I'm gonna, all the good stories start with the struggle. So to Tyler Perry's the world, everybody in the world. You gotta go through something, you have to, but Tyler was in a car sleeping, homeless, everything. He could have been like, I'm just gonna rob this liquor store and give me some money. No, the long game was he acted, learn how to do plays, and then later on, is who he is today. Yeah, we on boss talk one on one, one on one. Yeah, we gonna talk.   Did you ever see that coming? I did, because I think when you consisted, like we were, you gonna win eventually because we was like everywhere. We'll be getting, we'll be doing shows for free chicken sandwiches. We'll be opening up for anybody, you know, and so that kind of drive with the music, it was just gonna catch up at some point. Not how we caught up, we didn't know that, but we know it was gonna catch up at some point, yeah. Wow. So, you know how I see a lot, cause the reason why we do what we do in my mind is to help people, especially kids who are watching these shows that can learn which way to go, which way not to go and so forth. So, as a kid growing up, and you know, a lot of people are like, I wanna be a rapper, I want a star, I'm gonna want all of this. Looking back on your life and now experiencing all of that because like for me, I wouldn't want any of that because I see there's no privacy. I see that you can't just walk down the street and yes, you have a lot of fans who love you and they're gonna come and you love the love but with love comes hate. Yes, sure. And you have people who, especially in today's society, clout. They'll just do something just because they wanna record it and become somebody, although the way in which they got it is not really stand up. Okay, gotcha. You know, so knowing all of this now, would you change anything? Nah, I wouldn't change it because I mean, right now, that's the thing everybody's doing, trying to get rich quick, coming up with schemes, whatever, but me, I think it's better to be known than not known but how do you use being known is the difference. So me, I use it for my advantage so I feel like people listen to me but they listen to me because of my story but also because of who I am. So if I can get to somebody and be able to share a story where they listen to me because of who I am, that's worth it. Like I was talking to my friend from Chicago and he was just showing me some stuff where Danny just killing each other back and forth. A lot of people out there that I got love for and all that. And so, and I want to tell some of these kids, this is real talk right here. I was young, so when I first started out, I was 15 or 14. I think my first song was, Ghetto's Trying to Kill Me. And I was young, but I was in the streets too. So I was trying everything to do to really get in trouble, like, where I'd never come home again. But I want to tell the young kids. Purposely. Purposely, like I thought, well, I thought I was just like bad. I didn't know any better. I was reaching out the wrong way. And so I want to tell the kids, man, today they taking you away. So remember back in the days used to be like, if you was 18, you was an adult. But now they're like, they're getting kids up out here 14, 15, as a child as an adult. And I just wanted to say like, that curve that you was having before, like, oh, I can mess up when I'm 14, 15, 16. But when I'm an adult, I'm a change. You can't do it anymore, right? So it's a lot of young men that's gonna get caught up, maybe even get killed, but also go to jail for like 50 years.  You ain't live yet. But I want to tell them like, cause I was that person where I didn't know nothing. Stop caring about what people who don't matter care. So meaning this part, right? So if you ain't got no money in your pocket, I know you want the latest Jordans or latest shoes, but you can't afford it. So don't try to do nothing that's gonna get you those shoes.   Them shoes would be looking like, you know, old Corvette by the time you come out. So just take it patiently. Be patient because, okay, let's say yourself. So you at 16 is the way different you is now. But what if you messed up at 16 and you wouldn't be here with us today doing what you're doing now? They gotta see that transition where I'm riding for my hood or my boys. That's short. Worrying about what I got on. That's short. Don't be afraid to get a job at McDonald's. Don't be afraid to catch the bus if you got to.  You know, I know it ain't glamorous, but your goal is to be having longevity in your whole life. It don't stop like one day. So most people take a reaction for one day. Oh, I'm broke. I need some money. Let me just stick this, no, and then you gone. So your goal is, man, all the good stories start with the struggle. So the Tyler Perry's of the world, everybody of the world. Gotta go through something to have something to talk about. But Tyler was in a car sleeping, homeless, everything. He could have been like, I'm just gonna rob this liquor store and give me some money. No, the long game was he acted, learn how to do plays, and then later on is who he is today. Now, if he could have just did that thing, I don't know how much work you gotta be recovering on a million at least. So what is that guy who was sleeping in his car was like, I'm sick, everybody's just looking at me crazy. Let me go get this. Now we'll never see Tyler. So the goal is to be consistent in your life and don't worry about if you gotta take a crazy job. They'll forget it later on when you become rich. So if I'm like, wherever I am, if I'm rich, the story's gonna be, oh, I remember you used to be homeless and you didn't have none. That's a good story for anybody. So value the struggles. Yeah, we on boss talk one on one. Yeah, we gone talk.


