Well look girl You take the money it's about the world more than more than more Taking all the monies yours too Wait, which one yeah Give me another one. Yes. Are you buffed? Wonderful just one stab That'll learn them. Oh, this is going to be such a moonlight waltz. Ah She'll own that fight took I Don't know if this is the best spot for grinding man And I don't know if level 22 is a good level to go in that fight with that that dude cuz he just Destroyed me skills Anybody has anything now? That would be a nay I got the one job with the thief Everybody's maxed out nice Yeah, look at this I Got the formula to plan man because I went exploring but like down here was too high Pretty sure I went down here and it was too high and I turned around I Went over here. This is too low. This is like level 12. I don't know what I don't know how to get down here Like all these areas are too slow and this is 27 so I can't go over there. I could try here Go down this way. How do I fast travel there? Do you fast travel from the screen? They get to do it from here. Oh, do you have to be in a city to fast travel? I've never fast-traveled. I saw the option pop up once be what sticks with a horse man. Um Go inside the map Nope, I can't go to these Like I'm hitting a here. Just not doing anything All right, I'm gonna assume. I have to be in a city. Let's go back to the city But this is this is too slow This is a Too slow of them. I know what to do. Did that BP to hand it?   Oh, there it is. I can't one away Hey, hey, hey, not quite Not quite yet What do chat what do I guess I'll work on this guy down here Let's do a we might as well just need to take off some armor off the giant Irma dealer. Oh He's back. They're back. Yep Just take all of our health away. We don't want it Bum-bum-bum-bum Yeah, hero, man swipe You were supposed to hit him You were supposed to hit the arm of the little man sadness Please hit them in the back. Okay. You got one One more now these birds got to go.  This is why I don't try to capture this thing that often All right, let's break it again. Yeah for good measure Okay, please kill it Not quite your companion returned from Wednesday came. Goodbye old man. You have served me well We get some one of GGs and chat for the old man The old man did his thing chat. He served me. Well, I'm proud of him. I'm proud of him, man Your face smack is Joe, what do I need I better get the HB a 170 not bad Cool man, cool I was going back to town, right? It's a weird spot. They really go all out in the DOF here The death of field. Oh good grief the same See, this is why I'm not grinding here cuz they take forever to kill man, at least for my party All right, same deal and it Gotta kill the boys.  She's got the axe.  All right, here come the birds poor Tressa Poor Tressa. All right. That's just a vibranator way What to do? Really have a staff Got this one bird So if we got to go a we will only take one.  I wonder that would be a name Well, here comes the death. Well, that's not a good idea. That's also not a good idea Let's just heal So Hannah should be able to take out the rock thing Primrose might get low on health here. All right, we can take out this guy now Actually, I'd rather take out the bird still ain't dead. She won't die Geez Let's give BP to the main name all of it and then primrose a nuke. I'm after that. Okay Okay, I can steal I didn't think I'd have enough to steal That would be an A. Here comes the nuke. All right That was the thing Give me a good HP still here, please Yes, that's acceptable. Do don't want her dying chat Sure Without Daris Hey, he was weak. Stay too long chat In this area, I mean I've gotten the best gear I can get from the town. So that's why I'm looking to go somewhere else and see if I can find something better and Come back to this story. So can I fast travel? No, let's hope the answer is yes chat I said I was gonna go here and then how do you fast travel man? It's not a It's not the the triggers. I'm gonna turn on HD rumble. See what it does. Oh That's weird. Let me crash at the end and see if that helps as provisioner And is over here right to the right Whoo L is select. This is weird man. How do you? Select the location I did L L is the yeah, that's L Let's try this button Hey, how you do it I Have successfully pressed every button on the controller chat Does anybody in chat know how to fast travel? Can you help me out? I need help I didn't think I'd ever need to help fast traveling in a video game, but I just don't see it Why nope, you just click the city with what a It's not let me go anywhere. Maybe because I'm mid quest Do I have the right thing selected with the feather? I'm spamming a and it's not doing anything on these ah So the green ones. It won't let me go maybe because I haven't been So I went over here to these white ones So the green ones I haven't been yet. That's why I had to go farther to the right. All right, that that did it So I got the only place I can go is sunshade I can go up here That's 21 chapter 2 is 27 alphan therion All right, we'll go here But first I'm going to take a break. Thanks so much for watching But did you guys hear about twitch prime? I need to test this button, man. I didn't see this button All right, so stream deck elgato makes the device called stream deck guys It's a little button thing that you put in your desk to change scenes. They just added multiple Action buttons so I can press one button And it'll do my twitch.  