about that. Trying to get this hill high going. Just got off a coaching call and I figured since I'm in my office and working I might as well go ahead and power on through. I know my wife's tired up doing helping my son so I'll just be sitting there looking at the TV or something so when my wife be working with the boys. I figure I might as well get on here and do a little bit of work. I ain't sure how y'all be getting into the chat now before I even get here. But wanting to pop on and see Biscuit I'll see your question right there. We gonna jump on in that. Shout out to the blessed tribe, blessed business tribe, also to the patrons on the Patreon. I posted a video over there that was pretty pretty loaded and I hate having those talks man because it's hard to have those talks especially when you know people across the aisle and it's hard having those talks because you don't want nobody to think that you're you know racist or nothing but just talking about that stuff it'd be some intense stuff you know these just dealing with race related issues and Christina Lyles God blessing now welcome to the blessed tribe but you know some time we have to talk about those things and it's real sensitive stuff. See biscuit God bless you. I seen you question up there see biscuit let me see that right there. Is it a red flag when a man would rather FaceTime you over speaking over the phone during the beginning stages of your pursuit? No it's not a red flag ironically that's actually a really good thing that's it if a man is really really into you he gonna want to FaceTime versus talk on the phone that means he also attracted to you so he want to talk to you have some time with you but he also attracted to you so that's actually a really good thing that's really what you want that's really what you want yeah glam rocks I can't really I don't know if I can't really have that I don't know if I can have that talk on here now because it's a little glory lofty God bless you God bless you let's try out members welcome to the what no this the new member Christina God bless you what to say when dates ask about why your marriage ended I was just I was married 30 years I have terrible don't want to say too much you could tell the truth you could tell the truth if it's something that you know won't be you know played against you the leaner God bless you but you could tell the truth that's something that being honest it really just is it's the best policy still a line about it because you got to remember a lot how to get your power back after our relationship struggling with self-confidence and trying to find my voice again one foot in front of the other you're doing the right thing right here you know just get knowledge one foot in front of the other I always get those questions you know how to get over this how to get over that how to give and it's really all the same you know get knowledge get new knowledge talk about it learn about it label it put it in the box and do what you do why does a man always ask you to send pics not men are visual creatures so it's really just a connection and if you're not in person with a man him asking you to send pics it just allows him to sit there and just stare at you you know men very visual creatures so that's more so what it is a lot of time than anything it just him wanting to really look at you without having to do it in person it's real awkward if you're sitting with somebody and they just staring you in the face so when the man asked for a picture he really just gonna sit there and stare at it five ten minutes why are some men more interested in and not there it's about control it's about control it's about insecurity it's about you know being not losing it's really what that is about is it likely that I will completely move on from my ex-husband and almost two years to force when I'm in a new relationship when I'm in a new relationship if I was approached today I would forget all about him yes it is likely it's likely won't be easy now what do you think about a woman proposing somebody send me a video about a lady doing that I don't know if it was a joke or not I think it's a terrible idea I think it's a terrible idea for a woman to propose I think women jumping the gun and kind of rushing it but it's imperative that a man proposes because if a woman proposed to a man and the man don't want to be there a man we really struggle with hurting a woman feelings especially one-on-one we really struggle with that and so and telling the woman the truth for how we feel if we're not angry me and really struggle with that so a man will say yeah and then end up cheating on the woman and leaving a woman but if a man proposed to the woman that's half the battle now at least the woman know that the man want to be there don't mean everything gonna go perfect but at least you know that the Lena welcome Selena welcome Taylor welcome y'all doing that blessed tribe now if guys hit you up today at the Valentine's Day are you a side chick or side thought yeah you sound yep yep you sound about right sound like a side chick to me yeah is it possible to still have a good or an actual relationship if you slept with a guy too soon yes it is possible it is possible you just got to kind of take that on off the table Sabrina God bless you now I don't have or know any skills that can generate extra income I'm trying to get out of the debt slash out of the debt slash provide how can I discover new skills I got a course called entrepreneurship with purpose and it's actually discounted right now $100 off it's on I changed the prices yesterday or the day before I think it's on Tony gasses Academy.com you know that's that's the best I have for you I tried to go through it my way and how I went through my process if I have a proprietary process called the gap process I don't think I label it that in that course but that's what it is and just kind of help you walk through the jog your mind and get out of you what you could be doing we all have something we could do but I just think sometimes the mind don't naturally think like that how can I interest a guy well enough to put effort into me I notice I keep attracting low effort men or guys who just want to sleep with me you can't interest a guy enough for that you know you just got to be you of the man for you gonna be interested in you don't want to have to jump through no hoops now Taylor God bless you I have in and I'm talking to this guy he says he isn't family oriented and not a family guy should I probably stop talking to him absolutely absolutely absolutely y'all look one man tell you something like that that's like a red flag or something like that listen listen to him immediately Tony what does it mean when a guy stares at you from afar but won't speak or smile a man does this all the time at my gym he just looking man our visual creatures it really don't mean nothing he just looking at you I've been single seven years since my divorce I'm ready to date again any advice make sure you really ready in the sense of when you ready men are actually starting approaching you when you ready so you have to make sure that you really where you want to be brain brand and body and when you get ready and you get out there and you get about you moving around it'll start to happen sometimes we'll say that but not really be there so you got to make sure everything clicking on all cylinders my son's biological father has never tried for him what will be the reasons could be a million reasons typically it's just a sense of failure it just he don't want to be reminded his failure his shortcomings and that's typically what it is it's a possible for a man to be faithful if all the men he hang with cheat or on their girlfriends and wives my friend and I are debating about it anything is possible but deal a similar check anything is possible but is it probable it's probably not so birds of a feather flock together you got to be careful about that is a man childish if he watches and wait on his girlfriend to call first in the evening I know I must run across his mind as a mate it messes with ones emotions when promised a change and wanting to do better um yeah yeah that childish it could be a strategy he learned on YouTube and just something he doing just to keep you in that weakened state so you got to understand that hey brother Tony what a man tell you you could be his wife he wants his wife to be humbled cook but I'm already a laid-back person so not sure what that really mean I'm not really too sure what you're saying I mean yeah he'll tell you he'll tell you something like he told you I'm not really sure what you're saying sis during TWT okay talks with Tony y'all got to give him for the abbreviation now you read a girl's photo and said nothing is wrong with her but she looks too innocent why is that a bad thing it's not necessarily a bad thing it just it just how I got or read you you know it don't mean it's a bad thing it just how a man gonna read into that and I probably was it probably was something else that could have been said and I was just with being nice so I rarely everybody beautiful in the sight of the Lord and so the type of woman that I may be attracted to I might not be looking at that type of woman but I'm never gonna call somebody unattractive or this or that so I can't remember the picture but typically when I don't say too much it's just because this somebody wife you know I got my wife so but I still could read people you know what they giving off to the male perspective and so sometimes if a man read too innocent and what I mean by that hit a man or assume naive or gullible and so he'll play on that and what I mean by innocent is some women don't wear lashes some women don't wear makeup some women don't wear a red lip and so with certain things that represent like grown or grown in sexy or grown in confident it's certain thing that a woman could put on an image she could send that says like okay I'm I'm studied I'm well versed in fashion and femininity in presence