I think maybe they were the bandit. We had the bandit at one time. Oh, no That was your first of your dad had a Skeeter Yeah, so they're in the Skeeter and we were in yours up. Hey bigger than this and your dad scared Ladies and gentlemen welcome back to the channel into the great outdoors we got a special video for you here today It is me and my best friend big and we've got our dads out here for a father-son Fishing competition out of kayaks. It is spring. We have bass moving around in the shallows We are on a small lake perfect for kayak fishing. Here's the deal little background story me and Craig How we really started our fishing bond together many years ago probably 15 16 years old our dads booked us a guide trip out to Lake Fork It was both of our first times out there I ended up catching the biggest fish of my life at that time of nine pounds We had an amazing time and we both became hooked on bass fishing Several years later. We are all together again going out bass fishing and we've never all fished in kayaks together So we all have them. We all have these hobbies 12 or 14 nice fishing kayaks a lot of a lot of history A lot of a lot of trash talking that's taking place right now and here's here's gonna be the team for the day It's going to be me and Craig versus the dads Craig's this is his first time out on the water this year. I have been Fishing a lot guys, so I'm I'm sort of dialed in Craig's fish here before I never have so we have that going for us our dads they just have you know 150 years of combined knowledge basically, so See what they can put together. I think this is what we landed on We're gonna go most fish number of lures used caught and then big fish is three points There are the rules we're gonna weigh in at 12 30 and see Do the dads still got it or do the Suns dominate? I got my lucky hat on too. Oh, he's got his big fish lucky hat Gentlemen start your engines commence dangling All right dad, I wish you luck, but I Don't think there's a lot of hope, but we'll see All right, y'all we were probably dealing with spawn and some post spawn out here This is typically One of my favorite things to throw right here in the the spring and Honestly, you know all through the post spawn nice little saucy swimmer there. It's the 4.8 Got it on a little quarter ounce Hook and I'm throwing this on a setup. I really really wanted to fish this setup today This is one of our new two-piece traveling rods And it's a go-to spinning rod. It's a 7-2 medium heavy So it makes it really good for throwing some of these bigger baits on a spinning setup I could throw a lot of different stuff on it. So I thought it'd be good for the yak Craig's on all the way up there Is home got him on my pistol grip you dragging me around a little bit to pounder Now we have three Looks like a better one. All right, we got three on two Gotta keep count on that's taking me around the back here. Where's that scale at upper twos? All right, we got four on two and we're gonna get away on this one 262 Hey, buddy not hearing a whole lot from the dads right now as we're throwing that blazing worm on a brush pile I think it's a little posties nice little posties Blazing worm is an absolute shallow-grass killer, but You can throw it on a Texas rig like this Fishing in brush too and that little tail It's good for coming through stuff. So it doesn't get caught on the twigs and all that See if I can get another one. I feel like there should be a big one in here Can't tell if I still have this fish on or not. I still feel him See sawing him through here. I don't want to break him off Me down in there pretty good Seven on four lures. All right, here's where the challenge of kayak fishing comes in There's ten thinking he wants to fish back here behind this grass yet. Oh My gosh, look at that one right there That one just ate eat it like a frog. That was sweet. Yes, sir Whoo, man, that's a fun bite y'all. I'm actually enjoying throwing this on the spinning combo It's pretty slick Fish on my gotta be garters because they're coming back and tagging it It's just a really good way to fish fast for these things instead of Working that weightless bait really slow I'm working a weightless bait, but I'm reeling it my slender profile to get through this grass This worm is just it's the tits. Oh God seems to hit the water. Yeah, that's a better one. I think that's 13 I just had one. I wasn't looking That could be a big one because it just sucked it. Yeah, I think that was a nice one. There he was dad It was a nice one too. Oh my god. He ate it. That's a biggin. You got your scale He swallowed it 2-6 2-6 Be a good decent Fish out. All right guys, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna make an emergency stop at the truck for more lunker logs That is going to be I think I can get a bigger bite just working on the outside.  This plastic is not as Salty as the blazing. It's not gonna sink as well But it's something To go weightless style here weightless on the grass lines Here's one main wacky style Pretty unbelievable. Not sure where we're at Catch wise I got to check him with crag. I'm heading that way The area which just came from that little Cove I Got one I would say on the outer edge of that is a really good spot to throw that popper It's got me in some brush or something. This might be the brush. No, I got him.  Oh, there we go first cast Good call.  There we go. We're almost legal. I used to swimbait fish finally 25 25 and that's our sixth lure Seventh lure right there, baby. It's a little better fish a lot of that. Oh a lot of this too Lot of this to be had Look, we got a tune on now. Yeah To 42 here we go Justin probably about to seven All right guys, we got the numbers Where's old Mondo? We got about an hour left of competition guys me and Craig have 31 fish right now And we've got seven different lures that we've got fish on so my dad Craig's dad. They're over there dabbling. I Don't think they have the numbers and I think they're probably right around the same same lures I don't know. It's it's actually pretty close. We've been going punch for punch here up in the shallows the wacky rigs absolutely crushing it and Probably the most fat a fun I've had all day so far is throwing the blaze and worm like up in the stuff and getting those fish come up on top Eat it even though they're not huge just a lot a lot of fun Throw it on that spinning rod is really cool too. You skip it and get a lot a lot of distance with it Craig is on fire 33 oh this looks like a better one. Oh gosh. It's a better one. Come here. Oh, yeah Double up no He got me really excited though. It was a fun bite Smash that like button for that bite y'all that is some fun stuff Like I said, this is the this is the funnest Bite out here in my opinion. I think we got it done, but let's see. I feel super cool Throwing out your way in back Is that your back a fish? Pretty nice It's time for weigh in that's pretty small right there. All right, so what do you guys have a team name? Old dad dad the grumpy. We're the grumpies the grumpies. Okay team grumpies versus team prime I think is uh is appropriate. This is what team grumpy was catching today. We were instructed on this lake to Extract fish that were under 14 14 like that Me and Craig got on a little tear There at the end, but the rules were big fish basically takes the cake, right? So did did anyone catch a fish over three pounds? Nope, so that leaves it up to the number of lures Two for you. I hit three. So five. We'll give you four or five. We hit five. Whatever. We hit five So uh last fish of the day that I caught swim jig that is eight Uh eight different lures for us. So we've got a point there Now uh, so we're one up on you know, how many fish do you think you caught total? Eight 13 eight and 13. Well Craig and I I believe we caught 41 41 bass. Hey do we have to we have to keep going here? Often we sat in here and I think I heard somebody getting on a conference call or something and that point I was like, well We got this in the bag It's turning All right, fishing freaks good dangle today The funnest part of the day for me throwing up shallow with the blazing worm and fishing it like a buzzbait That bite should get better and better for Postspawn fish and if you guys fish shallow grass you already know throwing thrown buzz style worms is really good But if you have not tried that Give that a shot Through the post spawn It's a really good technique up there on the shallow fish if you don't want to throw it like a frog Or uh, you know, it's a little too thick to throw like a buzzbait or any other top water through try that And it was good to get out with the dad today We haven't all four fish together in a really long time Our dad's got us into fishing And it is so cool to be able to reconnect with him now doing fishing and it's it's almost like we're teaching them things Most of the time so it's a different angle on it and it's the circle of life man It's cool. So smash that like button and thank you guys for tuning in to today's video If you want to pick up any of the new spring tackle as well spring tackle spring gear You can use my promo code lfg Googsquad.com link down in the description and thank you guys for being here We will see you on another outdoor adventure very soon on the next one


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Here we are in QuickBooks Desktop, a sample rock castle construction practice file provided by QuickBooks going through the setup process we do every time maximizing the homepage to the gray area, view dropdown, open windows list on the left hand side, reports dropdown going to the company financial looking at that P&L profit loss income statement, tab 010124 to 123124, January to December, 2024 being the range, customizing the report so I can go to the font and change the font on up to 12, okay. Yes, please, okay. Going to the reports up top again, company and financial bringing it on down to the balance sheet standard this time changing the date to 123124 and we'll customize that report so we can go to the fonts and numbers and change that font size up to 12 again. Okay, yes, please and okay. That's the normal setup process. We're going to bring it on back to the homepage. Remembering that we're focused in on the vendor section, vendors being the people that we ultimately pay for goods and services, quick recap. How do we pay those people? Well, we could do an electronic transfer in which case we could be reliant on the bank fees. The bank feeds will typically record a check type form that being the form that is used to decrease the checking account, other side going to an expense. We might actually write the check. When we write a check, we want to enter it when we write it, not when it clears the bank typically and then reconcile it to the bank. We'll talk more about that in future presentations. We might move to an accrual based method where we're going to enter a bill which means we're going to enter the bill increasing the accounts payable and then increasing say and expense and then eventually pay the bill with an essence a check form but a special check form that's tied specifically to the bill decreasing the accounts payable. If you have inventory then you have this other row up top which could include the purchase order, the request for inventory, no financial transaction being entered at that time. When you receive the inventory then you can enter the bill with the inventory recording the inventory and the accounts payable at that time. Now you might then say, well, where does this sales tax kind of fit in here? I don't see any arrows going to it or anything like that. Note that the sales tax, taxes in general is going to be something that really muddy up the waters cause they're kind of inserting something into the business cycle process that's not really natural to the business cycle process. And the United States, the main federal tax is going to be the income tax. When you look at the state and local side of things they have their own tax system for the needs on the state and local side of things which might be the sales tax. So the sales tax is going to be imposed when you purchase something like a use tax so it's going to be imposed on the customer when they purchase something which might be a similar kind of system as other countries, for example. So note that if you're imposing the tax when you purchase something you might be saying why is this little button up here then why isn't it down here in the customer side of things because that's when we're going to impose the tax. In other words, in theory the idea being when someone purchases