Hi Monk! Hi! What are you doing today? We're going to the lighthouse in St. Augustine. In St. Augustine, that's right. And what are you going to do in the lighthouse? We'll hopefully climb the very top. Very top?  No. No? Well let's give a quick view of this if this camera will pick it up. All the way. You're going to clear up on top of that? Yeah, all to the top. You're going all to the top, huh? All the way to the top. Are we going to get some pictures for our viewers and stuff? Yeah. And some video up once we get up there? You bet. You bet. As long as I can make it. So how'd your ghost tour turn out live tonight? It was interesting. We'll throw some pictures in? Yeah. Yeah? Yeah. Okay, yeah, because it was dark and I don't have a night vision no more so. Yeah. But they also have ghost hunts here too, don't they? Yes. Yes, and we're going to do that next time, huh? Yes. Yes, we're going to do a lot of that. You're wanting to get into the paranormal stuff, aren't you? Maybe. Maybe? What happened last night? Something touched my hair. Something touched your hair? Yes. Yeah. Was there anybody around you? No. No. How'd it feel? Weird. Tingly? Yes. Yeah, it was weird, huh? Yes. And that was in the Ripley's Believer and Knott Museum, right? Yes. Yeah. Yeah, it was in there late at night, huh? Yes. Yeah, that was cool, eh? Watching, yeah. Watching. Looking for the ghosts. And we went on the little train ride, huh? Yeah, we went on the train ride around the town. Yeah. Mm-hmm. All right. It was fun. All right, so I'm going to finish this beer. Yes, we are on a lighthouse tour drinking beers. Well, she's got water. Shea beer, of course, is drinking a beer. I'm parched. It is almost noon, so. Almost noon. He didn't quite make it to noon. No, this is a, this is a party town, isn't it? Oh, yeah. Very lively. Yeah, what'd you do last night at the one place? What'd we do? Well, you had a cigar. Yeah. And beer. And imported beer. And I had wine. Yes, you had red wine. Yes. It was really fun. Yes, it was. I mean, listen to jazz music. Yes, live jazz music. Yes. It was a cigar bar. Yes, it was cool.  Yeah. Yeah, like a $4 cigar. Yeah. A Stogie actually wasn't it. And I even tried it. Yeah, you did, didn't you? She did good, guys. She did really good. No. All right, well enough to chit chat. We'll get some more for you here shortly. How's that? Okay. Sound good, monkey? Yeah, fine by me.  Yep. It'll be interesting. If anything funny happens, I'll videotape it for you all. All right, be back shortly. Bye. Bye. All right, baby, how you doing? I'm getting a little tired. Okay, how many steps are there? 200? 219. 219. And we're on number what? 51. And I'm tired. And you're tired? We're going to make it. So there's a view so far out there. I see the ocean. And what is that, the Halifax River? Oh, it's not pretty. Is that the Halifax River? Yeah. Okay, so we're at the Halifax River. So we're going to continue since she gets a breath. Okay. We'll be back with you. Bye. Bye. Oh, yeah, that's the best view I've ever seen here. Cool, huh? Mm-hmm. You get through there so you can get your brushy. Are you still on video? What do you say? Yeah, I'm still video. The last day is a full-blown. I don't know if you're going to think crushes. Oh, y'all ain't ever mind.   All right, let's do it. Land, take over there. You should go over there.  Monkey, I'm going to walk around, give him a 360 Panamanic view type thing. St. Augustine for Monkey again. Hi, Monkey. We're back. Are you back? We're back. Time for a beer. No, I like it up here. You like it up here? Mm-hmm. All right, we'll get a beer in a little bit. Bye, Ram.


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