whereas if you just kind of jump off the porch like the girl next door a man may assume that you naive or gullible please don't spam with repeat questions please he will see them God bless y'all Deidre welcome to the blessed tribe boyfriend and I really want to make it work but it's hard for me since he wasn't good to me back then now his actions show change and commitment but after five years can he really mean it now he could mean it now what you got to ask is it fair to you and you still with him so it's like if you're gonna be with him you might as well make it work if you're not strong enough to leave and walk away then you wasting your time to be holding on to grudges from the past if you're gonna be with him so if you gonna be with him then you gotta forgive and forget and you got to go ahead and make the most of it cuz tomorrow not promise so if you don't want to heal if you don't want to forgive then be woman enough to say hey it's been too much damage done and I want to go my separate way but if you're gonna be there you can't hold him a prisoner to his past mistakes and I think that's what a lot of people do is you want to stay in a relationship but you want to hold somebody a prisoner to the past mistakes that they've made and you got to choose to forgive and not remind them of the offense that's gonna help you let me see child father after I left him three years ago when daughter was eight months we now getting a DNA test from child maintenance he's controlling and hasn't seen her since after results I don't want him around that's a tough choices if that's it that's his child in you know if he ain't putting in harm putting child in harm's weight in you may need to reconsider that what are your thoughts on asking your husband to get a he doesn't want to wear a and a woman doesn't want to use you know that's a fair question that's a fair question right there cuz me personally as a man you know I have to go and put my protection on if my wife don't believe in birth control and I don't want to get no one of those you know procedures but the thing about it is somebody taking a risk cuz I don't heard people getting procedures and still you know end up pregnant so but I know a lot of people against birth control and all that but you know it's a lot of women that's doctors and study medicine and they have no issues with birth control they're not against it at all and they study the body and study medicine but then a lot of people you know it's probably also people who study medicine and doctors and they against birth control so it's gonna go both ways with anything that's medical with the body so it got to be your personal choice but just understand ain't nothing a hundred percent birth control but said to me ain't nothing a hundred percent so protection nothing Jasmine God bless and why does a man ask you to have his every time he is asked for feelings also he has I don't feed into it it's just weird to me sis why you spent that money for that question come on come on come on come on you ask me about a drunk man like do you want us know you know he drunk come on I just y'all got y'all got just thought want to be in the chat now some of you question y'all got the answer to now ask me a question you got the answer to he drunk come on come on y'all got to let me stay in the light okay y'all asking questions about the semi to the dark have not never liked them have not done even Emmanuel folks you can't make this stuff up like come on now cast it one day would it be possible to make a month or maybe even weekly posts in the community for members of the bless tribe to promote their business no sister I really you know I really can't do that because the bless tribe ain't nothing but a dollar 99 so you know that promotion and it just too much stuff out here you know too many businesses out here I promote the people who in my courses like entrepreneurship with purpose no birth your book life coach certification I send them an email and have a small fee that is no that's 90% discount from what influencer of my brand size with charge but you know I can't be having people promoting and all that for $1.99 a month you feel me you just it's just two minute scams out here so if a scam artist realize or hear about they can pay $1.99 to be in the bless tribe to promote their business and one person spend something spent $500 that's a good old come up a guy I've been talking to almost three months didn't tell me happy V-day says he had on his head four years ago and tries to avoid holiday all together told him he needed to get therapy you told him right you told him right now can you preface the room about hashtag Q that the Mars will delete we have a lot of new members that may not be aware oh yeah before your question put a hashtag Q before your question Jackie God bless you now hashtag Q before your question I'm trying to go in order but it get to be too many questions coming is it okay for me to submit my story for you to teach on talks with Tony don't have a question for your email but feel like my circumstances want to have been through and can learn from um yeah it's okay to submit it some well I don't know I really read them as I'm going I don't read it before but um so yeah it's okay to submit it I think when a man that is not your husband licks his lips and has glazing eyes that he is lusting very creepy to me what do you think ah it sounds like it now it sounds like it unless he just finished smoking or feeling hungry but that sounds like it y'all be asking everything Tony if a man shoot it's untied do that mean he tripping I was starting to feel panic because I'm 28 graduating as a doctor so single and waiting was listening to man in the dark smh how do I purge that mindset will never watch him again it just kind of like how the mind work you know you gonna remember them things it's gonna play back and play back but you just got to replace each little piece of toxic knowledge with new knowledge that's all it is Erica McKinley welcome to the Blast Tribe Danny Marie welcome to the Blast Tribe Juliana Garces y'all got to forgive me if I miss those sometimes it pop up but I don't even see it see I'm trying to answer as many questions I can tonight so y'all forgive me for not having a long drawn-out questions what a man that has answers I mean what a man that has been cheated on in a marriage and had a child later and later found out years later it wasn't his and had a divorce would he ever settle down again trust women again that's a 5050 that's a 5050 I don't really see that happening but if he know the Lord he probably could heal how do you deal with people opinion on what you should do with a job when trying to start your business and other people say you should get a city job with benefits you got to live with the consequences so good or bad choice you got to live with it so don't you ignore wisdom Leslie and God bless you don't ignore wisdom but you but just know you got to live with it hi Tony when trying to end something with a man relationship situation ship or friendship is it best to ignore man or block him on phone how is it perceived by a man in each situation I have I don't know what it's like to be blocked on the phone since we've had smartphones that can do that so I don't know what it does so I can't really say it is a slap in the face though to be blocked it is a chin check it is a very humbling thing you know very humbling I've been blocked by people on social media for whatever reason I'm not sure but just different little situations I'm guessing fall out with somebody I've been blocked in that thing it do hurt now that's why I love that block but when you get a message that block button work on the flip side when you take in use them reaching out as a vitamin to just remind you how amazing you are and that you really that person in that deep that this person chasing you if you know you got the strength not to be triggered by something they say then it could be empowering to see that you strong and you stand your ground and you move forward and they really you know chasing you and affirming that a you was a good person and so it just depends on your personality how do you figure out if a guy is just putting up walls because of trust issues or is playing games it's really the same thing it's really the same thing when he asked other females when he has other females numbers in his phone with active text messaging does it mean he's cheating or could I just be overthinking it um it doesn't mean he's cheating but when you say active text messaging it doesn't mean he's cheating but it's you know depending on what the conversation is about it could it definitely could go somewhere but it don't mean he's cheating how do you so Tony I think on these lives it could be like a little button down there and then I think one of the moderators be posting my cash out but not a hundred percent sure 25 and flight attendant are men interested in women who travel for a living see all my friends in relationships and a little skeptical how I can make a relationship work I love my career though well you 25 you know you still young so you love that career and I don't think a man I have a problem with it if he like you if he like you he into you it he may like it you know cuz he get him a long time you away you doing your thing then when y'all together and then he could get on your buddy pass and fly somewhere on the plane too and y'all can hang out in different cities and founded by accident grace welcome to the bless try hey thank you for the cash out my notifications on here somebody sent me a cash out in a miss share posted my it's just my name Tony gas and God bless you now is it I normally have my thing turned off so I don't see it I have a do not disturb on but it's not on is it better to vet before dating it seems everyone jumps to dating right away instead of vetting over the phone I'm healed and able to discern men on the phone by the way been off my back four plus years it is better to vet what dating is