Howdy folks Anthony Johnson here founder of the 21 convention 21 studios hosting today's episode number 24 of the red man group on 21 live Joining me today. I have Carl from black label logic Donovan sharp from sharp reality Also speaker at the upcoming 21 convention Rola Tomasi from the rational male upcoming speaker at the 21 convention and Texas Dom from Texas Dom comm You'll be at the convention and probably speaker in the near future Gentlemen, thanks for helping on the show today Howdy Good to be back good to be back. Yeah, thanks for having us Yep, thank you. I got some little items to go through here before we kick off the round table and figure out what's going on Everyone's lives First of all, if you're new to the show hit the like button on this video or on Twitter wherever you're seeing it It helps out the show and the channel and all the speakers and everybody. Oh, there's Ryan Stone. Thank you There he is. Oh looking clean dude looking clean. Oh, yeah back from the spa Yeah, look at that. Look at that hair. Look at the look at those sideburns. All right, Ryan I see you. This is Ryan Stone Traditional guest RMG and moderator at married red pill and upcoming speaker at the 21 convention once again Ryan kind of going through some news items and then we'll hit like the round table second After the like button guys, make sure you subscribe to the channel follow the group on Twitter anywhere You can do subscribe or follow do it We also you'll see in the YouTube video. We have a new at the top of the link There's like a join the channel membership It's a new thing YouTube to start it for certain channels. You want to support 21 studios directly. That's a good way to do it second only to 21 University and the 21 convention Tickets are still on sale to the 21 convention. 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Yeah, I just I just got that this morning. I broke 30,000 followers on Twitter and so that's kind of a big deal. I guess Every time I get another 10,000 I kind of go. Hmm. You know think about where I am a Lot of people think I should be above that but you know what I'd rather have 30,000 really good authentic followers than just a bunch of us So, you know, it's not too tough to get followers these days It's just you know, it's tough to get like real legitimate, you know a good dedicated audience and I think I got that so Yeah, exactly You know, thanks for for helping me out there with that. That's really good One thing I got going on locally here is I everybody anybody knows me But I live in the Washoe Basin really kind of near nearby Reno Yes, we are surrounded by forest fires right now the Tahoe Reno area is just Blanketed in smoke right now and I have I literally have my house like pretty much just buttoned up And I'm just relying on my air filters in my air conditioning to keep the smoke out right now I mean, it's so bad I don't even want to let the dogs out because it is just on it's dangerous. It's not even unhealthy. It's just dangerous and A lot of people don't know this about me, but if something like this happens I'm on a list to call to go help do volunteer fire firefighting.  I didn't think I was gonna be able to come in today because I thought maybe they were gonna help There's a fire. That's about gosh about 50 miles north of here. It's called the Perry fire and it's only about 45% contained They're talking about getting it contained by Monday That is if the winds don't change So a lot of shit can change and it gets a little weird and when it comes to when when fires get really close to the Tahoe area That's when everybody sort of pitches in and comes out. So So that's something that I might might not be doing in the very near future Any update on your fourth book some people have been asking if it'll be yeah I'm still I'm actually I got a few updates on a few other things here, too But yeah, the fourth book is still coming along nicely Again, I've got a lot of guys helping me with it So it's it's actually going a lot going along a lot smoother because this is the first book that I've I kind of can't rely on Old posts on my blog to sort of embellish my books. I'm writing this from scratch So this is just like a all of it will be new original material with the exception of maybe like a couple of things that I've written in the past So It's really a collaborative effort. I've got a lot of guys from like different religions who are tell you know want to tell Me you what the state of their religion is at at this point So it's very easy to get information from Muslim guys and evangelical Christians and Catholics right now, but I also have Mormons. I've also got Jews. I've got Some Buddhists. I've got some Hindu guys a lot of guys in India are beginning to sort of just help me with that So if there is some sort of religious story that you have that is red pill related I'm just gonna throw this out there hit me up in my DMs or just get me on RT rational mail at Gmail.com and just let me know what your story is I might include it it might be might be something that makes the book But that's what I think the beauty is of the manuscripts We all you know aggregate our experiences together and we we produce something. That's really great It's really nice. We have two thousand viewers on the red man group Twitter right now watching the Wow, very nice Yes, well with that Anyways, I also want to make a sort of a broadcast here as well is Sam Boda is now done with the audio for book three and we are in this the stages of editing it and Recording the parts that need to get re-recorded, but I would say probably within the next couple of weeks It will be with my my sound producer. It's guy named Peter Raefelsen. He's the guy that's done all of my books I would say by the end of this month. We'll have book three on audio. Sweet Yeah, people asked about that a lot too. So nice Ryan you were fashionably late. We got going on buddy We're joking if you're at Zumba today or what do you have going on? Just a spot nice Saturday thing So for what's going on right now two big things American Winner just put the podcast out So I'll have links on my Twitter there for you guys if you want to hear it's got a little bit of backstory It's nice Alex the guy running the thing is just kind of started his red pill journey and then me who he says is further along Very big ego boost. He called me the fourth R which I'm flattered, but I don't know how I'm gonna beat Roosh Um Second thing on the go then is I never pronounce his name, right? It's like live AF TOS just released out the second of five videos on manipulation. He's looking on doing some RSA anime style videos on That as well as the iron rules with Massey, so I'll have links for that too. Check it out Very interesting then beyond that. It's just getting ready for 21 convention. So pass it off to whoever's next nice Carl Donovan Well, I'll go first.  Yeah, man, I had a had a great week of shows this week. I talked about the urban Meyer Mess up in Columbus, Ohio You guys know all about I mean you can just Google urban Meyer Basically because he knew about domestic violence alleged domestic violence. He is now probably gonna be out of a job I Talked about the reasons why you should never get back with an ex-girlfriend why women are loyal more loyal to abusive men than men who are not I also talked about the the fact that women help each other cheat these days and have been for quite a while and the fact that men Need to sort of be hip to the script on that I actually went to old school a little bit and talked about Aaron Hernandez a little bit of course urban Meyer Coached Aaron Hernandez back to the University of Florida and I talked about what the media didn't tell you about the whole Aaron Hernandez tragedy You can definitely go to my website donovancharp.com and I'll I'll certainly let you know that no I'm certainly not absolving Aaron Hernandez of being a cold-blooded, you know alleged serial killer But the media left out his mother's His mother's responsibility But not his mother's responsibility, but his mother or his terrible mother's impact on his life I talked about Mia Khalifa putting Chad Kelly on blast a couple years back and her not Recognizing her own sexual market values a porn star. She said hey Chad Kelly.  Apple iPhone You know Windows phone Android etc. Etc. So yeah doing doing some big things working on my 21 convention speech and just continue to progress, man nice nice Tex, what's up in actually Kind of like Carl and getting ready for vacation I've got my boat finally got fixed and it's ready to be picked up Which means I am now about to start a two-week vacation down on the coast and see how many fish I can catch which is Always a lot of fun, but since the last red man group I have I made I threw that offer out there about talking about the dominant submission stuff at the end like when I go to 21 and I got hit up with a bunch of emails since that which is kind of cool I love talking about the subject and of course I really like helping any other man that actually looks is asking for help like everybody on this panel So it's been really rewarding the last couple of weeks doing the email thing back and forth with a bunch of people Badass yeah speaking of fishing that we should all go mean roller went, you know, while back in Florida That's a long ago. Yeah, I've been fishing I already bought my my tickets for my flight out to the 21 convention And I'm definitely making time for like an extra almost an extra week just so it can go do shit By the way Rollo by the way Rolla not to not to cut you off I want to go back to the whole wildfires thing Yeah, I lived in Reno for a year and I remember the summertime there like every week there seem to be Especially because I mean you guys are up there near Northern, California, but it's hot I mean obviously it's hot and dry.  So I'm I'm certainly I'm certainly well aware of that man. That's something I don't miss about You know, it's funny to say it's not here. There's the Perry fire, which is north of us But there's some there's a fire in Yosemite right now. Actually, I think there's two in Yosemite There's some more. There's the redding fire, which I think is out now I'm not sure but the redding fire and Combined with another fire and it got so large that it started creating its own weather system And I don't have a I can't really look at links up right now But there is a there's video of what's called a firegale. It's a tornado of fire that that developed around ready Damn pretty crazy Well guys, let's hit some before we take collars later on the show Let's hit some news items relevant to the red pill in the man's fear that came out in the past couple days One of them that I thought was particularly What's all president Trump tweeting retweet yesterday from drudge? There's a new editor a young Asian American woman working at the New York Times and their editorial board Sarah Gion or something like that. I don't know how to say the last name. I have no idea to be honest But she she's been seen on Twitter over the recent years 2014 2015 stuff like that She has tweets that say kill all men Cancel all white people if we killed all the bad men only the bad men that would still be all the men lots of very Explicitly, you know miss andrick type comments Which is kind of which is a for me It's very interesting because I've you know in my speech at the convention last year I called feminism the ultimate hate supremacist movement and here we have the New York Times proudly hiring this Asian American woman Who is openly advocating for gender side kidding or not or any combination of two? It's pretty sick stuff. So I want to kind of hit on that and see what you guys think about Surprise the New York Times hiring a woman who quite literally and explicitly hates men with a passion Floor is open to ever what kind of when it's a jump on that and I'm real quick. I think it's it's it's it's interesting I don't know what this phenomenon is called. I'm sure dr. Shawn T Smith could probably Could probably do that but people are very envious. They are outwardly. They outwardly hate what they can't have a Lot of guys who are blue pill, you know, the the in cells the lower level make town guys They always make fun of the fact that men are masculine.   Seriously. Come on. Like you're you're being transparent. We were talking about fake tits earlier You know off the air.  Yes fake tits. Yes, sweetheart And you wish you had them. That's why you make fun of it because you can't have them So this woman is obviously been slighted jilted by multiple. She's an Asian woman So of course her preference is white men She's probably raised in America and white guys are at the top of the sexual food chain in terms in terms of attraction arousal That's a whole other podcast But when women can't have something they hate against it This is one of the reason this is really one of the reasons why feminism Third-way feminism has taken hold in the first place.  Are you talking about down with them?  