All right, man. What's up everybody? How y'all doing? This is your boy the Dean W W dot the man mindset comm. Let's get into the show guys This show is being brought to you by let's go and do it the Paternity of excellence join the online brotherhood of exceptional men guys. This is also being brought to you by A tactical soap make sure you check out tactile soap also is being brought to you by Tate's War Room Make sure you check that out and last but not least The hot thing and a hot thing you've got to put that last say the best for last the 21 convention the Patriot condition That's coming out of Atlanta, Florida April 30th through May 3rd and also the 22 convention will be going on at the same time Guys, I'm gonna give you all a shout out for all my chatroom dogs out there want to say what's up to y'all Hope y'all are doing good for all the ladies out there that are listening to the show. How you ladies doing? I I am working on a new track. Hey guys, I'm working on a new track. So We'll have that out about it be a few days, but I'm happy I'm gonna finish working that on out But anyway, let me go and give this disclaimer for a lot of people out there so we can go ahead and let these people out of the room because We are on some serious stuff and again, we love you can joke around a goof off But if you're really taking it far left man We're gonna we're gonna have you leave because we want to help guys out. We have oops. Sorry.  This is not for you and We want to make sure that we are here to help you guys and we have a very great show today We've got a lot to talk about, you know I have the number to<PHONE_NUMBER> is a number<PHONE_NUMBER> is a number guys if y'all want to call in you have a question This is what this is for is this for me to help you out I'm also gonna read a chat room But we are gonna talk about something that nobody else is gonna talk about because a lot of guys don't even know What's really going on? Today when it comes now, um, you know for me like I tell you guys I got one more day Jacob Marley is visiting me in one day He's gonna he's gonna see me at midnight tomorrow night at midnight Marley is coming to visit me I'm telling y'all right now. He's coming to visit me. So I Do want to let y'all guys know and I Mean, this is my last week wearing this because Donovan Donovan wanted to bet. I bet I made a bet with Donovan and This MF is sending me a Philadelphia Eagle hat that I got to wear All week long So, you know what? I'm gonna pop on my cap because I got to wear this now because I'm gonna be disgusted Wearing that Philadelphia Eagle baseball cap, man I try to get man if my cowboys would have won I would have I had it boy guys I was ready to hit sin and buy it It was a Dallas cowboy onesie for adults with the little cute little booty slippers and everything Donovan would have to wear that for a week, but I lost the bet. So I'm gonna wear this right now because you know what? Oh my god, I gotta wear that damn hat that he's sending me But anyway, let's get into the show man If y'all want to call in y'all got the number 515 605 937 3 is the number I'm wearing this right now because I got to wear that that that Eagle hat So I might as well put on this to feel better of myself because that hat is coming in I think tomorrow So if I'm doing a show, I got every time I do every time I do a show for a week I've got to wear that hat. So anytime I'm live on the air for a week. I've got to wear that hat and oh Gosh, let's get into the show. All right guys. Anyway, let's get into the show this is a very important show that I want to talk to y'all about because we're getting closer in the year and 2020 is right around the corner for a lot of you guys now Let me talk to y'all guys now when when I was young, okay when I was a lad You know and everything was in black and white. There was no computers back in the day really no beepers I mean only the doctors lawyers and drug dealers had beepers One thing that I was taught at a young age was I I was told to Learn take typing now. I knew there were women in there So I took typing because I know the women were in there took home economics because I knew the women were in there but those things did teach me taught me how to cook a little bit and told me how to sew for myself and with typing that helped me as I got older because The thing about the world today That a lot of y'all don't understand and we're gonna be talking about this is that if you as a man Don't innovate you will be left up left behind and One thing that was lucky enough to take typing because as I was going into the real world Typing was important. You know, I was a baby to go 60 70 words a minute I will I will cold I'm cold with it when it comes to typing. I mean I can do it I can do it like it with my eyes closed and all that other stuff So it was it was keeping up with the times and at that time Computer program was coming in learning code and all that other stuff and and if you didn't innovate you would get left behind now For a lot of you guys out there, which I don't understand always tell you guys to watch the JLo movie There's a JLo movie out there called The Hustle Very important movie to watch if you have not seen that movie the hustle with JLo and then there's one called The Hustle with What is that chick the big chubby chick the one that the British chick that she always stumping over herself of the hustle They was called the whole it was called And Hathaway was in that movie. It was called The Hustle too. I don't know they both were hustle movies But they were showing women How to do the one thing that a lot of you guys are not doing now This is not to scare you this is not a fear tactic But we got to get into this and y'all got to understand what's going on because a lot of y'all don't get what's going on You know, there's a movie out there called The Terminator and like The Terminator it started off with just a computer You know someone creating a computer and the computer kind of helping you out and then The computer I don't know how it happened the computer had one thing called free thought and then once it started having free thought It started figuring things out started figuring out the human population and it started learning how to protect itself Then you know everything spun into the movie to terminate now.  Yes, we can agree at that no accountability Responsibility and all this other stuff, but you most of you are the same way See for you guys out there you should be driven by logic not emotion But for a lot of you guys out there the reason why you're not innovating and you will not innovate The only thing that's gonna change is the year and then you're just gonna get a year older Because every year you do the same things over you don't innovate why because you never accept any degree of the blame of why women are doing the things they want to do to you You guys are always always looking at YouTube's and reading books and listening to people always trying to find reasons why Certain solutions will not work.  You've been doing it at 2018.  They studying your behaviors. They're studying what you say They're studying what you think and when they follow you on Facebook or anything like that They study you by your post that you post they look at your life. They are always studying you because Like Jennifer Lopez in that movie and that Anne Hathaway movie the hustle and Jennifer Lopez movie I think the hustle. I think they both kind of same that They are always Studying their opponent and they're always studying your behavior gentlemen It is has nothing to do with this. I'm just I'm just being honest with you But I'm explaining why cuz you know me I'm not just gonna say something and not give you the reason Why I'm not that's what we don't do on this show on me Okay, we don't we don't do that what we want to do is We want to open your eyes We I want you to understand what is going on Because for the majority of you guys and you don't want a minute matter of fact I had a young man I talked to today proud of that young man He called me we talked. You know what he told me I hated you when I first knew when I first met you Steve. I hated you Why cuz I was following this guy that hated you because he hated you I hated you and I started believing what he was saying because I felt because Me following him. He was right and he hated you because you being honest He didn't want me to be honest. I Hated you for you trying to tell me to be honest and all this stuff until I Started at one day I don't know what it was I went to your website and then I started to see things And I started figuring things out and I started to see something different Well, I wanted to learn and I started to realize the person that was trying to spew hate because you teaching honesty and not deception He was the wrong one because of the hive mentality. But what I'm saying to you guys is this For a lot of you guys out there 2020 is no going to be no different than 2019. We're gonna talk about that We're gonna talk about that because a lot of you guys out there and then we're gonna talk about Your your thought process of also How you're gonna grow how how you grow as a man in 2020 we're definitely gonna talk about that because again, this is nothing about negative It's not not to knock you but this is not a cut a cuddle party and this is not me Making you feel better. I'm just being honest with you But for a lot of you guys out there you are going into 2020 Not knowing what you're gonna do with yourself and The number one reason why the most of you are gonna stay still on who you are Year after year after year is this reason right here Now not to mention the number one reason is that you are not focused on yourself. That could be number one You're worried about the trees outside. You're worried about the grass you worry about the government You worry about the family court system.     She is so let me ask you a question If it takes a thief to catch a thief Guess what if the thief knows of these moves then that that's how that's how thieves catch thieves Do you understand that companies hire hackers? Why so they can hack proof and do everything they can to protect What what their their their systems and their servers?   What they you guys have no idea They're not waiting for 2020 They've been working day and night Learning your behaviors because that's how women are see if something's happening here in the world women who are supposed to be emotional They're starting to use more logic They're starting to know the mega keep telling y'all chess board.  She knows Rob cruise. She knows Theo. She knows all she knows us all She knows us all But the difference now there's a difference between the freelance Ronan's the Rob cruises and the feels and stuff like that in the Whiskeys of the whiskey the dons of the world. There's a difference But we're gonna talk about that later then the majority of you guys out there There's a difference Guys What a lot of you guys don't know and a lot of you guys don't understand is that Y'all can look it up. It used to be they still have we should be called like 17 magazine or something or when you go to the grocery store and just take a moment look at the rack of magazines Somewhere in that rack is gonna be a rack for teenage little girls and they are doing nothing but giving Information and secrets about us at a young age. Don't believe me. Go to the eight. I always tell you don't believe me Go to the grocery store 17 magazine and all those little girl magazines five ways to understand a boy and ten ways to do this with a guy and How to know he's this way. I don't know that way. They are learning you at a young age and While you are growing with your body Your mind is not growing at the same rate as your body Because you are holding yourself back because all you're doing is pointing the finger and playing the blame game With the hive and the construct that are pushing you to think like them instead of being a free thinker and that's what y'all don't understand and As a guy who does those things okay as a guy who? chooses to be part of the Construct or the hive so to speak for a lot of you guys out there. I know and unfortunately the women know That most of you can't even stick to your own plan You can't even stick to what you say. You don't even know why you say it. You can't even own what you say You can't stick to your laws. You can't stick to your principles. You have no colds roots or ethics Now don't get me wrong. You have them, but they're based on Egg shells and they're based on sticks in hay Meaning they can be changed and adjusted whenever a woman comes in the play or You have given a woman a key to your house where she can come in and change you. That's what you don't understand You don't get things done.  They're saying you're lazy They're saying you make excuses and all you're doing is blaming Everybody except looking in the mirror and they know that that's why 2020 is gonna be bad for some of you guys But what they also know about muscle you guys that you have done repeatedly every year every year is That you do this every year and you don't know and matter of fact It's gonna probably I don't know you're probably a lot of yourself at on on the 31st You'll drink a little champagne You'll feel good about yourself. You'll go to bed and maybe The first day you I don't know you started exercising because you say you're gonna exercise You say you're quit smoking.  Hey, don't don't don't don't tell them to change right now Let's keep him thinking what he's doing right now and let him think that while that ball is dropping in New York Times wherever the hell that ball's dropping and and everybody's out and we're outside and they're cheering and they're hugging and They're happy and they're throwing up their hands and they're drinking their champagne and all other stuff And they say this is gonna be my year to change They know you're not gonna change because you shouldn't be waiting for a ball to drop from the top of New York where it would Times Square or whatever kept for you to change because they know you give up They know this but they're they're working on Themselves they're working on themselves and why is that? It's a few reasons They know and if this is not even the number one reason this is number zero, but I gave y'all one This is number Zero the number one zero reason and they do it don't a listen They lie to themselves. They are walking lies They know the hair the makeup the eyeliner and all that stuff.    Really? Well, let me tell you what they did us.  It's always gonna be them That's how you are But why you do that? See women are supposed to be emotionally connected to their phone because that's what women do But you don't realize how connected you are to the construct in the hive You don't realize That because of how you are You are always looking to be part of something because Nobody's ever told you you're supposed to be your own community You're not supposed to be part of something You're supposed to come together as a as a Individual community coming together with other communities But because you're part of the client in the construct because you follow people that have a hive mentality They teach you new languages. They teach you new words. I mean, it's funny. I asked Rosebud if y'all listen to the show I asked Rosebud Now Rosebud has been a pimp for over 57 58 years And I asked him have you ever heard of word hypergamy said fuck. No, I never would do it. What is that? He said that word has never been used on the street. I said I know I and y'all heard him say it y'all listen to show That's I'm saying y'all guys Have no idea how connected you are to the hive and the construct and it's not my fault You are what you are, but believe me those women are not Those women are not I'm telling you right now They it's not going to get quote-unquote better for you Because it can't get better for an individual who is scared to face a woman That's the truth That that's the truth man That that's it.   