We can win this war we can win this war Okay, we're joining us from Orlando, Florida is the man in that clip Anthony dream Johnson He says he wants to abolish feminism and make women great again With the trademark make women great again Make women great again. They're gonna do a three-day seminar for women led by all men In mansplaining news a three-day conference for women led by men hopes to make women great again How the 22 convention will make you the greatest you ever raise your femininity by 500% A woman needs to be taught how to be great again How to land a husband How to lose weight how to pop out a bunch of kids Why don't men think they need to fix the problems of women? Well, it says the world's ultimate event for women in Orlando, Florida. That's gonna be the scene of the crime It's mansplaining Palooza and say no to the toxic bullying feminist dogma taught by men to make women great again Taking the stage now is the founder of the 22 convention you're in for a treat. Mr. Anthony dream Johnson Anthony dream Johnson Anthony dream Johnson the first president of the manno sphere. It's run by all men Which promises to quote make women great again.  I'm mansplaining here. She said there's nothing Welcome back to the 22 convention at 21 some it being held for the first time ever to make women great again Now our next speaker is now as of yesterday and alumni speaker of the 21 convention This will be his first time of course speaking at the 22 convention He's been a dating coach for women and men for over five years for half a decade He is a founder of Bulldog Mindset and runs a YouTube channel big youtuber over a quarter million subscribers And he's here to help make women great again without further ado Please let me welcome for the first time ever to the 22 convention stage John Sonmez Thank you All right So I didn't know I was gonna be doing this talk So I put it together pretty quickly, but I was trying to think of a topic To do a talk to women on and so I thought what's the thing that women asked me the most about as As I'm talking to him whenever I'm doing coaching in it Tends to be like how to nab Top 10 top 5% guy. So really a high-value guy. This is something that especially younger women Don't seem to to know how to do anymore today. And you know what I found is that majority of women want the top 5% top 10% of guys and They can get the the lower tier guys, but getting a top guy is something that's that's pretty difficult So I figured hey, let's let's talk about this So yeah, so that's what it's about is you know locking down a high-value guy And especially I think it's very relevant today because of all the dating apps and the hookups and that that culture like it or not What ends up happening is that it actually becomes You know difficult for for both parties, right most men that I coach complain that they can't get any woman Unless they are a top 5% guy, which I'll talk about here because most women only want guys that are in the top Really 20% they don't even see guys that are below that and then women complain that they have access to all these guys now Like they've never had before but as far as getting a high-value man and then getting him to stick around and Not just see them one time. That's that's the biggest complaint So that's this talk is gonna try and help solve that that problem from the female perspective based on what I've learned So who am I? I'm John Sonmez. I run a company called Bulldog Mindset where I mostly teach personal development from men Teach them how to be men again today and help them to get rid of the victim mindset It's really based in stoic philosophy and I work on kind of the three areas of fitness Finances and then relationships dating so I I do a lot of coaching in in this space And I hear lots of stories. I interact with a lot of men a lot of women and Hear how things go down and I always do a lot of research whenever I get the chance to look at someone's phone and see their Messages on their dating app that gives me a lot of information. So Why can I talk about this? So I was actually what you're seeing here some screenshots from a YouTube channel that I've been That I was invited to start at interviewing like beauty pageant Queens and and different girls that are having trouble Again really locking down a high-value man And so I've had a lot of experience Coaching women and helping them to solve this problem And yeah, so you know, I feel like I've got a pretty good pretty good handle on this and then you know also I Tend to be one of one of the guys that the woman tried to have tried to lock down in the past And so I kind of have some experience from that inside of what for me would would be appealing What what could could snap me in it in a snare, but So let's talk about what makes the top 5% man So what makes a top top 5% man what I'm talking about here because I know that's not a familiar term is a guy that has a bunch of things going for him that that Generally make him more attractive or better than than most men that are out there, you know Financial is one aspect of it. It's not it's not a hundred percent of it, right? You know, maybe a guy that's making over six figures today would be in the top 5% category Or runs the business or has even really good financial ambitions Like he's got the potential