Today, we're gonna talk about the men who are a keeper and we're gonna talk about the five signs he might be the one. I think the problem with many of those of you who are out in the dating realm, it's hard to tell the difference between the men who are gonna use you or waste your time or those men that you should actually invest in you. So we'll talk about some signs you can pay attention to in the early stages of dating or in the relationship period, that three month window to really pay attention if he's a keeper or not. Before I get into it, I wanna dive into something really quickly. This relates to the golden bachelor, okay? If any of you have been watching the show, it's coming to its conclusion and the gentleman Gary is a man who grew up in the Midwest. He's a 72 year old widower who is looking for love in this format called the golden bachelor. And I believe it started with 22 women and now it's down to the final two by the time you're watching this, okay? Or at least by the time this is being recorded, excuse me. Why am I bringing him up? Because he represents the type of man who might be a keeper. He represents what's known as the wholesome man. Now many here in the United States gravitate towards people that are from the Midwest, okay? There's something that I believe he's from Indiana and there's something about people from the Midwest that are wholesome. Now I'll be candid with you. I take a little, I take a little on bridge to that being that I live in Southern California. I'd like to think I have, I don't know if I'm wholesome per se but I'd like to think I'm a good catch. I'd like to think I'm a keeper and whether you live in New York, Dallas, Miami, Seattle, I'm discovering the four points or anywhere in between, I think wholesome men exist. In fact, I think the real challenge for many women is to find this wholesome guy who could be a keeper. I recognize it's difficult and I think we have to understand that in the dating market pool today, unlike Gary who's a widower, I would say for those that are over 45 years old, roughly 75% of singles who are in the dating marketplace are divorced and yes, as we age that number begins to change to some who are widowers or widowed, some that have been never married, but for the most part we're swimming in a sea of divorced people. Why is this so important to understand? Because divorce comes with it a very traumatic experience that can wear on a person's wholesomeness, okay? It can wear on their wholesomeness because I think most men and women are good people. I've often said this on my channel. Most men are good guys, they're just bad daters, okay? We just have people that are bad at the dating process. But at the same time, we are also swimming in the sea of emotionally wounded people that have gone unhealed in their life for their childhood wounds and traumas and their adult traumas and let's just be clear. Divorce is an adult trauma. You know, it carries with it a lot of weight that might cause someone not to show up as a keeper in a relationship. And so right now we're gonna talk about the first and probably the most important thing in my five signs, he might be the one, and by the way, I could have come up with 10, so let's just stick with these five for right now. But what's most important, I believe you have to ascertain, is his emotional maturity, his level of emotional maturity. Ladies, this is more, you know, we have our current dating system, hyper-focuses on attraction and romance as the entry point, as the entry point, please forgive that, the entry point into relationship. There's such a hyper-focus on that, that it deceives us from who might actually be emotionally mature enough to be in a healthy happy relationship. One of the reasons why I created my private coaching, by the way, there's a link right here to schedule a discovery call with me to see if working with a coach is right for you. There's a link below as well. Why I created it is because it's so important to practice what I'm about to share with you and that is intentionality. Intentionality and intentionality is really to ascertain is this person aligned with you through a process I call radical honesty, laying your cards on the table and the rules of engagement, okay? Now, by doing so, you can ascertain someone's emotional maturity through deeper questions than the surface.  All this rhetoric about how he's feeling about you is usually from the result of lust or limerence, lust or limerence and lust is simply I wanna have sex with you and limerence is extreme infatuation. So how do we circumvent this? This being by getting sucked in by people that can use us or waste our time. So I recently purchased something, I'm gonna share it with everybody today, I'm not a sponsor for this, although I did write them and asked them to be a sponsor, it's called the Intimacy Cards by Best Self Company, okay? I got this on Amazon, okay? There's a link below to my shopping card if you wanna check it out, okay? So what these are are cards with pre-written questions on it that you may want to explore in the early stages of dating. Now what I mean early stages, I don't mean the first, second or third date, but if two people are