So from our next speaker from a different field and a different generation than the rogeo But still very much a power woman. I feel she's here to From a more scientific point of view tell us a little bit about the relation between men and women So, please welcome Danish psychologist and author Yudip Wickelsö Does it work? Yes. Now it works I've been traveling all over the world teaching and doing workshops around social injustice and Diversity and I've been asked today to talk about the differences between men and women in the context Thank you In the context of the Me Too movement So I named my talk and I'm going to read this for you come together The dynamics of the sexes and how culture Created a divide our generation Godament so when we talk about differences between men and women it's very important to differentiate between biology and culture When we talk about biology, we talk about male and female We talk about sexual differences and these are universal and can't be changed When we talk about culture We talk about cultural definitions of what it means to be feminine or masculine So we talk about cultural culturally defined roles and these can be changed significantly So the Me Too movement is a cultural process of redefining these cultural roles. Oh Was already there So the biological differences has their root in hormonal differences For example the male hormone testosterone and I don't mean to be crude So I'll just hide behind Ken Wilbur's words when he says testosterone Has two drives and only two drives It's fuck it or kill it In other words In other words, it's about reproduction and survival Testosterone makes you incredibly driven to break limits To push the envelope and in the process bring new discoveries The female equivalent points to oxytocin Also known as the relationship drug So oxytocin induces incredibly strong feelings of nurturing and attachment It's a state of relational being So oxytocin is all about relating relating relating. It's about mothering and it's about the child's well-being So these hormones create differences in our value spheres Testosterone tend towards autonomy and agency. It's about removing obstacles and problems Oxytocin on the other hand tend toward relationship and communion It's about relational awareness So men tend to stress autonomy fear relationships and Must learn to embrace relational being Women tend to stress relationships fear autonomy and must learn autonomy That was to understand our cultural roles We have to go back to the invention of the plough There's no single tool in human history that has wrecked as much havoc as the invention As much havoc between the sexes as the invention of the plough If we go back to the hunter-gatherer societies There's a very strong tradition about sharing and equality Both sexes were invaluable to survival For example women gathered up to 80 percent of the daily food supply They would come back with information about animal herds about water holes and with Information about friends and foes so in that sense the sexes were Financially sexually and socially much more equal But when our ancestors these nomads settled to farm the land too big Shifts happens to the equality between men and women Suddenly there's a surplus of food Meaning there's a capital So with farming comes ownership and With ownership comes the need to secure the family possessions for the next generation We always know who the mother is Let's show with the father that problem was remedied by restricting women's freedom We now have a sexual double standard women have suddenly become possessions But the subordination of women intensifies further with the invention of the plough The plough is very heavy It takes brute force to drive it and it it needs strong big heavy animals to pull it this resulted in a very high rate of Miscarriages and at this point in time children were not a Project they were an necessity for survival. They were needed in the field So with the plough with the invention of the plough Women's labor was suddenly devalued Women were judged inferior to men and they had now lost their ancient Honored role as the provider of the evening meal Men was now the bearer of the family seat where as women were only the vessel The man was the head of the family He was in charge of the money and he was supervising work on the farm This is the rise of patriarchy and With the rise of patriarchy follows The dominator hierarchy So let's look at the differences between a dominator hierarchy and a natural hierarchy a Dominator hierarchy is obviously testosterone driven It's about competition It's about domination the winner takes it all and a dominator hierarchy has a very very interesting psychology No matter your position in a dominator hierarchy You will always have an acute awareness of the privileges of those on the level above you and You will have an acute awareness about how their position affect your life You will have much less if any awareness about your own privileges Compared to those below and you will hardly know anything about how your position affect those below So the higher you are in the hierarchy the more power the more Privileges the blinder you become to the lack of privileges of others Why is that? The oxytocin aspect is marginalized in a dominator hierarchy So what would a hierarchical structure that has the oxytocin aspect implemented look like? Arthur Kirstler came up with a structure. He called a holarchy a Holarchy is also called a natural Hierarchy because it follows the principles of evolution and evolution has two tenets It always goes beyond while Including what went before a holarchy is made up of something. That's called Hollands and a Holland has two drives It needs to be a self contained Hole meaning it needs to have autonomy and agency Simultaneously it needs to be able to be a part of some other hole meaning it needs to have a Relational awareness so We can say that a Holland so to speak embodies both the testosterone drive and the oxytocin drive so let me explain this example Take the letter a It is in and off a self a hole at the same time It has the ability to be a part of some other hole a word So let's take the word cat a cat is in and of itself a hole at the same time It has the ability to be a part of some other more complex hole like a sentence The cat was black That's in and of itself a hole at the same time It can be a part of a more complex structure like a paragraph that again can be a part of a Chapter that again can make up a book But if you take a word out of a sentence it loses meaning and It collapses into its lower level Components now we just have a pile of words If you take a letter out of a word it becomes meaningless and It collapses into its lower level components now you just have a heap of letters So in the same way If an individual tries to usurp a position in a natural hierarchy Meaning if an individual wants to be a whole only and not Simultaneously a part of some other hole The natural hierarchy will collapse into a dominator hierarchy Because like with the words and the letters The complexity of the whole Collapses into the lower level organization if we take a watch apart We can analyze all the parts of the watch But what we have now is a pile of parts that can no longer tell us the time So with the rise of patriarchy the sexes were divided Men became holes only while women were reduced reduced to parts only The testosterone drive was centralized and the oxytocin drive was marginalized But when testosterone becomes the dominating force in the center Obstacles are overcome rather than related to And of course it goes without saying The tester the testosterone drive is invaluable to survival on this planet But on its own without the interplay of Its relational counterpart oxytocin it is simply destructive the me too movement is Marginalized parts reclaiming their wholeness reclaiming their agency reclaiming their autonomy Refusing to remain parts only and We see it all over the world now Marginalized parts is pushing forth We saw the enormous women's demonstration in DC and all over the world The day after Trump was the Trump's inauguration Trump who insists on being a whole only We have black life matter movement. We have climate marches all over the place and The youth has finally succeeded in forcing the gun lobby to its knees The oxytocin awareness is Reclaiming its proper place in the global hierarchy Not to dominate But to join forces with the testosterone drive We finally reached a tipping point The marginalized voices are insisting on being heard and we got to listen Because they are the ones who knows what is missing at the center But we also wise to listen Because today's holes Will be tomorrow's parts Evolution will move on with or without us breaking new limits While simultaneously include what went before Thank you


