Shveontek, Jabir, Kagula, Garcia, Sabalenka, Goff, Kazakina, Kudamatova. Pretty much the entire top 10, except for Sakri. She won't be playing that event. Rabakina is also on that list. She's actually in the qualifiers of that. Goat, goat, goat, goat, goat. Greatest of all time. His belt. Goat. Cameron, thanks you for out coverage, best stream ever. Hey, thank you, Peaches for the 20. That's very generous of you to say it. Appreciate the 20. So yeah, so I would be shocked if Rabakina played next week, really, or two weeks from now. I think they'll both be seen in Doha when Shveontek and all the big guns come back, and then that's the first time. So only two weeks, we have to wake, Chad. Two weeks. Unless Sabalenka goes on a three month vacation, Nick Kira style bender, I don't think, I think we're gonna see them back in a couple of weeks time in Doha, and then we're gonna see them obviously at the WTA 1000 event in Dubai, it's a huge event. Shveontek's the defending champion of Doha as well, remember that. So I'm excited. I think it's not gonna be long before, and if you don't watch tennis that much and you don't know the scene, most of you are thinking, oh, Indian Wells is the next event. Well, that's what they wanna think, they wanna want you to think on Breakpoint. They go straight from here to there. They go to, they go so many, so many places between then and now. These ladies are gonna play again a couple of times. So not, maybe against each other. Who knows. But yeah, that is, that's when we're gonna see them again. It's like a lift the trophy with one hand. Like sir, Thor with Milnia. Lady Thor with Milnia, just lift in that trophy like a hammer. Told you she was Lady Thor. We knew that. We knew that. Okay, we don't care. What are you still doing here? What are you still doing here if you don't care? What are you doing here? I'm sorry, you must be lost. This is the women's final. We're talking about these ladies playing the final. Are you lost? You must be lost, sir. The men's finals tomorrow, we'll see you then. Sad for Alina and she'll win more, many more times. Yeah, yeah. Look, it's sad, like, she wouldn't get another chance. I think we all understand that, right? Well, Sabalenka just got a talking to her from the guy with the gloves. All right, glove man. Mr. White Gloves, all right. Don't touch the top of the trophy, please. I've won the freaking thing, glove man. Put your gloves away. Like, what are you, that's stupid, glove man. You can't touch the top because you'll leave fingerprints. All right, wipe it off with a towel. Let the champion lift her trophy.  All right, hold that trophy with your gloves. You don't deserve to hold that trophy with your silly gloves.  What do you say? It looked like he was telling her not to touch the top of the trophy. Like, just don't leave fingerprints. It makes it tough for me to clean. That's your job. You'd be out of a job if it wasn't a dirty trophy. Sure, I have to learn what Sabalenka did. Who's that? We're not allowed a fingerprint. Yeah, no fingerprints, for God's sake. Don't kiss the thing. COVID. This was crazy, yeah. We have Salt Bay in Australia. Oh, God. Can we not? Can we not? Geez, that would be crazy. Why is he here? The state of Thor's attendance is so worth it, Adamola.   Thoralenka, that's it, Rowdy. Thoralenka, it's official. That's her nickname. Thoralenka, Lady Thor, anything related to Thor and the hammer. That's Sabalenka. We coined the nickname. Rowdy coined the nickname Thoralenka. Lady Thor was approved by chat and that's what we're doing. That's what she's called from now on. What else we got? Can we deserve to lift the trophy? I do have a trophy. I'll show you my trophy. I got a trophy, chap. I got a trophy. Remember? I'm not wearing gloves. Ah! Oh, no. Arrest me, glove man. Don't arrest me. Oh, man. I'm gonna have to clean that. It actually left fingerprints. Nope, anyways. What's a trophy if you can't hold it? I should have eaten it. Talk about tomorrow's match. Talk about tomorrow's match. Talk about tomorrow's match. Talk about tomorrow's match. Talk about tomorrow's... See how annoying that is? Dude, that's annoying. Talk about tomorrow's match. Dude, you know how annoying that is? We're recapping the final. We're gonna talk about tomorrow's match. I've got a video coming out. You can go watch that. I have a trophy from Thailand. Good one. Tomorrow's match will be in a video. It will be and then we'll talk about tomorrow's match for six hours tomorrow when we go live. Video's coming out probably in the next half an hour. Nothing to talk about tomorrow's match. We all know who's winning that. Yeah. Who? But who's winning it? Who? Who's taking the win chat? We are reveling in the wind. Exactly. We need to celebrate Sabalenka for a bit. We move on too early with tennis, right? We're always like, all right, next. We got to celebrate Sabalenka a little longer. Tomorrow will come tomorrow. Let's just keep an eye on, let's just focus on today. Tomorrow can wait. It's all good. We'll get there. It's