live stream today is March 15 2019 11 a.m. PDT now I guess it's not PST went through the time zone daylight savings time okay and today's discussion open discussion and this is the main thing but we can talk about anything that people want to talk about but I think we'll do one of these on a regular basis with this title and the title of this is open discussion on relationships the dues the dues and don'ts of human interaction okay so open discussion on relationships the dues and don'ts of human interaction and do this and basically what I wrote down as the description for this stream is one of the main issues that we face in our society is how we interact with others we are constantly being bombarded with the dues and don'ts of human interaction I personally consider much of what has what have become societal norms to be manipulation part of the grand strategy of capital to divide and conquer for the purpose of accumulating more capital in this live stream and open discussion on relationships the dues and don'ts of human interaction and in the previous sentence when I say part of the grand strategy of capital to divide and conquer for the purpose of accumulating more capital capital the first time it appears in here is referring to Jonathan Nitzans basically thesis of differential accumulation capital is power and whatnot so it is basically systems that we are talking about or I am referring to hey Casey how are you doing welcome to the live stream look hey Chicho hope you're well glad to finally catch one of these lives welcome welcome to a stream brother or sister of course index house life I want to try to see if I can pronounce your name look belay belay now if there's a break there somewhere look like like a like a belly like a belly I was just like rockabilly like a belly like a belly maybe like a belly I'm not sure let me know how to pronounce that please totally destroying it it's just Luca Luca awesome awesome thanks Luca thanks for correcting it with names hard time with names so that's what we did belay is part of a rock climbing my hobby is it belay is part of rock climbing what does belay refer to call my book Jedi how are you doing welcome welcome this can be a this stream is touch and go we can go seriously for this stream open discussion as always in general and how are you doing welcome welcome so for this discussion open discussion but there's a lot going on just woke up today was so much going on in the news right so we could go heavy dark light general personal relationships societal norms whatever you guys want okay or just talk about comic books Sam hey friend how are you how are things doing good doing good Sam thank you very much I hope you're doing well I'm bored at work are you bored at work what are you working on that it requires a lot of trust giving someone a belay means providing protection to the climber oh feeding the rope out for them and stopping it if they fall also they're the ones at the bottom where they put the rope around themselves and they're letting it go and you're coming down or going up right now that's that's what it is I think I've seen people rock climbing where I go cliff jumping for since I was like 13 years old there's a place I go cliff jumping I've missed it for the last year and I only went once or twice the year before but for the last I don't know since I was like 13 14 years old there's a place I go to sometimes I skip a few years and then kick it back up sometimes I spend a whole summer there and people climb up while we there's in too many of us that jump but I jump actually there's a fair bit they used to be more but while we're jumping there's people climbing so super cool super cool why do you feel banning all guns would help keep them out of the hands of bad guys I would love to hear your opinion I don't think banning all guns is a solution Hannah I don't believe that that's a big issue but there's no way I believe that banning all guns will keep them out of the hands of bad guys a lot of the bad guys actually have all the guns they want I should yep oh hey chicho I appreciate your videos they help me relax glad very happy very happy to be making this content man and glad you're enjoying them their pleasure to make really they making the videos relaxes me putting this content together sometimes it's a little touch and go for me sometimes to get very excited sometimes during the editing process my drawing kicks off and I have to do a lot of stuff and whatnot sometimes there's a little nervousness when you release a video right house this video couldn't go long that I do too much that I plan try to incorporate too much in there but it is amazing it allows me once I press a button and see it flow for there is a nice I guess it I don't know if it's a drone and there's a nice feeling that comes to me that allows me to relax for an extended period of time right Australia is a great example of this working Casey is Australia great example we just had an Aussie go to New Zealand and annihilate countless families so is Australia good example gentle chaos gaming pet peeve people who are antagonistic towards you under the guise of so-called honesty let me read that again pet peeve people who are antagonistic towards you under the guise of so-called honesty yeah now there is that what's the solution add more guns in the hands of the good people I don't think that's the solution I don't think there is the solution I think economic it did the solution is hardcore like really prohibition doesn't work so that's my thing and throughout history we've seen prohibition not working in many on many levels right but the root cause of what we're seeing here let me show you what I'm reading okay finished sorry if I'm gonna go a little slow on this very touchy subject so I'm like I finished a Nicholas skin in the game right now see Nicholas towel skin in the game I'm just checking out some of the glossary table of contents and referring back just do a little review when I when I read something I something like this I'd like to do a little review and we'll put out a video on this let me just catch up on a little bit of chat and I'll show you what I'm reading now what I started nature show I love your videos I took a medias studio class a while back and because of your videos on comic history I aced our unit on comic censorship and the conco awesome awesome glad to help that's I like hearing that stuff thank you for using what I put out as a resource I try to do my best to have accurate information on what I'm putting out so my apologies if I didn't get everything I tried my best and thank you for using as a resource that's the biggest compliment so one of the biggest compliments I can get since we're talking about relationships what's your opinion on love is it just a transient thing or can it be sustained for long relationships it can be sustained look 100% I believe it can be sustained we all unless you're mentally have unless there are some serious psychological mental emotional breakdowns we all have loving relationships that we have had for extended periods of time and I doubt very much that any of us here or only a minute minute percentage of human beings will ever ever depart this earth without having a loving relationship in their lives maybe with another human being maybe with their pets maybe with a hobby a book a movie type of music at their job whatever it might be so I believe loving relationships can be sustained throughout your whole existence okay there's no doubt about that yeah it's a great example if you can expand on that Luca we can go a little bit further are you meaning in an intimate relationship where people decide to bond together and experience this existence as a couple together and that takes a certain amount of navigating yeah it's a great example you can't remove all guns ever but the stats show how effective it's been at saving lives Casey to a certain degree but we have to be careful with analyzing data right all things are not equal in all places right so for example gun there's a certain much harder control on guns in Canada than the United States but Canada has as it as a I don't want to trash that Canada trash like anybody would Canada as a country as an imperialist country to a certain degree has spread a lot of death and destruction around the globe right so just because there's a pocket of violence decreasing because of laws passed by centralized governments we also have to look at what those centralized governments are doing as well right look at Switzerland is a perfect example right okay Switzerland you don't see too much of what we're seeing today we have seen throughout history in many countries right however Switzerland is one of the greatest perpetrators of violence around the globe because a serious weapons factory weapons industry in a banking industry both working together to distribute violence so it's you we have to take everything into consideration we have to take everything into consideration hi teacher oh man what an awesome subject for this guy you're on you're on that side do you have a list of great books available okay I'm about to show you one okay let me show you let me read Hannah let me catch up with the text really fast and I'll show you the book prohibition didn't work with marijuana both medicinally and recursion also alcohol didn't work your many prohibitions haven't worked right prohibitions on pornography haven't work prohibitions on like there's so much there's so much hello everyone hello I was mainly referring to intimate relationship okay thanks look I will talk about that in my experience that initial feeling of love or infatuation goes way after a while maybe I'm just a bit cynical because I've just had my heart broken yeah and man having your heart broken what an amazing sensation is brutal right really it's brutal it's it's like a psychedelic experience right if it's extremely heavy and like all experiences you have to take that and learn from it grow from it and then start looking back at it fondly with the time you share one thing I I I always tell people that ask me I'm not I'm not an expert on relationships intimate relationships but my take is this it's not about longevity it's about intensity right what did you learn from each other how have you grown what are the bonds that you with you right are you taking a lot positive from that relationship and has it made you become a better human being yeah there are intimate relationships that are meant to last a very very long time forever if you want to think about forever your time you're spending on this planet in this body or beyond we don't know right and there are certain experiences that are extremely intense that are very short now the trick to the whole thing is in my experiences putting things into contacts right I've met people that had a week-long love affair when they were in your youth late teens or early 20s mainly the teens that are stuck that are completely stuck in that relationship and they compare every other relationship to get into that one week or two weeks or one month that they had that were infatuated with another human being that everything they ate breathe talked thought was focused on right that is a problem that is an addiction right