Do you own amazon prime? you do Wow Did you know You could get a free subscription on twitch How well i'm glad you asked Link your amazon account to your twitch account. That's it. You're done Come back to twitch.tv slash one and get your free sub Thanks, and you're welcome Maybe I should add I'm gonna add two more seconds to that That was actually pretty good, but I'll be back guys I'm actually going to create a button for this brb as well. I'm gonna take a quick break Thanks so much for watching feel free to follow the stream if you are enjoying yourself today Make sure to click the notify button That way you'll be notified when I go live. So I'll be back in about three minutes I'm just going to walk around stretch my legs And uh, thanks for watching guys. Also, if you are a twitch prime user already I ask that you disable ad blocks So when I go and break some run ads that you guys will not see the ads but I'll get credit for them Anyway, that'd be cool. Thank you so much guys. I'll be right back. All right guys. I'm back. Thanks for waiting Appreciate you all being here Let's go and get it going. All right, so we're gonna Look for someplace else to grind levels Uh looking at the map I'm here right now I'm looking for someplace new to go I stood up by the way. So my mic is in a different position I'm gonna go east and over here And see if I can go south and see what's down here Hey, what's up? What's your cowboy? Welcome, man. How you doing? Thanks for the welcome back


Let's see what this looks like. Oh my! Great jargon type. Select a teammate. Oh my God, this is so sweet, guys. Love. Got the clips not matching. Now there's my NBA 2K. Not to be confused with NBA 2K20, the game. Not to be confused with NBA 2K Mobile Basketball.  The same way you just looked it up and you figured out which one it was. All right, for some reason we're not really seeing big updates in NBA 2K20 but you know where we are seeing big updates. NBA 2K Mobile. Now you might be like, agent, we're not about to watch you play NBA 2K Mobile, are we? Yes you are, because NBA 2K Mobile put out this tweet on Twitter saying this. New game mode, customize your mind player, team up with friends, hit the black top for 3V3, author your own story. Oh, what's this next week? I didn't read that far into it. I'm sorry, love. All right, skip forward to next week where we could play these new modes. No, no, no, no.  Hey, the update is out fellas. So it's time to boot up NBA 2K20 and it's time to create my character. Should I make my guy white?  That's facts. That is the lightest you can go. I guess you- Yeah, yeah. Yeah, love, would you smash? The fact that you can do all this is unbelievable. You can go with bicep, forearm, shoulder. So here's what we got. We got the My Career Mode, the Association, Play Now, the NBA Story Mode and Run the Streets. Yo, this has 3.2 out of five. Imagine getting beat by this game. They got the little 2K17 type archetype type beat, slasher, lockdown defender, playmaker. I'm gonna do playmaker just because I know how to dribble really well. You know. You're right, I should do spotter shooter. Yeah, good point. You strayed for your senior year. Getting a degree has always been your first priority. Psych! We're all dropouts. We're all dropouts in this house. I'm gonna skip that because I really don't care about the story. He shot like that? Oh my God, he just shot like that. I don't actually wanna participate in this nonsense. Hi guys, it's H and Zero ASMR, Swish. You don't know if they have online or not? I just kind of assume.  Oh my God.  Where is that at? Why did you not specify that, Ronnie, when you dropped this game on mobile, bro? You can't play with your Android friends if you're on iOS.  Hey, can I borrow your phone? We figured out the secret, guys. You have to be on the same Wi-Fi. So you know that friend down the street? He literally has to come to your house. Log on to your Wi-Fi just to get a game in. Fill to start different game versions.  You have to be, that's so annoying. Pick up the iPhone. Synchronizing data. We just had to go through a grueling 20 minute process where we had to get another iPhone because apparently you can't cross play even though it's both on a mobile service. That makes no sense. So that means 2K is nowhere near cross play on the consoles. And bead and hardened.  I'm ready.  