They may be left without any supply They may have no one to give them money or a place to stay They may have no one to regulate their emotions So they're going to be seeking out a new source of supply if they haven't already in many situations Once the narcissist begins devaluing you. They're already idealizing someone else They already have someone else waiting in the wings And once you've moved on they will advance this person to the primary position They will move forward with them Even if they don't really like them Any supply is better than no supply The narcissist will manipulate this new person They will tell them that they love them in some situations They will even get married or have children with a new supply This could happen just a few weeks or months after you have moved on It's like you never meant anything to the narcissist It's like you never even existed Because all they really care about is supply They don't value us as people and that's how they are able to move on so quickly Narcissists cannot be alone for long periods of time They need to have someone around they need to have someone to take care of them But it's not so easy for them to find someone who is as good as what you were to them Which is often why it can seem like they downgraded Because they didn't expect you to move on So they didn't have enough time to find someone who was at your level It's not so easy for them to find another grade A source of supply Sometimes they just have to settle for whatever they can find But once you've moved on The narcissist will be seeking new supply if they haven't already They will be looking for someone else They're not going to spend any time alone They're not going to take any time to reflect When they find this new person They're going to be playing the victim They're going to act as though you treated them unfairly As though you just abandoned them this new person is going to feel sorry for them They're going to want to help them The narcissist will love on the new supply But this doesn't last for long. It isn't long until they will begin devaluing the new supply Just as they did with you and then they're going to be looking for someone else The cycle never ends They just find new people They do the same thing again and again while expecting a different result and nothing ever changes to hoovering Once you've moved on from the narcissist They're not just going to let you go They're still going to be thinking about you They're going to feel like they're missing out on something So they will try to return to you in some situations They will come back as though nothing happened while in other situations They will give you fake apologies False epiphanies and they will use future faking. They will act like they've realized what they did wrong They will try to make you believe that they've changed They will try to make you believe that they're never going to make those mistakes again They will tell you whatever they think you want to hear They will come back with gifts They will offer to take you out somewhere Whatever they think will get you back But it's not genuine They're not doing this because they care about you They're just trying to feed their egos and they do this by giving you false validation By making you believe that they understand Making you believe that they finally get it When really They're just telling you whatever they think you want to hear They're not really about any of that They don't really accept that they did anything wrong It's just a game and it's designed to lure you back in It's designed to get your attention But you need to recognize that they don't really care about you They haven't taken the time to really reflect on anything that they did They don't care about how their behavior has affected you All they care about is supply And they will do whatever it takes to get it Regardless of how it affects you all they care about is getting what they want and once they've got you They take you for granted Because they only want what they think they can't have They're more interested in you When you're not interested in them because it's about satisfying their egos It's about inflating their sense of importance It has nothing to do with you It has nothing to do with establishing something meaningful with you So do not fall for the Hoover attempt They haven't realized what they did wrong They're not sorry and they're not going to change free smear campaign The narcissists may try to return to you They may try to get your attention again But this is only if they think you're still susceptible to them ablation This is only if they think they can still affect you emotionally Once the narcissist knows that you see through them They're going to show no mercy for you They are going to punish you for leaving them They are going to punish you for ejecting them Because it caused a narcissistic injury It injured it injured their dignity and pride And they cannot let that go They can't believe that you have the audacity to pull away from them And this is something that they are going to hold on to their anger and frustration Motivates them to start a smear campaign against you They will talk to people about you They will tell people that you manipulate to them and then you abandon them They will try to portray you as the narcissist They will try to get everyone to see you in this way in their minds.  They will smear your name They will try to ruin your reputation. They will try to affect every aspect of your life So that you can't just move on They want everyone to see you differently They want everyone to look down on you So that no one wants anything to do with you Because that is how they maintain their control Even once you have left them that is how they still keep you in their realm Even if you're not around them anymore Once you moved on from the narcissist They're not just going to let you move on in a respectful and dignified way They're going to try to pull you back in And if they can't do that They will try to sabotage your progress They will try to humiliate you They will do whatever it takes to stop you from getting ahead They have to pull you back down to their level So that they can feel comfortable You cannot entertain their game Don't give it any attention It will only suck you back in You need to keep moving You need to focus on your own life As long as they have your attention They are able to control you For you to move on Your attention needs to be on where you're going Rather than the place that you're trying to leave Focus on what you need to do to get to where you want to be Don't let them distract you Remember why you left Remind yourself of your good intentions Don't let them sway you into their way of thinking And think about how better your life will be Once you get to where you want to be Let that be your motivation Let that guide you The narcissist can only hold you back if you let them Take away your attention Focus on what really matters Focus on building the life that you deserve Thank you for watching I hope this video wears it with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My paypal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries, you can email me at coaching.narcsurvivor.uk Thank you for watching And I will talk to you soon