Oh My god a single mothers are terrible. Oh my goodness the sky is falling. Oh my gosh Now every every everything is the sky is falling with y'all guys But that's just how it is man But they also know this and then this is why a lot of you guys are not going to do what y'all need to do as far as growth Because when the times get tough Y'all don't get going y'all get broken You gotta understand something tough times breaks a lot of you guys because you're not prepared On how to handle tough times you Rejection she she said no to me all poor you all all the world's cold. There it is The sky is falling again. Here we go chicken little skies falling She said no to me. Oh my god, my world's over with She doesn't like me and she's not interested in me or she that's all y'all do y'all are broken But at the end of the day, it's not the fault or blame of Anybody on YouTube YouTubers are free to do what they want to say on YouTube and authors are free to write what they want to write in books It's you that believes the story They're only doing what they do, but what you understand is is you It's you and That is something that a lot of y'all guys don't even want to see don't even want to think about Some of you guys you don't know how to say no You're not willing to sacrifice yourself for anything come on man and And and and what's so sad is That all you guys the majority you guys out there Because of this instant Instant world where you get things instantaneously You want women and you want your relationship to be an instantaneous thing you want to be a man Instantaneously, but you are afraid of the process They're not afraid of the process because you know their process is their process is sitting down and Studying all the lies the tricks the gimmicks and the game.  That means when the stove is on I know common sense is gonna tell me not to touch it again But for unfortunate for a lot of you guys as you have been growing and as you've been getting older Common sense is something that has been leaving your body slowly To a point where quitting is the only option Because they know it's easy to quit It's easy to stop reading that book. It's easy to make excuses easy to walk away It's easy to go down the current instead of up the current but yet I I can't understand why I'm not winning boo who poured me so instead of me sucking it up I need to go find a YouTube or a group of people that feel like me and want to cuddle and cry about it So we can get together and all these women like this Which one of these guys do I want to make my Husband, who do I want to control?  That's all they doing and y'all don't even see it and I'm not the bad guy here.  You can't even engage in a normal conversation Without interviewing her. She knows that She knows that you are so dry that you can't even make people laugh She knows if she goes on a date with you or starts texting you or gives you an opportunity you have nothing to say You have nothing to discuss She knows this But she knows that you would do the same thing all day every day Because when she follows you around and these women do follow you around They see that you were a part of the hive that are always complaining That you don't have an opinion or thought your your opinion and Your your your thought are part of the construct and the hive that's what a lot of guys don't see and It's this and no no no it's this and that's what you got wrong sir and that six I've got your calls. I'm sorry six four six. I bring you one second. I'm sorry guys real talk. That's not true Social media has put girls on the pedestal decide to get a beta made easy. No, they don't they don't put it listen What you gotta understand? I'm about to bring in six four six and five seven four Wait, I'm not gonna provide something for it six four six. I bring you in but what you don't understand guys What's important here is this is that? Which I have to understand when it comes to this game out here the the thing about The marketers like I told you before with the youtubers on other stuff. They just put out information real talk It is us that believe the stories That are posted I got a close I'm gonna close I hold on a second. I got my I got my what you call it going crazy. Excuse me. I got excuse me I apologize for that. Let me see if I close that shit But anyway, we're gonna take calls if y'all want to call them five one five six or five nine three seven three It's a number, but we got a lot to talk about because I got we got a connectors because I want to show you that you know What these women are you becoming more dangerous? Okay? But that's what I'm saying. See a lot of y'all guys only here.  Let me say guys. I'm trying to do that But while I fix it, let me take a phone call real quick area code 646 suffering suffering long way 646 which question brother, what's up? No problem, bro What's up Steve's going on? I'm living your where I apologize. I'm sorry. I need to see the show room. So go ahead, sir I'm sorry. What's up? Oh Like I'm gonna be honest like you know hundred percent honest So I'm just now graduated from you know college. Okay, and I was in a you know relationship for you know Four years.  So like I don't know see them and for some reason. It's this fear of You know of approaching them. Yes, sir. So like I don't understand what's on going on Okay, okay, the fear the fear the fear is The lack of skills that you have not obtained for yourself. Follow me on this.  Okay. These are these are all skills Given all your information is a skill being assertive is a skill texting her is a skill Going on the date is a skill Making her blush smile Think react and laugh and get turned on our skills So when you lack skills when you lack the skills You are harder on yourself because you get nervous because you say to yourself, okay well if I and again, it's the fear failure and also the fear of success because For some for some of you's like, okay Well if I talk to her and she says no, I don't want to be rejected So I'm not gonna do it or well, what do I do if she likes me? I Mean, what am I good enough? Do I have this? Is that make any sense, sir? Yeah, but like I feel like I mean like could be that too, but in like my head I feel like it's on me no more but you know race thing like I'm you know black dude and then You know, sometimes Spanish girls only like, you know Spanish niggas, you know Trying to Here's my question here's my question and this is what this is a thank-you man show So can you tell me the lottery numbers for this weekend? No, okay, but why can't you cuz you you don't you can't dictate the future, right?  Well, then this this is your problem. Yeah, see the problem is is that Your mind is part of the hive as well because it's given you excuses not to do things.  Hey, baby. Yo mama. What's up girl?   You know what I mean and you and but what is it? But what is but of these things? What is there to fear? What what what is there really to now now?  Does that sound crazy to you me saying that? Well, what's the difference in what you're saying? That's just as crazy Because you don't know see that's what I'm listening You're never going to know unless you try Excellence is giving the try and not look and not caring about the result I don't listen if I walk up to somebody now, of course, I'm gonna do my record and it's ever kind of says I'm a I'm a okay I'm a sip if I see a chick at the mall or a group of chicks at the mall, right? I'm gonna kind of sit back for a second You know kind of looking around kind of checking around is that why okay? Okay, cool cool All right, so then if I figure that okay, I don't see no guys around So I'm going roll go over there and talk to them put my beard in try to separate over the crowd talk to her Put my beard in a row The worst you can say is no that's it. I don't because I don't care But the one thing I'm not gonna do is make an excuse to why I'm not gonna do something my brother You cannot do that and you've already did that look you already think they don't like brothers and Then on top of that if I talked to her whatever man come so you're already negative 10 or negative 15 Cuz your fear of women is that make does that make any sense? Yeah So you're going in nervous. You're going in nervous But even okay, you're new to mind. You knew to listen to me. Am I correct? All right, here we go.  Let's say let's say you see your man She looked like I don't know I want to say serena serena was back.  What do you say to her and I want to know why I'm gonna ask you why but I'm gonna show You where you're messing up. What are you gonna say to her? I mean what you call it like our arm?  All right. She'll say hi Then she's okay. She said no. She'll say hi then what and then I'll just be Direct be like, oh, yeah, so you thought you were cute one, so you know come over to talk to you whatever blah blah blah No, what is blah blah blah? No, no, no, what is blah blah blah? No stop. What is blah blah blah? well like What like I gotta hear her her you know response, okay?  You're in real time So hear me out. Let me let me explain some to you count from one to count the one to five for me Count from one to five one two three four five. Okay, you hear that that's confidence, right? There was no stuttering. There was no pauses. There's no if ands or buts. Okay So now you in real time with a woman.   That's so that's that's all you're gonna do. Let me take you out for drinks Okay, let's say she says okay, then what you gonna do then? Yeah, and they get her, you know number and everything. Oh boy Yeah, you're getting number Why are you getting her phone number? No, I said exchange numbers. Oh Like I know you all you know talk about cars. I don't have a you know car right now Like I know you say to um, I'll give out your own car But like I don't have my um, you know any cars at the moment. So you know, I gotta use something So like I would say, um, let's exchange numbers Why are you getting her number? You're saying I should just No, I'm not that's not the question. Why are you getting my number? No, wait? No, no, no, no You said you're exchanging numbers. I'm asking you Why are you getting her number? And so um, what I'm you know used to doing Okay, I understand that's what you're used to doing But why are you doing it and does that mean because you're used to doing it? Is it right? Well, wait a second. Okay. What's what is two plus two?  You know why you're doing what you're doing? I'm just asking you why Why are you doing it? What is the purpose?  We are you know link up Wait, what wait, what? See, I'm gonna leave in a few How do you know, how do you know she's interested in you know? How do you know she's not just taking your number just to get rid of me?  Hello All right. Hello. Hello. Yeah.  So real quick.  Well, like I will you know approach about us, you know hanging out No, I'm saying when you call when you call her for the first time or text it for the first time What are you gonna say to her? You know text at all, you know location everything. So let me get this straight Wait, let me get this straight. So you think is this porn?  You do understand that right?  Right. So do you do you think in in this world in this time that you can just when she says hello My name is consuela. You can just give her a phone number. I mean you're an address to go out. That's it That's how you doing things Yeah, that's what I thought. Thank you. Yeah. Yeah. Well now now you see why you lose, you know, what I thought But now but now you see why you're losing though, right?  All right. Okay. Let's go that way Wait, let's slow it down again. I want I want to go elementary. Okay. Let's go then now Do you know what a stranger is?  We don't know from like Adam and Eve. Okay.  I'm only taking you to tell me So like I don't have but you know conversation Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait a little conversation there like person first not a time of time of time I asked you this is why you messing up, brother because you backing off your statements number one because you know your statement is wrong But I asked you when she gets in touch with you? What is the first thing you're gonna do you said give her an address to the date And now you're trying to change it up being wishy-washy and saying oh no We're gonna talk first man This is why you have problems with women because you don't even know why you do what you do brother You can't even stand on what you're saying you say it first that I give her my number But then when I checked you on that stuff. Oh, no, no, no, no, we talk But that that's that's we listen. That's what women look for in weaknesses in guys That's what they look for Because if you're not assertive and you don't know why you do what you do and you don't stand by what you do And you don't own what you do then you were just another sucker that she gonna run my brother On top of your fear of of women All those things are gonna play a role man That does that make any sense. You're right. You're right. Come on man. Yeah, that's that's that's what I'm saying brother You you got to open your eyes and Understand your opponent has heard it all if it's under the Sun. Okay, this is the thing You understand she's heard it all every pickup line every trick every gimmick every manipulation and every real guy She's heard us all and she is going to automatically Categorize you based off of what you do What you do not the next man, but what you do does that does that make any sense young man? Yeah, it does So like are you saying after you get her your number and everything you would Why do y'all see y'all have been trained what why would I ask a woman for a number when I'm the baddest thing since like bread I Mean I mean Why if I am on Mount Olympus in my mind if I am sitting on my throne in my mind And I come down to earth and grace this human woman my presence Why on earth would I ask her for her number? Why would I do that? You see don't even know you want to know why because you don't feel that way about yourself That's what I'm talking about. Do you see what I'm saying young man, and it's no knock on you. It's just you Understanding what's going on in this game These women Know the chessboard better than you can never imagine Because these women do not start the interaction with fear Is that make any sense Yeah, it does think about this. Do you play basketball or football? Do you play a sport?  Do you play anything with what what's your thing you play sports video games? What do you do? Basketball, okay.  But again, he don't want to hear the truth. He ran off. Let me continue guys I want to call in 515 605 937 3 is number, but let me continue talking to spit in this game Just demand mindset just trying to hope y'all guys out It's trying to help you over your mind to let you understand that these women are Evolving and y'all are not evolving Why because and I will continue because you guys don't have your own Opinions that you have you have an opinion of somebody else and that's why I tell you what's different than this show I don't want you to have my opinion. I don't want you to have opinion of anybody's but your own But your your thought process right now is why you are where you're at because your opinions right now Or what we call world is flat thinking But also with that guys out there There's also another problem because the majority of you guys out there. You don't know how to tell a good story You don't know how to paint a picture You don't know how to engage a woman to show her why she should get with you Why she should date you why she should call you why she should text you why she should send you a selfie Why should she bend over backwards for you now guys? I got it. I got some new information for y'all Yeah, I mean now I'm probably do this tomorrow. I didn't get a chance to do it today but I I want to keep y'all updated on Some of the like the new you know that my texting dogs and everything want to get y'all updated on this everything Hold on a second Let me see here Let me see. Let me find one for you because I gotta go through all these things, but yeah, oh Let me see here We find something for y'all guys.  