exploring a relationship together, they're exploring getting to know one another and they're on the track for physical intimacy, wouldn't it make sense to create some emotional intimacy? See, intimacy means into me you see and to ascertain someone's emotional maturity usually happens when we ask deeper questions in the early stages. So again, I'm gonna pull up a couple cards right now for fun and I thought we would discuss this today. So let's pick out a couple of the first cards in the batch, okay? I'm just gonna pull them out right here, okay? It's called Best Self Company and the first question is on a scale from one to 10, how messy are you to live with? How messy are you to live with? So everyone, I want you to write down what number you would be on this scale from a scale from one to 10, how messy are you to live with? Now I'm gonna assume 10 is extremely messy. Now I'm gonna pick myself, I'm gonna say I'm probably a four, I tend to clean up after myself most days. I mean, I could go a day being messy, that's why I give myself a four, but I would say I'm fairly clean, but not 100% totally clean. I mean, I have a friend of mine that it's like, you're in a mausoleum when you're at his place and certainly I do kind of prefer coasters and that sort of thing, but on a scale from one to 10, how messy you are. Let's look at the next couple of questions just for fun. Okay, the next one is, what kind of present do you like best? See, I'm not a big fan of this question, mainly because if you're not familiar with the five love languages, I'm gonna pull this book out. By the way, there's a link below to get a copy of all the books I recommend and Jonathan recommend books. Okay, okay, of the five love languages, there's words of affirmation.  I think, or at least for me anyway, physical touch, quality time, access service and gifts. Now for me, gifts is the lowest one on my list, so I don't necessarily like this question because I'm terrible to shop for and honestly, I really can't stand buying gifts for people and when I say I can't stand it, I've botched that one so many times that I feel like I'm very upfront with somebody. Now, maybe this question is a good question to have a conversation about it, so just like what I'm talking to you about, my preference around this, depending on how someone responds, you can get a sense of their love language, how they feel about this, but more importantly, you can have a deeper conversation which builds intimacy. So I just don't like that particular question. What's something frivolous that you don't mind spending money on? What is something frivolous you don't mind spending money on? Okay, I like to travel first class, okay? And I have on occasion probably spent more, I've spent money, wasted money on that, particularly when you're flying on a 737 because the seats in first class aren't that much greater. By the way, I invite you to post a comment or share something frivolous. What's something frivolous that you don't mind spending money on? Now maybe I actually, let me reframe that. I actually do mind spending money on it, but the idea is can you see how now by me talking it out with you, this creates a conversation with someone, this builds intimacy. Now this is in the beginning stack, let's pull out the sex stack and see what comes up there. Oh, someone just posted manicures and pedicures maybe is something frivolous. Okay, now this is for a couple that seasoned in their relationship. They've built some, they've built some, let's just put it this way, they've had physical intimacy together because this is a physical intimacy question. What's your favorite sexual memory for us? Now, I don't think this would be a good question to ask if you've been married for a long time and haven't had sex, or maybe it would be a good thing to ask for a couple that have been married. I was just thinking in the early stage of dating, I don't know if that's a really great question to ask and that's why there's 150 different cards here. Let's pull out two more, but this centers around the capacity to be emotionally mature. Okay, what do I do that turns you on the most? Okay, I love that one. I think that's an important conversation. Now, why are the sex conversations really important? Because I will tell you many couples in midlife actually aren't sexually compatible with one another. I am learning as a coach, and when I say learning, I've witnessed many women find themselves in romantic relationships with men where the sex is mediocre between the two of them. So I'm a big advocate for deeper conversation centered around your sex life and using these cards at least as a prompt, but what's most important about this, and this comes back to emotional maturity. How a person responds, it's not what they say in the response, it's how they react to deeper emotional questions. And that's really the conversation I'm here to talk about with respects to emotional maturity. You may wanna check out using something like intimacy cards by Best Self Company. I found this on Amazon, it was 27 bucks. I actually ordered it today and it showed up a couple hours later. All right, so that's the first sign he's a keeper is he's capable of having these deeper