So I've drawn you a picture of our course and with the intention of trying to help you think about the amount of time that you're going to have to put in here. So look at what I've done. I have our, whoa, Monday class, I have our Wednesday class, okay? At some point you are going to watch the video lecture that informs Monday's class. So I would imagine most students take about two hours on those video lectures. Some students take more, some students take less. Video lectures tend to be closer to an hour. Sometimes they ooze into some rare ones or an hour and a half, but I really try hard to focus in and have them done in an hour. But the reason why I put two hours in there is because usually students are also studying and processing the material as they are watching the video lecture and this is really, really positive. I highly recommend it. It's worth putting the time in to have a better understanding before coming to class. So I'm envisioning two hours to do the work that is necessary. And that two hours, the more time you spend at that stage, the more valuable the hour and a half clicker time will be, because it'll be review. If you come to the clicker class having not really invested time in getting the video content, then the clicker experience is going to, like it'll be valuable, but you won't be able to leverage it for what it could be. So this would be a super powerful review opportunity to solidify tricky concepts. So the quality of the time you put in here will benefit the quality of time you're able to have during class. Clicking, coming to class for an hour and a half, lecture, awesome, straightforward, lab is another hour and a half, and another opportunity to mess with the concepts in a hands-on way to check your understanding. So awesome, lab, fantastic. You're going to do it again on Wednesday. So you put in about two hours to prep for all of this stuff. One of the things that's probably going to happen in this is that you are going to work on your external brain during that time. That probably will add to your external brain during the lecture and during lab. So embedded in all of this is working on your notes and maybe rewriting them or whatever you need to do to best help you. So then you're going to redo that whole process for Wednesday. You're going to do six of those and all of that informs an exam every week. So the exam is over everything that all of this is going to inform what happens on the exam. But in that week, at the end of the week, there's three things that you're going to spend some time on. I threw three hours into your external brain. That's nothing more than studying. I think I've said it before. I can't remember what I've said.  It's not an efficient use of your time. Because I test for understanding. Some students are like, dude, she's the craziest, like most confusing tester ever. But it's because if you don't understand the concepts, then you're not going to understand what I'm asking you. So I really do test for your understanding. If you think that you can look at six lectures worth of physio content the weekend before the exam and really understand it, you're wrong. You aren't going to do it. And you're not going to be able to carry out a strategy like that in your programs that you're going into. You can't expect to really understand things if that's your approach. If you don't care about really understanding it, then that's fine. Go ahead and do that. I would recommend spending time with your external brain every week after all of this to improve it and make sure that you really know what you're talking about. Every week you're going to have a quiz. I put an hour in here for the quiz. It's probably not going to take you an hour. But again, it might be something that you use to study. So I threw an hour in there. You can take it twice. I'll take the high score. Really, it's free points for studying. And then here's the one that this is kind of a wild card. It's the integration project process. You probably, I'm envisioning three to four hours every week spent on integration project. Some weeks you'll spend more time. Some weeks you'll spend less time.  That's not a requirement. And it's just a guideline. And mostly that guideline is in there because if you're spending more than that, you're doing something wrong. That said, if you haven't done any integration project work and you are at week four, then really you have 16 hours of work to do, right? And so, yeah, you might have to put in more than three to four hours at that time, which there's nothing wrong with that. With the integration project, you need to roll with how it rolls. Once we start getting benchmarks on week like five or whenever that is, it's going to be pretty steady. You're acting that you're doing some serious research all the way up until then. And learning is not ever easy. Like it just, it isn't. You have to do hard work to learn something. And hopefully that's why I pick a topic that you like because hopefully that time is kind of interesting time. Like you're looking into something that you're interested in. It is just a guideline. But again, I'm putting it there because if you're spending more time than that, we probably should talk and be okay with that. Like I offer pep talks. I offer pep talks to my YouTube students out. Like I'm a good pep talk giver and I'll give you a pep talk. I'll totally walk you through and help you frame things and you kind of have to trust me that I have the skills to carry out such talks, but I do and you can trust me. And all right. How are you feeling? I hope, I wish I could hug you right now because I hope that didn't overwhelm the Holy Living Tar out of you. The goal was not to overwhelm you, but to help you get to feeling like, okay, I can handle this crazy scene. If you have any questions, give me a holla holla. Shoot me an email or send me a message on Canvas. I haven't published our Canvas class yet, but it's imminent. So probably by the time you watch this thing, the Canvas course will be published. And I'm really excited to see you, slash meet you in Holy Crud like nine days. Oh, Holy Crud. Okay. Bye-bye.


A very good evening to you and thank you so much for staying tuned to Y254 TV, the number one youth station in Kenya. My name is Sheryl Blessing and this is The Power Talk Show. And this evening we wanted to do a continuation of the topic we were discussing last week. We were finding out, what makes someone a mama's boy? Tonight we want to know, can a mama's boy make a good partner? For those of you who have been dating people who are close to their mother, are they very good partners, would you consider someone who's a mama's boy, a long time life partner for you? And joining me this evening, I have Dr. Alice, who is also a pastor and a family counselor, Karibu Sana. Thank you so much. And right next to her we have the lovely Kate Antonio, who is a podcaster and a journalist. Karibu Tena-Kate. So this lovely ladies will be taking us through this discussion and we want to unpack and find out what are the qualities of a mama's boy and can they make very good life partners. Now you can also message us on our social media platforms, engage with us through our social media platforms at Y254 on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. We have made a post, we want to hear your comments, we want to hear your opinions and if you have any questions, send them through and we will sample them as we proceed with the program. You can also find me on my personal pages at Sherry Lee Blessing across all social media platforms. Now I want to dive into this topic by first finding out what would you, Dr. Alice, describe as a mama's boy, what are the traits of a mama's boy? Now thanks so much, this is a very lovely topic and I want to say that we have some misinterpretation or misunderstanding of who is a mama's boy. And one thing that people understand and one thing that people take is that a mama's boy is a boy or a man who is loved by the mother and I want to take ourselves in a broader understanding that a mama's boy is not a boy who is loved by the mother, is a boy who is loved by the mother and has deliberately agreed to leave his brains away and come use the mother's brains. That is who we call a mama's boy. It is not someone loved by the mother because we have mothers who love their boys and they give them very good advice and they have made very good husbands. I have been in marriage for the last 19 years and I have made friends who have been married by mama's boys and they do very well in marriage.   