Let me see here. Oh, yeah. Here we go. Let me give me zoom this in. All right Well, is this him saying it? Wait a second Okay, I'm trying to find some good stuff for y'all Anyway, I'll find it and I'll post it. I got more text messages for y'all guys, but anyway, let me keep going Y'all guys are just born because y'all guys don't know yourselves. Okay But on top of that, there's nothing new that you have that is innovating for women nowadays and women love innovation And we're gonna talk about innovation as well, but the problem is is that you can't you? Unfortunately the perspectives that you see from are Perspectives from guys that don't know what they're doing a lot of these guys don't know what they're doing and all they're doing is talking about problems and issues And that's why a lot of you guys are not growing as men. Okay. That's just how it is man You your skills are terrible Again, it's just your monotone talking and thinking.  Okay is nothing fun There's nothing exciting. There's nothing to make her say wow I can't wait to talk to him text him or see him because he is gonna take me on a brand new adventure Every time I talk to more text him, but it's it for a lot of y'all guys.   You are not trying to innovate How can one innovate when all he's doing is either making excuses to why he can't do something or all he's doing is Blaming everybody for everything that's going wrong in his life. You're not innovating and the problem is this is what you were Years ago and then you guys all you guys taking notes Good lord have mercy. I won't talk about you in this thing Because if all y'all yeah, look y'all are the best note takers in the world man Hey boy boy in the in the medieval times y'all would be great scribe. You don't scribe I've got something to bloody save now and you like scrub all you want to say here right now I've locally flanked this and all y'all doing is right now.  Don't ever be motivated by another man Don't never be motivated by YouTube don't ever be motivated by a book Because if you start to get motivated and believe that stuff Hey, what goes up?  It's exciting to try out a when you get a brand new toy a brand new phone You know, I was excited when I got my 82 inch TV. That was very exciting because she was my new mistress Now I was kind of sad because I got rid of my other TV.   I am not motivation Because motivation is a false emotion that they are pushing on you guys Making you think that you are more than what you really are and that's the truth And I say that because I love y'all God. I care. I don't want you to be motivated unless It's coming from you That's when it's motivation When it's coming from your last name When it's coming from your rules laws and codes that you stand by that should be your motivation But and I'm a brain 6 4 6 in but just like him and I leave you a lot of you guys You don't even know what your name stands for you don't even know what you are you have no self definition of what you are and Yet you're going into 2020 doing the same exact things that you did in 99 I mean 19 a 2019 excuse me. I'm old. Don't worry. It's almost my bedtime, but no and I'm saying that's what I'm saying for y'all guys out there For all you guys out there. That's what's happening to you. Let me bring it 6 4 6 back real quick. We see what's up 6 4 6. What's up, man? What's up? Hey, sorry Steve. I have to you know go real quick. My nose with Isaac came in but yeah, but um Like I want to lock in this so you know what you're talking about cuz like I noticed that I do backtrack and um, yeah, I mean like I'm gonna Be honest and I only know need help so What you recommend I should do well, you got a again go to the man mindset. Let's get some coaching Let's talk send me a number. Let's get you a plan because I'm telling you right now You don't know you that's the problem, but that's problem number one You're your fear of women problem number two and the fact that your opponent knows you better than you know yourself That's really problem number zero shoot. I'm skipping ahead, but you want to get with women Who know that you coming in this game scared? They know scare they see I'm gonna explain to you guys tonight Why 2020 is great for a man and why women don't want you to be this way? because women have a Uncontrollable love desire and passion to give into their inhibition their inhibitions when it comes to being around a man They are they they are scared of men because they are afraid of what they're gonna become and What they're gonna do when they around them we're gonna talk about that in a second six four six But that's what I'm saying to you brother Understand this I listen. I'm glad that you have a job. I'm glad you work in all this Let me explain something to you. Let me explain this thing about purpose because I yeah y'all gotta stop this purpose stuff Y'all gotta stop this. Let me explain this to you Do you know what purpose is in the real world? It's called responsibility.  You got a job. You're supposed to because that's where responsible people do you pay your bills That's because you're that's where responsible people do Okay, but here's the question that a lot of guys don't understand here is that if all you're going on is your quote-unquote Responsibilities, right? That's like the guy going to math class for for every day of the year for 12 years Until he graduates then he goes all over again and starts with social studies for Every ever what nine months for for 12 years to graduate social studies Then go all the way down and do math down to English down to history Y'all guys are trying to focus on one thing and you're not focusing on the important thing listen being Responsible is a gimme That you you should never use I need to be responsible as my number one thing because you should be Responsible, but when y'all guys y'all take this word purpose I got to be on my purpose. Well six four six. Tell me what your Responsibilities are what are your what are your purposes or your responsibility five one? I'll bring you in the second. What are your responsibilities, sir? At my job, right? No, no, what are your purpose? What's your part? You say you want to be on your purpose, right? You like one of those guys. I need to be on my purpose, right, right? Yeah, so what's your purpose? Well, while I was well, I'm actually, you know finding my purpose and like I know on it like comes and And like, you know purposes on isn't something that you're you know meant to do Okay, my brain But what is your purpose? I'm asking you specifically. What is your purpose? What is your purpose? What at the moment, I'm trying to find it Why what do you mean you try out? How do you mind how do you young man? How do you? 21 you're 21 years old. So you're telling me From the time you left high school at 17 or 18 It's been three years and you still have not even know or understand what your purpose is young man or your responsibility Is that what you're telling uncle? Yeah But like, I mean like I'm not you know being you know stationary Okay, but okay, sir sir. I'm still trying to figure it out.  That's see. That's another excuse There you you should be You would you should be focusing on? Yes, I want you to be responsible But you should be focusing on what am I as a man? What is my definition? What is my principal? What is my law? What is my rules and what are my codes? What is my mission statement my vision statement my legacy statement? What is the big picture to me because I'm always trying to grow on that a man that is setting vision I want my name to when women see me a man that sets direction a man that thinks for himself a man That is clear concise transparent and impactful a man that goes after what he wants a man that focuses on his results I want to succeed I get things done. I act decisively No one can tell me who I am because I take risk I know what I am and I know why I am and that's just for starters because you still hey my brother You still got to work on approaching women. You got to work on talking to women You got to work on making them out. How do I make her laugh? How do I make her smile? How do I make her blush? How do I make her think? How do I be more romantic? How do I be more smooth? How do I be seductive smooth sexual sensual? How do I do those things?  How do I set up my crib? This is see that right dude. This is stuff that you should have learned a long time ago But you didn't it's all good. But do you see what I'm talking about that when y'all talk about that that purpose bullshit That you see why I tell you not to think about that because there's so many things that you don't know that you need in Order to show these women why they should be getting with me Now think about that if I'm all those things young man, and you don't know what you are What do you think a woman's gonna do when she has a choice between me and you who you think she's gonna pick?  It's more exciting But but here's the sad part How are you able to learn all those things?  Does that make any sense? Yeah, but that's the problem. No eight six four six. You stay right there I got other calls to grab so staying here hanging real quick. Let me grab these calls real quick as they wait in the queue Give me a second my brother. Let me bring in 510 then 912 your next 510. Which question brother? What's up? Hey, then you hear me. What's up? What's your question, man? D. Oh bra, I Took my punches this weekend. Not only did I take my punches the pretty punches don't hurt nearly as bad There you go. Hey mama. Hey, hold up dog.  Hold on. Let me give you a mom real quick I appreciate your dog. Hold on. Let me give you a mom real quick as I when when you say things like that That's what I love to hear. Let me give you a mom real quick Okay, talk to me what was going on so you know I've had the approach anxiety like most of the cats probably listening man But you know what I went out this weekend with the partners and I've talked to every female that I wanted to talk to And the one I didn't give out my number to any of the females I mean, I did give out my number to all of the people that didn't take any numbers in I didn't take no I gave my number to every female and no, I didn't get the cause But you know, I've had to test whatever taking the numbers But I know that there's something different gonna come when they call me. Oh, I can feel yeah Yeah, yes, if I take their number if I take the number and I call them they might engage They might not engage, but if they call me I get it Like it's gonna be a different type of treatment than I'm used to get. Yeah, dude.  I've been binging on you, bro. I just did it while I'm driving a bus and I'm binging listening on you too, bro I love it. Call in and say, bro. I'm taking the punches.   You notice his voice is starting to get smaller and smaller And he's not you know what it's your other insecurities. Yes Which other insecurities like like I walked into work today, right? And I'm getting noticed by a female co-worker at my job or whatever, right? Yes, and she's like, oh, you got your hair It's different or whatever right now me being kind of insecure about the hairstyle. I did or whatever, right? Yeah, I'm thinking if she's digging at me, but she keeps on going at it going like, oh She's flirting with me.    I'm gonna give you one real quick now I want to I got you one second what I want you to do is this Find the group of people that go to happy hour every every office has that one group of people that go to happy hour What I want you to do is go to happy hour with them And I want you to talk to the women like you and dance with them have a good time with them. Why? Because the thing about offices is what do they do most gossip? And what? No, go ahead. I'm sorry. Go ahead. No, I'm listening. Go ahead. So what we want so what I was saying like You go ahead you go. I'll be quiet. Go ahead. Go ahead. Go ahead All right. No, I was gonna say like That's what they do. They definitely gossip. I work in transportation. So I'm a bus driver So I see a lot of the messiness that's engaging around it. I'll be trying to avoid it I'm like, no, maybe I should see what everybody's talking about what they do. No, no, no Don't see what they're doing go to happy hour with them because when you go to see what he Okay, now again, I'm just saying this because I don't want you all to smash women at your job Okay, but I'm gonna tell you how uncle was smashing. I know I know but I'm gonna tell you how I used to smash women at the job See, I never reached out to the women They used to reach out to me So, so this is how it would work. I would go to happy hour. Okay. I used to be a male clerk, right?  Hey, how you doing glad this?  So how are you doing this morning? Yeah, hope you had a good weekend like clark kent Pushing my little cart my little cake glasses, right? But what I did was is I established that I'm okay They had a thought idea of what they thought I was like, oh steve steve is just a nice Oh, he's such a nice guy type thing, right? But what I did was I wanted that to happen So what I did was is I I went and I searched out that group because they're there I had to find them But when I found the happy hour crowd the happy hour crowd is baited the the chick that smokes There's a few drinkers and then there's people just hanging around bitching about the job or whatever kind of like cheers They did just they just go to happy hour to smoke drink or bitch, right? Or a combination of that, right? But see at happy hour that you have them at these bars and clubs where they have music and they dance and stuff like that So As soon as I walked into happy hour with them Oh, I put the glasses down and ripped open my shirt and I started talking to the women I was dancing. I was picking them up in a corner kissing on some I was doing it all right And yo dawg it wasn't it look I got to work the next day Oh my god, what's that noise?  You won't believe what he was doing What was he doing? He was talking to all these women.  Oh, man, I just I don't know.   See I told you guys like that are tip, right? And then what do you think the husbands and boyfriends do at home? They tell their wives And then their wives who do you think their wives tell the wives tell their friends? And let me tell you something It is nothing like being the center of attention when you go to game night You know or a party because they already talked about you They know more about me than I know about me because everybody's passing on my virus So then I've got the choice, but oh wait wait, hold on wait. Hold on five one. Let me bring a nine one two real quick Because I don't want to wait and wait stay right there five one two. Hold on. Stay right there, brother Let me finish what I was going to tell you nine one two. I'm sorry. So what's your question real quick, brother? What's up? Yeah, how you guys doing? What's your question, brother? My question is um I know you guys are a little bit upper in age than I am so what I would say is that um I would ask you personally. Um, do you have relationships and do you have women figured out? Uh, do you know who I am? Have you met me?  