something that's when they're going to get taxed on it. So that would mean that when you create an invoice or a sales receipt those would be the forms that you would think would be triggering the tax in which case we would charge the customer the customer in theory being the one that is paying the tax and that is true. That's basically how it works. So why is this thing up here? It's because when we create a sales receipt or an invoice and charge the customer for the tax then it's going to increase the payable account. And a payable account is similar to the way accounts payable works. It's a liability account and then you're going to have to pay off the payable account which means you're paying and that's something similar to a vendor. It's kind of different. It's a little bit different because you're really paying the tax collector who is really collecting in theory from the customer and you're kind of like the in-between person. You're not really buying anything from them but that's the idea. So if I go over here to the balance sheet for example and I'm in the balance sheet, I'm in the assets. If I go down to the liabilities there's the accounts payable. If I scroll down here there's the sales tax payable. So you can see it acts kind of like a payable account because we're going to have to pay it off in the future to the government. So let's go back to the homepage. Just a quick recap on how this would basically be set up. We'll go into this in more detail in the future but the general idea is that if you're subject to sales tax that would be dependent on the locality that you're in the state and local area that you're in and then the things that you sell oftentimes in the United States services are often not subject to sales tax and so it's usually the inventory that's being sold to the end product, the customer that's usually gonna be subject to the sales tax. So then you would turn sales tax on like going to the edit dropdown, preferences and you could do this when we set up the company. We'll talk about this when we set up the company a lot more detail but there's the sales tax. You have to add the sales tax item which you could do here. The items or something we'll look at later. Usually it's in the inventory items we think about mostly that's in the lists. Here's the items list. So here are the inventory items down here that have to be set up so they can charge the inventory and then we have to set up our inventory. These are the sales tax items. Then you gotta set up your inventory items. Those are the things we talked about a little bit when we said we're gonna purchase actual inventory because the inventory items are gonna be the ones that are subject to sales tax. So you gotta turn on the sales tax code and say they're subject to sales tax and then I'll close this back out and if that's all done properly when you actually then go to the homepage and create a sales form such as an invoice or sales receipt let's make an invoice. Let's go back to the prior one. This one has some sales tax. I'm gonna close out this. Notice the sales tax is now being applied down here based on that item. So now it calculated out the total cost that we're charging and then the cost of the sales tax. So we'll talk more about an invoice later but if we just kinda analyze what's happening here with an invoice the invoice is gonna increase the accounts receivable.  So that 1-1-4-19 you might say why doesn't that just go to income? You might think that that would go to income, income being the full 1,636-69 but that's and then when you pay the sales tax you would think that would be an expense, right? But the idea is that we're not the one paying the sales tax. So therefore it shouldn't hit the income statement at all. So basically that 1-1-4-1-9 goes directly when we create the invoice or sales receipt to the liability account and then we pay off the liability account. So for example, when I create this invoice if I go to the balance sheet and we go into the sales tax form then I'm gonna change the date up top from 0-1-0-1-2-4. We've got the increases with the invoices to the sales tax and then we make the payment with the payment. So what's gonna happen is the sales tax is gonna be increasing every time we make a sale that's subject to sales tax. The other thing that could adjust the sales tax is if we have customers that are not subject to sales tax we have to show it in the customer field that it's not subject to sales tax. We'll talk more about that later but that's the general idea.  So you can think about how this might work then of course and we'll talk more about this when we do the longer practice problem and actually set up the sales tax but if you might have to pay the sales tax say monthly or quarterly or possibly even yearly or something like that because and that would mean that if you pay it monthly for example in the month of January the sales tax would be going up and up and up and when you collect money from the customers and then you'll have to pay it by the end of February let's say right you'd have to pay it in the following month.  So now the button comes into play it's a little bit different than the bill because notice in the bill we increase the accounts payable with the bill for something we actually purchased and then we pay it down. The sales tax has a payable account which is similar but we never entered the bill because we never bought anything we're just the middle man that's collecting the taxes for the government. So we actually made a sale and then the government inserted themselves into the middle of that sale and said you have to collect money from the customer for us at the point of sale at which point we created a payable account that made the payable account go up. It would be like kind of like we entered the bill when we made the sale kind of thing increase in the payable account we collected money that we don't get to keep we have to pay it to the government. So then we would go into the manage the sales tax and we have some information like the sales tax liabilities which is just basically a report which will help us calculate the sales tax and then we could pay the sales tax which will go through the process of paying the sales tax so you could pay it from the checking account the check date, sales tax do through it's gonna show the sales tax do through the fall this point in time and usually again if we pay it like monthly if it was the end of the year 2000 we would pay the sales tax that was going up or been accumulated up through November that we would pay sometime say in December would be the general idea and this will basically help you to formulate late or make the payment this will basically create a check form which will be decreasing the checking account and the other side decreasing the sales tax so it's just like a check form it's just that we're using this cool little widget to do it to help us manage the sales tax so if I go back to the balance sheet then you could see that in the sales tax table that little widget will create the payment 010124 and we'll see the sales tax payment here right there so there's ones that's been created the other side's going through the checking account so it's basically just a check it's a kind of a fancy check and here's the actual form that's gonna be created from that widget it's just like a check except that at the bottom instead of just having an expense account it's got this little sales tax thing which will look similar if I close this back out close this back out and go back up top to the checking account and change the date from 010124 and we look at like a normal check here's a normal check looks much the same except down here we've got something similar to what we saw in the bill form an expense and an item tax it's going directly to the expense because we used a little widget it basically has the bottom half taken care of for us because we set up the sales tax system in that format to do so closing this back out, closing this back out so the general idea is that we're going to once everything is set up which we'll talk more about how to do in the second half of the course when we start up the company from scratch if everything is set up properly then it should be pretty easy to move forward because we have the system set up it's the setting up that really gets you to understand it more and we'll do that in the second half of the course but when set up, when we create the sales receipt or the invoice, invoice or the sales receipt when we make a sale that then is what's going to increase the liability because we're charging the customer for the sales tax the way the government is telling us to do and then we're going to pay off the sales tax with the widget which is in essence just like a check form you might say why don't I just use a check form because we're using a special check form similar to the special pay bill form which is going to help us to manage the proper amount to pay and it's going to give us a special little icon in the GL kind of data that we've been looking at the transaction detail reports to show that it is a check that was basically done through the sales tax thing which gives us a little bit more added information which is nice


In this video, we're going to take a look at how you work with spreadsheets in Excel. And this is specific to the lab number one for my physical sciences 153 class. If you're not familiar with spreadsheets, when you open it up in Excel, it should look something like this. To actually put information into the sheet, like where it says enter your name here, you click on that cell and you can just start typing your information in. On places where you're given an equation to enter, in the lab manual it will give you the exact formula and where to put it. So for example, B27 is this box and when you're clicked on it, it will tell you up here what the box is to make sure it's the box that you need. And on this particular thing in the lab manual, it tells you to type in equal SUM for sum, open parentheses, and then you can type in the specific box numbers or you can highlight those box numbers. So when I do that, it enters the D8 through D22. You need to close that off with parentheses and hit the Enter key and it will then calculate the value for you.  Since it's okay, we'll go ahead and just hit Enter again. Now in the lab you're going to be entering several formulas in these boxes here. I'm not going to show you all of those but you can ask me some questions if you need to. The other thing I want to show you about is how to make a graph. So we have this mass and volume data and we're going to highlight both columns so we have all the mass values and all of the volume values. And now we want to create a graph for that. In Excel, what we need to do is come to the Insert menu and you'll notice over here it's got charts. The particular type of chart we want to use for this lab is an XY Scatter plot. And when you click on that in Excel, it's going to bring up some different options and we want the one that just has dots. Now that's going to create your basic chart here. We actually want to add a few things to our chart which you can either add a chart element over here one at a time or you can click over here on the plus button and it will let you know everything that you might want to check. So for example we want to add some axis titles and that's going to include both the X and the Y. If you only wanted just the X or the Y, you could choose that option over there. That gives us our basic chart but you notice that they're just generic titles at this point. So I want to click on one of those like the top title and you can highlight that and you type in your actual name, maybe student measurements of wood blocks, which is what it told you in the lab manual, this data represented. And of course you can always click back if you've misspelled something, etc. Now for this graph, our first column is the X values. So down here on the X horizontal axis, we would want to change that to mass. And over here on the Y axis, that would be our values for the volume. So once you've entered those things in, now we have our full graph on our sheet. There's a lot of other options and things you can do with graphs but for this basic one for lab one, that's all you need to do. You can then answer the rest of the questions in the lab manual based off of this graph. But remember, don't just answer it off of the videos graph.  If you have any questions about how to work with graphs or equations inside the Excel spreadsheet, you can send me some questions and I'll be happy to help you out.