hey everyone welcome back to another counter side video today's video we're going to be featuring alex and her strategy and also her build but before that if you want an updated counter side videos please hit the subscribe button down below okay guys so we have here alex so old administration maize division so alex has three deployment cost which is actually right in you know where it's supposed to be for a striker but for the value that she adds it's actually a very good number okay she's a counter ssr striker ground type and also ground attack okay let's go to her stats guys for her strengths she has her hp which is at 48657 and also crit which is at 798 which are actually again her strengths and her weaknesses would be her attack um i'm not sure why they built her with uh with uh below average attack but again this can be augmented through your gears also um her evasion is actually um low as well hit rate is actually low as well and defense is actually below average okay guys so let's take a look at the alex's skills okay guys so we are here in alex's skill info basic skill basic attack valid two hits very good for a striker and very good for your lead tank if you're going to use her swings a high power device inflicting aoe damage to the front levels two three four and five is a plus 20 for basic attack damage passive skill damage limiter so the tech stealth activates her device when her hp drops to 50 or lower basic attack additionally attacks additional attacks and all attacks create a barrier equal to three percent of max hp for five seconds um she becomes tankier as her hp goes down level two three and four attack speed is a plus 20 so she actually you know make make it makes sure that she puts in those barriers and level five attack up to 50 plus 50 based on hp loss okay immunity to hit stun from special or lower skills during barrier next is going to be her special skill it's life overdrive it's an 18 second cooldown which is actually fast valid hits is two which is an aoe amplifies her device output temporarily and reinforcing her physical capability inflicts aoe damage in the front and increases max hp by 25 so not only she increases her attack she also increases her hp and she adds a a barrier to herself so the the special skill level two three four is an additional damage of 25 and at level five hp is a plus 50 instead instead of 25 so randomly also removes one non-permanent buff so again she's very tanky and she has a buff removal for her special skill and lastly is her ultimate skill side chain compressor okay so 48 seconds for the cooldown valid hits is three which is an aoe maximizes her device output and causes an underground explosion reflecting aoe damage in the front so level two three four damage is going to be plus 25 percent and level five damage increases up to 50 percent based on hp loss so again damage increase increase in hp and also what um barrier as well so again she would be a perfect tank at three deployment cost actually for a striker okay so let's take a look at alex's gear so don't be shocked guys this is not her her her own gear i actually got this from my um awakened hill there so um she is actually going to be equipped either hp all hp two hp sets to maximize her hp and her tankiness or if you want to you know if you want to ensure that the buyer stays up and you know and deal more attacks you can actually put um attack speed as her gear set so again hp or attack speed for the gear set then for the additional stats here the yellow portion or actually option one and option two that's a fixed stat let's look for it okay for both your additional stats you have the option of giving her additional hp or additional hit because her hit is i think below average or you can actually add attack to her um gear stats so those are my recommendations um it's really up to you guys on how you want to customize and how you want to use alex on your teams but more or less she is actually going to be a very good tank so as you can see hp is at 60 000 if you put all hp gears this is actually as one hp as well substat hit skill haste i don't want to change that the attack is here as well um can be changed to hp and hp is here as well so ideally what you equip in your defenders especially if they have all hp sets ideally is actually good for again these sets these sets that i equipped her is actually from awakened hildi and actually she's ready to go okay let's take a look at um her deployment strategy guys okay so first and foremost when you play alex she will be most probably your lead tank most probably as well um she's going to be your she's going to be in your rush teams whether it be counter teams or it be soldier teams she will be the lead for you or at least an off tank just in case if you want to bring a a more tankier um front line like for example a three to cast um three to cast three deployment cost uh defender then she can be the other one behind that defender again she's very she is very um low cost i tell you that at three you can deploy her you can spam her and um if you actually put her up to level 110 she's going to you know um you know um bring you dividends and i can see that rush teams will be back in style once you have her and also we have naiel as well recently released so again she's going to be valuable in rush teams and uh i think i'm we're going to see a lot of rush teams coming in or making a comeback for our pvp so let's take a look at her um that is her special skill so let's take a look at it again so i think it's a double slash one oh no it's only a single slash okay then let's um let's do let's do unsummon her at this point let's put out ai here not air reset enemy only a ground unit so let's do ai is on as you can see daggers the enemy with her initial hit and let's take a look at her ultimate guys and see how it looks so take note this is three hits sidechain compressor that is actually her ultimate let's actually show another you know another another clip or over ultimate again three hits for her sidechain compressor very good daggers daggers them back and you know they lose balance and usually that is where you can do additional damage as you stagger your enemies okay okay so my final thoughts for alex um i think she's going to be specific to rush teams um i don't mind bringing her in um other mixed teams but she will really shine in rush teams if you have rush teams for counters for soldiers she can be your lead again she can also be your off tank um at three cost she's going to shine really if you put her again as your leader she's going she's only going to be at two cost so um what if you put there her then i yell second and it's really really um you know it will be really a a mess or a chaos if your opponent is not prepared or if your opponent is not you know not really up to pushing back a rush attack so again um she's actually very good specialized for rush teams um for pve um i'm going to rate her a seven out of ten superb um going to be superb in shadow palace but can be used anywhere in pve as long as you need her but again um she will excel really shadow palace and um pvp she is an eight out of ten um because she only specializes in rush teams um you would get more you know get more value from her for rush teams i'm not saying that she can't be used in others the teams but again she is specialized in rush teams but can be used um in any pvp team okay can be a striker or a tank um you know off tank or your lead um tank sorry can be your lead tank or your off tank so she can actually be very tanky um if you especially if you level up her up to one 10 okay guys so that is those are my thoughts for alex and hope you have um what do you call this hope you have luck in so many for alex if you haven't yet um for my experience in so many for her i i i wasn't able to to capture that moment because i was actually the rush and i was doing other things but again hope this guide helps you 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Your coca-cola bottler presents Claudia Claudia based on the original stories by Rose Frank and proud to you transcribed Monday through Friday by your friendly neighbor who bottles coca-cola Relax and while you're listening refresh yourself. Have a coke and now Claudia Elegant dinner Mrs. Knopf. Thank you, sir. What's good wasn't it? You were improving. He had one candy. I hope you know it Did was that what I almost broke my front tooth on? Oh, no, that was my baking powder biscuit. What they awful I either put too much baking powder in there not enough either one.  