they're addicted to that single one experience they if they've reached that level where their decade two decades three decades later and I've met people like this who are constantly relating everything back to that short period of time where that relationship was phenomenal and they have to seriously sit down and analyze their lives and try to figure out why it is that they consider that moment which was decades ago to be the ultimate pinnacle of love intimate love that they will ever fear feel if they're doing that they're very short-sighted counseling I would recommend okay or breaking what did Robert Anton Wilson or Timothy Leary or many of the terrace McKenna or whatever experience you require to break that I feel like love with two humans in a commitment and respect for one another a constant clear communication openness and clarity only strengthens a relationship in my experience yeah and love grows if you feed love you'll grow faster than weed really people make the mistake of having love in their relationships and forgetting that they need to feed it to first of all keep it healthy and to allow it to grow really but I think we're talking about individuals every day people unless I am misunderstood are we Casey we're talking about love or we're talking about guns violence if we're talking about love individuals and collective work if we're talking about guns we are not an island each individual commits horrendous crimes mass whatever it might be did not come from an island there in Australia New Zealand's case they did but they do not live alone right they are influenced there's a reason why they are doing what they are doing and I doubt very much is because of their own psyche number of guns and gun violence barely has correlation it's gun availability in crime-ridden areas that do it most Western countries attempt to use punishment as a deterrent against crime when criminals begin to see life sentences death sentences and appropriate sacrifices for heinous crime they want to commit it becomes an issue of ethics and morals rather than crime punishment and prohibition thank you for that my pleasure my pleasure relationships yes and that's because I've also had my heart broken for sure and it takes a long time to adjust and correct and then start looking back at it with fondness and going wow what a brilliant experience there are many people who have never had their heart broken those are the people that I wish the best for and I hope when they they have their heart broken means they've loved that powerfully right how do you analyze in order to get a get unstuck in your opinion if you don't have the resources that you're disposal for counseling reading reading is huge spending time by yourself do not being very careful game at home on fantastic question by the way making sure you're aware of the traps set out there for you by certain institutions the systems to sucker you in to to prey on you in your times of weakness so and those are the situation those are times where we're the weakest right but what we have to do is really slow down so game at home mom I'm not I'm not sure what comes first right for me what I've learned in my long goatee days is if I get into a situation where it is extremely traumatic touchy requires quick thinking and stuff like this I do whatever requires to be done speedy bones I'll stop but then I do not continue I make sure I'm doing everything so I can slow things down so my first order of business when something like this happens heartbroken traumatic experience whatever it might be is to do what I need to do to stabilize the situation and I slow down so I can process the data coming in and sometimes I requires few hours few days few weeks few months to a few years okay personally and that to me slowing down time to a certain degree counseling I also for me personally entheogens have been a huge part of my existence but that's because I've spent the time and I've read research talk like I educated myself in that field for decades now so they are an ally that I can see counseling from Eduardo would love this discussion right now I think any thoughts on a social media impacting love relationships oh yeah huge nowadays chatting to people in public space is seen heavily as being creepy yet go back 20 years and it was the only way of meeting people yeah I'm okay with chatting people in public now I realize sometimes it's touchy and people are listening right because they're reading and they have their ears open they're listening now listen to other people they're really it's a different form of communication maybe that being said think one of the reasons I think people are a little bit touchy as well because of the totalitarian nature of our societies people are afraid which is what centralized power has decided to do I have been rejected many times by women girls in high school have joked about me gave me fake numbers and meet updates welcome to the welcome to the crowd welcome to the group brother I've learned that women won't accept me and I have trust issues when the topics topics our relationships the first part of you it's happened to me a lot really if you're not alone it happens to everyone so just because it's happening to you do not put yourself into a pocket and assume you're the only one that this is happening to you're you're you're unique within your surroundings right because if that's what you think then you haven't looked for a further enough to find people who are experienced the same thing you are or have experienced the same thing you have right even within your circle there might be people who have experienced the same thing you have but they've experienced it in the past or maybe they haven't experienced that yet because they haven't put themselves out there like you have so they may be experiencing this in the future one of the tricks to managing everything is understanding the concept of time whatever you're experiencing at the moment is not the end all and be all of your complete existence it wasn't how you felt before this emotion took you took over you and trust me it is not how you're going to feel in the future in the near future even okay so put things into context take time into consideration and understand that we are here for a while right slow down take your time and maybe you just have to approach it differently maybe you're approaching the wrong people right I've done that in the past there's a certain type certain type that I was attracted to that was my younger foolish years right because of programming maybe societal programming maybe me wanted to experience something or whatever it is right and there was a certain period that type was hard for me to interact with until I learned what that type was right and then I made a decision maybe I wanted to interact with it or maybe I didn't maybe I was delusional maybe I was programmed right so a lot of that had to do with me personally not with the other okay so take your time taco it'll slow down it'll work out right read a lot here let me show you don't they are you doing talking about relationships this is going to be a mess on that note they stopped it on that note okay I mentioned I'm just finishing off I've finished skin in the game by Nicholas Nassimfala now this is a book I've had for 10 15 years right 10 15 years right and I read the preface on at 10 15 years ago and it was pretty heavy I took some notes right and it was very heavy so I didn't continue reading it I just started reading again I read I reread the preface again and took some more notes okay took me a couple of days to reread the preface because I have to think about it right here's the book it's relevant to our time it's relevant for discussion we're having right now just coincidence that this happened right well I'm right the mass psychology of fascism okay like reading I just started this again I've reread the preface so the preface is like it goes from six Roman numerals to 27 Roman right and it's small tax took me a couple paid couple of days to read it apologies if I'm not reading comments right now let me because I mentioned I was gonna mention this book right now I don't know how deep I'm gonna go into this okay I'm gonna keep on reading I am intrigued I didn't understand everything I was reading in this 10 15 years ago I understood I understood I related to and understood 99% of what I was reading 95% what I was reading while I say 890% what I was reading I had to look up certain phrases certain words because this is Wilhelm Reich right I had to do it for a Nicholas Talop skin in the game as well right and by the way I talk about this is what I do to try to understand humanity and our society and my personal emotions and my relationships and whatever it is I read I listen to lectures I listen to audiobooks I read entertainment I interact with people I go to places where I don't know anyone and I sit down and I go I go and I go into the city and walk around and if I see a little coffee shop I go sit down there if I've never been it might be like on one of my walks which is like two hours away from where I am and I sit down and I look at people I observe interactions makes me get out of my own head right which is one thing we need to do okay let me read you it says a lot of reading in my house by the way I'm not sure you know crabapple liqueur fantastic this crabapple liqueur is about five years old nicely aged and let me show you what I got as snacks the crabapples marinated right in the liqueur I'll pop these one later after I do a little bit of reading let me read you paragraph or two from Wilhelm Reich's mass psychology of fascism let me show you what the table of contents is right so preface to the third edition so I won't I'm here right now preface to the third edition right now I've read that hello side 29 and hello to anyone else that showed up haven't read the text my apologies or any comments and stuff like this and I read that 10 15 years ago and I reread it again I took something else so the table of contents for this ideology so number one I'm just gonna read the chapter titles and then there's subtitles as well but ideology as a material force the authoritarian ideology of the family in the mass psychology of fascism the race theory the symbolism of the swastika the sex economic presuppositions of the authoritarian family organized mysticism as an international anti-sexual organization sex economy in the fight against mysticism some questions of sex politic political practice the masses and the state by a social function of work give responsibility to vitality vitality necessary give responsibility to fight vitally necessary work the biologic miscalculation in the human structure struggle for freedom on natural work democracy those are the chapters I realized that in my country the age people aren't read books but you are reading books also you are not young I really like you things take a look at this now just on the preface here just on the preface right I'm gonna read you from just read you from here actually I'm gonna I'm gonna read you one sentence before okay and this comes into relationships like we're doing the last human relationships this is basically on relationships basically Wilhelm Reich's complete catalog is human