conversations early in the getting to know you process. Not all of these would be on a first, second or third date, but certainly within that first three month period. Number two, good sign he's a keeper. He has a generous spirit, a generous nature, a generous spirit. Now, when I talk about generosity, I'm not talking about financial generosity, I'm not talking about he takes you out to nice restaurants and that sort of thing. I'm talking about a generous spirit with his time, maybe a generous spirit with his resources, maybe his generous spirit as being a teammate. You know, I have a dear friend of mine, several dear friends. I know if I needed help, I could call them and they'd be there on the spot. To me, that's a generous spirit, that's a generous nature. In other words, they're not so wrapped up in their own lives that they can actually be a giver. That's what generosity is, is to drop everything for somebody that matters to you, to invest in somebody because they matter to you. So when we think of generosity, it's not always financial generosity, it's their time, it's their effort, it's their resources, of course financial is a resource, but are they generous in their spirit? I think when you meet somebody who has a generous spirit as a teammate, that's a great sign. I remember once early when I was dating someone, she happened to be moving and I said, hey, would you like me to help you come move some stuff? Would you like me to help you pack? That's the sign of a generous spirit. Well, that relationship didn't work out. Oh my God, that turned out to be a nightmare, but that's another story. Fortunately, I have a few nightmares in my baggage, if you will, my knapsack, if you will, but nonetheless, offering that and assisting is a sign of a generous spirit, that's number two. Number three, does he take care of himself? Now, I think this is, even though this isn't about you, it's really important to be with people who take care of themselves physically and financially and emotionally in their life, physically, financially, mind, body, spirit, and emotions. So we're talking about, do they take care of their physical health? I think if we're at midlife, we really want some longevity in our lives, so it's important to choose people that take care of themselves and financially, they're responsible. I'm certainly there have been circumstances, and certainly during COVID, there's been a lot of up-evil that's happened in the world, and it might cause someone to be temporarily in a financial despair, but do they take care of themselves? And this is true for you ladies as well. Emotions, are you regulating your emotions? Sadly, we have a population that is so unhinged. Oh my God, can I give you an example of unhinged, and this happens to be a woman? I got an email from a dating site, by the way, I've not gone on a date with anyone. I got an email from a woman on a dating site. I read it, and I didn't respond because I wasn't interested. And two days later, I get this response. How dare you not respond to me? I would expect something better from you. Well, it only been like 48 hours, let the body get cold a little bit. But my point is you went unhinged in that moment, and I'm just giving you a slight example of how humans actually get unhinged, and regulating your emotions is part of mind, body, spirit, and emotion well-being. And that's what I'm really here to talk about. Okay, number four, do you feel open to be yourself with this person? Do you feel open to be yourself? Folks, coming back to these intimacy cards, this creates conversations that allow you to get to know someone at a deeper level. And I invite you all to begin to create opportunities for deeper conversations. Most men aren't gonna think of this. Guys are clueless.  They're in their head and they're in their penis, okay? When guys are in their head and they're penis, they're not thinking about the heart. Ladies, you are the facilitator to a man's heart. And I invite you to use these resources as a way to connect with a man's heart. And lastly, number five, does he appreciate you? Does he appreciate you? Even when you're not having your best day, can he appreciate you? Now, when I say you're not having your best day, I'm not talking about your yelling, screaming, or reprimanding him. I don't mean it in that context. I just mean you're having a bad day. Is he still appreciative of you? I can tell you something. The number one complaint I've heard from men after going through a divorce, let me say number one complaint. This is top five complaint. Let me revamp that. Was they didn't feel appreciated in their relationship? But also, they most likely weren't very appreciative to their partner because women also have this top five complaint is a lack of appreciation.  I have a practice. I've done this in my last two relationships where it's important to once a month express what you're grateful for in the relationship to actually sit across from one another and express gratitude with one another. Gratitude is the antidote to suffering, or one of the antidotes to suffering in a relationship. It's like a B vitamin. We'll call it a G vitamin. You just take this G vitamin, practice gratitude. And certainly a person who appreciates you is a good sign. He's a keeper and he's serious about you. So those are the five signs. And again, the most important sign centers around emotional maturity. 