So do I one of the best husbands I've ever had I've gone to living room read your paper and I'll have the dishes done in no time I'll help you. You won't. I told you ever since we've been married. I don't approve of men helping with the dishes Yeah, but ever since we've been married. I've been helping So what can I do come on here? I'll show you how we'll manage now. Let's stack them up here. So That's it. I make it all Maybe in one trip. Oh That's enough. I'll topple and break here. Let me have that Be careful. Get away. Get away. If you push me, I can't do it. I'll take you there. Now hold the door open Don't let it swing. Here I come. David, please. Let me take that cup. You let me alone and go back and finish playing on the table now Now there we are Hey, take that bundle of laundry away so I can put them down. I hope my shirts came back Wait a minute. Put them right in the sink. They did. Where's the dish pan? What did your shirt? I don't use a dish pan. I like to wash them under running water. I like the dish pan I don't anyway, what's your business to know how I do it because I'm washing you're not your driver. I won't I want to wash David, I hate to drive. So do I but washing dishes is such a messy job for a man You've got your hands wet and the soap and everything you it's drying is much nicer. That's why I want to let you do it David get away from that sink. Where's the soap? This thing to wash dishes.  Isn't she wonderful? That's terrific.  That's what you call efficiency It is not. It's silly to waste the trip in for just two things.  What for? Oh, just so you don't waste the trip Hey, why do I have two frying pans to wash? I made a type of tropical air and wanted them had to begin all over again. I didn't bargain for two frying pans What was that? Nothing. Sound like a flower bloom. Oh, you're so careless. I told her not to leave plates on the table I dropped it. I don't see what's so funny about it. You don't? What'd I do with the pieces? I guess. What do you think you do with them? Here stick them together. I mean I do I dump them in the garbage pail naked or wrap them up in the newspaper? Well the razor blades you wrap up in a newspaper, but you can drop these in naked. Oh, I see. Oh, well, it wasn't a very good plate Anyway, it had a chip in it. Mm-hmm. It's got a little larger chip now. I suppose you want a metal. Here, here dry Not another word out of you. David, this saucer is not washed clean. Where? Where? I don't see a thing. There. There. Now wait a minute. I'll have to get this up to the light. Don't look so close. That's the design on it. It's a buttercup I know a buttercup when I see it. It could have been an egg. An egg? Darling, you have to work tonight. It smells like a buttercup too. I'm working. I'm going to come home after a hard day at the office and stand over a sink. I need over blueprints or plans or something. What do you want to do? Nothing if you're going to be busy. Aren't I noble? My evening belongs to you. You alone. What would you like me to do? Nothing. It's funny, I'd rather do nothing with you than something with anybody else. I've got to think that one out. Give me a minute. How would you like to go to the theater? I adore it. It's too late though. No, it isn't. It's only quarter of eight. Oh, we never get tickets for anything good at the last minute. The tickets cost a fortune, David. Why don't we just go to the movie instead? Say, how'd you like to see a good dog picture in the neighborhood? Yes, I'd love it. Let's go. What's playing? I don't know. I just asked you if you'd like to see what I would. You mean you were just hoping that there's one around someplace. Sure, what's wrong with that? The place just take potluck and go to whatever is playing. I've had enough pots here. I want to know what's playing before I start out. Oh, dear, you have no wild, sweet spirit of adventure in you. Yes, I do. Here I come with wild, sweeping spirit of adventure. Is that what it is? But I don't have any when it comes to sitting through a bad movie. Hey, wait a minute. I do know what's playing, but I just don't remember. It's pretty good, though. I mean, when I passed the theater, I looked at the marquee. How do you pronounce that marquee or marquee? Marqueuse, I think. Look it up in the dictionary.  Look it up in the dictionary. Oh, David, don't be silly. What's playing in the dictionary? Well, don't take it so hard now. I remember. This is pretty... I mean, I said to myself that I was walking the movie, you know, when I was walking the movie. Oh, I thought you were talking about the dictionary. It's not sad. I said, in a pinch, we could see. In a pinch, we could see it. Well, what's the movie about now? Get yourself walking. David, you exhaust me. It's not historical. I mean, the costumes in the picture up front look modern. There's a Mickey Mouse playing in it. Well, what do you know? Why didn't you say so in the first place? Come on, hang up that dish towel. We're on our way. Say you didn't leave a very clean sink. You're supposed to swish it around the soap counter. You swish it around in the morning. I'm going to the Mickey Mouse. Oh, David, what would I do if I married a man that didn't like Mickey Mouse? Now, what would you do if you didn't? He knows any mama loves him too.  Oh, darling, you are so sweet. Well, the one thing worse than a man being sweet, that's being cute. Sweet the way I mean it is a very sweet thing to be. It's a combination of understanding and gentleness and all kinds of... And sugar and spices and everything nicest. Oh, I'll go for it. I hate to think of her spending every evening alone. Say, you know, there's no answer to the phone. I wonder what's happened. She's gone out, probably. Maybe she went over to your Aunt Louise's for dinner. Maybe, but I don't think so. Why not? She didn't say anything about it. Does she have to account to you for everything she does? Get your hat and coat. I hate to get into a movie theater after everybody's breathed up all the air. So do I. David, I phoned mama twice today. There's no answer. Well, she was probably out marketing. But I gave her a chance to come back before I called again. That was big of you? Still no answer. Maybe the phone's out of order. No, I asked the operator to check on it. Well, I'll be a big girl. Not worry about her. I'm ready. Hey, wait a minute. Let's close the windows in case it rains. Ouch, this window sticks. Oh, now I broke my nail. Let me see where. I didn't, but I could have. Switch out that lamp over there. I'll put out the lamp in the hall. Wait a second. I haven't got a handkerchief. Oh, never mind. You can lend me yours. Anyway, I don't think it's a sad picture. We're not going to any picture. David, what made you change? Because you'd be on pens and needles. You wouldn't enjoy a minute of it. You're only going because you think I want to go. Well, don't you? No, not particularly. Then what are you walking to the door for? Where are you going? Over to Mother's. Set your mind at rest. You're cooking up all sorts of ideas. I can tell. Oh, darling, I'm so ashamed. I don't know why. I just get feelings. What are we doing? We get there. We have a key to her apartment. I know, but if she's not home, we... Well, once we find out she hasn't slipped in the bathtub or got her fixiated for a reason. David, that's too coward. If she's not home, we'll phone Aunt Louisa. What do we do if she's not at Aunt Louisa's? Sit and wait for her to come back. Then we'll both give her a piece of our minds for daring to budge out of the house without asking you for express permission.  Look, if we find she hasn't slipped in the bathtub or anything, I'll go to the movies with you. And then afterwards we can phone her and she'll be home by then. It's a deal. Come along. Sure, you don't think I'm silly. Of course I think you're silly. Well, I think you're silly, too, for giving in to me, but I just get... I know. I know. You get feelings. No sense in ringing the bell. Move out of my light for you. Well, let's see if this is the key. All keys look alike in the dark. Where's that cat? Near enough. Claudia, your hands are like ice. There's nothing to be nervous about. I'm not nervous. David, there's a light in the bedroom. Well, stop looking so scared. She's probably just called mother. Mama, you home? Claudia? You scared the wits out of us. Where have you been all day? Can't I have any privacy? Mama, you're in bed. Of course I am. It's half past eight. Time for all nice old ladies to be in bed. Gesundheit.  