This is just projection. She can't have the men she wants so she wants them all killed It's I think she I think this what it's funny. You should say that yes I've seen pictures of her and of her boyfriend I don't know if they're married or if it's a boyfriend, but if you look at the guy He is exactly the kind of guy you would expect to be with this You know super I mean I can tell that she is the product of this This academic You know millhouse that grinds these grinds these chicks out Why the New York Times decided that they wanted to bring this person on you know it only shows you where they're I mean I can talk about this in a in a political sense or I can talk about this in a gender sense But I think that the New York Times really tells you what they're there You know ideological bias is by who they hire and how they present stories I mean just last week we were talking about the New York Times story that I was quoted in for Was it sperm sperm count was was low and I got into it with the writer I'm just saying look I know this was a great fucking story But it was delivered as if we were going to Ridicule men or was the typical way of doing this and it makes me wonder if that story wasn't passed through this Editor because she was telling me that you know I write the stories But I don't have the control over the editing and I don't have the control over how they're going to present this And so of course how are they going to present it? They're gonna be like all the men are little whiny babies because their sperm count is low well if there's an opportunity for This kind of person to ridicule med it's always going to happen and I think it was Harteased or Royce who's always called the New York Times the New York Beta Times and Was always was he was always picking fun at them and always picking apart their stories because it's so easy to do They've had this bias for a very very long time, but the woman herself is One more representative of this This diploma mill where the only point for Teaching these kids is so that they'll go out and be representatives of this ideology even I think it was Jordan Peterson was saying that that is what their function is that is what these teachers are Function is and you cannot find a conservative teacher in academia today. It just simply doesn't exist and the expressed purposes of These teachers is to create students who will become people who are protesters who are out there You know spouting off the canons so the same kind of hatred, which is what this is This is hatred now. Remember this also comes on the heels of that one Teacher and I think it was Northwestern University or something who was saying is it okay to hate men or it's okay now To hate men that was the title of the of the piece and so When people say well Anthony in the 21 convention when he talks about you know feminism as a hate movement He's just being reactionary or that's that's really dangerous thinking or maybe these guys are like just gender fascist The jig is up that's why they call it dangerous because they can't get away with it anymore I mean it's if you go and you take what if you go and you take the most I mean the what was it the The the speech that you gave The the the keystone speech or whatever it was the future is massive Yeah, yeah features that one if you take that and you go and you present that to To these people they're going to tear it apart as if it's some you know horrible neo-nazi red pill guys coming together And and turning men against women.   She talked about she talked about brothers too. Yes It's not hard to find her tweets But I think it's really interesting if you take if you take something like that or if you take this other guy Who was the director was a Peter Gunn or something guns? James Gunn you look at his his pedophilia tweets or his pedophilia jokes We're gonna go give them a pass But we would never give a pass to to someone like, you know, like if Roseanne goes out there and says something that's off-color We're never gonna leave as long as you're towing that that particular ideological line We're not gonna give you the pass but we're gonna go ahead and give the of these other people a pass and I think that it's important that we call this shit out for what it is because that's what feminism is it's a hate movement and here you have a Protester here you have the result of this academia that has created these people to enforce feminism and enforce the feminine imperative and to enforce this militaristic aspect of Feminism I'm gonna say that I I'm of the opinion here that feminism has never been through waves People want to say well, you know first way feminism was okay because it got women the right to vote and and they were treated as you know Equals and also bullshit if you go and you look at the the history of feminism from from Seneca Falls in a what the mid 1800s to where we are now it is the same Movement it is the same hate movement is always been it's just that we want to we want to Cut it up into waves and say this wave was okay and this wave was not okay, and this wave is really hella, you know material or Touristic no it has always been that way, and I can show you stories and news features from back in the like what the Midnight, you know the night turn of the century where they're bombing churches these feminine though the suffragettes who we say Oh the suffragettes yay for us, you know women's history month bullshit They bomb churches they I mean there's there's a whole list of crimes that these that these women went through to you know Make their you know state their case and really it came down to one man one guy whose mother told him vote for the suffragettes in the house so that they could pass the vote to get the vote for women It was one beta guy who got a letter from it and I could show you that I could show you the link to this The very famous case was it was split and there was one guy who was the deciding vote And the deciding vote was one that beta guy who got a letter from his mom and he did what mommy told him to do Oh God yeah Carl you wanted to hop in on this Actually did a very good segway because feminism and Marxism are really closely aligned and what I wanted to point out is The creation of an in-group and out-group is very common with any form of totalitarian Ideology, you know you had Nazis and Jews you had the communists You have the proletariat and the bourgeois and by creating this outgroup You're saying that you can do whatever you want against to this outgroup and that's okay But if someone in the outgroup does the same thing to you that's wrong and one of the things that's been kind of Getting on my nerves in my Twitter feed are these people who are obsessively pointing out well Look the left is doing exactly the thing they chastise this person for and this person for and this person for and yeah That's how it works. It's okay when they do it It's not okay when the other side does it and that's very classic and my girl is that with the History of feminism starting with bomb in churches communism was much the same way when it developed I mean it started with we want labor rights. We want fair wages. We don't want six-year-old children working seven days a week 12 hours a day deep in coal mines and there were a lot of good things packaged in with it But along with that came the constant need for control and surveillance and Any form of thought crime and show trials and all these other negative things that were required to kind of keep the Let's say less insane parts of the ideology linked up with the completely insane parts of the ideology and That's kind of where we are now with feminism. They've reached the apex of insanity where oh, there's no such thing as Mass-objective truth empiricism is a construct of the white male patriarchy Gravity is just a social construct that was invented to keep women from swarming to the heights They were always intended to have and you get this comedic exaggeration where They lose track just because most people see okay, you know We were with you when you were on political rights and economic rights and you know social rights We can't really agree with you that we need to nullify gravity so that we can get through the glass ceiling I mean we have to kind of cut the line and that's where feminism is going to kill itself because they've actually put themselves in a fun catch 22 Because if you say that there is such a thing as a transgender That meaning a woman a female mind or a male mind that was born in the wrong body Then you have to admit that there is such a thing as a female mind and a male mind biologically If you accept that fact then all the egalitarian equalism that feminism is based on that Oh, there is no difference between the sexes. It's all social constructs. You cannot hold both of those possessions You can hold one of them not both I just see the I see New York Times is doubling down I mean, it's like it's classic what Trump's been doing right Trump's does something outrageous Everybody yells out and he doubles down even more, right? So there's this whole battle going on between the you know Trump and the fake media and all that kind of stuff and New York Times is right in the middle of it In fact, I'm getting promoted tweets from them all through my Twitter feed I had to eventually just block it because it was such garbage, but all they're doing is doubling down and Carl's right. I mean they're literally gonna double the down themselves the whole feminist agenda out of existence It's coming.     There's a feminist until she got until she got a nice guy in her bedroom and now all of a sudden she's like Maybe we shouldn't eat all men because I kind of like this one. Yeah, she's full and it's real quick Yeah, yeah, and then even Lauren Southern. I know there's that alt-right meme where she was dating black guys They dumped her and now she's very alt-right So even if it's not believe like it's believable even if it's not true So everybody kind of knows this but nobody really says it the emperor has no clothes So yeah, this whole thing. I think it's just society-wide daddy issues personified And then you add to that that whole tit-for-tat strategy that people have now with doxing people who say mean things on twitter And you get a force amplifier for it.  We're at now I think and then for a practical level for a red pill man The best strategy is don't howl at the moon like They're not going to change her So all you're doing is looking angry and painting her as the victim for the angry guy on the internet yelling at her Plus nobody really cares I mean how many of you guys are going to look at the new york times and like well now I'm not going to read it like were you reading it before were you really like is this the one thing that ruined the The historic record of the public interest No, they're just like tech says man. Let them flounder They're going to double down do the box days social justice warriors always lie roadmap and it's just like buy the numbers at this point Just laughs back and they're good punching bag. Yeah Donovan did you happen on this too?    Well, you got to go right?  They like disavowed her I thought that was pretty funny, but these alt right girls like maga kind of like like, you know, lauren southern Actually kitten holiday is sort of like a a very very very poor man's lauren southern They don't really believe that and it's funny. You listen to lauren southern's videos. That doesn't come from her mind She doesn't have that kind of brain. She's not that smart It's just it's just like uh, it was either tex or carl just pointed out the female mind is very different from the male mind I just watched a movie yesterday, uh called rampage And it's it's so funny Like it's this brother and this sister genetically engineering monsters or whatever and it was a complete role reversal The sister was completely measured. She was logical and reasonable, but the brother was like, ah, what do we do? I'm like, dude, you've got to be like I had to turn to devin and say look man Like this obviously isn't the way it is and that's why people think that that that's what this is So anyone who takes women like lauren southern, I think there are a couple of other old, you know, uh Right wing. No, I don't buy into any of that nonsense. They're not They're doing they're doing what they have to do to get their name out there And it should also come as no surprise that most all of these girls are attractive.  You don't you believe whatever the strongest men believe right now The strongest men are more conservative. That's And not to drone on here, but but these but these women like lauren southern They think that men follow them for their cerebral brawn.  So of course he wants my opinion on astrophysics No, we don't we want your opinion on your tits.  Right?  That's really what we're interested in.  All right, we got to move on to the next one.  I think she was on there with ruche one time And ruche basically tried to make exactly the same case as what donovan is just trying to say right here and it led for some really interesting uh Interview I guess but that that was that I think I agree with that. I what I wanted to say real quick was that um We always talk about the blue pill we talk about guys being conditioned by the blue pill to you know be something Uh that is useful to the feminine imperative later on in life when they become young men or they really the blue pill conditioning is to place Women as your mental point of origin if there's one purpose of the blue pill conditioning from from guys when they're Or little boys when they're from five years old all the way up until they you know get to be about 18 It's to make Women they're they're all you know, please mommy. Please the girl Please you know woman kind and they they're like I've said in a million different In a million different ways that we we treat Or we raise boys as if they're defective girls these days I think it's also important to understand that the women that we're seeing today such as this, you know fuchsia haired Woman who is now the you know editor of the new york times. We're seeing a generation of of kids that are coming into Uh the public sphere right now who have been conditioned themselves Uh feminism conditions women just in the same way that blue pill can the blue pill conditions men Okay, it conditions these women to be something that they think society is going to expect of them once they get out of college And they get out of their safe spaces And they they get into a position of authority, which is where this woman is right now in a sense With the the new york times. She is essentially Directing the voice of the new york times. She is going to create the color of all of the you know, the editorials that come out of the new york times and What we're looking at is we're looking at the A generation of kids of children really children who were raised And conditioned in a way to believe that society needs them to be that however that however they are And this is a woman who believes that she's doing the right thing by saying we need to kill all kill all men We need to have some sort of gender You know purification of some sort so we can put women in charge and men can finally be Uh the slaves that we really need them to be I've always said that feminism is has never been about equality And here you have it in black and white I've always said that feminism has been about Retribution and restitution and it's been about retribution and restitution for Past wrongs that they believe that they are Have inherited or that is their their birthright as a woman to have that restitution and to have that retribution And here we have a woman who is following along with that same narrative that's been around since like I said, senator Falls so anyways, that's what I want and what's interesting is that you know as a as an asian american woman She's probably one of the most overprivileged organisms to ever walk the face of the earth overprivileged over protected She psychologically in my opinion feels like she's invincible I mean think about what it takes to go out in public and say you want to kill half the human race And you're just like maybe you think that's cool and normal and it's like signaling like How many in cells tried that they got what maybe four or five like it's hard. It's really ballsy man. She's shooting for the moon Carl you want to hop in?  