necessary if dating it just semantics whether you saying dating or interrelationship but going on a date it's like vetting a man too you know but talking on the phone that is good you should do that a week or two at least before going on a date just to see if you could pick up anything how do you deal with friendships that are no longer feeding you hey y'all don't be on her 34 more minutes now 34 moments I'm tired I'm tired today but I just figure I'm gonna keep serving I've been serving all day I've been supposed to work out all day and just every time I get ready sir I feel like I got another meet I mean work I got another meeting got another phone call how do you deal with friendships that are no longer feeding you when starting yourself love reconnected with God I'm not confrontational and still learning to stand my ground well that's also gonna be a part of your growth but just kind of be unavailable sometimes you know when you set boundaries like people was texting me on Monday that's Valentine's Day so I say hey this is a day of love and I'ma just leave this day for my wife and not be texting people back so I text them on Tuesday you know sometimes people text me on Sunday and that's a day off for me and they arrest and so I text them back on Monday so when you just kind of set your boundaries and you're not available people start to get the picture how to be more approachable often told I look taken or friends are approached over me that's that's a personal thing you know it's not a one-size-fits-all on that you know sometimes it's just the colors you're wearing sometimes it's the hairstyle sometimes it's the shoes sometimes it's what you're telling yourself in your head so that giving you a face and so it's not a one-size-fits-all it's a lot to go into it Nelson first question from a man I've seen in here broke up with my ex three years ago of three years ago of a four-year relationship don't follow her at all still my mind reminds me of her is is this unhealthy if your mind is doing it and you don't really have control over it so whether it's unhealthy or not it just depends on what you're doing with the thought so if you're sitting and you know ruminating over the thought then yes it could be unhealthy if you think of her and then you kind of keep going it's really just our mind in a loop so it's kind of like you kind of got to get busy kind of got to you know get out there meet people inspire DSC welcome do you think I made a right decision in being friends for a year and now we made a decision to start dating that that's a long time to be friends a long time to be friends so hey you already did it now so I don't want you know speak on it you just got to watch it and but that's that's that's a long time to be friends I pray for your family your gift daily thank you to Lord the God bless your Dublin girl welcome why don't me and give up in chasing certain women that they've cheated on eat on and took for granted why can't they just let them go well you got to think about what you said so that's not the type of man to let some go he'd have done all that to you so that's a man that got a lot of issues going on and so he get fed from that okay I didn't see this are Simon well a woman with chronic pain and disproportionate body ever find the one men are visual and picky a lady told me I'll find someone on my level now that's kind of like a question somebody asks a psychic which I don't believe in psychics so I can't really tell you you know what the future or whole and I do believe that if you believe and that's what you want that that's what you can attract and so at the same time it's it's like there's can there's probably support groups communities different meetups so sometimes when you have a unique set of circumstances you have to be unique in your approach you know you can't approach things the same way so it may be a support group for people with your same chronic pain you know with your same situation and if there's not one you may be the person to start one and now just by you walking in purpose to help other people who deal with what you deal with you attract your husband like that because you created the group that save his mentality save his life you see what I mean so you have to be creative when you got unique you know certain circumstances also have chronic pain a God bless you know God bless y'all know what that was what kind of pain that is but it just sound painful for it to be chronic so God bless y'all thought so man in late 30s no kids never married neither of his older brothers have kids or been married either father is a preacher I don't know about that one I don't know about that one typically when I hear stuff like that men struggling with a little spirit but unless they seen some stuff in their household that made them not believe in it but I'm not sure about that one born again earth if a man I start seeing ask me about my past how should I handle it you only should tell what you comfortable being used against you a throne in your face you know another thing that you tell is stuff that is verifiable stuff that somebody can find online stuff that somebody could just easily fact check but other than that you don't have to tell all your business you know because nine out of ten times it's easy to say hey my past is my past your past is your past let's get to know each other right now and going into the future because nothing I tell you could be the truth and nothing you tell me could be the truth so I want to get to know you for you and so being creative in that way to where a person understand like okay listen there's not no job interview where you're about to be reading this rap sheet and then holding it against me the rest of my life it's like get to know me for who I am now and I'll do the same with you and we'll go from there bounty hunter boyfriend caught my friends man should I cut them off you saying that your boyfriend is a bounty hunter and he just caught the boyfriend of your childhood friend that's a real interesting question God bless y'all y'all just be asking something everything now now what y'all think of me okay the truth God bless you thank you to you and your wife for doing God's work with me we need more people like you with the spirit to help and spreading God's message on social media God bless it now I don't think you should cut them off he's a bounty hunter boyfriend ain't never heard of that and see listen I really don't try to answer questions about people like that now I tell y'all all time I'm question by shooters and killers and I'm not at a new one bounty hunter he might be trying to hunt me down how long should I wait for this guy I'm talking to to ask me on a date we've seen each other in person before we talk and have been texting for a week we talked through IGD DM before texting um typically by two weeks the longest it's gonna take for a guy to ask you on a date should you give a ghost a second chance no that's like talking to Casper if you if if I see you talking to Casper what you think I'm gonna do I'm gonna thank you crazy so when somebody ghost you let them stay ghosted should I reach out first after not hearing from him or wait if I do wait should I bring it up or leave it alone and try to get over it what are your thoughts on do or do behavior do what behavior occasionally do for do behavior occasionally you should check it you shouldn't reach out to him you should check it when he comes say hey where have you been what's been going on see if it's legitimate reason if it's not a legitimate reason that you believed and say hey you know that's not what I'm gonna be doing so if you really want to build something then you need to be present and communicating and if you got too much going on just let me know and I bow out gracefully so you got to check that Katie God bless you God that I'm interested in sends texts so that mean he's either socially awkward don't really know how to talk to a woman or he's not or he's you know not available how do you discontinue a friendship with a close platonic male friend without being rude try falling back but it seems to make him fall forward even more want him to nurture his relationship you're gonna have to just ignore him you gonna have to ignore him and what I would say is tell him one time just be direct with him say hey you know I don't feel like this is healthy I don't feel like I'm a healthy outlet for you I feel like I'm more of a distraction so because of that I'm going to be pulling back and you know letting you focus on your relationship and what you need to be building because men will use you as an outlet something to kind of get away and think about get away from the woman and it does hinder the relationship because he'll give you all the good conversation and then he'll give her the bad conversation and you are in the way and he is building real love with you so he's actually falling in love with you but you could just be in lust with her what do you think about the rise and Ava that is that have been a moment seems like I have been seeing a lot of this on social media Kimberly welcome I feel like there's probably something that's always been happening on that level and it's just now we got cell phones now we got media now we got instantaneous news but I would have just it really just come from the nature of me like me and wire like that me and built like that like that's why I mean do what they do when they sign when they enlist for a country and go to other countries and people they never seen don't know don't really know what they really over there for what the story is but just over there doing that you know that's how men built and so that's why I try to tell women like never play never entertain crazy like when you sent something immediately cut them off because every one of us is capable of that and a lot of women don't understand that a lot of women play with it a lot of women you know hit me and get all into it but every man is is capable of that not every man gonna do it we could