Nonsense. What are you two doing over here anyway? Go on home. Hold your horses, mother, now. What is all this? Nothing at all. I went to bed early. I have a little cold. Now, we're getting closer to the truth. Now, keep out both of you. There's no need for you catching a cold. You were all right yesterday. When did this come on? In the middle of the night. How much temperature, mother? Oh, not much. How much? But it's down now. What's the difference? Why didn't you call me? I was glad to be rid of you. You didn't even answer the phone. No, I was hoping if you didn't get any answer, you'd think I was out. I guess you...  You can't even be trusted. You didn't feel very much like getting up to the phone, did you, mother? Oh, frankly, I didn't, David. Let's take your pulse. Now, please, please don't come too near the baby. Quiet. Give me your wrist. What is it, David?  Do your bones ache, mother? Any coffee? Much less than this morning. Very professional, David. He always wanted to be a doctor. You make a good one, too. You're happy, too, than I would. Why don't you get that expression? It's all his own, isn't it, silly? Very expressive, though.  You can open the window a little while you're here and run on home. I'll be fine in the morning, and I'll phone you the first thing. But, mommy, you should be having fruit juices every two hours. And who's going to fix your breakfast now instead of the doorbell? Tell me that. Anybody think that a person never had the flu to hear you two carry on? Well, Gloria's right. Nevertheless, you can't lie here alone. You ought to have a nurse. A nurse?  In the first place, you can't get one. They're too scared. Oh, I think I can get one for you right away. Really? Can you, David? Yes. The only trouble with her is that she's married. When she comes on a case, she brings her husband along. Oh, oh, oh. I think I know who you mean. A very pretty girl, very attractive, very bright. No, no. You're getting her mixed up with someone else. This girl's husband is very handsome. Very brilliant fellow, too. Oh, look here. I'm not so feverish, but I can't guess what you two are trying to hatch up between you, and I will not have it. Well, we're not asking you any questions, Mrs. Brown. I'm going home now to tell this girl's husband to bring over his shaving stuff and a pair of pajamas. Hey, tell him to bring his wife's nightgown too and her toothbrush. Gosh, we're lucky to have that extra bedroom I used to have before I got married. Got me so mixed up now. I don't know whether I'm delirious or not. You mean you both intend to sleep here tonight? Don't be so inhospitable. Darling, you better bring some extra oranges from my icebox. Anything else? How'd you like a little water ice from the drugstore, mother?  I've been longing for some all day. Make mine chocolate, David. Oh, and, David, when you go home, turn off all the radiators. It'll be too hot. And be sure to put the cat out before you leave. What cat?  Sounds like old times.  Why don't you make her realize that she's married and has a home of her own? Well, did you ever hear the old saying, circumstances alter cases? Well, this is one of those circumstances, mother. No, there's another old saying that I suddenly remember. A little trite but awfully true. What? What? Oh, something about not losing a daughter but gaining a son. All story material used on this broadcast of Claudia was under the supervision of Rose Franken and William Brown Maloney. Take a tip, lady, from those lucky people who have a Coca-Cola cooler where they work and work refreshed. Why not you, too?  So make a note to keep Coca-Cola in your icebox all the time for refreshment anytime. Every day, Monday through Friday, Claudia comes to you transcribed with the best wishes of your friendly neighbor who bottles Coca-Cola. So listen again Monday at the same time. And now this is joking, saying, au revoir and remember, whoever you are, whatever you do, wherever you may be, when you think of refreshment, think of Coca-Cola. For ice-cold Coca-Cola makes any pause the pause that refreshes.


Hey, everybody, this is Brett. And this 2013 Ford Mustang Shelby GT500 is stock number 13892Z. I am here at Summit Automotive in Fond du Lac, Wisconsin. You're new and use sports car headquarters. This 2013 Shelby GT500 has the 5.8-liter supercharged V8 engine. It puts out an impressive 662 horsepower. This car has been fully-safetyed and inspected by our service shop per the state of Wisconsin Inspection Process. It has a fresh oil and filter change. All the fluids have been checked and topped off. And it is 100% ready to go. I'm going to go all the way around in this video. Inside, start it up. Take a look under the hood.  Race red is the color, and I show all my videos in 4K. If you like the video, you can subscribe to my YouTube channel, which is youtube.com slash summit auto. Click the bell notifications to get updates in the videos I do each and every day, as well as having updates on all the videos, as well as having access to one of the largest catalogs of vehicle walk rounds on YouTube. This one comes with the SVT performance package, which gives you the 19-inch wheels in the front, the Borembo brakes, no scuffs or scrapes on those wheels. And it has Goodyear Eagle F1 tires. These are 26540ZR19s in the front. And I would say they have probably about 60% to 70% of the tread left on them. Front fender is in excellent condition. Didn't see any dents or dings on there. It does come with the HID headlamps, the LED running lights, and the factory fog lights. The front bumper and lower valance are in fantastic condition. Didn't see any scuffs or scrapes or dents or cracks on there. You get the Cobra logo there. These did not come with a grille for maximum cooling. And you can see that these stripes on the hood are in fantastic condition. The hood itself is in fantastic condition. I didn't see any dents or dings on there. And the passenger side front fender, no major dents or dings on there. Passengers side front wheel, no major scuffs or scrapes. And as you go down this side of this 2013 Ford Shelby GT500 Mustang, take note of how clean that body is, how reflective and mirror-like that paint is. I take these HD videos, so if you're far away or even if you're close by and you just cannot make the trip down but you're still interested in purchasing the car, you can see the car, hear the car, and have confidence in the vehicle that you're looking at before you even get here so that when you do get here, there's absolutely no surprises. And you can make a smart and informed buying decision from wherever you're at. If this video helps you make that buying decision, let your salesman know that you saw the video, that it was helpful and that Brett sent you. In the back, you get the 20-inch wheels and it has 285, 35, ZR20 tires back here.  And as we look under here, you can see that this one does have the track pack. Look at that rear diff cooler. It's got the cooler line coming off of it. It has the track pack. That's really the only visual way to tell if it has the track pack or not. And one thing to note on this car is that it is 3M wrapped on the edges here. And it's got the 3M on the lower rockers as well. You can kind of see it right there. So it does have the 3M protectant on there. Coming around to the back, rear bumper is in great shape. These stripes are in fantastic condition back here as well. The trunk lid is in nice shape. The fascia here, no major scuffs or scrapes. The GT 500 logo looks good. And the stripes on the trunk all look pretty good as well. Take a look at the back here.  