interaction relationships huge huge right so let me just read you this and this is Wilhelm Reich breaking down some previous work that he's done okay as I demonstrated in my book character analysis and I'm quoting right now okay as I demonstrated in my book character analysis these layers of the character structure are the pauses of social development which function autonomously okay I should even read it from you beginning you need the first extensive and painstain therapeutic work on the human character has led me to the conclusion that as a rule we are dealing with three different layers of the biosphere structure in the evolution of human reaction reactions right the first sentence is talking about relationships and according to Wilhelm Reich's work and he was a physician like he's huge right he's basically broken down the human character into three layers okay quote again as I demonstrated in my book character analysis these layers of the character structure are the pauses of social development which function autonomously on the surface layer layer one right so quote on the surface layer of his personality the average man is reserved polite compassionate responsible conscientious consciousness there would be no social tragedy of the human animal if this surface layer of the personality were in direct contact with the deep natural core this unfortunately is not the case the surface layer of social cooperation is not in contact with the deep biological core of one's selfhood it is born by a second in an intermediate character layer which consists exclusively of cruel sadistic le vicious rapacious and envious impulses it represents the fruitian unconscious or what is repressed to put it in the language of sex economy it represents the sum of some total of all so-called secondary drives this paragraph right here you could teach a whole course on okay brilliance right I didn't understand this 10-15 years ago okay I didn't fully understand that I kept a book with me you would have seen it here right I think I always had it here it's something that I kept with me because I knew I was gonna read it at some point I was gonna give it a shot right now right so basically Wilhelm Reich is stating this that every human being has three layers of psyche happening on the surface layer which is the polite considerate interactive communal working with others and stuff like this right and then there's a deeper layer and the deeper layer deeper layer he calls the biologic core let me read you a couple more sentences next paragraph right if one penetrates through this destructive second layer deeper into the biologic substratum of the human animal one always discovers the third deepest layer which we call the biologic core in this core under favorable social conditions man is an essentially honest industrious cooperative loving and if motivated rationally hating animal right so there is a surface layer which is basically your social construct of how you're supposed to interact with your surroundings your relationships superficial there's a deep layer which is who we are as human beings which is as he pointed out constructive creative to a surrogate I wish he had added creative in there a cooperative working with others and if turns comes to shove hating as well right as a self-preservation mechanism and what he's stating in the first paragraph is the superficial layer if it was only a superficial layer then would be society would function very peaceably right it would function it would be very shallow of course right so there isn't that just a surface there's three layers and there's a deeper down core layer which is who we are as human beings creative compassion of cooperative loving and protecting people and in the middle there's something which is fed right I'm using he didn't say here right which is angry disturbed violence and stuff like this our current political economic system feeds on that in my opinion haven't gone deep enough for this right and basically well I'm right in this book he's talking about just relationships right to a certain degree but he's focusing on fascism because this book was written in the first print of it was written in 1936 I believe the first edition was written in 1936 right during the rise of fascism Europe okay and I wrote down the date here anyway in the mid 1930s and that second edition was in the early 1940s after the after the war second World War ended for the West anyway right so he grew up during the period where fascism was brewing right but he had the foresight for knowledge to say that deep down within us right there's a tendency for fascism to exist we just have to break through that thing because fascism comes through mass movements right in large part both from the left on the right he was banned from he's the only person that I know well I'm right is the only person that I know that both Nazi Germany and the US government have burned his books someone well worth reading okay so I'm only this deep into it and it's related to that I just want to read that for you guys do treat partners as actual human beings with feelings and thoughts don't don't project your dream image of a partner onto them it's an unfair expectation 100% and the key to that is empathy right we have to have empathy of other human beings of our surroundings of our communities right and that is one thing that empathy has on a superficial level you know politicians corporations education system all of these things say they should be a pathetic right have empathy but they don't feed that if anything they're I don't know what the opposite of empathy is but deep down they teach us to do everything other than empathy when they introduce competition although the book does deal with fascism explicitly he uses fascism as a metaphor for domination of domination or person-to-person manipulation yeah and reading the preface in that by the way index has read well I'm right you wrote a paper relating well I'm right stuff to music and stuff like this so he was he's a well better versed in Wilhelm right and I am for sure and basically the statement here is mass psychology of fascism but the book is about relationships opposite of empathy is sociopathy right is it I don't know psychopath social path I guess is a sociopath that has no feeling towards any other living creature narcissism it has to be empathy is understanding relating to other people basically putting yourself in their shoes on every level what's the opposite of that I don't know super delicious what are some of the comments that I mess how important do you consider time away from other people to be there Luca very important very important I like spending a lot of time solo just to filter the noise some people find people energizing and say that time alone is bad was often feel like I need a break from other people I'm with you Luca I need break I do get energized by interacting with people but I need extended periods downtime feel like breaks for me that's what I refer to them everyone is different you shouldn't judge yourself against other people yeah I think sociopaths are incapable and psychopaths don't care sociopath I'm capable and psychopaths don't care so I guess the opposite of empathy would be both a sociopath and a psychopath merged together psychopath psychopath isn't acknowledged anymore it's not acknowledged anymore really I didn't know that what are your thoughts on friends with benefits okay with me as long as you're not it doesn't involve cheating if your partner knows about it that's fine but as long as you're not lying in your other relationships that are important to you about friends who are not long-term partners rather two people who are partners that don't want to commit to a relationship but want to explore their sexuality that's fine with me taco the one problem the only problem I have with that is people get addicted to that to the physical and they don't explore the emotional to certain degree right I've had friends that jump from partner to partner friends that have are longing for an intimate relationship with someone but because they require that physical they constantly hook up with friends that have benefits right so they're getting their intimacy fixed for short term right and that's prohibiting them from putting themselves out there to find someone to interact with to to connect with us on a more in-depth basis that they're looking for right I remember one time with a friend of mine that was we're talking about this came up and I basically said listen think about it this way if you're always eating McDonald's you're never going to be hungry right and eating McDonald's for an extended period of time is going to kill you so you got to be hungry to seek something that you really want right so it's okay if you're starving if you need it to seek the physical but don't just settle for that if you want more okay social paths are more criminal I think more as my sister's my girlfriend any thoughts on that yeah true about it for me I've had people friends both male and female and otherwise that have friends with benefits so I've never seen one type of person just look for friends with benefits that occurs all over the place if anything I've seen more I've had more female friends with benefits to male friends maybe because they're male friends I've been looking for they can be able to find is it been easier for female friends to find them I don't know now need to go to work hope to see the rest of YouTube on YouTube peace peace Luca by the way Luca this is not going to be loaded on YouTube it will load it on pitch it okay most of these live streams are not being loaded on YouTube they're being loaded on bitch and the reason being is because YouTube was killing certain channels when we're loading twitch live streams to their YouTube channel I don't know if it was they were only loading twitch live streams or not I don't know but as soon as that type of stuff happening and I'm only uploading either the cooking live streams to YouTube or some random ones this one I don't think we're upstream to YouTube I don't believe so people can change my mind maybe I don't think he is a taco friends with benefits often collapses when the balance of them carrying shifts yeah technically eating anything for an extended period maybe if you had a lot of love in your life for an extended period time I think taste the rainbow would you consider would you consider is a requirement to be happy with yourself before you search for a relationship it shouldn't limit you you're not happy with yourself where you're having a go through hard times or you need companionship or whatnot I don't think so because relationships are form of therapy form of bonding right and form of exploring your own personal being again we don't live in an island right so I don't think you should wait until you're perfect before you try to be in an intimate relationship or in a relationship with friends with benefits or loving relationship or whatever relationship there is our lives are about growth is about experience and flat lining I've never met maybe I've met one person that's a flatliner right which is a robot and that's probably because I didn't know what they did in there when the doors got closed right so