So we're about to get an explosion of news about Hyrule Warriors Age of Calamity. We all know it was announced, more news coming on the 26th, but now we have a little bit of detail about what that news is going to pertain to, how long we're going to be able to actually seed the game for, and how long the event actually is for Hyrule Warriors Age of Calamity on the 26th, which I'm so pumped. But before we talk about that, I have to remind you that we have two giveaways going on. One is for three copies of Super Mario 3D All Stars. There's a Glean.io link down in the description to enter that. Also we are giving away a Switch Lite and two Switch games of choice. There's a laundry list of ways to enter, subscribing, all that jazz. Go down in the description to find out how to do that. And good luck. Winners will be announced on October 1st, and that's when we begin our new giveaway as well. But we'll give details on that, even though the details are technically already out there. But whatever. We'll talk more about that giveaway when it's time to announce it. Alright, so Hyrule Warriors Age of Calamity. To say I'm excited for this game is maybe the understatement of the year. Age of Calamity is a prequel, an official canon prequel to Breath of the Wild. And we know Breath of the Wild sequel is coming, according to A.G. Enomo and the Zola team announced back at E3 2019. That means that we have a trilogy of Breath of the Wild games, and this is the next one. It's going to fill in what happened 100 years before Breath of the Wild when the Great Calamity occurred. And it looks like it starts before Link is even a big deal, before Link is a champion. And that is really, really cool. We're going to get a lot of stuff. The Zelda team directly worked on this with Koei Tecmo, or yeah, whatever. So it's going to be very interesting to see how this turns out. Obviously there's another Hyrule Warriors game out there that was a celebration game. It's non-canon. It's licensed by Nintendo, but Nintendo really didn't have much to do with that game. Whereas with this one, Nintendo's Zelda team wrote the story, and we're directly involved, especially with the visuals of the game. So it looks and feels like Breath of the Wild crazy. You guys have seen it. You're literally watching the trailer over and over again right now. That's how cool this is. Well, we have some information here for you guys. This comes from the official Hyrule Warriors Twitter account in Japan. And we're looking just at a Google translated version of the tweet here. And it says, the latest information on Hyrule Warriors, apotropaic magic. I'm not exactly sure what that means. Again, it's a translation. It will be delivered at 2200 on Saturday, September 26th. It will be released at Tokyo Game Show 2020 during the official exhibitor program. We will deliver a program of about 50 minutes long, including the first public release of the actual machine video. So what they mean is that like the first public release of actual like live gameplay. So please take a look and then it click for details, takes you out to the site. And it's just like a link where they have the stream ready to go live in five days. Now for those wondering what time that is in terms of the United States, it is 7 AM. My local time is when that stream is going to happen now. Right now the stream they linked out is a Japanese version of the stream, but it was announced in English. This is important to note, this September 26 news was announced in the English trailer at the end of the trailer, which means there should be an English version of this, if not an English translated version of this stream happening at the exact same time. We just don't know which channel it's going to go through. Potentially it might officially be on the Nintendo channel since they announced it on the Nintendo YouTube channel. So either way, you know we will be live stream reacting to it. If they're doing a live stream of it, it will likely be announced a day before or so to give us a little heads up on hey look, this is the stream. Here's the video. Get ready to watch it. So you know we will be live stream reacting to it. I'm a big Zelda guy. As much as I've been talking about Mario for anyone who's been a long time fan of the channel, I am a Zelda guy. Zelda is my favorite franchise. If you look in the background of some of my videos when I'm on camera, you notice I have an entire shelf dedicated to just Zelda, whereas I don't have an entire shelf dedicated to any other franchise.  I speculate on what some additional playable characters might be and you can obviously look above to find out that. But yeah, I'm obviously really wondering what they're going to show here. How much more story are we going to get? Are we going to get some more cutscenes? Are we going to get information on more playable characters? Because playable characters are a very interesting thing because we have the mainstays there that should be playable during the Great Calamity, but what else is going to be available? Are they going to reveal that? There's a dark side to the story because if you don't know Warriors games, you can traditionally play the good and the bad and so you get both perspectives. Are we going to get both perspectives in this game? Are we going to get to play as one of Calamity Ganon's minions and going through all that leading up to the Great Calamity? I have no idea. Maybe this won't be that way since the Zelda team is directly involved in writing the story and the cutscenes. The voice actors are back for this one. This is official folks. It is legitimately part of the Zelda IP timeline franchise, all that jazz. One of