You get the Shaker Pro subwoofer back here. You also get this 2013 Mustang book. You get a calendar. You get another GT 500 supplement, another card here with pictures and all the information on it. It's got a couple of those cards. You get a Motor Trend Magazine with the 2013 GT 500 on it. You get this option group. It tells you how many were made. So you can see with race red coupes, there was 346 race red coupes made in 2013. And then you can compare all the options and everything like this one has the black, Recaro seats with the white accents. So there was 106 of these cars made with the white seats and the Recaro seats. The Recaro seats with the white stripes in them. So 106 out of the 346 race reds had that. So you can go over all the options on there. It's really cool. And then you have the letter of authenticity right here. This is a number 1351 of 4077 coupes and number 119 of 346 race red coupes. So really cool stuff. You get the tire inflator kit underneath here, which is right there and kind of messes up my presentation. Anyways, inside of the trunk looks really good. Didn't see any denser dings on that trunk coming around to the rear quarter, just as clean as the passenger side. No denser dings, looks really good. And for full disclosure, this back wheel is in fantastic condition as well. Driver's side door looks really good. The mirrors are also covered in this 3M tape. You get the blind spot mirrors on there inside. This one, like I said, has the Recaros with the white stripes in them. So they only made 106 race red coupes with these seats in it. Which is pretty cool to know all that information. You get the Cobra logo stitched into the backrest. It says Recaro there, side curtain airbags. The back seats are trimmed out the same way.  And it's up to you. You also get some special GT500 floor mats, nice plush ones. You get the 20th anniversary sill plate on there. That's also lighted up, launch control, dampeners, and there's different steering modes, auto headlamps, our windows, locks, and mirrors. We'll hop inside, check out the miles, the radio, and everything this car has to offer before we started up. You can see that this one has 9,645 miles on it. Instrument cluster is very nice and clean. You get the leather wrapped and suede wrapped steering wheel. No scuffs or scrapes on there. Bluetooth and audio controls on the right. Cruise controls and information center controls on the left. You get the Cobra logo in the middle of course. This one comes with my favorite Ford radio. Has the factory navigation system. There's highway 41 so that it's working nicely. You get AM, FM, and SiriusXM radio capabilities. And what I like it is you can actually, you actually have a jukebox on here so you can put CDs in and you can burn them to the hard drive so that you can play whatever CDs you have in there. And you got a jukebox that holds a certain number of songs in here. Looks like nobody's put any music on there. So you can hold up to 2,472 tracks on there or 164 hours and 50 minutes of music. Down here is your more tactile volume, tune, and climate controls. Stability control, trunk popper, hazard lights, and your six-speed manual transmission. Of course you can do the sync system where you can pair it up with your cell phone. You get the ambient lighting in the cup holders and on the floors. And the passenger side floor mat and seat are in fantastic conditional whips or tears in there. Smells very clean inside this car. I don't think it's ever been smoked in and the headliner is absolutely perfect. You get home link buttons for your garage door security systems and lane systems and map lights right there. We'll start it up and take a look under the hood. Starts right up. No check engine lights or anything like that other than the brake light. Also turn on all those HID lights in the front. Listen to the exhaust for a little bit. Really a sweet car. This is honestly one of the cleanest GT500s we've ever gotten in. When you look at all the options on this car, has the Shaker Pro, the Rakaros, the Track Pack, the navigation system or electronics package, and the SVT performance package. This is one of the most optioned out coupes you could get. See those HID lights and LED running lights. Everything's working very nicely. And under the hood, you get the 5.8 liter supercharged V8 engine. Also known as the Trinity engine. 662 horsepower. This car has been fully safetyed and inspected by our service shop has a fresh oil and filter change. All the fluids have been checked and topped off. It does have shocks for the hood and I like that they always put who made the vehicle or who made the engine. So Larry Nyakori and Paul Watson, maybe. Amen. Anyway, this car is fully safety inspected and it's 100% ready to go. There's the emission sticker and just about as clean as they come. 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So, good afternoon everybody. Thank you all for joining us today. I am here to share some wonderful news with you all. So, we were incredibly touched by your stories, by your passion, by your applications, and you can see future change makers which really impressed us all. And so, with that, we wanted to share with you all that you five students are the 2023 Yankee Solo Scholars. So, you are the winners of the scholarship. Congratulations. Yay! Throughout this process, it has been an absolute honor and a pleasure getting to know each and every one of you. And that instills confidence in everyone that was on the panel and involved in the selection process that our future is bright because of leaders like each and every one of you. Thank you for your drive. Thank you for your focus. And don't change. Keep it up. I want to thank you guys so much for this opportunity and you guys don't know how much it means to me to win this scholarship, especially coming from a background where not clear culture is really accepted and I'm here to change that and I really want to thank you guys so much for this opportunity. Congratulations on behalf of myself and Kurt Kelly and the whole entire Stonewall Yan family and the Stonewall Give Back Initiative. I can't wait to see what you do in the future. You are the future of our community. Like so far, everybody has said, we're extremely proud of you. And I tell you, the discussions that we had and the experiences that we had meeting all the amazing people that applied, it just blew us all away. But, you know, the Yankees obviously were in a sport that's about success and winning and you're winning. Who you are as people was so successful and a winning combination that we wanted to invest in you and your future. And we're rooting strongly for you. We're putting financial dollars behind you because of who you are. Keep winning, keep having the success, keep standing out in the crowd and we look forward to the next steps in your life. I thank you guys so much. This means, oh my God, so much. It made my day. Like, I've been waiting, checking my emails every day, waiting to get the email claim back. Now I gotta get a nice outfit together for Pride. It'll be my first ever event. I've tried ever. I'm very excited and I just wanna say I'm very honored. I have no words. It's not gonna sit in until later today. I'm gonna be freaking out in a minute. I just wanna say I am so honored and I can't really put into words how much this means to me. It's such an experience. I've never had this big of a reward before and it's just, I really can't put into words. I just wanna thank everyone. I was able to ask a few of you why this is still a wonderful world and the reason why this is still a wonderful world. I congratulate you. You give us hope, you inspire us and we are looking forward to great things large and small from all of you. Congratulations.


Aotearoa has always punched above its weight.  And I think it's looked to increasingly for progressive, innovative policy and private sector action. And so I think it's a perfect place to be the base camp for this work.