be emotionally intelligent but we all got it in us every man got it in them and that's how you see men sign up and enlist for a country and go over there and do that the complete strangers in the name of you know country can't believe God bless you how do I cut off a on again off again relationship for good you just gonna have to cut it off it's gonna be like cold turkey gonna have to just stop answering or you gonna have to hit on it put block them when you can't handle the interaction and you got to use the block button social media has exposed that a lot of women are in situations ships last secret concubine et cetera why are women actually settling into this has this been a thing or okay it definitely always been a thing I wish we could just wish we had one of them a little flash things that they have on on men in black though I just be walking around that'll be my job just walk around just to just flashing that thing in people face and just reprogramming they bring but it's so many women that have been programmed by their mama that the only thing that matter in life is having a man to pay your bills and so it's millions of women that they'll do anything to have a man they don't care about him having a wife they don't care about him having a girlfriend as long as they get them a little bit of loving a little bit of tension and it builds his pay that's it that's it God talked to every day didn't tell me happy V-day to his pad that says he's sorry and wants to make it up thoughts flatly talking almost three months I mean it's early and at least he was honest with you but you know it's still early that's a personal choice because you just can't tell if he lied or if he was with somebody else and that's why he didn't tell you he could have told you at some point in the day unless he was with somebody the whole day but that just kind of you got to use your intuition on that one newly divorced son's father is not the best role model any tips to help me raise him into a good young man my son is nine years the thing is is with a son or any child you got to operate from love got to make sure you're not operating from frustration and anger and bitterness and you got to be strict and you got to be loving but the key is consistency so the thing what a lot of parents do wrong is they don't set boundaries they don't have rules and they let the child do what they want to do and then when they get out of hand they want to spaz out on the child you got to be it's gonna feel like you getting on your child every single day every single day but you got to do that and when you do that enough and consistently eventually they learn how to behave they learn how to walk right how to do the right thing what's accepted what's not accepted and then you really kind of stop having issues so like my son's like in them formative years like my seven-year-old won't have no problems out of seven-year-old won't have no no behavior problems out of him at all in school he went fruits of the spirit award because it's just checking him checking him from three years old probably through three through five just checking them checking them checking them just been on my oldest son won't have he don't have no behavior issues in school no trouble check them check them check them the oldest a little more hard-headed than the younger one but still just just own him every little thing he do just teaching him life life and that's what a lot of people don't do cuz they think the child gonna not like them but I talked my oldest about it I say son you know how you feel about it you rather us chill out he said no you being hard on me let me know you love me let me know you care and I rather you be hard on me did not give me no attention at all thank you Tony he is not an expressive person however he has been approved because of me I've been mentioned therapy to heal the problem the way I do these questions once I answer the question I forget what I you know I can't carry all that with me so I really don't even know what you responded to what you're talking about on the tips for going out to meet people if you don't have many friends to go out with and don't want to meet men at bars do some a little more grown up a little more professional you know get on like meet up and join an entrepreneur group join a group for your industry that you work in go to church join a singles group you know do stuff that's a little more grown up your opinion on men who wants the woman to initiate dates I'm annoyed but I want your opinion he listening to men in the dark that's all it is anytime you want to make a man want you to serve him he want you to chase him he want you out there run run run that is a nightmare because even when we not like that we could be a nightmare when a man like that both of y'all gonna be carrying purses that's the wrong kind of man run love it does it welcome to the blessed trial God bless you how long is reasonable time to wait for a guy to reach back out to you after you've shown interest in that you are available for one you shouldn't show interest in that you're available and then to you shouldn't be reaching back out a man a man is a hunter a hunter don't need a hunter doesn't need help hunting I ain't got to tell no lying how to eat so anytime you got to be setting up and pursuing and all it is here with a man he don't want you he don't want you or he not available for you it's one or the other boyfriend and I have been together eight months we're about to go long distance will soon be living in different states thoughts advice with both 30 plus years old hopefully y'all got a strong bond hopefully y'all got a plan for the future and hopefully he sometimes if a man let long distance happen and he hasn't proposed or he haven't presented a plan for the future then that's a sign that he's gonna let the distance be destiny separating y'all I did that before to a ex let destiny separate us instead of being man enough to just break up should married couples go to the bar without each other by yourself no no ain't nothing at no bar ain't nothing at no bar some alcohol and some booty dangling it different going somewhere by yourself you know if it's going to be productive going to get some rest you know going to work on a project lock in like you know something that's productive but at a bar that's just trouble after how many years into dating should a marriage come about you I used say two years but today just for social media and everything going on all the messages three years max a lot of great guys struggle to find their wives is it really that hard for a man to find a wife or too picky it's just too picky it's just a longer man wait the more perfect he want her to be and it is it is hard though because it's a lot of messages that women get and women can be a handful in their own right and so it is hard but it is also being just being extremely picky oh God bless you new to the bless try just want to thank you for the work you put in I have been being watched binge watching your videos for about two months now and my mind is being renewed they'll thank you for doing the work that right now all it is it just out with the old in with new that's how you heal that's how you grow that's all of the man they God bless you now how can a woman in today's world discern a DL man it's gonna be hard now because that's why they call DL men so it's gonna be hard but your intuition gonna show you your intuition gonna give it away a lot of time they have just certain mannerisms they have just certain just certain little things you know and your intuition it's like a man who is about a woman should feel you're gonna you should feel it all away but then when you see a man a little too open to stuff and trying stuff and what are you watching you know on his phone and computer and a lot of time they don't show signs but when you get to talking to him and you start to see what he into and all of that stuff a little stuff will pop out there because I don't I don't see some men now that it come out you know like the NBA player who had him a man who dressed like a woman but had a dangling and the NBA player and ironically the NBA player happened to be out with a sore tailbone or sore rectum at the time it came out and the man the man with the dangling but dressed like a woman released some recordings on Twitter I don't know if y'all remember that but this particular NBA player muscular you know big muscles and just always been known for physique and you know a lot of baby mommas but then it come out the little person came out talking about they sleeping together and the man going the all kind of little partisan stuff with a bunch of men who dressed like women but still got the dangling and so I start I'll say wow man who you know in the NBA and six foot ten out here and got five six baby mommas it's like it's hard to tell so I feel sorry for y'all but honestly I just have to be if I was you I'd be in prayer and I'd be discerning the spirits and if your spirit get you a little tinge got to go what tips do you have for us that are choosing abstinence and feeling temptation you're always gonna feel temptation but you've got to set boundaries you've got to set boundaries no different than being married and fielding feeling temptation for adultery you know feeling temptation for a new flavor of ice cream new you know it's just temptation gonna come single and abstinent married and monogamous and you have to flee temptation you got to set boundaries so like for example I don't respond to women in the DM anymore unless it's something super super important or it's something to where I write a woman on the DM because she like so you got this post that's you know showing the business something big she did you know I congratulate sister I see what you doing keep going you representing for these people and the person that they see it they say thank you and that's it I don't say no I try to pat people on the back male and female if I see them doing something big you know still