It's you're getting a trophy now for just, you know rampant hatred and supremacism and bigotry like that Well, that's Social signaling. It's what we do when like when you wear your manga hat That's a social signal to people who share your beliefs When you open carry that's a signal to people when down and when where is this handcuff necklace in public? That's a signal and it's the same thing with kill all white men and you know down with the white sys male Patriarchy, etc. It's just a signal to get credit for holding the right opinions Yeah Yeah, I do it to trigger women and peacock basically. This is a great peacocking. Oh, hold on Hold on. Let me see right here. Jones are 227. All right. I'm gonna block you and ban you That means you can participate in the show only if you call Listen, man, you guys know how I roll.   So briefly before we get into maybe callers and some other issues Oh, we wanted to get into though Well, we'll give it to a vote Do you guys want to hit the Angelina Jolie thing or do you want to jump right to the family matters that we discussed as a show topic? We're uh, we're it's 1255 right now. It's about 40 minutes in the show. Yeah, we're gonna want to take call We're gonna want to take calls too. So All right, I'll go ahead and let's skip Angelina. She her lawyer fired her they're quick because she's so crazy No matter how hot she is someone's tired of her Exactly Before we get into callers guys the topic of today's show the carl suggested that everyone is uh pretty on board with No, we're not ready for that yet donovan night yet So the topic today's show actually is the family crab bucket. So basically, uh, finding game finding the red pill and changing your life and changing who you are Personal change in improvement Uh, what that's like with with family members who want to drag you back down like crabs in a bucket Family members even friends. Um, I think everyone here has probably felt some level of this or experienced it So i'm not sure how we can kick this off But I think it's a big topic that I've seen discussed since the beginning of my day is in the poa community 12 years ago Yeah, talk about your experiences anthony. Yeah Yeah, my family has never been uh, they never got super involved in convention my older sister She's been the one most consistently attending and stuff like that. Why do you guys met her last year? A couple you did roll and ryan Um, so I've never really got any opposition from immediate family members Uh, but mostly it's been like close friends and stuff that were skeptical of you know What I was doing on a personal level, but then also with the business Is it going to work out?  It's that simple Um, so I was fortunate to be raised uh in whatever way with that kind of cutthroat mentality Like I believe in this it's true. It's important to me.  Uh since finding it, you know, my late teens I can't imagine like I said on twitter the other day. Uh, you can't even put a price tag and red pill awareness Because throughout your life if you're heterosexual you're going to act with women and sooner or later you're going to get Uh, you know a serious problem. I think if you don't have red pill awareness Or in most cases that can be divorce rape. Obviously diseases unplanned pregnancies crazy bitches are a really good example That statistically you're going to run into sooner or later a lot of them So, you know, we uh have been married about 30 years now, which makes me a Outlier almost as much as a roller on this thing but um, I think The family saw us change and they didn't like it. I mean, it certainly didn't like it And my red pill awareness came about about the same time as we Got into our dominance and submission and and basically her taking on the feminine role and me taking on the masculine role having a But the the bottom line is I mean we'll be at family events and she will come and make sure my glass is not empty She will sit at my feet and serve me and do things that make her happy And of course it feeds me as well and her sisters are just flipping out when she does this kind of thing And they they talk shit about her a little bit and of course my brother-in-law is looking at me like How big is your dick and how did you get it to do that?  Absolutely.  Her your her sister's hate on her because they wish they had a man worthy to serve They wish that they could could give themselves permission to be subservient one article I wrote for attorney kings. I don't know three four years ago called three unintended consequences of taking the red pill And one of those consequences is that your social circle is going to shrink your friends and your family members are not going They're they're either going to be drawn Closer to you because they see the change in you and it makes sense to them On a fundamental level or they're going to separate themselves from you And one thing that I get a lot from the black community when I talk about the fact that I just will not date black women anymore Is yo mama black your sister's black.  I'm always going to love her She's always going to love me, but that's just how it is. So Unfortunately for me. I come from a pretty a pretty good family I do this One of my brothers is a professional chef He's a sous chef at a at a michelin star restaurant Another brother of mine is a high school principal One of my sisters owns a cake business and one of my and my other sister is about to open up a brick and mortar store Selling selling purses and fashion designs like we're highly successful people So fortunately for me I don't have any of them, you know trying to pull me down into the crab bucket But when they find out what I do and what I talk about And you know, they they tend to stay away from the subject So if you take the red pill and this is part of what i'm going to talk about at the 21 convention You got to be prepared because you're a lot of your friends and family members are not going to like what you're up to They're just not going to like it. So be prepared for that. You know, carl before you go I should mention that ed latimore is considering doing a talk on how to approach family members and close friends about red pill issues Wow, i'm in on that I don't know if he's going to do but he said that was one of the uh, one of the few topics he had in mind That and uh, I think a talk on relationships, maybe So yeah, carl will happen. Yeah, you know to give my background on this I come from kind of a weird family because half the family are more or less have to go lucky hippies And the other half are kind of hardcore Overachievers and everything but they're also very conservative and very very religious So I get the same behavior from two sides because to hit these they come with the oh, this isn't you just be yourself Just, you know, the universe will fix anything and the other side is like, okay We support this achievement orientation and going after what you want, but we're not really happy about your moral standing I mean i've been told that i'm going to hell so many times that i'm just saying Hey, you know what maybe we are we'll say hi to see when we get down there now.  Anyway, I mean all those more people That's a good idea to get a free tan be nice No, so I get the whole thing from two angles and the whole reason why I wanted to deal with this Is the topic was I started to look at and over mr. Nice guy again and I read that book years ago And I kind of see it as the weed of the red pill because you read no more mr. Nice guy and that kind of sends you down the rabbit hole because I The four major chapters in the books are make your own needs a priority learn to please yourself Reclaim your personal power and reclaim your masculinity and all these Things lead a guy to change from being you know More or less a whip the whip step child of his family because a lot of the guys that come to the red pill They're not the typical always alpha work and he's beta at home. Now this guy is a beta everywhere at best So he's the kind of guy he's dependent on praise. He's dependent on approval He's a pushover. He doesn't have boundaries.  Everyone is going to be like, why did he stop enabling me and Doing all the stuff I want him to do and start doing things that make him happy This doesn't make me happy And then all the tactics come out and Cortez tweeted this amazing thing the other night a friend of the show Mr. McShreddit himself He tweeted people support you in the beginning People see you're being consistent people realize you're really doing it People turn negative guilt trip you and try to sabotage you because everyone likes having someone they can beat up on No one likes seeing the fat guy Suddenly being better shape than them or the broke guy suddenly being having more money than them or the guy who never got late getting laid more than them because the Lowest person on the totem pole is always nice to have there because it's like it's like why all hot girls have fat friends Because even if they put on a few pounds they still look great next to their fat friend Oh, shit I gotta mention, uh, I don't know if you guys know this but my older sister about a year and a half ago She adopted the principles from the convention for eating and uh, you know health and lifestyle She lost 40 pounds in a matter of like four months without working out one time What? So she got a lot of pushback from her friends skepticism.   Oh my god. You're losing too much weight.  But yeah, you see it's it's uh, I've seen male friends Because it's the same thing though, you know, it's like we're talking about the red pill and in game Any kind of like major improvement or change it draws a lot of crabs that to uh drag you back down Yeah, you get things like you're gonna keep using women Dude, I'm gonna end up dude.  So there you go It's more than that though if you think about it, um, even on the married red pill We have a bunch of guys and they all find their measures of success in their own way An example I can think of happened just last week one of my favorite posters there. He goes x attic bro He basically had a codependent wife. He was codependent.  So we got to remember we're telling everybody be these egotistical narcissistic masculine centers And then expecting us to all of a sudden get along because we both all did it's like the crab bucket It's going to be universal It's just gotta you just have to plow through that shit and realize that it's other people with their motivations And you just got to do your own thing Like they don't have to approve and I think it's a great lesson I wish more families and that weren't supportive of men because then you'll know when they're actually succeeding and not just larping When they when they truly understand that I am me and that's it like whatever is outside of this does not count This is too funny. This guy E. T. T. A. So Why don't you go in there, buddy? Well, we got to get roll on here too. Yeah phone lines will be open here in a bit Well, I was just gonna say I I take I as you can see I take those Yes, I am thank you All right, you know why because I make myself my own mental point of boom now, what Fucking special. All right. He says I'm not the one ranting against monogamy.  So who's whoa? Whoa? Where would anybody talk about monogamy? Nobody said shit about that And we're not the same thing another no thanks.  You know that's I hey, thanks for giving us our next topic brother, you know Well, we'll talk about monogamy. We can talk about non-exclusiveness in another show, but thanks for giving us a topic. Goodbye um, what I was gonna say is Well, one of the things is I think that when a guy goes from being blue pill conditioned to reading the red pill Either my books or whoever's books or or you know gets involved in the community. Usually it's it comes after a traumatic experience I mean, we're it's no secret that guys have to hit rock bottom and get zeroed out before they start looking for something on on google to To say, you know, how do I get my girlfriend back or how do I? You know, how do I live a bit or how do I get chicks?  