Welcome to Toffey TV to the Everton News Daily. It is the 22nd of May 2018 according to Sky Sports news insiders or whatever they call them. Marco Silva looks like he will be appointed as the Everton manager next week. That's what they're saying. I know we've heard that about four times. Literally every time I look at Twitter someone's saying it's almost done. It's almost done. They're saying it's almost done from what they believe. Sky Sports sources and all the rest of it. Alan Myers has said the same thing. A much trusted Everton source ex-director of communications. He's saying the same thing and obviously that comes from the same place but these things are not often wrong. Let's just say normally they've got the finger on the pulse of what's going on. This is after a day of not confusion but just it sounds like the search has been opened up a little bit. Reports of Marcel Brans taking charge of the home for a new manager which I think is absolutely spot on. That's what his role should be doing. It should be. He should be in charge. There should be a clear chain of command. He should be above the manager and by him going out and appointing that manager I think that is there for all to be seen including the manager Dario Point. There was talk of Eddie Howe today being in the frame. Being discussed at a board level which is fine. I think that's what they should be doing. They should be speaking about all possible candidates who are available. Michael Arthetter as well. His name's been thrown into the mix more by the media more by evertoning to think simply because it looked like he was getting the arsenal job and obviously at the last minute it looks like he's lost it to Emery there. His name has been thrown into the mix as well but it still looks like it's going to be Marco Silva. Also there's talk that everyone wants to give him a long term deal. If not a long term deal they want the manager to be in place to take Everton Football Club into a new stadium at Bramley Mordoch which will probably be four years away. So they are looking this to be a long term plan and to have a manager in place. A lot of talk today about Pellegrini going to West Ham. A lot of fans thinking why didn't we go after a manager like that. Names like Ars and Wenger have been muted before in the past. Everton are looking for a young hungry manager who can get in there and be a long term appointment where a long term plan can be followed by not just by obviously the manager but by set out by myself, brands, mastermind and it all. So next week hopefully something will be sorted next week. I know listen there's a lot of people out there who don't want Marco Silva but so who do you want? The field of managers has been I think got a lot smaller in the week in the last week or so. Emery someone I would have loved him, someone I would have loved before Cumin but obviously he's going to Arsenal now so that's been taken away from us and you know you look elsewhere who are the names that you'd be looking at to take over because I honestly don't see that many left now. Ar Tete, you know people are mentioning him but for all the things people are pointing out at Marco Silva you know he's done wrong or hasn't done or whatever. Ar Tete has done nothing, he's not even a manager so we'll have to wait and see. I still firmly believe it'll be Silva and he will be probably appointed next week. So on leaving Evan today is Lauren Stewart who is, I think he was the head scout, much sought after scout, a bit of a coup when we got him. I think we got him from Manchester City. He was Steve Walsh's top man at the club. He's leaving the club for RB Leipzig. Now we don't know whether he's doing this off his own back or whether he's being pushed or whatever but he's leaving and it looks like there's going to be a start of a reshuffle as Marcel Brands gets in and starts getting to work on sorting it out. Now listen, if he's been Evan's top scout I'd love to know who he found for us because it's not like Evan have unearthed major gems in the last two years or so. So is there a loss? I don't know, only time will tell. Maybe his hands were tied by what was going on in Evan. I don't know but I'd rather have Marcel Brands come in and get to work on getting his own people in place and finding the best for us that he thinks that will be part of the new setup at Everton Football Club. We've been linked with Lewis Merrell today. Columbian International plays for Seville. They bought him last year from Sampdoria for £17.5 million, scored seven in 24 which is not a brilliant retain. We've been linked with loads of wingers to be honest in the last few days considering we've got Wolcott at the club and we've got some like Luckman at the club. We've been linked with a lot of wingers but obviously the media put two and two together and this is what they come up with so we've been linked with it with him today. Not really much else going on today as the club take a deep breath and start to look at their options as the way forward. The next big one will be obviously getting the manager in charge. Get the manager in place and then we'll start looking at our players and trying to bring players in in the coming days. Anyway hopefully we'll have more fantastic amazing news for you tomorrow on the Everton News Daily. We'll see you then.


Hi guys, I'm live. How are you doing good today? Excuse the glare in the back. Let me see if I can cover my big head like any clips. So how are y'all today? Are y'all doing good? Good morning. Hi Marla, or wait, I can't see. Okay, yeah, it's Marla. How are you? Hi Tamara, how are you?  So when you're, you know, how you think is what you're gonna attract. So if you only think you deserve a type of partner that is going to treat you bad, not going to support you, broke, and all that kind of stuff, that's exactly what you're going to keep attracting to you because you don't feel like you deserve better. Okay, so if you get into the mindset first that you deserve better and you believe that, that's when people that are going to benefit your lifestyle are going to start coming into it, okay? So make sure if you feel like you deserve better to start acting like you deserve better and start doing, taking actions to let the world know that you know that you deserve better because people will treat you like you treat yourself, okay? For example, if you walk in and you're looking very homely and raggedy, and you sit down at a restaurant, the waitress, she's not going to treat you as good as a person who walks in, dressed nice, smelling good, walking confident, you know, she's going to treat that person better. Why? Because that person has standards that are visible, okay?  You don't even treat yourself right. So, you know, I don't really care because I don't think you're going to give me a tip. Anyway, so I'm not going to treat you as nice as this other person. Now, don't let money have anything to do with it because that lady who's dressed super nice, she could be like, you know, shopping at Goodwill, finding designer brands on sale, you know, making fashion out of thrift items, you know, but she has that mindset and that mentality and she treats herself better and feels better about herself. So therefore, that's what she's going to attract. The people are going to give her their A list treatment.  So I don't think that she be wife, but maybe I could sleep with her, you know, so they're going to gravitate towards that and they're not even going to take anything you say seriously. They're not going to consider you a wife. They're not going to take you to meet their parents with stuff hanging out like that. OK, you're going to be put on a different shelf. Your shelf is I'll call you when I have urges. OK, now if he walks in, he sees a very classic lady who's well put together, who is very confident herself, who obviously looks like she loves herself and has high standards.  She's respectable, you know, he's going to treat her that way. He's going to approach her totally different. He's not going to come up and say, Hey, baby, how you doing? What's your name?  He's not going to automatically try to sleep with her. He's going to try to get to know her, make friends with her and press her, you know, try to see how she responds to him. So he's going to be at her mercy. You know what I mean? So that would lead to a courtship. OK, so if it was with the other woman with all the things showing, that's going to lead to late night calls, you know, no commitment. That's going to lead to, you know, friends with benefits, but it's not going to lead to something serious, you know. And yes, these kind of men will have both type of women. OK, they're only going to wife one type, though. OK, so y'all remember that. Oh, and also like, OK, so ladies, I know a lot of y'all don't have a lot of money to work with. Y'all have expenses. And like I said, anyone can upgrade partners. But first, you got to upgrade yourself. OK, because that's how you attract the upgraded person.  So, you know, if you don't have a lot of cash, go to one of those really nice resale shops, go to Goodwill Select and they have Michael Kors clothing. They have nice shoes. They have the designer rack and you're not going to pay that much. OK. So you can get cute for cheap these days.  So it's just what you pick out.  OK, that screams out, you know, too much, too much, just too much. Try to stick with neutral colors. Try to stick with things that don't have a lot of pattern on them unless they're classic patterns like stripes or something and try to, you know, make pick out items that look classy, that can take you to any place. You know what I'm saying?   So basically before you can upgrade partners, you got to upgrade yourself, upgrade your thinking too, you know, if you're going to try to upgrade a partner and you feel like you don't belong in certain environments, then how's that going to work? OK, so it's very you need to go into those environments alone and practice just feeling like you belong. You know what I'm saying?  That's where you belong. OK. If that's where you see yourself in 10 years, married to some guy that is wealthy, then that's where you belong anyway. So get in there and start getting all that energy, you know, getting all that frequency of belonging there. So the next time you go, you just, oh, yes, I know where the bathroom is. Oh, yes, a bartender. I have my regular, then you belong. OK, a lot of people are scared to get out of their little box or their environment because they're afraid of rejection. OK, people do not reject the people. Do not reject confidence or money. OK. If you have confidence and enough money to buy your drink, you belong. OK. Um, I was in my Facebook group. Someone, I'm not going to name their name, but if you're in the group, you know, someone told me a story about how they just moved to New York. They told the group the story. But they just moved to New York and they didn't have a lot of money, but they wanted to get in that frequency of wealth.  