they represent them themselves as having one single emotion maybe that's who they were but we all go through ups and downs we all go through ups and downs and you can't wait until you're up to try to find a relationship because sometimes one of the most important relationships you might get into is when you're down okay and actually I'm grown a beard thanks to your inspiration ASMR facial hair I gotta make more of those I've just been in my goatee phase for a while I'm enjoying this right so I changed my facial hair what I want to what I call it just have different look different different things so I got my beard transpirational for search tech out system inspiration system of that you had a good beard for a while I don't like the thin look it's not my thing I like the large look good luck with the beard I trended to look like early 2000s rapper Drake and it looks amazing thing to win early 2010 I gotta look that up see what it looks like there was a period where I had the goatee like small goatee it was just in right the short goatee that's just like no depth to it would you think that think about the concept of falling out of love and what do you think you can do to counter it what can you do to counter falling out of love you have to feed it you have to spend time together you have to you have to you have to grow you have to listen but yeah there are times where you just fall out of love or your love changes to a level where you may have respect for someone want to be with them but not on an intimate level right it happens it's happened with me it's happened to people who have been with me right that goes both on an intimate level and on a just not intimate level friendship right it's just something that happens you can't keep all your relationships you can't feed all your relationships you can't you can't maintain all your relationships throughout your life otherwise we'd be overwhelmed we would have thousands of people we know we have no time to think you have to clean house every now and then to introduce new ways of being people sometimes you have to reduce the amount of interaction you're having with others have the mustache taken care of but my beard needs to grow an inch longer and my beard is ready nice that's it I think you have to be careful if you don't love yourself it's easy to fall into the trap of cultivating a one-sided relationship well agreed 100% I should have that clarifier in there too where your partner is contributing more to the relationship to sustain you than vice versa yeah or one of the worst-case scenarios you're both feeding on each other and it just spirals into just just nastiness and I've seen those types of relationships luckily I've never been in that type of relationship not an intimate level when I was growing up I have friends and stuff like this where you just don't mention you push each other to a level where it's just chaos right but yeah for sure hopefully you're working towards understanding yourself and who you are how you want to interact with the world and deprogramming yourself the cultural programming that's put into your brain and our psyche because we we're all like our societies try to brainwash us okay maybe on a government level corporate level friendship level peer level family level right so we're as we're growing up we're constantly being bombarded with people were telling us who we should be how we should react right how we should interact right what we should think what we shouldn't think right as we grow older we should begin to realize some of that programming what it is and question that programming the grass is always greener on the water side unless it's flooded I'm gonna sip Captain Morgan this weekend I'm so excited but my jacket yesterday are maybe funny the grass is so much greener on my side where I can never love anyone and I just show can't love man or woman nothing oh hopefully you have pets that you can love I hope you still care for people blessed are those who whose lives who live lives of substance and meaning for they shall inherit their lives tenfold and when they cross over the void and return to the gentle chaos of the center of the omniverse they they will willingly and truthfully choose life again okay gentle chaos gaming is that Grant Morrison is that a Grant Morrison rating Alan Moore that sounds like a Grant Morrison rating or one of the sci-fi's from Robert Anton Wilson or something or some sci-fi science fiction fantasy all I see is people getting together and then after a while just dumping dumping them and finding the next everybody maybe maybe your surroundings you need to change your surroundings I know people I have been in situations where that's what's happening right just and that's you know people want to do that let them do that maybe they want to experience gentle chaos gaming that's that's you also you should you should start contributing some of that stuff in print either on a blog or start putting some images comic books together and tell a story based on that I like it gentle chaos gaming but Ali everything is not doesn't stay stagnant systems stay stagnant and people come in and out of them right some people get stuck and they're stuck in a loop in that system right all we have to understand is everything in the society is a system right if we don't like a certain system move on right there are people interacting in other systems that we can find and appreciate four months ago I have adopted the puppy and I need someone to not be lonely do animal companions help us through life like human companions or partners 100% 100% taco I fully believe that I disagree with shutting yourself from all of humanity and just interacting with animals that's my personal take I'll never do that maybe but our friends other creatures definitely help us throughout this life and if you do only want to interact with them then do so right I just haven't seen it go well too much I care for my friends I'll do anything for family not so much I'll literally throw family I'm sorry to hear that Ali really I'm sorry to hear that but in large part biological families we are born into right but we can create a family that is not biological to us and I have friends that I consider to be family really right I have family that I'm not very close with as well right that I would call my friends in any situation and I wouldn't call certain family members no matter what the situation was right so you know and the percentages of how you know how many how much of this type you have how much intimate you have stuff like this varies for each of us family isn't who you're related to families who you choose yeah I agree cider 100% listen do you hear them drawing near in their search for the sinners I is read the go back up and read gentle chaos gaming's comment okay blessed are those who live already for you blessed are those who who live lives of substance meaning for they shall inherit their lives tenfold and when they cross over the void and return to the gentle chaos as the center of the omniverse they will willingly and truthfully choose life again love it and I should know I was using a gentle chaos game because you have gentle chaos in the statement right family you're stuck with friends you choose nature show hello Lord how are you doing how's life feeding on the power of our fear and the evil with us in your opinion with President Trump's economics are we headed for another 2008 recession it's going to be much different the 2008 it wasn't a recession was bank robbery it was scam in broad daylight without anyone being held accountable with them actually being promoted to government position what's going to happen in next downturn so we'll call it downturn it's going to be it's going to look different it's going to be much severe is this due to deregulation with high risk investments this is due to lack of accountability and indifference of societies of our communities the lack of empathy and people being lied into having skin in their game having a skin in the game of Wall Street being told that Wall Street prosperity of Wall Street is their prosperity right people bought that BS right but took the pill now they've got to wake up right like see CDOs from 2008 Wall Street or something else cause it cause a bus it might be a slow slow destruction of the safety net in communities within our societies talking about family I believe family is who you choose in yours my real father left me even before I was born I decided to make a family of my own nice 100% or we headed for all time high economic growth economic growth where economic growth where and depends on your definition of what Jesus is by the way economic growth where like for example just a given example right people say oh housing market is double and look at certain stock markets look at Boeing it went up tenfold in the last like ten years or eight years or something like this whatever it was or so that was helpful wow look at Amazon it went up like 2000 fold last whatever look at Cryptocurrency went up look at certain other places they've gone down right so economic growth where I don't consider GDP to be the indicator of the well-being of a society if that's what we're talking about I've joined your discord may I post pictures of my puppy for sure for sure I don't know if we have a forum maybe we have the discord has broken down into two parts one is serious the other one is not serious I forget what we called it and or you can put us in general but I'm pretty sure there's a folder there that you can share pictures love ones relation I don't know I can't remember all the different folders and if you don't find a good place and you're not getting just post a comment in general mentioning that hey can we create a folder for people to post pictures of their pets and either me or one of the ones will create it start sharing pictures of pets and things we love maybe pictures of things and animals and people we love right without anybody doxing anyone of course right course from Jeff Wiens war of the worlds oh you're gonna read us course from there yeah read us course from there is societies growth societies growth indifferent when crushed by the struggles of everyday life those books this man knows more than no I don't know and then Wikipedia has I make I can I don't I don't know more than what's posted on wiki or even close to a fraction of what's posted on wiki but I can guarantee you I've got less errors in my understanding and knowledge of history economics and politics then Wikipedia does Wikipedia has a lot of errors and a lot of lies and a lot of controls put in there Wikipedia should never be the end all and be all of any research right there's a lot of mistakes in Wikipedia and a lot of lies that have been placed in Wikipedia but I'm confused what will bust housing students or housing is above that there's no question about that right Wall Street may go up further because there might privatize social security and just scam even more the US dollar my take is probably it will go up because we're seeing collapse in different places so that's what I you know what I think for me Hannah I can tell you that I see growth in what I do right both in my my work here in my wisdom knowledge in my health in my