the first spin off Zelda games to officially be part of that timeline. So what are you guys hoping to find out about this game in a 50 minute presentation? To put this in perspective, we just got a Monster Hunter Direct following up the Nintendo Direct Mini and that was 15 minutes long and that was for Monster Hunter Rise which is going to be a big deal game releasing on March 26 next year. We're talking a 4 or 5 million seller. This is a 50 minute presentation at Tokyo Game Show where Nintendo typically has no presence at all. So this is going to be pretty interesting to me and the fact that they're not just going to leave it in Japanese, it was announced in English that there's going to be news on the 26th. That lets me know that Nintendo plans to do an English thing and worldwide, this is going to be big. Guys, a 50 minute presentation. This is akin to getting a 50 minute presentation on Breath of the Wild 2 in terms of this game. I don't know what to expect. I literally don't know what to expect. What are we going to find out? Are we going to find out a key timeline detail? Are we going to find out about more playable characters? Are we going to find out some locations and how they rebuilt those locations or built them in the first place because the locations show a high rule before it was destroyed. That's one of the most exciting things about this game is we get to see the world of Breath of the Wild before the destruction. Then obviously we get to see it get destroyed as well. But you know, that's kind of a minor side note in comparison to everything else. So yeah, what are you guys thinking? Are you guys hyped for this game or as hyped as I am? I also want to apologize if there's a little popping in the audio or a little bumping. I'm holding this microphone. I'm not actually at home at my studio with my usual setup. I'm gone. I'm on my laptop trying to get a few videos out for you guys. But yeah, hopefully this turns out because if it doesn't I'm going to be really, really, really upset because I brought this stuff with specifically so I can try to get some sort of quality content out to you guys. But you know, sometimes this is how it goes. Alright folks, I want to thank you so much for tuning in. I actually might have another video coming out later today guys. That's actually an older video that I'm bringing back for a new audience just because it's been a long time. So stay tuned for that. It's a video that is still relevant to this day. Alright, I love you guys man. Thank you so much for subscribing, liking all that jazz. I will catch you in the next video.


What's the word y'all welcome back to Kenny for real it feels good to say those words man It's been a minute since we've uploaded here, and that's been a few reasons why we were transitioning from The off-season to like now which is like the beginning of regular season So it wasn't really much to talk about and the second thing is that I was transitioning from This channel being a part of a network to be an independent y'all we 100% own this channel now We 100% own this channel y'all don't know what that means if you don't make YouTube videos But that is a big big step and in this channel So I appreciate y'all just holding me down in the last couple weeks I mean I uploaded but now the season about to start in a week or so and things going down like today It is time to get back on the ground on the Kenny for real channel man We have to talk about this super max extension a Yana sign man. What is the number? What it was like? 228.2 million dollars over the next five years, and I think we add the contract the year of the contract They already got this year them basically Yanis got his bag be sure to leave a like when the video subscribe if you are new This is a hub of like me giving takes about the NBA talking about the NBA and we built this community where we don't always agree with each other But we respect each other's opinions. It's like what debates and conversation about a Subjective matters should be like it's not all name called it because we disagree So this is a community you do want to be a part of so subscribe So a couple months ago when the beginning of the off-season started I made a video saying dear Yanis do not sign a super max contract Yeah, because I was a firm believer that if he would assign a super max contract at the beginning of free agency or the earliest He could have got that that took the pressure off of the Milwaukee Bucks front office to make the necessary changes for the team to hit That next step as we know this team has been an amazing Regulacies a team over the last couple years but they hit this wall in a literal sense where teams are building the wall for Yanis and The pieces around him needed to be better Yeah, I just needed to better as well But the pieces around him needed to be better and fit the play style when we got to the playoffs And then they made the first move first move trader for true holiday included Throwing Eric Bledsoe to the Pelicans and then get in giving up I think three first-round picks and two swaps or two swaps and three first-round pick whatever it was It was a lot of draft capital and and as good of a player Eric Bledsoe is because I think that Eric Bledsoe gets the short end of a stick when it Comes to women his name comes up in conversations Eric Bledsoe is a very good NBA player especially for the regular season That's why for me the pelicans are such a harder team to to really look at and say what their years gonna be like because Eric Bledsoe was good enough to help you win regular season games But when you talk about when it's a postseason and teams you start scheming against