They were nice, but they were athletic. You know, it was athletic wear, but it was nice athletic wear. And they went into one of the nicest department stores in New York and walked around with confidence, you know, look at shoes, look at clothing, talk to the staff.     OK, so that's how you have to do stuff. You can't be afraid.  What are you, what are you scared of? What's the worst they can do? Call security, you know? And, you know, they're not going to do that because that's going to cause a lot of attention and negative attention. So put on your best outfit, make sure you look good, don't smell good, you know, all that kind of stuff and go somewhere and sit there until you feel you belong. OK, and before you know it, people are going to start associating you and with being successful and prosperous and they're going to gravitate towards you. And that's how you attract your upgraded partner. OK. Right. Yes. People are attracted to confidence. OK, think about this. Have you ever seen a guy and they were just very confident and they were blah, blah, blah, blah. And everybody was attracted to them like. People were attracted to them like flies because of their confidence, right? They might not have had the best things in the world, the best cars, the nicest house, but their confidence is what attracted people, you know, and then opportunities came because of their energy. Opportunities came to them and eventually they did upgrade to those nice things that everyone else had because your confidence in yourself attracts other confident people, other successful people. OK, so that's how you have to get with yourself. A lot of a lot of people walk around feeling defeated like they'll never find someone better and that that's all they can get is was laying on their couch at home.  You know, I have all the money in the world. I just don't have the woman I want.   OK, and guys don't don't even come because y'all don't even know half the stuff that goes on in the real world with women. OK, I think have y'all ever seen Nino Brown on Facebook? His videos are hilarious. OK? His videos are hilarious. He had a video and I put it up in my group talking about gold diggers are not for working men. And, you know, he was trying to be nice but you could tell he was kind of calling out men who are chasing after, you know, certain women that they can't have. And because they work a regular job and they'll never have the type of money that, you know, the gold digger really wants. So the gold digger will eventually stop messing with them and move on to something bigger because, you know, she starts to feel guilty about taking his little chick. So he was advising guys who work a nine to five to go get a woman that's working too and y'all build together. But he was like, these gold diggers are not for you. So basically what he was saying in a nutshell was stop chasing gold diggers. You're not going to ever catch one unless you're rich. OK? They're not even targeting you. You're targeting them. OK? So a lot of men say, oh, I don't want no gold digger. Oh, the gold diggers aren't targeting you. You're targeting them. You're approaching them. You're coming at them. You're maybe with your number. Let me take care of you. I've got this bill knowing that your car noticed two months behind. Gold diggers don't target broke men. So if y'all are mad at gold diggers, don't be mad at them. Be mad at yourself. You're the one that approach. You know, it's like no gold digger is going to go approach some man that drives an average car and works the average job. That ain't going to happen unless it's an emergency situation. OK? Emergency. OK. Now I'm not trying to put down people. I'm just being very honest. OK. OK. I don't know what eating disorder. Someone hasn't had sex and developed an eating disorder and had pre-enforment, for pharmacy anxiety. What do I do? Fix the problem, you know? If you haven't done that for three months, gain weight and feel like you can't do nothing because you feel uncomfortable in your body, then lose weight, you know? Or gain the confidence you need to go and get it just like you are. There's only two choices you got. That's the only two choices you got. Lose it or claim it. Inflant it. Either way, you got a choice. They make plus size lingerie. And no man ever turned down one for sex because they was fat. OK, believe me. Anyways, oh, were you a man? E.D. I thought E.D. was eating disorder. Somebody said erection, erectile dysfunction. Oh, OK.  Well, I feel like you will need to start making a lot of money.  The only other way to feel masculine is to have something, is to be successful, is to have all the other things, all the other trappings of masculinity, success, wealth, blah, blah, blah, blah, you know what I'm saying? And women are automatically attracted to that. And maybe it will help your confidence and maybe it will help you lose the weight and maybe it will help you gain your confidence back. And then maybe if you're on some type of medication that causes the E.D., you could probably get off if you get healthier, you know what I'm saying?  And that's why they're with them. That's the main reason they're with them because they don't want to have sex. They just want companionship and something. OK, y'all can't give me all these initials and stuff because I'm going to make up my own meaning for them. Y'all got to spill it out. OK, he has been losing weight slowly but he's still scared and can't stay.  You ever thought about that? Any man that can't do this either is not attracted to you or they're gay or they've got medication problems. You know what I'm saying? They could have high blood pressure because that's also cause of that. Bye-bye. Someone says bye. Kimberly says bye. Yeah, I'm not going to be on too long. Maybe 20 more minutes. OK, so men. I know a lot of men are watching. Not too many, but men. How can you upgrade on a woman? Let me give y'all the other side of the story. Men, if you're always attracting women who you don't feel motivated by, I'm going to be honest. The woman that will change your life, that will upgrade you as well just by dating her, is the type of woman that motivates you to want to be a better man. If you're dating a woman who does not make you feel like you want to go be a better person, make more money, accomplish more in life, then that's the wrong woman. If you're with a woman who makes you want to give up on life, quit your job, or not even want to be around her and embarrassed of her, that's not the woman for you.  That's the right woman. If you're dating someone and you can't think about them like that, you're wasting your time. This is how women see men. This is why women always want this commitment real quick. This is why women are always serious about when they date and who they're dating because this is how we see y'all. We want to better ourselves and better our lives so we look for the man that can do that.   You know what I'm saying? If you're just having sex to have sex, you're losing energy, time, and money. If you're sleeping with a woman who motivates you to get up and become a millionaire, you're benefiting from that sex, okay?  I motivated my husband into higher salaries, bigger houses, nicer cars, just by being me. Why? Because he knows my standards, what I expect, what I could have had, what I should have had, okay? So if you don't have that type of one, look at Steve Harvey, okay? And his new wife, what's her name? Marjorie, whatever. He went from country to Versace because this lady, she upgraded him.  I need this, I need that. And he blew up even more.  He woke up only wanting to please her. That's the kind of woman you need, man. Okay? If that's not the kind of woman you have, you are in that relationship and you settled, okay? You settled, you settled.   Y'all remember that movie Scarface? When Al Pacino saw, what's her name? Michelle Pfeiffer, he was like, that's the one, that's gonna be my wife. And he pushed it to the limit. He pushed it to the limit until he got his wife, okay? He woke up every day, sold drugs, murdered people so he could get this woman, okay? That's a bad example. But that's what motivated, that's what pushed him. That's what pushed him, pushed him, pushed him. And he wouldn't ever got that successful if that woman wouldn't have disrespected him.  So if y'all haven't seen Scarface, y'all go watch Scarface, okay? How are you today? What, okay? Oh, someone says, married men live longer than single men, that's true. My husband should have been dead, okay? If I wouldn't have married him, he'd be in the casket, okay? Because I changed his diet. I changed the way he eats, what he drinks, the type of food, all that, he used to be real bad. So I think his lifespan has gotten longer. Plus we had kids and now he has something to live for. How do you motivate a man by having high standards and making sure that they like you more than you like them because they're gonna do anything they need to do to please you? Which is impress you, compete with other men to keep you because it's always a competition, unless you're married and it's still a competition. But in order to keep you happy and not entertaining any other thoughts, a man has to be giving you exactly what you want. So someone keeps asking about piercings and stuff like that, blah, blah, blah, blah. I have facial piercings. Some people don't like what to say when they give a nasty comment about them. Okay, well if you have facial piercings and a lot of tattoos and things like that, you need to understand that not everybody finds that attractive. And then a lot of people do. So you just need to gravitate towards those people that do. There are a lot of successful alternative type guys out there, people that own tattoo shops, artists, things like that. So you have to kind of go towards that area of partners instead of the classic corporate boring people that don't like all of this. You're gonna have to go over here or take them out. I don't know, whatever you think is best, but not everyone is gonna accept that.  And that's true. I didn't have any tattoos when I got married. I only had my ears pierced, that's it. And that was a plus because my husband was like, you have any tattoos? I was like, nope. And I think that was something that a lot of men like, just depending on who they are, if they got tattoos, they don't want a bunch of tattoos all over their woman. Because sometimes it's like, okay, tattoos have meanings behind them. If you got a tattoo with your ex-boyfriend, that memory is always gonna be there and a reminder. If you got a tattoo with his name on it or some initials on it, he's always gonna be wondering what those initials mean. And if you lied to him about it, so it's kind of distracting. And it takes away from, if you're gonna get tattoos, get them after you're married, okay? That's my vibe. If you already have them, then that's fine. At these days, people know people have tattoos, but I'm saying if you don't have any yet, at least wait or get a classy one in a place where it doesn't show and it's not crazy-looking, unless that's the kind of man you want as well, you know what I'm saying? Okay, a guy that you've been dating with for the last two months will come up to every excuse to keep him from his apartment. What do you think? We spent a lot of time together, but he's excellent.  