relationships so I see growth the way I've chosen to live my life which is my first advice regarding economics figure out where which systems you want to function economic growth for whom I believe wealth concentration in modern-day USA or worse than pre-evolution France I think is worse than any other time in history in human recorded history in last let's say three five thousand years or whatever it is we have had huge growth in the US no nobody will ever be perfectly fair or have well-being economically but the growth that has happened has been from theft from everybody else right if you're having growth by depriving other people the ability to grow for the war well-being if you're stealing then that shouldn't be considered growth that's theft right so the numbers may say growth the order whatever the official numbers may say growth but in reality it's theft how to meet the girl the girl or a girl the girl would be make sure you're the you're the best you can be treat others with respect empathy and figure out what type of humor humor you like humor is ridiculously important in relationships humor in my opinion is one of the most important traits for the well-being of a relationship of any type of relationship talk to her and listen to her or him or the individual the chances of anything coming from Mars are a million to one and yet they come talk about what talk about what maybe they want to talk about talk about the weather talk about a movie join a club a book club and meet with people either online or in person and talk about the book join a pool league and play pool there are girls that play pool and there could be some fun conversations had while playing pool install tinder on your phone that's why I don't I don't use to know but it's not my thing but if Ali thinks it might be a good idea I don't know might be a good idea but from one last I heard Ali you mentioned oh no you said you had lots of good yeah lots of good friends not the other there's a scenes what shall I say after hello read a book talk about the book introduce yourself find a girl who's into what you're you're into hobbies I mean everything of value to me was in London my beloved Kerry this is quotes from forget who you're reading then you won't be at a loss of what to talk about before for a loss of interesting thought experiment Jesus Jesus was transgender if Jesus was born from the Virgin Mary she wouldn't have been able to pass down the Y chromosome to Jesus Jesus would therefore have been born female cool that's a good interesting thought experiment here's another thought experiment there's writings I've read that says Jesus was a codeword for magic mushrooms what does growth mean when for instance Flint still doesn't have clean water yeah but according to our economic system people getting sick will mean growth for the economy because they need medicine it's flawed when record amount of people still are poor while working jobs I'm confused on what theft is could you please clarify theft would be the equivalent of what's it called regulatory capture where corporations pass laws so they can tax get tax breaks for creating products right and those tax breaks or subsidies will only come to them because they are they are so large that they need the subsidies which is taxpayer money coming into them and what that does it takes away disruptive innovation corporations companies coming up with better ideas of doing things right that is theft that is theft by a corporation by regulatory capture passing laws to enslave the rest of the population right that is theft corporate theft hey you whispering intellectual Christianity one girls going out on step what Christianity one girls going out of stuff and lies that went out really out of I just died laughing when you read the swiping tinder I have friends but they are they they all dating now and I'm single and I can't love people I've never feel like I want to be with anyone you don't have to be maybe it's a time just to chill by yourself and watch anime read books read your mate amazing amazing poetry and then slowly figure out what you love and reach out and see who else loves what you love and see if you can find a community where you can share that love and maybe come across someone that you would love right my typing is retarded but really Christianity is about one girl cheating on a guy and the narrative getting okay cool that was a lot okay thanks for taking your index that was too slow and trying to prove that comment sorry I be I be booker I be booker but index took care of it speedy was asked what is your thought about sorry incidental enter what what is your oh it's not your thoughts about corruption and money laundering it's it's destroying our communities my advice with girls talk about your personal beliefs and interests find common ground focus on thoughts and ideas not sex looks a great and one thing Ali when it comes to talking with someone right one of the biggest concerns that people have right and especially women right now okay girls or whatever right or people who have been burned in the past is safety right they don't when they some people when they meet someone new and most people you have a hard time trying to figure out who these people are so if you start opening yourself up to them and explaining to them who you are your well-intentioned and all this jazz then they're more likely to open up to you so you need to show people that you don't mean any malice you don't mean them any harm right you're just living your life and would like to have a conversation thanks to show thanks guys thanks for popping by games at home mom hope you have a fantastic day thank you for clarifying to show my pleasure I know I am still trying to figure out my own political opinions and trust the autumn leaves lie undisturbed now you're not here is it okay to date someone you don't love and will probably never well yeah sure like is it okay to be with someone just cuz you don't want to be alone of course of course I agree with that maybe that is exactly the way they feel as well right but if they feel that they love you truly love you and they want this love to grow and you're not there yet and you don't need to see yourself being there anytime soon then you should be honest with them explain to them that you're not there yet or you don't you can't reciprocate that intense feeling are they okay with being with you right what happens when banks don't get those tax breaks do we still have growth does money magically then go to poor areas like Flint no but what happens is those banks will stop funding corrupt corporations to come and wreak havoc create sacrifice zones right what we have done with the banks is given them complete control of our societies and the only thing that the banks care about is more money more capital and if an individual or corporations comes in and says hey listen I found a mountain of gold right it's over there it's right on top of a watershed and it feeds water to 10 million people and those 10 million people aren't allowing me to go in there to extract that gold because I'm gonna destroy the water supply right and I need to bribe fund elections where I could put certain people in power in government well they'll when they'll write this off to me so I can go in there and get this gold out okay so can you give me ten million dollars to do this and the bank will say well what's our return how much money do you have do you have assets to say yeah man I've already done this like ten times in the past I'm worth 100 million dollars or two billion dollars I have assets I can do it I got track record the bank will go sure let's do it right and if you think I'm making this up okay look at what happened to Sierra Leone in Africa okay we're a Canadian mining company together with a British mining company got together and hired a mercenary organization which was the umbrella was the British mining company they were like down the hall from in the same building and they took five million dollars right and gave the money to this mercenary company to go to Sierra Leone and overthrow the government and put their own puppet leaders in power okay and the puppet leaders in power the first thing they did was sign away the mineral rights to these two corporations one of them was in Vancouver Canada and the other one was in the UK London okay fact this happened in the early 19 Sierra Leone went through a civil war that hundreds of thousands of people died millions of people were injured millions of refugees were created right who did that the banking institutions that that right all wars or bankers wars war is a racket by General Smetley Butler a must read I will refill my pipe and be right my plutonic friend can be greater than lovers it could be yeah I say F the paper money hold on to your gold and then their fractional reserve banking policies yeah insane I have to go and give my dog his medicine goodbye goodbye taco hopefully you post a picture interesting I never knew about Sierra Leone thank you for opening my mind my pleasure and this was by the way this was back in the early 1990s it was a show on in Canada called W5 I don't know if it's still around or not it was investigative reporting when they did extensive reporting on a topic and they shared that information you don't really see that anymore in Canada in Canadian mainstream TV right because it's corporatized now back then I so hard to find that report that I saw okay so hard and I came across it and I knew about it because I was a geophysicist right and it was involved you know finding gold and stuff like this I was interested to see what I didn't tell they don't even have to show concrete assets and longer no it's common now to borrow directly against assess they're trying to exploit they call it a leverage buyout yeah it's crazy it's it's like the banks or partners in a waging war all wars or bankers wars right why do so many marriages and then divorces here digital ready for this I'm gonna ask you a question what's the number one cause of divorce and I would argue it's the only only reason why people get divorced I'll give you the answer a few if you reply or we'll give a couple of minutes would you recommend investing in silver gold how does one do that recommend I know people that buy straight out gold okay and then they take gold and then they put it in a chain and they wear the chains or whatnot that's one of the main ways that people do that in India that's their holdings that's their assets right so that's one way to do it I don't recommend buying paper certificates that say you own this much gold because you don't it's just fake you have many soul mates but only one twin flame no that's a nice thing what are some good low tax investments I can sit on for for a collapse and sell high one of the best ways to do have tax breaks is in Canada United States is designed for that okay is to form a partnership sole proprietorship a corporation whatever it is and take a part of your life where you like doing it and spending your time doing that and writing off using that institution as a tax write-off right and hopefully if you're doing it well if you're not doing it well you're learning something's education if you're doing it well then that thing