of of really making it big right because the financial aspect is is definitely important Physical this is these are like doctored images of giga chads So, you know again being a top 5% guy is gonna be it's gonna be somewhat You know this is gonna be guy that's ideal physically right to some degree better than average most most men today are overweight and and out of shape and and you know a lot of times this comes down to just Something that people can't control unfortunately I tell guys this all the time when I'm coaching them I'm like look you can be the best that you can but you know You can't make yourself over six feet tall if you're not over six feet tall And unfortunately most women want guys that are over six feet tall right even though It's only like what 10% of the population or so same thing with facial genetics and things like that or you know hair Balding right you can't control some of the things but there are a lot of things that can be controlled Regardless of whether it's fair or not This is what what in general that I have found that that women want and what makes a guy top 5% And then social right social skills confidence charisma Status these are the things that we can change and that a lot of men here learn and And develop over time, but most women want a guy that is socially calibrated that can handle himself Especially a guy that has a high amount of status right think a rock star a rock star is always going to be like that top of the tier of Of guys as far as desirability to women So reason why I'm saying all this is because all this is just to say that What I'm talking about in this presentation is how to get the guy that you actually want not the settling So Basically top of them first top 5% guys is what most women want So the problem with top 5% men How many of you seen the video from Tommy Larns PSA? Okay, so You've taught me Lauren did this video attacking men and Her complaints it's kind of interesting. I did a response video But her complaints are actually valid right a lot of guys in the red pill kind of community Said a lot of bad things about what she said, but I said no no these these are accurate complaints They're accurate complaints The thing that they're missing and that she was missing what these are accurate complaints that she had railed against What I would say is a top 5% guy because she complained about things. She said well, you know you you don't You don't text us back or you like you don't set up a date Like you don't meet in person or you don't respond You don't value value. That was a big thing that she said so she was basically making all these complaints About men that she was interacting with but she was interacting with top 5% of guys because she she that was her standard and so Most guys will gladly text you back most guys will gladly chase after you and buy you flowers and and treat you great and definitely want to meet you in person and We'll worship you and value you but a top 5% guy won't and I'll talk about why but But yeah, but she highlighted a lot of the the issues that that I found that that are true And it's kind of ironic because a lot of the things that she talked about are things that women Do in general to men right? Not take some back. Well, why is he not came back to you know and in a lot of it is the exact same reason I'm gonna tell you why It applies to top 5% guys, so so the biggest thing is that they have selection and they use it so the reason why a Guy in this category doesn't text back is because he's got 15 other women that he's texting at the same time It's not I didn't create this world that we live in but this is the truth of the situation I'm gonna tell you what the truth is.  It's not going to be something that's going to lock you down Like it might have worked in the past and it will work though on and the reason why I bring this up is the bottom tier of men They will be slaves to to this if you if you give them this, right? But it doesn't work without 5% guys and then also They know their value, right? That that's that's kind of a dangerous thing is most guys don't know their value But a guy that has had a lot of success with women and knows that he's within the top range He's gonna know what he's worth and so It's gonna be a lot harder for him to you know, but most guys actually so Taking out it from the other perspective is that you know, most of the guys that I coach unfortunately Especially if they're married or their long-term relationship But most of the guys that are married that I coach when I go back and I go through their story And I and I hear you know how they got to where they are Especially if they're having trouble relationship trouble It turns out that the first girl that they had sex with that is the girl that they married, right? Basically the first girl that ever accepted them That's the girl that they married because they didn't have options so they didn't they weren't really discerning they didn't really have much of a choice and So a guy that knows his value is going to be more discriminating right whereas a guy that doesn't know his value He's gonna accept whatever he can get And then you know, they don't need long-term relationships a lot of guys settle into long-term relationships again You know, I'm just giving you the straight truth there But