That's a big red flag. Either it's three things. Someone lives there with him. He ain't got no furniture. Or he has many girls that come over there and he don't want you bumping into none of them and popping up, okay? You're not welcome. So, I don't know, I would just ignore it. I would be like, oh, you know what? I would just start making fun of it.    You probably got roaches or something. Just have a little slide comment. Oh, you probably got roaches and rats or something. I understand. You know, they sell insect foggers at Walmart, you know?   You don't want me to know about. So, you know, I don't got no roommate, blah, blah, blah.   But now he has to live with the fact that you feel like he has roaches and rats and roommates and still live with his mama. So he's got to, you know, he's, that's not impressive. So he's got to correct the situation. So whatever it is, he's gonna correct it within that time period and then you'll be invited over. But you've got to work on it. It can't just be instant because he needs time to fix whatever's going on over there. You know what I'm saying? Right. Okay. Roaches, I'm 25, my sugar daddy's 55. I use him to buy me things but now he wants to take it a step further. I don't know how to give him the run around nicely but I still want him to buy me things. This is the funny part. Okay, so you with someone you don't wanna have sex. Tell them you don't sleep with men outside of a committed relationship. And when you say committed, that means you have to, you know, treat me like, you know, we're going to be together. We're gonna be married, you know? And when I'm in a committed relationship, I have certain standards. You know, all bills have to be paid. You've got to pay my mortgage, my house, my lights, all these things because, you know, once I submit, use the word submit, once I submit to a man, I wanna feel comfortable and protected and, you know, I'm giving, you know, my body to someone and I expect to feel secure and protected in that relationship, you know? So if you want to sleep with me, we're gonna have to, you know, have some type of direct deposit situation going on, all my bills have to be paid, blah, blah, blah, blah. It's like, I take, you know, I take my body seriously. I don't just give it away to anyone and I feel it's really strongly about this and just like give them this whole speech and look sincere and be dressed really innocent and be like, yes, you know, you know, material things are nice.  And that is when you're gonna get the most stuff because now he's trying to impress you and convince you to get in a relationship, a committed relationship with him, so he's gonna be buying you extra stuff and then you can use that time to go look for someone new and still get your stuff before you exit, okay. I know it's a trick, a tricky trick, but it works, okay, bye. Thanks for asking that question. I gotta go in 10 minutes, y'all. I have a consultation. Dating a man who's divorced isn't final yet. You're the rebound and don't take it seriously, okay. Just get what you can out of it. If you're dating a man who's not yet divorced, they're not trying to get right back into a relationship or a marriage, they're trying to have fun, they just got free. You're the rebound, okay, anyways. I've been seeing a man, he's married, although his marriage is on the rocks, he wants me to wait until he's divorced. It has been one year. Okay, again, if you're put on waiting list, that means you're not priority, so get some other options. How to exit the game when you're done using a man. A, get pregnant by someone else fictitiously. Oh, I'm pregnant by my ex-boyfriend. Then he's gonna say bye, Felicia. That's how you exit. Or you say I'm moving. No, I'm moving, or you say I'm getting back with my ex. Okay, what else? Thank you, thank you someone said my makeup is lovely. Okay, how do you make friendships when you're the only one married? I don't know, I don't have any single friends. Everybody, I know it was married, but I don't really have too many friends either.  So, only hang out with them when you're free of kids and husband and y'all can actually go and hang out together and don't talk about marriage and stuff while you're with them. Make it seem like old times. Thanks, anyone experience a millionaire dating site? Okay, I wonder how do you maintain, okay. I'm trying to read some of the questions before I go. Don't listen to the man in the comments, they're trying to get stuff free. Any man who's on here commenting is broke and trying to get stuff for free from women, okay. Don't listen to them. Okay, so I've seen this video of this one woman, someone posted in the group talking about how McDonald's is a date and talking in the car is a date and sitting on a stoop is a date and all this kind of crazy stuff and that it's okay.  We two different people. We have two different sets of standards. And when someone tries to lower standards of women by the masses, what does that tell you?  That should tell you something.  First of all, it tells me A, I don't think I'm worth anything but a happy meal or a number three. That's the value on me, okay. Second of all, I don't want a man to spend a lot of money on me because first of all, I already know that I have issues and I know he's gonna be mad if he spent, you know, $100 on dinner and he finds out A, B, C, D, G, F, G, H, I, J, K, L, M, and P about me. But if he takes me to McDonald's and have all these issues, he's gonna overlook them because I'm cheap. I'm a cheap date. So he can overlook all my issues. So when you agree to cheap dates is because you have low self-esteem, lots of issues, and you hope that by being cheap and lowering your standards, it's gonna get you a man.  You have to fake it until you make it, okay. And you can eat good. You don't have to sit at McDonald's because you got bad credit, 10 kids and you know, live in the bad part of town. They don't have to know all of that, you know. So I'm sorry, you know. I can't agree with any woman that tells somebody to take date self to McDonald's on a date and be okay with it. Unless they're in junior high school and that is an appropriate junior high school meet and greet. I ain't gonna say date because I've seen junior high kids take people on movie dates or you know, dates to something that was way better, a carnival or something, right? Like why can't he take you to a carnival, okay? Why gotta be McDonald's, you know. She didn't even say Starbucks, y'all. She didn't even say coffee, you know. Because this costs the same thing as a supersized value bill. So you know what I'm saying? I don't know. You know what the sad thing is? There were so many women agreeing with her in the comments. I think you're right. I think you're true. Men don't need to spend a lot of money to get to know you. Men don't need to spend a lot of money to date. It's, you know, that takes the whole getting to know someone for themselves, you know, out of context. And I'm like, that's like, y'all ready to reception at McDonald's too? Or Burger King, which one? Horseback riding, yeah, that's a good date. Okay. Thing, I got two minutes left, y'all. Okay, you asked a friend to pay your bill that was like under $200 and they said they did not have it, the money until today. How do I drop him? Well, get the money first and foremost. And tell him this is gonna be a weekly or monthly thing. Will you be able to help me out next month too? And if he says no, then drop him. We'll get the money first. I'm talking to a doctor. He's doing quite well, but not particularly rich. He has said that he wants to settle down. So should I go for it? He is a good man, but I know that has, he has the potential to make money. Okay, doctors, they don't start making money until they're old, okay? If he's young, if he's a young doctor, it's gonna be a long time before he get paid, okay? Why? Because they got medical bills.  They have to build up their practice. They gotta work for the county or some little cheap clinic before they can start really getting paid. Most doctors don't start getting paid till they're like 40, 50, 60, okay? And if they're an eye doctor, you know, unless they sell designer glasses and have their own business, nope. Garbage men probably make the same as a doctor that's just coming out of school, okay? What do I consider a high six-figure salary? Well, it just depends on where you live because like I said, like some states, the cost of living is really high versus some states are really low. And the salary is different for each job in different states. So if you live in a state or a city where the cost of living is low, you could get away with like 200,000 a year. But if you live somewhere where it's really high, 500,000 plus is, you're gonna be good.  And then if you have kids, that's not a problem. But if you're going for any type of six-figure man, make sure that they're in a career that will grow, okay? Because, or that they can advance in because that means it'll only grow and it won't shrink, you know what I'm saying? Okay, okay. So the troll guy is saying women have to have their own things going before anyone will take them seriously. Well, you know, most women do have things going. Like, you know, that's only a problem with men. Women have lots of ambition and careers.   When I met my husband, I told y'all, I was a mortician, okay? I embalmed dead people, I drove herses, I worked in a funeral home, I worked around millionaires, politicians, surgeons, doctors, okay, that was my circle. But, you know, that doesn't mean that I didn't want a successful man to take care of me and take me away from it, okay? Oh, that brings me, I gotta go y'all, but that brings me to probably my next video topic. I actually have two video topics coming up.  And then another video topic that's coming up is types of careers and jobs that will lead you to meeting wealthy men, okay?  So, leave y'all something to research and maybe y'all can comment on some other places that I might leave out that careers that will boost your chances of marrying or upgrading to a better partner, okay? What are my thoughts on marrying for money?  Have you been watching my channel? My thoughts on marrying for money? It's smarter, wiser, more beneficial, more responsible to marry for money than it is to marry for love, can't argue with that, okay?  