That was a very interesting way of putting it. They have left the brains behind and they're using their mom's brains. Because even us, sometimes our mothers call us, they tell us all, I'm seeing this, I'm seeing this, I don't need to believe everything I'm told by my mother.  I don't need to be rude to her but I'll tell her, mom, I considered 1, 2, 3, I picked this, I left this for some other time. I don't need to tell my mother she was wrong. I just need to tell her, I'll give this a consideration and I'll come back to you because I must put my mother first. I must put my marriage first. I must put my relationship first.  True. This is something that I want youth to understand that me, I will advise my children in a very different way because me and them, we are in two different generations. Personally, if I look at Kate, I will wonder why she's walking naked. You understand what I mean because of my time and her time but Kate will tell me, please pastor, I'll just pass the time, this is what we have, the mafundis decided to give us half and they'll give us later, you will understand. So it is all about how do you take your advice, do you take time to internalize the advice that you receive from your mother?  And I like that. It's basically the man has taken their mother as the final authority. Whatever my mom says, I am running with that. I do not care to internalize it. And that's a very dangerous thing because that makes the man not his own person. He is not an individual who's capable of making his own decisions outside of his mother. Now Kate, based on that experience, based on that explanation, have you ever had a relationship with someone who had the same nature, who was a mama's boy? Personally, I think if I feel like you're a mama's boy, that's a red flag for me and I'll just live. I won't stay there because at some point it's exhausting.  He'll be taking advice from her. Whatever you do, she'll be informed. So he's codependent. He'll be always talking to his mom. You'll be like a co-wife. Yes, she is the mom, but yeah, they don't have the sexual activity. They don't interact like that. But the relationship is the physical bond, the emotionally bond there, the people who you can separate. So I don't think I can date a mama's boy because for me, I get tired so easily. I'll be tired. It's exhausting. And from what I've heard from people, you can't change a mama's boy. Yeah, you can't change him. So I can't. I've never experienced that and I don't think I'd like to experience that. And what you said is actually true. The mom would be the first woman in his life. You would be the second priority. So as a woman, I feel like we all want a man who prioritizes us. Comes to us for advice, seeks our counsel before going to the mother. So obviously, that is out of question for you. Now, the way she mentioned, she said, you can never change a mama's boy. Can you never change a mama's boy or is there some room for change? Now, you say being a mama's boy, you have to say it's a choice. It is no one who is born a mama's boy. No, no, no. You make a choice. You decide, like for example, let me use this example, although it may not be very specific.   Now, one thing I would want to tell those people who value their mothers because they came through for them. And we also have, by the way, Baba's daughters. That is also something else that will be discussed later because most of the time we talk of mama's boys, but we have Baba's daughters. Daughters who can't do anything without consulting their fathers. They can't. Which is the same level with mama's boy? Which is the same level with mama's boy.  Now, what happens when you get into a relationship? You are not able to give space to listen to your girlfriend. You are not ready to listen to the incoming wife because you tend to imagine that this lady coming into your life will become an enemy. And it should not come between you and your mother.  So when you make a choice of valuing your mother so much.  You introduce your girlfriend to your mother and remember you made a choice. I need to tell you that you don't introduce your girl to your parents so that they can give you a right of moving on with that relationship. You already have what you feel is best for you. This is not a girl who you found today and you took to your parents tomorrow. You've stayed with this girlfriend for like two, three, four, five months and you felt that this is a girl of my choice. And remember, this girl will not live with your mother. This girl is your wife. So it is you to make a decision. The only thing why we bring them to our parents, number one, is because we recognize our parents. So we bring them so that they can know who we are dating. So I need to say that it is not a right that parents will know who you are dating. It's like a sign of respect. It is a sign of respect because many boys, they leave us, they go to the university and they bring us ladies with children. Did they consult us? They did know it. So those parents who are privileged that your boy brings in the girlfriend he wants to marry, you should just respect that child because he has shown the highest respect that a parent can be shown. So it is not a right, but you show respect. The next thing why you bring this lady is because you want to incorporate it in the family. You want them to start accepting a new face. This is the girl I'm bringing in. They may not accept her. And I want to tell you, why do you force your mother to accept your girlfriend and she doesn't benefit from anything from your girlfriend? It's you who is going to leave the family. I have been married for 19 years. I don't think there's anything I've done for my in-laws. I only caused chaos because when I got married, the land had to be divided so that my husband can get a portion. So I am actually a problem in that family. So I don't need to force issues. I will just, I occupy the space that the in-laws open for me. If they don't open me much, I'll mind my own business because my husband takes care of me. So my husband will just put boundaries. We will live away. We will be coming just to say hi to them like guests. And there you've really summed what the Bible even says about marriage. It's a union of two people. The son will leave the family, the woman will leave the family and they will come together. And that's a new unit. So you only seek for advice or you just do it as a sign of respect. Even boys asking the fathers for the daughter's hand. That's just a sign of respect. I want to ask you first, show my interest and then proceed with our plans. So there needs to be very clear boundaries between your parents and you and your family.  I'm telling you not to keep marriage. Very few parents love intruders because this girlfriend is an intruder. This man I'm bringing for my mother is an intruder. You can imagine a whole doctor leaving the mother going to get married by maybe a person who doesn't even know what a degree is. Then my father will not agree this and will ask me and what is wrong with you. But remember, it is not about books. It is not about what we have. It's about the person. The person is about the love I have for my man and the rest we shall build when we are together. And that is what I want to tell youth. And that's very important. I hope the audience is paying very keen attention to what Dr. Alice is saying because truly when you decide to be with someone, you are committing your life to them. You're going to be married with them for longer than you have been with your parents. So Kate, do you look for, do you spot signs like that when you're trying to date or when you're being courted? Do you look for signs of, is he very attached to the mother? Does he run to the mother first? Do you look for signs like that as you're dating? Okay, you can't be looking for such signs but you expect somehow there'll be signs like that in the future or it can even be in the beginning of a relationship cause immediately you enter in a relationship with a mama's boy.   