By the way, we're playing in Shanghai right now. What the? And 2K can't do this on the console version. Oh, oh. What are you doing? What are you doing? What are you doing? Oh, why did you do that? No. Best cash. No, it's not. Excellent. Let's go. It was excellent. Where are you going? Where are you going? Are you cheating? It's not cheating. Stop cheating. We moving like this now. No. We moving like this now. That's how I play. Oh. I feel like they're using like a 2K 11, 2K 13 engine. Look at you. Look at you. That's okay. No. Oh. I was right there. Let's go. You're literally such a bro. No cash. Come on. Oh, that's good. You're such a bro. Listen, where James at? Who cares? Let's get it. That's domination. Oh. Oh. Oh. Oh. I'm Karim. All right, all right. I'm telling you bro, Harden is the greatest of all time. Man, put James Harden in the polls. Hey, you just. Oh, what? Yeah. That's hitting. That's hitting. That's hitting. That's out of the game, you know? Why are you shooting? Let's go. Let's go. Don't worry about what I'm doing because I'm off. Don't worry about what I'm doing. That's cash. Excellent. I feel like I might win because I figured out the strat. Your strat is very slow moving. You got to shoot some threes, my guy. Oh, that's a blow by. That's a blow by I've never seen one. Oh my.  That beat has a very quick release. I did not expect that. I got him. Like, you're such a. Let's go. Let's go.  That's good, that's good, that's good. Let's go, MVP. Let's go. Oh, that's me. Then you, whoa, I know how to play this. I figured the game. Give me a couple of points. I figured it out. Ooh, ooh, ooh, and beat with the skills. Eee. Crazy. That was very early. The fact that that was even remotely game. And that's what it feels like to be a winner. All right, I don't know if you know what that's like. This just goes to show you guys, man. You don't need to buy VC to win games and be good. You just have to be good. This message is brought to you by Agent Zero. So this is called the VC square. There's a chance they just, I don't know. Ronnie was in the background.  Oh my. Let's go. How do you defend that? Let's go. The animation's nothing like that. So you think I'm gonna pass here? Oh man. That's clean. That's clean. In his eye. Cash. Big man. Let's go. Lowe, how are you down like this? It's up to 11, by the way. Why did you not tell me that before? Wow. I would have changed the way you played. Why is Curry not facing me? There you go, Curry. And watch me hit this now. No. That's crazy. Get out of here, Lowe. Get out of my room. What is this wrong game? We play the wrong game. I can't. I can't watch you no more. Now there's my NBA 2K. Not to be confused with NBA 2K 20, the game. Not to be confused with NBA 2K mobile basketball.  It's the same when you just looked it up and you figured out which one it was. This app is free. You're hunting it up. Download the app. NBA 2K mobile, fellas. The game we've been waiting to see. What's your favorite team? Toronto, of course. Crazy, bro.  This game, not only is it free, but it's better. Look, there's shot meters. Take another shot. Even if you release the shot at the best time, it might not go in. This must have a different development team. I know it's not the same development team just dropping all kinds of mobile games.  They're literally teaching you that you could just automate the game. That's the most mobile games? My league players do. I don't know what to do, but I'm trying to create a crew. I gave my guy no eyebrows just so he looks very disturbing. You could play alongside your crew on 3V3s. Willy, they have playground archetypes. Playground contender, defending shooter, big finisher, inside man. Oh, you have to upgrade your archetype. So I have to be a playground contender right now. Oh, Willy, get a game. That disturbs me. Tap the pack to open it. Who do you think I'm gonna get? I think I'm gonna get a gold, Richard Lewis. I got a shoe, so. You could buy the Popeyes Agent Zero unofficial collab tees at the Come Up District on Teespring. Link in the description. What is that? Timeout? Tea. Oh, Jesus. For $99 low, the best value. What? You can get 12,500 coins. Now let's see what you can do. Hold on real quick. Hold on real quick. Hold on real quick. You keep saying these things and there's something wrong with it. Oh, that's high quality 2K product right there. Oh, yo, get your idea, fellas. Mr. Bean, right? Yeah, literally. We have our own Mr. Bean right now. Join, join, I joined. Woo! Select a teammate. Oh my God, this is so sweet, guys. Love. I have to click start match. I don't think I can play with you guys. I think I just play single player. Look. Yeah, I'm gonna get it as well. Oh, this is depressing. You had me come up here. Not once, but twice. Then on the second time you had me to come up here, we spent literally an hour trying to figure out how to play the wrong game. We did that? Just for you to figure out that Crew is on another mobile app that's free. Then get me to join. I did do that. Just to figure out that Crew is a one player mode. Which is depressing. It's 3v3, but it's not literally you playing with other people 3v3. Yeah, so they should have made that clear. I feel like in the tweet. In the what? In the what? In the tweet? In the tweet? In the tweet. Nice, good quality screen. Hit that pass. You bozo. What he said is your power, your weights. Yeah. No, no, no. No, no. Green. Oh, finally hit. Hallelujah.  In case you guys were thinking it was solid or something. Yeah, it is horrible. We'll eat. So if you guys get really good at the game, ah, there's no win by two. Okay, so I'm struggling to understand what's going on. They have a MyMBA2K app. They also have a NBA2K20 app. And you think, okay, they maxed out on apps they could do. No, they also have a NBA2K mobile app. And I don't think the NBA2K mobile app is developed by Tencent Games or by Visual Concepts. Cat Daddy Games. I don't know who Cat Daddy is, but. If you guys are new to the channel, be sure to subscribe. Buy the merch, link in the description. But look, there's a video on the screen right here. Oh, I never did this before. Where is it, where is it, where is it? No, we're leaving before whatever he's about to do. Whatever he's. I just want a point over here right here. Oh, there's the video. It won't be. It's gonna be here, but. Okay, that's right. Okay. That's right.