to been in the comments and then everybody you know being in your business but other than that I don't answer women DMs women DM me all the time and I just you know not thinking anything of it but I look at what it could that look like what could that turn into what could somebody could say oh Tony gas and write me in the DM or we going back and forth conversing can't nobody say nothing bad about hey this guy with over 900,000 followers seen a post about me and congratulated me a lot of people just look in spectate but not congratulate so can't nobody say nothing bad about that and it's all these saying thing else no he didn't he say nothing else so I create boundaries you know like that I don't talk to women on the phone on text message unless it is a professional conversation so when you sing in the afternoon you got to create boundaries to where you're not out there in having dates at the house in the back seat of a car down at the lake you know you got to have boundaries what kind of man says he believes in God attends Bible study but it's sleeping with a woman who sells her body my question isn't appearing on my TV sorry if I keep posting it hey God bless you okay you watching this on TV no fancy huh for Ness ain't no for Ness alright watch it on the TV huh fancy alright now what that says that that's the devil that said that's the devil walking that what that say that say that's a spawn of Satan a man who finna be doing all of that and then doing that you've got to run that man got some lightning with his name on it why do people think you mean if you set boundaries it's frustrating because most people don't have boundaries I have married male friend who calls all the time I stopped answering the phone and he asked why I told him I don't feel comfy comfy talking to him because he's married was I right to cut contact yeah you're right you're right and now you know I try to tell women that that a lot of men kind of get a release just off of a conversation because what people fail to realize is that the mind is the largest sexual organ so a man could be just talking to a woman and cheating just a conversation could send him into a whole fantasy world and I tell my wife that a lot of times because we'd be around a lot of you know white men and I tell all the time I say now a lot of these men when you when you had a soccer game and you just talking talking talking talking if a man is heavy into the nasty movies he could be getting a little rocks off on that conversation and thinking you feeling him thinking you like him and me I don't talk to nobody wife and I won't be sitting up there just chummy-chummy-key-kin and all that because I understand energy I understand sexual energy I understand to transfer that energy and that's why sexual transmutation is so real when you reserve that energy and you put it into your business into your grind that's why you become successful because that energy is strong you got to realize that's the same energy that lead us into the bed that then creates a whole another soul so you can't play with that energy and a lot of time people want to play with it and they think it's innocent but that's why that's why I don't do on my coaching calls I don't do on video calls I do it by the phone because I understand as humans if you sitting there and you staring each other in the eyes for an hour and you having a vulnerable conversation you could fall in love like that because conversation rule the nation love making is conversation not just physical in the bed so that's why I have phone calls with my coaching clients instead of video calls because you just sitting up staring in the eyes so you had so you did the right thing by cutting that and that's why he calling you because it give him a little release to get them the rocks off outside of his wife because he get to hear a feminine voice another laugh and all of that and so I had to realize that early in my marriage like hey this ain't healthy this ain't healthy so I don't have women friends I have women clients and it got to be a professional conversation but I keep it right there talking to military guy for a year next month he's overseas now but when I asked what are we doing in the relationship multiple times he says enjoy the moment and and wait I blocked him am I wrong well you don't block them now but I'll tell you what if you block them in if you don't block them and you unblock them you're gonna have a price to pay you let them come back in so you don't act tough you got to live with it now you can't you can't play my game with men because a man gonna get the last laugh that's one thing you cannot do with no man so you don't block them now you should ask the question for you block now you don't block them now you're going to regret it that's why you asking me cuz you starting to regret it cuz now you really ain't about that life so you think about unblocking them so you unblock them he gonna be over there when somebody out with your name in his mind and so Jay Lewis welcome so yeah gonna let it be now gonna let it be he's been wasting your time he he want to know nothing so he was straying you alone bread crumb in you like y'all call it so gone about your business now okay cable my Canadian okay see what it say how long should I wait before kissing a man while after dating for two months only pecs in the mouth but yesterday I wanted to tongue kiss him now see listen now see right now what we got the hell over it going around so you so a tongue kiss a kid you're right now so you got to be real careful now a tongue kiss lay up right now send you to meet the Lord the other thing is if you asking it then don't do the stuff that leads up to fornication so y'all need to just have a peck on the lips y'all need to not be behind closed doors y'all need to be out in the public if you trying to keep that absence cuz you can't go to tongue kissing that that is called foreplay so you can't go to doing that and then just be okay do that and then boom can't do nothing else cuz that thing is serious now I'm gonna tell you that thing is serious I don't know what it was or what had happened or where what what I had going on I can't but I think I was trying to be sexy with my wife and it wasn't long ago and I had never really experienced what they call blue balls the color blue the soup bowl ticket when I went soup bowl they didn't remember billion I what you uh give me give me two grand I'll sell them to you there's my three Super Bowl ticket oh oh oh I don't know if that word allowed on here I had never really but I think I was trying to be sexy kissing on my wife and all of that and that stuff got the going and that thing got ready but I was trying to you know just not make it about that I bought like the diet I bought died do you hear me them things got so that thing got so like up under there the baseballs when I tell you went to hurdy I said what is going on what's going on I ain't know what I thought that was always a lot I used to tell women that was a lot and it probably was because I used to tell women that was a lot that that's what men say that it ain't real but something it was real about that because when I tell you I like the I bought died so I'm gonna tell you when you after that don't don't lead no man all the way down the yellow brick road that don't leave nobody down the yellow brick road and then got dough lock keep it all away from there keep it all away from there have your boundaries and so you can't tease somebody because your mindset is different a woman mine is totally different than a man mine so a lot of y'all women y'all could do all that tongue kissing and all of that and being got no baseball so you ain't got to worry about nothing your baseballs being blue you ain't got nothing worried about that all you had to worry about is the sun being a little soggy but that is not painful this man you get him all the way riled up that he ended going to a state of pain and so that that could make the man just like listen I'm not going to be doing this to myself I'm not going to be torturing myself so it is real that you've got to stay off limits you know you can't be if you are alcoholic then you you can't take a sip and then say I'm gonna take a sip and I'm gonna be done so if you abstaining abstain don't don't try to be doing a little bit time I owe you just gonna hot dog no you thank you for the hot dog and it's finna be a corn dog so you have to be very careful with what you got going on when you abstain Jay Lewis God bless you gonna be a taco on Glenn Ross God bless you not Glenn Rock told at Kimberly you're not the only one Tony is only one person answering 1,000 questions please be patient thank you Glenn Ross shout out to the moderators not a moderator share and Glenn rocks and momentation on caramel kids and now they're gonna get y'all together now and y'all have to read the rules on them now after how many days should a guy ask to be in a relationship answer that why don't me and get mad when they get caught by the woman they are trying to play mm-hmm disembarrassment you see that 10 potentials and little kids and everything how do you get over the fear of sharing your message I'm creative enjoy making content for YouTube but don't share do the perfectionism work never good enough you know sis that's a mental block and we kind of all have it a little bit but I'm gonna tell you once you get out there and you reap the rewards of that bonus that gonna keep you bold you know it's a lot that I don't share and can't share just counsel culture so even me with sharing every day I still fear counsel culture you know it's eventually gonna happen one day and I have to just face it you know head on but it's a lot I don't share still and it's more I could share and more I could do but that fear hold me back from just being too real just cuz where our world is you can't be too real and so you know I ain't there but I think we all struggle with that but you just got to get on passing and realize that really nobody judging you