because they don't they need a reliable way to get sex they need consistency and If you don't need that Then then then you don't really need an LTR or for a lot of guys It doesn't mean that the guy isn't interested in LTR It's just that he doesn't need one and that that makes a huge difference. So Let me talk about some of the mistakes that women make and this is really where where I try to help women that that are struggling to lock down guys and to actually get the guy that they want the first one is giving up sex way too Early and easily Which it might be it might sound kind of funny me saying this Considering that it's like conflicting forces, right when I coach women I tell them to basically do the opposite of what I am helping guys do, right? It's like it's it's two forces battling each other, right? I'm teaching guys how to actually counter this and I'm teaching women to hold firm You know, that's just how the battle goes, right? But I was just I just had a girl that just reached out to me on on Instagram She had damned me and she had asked me she knew that I did some coaching in this area and You know, she was flirty whatever and then she was like and then she's I Feel like there's something else that that she had and she she asked me this question and she says hey You know, I have a lot of trouble with with dating and I was like well I thought okay. She's just looking for some validation here.  She's you know, she shouldn't have any problem with dating So I'm like, okay. All right. Sure. You have problem dating whatever tell me what's your problem with dating and she's like She's like no, I just like I just I can't I just I'm not successful with dating And so I was like, okay. Well, how many do you go on a lot of dates? You have trouble getting dates I can't imagine that's the case. She's like no, no, I have a lot of dates So I was like, well, what is your trouble with dating then and and she says Well, you know guys ghost me all the time and again, I'm looking at her profile And I'm like, why would like that doesn't seem seem correct, right? You know, why would guys ghost her? They're gonna respond to her messages. She must be just like seeking Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah So ghosting is is like when you just stop texting someone out of the blue, right?  She says three I say let me send me the pictures of the guys that that she had gone on dates with and they were all like I mean, they're all like prime specimen guys, right? You know her access to the data got I was like, okay, okay, right? And and you know, she was a good-looking girl So I could I could see that but like there wasn't any average shows in there, right?  And you know, it took it took her about five minutes to answer that one and then finally I see the little dots and she's like two out of the three and I said, well, that's your problem.   She doesn't have any respect for herself. She's trying to win their validation She's trying to get them to like her by doing the exact wrong thing, which is by giving it up, right? Not saying that you know that that she couldn't do that I'm just saying that like that's how she's trying to gain their gain them and they're not respecting her Because of that. So I worked with her Said her a little bit straight said hey wait a minute, you know, maybe like maybe like make him chase a little bit you know stuff your mother should have taught you but I guess not and You know and it worked out a lot better for her But the point here was like, you know when I and when I told the story to some my guy friends They're like, this is crazy. It doesn't make sense. I would never ghost a girl that looked like that and I was like, well You wouldn't ghost a girl that Like and if she just reaches out to some average guy Yeah, he's not gonna he and and she goes out on a date with him and he has sex with her She's gonna he's gonna call her back the next morning and see how she's doing and see if she wants to go out again Right, but a guy that is in the category of being in the top five percent Which is the guy that all women want is gonna behave differently and that's why You know, that's why this whole thing. That's why I say I make this whole dog. So Next mistake is trying to be an alpha woman to attract an alpha man This is one that Tommy Lauren was doing in that in that video as well and a lot of women do they think by having a High-powered career and doing the same things that men do that they're gonna attract a man a man Does not want to sleep with another man and that's that's just how it how it works So they do the wrong thing by trying to present themselves as a strong and you see it in the the rom-coms Unfortunately, right every single plot of most of the the new romantic comedies is high-powered executive woman Can't find a guy right and then finally this guy Who she's not sure he's not sure if he likes her at first because she's abrasive He gets through to her soft core and then he loves that. She's such a powerful and strong woman But that's not reality so Next one is doing things I Did type these up pretty quick there doing things to attract that attract low-value men, right? So if you want to attract a lot of low-value men post provocative pictures online, right? High-value guys are gonna say yeah, this I don't like that. This girl