Who you date and sleep with, if that can affect two generations from now and pay your grandkids way through life, you did good, you know, you're gold. So, if you married for love and y'all struggled and your grandkids struggled and they grandkids struggled and they didn't, what kind of love is that? What kind of love is that, okay? I married for the love of my seeds. I married for the love of my future generations. I married for the love of the last name that attaches itself to my children, okay? There you go. Okay, so women who think they're better than men and men who think they're better than women, okay, whatever. So a man think it so he is, so a woman think it so she is, you know? You probably are better than a lot of men and a lot of there are some men that are better than a lot of women, you know? No one's equal unless you're twins and then there's always the evil twin. So somebody's in here talking about the government backs up women for getting pregnant. Well, at least somebody do thank you government because you know, some of these men out there don't, you know, they think they could just get women pregnant and walk away free.    So you look at you in America and on child support. Don't move to Canada. Oh, if I can notify you guys when I'm going live, I can do it like a pre-video. Say, hey, I'm going live tomorrow. That's the best I can do. Or you can click the bell on my subscriber button next to my subscriber button and it'll send something to your phone. Say, hey, something, something is live or something, something's uploaded a video. Okay, let's see. I'm trying to answer the last question then I really gotta go because I think somebody's waiting on me. Oh, there they are.  Is it okay if we do it at 12 or to do it now? Let's see what they say. Okay, oh, so one PM my time? Is that okay? It's for a good cause, okay? My husband's downstairs working right now cause he can work from home like half the time and then he works in his office the other half. I was trying to get him to do a video with me but he says no, he's not, he's very camera shy. And it's like, you know, a man need to see a good example of how a real man operates because they need some mentors. They need to see what success looks like. They need to see what a man who provides and protects family and kids on purpose looks like. You know, and their reasoning behind it and how his woman has helped him reach new heights and new levels and new status.  People automatically think you have more than what you have.  So fake it till you make it, okay?  So, you know, a beautiful woman who you can fully take care of who's not out sleeping with everybody because are you taking care of all her needs including financial needs? She's gonna up your status.   Well, half the time that's stuff not even true but that's how you're gonna get treated, that's what you're gonna attract and eventually that's what you will be.    And most rich men who are very successful will tell you that if there wasn't the certain woman they were trying to impress or whatever, they wouldn't be where they are, they wouldn't get out the damn bed, you know? And that's really the truth, hold on. Okay, they said though, wait till 12. I'll say thank you. So, yes. Men, if you really want to, if you're happy at your mediocre state in life with your $40,000 a year and your nice apartment and your generic sports car, that's fine. Women are not impressed with that unless they have less than that or don't want more than that for themselves or their family. I'm not impressed with it because I can make that in my sleep. I was just talking to my husband right now how I can afford my dream car but I don't wanna get it. And he's like, you need to go ahead and get it, and you only live once. And I'm like, well, you're right, I might go get it. I'm thinking about it, I might go get it. But then I said once I get this dream car, then what am I gonna wake up for? What am I gonna want after that? Is it ever gonna be enough? And I'm like, let me move out of this mindset first before I go and get my dream car because I have to feel like I'm supposed to have it and it's supposed to be mine, I'm supposed to be driving it and I have to be comfortable in my mindset at that time. Even I have issues with progressing so fast that I feel like sometimes I need to slow down a little bit because it's almost like, once you have everything you want, what else is there to want? And that's one of the things that I'm always thinking about like once I have everything I want, then what? Then what? I got all these purses, all these nice car, all this jewelry, every type of makeup, all nice clothes. What's next? What else do I want?  You come out of the shopping phase because you have everything.  And I don't feel like I want my kids to grow and understand that they don't come that easy. So I'm kinda slowing it down so I can teach them. I'm just doing this so I can teach them.  Cause I don't want them to be asking for my dream car when they turn 16. Oh no, you got to work, okay?  I don't wanna spoil my kids, that's what I'm saying. Don't wanna think everything comes this easy. They don't see me putting in work, they don't see him putting in work. They just see us when we are off duty. How can you use alchemy in the process of finding a rich man? Okay, alchemy is, you know, spiritual alchemy is basically using universal laws to get what you want. Okay, so universal law, okay. The law of correspondence is the first law that you need. This is cause and effect, basically. Okay, so you have to cause yourself to meet a rich man. And how do you cause yourself to meet a rich man? How do you cause that? Okay, this is how you cause it. You go to places where they hang out. You sit there until one approaches. The effect is they will introduce themselves. You will meet a rich man. Now it's up to you to keep this going, okay?  So after you cause the situation and you get the effect you want, now you're moving into the law of rhythm. Okay, this means everything that goes up must come down. This means polarity, okay? This means if this man has every, if you give this man everything, eventually he's not gonna want it anymore because you have it all. Just like I explained, once the shopping novelty is gone, you want something else. So never give them your all. You will always keep the balance. He will never stop, he will never get bored of you. He will never seek something else because he's gotten everything because now the pendulum is swinging back and forth right here instead of here and then here. You're keeping it right here. You're keeping it in balance.   So another way that you can use alchemy is the law of gender.  Do not try to be the man and man do not try to be the woman. This is how you rich men like to be masculine and they like feminine women, okay? That's why a lot of successful women have a tough time meeting a partner that has money because they like ultra feminine. The law of the universe is that there's always a feminine energy and a masculine energy, okay? If you're super masculine, you don't want another masculine energy. You need a super feminine energy to balance you. So that's why it's important, okay? And another universal law that you can use is the law of vibration, okay? Now this is a really important one, okay? The law of vibration represents that everything is in motion, okay? Nothing is a solid. Everything is in motion. Everything is energy.  This means that your energy and your focus and your words can affect a person. Just by talking to them, feeling something and being in their presence, you're gonna shift their vibration and their energy, okay? So if you're thinking, I'm gonna marry a rich man. I'm only supposed to marry rich men. I can't marry anyone but a rich man. You're vibrating that. That's your energy. Your energy is gonna be transferred to the man sitting next to you. And if he's rich, he's gonna feel like this is the type of woman that I'm supposed to marry. This is the type of woman that wants to marry me. This is the type of woman that I deserve. This is the type of woman who is supposed to be with someone like me because that's what you're vibrating.   Oh, I feel really insecure. I don't belong here. I should have dressed better. I should have did ABC and D. And then this guy's over here. Why is she here? She should have put on some clothes. What's that thing on her head? Now you're sending that energy to him and he's gonna move away. Cause it ain't, you know, that's what you're sending out. But that's why it's important to look your best when you go out because of the law of vibration.  Okay, now that's some metaphysics and stuff but you can apply it to dating. Okay, Oprah style. Uh, don't ever, don't ever pay 50-50 on any dates. You don't pay on dates, ladies. If you're paying on dates, you're dating the wrong man. So if you can't do any better or you feel like you don't deserve any better, then this is not the channel for you. Okay, you don't date man who asks you to pay. Okay, that's just a no-no. Unless they're handicapped or you're a younger member of your family. That's male.  You know, I saw this guy who was rolling around a wheelchair in a mall with this really pretty girl and she had about 10 shopping bags like from Michael Kors, Polo, Neiman Marquez Sacks and she was just walking right next to the wheelchair dude. And I know he had money cause he just took this girl shopping, you know. Gold diggers will stoop to the highest and to the lowest levels, but they gonna get what they want. I think she married him though. I told the whole story of my group, but for her time's sake, I can't really tell the whole story, but yeah. Let's see. Let's see. Okay. The group, if someone's asking about the group, I'm not letting a lot of guys in. There's only like two guys in the group and they're on our team. So if guys are trying to get in the group, I'm not letting y'all in. I'm so sorry about that. Y'all got y'all own groups. Y'all don't need to be up in here learning our secrets and tricks because they get more detailed in the group because, you know, there's more time spent there. But the group is called, let me tell y'all what it's called. It is called Shira Seven, two words, she, raw, seven, spelled out, seven, dating, relationships, advice. Okay. And it has Rihanna on the cover art going like this from the Bitch Better Have My Money video. That's how you know me. Okay. Sorry. So, yep. Like I said, oh, I got seven minutes left, y'all. Okay, so let me tell y'all a story about the life coach because somebody just mentioned the life coach. Okay, so there was a few people I had to kick out of the group because they were like going and snitching and telling all our business. And these were women. And they were, one of them was a life coach and another one didn't wanna be there because the group just wasn't for her. So she left on her own. But before you join this group, there are, this is not about finding true love. This group is not about finding true love, okay? It's about logic and strategy and to getting the lifestyle that you want, the type of partner that you want, the type of relationship that you want at this time. Okay, it's not about finding true love and happiness and struggle love. It's not about that. It's about, look, I wanna live good. What are the steps I need to take? Give me some advice, you know? That's what it's about. It's not about, you know, waiting on somebody to improve and marrying for potential or, you know, waiting on somebody to get divorced. It's about getting what you want right now, okay? So if you come in, if you come in to get, you know, some advice on love and struggle and stuff like that, don't come to this group. It's not for you, okay? This very cutthroat sharp to the point, like women will be dating an 80-year-old man up in this group if he has a couple million dollars, okay? Okay. So this is for the serious person that wants to change their life by upgrading who they're dating, okay?  