Many Nigerian universities are currently dealing with a brain drain and as a result there is loss of human capital, skills, shortages and gaps in a critical sector of the economy. A number of factors such as poor salary, uncondusive working environment, poor staff development, inadequate infrastructural facilities, strike actions, insecurity and inadequate funding seem to be the cause. With many lecturers in the Nigerian universities leaving the nation to pursue professions overseas as the federal government struggles to find a lasting solution to the ongoing crisis in the education sector. Joining me to discuss this are Dr. Li Sumonu Ph.D., National President, Congress of University Academics Konwa and Professor Samayla Mandi, Dean School of Postgraduate Studies, National Opu University of Nigeria. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome this evening to class politics. I must say that the two of you leaving Nigeria just to get the introduction very clear, I was the former dean of the School of Postgraduate Studies National Opu University of Nigeria. Thank you very much for the correction. We should appreciate that. At least we are also fortunate to know that you have attained that level of leadership within the university system and you are quite competent to speak to the issue at hand. Let me then start with you then, Professor Samayla Mandi. As somebody who has attained leadership in the academic environment especially in an ivory tower, what is your take about the now well-reported brain drain in our universities? What is your general opinion about that? Well, let me say that even though the network wasn't other clear, but I want to believe that you are not talking about what was my own take about the situation based on the thing we are not talking about today. There is no doubt about it that the brain drain is a major challenge in our educational development in Nigeria and as a matter of fact is a global issue. And so the most important thing is that we have to look at it, there are factors responsible to these many and to this issue there are factors responsible. And so what are these factors that are there, we need to understand that one there is this search for opportunities and then aside from that one we have this own conducive atmosphere. And then poor salary conditions aside from that and then we have issues that has to do with strikes. Because in the academic setting because when we are talking about this brain drain issue because I need to let us clear that yes it is a phenomenon that is now ravaging various parts of the world. And which in our own lexicon in Nigeria, we call it the Jack Ma syndrome. And because it is the Jack Ma syndrome that we would ask what we are now facing clearly, we need to understand that every individual has his own need. And because you have your own needs and whatever also you have to understand factors are responsible to you wanting to now meet up with your need. Then looking at it educationally, we have to understand that there are some factor responsible to that. In this case, we have this idea of unstable academic calendar. And we have this issue that has to do with lack of academic research for support development because every academic if there is anything that makes an academic thriving is his research competence and research support. And so a situation whereby there is no support for research, so that's why we're having that as a major challenge in our country. And then the other issue is the need to have this kind of engagement with the industry because we need to understand that there are some things that are now clear which are very, very critical. And we have to try as much as we can to see how we can now resolve that. I talk about those factors now. Before we go deep into your end, I think it's about time I invited Dr. Sumonu, especially in your position as a trade union leader of a sort in the academic environment. And I was very glad this morning when we were trying to invite you that you first took permission to work your organs. You said you wanted to check with your organs if you should come on a set like this. And it then speaks to the fact that you are a man who tries to garner the opinions of those that you lead. But from your position as the leader of Konwa, what is your take on this so-called unfortunate phenomenon of rendering in academia? Thank you very much once again. I'll start by appreciating you for extending this invitation to us. Secondly, I think the bigger part of the job has actually been done starting kicking off by Prof. Prasomande over there. I will only try to look at it from albeit