And so There's a process that guys have to go through To really unplug themselves. I I've tried to help. I've got a great series called the reconstruction I've tried to help these guys who are quote-unquote, uh, awakened well married And and that's In that I don't think it should just apply to married guys. It should apply to any guy really but There's a point where you have to decide that you are going to be the most important person in your life And you that's why I always stress mental point of origin because just as I was saying before Uh, you from the time you're like five years old The village teaches you that you should make women your mental point of origin that you should make woman kind You need to be a supportive guy You need to support the the the wants and the needs of women because women are are equals And we all should just get along really well But usually that equality comes comes at the servitude of the guy And so we always constantly say in the mountain in the atmosphere 80% of guys are blue pill 80% of guy and this is being generous 80% of guys are betas And those guys are taught to be servile until they get to a point where a woman has need for them And usually that's around her epiphany phase So you got a guy who for the better part of his life has been taught not to put himself as his mental point of origin But to think of others and to think of women and to be supportive and that can apply in a lot of different ways It could be well, you need to go help your respect your mother, you know or respect your sister or Maybe you're maybe it's from a religious perspective, you know We need to support the women in the church kind of thing And it's always at the expense of that guy You know make you know putting his needs off for the needs of someone else and thinking that in doing so he's going to In some way endear himself to women on whole now What happens is when these guys Read my stuff or they hit rock bottom or they get zeroed out and they find the red pill And they start to make themselves their mental point of origin That's when their families that's when they're friends That's when their social circle sees that change in them They see that change from going about how can I be this people pleaser to fuck you? I'm gonna I'm gonna please myself right and so what happens is Their friends see this and I I want to say it's uh in the 48 laws of power I believe it's number 17 where like people want to see this continual Unpredictable behavior in a guy and so one of the one of the keys to power is to be unpredictable and to shake shit up And to be I mean in some cases you can even inspire terror now.  Just be yourself And everything will be all right.  Well, that's great You can do that but you need to do yeah, you need to be the best version of yourself that you can be to begin with Okay, that is that's yeah, I was gonna say that sells a lot of a lot of movie tickets to disney movies Okay, of course, but what I was gonna say is that in seeing that went though Your social circle, especially for beta guys sees you as a particular category They see you as an archetype.  I'm changing things up. What's the first thing they say?    Why is it? Why is astrology? Uh popular it's popular Fits you into a category that people can predict if they can predict your behavior They can have a degree of control over you and move on And look at what we were just talking about a minute ago when women will uh, Especially with in the age of social media women will pat the other woman on the back This woman can be like 60 pounds over fucking weight and she puts on a new dress and what do her friends say? Oh, you look great You know and that's what that is is that's sort of it's a negative reinforcement It's reinforcing a negative because as long as they can keep you believing That you trying to do that and you not you not taking control over your eating or your your weight just like what uh, Anthony was saying about his sisters They will reinforce that they'll reinforce that. Do these women know that they're negatively reinforcing this? No, I would say definitely not. I think it's something that comes natural to women because that it's it's Oh, that looks cute. No, exactly It doesn't look cute.  They they feel comfortable in that they feel comfortable because it makes them think that Well, this is what I am and this is what I have to work with rather than Thinking outside the box and thinking in a way that they're going to be able to better themselves or become somebody different Like people always hit me up and they'll say well, I'm an introvert.  I could I I've I've worked with guys constantly who do exactly this They change things up for themselves.   It looks fantastic on you honey No, no the blue eyeshadow doesn't make you look like me me from Drew Terry show at all and it's kind of this It's a way of killing off your own competition and women do this subconsciously I think because If you look at it this way who slut shame I've never met a man who slut shames anyone unless you know It was his girl who fucked someone else or his wife who fucked someone else because for a guy to go out and slut shame Someone well you wanted women to put out less but women slut shame the hell out of women were easy because That cheap and sex for all of them like if a guy can go out his house And he'll have eight women lined up to sleep with him this before he gets to the end of the driveway He's not going to be controlled by sex, but if guys know oh, I'm gonna have to put a ring on it to get laid Of course, they're going to do it and I think from another perspective just purely from economics is that We all have a finite amount of time and energy The more of other people's time and energy you can use to your end Better it is for you So if you have a guy who's a pushover who'll come over and help you fix your lawn And that'll take you half the time if you did it alone and he will never ask you to return the favor Of course, you're going to have that guy over every week doing your lawn Goes for goes without saying you get something for nothing Anytime you can get something for nothing you will do it most of the time But I want to definitely touch on something rolo said because I think it's very important that When you categorize yourself those things are not Deterministic, but they have a tendency of being it if you define yourself as an intro work You will tend to become even more of an intro word If you define yourself as not being smart or not being athletic or something like that That will cause you to become even less of it Like I never defined myself as athletic growing up and pretty athletic now because I decided that well, you know It's deliberate practice and putting energy into becoming good at it But I have to realize I have to become good at like my natural thing is to sit and read stuff for that type of thing I have to focus on you know, okay. I can't sit in my house reading all the time. I'll never get laid and I'll never make any money So you have to get to a point where you're like, okay, this is my normal Mode of being but well, I don't have to do this If you do that crawl you'll probably become a millionaire selling pickup ebooks You know, you know want to be pickup artists. So there's always that if you read a lot Become the ultimate keyboard jockey Keyboard gangster 101, uh, we should probably have to some uh callers on this issue. I was gonna say start the phones up All right Oh, shit, there's somebody's phone buzzin. All right, give me about three minutes guys. All right, okay For those of you watching live, uh, if you've had problems or questions about your family Clamping down on you for changing who you are or changing your life improving yourself. This would be a time to do it Give us a call and be happy to try to help you out With non legally binding advice Information purposes only I should I just as sort of as a while we're waiting for calls are just as a follow on here I've uh, I've actually counseled guys who have gone away Like maybe they were in the military and they've been gone away from their social circle for about Four or five years and like who they were before they went off to the military Was the impression that they left in that social circle and then when they come back They come back as different people now. Maybe that's for the better.  And so when they come back to that That social circle after going through that trauma or going through that experience that changed them I think it's important for guys to understand that that is when you're going to be tested I mean we talk about shit tests all the time but your social circle is going to test you and to you know Prod you and see if you're really changed or if you're just fronting because that's one of the things they You know, we always talk about uh, I talk about conventional masculinity and authentic masculinity and how society likes to Test that they like to because they want to redefine that they want to redefine masculinity in their little box And so anything that you could possibly put out there is inauthentic And it's a mask and it's some kind of like facade or some act that you're you're portraying And so we're always trying to determine whether somebody is authentic or if they're non authentic And they're just putting on an act and I think that's one of the things that throws a lot of guys off When they become red pill or they get into pickup artistry and they learn all of the techniques And they don't really learn anything deeper than just the techniques because They always tell me they say, you know, uh, I can't keep doing this because this is seems like an act Or it seems like I'm just trying to be somebody who I'm not rather than internalizing and understanding red pill Truths and making it part of who they are and part of their personality They they never really make you know cross that Abyss I guess that they have to internalize this stuff so that it becomes part of who they are And it becomes part of their like reflexive responses And people will always try to drag you back They will always try to get that control back over you and they will always try to push you back into Who you used to be so I think that's something that people really need Especially if you if you're just unplugged or you're just starting to get into this kind of stuff You got to understand that this is going to be a test This is going to be something they're going to say are you really who you say you are because it's my opinion that people We we are who we say we are it's it's our personnel We can change our personality whenever we want to do that It's just that you know acting it out and making that change in our heads and knowing that we need to make that change All that's just always going to be tested especially by your family because your family's known you the longest Yeah, what comes to mind too is that masculinity is very powerful It literally builds civilizations and empires and you know nations So it's it's in that sense in a red pill sense It's understandable why there's a desire to control it why they want to I mean in this case kill all men you know that other ship that Um, I mean with the you know the pickup days that may that would make a lot less sense I think to a purple pill guy or would have made a lot less sense to me, but nowadays it's like yeah, I get it It's horrible, but I understand why there's a desire to control it.  I think Yeah, I agree Yeah, I think the reason why and we'll get to the callers here in just a second I think the reason why Specifically women hate on red pill truth because they know that there is truth to it.  No, they know that we're telling the truth That's why they're trying to stop the message because they want they still want girls to be able to get new car prices for used car Pussy and that's just not the case anymore I think one of the things too the role of really open minds to is that uh, the red pill and his work and You know Carl's work and everyone's work in this community. It makes men so powerful that it puts them over the edge They're not just powerful to the point that they're still within a little bit of control They're I mean text isn't command of his marriage. He's in command of his relationship That doesn't mean his wife has to stay there. She's there by choice But he is the one who has the power and the control in that relationship and she likes that And I guess you know women are just fearful that or you know betas and stuff But that's that's unique like to pick up pick up artistry and learning game does not do that It makes you more powerful, but you're still until you accept the red pill and take it I don't think you're past that threshold You know you cannot cross that abyss or it's very difficult to do so without The community and stuff. I think there's definitely Go ahead. Go ahead. I bet no the most powerful thing I ever brought up or I'm not sure if I read it or if it was something I concluded or whatever, but You are always in control as long as you're willing to deal with the consequences because You don't have to stay at your job.  You're probably going to get to you know jail time for it But you can't do it if you're willing to deal with the consequences And a lot of this is building up your own ability to To tolerate those consequences because if your family is going to guilt-trip you or they're going to try and use shame bombs or They're going to have one of those triangulated.  Or you can even associate the pain with the form of pleasure like this is good for me This is going to make my life better the more it hurts. Yeah, whatever you have to do Let's do let's do cause let's do it donovan You're muted donovan There we go. All right, cool. We got we got a few callers on the line Um, let's go ahead and hit the phones now. Pete in michigan.  