is like posting her sexuality all over the place, right? The being disrespectful Low-value guys will respond to disrespect really well. They'll love it Like you abuse the low-value guy. He will keep on coming back for more. He just loves to get hurt You know, it's like that. What's that? That that song the the offspring song the self-esteem is like, you know The more you suffer the more it shows you really care, right? Yeah Yeah, that's what low-value guys think and a lot of women are used to working with low-value guys and doing that because they know It's a game. You can play to get a guy, but it doesn't work on high-value guys because they don't care Same thing with playing text games, right? You know, it's good advice if you have the average Joe to You know play some text games with them not respond for a couple days Whatever if you're dealing with a high-value guy and you're playing games He's already got too many other girls that he's texting. He's just gonna forget about you Feminist remarks and association That's my spelling is not so good, but so if a guy That is of high value sees a woman who is associated with feminist Feminist movement is making a lot of comments on social media about Women's liberation and all these things that are gonna be man-hating He's just he's not gonna deal with it's not worth it He's just gonna pass and move on and and maybe he will Sleep with you like sleep with the girl that that does that but then he's not gonna want to get into any kind of long-term He doesn't want to have the discussion about feminism and and to deal with that So, you know, he may get what he wants and then move on, but he's not looking at a long-term partner for someone who hates men right And then not paying compliments actually not pumping the ego. This is again I guess I could put that in the category of things that you can do to attract low-volume and is it is not but I Think a lot of women think that By not paying a man like if you're dating a guy that is is Attractive or is of high value by not pumping up his ego that that will will be a good thing it's actually a bad thing because one of the things that High-value men like or that men like in general is to have their ego stroked, right? It's it's true It's a good way to to get them get a man in because and that's why you know You hear all these stories of of guys that maybe they cheat on their wife with their secretary and their secretary is actually not Not not as attractive as their wife.   It's like fine actual sincere things. It's just it's just a matter of Of not holding back those things that you think you should hold back Which you should perhaps with with normal guys So let me tell you what high-value men are looking for So this is this is something that I think it's important. It's not a hundred percent physical beauty, right? So this is a big mistake. I think that a lot of women make is that they think that What what high-value men are looking for is the same thing as what the average guy is looking for and it's not true And I'll tell you why is because most guys right the majority of guys Will only value woman based on her physical attractiveness. That's the only thing they care about and now that's harsh reality But that's the truth. That's most guys, but the good news is saving grace to this is that If you're a guy that has had access to a lot of women Then what happens is that you've had that 10 over there that every guy wanted you've had that Really hot girl you've had her multiple times or different girls and you get to a point where you realize that it's actually not that good That it's sometimes a little bit better than picking the hottest girl that you could possibly get to go with a girl Who actually makes you feel good is fun to be around has some other things going for her in her life and personality Maybe on the you know the one to ten scale this other girls a seven and a half And so you say hey, I don't I'm gonna pass on the ten I'm gonna go for the seven and a half Who's he's a really good person who I actually like to be around and I would actually want to spend my time because I've had all That before but the reason why I point this out is because it's different than the average guy Right the average guy that doesn't have access to that that could never bag a ten let's say that He thinks that that would be the greatest thing in the world And so he's his value system is based completely on physical beauty Whereas actually the higher value guys They're not basing it completely on physical beauty because they have other standards because that's not the primary criteria anymore If that makes sense, I know it seems really counter-intuitive But it's it's a hundred percent true and I've talked to a lot of guys a lot of guys that I coach by the way Fall into this category right a lot of guys I coach are multi-millionaires have a lot of success or ripped and you know and And I'm helping them to get to next level in their business and I always run this by them I'm like hey if you had a girl that looks like a supermodel or you had and but she's a complete bimbo And has no brain at all and just like is annoying and you had this other girl That's you know your average like girl next door. She's attractive, right? But you know it but you just you just vibe with her really well you