cuz it ain't a lot of people could do what you could do so people it's hard for people to critique what they can't do been single for four years now why do I seem to be attracted men who only want situations ships thoughts it could be a sign of just what's out there in your area where you at it could be a sign and so you got to understand that realize that a lot of time women don't like to hear that you attract what you are and what I mean by that is sometimes you could give off a image that says you know I'm okay being on the side and that doesn't take away from the man being trash the man could be a trash man but a trash man is still reading women so even a trashy man is certain women he won't approach if he in a relationship and in a certain women he will approach but what he sees in you it may only be him that can tell you what he's reading into and he could be completely wrong but he is him reading something on you that makes him feel comfortable approaching you as a side woman and so yes he could yes he allowed life or a trashy man or a dog or whatever the term is but he also is reading something that you may or may not be able to do anything about it really you should not care as long as you know your standards and where you stand that so you got to realize that ex cheated on me with his female friend from our church we've been broken up 10 months now still see him at church I think they still talk or secretly dating with that relationship work it could work it could work I know you want to hit any you wanted bad to be spoke on it but it could very well work now it could very well work because he could have cheated with her cuz she feel like the one and you not the one now that right there's that's right there's why they say don't ask question you don't want the answer to so what what I always tell y'all is when you done with somebody to stop worrying about their life you know don't spend your time asking people questions about their life and what they got going on you got to ask questions about you what I need to do to heal I what I need to do to grow you know you got to focus on you cuz long you focus on them you stand stuck the other thing I'll be changing churches to I go to a different church that ain't the only church God in so instead of just having to see that person over and over and over I change her you find God in the church you got in you you don't find them in the church so you could go to another church the text says I'll be there for you if needed should I wait for him to make the first move or is it okay to ask questions to find out more about him you should wait for him to make the first move and so yeah he sound like he taking advice on preacher who begs to go on dates with me should I run no she run it could be a pastor over to be a paladin as long he asking to sleep with you and you know ain't nothing wrong with a date that's how you're gonna get know each other and if you're going on a date that mean he not ashamed to be seen with you and people see that he out on the date so you know make sure you put the hashtag Q in front of your question if you knew here I supposed to be gone five five five minutes ago no I missed a lot of you or maybe I didn't did I get most done if I answer your question post it bottom down here at the bottom let me see do you feel some women are not meant to be married I believe if God obtained marriage he would want all of us to be married or it could be a shortage of men it's not as many men as women and so that may mean not everyone gonna get married unless it's just you know age differences or a man on the second marriage or what have you but I believe for those who want it that is there because not everybody want not every woman want marriage not every woman gonna be marriage material not every woman gonna do the work and get ready for marriage so cream rise to the top so if you want to be married and you are preparing yourself for marriage and you doing the work on you the three B's brain brand body then you elevate to that top 1% and so now the men that want to be married it's a select pool of women that they are attracted to and that won't be every woman because a lot of women gonna give in to society so a lot of women gonna cancel themselves out so like women who given into society and getting they lips real big and they lashes literally look like this and they walk around here like this and the lashes way too long it's cool to have lashes but when lashes go to getting way too long and them and the lips getting pumped up if your lips naturally got size to them that's totally different because it's gonna fit your nose it's gonna fit your face when you go into the doctor they get all this done and all this cheek filler all this look filler the lashes is very unrealistic the ponytails is getting really unrealistic so a lot of women take they self out of the equation because they don't because they're not attractive or appealing to men because men don't like a whole bunch of that and all that excessiveness a man don't mind a woman enhancing her natural beauty but he really want a woman to enhance her beauty not to look like a whole another person so a lot of women giving into society and dressing up for for themselves so they say but nobody really do anything for ourselves otherwise we'll walk around naked because we okay with our body and we okay with our face we won't brush our teeth we won't take no bow we won't put no clothes on if it was just for ourselves we do all of this because we got to be presentable around people and so women say oh I just do it for me that's a lie because it's other people that's doing it for you that's putting the filler in that's doing all of that they're doing all that so you're doing it for other people too even though you may like it but what happened is if we don't seek to understand what we looking for likes or is attracted to then we could be left out in the cold and so a lot of women today cancel themselves out because to be honest with you as I as I went around the world and I call all the men up to the front of the room and I asked them do you prefer a woman with artificial lashes 90% say no do you prefer a woman with artificial hair 90% say no will you wait on a woman if this is your wife and you feel like she's your wife will you wait on her until marriage 90% say yes and me being a man that's the same way I answer those questions so I knew they one line but at the same time women know it all so women don't believe that well well men ain't approaching me well if you feel ugly and you telling yourself you ugly then you got a sour patch face on but if you feel confident and you to enhance your face with your three-step four-step skin routine you then took care of your scalp and your hair and your nails then you saying I look good I'm glowing so you got a presence on you that you still look feminine and attracted to a man even if you got a more look that fits you versus you got on Kim Kardashian look but you're not Kim Kardashian or in that industry but you've got that same exact look and that that be the problem so that's why I say marriage gonna be for who is for and just because it's a millions of women don't mean every woman want marriage or that they prepare for marriage. Kimmy, God bless you, I'm telling you how do you realize the harvest God is producing through your obedience to the Holy Spirit thank you for saying the things that are hard to hear but needed to hear to grow um I really don't know all the way what you mean by that but one thing I will say is the harvest of God is it's not you can't mistake it so what's of God is it's gonna you're gonna have a peace with it you're gonna have an acknowledgement of it like God ain't gonna do nothing you know in secret the way you got to be confused so you gonna feel it so I feel it from what I'm doing it's still draining I'm real tired it's mentally draining and it's spiritually draining and I'm struggling even in this very moment you know in my life under heavy spiritual attack spiritual warfare it's always real deep real heavy but yet God give me the peace and the strength to show up on here where you know earlier today I could have been having suicidal thoughts but yet God to give me the strength to get on here and show up and so when God in the midst you're gonna be under you're gonna have a harvest and you're gonna reap a harvest from God but you also gonna have every attack from the adversary but yet you're gonna be granted the peace and the wisdom and the clarity to carry the message and so the mantle is heavy but um it comes with a lot but every time I get weak and I feel tired you know it's people joining the blessed tribe which that's $1.99 but that's a lot of money it's sending people accounting to the negative you know it's people joining my Patreon and I said hey don't join the Patreon until the first of the month because if you join today it's gonna charge you today and then it's gonna charge you again on the first but people join anyways you know and I mentioned a couple time and I think we got over 200 patrons already on my Patreon and so it's things like that that support that remind me a tone to keep going you know keep going and just being transparent with it not not being fake you know underneath them God bless you being transparent when I'm struggling you know I tell y'all I'm struggling and I power through it I work through it because serving my purpose is what brings me alive you know and uh but a lot of time people just they'll fake it and they won't mention it they won't teach a lesson from it but I turn everything I experienced into a lesson and that made me even stronger and then so the harvest you know I experienced that too I haven't heard from him in a week my feelings are so hurt over this how do I move past this well since this only for one part question that's a part two so I'm not sure if I'm gonna get to see you part one because there's so many questions here let me see oh yeah that was your part one right there let me see