So you'll just notice, I don't look for that in a relationship, I don't look for someone who'll be vulnerable to me, who'll be clingy, someone who'll be stalking me, those characteristics, they especially come from mama's boy and immediately you enter a relationship with a mama's boy, just know that you're not in this relationship alone, the mom is there. So anything that goes on between you and him that will need to concern someone else, it will always be the mom. The mom is the only person who will be solving your problems and we don't need that. You don't need your mother-in-law or your mom-in-law coming in your relationship and telling you what to do. If you want to travel, she'll be involved. Mom, you're going to Mombasa, no, don't go. You don't want that. You want someone who will make decisions for both of you. He doesn't have to consult his mom or whoever, just you.  So if you find a mama's boy, you'd probably be submitting to the mom. It's not really the husband who's in charge. So you need someone who's in charge. But the way we've talked about the psychological aspect of them wanting to be protective of the mom because they have seen the mom going through some suffering or one thing or the other, doesn't then, you know, that fact make us want to be more compassionate to them because if, let's say, the father left when they were young and the mom is all they have known, the mom has been there for them, wouldn't that make you want to compromise and say, eh, nai lewa ki dogo and maybe he can amend it or amend some things? Wouldn't that make you more inclined to give him a chance? Yeah, you know, this guy is loving. These people are loving. Mama's boys are loving. They're romantic. They're everything. But their boundaries in a relationship, you wouldn't want to be tired at some point or exhausted, you won't want that. So you can't tolerate that while the relationship is at the verge of breaking up because the mom doesn't want you two together.  He loves the mom and he will love you, yes, but there are things you won't tolerate. That's what we're saying. There are things you won't tolerate in that relationship. So this is someone who's bound to love the mom for life.  And she'll say she loves you, but I think there'll be jealousy. There'll be a lot of things going on there. And there might be some competition. Because if we have two women fighting for the attention of the son, then there's competition. Yeah, there's competition. And there'll be a lot of chaos in between. So I don't think it's advisable to date a mama's boy, but that... Even if you feel guilty, you wouldn't advise me. Yeah, I wouldn't advise that. But they're loving people. They're not bad people. They're loving people because they... They just need to work on their boundaries. Yeah, they just need to work on their boundaries. And it is so hard, so hard to change them from that. Ah, that's very sad for the mama's boys. But again, also, we need to understand that if you come across a mama's boy now as a lady, because we will not say that they will not marry. They will marry. They will bring us their wives, because you know you will not understand these mama's boys very easily when you are dating. You will come to understand them when they come to the house. That is when you know that the mother-in-law can come and sleep in your house and sometimes even goes to your bedroom. That is when you know the power of a mama's boy. Because the mother-in-law can go anywhere, can even use your towel to wipe herself because she doesn't care. After all, this is the sense thing. So why are you giving me all these rules? But I would want to tell ladies also, when you are dating a man, whether it's a mama's boy or not a mama's boy, make sure you don't come to replace the mother. I want to advise you that mothers play a great law in the growth of a man.  So that is why the Bible says in your category, it says that let the man leave the family and let the girl leave the family. Why? Because the way I love my father, like me, my father went through a lot for me to be what I am. He handed over a girl who was already financially stable to another man, you understand? So I would not imagine that my husband can come in and try to be like my father because he will not make it, you understand? So when girls are getting married also, let them also understand they are coming in as wives, not mothers. Because that is why youths I want to advise you. I don't know how you take it, but it is not advisable to call your husband daddy. It is not. Leave them, leave them for your children.  So is this so prevalent to have a child of my age to become their daughter?   That is why when he's making decisions, he will not involve you. After all, you call him dad. So you are equal to a child. That is why sometimes you will not even be consulted. So I want to say that as much as we have this baby, the mama's boys, which we must help them because they need to keep marriages because they will not stay away.  Please don't brim them. When you see them pierce their ears and do their hair.  Because that's what they used to go with their mothers. Their fathers never carried them anywhere. So I don't blame them and don't think they are rude. They are not even lost. But the only place they know is the salon. So that is where they will be going. So sometimes we blame some youth not because we are not giving them the right direction.  So some of these people were brought up by their mothers. They inclined so much such that they become very good cooks. You know they learn from their mothers. Stay with their moms in the kitchen. They are in the kitchen with their mothers. They are in the salon with their mothers. So who will do his hair? We'll do. I mean, he will do what mothers do and will go to kitchen and cook very good food. You will think that your son is talented in cooking. Know that your son is talented. He's only inclining to your family nine activities.  So even as parents, we have a real task of changing our boys. And that has led me to my next question. I wanted to find out, because it's the mothers who are probably overprotective or overloving that turns the boy or the man into a mama's boy when the mom is very overly involved in their son's life. Then obviously the son will integrate their life with the moms. So how can the parents or how can the moms make sure they have a boundary? They have a clear-cut boundary between their son's life and their lives such that they will check on their welfare, but they can separate not to take over the son's life. One thing I would want to advise parents that keep boundaries.  Keep their relationships aside. Give them advice. I'm a family counselor. You come to my office, I'll give advice. I will not force you to take what I tell you. Give them advice, tell them this is how marriage goes. This is what you do with your wife. This is what you do with your husband, but let them make a decision.  No one was born married. So even us who give advice in family issues is either things that we've gone through, things that we were taught in school and live experiences. So no one was born in marriage that you are so strict in telling them if you don't marry this one, you will not make a good wife. Who said? Right now I have a case in my office of a boy who is regretting now. He is already in a fourth marriage and the mother does not want the marriage. Because there is a specific tribe, the mother wants the boy to marry from and it is the tribe of the mother.  So that is why I'm saying parents also, we really contribute. I might be having my one daughter, personally I'm blessed with only one daughter and two sons. Now having one daughter, I might incline so much because she's one daughter. So I will love her so much until I am almost telling them they can come and live with me with their husband. Because I want my daughter close to me. But one thing, who protected me when I went with my man? So why do I want to think that my daughter, I cannot hand her over to another man and she'll be safe? Nobody knew my husband and my parents agreed. So I don't think we parents, let's set boundaries, let's know when to come in and when to stay away. Let's know what to answer when consulted and what to remain silent. When your son comes to us for advice, ask him what is the take of your girlfriend? What is the take of your wife? First understand what is the take of the other person. Now you can come in and give them advice, all of them. Parents advise your children when they are together. Bring them together. Tell them, Shiro, this is where you are wrong. Dan, this is where you are wrong. Don't be calling your son alone and trying to think that your daughter-in-law is always wrong. I mean we have sons who are very evil. But because they are our blood, we tend to think they are very good. So because now you see what Kit is saying, that she will not even want to dream getting married