connect with her You know you have a good time with her and and you have a lot of fun Which would you choose and they always tell me the same thing that they would they would choose But when I when I pose the same question too So my other coaching clients that that aren't very successful that aren't what I've considered top 5% guy They always say why that's a silly question Of course, I would choose the hottest girl and then like okay, so that's how I know all right femininity so I Mean I don't really need to like go into a lot of detail to define what this is but just Because most of the especially the younger women that I talked to have no idea what femininity is And I get it. I mean masculinity is something that Is Concrete right there's not more than one way to be a masculine man. You're masculine or you're not But femininity kind of looks like a lot of different things There's a lot of variations of femininity in my experience. So, you know Girlie stuff doing girls. I think so many girls today are afraid to do girly stuff. It's attractive. It's attractive. It's feminine Wearing a dress. This is a huge one. This is like, you know, if you take one thing from this talk Like wearing a dress is this big going on a date wearing a dress You know most most guys that are of high value. They're gonna say, yeah, I like you already Right being soft not being so harsh again The world is hard place a lot of women try to again where I said with the text games and the being disrespectful and stuff It's like trying to show I don't need a man. I'm an independent woman You know that'll work on on low value guys all day long But on a high value guy, he's gonna appreciate that you're actually tender and soft and vulnerable Because that's gonna bring out his protecting instinct and you know the damsel in distress thing Fun and playful Again, just a just a part of being feminine I think and the nurturing nurturing is thing is really really key You can you can you can win a guy that you wouldn't be able to win by by showing the nurturing Side which again, it's something that so many women today They try to hide all this stuff they have this stuff inside But they're trying to hide it because they think it's unattractive because things it'll make them seem too desperate They think it'll make them seem unattractive in and maybe For low value guys like I said that are mostly judging on on looks it would but for higher value guys It doesn't this one's probably come up a lot. I'm guessing in this room. I haven't been here a lot, but respect This is like a key thing for men is You know looking up to him, right? You know trusting his judgment following his lead submitting in the sense of a falling lead And it's interesting. I think the whole submission thing.  It's not about forcing anything. It's not about threats It's not about controlling. It's the opposite of that, right? The more dominant you are the less you have to do because when you are dominant when you have mastered yourself when you have a high standard for yourself and your Your weapon of choice is to remove your attention or to remove yourself from people who don't appreciate you or who don't meet your standards That's that's then people do want to submit to you then women do want to submit to you And so when I talk about submission, that's what I'm talking about I'm not talking about any kind of force submission. I'm talking about this idea of Voluntarily saying okay this guy I want to follow his lead.   He's a little bit tougher Right. He's not as emotional. He's he's a little bit more distant and reserved and non-attached Which is a good thing in general for a man that we kind of value that in the man, right? He should still have the ability to connect He should still have the ability to experience and share emotion for sure But that hardness that's created by a high number of sexual partners is generally a net benefit for a man as far as his attractiveness Let's say right women are generally attracted to the men who have more sexual experience But for women that hardness is bad. It makes you more masculine So in my experience, especially talking to a lot of the young women that I coach the more sexual partners They have the more they're able to operate like a man the more that they're hard and they develop some sense of masculine They they lose their ability to form attachment for a man Having too much attachment being too needy is a weakness for women. It's a bonus. It's a it's a plus a guy wants to be with the woman who really wants to be with him and And makes him the center of her world whereas if a guy makes a girl's center of her world of his world It's not good. He's not attractive anymore Not promiscuous Again, this this goes along with that but just the idea of being promiscuous It's gonna be a filter every guy that is high value one of the questions He's gonna ask or figure out is how promiscuous is this girl and that's gonna decide whether he's gonna see her again So physical beauty does matter Right, it doesn't matter as much as like I said, but it does matter for sure And part of it is just because that's the first thing that attracts a man is is physical beauty Regardless of high value or not.  