Marc. It's good to see you... Good to see you again. Good to chat with you again... I'll start by getting your thoughts and feelings now that this has somewhat settled on Tuesday and how you feel after it. We're all pleased with the performance. I thought it was at a really good level certainly in the first half, where I think we... We had levels that we probably haven't done in other games in terms of possession and control of the game, which we're always looking to do. Ac mae'n sefydlu ddechrau ar y hwnnw, ac mae'n dweud rwy'n gallu'n fatech y llai drafodol a'r drafodol'r cyffredigol. A'n gwneud yn rian i gaelio. Da'n gallu Sioja. Go iawn, mae'r nos i fyfyrdd yn oes. Mae'n ymwneud yn hyn ffordd y mae'n hyd i ei gaelio ychydig fflaeniau gweld i'r wylio. Mae gennym ni'n gwybod i ychydig i'rliection, i fryd i'r wyg. Mae'r cyffredig i ddych chi i ddod i gaelio mewn. With more of the chance is that we create. Do you take confidence then from Tuesday going into Saturday? Yeah, very much so. I think certainly times against Grinsby were happy enough. Certainly Salfordwch was a high level for us and we have carried it on obviously on Tuesday so more of the same really. We need to trend in the right direction, that is what we seem to be doing Felly we're looking forward to it. Another home game as well. Great support once again on Tuesday night and hopefully we'll get over the line this time. That period in the first half, when you had such attacking fluency, how close was that to where you and Glenn want this site to be? Close enough that you can always improve. Really pleasing because we're seeing more and more of the elements that we talk about and work on every single day pan gyd yn ddechrau i'w gweld ar y glas�ur hwnnw, a thwn i bod hynny'n hyd yn y ffrwng, a dweud hynny'n eu gofyn i'r gilydd ar y cyllidol i'r llwythau, gweld eich bwysig o ddweud yn ddegwad. Beth hwnnw, dyma'n sylfae, mae'n haf yn ddechrau i chi'n cael eu cyhoeddus o wlad i chi ddim. Mae'n fawr diffai, mae'n ddigwynt wnaeth y bwysig o'n cyhoedd, gyda'n gweld cyfan o mon nifer, i'n gweithio'r front, a galloddi'n gweld bod wedi'i wneud, lle'n rhaid i rhaid a b thickness yn dysgu'r gwirionedd. Felly, eu bod yn xaith �ynu yma'n meddwl i'r gwneud? Fyddai'n gweithio'r llyfr o'r oedd y gwaith ei ddeudio'n gweithio? Fyddeadau'n meddwl ei ddeudio ac os yw'r ardal yma'n hwn o'r edryche... ond yn bwysig yn cael ei wneud yn gwneud yn arni yn yr ysgol iawn. Rydym chi'n meddiadol ar y frontfysg, ac rwy'n gweld i'n meddwl i'r wych. Wrth gwrs, wedi'u ffordd, mae'r ysgol iawn yn y rhaid i ddweud yn cael ei bod yn meddwl i'r ddechrau. Wrth gwrs, rydyn ni'n credu i fynd i'n meddwl i'r grinsbwy, byddai'n rhaid i'r gwasanaeth am y gêm, ac rwy'n meddwl i'r ddweud. Felly, rydyn ni'n gawis, a'r wneud o'r team wedi'i gweithio i'r Llyfrgell. Felly, rydyn ni'n gweithio i'r team, ond mae'n rhaid i'n gweithio. Felly, rydyn ni'n gweithio i'r team. Felly, na'r llun o'r frein, ond mae'r ffasor a'r ffasor. Mae'r rhaid i'r thifth o'r gweithio i'r tîm mwyf? Felly, mae'r gweithio i'r llun o'r frein. Rwyf na'n y plaid, rydyn ni'n gweithio i'r team. The club is difficult at the moment but I've got a lot of guys that want to be playing and starting at the moment they're out of the team and some of them can't make the matchday of the squad. But there's conversations to be had about more sub, it's just made the life easier, if there was, but it's not what we've got at the moment. It's difficult Onig i gael gwiswch i ddweud y rhai o'r gwbl ar hyn o bwysig pa'r wahanol o'r cyffredinol, oni mae'n i siaradwch chi o'r bwysig, onig i gael rhai o'r cyffredinol. Mae'r hyn o'r bwysig o'r bwysig, so onig o'r gwbl o'r bwysig. Mae'r ddweudio'r gael allanol oherwydd mae hyn yn ei ddim yn cael ei ddweud. Yn cael ei ddweud, mae'r ddechrau'n bwysig o'r cyffredinol o'r arwain o'r adeithiwyr, o ddweud i'r cyffredinol o'r ddigon, ac roeddwn yn gwneud hynny yn hyn o hyn. Felly roedd yn ymddangos i'r ddweud i'r ddweud i'r ymddangos i'r cyffredinol. Rwy'n spolwgr yn ddeion ddion yn y Grimsbyn. Rwy'n credu'n gweithio i'r cyffredinol fel roedd yn ni'n rhaid i'r ddweud yn y taethau, wrth gwrs, rydyn ni'n credu'n arwag ddweud i'r hanes. Mae'n gweithio fydd yn gweithio i chi'n meddwl, mae hyn yn eu cymdeithasol eich gwaith. A dyna, mae'n gweithio i chi'n meddwl y dyna ymhwytaeth i chi. Felly mae'r fflaen, mae'n meddwl yw'r sloes mwyaf yng Nghymru, ond mae'n gweithio i chi'n gweithio i chi'n meddwl ap diolch yn ymgyrch. Mae'n meddwl i chi'n meddwl i chi'n meddwl i chi'n meddwl i chi. Felly mae'r ffordd, mae'r ffordd, mae'r ffordd yn i gyd yn ei ddysgu. Rwy'n edrych chi gyd yn ei gyd yn ei gyd, mae'n i ddod ni'n gles. Mae'r ddweud yn dda, bod yn ni'n meddwl yna. Mae'r ffordd yn ei meddwl, mae'n meddwl yn ni'n meddwl yn i gyd. Dyna'n meddwl yng nghymru, mae'n meddwl. Ond'r cyffredinol, mae'n meddwl yn cael ei ddweud? O'r cyflethau o'r naddech chi o ran ystod i'r cyflethau fel y mae'r rhywbeth. Rwy'n gweithio bod ni'n bobl i'r cyfic, ac mae'n amlwg yn cael ei wneud amser i'r cyfan. Mae'r gwbl yn ffots i'r gwneud yn oles iawn y gwbl i'w gwelio'n bawb i'w'r gwirio, mae'r gwneud i chi eisiau gwneud am yw'r gwbl, oherwydd ar y cyflethau, ond i'n gweithio i chi'n pob arall oherwydd'n pethau. 2015 yng nghyd i'r Miles Gwch yn oedd yn ymlaen chi, ym mwy o'n unrhyw dod o'r cyffredin hon. How do you rate where you are now and how you start at this season? Well I said in recent weeks we're reasonably pleased with the style we've had. I've touch dawn already that we've got a new group of players and that takes a little bit of time. We're more than pleased with how they're forming and coming together as a group. oherwydd mae'n ddweud o'r cyfnodd. Mae'n dod o'r rhwng oherwydd yw'r ddweud o'r ddweud o'r rhwng. Ac yn ddweud o'r rhai gwrs, ddweud o'r ddweud o'r rhwng, gan gwych, mae'n rhaid gael i'n ddweud oherwydd yma, ac mae'n ddweud oherwydd ddim ond mae'n gweithio. Oeddiad o'r ddweud o'r rhwng oherwydd yma. Ond mae'n ddweudio i'r cyfnodd i'r tynffaith, Mae'r ffrifreig wedi bod, ac yn ei wneud, rwy'n gilydd, i ddim yn ei pob i'r ddweud, ac byddai'n dweud i'r bobl yn rhaid. Ond rwy'n gwybod wych chi dweud – yr oedd yn fawr yn eu gweithio. Rwy'n gweithio'n rhaid i ddim yn ei ffrifreig i ddweud, a'r rhaid i ddweudio'n gweithio'n gweithio'n gweithio'n cerddurol, Dyna'r chael ddechrau'n gallu cyd-ddechrau, mae'n meddwl o'n ei ddweud hynny. Rwy'n gwneud hynny i gyd, mae'n gweithio'r gwaith, ein bod ymlaen gan gyrdd. Yr ymddiadau sydd yn ei fod yn ddiweddol, mae'n gweithio'r llwyngau? Felly mae'n gweithio, ond yw'r gweithio'r llwyngau. Not really, you can write to them, you can make your feelings known, they'll accept your arguments, so probably not in the right places and they move on to the next game. I think it's right and proper that when there's situations we're not happy with them it's right that we tell the powers to be that we have a number of concerns. so rywbeth nesaf efallai'n cael eich llwyr i'ch gynhau. Mae'n mynd i'nựcau a'n ddod allan yn arweinyddio, iddyn nhw fyddwn i'n nioddedig ar gyfer am holl gynhyrch. Roeddwn ni'n ôl i'n gwneud ffrifoedd cysylltu'r defnyddio, ychydigio i'rойnt o'r gennymau. Felly mae'n ei wneudu cael ei wneud yn y gêm yn y gyrfa i'r drwsyn. Ond efallai efallai eich gwasanaeth am yr olygu. was one that was very difficult to make in the position of the referee. Do you have constant communication with them on other situations to gain further clarity? I'm speaking more profoundly about, we've spoken about it as well, the dark arts that other teams adopt to try and count the clock down. Do you have regular communication with them on those circumstances? We flag that up I think I'm almost certain we have. And yeah those things I think are important but you're always thinking the back of your mind if you start being too readily in terms of questioning the process and the behaviours and the performance levels of people doing a really difficult job in fairness then maybe further down the line there's a potential or worry that it might go against you. It shouldn't do because their integrity is absolutely first class so that shouldn't happen but yeah it's there's a balance I suppose it's important and right that's your question maybe moments in games that are quite clearly wrong but you have to be careful as well. I was going to ask you about Andy Cook, no going into games I mean what kind of form is that at the moment? No it's struggling isn't it. But naturally he's going to be a target now for opposition teams they're going to love to try and stifle him as and when they can as a forward yourself how do you handle that now knowing that you're going into a game and you're the main man really? Well he's got to embrace that. I used to wear that as a badge of honour if I'm honest it's if people are concerned about you and worried about the impact that you can make on them as an individual and collectively as a team then that gives you more confidence to really affect them as much as you can and I think that's clearly the mindset that Andy needs to have. At times I'm sure he gets a little bit disappointed if things don't quite run for him but he will always keep going for us he's always a focal point for us so yeah he's not going to be able to score in every game unfortunately but he's there to to have an impact and for the most part that's what he does. Finally just what do you expect from Crawley this Saturday? Well they've had a slight pick up in results obviously in the change of management so that can happen new manager bounce and what have you so maybe would have been slightly easier if we'd have played them a few weeks ago when they were struggling for results at any stage but I think it's more about us in all honestly and the importance of us keeping our levels really high like I said we can go up against teams that like to get the ball down and play and we'll back ourselves against that type of team they're similar they're a team that always wanted to get the ball down certainly this year with the way they've played so yeah we'll look forward to it it's about us imposing our way of playing on them rather than the other way around. So Mark obviously talking about Crawley you've in your career managed and played under some very high profile owners obviously the Crawley situation with this American investment group coming in tried to buy this club. It sort of looks from the outside it looks a