a guy like Yanis who doesn't have a Jump shot Yanis needed his surrounding four players on the court to be knocked down shooters for that team to be successful and Eric Bledsoe just wasn't that and now they have a guy who drew holiday I wouldn't say Joe Holly's a knocked-down shooter He ain't coming off screens like Clay Thompson, Duncan Robinson But he is a significant upgrade from shooting the ball than Eric Bledsoe That is a W not to mention that he is a significant better defender There was a clip that came out from camp where it was Eric I mean not Eric Bledsoe drew holiday guarding Yanis and Yanis got the bucket because he's two-time MVP But but drew holiday was under the skin and playing a great defense and drew how they has the ability to defend higher than what Eric Bledsoe was and Another thing that drew how they has over eb is the ability to give him the ball and say let's get a bucket drew and now The Milwaukee Bucks have another guy on the roster It's like that because Chris Middleton is like that to an extent as well We're like you can legitimately give him the ball on an isolation situation He can create his own shot or create for others and Eric Bledsoe didn't really bring that But I was telling Yanis in that video that like I want you to stay with the Milwaukee Bucks because it would have been a travesty if Yanis left the Milwaukee Bucks to go to a team in California to go to the Miami heat to go to one of these big market teams because at the end of the day It seems like something we've seen so many times throughout history and this was like maybe This could this could really save a lot of small market teams the fact that Yanis resigned honestly Honestly because if he would have went out to all these other teams or the big markets It would have been detrimental to the rest of the smaller market teams around the league This gives hope for the smaller teams like okC okC is a smaller marketing that has a thousand picks where they can hit on a draft Get a potential MVP and be confident enough that if we do our art we play our cards right We could potentially keep him just because Yanis was able to do that and what would make it better for the league For the smaller market teams is if Yanis in the Milwaukee Bucks end up winning the championship Now I don't know if that's gonna happen in the next five years I'm already seeing people my mentions the news just broke like three minutes ago And I'm already seeing people my mentions saying ale wasting his career things like that And then I look at the profile picture and it's a Miami heat picture I'm like, yeah, you saying that because you wanted him on the team, you know at the end of the day I'm just so happy that another small market one of the few small market teams were able to to get their star player and Keep him for a long term five-year Supermax contract I mean again, it's not set in stone because we've seen people sign extensions in a year or two into their extension They're like, okay, I won out but Yanis don't take me for that time You know you take take a look at where he started from in Greece So you hear a story about him all of his brothers and his parents living in a one-bear room And you gotta think about these are like big kids, you know I'm saying these dudes turned out to be seven feet tall So these big old kids live in the one-bear room or a studio apartment He comes from very humble beginnings and for a team like the Milwaukee Bucks to take him when not a lot of people had him on A radar other than I guess the Bucks and Maasai because there is a video that surface of Maasai in the war room on Draft night trying to straight up for Yanis. Can you imagine that? But for them to take a shot on him give him the keys early in this career and allow him to develop it to the player That is I'm sure that means a lot to him That I'm sure that means a lot to him and that's why he signed his extension. So now that all of this is done I'm really excited about Bucks basketball in their offices And again, we talked about the drill holiday trade and how that makes it better But we think about Yanis not signing an extension keeping that foot on the neck They were this close to pulling off a Bogdanovist trade And I don't think you do both of those deals without really knowing that Yeah, this is what Yanis wants. You know, if it were for Bogdan is like I got different plans I'm going to Atlanta. This team would be in a very very amazing spot I expect this team to be of course in contention again because they have been in the last couple years But be better this year than they were last year and I hope This is my big hope is that this team comes to the realization that though the regular season matters It doesn't at the same extent, you know, I'm saying like like I think that some of the best teams in history the ones that that we talk we're gonna talk about for years and years and years are the ones that I Don't want to say coast because coast has such a negative connotation But ones that realize that okay, we don't need to go a thousand percent in the regular season Let's save something for the playoffs. We talked about the Golden State Warriors that that won championships After the 73 and 9 season Jermaine Green came out said like the next year We were like forget the regular not forget the regular season But we were like it don't matter We're gonna win enough games to make the playoffs and hopefully get ourself home court advantage But we not diving for balls and potentially putting ourself in in a situation where we're going to be banged up once the playoff comes around and I want the bucks to take that the same thing if this team is a Worst