Some people will date an 80-year-old man, some people won't, okay? But they're not afraid to tell you what they'll do. Some people will only date certain, you know, certain type of guys who make this amount of money. Some people will date lower, you know, level guys, but still get paid, you know? It all depends on your status and where you are in life right now. But nobody judges each other like, oh, are you with him? You could do, you know, you are where you are for now, and eventually you work your way up, okay?  They might look 10 times better than me, you know? And that's what they deserve. So they might have 10 times better games than me and that's what they deserve, you know? But, you know, I feel like if you feel like you deserve it, that's what you're gonna get.  If you feel like you deserve it, you're gonna get it, okay? Everybody in the comments, all the guys telling me I don't deserve what I got. My husband is this, my husband is that. He gonna leave you one day, I don't feel that way. I feel like I deserve everything plus more and that's why I keep getting it. Because I feel it, I vibrate deserving more. I vibrate getting more, I vibrate this, okay? That's why you're there because you feel like any type of woman that will deal with you doesn't deserve anything. That's why you don't get no women. That's why all the women y'all mess with are low class and y'all can't get anywhere. Because you feel like she don't deserve nothing. Therefore, you feel like you don't deserve nothing. So I can't help y'all there, guys. It's all in here. Girls are never bums. What are you talking about? Girls are not bums, okay? We got money, okay? I got money, I got money. My own money, I have my own money. I'm not a bum. I'm just teaching women how to upgrade their relationships status, you know? And most of these women, like I said, they have good jobs. They have good careers. They're not just sitting at home in their mom's house on YouTube trolling men's videos. They actually have money already, you know? Every woman I've talked to, they're not broke, okay? Because they're just not. Like, the difference between men and women is that women have ambition, goals, drives, because we like comfort, we like things. We like to have stuff. We can't go without stuff, so we gotta go work, okay? We can't go without stuff. Y'all can't. All y'all need is a hair cut and some soap. And some of y'all don't even use the soap, okay? So women are always gonna do good, no matter what, because we like things. That's just it.  Women are not bummed.   We can get paid to just stand there naked, okay? We can get paid to talk on the phone to a man. We can get paid to do the simplest, stupidest, we can get paid to sprinkle glitter on a potato, okay? There are men out there who will click $50 to see a woman sprinkle some glitter on a potato. Why, I don't know, but we can get paid for it. Can you get paid for that? Women are not bummed. We are magical creatures that can get paid to sprinkle glitter on a potato, okay? So don't come up in here and talk about women are bummed. Women can make a job out of no job, okay? And they don't even have to look cute, okay? You can have messed up teeth and everything and still do good in life. I got one minute left, y'all. I'm having fun, but male strippers, yeah, but y'all gotta work.  Y'all gonna go like $2, $1, and y'all gotta actually work out, sweat, put oil on your body, go to work.  Y'all gotta do some tricks and y'all gotta take Viagra and what else? Y'all gotta do a bunch of stuff, get some costumes and learn how to dance and have some type of gimmick. Y'all gotta work way harder. I've been to the female strip club and the male strip club. Female strip club, they just take off their clothes and go like this. And men, they have to do push-ups, dance, flip, swing from rope, yeah, I've been to the gym. They shave everybody part, every hair on their body. What else? They gotta get waxed, they gotta do a lot. The stuff that they wouldn't normally do, so, yeah.  That men do, okay? Okay, so I gotta go, y'all. My consultation is waiting for a bit. So I'll see y'all on the next one. Share this video, y'all know people need to hear this. Y'all know y'all got that one friend who entertained and that broke dude and making excuses for him instead of bragging on him. This is what they need to hear, all right? I'll see y'all later. Bye!


Love and romance are usually explained through the words of poets and musicians, but that hasn't stopped psychologists and neurobiologists from offering their own scientific and clinical takes on the subject of passion. So what is passion? Love can be passionate, but so can sexual desires. So how do we tell the difference? We're here to take a look at what the experts have to say about love and sex so you can decide if what you're feeling is really love or intense sexual chemistry. Sex and attachment. We express and feel love in a lot of ways. We have love languages and attachment styles that tie into our psychology and make us who we are. How we express our sexual desires is no different. They also relate to our attachment styles and can tell us a lot about how we really feel about our relationship expert Dr. Emily Impett conducted a study that explored the relationship between attachment and sexual expression. These attraction styles relate to sex specifically and may not be your overall attachment style. What she and her colleagues found was that an anxious attachment style to sex led people to want to please their partners.  In other words, it had a purpose beyond lust and didn't replace other aspects of love and romance in the relationship. People with avoidant attachment style were more likely to simply use sex to avoid conflicts.  In other words, their relationship was built on sexual chemistry and not love.  You may both have a high libido and suit each other in that way, but this can also say a lot about your or your partner's desires. What are your goals when you have sex? Are you and your partner caring about each other's needs? When you have sex, you take responsibility for someone else's safety, comfort, and pleasure. In another piece of research by Dr. Emily Impett and her colleagues published in Current Sexual Health Reports, they discuss what it implies when the needs of your partner are a priority. When we prioritize our partners, it cultivates desire. Our desire for them and their desire for us grows. It can come from genuine care and appreciation. You may want to provide the best experience possible because you know that you want to be with this person for a long time. Having great sex encourages that long-lasting bond. But once again, if it seems like the entire reason the relationship exists is for sex, that could be contradictory to this goal. Ask yourself if the goal of sex for both of you and your partner is to express love to please one another, or if the goal is something more temporary than one-sided. Just because the sex is good doesn't mean there is a real connection. You can have bad sex, but still be cared for and appreciated in a genuinely loving way. It all depends on what you actually want out of it. Is there literally romantic chemistry? Obviously, this isn't something you can check for yourself on a chemical level, but you can become aware of your own thoughts. How often do you find yourself, for example, mesmerized by the symmetry of their face, wanting to make them laugh, or genuinely wanting their opinion?  Are you able to be in their presence and not think about sex? It's easy to get these feelings confused as neurobiologist Samir Zeke writes in the Neurobiology of Love published in Feb's Letters. Release of dopamine puts one in a feel-good state, and dopamine seems to be intimately linked not only to the formation of relationships but also to sex, which consequently comes to be regarded as a rewarding and feel-good exercise. This is why it's important to identify your own desires. If you're honest with yourself, do you feel an urge to express romantic love with your partner without the end goal being sex? Do you want romance and love with this person for the sake of it, and when you do have sex, do you feel the same after sex? Maybe you think your goal really is a romantic connection and sex just happens to be a product of that. That's true for a lot of people, but if you're still questioning your or your partner's desires, ask yourself what it's like after sex. Do you still want their company, even if there won't be more sex? Is there still desire after sex? A desire for love and affection?  If you find yourself switching off after sex, in other words, you don't really feel like talking or hanging out after sex, that could be the result of only having sexual chemistry and not real love, as Dr. Samirzaki continues. Sexual arousal and orgasms deactivate a region in the frontal cortex that overlaps the deactivated region observed in romantic love. For a brief period when aroused, sex does become the focus. But if you're in love, those romantic feelings should come back after sex. Sexual chemistry cannot and should not replace love permanently. Hold onto love if you have it. If you don't have love, but you do have sexual chemistry, make that known to your partner or friend with benefits. As long as it's safe and healthy and you both benefit from it, enjoy it while you can but don't be afraid to pursue real love when you do find it. If this video taught you something new or gave you some perspective, let us know in the comments and don't forget to leave a like. If you want to continue to learn more about psychology, subscribe to Psych2Go for more videos like this. Thanks so much for watching. Until next time!