a slightly different perspective or try to coalesce the matter into two add-ins. The first is actually the problem, the general problem of the country. Prof. has spoken about the generic nature of the challenge. It's not affecting the academics alone, it's a general thing and it's a global thing. The other perspective is to look at it generally and pin it down to the problem of funding in our tertiary institutions. In the universities in particular. And you know, sometimes in the past, in this country, when universities first started in this country, in the 40s, up till around 1975, just to summarize, we will see that the influx of expatriates, Britons, Indians, Ghanians, may be due to some other problems with respect to Ghanians. From the coming world, from the English-speaking world. Thank you sir. These people, you find them in our academia and contributing their quota to develop and even find students. The issue of brain drain started showing its head and it actually coincided with when the funding began to reduce in this country. And that is post-75. The first effect we started saying in the early 80s. And it is about funding. Funding has to do with good remuneration. Funding has to do with conducive environment. Funding has to do with the facilities with which researchers will work. That is the joy of researchers. So, as far as we are concerned, the major problem responsible for the exodus of Nigerian academics is the reduction in the funding of the universities. And quickly before I conclude on this point, is for our thinking that the government, the funding we get from the government is unpredictable, is insufficient, is epileptic if there is anything like that. So, with that, and you put your mind to that, you expect that to sustain the university no consistency, inconsistent, insufficient, then you can't embark on any meaningful research. And if you take this, extend this to all facets of the life in the university, then you have this all sorts of things, coupled with unpredictability in our academic sessions, in our academic calendar due to strikes. So, all these put together contributes to the brain drain. Let me quickly take it to Prof. Prof, I have worked with you before in my capacity as an entrepreneur and shaking academia. And I know that some people like you in the academic environment are not only sinking your heads into researches and pedagogy or teaching alone. There are strategies that some people like you tend to effect, to unshake the street and shaking the town and the ground, working together to create value, especially where it gives experience, experiential empowerment to your students. Prof, why are so many people in the academia not replicating that kind of strategy in their areas of specialization? I am just thinking a lot because I know you and I know that it is not quite fashionable in most of my teaching institutions for such things to be done. Prof, are you there? Okay, we may have lost, is that the, is that this is ending. Dr. Sumono, would you, would you perhaps want to give that question ago? Why is it that we have this much brain power? People who are specialists theoretically in subjects and disciplines are yet those areas of, those areas of specializations are areas that could ordinarily get good market currency in a market of 200 million plus people. And yet many in academia just want to be blaming grammar at us and we don't see the effect of all their knowledge. Thank you so much. I'm so happy with that perspective. Honestly, the perspective we are trying to let our colleagues, esteemed colleagues know these days. Of course there are limiting, there are limiting factors to it. But ideally there should be a handshake between the town and the gown. In one of our engagements, public engagement, we have coined this to be what is called institutional entrepreneurship. You look at aspect of your research that is marketable. There is no aspect of research that is not marketable. There is no aspect of how you put it across to people. Why said so is not perfect. The universities are an environment where problems, societal problems are solved. So in different disciplines you are thinking, you are researching, you are solving societal problems in that perspective in those areas. And this is the thinking we want all our colleagues to start imbibing. And we use this medium to call on the government also to appreciate the academia. I've said this time and time again. One is looking like sounding like a broken record. Any individual academic inclusive can only think globally. You still need to act locally. You can import solutions to problems outside of our shores. And you want to replicate that and you think that will solve our problems. There are peculiarities. And our people, our researchers, our universities, university academics are thinking about our peculiarities and solutions to them. So you have our political elites. They want to have retreats. They want to have some lectures with regards to legislation. They want to have lectures with regards to how to carry out some things in the ministries. And you see them starting out of the country. But when you're in a spotless, sometimes even if they don't talk