regular season team this year I'm not gonna overreact because I would hope that this is a team that's like we're ready to win a championship We've been the number one seed. We've had the number one defense and now let's focus on this chemistry stuff Let's focus on these schemes that will help us win a championship because at the end of the day We know the recipe to guard Yanis at this point Now hopefully with him having the surrounded piece around him He can elevate his play and his teammates play will be elevated to to get over that wall like the literal wall that teams built around him Or to to prevent him from scoring Yanis is such a dominant NBA player and I feel like people forget that Because of some of the playoff walls like even when I watched the preseason the other day just the his ability to just barrel his way to the rim is is Have not been seen very very often throughout the history of this league LeBron was able to do it when he was very young Shaq was able to do it But like those type of players are very very hard to come across so even when I talk about their bench Right, they made some some changes. They brought in DJ Augustine This is a team that one of the reasons why they were so good of the past couple seasons Is because of that bench mob that they put together where when Yanis was off the court The team was still able to hold their own and not a lot of teams in the league can say that usually the bench players Are significantly worse than what the starters were able to do But the Bucks have able been able to build the bench mob and and they had to reformulate that after all these trades and things But bringing in a guy like DJ Augustine DJ Augustine is a big-time player I don't care what anybody says when the moment is when his number is called for the moment He'll be able to do that and him to come off your bench is good You remember that Raptors series game one man was in his aunt ones and given a Raptors work And I know that was two years ago But still he can he can still do something like that and Bobby Portis and a small sample of Bobby Portis It's all you need for him to be good as long as Bobby Portis not out here getting 20 plus minutes a game He's a good signing if you could get 10 15 minutes of Bobby Pete You're good and then they also get more wing defense when they brought in Tory Craig So I really like what this team is doing and I'm so happy for Yanis I was seeing people also my mentor saying they're like if he didn't sign a Supermax contract The wrapped I mean not the Raptors with the Bucks may have had to relocate I don't know if I want to go that far into it But him signing does mean a lot for the team and it means a lot for the league that I mean I bet Adam Silver is super happy right now. I just bet he I bet he's super happy to see him staying I mean and though it would probably be cool for the league to see another juggernaut team get built of Yanis left And went to another team. I like parody and as good as the Milwaukee Bucks is Them resigning Yanis doesn't put them at the top of the you know top of the totem pole I think this is a year that's going to be open and that's exactly what we look for every single year as a fan I let me know what you think about the Yanis Supermax contract I feel like I'm forgetting stuff to talk about but at the end of the day Yanis is there to stay for this foreseeable future And I think we should all be happy about that unless you had eyes on him signing with your team in free agency


My name is Calvin Vala. I'm 22 years old and I'm doing a master's degree in international management at Park City University. I'm from America and I've been in Park since September 2020. So I'm part of the International Association, so the Student International Association called ISA, and I'm the vice president of this association where I help to organize and help to create events for international students in BCU. This project is to connect with people and also to make friends. I came here, I didn't know anybody from the school, and I was able to make friends from different countries and it enables to also open up because you have things to share and people also have things to share to you and I learned a lot about, for example, Namibia, Kazakhstan, and some food for how they function in their culture. All kinds of things that I didn't know about those countries and countries that I didn't even hear about and that is something that I love and I'm so happy I joined for those reasons. To define my society in one word, I would say multicultural. If I can develop on that word, it's just that I would say you don't find anybody that would just go there and be like, oh, I just want to meet another French because I'm French and I'm like, oh, I want to spend time with French people or two people from the same country, which happens, but people come to discover all the cultures and that's the whole part of the International Student Association. It's to meet international people. It's a big mix of different cultures in the European Union, in Prague especially, and that's one thing I like because in some countries it's very hard to have all multicultural and multi-countries in one place, so I feel the European vibe and especially the school, the city, which is very European, but you have a lot of little touches of international from certain countries and that's what I love because you have a mix of that. Being surrounded by international people, it's something that I love the most because it's people that have the same interest and idea of being international.  Well, that's what I love being with international and that same idea is that we're open to anybody.