Not the most ideal situation, but hey, stay positive, starting the vlog at 4 p.m. today. Alright, so filming has been delayed today. It's Friday. I'm back at the house. The day went by quickly. I had meetings this morning and the children are yelling. That's perfect. And basically, I ran out of time to film the vlog at the office. So here we are. I was supposed to give a shout out to a new subscriber this week, but I might do it at the end of this vlog. Stay tuned if I can squeeze it in. It just kind of, the day got crazy with insurance and internet going out at the office and everything else. Alright, last day of the YouTube Athletic Competition, going for my run, squats, pushups, staying true to it, even though I don't really want to right now. Let's go. Going for my run. I don't want to run, but you guys, Andrew, Fabio, Sean, Kofusi, my brother, inspiring me to keep going. I'm just like, by the end of the week, it's Friday afternoon right now. I am so tired. From the week, I'm just like ready to sleep. I don't know about you guys, but I'm just like ready to veg out and chill out. So, but we're going to get it done because of you. Alright, here we go. Oh my my. So we live in an incredible place. And I just feel like the town is trying to take care of us. So before I start running, look what they're building in our neighborhood. A new playground, hon. The poles, the poles are going in the ground, that's what I'm talking about. Oh, here goes nothing. You're in my way, man. There you go. Mind the gap, mind the gap. Here we go. Oh, that's going to hurt my mileage. Four miles, not bad. I wanted to go further, but really it kind of comes down to time. I had to get back for dinner. I was feeling good compared to Monday. Everybody out there who participated in the, do you feel stronger? Do you feel stronger at the end of the week? So Friday versus Monday. I know I do. So that's a good, it's a good thing. Feel stronger because I would challenge you again, not officially. But next week, instead of running five days in a row, just run three. Monday, Wednesday, Friday. Three times just to keep the momentum going. It's all about long-term health in my mind. Alright, time for some push-ups. There's squats, and then I'll give you the totals for the entire week. Right there, man. Kind of rough. 15-50 again. Oh, man. You guys are awesome. Stay tuned for more workout competitions. Who knows? Maybe you could get involved next time. That was fun. I must say, I worked much harder this week than I would have. Man, got to keep going though. That's the key, is you just keep going. Alright. Now time for some dinner. Oh, and the relatives came, meaning the cousins. Lucy. High five. Yeah. Had fun today. Look at the backyard. It was a good day. It was a good day. Into the deep here. Bar seats. Buddy. Clicking on YouTube. YouTube. Going to my notifications on the YouTube app, and you guys blow me away.  The comments that are rolling in, a lot of them especially because of the break-in a couple days ago into the car. Yeah, if you haven't heard, the car was broken into. Watch that vlog. Upper right-hand corner. Something was stolen.  Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. And I also promised last week to give a shout-out to one new subscriber this week. Well, the week is not over. It's not over. Tomorrow is the last day, Saturday. So tomorrow I'm going to make a shout-out to a new subscriber on the vlog. Give him a shout-out. Give him a little love. And in addition, I'm going to talk about numbers and statistics. And you guys, seek beauty, work hard, love each other, and that's it.


Live from San Jose, California, in the heart of Silicon Valley, it's theCUBE. Covering Hadoop Summit 2016, brought to you by Hortonworks. Here's your host, John Furrier. Okay, welcome back everyone. You're watching theCUBE here for another event. We are live in San Jose in Silicon Valley for Hadoop Summit 2016. The hashtag to join the conversation is hashtag HS16SJ. That's Hadoop Summit, San Jose. You can go to crowdchat.net slash HS16SJ. I'm John Furrier, my co-host here. Peter Burris, you're watching theCUBE. I'm a broad bearded CEO, Hortonworks back on theCUBE. Great to see you off the keynote. How are you feeling? Doing great, very, a lot of energy here. Great attendance, tremendous partner showing. The community's here in full force. Of course theCUBE's here. So we're excited about some of the next few days. Thanks for having us. Again, three days of wall-to-wall coverage. You're watching theCUBE, SiliconANGLE.tv. Rob, I got to ask you. One thing I noticed when I signed in today was some huge names as sponsors. People back at Enterprise, Microsoft. Again, the logos and the support that Hortonworks is getting has been phenomenal. Talk about the dynamic there because we're seeing ecosystem and all the events we go to in theCUBE. Developers and ecosystem success. You're seeing partnering front and center in this. How is partnering changing now? What is the state of the union? What's the current landscape? As we saw you in London, said the maturation has to go faster, the acceleration has to go faster, got to get the cost down lower, complexity reduced. What is the partner update? That is a critical story here this week. I think what the partner that you mentioned, whether it be Microsoft, Google, you see on the floor, virtually every major enterprise player from IBM to HP and everybody in between. But also I think the part of that is, what's the broader community? You have great representation from Kafka, from Storm, right? Of course the Yarn and Hive communities and Spark communities are very vibrant here. And what it's really saying is, I think the signaling there is, Hadoop has become an enterprise viable data platform. And the major enterprises are adopting it and bringing it into their mainstream strategy for managing data and to modernize their data strategy. And because of that, the major enterprise players as we mentioned, whether it be Google, Microsoft, IBM, HP, everybody in between, are here because their customers are adopting Hadoop at scale and in mass. And enabling their modern data architecture with and around Hadoop. And so it's very important that they ensure that their platforms, their tooling, their products are part of those reference architectures going forward. And it's important that we as Hortonworks enable our platforms to work seamlessly with their environments as well to create a very good solution set. So we've seen a perfect storm developing this year, certainly going through the summer. We'll see it in the fall kick up with a lot of big shows coming in the fall. And I'm sure the theme will continue. We saw DockerCon with Container Madness, going crazy. Developers are really engaged in that interoperability. You guys have been fighting that battle in this ecosystem of big data. Now it's just Hadoop anymore. A lot of other data management solutions, data warehousing. What is the simplicity equation look like? Because it's not about the string that everything's going to be lined up and you pull the string and it works. People want Lego blocks. They want to have a developer agile environment where they can do that. What is the critical success factor for the customers to be successful? Well, step one was making sure that Hadoop had the ability to become an enterprise viable data platform. And so that it transitioned from just being a single data set, single application, batch processing environment to truly being able to drive a central architecture with batch interactive in real time and then having the enterprise services as part of the native architecture. So things in the security, the governance, the operations, life cycle management.  And so that's sort of phase one and we'll never finish that, but I think we're past the tipping point. I think that's evidenced by the, when you signed in, the people who are here, the people who are on the floor, the over 4,000 people attending. But what we now have to do is take those next generation modern applications that the developer community is now building and make it very easy for them to deploy those applications onto and into the data that Hadoop is able to now manage and to make it very easy for them to interact with the data, access the data and take that data and turn it back into an application that they're building. So the next step in this is certainly making sure that we were given the tooling there and the access to the developer community, but then more importantly, giving them the ability to deploy those payloads and interact with those payloads via containers and into the next architecture. And as you see some of the additional keynotes, see some of the tracks, you're going to see very much the containerization that we're enabling through the core architecture via yarn of Hadoop. Because the next phase of adoption is all around the developer community being able to deploy their apps in and on the data and vice versa. So one of George Gilbert's going to be helping the host theCUBE through much of the next couple of days, but he did a piece of research recently that's going to be published sometime this week that looks at the concept of adaptive stretch and adaptive stretch, effectively it comes from an economist by the name of Brian Offer. And it talks about how a platform when delivered is associated with a set of problems. And then the community will stretch that platform to its near breaking point. And then it snaps back into place and you move on and you take as you take on new problems. The Duke's been out for about 10 years now. We're celebrating that 10 year anniversary at this great event. And Spark is an example of looking at the adaptive stretch with Duke and saying, well, let's bring in new complimentary set of capabilities. But as you think about the Duke ecosystem and the new types of problems that had Duke's going to be associated with, how do you see the tooling evolve over time? Is it going to mush together more? Is it going to get more specific simplicity? I know governance is a big issue. Where do you think this group of people are going to focus their attention on some of those issues over the course of the next year? I think that's a great discussion for us to have. I would actually ask us to look back. During the first five years in the 10 year journey that we've been in, the first generation of the Duke was really batch oriented, right? And very monolithic, single applications, single datasets. But really transformed