The healthcare system in general is really poorly utilized in doctor's time. Healthcare is a very operationally complicated service industry and doctors are really expensive to train so you have to approach them like one of the most real resources of the company. So what we have done is we built a primary care clinic inside the office and looked at every single part of healthcare delivery and tried to figure out how we can use technology to make it more efficient so that the doctors can do what they love doing which is helping patients. It was not things like regulations or other stuff but it was really just efficiency while technology companies have been optimizing every seconds of cab drivers or food delivery services. We are wasting 70% of the productivity of our clinicians. The biggest achievement in my mind is we've created something, patient's love and it has extremely high quality but also in a very average retail worker, average teacher can easily afford in the United States.


Hi and how are you all today? The question says, solve the differential equation 1 plus e raised to the power 2x into dy plus e raised to the power x bracket 1 plus y square bracket close dx is equal to 0. We are given that y is equal to 1 when x is equal to 0. So let us proceed with solving this differential equation. Let us rewrite the given differential equation once again. We have 1 plus e raised to the power 2x in bracket multiplied by dy plus e raised to the power x bracket 1 plus y square bracket close dx is equal to 0. Now we have further making it into the form of dy by dx. So we have minus e raised to the power x 1 plus y square upon 1 plus e raised to the power 2x, right? Further, we can also write it as, I have minus e raised to the power x gets multiplied by dx, then we have dy upon 1 plus e raised to the power 2x and here this was also divided by 1 plus e raised to the power 2x over here. Further, if we put e raised to the power x equal to t, this implies we have e raised to the power t dx equal to exactly dt. So on substituting we have this will become minus dt upon 1 plus t square equal to dy upon 1 plus y square, right? Now here 1 upon 1 plus t square is equal to what? It is tan inverse t and we have a negative sign with it also. Similarly, here we have tan inverse y plus c. Now on substituting back the values we have minus tan inverse, the value of t is e raised to the power x equal to tan inverse y plus c. So on taking tan inverse e raised to the power x from left-hand side to right-hand side we have now tan inverse y plus tan inverse e raised to the power x equal to c. Now it is given to us in the question that when x is equal to 0 then y is equal to 1, right? So we have tan inverse 1 plus tan inverse e raised to the power 0 equal to c. So we have its value as pi by 4 plus pi by 4 equal to c which is pi by 2 is equal to c. So on substituting the value of c here we have now the answer to this question tan inverse y plus tan inverse e raised to the power x plus c which is pi by 2, right? So this is the answer to the given differential equation. This completes the session. Hope you understood it well and have a nice day.


We're going to play the two thirds game and it's going to be awesome. If you can predict the right answer, that'll definitely be no mean feat. Let's play a little game with the other thumb viewers. If you're in a place where you can do so, scroll down to where you can leave a comment. Try not to look at any other comments and don't worry, I won't do anything interesting up here for a little while. You can pause if you need a little more time. Now, enter a number between 1 and 100 that you think will be two thirds of the average of what all the other commenters guess. You may change your mind by the end of the video, but please, honor system here. Take your best crack at it now. Good to go? Okay, let's talk about why this game is particularly interesting. There's an important difference between chess and poker that doesn't have to do with cards or betting or the general attitude of how cool top tier players are. In poker, until everyone's hands are revealed, there's always something the other players know that you don't, and vice versa. No matter how good of a player you are, the best you can do is hazard a guess about what sort of cards everyone else is holding. On the other hand, in chess, the only thing you can hide from your opponent is your strategy. The pieces, their positions, how they move, all of that information is shared between both players. At higher levels of chess, the amount of shared information is even greater. Both players know that Urusov gambit, all its variations, how likely it is to result in a victory for black or a stalemate, and the best responses to it. Importantly, that's not the only information that's shared. Both players know that the other player knows that information. Both players know that the other player knows that they know that information. It's tempting to think of that as some sort of recursive word game. Like we're just saying, I know that you know over and over and isn't this fun. But in reality, each of these statements is a unique fact unto itself, with a unique set of implications totally unrelated to the other levels of knowing. Every step you take down that infinite rabbit hole of mutual knowledge has serious significance for behaviors and strategies. For example, take a game of poker in which you only have a pair of jacks. Usually you're the only one who knows that. Pretty simple. You can fold or you can try to bluff your way to victory, while your opponents don't know anything but your body language and how much you're betting. But what if you mean forward a little too far and I see your hand? Now I know that you only have a pair of jacks, and the strategic landscape is totally different. If you bluff, it would be easy for me to use a decent hand to clean you out. If you fold, I now have some additional information about what you're likely to do with a weak hand. That's all well and good.  Which again is a totally different scenario, with a number of potential strategies unique to that situation. Which is totally different from the situation where I notice that you've seen me looking over your shoulder, where I know that you know that I know that you have a pair of jacks. Whatever level of mutual knowledge where that chain ends, there's the potential to exploit the asymmetry of knowledge, to bluff or riddle some strategic advantage out of it. Game theorists describe the situation where all players know a thing, as well as knowing that all players know it, and knowing that all players know that all players know it, all the way to infinity, as common knowledge. Which is a little frustrating because that term already has an established meaning. Thanks guys. Personally, I have trouble simulating strategies and responses beyond about three or four iterations of mutual knowledge. It just gets fuzzy trying to figure out the Russian nesting doll of knowing about knowing. This is why the act of stating something publicly is categorically different than simple communication between individuals. It's easy to think of something like a public service announcement, or a flyer, as a device solely meant to transmit a fact or idea to its audience, but it's much more than that.  That's a much different thing. Take the infamous smoke-filled room experiment by Lataine and Darlene, two psychology researchers who were investigating variations on the bystander effect. In the experiment, a group of students were left alone in the classroom to complete a questionnaire. After a while, the room began filling with smoke, as though there might be a fire somewhere in the building. Loan students would usually respond to the simulated emergency, but if they were in groups of three, they'd respond less than half of the time, and only one time in ten if they were paired up with a couple of actors who were instructed not to react to the smoke. That seems pretty crazy, right? The building might be burning down for all they know, and most people seem to ignore the potential danger, or at least fail to alert anyone else to the fact. The authors of the paper attribute this phenomenon to a combination of social pressures, both conformity and a desire not to appear foolish or cowardly or something.  Yes, it alerts people to the possibility of a fire and warns them to exit the building, but it also establishes a sort of common knowledge, a group awareness that, by some objective measure, this is an emergency situation, and we can react to it as though it were an emergency without looking like idiots. This is also one reason why the ability to control mechanisms of common knowledge, things like protests or the internet or posting notices in public places, can be such a big deal. Limiting the spread of a particular bit of information is exceptionally difficult, but if you can keep it from becoming publicly visible, if you can hold some sort of ambiguity as to who's aware of it and who isn't, you can use that uncertainty to maintain a status quo that would otherwise be cause for some sort of response. That might sound like a tool solely for fascist dictators, but it might also be useful for navigating social scenarios that might otherwise be awkward or risky. Live psychologist Steven Pinker has argued that we regularly use deliberately ambiguous phrasing and implication in innuendo to leave our conversational partners some wiggle room in what they choose to hear in our speech. Rather than stating everything explicitly, we can use the lack of common knowledge as a sort of plausible deniability, so we can feel our way to a decision that's probably acceptable for everyone without direct confrontation. Take the age-old conundrum of deciding where to go to dinner with a group of people. If I start the discussion by stating explicitly that I want Chinese food, that becomes common knowledge, and there are potentially uncomfortable social ramifications. If anyone doesn't really feel like Chinese, they have to decide if they're going to challenge my suggestion, or if they can marshal enough support from the others to overturn it. Basically going to dinner has become a game of thrones, although the opposite extreme can be frustrating, where nobody voices any firm opinions at all. There's a much more comfortable middle ground, where a little uncertainty can help us out. Let's say that I float my hinkering for some wontons by saying something more like, does Chinese sound good to anyone? As though the idea just spontaneously emerged from the ether and I'm not quite sure myself. On some level, yes, we all know that Josh just wants some wontons, but do we know that we all know it? Do we know that we know that we know it? If someone says, eh, we just had Chinese yesterday, although we all know that that means, Josh, I don't want Chinese again. It doesn't have the same sting it would otherwise if I had laid everything out there and gotten shot down. Computer scientist Scott Aronson has suggested that some of the social difficulties that nerds have can be attributed to a general discomfort with information asymmetry. If you're doing science or mathematics, ambiguity of this sort can be disastrous, but so can trying to make everything that you discuss common knowledge. Which leads us back to the original question. Knowing now what you know about mutual and common knowledge. And knowing that everyone commenting knows that. And knowing that they all know that they all know that. What's your second guess? Please leave both numbers in the comments and let me know what you think. Thank you very much for watching. Don't forget to blah, blah, subscribe, blah, share and don't stop thunking.