I'm just asking a simple question Okay, well, what's your question man? What was your question man? I don't want to wait you wait You waited 10 minutes to talk. So apparently you had to say no, no, I don't want you to get angry I'm not gonna have relationships and women figure it out Oh, uh, well, uh, yeah, I guess I guess you can say I do yes Where's your point? What's your question? You can tell you do I can tell you do well, uh Um All right, let's do this for a sec. Can we do some for sale? Let me ask you a question If a woman asks you Yes, sir. I'm asking if a woman asks you What are your intentions? With me, what would you say sir? If a woman asked me that and that's a big if right if they asked me that Yeah, well, what would you say? If they asked me, I'm not going to lie. What would you say? I'm asking question. What would you say? Nick, I would say I thank you very sexy.  Oh, okay. So that's that that's not the norm, right?  Well, no, no, I'm just Yeah, you gotta get big ball of the top shit like that I'm just trying I'm just trying I'm just trying to see your level I'm just trying to see your level what you asked before you asked me these questions But I just want to see a lot. I just want to ask if you if you've got relationships and women figure it out I don't want you to get angry. Well, I'm not getting angry. But what is the point of the question? Because it's a real question because I was listening to you the whole time before you took my call And it seems like you have women and relationships all the way figured out and I was just asking if you had that and if you did Explain it to me. What do you want to be explained? What's the question?  How do you young man? It don't matter. Okay. Well, that's a man's a man. Okay. That's that's strike one because you're afraid to even say I owed you are so that's no the strike two because you think because you're older you got it all figured out You got to relax. I don't have it all. I want to tell you right now. Look, I know nothing about women I have not been doing. I just started doing this. I mean, I just started doing this uh yesterday. I I don't care if you've done it for a hundred years. No, no, I haven't come off a very cocky And you speak really loud and you yell at people. I don't understand what you're doing right now. Okay. Oh wait a second Wait, wait. I okay. So oh wait. Are you saying I mean the people? Is that what you want to say? Is that what you're saying? I mean the people No, no, no, no, I say you yeah, your voice is very loud I don't know if you're far away from the phone or I don't know what your Your system is set up as but you you talk very loud the people though. You talk. Okay Down and look you've got a very loud voice. Oh you say and you said I'm down to people too, right?  But but but you are then that's when why are you even listening to me?   Okay, right. So then if that's the case, why are you here? I wasn't asking you but clearly I'm on the wrong side because you didn't want to answer my question I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry dog. I let me let me apologize I gotta apologize because I'm sorry. I I forgot. I'm sorry. What did you say lady? I'm sorry You're right I'm sorry. What you're doing? Please continue. I'm sorry. No. No. No. No. Listen to what you're doing Is he done? Are you done? You do a lot of childish patterns, but you still haven't answered my question I don't know nothing about women. I know nothing. I know nothing about women. Don't Do why do you talk so much? Because I know nothing. I look I I'm reading a book right now I'm just I don't know man. I I I'm not being sarcastic. You gotta stop bothering me. I don't know what I'm saying. So why are you listening to me?  I'm sorry guys. I apologize man. Jesus christ Are y'all serious? Is this serious? Oh my gosh He doesn't know who I am You don't need to know I am I'm not for you But anyway, I six four six. I got your big dog. Let me bring a five window real quick Five one. Oh, that's what I'm saying, brother. All you gotta do is go to the happy hour do the happy hour thing You'll be fine. Okay big dog Okay Sounds good to me man. Yeah, I'm sorry. I just I'm sorry. I I just I just don't know what I am I'm sorry. I I I I have a loud voice and I mean to everybody.  So when you come in the room that you haven't dealt with men a lot It's uncomfortable. You gotta get used to it I can't believe Oh my god, listen any man that is ashamed of his age Is a problem y'all should not be ashamed of his age, man. I I don't listen. I don't understand I don't understand. You know, I'm a man in training. I ain't even on point where I want to be I'm a man in training.  You ain't a man until you completely ready where you want to be Hey, and again, I told him there's no reason to listen to me. Why why why? I mean, do I have women figured out? I got me figured out. I got me figured out That's why I have women figured out. I have me figured out. See, that's what y'all don't understand You don't have to have women figured out as long as you have you figured out But see that's what he don't understand. But You know, I had to let him go. I'm sorry. I didn't I didn't want to hurt. He was hurting my feet He was hurt my will feelings. So I have where I'm go So I'll hold on. I said we got another call. Let me bring in this game What's up, brother? You ain't never what you don't even belittle people as much as other people could trust me Well, it's not belittling people, but I'm just telling the truth.  That's crazy. I gotta prove myself on my show. Oh, that's pretty interesting But anyway, but uh, but five and a hold on a second Let me put you in the queue real quick six four six. I got you Real quick. Hold on one second four four one three. Which a question sir Hey, bro, um So I've been doing this the poetry thing. I'm trying to get better at it. Yes, sir and um posting I've been like posting like a couple lines every day. Yes social media, right? Yes, sir. Um And today I guess it was a special day where Uh, a couple girls actually really liked it And uh, they let me know and everything. Good. Very cool. Um but One girl said oh, can you write about Love for me I was like when you need like is this like a special request? She's like, yeah, it's something like that. All right Wait, get your bit. Surprise me. Get your pin out.  Hey, hey off the top of the dome because hey, hey guys, I I don't know anything about women. I don't know. I'm a four one three. I'm gonna try. Okay. Can I try? I'ma try matter of fact I'ma do it. I'ma do it. I'ma do it. I'ma I'ma do a blindfolded I'ma give you a few lines. I'ma try to do a blindfolded guys and I'ma try to do it with two hands behind my back All right, let me see. Okay. Okay. So let me know when you're ready and and I'm gonna try because I I don't I mean what what do I know?  You ready? You ready to write this down? What it is a title the title is what is love by you? Okay, it's gonna buy by you you own this one This is this is for you. Okay. I can't tell you okay Okay. Hey, okay sexy I know you asked me a question What is love? Let me know what you're done. Yeah To be honest with you.  Because I have not experienced a one-on-one with you yet to even determine If you are one who deserves my love Hold on guys. I had to take your hand off that give me Man that was I'm sorry guys Guys, did y'all hear that did y'all hear that right? Oh my god. Whoo. I'm sorry.  My god. Okay. You ready? You ready? That's it. Is this another one? Yeah, no, no, we keep going. We keep going.  Hey, listen, it's not to say That I can't love a woman like you The question I want to know is what is it about you? That should be loved They just Okay, I'm not done.  I'm waiting So since so send that to her Yeah, just send that to just like that send that to her now what we're doing is is now We're putting her in a position. We're also saying look I I can't show you love because I don't know you that well That's the truth but in being able to peel back layers in you. I can know more about you But I can't know anything unless we spend more quality time together. So that's what you hit her with but You let her know I'm waiting. So that's her Trying to give you a time. Do you see I'm saying y'all mean? Okay, so okay, okay. Do you have any like like tips for Like cuz I'm trying to broaden my range Yes, of like different things like this whole love thing is stop me and I don't want to keep getting stumped Well, well, it's not like is what is what what you say you say you won't get stumped on his love thing What are you talking about? No, no, no, I don't want it to stop me like what if I was like face-to-face with her and she told me No, you know spit something right then in there. Well, that's what that's what topic like love Well, what I just gave you some to spit, but you that's why you got to learn the conversation classes That's why you gotta learn dirty talk. That's why you gotta learn master the bedroom kissing 101 all these things are you expressing yourself but What you need to do is keep working You ask yourself the question What if someone puts me on the spot then you got to start working on that and put that in there in your Vault and pull it out when it's time. Okay, but what I've set you up What I've set you up for is her and you going out on a date But let's see how she responds to that because you're saying, okay I'm showing you about love, but the only way I can show you is us starting off starting to see each other So when we gonna go out type thing, okay?  That's all that's for okay All right, my brother, I'll throw you back in but send that to her. Yeah, I mean, I mean, I'm sorry I I apologize guys. I don't know much about women or being smooth with talking to women I just I don't know wait my my magical invisible book. Oh, it just told me this. Okay I was just reading off my magical invisible book. I'm sorry. Okay. I closed my book now But see that's what I'm saying to y'all guys See, which y'all have to understand in this thing is that there are a lot of people out there that get mad Because you know more than them So what they want to do is they want to fight you on it and they want to get mad at you instead of wanting to learn How to get on your level they want to challenge you but hey everybody wants to challenge the old man Yeah, I mean it's all good But let me get back to 646 real quick before I continue the conversation but 646 what's going on this? What up Steve so so like so I'm moving forward. Yes. I mean at the moment I don't have you know breath for the You know conversation class, but I look online and everything and like sort of on price. Yeah, but for the moment Oh, that's a moment for the moment. That's why you learn the approach boot camp. That's free for the moment Learn the approach boot camp Why because now let me tell you this go ahead and tell me this I'm listening. All right, so like The like, you know reason why I I know cold and earlier saying that oh So I'm you know Spanish girls are like races it's cuz like I've like seen situations like that in the past Okay, sir. I like sense sir. Sorry to talk sir. Yeah, let me stop on this Let me ask you this question If if a does it to be does that mean she's gonna be that way to you? No, then but You said no So then What your statement that you told me then is alive in Because if you seen it happen to other people What do other people have to do with you young man? Why are you taking on the life of somebody else and not seeing for yourself? That's what I'm trying to tell you going wrong Because you see a woman doing it is somebody so let me ask you this question If you saw spent if you saw a beautiful Spanish woman at the club a guy goes and talks to her and she throws water in his face What are you gonna be thinking?  So right so who's it say? But who's it say the guy that's being treated by the woman is saying stupid stuff as well just listen Never take on somebody else's story, man That is your problem going into 2020 and that's why you're gonna mess up because you're taking on the story of somebody else When you should be creating your own story Forget it. Listen it Unless you are with that guy 25 hours and eight days a week and even on Sunday to see every little thing that he does Then you can understand his story But just because a woman is treating a guy like he's weak You can't take the story on because that's like looking at the end result Without leaving thinking about what happened in the beginning for her to treat him that way brother You have the problem with you high the high thinking mind and that's why i'm trying to break you guys out of this The problem with the high thinking mind Is that you guys you have you you take on other people's stories? Oh, she did this to me. Oh, she did that to me So what?  But wait, wait, let's see. But what you're you're thinking is You're taking on see this is why y'all go wrong because you take on stories I tell you all the time Don't believe me And don't believe anybody on youtube Don't take on my stories and don't take on their stories Don't take on their stories You have got to learn how to become Single-minded you must learn how to become your own community And the only way you're going to be single-minded and the only way you're going to become become your own community Is going to what i'm about to talk about right now Because this is something that a lot of you guys don't do and i'm going to give you a few Is I got another call to take but what i'm saying is this The first rule of the game that's coming from the street and not the book and not the youtubers Is number one is knowing who the hell you are And not blindly accepting Somebody else's statements as your own Because as soon as you do that You then are attached to that person and you're waiting for the next step You're waiting for his next step so you can take his steps As a as a free thinker You are supposed to listen to things and and learn But as your own man and as your own community and being your own king This is why I tell all you guys out there.  You know the three laws you gotta follow. I know you don't just let me know. Do you know the three laws? Yes, or no Love yourself No, no like your arm. Nope. That's not it. All right. No, no, no, okay I am going to tell you this And this is the honest truth If there's anything that I tell you this is your truth right here Okay, there are only three laws. You got to follow in this world only three one two three. There's only three laws. Okay Law one is the law of the land.  Can we agree on that? That's the law of the land Can we agree on that? Can we agree? Okay, that's the law of the land Second law Is the law of the street meaning That if you're in a school zone, which is 20 miles an hour and you're driving 50 miles an hour And a police officer sees you you do you know what's going to happen, right? You're gonna get pulled over right The reason the law of the street they got these things called speed limits, right? And if you're going within the speed limit in a cop doesn't catch you you good But that's what the law of the street am I correct? right Right, okay, so so far we got two that you can follow right The last law. Yeah, the last law is the law of your job That means When you have to go to work at eight o'clock you better show up at eight o'clock If you get a one hour break lunch break, you better take your lunch break, right? The law of the job, right now Outside of those three laws Outside of those three laws. Guess what man? Guess what? You know the good news is guess what? You can create your own laws for you Laws for women laws for your parents laws for your friends Laws on how you date laws on how you talk to women Laws on how you text women laws on how you on the phone with women You can create whatever you want because it's a limitless Law system that comes for you. It's that's Based is based off for you. Does that make any sense? Yeah, you can create it But let me let me explain the problem here Most of you guys you have laws You have rules codes narratives vision mission legacy statements. You got those. Okay But they're in reaction and fear So that means whenever you have a law for yourself You're going to break it or bend it because of your fear of what is in front of you Does that make any sense? So you really don't necessarily have solid laws because it's depending on how scared you are of that woman Does that make any sense? Does that make any sense? Yes, so like basically I just gotta follow the you know three rules and then I can make up Yeah, yes. Yes. No. No. You can't let's not make up straight by the reality Oh my reality that way say it again. You could create what you're what? You're what say reality. Yes. Yes young man. Yes You don't have to be in my reality. You don't have to be in any youtuber's reality You don't have to be in anybody's books reality You can be in your own reality And the best thing about being in your own reality Is that women don't know Your reality They know the reality of the normal grass eating lion Beg barter beg some more Beg barter barter barter beg beg beg barter beg beg beg that they know that of them, right? But when you create your law The only way it becomes law Is if you stand on the principle brother That means That you must have what is called Not high tolerance Not low tolerance, but no tolerance And I always tell you guys listening Larry david Ray donovan these guys are assholes. I mean straight up Mr.  