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And by the way, our goal tonight is $50, $50 to donate, okay? So we'd really appreciate that. All right. Let's see what questions we have in the house. And again, purchase a super sticker super chat makes it easier for me to find, okay? So I think I saw a question here. Bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum. Lee wrote early in the broadcast, she said, do you think you can teach someone emotional maturity or is it largely inherent and innate quality in a person? Can you teach a man this? I'm gonna tell you folks, I wasn't very emotionally mature. I was a very selfish human being for a significant portion of the early part of my adult life. And it was through workshops and trainings and quite frankly, well, I'll be candid with you. It took a couple humbling experiences for me. One was losing my high-end corporate job. I mean, it devastated me, humbled me. And I got addicted to drugs and alcohol as a way to navigate the emotional effects of this. And then the market crash of 2008, this was at the same time and I was going through a divorce. I was in the perfect storm of emotional chaos. And my drug of choice besides the cocaine and alcohol was online dating. Now I had no idea it was preparing me for this vocation that I have right now, but I was addicted to the dating process. I was addicted to talking to women. I would spend two, three, four, five, six, seven. I had one time an eight hour conversation. We started at eight o'clock at night and finished at four in the morning. Her name is Grace. No, her last name is Grace. I remember that conversation. She actually had went out with a serial killer. She was the, this guy killed six people and she was in the middle of this. She got out of it unscathed and they did a documentary on 60 minutes about this. Anyway, I remember this. My point in sharing this with you, it was through conversations with women that I began getting in touch with my heart. I think women have a capacity to open a man's heart. My dear friend, one of my oldest and loyal friend, I know he wouldn't have connected with his heart if it wasn't for a woman in his life who habitually talked about her feelings. And because he cared about her, he began adopting what she was selling, so to speak, or leading by example. So yes, I do believe men have a capacity to learn. Does that mean you might, you might be teaching them for the next woman? Most likely I would say it's been a few women. Okay, I'll be candid with you. My most significant relationship is the one that opened my heart and we're not together. But she's also in a fantastic relationship with a man who they live together, David. She's my dear friend, Sherry. We weren't right for each other, so, but guess what? You won't know unless you try, and that's my invitation for you, Lee. So I hope that helps. Ah, pump, pump, pump, pump, oh, let's go swimming. Let's go, let's keep swimming. We're just looking for, okay, Barbara's in the house. When a man states that he is sex positive in his dating profile, is that a red flag? I've been seeing this a lot on Bumble, thank you.  According to Wikipedia, the sex positive movement is a social and philosophical movement that seeks to change cultural attitudes and norms around sexuality. Promoting the recognition of sexuality as a natural and healthy part of the human experience and emphasizing the importance of personal sovereignty, safer sex practices and consensual sex. So safer sex, consensual sex. So I've, by the way, Barbara, I've noticed the same thing too on Bumble. And honestly, I really, I did look it up before. I really didn't know what sex positive means. I gotta tell you something. I mean, you need to be a Gen Zer to understand language today. I imagine it was much like when I was growing up in the 60s and 70s. I was born in the 60s, I mean, but I grew up in the 70s, mostly in the 80s was when I was an adult. And I'm sure the stuff I talked to my parents about was they were like over their head. So I would say that to the extent that if you listen to the back the last few seconds of it for getting the beginning part of it, safer sex, consensual sex, I do believe that there's some value to that. I've noticed it too. Here's the thing that I wanna bring to your awareness. If you're dating someone that states that, then it's a great conversation starter.  I'd be really curious to know, what does sex positive mean to you?  There's 60, 60, 60, 60, 60, 60, 60, 60, 60. Trillions, trillions, trillions, trillions, trillions, bits of information out there. I just don't know it all. I honestly don't know it all. I'm a person that kind of sticks to kind of a narrow vortex. And then I teach from what I learned. So in this capacity, it's a great opportunity to start a conversation. What does that mean? Okay, so you heard what it said on Google. I'm an Android. I know you're all Siri people out there. I know everybody's an Apple. We don't talk to each other. Oh my God.  