Hey, what's up guys? Can you hear me? Yes, sir All right, my question is really more about a day game Kind of what I think carl touched on the very first few minutes of the podcast Um, but how he says he like doesn't really have time for day game Um, I'm curious like I'm 24 and I work out four days a week and you know I'm in pretty good shape and I do day game. I approach daily. I normalized it So like I don't really have any anxiety doing it But the success rate with it is like really bad and I don't know if it's me or if it's just this hard That's how it works And it's like go ahead Yeah, no day game. It's hard dude. I've got everybody's got tons of rejections What's even the the best guys are talking like two to ten percent? Yeah, if that if that Once you start although like for some of these people you start building networks and as you get networks friends of friends of friends The stuff gets easier over time I find that day game is a nice little thing to do and it's great if you're traveling a lot But I mean eventually you're gonna want to leverage that into some social groups And then the extended friends are where that day game really starts to get the uh payoff you're looking for.  Yeah, I was gonna say is that Depending on the domain that you choose and in my book Day game is a domain for game. Okay Two guys that I would say if you want to if you haven't already Picked them up would be uh nick krauser. He's really good at day game And then tom terero is another guy who's really good at day game There's some other guys too, but those are the guys I can think of off the top of my head um And I was gonna say is that you one of the things I think that guys particularly if you're if you're dating and you're in the Pickup artistry and stuff don't get domain dependent So if you're in the day game great, and if it works for you great I would also say that day game is probably far more difficult than any other form of game Because you're just you're basically doing cold calls is what you're doing You're just seeing a chick that you like on the street and you're gonna go out things You know What's it called a yad stop or something like that? I can't remember how the how they But uh, I would say that um Mix it up a little bit A lot of people like this and you can be you can become domain dependent on going to the clubs or going to a bar or Maybe you're domain dependent on social circle because you're you're comfortable with that And I would suggest get out of that comfort zone and see what works for you because a lot of the same Principles will work in different domains But if you're constantly stuck in one and you're constantly following this sort of routine and this formulaic way of doing it Maybe it works for you and you keep coming back to that same watering hole because it's been successful for you before I would suggest Get out there and start mixing it up a little bit I'll say this you should have Okay girl Now the one I wanted to say about day game It's very very labor-intensive because you kind of have to set off a lot You can't have it as part of your life, you know Approach the girl you see at the grocery store Approach the girl at the guessing and everyone should have those skills But if you're setting off time like I used to do in new city you set off two or three hours to go out and do day game That eats up a lot of time for Usually very little reward and even let's say you do 100 approaches You're really effective that day and maybe you get 20 numbers and then you get five of them to meet up And then maybe you're able to take one or two of them to success and that's going to be a Bit of an issue but with if you get something like I travel a lot So if you get something like tinder gold and one of the things I started doing is I'll just set my location to whatever city I'm going to be in next week You can line up Girls that are ready to go out with you when you get to town and between that and using snap and messenger you can kind of Get the pipeline flowing before you hit the city and once you get to the city You can still do your day game approaches when you're going through the airport When you're at the hotel when you're at the store, etc So you're maximizing your time instead of you know, having a lot of wasted time I mean with wi-fi on the plane you could fly from chicago in the morning And you could swipe be swiping and chatting with chicks in new york when you land in new york You have a chick meeting you and picking you up at the airport I'll add that That for sugar babies advanced planning like this literally location planning and advance a few days or week That's really effective because it makes you look really rich or even more rich than your eight million dollar net worth On the seeking arrangements and real quick.  Let's go and hit the phone lines. We've got a guy from australia on the line And of course, we all like to run our mouth. So I couldn't hear what his name was. What was your name? This is australia Yeah, I like is uh, we're just calling the cars. I yeah, let's do it. Call him. That's funny. I love it That'd be like me calling that'd be like me calling and say my name's tyrone Nobody would believe it. Nobody would believe it. All right taz. What you got man? Hey lads, well, I just like to say In australia, we've got a bit of a A bit of a problem with now suicide and I just want to say that you guys are helping prevent it Okay, so I've watched your shows She's two to three years now. I've got a hold of roller to mossy through richard cooper Um And I was at the bottom of the barrel my wife left me I was a stay at home father for three years. I didn't know what I was going to do with my life Luckily, I stumbled on to these guys And with the help from you guys You guys helped me build myself up. I now work as a paramedic in the mining sector making well over triple figures And I worked six months of the year But my issue is this I have a six year old daughter. She's the world. She's my world I work week on week off and when I get home I have issues that women love the single bad thing, but they don't want anything to do with it as in relationship wise Or it never seems to last My yeah, my pretty much my question is has more to do with my daughter and How what can I do to to make her teenage years and early 20s Better and safeguarded for her If that makes sense Yeah, uh, listen, thanks for the call taz. I think we'll kick this off to rollo because I think he he can probably answer this question Better than any of us.   I would say that that works as a form of social proof in In within the set of women that are looking for a long-term a long-term partner They're looking for somebody who can you know prove that they've been Uh, a good father in some way Uh, you know people always say that well if you got a wedding ring that you're going to be more attractive That's that's not necessarily true. Um, I think that it's just that It depends on what that that particular woman is looking for at that particular time in her life So yeah, it might work for you if you're if you're dating a woman who is a little bit older Or maybe in her epiphany phase and looking for a long-term situation But it's going to be completely different if you're dealing with a woman who's like say 22 23 years old Um, who is looking at you more from an arousal state rather than an attraction state And so yeah, it might even work against you in that situation because that woman wants to get with a guy Who is not going to have to worry about whose weekend it is with the kid So Keep that in mind. I'd say that's that's the first thing I would say is that it it applies to attraction not necessarily arousal so much And the other thing is it's and I hate to say this is a liability But it's it's a liability in that that is what women expect of you They they put you into sort of that category of he would make a great dad or he already has made a great dad because look Here he has his kids, right? The other thing is you're going to find those kind of women when you like are taking your daughter to ballet lessons Or whatever it is that she does, you know, sort of extracurricularly You're going to find those single mommies there who are going to want to find an already pre-established single daddy That is something you have to be really careful of because you don't want to get involved with the single mommy You want to get involved with somebody who is wants to start a life with you or It doesn't have the baggage that most single mothers have so those are just some warning signs to keep in mind when you're when you're dating I have a comment on this after is text or ryan going to happen. I have something to add that I think it'll be pretty useful I think you're next Yes, no, no yet. I got something to put on it Text you're muted I just had a quick second thing go go It's actually based on something ryan told me ryan commented that the way I operate On tender even in person a lot and then even seeking arrangements Uh, I think because of my company. I kind of have like the beta bucks thing going they look at this company They see this button literally when they walk in the house immediately And that's like, oh is this guy a millionaire? Is he rich or whatever? And you know, a lot of them are going to assume that they see youtube They see a hundred thousand something subscribers. They think billionaire or millionaire probably their candies voluntarily just drop right At the right well, they can also go the opposite direction though.    So I come in like super strong But I think it's a good balance with what I have going on else in my life And as you might want to try that to the extent it doesn't make you look like a completely crazy dude And taz if I read it right your question was a part of it was also like, how do you make sure that your daughter doesn't get Confused by all these retards filling her head with nonsense. Is that correct? How's he gone? Okay, uh, yeah, when he was that that was what I took from it and Best I've seen from my I have three sisters and they essentially took their role model for what men they should date Based on their father. So I'd say your best thing to do is be Be the best guy in her life. I'm Not in a sexual way, but gamer like she was any other girl You got to be her best option. And so that's the best you can do is so when people fill her head with nonsense She looks to you for guidance At least seeing it from that from the children side of things. That's my two cents You know as far as uh anything else we talk about red pill is maintaining your frame at all times and your daughter needs to see that And when your daughter sees you rolling over to anybody any other woman She's going to think that's the way she's supposed to do when she gets older women tend to marry guys like their daddy And I think that's the that's the thing you want to set up and make sure that you Are setting that role model for what a good healthy strong man is and what a good leader of a family is And at that point, um, you know, you've done your job as far as hooking up. I think rollo hit it hard I mean single mommies have issues man And of course, I guess, you know, that's that's the one thing to watch out for but Yeah, the one one last thing real quick here is if you uh pick up book three positive masculinity I have an entire section dedicated to uh raising daughters So that it'd be easier for you to simply read that then for me to give you a half hour dissertation real quick rollo If if you're a man and you don't want kids or moms off the table I mean, I know my answer, but I'd be interested to hear what uh, yeah, but I think well I think they should be uh only because I think that a lot of guys get wrapped up in that and and they the The prospect of getting too deep with a single mommy is really tough Also, a lot of guys will say well, you know, I date single mothers, but I only keep them at arms distance And all we do is just have sex when she wants to have sex and then I'm done All right, I guess I can see that but if it beyond a fuck buddy I I would not advise that to most guys only because uh, those women are Are looking for something based on attraction rather than arousal for the most part And if you can find a single mother who is based on who has her Her priorities are based on arousal with you and all she wants to do is have sex with you That might work out for a while I mean that might be something that you might want to enjoy for a little bit But understand that you're going to bounce or just keep it out again. Keep them at arms distance and and uh, just Be be careful about that because Most these women want to at some stage make you another another father They want to make you somebody who they you know, eventually they want to have Sort of long-term security because even if women let's say they have a couple of kids They get divorced and they're get back into the the sexual market Uh, their value is very very much decreased and they know that and so they tend to be that I think one of the guys a lot of guys tend to say like well, I prefer Single mommies.  So You know, you can enjoy single mothers sure But just understand that they are temporary and they're just fun for an hour while you move on to something else But they can be a plate. I mean certainly if you're dating on exclusively, I don't see why not but just keep them at arms Text yeah, so Yeah, I my life is an open book man on the internet I I put way too much of my crap out there. Some might say it's a comic book But uh, you know way back in the day. I married a single mom I mean I did and I'd never been married before and uh, I got lucky on the on the girl I married but having to raise another guy's kid Especially a daughter.  She doesn't introduce the kid beta bucks She wants you around her kid<PHONE_NUMBER> is the number to call jonathan From modern life dating is in the is in the motherfucking building. What's up, brother? mld for life going good um 244 a.m in tokyo, but I always tune in to you know get wisdom um This question is just for everybody because uh, what rollo said was exactly true When I told people in orlando that I was gonna go to tokyo and pursue my dream Uh, I got ridiculed.   