You want to know what it is? They can say no To a woman and they can stand and they can stand On who they are Because your laws, rules and codes are connected to your name See the thing that people are doing today that's hurting a lot of you guys They are taking away your name They are making you feel like you have no say so in this world whatsoever and i'm telling you you do Because let me ask you a question If uncle dean's Law rule code narrative principle if my number one thing is i'm a drama free man and Listen to me brother And if anybody brings any drama into my life, they're gone. Okay That that's my law Okay, there's the law And then there's the repercussion of someone breaking the law. So can we oh, okay, you understand we at right now, right? So there's the law that i'm a drama free man And the repercussions of that is that they're gone now I have what is called a merciful king rule. Okay, let me explain merciful king and captain curc decision Merciful king is that you're going to get shit tested by everybody It can be your parents can be women They're going to test to see if you are really what you say you are and that's what a lot of women do That's what they got these puas.  Okay? You following me? You with me so far? Yep, okay, so Let me ask you this question now a captain curc decision because i'm old i'm a old i'm a trekkie So i don't i'm a big nerd so you're gonna geek and stuff So basically what a captain curc decision is is like back in the old 70s and 60s Where when captain first star trek came out Usually they had a guy named yeoman henson and they were always beamed down to the strange planet, right? And captain curc dammit almost every show he would have to make a decision Do I get rid of yeoman henson and save the enterprise? Or do I save the enterprise? And i mean do I save yeoman henson and lose the enterprise? That's a captain curc decision. Okay? All this is going to play an effect. Okay now You know that my law is drama free anybody brings drama life They're gone with the exception of a king's rule that i got to check them one time. Okay So can we agree on that we we we good on that so far, right?  What am i going to do? Well, you know check them once and then they don't like it then they you know too bad they gone, right? Right Yeah, so what if a woman what if a woman raised a woman raised her voice at me? What am I gonna do? I mean if it's a woman is even worse. Yeah, you were you know, you are on check and then you know kick out What if she wait? What if she's got a beauty? What if she's got a big booty? What if she got big boobs? Is what if she's sexy as hell? What does she look good and everything? What am I gonna do? That's the you know distraction now. I asked you. What am I gonna do? I didn't ask you what the distraction is. I'm asking what am I going to do Regardless of the distraction to kick out right wait, but what am I gonna do first? Probably, you know, no what it is. No before I kick it out. What I do She does it again merciful. Remember what it's called merciful. What? The merciful what? Young man, come on.  I'm gonna check. Remember the merciful king room and merciful king I'm going to check her right So does does her body does her body matter? No, does it matter? She looks good No, because disrespect is disrespect, right? Doesn't matter where it comes with form it comes in it is disrespect. Can am I great? Can we agree on that? Right? Yeah, so so That means what if my grandmother or great-grandpa pa Comes up to me and starts telling me that I'm not allowed to date Spanish women because I should be dating a woman in my race What am I going to say to my grandma and my great-pa pa? If they say that to me, yeah, I mean to me. What am I going to do? You know tell them what it is.  There you go.  I don't care what what you are You're not going to disrespect me.   She beautiful. Damn. She's all that But Hey, are you ready for this caller? I love her curves.  I mean come on dawg.  I love her lips. I love the way she walks and I love the way she looks in the dress Right. You feel me on that brother? But guess what? I love myself that much more Which means is if I got to lose her I got to make the decision. Am I going to stand on my principal dawg? That's what makes me a man and that's what makes my name what it is because I'm willing to make the Sacrifices that it takes to make me what happy My happiness is the most important thing to me I don't care about everybody Hold on brother. Do you think I care to make someone else happy before I make me happy? Do y'all see what I'm saying? Yeah, yeah not oxy ride on billions. You're right 900. But see that's what I'm saying caller And that's the problem with a lot of guys out there They can't even hold that one principal right there Because you know what they do Well Yeah, they go talk to their losing friends, you know my girl yelled at me. Well, you know, that's relationships You know, that's just how it is, man. You know, she's having a bad day, man. Just give her a break, man Don't don't be mean to her and everything. Just you know, just understand her feelings and know that she uh She might have had a bad day. That's why she yelling at you I'm just guessing because my boy's don't talk that way. I'm just guessing right now I don't know. I don't know what happens when y'all get yelled at and disrespected I don't know what y'all do but y'all don't do what I do You want to know why? Because standing on it is the thing that makes you a man, sir When you make the law That governs your last name Not my name Not uk's name not andrew tees name Not anybody's name that's in this in this chat room Your name is that making any sense, sir? Yeah, but all right, so I like, you know, no for this now. How do you make it stick? Like, how do you, you know stick with it? Okay, let me ask you a question because like I'm gonna tell you how you make it stick. I'm gonna tell you how you make it stick When you wake up in the morning and your room is is dark. What do you go do? What do you turn on? Right, so do you ask yourself? How do you make it stick or do you just do it? Just don't but but see the thing is because you have confidence in yourself to say i'ma turn this light on You just don't have confidence in yourself yet young man. That's what i'm saying In order to live this lifestyle to have women You've got to be able to make sacrifices and that means I will rather sacrifice family and friends elves unicorns and smurfs To for my for my own happiness I love those. I'm not saying don't love them I'm not saying don't love your mom or your dad or anything But as a man, you're allowed to stand on your principle You're allowed to tell anybody don't talk to me that way. You have no right To yell and screaming me now. Hold on. I didn't say work.  You know what I mean? So so, um, basically as I know build build me. Yes, and keep on, you know, putting it For the test. Yes, I'm gonna be, you know, strengthen. Yeah, because it's gonna be tough. It's gonna be hard. So it's gonna be hard It's gonna be tough. Yeah, because you're going you okay. Go ahead. But what what yeah Then then like I know people that that are pretty in tune with themselves and like they have women on them like, you know crazy Now like Like Is it that that they've been in tune with with themselves? That's why what gets women to want guys is men who can say no Men that don't see I always use James Bond because we've all seen it. So you yeah seven one three. I see you dawg I don't know if you had a question. I'll bring you one second seven one three What I'm saying to you have you seen James, but you've seen a James Bond movie, right? Right? Yeah, a long time ago. Okay. I don't care how long it is. But what was he ever thirsty? Yeah, did he have a cupcake the every day? I don't know. Yeah, baby. I love you We've we've we've we've been no when he always say baby. What's up, baby? My name is bond james bond You know and he would talk to her and she would see Through his behaviors that he is not like the normal guy out there because he stands on sit when you have principles That's your foundation of who you are and everybody's going to test those things to see what kind of man you are at the end of the day And let me tell you something a woman may not even like the fact that you have rules like that But you know what she ain't going nowhere Because women want men who they cannot control man And that's 100 Okay Yeah, this is my final question. So so so basically as you build this is this like This this um, you know energy that you build It's not energy and it's not energy that you have like energy. It's not an energy. It's a law. It's not Take out listen. I'm not trying to cut someone through. I got you brother. I'm not trying to complicate this shit, dog Is how you feel about yourself, man There ain't no energies and all that stuff people want to make that's foofy makeup stuff Listen I am a drama free man And if anybody brings drama in my life I can get rid of them and sleep like a baby and put my I sleep so good. I feel like put my thumb in my mouth. That's how good I sleep I don't put my thumb out But I'm just saying that's how good I sleep like a baby because I don't care Because I don't put my emotions and anybody that's disrespectful to me. That's the truth And I and I don't and I treat people the way I want to be treated. So I'm nice to people But you ain't gonna disrespect you can come on man. What I wish somebody would Especially a what come on man But That's how I feel about me.  So I'm good. I'm good But I don't I don't want your love I don't want your dedication I don't want none of that. All I want is your respect Before anything I want to fall. I want you to fall and respect with me Forget about that love stuff. I want that emotion yet. I want you to respect me And if you can't respect me, you're gone. That's rule number one Rule number two is c rule number one and that's how easy it is. But again It's see your problem is 646 because of your fear of women.  I don't like spiders. I'm not scared. I'm a retinophobic But I but I don't like spiders But I I fear a spider more than I do a woman And that should tell you something Come on, man Does that make any sense to you? God it's the Definitely, man. I'm gonna practice this in the next week, you know It's not just My brother don't I go to the mall every day. So like I'm gonna see those, you know, spandage joints So yeah, listen, I don't want you to practice it because you're not gonna do it See, let me see see when you guys say I'm gonna practice it. You're just already lying to yourself It's the built in motivational lie that you tell yourselves then it goes away I don't want you to practice it. I want you to be it You don't have to practice being 100 that if you 100 You don't have to practice it you live it I don't need to hold a neon sign of my hand. Say you're dropping free.   I got you but I don't want you to be a williams.  They appreciate everything. Thank you. All right respect I throw you back in seven one three.  What's up, brother? I'm just listening bro. I'm just listening.  All right guys if y'all got any questions in the chat room Let me know we'll open the lines up for you the second lines are down right now We'll open the lines up in a second so four one three and seven one three I'm gonna probably hang this hang the line up and open the lines up so y'all can talk some more But I'm gonna start talking to y'all guys about foundation And why 2020 should be more about these things instead of crying about women I want you guys you don't have to but all you're gonna do is repeat the same year Stop worrying about the next man Stop being like women and being gossipy Stop worrying about what the next man's doing with the next man's moving because you ain't the next man And that's what you guys have got to listen You don't have to listen to uncle on this one But all you're gonna do is repeat the same year over and over again being like a female Gossiping about a bunch of stuff that has nothing. You know what it got asked me God sent me a picture on my message like Steve. What are your thoughts on black women day white guys? I said mother.  You want to know why?  I didn't want to try to cut but I don't care Because that That thought is not going to give me a raise at my job that thought is not going to raise the price of gas That is a wasted thought Why do I care what they're doing? It has nothing to do with me and until you start seeing that you are not going to grow as a man Do y'all understand with that you understand guys what i'm saying, man Do y'all understand that let me show you the old man because I'm sure y'all see my old man I look just like him dawg a little too. Hey. Hey, he used to call me little Ted. Hold on a second. I don't uh, Let me show you. Let me show that motherfucker. But anyway, hold on.  He he's he's He is uh, hold on. Let me just show him. Here you go. That's the old man. Hold on Oh Here you go. Here you go. Here. I'm gonna save a photo of him and show y'all the old man But this is Hold on a second Save image. All right, let me show y'all. Let me show y'all guys Let me show y'all the old man and everything where I get it from But that's what my daddy taught me, man My daddy taught me everything I do. This is a Williams. How you talk to women how you walk How you think this is a Williams a way he just he just put it in my head so much that I'm sorry wrong. That's a that's a message. Hold on a second. I'm sorry. I'm a bad dog. Let me take the man I'm sorry guys. I went to another page grab the message. Oh, here you go. Let me show you the old man So, uh, what I'm showing y'all this is this is the old man right here. So this is the old man right there Old man. So if y'all go to fox news, whatever. Yeah, he's a criminal attorney or whatever But that's the old man right there But if you ever watch the old man, you'll see where my arrogance comes at.  That's right That's where I get it from the old man. That's how I feel the way I feel because of this guy right here This guy everything he did. I'm Ted Williams or Ted Williams. That's all he would tell me all day every day But that's where I get it from.  I don't want to be feel y'all We're doing problematic because I want to talk to y'all and I'm gonna open the lines back of the second This is what's important that y'all guys got to understand If you stop doing what women do And you stop worrying about what other people are doing and you stop gossiping and you stop all that other stuff You are going to make what is called a break mentally Because then you're going to start focusing on you And once you begin to start focusing on you That's what women fear if there's anything to fear because they fear the thing they cannot control With what they have between their legs What's between their legs cannot control a man her breasts cannot control a man her lips her her Make up her hair and all those things that control the grassy lion.  