to a mama's boy. Now you can see the way I love my son and I didn't want my son to have a girlfriend. Now I must correct this because now I want my son who I love so much. So what I'm saying is- Not to be rejected. Exactly. So I also must pray alone so that Kit can agree with my son. And you know ultimately, the role of parents is to mold the children so that they can become adults of their own. I want to read some of the comments that you've sent us on Facebook and thank you so much for that. We have Jirani Yungu who says, you gave a one-sided opinion. What about a Baba's girl? That's a very good observation. Thank you so much. But today it's because we are tackling the mama's boy. We will have a segment for the Baba's girl as well because obviously it's an issue. We have Dr. Eddy who says yes, but all the ideas and decisions be approved by mom. Dr. Eddy, isn't that then submitting to your mother? Yeah. And then we have Timothy Gaira who says, good evening. I'm watching live from Kitale. Thank you, Timothy. Then we have Christian Moses Zondieki who says yes, 100%. So thank you so much for your comments. We have Katerin Shiko who says, Ndani Sana, a santi Kate. Count me in again. And Matoke Godwin's Godfrey says, Kwani wakon na pembe. So these are very interesting questions. And I can see most of them are coming from our gentlemen. Thank you so much for reaching out to us. And based on those questions, we can tell that these men love their mothers.  We've seen someone who says all the decisions have to be approved by mom. So Kit, based on that, because you're the one who made that, when I say mom, Kwanzaa, we have to prioritize, what do you think about that? I just think this man that prioritized their mom, it's how they've been nurtured. They've been smoothed by their moms. They have not had that father figure that taught them how to develop as a man and be independent. These are co-independent people. They can't stay alone without their moms. And it's not a good thing. We should not normalize this. As women, let's learn how to bring up our kids. When we have them, our boys, even our girls, when you're going to discuss the next topic about daddy's girls, we should learn how to bring up our kids. And even our brothers and sisters, we should learn how to make them depend on themselves. We're always advised to talk about mom all the time. Let them make their own decisions because that's how your relationship will work.  I'm tired. I don't want to hear about your mom, your mom. Let's talk about something else. Let's talk about moving on forward. And I just think it's a bad idea dating such a guy. They're loving but no, no, no, no, no, it's yeah, you have to be dependent. You have to bring the masculine energy. You don't, I can't deal with a mama's boy. It's hard. Thank you, Kate for that. And we want to hear from the women as well. Based on that, will you date a mama's boy? Do you think they'd make a very good partner? And Kate had also liked to hear, because from our viewers, Nikama, we have some mama's boys in the viewers. So I want to hear your opinions on that, but we'll take a very short break and we'll be back right after. So go to our social media platforms at Y254 on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. Share your comments, ask your questions and we will sample that as we come back. Stay tuned to Y254. Thank you so much for staying tuned to Y254 TV. This is the Power Talk Show and my name is Sherry Blessing. Now before we went on a break, we were talking about how good of a partner a mama's boy can be, or can they even make a good life term? Partner, can you marry a mama's boy? Is this someone who will respect you in marriage? And right before the break, you sent us some of the comments which we sampled and I want you to go to our Facebook page, our Twitter page and our Instagram page and still share your comments. Go to Y254 and share your opinions, share your questions and we will sample that as we proceed. And joining me is Dr. Alice and Kate Antonio. And right before we went on a break, I was asking you, Dr. Alice, about the comments that we got.  We saw the comment over, all decisions have to be approved by mom. What do you say about that? Personally, I will not approve that as a mother because I'm a mother of two sons. And I don't mean that boys should not go to their mothers to seek advice. No, no, no. What I'm saying is consider the ideas of your wife or so. Put the ideas of your wife together with the ideas of your father, the ideas of your mother, the ideas of your friends. Then when you sum up those ideas, come up with now the idea that you feel if you build your marriage because we are not in marriage to defend anyone. We are not in marriage that we may win. You know, we are not in a competition that this mama's boy want to show that it is me, myself, and I. You, when we come into a marriage, we come so that we can be sensitive to each other's feelings, understand? But now, if you want to understand, blessing one quality or two or three of a mama's boy. Number one, a mama's boy, we are not married someone like this one. We will not be chosen. Because she can reason. Mama's boys don't like ladies who reason. They want you when they leave you and they go, they don't care. They will not even ask. So they will not marry an exposed girl. They will not. And actually, they will say, those exposed girls are of them. That is what mama's boys will say. Because that's what their mama is telling them. Who you are, Amari Bika?  Our tacky was so mean. They don't want to learn in people.  They don't even know the next town because they know what the things they are doing are not right. So they can only take a person without a sober mind. If the person will not be concerned that everything including by me in a way as you want to consult your mother. I mean, no one is going to take that. Number two, they will not marry from very well up families or average families. They want to take those girls who come from very poor backgrounds. So that they can be silencing you. Wherever you are, you are going to be in trouble. I have no idea, I have no idea. That is how they want to frustrate and intimidate those girls. The mama's boys will always want to, they want to be top. So they will never get anyone who can be able or who has power to negotiate for themselves. So they will marry from very poor backgrounds. I talk about poor, not humble. There is nothing like a humble background is a poor background. So they will never marry from a poor background. They will marry a girl who is not exposed. And when you get married and you are exposed they will try to tell you and make. That is why when they marry someone now like my good daughter here they want to tell her don't work. Don't work, stay at home. So that I can work for you. Not because that this man is capable of working for this girl. No, but he doesn't want the way this lady can go out and be advised on her rights. So he wants the girl locked in the four walls and you will have no exposure at all. That is how some of the mama's boys behave because they don't want a girl who can question them. Because many mama's boys they will come home at 12 and they don't want to explain where they were. And that's also a very major red flag. Yes. That's a sign of manipulation and control.  That's what goes. And mom told me I'm the man of the house. So I can come at midnight. I can come tomorrow. I can hang around with other girls as I'm also with you as my girlfriend and you should not question me. That is how dangerous it is. Women please hear me. This is how dangerous it is bringing up your son with that perspective. This man may keep a marriage but it's a marriage that is not a marriage. Yes. Because that's just, we have seen major signs of manipulation and control and it's being puppeteered by the mother.  The way you mentioned, you have a client who has been divorced because the mother wants someone from a specific tribe. Three marriages. And it's not because the tribe is superior or anything. It's just the mother. But because the mother comes from that tribe he is insisting to the son, marry from my tribe.  Yes. So that this girl can be silenced. She will never talk. The mother will always talk. Now kids, as you hear these stories and you get this experience, would you advise, how would you advise someone to get out of a situation where they're already tied to a mama's boy?  