it's a value will increase just make sure you're not overextended any advice for people who are just starting out in investing and saving for retirement I've been thinking of going into index funds once I start working I can't come up with just one you can't come up with just one I can come up with one regarding marriage okay I have a playlist on personal finance on YouTube okay if you go cheat your personal finance or if you go to my YouTube channel and look at the playlist I got a playlist of personal finance videos that I don't know there's a few hours of material there start I've organized it with the intro first for now anyway because right now I'm not creating anything I will be soon once I start creating more content on a playlist I flip the order where's the most recent up top as some playlists are active constantly right but right now it's just introduction first so read that or watch that and then I sort of build on that so that's a good place to start a few if you're looking to start thinking about what it is that investing is yeah here we have people holding on to so much gold there's also gold funds if you don't mind that paper trail and trust banking institutions yeah do just save save and buy coins when you can I guess gold coins Canada for example Ali just regarding gold coins Canada has been liquidating its gold assets in coin form over the last few years right so they've been selling gold coins to people who want to buy them that's one way Canada has been liquidating school assets okay and they've been getting more return than selling it in one big chunk on the market I believe okay so that is one way Matty say again teacher what's the difference between being in love and falling in love falling in love might just be short-term being in love I believe for me anyway it's about an extended period of love once you've gone past the initial I'm in love with this and then you realize no I'm really in love with this right falling in love is a verb being in love as an adjective or something I don't know what the English phrases for those are oh you have thank you my pleasure Ali YouTube teacher awesome thank you Jane that's okay as came over always forget about us yeah I found it 12 videos okay thanks cool a lot of people get married too quickly that's one I'm from India I don't know about Canada falling is an action for cool regarding the number one reason people get divorced is because they get married okay getting married in the Western world is basically a contractual agreement you're forming a corporation okay and if you get married through the state or through a religious institution what you're doing is introducing secondary parties between the relationship of two human beings two or more human beings that want to have an intimate relationship how much of an intimate relationship can you have when you have secondary parties okay blessing you in your intimate relationship so before talking about divorce one must have one has to understand what marriage is okay now if we don't want to use a word marriage because marriage has so much weight associated to it and if you want to say you're in a relationship with someone that is meant to be for a long period of time and it falls apart there are a number of reasons why that happens two of the main ones are financial and health related so that's my take greetings blessings dr. P how are you doing we have been programmed to believe that physical attraction is the basis for relationships yeah which is what a ridiculous concept that's why people marry for the for the tax break yeah but I always tell people you can get you can set up your life financially better regarding getting a tax break or just as well as getting married forming another corporation because what you could do instead of forming a corporation by marrying someone you could just straight out form a corporation right so that's your tax breaks the only reason I would I would say marriages to a certain degree justified is if you plan on having children and that gives better protection to your children if you're married legally that way the state has less control over your children my bro is moving to Canada second of April I hope I can once I get a job some experience the boom life peacefully in the snow hopefully that's the way you want it but once you get the divorce you lose 50% of your stuff yeah if not more because the lawyers are gonna take a huge chunk if you get lawyers involved right lawyers love marriages and love divorces our economic system loves marriages and divorces because it kicks up the GDP health wealth and wisdom health the problem with pre-naps and nexus a lot of your naps haven't held held up in court right I would say just form a corporation why you should never get into a relationship don't pull a Jeff Bezos don't pull a Jeff Bezos goes beyond relationships right the other good reason if your partner is a citizen in the country you hope to live working yeah for sure I forgot about that one right and that happens huge people want citizenship somewhere and they get married someone in that country with that citizen over time they get their citizenship marriage I bet you 50% of my stuff that I will never fall out of love with you that's the definition of marriage I bet you 50% of my stuff that I will never fall out of love with you that was too funny gentle chaos gaming love it so do all divorce lawyers never get married no they also fall into the programming as well right I don't divorce lawyers who are there on their second marriage oh interesting didn't know that yeah pre-naps don't hold up most of the time yeah pre-ups are just like it's like a jumping off an Eiffel Tower hoping that a fishing net is gonna save you it's not gonna work and if it does you're gonna lose an arm away anyway so it's over or more likely marriage I bet you jail time that you will never find my oh this dream couldn't have a have come out of better time also our new neighbor always kisses his wife when he leaves for work why don't you do it okay I don't even I love the jokes I don't even know her too funny I love these innocent jokes right I laughed through the punchline of that our new neighbor so wife our new neighbor or husband right so spouse let's say spouse spouse our new neighbor always kisses his wife when he leaves for work why don't you do that partner how can I I don't even know her top five are you doing man I made the mistake of watching the Christ massacre footage this morning no peace of mind for me today yeah I listen to it as well I listen to it as well crazy what's your favorite brand of gin I want to start drinking it but haven't found the brand I'm like you know what I don't have a favorite brand I like there's some gin that are locally made here that like in BC that have tried that are good I actually don't mind Bombay the one with the light blue I like the flowery taste of it but I don't drink it very much I don't it's seldom I used to drink that a little bit but for me I'm more vodka I like the vodka what I do friends bring gin and I do well if I drink gin I just stick with gin right I don't drink I don't mix gin and vodka so if I started night with gin if I'm having you know sharing a drink or two I don't go past that gin right Chico do you believe future generations are less likely to engage in marriage I believe so depending where you are as well right I think we'll go through phases you know it's cyclic but I think the trend overall trend is down unless the government starts to like for example just just on the point of marriage right this is how much centralized governments love marriage okay many years ago they passed the law saying that if you live with someone on an intimate level then married you agree to marry or not within six months they consider you to be what's it called to be equivalent to being married right their college I had in my time before explaining it but common law your common law right so within six months of living with someone on an intimate level they consider you to be common law which is basically marriage in their eyes because they want you to be married okay one of the reasons the excuses they give is to protect the partners and stuff like this but they don't care about that the main reason is because it's tax benefit to them right GDP growth I think Zcash is a better bet than an offshore account cryptos truthfully though I'm glad my my generation is being more cautious about marriage and having children later in life it's great that people are planning and taking control their lives I agreed and that's 100% I'll find a local brand of gym yeah local is the best way to go this should be some in my area anyway there's some amazing I believe you're in Seattle aren't you know you're there's another hand is from Seattle but in what I've seen happen in Canada anyway in the last 15 years or so there's distilleries local distilleries are organic and they're using like sugars from this area and stuff and it's their nice drinks being made jink in the airport right now I can tune in for a bit there's Wi-Fi here so what's up chichou what's up Jack how are you doing how's life we're talking about relationship custom serious discussions so that so that I've heard that in some in some parts of the world a man doesn't know his wife until he marries her father son that's true everywhere okay that's funny but that goes for mothers as well right you don't know you don't know there are a certain percent but I think there is a certain percentage that you know the person right they may change over time but at that moment we make the decision to be with them many people do know each other alcohol for me is meditational love and gratitude common law common law thanks index that I'm thinking of getting into organized crime that public or private sector I love that joke gentle chaos give me I'll read that one that I'm thinking of getting into organized crime or sorry sorry son is talking to dad dad I'm thinking about getting into organized crime dad replies public or private sector Matthew's laughing yeah I'm Seattle same oh same Hanna okay awesome that's my last name by the way all your last names I was always your first name damn I'm never getting married hell no if I'm feeling alone I just get a housemate why is gold more expensive than water when water is essential to life and gold is not good question neo alchemists rarity is one our current economic system has doesn't really have a way to put a value on long-term resources and it doesn't have a way to incorporate into its value the environmental cost of extracting that value one of the reasons you can think about as gold being expensive is because of this rarity another reason is it uses a lot of resources other resources including water another reason is it pollutes water expensive is a state of mind need is a state of mind as well or want is a state of mind some people mix up the words I need this they really want I want this you really need fresh water healthy food love in your life whatever that love for takes nothing's too expensive just can't afford relationships there's such a stigma to be in a relationship especially at my age but I'm taking my time things will come when they do yeah like jink I could I could I could tell