You begin to expand your mind you go from World is flat thinking to world is round and then infinite that means if you look out in the sky That's infinite.  So if you guys if you guys feel that this is motivation, stop This is not motivation I don't want you to be motivated by this Because that's not going to help you But what i'm just telling you is when you begin to Make yourself the foundation All of a sudden You're gonna have this thing called authenticity That means your opponent is not going to be able to read What you are Let me show y'all let me give you all example. Let me y'all mean let me give you because i'm gonna switch We're gonna open up the lines in a second. Let me give you an example This is the majority of you guys right now She knows everything you're thinking you can have the greatest poker face and you can be like i'm all in I got the perfect hand, but she can read your every thought.  That's what i'm trying to get you to see That's what i want y'all to understand I want y'all to know that she knows the fearful male She knows the guys that are using tricks and gimmicks and manipulation She knows you all but the one thing she doesn't know gentlemen is the authentic man I'm sorry. Let me get my cap. We should have to wait. I'm sorry. She doesn't know the authentic man Why because you're authentic There's no rule book on you There's no book on authenticity Because every man that she meets should be different in their own way.    What? No Never Why Because every woman has got to prove themselves to you. You want to know why guys?  They're spiegel. Hey my precious. They're going after your I will say it again She's going after your last name And she's going after your ring.  Why do you have to prove yourself to her?  I want you guys to thank for a second Society 99 this is why I hope 2020 we can grow together as men as single communities because We're not looking at the hive the construct and we're not listening anybody that's complaining whining and moaning And always bitching about the government family court Feminism and me too that's it. They'll have nothing to do with me That's his problem. It's not my problem And why isn't my problem? Because if I stand on being drama free if I If that's the only thing you stand on you ain't gonna have no problems. You want to know why? Because you'll be able to get rid of them just like that You'll be able to say bye Well, I told you don't you talk to me that way you do it again. I'm going why I said bye No, no a no marriage counseling No doctor feel Goodbye, and then you say next When she starts to feel that she can talk you anyway hit you abuse you and try to disrespect you You don't do that. Did you it starts with you man?  Oh my god.  Where are the solutions? Why are they always complaining? And you know what? I need to stop listening to this guy Because I can't be around someone that's crying all the time because I'm not that kind of man If he's not giving me a solution to help me grow. Yeah, I mean and hey god Y'all want to know what growth y'all want y'all want to know what growth is.  Where where can you show me and come on? I can show you that I can show you this I can show you that I can show you this You know, I can show you things y'all me but what I'm saying is That's my question.  Why are they not showing you how to set your crib up like that? Why are they not showing you how to add this to your crib for reasons?  Hold on. I'm trying to connect the dot with y'all Once you have your first standing principle of being drama free Then you're gonna start questioning Not the woman But you'll be questioning the guy that's complaining all the time. You say wait a second here Did this guy allow her to disrespect him? Did this guy allow her to walk or apparently so because all he's doing is complaining on how She's mistreating him and guys.  You know what's going to happen. You know what's going to happen Oh, why you be why you being mean to me? Why you yelling at me? I don't understand what I do wrong. I'm sorry But but you know what the guys is complaining about women You didn't hear it. See you wasn't there to hear that part of the story Because then what you be doing as a free thinker you start asking yourself the question. Wait a second here Every end result has to begin with the first domino. So something's not right here Because if this guy is complaining that women are like this How is it that he couldn't recognize it if he Wait a second that light bulb moment that pops in your head. Wait a second He ain't a drama free man because if he had laws, rules and codes He really wouldn't be complaining about women Because he get rid of him move on to the next and then you yourselves guys that are listening not me You will be getting that that is when you will see the first green line come down You can't see it now But once you begin to have principles narratives laws rules and codes that you live by You are going to judge every man because if he's complaining You're you're pinning the complaint against your principle and you're saying wait a second here Why is he always complaining about women? Because I mean if it were me and a woman got out of out of tone with me she'd be gone. So Why is he complaining?  I'm gonna go ahead and kill the show there the lines We're gonna open the lines up right now guys for you guys. So if you want to call them Thank you for using blog talk radio.   I am dog.  I know that and I'm fine with it I can live with it But I the reason I'm fine with it because I because I love me I am fine With being alone. I am fine With just being by myself. I'm fine with it. I'm not trying to keep up with the jones I'm not trying to please anybody. All I'm trying to do is please me and then right now. I'm pleased I got my 82 inch mistress my flat screen tv right there.  So I got my side chick in my bedroom now So, you know, I do see it from time to time. I said, what's up girl? Anyway, we're gonna open the lines of guys y'all want to call and we will open the lines up for you guys If y'all want to five one five six oh five nine three seven three is the number Let me go ahead and call in y'all can but we'll continue talking about this because there's a lot. We got to cover right Welcome to blog talk radio To start your show now your show is scheduled to start in 12 seconds All right, that's the number to call any guys y'all want to call in five one five six or five Your show will go live in five seconds four three two one Okay, we're going now we're live. Okay guys All right, so we're live y'all want to call them. Let's continue to talk about some of the things that you're gonna need as a man to get through to uh 2020 Once you create your foundation gentlemen You're gonna start to become authentic People are gonna start noticing weird things in you as in you know, did you get your hair cut? Did you did you get it? Did you get coming to some money? You're dressing different They're gonna start noticing different things about you first and this is what you got to understand about this You're not going to see it first Everybody else is going to see it first You're not going to even recognize it because you're so busy working on you They're going to see it first but then after this thing you're gonna come To what it's called a crossroads.   Okay And as you begin to grow for yourself and your community and your name if you're doing it correctly What you will begin to realize is that For how many years of your life out with however you are What you're going to start realizing is that you have been lying to yourself You have been faking to your to yourself And you have been wearing a mask your whole life And at that point you're gonna start to question your what you're thinking about your values and all that other stuff But in that moment That's when you're going to grow a little bit more because you're going to start to see the new you It's going to be hard and tough for you to understand that all this time I was the one acting emotional. It ain't these women out here Here I am following these guys out here and and and that's not my life Why have I been fine? Yeah, you're like damn. I've all I do is I can't believe it.  You know what I mean?    I want to stand on my own name I want to live the life that is for me and me alone and I don't want to be like somebody else I want to create my world my future my legacy and my bloodline And that's if you know if you want to you don't have to have kids You don't have to get married. Okay. Nobody's saying you will but Man when you are arrogant asshole, man, you just When you so arrogant, how can you not create you? I'm sorry, man. When you when you see What you are You're like, I gotta create me. I mean I would be into doing an injustice to the world if I didn't create Me or blueprint me to give somebody else the honor of being with the Williams I mean, that's how you're gonna be thinking but that that's here. No there. I'm just saying but what I'm what I'm saying to you guys is this is that You're gonna start seeing things different You're gonna start seeing women different. You're gonna make better judgments when it comes to your friends and all this other stuff. Okay But once you get through that Thunderstorm because you got to go through you got to swim up this current and the current is gonna Push you down. It's gonna press in your ribs.  I'm telling you it's gonna be painful.   Uh, let me bring in the calls real quick But once you do that, I'm gonna continue one second But let me grab some of the calls seven one three. I know you in the queue uh four seven. I'm sorry. What's your question, sir? What's up? Four seven. Oh, I'm sorry. What's your question sir? What's up? Oh, yeah, this is uh four seven zero seven. Oh, um, I don't really have a question But I'm just saying um, I pay for bills to Have sex with me because I don't worry about I just focus on myself Okay, what's your point? I'm just saying like I know you say focus on yourself And that's just how I focus on myself. If I don't really waste time I'm wondering about women. I just pay for it Get over it. Oh, okay. Well, uh four seven. Oh, I don't Four seven. Oh, you might be new to this but um, sir, this might not be the place for you because We don't pay for anything they come to us and technically they'd be paying us But you might not you might be in the wrong place because we don't trick like that and if you want to trick like that I can respect it, but We don't trick like that though Oh, okay, um, because you paying for so you don't think it's like long excuse me You think is it mom like you wouldn't think it's No, uh wrong like you think it's like good for me to bet on myself Well, you're you that's not been on yourself.  I I'm not here to argue on that But that doesn't make you a real man. Right. Right. I'm just saying that doesn't make you a man though Right. I'm just saying if that's what you want to do Huh? Right. Why you think that though? What do you mean think that? Because I feel like I'm just like every other I feel like I'm better than Other men because they waste time.  Like don't get me wrong. I do get some free girls But I mean You pay for it. All right, listen Listen, listen I'm not not I'm not not you for paying for that's the law. Listen, listen This is what you gotta understand young man. Everybody can't be a man in this game.  Well, I love god you you keep the economy going Listen in life. There's gotta be guys to pay for things and if you paying for it You helping us out. I love you. I think that's great. I'm not trying to stop you from paying. Listen You keep paying for it because I ain't paying for it. So somebody's gotta pay for it. And that's where you come in at That's the law of nature, brother But wait, wait, wait, wait, but see that's what I'm saying You don't you don't know what my dog You don't know where my my dogs began. I got tons of I've always showed my dogs where people with my dogs My clients are getting my brother. Hey, listen, it's not it's not about the women are bad You're just paying for it now. Listen, that's not a bad listen young man If you feel that you gotta pay for it I am not here. Believe me I think You're doing a admirable thing and I appreciate you for that dog. I I think that's great Somebody's gotta buy the dinners. Somebody's gotta buy the drinks and somebody's gotta pay for the pussy I'm not doing it. But because you are I respect that dog. I'm not mad at you on that.  That's my brother. Listen to me.  How much money? Uh, just to get ahead probably like $40 No, no, okay.  How much you paying for sex? You're paying $50 charge 40. So you're Not 50 yet. So wait, let me Let me get this right.  Come on.   Come on, dude Let's be honest here. Come on dog. It's uncare.  She paying $40. Uh, sir Who said anything? What but i'm long who said anything about taking a chick to apple bees not on this show We've been saying this for over 30 years. We i'm just saying but no, but that's what you see Wait, let's see. That's but that's your again guys. I'm trying to show you that's your story You you feel that you gotta take someone out to apple bees We don't take women out to apple bees. And so I don't understand what you're talking about. What do you mean spending 40 bucks? Not on this show. We don't spend. Hey guys anybody had no me in the chat Let me I'll be getting like nice cars nice mansions. Just impress the girl Wait, thank god. Wait, wait Who said anything about having nice cars nice mansions to pull with that again We don't talk about that on that show again. That's another thing that's your story But we don't talk about that here, but see that's I'm listening. What's that?  I wish you look good or you got a good personality Wait, wait, wait, wait Again again. Can you tell me the lottery numbers tomorrow? You know the lottery numbers for um Wednesday or friday. Can you tell me those things?  I want to ask you for 70 if some women are like that.  Oh, you said what I said if some women are like that, why do you care?   Oh my god Dude Dude, that's what I and I got some My brother a for I bring in one say my brother. This is what I'm saying to you look I Appreciate what you're doing. I'm not here to stop you from what you're doing If you feel that you got to pay for it Then I am a fan of you Because I'm not paying for it. My gods ain't paying for it. Somebody's got to pay for it and you're doing it So god bless you. I I appreciate you dog.  How do we get them? Well, we'll get them you if you have no mouthpiece think you got to do your way you got a barter And beg to get it and let's listen Listen, you got a beg for one man.  That's why I just pay for it And I'm a dude like I told you my brother I appreciate that you're paying for it. I think that's admirable of you because I don't have to pay for it. My my clients don't have to pay for it. But if you if you feel that you got to pay for it All right, all right, $40 and $50 ahead And dude, I salute you my brother. I'm serious. I'm not joking. I love y'all guys Because I Uh, I talk about in my youtube What Well, yeah, you're saying But I mean I just don't be wasting time. I know you're saying though But you don't know what I'm saying. Listen. Listen.  Hey, see that guys rest my case Hey, hey keep paying for it young man No, no, no, no, you said one you right. Hey dog. Hey, hey I am not here to change your mind and that's what I will not do You said one you pay for it. I I appreciate you my brother I say you keep paying for it. You you were doing what you're supposed to be doing I'm sorry. I said the girls I pay for you think you can get for free The the woman you pay for do I want to get for free?  