all right. It's inevitable. It's coming tomorrow. We'll get there. We're sweet. Who's playing again? But tomorrow? The ladies doubles final. I think that's what they were referring to. Tomorrow's doubles final. Kretjikova is playing in the doubles with Sinir Kovar. So that's happening tomorrow. I've lost all my points, but I overslept. Oh, no. If tomorrow never comes, then it's been a great run, all right? We've had a great run and good luck in the apocalypse. All right? Well, hopefully I'll see you on the other side. All right? We'll be fine. That'd be all right, chat. If tomorrow never comes, there's probably other things we have to worry about. There's probably other things to worry about than who wins the match. Will Sidney Bass win tomorrow? Maybe. Maybe.  Maybe. Can't wait till tomorrow.  Now, um, Sabalenko. Hey, thank you for the donation. Appreciate that. Thank you for the donation. Greatest of all times, Mount Goat. Thanks for the awesome stream. This is great for WTH years. Thank you, LA for the 20. If Sidney Bass plays his top level, can do it. Thank you, Rowdy, for the two. Yeah, look. We'll talk about that tomorrow for sure. No worries, LA. I hope, look, I hope this match does get a lot more people into WTA because we love WTA.  And I hope a lot of people get, like I hope some of you who maybe are here now are like, oh, I never watched this. Hopefully now you do. Hopefully it's like, oh, this is actually really, really fun. At least that's how I feel. Especially after matches like this, when you're like, it's still the same, it's still tennis, right? Still epic, still nerve-wracking, still exciting. This match was awesome, yeah. Match of the tournament. Match of the tournament. 50 winners from Sabalenko as well.  Cam, one of the best LAN finals. In the women's, on the WTA, it's one of them. It's definitely one of them. I think the women of final last year was pretty epic. Was pretty epic. I think Barty winning last year from personally was my, and then winning Wimbledon as well. The women of final with Barty and Pliska was really good. That was nerve-wracking for me, but also the match was epic. So it's probably not the best final of all time, but it's definitely recent times. It's been one of the better ones. Thanks for streaming. It was good. No worries. Thank you, Housie. Yeah, 51 winners is epic. Plus only 28 errors. And we're backing up with 29 winners, 25 errors. I mean, she played well as well. You know, they both played really well. Thank you, Adam Ola, appreciate it. Do I like Vegemite sandwiches? Is that an insult?   What are you trying to say? That we're all from a land down under? And we all eat Vegemite sandwiches because the song said so? Come on, chat. Yes, I do. That's beside the point. It's got nothing to do with the song. Yesterday's, I got first position in my exams.  Because you hang out on this channel. That's why you got number one. You're on this channel. That's why. If you weren't a part of this chat, you would have probably been second and second is the first of the losers. That's what they say. That's what Ibrahimovic said. If you're not first to last, Ricky Bobby. Congratulations though. That's awesome. Good on you. If we're back in, like we're back under Sabalenka, we're going to take over top two after the French. No. Fiontech is sitting, she was probably sitting watching this final going, all right. These are my two biggest threats. How do I, she's scheming. Fiontech is scheming her and her coach. She's going, how do we beat these big hitters? How do we beat these big servers? They're scheming. They're scheming. Fiontech ain't gonna know no way. I think she's just going to roll over and let these two ladies take over her spot.  You're just a part of it. Imagine when we would have fought between these two. That would be epic. I would want to see that. Very much so. What is the men's final start tomorrow? It starts at the same time as tonight's final. So it starts very, very soon. Fiontech is taking French and Wimby, my heart says. Ooh, Wimby, I don't know about Wimby, but I could get on board with the French. Sabi is strutting rock in the trophy. Oh, she is. The trophy looks good on her. She knows how to walk around with that trophy. She knows. Next tournament after this. Next tournament after this is going to be, maybe Rotterdam or Doha. That's the next tournament's up to this. We're gonna take a little break because we've had a long couple of weeks, long month. I mean, tennis starts with a punch in the face. It's like, you know, we're on Christmas, we're having food, we're all eating, we're having a great time, and then all of a sudden it's like, bam! Punch right in the mouth. Tennis, tennis, tennis, tennis, tennis. You know, just multiple head shots. And then, February we relaxed. We're like, oh, Jesus. Didn't even give me a warning. Just turn around and smack right in the mouth. Tennis all around. So we'll get a little break and then we'll get back into it. But, yeah, we just gotta digest all this madness. Okay, chat. Now, what do