about it, they're in a spotless too. So our problems, we have our peculiarities. Our problems are peculiar to us. Let me see if Prof is back. Is Prof back? Yes, I'm back. I'm back. Sorry for that. Prof, not a fault. Prof, I wouldn't know if you had my question. I said I've had the privilege as an entrepreneur, the town to have engaged a department that you let for a kind of mutual entrepreneurial engagement that even your students benefited from experientially. And it was a real win. We also learned from the observation and the research that your department had carried out. I wonder, and I'm not saying this to patronize you. I wonder why many of your colleagues are not to represent, are not replicating that strategy with a view to even making themselves relevant and amassing the inherent enormous opportunities in this market of 200 million people plus. Thank you, Mr. Bola for your comment and everything. Let me say that all that you said were able to do that because of the situation at that time. Now I'm so happy with what Dr. Samonu mentioned. You need to understand there are so many challenges today and some of these challenges whether you like it or not each of these sectors are having a challenge to do with it. But what you are talking about directly is this idea that has to do with what we are not talking about the triple helix model. The triple helix model is not a model whereby you have an interaction between the government, the academia, the industry and the society. As a matter of fact we can even talk about quadruple helix model not only the triple helix model where we talk about having an interaction between the academia and the industry so what we did that time because we realized very well on some of the things that we did because our own kind of education is ensuring the real world of work. The real world of work not just the idea of coming up to say that I'm applying for job but rather the real world of work of you creating opportunities so that at the end of the day you become somebody who now end up becoming an entrepreneur. Now the challenge we have today is that these disciplines are now being faced with a lot of challenges. Prof and whether we like it or not Prof I'm really very sorry the dictatorship of time is catching up with us I'm really very sorry I must say thank you to your two brilliant minds Prof Samaila Mande of the Open University of Nigeria and Dr. Lee Sumonu Ph.D. the leader I don't know the title of the user Kamura I don't know the title of the user Kamura but thank you national president thank you gentlemen for being part of this show this evening and thank you very much for having me thank you very much for having me and it's nice having us engaged with you people and we hope that we'll have a better time for our national department and that's it on the show tonight I am Bola Hoba and have a good night


When the narcissist isn't talking to you, the narcissist will stop talking to you Usually as the result of some disagreement Maybe you questioned and confronted them Maybe you figure them out or maybe your supply lost its potency Maybe they got bored because narcissists need constant entertainment They're never at rest They always feel like they're missing out on something They always think the grass is greener on the other side They always think there's something better Because they couldn't accept you Nothing you did was good enough for them But they can't accept things about people in general And that is why it's an endless cycle Where they discard one person and move on to the next Because they can't accept anyone They can't even accept themselves They can't accept anything that is wrong with them and that is why they make great efforts to seem perfect And then they look for that perfection in other people So they will get rid of you eventually Or they will try to mold you into what they want you to be They will never accept you for who you are You will never feel like you can be yourself around the narcissist And you will never be able to change them They're always going to be that way You're just wasting your time and energy Which could be spent on finding someone you like Because you can't teach an old dog new tricks You can't change their habits or character By default they would have to be fake The narcissist cannot accept your flaws or imperfections They expect you to be perfect You never expected them to be perfect, but they expect you to be what they strive to be And you will never be perfect You will never be everything that they want you to be So eventually it's going to end Because they can't accept you So they're destined to criticize and discard you Because they don't accept themselves. They have no inner sense of value Which is why they're always looking for attention and validation Which is why they're always looking for acceptance outside of themselves So you will never be enough for the narcissist The grass will always be greener on the other side Instead of accepting you They drift without any clear purpose or direction They betray you Because they were always looking for the next bigger better deal The next shiny new toy Instead of thinking about how they're going to give something