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Hello and welcome to this episode of psychic medium Tony G. I'm so excited that you're joining us here today as I give Alisa a reading. I'm going to be doing this reading on air and even though I know Alisa she's a friend and an acquaintance of mine. We've not talked about a lot of things that are going to come up and I know this because as I'm doing the intro all the messages are coming in now for her and they're good so I'm so excited Alisa it's such an honor to have you on again thank you so much. It's great to see you again.  Yep about eight months ago we we did this together when I was starting a new career and new journey so this will be exciting. And the journey is unfolding. That's what I'm looking to you for. Yes so in life as we move on many times we we know the journey we know the path we're supposed to be on and as it unfolds we might know it's the right path but we might need some touch-up information just some other things that we have questions about or new information that comes in. So the first thing I want to do is ask you do you have any questions to start off before I start? I don't really because I think it's all going to be kind of the same theme. I check in with you probably every six months or so because I have so many new changes that have happened in the last couple of years that it's kind of uh am I doing the right thing? Where do I go from here on and on? Yeah and it seems like they're always around always around waiting to talk to me so I'd rather hear what you what they're telling you I guess and if we could start off that way that would be easier. Yeah so first of all they are always around they're always trying to get us messages and let us know we are on the right path or we are not on the right path what we can do to make our lives easier what we can do to be healthier and happier also. So that's really important to know and the first thing I want to say when it comes to career with you you are on I want to say that your career right now and your work is multifaceted is the term they're using some parts of it are really amazing and you're doing really well but then other parts you feel like this is just ridiculous is the word that they're using and there should be more accountability is the other word they want to use. Yeah I do feel sassy lately I'm not gonna lie I do feel that way. Yeah well you know what sometimes we have to be very sassy blunt or bold to get the appropriate answers then mishmash oh yeah just go ahead and do that thing doesn't always work.  So it'll be a little easier on me. Absolutely it's it's like you're gonna be you climbed all the way to this this peak and now you just get to ride it down sort of thing they're showing me you're going to have a lot of new requests is the term they're using okay a lot of brand new requests coming into you people you've not met people you don't know acquiring or trying to attain your skills and use your resources keep your boundaries clear keep keep very very professional no matter what be very on task with things if you feel like you need to ask first and then do go right ahead and do that that's what other people are there for so the biggest for help more yeah rather than have to redo something ask first and then you know if you can't get that help you won't have to redo things I feel like there are going to be some new ventures coming in for you as far as real estate goes there's going to be some ventures some areas of real estate that you have not worked with before one of them being I see a commercial type of building coming in this commercial type of building I don't know if it's yeah it's it's possible it's a sale that you're gonna take part in a commercial I do have a commercial client oh so yeah you guys are good I'm like oh yeah we had a building now we're moving on to a different building we have to find the the next one awesome so that see that's how it works like there's so spot on sometimes that the timing might be a little bit off but the information is always right on this commercial client is also going to send you other people so stay on task that's a good bit of information because we're a different type of personality my clients and I you know what so at least I know that they like me because I couldn't tell as we're going through it and here's here's what I want to say no matter where you work and what you do I thank goodness everybody isn't like us because we might like us but dealing with me all day long if I had to deal with people with me all day long I'd be nuts by the end of the day I wouldn't want to deal with me either I'd be locking myself in a corner um but I am going to tell you stay professional it's really important that you stay professional and you stay on task don't let personal feelings or opinions about things get in the way okay one of the things I like to say is if it doesn't pertain to the deal don't even think about it don't even go there don't go there and if they do that's fine just go and get back to the deal okay um it doesn't matter what somebody else's personal or professional beliefs or whatever are right you're not there for that you're not going to be invited to birthday parties and well maybe at some point but you're just there to get a good deal done and most of the people that you