Raise your hand. Hmm. Anyway, I think it's a good conversation starter. Laurie wants to say great information, Jonathan. I appreciate that. Even Beach Lover wanted to know what was sex positive. I hope we answered that for you. Okay, let's keep going here. Let's see, Jennifer's in the house. Honestly, I had an ex who had erectile dysfunction due to shame and childhood trauma. He was verbally abused as a kid by his mother.  And I understand you're an Apple user and Laurie is an Android user. There you go. Let's keep going. Here's a question from Bella. Are lifestyle clubs sex positive?  I don't know. I mean, folks, I'm pretty, I gotta be candid with you. I once, I went on a BDSM talk show and I'm like, like they asked me to come on cause I'm a dating relationship coach. I'm like, look, I'm vanilla. I am straight vanilla. I'm not, well, I guess I'm in, I do a little tantra and that sort of thing. So I'm not totally vanilla, but lifestyle clubs just aren't my thing. So is that part of sex positive? I suspect it fits the definition. I hope we don't spend the entire time talking about sex positive here. But anyway, that would be a good, be good thing to ask somebody who is in a lifestyle club. Okay. Marie Collins says sex, sounds like sex positive is sex without relationship. You know, that's what I originally thought. Is that sex, is that masturbation or not? Okay, folks, we're gonna need some good new questions. Otherwise we're gonna have a short conversation tonight. So put, oh, Sovereign Angel says, I too was caught in the perfect storm of physical and financial chaos all out of my control, hit me out of nowhere and turn my life upside down. I had a good life being single before it happened. Folks, I think it's really important to recognize that a significant percentage of people have been through emotional and or physical turmoil in their life. Many of you have experienced, particularly in your childhood, you might have had an abusive parent or parents, you might have had alcoholic parents, you might have had parents that were not very present in your life, all of this. And by the way, this is true of men and women alike. And I think the emotional ramifications of our upbringing, along with financial concerns as we age as adults can create a significant challenge for us to establish a wonderful life. You know, folks, I went through a period, remember I told you about losing my corporate job, getting wiped out financially, going through a divorce. I found myself in a period where I went to bed wishing I didn't wake up. And I had two small, look at, where's my picture? Two small children at the time. They were just a little bit older than in that picture. And I'm sharing this because I'm sure many of you can relate or you've been with a man that you can relate to this. So I'm gonna tell you, I was in the pit of despair for probably five solid years of real, I mean, borderline depression, if not true depression. I didn't see a counselor or anyone for that. I was given medication by a doctor and it was, I think it was Lexapro and I almost wanted to commit suicide. I took it for three weeks and I said, no, I'm not gonna do this anymore. And so I recognize that the way out of the pit of despair was through personal development, self-help and spiritual work. The movie The Secret came out around this time. And I remember just gravitating towards it. And then I had been given a book, where is a copy of this book? Oh, well, this isn't the book. I've got it. Okay, does anyone know Louise Hay? She wrote a book called You Can Heal Your Life. I don't know where my copy is. It's not up there, but this is the workbook. Love yourself, heal your life. You can heal your life. And I remember began reading that book. By the way, if anyone can relate to this, please let me know, post a comment. And I began a journey of personal development, started with the movie The Secret. And it was all a lot of attraction. I began listening to Abraham Hicks. Does anyone know Abraham Hicks? Write it down. And by the way, listening to Abraham Hicks is trying to read hieroglyphics. At first it made no sense to me whatsoever. It was like this, wah, wah, wah, wah, wah, like that's what it felt like. And then I got, I realized what she was saying. And by the way, have you noticed that she repeats herself for those of you who follow her over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again? Well, have you ever wondered why I repeat myself? I have the same narrative in almost every video. It's the same narrative over and over and over and over and over and over and over again. Because one of the things for us humans to learn, repetition is an important part of the equation. Now I'm gonna add something to that. If you really wanna get good at something, repeat it over and over again, but do what I do. I teach this. I teach this so I can get better at it for myself. I'm in this perfect storm. I'm in this emotional pit of despair. I was looking into the abyss and I didn't see anything. That's how bad it was. And it was through personal development, self-help and spiritual work that I began digging myself out of the pit of despair. Why does this relate to dating, mating or relating? Because if you want to be in a healthy, happy relationship, it's imperative that you find the healthy, happy part in you that will shine. Ladies, I wanna share something with you. The most attractive quality you can have, the most attractive quality you can have is radiance. To radiate. And when you're loving on yourself, you radiate. It's a powerful force. It's a powerful energy.    