very different sort of scenario I mean what are your sort of opinions on what they're trying to do down there? Well I haven't got any real strong ones because I don't really understand the model for money but you probably have to explain it to me after but yeah it's a different way of looking at it's a different way of investing into the club and they seem to have clear ideas. The thing with sport is that it all can't be worked out to the end's degree because sport is fluid and things can happen and you can legislate for a lot of things but sport has the knack of dysponying on occasions so all the best laid plans and the trends and wherever they look at and in terms of the recruitment as well. It still comes for the most part down to relationships and how well you can get the team functioning on the pitch and then that's the important thing when you're having a less good time than those things you look at. You look at how the teams function and not what's going on on the outside and the model of the club itself is about getting it right on the pitch. Because a lot of their base sort of through the internet social media and what have you it's all very different I mean I think there's an idea that they've got some youtube players sort of players in verticomers joining them in training next week potentially being involved in the FA Cup I mean if you with the manager would you accept that sort of situation? Well we wouldn't have to because we've got people in place that it's their job to obviously recruit and put suggestions forward to me as the manager of the team so it's a different way of looking at it. The reality will be whether or not it's successful or not and if they are and they continue to progress through the league then maybe more people will look at it. I suppose in a way it is putting cruelly on the map but not necessarily always for the right reasons or something like that? Well yeah it's not the traditional way of setting up a club but who's to say who's right or wrong as I said if it's deemed to be successful and they can continue their success on the pitch then they will argue that their model is the way to go in the future so it would be interesting I think everybody's you're right in saying there's a lot more interest I think everybody looking from the outside in are seeing how it's going to progress in the future. Cryptocurrency man? Not at all. And then going back to the selection point that you're making with Jamie I mean obviously one area where you say we talk about Andy Cook so you've got four potentially front line strikers there now who are two of them are coming off the bench regularly the other two are in and out of the squad I mean is that a particularly sensitive area to handle because obviously strikers probably more than anyone more to be out there? Yeah it is difficult I've had conversations not only with the strikers but almost all the guys that have just been out of the team and it's difficult difficult because the benches is a situation where you've got to cover all bases and and sometimes you pick guys with variety or the option of playing in different positions and sometimes they the likes of Levi will get the nod over somebody who's more specific so the the make up of the the bench aims and flows but it's about giving me as many options from the bench as I possibly can determined by how many scenarios I have in my mind that's that the game will will present so the it isn't always possible to to get everybody on the on the bench ideally like I said I prefer to have more more options from like in the Premier League I think in the Carabao Cup we had more subs I think which made it easier for me in terms of the options I had and the ability to keep people happy but you know there's a few glum faces when they they don't make their matchday score because the reality is that none of them have done anything wrong and sometimes I have to explain that it's not because they've they haven't trained well or they haven't presented themselves well and they're dear to what we're about it's none of those things it's just circumstances and the context of the game sometimes. Those conversations become a little bit more difficult as the season goes on but it's obviously people perhaps earlier will think you perhaps the manager is still looking for his best team but now they'll look at it and think well hang on we've kept the same team two games running it's a similar search you know they might. Yeah maybe maybe but we we try we always integrate everybody it's not as if the ones that are involved are in in a little corner of the field and we're ignoring them it's it's very much we were all part of what we're trying to do here so I think if you show that respect and that that trust in them I'd like to think I've shown in a lot of the guys sometimes we've had examples where somebody's gone out of the team or I'll make a direct replacement somebody who hasn't even been on the matchday squad or put straight in the team because I trust them to do that specific role and they've seen that and they understand that so I think that they understand it's not easy when everybody's fit but everybody's part of what we're doing so they understand that. Is that one of the most sort of trickier parts of management as you as experience goes dealing with players when they're not in the team because I mean yeah it can be stories of you know the one squad of people maybe you put the field over there and yeah it can be the most difficult parts if you've got the wrong personalities or types that don't deal with that situation that they find themselves in as well as they should do so so it's all about being professional when you find yourself in that position the reality is yeah you're disappointed but day in day out you've just got to do your work be professional be ready when you're called upon and if you do that you're likely to get more chances because then you don't irritate the manager about being glum around the place so yeah I think everybody understands how it works.


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If you just started your deep conditioning challenge, no worries. I just want you to post a picture and say that you have now just committed to the deep conditioning challenge and that you're promising to do so for the rest of the year.  But just let me know if the deep conditioning challenge is working for you thus far. If you've seen progress, tell me your struggle. Tell me your story. Leave that all in your caption. And make sure to use the hashtag. Deep conditioning challenge. That way I can go to the hashtag and see everybody that's posted their before and after progress pictures or all the people that are committing to the deep conditioning challenge. Now I know Instagram can get a little tricky with all the hashtags and everything. So to ensure that I see your posts, all you do is get the link from your Instagram picture and include it in the form below. So click the link below in the description box. Put your name, the mailing address as to where you'd like me to send your prize, and the link to show me that you actually posted the photo on Instagram. You will need a US address to enter this giveaway, as well as a public Instagram page. So if your page is private, you might want to make it un-private for just the next two weeks. Just let the haters see what you've been doing. Let your ex see that you are still thriving without him just for two weeks to enter this giveaway. And that's all there is to it. I will be choosing my winner in two weeks. We have two weeks to take your beautiful before and after photo. Tag me on Instagram and fill out the link below. That means I will be choosing my winners. Winners. I love that. I always had to just pick one. I'm choosing 50 winners on May 16th. I'm thinking about choosing 25, like Bianca Renee today, Ryder Dyes, those of you that always watch all my videos. Follow me on Instagram. Comment and like on all my photos. Follow me on Snapchat. Always comment my YouTube videos. Watch my foundation Fridays, even though you don't even wear foundation. You know the real MVPs? Thinking about hand-selecting U25. And then I'll probably do a random 25 for those of you that might be new to my channel. Welcome. Or just starting your curly hair journey, starting the deep conditioning challenge. No worries. I still got love for you. So you still have a chance to win that 25. But the fun does not stop there. This is just the beginning of my giveaways. I mean, my birthday is just right now. So we're just getting started. And you guys know that I have many other goodies lying around my house that I've just been waiting to give to you guys. So make sure you follow me on Twitter, Instagram, and Snapchat at Ms. Bianca Renee. So you have a chance to win some more prizes that are going to be random throughout the week. I might go on Instagram live and talk to you guys and choose a winner. I might just choose someone who leaves a nice comment on my Instagram photos. Maybe someone that just retweets me. Someone that knows what type of yogurt I threw away on Snapchat yesterday. Who knows? We're going to keep it random, keep it fun, keep you on your toes. So make sure you hit that bell and the notification button on Instagram so you know exactly when I go live or when I post a new photo. All giveaway details will be below in the description box. But I hope you guys are excited. If you are, leave me a comment. Give me a thumbs up and subscribe. I post two new videos every week, usually on Fridays and on Sundays. So I hope to see you guys next week. Thanks for watching Bianca Renee today.