back to you They're very selfish Because they lack confidence They can't depend on themselves So they're always looking for someone who can do everything for them Which is why they put you on a pedestal when they first met you Because they thought you were this person who was going to change their life But after some time It began to wear off And they stopped talking to you Because it was too overwhelming for them It was too much work And they couldn't get what they want So they started fantasizing about other situations While you were trying to hold them accountable While you were trying to figure out why they didn't like you But this is why they stopped talking to you Because they just didn't want to deal with it anymore It was too much for them to manage They were under qualified for the position of being with you Because they're not self-reliant So they expected you to do all of the work But they won't completely cut you off They will put you on the shelf Because they still depend on you You have something that they want Maybe you give them money or a place to stay Maybe you accept them as they are You accept their emotional outburst And that's what they want But when you don't tolerate it It's too overwhelming for them So they stopped talking to you But they won't always end the relationship Because they might want to come back But when they're not talking to you They're usually entertaining someone else Whatever they're not getting from you They will go somewhere else to get it Because in their minds you're not good enough for them But you will never be good enough for them Because they're not enough for themselves So they will go and have a short period Of enjoyment and wild behaviour with someone else They will use it as a means to control you Because they know that it hurts you But then they will come back like nothing happened And you won't have an opportunity to talk about what they did to you When the narcissist isn't talking to you It's because they're off entertaining other people They're building their inflated feeling of pride and their superiority to other people They always need people to do that But it's never enough You were never enough And even the people they cheat on you with are never enough Which is why they often come back to you Don't let the narcissist disrespect you You will only let them do that If you do not respect yourself And if you do not respect yourself Other people will not respect you It will affect yourself more than self-esteem And you will struggle to leave the relationship So when the narcissist stops talking to you See it as a blessing And don't let them back in Thank you for watching I hope this video resonate with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coaching.narksurvivor.co.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon


Reading doesn't have to be done alone. The students at Nevis Elementary have a buddy system to push them along the way. Haiti Clotter tells us how reading can turn into a partnership in this week's Golden Apple. It's time for books, buddies and bonding. The cafeteria at Nevis Elementary was full of students and their reading buddies coming together with books. Volunteers from around the community spent 30 minutes with first graders for the kinship Nevis Reading Buddies program. For the children to know that there's another adult who cares about them and is going to show up week after week and spend some undivided attention. You'll give them some undivided attention. It's phenomenal for the children. The Nevis Reading Buddies has been a staple program for more than five years at Nevis Public School and lets the students get one-on-one practice and undivided attention to read. Kids enjoy the time shared with their reading buddies and have a chance to show off their reading skills. Their buddies also give them a tip to make reading effortless. I like reading a lot at times with my buddy. Why? Because she used to help me with her finger.  As a reading buddy, a bond is formed and volunteers get something out of it too. The connection with reading buddies is a connection with kids and I just love those little ones. Maryland Caping has 15 grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren so being a volunteer was a natural thing to do. You are a part of getting them to read in a better way because reading is so important. Students read books provided by teachers or buddies bring reading material. I can learn harder books so I can get better at reading. And I'm learning every time. The program allows students to have more confidence when it comes to reading and excel in the future. We need to be readers in our adult lives and practice is what helps us to make that growth and not only does this help them practice but it gives them a model of what a good reader sounds like. This relationship is positive for the students to continue to read. In Nevis for this week's Golden Apple, Katie Clutter, Lakeland News. 20 volunteers participated in the reading today and in some cases the reading buddies became mentors to the students. If you've enjoyed this segment of Lakeland News, please consider making a tax-deductible contribution to Lakeland Public Television.