I can tell you there are sour puss look on so many people's face.  That's why I'm here to scream and repeat myself over and over and over and over again. And while Jennifer wants to remind everyone about confidence, I think confidence and radiance. I agree, I have confidence, but most, you know, here's the thing about confidence. We are all on some level suffering from I'm not good enough, I'm not lovable and I'm not likable on some level. So while we might, some people pretend to be confident, I don't, and they can fake confidence. I don't believe you can fake radiance. Maybe I'm wrong. And by the way, injecting your lips is not radiance. I'm just not a fan of duck lips. Duck lips anyway, I'm going off on a tangent. All right, who has a question for me? Write the word question or post the question after or could you please purchase a super sticker, super chat? I'm gonna donate some money. All right. Jennifer says, arrogance can also be confident. I agree. Hope says, Louise Hay is one of my guru books. And when I had my bookshop, she was one of the many I could not get enough of. Yeah, she was one of, like she was the first one of, this was the first book for me, you can heal your life. One of my favorite books since then, folks. If you want to change your life, read The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer. This is a game changer. This is like, this is like my Bible. Okay, I want to say something about reading this book, okay? By the way, there's a link below in Jonathan recommend books, okay? Only read one chapter at any sitting. This is way too deep. This is way too deep. It's 19 chapters, it'll take you 19 days to finish it and quite frankly, you might only be capable of reading half a chapter. It's that deep, okay? It's like being in the Marianas trenches. But I highly recommend that book. All right, let's keep going here. Do you have a question for me?  Cupcake Betty says, I gravitated towards the secret as well. Yeah, I love that movie. Bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum. Cupcake also wants to remind everyone radiance, I agree. Please extrapolate on radiance because this is a vital personal strength. You know, I don't even know how to quantify it. I wouldn't even know how to extrapolate it. I just know it when I see it. I gotta tell you something on the dating apps. Okay, let's just for fun. I'm gonna give you an example. I'm gonna do some swiping right now. Is she radiating? I don't think so. I don't think she's radiating, okay? Well, this one has sunglasses so I don't think she's radiating. I don't think you can radiate through your sunglasses. I don't know. I wanna find this one, oops, shoot. I just accidentally swiped right on someone. Let's go this way. Okay, please forgive. I don't wanna exclude her name. I don't, I think that's just not a happy look, you know? And I can go through one after another after another and I will tell you, okay, folks, not to brag but tell me if you think this is my, here, this is mine. You tell me what you think. Am I radiating here? Am I radiating? Tell me, you tell me if you think I am, okay? I'd like to think I am. I'd like to think there's a radiance. I could be wrong but I'm gonna tell you something. There's a lot of sour pus energy in the dating marketplace, particularly on the dating sites. And I don't think if you're wearing your sunglasses you can be seen radiating, okay? All right, who wants to disagree with me? Let's see if we're gonna get negative comments now. Barbara says you radiate. Okay, thank you. Cynthia wants to say gratitude, self-love and peace, radiance, exactly. Hope asked me, have you read the book The Road Less Traveled? No, I have not. I've heard of the book, I just, I haven't read it. Folks, I was gonna say this is just a partial list of books that I have. I skim through it professionally. I've got so many on my desk that I'm still trying to read and get through. And when I say I skim through them, I go through the meat of it, but sometimes I don't go through them cover to cover. I have some core books I always recommend in my videos. But anyway, all right, let's keep going. Do you have a question for me?  Great smile, thank you. Jennifer says, I went out on a date with a guy with sunglasses and his arms folded across his chest. They exuded anger on our date.   