I have to do now? Now I have to, we have to look forward because there is another final. But we're not gonna talk about it here because I made a video about it. I'm not gonna, why would I make a video if, and then just ruin it? So that video is gonna come out in the next hour. Stay tuned. Djokovic versus City Pass preview, of course, in 24 hours. We will probably know, or at least we'll have two sets of one idea of who is gonna win the Australian Open for the Benz. One match to go, chat. We've watched 50 odd matches. And it's been the most we've ever watched on this channel at the Australian Open. It's been somehow I'm still alive. So thank you, chat. If I am seeing you for the last time, I will see you next time we watch the WTA, which will be in a few, probably a week or two time. But again, thank you everybody who donated.  I appreciate the support as always. Thank you for subscribing, liking the videos, contributing to the chat. But we've got one more match to go. If I don't see you then, I'll see you next time when we watch these two ladies. But arena Sabalenka is a Grand Slam champion. That has a nice ring to it. Sabalenka champion of Australia. She takes out Rabakina, the Wimbledon champion. We've got three current champions. Sabalenka, Oz Open champ. Wimbledon champion, Rabakina. Fiontech's got the French in the US. It has a good ring to it. They're the three best players on the planet in my opinion. Let's see how it plays out in the next couple of months because we've got some big events coming up for the WTA. Men's final tomorrow. Sabalenka wins three sets. Back from a set down four, six, six, three, six, four. She takes out the Wimbledon champion. Rabakina wins her first Grand Slam.


Hi, it's Fritid. Welcome to Above Life Channel. This video is a bit unique. It will not be a channeling conversation, but rather it will be a conversation about something that will help to support you as a spirit living in a human body. And so this whole week you will see videos from me where I will share intended to create support for you and encourage connection. Again, the purpose of above life spirit is to inspire your spirit and fill you up with hope because this is your life, so live it. I hope this week these videos will help inspire you to live. All right, so today I'm actually going to respond to a question. Do you guys know, recognize that I actually read your comments? Now, I know, I know sometimes on YouTube world it's like bizarro land, and there are some kind of nasty comments. So please just ignore those, you guys, and focus on the positive, focus on the good. And there are some really great value added comments that are out there on on the videos that I've shared. So thank you for those. I appreciate the thoughtful comments. Now, one of the questions that I got in a comment that I read was about how to let me see if I can get it right here. The person asked, why is it that I talk about feeling or sensing some spirits in a different way wherein some souls, why are some souls not totally crossed over? Like what does that mean Bridget? When you feel somebody as a spirit in the afterlife as a medium as I'm describing feeling their spirit and they don't really feel like they're totally spirit. What does that really mean Bridget? It's a question I got, which is a fantastic question. I think I'm pretty sure it was probably related to one of those MJ videos. And y'all know if you watch the MJ, the Michael Jackson playlist, you know that I was a Michael Jackson fan, like mega fan, moonwalking and everything. Thank you very much. I'm not about to show you that now because I'm a little rusty. But the MJ videos I shared in channeling, I shared about how he felt his spirit at the time that I channeled him really felt like he was kind of in not fully embracing the afterlife. Now, I'm always cautious about the way that I describe that particular energy. If there is a spirit that I'm channeling whether it's through a private session with someone, I'm being a medium because that's my job. That's what I do. And I'm talking about someone who used to be a person and is now in spirit form, and they have left their body. And so they're in spirit. So I should be able to connect with them in the afterlife as a spirit, which I do and I can. But sometimes they don't feel fully spirit. Now, why is that? There is a lot of reasons, you guys. I have been doing this for 14 years. So I've had a lot of dead people experience and a lot of different stages. And truly, it's a choice. It really goes down to that whole free will concept when we have a mind and a connection to our own personal individual choices that God source creator universe, whatever our source power is, has created within us free will freedom to choose freedom to have a choice. We are the masters of our decisions are fate. We really are. And the fate is determined based upon our choices that we make. And I'm not talking fate like you're good or you're bad. I'm talking we create manifest to make life ourselves and we co create with the energy of our spirit. And in the afterlife, your spirit has choice.  