I have to do this and this in accordance to the way the mom wants. What would you advise them to do? They should run. They should just run, literally. Two people, what will you advise them to do? You really can't go in between that. But an advisor will give a friend who has relations with a mama's boy is just try as hard as you can to get out of that relationship if you can't fix that man. Just get away from it. Just get away because that's toxic. And what do you think about even the media pushing for this agenda? Because we have some shows and movies that really show. This man is very attached to the mom and it's a very good relationship and he's married and has kids and the son also takes on the role. What do you think about that? What do you think is the impact of our generation seeing and experiencing this in our media? I really think it's not really a good thing to advise someone to stay in a toxic relationship. It's not really healthy. It's bad telling someone to stay somewhere. They can't sustain themselves in somewhere they can't be comfortable in. If you're not comfortable with someone, just walk out, live for your own peace, for your own health, mental health. You just have to walk away because at some point I've said it before people get tired, you learn into depression, you learn into anxiety, you learn into a lot of things, you'll find yourself getting into drugs and all that kind of stuff that is out here because someone is depressing you, you're living someone's life. You want to stay somewhere, you can't move, you can't manoeuvre, you just get instructions on how to live because the mum is saying she has to do this, you guys can't do this and that's not the way to live, that's not a way to live. It's very confined, it's like you're imprisoned basically. Yeah, you're imprisoned then.  Got married five years later, the mum is done who's making the decisions for her household. What would you advise someone who's going through something like that? Now one, it can be very difficult for when you're already in marriage, to quit that marriage. It may not be very easy but a relationship is very easy to quit. You can just say tomorrow I don't need to meet you.    Now these days you people, you don't want to sit with your boyfriends down. You want to go to crabs, you want to go for parties.  You went for parties, you took beer, you were there saying ho ho and the songs that you love, boom boom boom, that you don't even know the words but you only hear the noise. How are you going to learn each other?   But if you people, you continue dating in this way that you are dating, that you're always in parties, you're always in birthdays, there's no time you sit down to discuss very important issues. That is why you are seeing youths get married and they cannot cook food in their home. They eat in the hotel. It is in the morning. Babe, these are your names. As we call each other names, my husband is called Namu so we call Wanja and I call him Namu and that is us. Now this age, if you're not called babe, you don't feel like you're loved. But to me and as a family counselor who really updates herself with the current affairs, one thing I've realized is these names have come so that they can silence you. That is why you call babe. Now when you call babe, you forget that the man is the man of the house. He should be providing. Now you have just been called babe and the man is here seated, only tuning Y254 and he doesn't even provide. But because he called you babe. You're blinded. Now you are blinded with funny names. These are the names of your generation anyway. I have no quarrel about but you need to understand that when you get into a marriage, now this is a marriage. This is not a joke. A marriage is a covenant. It is an agreement like the agreement you have when buying land. I am coming in as a husband. You are coming in as a wife. Fine. To work in my pens, it's as a hopper. To do a image, it's a song and I'm not gonna. I couldn't do a work on my pens. I want to tell the youths we don't keep marriages because of love. Because even land, you don't buy. Even if you buy from a friend, you must have an agreement with the lawyer. Why? And this is your friend. This is how marriage is. Like he says to the youths, oh, you know this marriage very hot, very hot, very hot. Oh, you are taken to Mombasa one week. You think now this is the man of the house and you feel, I must get married to this man. Oh, a man who bought me a new dress for my birthday. After one year is when now you are realizing the qualities of this man. When you already have two children, where will you go? Where will you go? So I would want to advise ladies and my boys, please, as much as we want to party, as much as it is our time to go out, hang around when you are sober, so that you can be able to understand the calls that she receives. Most of the times are from who? That is when you note whether she is a papa's girl.  Youth, if we continue like that, we will be getting the qualities of these people when it is already too late. And that's very good advice that you have given. You have to quote and know your person intimately. When you are sober, because better a broken courtship than a broken marriage.  It is not as sweet as we talk about it. I have shared with the single ladies who are single today with two or three children. It is not as good as we try to beautify it. And if you don't take anything else from this conversation, take that. Better a broken relationship than a broken marriage. Now I want to sample some of the other comments that you've sent. This is from Twitter. We have Cedric Mekhi who says, hapa hakunachamama's boy, ni eva watua elewane, bure ita kua very hard sana. Which is very true Cedric. Thank you for that comment. Back to Facebook, we have Budakim who says, I think parents should remove some limitations in their son and allow them to interact freely with other men. You find it's tough for a son who sticks to her mother to live with others in the real life page. I think father's girls should also be seen though. It's not much affecting the sense, the say. Thank you so much Budakim. That makes sense because they will find it hard to interact with other men. We have Cyrus Wa Mudaka who says, mama's boys will never be husband material because he'll always be like a remote controlled by his mom. Say hi to Dr. Alice. Ume salimi wa Dr. Alice. Thank you so much Cyrus. We have Roda Rosi who says, yes 100%. I think Ndiwa Zuri. Roda in onekana preferencia kenivo. And I'll tell you why Roda says that. Yes. And then we have Sponyu who says, count me in. Thank you so much. We have Saimo Kei who says, mama's boys are good partner. Wake is her mom. Pardon? Mama's boy, good partner, wake is her mom. Okay, so these are people who are, wanna prefer mama's boys. Then we have Budakim who also says, I think you people should also plan to talk about this mentality of some men who live like they're over-righteous. Thank you Budakim. They're also very stubborn and want to be seen as superior in Christ. Thank you. We will give that topic a consideration and then we will come with it. Then we have Jerry Dacey who says, I am married by one.  He always asks me what to do and which direction to take. And that is a very healthy relationship. We have Ruben Tiga who says, attention please, mama's boys actually sleep at 8 a.m. I'm Ruben Tiga from Loi Talk Talk. Thank you for watching us. Then we have brother Bernard who says, yes, 100% they can. We have Cyrus Omodeca who also says, fences of Baba's daughters and then he sent a fence there. It's true. They have to go through a lot to get the daughters. Henry De Jong says, I'm right there with you. He can make a good wife once they understand each other. Tuned in from Naivasha. Thank you so much for those comments. That was very insightful. And based on what we're talking about and what the comments say, as long as there is understanding, you have to come together in your marriage.  It's the two of you who make a family. And we have seen that there is a lady who's married to a mama's boy and they have a very healthy relationship where the man consults him. Now I want us to look at the toss side because we have been focusing on the negative aspect. There was a story that came out a few months ago of a man who's a popular footballer and he got divorced. The wife wanted to divorce him. Only for the wife to discover this man does not have property because the property is in his mom's name. Everything is on the market. So the wife had to pay. So in cases where manipulation like that exists because we women also play a role in our marriages. Do you think it's a good thing to be a mama's boy? Antonio, what would you say to that before we get the professional aspect? It will be a good thing to be a mama's boy but not my boy.  