Okay, Tanya says, I think sunglasses can be a form of hiding. I gotta tell you, it really pisses me off when I see a, by the way, okay. On Bumble, Hinge, any of these apps, swipe apps, you have six photographs, okay? That's it, allowed to put in six. I can't tell you how many of them, six of them are wearing sunglasses. Three of them out of the six are the plate of sushi, the eight the night before. Three of your photographs are your dog. I mean, this is real estate. This is real estate. You should be putting, okay, so here, let's go through Jonathan's Bumble, okay? Okay, you saw the first photo, was that one? Okay, let's go to the next one. This is prime real estate, okay? Here's the next one. I'd like to think I've got a happy look on my face, okay? All right, let's go to the next one. This is at my pad, another one, I'd hope I'm happy. Oh, here's one, folks, the books I read. That's when it, now, this, okay. Obviously it's not, or I'll put it back up again, books I read, okay? And you can see my book is in the middle. Now, this isn't a picture of me, but it tells a story. Somebody looks at this and says, calling in the one, Hoffman process, non-violent communication, eight dates, getting the love you want, attached untethered soul.  Where's that book? My book, what the heck is self-love anyway? Journey of Personal Development, self-help, spiritual work, link below to get a copy of the book. Five love languages, four agreements, the Buddha dated, return to love, daring greatly by Renee Brown.  By the way, one of my favorite books, folks.  I read this 17 years ago, and I read it from cover to cover, I couldn't put it down.  I mean, people are just suckling on the nipple of victim consciousness.  Oh, I just made a rhyme. You only have, someone write this down for me.  I gotta remember that.   Okay, so the next photograph. Okay, now this one, this is one of my spiritual camps. I was in a happy mood. Now that, well, it's not a great picture of my face. It exudes energy. It exudes radiance. And then my last one, I'm wearing sunglasses, but it's a body shot. It's a body shot, okay? So I think that's okay. Folks, on the dating sites, quality photographs. If you're wearing sunglasses, you're only allowed one, and it's so long as it's a body shot, okay? That's just my invitation for everyone. What does everybody think of what I just said? Here's my quote.  I just love that I made that up. Hope says, what would you say that your society, wait, what you say that your society over-thinks everything? You know what, I'm a fan of processing things. I'm not a fan of over-processing things, but I do believe there's value in processing your thoughts and your feelings. Analyzing to me as oftentimes is to rationalize our choices. But I certainly like to assess and ascertain things, but not at this, at not, at nauseam, okay? Anyways, that's just a perception I have. Bum, bum, bum. Okay, that's funny, Jennifer. The book's authors wearing sunglasses. I don't think it matters. He's a tough guy. All right, let's keep going. That's a good point. Catherine says, humble confidence is key ego-based confidence is easy to notice true authentic radiance naturally for lows. I agree. All right, let's go. Sovereign Angel's back in the house with a question. I have dated, wait, I have not dated in seven years, but have had many married men that I know come after me. They act dirty, it disgusts me. Why are these men, what? Why are these men who I've known for many years doing this? Is it possible? I'm just speculating here. Is it possible you're putting out an energy that might suggest you might, I'm just, is it possible you could be inviting in? Or, that's one possibility. Or the other possibility is since you haven't gone on a date, and if you're surrounded by married men, we have a lot of married men that are not happy in their marriages and they seek to get sexual gratification elsewhere. We have a significant population of unhappy married people. I would venture, you know what, that 50% of marriages end in divorce. The other 50% that are still married, I would bet 75% of them are miserable in their marriages. I mean, it's a sad state of affairs. So either A, you're putting out an energy and I'm not suggesting that is it. I'm just saying that's a possibility. Or B, because you're surrounded by unhappily married men, they are just taking advantage of whoever's in their vortex, if you will. That could be a possibility as well.  Blessed is in the house. He invited me bowling. Inside he says, you pay this time. Then went away and ordered a drink without asking, only asked for the card after. He's a millionaire, I'm not. When I asked him out to pay, wait. When I asked him out, I pay. I don't know what your question is. Is he a jerk? Possibly. I mean, was that not cool? Since if he asked you out and he didn't offer to treat, he probably doesn't have a generous spirit, as I talked about in the beginning of this conversation. And you have to ask yourself, do you wanna see him again? That would be a question. You have to ask yourself. Doesn't sound like he would be, but you have to ask that question for yourself. Okay, blessed? Bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum. Let's keep going. If you have a question, write the word question. Folks, we need $50 tonight to donate. Come on, I gave you a great quote.  