This is Julia and welcome back to my channel and for today's video I have my favorite poetry and manga of the year 2018. I'm going to have a timestamp so we'll start off with manga but if you want to skip right to the poetry you can skip to this time. It'll also be down below so you can just click on it and it'll go there. But starting off I have Lou Exorcist Volume 18. This series is about Rin who is the son of Satan and we follow him as he goes to a school to become an exorcist. His brother goes there as well as his friends and we follow his journey as well as like the quest, not quest, they go on but like the missions.  It's a super fun series. It has like a comedic side to it as well and it's also just super interesting so I love this one. I haven't talked about this one too much but that is Dream and Son. This is actually written by the same author who did Orange which is one that I love. This series isn't like the most thought-provoking or like it's not like orange level in my opinion but it is super fun and fluffy and if you're looking for something that's kind of romantic and fun and fluffy I would check this out. Basically it's about this girl who moves in with a bunch of boys as their roommate and we follow the story about how like the relationships in the house kind of form and we meet all the boys as well and how like she forms relationships with all of them and the different like dynamics she has with them. So the series super fun. I read four volumes so far this year but yeah they're really fun. Next here I have a silent voice volume of one. This series is about a girl who's deaf who gets bullied by this guy named Shoah and we see kind of how this story goes and it talks it's obviously about a deaf character and it deals with bullying so it deals with some tough subjects but it is so well done and you kind of see how six years later after this whole incident happens how their relationship is and how they both have to come to terms with like what happened. So yeah this is a really interesting story. I'm really excited to continue. I've read the first four of these as well so yeah. And two well I wanted to include with manga I want to include a graphic novel as well so I'll be talking about that and this is lighter than my shadow by Katie Green. It's super heavy but this is basically has to do with a lot of things has to do with depression, eating disorders, it's super important and it's super insightful. If you're looking for like a graphic novel about that definitely check this one out. This was like a five star read for me so insightful so far powerful like you'll probably get really emotional reading this because a lot goes on but yes except I just have three poetry books that I want to talk about. So first up I have Planting Gardens in Grey's Volume 1. This is by R. H. Sin who I always talk about when I talk about poetry. This collection is really great. I tabbed a lot of things in it and it was just a good collection that came out this year. Next we also have World of You by Bo Taplin. This is poetry and prose and this was just such a good read and it was my first book by this author and it's just so gorgeous and the poems were really well done. Lastly probably my favorite poetry book ever, not ever but of the year was The Witch Isn't Burning This One by Amanda Lovelace. This came out this year and I read it twice. This deals with like feminism and it talks about witches and all the things I love and you like even my shirt says like witches. It was just perfect for me and it has a lot of feminist themes and I just really enjoy it and all of it's in red. I tabbed a lot of things. I really love Amanda Lovelace as an author. I also got to meet her at some point this year at BookCon so like I got a sign and everything which is super fun. Yeah there you guys have it. Those are some of my favorite poetry, manga, and graphic novels that I read this year. Let me know yours down below. I'm not counting rereads or else like I have a lot of repeats as of last year that would be on both lists. So yeah if you enjoyed this video make sure to like, subscribe, comment down below. I'd love to hear from you as well as I am. I do have a feedback survey that I'd love it if you guys would fill out just for feedback for how my channel is going to go in 2019 and I would just love to hear your feedback on my channel and how I can improve and some new things that you guys want to see. So yeah thank you guys so so much for watching. I'll see you super soon. Bye!


The Mutual Broadcasting System, in cooperation with Family Theatre Incorporated, presents Advice to the Lovelorn, starring Fibromigui and Malay. Don DeFour is your host.  Friends, if we could only realize it, there's a basic goodness in the world all around us. A goodness that is seen in the abundant gifts of nature and in the many kinds and deeds that are done by so many every day. And where there is goodness and kindness and helpfulness in our part, we bring happiness not only to others, but to ourselves. Where there is hate and meanness and lack of moral order, we are missing the simple God-given way to happiness.  We need good homes in America and in the world. And when we make family prayer a daily practice, we have taken a most important step towards having a good home and a happy home. Don DeFour will return later in the program. Now, advice to the Lovelorn, starring Fibromigui and Malay. The time, mid-morning, the place, the living room at 79 Wistful Vista, and the people, Fibromigui and Malay. Hey, here's an interesting item in the paper, Malay. Guy in Chicago claims he's got a dog that can talk. Mexican hairless. The talks? What does he say? Hand me the hair tonic? That's the trouble. The guy can't understand a word of Mexican. He says he read to the dog out of a Spanish dictionary, but his accent must have been bad, because the dog hasn't spoken to him since. Very interesting. Yeah, did I ever tell you about our German shepherd that used to whistle glowworm? No, that one I've never heard, dearie. Yeah. A fellow named Chris Krauss. Heard it cheap on my Uncle Sycamore's ranch and used to whistle all the time. Oh, hey, did you see this test in here? Hand me a pencil. Oh, now, McGee, don't take any more of those IQ tests. Please, now, you always get so depressed when you read your score. Oh, no, this is nothing like that, Malay. This is a matrimony test. You answer these questions, see, and it shows how good a husband you are, or I am. Oh, no, throw that thing away, sweetheart. I'd hate to find out that you're the wrong husband for me at this late date. I think I'm going to keep you. OK, kiddo, if you think it's permanent. There's only one thing a fellow needs to be a happy husband anyhow. What's that?  Why, McGee, that's the nicest thing you've ever said to me. Shucks, it's the nicest thing I ever thought of. My gosh, I've had almost 30 years to think of it. I should come up with something by this time that would be to be. Wait a minute, McGee, there's somebody at the door. Come in. Oh, hello, Dr. Gamble. Do come in. Thank you, my dear. And how are you today, bucket shape? Fine, Splint Salesman, fine. How are things in the fracture ward? You still getting all the breaks? All the bad ones, yes. And business, I'm sorry to say, is looking up. Naturally, it's looking up. Your patients are always flat on their backs. Oh, McGee, don't talk like that to the doctor. He's perfectly right, my dear. Oddly enough, my patients are always flat on their backs before they call me. Nobody ever spends the price of a doctor's visit till they've tried everything in the almanac first. So what? My gosh, that's your business, isn't it? Making people well? Certainly not. Giving them medicine is my business. Making them well is God's department. And don't think for a minute I don't ask him, my boy. I'm always yelping for help. I think that's wonderful, doctor. Well, I just don't want anyone to get hurt while they're in my hands. That's all. And they won't, either. But you don't look as cheerful as usual today, doctor. Something the matter? Probably tried to do a knackpindectomy on a guy and found out he only had the price of a tonsillitis. Ignoring your little friend's crude attempt at insult, Molly, I am a little disturbed this morning. I'm a sort of a victim of a broken romance. You see? No kidding, doc. A busted romance, eh? What happened? Did you find out the truth about yourself and call the whole thing off? Because the way you love Doc Gamble is the talk of the- Oh, pipe down slack lip. It's not my romance. It's by secretary. She's been moping around the office all week.  Oh, what's the matter with her, doctor? She's such a nice youngster. Yeah, I thought she was about to get married, doc. Molly and I saw her the other day and she was bubbling over. Not anymore. They had a big argument over something or other and called the whole thing off. Oh, dear. Well, Jane gave the boy his ring back and told him to get out of her life. And he did. She's not happy either. Oh, they'll probably patch it up, doc. Oh, sure. McGee and I used to have those little quarrels before we were married, but now- I don't think they'll patch it up, Molly. She's really washed up with the whole thing. Won't even talk about it. Doesn't help any of her roommate just got married, either, and Jane's living by herself. Oh, for goodness sakes. Well, it isn't going to help the child any to sit around and brood about it. If she's really going to forget about it, she ought to start right now. Sure, my gosh.  I wish there was something we- say. I wonder if she'd like to drop over and have dinner with McGee and me, doctor. It isn't very exciting, but it might take her mind off. Right, that's exactly what the kid needs. To go places, do things. Call her up, Molly. We'll pop some popcorn, play some rummy, maybe open some root beer. Oh, now, let's not overdo it, Diamond Jim. Let's not strain the girl's nerves with too much excitement at once. I think Jane, he'd love to have dinner with you, Molly. Anybody who wouldn't ought to have their taste buds examined. Oh, doctor. Now, she's very fond of you, I know.  Strangely enough, she is always like little millstone here, too. That's because she's a good judge of character, needle nose. Although, why she ever came to work for you is a mystery to me. Now, McGee, stop it. I'll call her this afternoon, doctor. Say, can you come to dinner, too? Oh, you're breaking my heart, but I've got a medical meeting, Molly.  