a man I know in college contacted me on a dating app he gave me many compliments said he always liked me and didn't want to miss an opportunity with me I haven't heard from him in a week my feelings are so hurt over this how do I move past this since I'm gonna tell you like this right here you gonna have to move past that and you gonna have to stop letting us look stuff like that hurt you know because you let something like that hurt your life gonna crush you you know this on a dating app okay this is a dating app this is a compliment so you got to say you know what this a lost man this a lost man he lost and confused he don't know what he's doing he just on here talking trying to exercise his game he'll mean nothing he say so what that says is is deeper than what you're saying so you in a state of desperation when the woman get on a dating app you desperate a lot of women don't want to believe that don't want to accept that but whether you agree with it or say that you desperate that's what you look like to a man you look desperate and then for a man to give you a compliment and then not say nothing for a week that man could have that man could have covid that man could be in the hospital and you got your feelings hurt and so instead of realizing like anything could have happened to the man the man could have even got off the app you know had a bad experience that same night and got off the app so you in a you in a desperate space right now and you got to fall in love with you you got to love you more you got to get more knowledge you got to get off that app you got to get outside look at Kimberley Kimberley working like she a moderator gonna say who ain't smashed that like button got some haters in the building huh a lot of people ain't smashed the like button huh Kimberley Kimberley like hold on how many likes it is how many of y'all gonna he'll spectate okay Kimberley say y'all gonna he'll spectate they hit that like button y'all and he'll spectate they hit that subscribe button right nice guy nice guy married separated hey god bless you for that cash out somebody sent a cash out separated wife nice guy married separated from wife 13 years do the property and assets battle wants to get to know me thoughts separated from wife 13 years if he been separated 13 years now on that one normally I say if he married it's a no-go but 13 years I think it's still a no-go because he's been separated for 13 years it's like who is the Bill Gates Bill Gates ain't been separated no 13 years and like man ain't got that much property and assets that it take 13 years to divide come on this ain't no trillion now they ain't Jeff Bezos Jeff Bezos then got divorced faster than that and it's a trillion now so come on now the man he'll finessing you man might not even be separated man finessing you man finessing you share told Kim don't worry about the likes and share right y'all know this on my videos I don't ever ask for likes I'm not the typical youtuber I never ask people for likes I never say hit like and subscribe I never say that this about coming on here and serving so y'all had to understand that you know some people doing YouTube a little different for me I want to make it by the service now let me see if I miss your question put the hashtag Q on now can straight man have a friends and be completely straight me personally I can't other I've heard other straight men say that they can I personally think that they getting something out of that relationship like you know just getting them a little lust station in but me being a man I understand that men we are lustful creatures so for man you know if a man like him a little piece of booty hole I really can't be around a man who want him a piece of a man booty hole because me knowing men and knowing men are lustful it's only a certain amount of time before that man looking at my behind so I so me personally I don't have friends who are men who like me because men can't really be friends with who they what they are attracted to that's why I don't have female friends because I'm attracted to women so I don't have any female friends I could have male friends because I'm not attracted to men but I don't have any female friends some people call that childish and all of that no as humans we created to be attracted to other humans to keep the human race going and yeah you could get to a place the way you make it platonic and all of that but it's too much guesswork in that so I don't want to be guessing if this man sees me as a platonic friend or if he waiting in the wings for a moment of vulnerability that he feel like he compounds you know because if we you know something goes wrong and he he feel like oh this is my opportunity being a grout my booty I've been a took somebody life so me personally I mean I be hearing some men say that but I don't trust it just knowing me and men can't be friends with something they attracted to a God better for that cash out not somebody sent a cash out how do you approach my my live in how do you approach my live in of eight years about other females text message that I stumbled upon when we were looking at something in his phone and eight years you ain't got to have no special tactic with that nine eight years that's that's so long right there hey what's going on what's oh yeah what question for you what's um we're looking through your phone I seen some text messages from other women you know what was that about because I haven't met these women and I'm not sure I believe in men and women being friends platonic friends for long at least so um yeah what that's about you just got to bring it up in a time of peace you don't bring it up in a heated argument you don't start no heated argument just in a time of peace you that's when you mention those tough things feel like everyone is starting to look the same and guys are going towards that look then the natural look struggling to meet guys that like natural look since I'm slim not thick I love my shape um um I think it's in your mind it's in your mind I know it may feel like that but and you like your shape you know and ain't nothing wrong just and you slim now what I'll say do is you still even though you're slim you want to be toned um do your 50 to 100 squats a night a day do your 50 to 100 squats that way you got the best of your best and you know a lot of times people walk around slim and you you looking like a toothpick and it might not look like you taking care of yourself so do you some squats get the best of your best and then see what's out there attract who out there attracted to you as well don't just sit still you know and um and the men who going after the women who look the same they just looking for fun those are you not missing your husband those just men who ain't even looking for a wife so you can't take that into the account when you're looking at who approaching you and who ain't is it bad I don't want I don't want to date a man with young you know multiple I only have one who will be 13 this year is this an okay standard yeah that's a okay standard because it's that a standard should be something that's weight bearing like that and that's a huge thing so for somebody to have children that's a huge thing so you don't want to take that lightly and you know anything like that so so understand that that's not feel like everyone is starting okay that's a question I just answer don't you ask no but it looks like I got deleted I've heard you speak about the man in the dark just want to know what you are referring to if you don't know then it ain't for you I always tell you everything ain't for everybody so for the people that know that's who I'm talking to if you don't know be be happy that you don't know you is blessed and highly favored that you do not know so just stay where you at been with a man for 11 months no cheating no legs open first relationship like this is it okay to not always feel excited to be with a boyfriend he wants to propose now but I don't want to rush um yeah it's okay to not always feel excited because what you got to realize a spark is dangerous a spark could blow something up you want a slow simmer you want oven love not microwave love so the excitement is microwave love so a man that excited is typically a man that's bad for you the man that could kind of you could just chill and not be all excited and just kind of be chill be normal with that's the man that it could be some long term you know love with there was a guy that works Tina God bless there's a guy that works at a grocery store I made sure he knew I'm interested and I could tell he is too he does try to talk to me but seems shy there's something else I can do or just be patient he could be taking a lot of men just be lusting but can't make no real move because he's taking and so he admire your beauty and he's just shooting the breeze with you just because it make his job go by a little faster than just a little funner but he could be in a whole relationship and so you can't really get you know caught up on stuff like that because a lot of time being taken and so and honestly when a man not taken it don't take more than three times of you seeing a ready man without him shooting his shot if it goes longer than that then he probably ain't what you think he is can't you be in a relationship with someone you're not attractive you're not attractive to now now that I don't know if you meant attractive to or attractive to but um you can but is it recommended no no it's not recommended not like the other unlimited say she's not always excited but you could be attracted to somebody and not be always be excited and so but to not be attractive to him then no you don't want to do that and if he's not attractive to you no you don't want to do that either you know you gotta you need some physical attraction to a certain degree yeah get deeper than that but you at least want to have something there hey feel like I'm gonna answer about all these questions because I don't see them popping in down there so I don't