I go back home and I visit everybody Everybody's doing the same thing. The only thing now is that they're all fatter So my question is for the guys in the group who have done this already um Did you ever go back to your hometown? Did you re-establish those relationships or do you just have to kind of let it go and let it be or I am 32 years old. So, you know, I'm a very Great success in tokyo. I don't I don't want to wear I don't I don't want to go back to america, but I do trigger people by wearing my make america great again hat over here Uh What are they gonna do beat you up? Oh, yeah, I did go back. I did the 20 year high school reunion. I took my girl down there Saw the family again. I made nice with my stepfather.  It's like I haven't traveled around the world to have stories all day and I'm like So that's pretty much. Yeah, that's what you're gonna get when you go back Which is weird. I didn't mention anything either that meant she scoured my facebook before the the reunion just to see Oh, yeah So the best you're gonna hope for is people living vicariously through you and then getting mad at you for Showing them what they could have done if they put some effort in so I wouldn't recommend it go ahead carl. I'll jump in after you Well, I have this theory that you have people who peak very early on and they think things are going to continue from there and I think anger and Hatred are really the only two motivators there are in the world because you either get pissed off About someone telling you something or about a situation or you hate the situation so much that you're like I'm just never going to end up like that and you just put all your energy into avoiding it And then you have people who have it pretty pretty decently and I think comfort is dangerous because if you're comfortable in your hometown You're comfortable with the same friends.   I have no desire to do any of that That was then this is now however I don't need to do that because we have a thing called facebook now and all of the people who were Friends of mine and high and high school decided they want to they want to look me up They can look me up But I tell you there's a there's a group of people that I still basically know from from high school and It's pretty much exactly what modern life dating guy was saying here Was you know, they haven't done anything. They haven't really gone anywhere, you know Before I was even really rollo tamasi. I was doing a lot of shit As a you know as the principal creative for an import export for liquor brands I was going to belgium in germany and france and A lot of times in holland went to panama. You know multiple times been to aruba been doing all lots of different Things, you know with my life and just going around. I've got a lot of really good stories too to go with that I've got a little bad stories as well. So They only want to hear a bunch of good stories, right? But it's interesting how that how first of all how people just say stagnant and for somebody like me that's really kind of Like an alien thought i'm like, how can you just stay in Pasadena, california?  And so like no, I'm not asshole, you know And so I I think it's it's it's there's nothing more vindicative Especially in this day We got to think about we live in a time right now Where we can follow a woman that we are a girl that we knew back when we were 15 years old And that woman is 50 years old right now and we can see how she's gone through Oh, we can see how the red pill works and red pill You know intersexual dynamics works just by following how she's gone from you know got pregnant at 20 With some alpha dude raised her kid the kids that you know the daughters and in college now and now she's looking for You know, she's trying to find a guy to you know to settle down with now that she's like 45 years old and you can just look at this Yeah, you just look at this this progression And we're we're living in a time where this is the only time we've ever been or the first time I should say that we've ever been able to do that so Remember back in the day you would have to go back to You'd have to go back to your high school reunion to find out what other people they're doing You can find that out right now if you and trust me they'll tell us girls love facebook.   Um, you cannot do a Tricking photo shop, you know and you can't put a filter on your on your face when you're actually at a reunion And you have two types of people like really say you've got the haves and you got the have nots You got the guy that's proud of the fact that he's living in in his parents house because his parents died And he kept the house. I mean there's that guy. I met that guy and he thinks it's the greatest thing in the world He's a have not you know and that's that's okay But man the have nots are the crabs in the bucket man. They do not like the haves and it's it's hilarious I mean it's fun. I I cherish those moments facebook's a devil You can hide it all on facebook and just have your greatest hits there But man, you can't you can't put on enough makeup when you're alive and in person to thank everybody out So i'm i'm 29 now So i'm at the point where a few people have died from high school But mostly not i'm not quite you know as old as you guys or texts But i am seeing force of 29 all the red pill stuff that role is you know mapped out with his timelines and stuff like that So all these women that i went to high school with are all crashing into the wall now And the dudes are getting grown up into marriages that are earning up a divorce And uh, there's a small collection guys i went to school with that follow my work pretty closely And they'll ping these guys, you know listen anthony look at what he's doing They'll they'll send videos and books and stuff including the rational male These dudes don't listen and there was a guy last year that he was married for six months The chick was bpd.  It's so consistent that it's like people who deny the red pill in these timelines It's just it's absurd. You see it.  It's and people don't listen. They don't want to hear it I think the first brilliant thing is going to be the the girls who are like 10 years old now because the millennial girls Have been using social media since they were about 15 16 since it was became ubiquitous But think about the first generation where you'll be able to follow a girl's instagram profile from six to 66 there you go That's going to be the that's going to be brilliant when you can kind of see that whole Rational male chart in practice and with pictures Meet the memes not just pictures but memes the independent strong independent women memes all the way Yeah, next call. Let's do another call man. I'm waiting for the haters man. No, but no haters have called you I'm surprised Every week I pop off and sell here you go. Come on. Listen. I challenge people all the time All right, we'll call the show they never they never show up 914 and 205 by 356 is the number call if you want to get on the show Ryan in north carolina you're on live with the red man group. What's your question? Hey guys, uh, I gotta say thank you all for what you're doing I'm like 19. I really really really appreciate it. It's great to have this base That I can build off of when I reach like 30 or something My question is with the crab bucket mentality. How do you think it affects the what to call? A relationship with the red pill male and there's a second part to it. How do you think as a red pill male? You'd be able to combat that I don't I'm not sure I understand your question You mean as a red pill male your relationship with another red pill male or no as a relationship with a LTR let's say okay I'll use my life as an example my girlfriend my ex We got together. We broke up recently You you already know the story about that. I'm Doing my own thing. She's doing her own thing But during the relationship her family was really leaning towards. Hey, don't submit to this man.  Right? So I was wondering how do you think that I was trying to like see if I could pick you guys's brain to figure out like My mind was basically captain save a hole. It's not her fault. But yeah, it's like you're not gonna be able to save her Just gotta let her go find another one. There's always more No, I I'm just saying like as a whole like How do you think that works? How do you think the crab bucket mentality? And is there a way to prevent this from happening? So what you're asking is how do you prevent your your girl from becoming a victim of the crab bucket mentality? Is that what you're saying?  You don't need to submit to a man She's gonna listen to that you want to know why because it's easy, right?  She's got to save herself Yeah, I'll deal. I was just gonna say is that The crab bucket mentality doesn't necessarily have to relate to a guy who is red pill. There's going to be Uh, there's going to be this idea. I want to say audiology But I guess I sort of this understanding that a woman should be a certain way and again What we were talking about before how the blue pill teaches guys to be, you know, sort of these servile Um blue pill guys who are you know later in life?  I'm going to give up that control because I really love this guy and I really want to you want to have his kids I want to start family with him and I want a more Conventional complementary relationship with this guy. Well, there's a whole world out there that's going to tell her You don't do that. Why would you do that?   Why would you want to do something like that? Like I I'll say that I'll give you this one really quick story I can remember this one time when uh, my wife had Called me on my cell phone and wanted to ask permission to spend some money on some makeup one time And I was this is when I was working a nine to five And of course the women who I was with The group of women that I was with on lunch where she was calling me Overheard this and what did they say?  You know, she that's the way that our relationships is so what's the what's the next?  I have a texting question if we want to hop to the next one Yeah, I mean we've got we've got another caller on the line. I can bring men here The caller and then after that we'll hit the text question excellent. Um, mcgellen texas you are on live with the red man group What's your question? Uh, thanks for having me. I just you know first thing. Um, you know rollo I'm reading your book. I'm on the appreciation chapter something about one third Along the book and it's funny because whenever rollo speaks It's like he's speaking from the book, you know, sometimes he repeats things Ver verbatim and um, you know carl. I also do use the tender gold strategy Um, and then donovan, you know, I've been following you since You know, you've been doing the o shape other pill For a lot and I said it's pretty cool. But um You know, so okay, so let me just frame My question first before I ask it So I've I'm sorry to get to the question. Uh, let me keep it under 60 seconds Yeah, sure. Sure. Sure. Okay. So I've been away from my family for about seven eight years now Just due to the fact that I've been going to school out of state So I've wrapped up undergrad graduate school and now I'm working. I'm a pretty good job, right? But throughout the entire period for them this far, uh, I was kind of just kept at an arm's length for my feeling like I didn't really necessarily, um, give me much attention or You know just really weren't in involved With me in any kind of way, but now that I'm doing well if you're trying to come around And there's been times where you know, I've I've I've noticed You know episodes of shaming that I should do this that I should support this or that But I'm kind of at the point now where You know, I I think law 38, you know, it's kind of the best way to go Hello Law 38 why? Hello, this guy worked his whole life to build up value He's finally at the point where people want to cash in on it and now his plan is just to go along to get along like no man He I guess the call or whatever I can't worry. He's going he's doing the exactly epiphany phase thing where he works until he's 28 And now everybody else wants to settle down. He just worked hard at us. Here's his prize Just ignore all that.   That's when women Decide that they oh my goodness.   Go read betas and waiting. Those are the two that I would suggest Yeah, they want to get away with robbery basically Yeah, the the show the bachelor red and of course everybody knows that uh, that I you know, listen man I'm here for the drama, right? I'm not going to lie. We all have beta traits. That's my beta trait It's got red pill truth in it But the the the bachelorette is 28 years old interestingly enough all of the bachelors in waiting 27 28 29 30 years old And if I enroll or correct me if I'm wrong, that's where that line is Like where where a woman in a man's sexual market value are about the same as at 28 29 years old This is on the ascent and hers is on the line and you better believe it. You better believe it Uh, yeah, what was that text question? We were yeah, let's get to that. You guys hear me pretty good Let's do it. Yes, sir From ryan I'm a 27 year old medical student who just started rotations at hospital in western new york. I'm new to the area I'll be here for two years I basically blew off my social life and relationships for the last couple of years in order to study and take care of business Every time I start thinking I need a girlfriend My dad keeps telling me not to worry about it Not to worry about women keep going until i'm done with my residency But that won't be until i'm 33 35 I have a game plan for my life and I know he's looking out for me But I don't want to avoid women for another six years I know some women can be big uh be a big help support wise While it was good completely ruined my plans How should I play this one? Oh my god real quick this guy this guy one He just wants pussy right and he thinks he has to be in a relationship to get it And he hasn't figured that out yet number two. He's giving women too much credit No man needs a woman who's going to be my rock. Listen, man If i'm going through hard times, I don't need a woman's support I need her body and I need her compliance. I'm a man. I can handle it on my own You don't need a support system in a woman.  