Be a mama's boy somewhere else. Yeah, because this person, they're loving. They're loving people. They care a lot. They love to march. They obey. They respect. But when it comes to being clingy, if you don't want someone to be around you all the time, you don't need a mama's boy around you. If you want someone who will be clingy, you have to have a mama's boy. Yeah, they're good people. We have not said they're bad people but the problem comes when they start manipulating you. They start acting anyhow. They must ask for advice from their moms. Their moms must say something before something is done. That's where the problem comes in. Otherwise, they're good people. They're loving. As you can see, someone has just said they're married to one. Elevators is saying they're nice, they're loving but not me. Yeah. Don't love me. Be a mama's boy but not my boy. Yeah. Dr. Alice, what would you say to a situation like that? Where the mom, because of the love or the bond they have with the son, the man actually turned out to protect the son from a gold digger or someone who wanted to just take their wealth. Now, one thing I want to say is this, that when you make a choice of becoming a mama's boy, which I say it's a choice. No one is born mama's boy. And I say that there are women who love their sons and they make very good husbands. We've seen one comment there.  That is the common denominator. She is consulted. She is respected. She is recognized. So the mother has not overlapped.   And we didn't say that when you're being loved by your mother, there is any mistake with that. But make sure if you have to bring any other person in your life, then you must understand the person you are bringing in your life has feelings, has emotions, has ideas. You know, you are not marrying a dad. You are marrying a girl with her own ideas. So you will not just incorporate your mother's ideas. You will have also to listen to your wife. But now the good thing, and that is why one of them called Roda, and I think said they are very good.  That's all you need to do. You can own the whole world. And that is what many girls do to not listen to me.  I have no problem. When your mother says I walk naked, I walk. When your mother says I cook chapati, I cook. You live with them like that. You live a very happy marriage and you are not even in prison. Because you only live in prison if you don't agree. But when this girl comes to realize, oh, so your only problem is you are a mama's boy. I don't have any problem. If it is going to your mother's place, I will wash utensils, when will I die?  Now, the better part of being a mama's boy and getting married to a mama's boy is that as long as you agree with the analogy of I love my mother so much and the mother realizes that you love that woman, I'm telling you, you can even be bought a plane. You can live such a good life. So do you mean that all you have to do is submit to the mother? You have to. Who has an option? So that is the only way to live happily with a mama's boy. For you to live with a mama's boy, you must recognize the mother. When she comes home to visit you people, you leave them with the son as they discuss their issues. Don't interfere that you're not part of that family.    So when we enter the kitchen, let them talk with the mother.  Let the mother see that one because mama's boys, they will always say, you must respect my son. And respecting my son is doing what my son says. You are not supposed to give any of your ideas.  And I want to advise youth. Let me tell you, my dear one. It is not very easy. And I want to put it this way. It is not very easy to leave a marriage with a child and you get into another marriage when the father of the first child is arrived. That is when you will know. So that is why I 100% fight against divorce, although it is one of the ways of resolving marital issues because you walk out of that marriage with your two children. You are not even 30. You need a man. You want to settle with another man. If you look caring when you are dating, but the moment you bring their blood, very few, I want to say, very few men who continue loving, you are first two children. Who he knows there is a father somewhere. So if you are married to a mama's boy, and this is when you are realizing, please don't quit. You have to just make a choice.   It's a choice for you to be married to one. Exactly. But if you know it very late, you do not know it when you are dating. Please don't divorce. Just sit down and call yourself a meeting and say, the only challenge I have in this home is respecting my mother-in-law. And you will not die because of doing that. Some of us, we realized that we had issues with our in-laws and we left the compound before they manipulated us. Now, if you have that chance of staying with them, because one, you know the mama, the parents of the mama's boys are very rich. By the way, whatever mama work on a mama's boy, there are people with something. You don't become a mama's boy over a woman with nothing. Mama's boys are rich. That means these are rich kids. We don't have a poor mama's kid. There are. Watch out, watch out, this is what I'm here for. There are. Because you have said a lot, which is so true. You have to be willing to submit. If you're the woman, you have to submit to the mother-in-law because she will not die. She will not be controlled. Sometimes you even call her, Mom, can we do this? Please, are you going to advise? You know exactly, you don't mean that. But you want us to hear that you consider her. And life goes. So that is a choice you make. Anyone who's listening to us, it is a choice for you. If you love this mama's boy, if he's your, come on in each one of your goals, take him and be willing to follow through with everything. Now I want us to go back. We saw a comment of someone, the daddy's girls. America fans. Fans say they're from the state house. Kate, do you think it's that hard to get into the heart of a daddy's girl? It's not hard to get inside the heart. It's not hard to fall in love with that guy. But it will be hard to get out of that relationship. But just get out, just go. Just live. If you don't want to be a slave, just live for your own good. But if you're willing to be submissive to the mom and the guy and the mama's boy, well, I'm good. It's your choice. But if you don't want to be submissive to the mom and the guy, you'll be exhausted. Unless you have decided and you're willing and you're ready, then if you're independent, probably we will not advise you to do that. But I'm telling you, the fans that you saw there, personally, I want to say this very practically, I'm a daddy's girl myself. My father loves me. I mean, hey, if you want to die, just touch me. And you will know my father owns a gun. That is when you will know. But my father knows how to put boundaries. I can go home and tell my dad, this is what I'm thinking, this is what I'm thinking. The first question my father asked me, have you consulted your husband?  That is why I concur with this lady who said, she's married to a mama's boy, but she's very comfortable. It is possible to be a daddy's girl. I'm one. It was not easy for my husband to be accepted to bring in goats. It was not easy. And my father used to ask me, ma'am, you know, he could not believe it.  But finally, he saw the confidence I have on this man. And that is why he allowed to break the fence so that the man can come in.  So it is not bad to be loved by your parents. But what we are saying, why don't you put a boundary? That is one takeaway that we should have. Because based on what you're saying, your father set the boundary. Your father said, go to your husband first. Then I will give you advice. Actually, when our marriage was very young, you know, when marriage is one year, two, three, four years, everybody sees mistakes. Thank you so much. Now I want us to end this conversation. It has been very, very interesting. And clearly we have a lot more to talk about. But that is it. We have run out of time. So stay tuned to Y254. We have more programs coming on. You will catch a repeat of this show tomorrow at 1 p.m. And you can catch us on YouTube as well. So thank you so much for watching us. This has been Power Talk Show and my name is Sherri Blessing.