how that kind of workload and dataset could be managed in the horizontal scale out that it brought and the scalability that came with that for that particular use case. And it goes back to the economic principles of then the community's going to stretch that into the next generation. And I would suggest that the formation of Hortonworks and what we did with Yarn, right? To take Hadoop and now open up architecturally and expand architecturally or transition transform to the next generation of being able to bring all data to get all of the disparate data into a central platform and then be able to bring batch interactive and real time applications with Yarn as the resource manager on top of that. And what that did was it opened up a much broader opportunity set. And I've said from day one, for Hadoop to reach its full potential, no one company can do that. I'm making your point again. It's about the community. It's about the ecosystem. It's about the developer community. And so what we did as Hortonworks is we took it to the next generation with Yarn. And now we're experiencing the third generation and the third push at that. And so we see then where if you think about Spark and what it's done, it's a tremendous engine that then can leverage the power of Yarn. And what you now will see is, okay, now that we're managing exponentially more data for mission critical real time applications, right? We must make sure that we can lock it down from a secure and encryption standpoint. We must be able to have that hand in hand with data governance. And then in parallel with that, now to sort of get to the final part of your question, what's next? And it's going to be about not just being able to manage all of the enterprise data that sits in the data center, it's about being able to work cross deployment architectures, cloud and on premise and be able to do that very transparently, right? And what we're also doing is we're now pushing to the fourth generation of that with all of the streaming data sets, right? And be able to bring real time from the point of origin of data and all the way through its life cycle until it comes at rest and give the developer community and the enterprise the ability to interact with that data as events as it moves, as events happen, conditions change and to be able to take proactive action against that based on a rule set and do that across a cohesive architecture because from our view, it's got to be about connected data platforms, managing all data, not just centralizing data at rest. It's data at rest, data in motion across an entire life cycle of that data. And that's what we're doing with HDF, HDP and then making sure that we're opening that up for the community, the developer environment, the developer platforms to build those next generation apps, right? That allow, now, again, a stretch again, right? Sorry for the long answer. So data at rest, data in motion, connected systems are all the theme that you just mentioned, but I want to drill down on to go the next level of that is enterprise readiness. On the crowd chat, Bert Latimore pointed out, the main theme is enterprise readiness of the conference. Not a lot in the general session about that, but let's go there. The enterprises just want to be ready. So this is a skill set issue. It's adopting technologies, difficult, and generally speaking, how does an enterprise get ready to go that next level? Yeah, that's why it's a three-day summit, right? So day two, day three, we've got to keep the camera back. I'll be here. Come on, do it. Yeah, but a little bit of the teaser for you guys to come back and see for the next couple of days. But no, I just- So we're going to hear more about that tomorrow. Oh, we're going to hear a lot more about that tomorrow and the next day. But in general, it's very important that you have central security, central governance, and central management platforms to manage the data, whether it be on-prem or in-cloud, and have a cohesive, common architecture for managing all data, irrespective of where it's deployed again. Let me make sure we're clear on this. You're saying central security, central management, that doesn't mean central data. Correct. Got it. A central security, so you want to have a central security in governance and management architecture that then can span to wherever that data may be, whether maybe it's at rest in Hadoop, on-prem in the day center, it very well may be in the Azure cloud or even multiple clouds. Or IOT around the corner is coming really fast. And that's that fourth generation principle. Right. And then when you look at the stream and be able to go out to the point of origin at the, you know, either at the collection device or at the center itself, and to be able to have a common method for managing and governing that data and its associated rules that irrespective of the deployment architecture or whether it's in motion or whether it's at rest, right? And that's the first step. That's actually the second or third step of making sure that it is enterprise ready so that it is absolutely can have the data integrity, the predictability, the security, the governance. But then we have to make that easier to use, right? We've got to have it rock solid. Now, in the meantime, we want to provide the tooling but that's where we then open it up and let the community, let the ecosystem build the best to breed methods to do that and then the next generation applications and tools for managing that. Now, clearly we're providing that tool if you look at Sequence IQ and what Sequence IQ does to give the user the ability to move data into a cloud and into a cloud and data center and do that very clean in a drag and drop way. So I got two quick questions, John. The first one's a little bit more complex. Maybe hopefully you can give us a simple answer. The first one is centralized rules for governance, security, management, decentralized data. It would make it a lot easier to cohere and put all that together if we had a clear understanding of data value. We're moving to a world where the data is becoming the primary citizen in a lot of systems but we still don't have a good model for data value. What do you think about that? In my keynote, one of the three topics I've said I wanted you to hopefully take away from my keynote. And the first one was data's your product. It's kind of same principle, data's your product, data's your value, right? And that's where the tech has to be able to bring that normalization and consistency irrespective of where that data lives, whether it's at the edge, whether it's on or in the device, whether it's across multiple clouds. And that's where our products like our security products and our governance platforms are striving to get there as fast as we can with and in collaboration through many of our partners to make sure we're thinking about those problems at scale.  Yeah, I think we're going to make the discussion about data value in general as a community a lot more explicit. The second thing very quickly is our clients are starting to say we're learning a lot about how this stuff works and it's starting to bleed into management routines. So it used to be data in support of existing management. Now we're actually seeing adaptive stretch in management. So empirical based management kinds of things. That's also going to be interesting to see how the Hadoop community prepares itself to actually support brand new ways of thinking about governance, not just in the data, but across the entire corporation. And I think that's a key principle of being able to what the first generation if we go back to the elasticity of the tech or the evolutions of tech. Hadoop was able to bring all that data together and understand the patterns that were associated with our engagement cycle with the customer or product or supply chain, right? And that's great. There's tremendous value in there because we can understand a whole new level of analytics and engagement with our customers or products in our supply chain. But we need more velocity than that and it has to happen much faster than that. And that really drove our core strategy and ultimately the acquisition of Onyara. Because we believe we needed to be able to engage with the data from the point of origin all the way through the movement and the lifecycle of that data across the stream. And the reason that is so incredibly important is that you want to have the ability to take action or to drive a process as an event occurs or a condition change, right? And so in real time, as that event happens or a condition changes, we can prescriptively act against that based on a value that we're trying to manage to or for. And then what we'll stretch on top of that is we'll be able to apply machine learning to optimize the most efficient and productive outcome that as these events are happening, we know how to drive that to a finer grain of execution based on the value of that data and where it is in its lifecycle and what conditions are happening or changing. And we will know what act prescriptive action we take for it, with it, against it, right? And then from that, we can continuously optimize and learn through traditional machine learning algorithms. And the great news is all that's happening right now. Rob, I wish we had more time. I know you got a hard stop. I had a zillion questions on the growth strategy. And I know you're in a quiet period so you can really talk about the numbers. Great to see you. Give me the final word for the folks watching. What is the vibe of the show that's currently going on and what are they going to hear in the next three days? We're going to hear how the dukes become mainstream and the importance of bringing data at rest and data in motion together and be able to manage all the data through a seamless life cycle and how to drive value back into the business by doing that through various types of use cases and tools that they can leverage. Energy's great. Thank you guys for being here. You give great exposure worldwide and we're very, very happy to have you and appreciate the opportunity to be here on theCUBE. Thanks so much, Rob Beard, sharing his insight and data on theCUBE. Centralized theCUBE here. We don't care where the data flies. Enjoy the CUBE content anywhere around the world. Appreciate your time. Rob Beard, CEO of Hortonworks. You're watching theCUBE. I'm John Furrier with Peter Burris. Be right back with more live coverage after this short break. You're watching theCUBE.