I mean this guy I don't think he realizes he can just be you know, playing woman It doesn't seem to occur to him, but hopefully he'll figure it out. He needs to this kid needs to read Another post they need to be dream killers. That's it's also in I think it's in the first book too He needs a drug dealer friend. Yeah Well, I can tell you right now just just listening to this kid. It sounds as if uh, he's very much Been raised very much by a blue pill father, but a hill father who stressed the importance of Building himself up and making himself into something which in and of itself is not a bad thing. It's just that For a guy to say, oh, yeah, don't worry about it. The women will come later on I don't know. It might be a religious thing too. I'm not really sure. I'm maybe I'm I'm Detecting a little bit of a religious side of things. I agree. It could be that It also might be the dad's foot in the bill for this damn thing and he wants to see his kid get through And not get derailed by a single mom That's true. He doesn't want to see his investment get fucked up that that's very true and I think that the guy probably is one of these dudes who Could not fathom Spinning plates. He couldn't fathom being non-exclusive You know going out having a good time, you know being careful about it.   He's been dealing with fallout from some chick giving her Her facebook or something in a wedding two weeks ago for two weeks now Just can't let that stuff go guys. He had a he had a second part to his question too I don't know if you guys can hit on it, but I can his second part of his question is short Also, do you guys support james marshall from the natural lifestyles company? His material seems real and normal compared to the mystery method stuff. Thank you I don't know if you guys are familiar james marshall in the natural lifestyles He's spoken at the convention many times. He's one of the australian dude Yeah, he's the most famous australian dude. We have what we've two two famous james Spoken in the past He runs the company the natural lifestyles kind of like rsd, but it's smaller and they do higher-end workshops Better sheep than rsd. Yoan, so I gotta give him credit there I'm not a winner tyler. I can't remember which one is which oh and oh and is tyler I'll say james marshall is james marshall is a solid dude. He's a good businessman He's a good seducer like is there he really has a shit together with that But he came from a very a literally feminist background I had a speech at the convention in tampa 2014 at 21 con He literally called his mother a card-carrying feminist His father left, you know at some point in childhood And that's where he comes from that that background and that shows and what he talks about So in my opinion james is a seducer. He does understand Women to some degree, but especially pick up in seduction but He's taking he's probably taking the purple pill as far as you can go without blowing up your life Past that point. It's getting roped into something that's going to destroy it, which he hasn't done For it to his credit, but yeah, I mean he's he's a purple pill guy. He's just really good at teaching seduction That's my stance on james marshall right now. It's all a dude, but You know very pro-feminist which is bizarre It's one of the only speakers in the entire history of the convention like 120 speakers that actually likes feminism Now is we almost had a huge falling out over that we uh, we didn't talk for a while and that was a big deal But we ended up putting the talk out and let you know, the viewers kind of deal with it Who have universally slammed it good at game does not necessarily imply that the guy is red pill aware Maybe he's he's really like a lot of the guys that I see at rsd are very either purple pill or they're straight up blue pill But they're very good at seduction and they're very good at getting the girl.  Well, he plates and you know the stuff I think is I think actually he when he spoke at the convention in miami that was his last one he spoke at 2016 His girlfriend at the time actually brought him another woman for a threesome On his birthday. This is pretty this is pretty routine for him But he comes from that strong feminist background though Which is really unusual and even the other purple speakers would kind of clamp down on for that It was like bizarre. It's like guys like mystery who I mean if you've been reading if you've bred the game I mean they start on the first freaking chapter Neil Strauss describes him as being suicidal And this is a guy who is like very very good at game I mean basically wrote mystery method for fuck's sake But the guy is has never really killed off that blue pill part of himself or that beta part of himself So he can get women But he once he gets in with him he reverts back to being blue pill and thinking that he can get all of his blue blue pill idealisms Uh satisfied by his you know, what would amount to red pill practice or red pill knowledge And it never really works out for these guys and consequently what happens they become suicidal because they never really crossed that gulf Yeah, I don't know who the who this james guy is but I but let me Before we get to eric in sweden and thanks for being patient. What do you guys think about this? Maybe the guy doesn't maybe maybe the guy wants to get involved with a woman now because maybe he wants a woman He can trust right like maybe he doesn't maybe he doesn't want to He wants a woman who's going to be there through his struggle through medical I mean, I don't know maybe because of course everyone every woman wants you when you're a doctor But very few women want you when you're in medical school. So maybe looking for a woman who you know, you can trust a lot of I don't know Date as many women as possible and as soon as one gives you a red flag ditch it Eventually that something's going to fall through the sieve that's at that 80% good enough for him Maybe at that point though, it still doesn't change the plan played everything. You've got legs Okay That's my thought on it. Anyway, that's how I got mine. I would agree. I would agree I would agree and then listen if she really loves you man, she'll stick around man She'll stick around for the president nine one four two five five three five six eric in sweden I do appreciate your patient man Uh, you got a bunch of guys who talk for a living and we all yammer on But eric in sweden, you're on the line with the red man girl. What's your question, man? All right. Thanks, man. Thanks for having me guys. Uh, I have a question. I'm 24 years old Currently spinning a couple of plates And uh, my question is with regards to risk management when spinning plates And uh, it's with regards to one of my plate my current plates And she falls super good into my frame The thing is, uh, it's the guys she's surrounded by on a daily basis Uh, these guys are a bunch of beta orbiters Who one of them uh told her he has never kissed a girl. He has never Been laid and he's 21 years old And recently he got a tattoo on his forearm saying two man humans And it's what was a red flag for me straight away. I was like Uh, I was sort of thinking about how should you manage risk about the people hanging with your plate? Although your plate Yes Uh acting just fine Thank you very much guys. Do you understand my question? Yeah All right. Who wants to go first? Yeah, okay, I was gonna say I I'll pick up here real quick. Um, I think guys get a little Oh, I think especially red pill guys Shouldn't do this, but I think that when guys have a woman who's in their frame or they are the Most most women are always going to keep a beta orbiter. They're always going to have that plan b Uh, even even women who are married. I think there was like some poll I think I've got this I've got a post called plan b and there's there's an infographic on there and it shows the I think that was it 65 or 70 of women have like a plan b guy to go to Yeah, yeah, it's probably higher than that. But we're in in this guy's case. Uh, I believe he's spinning plate So I'm gonna say he's single. Um, but I think that Uh, red pill guys need to understand that beta orbiters are not a threat The woman is if you're if she's already like deferring to your frame They are not a threat. In fact, they are an opportunity because all they do is show if you I'm Assuming you can play this the right way.    Guess what these beta orbiters hang around your plates Those are guys who are stuck in the friend zone and what do guys get stuck in the friend zone do? I don't know, but I know what they don't do.         I say you do we got any more? Yeah, we it's getting close. So yeah we are getting close. Uh, we got airy code We got kevin in canada and we have a woman in florida Oh, go with that do that one. Yeah kevin. I'm gonna put you on the back burner for just a second. Let's get to him though We will we will do Listen I listen I've talked to my anger management counselor about this.  What is your question? You wonder how this kind of stuff affects the daughter that you might have. Oh, here we go. Yes, I do I've got a daughter. I've raised her till she was 20 years old. There it is anything else. Yeah, how did she turn out actually? She's doing really well. She's uh, let's see. She's going into her junior year In college right now. She's got a 4.3 GPA. I think She is a pageant winner I'm not going to tell you which one because I don't want people looking her up and she's gorgeous And she knows your role it's a machine.  Okay for the last 20 years. Okay, she's only known I've been Rolla Tomasi over the last like four or five but Still, I think that the red pill and what I have internalized is red pill knowledge and Understanding of intersexual dynamics has helped form her and I'll tell you right now This is my daughter is a young woman who has a lot going for her. She understands She she's she's she sees shit coming That sometimes that I don't even see with the guys that she's had and she got a boyfriend right now But there was a time before that Where it's like she would even say this guy's alpha this guy's beta and she would she was even referring to She was making references to stuff that I was talking about that. I didn't even know that she knew about Yeah, and so and the guy that she's with right now is very much like me We share some of the same hobbies. We you know, he's in really good shape.  I don't know if that's gonna happen. It's kind of young I don't want him to see him get married just right away But I have seen the kinds of guys that she accepts and the kinds of guys that she declines on and I would say that she's very much. I don't think she knows this I don't think I think she just sort of reflexively responds to two guys in a way that I probably have trained because It was me setting that example. Just like what Tex was saying earlier. You need, you know kids Don't listen to what you say. They watch what you do She sees that she sees the relationship between my wife and I've been married for 22 years. What does that say about the red pill? Okay, what does that say about Rolla Tomasi? What does that say about the rational now? We've been you know, I can I've got that as experience. I've got 40 notches under my belt when I was young and single I got it There's a lot of things that I can talk to I could speak to but my real I and I don't usually like to use my relationship as an example here, but There's you know, when you look at the success between my wife and I we have a complementary Relationship I control the frame. She's happy to be in that. I don't I'm I'm not into BD and SNM But you know, we have this, you know, I have a I have a superior dominant personality above hers and that's the way things work out and my my daughter has seen this throughout the years and Consequently, it has changed her into who she is today.   You're not and that's where these problems come up You have a follow-up with with this You absolutely can certainly My main part with that, how do you kind of think about it if your daughter is growing up and she knew about your past? um, I diagnosed PTSD and I'm just kind of wondering how how is it that you can justify the plate spinning theory while raising a daughter? It's okay. Whoa. Whoa. Whoa. Whoa. Wait a minute. Hold on. Hold on. Where are you deployed? Wait? Hold on. What what does PTSD have to do with anything?  It seems like a lot of Society is saying that if you're Troubled in any way that you've been damaged. I if I ever had a son. I think the red pill is really good for him But well, here's my question to you then it if you had a Strong father who was protective. Do you think that would have prevented the damage? Or would that or did you have like a really good strong dad and then in spite of that it still happened? I honestly don't know. It's just like when you I was trying to look it up to see What is going on? I never had a relationship or anything and The messages are kind of like you're only valuable for what you look like. Yes, that's that's true Oh, yeah, that's fine though. That's not it's not a character assassination on girls You can be what you look like same as guys Doesn't matter. It's you have a Well, you have a common problem and the problem I think most women have is they cannot separate sexual market value from their personal worth That they they think that just because they are at us I mean you can be a wonderful person and you can be intelligent and you have your shit together and you can be this You know wonderful Developed, you know human being but that's not going to affect your sexual market value and when you're dealing with a guy When you're dealing with new guys as a relationship there you're unfortunately, this is just how it is We don't think I would love it for if it were if it were what was on the inside that counts But what's on the outside that counts as well? And so it comes to mind for me too is why wouldn't your daughter? Why wouldn't the daughter want her father to be successful with the opposite sex to know that that was in his history? That's that's a good thing. Well, I mean, it sounds to me like it sounds and hopefully she's I don't know if she's still on the line But I hope so Listen what she's doing real quick here is again She's and her from me from wrong here. Erie code 863 you're trying to make women equal to men, right? So what if your daughter knew about your past sexual history as a man? Guess what your daughter? Okay, or like It's kind of like feeling like I am worthless and that there's nothing good and I'm trying to figure out Sweet listen, I don't know what to tell listen I get it but I don't know what to tell you like just like Rola said you could be we could have a master's degree You could have a diversified portfolio You could have the you could have the world's greatest personality But if you're not sexually attracted to attracted attractive to us men of value aren't going to be interested now I will tell you this if you are a mildly attractive have a good personality You don't fall for the wiles of feminism. You don't have any discernible slut tells you're gonna have a lot more options out There in terms of long-term relationship material then you would if you were a hot girl who was a slut So yes, if you're listen if you weren't born with with if you didn't hit the genetic lotter If you got hit with the ugly stick as we as we say in grade school you're out of luck But guess what guys are the same way and guys don't have it as good as girls That's just how it is at least ugly girls get laid at least ugly girls can have relationship with ugly guys ugly guys There are no ugly studs right a lot ugly blood running around out there One of the best pieces of advice I ever gave my son several years ago He's so looking so focused trying to find a girlfriend I said you know quit looking so hard and try to be somebody worth finding and I would say the same thing that to the color in Terms of your self-worth be somebody worth finding and I mean you'll find that you're getting in shape and taking care of Yourself and having a positive attitude and being nice to people attracts a lot of men a lot and Well, I mean look at it beyond just the physical though It's like I always I got a post called value added and really it's it's very easy for women to get into shape It's very easy for women to be to be what what guys would call fuckable Okay, you would have to pass the boner test But what doesn't what's hard to do for these women is to sort of unlearn What they've learned for a very long time and that is this Empowerment narrative and to not be feminine to expect, you know to be Entitled to certain things about men If you're a really nice person if you're there's a lot that that goes along with that But I think that a lot of women these days do not Have any added value like we'll say beyond the physical. What else is there better? You know, what is there for for women or for men to be appreciative of women? Well, most women don't care about making themselves pleasing for other men because that goes against that narrative It goes against the femme powerment side of things and so what they do is they consequently just think that they are these self You know these self-contained, you know Autonomous just beings or these things right and what happens is they they turn themselves off from being nice They turn themselves off from being feminine They turn themselves off from all of this stuff because they believe that they are entitled to that and so What does that do it commodifies women and commodifies their sexuality because if there's no value added beyond just the sexual Then what all what are men going to be interested in they're just going to be interested in that sexual side of things because everything else is a wash So what I'm saying right now is you kind of fit in at least from what I'm getting here Is you kind of fit into the opposite right now where it's like you've done it You've done a lot to develop yourself and a lot of women do this too They've become professionals at whatever they're doing.   Differs to to their husband's frame Not not a pushover.  Well, my last question is I'm still an undergrad right now, and I'm trying to figure out I wanted to start a business But I wanted to do it like with somebody that I married and I'm just trying to think right now How is that possible? I'm trying to read about co-CEO's and I don't really want to be a career woman and I'm just trying to figure out Like what's going on is that considered being too ambitious if I wanted to do it as a partnership Yeah, you're you're trying to have it. Yeah, you're no no you're you're trying to have it both ways That that's what's happening.  They're they're they're they're a legal partner They're their wife who's a who's a junior partner at a law firm and rises to the ranks again Congratulations to her but she's had to exhibit masculine traits for so long She forgets how to be a woman Secretaries don't forget how to be women because there's really no room up the secretarial ladder So at this point you got a choice to make you can either start a successful business and understand You're gonna have to sacrifice some of that femininity or you can find you can find a man Who's worth submitting to but you cannot have it both ways I'll tell you that I'm just gonna drop this in here really quick If the best advice I can give you is understand this your professionalism your careerism your education and all this stuff That has built up your ego to be you know this woman of the future this new woman in the new age kind of thing Or you're gonna be a CEO or whatever all of that. Hey great. You know what? None of that makes you more sexually attracted to a guy not understand understand that no guy gets a heart on because you say Hey, here's my MBA. Okay, no no guide. No guy does that Okay guys want to see what you look like in a bikini Okay, because we are because that is the male imperative the male imperative is Unlimited access to unlimited sexuality. Okay, and so none of that, you know men like I said men's men's men Don't get hard for an MBA 401k exactly and so and I think that that is one of we were just talking about this not too long ago That is one of the conditionings that women get these days Is that if they do things and they insert themselves into a male role that all the things that make a man Attractive will make a woman attractive No Women are what? Thank you Something I saw a ruche. I think stand Twitter recently Either as a woman you can either nurture a career as you write as you grow up or you can nurture babies You can't do both. Oh You've got you've got people that are if you tell another woman.  I don't think you do both. Well Yeah Oh, I think Rollo coined it you can do anything, but you can't do everything Canada I'm gonna get to you in just one second one last question for you 863 What kind of business well, I don't I don't want to give away proprietary information, but why do you want to start a business? I'm just interested in knowing why well I did say at the beginning that I did have PTSD from childhood. I wanted to try to start a nonprofit to help Music enter the education sector to help kids Okay, that's legit. All right. Well listen 863 we appreciate the call No, a noble cause and again is not sexually arousing for guys. Unfortunately I'm sorry that you had to go through whatever you had to go through, but I'm glad you're doing what you're doing I'm not saying that that's not a noble thing, but it's not going to help you get laid Listen, no good luck to you listen, you let this be the focal point man everything that happens after your life That's what you have a decision to make you can either go one way or the other But you can't go both ways. Thanks for the call area code 863 Kevin in Canada. You were on live with the red man group Thanks for your patience brother No problem First of all, I just wanted to say thanks to all you guys for putting your time in and specifically to Rollo and the 21 series all all the content. I'm on the I mean currently in the middle of probably my most successful Six months of my adult life, and it's I don't feel good.  Took the woman side and just I just was thinking about that as I read the the family crowd bucket theme Yeah, good good question.   I wouldn't have fucked me either so I'll take personal responsibility on that one Girls always preferred girls guys slightly preferred girls So it's always got to be the guys fault right well in a in a feminine primary social order if something goes wrong for a woman It's the man's fault if something goes wrong for the man.  Is it your fault for being fat? Yeah, it's your fault for being fat. Yeah, should you do something else? Sure?  Maybe maybe not so it just depends on how it's your responsibility and how you're going to deal with it Yeah, I can say that I think everyone has this kind of Biological reflex that women are not really supposed to be accountable It's like we men have no problems holding each other accountable or most minute of shit But very few men will hold the women accountable It's kind of like I think I like Rolo's description of a news mastery I think that's kind of our default state with women.    That's man Women know that they're always going to be kind of the women and children the lifeboats the men dying I mean a man might be allowed in the lifeboat if I mean someone to row that shit Yeah, that's funny as I've read this I read this article Yeah, exactly I think that was it wasn't it wasn't that the title of it like who rose dow rock I think he came up with some sort of history blog or something like that And he was saying that there was actually lots of room on some of those life rafts That were Abandoning ship from the Titanic and that men just felt that it was like their duty to go down with the ship or that they you know Only women and children could get into these things and that if you were a man and you were in that That that lifeboat that you were a pussy or that you were just you know and so they had to find somebody who could actually row the fucking boats and You know so the men who would have to get into the boats were you're reluctant to do so But they were needed because they had to be there to you know push the boats around. I think it's kind of interesting how sacrificial guys Really maybe it's something like part of our DNA or part of our mental firmware It's like we feel like we need to be like you know expendable or we were not useful if we're not expendable I wanted to add on the personal responsibility topic before we wrapped up the show today before Donovan goes At least in my age at you know 29 I was born into a blue pill world living in America and Florida in the West So creating the the blue pill was obviously not my responsibility Something was born into but accepting it was my responsibility and rejecting it is my responsibility to So, you know, we're all born in a lot of this anyone you know watching this You know in the teens or 20s you were born into this But you need to understand that you accepted it That's on you and you guys spit it out get a vomited if you need to whatever Donovan Yeah with regards to women not being accountable Women always of course, you can't you know, don't listen to what she says watch what she does We all know that but what guys need to understand is that women are It's almost as though they are programmed to sort of quasi shit test you women are designed to try to sabotage The relationship before it even starts. I want a guy who's sensitive. I want a guy who's vulnerable I want a guy who talks to me about his feelings.  You got to get rid of those shirts Then he reads a letter. Hey, you know, I'm sorry.    Yeah, I'm gonna wear whatever t-shirts. I want Also with regards to holding women accountable Women can't hold themselves accountable because they can't handle it and I think and I'm not a psychologist It's probably a question for dr. Smith But I think that women when if they actually held themselves accountable for one thing They see that as a referendum on their entire character their entire lives So if they if if if they fucked up a relationship They can't say well I cheated because I was being a slut then all of a sudden they have to admit to themselves Well, I was just I was just a bad person And one more comment here with what Carl said. Yes when women Women are self-destructive and left to their own devices a woman needs a man who will protect her from all kinds of things But most of all they need a man who can protect them from themselves and that's why you have to hold women accountable With that said, let's wrap up the show gentlemen. Thanks for joining me today in the red man group Awesome times about those were the longest ones. They've ever done. I think We really need to do another all-call in again because I think that this is starting to become more of a popular section Yeah, those are starting to do crazy bitches run, too. Yeah, we'll do it We'll do an all-call in again. 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