Hello everyone, this is Mr. Langdale here and you know the golf season may be over But that doesn't mean that we still can't talk about golf and physics So I thought I'd throw a problem here at you that deals with adding non-right angled vectors And I thought I'd make it about golf. So it's kind of the best of both worlds. You got your golf You got your physics. What more can you ask for? So in the first hole at the links in spruce Grove my home course LD hit his drive 314 yards not bad at 115 degrees Don't worry about the fact you've got a non-metric unit here This is going to work exactly the same if you're doing a question with meters or kilometers or centimeters or yards It doesn't matter. He did second shot 103 yards at 21 degrees east of north and of course he hold out for eagle. That's pretty common for me What was the golf balls resultant? Displacement okay, let's throw the word the in there. So when we're starting off with questions like this We want to begin by drawing diagrams. I'm going to make a diagram for 314 yards 115 degrees and then separate one for 21 degrees east of north. So let's deal with the first one here first 314 degrees or 314 yards 115 degrees. What does that look like? Well, let's do 115 degrees. It's got the square brackets around it here Which means it's going to be the rectangular coordinate system the RCS system That's always measured here from the positive x-axis first So I'm going through 90 degrees and then to get to 115 is going to be somewhere about there roughly, right? That's about 115. It's a little past 90. So that's roughly what my vector is going to look like. Yeah, that's 115 degrees Now doing trig with that isn't much good because I can't do simple right angle trigonometry with 115 degrees I have to use an acute angle on this less than 90 So I think I want this angle that's in here is the one I actually want Right, that's the angle that I would like to deal with so to figure that out I'm going to go through 90 and then what much how much more do I need to make 115? I would need 25 degrees more which means this angle in here is got to be 25 Now when I add 25 and 90 I get the 115 Okay, so I've got that vector drawn out now. Let's do the x and y components so I think this is going to be a good-looking x component there that'll work nicely and Maybe I'll use this y component there there. So that's my x. I got my y and I think I'll do some labeling here So this is going to be 314 yards Okay, there we go looks good Not bad now. Let's deal with the next one here Okay, 21 degrees east of north. So I'm going to start off at the east Sorry, I'm going to start off north. I'm going to go to the east by 21 degrees So starting north going to the east. That's what that's going to look like by 21 degrees And now again, I can put in my components. So there's my y component. There's my x component I've got two triangles drawn out I've got my x and y components and I can go ahead and quickly label this as 103 yards Now what I want to do next is I want to actually figure out what the x and components are So to do that, I'm going to use a little bit of sine a little bit of cosine I've already got the calculations done So I'm just going to erase them so you can see what I did here So for the top triangle here, there is my sine calculation That's going to allow me to find the x component I'd use sine here because I had x which was the opposite side to the angle that I was given So when I get my sine calculation, I do that, I get a negative 132.7021 yards Why is it negative? This is the most important part of the question It's the part that kids usually forget It's negative because this vector is going to the left So you've got to remember, any time your vectors are going left or down, make them negative Forgetting to do that is probably the biggest mistake students make on these problems What about the y component? Well, that side is adjacent to the angle So I'm going to use cosine, cosine is adjacent over hypotenuse Hypotenuse is 314 yards, multiply those out 284.5806 yards Notice I'm keeping four guard digits or four numbers after the decimal So that my final answer comes out to be correct Now what about for this other triangle down here? Same idea, cosine, sine, sine is used for the x because x is the opposite side Cosine is used for the y because it's the adjacent side And they're both positive, so I left them as both positives in the question Sorry, my numbers here So I've got my triangles drawn out separately I've broken the vectors into x and y components And I've actually figured out what they are here Making sure that if it's going left or down, it's negative And right or up is positive Now I'm going to take my next step here Is just going to be taking those two x's and adding them together So here's my x total The total of the two x's from my first triangle to my second triangle Worked out to 95.7902 yards And for my two y's, I added those together 380.7394 yards So there's an x total and a y total Now I can take those two totals and I can make a final triangle And this is what I'm going to find my answer from It's a nice right angle triangle And to find the resultant, just like we did for regular old right angle problems I can use the Pythagorean formula So there we go, I set up the Pythagorean formula And I get the resultant to be 393 yards To find the angle theta, which is going to be down in the corner here Between the two tails, there's my theta I'm going to use the inverse tan function Because I'm using tan because I have the opposite and adjacent sides of the triangle here And I'm getting 75.9 degrees You can either call that north of west North of west works fine Moving to the north from the westerly direction Or 104 degrees rcs If you think about this, this would be going through 90 degrees And then an extra 4 degrees roughly if you were to round it To get up to 76, which is about 75.9 So those steps again You want to draw out your two vectors You want to break them into x and y components Make sure that if the x component or the y component is going left or down You make it a negative Then take your two x's and add them together And take your two y's and add them together And then you've just got a simple right angle triangle problem Where you can figure out the resultant using the Pythagorean formula And you can figure out the angle using tangent So I hope that helped If you're looking for more questions on adding non-right angle vectors Check out my website at LDindustries.ca


Here's an example I gave in changing the immutable. I hadn't seen other people mention this example, but I think it's quite significant. In Roche, yes, in one of the unsigned shoe forms, some are signed by the Roche, others are just unsigned, it states that Rabbeinotop, the great Rabbeinotop, declared, who France, should assemble in order to void the prohibition on non-Jewish wine. Why? Since Rabbeinotop, he quotes Rabbeinotop, says that the wine that the non-Jews use is no longer connected to idolatrous service. Already, that's a bit of a problem statement because we're not view Chris, but okay, so you're supposed to assume that Rabbeinotop doesn't see it as idolatrous. So here you have the rush, or not the rush, it's unsigned. There's some in Roche telling you that Rabbeinotop said that all the Rabba names are prohibition on non-Jewish wine because it's no longer used for idolatrous service. The response continues that Rabbeinotop was convinced to shelve this idea, to reject this idea. Why? Because Rabbeinotop, wherever this Rabbeinotop is, pointed out to him that in the future, the wine could once again be used for idolatrous ceremonies. So on the surface, there's nothing as crazy idea, so in the end, Rabbeinotop says you're right, I retract it, non-Jewish wine, usurping. It's a forbidden, it's a forgery, it's a forgery. Hundreds of years after Rabbeinotop, 700, 800 years, whatever it is, and we suddenly see it, through this chuvah, the summing rush has subtly undercut the perusing of idolatrous ceremonies. Well, it's been all, I've been in the years, I'd say, since Rabbeinotop, they haven't started using it yet, there's no difference, and there's no signs they're going to, so let's go back to Rabbeinotop's original need for it. So,


The federal government has inaugurated the government board of the National Senior Education Board. The board is charged with the responsibility of prescribing the minimum standards and regulating the senior secondary education in Nigeria. Speaking during the inauguration of the board, the Minister of Education, Adamo Adama, charged its members to use their wealth of experience to pilot the national senior secondary education towards excellence. He will ever quote on the board members to uphold the principles of federal character. He also wants them to promote equity and fairness while dealing decisively with issues regarding misconduct during the charging of their duties. You must ensure prudent and leadership management of the limited resources the government will give you. You should respect the principles of federal character in the appointment of your staff. You must comply with all relevant government regulations and extent choices in addition to ensuring transparency, probability and due process in all your mentors. You should put effective strategies in place for highly detection and the recognition of social biases such as drug dealing, religious interests and other forms of use of conduct. All opportunities should be harnessed by members of the board to put the commission on a sound footing by facilitating supervision and guidance in accordance with the Education for Change Ministerial Strategic Plan 2018-2032 which is intended to provide the roadmap for an accelerated delivery of inclusive quality education to all Nigeria citizens. And I will note the duty that today's Nogar Senegal will facilitate the implementation of the mission as the mission of NCEC which is geared towards repression and sweetening the combination for global and competitive needs. This might be the case at the end of this commission. Hello. Hope you are doing well. Thank you very much. Thank you very much. Thank you very much. Thank you very much. Thank you very much. Hello. Hope you enjoyed the news. Please do subscribe to our YouTube channel and don't forget to hit the notification button so you get notified about fresh news updates.