work with if you find out a lot of their personal information you would find out yeah this isn't somebody I would do cocktails with but who cares you're not supposed to you're supposed to be there to maintain professional behavior and help them get their deals done okay as long as you do that you're going to be just fine so the biggest message coming through right now is maintain that professionalism which you do an amazing job at don't bring personal stuff into it and if it does start to come up just flip that switch right back to professional and keep going it would be really nice if everybody we worked with we could become best friends with but that's why the term acquaintance comes in yeah so that we can be or just a read on once in a while the read on people is very roller coaster-ish yeah and don't even worry about that you know the beautiful thing about your business being in the real estate business you don't need to know about them you just need to know what they want what are you looking for tell me what you're looking for let me help you find that everything else is a non-issue because because it is so moving forward um this commercial person the person with the commercial uh I feel like there's going to be some referrals from that there's definitely going to be some referrals from that just stay on task stay professional get the job done um own anything that like if there's a misprint or anything just own it and move on and they will really respect that they like your tenacity um otherwise they would not continue to work with you but they really like your tenacity they love the fact that you are really willing to work okay you're not afraid to look for answers and get in there and do what needs to be done okay and that's a beautiful thing um you are going to have a lot of residentials coming up some of the people you know but more of them you don't which is beautiful now right around that september time you might feel like it's september don't worry you have plenty of people on the other side assisting you guiding you and getting you there they're going to make sure that even through december and into january you will have plenty of work okay wonderful it's going to kind of just it will ebb and flow a little bit when you need that break even if you don't know you need that break they're going to give you that break now i probably need them to give me that break because i will just work worse look yes yes like i'll i'll say oh my gosh i don't have clients today oh my gosh and i'll hear in my head yeah just sit down and breathe and i'm like no no no no no no like go do something else with your day and then you go guilty inside no i i am totally the person i'm the it person i'm the you know social media so i'm like okay i don't have this i'm going to get on all these they're saying just breathe sit back relax go get a massage if you have time in between take care of yourself too yeah okay nobody will do for us what we don't do for ourselves right i get that believe me yes starting that again good for you so as far as work do you have any questions about anything that i've said so far no i think we've pretty much covered it excellent the next thing that i want to go to well wait okay one of the things that they're stating about work too is don't share too much of your private life at work not that anybody cares or whatever just don't give anybody ammunition and i think you know what they're talking about without saying too much here i do and i don't but i'm sure i'll think it over and figure it out after yeah after today yeah i i can speak more to that later okay we can discuss that a little bit more after the fact just uh when you go in that they're their word for you as far as work goes professional professional all the way professional don't think twice about being even above and beyond on that professional level just so no one can say anything later on down the line sometimes people are trying to decide between two realtors you always want everybody to say she's really professional and if they don't know anything about your private life they can't bring it up i don't know why they're saying that but it's obviously an important point for you i don't either so we'll have to talk about that later absolutely absolutely so as we move into love because i keep hearing now love love love love love love i i don't hear that or see that so this is news to me you've been a little bit stressed out lately lately you've been a little bit um negative i'm going to put it differently i'm going to say you've been a little bit consumed with things that have happened in the past okay and it's time to i'm sorry sweetie i'm so sorry i want to just come over there and give you the biggest hug and hold you right now um what the one thing that they're asking you to do is to look at things as valuable lessons rather than mistakes or why didn't it why didn't this work out why couldn't that work out why why why instead of having all the whys go into the well you know what i learned from this person is this and what i learned i wanted from this person is this and what i learned that i would like to have in my future is this and really just get a little journaling book and they want you to write down what you believe an ideal partner is first they just want you to go through and write down what you