Have you ever felt judgmental about yourself?  Have you ever been hard on yourself? Have you ever been in those states like felt really negative really down on yourself? Well, when you go into afterlife, when you are the spirit of a person who has felt like that in their human life, maybe with good reason, maybe they were kind of jerks. Let's be honest. There are people who have been abusive. There are people that have abused their power. There are people that have been just incredibly, incredibly irresponsible is like a minimal word to use, but has created a lot of pain, a trail of pain. And they recognize when they leave their human body and they become full spirit, they recognize that the things, some of the choices they made in their lives were not things that they would ever want to make again. Or they would, they recognize the waste kind of the wasted choices, you know, and it's not about regret or remorse. I don't want people to live life because they're scared of making a bad choice or scared because they're going to do something bad or wrong. That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about when the spirit leaves the human experience and looks back on the human experience and says, okay, so these are some points in my life where I could have chosen differently. And I'm not looking at this and having a review of my life so that I can feel bad. I'm having this so I can let go and forgive myself. The spirit must forgive themselves. And the forgiveness detaches them from that human experience, whether they created trauma or they were the perpetrator of crime or pain or irresponsible decision making, let's say. They have the choice to forgive and then let go of that part of that life moment. And sometimes spirit doesn't do that very readily. It could take some time. Spirit needs to heal sometimes too. And so what happens is, and you guys all describe this too, it's so cool. I've seen it multiple times in the afterlife when I'm in session. And now with famous people too, I've seen it a few times where a spirit that has recently passed over like recent as in the last three months or so, sometimes feels a little more people like human like than they do spirit like. And it's simply because they're in the process of evolving and fully transitioning into spirit. It doesn't mean they're not in heaven. It doesn't mean they're stuck. It doesn't mean they're not in the afterlife. It doesn't mean that. It doesn't mean they're agonizing. They might be, but it doesn't necessarily mean that. Do not assume that. But I can see a lot of times what happens is they go into like a healing like when you have a surgery and you need care that you can't just get at home, you stand in the hospital for a while and you're cared for. And then sometimes after the hospital, while your body is healing, and you're probably trying to get through those nights at the hospital, you know, it's not a pleasant experience, but maybe you're trying to, your body needs to heal. Then maybe after that, maybe you go to a rehabilitation facility because it's like a hip surgery or knee surgery or something. And you need to work on learning, teaching that knee, how to walk that hip, how to walk again or find your balance again or whatever it might be. You go to another place to help get the help you need for that.  It takes a progression of healing and support from others. And so what I see in the afterlife with spirit sometimes is that they enter into, they enter into a place kind of like that, like a hospital, like a hospice for spirit, but not to leave their body, not, not to end life, but to embrace eternal life, to understand what that is and how to do that kind of a thing. And they might learn, they might take classes, they might, you know, learn how they might be like getting, you know, in a rehab rehabilitation facility or a care center, like a nursing home kind of a scenario, but for spirit to learn how to fully, more fully embrace the afterlife in an eternal way and to heal through some of their human stuff if they need to do that. And so that's, I've seen that a lot and that's a good thing you guys. And let me just say spirit chooses. So they don't choose because they're bad. And so like even people that do commit horrific acts, you don't need examples because you can figure it out yourself. Horrific things as people in the afterlife, they get to choose about healing. They get to choose about that process of they can just go right into the afterlife.  