It doesn't feel real It doesn't feel authentic so they'd rather see a girl that that makes herself look beautiful But doesn't resort to all of the fakeness that's that's out there in the world you know Personality I talked about this before but you know Looking for girl. That's fun to be around has a brain actually, you know again We're talking about the difference between high-valued and and low-valued men But this is these become important at that point a real and authentic here's one that I think Would not be obvious which is not afraid to disagree Respectfully and calling them out Right, you know a lot of guys that are used to getting a lot of women They're used to women doing whatever they want and saying whatever and it's like I was talking to one of my coaching clients and I was like I could sometimes it feel like I could literally just say Anything and it doesn't matter Right and that's actually not a good feeling like when if you could just say anything and the person doesn't actually care about you They're just like oh this guy's hot or this guy is you know, whatever.   So when a girl calls a guy out what what that says is that I have some respect for myself Hey, wait a minute. You can't get away with this I'm not just gonna fawn over you just because you're hot I actually have some value and some self-respect and so many women don't have self-respect or value today and So that that does that does set you apart again respectfully disagreeing right not being disrespectful and and being Being nasty so and then I put this one youth. Maybe right.  I don't need to tell you about the wall and all that stuff There's some truth to it, of course, right, but I put maybe here because again like I said For lower value guys youth is absolutely a hundred percent just with beauty right there Like they're gonna want the the youngest youngest hottest girl they can find but a high value guy At some point in his life might say wait a minute. Hold on. I'd rather be with a girl. That's maybe a little bit older but The girl that is actually someone who I like to be with who actually is a good genuine person It's fun to be around and and we Just have a discussion with it with a high-value man in the hall who who made this decision Today or like a couple days ago because it's true. It's true.  Let's be honest instead use that time when you're at your best To lock down what you want to get it to get a good guy I tell guys the same thing. It's at the opposite.  You got money You know who you are you've had some experience with women and now you can be discerning and now You can get all those girls that you didn't that you couldn't get before when you're younger instead of just marrying the first girl I see so Let's see. Okay. So what can you actually do to attract and keep a top 5% man? Forget about feminism. It will not get you what you want so many women are all about feminism But you know again, I probably don't need to talk about that in this room again Because I'm sure plenty of guys before me have have already railed pretty hard on feminism But it's not good the feminism we have today. It doesn't it doesn't really benefit you It doesn't really benefit anyone and it's not going to get you the guy that you want Instead though embrace femininity right learn to be feminine This is this is an interesting one I think if someone put a course together on how to be feminine they would make a fortune because I Get this question all the time. It's I can teach a guy how to be masculine. That's that's pretty easy I guess maybe because guys have to become masculine This is they have to become men but like teaching a woman to be feminine is pretty damn hard that it's it's not It's not as easy. It's it's a more of a moving target, but But yeah, so but but learn to it, you know, I think probably the best advice I'd have is to be around lots of feminine women and to do Feminine things like to allow yourself to be girly And then and then I'll say about this is polarity if you want a very masculine man You have to be very feminine right so a lot of times the guys I'm talking about the top 5% guys They're gonna be very masculine So if they're very masculine, they're gonna be attracted to very feminine women We have that sexual polarity that that's important And so the more of a masculine guy that you have the more of a feminine girl You're going to have to be to attract that guy Whereas like I said before a lot of women are making the mistake of becoming more masculine in order to try and attack Attract a hyper masculine man, and that's never gonna work Enhance your beauty as naturally as possible. I already talked about this a little bit, but you know looks are initially gonna attract a man Jay was talking about getting in shape. It's a good idea for sure Getting in shape is something that you do have control over and you can do and and really, you know Many most most women today most people today in the US are Out of shape or obese or overweight like getting in shape is gonna set you apart for sure It makes a huge difference avoid fake like I said all the fake stuff There's so much fake in the world today, and you know where feminine things dresses, you know Stuff like that that maybe and I think some of this To is is stuff that could get you Made fun of like what why are you doing because there's so much of this? Feminist attitude in the world today, so when in my experience really feminine