That's that's that's beneath me Why would I want to pick the low-hanging fruit or scrape the bottom of it? Who wants to wait now think think about this young man Do you really think a $50 whore? Come on, man.  Let's let's be honest here Let's be honest here We know you want it more You want a girl that's like stuck up and wants everything No, no, no, no, no, no, no, listen, listen, I'm not here to fight you my brother I just saying that look if you want $50 chicks and that's what you want to pay for Then I'm not here to fight you or argue with you even before I bring in one second Okay, like this is my thing though.   I'm saluting you right now. I think I appreciate you for paying for that's what I keep telling you You don't see people don't understand this. You know, it's gonna be crazy I got more love for you than the guys I have in my chat room I appreciate if I hey if I could send you a fruit basket to say thank you I would dog and I'm not lying to you. I care more about guys like you They're my dudes in the chat room. You want to know why? Because these mfs in the chat room. Listen to me. They ain't paying for women They get them based off their mouthpiece.   How old are you man? I'm 21. Okay, of course, you know, it's okay young man. Look, look, it's okay I I'm not here. I got grab 804 anyway, but I appreciate you dog. I'm not mad at you man.   So you ain't ready for the real game. So I'm sorry So you got girl that tastes for you Well, I used to be a jiggalo. What are you talking about girl? I when I was when I was out there. Yeah Yeah, yes, of course, what what? Yeah, of course But I'm just saying look look what I'm saying is look look young Let me I'm gonna I'm gonna hey guys. I'm gonna give him a Tyler real quick Let me show you something though real quick. I'm just want to I just want to show you one thing, okay This is what happens when you don't when you don't have to oh damn tally gave me a new video Hey, don't have a Tyler moment right now. This is unscripted. We got Tyler moment. See I'm showing y'all right now I got the video right there. I haven't even looked at we got to look listen guys I want you wait. Caller. I want you to hear how it sounds like when you don't have to pay for it You ready? I'm about to play it for you right now. Let's listen to it. Okay. All right. Here we go We're gonna listen to it. Wait. It's loading up right now. Shit. Is it loading up? Here we go. Here we go You don't need to Hockey or anything. You're just uh, I think the downstairs door is open, but If for some reason it's not then the quartz light slash door is open And I'm waiting for you to come and slide into me Lots of places into me Now you don't have to pay for see that's that's oh, it's more Sorry, you don't need to Hockey or anything. Oh, that's just a repeat. I'm sorry.  What does that got to do with anything? I'm trying I'm asking real quick What is it? What is it after if I don't have money? What does that got to do with the what does that got to do with a woman? Um, I'm just saying like a woman want to like you for nothing though. Okay. Well, and again Um, I guess at 21 you've been with every woman around the world to figure that out So I'm not this is my brother. I got to grab these other calls I'll put you in real quick and I'll open you back up But hold on one second. I'll put you back in because I you're my favorite I love I love this guy because he ain't a threat 804. I'm about to bring you in than 252 Hey guys, I'm telling you I love this guy more than you because you guys out there trying to get it for free He paying for it. I love him Let him pay let him pay But let me bring in 804 real quick before I too far 252. What's up 804? What's going on brother? How you doing steep? I'm fine. What's your question, brother? Well, uh, I do, uh Love that guy too, man. I don't only want to just get it for free. I want to get paid to do it. So That's what I'm talking about as I'm talking about brother. I love it dude. Y'all think I'm playing I love that guy man. That's my homie right there, dude And he want to pay for it. Yeah Hold on dog. I'll give you a dog. Would you? And he just keeps on doing he's doing we're all pop one day, you know at some point in real life Except for you, Steve. I mean you learned at nine years old Yeah, but you know Other than that, but I do have actually a quick question. Absolutely, brother So I'm going through, uh, you know the alpha code and I'm trying to you know, kind of Digest everything But you kind of mentioned something uh earlier tonight Do you mean like when you come to the crossroads, right? Yes, sir. Is it like When you're I mean, I'm currently in a relationship with somebody. Yes, sir. And I do like her and like that It's all you know good, but and she doesn't disrespect me But at the same time when it does happen first, you know, you give her the first, you know Rule of the king, right? Yes. Yes, sir.  Yes the second time She's out the door. Is that the crossroads?  We're paper tight. Right. There you go, brother. Exactly That's why before she I don't know if she moved as she moved in with you. Are you living with her?  No, we've only even seen each other for six months, but she's angling for and I'm Kind of you know, let's let's calm down What and and and that's your right to do that but please understand this remember when you when you get to the moving phase That's when you let her know if you do this now This is if you do I'm just want to help you out my brother if you do This is when I tell you to get a joint bank account. Okay. I know don't go Calm down. I got you just follow uncle. No, nobody listen to me. I got you check it out. Let me tell you why The reason you get a joint bank account is because your money is yours Her money is hers and whatever the bills are in the bills meaning electricity rent and entertainment All are going to go into that joint bank account. That means if it's a thousand dollars I'm just giving you a hypothetical thing that means you put five hundred dollars in She puts five hundred dollars in you don't ask her for a dime. You don't ask about her money You don't do anything and she doesn't ask you for anything.  You don't want to tie your finances in with somebody else. You see what I'm saying That's not worthy to move forward. Does that make any sense? But it wouldn't that joint bank account do that man Well, no because the joint bank account is where y'all putting your money in to pay bills This is a bill thing. This isn't a Oh, okay. I I see. Okay. It's on breaks. I get it. I get it. Well, here's my other thing. Yes, sir Here's my other thing. Okay Um, so, I mean she believes in I I believe in a traditional household. Yes. Okay.  Okay So we both believe in that so She currently has two kids. She has an illness. Uh, so she had to cover kids early. All right So there was that that aspect. All right. It's not that you know, she's had multiple baby daddies or anything like that She she got artificially insomniated anyway So I'd be taking on these two kids too.   She respects me.  Well, but okay, but this is where I'm becoming different for you. Okay This is where you as your own king must make that decision I will never make a decision for you because I believe that you are man enough to make your own decisions To stand by them. You know what you want. You know what you don't want, right? So if if you want to be with I do but at the same time but at the same time Don't please don't take offense to this but you've lived a lot more years than I have my my friend So as you know, seeing the world a lot longer than me What would you you know, what would be your advice on that situation? Well, well, but that's what I'm saying, brother Your path and my path are two totally different pathways. So my advice is coming from that's what I'm saying to be your own community What I'm gonna ask you is this and two five two. I got you one saying two five two But I'm asking you is this 804 What do you have what you have got to do is you got to sit down as a man and a king And you got to write as one side of the positives and one side of negatives And if the negatives are more than the positives, that's your answer If the positives are more than the negatives, that's your answer because only you know you that's what I'm trying to say You know you but you've got to know what it because you here's the thing I'm going to tell you You got to have a you got to know Her bank account her credit score Uh, you got to know how much money she owe places You've got to know, uh, what y'all going with is christmas holidays religion politics Those are things you got to discuss later on, but she hasn't moved in yet But I'm saying before you get married those are things you got to discuss because those are the things that disrupt the family So what I'm saying is this If you're not ready to move her in and you're not ready to do that with her then let her know I mean, that's the truth.  Well, I told her no, right? I already told her no, it's not happening You know, I told her hey You got to earn that that's not just because of the amount of time we've spent together Right, so you got to earn that right, so so then then guess what you're on your right path, but That's what I'm trying to get all you guys that are listening is I want you to be single-minded You are your own king You make your own rules Not my rules your rules. So if my brother would ever use whatever you say I respect because that's your rule. You know what I mean?   That's all I'm saying as long as you stand on it We good.   But then we say goodbye. We're still our own community. You see what I'm saying?   I got you. All right, brother. Well, let me keep you. Yeah, thank you very much much love to you 804 a but for you 804. Let me give this to you real quick. We know dad got hold I just had hit that for you, baby. All right. Don't do it for I give back with you big dog All right. Thank you. You have a good night. You too, my brother erico 252. I'm sorry for the wait, sir What's your question, man? What's up? Are you good? I'm good sir. What's up, man? I live in your world. Live in your world. What's up, brother? Yes, sir um Going back to what the guy was a little cash was saying Hmm.  So Yeah, what I've learned this year, especially uh In the tube it worked Let me say that back what I've learned this year the most Uh, it's too like very large impactful thing. Yes, sir What's up? Um number one would be like to You know, open up your ear to the right people. Yes And then shut our our ears to the wrong ones. Yes. Um, that would be number one. Yes, you know Um, and that could be difficult. Yes It could be actually very difficult to To think that your right way of thinking is right. Well, no, no, it's not And that is not that no, that's not gonna be the problem. The problem is is breaking free of the herd and feeling alone So many guys that are hooked into the the hive They they like the camaraderie Of the other guys that are bitching that are complaining that are moaning But the the scariest moment that you're gonna have is when you break free Can you handle being alone?   No, but you know what I mean No, I don't know what you mean. What do you mean? Well, well, you know, uh, the the youtuber said that women that Well, wait a second. I'm not him. So why are you complaining to me? When's the last time you went out to talk to women? Well, I don't talk to women.  Why do you think the way you think?  But yet you're not But yet you're challenging the hive You're challenging the construct.  Did you have to think like me to reach the egg?  All right. I got my brothers and sisters at me. Let me go to the right Go to the left. All right. Hook it right.   I'm gonna get to the egg I gotta get the egg first. I got to the egg. Motherfucker. I made it you did that on your own You didn't need anybody to do that. Yeah, but they don't understand they believe Because a lot of people are following somebody that that person knows what he's talking about But they never asked a question. Why don't you ever give me some solution advice when it comes to meeting women? Talking to women set my crib up.  But wait, Jonathan Jonathan wait. Say only give me a second Jonathan I will say it nicely sir because I guess you don't know this show. I'm sorry Excuse me, sir. Let me give me a second dog.  I'm sorry sir. Go ahead. I'm sorry I'm sorry about that for you. I just I just wonder inside on it No, no, no what what what what I'm saying is is this Because I we got so much to talk about I mean golly. We have I mean we're on a third hour I'm still having got into anything.  They're going to talk bad about you They're going to disrespect you. But the beautiful thing is young man It's none of your business Or do you feel some kind of way when I told you remember the snake eats a A mouse in the jungle. Is it any of your business? No, right? Because you don't care does that make any sense Right. Yeah, sir. Right. So what I'm saying is young man What I'm saying is at the end of the day That is going to make you the bad guy Is because the hive will not be able to control you And once you're not controlled by the hive Then women will be the next thing that will not be able to control you Your parents will not be able to control you your brothers and sisters or people That have been walking all over you They're not going to be able to do that. Why?  This is like a whole new Do again, I don't want to say it's like the majors, but god damn it is just like the major When you break free when you are free I mean not slave free, but when you are free free, right when you are free And you realize that you can create have you ever seen uh the watchmen Have you ever seen the watchmen to show the watchmen? The movie the movie or the tv show on hbo either one. Have you seen any of those? Yeah, yeah Yes, sir What did document what did dr. Manhattan do he went to another world and what did he create life, right? He went somewhere else And created what he wanted to create and what i'm saying is is that you will be able to do that with you mentally You will be able to create a world regardless if the clouds over your head And regardless of everybody's hating you You're going to be so one with yourself That you're it's it's you're not even going to care about what people think Dude, that's why I tell you ever watch larry david man or or c ray donovan They are assholes because they don't let anybody Disrupt or try to tell them what they try to tell them what to do, but they don't care You listen everybody's allowed to have an opinion, right? But you have the right not to listen to their opinion You've got the right not to take on the stories that they say, right? But right now for a lot of guys, right? They don't believe they don't believe They don't believe that um Wait a second, uh I don't even know what he say steve Isn't good Wait, wait, what is that isn't good? Is that a word isn't good? Well, what does that mean birth thaw? What is that? I don't know what he mean, but but thaw lie I don't know you go ahead and clean that up and explain what you're saying because You don't have to be here. Y'all know how I am. I don't want you here.   So why would I listen to someone beneath me below me? Try to tell me what they think life is about Hey, come on man. Really? No, you're right. Okay No, no, mr.  What I'm saying to you is this That's your problem I'm going to show y'all a problem. Hold on call the car. Listen is This guy says I need to help people quicker You see what his mindset is He wants life to be quicker.  