you excluding this relationship on right now most of my life I have spent not being in intimate relationships right long-term intimate relationships because when you're alone when you're solo you can explore your own consciousness more right then for my experience anyway I could be wrong for other people right this is all personal then when you're joined with someone else the gold water question just blew my mind because water is the name the more someone needs something the lower its value goes we passively breathe oxygen every day it's still blue the air yeah blue the earth because until the mid 20th century gold was that internationally respected standard store of wealth do you believe that the Spanish flu and many other pre-human bacteria diseases are frozen in the melting Arctic ice they probably is some of that but I don't believe the Spanish flu from what I've read I read this a long time ago I don't think the Spanish flu was pre-human bacteria right there's been certain work done to track back the Spanish flu to vaccines in our immunizations that were given to US soldiers in the United States before they flew off to Spain I haven't looked at this for a long time for 15 years or so so I could be wrong on that but some of the pandemics some of these diseases have come about are because of human beings introducing them to our societies they weren't bacteria that were around pre-human wasn't there traces of dogs carrying the bivonic plague recently I don't know but I believe the bivonic plague was brought about through rats wasn't it and the reason it was spreading in Europe was because people were living with their animals with their livestock and it was spreading that mistaken the more followers are an influencer has the higher his or her value becomes what's your take on this no depending on the system that they're on maybe on Twitter right their Twitter value goes up the more followers and influencer has the higher his her value becomes what's your take on that it depends on what platforms right like I don't know you could take any politician any mainstream media news source or something to say they have a huge influence what do you call it value right to the people watching that platform or reading that stuff or involved in that system maybe to me maybe not maybe they don't have worth value at all right I'll use one example like just take any of the mainstream propagandist on mainstream corporate TV take the highest ones right some people will say oh I wouldn't I would rather associate with a squirrel right so a squirrel would have more worth to me than some of the people that have millions of followers right it all depends what you gave worth to value to I have a friend friend now ex-friend let's call him Kevin since year year 8 grade 7 and I'm currently in final year of school uni next year in September a new girl joined the school let's call her Jane so we've got Kevin and Jane and instantly we became friends and over time we became very close and I felt for her after a couple months however I realized that it wasn't to be Kevin and her were hitting things off their first get-together was at my house ironically so they started today and this hurt me for obvious reasons yeah no kidding Jacob sorry for a long message but I need to get it off my chest yeah no worries Jacob I'm sorry to hear that but it's part of high school it's part of growing up I've been in love with people that some of my friends have been in love with right it doesn't happen anymore I've grown out of that I'm wiser now I am we are co-creators mindfulness focuses power oh my god dude I mean like an oily John John stuck to know oh yeah I shouldn't have read that that's definitely true to those who blindly follow that's why it's dangerous to not read or see the full picture yeah if you've decided if you decided not to be friends with Kevin because you feel he stole your girl I would advise letting it be and not being spiteful or petty about the matter she may come back around to you where you may find someone else yeah and I think top five are they they started parting ways with you start parting with Kevin before the girl they hooked up right so it was someone that he already decided to let Kevin go but then Kevin found his way through the girl that he had fallen for maybe that relationship is for some reason finding its way back into your life I think your point about scarcity is true and your point on value is the answer we value the wrong things we value goal over water while the latter is essential to life like just to give you an example it's a different example but it's the same thing like people value diamonds right for me diamonds are worthless like really like a thousand dollar ten thousand dollar diamond is worth like fifty dollars like it's garbage the amount of damage is done to the environment is a lot more than fifty dollars but its scarcity is non-existent like diamonds are not scarce okay so that's a fictitious value that people are put on there and once they become wiser to it they're like oh what a fool I was right so you have to be careful too as to what you consider to be scarce not at all he cheated so horribly on her and lied to all of our faces I can't be friends with them anymore good you shouldn't be none of us are good you shouldn't be okay and maybe that is a lesson she needed to learn right and some people need to learn those lessons I've known a lot of people man I've known a lot of people that they were amazing and they were as they asked for partners they found some of the most disgusting people that I knew to put trust and love and faith in right so people make mistakes don't hold them to their mistakes right if they make the same mistake again maybe remind them but don't write them off because of mistakes so the girl maybe deserve a second chance right someone who cheats not so much if they weren't honest about it what would our world be like if the disease wiped off 40% of world's population I would have done the same even if I hadn't had feelings she doesn't deserve it no no one deserves a chichu another question for you how can someone feel something they have never felt before because before is a time thing we like we're not born with all these emotions that we have right they're feelings that I have now that I didn't have when I was in my teens or 20s they're feelings that I had in my teens and 20s that I don't have now right so we're constantly changing constantly evolving and a lot of emotions develop through that evolution so even if you don't feel something now you might feel it later this is our topic but this weekend Sunday is field cleanup day in our local little league I encourage everyone to go that's right the grading of the the fields for baseball and I forgot about that back to so I encourage everyone to go to go give back to organizations you love that will provide true happiness time to get on the tractor again and get the fields looking amazing yeah I agreed with you had a hundred percent give back to community and that's one way to build relationships and trust and after three years all my other friends now realize it too so in one way it's a relief but it's come about in such a shitty shit yeah it's the way it is right we sometimes we see things that others don't sometimes others see things that we don't so it's just the nature of the games I would also advise not referring to her as your girl ah good point index she's her own person it takes a while for young men to realize that but it's an important part of matureing excellent point index excellent point yeah diamonds are useful for cutting things that's it and optics my apologies and optics as well right two ways maybe come out of the things as well but they're not scarce two ways success and failure how do you handle family members who always make conversations situation about example person a invited me to dinner person be taking talking with me said why why wasn't I invited thoughts person a invited me to dinner person be talking with me said why wasn't I invited thoughts person be person be talking with me said I don't understand the question how do you handle family members who always make conversation situations about them listen for a while and if it's too much just say listen man dude we've gone over this you're looping your loss in a loop maybe you need some time by yourself to figure things out instead of looping it past me again because I've already given you my advice right so if it's a situation the person's already brought up just tell them what you said before I said that before I have people that in my life so I don't engage in long conversations with them if they persist on just looping the same thoughts right they're stuck I'm not helping them so we don't go there and if they continue to bring it up I reduce the amount of interactions I have with them I never liked the idea of labeling someone as your girl it's a little demoralizing thank you for the for the human you are also talking to Hannah also yes maybe from the madness something beautiful will grow in a brave new world with just a handful of men will start will start all over again all over all over again yeah is that from Planet of the Apes oh wow we're almost at two hours what's going on oh wow we're almost two hours getting crazy crazy crazy so that was from Planet of the Apes love that franchise hey Chico just got here I'm wondering if you have any thoughts on David Foster Wallace I just got infinite just starting this again no I don't he's the writer I believe isn't he I'm bad with names man so the name rings a bell I think is the writer of infant just as a ride index says hey what is it you are drinking this is apple hold this so it doesn't fall the keyboard crap apple liquor that I made about five six years ago and these are the crab apples we started with four and this is the last one I'm gonna pop this it's delicious my workday has flown by thanks to these streams I would love it if we can keep doing these streams mid-morning and mid-day Pacific time that's what I've been doing a lot lately on anyway and for sure we will be doing these times a lot but I will try to change up the time and do some at night time we're in the middle of the night I just haven't got around to it yet yes I watched End of the Hour on Netflix about David Foster Wallace's final book tour he committed suicide in 2008 oh wow worth watching indexes asking yeah okay so it's called I watch End of the Tour that's the David Foster Wallace documentary you can eat crab apples yeah yeah I make I got a whole playlist on my channel I'll do the YouTube yeah it works so if you go to my YouTube channel I got a playlist on how to make crab apple butter crab apple jam so we made it like a few years ago three or four years ago or something like that so that you can eat crab apples that way and I didn't show how to make crab apple liqueur but I have a if you go to the foods playlist there's a show video I got a couple of videos on how to make liqueur the first one shows you this crab apple liqueur okay what it is so I make crab apple liqueur and every now and then if I say crab apple tree in peak season sometimes I take one and it is really like it gives a nice tang when you make liqueur are you worried about