I wouldn't want her to think I'm trying to run her life for her. I just hate to see her in the mood she's in. Don't worry about a thing, doctor. The case is as good as closed. As a successful husband of nearly 30 years standing, I feel well qualified to advise the younger generation in matters of the heart. I shall be that. Do me a favor, mastermind, and keep your advice to yourself. You just furnish the laughs. You can do that unconsciously, and Molly will furnish the food, and I know Jane will feel better. I've got to run along now. Thanks a lot, Molly. Not at all, doctor. We love having her. Sure, don't worry about a thing, doc. Run along now. Okay, now here's the plan, Molly. You call her, see? Plan? Sure, you get her on the phone and ask her over. I'll run down the Elks and dig up a guy for her. I know a fella about the Elks. Oh, now wait, McGee. I don't think we ought to get her a date. After all, she probably feels pretty badly now. That's exactly why she's got to have dates, Molly. Go out, meet people, do things, meet new guys.  It's the same thing with, here, I'll get Doc's office on the phone for you. Hand me it. Yes, but now, McGee, you shouldn't. Thanks. Hello, operator. Gimme whistful vista, one, six. Oh, for goodness sake, is that you, Mert? Oh, dear. How's every little thing, Mert? Tis, eh? What say, Mert? Your brother. Working as a disc jockey, eh? Oh, wonderful. Plane records on the radio, huh? Riding a plow on the farm. What say, Mert? Oh, just a minute. Here's Jane, Molly. I'll go right down the Elks and dig up. Hello, Janey. This is Mrs. McGee. Yes. Oh, fine. See, we were wondering if you'd like to drop over after work. Oh, let's see. The cake is iced. Table set. I wonder if I ought to get out the good candlesticks. Hey, Molly, I got a hold of him, all right? Hey, where are you, Molly? In the kitchen, dearie. What is it? I got a hold of the guy I was telling you about.  Oh, I don't know about this, McGee. I don't think we ought to be making dates for Jane without asking her. She's just gotten rid of one man, you know? Exactly. She needs company, companionship, laughs. Oh, she'll love Joey. He's terrific. What's his name? Watch that cake there. Boy, does that look good. His name's Joey. Joey Wellman. Hi, he's a great kid. Terrific sense of humor. Got more gags than I have even. Oh, boy, he'll keep her in stitches. Well, we can only hope now. Look, sweetheart, you want to help me check over these groceries the boy brought? There's the list right there. OK, bread, salt, string beans, 39 cents, steel wool, 45 cents. That may be wool, but at 45 cents, it's no steel. Don't you get it, Molly? I said steel wool, 45 cents. Paint, butter, McGee. I'll say it ain't. My gosh, I could shear a mink and sell it cheaper than that. Butter, a dollar and a quarter. Butter, what? A buck and a quarter? I won't pay it. Don't look in your wallet now, sweetheart, but you just did pay it, besides it. I'll send it back. They can't do this to me. I'll quit eating butter. That's what I'll quit doing with butter. I'm getting used to them guys picking my pockets. But when they turn me upside down and shake me, they're going too far.  No, no, no, McGee. I know how you feel, but don't get your vocabulary out of focus. You don't mean privateer. The word you want is profiteer. This is hardly the time for a discussion of English, my dear. And besides, what has buck and a quarter butter got to do with drapes in the front hall? The drapes in the? Oh, you mean the poor tears. Poor tears? You wouldn't be thinking by any chance if the job Uncle Dennis could have had at the Elks Club sweeping out cigar butts for $18 a week in a cap that said poor tear on it. That was poor tear, McGee. Poor tear? Poor tear. Oh, well, then, Dad read it. What in the first place did I say wrong? Well, you said the man that sold me the butter was a privateer. A privateer is a pirate. You said it. And if they think they're going to swash buckle me out of a buck and a quarter of a pound for butter. Oh, my gosh, you got two pounds? Yeah. Hey, can I have a slice of bread with some of it on it before dinner? I'm hungrier than two. Hold everything. Here's Janie now. And we'll eat in a little bit. And look now, let's not talk about her love life, McGee. Let's just be cheerful. Hello, Jane. Come right in, dear. Yeah, come in, sis. It's awfully nice of you to ask me over, Mrs. McGee. How are you, Mr. McGee? It's well, Jane. How's the job? Doc give you a bad day today? Oh, Dr. Gamble never gives me any trouble. He's wonderful to work for. Sure. Say, I hope you didn't go to any trouble for me, Mrs. McGee. Oh, not a bit, dear. Of course not. We always have steak andparagus tips, French fries, chocolate cake, and a green salad with roquefort dressing and two pounds of butter. Oh, McGee. That sounds wonderful. I'll hang my coat here in the hall closet. No, no, no, no, Janie. Come on, I'll take you upstairs. You want to freshen up a bit anyway. McGee, keep an eye on the stove, will you, and don't touch anything. Go right on up, Janie. OK, kiddo. There goes a couple of good kids. That Jane would be a lucky girl if we could find her husband like Molly's got. Oh, that's me. Well, she can't expect to be that lucky, but we'll do the best we can. Hand me that pot holder, will you, Janie? Thanks. I'll make the salad, Mrs. McGee. When Davy used to come over, I always made salads for him. But that's over, thank goodness. Mayonnaise in the ice box? I set it out. It's on the sink there. I've got it. Mr. McGee loves salads, too, when I'm making eat them. Lettuce is in the calendar there. You can just go right in there. When are you about ready, Molly? I'm hungry. Oh, no, dear, you just relax now. Watch the skillet, Janie. OK. Anything I can do to help? Not a thing, McGee. I'm putting the coffee on now. OK, I'll go watch her, or I'll be in the living room. He's awfully sweet, Mrs. McGee.  I gave him back his ring. Yes, I believe he did mention something about it. Hand me the salt when you're through with it, will you? Here you are. You know, it really feels wonderful not to have anything on my mind these days. Wonderful. I think if a couple can't get along, they ought to find it out before they're married. Don't you think? I certainly do. Oh, we're delighted you could come tonight. Now that you're back in circulation, you must be having lots of dates and rushing around, huh? Oh, not me. I'm strictly an old maid these days, and I love it. I get along fine. Sure. Any time you have time on your hands, you'll have to drop over here and help me out. There's always something to do around this house. Mr. McGee is a full-sized job, you know. I get the biggest boot out of him. I think it's cute the way he rushes around letting everybody know he runs things here. You two have a nice life, don't you? Wonderful. There was a time when I thought I'd have a life like this, but no more. Oh, you will. McGee and I've had our troubles, but they've all been happy years. We sort of balance each other. He leaves things lying around. I pick them up. He gets big ideas. I listen. He loses things. I find them. It's never dull. You need anything else for the salad? No, I've got everything. Hey, Molly, Joey ought to be here pretty soon. What time is it anyhow? About half past. Dinner will be ready by the time he gets here. Somebody else coming over? Oh, didn't I tell you, Janie?  And, well, I happened to run into a friend of mine downtown, so I asked him over. Well, that's... I hope you didn't ask him just on my account, though. I mean, well, I'd love just being with you and Mrs. McGee. Oh, you'll love it even better with Joey here. What a sense of humor. He'll murder you. He may be a little hard to know at first, but he's the kind of a guy that grows on you, like, like... Like a wart? No. Joey, that's him. That's him, right on the button. I'll get the door. McGee thinks you ought to meet a lot of new boys.  I wasn't too sold on the idea myself. Oh, I don't mind. This Joey sounds like fun, maybe. It's just that I don't want any more boyfriends, that's all. I've had enough. Well, now you just do as you want. Nobody there, Molly.  That's me, McGee. Joey, ring the front doorbell and run around the back wellman. That's a rib, Phil. Joey, my gosh, I should've known you'd make an entrance some way. Molly, this is the guy I told you about. He should've told me more. Oh, so this is the chick you did it with, huh? See, this lass has class. Oh, baby, you're... No, no. I'm Mrs. McGee, that's Mrs. Ryan over there, Mr.... Wellman. Janie, this is Joey Wellman. I and him bowl together. Yes, sir, and I'm always on the ball. How, uh, how are you? Oh, in the pink, baby, in the pink. Say, something smells awful good. What's frying, Ryan? You hear that, Molly? Joe, you slay me. No, you slay me. Mine's got a busted runner. Oh, pretty snappy, huh, Pap? Family days. Well, uh, I hope you're good and hungry, Mr. Wellman. Am I hungry? Well, I wouldn't say I'm a big eater, but when I looked at that skillet just now, one steak turned to the other and said, it's no use, Mac, we're trapped. Do, uh, do you have many jokes like that, Mr. Wellman? Have I got jokes? I'm loaded with them. Well, I've got more snickers than Dr. IQ. Oh, no. Look, McGee, you boys go on in and sit down at the table. We'll bring the food right in. Go ahead now. Oh, OK, kiddo. What was that gag you pulled at the Elks, Joe, about how cold it was in the dining room? Oh, you mean, uh, I wouldn't say it was cold, but the baked potatoes kept putting their jackets back on? Yeah, that's the one. And the lamb chap's coming, wearing two pair of pants. Hmm, you remember what I was saying about staying single and liking it? Yes, I do. And right at the moment, I can't think of a single argument, dear. Come on, let's eat. That's right, Mrs. Clatterhatch. Just keep giving him the pills like I told you and bring him down here tomorrow if he isn't better. Goodbye. Anyone else in the wedding room, Jane? Just Mrs. McFadden, doctor. Her feet are bothering her again. Well, let her sit a while. She'll feel better. She's just, uh, oh, say, I forgot to ask. Did you have dinner with the McGee's last night? Oh, a wonderful dinner, doctor. They, uh, that is, Mr. McGee had a friend over for me. A date, he called it. Oh, fine. Cupid's a little help, uh-huh. What was he like? Well, uh, Mr. McGee liked him. He, he told jokes. Great. Pretty rugged, huh? Well, I helped Mrs. McGee with the dishes and went home pretty early. It's funny how people always rush to help a girl out when she's just broken an engagement or something. Like her heart was fractured, and they had to save her from going to pieces or something. Yes, I know what you mean. I'm fine. I never felt better in my life. I was in love, sure. I had a lot of plans, but I only got one plan now. That's to stay out of love. Sure, sure. Nothing wrong with my