believe an ideal partner is what this person does how they show up who they are in your life what their character is and then they want you to analyze why you feel that way yeah yeah fun like i don't analyze myself enough no they don't want you to analyze you they want you to analyze why you want these certain characteristics to make sure they're the right characteristics for you because sometimes we want somebody who is a certain way like i know a lot of women who want a partner that's really nice and kind and then i say to them you would eat him up and spit him out in a week because you're really controlling and you need a man with a lot of testosterone to deal with that and they start laughing they're like yeah i go plus you like bad boys so you wouldn't even like this really nice kind person and they're like you're right now we can fix that and we can alter that and help them get that person at both yes exactly and we can help somebody get from needing a bad boy to just you know wanting somebody healthier in their life but they have to want that too yeah so for you looking at why you want the qualities you want is really important and to associate those qualities and where they sit in you and how you have them or don't have them now will be very helpful for you too because some of the things that we ask for in a partner are things that we are not quite there on yet um so once we have it then they can show up because nobody can fill our voids we have to be full and then that person comes up and they truly are a partner not a filler um and that's really important the next person that comes in try not to fix them as a matter of fact look at your partners like houses instead of getting the fixer up or money pit that just cannot be fixed there's just so much to do here um get that partner that is really the new build somebody who's done the work on themselves somebody who knows who they are somebody who's sure of what they want and where they want I just don't know where to meet that person sometimes once we're there they show up that's what I keep hearing sometimes sometimes I feel like I'm there and then I do my back slide because I get frustrated with feeling like I did a lot of work and then yeah but you know what we're like Picasso's I think we're like we're like the never-ending art or you know I don't I don't know but we're work in progress so we we we are happy for how far we've come because we know we're not the same person we were five or ten years ago even a year ago we've grown we've matured we've learned hopefully but then every once in a while we're going to fall back into that comfort zone something that feels comfortable I compare it to my old shoes that I should have thrown out two winters ago but can't find another pair like them so I just keep them and wear them it's my um do you ever rise them I just really need to let them go but they're comfortable habits are the same way we can fall back into some of those old habits because they're really comfortable the good news is we fall back into them when we're vulnerable so in those moments of vulnerability which I haven't I've been kind of cut and dry for the last six months okay or cut people in general and not hold on not even give second thirds whatever there's absolutely nothing wrong with that not just relation but friendships too yeah and sometimes you know if you're not growing together you're growing apart and if somebody isn't growing and you are you don't have to stay there because every time you're with them you go back to that you know place I describe it like walking into your mom's house you go back to that 16 year old soon as you walk into mom's house you're opening the fridge eating things you don't eat doing things you don't do saying things you said when you were chat it's the same thing with friends certain groups of friends bring us to certain points or we behave certain ways around them if they're not growing with you then it's okay to let go of something and I'm gonna I just want to say you know there's this false belief that every single person we meet we're supposed to just hold on to for the rest of our life but that's not the case some people we meet in and everything is a lesson so some people we're just meeting them to show what we do like what we don't like what we want more of what we want less of and wow I'm really happy for my sanity thank you for showing me how sane I am yeah and moving on not everybody's a keeper not everybody and that's okay I used to keep everyone when I was younger yeah now I'm easier to get rid of people quick so like I think I need to find the gray yeah quality not quantity yeah you want quality people in your life I another way to look at this is the energy that we're around the energy that we the people that were around they have a certain energy and we're going to catch that energy if we're around them so we want to always be around people who are here so we're being pulled up right and then we can move up instead of being if we're here hanging around people down here because they're going to pull us down right so we have to know so if you're letting go of people there's really good reasons for that don't feel badly about it don't look in your rear view just move on as far as love goes and believe it or not they are actually getting to love now we started