That's gotta be worth five bucks from somebody. And if 10 of you gave it, we'd hit our goal tonight. Annabelle says, why would a woman pay? Heck no. Well, as she said, if she offered to take them out, I'm a big proponent of reciprocity. I'm a big proponent in the dating processes to people investing in each other and taking turns. Now, if you're with somebody who's a millionaire, like she said he was, and the person who has the most resources should contribute, but at the same time in the getting to know you, I'm a big proponent of reciprocity, taking turns, planning things individually, like each person makes a plan to go do something. This way you get to know each other's likes and dislikes. So I'm just a big proponent of reciprocity. Beach Lover just gave us $3. That means we're $47 away. Thank you so much. Wanda's in the house. How do you know if they're married or not truthful on a dating site or a date? They can, wait, they can after all, okay. You know, you can't. I mean, unless you do a background check on a person, I mean, unless you do some investigatory, looking at their social media footprint. I got to tell you before social media was a lot harder, but I will tell you, it's very difficult to know who's married or not because if they don't wear their ring. Usually they're secretive. They only call you at weird strange hours. Now that's not texting. I'm talking about calling. They never invite you to their home. That's a great sign. Folks, I'm a big proponent. Before the penis goes inside the vagina, you should visit each other's homes to see where the person lives, okay.  That's my invitation for everyone, okay. Rosemary says, I'm looking for a godly man, okay. Then I highly recommend go to churches to find that person. That's your best bet to meet that type of person. And beach lover wants to confirm at church, okay. Hey, blessed has given us a $10 super sticker. So that means we have $13. We're $37 away from our goal. Thank you so much. Wanda says, thank you. Sherry just posted. Wanda, I asked men this, is there something that thinks that, oh, okay, this is something I learned from Ariel Ford. Is there someone that thinks they are in a relationship with you? Do you have a wife, a separated wife, a girlfriend? Agree they are secretive. Yeah, I should have mentioned this, but you can point blank ask the question, are you married? Okay, a really good liar knows how to lie and get around that. A guy that's a newbie at this kind of thing, liar probably isn't. By the way, I wanna thank Barbara for the $4, $5 super sticker. You have to pay attention, folks. I mean, to some degree we do have to become detectives. It's in our best interest to learn how to read people. This is why I recommend book after book after book after book for everyone because you have to become your own detective and matchmaker, okay? So does anyone believe they're in a relationship with you or does anyone believe they're married to you right now? I highly, a cheater is probably gonna sidestep that question or I forgot to add this. He might say I'm unhappily married and we're separated, we live apart. He might fess up, but he might make up some excuses. So that's a possibility as well, okay? But as Jane says, that's a good question. I learned that from Ariel Ford, who wrote the book, The Soulmate's Secret, okay? Let's see, let's keep going here. Oh, and Sovereign Angel says several, Wanda, several of my lady friends dealt with men. They met online that were married all live and this was on a Christian dating site.  We have dysfunctional human beings in every religious capacity, every political capacity. There is no immunity to dysfunctionality, okay? The only thing you can do is become a detective in your life and I don't mean this from a fear-based way. I'm talking and not about protecting your heart. I'm talking about what do detectives do? They ask questions, they're curious. They try to find out about a person, okay? If they have children, oh, where did the children live? Did they live with their mom? Where does their mom live? You know, like you can ask curious questions if someone's married, most likely in the demographics we're talking to the midlife demographic. They have children. So be inquisitive, what's the schedule? Okay, here's a good one. What's your custody schedule? How did it go at family court when the two of you were going through divorce? And the person, by the way, they're not prepared for these more complex questions and this would be a way to trip up a married guy. Most married, listen, most people cheating are married with children, okay? Most of them. And you can ask about, hey, what was it like going through a divorce? Oh my God, that must have been horrific. When did you file for divorce? How did your children handle it? What's your custody arrangement? These are really good questions to ask to trip up the married guy.  But those that are married and cheating are gonna be harder to answer those questions. Bum, bum, bum, bum, bum. Melissa says, I did ask the question, does anyone think they're in a relationship with you? He responded, well, well, I have a lot of relationships with people. You know what, see that response alone is just, you know, here's the thing. The answer is either no or yes.  And it speaks volumes. Terry says, Jonathan, those are good questions to ask to trip them up. Yeah, I came with those. It just occurred to me as I was processing this. This is overthinking. I'm processing, I'm processing. I'm overthinking coming back to that. Get his cell number and reverse lookup for $5. You can find out a lot, yeah. