Welcome back to the 21 convention 2018 of Orlando, Florida Our next speaker is the best-selling author of no more mr. Nice guy He's also been a marriage and family therapist for over 30 years and in my opinion He is one of the godfathers of the Manisphere Without further ado, please help me welcome. Dr. Robert Glover to the stage Right. You really can't see anything up here with the lights. I Can see this row right here. Good-looking guys Anthony, thank you. Thank you I'm gonna be honest with you guys when Anthony contacted me a few months ago about speaking at this program I'd never heard of it. Didn't know what it was about did a little research looked really good, but yeah, sure It's it's guys. I love being with guys. I love speaking with guys and Is that kind of you know looked at a little bit more? I thought well, is this a red pill convention? Yeah, I know what red pill is but really have never identified as red pill Is it a pickup convention? I mean, I'm familiar with pickup, but I've never really identified with pickup But just being here. This is just guys the speakers on on this lineup. I mean, have they blown you guys away? Man Anthony, what a good job this morning. I'm listening to Donovan sharp I'm thinking that fucker stole my speech and he did it better than I could have done it and Dr. Sean Smith gets up here and Tells you guys what a kind man. I am Now he said he's not a nice guy, but he's kind Where are you Sean?  You're kinder than I am He and I went and got a burger last night We didn't know each other until we met just a day or so ago and he picked up the tab He's kinder than I am But thank you for teeing up this talk As I said, I didn't really know what to expect coming here I got an email from somebody who's familiar with my stuff and And he said dr. Glover. He said, you know, aren't you kind of worried that going and speaking at this convention might tarnish your good reputation? And I thought to myself He doesn't know me He doesn't know that I don't need any help tarnishing my reputation. I can do it well enough on my own And I was thinking yesterday about my talk I've been thinking about it, you know for two weeks and the hard part is is leaving out stuff, right? And and Anthony should have given me eight hours. I don't know why he didn't Then I wouldn't have so much stress about what do I talk about it and not talk about But I was thinking yesterday afternoon. I need to check in with Anthony about kind of the policy about profanity You know, they said there's gonna be a Ted top talk type talk and after hearing Anthony's keynote last night.    So you'll hear that quite a bit I Think for me the most fulfilling thing about being here I mean the speeches have been great being around men But you may have noticed I kind of go out and sit out in the four-year out in the lobby in between sessions Just just looking around and watching and when Anthony said that perhaps he considers me a godfather of the man is fear And I I've just kind of begun that's begun to sink in over the last six to 12 months for me Is that what I did what I wrote and put out about 15 years ago is I know the royalty checks keep getting bigger every year. So the book selling Let me just see a show of hands. How many people have read no more. Mr. Nice guy Yeah, when I wrote the book it took me about seven years to write it about three years to find a publisher and A lot of publishing companies the editors and many of them women said we like the book But our marketing marketing department says men will not buy a self-help book That I'm glad I'm pretty sure that attitude has changed in the publishing industry Because how many of you downloaded or bought at least three books in the last six months? Yeah, every fucking one of you right men buy books men are part of the economy you know we make a difference and I'm grateful for for every one of you that bought the book that it told somebody else about it Who told somebody else about it and I got to thinking well talking to so many of you breakfast and lunch and during breaks that That perhaps for many of you No more. Mr. Nice guy the book is like the the gateway drug into red pill Right the many of you find the book first and then you keep digging and you keep looking and and thank goodness There's stuff out there nowadays when I started my recovery process Really really all there was was Robert Robert Bly and iron John Michael Mead You could go out in the woods and beat a drum and hold a stick and say ho and that's good stuff But that's really about all there was now I get interview requests. I do several a month of guys with podcasts They're coaching men who have websites. We have the red pill. We got pick up. There is just so much stuff out there Aimed it men. That's why we're here, right and when I went on my book tour 15 years ago for no more Mr. Nice guy Do interesting things one is I think my publisher Barnes and Noble Thought that there would be blowback from feminists. I think they're hoping for it actually, you know stir up some some controversy some noise That hasn't happened. It hasn't happened and I'm gonna tell you one reason and not not that you know feminists have ignored it or anything like that But here's something I found I don't do marriage and family therapy anymore But I did for many years. I now just work with men. I've got an online university. I do workshops and seminars I write I'm gonna tell you more about that in a minute But when I was in therapy sessions with couples, I Would always start with the man, you know, you got to hit the man upside the head of the stick first If you hit the woman upside the head of the stick first, she'll leave therapy and never come back Okay, so I start with the man and I would talk to them about showing up being conscious being present Setting the tone and taking the lead having a plan having a life all the things we're talking about here, right? being a high-value man to to lead in that relationship and Almost without fail the women would turn to their husbands kind of you know go like that to the to their man and go I like this guy.  I can walk all over. I want a man All right When I when I talk about this when I fly on airplanes, you know, I'm sitting next to people and they often ask what I do You know that kind of thing. I flew First-class red eye to get here the other morning and I had a young 30-something woman next to me So what are you going to Orlando for I told her I'm speaking in a men's convention on boldness in the air of me, too Then they're curious.   Don't talk about no more. Mr. Nice guy. They're not interested But it doesn't mean they won't follow when you lead when you apply these principles Everything you've heard this this weekend go live that stuff You don't have to talk about it to women. They're really not interested But they are interested in you living that way Okay, make sense The second thing when I went on my book tour 15 years ago reporters often asked me um, do you see a men's movement arising similar to the women's movement when feminism of the 60s and 70s and I There's a reason why I don't pick stocks or horses or gamble in Vegas. I'm shitty at it There's a reason why I don't even pick the line at Costco. Which one's gonna go the quickest I'm shitty at guessing this stuff But I said no, I don't really think so really for two reasons one as I don't believe there's one Unifying cause that's gonna bring men together worldwide and In the second reason I said I don't think it will happen is I believe I said at that time that I believe The parts about feminism that actually worked and changed and made a difference was because of men We was because good men recognized where there was indeed inequality or things needed to be changed And it was good men that changed the system All right, it is good men that changed the world To make it better And I said I don't know that you're gonna enlist a bunch of women to the cause of men for whatever men are wanting to Change now fast-forward 15 years later with hindsight. I Was wrong. I was right and I was wrong But now everywhere I go I see gatherings of men And whether it's in the body mint Energetic David Datafield whether it's it's Red Pill whether it's pickup whether it's men going to divorce groups Whether it's going to mankind project It doesn't matter and I've come to the conclusion that there is a worldwide men's movement Not around one thing. We're all coming at it coming to it from different directions But here is is what I believe is that we as men are looking for a tribe We grew up in tribes million and a half years of our evolution was spent in tribes and For about the last 10,000 years we we got when we got into an agrarian society started living more alone and And for the closer we get to where we are right now the more alone and isolated we men have gotten We're looking even if we don't know it. We're looking for a tribe We think maybe we're just looking for some help after going through a divorce Or we think maybe we're just looking for help to learn how to approach women and talk to them Or we think we're just looking for some help to do this but what we're looking for is tribe and initiation and That's what this is when I was listening Especially to Donovan this morning what he was talking about was masculine initiation when we show up and Create and turn ourselves into high value men To attract high value women and then continue to practice those principles that God is there After we found that high value woman to keep that high value woman interested that is our masculine Initiation now we have others but that is a powerful one and and and there's this this reciprocal You know process going on there as we raise our game We're gonna track better women and as we track better women and and we got this great woman in our life We got to keep raising our game and and hopefully that Let me ask a question Couple questions and again. I can't see everybody's hands. I can see a few how many men in here hate women I don't see one hand Okay, so we get to rule this out that this is a women haters convention. Okay, that's ruled out. Nobody raised their hand How many men here at times in their life or right now have had rage at women? Yeah, I have When I was writing drafts of no more Mr. Nice guy handing them out to people people gave me a lot of really good feedback and and one that kept hearing was Sounds like you have rage at women. I thought oh, that's bleeding through I Thought I but I thought of myself, but it's just run of the mill rage at women I thought everybody had rage at women every woman. I've ever known had rage at women, right? So But that doesn't service it's not going to move us forward So how many people? love women How many people would love to have an amazing woman blessing your life? How many of you are willing to show up in such a way to set the tone and take the lead to create the healthiest Relationship possible to bless both your life and her life. That's not like a plan Okay That's our masculine initiation.  I'm a very big scale that you guys are gonna be my guinea pigs But a couple questions that I typically get asked so I'll address them one question is well How did I write no more mr. Nice guy and the second question is what do I have going on now? Where am I going? When as I said when I started my own what I now call my nice guy recovery I didn't call it that when I first started I called it my wife told me I had to go to therapy to find out Why I was so passive aggressive with her and I'm thinking I'm going to therapy to find out why being such a nice guy Doesn't make her treat me better. Right.  I was married 14 years, but she was borderline personality We went to shitloads of therapy couples group individual. I went to men's groups And she calculated one time that probably we'd spent a hundred thousand dollars on therapy together. I Now tell people that's probably about 85,000 too much Figure out the marriage wasn't gonna work She was the wrong woman that Sean was talking about but she was a big stick upside my head I'm here today talking to you because of her many of you are here today because of my ex-wife Elizabeth I'm grateful.  In fact guys, I'm gonna give you a theorem I think this is a theorem axiom. I don't know rule of thumb There's a direct inverse Relationship between amount of the amount of time a man spends listening to a woman talk about her problems And the likelihood he's gonna get laid by her Now I'm a marriage therapist I'm all about communication, but I'm not all about sitting listen talk to a woman talk about her problems That's not me setting the tone and leading. It's loving to say hey, you want me to be your man, right? Sure, sure. Okay. I'm your man. Give me the guy version Give me the guy version. I want to hear but I don't I don't want the girl version Give me the guy version set the tone so I I started learning good stuff and then What I noticed in my couples counseling is that a lot of couples coming to me guys with their girlfriends or wives and The guys were saying the exact same thing. I've been saying and thinking I'm a nice guy I treat her well. I'm better than her ex. I'm raising her kids. I give her everything she wants I bought her the Ford Explorer, but it didn't have leather seats and she still wasn't happy I told my wife that my current wife that not too long ago And she just jokes about that all the time about the the the Ford Explorer, but didn't have leather seats Um, she gets it she gets it and so these guys are saying, you know, when's it gonna be my turn? It's never good enough. She's never happy. She never wants to have sex anymore I thought there's guys out there just like me who had the same paradigm the same road map that if I'm just a nice guy Just do it well enough give women everything they want to like me love me want to be with me want to have sex with me all the time Now Everybody in this room has already figured out that paradigm does not work It does not work But these other guys are just like me. So I started no more. Mr. Nice guy men's group We met every other Wednesday I just started writing giving stuff to people and the guys and their girlfriends and wives all said you need to write a book Here it is. You need to write a book. You need to go on oprah And um, well, I did write the book. I've never been on oprah But it took about six to seven years to to write the book another three years just to find a publisher That that would publish it. So that's how the book came about Yeah, I didn't set out to write a book. I just set out to just I was just writing stuff that I was figuring out as I went Because there wasn't anything out there back then That there wasn't even the internet Back then if it was I think you had to know code to get on the internet So nowadays man, we've got so many resources so many good things going on um And I'm thrilled every one of you is here and I'm going to echo The the demands and command you've been hearing Go live this stuff go practice this stuff not so you can get a woman not with no attachment to outcome Go live it because it's the right integrated authentic way to live your life Live your life on your terms you set the tone and take the lead One thing that I tell guys all the time is that a woman can't follow where a man doesn't lead And if you don't lead they'll jump into the driver's seat and take control is how they're wired All right, give them the choice. Give them the option Okay, so that's how I came to to write the book and it's why a lot of you are here and After sessions later on today I I welcome you guys coming up and talking to me. I love it It just feeds my soul to know that that I've contributed something that's making men's lives better and making the world a better place I mean, it just thrills me in my soul. Thank you for for everyone to be for that Second thing, what am I working on? I almost died about nine months ago About this time last year. I started noticing something wasn't right. It was subtle at first. I've been traveling a lot um Doing some conferences and workshops and seminars and and oddly enough what I noticed is that I I've done a workshop up in Edmonton Canada. I was watching a world series game in my hotel room afterwards We've gone to dinner after and I started eating a piece of cheesecake And I couldn't I couldn't get it in there's like no room for cheesecake that I mean that's like that's not possible I couldn't get it in. I just was so full nothing would go in That sounds weird, but then over the next few weeks.  I was taking two or three naps a day It was just it was just killing me And I didn't know what I went to doctors in Mexico went to doctors in the united states Got misdiagnosed undiagnosed Nobody could find what was wrong kind of the the best guess was I had some mexican bug that I needed to outlast and then Finally blessed blessed her heart of my wife. I mean she tried so many things to to try to find out what was wrong She went to pick up My stepson at a friend's house and told the mother. Oh, we want to have you guys over for dinner sometime But my husband has been sick and um, and she said oh i'm a doctor. What's wrong? She told her my symptoms. She said oh my husband's a gastroenterologist My wife says can can he get my husband in so I went in the next morning Looked at all my tests. He said i'm gonna run a tomography.  You need to have surgery now I'm thinking okay mexican doctor mexican hospital gonna cut me open Take out part of my small intestine Okay, let's do it I was totally at peace. It's like I'd surrendered. I I didn't know if this was going to kill me I didn't know if I was going to live the rest of my life. I over long in that emaciated state Okay, let's do it. Is it give me one day? You know, I had to make sure somebody knew what all my bank accounts were what all my passwords were You know where everything was stashed Luckily no porno stashes to erase And Went in had surgery woke up.  By the way, you guys don't either I don't know how much time I got left. I joined a men's program that started right after that Went and did the mankind project a new warrior weekend. How many people have done that? Just a few of you wreck. Do you guys recommend it? Great initiation. I recommend it. Just look up a mankind project or new warrior adventure Uh, it's a great initiation for men. Um, I did that got in this men's group and really both of those processes focused on What is my mission? And mankind project the first question they asked me is I walked up to the door. What is your mission? Can you guys answer that question?  Where am I going? My impossible goal, which I actually believe I will achieve is to write 10 books in 10 years That's what I'm working on. Um, and I think if I'm still alive 10 years from now I'll probably have 10 more books. I want to write I've got a whiteboard in my office that has all the subjects of at least 10 12 books on it So that's what I'm working on just finished up a book on dating essentials that it is Uh, just all the materials from my old dating essentials courses that I've talked over 10 years And I'm now working on a book that has the working title of shut up and fuck me And that is that that's coming from real life experiences something we're going to talk about in just a little bit now If that is not enthusiastic consent I don't know what is And I've had more than one woman tell me that right would you just quit talking?  Okay, so When I sent the proposal to my agent about a year ago And he's this old experience new york jew that believed in no more mr. Nice guy and he's Reaping nice royalty benefits percentages from that as well Um, he wrote back and said you just made my holiday season.  I haven't told my mother the title yet She she keeps pestering me to write another book She gets my mail and deposits my royalty checks and every time she puts like 13 grand in the bank She goes bobby you need to write another book. Yes. I know mom. I know mom So that's what I'm working on now Okay Weird stuff. You guys want to talk about weird stuff? Freaky stuff. This is freaky stuff. It really is. Um You guys want to be my guinea pigs? All right, you're up for it. Okay um I'll kind of use the the the kind of the launching point of of boldness in the era of me too As a way to get to this this freaky stuff um First of all, I want to tell you guys a silly story.  I have two degrees in religion Grew up in the fundamental church. I'm not religious now As my mother reminded me about three weeks ago in a text message. Uh buddha did not die for my sins Um, I tried to explain mom. I'm not a christen and I'm not a buddhist either. Um, but anyway, it's a whole other story Moms are great. Moms are great um Okay, that just got me totally off subject silly story. All right God's walking through the cool of the Garden of Eden on the seventh day After creating the universe the earth man and woman in six days And as he walks through the garden adam and eve are resting in the shade of a fruit tree And um, he walks up to them and he says adam eve I've got two more gifts that I need to hand out one for each of you God said the first gift is the ability to pee standing up Adam jumps up. That's mine. I want that one. Okay adam you get to pee standing up Second gift is multiple orgasms Gentlemen, I hate it when people call me gentlemen, but gentlemen This silly story Contains both the subject of what I want to talk about and the moral of what I want to talk about the subject is Multiple orgasms and things along those lines the moral is And I think this is important that we get this the moral is Most of the issues we men have with women and sex Are historically of our own making I think this is important to get because until we can take accountability for what isn't working in our life Nothing's going to change Okay, so historically most of the problems we men have had with women and sex of our own making And it really isn't that the fundamental theme of red pill You want some to be different you got to do something different All right, we we get what we get what we get because that's what we settle for Okay, okay the freaky stuff Dr. Smith was talking this morning about evolutionary psychology and and like I said, he and I went out at hamburger last night And I ran this freaky stuff by him and I didn't even know that that was kind of his gig You know the the david bus and and the whole evolutionary psychology and this is not actually my field of study I'm just one of those kind of people that if something I see something, you know, I think Huh? Why is that? What's that about? How did this come to be? Any of the any of the rest of you like that?  Okay As as you yeah, I think everybody in this room is trying to figure shit out. All right So here's the thing I did a radio interview actually his podcast interview a couple weeks ago and the interview asked me He said do you think the influence of the me too movement is having an effect on men? Especially young men in terms of being bold Bold in terms of just how they live their life But especially in regards to women And I said, yeah, I expect that it is really true. In fact, I'm going to be talking about Something along those lines in just a couple weeks at this conference And my personal experience I was born in 1955. I'm 62 years old I became a teenager in the 60s and 70s and That that was you know the heyday of is that what we call it second wave feminism And and you know, it probably had some good messages in there You know, everybody deserves equal pay for equal jobs and equal opportunity But it was the noise That caught my attention and the noise was from the radical Manhating feminist part of that and I was only, you know, 15 16 years old And I'd already been raised by my mother to be different from my father. I mean, she told me that as a boy She's raising me to be different from my father.   Right, and um, I thought how am I gonna get one? I wasn't the quarterback. I'm a football team I didn't drive a Camaro. I wasn't rich wasn't great looking Kind of introverted and I thought I'll be their friends. I'll be the nice guy I'll be the guy that listens to them talk about chad All right, we all remember chad and you know how badly and and then This radical feminism came along and you know, I'm hearing stuff like every man is a rapist An erection is a sign of aggression And just you know all the vibe around that and I soaked that in I internalized it I thought okay. I developed some some pretty strong what I now call self limiting beliefs about sex women myself and the world And those beliefs primarily were women don't like sex Women think men who want sex are bad Women just aren't attracted to me Women just don't want to have sex with me And and those are my guiding beliefs as I then went out to interact with women And and those guiding beliefs led to my first two marriages that lasted 25 years together And neither woman I shouldn't have dated either woman more than three dates And I stayed with them for 25 years now When I got out of of my second marriage 15 years ago right at the time the book was being published I I'd done a lot of work on me. I'd grown a lot. Um I didn't know as much as I know now, but but I'd grown quite a bit And I I no longer was interacting with women the same way I no longer thought women hated sex and thought men were pervs if they wanted to have sex with them So quite a bit had changed and I got out there into the dating world and I made a conscious decision I didn't want to repeat what I already had And I'd already written my books. I already kind of had you know, I handle on a few things or at least Understood a few things and I decided I'm going to work at being a better picker and a better ender And by the way Being a bad picker when it comes to meeting women and dating is just part of the equation We're going to pick a lot of wrong women You don't know that till after you've spent a little time with them for a lot of them You know, I just love the things that that uh, dr. Smith talked about this morning for recognizing those wrong women Okay, but being a good ender can cover a multitude of sins for being a bad picker Keep that in mind I believe perhaps the number one key of all successful men In any area of life Is knowing how to be a good ender Is knowing when to cut your losses is knowing when to say this isn't going to work We're going to say this is crazy. I'm out of here. We got to practice being good enders Okay, so I went out and started practicing that so what happened is I started meeting women And I've never been into pickup and what I found out is I didn't have to be women started coming to me Um rich what what's the term that that he uses? um about the abundance uh Chasing excellence, but he has another one. I wrote it down on another piece of paper. I don't have it in front of me It'll come back to me that The abundance of something of choice Um spoiled by choice. I love that and you know what for the first time in my life I was I was spoiled by choice women were coming on to me They were hitting on me. They were sending me strong signals of interest They were propositioning me They were getting naked on first and second dates without me Even pushing for anything And I'm thinking what planet have I landed on? This is not the planet that I thought existed and now keep in mind. I was in my late 40s Balding graying Low tea I wasn't in the best shape.  I challenged myself limiting beliefs I wasn't walking the planet thinking women didn't like sex number two I was bold.  I'm getting divorced. I'm gonna live my life my way That's attractive to women And the third thing was I walked through open doors And I think that's actually one of the biggest Failings that a lot of guys have whether in any area of life is we don't walk through the open doors Let me ask you guys a question Whenever I go to men's programs like this, I watch I watch the men, but I watch the people around the men Have you guys noticed after being in here and you leave and go to a restaurant or you walk down the street or in the hotel lobby Have you noticed people checking you out? Has anybody noticed Okay, now if your self-limiting belief is oh It's like angry feminists. It's a gathering of men. We got to be careful. You're not going to see what I see What I see is that women are turned on by groups of energized men I see that whenever I do men's programs the other day I did a workshop in Seattle when we eat lunch in a restaurant 11 of us And and the waitress is coming by taking our orders and she asked the question They always ask Who are you guys? What are you about? I told her we're a group of men.  I make eye contact. They maintain it.  I got out there. I'm spoiled by choice Women are wanting me first time in my life and it's like this is crazy Okay, here's a I want to throw this out to you guys and it may sound crazy Some of you may have already figured this out. I think some of you have when I shared it with with Sean last night at dinner Um, hey, I said you see any holes in it. He goes. No, not that I see now Maybe he's had time to think about it and he sees some holes But think about this for a minute because this goes against most of our self-limiting beliefs about women It goes against what evolutionary psychology is telling us but it seems to be true So I want to share it with you.  What blows me away is that's not talked about more I'm sure it's been studied, but I just don't come across a lot about it. So let me expand on this.  Oh, that's not my experience. You know, I'm the one wanting sex all the time not her, right? I've been there 14 years of marriage. We'd go every six months without sex and we had it.  We're done.  Well, okay.   Women can have multiple multiple multiple orgasms men Well, I know you can go get trained on having multiple orgasms and having Orgasms without release blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.  No your eyes will not Your eyes won't do it. I remember psychology one-on-one. I went to a christian college First aid psychology one-on-one class the professor holds up a 20 dollar bill and he said I will give 20 dollars to any man That can will himself to have an erection Nobody collected that 20 dollar bill I've known women who could will themselves to have orgasms Women can build their orgasms. They can extend them.  We come and we're done and go to sleep They're wired very differently than us I've known women. I've been with women just licking their nipples They'd climax Right, they're wired so amazingly different and and even as I'm talking about this stuff I'm thinking this is not my the view I've had of women for the majority of my life But it is it's true.   I know what you're thinking.  Why do we put scarlet letters on their forehead? Why do they we drape them in burkas from head to toe so men will not be turned on by them Why has slut-shaming existed for so long now? Most of these I'm gonna blame on men The slut-shaming I'm gonna put that at the feet of women Um, most men if you hear a woman's a slut, we think cool one meter But you know You guys know what I'm talking about.   They're fake. You know that And you go, yeah What's your point? Yeah, I still like looking at them, but they're fake. She's a cheater Yeah, what's your point right so it is the women that pile on with the slut-shaming now I'm gonna get back. I'm gonna get to the costly sex thing in a minute that that that dr. Smith brought up Here's a few proofs for those of you who were just your mind's going. No, I just I just I just won't come in. It's like the red pill, right? By the way, I had this experience when I was laying my clothes out this afternoon for for my talk I put my clothes on the bed.  Okay If women didn't like sex, why is a shitty book like 50 shades of gray sold 95 million copies? I'm gonna reference dr. Smith again. He was talking about the count of Monte Cristo this morning. How many people have read that book? It should be required reading People recommended it to me. So I Actually set out and I was reading on my Kindle 50 shades of gray and the count of Monte Cristo at the same time And I would read one chapter of one one chapter the other one chapter one one chapter the other I couldn't wait to get through the chapters of 50 shades of gray because it is sucky writing And it's not even titillating just to get back to the count of Monte Cristo It's that good of a book, isn't it those either read it good book. Okay, but why is it sold 95 million copies of women don't like sex? This is mid-october. There's a holiday coming soon at the end of this month. What's the holiday? Halloween all right What yeah, I already hear it. What are 85 percent of the women going to dress up as for at the halloween parties? Slut slutty nurse slutty doctor slutty cop slutty fireman slutty pilot slutty slut, you know But they don't like sex is costly for them Something's wrong. Okay. Okay. Here's the clincher If you don't believe me I'm gonna put you in a hotel room in this hotel And you get to pick the 10 sexiest women That that you can imagine put in an order for 10 sexy women That just you know just turn you on make make you make you drool make your tongue hang out And you have to ejaculate In these 10 women How long is it going to take you about 10 days?  No, that's a lie That's a lie Three to five that you think you can do that because maybe you jerk off enough and you think I can do it I can do it. No, you can't Maybe if you're young three days Guys like me Two weeks Okay All right Put a woman in a hotel room and tell her she got to pick 10 of the sexiest men that she can pick This is a woman who's okay. We like sex, right? And how long is it going to take her to come 10 times with those 10 men? That's a little over optimistic Hour two is is realistic hour two To come 10 times. Okay, and they're not wired different than us Okay, I want to do q and a so I'm gonna have to pull this together pretty quick um Okay, I got a couple theories. All right, because we think okay, but but evolutionary psychology says, um, Women have to be choosy sex is costly.     I think evolutionary psychologists have been studying the wrong group And not just fruit flies. They're the wrong group for a million and a half years We had a tribal existence And in that tribal existence everything was communal everything was shared and there's good evidence. So was the sex That every man and woman had access This is the reason why we're not wired for monogamy is why long term Exclusive monogamous relationships are so hard why they tend to not work. It's not in our DNA And my belief is is where we get it wrong as we start studying the last 10,000 years There's an ownership model where men started growing stuff owning stuff their trees or cows their wives their kids And all of a sudden we had to start regulating female sexuality We're studying the wrong group My belief is that what's really wired deeply into women is to want to be fucked often And well by a good man I really believe that okay, this is our job by the way so My two theories is why does that not look like it nowadays? Why is that not our experience? I think number one is our self-limiting beliefs Number two, we're not bold the women in the tribe hung out with hunters and warriors Men that got shit done That is the most powerful aphrodisiac for women that boldness that strength that confidence I'm not talking about bodybuilders. My wife points out women who are coming on to me all the time I used to just think because she's a jealous Latina and I started actually looking she's right Women usually my wife's 22 years younger than me Most the women that that are coming on to me are 30 years younger than me And I'm not a specimen Okay, but I do live life on my terms.  Do you have to think do I like them?  All right. So my second theory is is why don't we see this nowadays?  Well, one guy gets done rolls off You know tags out and another man comes in Mother nature loves lots of cocks and lots of vaginas That is the number one morality of mother nature Penises in vaginas lots of them Okay. Okay.  I found myself avoiding sex. Does that make any logical sense?   I could I mean I got so much more stuff, but I I'm I'm about out of time and I want to give some Q&A I think we have about five to six minutes before we got the hard stop So I'm gonna just stop with that I've just put out some some stuff with you.  Okay All right, who we got any questions We got about Five eight minutes for questions. Uh, yeah, I have a question. Uh, do you have any actual stats on that now?   No, I've experienced Yeah, if you guys ask me like intellectual type questions like about statistics and studies and research I'm going to tell you next ask ask me a question about life and applying this shit. Okay Uh question comment, uh, you mentioned the mankind project a couple times during your speech. I live in austin The mankind project is Completely blue pill there Okay, that's not my subject. Yeah, different different question. Um, what can we do to start a more red pill? That's your observation of blue pill. I mean of mankind. It wasn't my observation of it Do they preach red pill philosophy not going to know of and is every group different? Probably all I'm talking about is guys go find a tribe find ways to connect with men Well, you find there's faults with this gathering. There's gonna be faults with every gathering. Okay gather with men anyway Okay Over here. Hi. How are you? Thank you very much. Uh, you mentioned therapy and you were a therapist and I talked about it earlier As well Is there and I think sometimes in this sort of corner, uh talk therapy for men gets poo pooed a little bit Uh, do you have any advice for people who actually need to seek therapy? How would you coach them in trying to identify and meet up with somebody that was going to give them good results? Well, especially guys will ask me that question who have read my book and I would say Number one talk to other men and find out if they anybody knows of other resources um You it can be kind of a stab in the dark, but take my book with you Ask the the Counselor therapists if they're willing to read it because you need assistance with that But here's the deal Or go to my website. I've got I've got certified counselors and therapists that that have trained with me And even if they can't work with you, they can point you in the direction they can my website. Just dr. Glover.com um So yeah Like I said people say she'd go to a man or a woman. I I got good therapy from a woman She liked men. She was supportive of men and you know for a guy that thought women hated men That was good therapy for me Okay, another question. Okay. Thank you, dr. Glover How would you advise a lot of the younger men in the room? Regarding broaching a lot of the principles we've been talking about here with our mostly blue pill fathers with our blue pill fathers chew You know somebody asks a similar question that's worrying about with your blue pill friends Um, give them my book, you know, give them rational mail say dad. I've been reading this stuff Would you like to read it? You know, it's I get the same questions like women will ask me Well, how should I broach the subject of nice guy stuff with my my my husband or boyfriend?  This isn't rocket science, right? Just put it in front of people and they'll respond to it or they won't But let go of all attachment to outcome. Don't try to get anybody to buy into your belief system All right, just live it living it. It's just the most powerful thing you can do. Thank you Dr. Glover, let's give it up Thank you George Bruno with the 21 report in Orlando, florida And we're talking with dr. Robert Glover He was just whisked off stage and now we're going to talk to him about his message for men Welcome Good to be here, george. What is your impression of the 21 convention here so far? You've been around. It's it's blown me away. I've been to Lots of men's programs man to have several hundred men in one place First-class production the speakers Man, I'm sitting there listening to them and I'm one of the speakers. I'm going these guys are good Yeah, and and I'm just watching the men just soak it up and they're alive and they're energized It's I I had no idea what to expect coming here. Yeah, and it's just blown me away Yeah, it's it's learning by immersion. There's a lot going on here, right? A lot of moving parts and and you guys have been apparently practicing this every year and this year It seems to have really gone to another level. It gets better and better every year.  Yeah, so that's what I feel this conference is like. They're just putting so much out there But if one or two things stick With the attendees It was worth it because there is a lot of information. It's rapid fire just all day long It is and I've I've got my notebook and with every speaker I've written down about two or three lines under each of the speakers of just Just the key prime stuff that I got that's good. That's good. You gotta remember that Yeah, and and even referenced several of them in my talk as well today just I'm a guy and and I I live this stuff. This isn't just academic. It isn't just a book I wrote It's my life. I'm married. I have kids stepkids I have a job. I'm in the world. Yeah, and this stuff's real life stuff And uh, there's a lot of stuff sticking to the wall. Yeah I've heard it said I'm not sure who actually coined the phrase but the 21 convention and this movement is Nothing but men sharing notes Good way to put it. I like that. That's what I was doing just making notes and deciding How many of these notes can I share with them in an hour? You know a year from now or two years from now someone's going to approach you They will have seen you live here.  How do you inspire men? The message that I get back from men is that I'm real. I'm authentic now I would not have been accused of that 30 years ago. I hit everything. I was a people pleaser. I was a nice guy And um, I think that's the greatest compliment people give me is that that Dr. Glover you're real. You're authentic. You tell the truth. You live this stuff. You talk about your struggles I'm I'm bumbling my way through life like everybody else And um, I try to learn as I go and that's what I share And I think people really appreciate that it's not like I'm some academic that read it in a book or I've figured it all out And I've got it all, you know, my life is just perfect I still work at this stuff every day. Yeah, and and I think people men especially like knowing You know this guy's practicing what he preaches. He doesn't get it perfect But when he falls down he gets up and try something new What does it mean your book is titled no more mr. Nice guy Is there a nice guy syndrome or a nice guy profile? Well, I do talk about the nice guy syndrome in the book and and basically Just the short version of a nice guy Is he's internalized beliefs at a very young age usually in childhood usually three four five months old This stuff begins internalizing a belief. There's something wrong with me. I'm not okay. Just as I am I have to become what I think other people want me to be to be approved of to get loved to get my needs met And I have to hide the things about me that might trigger a negative reaction in other people Of course, this is usually parents at a young age And the most common things that nice guys hide is their needs and their sexuality And so if you imagine then growing up to be an adult Trying to do whatever it takes to get the approval of everybody around you and hiding everything about you That might trigger a negative reaction It leads to a very frustrating lifestyle and that in a nutshell is nice guy syndrome What are the downfalls of being a nice guy? Well, the first chapter in the book is all about that Nice guys actually miss misnomer nice guys are often anything but nice Even though we think and I always thought i'm a nice guy I'm one of the nicest people you ever wanted me. Why why wouldn't everybody like me? Why wouldn't everybody want to be you know the same? But because a nice guy is not fundamentally authentic. He's not being himself He's fundamentally a lie. He's going he's lying about everything if he's trying to become You know if I try to become what you want me to be so you approve of me I'm lying. You know if I try to become what you want me to be I'm lying There's no truth there. You can't count on anything Now beyond the fact that we're not authentic And everything we do in a sense is a lie because we're trying to get approval We're hiding things the other part is is because we're not good at getting our needs met We're not good at letting people give to us. We're not good at surrounding ourselves with people and organizations that can give to us We tend to build up a lot of resentment It's like I give all this and I don't get much back in return that resentment builds And and we kind of start ruminating about it and then it either comes out as passive aggressive behavior Which is indirect anger maybe a put down a jab I'll say i'm going to do it and I don't follow through on it or the other It's what I call a victim puke where he just builds and it builds and it builds until we just blow up and you know We just say everything that's been ruminating in our brain.  It's almost as if they were sharing notes. They would say I wanted to find my authentic self. So for decades when they were Coloring their hair. They were feeling not authentic. You mentioned being an authentic man How is a man How does a man become authentic and Is there peace and authenticity? Is there peace in it? Yes. Um and there's turmoil I've got a tattoo on my arm of jesus nailed you across He was authentic. So they say and he still got nailed you across. So, you know, it can attract stuff. Yeah, um The term from psychology would be differentiation When a person is differentiated, they're they're authentic and I tell people I tell guys I work with being differentiated Has two parts to it. The first part is asking yourself. What do I want? What feels right to me? What am I going to do? And and you've got to ask yourself that most of the time we just we're you know, we're lemmings We go along with the crowd we do what we think's expected of us But to be able to ask yourself, what do I want? What feels right to me? That's the first step of being differentiated The second step is then following through on that and proceeding Even if you get flack from outside mom dad friends society church culture Or the buzz inside your head that's oh, no, I'm gonna I'm gonna get in trouble. I'm gonna be disliked I'm gonna lose my job. I'm gonna lose my wife. So the differentiation to be authentic You've got to be able to ask yourself. What's right for me? And then number two you got to follow through on that Is there peace in that? Yeah, because you're not all the time guessing and trying to figure things out and covering this lie And trying to think of you know, how do I need to be with this person and blah blah blah And as I said, it can track some negative attention as well It always happens every great man who's ever lived who was authentic and integrated and differentiated Also caught flack. It just comes with the territory. Hmm Let me ask you this what is the prescription For this nice guy syndrome for overcoming it working through it or what causes it Getting rid of it overcoming it being healed from it. Okay. Good question. I I've told people for years I'm a recovering nice guy and I'm still working at it. I I got married again two years ago It's my third marriage And I thought I'd worked through a lot of the stuff that tends to come up for me in relationship And then with a new person with new personalities and their stuff I got triggered into some of my nice guy patterns all over again of being too much of a pleaser and a problem Solver and avoiding conflict. I I watched it come up and I thought man It's like I need to go read my book all over again And um, so I I went out and got a men's coach I joined a men's group the stuff that I prescribe in the book is don't try to do this alone and It's like we're gonna work on this stuff to the day we die Now things get better better better. My life's amazing. I love my life I I couldn't have I could not have had the life I have now 30 years ago It would not have been possible because I live my life on my terms Yeah, I tell people I live in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. I have a beautiful home. It's got a swimming pool I've got a beautiful wife. She's 22 years younger than me.  This was a conscious process Now it's not like that was my dream to create all of that But it is what has come to me by doing the work of living authentically With differentiation being honest making my needs a priority having good boundaries and just living a life of passion There have been common themes all week long do the work be the best version of yourself make a dent in the universe How can a man be the best version? of himself I think the number one prescription I'd give a man to answer that question Is go connect with other men who have the same philosophy who are working on and it doesn't even matter I gave during my speech. I gave a few different suggestions of where you could find men's programs. They're different. They have different philosophies But they're about men wanting to evolve. That's not about becoming a different person And it's really not even about becoming a better person. It's about becoming the best you Right to to to live up to your capabilities your potential and I'm 62 years old and I'm still challenging myself myself I've I've got a commitment a goal to write 10 books in 10 years And I mean at 62 my dad retired at 55 He wasn't interested in being his best self. He was just interested in okay. I've done that for 30 years. I'm done I don't know where I'm gonna be in 20 years, but I think it'll still be a pretty interesting life Who is your ideal client or ideal subscriber follower? Fan, who do you speak to the most? Well, I don't know if I've ever been asked exactly that question It really is people and and I've heard this a lot at this convention, especially When people find the red pill material usually they've had trauma Something's happened now I find that the men that tend to come to me either they find my book or You know they come to a group or a workshop It's usually There they're at some point of frustration often in relationship either they they can't get a girlfriend They don't know how to be with women how to get a woman to be with them Maybe they've just had a breakup a girlfriend the end of a marriage or they're out there maybe Maybe in the 40s and 50s out there in the dating world all over again So it's funny that most of the time it is around relationship one way or another women drive us crazy We're still trying to figure them out But that's why I said don't try to figure them out set the tone and lead and see if they follow So for me that I think the ideal guy is one who recognizes the tools in my toolbox have not been sufficient I've I've tried I tried to follow the rules I you know I followed the prescriptions of my family or my church or my culture and it's just isn't working And they're ready for something else. They're ready to have new tools added to their toolboxes They're ready to be challenged. They're ready to get out of their comfort zone They're and for me again, I'll say it again It's that willingness to connect with other men and I find that if we can connect with men We our ancestors our human race evolved in tribes and now we're also isolated And and I spoke on that this afternoon. We're looking for tribes So find tribe connect with men and then let those men challenge you as you challenge them Those are the guys I love working with I used to say I was an expert at parenting Until I had kids And that challenged everything and then I found out that I was winging it And then I had a moment And I don't know when that was where I took some men's organizations called the father wound Guys typically have something that they hold against their father And then that gets erased when you have this aha moment of Holy crap. My dad was winging it too. And then all of a sudden We forgive our fathers and at that moment he goes from father To friend and the relationship changes. Can you speak on that? I had that experience as well My mother raised my brother and I to be different from our father that she stayed married to him until he passed away about nine years ago And she's since apologized for that that that was not a healthy thing to do to her sons to say, you know You need to be different from your dad because he's he's angry and he's selfish and he's self-centered and he doesn't treat me well and I I bought into her view of my dad. Now. My dad had problems. He had some kind of mood disorder He could be up and down. He could be in a bad mood for weeks But i'm also really grateful for my dad. He took me fishing. We went camping He he since I was a kid one of my earliest memories is like five years old My first hardball bat and hardball him pitching to me in the front yard and me hitting it through my parents bedroom window So he came to all my ball practices. He was encouraging of that And so he had his flaws. He was winging it He was the baby of his family. His oldest brother was 20 years younger than older than him So he had no guidebook and I went through a stage of being Hurt and resentful of both my parents. I didn't talk to my mom and dad for 15 years And after a period of time It's funny. I read an article About baseball is the beginning of the baseball season and there's like some articles in the local paper And my dad taught me to play baseball took me to baseball games And I thought I've loved baseball all my life and I wrote him a letter I don't know if it's an email or a letter. I can't remember now. It's been about 10 years ago or more And I just thanked him. I said dad. I just want to let you know I'm grateful for these things you gave my life. They blessed my life In about six months later, he got back in touch with me and he only lived like 20 minutes away from me And and he and I started getting together about once or twice a year really not very often We'd go have coffee have donut we'd talk and I came to the conclusion and this was so liberating to realize He was a flawed broken human being He was operating at his peak level and this was this was all like You know was going to get from him. This was who he was and it's like I just made peace with that That okay, he wasn't perfect. Um, he was operating at his own peak level Okay And and there's something about forgiving your dad's that helps you forgive yourself as well And unless you say okay, I can be a flawed male as well I don't have to be perfect don't have to get it right Don't have to be different from dad or different from all the other men out there So that was liberating for me to just have peace and then he had a stroke and passed away about two or three years after I'd begun that As in his hospital room his hospice room every day for about two weeks And I'd kiss him on the cheek. I mean he was in a coma. I just say thank you dad I just thank him. Yeah Emotions coming up about that. Yeah. Yeah, it was a blessing to have made that peace and be grateful for everything he'd given me Better late than never. Yeah. Can you imagine living life and not having Been able to do that with your father. I'm so grateful. Yeah that that I reached out and said thank you dad for this That's powerful and then We we we had whatever we could have. Yeah, you know, I said we reached the limits of what he was capable of And to be there at his bedside every day and with you know with my mom watching him die and just being grateful Talking with hundreds of men in my career I've noticed this one thing everyone changes doesn't matter who they are what level of education they are When they start talking about their father Their face changes everything changes when we talk about our dads. Yeah, yeah Even when I interview people about their dads my face changes and and things change I I feel it. I can feel just you know the wetness in my eye coming up And he was a flawed imperfect. I spoke at his memorial I was the only one of four kids that spoke The the first words I said is that at best my father could be difficult Everybody said amen. Yeah, none of my siblings wanted to speak. Yeah, but I was at peace with it and that felt good That's neat. That's neat George Bruno from the 21 report talking with Dr. Robert Glover. How can people find you? Easy enough my website's dr. Glover.com. That's dr G l o v e r dot com And if they just want to google robert glover or google no more mr. Nice guy I've got the top several spots on both of those pages. So easy enough. Thank you very much. We appreciate it Thank you, george. It was great. What was your experience so far with the 21 convention? Oh, I was dead. I was dead professional all across the board really good energy with a lot of people and uh, I just like this is very positive positive direction this George, this is this has been a first-class event. It's fantastic. You guys run a really tight ship I've been to a lot of conventions over the course of my business career And I can tell when things are well run and when things aren't and this is a very well run operation I was very impressed. It's pretty incredible to see where anthony's brought it Especially from last year which is my first year here to see the the upgrades he's made. It's been incredible I've got my notebook and with every speaker. I've written down about two or three lines Under each of the speakers of just just the key prime stuff that I got. That's good. That's great. It's very surreal, man I'm really enjoying it. I'm happy to live in such an era Where such a thing like this is possible I have never seen a group of guys like this a group of 200 men Were focused squared away and working on their values just never met a bigger group of wonderful guys It's kind of neat because I've been to a fair amount of conventions in my day But you never see one where the guy's like uh here you can just see ed latimore talking to tanner about boxing Yeah, you just sit down and then you tell your boxing experiences. Everybody's kind of pinging off each other. It's nice It has been fantastic And it's been four days of guys all on the same page working the same direction fascinating meaning some of the people Hearing their stories. Yep. You got people traveling from other parts of the world to come here just to see Yeah, some of the speakers. That's amazing. I think it's impressive. Everybody here is very serious. Yeah, they're taking it, you know, close to their heart What a great convention. Thanks, george


Hey friends today I am hanging out at Disney's Hollywood Studios. We're continuing our family vacation today's Hollywood Studios day and we were not able to get rise of the resistance at 7 a.m. but we were able to get boarding group 102 at 1 o'clock today when we first got in the park so we're gonna ride some rides eat some food and enjoy Hollywood Studios. Anywho's let's go I believe we're gonna start off today down sunset and maybe head up the Tower of Terror that's something we weren't able to do on our four-part challenge and it's something me and Bonnie love to ride now mom not so much you want to ride Tower of Terror no not so much all right how about Rock and Roller Coaster no no I'm excited for my mom and sister to ride Rise of the Resistance again and plus we have all this canteen reservations so I can't wait to see Bon Bon drink a fuzzy tauntaun. Bon Bon drink a fuzzy tauntaun. Doesn't that sound funny? Something new that just started I think yesterday is Beauty and the Beast live on stage so I'm hoping that we can actually catch a showtime I don't know what time the showtimes are but we'll take a look once we get down here. The funny thing is is Bon Bon used to actually play or do theater and the last play I seen of hers was a Beauty and the Beast play and what were you? Your issue was a knife in the BR guest scene. Looks like the showtimes are 11, 1, 2, 4 and 5 so maybe we can catch the 2 o'clock showing and boy oh boy do I miss Fantasmic. I think we're just gonna wait it out for the 2 o'clock showing this is something I've been actually been missing for quite some time now. Oh it feels great to be back here look at that it's been such a long time the last time I was here I came to see the Grand Floridian orchestra actually do the Pixar show that used to be here. Something really cool about the theater of the stars is they have the handprints of some celebrities kind of like the Chinese movie theater has and a lot of them are actually really cool recognizable names. Woody Harrelson right here and then a couple more over here too. We've got Lou Ferrigno the original Hulk look at the size of those hands and then up here we've got Tom Conway and it looks like he made a mistake because he put one handprint down there and then this one has six fingers so he must have put his other hand on top of that that's really funny. Look at the theater itself it is huge in here and they have those gigantic helicopter fans that keep you cool. I love these fans they really do keep you cool. I know the begger woman came to the castle and often he was seen on the roads in return for shelter from the Eton Korn. Reposed by her haggard appearance the prince sneered at the gift and turned the old woman away but she warned him not to be deceived by appearances for beauty and sound living. Wraiths for old time. As the years passed he fell into despair and most old for who could ever learn to love a beast. Little town everyday like they want to be through. Bonjour! Bonjour! Bonjour! There goes the faker with his tray like always. Marie! What do I get? Hurry up! Found herself built captive inside a dark and full moony castle. Inhabited by her very own collection of characters. Master will be furious to find out what they are up to. Such a great show. I really really missed the entertainment and the different shows that they had in Disney World. I'm hoping Finding Nemo comes back soon and phantasmic but it was great to see that and the production value is just so exquisite. That is Disney at its best right there. Now it's time to go from be our guest to the Tower of Terror where I wish we could be our guest there. Can you imagine staying at the Tower Hotel? Like that would be amazing right? Amazing. Wait, where are you going? Now where is your motor coach going right now? Your motor coach going. Ah, I don't know what the problem must be with our work there. Let's see, are you with Jenkins perhaps? Maybe. Maybe? Oh wonderful. It appears we have an express check-in for you. Is that so? Yeah. Obviously. Oh boy. Go check it in mom. That's squirted into the Tower of Terror there mom. We're going in the back way here. What are you doing? He's the bellhop. The bellhop's taking us to our room mom. That was the coolest Disney magic I have ever witnessed. I cannot wait to talk about that but wow, absolutely amazing. Now we're going to ride the Tower of Terror. Very nice. Awesome was bellhop Dylan. He was great. We were just walking down the street. Mom has no idea what the Tower of Terror ride is.  And it was really cool to see like walk around performers. And he was like a bellhop. He was walking around with a racket, like a tennis racket. He's like I can't stand all this racket. It was awesome. And he grabbed us and brought us right up here. And for a second there, I thought my mom was checking in. I thought she was going to ride the Tower of Terror. Once we got to the door she was like oh no, no, no, no, no, no. She heard the screams and backed out. So me and Bonnie rode but kudos to that cast member. That is such a great thing to see happening. What a magical moment. That's all I have to say. Yeah, I'm very, I love it. Anywho, we need to move along but that was great. My mom just said he's scared or so much. Yeah, because he said you're not Miss Jenkins. He's like what hotel are you checking into? Where are you staying? And my mom pointed, you pointed up here though. And then when we got here he was like you lied to me. You're not Miss Jenkins. No, don't send me the bill. Send it to her. No, not me. You're the one who was staying here. Oh no. You were just there. Did I notice the score? Yep, she already checked out. See, look at that, madam.  Three night? Okay then, I'll take you to the hotel. All right, be 15. I'm going to go to the hotel and the director will be right down the way. Okay, thank you. Enjoy, madam. Enjoy. Now Bon Bon and I are going to hit up rock and roll. Here we're going to hit up rock and roller coaster. And also did you notice Bill Hop Dillon is out doing his thing and just grabbing guests from Sunset Boulevard and he came up to mom and he said Miss Jenkins. That was so, I still can't get over it. I'm still smiling about it. Here comes our limo. Make it a super stretch. I almost didn't make it in time because traffic is getting more and more drastic. So don't worry, we've got you coming. Just keep it right here on LA's classic rock station. Come on, hang on, ready? Yep. Oh, I look so festive. I love this shirt too. Look at that. You look so cool. We're just sitting here now and I've never actually got to sit here like this. It looks really pretty. Yeah. Doesn't it look really pretty with all the lights and the track and everything? Yeah. I'm sure we're going to head in soon, but I really... Oh, is that a hidden Mickey? Right there. Do you see it? That is so cool. What a hidden Mickey. What a start to the day. It was so cool because rock and roller coaster was real quick, not even a long wait at all. And actually Tower of Terror is at 20 minute wait right now. But thanks to Bill Hop Dillon he actually took us right in. That was awesome. But wow, what a great day so far. We've got a lot to do. We've still got Olga's to do. That I am so excited for. Now I think we're going to head on down to Muppet Vision 3D. Do you like the Muppets, Mom? I love the Muppets. Yeah? Do you know who Sweetums is? No. No? You never met Sweetums? No. I'm sure once you see him you'll recognize him. But I love Sweetums. Okay. And we get to meet him today. Well, he'll come out. He'll say hi. Okay. You see the sign there? Let's see them in the back. We have got such a crazy next hour and a half. We have the Muppets right now we're going to do. And then we have Roger the Resistance, Mickey Minnie's Runaway Railway and then Olga's Canteen. We're going to be hustling but it's so worth it because that's so much happening in just a little bit of time. We're going to put on your 3D glasses. Remember, do not put on your 3D glasses until they're more seated inside. Isn't that weird? What are we going to see here anyway? It's a little 3D movie. Put on your glasses now. Baby, hey look. Put on your glasses. Look at the guy in the goofy mask. That's not a mask. It's all right, lady. I'm still crying. Yes. Oh my goodness. It was going so well. I have to say I love Muppet Vision 3D. I know a lot of people, they're not the biggest fans but I think it's the best 3D at Disney. I think it's better than it's tough to be a bug. I think the 3D here is better than it's tough to be a bug. I do like it's tough to be a bug because of the spiders and the pokes and stuff like that but when it comes to just 3D that's amazing. Now that we got Muppets Done Mom it's time for Rise of the Resistance. Are you excited? I'm excited. You love this ride, don't you? You like Mickey and Minnie's better though. I do. Yeah, we'll do that right after this though. My mom is super worried that the first order is going to come after her because last time we did this it was our first part day. We did all four parts and we did Rise of the Resistance and it was our first time doing it. They actually came right to her and it was so funny. We told her they were going to take her hat and she took her hat and hit it. So she was like, are they going to come after me again? I hope they do because that was amazing. Looks like we got stuck here on Rise of the Resistance. This must be down. We've been in this room for I think just about 20 minutes actually. I think we're going to miss our reservation for August canteen because we're still actually in the queue. Last time I told you it was 20 minutes we're approaching an hour just about in this room here. So we've been waiting a long time and I don't know if it's going to come back up and I think we're going to miss our August reservation. It looks like an hour and a half later we're getting evacuated out. Well, that was a little bit of a damper. So we got stuck in Rise of the Resistance for an hour and 45 minutes. We couldn't leave because we couldn't get my mom's ECV out. They were allowing people to leave and then get a return time but we couldn't get out. So we missed our August canteen reservation. So I stopped at the guest experiences and they gave us a return fast pass but I wanted to make sure that we weren't going to get charged for August or if we can actually get back into August and they said that there's nothing they can do to go down to August and just find out. I mean, if we can get in, we can get in but the most important thing is I don't want to get charged for the missed reservation. You know what I mean? So we'll go down and check in with them and see what they can do for us. Sadly, Olga's will have to be for another day. They're pretty full up right now and they can't get us in but they did actually mark it down so I don't get charged for the reservation but I was really looking forward to going in there and having a drink with my sister with DJ Rex. Maybe next year. Good news, Rise of the Resistance reopened so now we can go ride it. Me and Bon Bon are going to ride it. They gave us the return time so we can actually just go in the fast pass line but my mom, I think she just wants to sit out. It was a lot getting stuck in there for like that long of a time so I think she's just going to chill out and relax for a little bit. Hopefully she can, you know, feel a little bit better to maybe go on Mickey and Minnie's runaway railway and yeah, I don't know. We'll see how it goes but at least we got on Rise. Hey, two hours wasn't for nothing. We don't have a lot of time, Bon Bon. We don't have a lot of time. This ship has been captured by the First Order. I'll leave it in the navigation immediately. Off the ship. No. What's I asking you? I'm asking you. Honestly, better than that. Now I'm going to get it. Well, that was fun. And if you caught on, I think I yelled B mode. Kylo was in B mode. He wasn't there himself. He was in his ship outside and that was really cool because now Bon got to see it both ways. I mean, there's no saying B mode is better than the other because it's not. That's why they call it B mode but it was still cool to be able to see it and at least we got to ride. That's the most important thing. Now we can make our way to Mickey and Minnie's Runaway Railway and things are looking up. The rain's gone. We got to ride Rise. You know, we couldn't do Olga's but maybe another day. At least we did get to do Rise and that's the most important thing. So things are getting better. Wow, I feel like the rainstorm that we got it wasn't even that big of a rainstorm actually flooded everyone out of the park because all the wait times dropped down to barely anything. It's only a 10 minute wait for Mickey and Minnie's Runaway Railway. Look it, there's nobody actually over in the outside queue. It just lines up right over there. That is pretty remarkable. My mom's feeling much better. She can say no to Kylo Ren but she can't say no to Mickey and Minnie. Maybe we'll get goofy this time, Ma. Hey, you hear me? Way back in the back. Well, go on folks. We're ready for a relaxing ride around the park. Hey, won't you? Hey, you're making me a mess. You're making this here a mess. You're making me a mess. What's the possibility? You're making me a mess. You're making me a mess. All right. Hey, big knickers. Told you nothing was going to go wrong. You'll do it. Well, Mickey and Minnie's for the win there. And now I think we're going to head on down to Toy Story Land. Speaking of Toy Story Land, how do you guys like my shirt? I got a lot of cool shirts. All these are Roosevelt's. And I love it. This one's kind of like Pixar. So it's got up on it. It's got the aliens from Toy Story. Mike Wazowski. I really like this one. It's very, very colorful. Oh, and take a look at this. Slinky's got its lights on. I love coming here at night. Oh, there he goes. Slinky Dog Dash is definitely best at night because of all the pretty colors. So right now it's just about sunset. So we're going to do a little bit of the best of both worlds.  I like it. If you see this gigantic mural here, this is the concept art that Andy made when he was constructing Slinky Dog Dash. But my question is, where's the sharks? Like where are the sharks? I want to see sharks on the roller coaster. Wouldn't it be great if there was a scene where John comes out? Oh, and here comes Slinky. We're going to ride the front row. Last time we rode the back row. And I always think the back is best, but we've got to give it a try here. Oh, boy. Slinky got me all hyped up. And now I'm kind of a little hungry. So I decided to get a little bit of a ride. I'm kind of a little hungry, so I decided to get myself a snack. Here in Toy Story Land, they have a new Halloween Pop-Tart that I've seen that I've really been wanting to try. So I placed a mobile order while I was on Slinky Dog Dash so that way it actually is ready when I got off. So we're going to head right on over to Woody's lunchbox. Here it is. Look at that bad boy. I think there's Nutella on the inside, or chocolate, and then vanilla icing and candy corn.  Now, I have to confess this is my first one.  It's actually a cold Pop-Tart. I wish they had like really long toasters they can stick it in, but I'm still very excited to try. Me and Bon Bon split in half. What do you think so far? It's good? I'm going to try it. This is really, really good. I do like it. I feel like it's more of a cookie, though. I don't taste like Pop-Tart. So it wouldn't be like a Pop-Tart that you would have for breakfast, more or less like a cookie. Very, very good, though. As we're walking out, look it. Not a single person in line for Mickey and Minnie's runaway railway. How awesome is that? And I guess now that's a wrap. We're done with Hollywood Studios. I'm so sad because we only have one more day in the parks with my mom and sister before they leave, and we saved Magic Kingdom for last because it's Magic Kingdom, you know? And, yeah, had a fun day today. Got a little derailed, but we kept positive hopes and things got better. So, anyways, I hope you enjoyed the video. I enjoyed making it. We will see you next time. Bye!