Sorry, but they can, they can release the any guilt or anything that they had. And it's not about repentance and punishment and forgiveness from other people and their victims. It's about themselves and the forgiveness within themselves. And if they can live with themselves in the afterlife and the eternal life, and oftentimes they might think they can. So they leave and they're like all in the afterlife and all of a sudden they're like, wait a minute, I'm in the afterlife like a kid going off to college and has no idea how to manage a checkbook, how to pay the grocery bills, how to manage their study time for classes. I mean, they have no idea what to do. And so then they get help, help from spirit guides, help from mentors in the afterlife, all that kind of stuff. And so everybody has equal energy choices in the afterlife. And I know that's not, doesn't feel very good because you kind of feel like, well, what about karma? Well, that's a whole another video right now. We're talking about the energy of spirit and why I describe some spirits as feeling a little different. Not like they're not totally in the afterlife, but they're their spirit. It's not because they're stuck. They're not being punished. They're making a choice. And sometimes spirit can be misguided and feel so connected to the people they left behind that they don't want. They don't know how to let go of the pain and the connection that connects those, those energies as painful and not loving. And that's what grief is pain, but it's, it's there because of the absence or the memory of the loving piece of it. So grief and love are actually kind of intertwined and interwoven. And it's kind of messy at first after the person has, has died and moved into the afterlife. And sometimes the afterlife spirit definitely will serve the human spirit while they're grieving.  And so there's a process that we can do as people to consistently and continuously heal, to consistently relieve ourselves from pain of grief, relieve ourselves from past trauma and experiences that, that arguments or disagreements or even violent experiences with other people trying to come to terms with a father who was abusive or a brother who mistreated you horribly. And there's so many different degrees to that. So I don't need to explain it. You can identify perhaps with some of these different degrees, varying degrees of confusion that kind of happens after somebody dies. It's like that's confusion. Like I loved them, but I hated them for what they did to me or how they hurt my mom or they hurt my sister or they hurt my brother or what have you. And then trying to come to terms with all these confusing emotions can be challenging. So the spirit in the afterlife may serve, try to serve or be in service to the family or the one who was grieving. And sometimes that can be complicated. This is a time when you really should contact somebody who's a medium and, and a grief counselor, grief counseling, or even going to a counselor to talk through how you're feeling, not to get over it, but to move through it to honor and witness the process of the grieving experience of the loss of a loved one is important. You need support. You need support as the human being that you are. You need that. And then you can also talk to a medium. But if you talk to a medium, a good medium will also recommend or be sure that you're talking to a grief counselor, or they will suggest you talk to a counselor because it's not just a one time thing and you're fine. You're done. It's not like, oh, I'm all good now. Okay.  It's not like that. It comes back. You know, grief is a process. Healing is a process as well. And so lots of information here in this video, but I wanted to share with you, I think it's really important that you understand that just because I describe a spirit as feeling different, like a little bit closer to their body or closer to the human experience versus closer to the afterlife. It doesn't mean they're stuck. It doesn't mean they're in pain. It doesn't mean they're being punished. Please, please never think that a spirit is being punished. And even though there are some spirits that you probably want to be punished as people, it doesn't work like that in my experience thus far. Now, I've only been doing this for like 14 years. So I mean, you never know, something new could show up or I could have a different kind of experience from I'm sharing with you what my experiences are and what I know. And if that changes, I'll certainly let you know, but keep an open mind and use your own discernment as well. But please don't worry about spirits like Michael Jackson, when I talked about him in the afterlife, he's got some stuff he's working on. And he has spirit guides as well that are helping him and he will, he will get some help that he needs to have. And so, but that's his choice, you guys, it's his choice, you know, and I've talked to him multiple times and I haven't shared all the things I've talked with him, the sessions I've had with him because that's just not, I don't feel like I need to be doing that. It's just a kind of a different process, you know. So I hope this is interesting to you. And I hope you appreciate it and I hope you know that I read your comments. And so, thank you very much. This is Bridget at Above Life Channel. Remember the purpose here is to inspire your spirit and fill you with hope to give you that courage to just live your life, just live it. Thank you so much for being here. I appreciate it very much.