So that's that's some of the stuff you're gonna go through brother. Okay, but I do want to let you know that okay All right, I appreciate it. All right respect to you now throw you back into attention. All right. Thank you very much 111, I'm sorry, but I'm about to let you go because I know you called in but you got a call from a regular No, we don't take false numbers, man. Just calling with a regular number. We don't take it. We don't do that stuff. Anyway, uh Yeah, we put you in timeout, but you know what? I'm gonna do your favor. You don't put them in timeout Let's just get rid of bam. There we go. There we go. That's all we got to do. That's all we got to do See how easy that is I appreciate y'all put them in time out But you know we we we ain't having no disruptions in this class We don't keep going and we don't keep learning and we don't keep moving and we don't keep pushing And if they don't like we just get rid of them That's how beautiful this is because everybody can't be men. That's what keep telling y'all But anyway, what I was killing y'all the phases that you're going to go through. Okay See once you understand you better and understand what you are like You are going to stop taking on the stories of what life has told you like that dude. We just got rid of Again, what was this story? beautiful women tree guys like this and And women are like this and what else did the construct tell me and the hive told me the hive told me I ain't got no shot with a woman because I got to have money and I got to have a car and I got to have that See when you break free and you are your own faker gentleman When you are a free faker gentlemen What happens is The weirdest thing is going to happen and y'all are not even going to understand it but You are going to start to be in control Of everything that happens in your life Now what happens in my life And now what happens to anybody else's life? You my friend are going to evolve and that's what that's how 2020 should be for you But it's not going to be for everybody.  Yes I can modify my body by working out But I'm not going to work out because I want to get a woman I'm going to work out because I want to do it for me. I'm only responsible for me. I'm accountable for me I have and I can do what I want and that's when I'm trying to get y'all to see man. Okay Oh, oh, right. You're right.  Let me go ahead and post what he's saying because Guys, he's right. All right guys. I'm sorry guys. Look guys. Let me let me tell y'all. I I belittle my I belittle my um I'm sorry He feels that I belittle The guys and I am I mean to to people and uh, why don't we just take a moment? Uh But oh, why don't why don't we Why don't we take a moment and Let's listen to a coach Talking to a group of women. Why don't we do that? Why don't why because I I I you're right. I I shouldn't be belittling y'all guys like that.    You're gonna run around not look for the So I I I'm I'm sorry guys that I I like like he said man. I I'm sorry. I belittle you guys. I I mean Hearing that hearing that football coach say that to women. I mean I mean it's odd that those women can take that kind of talking, but I'm sorry, but whole I I I'm sorry that um That I uh belittle guys But also serve Unfortunately Uh, there is no such thing as immediate guidance, sir And if you believe in that lie, I've got some magic beans I can sell you Because the worst thing you can do to a man is lie to him and make him be something that we know He's not now if that's something that you don't like I'm sorry. This is the wrong place because I I I don't I I'm sorry. I I hear what you're saying and I'm sorry I'm I'm mean to people and I'm sorry for that and I didn't I I didn't mean to hurt y'all's feelings I'm sorry man. And um, and I just don't want to know man Um, it helped me instead of laughing at him. Oh, well, wait, wait a second. Wait a second. Hold on Let's let's let's let's look at this.         I don't even know why I keep saying that man. That's just That just doesn't That's Whiskey, why are you always messing with me dawg? Whiskey always messing with me Let me continue five one five six or five nine three seven three seven of y'all want to call it But let me continue. Let me keep talking y'all now. Here's the beautiful thing guys In 2020 y'all should be doing it now, but what I'm saying is this is what's gonna make you dangerous to women This is gonna make you dangerous to society and everybody else Because once you realize that you are in control of all the outcomes that happen to you That's when you're going to start growing because in every defeat and every knockdown and every beatdown You're going to learn a little bit about of yourself But then what's going to happen is as you continue to add on laws rules codes Narratives principles vision statements mission statements legacy statements all those things about you You were then going to do the one thing that you've never done before and it's going to be an awakening moment You're going to be able to create your life on your terms That's the beauty. I am and what you see here. You knew the guys that I roll with They all create their life on their terms And nobody can change my term As long as I am following the Three laws that I talked about I can create anything I want and do whatever I want to do And all a woman has to do is say yes or no and I'm moving on I don't have to I don't have to please her now. I have to change your mind because that's how we work And that's why we are dangerous because once you begin to follow those steps You are creating things on your own terms and the beautiful about this is that guess what?   Shoot you work for all the other girl other guys out there Why is he immune? to me Why isn't he scared of me like all the other guys out there? Why is he Doing his own thing How many guys how many how many women is this guy have? How many relationships is he here? Because something ain't right here Because only a guy that can get women is immune to women like me So I need to find out and that's what i'm trying to tell you guys Because then you begin to live your life on your terms, which is what?  That's what i'm Dude, what do you think i'm here doing dawg?  I'm gonna keep going. I i'm not gonna listen what he's saying because if he's paying attention I'm doing that right now. Anyway, but what i'm saying is is that this guys guess what happens Once you have that layer inside of you.   Is it is it this is it that what is it about you? That's different. I don't know what it is. Let me see here. You check the lines Okay, guys. I'm calling the lines are open. But what i'm saying is to you guys out there is that You are no longer doing what the normal guy does You're no longer taking notes You're no longer just watching youtube and reading goddamn books and just throwing one book back to grab another book You're not doing that. You're no longer living in the past. Yes You learn from the past, but you remain in the present You don't stay in the past you stay in the present and that is the dangerous man to everybody Because everybody's expecting you to be in the past to cry to be a victim to to blame And not be accountable not be responsible My peepee hurt all that stuff You are in the present and you're thinking about the future. You're going eyes forward.  So what do they have in common?  Goodbye Talking to I don't know that Anyway, what I'm saying is is that for a lot of you guys, man What is very important to you guys out there? uh What you guys have got to see And I I hate to play it, but I gotta play it Because this is Guys, this is how you should be Hold on. What am I getting right here? God y'all see y'all got y'all keep sending me all these receipts Hold on man. Is this Tyler again?  Can we have a Tyler moment guys one time? I'm sorry guys, you know, I got a student guys if y'all just Yeah, I know a lot of y'all guys don't believe that I I know what I'm talking about But I got a student who just followed me less than a year ago and You know, he's just got women sending them things. So we gotta have a Tyler moment Hold on guys another Tyler moment You don't need to Hockey or anything. Wait, that's another one. Is that the same one? Hold on. You see we have the same Tyler moment. Hold on a second Oh, wait, that is okay. My bad. Wait. Is it Tyler again? Okay. All right, my bad. Hold on All right, that's a picture. Hold on what you go. Okay. Wait. Hold on. Let me see what you got dog You know, I can't read all this stuff. God damn. Let me see what you're saying All right, I'm gonna show what the woman said. Okay. Merry Christmas. Blah blah. Let's see what she's saying right here Uh, she said also, I didn't I didn't say the other day, but I really appreciate how much effort you put in I really had a great time seeing you or not seeing you I have to think of a way of repay you the favor. Happy festive season. I hope you got a nice things planned Okay, that's pretty good dog. I appreciate that and that's good. But anyway I want to show you all this because Y'all think what I'm saying.  I don't understand you grassy lies, but I won't go in play. I'm gonna play my thing. Here we go. All right, here we go All right, here we go. I'm about to play my part. I want you to hear this Here we go You might be labeled. All right, hold on. Wait a minute. Here we go. All right All right, hold on. I'll say it All right, here we go.  What is a nothing doing at my court? I can find you my papers sire I beg you Allow me to prove my worth.  Why? Because you are the state of you You are the law of you You are the court system in the castle and the king and the crown and you sit on the throne Of your last name gentlemen That's why this guys that's why I keep telling y'all man for a lot of y'all out there This is why 2019 is going to be hard for you or 2020 Because you don't realize your potential and it's not me to tell you I'm only here to put weapons on the table And if you choose to grab the weapons welcome home But if you don't you just going to skip over 19 and do what you did in 2020 You're gonna do it in 2021 and 2022 because you're gonna want to be coddled and you're gonna be connected to the hive And that's the truth guys. Come on guys. I'm I'm being honest, but I'm gonna keep going Um, hold on a second. Let me see here. Uh, let me see here. Let me keep going.   Why do you care about when nothing's tell you how a nothing feels?  I'm not making it up. This is not um Uh, uh, a cuddle party thing. No Absolutely not Because when you when you break free out of who you are, okay One of the biggest things that is going to separate you From the normal regular guy. Let me check the phone lines before I say this I want to get it. Let me check the phone lines. Okay, hold on. Let me bring in a call real quick Eric code 850. Wish question real quick before I continue. What's up, brother? Hey, uh real quick. Steve, it's agro. I just had a quick question on the conversation course three What's up? Yeah, so question, uh, really simple question was basically It says for facebook, but i'm a But it's pretty much something that's for pretty much all online shit, correct It is for all it doesn't matter what it is because You're with that in the profile setup.   I respect to you brother throw you back in respect to you. All right, brother.  Uh Invitation an opportunity or something like that. Guess what it's cool. But guess what? The beautiful thing about having this mindset of a free thinker Is that you will never be moved?  Hey look guys.   Maybe that was some egg roll.     All right. It's it's the guys. It's the weirdest thing You know how it is like when you're buying a certain kind of vehicle Or you want a certain kind of vehicle you start to see that vehicle when you're driving downstream It's just it's just weird like that. You're not going to be able to see it You're not going to be able to see it man Let me see here. Oh, what's going on, man? Oh, man, thank you dawg. Let me see what you got to say here. Hold on. Let's get to you. J dawg How is it here? Uh, it's when men really want A partner right now kiss the first new year. So no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no Listen to me guys The only thing I want you to do for new years Is just Give yourself a hug and appreciate you are here for another day Now again, I'm I'm not into the show But let me show you something young man because this is what I always tell my dogs And this is why new years is not as important as the message I'm about to lay on you But I always say this before I end the show, but I want you to understand something This is why you should be hugging yourself for new years right there that photo right there Why? Because everybody in that photo Thought and they have one thing in common.  You don't need to be with somebody else because guys.  Oh wait, wait, wait. Hold on guys. Hold on Oh, y'all know what happens january 1st. I just haven't really talked about it. Hold on a second. Hold on. Let me see here. Oh Here we go. Oh guys, let me play it real quick. Let me play it real quick. Hold on. Here we go Let me play it real quick. Hold on Let me play it guys If y'all have been following uncle dean y'all know how I do this Y'all knew in august. What did I do in august? I told you guys in september the middle of september We're going to start preparing you for the halloween game Come january 1st guys Goosebumps Hey guys, I'm all i'm cakey right now. Excuse me. Oh my god. This is guys Start in january 1st We then prepare you for the greatest weekend Of the year where the sun moon and stars line up And women are the most desperate and needy They will ever be For one week and that's valentine's day weekend. We are going to prepare I always tell you I like to do it a month early because y'all know how we do it here demand mindset Nobody does it the way we do it. We're going to prepare you and then uh the week uh a few days before that week You call in You give me where you live and i'm going to tell you where the the the single events are Where the women are thirsty and desperate to be somebody that this is going to be the only time of the year Where women are going to be desperate and needy and this is the guys January 1st We start january 1st whenever I start the show. I don't know what January 1st is But we start the show We're gonna talk about that guys This is the super bowl this weekend now that would suck in the past things guys We used to have a double whammy Because I always told you 50 shades of gray movies used to come out around valentine's day weekend Man, you had a doubled man guys. You had uh the movie where the women were horny Oh, man, we used to have all it was so good. We don't have to worry about that We are going to start preparing you For valentine's day weekend That is the only weekend of the year Where women are going to be more aggressive and desperate to be somebody's valentine And we have got to get you prepared for those single events those valentine day events That's going to happen all week long.  We're gonna talk about that january 1st. Oh my goodness We are going to get y'all prepared for that. Oh my god. I can't wait. Oh, I can't wait Oh my god that valentine's guys Y'all just don't know man valentine's day weekend. Oh, I can't wait to talk about that. We will keep going but january 1st One thing we do here Is I want to talk to you for a month to get you prepared Because on that weekend, you know how we do it. We the only ones that do it on the net You call in You let me know what city you're in And I'm going to give you a few places in your area where they're going to have single valentine day events where women are going to be there and guys, let me tell you I'm going to talk about the poetry clubs because on valentine's day weekend only look We got something to talk about. Okay. I'm not even gonna go there. I'm not even I'm not even Theo that's right. Theo you just hit it. Oh Theo they they ain't ready They ain't ready, but we're gonna keep going but I'm just letting y'all know what's ahead But what I was saying j-dog that's listening to me brother Is I don't want you to feel like you need somebody to kiss and hug for a ball That is going to drop