know if I'm gonna answer them all it's ridiculous every time I get ready to get all people popping on here I got to go at 90 minutes man I be seeing some youtube doing these things four five hours I say boy you gotta be certified crazy boy you need a check you do these four five hours but y'all need a check y'all need to be in the check from the government because that is a different kind of moniacal right there god bless you I might try one day do a four five hour not did a 10 hour zoom now but that was different because that was like a paid thing when you're going to release that skincare routine you keep talking about now it's coming now it's coming now I'm releasing one of the eight days now but it's coming I'll let y'all know one day a lot of this be iphone though this gonna be my skin it'd be iphone iphone iphone wash your face for you just iphone 12 hill say that 13 ain't all ain't all that hey look like I got through most of these questions now hey god bless y'all I want to say thank you to the patrons on the patreon and um because I just started that there do it even let me so the thing don't even let me chat huh thinking I could type something now let me type nothing but I just want to say thank you to the patreon thanks to the blessed tribe to the blessed business tribe to the blessed business tribe I'll be transitioning that over the blessed tribe I'll keep that because with the blessed tribe I can do these hill lives because we've got a lot of blessed tribe members I don't know how many exactly but got a lot of blessed tribe members so I always have that on here to my knowledge and um but the patreon that's really more so what we're going to be that support is going to help us produce more sit not sitcoms web of souls like titles but it's also some unscripted stuff I want to do not just a scripted stuff so if you haven't seen any titles it's in a playlist you can see titles and that was paid for out of pocket by myself and and that's why I started a patreon so we could produce more of that and then I'm gonna start doing some unscripted stuff as well that I'll be really casting for through my patreon first and then what I don't get the people I don't get or if I don't get enough people then I'll be casting outside of that but um I appreciate y'all for that deal and Tony gasses academy one thing I want you all to remember about that I changed the prices the other day made them a little more economical but um everything I teach everything I do everything I've done I teach it on Tony gasses academy so it's not one of them scam things where these guys ain't never done nothing and they pop up on youtube and start running ads about doing something and they ain't never done it and they sell in the course for it and they charge a three four thousand dollars it ain't they ain't none of that I don't get down like that I don't move like that so everything on Tony gasses academy I got real life experience with and it's typically 50% less than the market asked for so y'all got to understand that about the academy a lot of time people ask me questions and because I don't promote it all the time they don't even know I have Tony gasses academy.com some of the people on here don't even know I'm an author and that's that's me doing a bad job of promoting myself but I got about 20 different books on amazon so when you search Tony gasses in june on amazon you're gonna see those books so one thing I'm trying to do in 2022 a little better is just let y'all know a little bit more of what I got other resources I got out there for you being that I don't come on here and be hit like hit subscribe hit like hit subscribe the least I could do is tell you about my products and other things like that I don't do one-on-one coaching right now but um it's a single it's a singles course I just put on Tony gasses academy and it's a couples group course group coaching that we're gonna be doing on zoom so if you're in a relationship the couples course start Thursday night that start Thursday night boyfriend girlfriend fiance married it's gonna be on love and relationships so we're gonna touch on a little bit of everything and have q&a that start Thursday night but hey god bless you and thank thanks uh thank you undreff reading a couple of my books thank you to the moderators as well shout out to the moderators and merry and welcome to the blessed tribe now y'all god bless y'all hey 90 minutes I want to be off at 90 minutes so it's perfect timing god bless y'all we'll talk soon


What's going on everyone? Sam here with Layton Sports Cards. We are ripping one box of 2022 Bowman Sterling Baseball Hobby for Steven S. Good luck here Steven. Let's see what we got. Steven still in chat at 3.07 a.m. baby. Here we go. Let's do it. Empty I should say. Alright, let's see. Come on baby. Big scoreboard attack auto come out of this. Low numbers, some gold, some big redemption of wander maybe. Let's see what we got. That's a scoreboard I believe. Yes, that is a scoreboard. Colson Montgomery. Come on baby Marcello Meyer. Josh Donaldson 31 out of 99 on the vet auto. Dude, that's sick. Nice one there for the twins. Yankee legend right there. Let's go. Nice one there. Luis Frias, Matt Manning. We grabbed some more thin sleeves really quick. Get on the box too. Love me some Josh Donaldson. Put them away. Well we need to put them in a sleeve to put them in the mag too though. So we do need the sleeves. Sleeves are an important part of that process. Alright, let's do it here. Brandon Marsh rookie. Nice one there. We'll sleeve that for you. Noelby Marta. There's an Ernie Clement. That's going to be numbered 8 out of 99. Nice one here. We got a Cooper Kinney rookie auto. Very solid. Congrats on that Steven. We'll take a nice raise prospect. He looks like he could be a stud. Tori Lorenzo. Denzer Guzman. Next one up. Oh my god, it's impossible. My eyes have lost like 10 years just from reading the numbers and moments thrilling. South Relic. There's a Roman Gonzalez. That's going to be White Sox rookie. Numbered 181 out of 199. Even though refractors are tough, man. We've got Jiro Palmeiras. Let's go into the Giants. Not numbered prospect auto. Nice one there. Jay Allen. And a Colton Couser. Alright, next one up. Here we go. Deakman. Clement. There's a Bobby Witt rookie. We've got Carson Williams. That's going to the raise again. Congrats on that one. Nice raise hit. Another nice raise prospect. Rodolfo Castro. And Mackenzie Gore. Nice Mackenzie Gore. Sleep that one up. Last mini box. Good luck here, Steven. See what we got, buddy. It's like a refractor and we have an extra hit again potentially. That's going to be a Bobby Witt. We've got Royce Marconzana. Nice. We've got Prospect Autograph Speckle Refractor. Yiddie Cappy. That should be numbered, I believe, to 99. So nice one there on the Marlins Prospect. We'll take a Yiddie Cappy. He's actually kind of a stud. Nice one there. Rodolfo Castro. And another Mackenzie Gore. That'll do it for your break there. Steven, congrats again on the hits, man. Thanks for jumping in. Appreciate it as always.


Let's do this problem here. It says predict the product of the following reaction. So we've got ethanol, which is an alcohol, reacting with formic acid, which is a carboxylic acid. So if it helps you, you can draw this thing out. It actually helps me to do that, or did when I was in your position. So let's draw it out Lewis structure wise. So it's H-C-O-O. So since we're not drawing the mechanism, we're just predicting the structure. All you want to remember is whenever you've got an alcohol and you're reacting it with a carboxylic acid, what you're going to do is from the carboxylic acid you're going to replace this portion, the OH portion here, with this portion here of the alcohol. So everything but that last H. So when we do that, we're going to get something that looks like this. So that's the product we're really interested in. So do you see what I did here?  And then there's another product, which is just leftover stuff, OH here. So you make an ester, or that's an ester, those sweet-smelling things, when you react an alcohol, plus a carboxylic acid. Any question on this one?


I'm studying cold matter in my PhD, so I'm making ice cream here, but cold matter is a lot, lot colder than that. We're cooling atoms and molecules down to milli kelvin and micro kelvin. The main applications for cold matter physics is in precision measurements. So they're used in things like atomic clocks and quantum computers as well. Being in physics isn't like what you might imagine from watching shows like the Big Bang Theory. My day-to-day revolves around going into the lab, trying to run the experiment. If there's something wrong with it or if there's improvements I need to make, I will do that. That could involve building some new electronics or actually physically building new parts of the experiment, adjusting some mirrors and the optics, things like that. I sometimes write my own software to do things inside the experiment as well, which I really, really enjoy. My father is running a Japanese restaurant and my mother is an artist. They actually really wanted me to study law. They really wanted me to be a lawyer and have a steady job with a good income. So when I told them that I wanted to do a physics degree, they were a little bit surprised. But they had to think about it and they realized how qualified a physics degree makes you, how employable it makes you. There are certain procedures that you have to do which are very systematic, like build a new power supply. That's a very systematic thing and you have to learn how to do electronic engineering in a traditional way to make these things. But other parts of it is you're facing problems that have never been encountered before. So there's no way of solving them without being extremely creative because you're going to be the first one to do it. That's the amazing thing about it. You're doing things that no one's ever done before and things that you never thought you could do.