hide. It's still beating 72 to the minute. And I'm going to keep it that way, too. I feel wonderful. Yes, I know. I, do I look like my life is ruined? I've never been more relaxed in my life. Well, I know, all right. I believe you. But look, Jane, do me a favor, will you? What's that, doctor? After this, don't put the thermometers in the sterilizer anymore, will you? They break, see? Hey, Molly, have you seen my cigar since lunch? I laid a cigar down deep, and I can't find my cigar since I eat. Well, I think we can track it down, dearie. Are there any Roman candles in the house? Not that I know of. Why? Well, then that must be your cigar on the windowsill. Oh. Unless Mr. Williams has burning leaves next door, and the smoke is blowing in through a closed window because I saw it. That's my cigar. Thanks. Hey, have you talked to Jane today? Yes. Yes, she called up while you were finishing lunch. Said she enjoyed her dinner here last night. How'd she like Joy? I was afraid to ask. Well, no matter. I sort of figured after I seen him together a while that he wasn't exactly her type. No, mine. Incidentally, did you by any chance send someone down to the doctor's office to see her this afternoon? This morning I did. Soon as I saw Doc Gamble eating for the hospital, I sent a friend of mine up there to introduce himself to her. Oh, swell kid, athletic type. Only guy in town that can beat me at Snooker. How'd she like him? Did she make a date with him? I don't think so. She said he dropped in, but he was such a bore that she knew he couldn't be a friend of yours, which I thought a very naïve remark. Well, what happened?  Oh, for the... My gosh, Molly, I thought Chester would be just right for her. What does she want, anyhow? Maybe she wants to be left alone. Oh, that's ridiculous, Molly. You know that. Gee whiz, when a girl gets left alone, that's the end. And I'm not going to let that happen to her. She's too nice a kid. Look, sweetheart. There's an old Indian saying I just made up, which goes, other people's love affair is like clothes ringer. Good thing to keep nose out of. What's a clothes ringer got to do with Janey Ryan? She don't work in a laundry, Molly. You got your similes mixed. I'm sorry. Boy, I haven't even started on this thing yet. I'll have her phone ringing like a four alarm fire. I'll have more calls for her then. Dr. Gamble's office. Who? Yes, this is Jane Ryan. Mr. Who? Mr. Jellington. Well, I'm afraid you must have the... Oh, he did. Well, tell Mr. McGee I'm getting along fine, thanks. Is that a call for me, Jane? No, it was... It was another candidate for a date, doctor. I don't want to hurt Mr. McGee's feelings, but this is beginning to get a little silly.  How many so far? Five phone calls. One fella rode up and down in the elevator all morning and gave the operator a dollar to point me out to him.  Yes, and then there was a man who delivered a package and then... Oh, if that's for you, hang up. And if it's for me, I'm out. I'm going over to McGee's. Yes, I know, Doc, but don't you see I'm only trying to help... I see that you've got my secretary in my office in the complete uproar. Put away your bow and arrow and stop trying to play Cupid, will you? What do you mean, Doc? You want me to quit? Are you suggesting that I'm a quitter? No, sir, I'm not gonna let that girl down now. I've suggested a time or two that maybe she'd like to live her own life, doctor, but he won't...  Great, Scott, it's getting so she's afraid to go home alone. Every corner has some knucklehead hiding behind it with an introduction from you and an eagle look. Well, my gosh, what does she want anyhow, Clark Gable? Hey, he's not married. I wonder if I could... No, McGee. Well, I'm trying, gee whiz. I even sent Oliver Crampedon III himself personally up there to see her yesterday. Who on earth is Oliver Crampedon III? Who is he? He's only the kid that his old man owns half the real estate and Wispel Vista. That's all who he is.  He'd make a swell husband. Oh, fine. He sounds delightful. Certainly he's delightful. He'd have been married long ago, except for one thing. What's that? Never been able to find a girl who could stand him.  Hey, look, Doc, I don't want to be unreasonable about this thing. I just want to help the girl get her life straightened out. That's all. Good for you, my boy. Now, all you have to do is forget all about her and everything. No, sir. Why, Doc, I couldn't live with myself if I let that girl down at a time like this. How you've ever lived with yourself is a mystery to me, huh? These things pull at my heartstrings, Doc. They really do. I can't help it if I'm generous and thoughtful to a fault, can I? Oh, dear. I guess sometimes I'm my own worst enemy. Not while I'm alive, you're not. You're not just saying that cause you admire me, Doc. No, I'm sure he isn't, McGee. This thing has got a little too big for me, though, Doc. I'm not making quite the progress I expected to. That's the understatement of the century. Yes, sir. And I need some help, and I know where to get it to. I'm afraid to ask what you're planning now. But what? I'm going down to the Wistful Vista Gazette. Going to take this whole thing up with the Love Lorne Editor. What? Oh, McGee. Yes, sir. Best Bender, the Heart Mender. She'll straighten it out. Should have thought of this before. Best Bender, the Heart Mender. So I laid the whole deal right out on Bess' desk, Molly. I and the Love Lorne Editor analyzed the whole situation. Oh, wonderful. Yes, sir. Best Bender's handling it. Now we can let the girl alone, can't we? No, sir. Listen, we went over how Jane busted her engagement in the first place, see? And then we went over all the guys I lined up for and figured out just what kind of a guy she don't like, you see? Well, that covered quite a field, too. Yep. So finally, we figured out what kind of a guy she does like. Now, all you got to do is grab the phone and ask her here for dinner again. I got the guy lined up. Oh, no, McGee. Not again. No. But, Molly, I told you, I got the whole thing figured out, scientific this time. We analyzed it. You get her over here. And if she don't like this guy, I'll never say another word about it. Oh, dear. Hand me the phone. Here we go again. Now you just sit right here in the living room and relax, Janie. I've got dinner all under control. Are you sure I can't help, Mrs. McGee? I haven't had much chance to fool around the kitchen lately. It's kind of tiresome just cooking for yourself all the time. No, no. You just relax, sis. I, well, I got a surprise for you, maybe. There is a possibility that there may be four of us for dinner tonight. Oh. Oh, no, not joy. Nothing like that. This is just the fellow that you. It's a fellow that Mr. McGee has scientifically figured out as the type for you to fall in love with, dear. You betcha. She may as well have all the brutal facts, McGee. You betcha. I sort of hoped you'd given me up, Mr. McGee. I did tell you I was all through with love, you know. I wish you'd believe me. You don't even believe it yourself, do you, Janie? No. Things, well, they don't seem to be working out. I don't know. I get pretty. Janie, we need some help, some real help. And when you're in trouble, all you have to do is ask God for help. He's never let me down. Just ask Him. Oh, I do, Mrs. McGee. I do. I pray every night that. Hold everything, kids. Hold everything. Hot dog, hot dog. Come in, come in, come in. Hi, boy. Come right in. Hello, Mr. McGee. Molly, this is Dave Nolan. Dave, this is my wife. And this is. Davey, oh, Davey. Janie, honey. Oh, gee, I've missed you so. Oh, McGee, why, he must be very. I've been so lonesome without you, Janie. Look, I'll take the flowers and the candy, Dave.  I should say not. I'll get a vase for the candy or a dish for the flowers. I mean, McGee, don't just do something. Stand there. Come on, they probably got stuff to talk about. Yes, you can help me get dinner on the table. Heavenly day. Oh, Davey. Oh, McGee, isn't it wonderful? You did do it. Sure. As soon as I got the proper coaching, everything worked out perfect. Oh, he's such a nice-looking lad, too. See, does he have a job? What does he do? Oh, didn't I tell you? He's a newspaper man on the gazette. Newspaper man, a reporter? Oh, he does everything. Some of the staff was sick this week, and he was doing best bender, the heart bender. So they had him writing the advice to the Lovelorn column. What? I'm hungry. You have heard Fibber McGee and Molly starring in advice to the Lovelorn. Now here is tonight's family theater host, Don DeFore. You know, I've discovered that most people have a wonderful capacity for love and friendship, for understanding and brotherhood. And isn't it a real treat to meet people who are over-hearted and generous, who are considerate and kind? You see, these are the ordinary duties of brotherhood. And if we fail in them, it means not only unhappiness for others, but a failure to find real happiness ourselves. And you'll find this true in all homes where every token of kindness and consideration helps to unite a family more closely in love and understanding. Every home should be a happy one, and it can be with God's help. And many families are finding a renewed happiness in their homes because they have learned the wonderful power of family prayer. The power of God's help to keep our families together and happy. This is a simple conviction of family theater, the conviction so many of us share, that we should pray for one another. Pray with one another together as a family prayer because a family that prays together stays together. Before saying good night, I'd like to thank Fibber McGee and Molly for their performances this evening. Our thanks to Phil Leslie for writing tonight's play, and to Max Tehr for his music. This production of family theater incorporated as it was directed by David Young. Others who appeared in tonight's play were Arthur Q. Bryan, Betty White, Jess Kirkpatrick, and Tyler McVeigh. Next week our family theater stars will be Preston Foster and Daryl Hickman in The Journey Home. Your hostess will be Ruth Hussie. This is Don DeFore saying good night, and God bless you. This series of the family theater broadcast is made possible by the thousands of you who felt a need for this kind of program, by the Mutual Broadcasting System, which has responded to this need, and by a friend of the New York Foundling Hospital, which cares for homeless and motherless babies without distinction of race, creed, or color. Join us next week at the same time when our stars will be Preston Foster and Daryl Hickman with Ruth Hussie as hostess. Tony LaFranco speaking, this is the Mutual Broadcasting System.