alcohol content during the fermentation process and the booze level getting too high not really I don't drink too much of it like because it is high sugar content and you don't want to drink too much you know what we drank and that had three cubes of ice in there right so what we drank is enough for today and I don't do that every day either right I do I've been doing it on my streams because I'm enjoying it I got to go through the liqueur cabinet again I got to consolidate the blackberry liqueurs and make some pineapple liqueur but I just been sampling just in the mood when do you know to drink it when it's ready it depends the different liqueurs aged at different rates the strawberry one started getting the flavors really quickly within a week to two weeks it was good the pomegranates was within a month the crab apple took longer so basically when I make it I usually don't sample it until like two weeks in so I'd sample it within two weeks if it tastes good I can drink it if not I let it sit there again and then sample a little month later and then once it tastes good it just gets better and better from there on right it ages well controversial question feel free to avoid can men and women coexist in the workplace yep I myself I'm not sure of any definite answer since it has only been happening for roughly 30 years and things have been diminishing rapidly I don't think so I think it's been happening longer depends what type of workplace we're talking about like in the healthcare industry men and women have been working together for a very long time if you want to just categorize nursing and doctors right we're doctors and nurses nurses and nurses doctors doctors we've had men and female female and male in both roles right Chicho what's a relationship goal you have one of the relationship goals one of the things I try to do when I'm in a relationship is to make life easier for the other person and I hope they are doing the same for me if they're not doing the same for me I know the relationship is not mutual and it will not grow so one of the primary goals of me being in a relationship is to support the other person in their up and downs right so that's one thing what do you mean by diminishing is 22 all to start university no you're never to all all to start university long shot a couple of moments but make sure you're picking a subject that you're passionate about that requires a university education and the amount of time and money you will be investing in it right or is it a hobby that you want to you want to expand your knowledge on if it is if you can afford it sure good if it's putting you into debt to go to university to expand on your hobby then acquire books on your by yourself and knowledge by yourself and just learn by yourself a couple of moments in the movie caught my interest which is why I explored DFW more and ordered the book David how come you don't have a television because then I would watch it all the time awesome that's one thing I did as well it was one of the hardest things I had to do is when I cut the cord back in early 2000 like almost 20 years ago or 18 years ago or something I cut the cord right no cable I haven't paid for cable I've been in houses the cable has been available but I stopped watching corporate mainstream news it was hard it got the itch but then after a while like no man don't need it it's an addiction it's never too late it's never too late grandpa how do I deposit cash and ATM read the instructions I seem to it seems a social construct between men and women at least in America in the last few years has been not so good with allegations of sexual harassment sure there's a lot of people exploiting it as well like this okay just to give you an example right now in county United States there are more females in university higher education than there are males right thoughts and gender is in is it a spectrum or is it biological top topic right I don't know the biology of it I didn't study biology right but everything is a spectrum love is a spectrum right everything can be put on a number line right on a scale system why not gender right some people would consider certain males to be have huge male tendency to be dominant right and others less so dominant or more less aggressive more aggressive or more you know I don't want to use a word manly with more man's man and this that that everything is a scale there is no such thing as black and white right then grandpa why so quiet just chillin brother just chillin when you get my age you need to chill a lot what females learn trash degree in the arts and humanities well first of all arts and humanities are not trash degrees right you can just trash them just because our current political system economic system doesn't reward them as much as Wall Street bankers in terms of financially right but they are they are silly if they are spending $200,000 to go get a degree which is going to give them a salary of $20,000 a year that is a foolish thing to do okay mods on point good job thanks guys thank you top fiverr I wasn't sure what was popping up thank you top fiverr oh is that the old man dude gender is a combination of biological sex and gender expression gender expression carries more weight humanity is trash because it doesn't have money it's just trash talking I don't know about that spam 420 spam 420 if you understand what 420 is then you should be having more deeper thoughts than what you're posting here cannabis if you truly understand it requires deeper thought then a couple things you posted okay I pity you if education is just about money for you agree I have a tough time with all the pronounced I find it silly I haven't adjusted and I won't I don't think ever because it's constantly morphing and changing and be manipulated by certain institutions and systems I will be who I am and I will be sincere and honest and if anyone freaks out I'll explain to them I didn't mean them harm but this is who I am and it is not because I am racist prejudice or whatever it might be I'm just not up to their recent recent programming things that don't make money you should change your names for 20 you don't deserve to carry the name for 20 I know that I will never have a girlfriend because I am trying yeah you don't deserve you don't understand for 20 you're one of those people who's hijacking a system psychology is pretty crucial I think this guy's trolling for sure he's trolling down to agree with you all things are listed arts humanities psychology is very important teacher plans the 420 is a meme and it's sound more when I got that number well you you by not understanding what 420 is I've shown by the way that you're a very very weak troll very weak if you take on a name own that name understand what that name means that is part of growing up right that is part of wisdom that is part of experiencing life right if you took on a name give yourself the extension of 420 because it sounds cool then you're a ding-a-ling pretty troll name for sure top fiber I'm okay with it too can't say I've never did a 420 not scoop in my I feel chance people should choose male or female pronouns otherwise it's too confusing I'm sorry if that's offensive towards some we like to get you chose spammers a chance a very small I support but this is an old recreation it's okay I think the first step in solving the social construct and gender is expressing our opinions and try to understand others agree to agree to agree I won't let them defy you some kind of monstrosity a fine gang so listen that's a couple of hours should we call the stream I might go for a walk I think I need to go for a walk what was the name of the book you were reading earlier there you go light reading will him right the mass psychology of fascism the top five are comic comic book wise I've shot the video for readings of two romance comics I need to edit them but I need to get caught up having the upstreams uploaded to bit shoot so once I get caught up with the upstreams being uploaded to bit shoot I'm gonna get into editing them so most likely the comic book readings will be up mid next week maybe a little earlier okay and then I might do some more readings from set number four I might get into ASMR math there's some stuff I need to do for ASMR math or want to do for ASMR math that I promised to do a while ago but there's gonna be three comic book readings coming up to my shot one of them I need to shoot still okay probably within the next 10 days will have them up skin in the game oh that's the other one the other one is this one and I highly recommend this one as well skin in the game okay this book is as good as well why hasn't gender issues been solved years ago why not because it's a lot of it is political spend time with mess you up for real indexes spent time with this book it'll mess you up for real I've only read the preface but I look forward to it and by the way index have you read this existential crisis material most certainly nice index have you read mass psychology of fascism great stream my pleasure gentle chaos gaming thanks as always chichu is the best love you bro love you to thank you a lot of it yeah cool awesome I want to join that club that has read this there isn't too many people I've never met anyone who's read that front-to-back same with this one right one day I'll read this front-to-back cool I sure box half stutter one day I'll read this front-to-back I only know two people who've read this three people I think that have read this one day join the club gang thank you for being here we all see you next thanks for my pleasure thank you for being here thank you for the mods thank you for taking your business thank you for the follows thank you for the sub story that came up hey chichu is there any way of finding out where or how to get the painting posted in the background of one of your comic video hauls the smoking rasta all the all the smoking rasta that's an original painting that my mom did there's only one copy of it I'll ask her next time if she's okay with it I'll photocopy it and take that image and I think I have the photocopy of it I preserved it and maybe we'll put t-shirts together once I get some funding or whatnot that's my mom's drawing I think you're talking about the black-and-white one that she did I keep forgetting to ask no worries hey thank you for the stream my pleasure girls like the ayas so do a lot of guys so do a lot of guys awesome answer index oh wow that's awesome awesome okay thanks for asking by the way I'll let her know I'll let her know and she did that drawing which was like 15 years old 14 years old 16 years old something like this when she was a teenager beautiful beautiful okay gang I haven't set up any other streams but I will probably next couple of days next streams will be coming next week once I get caught up a little bit okay you could have a digitally scanned and sell it as presents yeah yeah maybe we do maybe we do I'll make sure the funds go to the family and bring us some support here maybe okay our first product my mom is drawing and of course send the print out to everyone that's supporting us through patreon and direct donations and all that jazz awesome I hope you have a great trip good Friday everyone good Friday talk later