women sometimes they have a heart because They get it from the other from the other women, and it's not always so it's not always nice, but So another tip I have is go places where high-value men are right So the gym hire especially higher-end health clubs. It's a good place to find You know where where do high-value men hang out social events, you know, especially charity events and things like that bars at conferences I Mean like think about it like doctor conference lawyer like conferences here like things like that where you know that there's Going to be a bunch of guys that are in the top 5% and that's where they're going to be hanging out Is that the bar at the conference? churches of course Higher and nightlife right so like the more expensive places to go not trashy bars, right? You know find trash bars. You're gonna find lower value guys Clubs and meet-ups like social clubs real estate investing club, right meet-ups for business and young entrepreneurs, right? Those type of things are gonna be good places Be approachable this one. I wouldn't imagine I would have to say but Like make eye contact smile Right actually be approachable so that a guy can actually approach you and talk to you and then watch out for your friends So your friends a lot of times will try to prevent you from actually interacting with the guy because they're jealous and so You just have to watch out for that when you go No sex on first dates It's weird for me to be on a stage telling saying this statement I'm used to saying the opposite statement But I'm giving you the truth if you really want to lock down a high value guy That's maybe not even the second or the third honestly like you know I think most most most guys to be honest, right in this world After threes that'll be pushing it probably the way things are. I mean you can whatever your religious values I don't have a problem with that, but I'm just saying so but definitely not on the first At least we can all agree on that and and that will make a huge difference A lot of the guys the ghosting won't happen if you don't do this, right? You have some respect for yourself Make him feel like a man. Make a man feel like a man This is probably the the most solid advice I can give you to have a guy be attracted to you is to make him feel like a man men are easily manipulated By making him feel like a big strong man and the reason why this works so well It's because it doesn't happen so much in society today because of all the feminism that we have and the you know alpha women and trying to true trying to be more masculine is that it's like it's Degrading to be like oh big strong man, but you know what? That that's the thing that's gonna really attract a big strong man Treat him like a king. This is another one that is somewhat controversial, but you know when I talk to guys all the time about Relationships and again talking to high-value guys and I asked them about what is the what is the criteria? What's the single biggest selection criteria that you use in order to determine whether woman is worth keeping around and it's this is true Some variation of this I use this terminology of treating him like a king Making making your man feel like he's a king, right?  See this is where I think You know when I say this women say oh well, well, he should treat me like a queen. It's not quite It's more like a princess Right because the queen is like well we have equal power or like you know We're really thrown together.  You want a man to act like a king? You got to treat him like Support him on his mission Again really important guys that are high-value have a lot of stuff going on. They're building businesses. They're They're doing a lot of things in their life They're not putting women number one in their life, right?  That's important. That's what guys are looking for. They're like, okay Well, I'm busy. What does this girl add to my life? She's attractive. Okay. I like her Is she actually helping me on my my mission in life? If so, that's that's someone that you want to keep on on board Have standards and self-respect. I talked about this in regards to you know all the things that I talked about here But it's amazing how many women don't have any kind of standard of self-respect I just had an example of a of a girl that had said To one of one of the guys I was coaching that you know, he invited her somewhere and she's like, you know I'm not that kind of girl right like she actually like pushed back and and I was like, okay good That's good. She actually has you know, this is a girl that you should actually follow up on Show a high degree of investment This this one's interesting again a little bit counterintuitive you do this with with the lower value guy and It might not work so much but Today with all the dating apps and all this stuff Actually showing investment is actually a bonus a benefits like You know guy looks back and says hey actually, you know this girl actually she she drove all this way to see me That's that's rare like oh this you know She went through all this this effort like move around her schedule so that she could be with me and make some time with me Okay, like it's you know, it shows that that you actually care that you're actually You know value the guy Again a lot of the advice you get it was the opposite like oh don't show you care too much Don't show that you actually right it's gonna work with low value guys all day long.  