I'm Barrett Clark and this talk is good enough. Really, what I'm going to be talking about is balancing learning all the things and shipping all the things with all the other things. And you can see that's already out of balance, right? Okay, so it happens fast. Let's play a game. Let's have a show of hands. First of all, in the last year, which one of these HTTP libraries have you used? Net HTTP at a standard library, yeah? Fantastic. HTT Party, right on. What about REST Client? Okay, REST Client. Faraday, everybody's using all of them, great. What about something else? Active resource maybe? Yeah? Right. Okay, so in the last year I've used all of these also. They each bring something different to the table, right? They each have something that they're really good at or maybe they feel good, and they each have something that's kind of weak. Active resource is basically all weak, but... Right? Okay, so what about Ruby things? Rails... Wait, hold on. Let me check something. I wrote script. This is a soft talk, but I have to have some code. So I wrote a script using Faraday to go out and hit the RubyGems API and look at versions. So, okay, Rails. 215 versions in all of time that have at least 1,000 people who have downloaded. There are more versions. There's probably about 250 versions total of Rails Gym. And that includes, as you saw, release candidates. We're about to have a new version. So we have a new MRI every Christmas now, right? It took us four years to go from 1.8 to 1.9, and then five years to go from 1.9 to 2.0. We get a new version every year now. And infrastructure... infrastructure. What web server are you using today versus, you know, whenever... And what about app servers? I remember the bump to Rails 1.0. I actually migrated an app to Rails 1.0. I've used a lot of different app servers. And configuration management, virtualization, containerization, asianization, whatever. That stuff moves fast, and now I've got this whole CoroS Docker standoff thing. So it... There's a lot of shift in all these areas. And speaking of shifts... Oh, I went too fast. So speaking of shift, what about JavaScript? When I started doing web development a long time ago, it was just JavaScript. As far as I know, it was just JavaScript. So we get prototype with Rails, if I remember correctly. And jQuery comes along, and it's great. And now, you know, you've seen that zero day since the new JavaScript framework's been released. So... I'll tell you what, I would rather just write JavaScript personally. I like D3 a lot. NVD3 built on Angular makes me rage, but that's a different story. A point with all of that is it's scary how fast everything changes. Steve Wozniak had a quote, you can't stop the steamroller of technology change. You can't stop the steamroller of technology change. And so I feel that breathing down my neck, and I want to outrun it. So here are some of my steamrollers. Some of the things that tip my scales, learning all the things versus all the other things. Staying current. It's really hard to stay current on all the things that you already know about, right? Everything changes, we just got a new version of Postgres, it's got great new stuff. Everything changes, new version of Rails coming out, what the hell's new in that, I don't know. Everything changes. And then you've got all the other things, like new ideas, new technologies, new languages, and you want to play with them. That takes time. So that takes time away from all the other things. And tools. In my job, I work in kind of a lab environment, which is great, but I've got to be able to ship the code, any code, I've got to be able to write it first and then ship it. And different languages lend themselves to different environments, right? In Ruby, we have a really good project-based environment, and that's great because you can kind of sandbox and isolate things. Xcode does a pretty good job with this. It has its warts, but it handles projects pretty well. Android's a different story. Maybe it's just that I'm terrible at Android, which is totally possible.  So write the code, any code. This is one of my Steam Rollers. Tools, all that stuff. And I don't, I'm an old school sixer, like I like VI, but Vim is a little bit newfangled for me. I don't like all those, like, the plugins are weird. So I use, I just like a text editor. Just give me a sublime, and I'll use, you know, Android Studio, I'll use Xcode. I'll use whatever, like, the actual tool is for the thing. That's not something I don't want to learn, Vim. It's just, it hasn't made sense to me yet. I'm not that smart. And then you have that project, that special snowflake project. You can't put it down. Does this happen to anybody else you dream about the code? You go to bed and you chew on it. You're working through those problems. You wake up with a headache. That special project tips the scales.  I'm the only one who can ship this feature. This product will be nothing without me at Messiah Complex. But that's kind of, that's maybe a trust issue. I don't know. And then there's computer science. Yeah, I've got business degrees. I'm totally winging it. I work really hard to know about, to understand or even know about, like, core principles that I'm sure a lot of you totally take for granted. Tips and Scales. And while we're talking about things that we take for granted, this isn't a talk about privilege, but I feel like I should touch on it. I acknowledge that my struggles are probably different from your struggles. It's not a level playing field out there. I know that I've had opportunities that maybe not everybody's had. Do I deserve to be where I am? I don't know. What do I take for granted? And how open am I really? I don't know. These are important conversations in our community. And I don't have the answers to them. But it's something that I'm thinking about. So those are some of my steam rollers. Some of the things that tip my scales. My biggest concern is that I feel, I hear that steam roller bearing down and I can't outrun it. I can't outrun it. I don't want to be that guy. Slow, unproductive, bottleneck, difficult. I want to be that guy. Mike, you notice what I did there? The snail on the ball. So what do you do? Okay, so I think taking a step back and being self-aware is a good first step, right? Being mindful of the situation of the problem, you're putting way too much weight on this side and this other side is suffering. This is an inside joke, actually, with my wife. It's a super dysfunctional work setup and this is one of their sayings. But it's actually, it's a good... I mean, there's a grain of truth in this, right? Teamwork makes the dream work. Having a good team is a good, healthy thing. I have a good team. We work really hard and we have a lot of fun. So, this is our team mascot. I love that you, Caroline, had the coming, the wookie slide. Travel Chewy has his own Twitter account. You should go look at it, but not right now. He travels with us when we go to Hackathons. There he is, sitting in a terminal at SFO, waiting to fly back from Disrupt. And this was a totally organic thing. He was actually a president from a good friend who I'd worked with for a long time. At a previous job, he was a going away president. And because we're programmers, you know, we have our silly toys, I brought him into the office at my new place at Saber. And the team just latched on and Travel Chewy became a thing. He has a seat at his table. He is in our office. Up there, you see he's presenting one of our hacks. We also do an annual Hackathon at Work where you just get to kind of play around with stuff. And we took flight data and turned it into music in JavaScript using, I think it was the band.js. And it'll make your ears bleed. It wasn't cool. It wasn't good. But if you Google airport beats, you can see that horrendous hack. And he's playing with the Oculus Rift there. So I know this looks like a cheesy success release poster, but trust does help diffuse worry. And it's a great cycle, right? If you know that you can rely on your team, then you can offload that worry. And you can put it down. You can put that special snowflake project down. And you don't have to worry. And if you know that you're trusted, then that's empowering, right? At least for me, at least. Practice. So we do have to spend time figuring out how these tools work, playing with these languages. So what do we practice? We practice code. And these are things that we do at Work. So I've learned a lot about how to practice and how to do these things through exercises that we've done at Work. So we practice code a lot. But we also practice methodology, like how do we think about a problem? How are we going to approach something? How do we work through something? And of course, then we practice teamwork, working together. What are the handoffs? Who's going to be responsible for what? And we've tried all sorts of different things, drawn out priorities, all these things, all towards figuring out how are we going to ship that MVP? What even does that mean? And this, I think, is another good thing