The narcissist would rather see you fail than succeed. When the narcissist discards you, they would rather see you being unsuccessful. They would rather see you unhappy and uncomfortable. Than to see you achieving something that you have been aiming for. Than to see you having your desired result. They would rather see you living on the streets with no money. With no one there for you. Than to see you in a multi-million dollar home, driving the car of your dreams. They don't want to see you living a good life, because that would only make them regret the decision of leaving you. That would only make them feel like they made the wrong decision. And that is something they cannot deal with. They cannot deal with a thought or idea that they dismissed you as insufficient, worthless and a failure. They saw you as a gullible and easily deceived person. Someone who is easy to fool and trick.  You're bigger and better than ever before. You have more money than ever before. You're more successful than ever before. You're dating people who are more attractive and more successful than the narcissist that you are with. That is something they cannot deal with. They're not going to be happy for you.  They're going to be wondering why you were never like this when they were around you. They're not going to self-reflect and come to the conclusion that they were never supportive of you. They never provided encouragement or emotional support. They never believed in you. They were too preoccupied with looking for someone with more desirable qualities. They were too preoccupied thinking the grass was greener on the other side. They didn't care about you.  They didn't care that you tried to make them happy. It was never enough. They were very ungrateful and unappreciative. All they did was drain your charisma and self-esteem by taking subtle digs at you. All they did was throw temper tantrums. They were focused on your faults and mistakes. They magnified your flaws and imperfections. They were never accommodating. They were never willing to fit in with your wishes or needs. They were never cooperative. They were never helpful. They were constantly dragging you down with personal attacks. And that is why you didn't succeed while you were with them. They didn't support you. They were never a source of strength or comfort for you. And now you've moved on and you're successful. And if you haven't already, you're going to find someone who is far better than that. Someone who is going to partake in everything that you have achieved. All of the special and nice things that you will enjoy. Things that they could have partaken in. But they didn't. They made that decision to leave you. They discarded you like you were nothing. And you're not the first person they've done this to. They've let go of a lot of people they should have held on to. And it's only going to come back to inflict punishment and misfortune upon them. For their poor judgement and misdeeds. Because they were once with you. And you wanted to be with them. But they discarded you. They let you go. And then you moved on to become successful without them. And now they have to accept and tolerate their unfortunate circumstances. Narcissists don't live for the future. They live in the moment. They didn't believe in you. They didn't have trust or faith in you. They expected you to fail. And many of you may still be any narcissistic relationship right now. Where the narcissist is about to discard you. He's ready to get rid of you. And there's nothing you can do to save the relationship. In their minds you can't do anything right.  The harder you try, the harder they make it for you. You can try to take their wishes and needs into consideration. But it will never be enough. They will never be satisfied with anything you do for them. Because they're not satisfied with themselves. They have low self-worth and low self-esteem. And they expect you to complete them. By fulfilling their wishes and needs. But it's never going to be enough for them. Because the root cause of the problem is that they feel like they're not enough. Which is another reason why they don't want to see you being successful. They don't want to see you replacing them with someone better. Someone who has a higher quality of character. At a higher level of ability. They would rather see you on the streets. They would rather dismiss you as insignificant.  So that they feel like they made the right decision by discarding you. So that they don't have to regret their decision to leave you. The last thing they want to see is you reviving yourself. Being renewed after their destruction. And proving them wrong. It's not easy to go from being at the brink of death to being successful. To go from the bottom to the top.  And in such a short period of time that is not an easy thing to do. But don't expect the narcissists to congratulate you. Don't expect them to acknowledge your success. Because they never wanted to see you succeed. They never wanted to see you shine. They wanted everyone else to shine at your expense. And when they discard you. They want to see you fail. They want to see you being unsuccessful in achieving your goals and dreams. They want your life to deteriorate. After they have left you. It makes them feel better about their own lives. But when they realise that you've moved on. And become successful without them. They're still not going to entertain the thought or idea that they made the wrong decision. They will minimise your success. They will discredit you.  They cannot be happy for you. Because they're not happy with their own lives. But no matter what they say. No matter how they try to minimise your success or discredit you. I can assure you. That if you have become successful after they discarded you. They do regret the decision. In fact they think it's the biggest mistake they ever made in their entire lives. It's like they had the winning lottery ticket. They could have won the jackpot. But they just threw it in the trash. And that is really the ultimate revenge. After everything they did to you. After they wanted to see you fail. After they wanted to see you on the streets with no one. After everything they put you through. You have the right to live your best life. Thank you for watching. I hope this video has it with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. If you would like to donate. My PayPal link is in the video description. Couching Inquiries. You can email me at Couching.narksurvivor.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.


Recently, a couple came into my office to review their estate plan. Their kids were doing fine, their grandkids were happy and healthy too.  What they were worried about were their babies. Babies I had learned later was their dog, Rudy, and their cat, Mickey. Pets are part of our family. Over the years, I can't help but notice how many people are concerned about what would happen to their pets if something happens to them. Who would care for their pets? A solution for the couple and a solution that might fit into your estate plan is a pet trust. A pet trust is inserted into the language of your living trust. It spells out who your veterinarian is, who the person is that you'd prefer to take care of those pets, and an amount of money to be used for the lifetime care of any pet or pets. That's the beauty of a pet trust. It fits right into your estate plan.