They'll be like oh, I just what is what is she thinking about? I wonder what what her text meant. They'll be you know in tears like I don't know if she like Why doesn't she respond how about you guys just gonna not gonna care? That so the investment will actually work the opposite will work because they're like wow all these other girls They're just like whatever and this girl actually she seems to really really like me a lot Like for more than just being attractive or whatever, you know her status or All right, that's it Questions All right, right. I'm ready for the firing squad All right Okay, two questions You use the term alpha woman Quite a bit when we when we say alpha man, we're talking about an authentic genuine masculine man That is the definition of an alpha man or one of the potential definitions But when we're talking about the alpha female the go-getter business career woman She's not being authentic or genuine or feminine. So is that really an alpha? It's Good question. So it depends on how you what you say alpha is for as far as a female, right? So To me alpha it just itself is a masculine term, right? Why would a woman want to be alpha anything like to be the best the winner, right? That's like a masculine idea Women are egalitarian by by nature and men are hierarchical, right?  That's that's how I view it so Yeah, yeah, of course And there are alpha males Right, yeah, I'm talking in terms of human sexuality right like Right, but there's bonobos and chimps and they have completely different mating behaviors versus like who's alpha Eggs, you know, like with game gorillas, it's a whole different hierarchy. It's different.  Let's see. Let's get to the next question Okay, so I'm just wondering how it how it might look to like stroke of anzio or like Compliment and make him feel like a man I guess it does it's not like really my forte but it may be like give some examples or oh like examples of how to like make a man feel like a man Basically, like how to so I mean just like little things like when you see I mean Like something small like he opens the door for you and like oh wow I love how you how you you open the door for me and like or or you know Lift you up and it's like oh you you you're so strong, you know Or even just just ordering like at the restaurant, right? If a guy like if you're out to dinner with a high-volume man I'll tell you what he's gonna do. He's gonna ask you what you want Okay, and then he's going to when the waitress or waiter comes. He's gonna order for you and Himself and then you could say I like how you how you did that how you took charge and how you how you ordered for me I haven't had a guy that that does that before right as opposed to what he might be used to Which is some some girl trying to give him shit because she's feminist and she's like oh I can order for myself Okay, well, yeah, you can order for yourself, but you're probably not gonna see the guy Right, so like when he's trying to do things that are masculine like appreciating those things and saying I appreciate that that you know that you're you're this guy, right as opposed to because his whole life Right in the society that we live in As a is the opposite. It's right.  This is this is a goal. I love this girl, right?  It's the op is refreshing from me Okay, I can be myself and actually be appreciated for being this guy that I am as opposed to being Attacked and having to deal with all these these conflicts and and stressful situation I don't want to be in that situation I want to be with a girl who actually makes me feel good who is refreshing who's who's glad to be around a guy even though he knows right because this is the thing I tell guys all the time is that even though You know feminist women tend to Say that they don't like masculine men and don't like masculine and call a toxic to masculinity You know I always tell guys like you know on the other side of them like if you see a girl that's really feminist She's gonna really like you if you're masculine, right? Because secretly she wants to you know the same thing is like, you know I think was was the name Texas Tom was talking about like 50 shades of gray, right? It's like the best-selling book ever for you know who's reading that book I mean we live in a society. That's mostly feminist So is it just the only non-feminist women are we in that book? No It's because it's the same fantasy. It doesn't matter if you're feminist or not.  You're showing your cards whereas What you said is is more accurate. So yeah That's all time we have give it up John summits We can win this war. We can win this war Okay, we're joining first from Orlando, Florida is the man in that clip Anthony dream Johnson He says he wants to abolish feminism and make women great again says with a trademark make women great again for Make women great again They're gonna do a three-day seminar for women led by all men In mansplaining news a three-day conference for women led by men Hopes to make women great again how the 22 convention will make you the greatest you ever raise your femininity by 500% How is a man supposed to tell a woman how to be the ultimate woman? 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