to help kind of diffuse worry. If you know what the target is and you're crystal clear on what's important and what's not important, then it helps guide the conversations and it helps relieve that stress. And it takes the personality out of the conversations also. So you're able to talk about this is in scope, this is out of scope, and with out of scope it's totally unimportant and you don't even need to worry about it. And so it gives you that really nice, tight definition about how to do something. When we're gearing up for a hackathon, we spend weeks working on all these things. For a simple little 24-hour go. Like I said, we do lots of different languages, lots of different things, and every project has at least one brand new thing that I totally don't know how to do. You can't let that stand in your way. But those voices haunt slow, unproductive bottleneck. You've got to let it go, let it go. Work-life balance is hard. We're constantly piling stuff on this side. You have to put some weight on the other side. Feed your soul. So I've got a wife, I've got two boys, more hobbies than I could ever possibly do. You've got to take time to enjoy the little things. So my kids both play lacrosse, and they both need new gloves at the same time, of course, which is amazing. But it's fun to watch them play. It's fun to watch them just run around and have fun. You see my big yellow dog there, Jack Dog, and my big green egg. I love to cook. I'm a creative person, and cooking is another way for me to be creative and make things that people enjoy, but not at a glowing screen. And then you see those little puzzles there. Sudoku or Hidato and the pencil. There's something about that scratch of the graphite on the paper, the sound and the smell. I love that. It feeds my soul. This is Lake Champlain, sunset on Lake Champlain in Burlington, Vermont. Great Ruby Conference up there, great marathon if you're into running. It's a great, just feed my soul place. I love Burlington. Here's the thing. It's still be there when you come back to it. Work will always still be there. And you don't have to figure it out right now. Oh, you'll figure it out probably. Probably. But you don't have to figure it out right now. Tomorrow is another day. I have a hard time with this one. If you work to be done, like I want to get it done, right? But there's always work to get done. Tips to scales. Failure is okay, really.  So Android Studio, like every day it gets updated or something. And I did a brew update at some point and it updated all the things. Gradle was one of the things that got updated. And so when somebody, we had a showcase app, a Google Glass app that we had done to show off some internal API stuff. And somebody wanted an update. And I said, okay, sure. It took less than half hour to write the code and then it wouldn't build. Gradle wouldn't even run, of course.  Finally got everything figured out, got it built, got it in the glass, and it didn't run. Great. Fantastic. Now what? So we talked about it. We were busy in another project. This was an old showcase app. We decided it wasn't that important. Figure is okay. It doesn't happen very often, but it's okay. And I thought it was funny. Of course, that's when I would have my failure. So confession. I struggle with all of this. Like this is hard stuff, right? If there's work to get done, I want to get it done. I don't know about work-life balance. And I don't know if I'm good enough. This is a really fun hobby that my sons and I just got into. And you can see we're really good at it. Really good. So I don't know if I'm good enough, but I'm trying to worry less about those steamrollers. My son drew this. As I was preparing to leave, he handed it to me from a book that he had made. And I don't know if you can read that. Skills. This is a book about daddy. He and I play Minecraft together. And I'm terrible at Minecraft. So I get a five on that. But life, I'm up there, top of the charts on life. Job, not quite as good. And love, back up at the top. Nobody cares. Nobody is going to care if that app that you're working on ever existed. This is what matters. Thank you.


Hello and welcome to the session. Let us discuss the following question. Question says compute probability of A upon B if probability of B is equal to 0.5 and probability of A into section B is equal to 0.32. First of all, let us understand that conditional probability of the event E, given that F has occurred is equal to probability of E intersection F upon probability of F, where probability of F is not equal to 0. This is our key idea to solve the given question. Let us now start with the solution. Now we are given probability of B is equal to 0.5 probability of A intersection B is equal to 0.32. Now we have to find probability of A when B has occurred. Now using key idea we know probability of A upon B is equal to probability of A intersection B upon probability of B, where probability of B is not equal to 0. Now we have given probability of A intersection B is equal to 0.32. So we will substitute 0.32 for probability of A intersection B here and probability of B is equal to 0.5. So we will substitute 0.5 for probability of B here and we get probability of A upon B is equal to 0.32 upon 0.5. Now simplify further, we get probability of A upon B is equal to 320 upon 500. Now we will cancel common factor 20 from the inductor and denominator both and we get probability of A upon B is equal to 16 upon 25. So this is our required answer. This completes the session. I hope you understood the solution. Take care and have a nice day.


Admiral, United States Navy, arriving. Admiral Harry B. Harris Jr. relieved Admiral Cecil D. Haney as commander of U.S. Pacific Fleet during a change of command ceremony on Joint Base Pearl Harbor, Hickam, Oct. 16th. Under Cecil's leadership, the 2012 RIM of the Pacific Exercise was the world's largest and most successful international maritime exercise. It was with 22 partner nations that come together. Admiral Harris is now the 34th Pacific Fleet Commander. Ladies and gentlemen, our President and our Secretary of Defense are clear. As a nation, we will rebalance to the Pacific and we will work closely with our allies and partners in the Indo-Asia Pacific region. Pacific Fleet is responsible for approximately 180 ships, 2,000 aircraft, and 125,000 sailors and Marines. In 2014, the command will once again host the world's largest maritime naval exercise.


Hi and welcome to the session. I am Deepika here. Let's discuss the question. Shyamma bought 5 kilograms, 300 grams apples and 3 kilograms, 250 grams mangoes. Sarla bought 4 kilograms, 800 grams oranges and 4 kilograms, 150 grams bananas. Who bought more fruits? So let's start the solution. Shyamma bought 4, 3 kilograms and 250 grams. So the total fruit bought by Shyamma is we will add 2, 5 and this is 8. Therefore the total fruit bought by Shyamma is 8 kilograms, 550 grams. This is equal to 8.550 kilograms. Now the fruit bought by Sarla. Now she bought oranges, this is 4 kilograms and 800 grams and bananas, 4 kilograms, 150 grams. So the total fruit she bought we will add this is 0, 5, 8, 1, 9 and 8. So therefore total fruit bought by Sarla is 8 kilograms, 950 grams. This is equal to 8.950 kilograms. Now Shyamma bought 8.550 kilograms fruit and Sarla bought 8.950 kilograms. Now compare these 2 decimals. On the left hand side we have the same digit 8. Now we will see the right side. On the right side on the 10th place we have here 9 and here 5. This means this decimal is greater than this decimal. That is 8.950 is greater than 8.550. Therefore our answer for the above question is Sarla bought more fruit. I hope the question is great to you. Mayan ticket.


So, my lab is very interested in figuring out what the difference is between benign cancers, between cancers that you don't need to treat or that can be cured very easily, and fatal cancers, cancers which end up recurring, metastasizing, and causing patient death even with very aggressive treatment. And so we set out to analyze the genetic differences between these benign tumors and the very aggressive, very malignant tumors. And what we found was pretty surprising. So we looked at the presence of mutations in these two samples, mutations that commonly cause cancer, and we found that there wasn't very much of a difference in the types of mutations that these benign and these aggressive tumors had. However, when we looked at copy number changes in these same genes, we found a very significant difference. So copy number changes is when you have more of a gene or less of a gene, it changes the dosage of the gene, and we found that very aggressive, very malignant tumors tended to have a lot more copy number changes in these genes than benign tumors did, even when there were no mutations in these genes. And I think that this work is important because it suggests that looking at copy number alterations might allow you to better predict which tumors are more likely to be aggressive and which tumors are most likely to prove to be life-threatening to cancer patients.