this like 10 minutes ago the person who the spirits that are talking to you can you visually see some of them what one of them because last time I was here I think we I met my grandpa so I was just curious yeah I do see some of them as we talk about it there's a little elderly woman who's very thin and hunched over with grayish the dark grayish hair so whoever she is and I know she has to be a grandmother or a great grandmother but she's very petite and she's very hunched over and I feel like she's from the old world even the way she's dressed is more old world than it is I feel like she was she may never have been here in America I feel like she may be from just maybe a great grandparent or something yeah just the way she's dressed her demeanor I just want to say she's very old world is the term they keep using with her um but wait let's get back to love it's okay that's a good question that's a great question so as we talk about love I want you to know there is somebody new brand new coming in part of this person coming in is you cutting the ties with all that didn't work sometimes you know I I do the car analogy with this sometimes we say I want a brand new car but we're not willing to get rid of our old beater right like we're terrified to let go of it and then we start saying but what if I get another car and it starts doing the same things my last car did what if it doesn't you know so let go of all the old beaters sorry to talk about people that way but it's their analogy not mine they just weren't my people and that's fine yeah and sometimes we just evolve into different friend groups and partner groups somebody brand new is coming in you've never met this person before at all I can tell you she is very kind and loving she has a very genuine energy about her she's grounded she's very grounded but she is also very etheric which is rare okay brand new person can you expand on that a little bit uh although she's very down to earth but she does I believe she has a very spiritual part to her gotcha that would be so she's realistic but she's also very spiritual yes she's it has a lot of common sense she has a lot of common sense like street smarts nope not like street she's never part yeah you you although street smarts are good you might not want that to be something yeah that's because you earn those streets yeah that's true from the streets I am going to tell you she is going to come in she has the potential to come in within a month sounds exciting she is really remarkable and very different than anyone that you have been acquainted with in the past she's if I had to use she's just put together well she's really put together well and she's you guys are going to have a very healthy relationship she's not afraid to call you on stuff I so need that in a person like that's not this this um don't be afraid to like say what you want in this relationship to don't be scared that they're going to just leave out of the blue right and and don't conform don't conform to become this person be you let this person be her and together you guys will have a great connection and a great relationship now does she have a child and the only reason why I ask is because one of them when our last reading had everything to do with my future person having a child I think it doesn't matter if she doesn't I'm just curious I'm getting a very soft yes on this okay we'll see okay we'll see um I know it could go either way it could be an adoption and sometimes or whatever people have children not full-time and people have pets as children yes yes um I am getting that this is going to be a very good connection it's going to be a very solid connection and I am seeing July 15th that's the day after my birthday well happy that would be a nice birthday treat I'm seeing July 15th being a day that you really need to be aware of everybody around you and out and about I feel like you meet her you might even meet her through a friend so keep that in mind okay now we have about two minutes left can you believe how quickly this goes yeah and do you have a two-minute question a one-minute question actually I do so if you can have them talk about my dad uh oh gosh there is not enough um okay so he is sick yeah and he is not doing well and I believe we touched on this last time they're saying embrace the moments that you have with him be as strong as you possibly can and don't worry about an end date worry more about the time that is still here and available okay just make those moments quality moments don't worry about how much time you're spending there just be having quality time and they're saying spend a lot of time talking about childhood with him okay just spend a lot of time talking about distant memories bring up things from good ones or bad ones good ones okay good talk about things from the distant past not recent memories and fun childhood memories things yeah fun childhood things trips vacations and such that you guys went on and then again after this you and I can elaborate on that a little bit more um and get get a little bit more information on that I would like to thank you for joining us for this episode of create a life you love it has been an honor and a pleasure to be here today with you and with alisa thank you love thank you I hope you have an amazing rest of the day and until next time thanks again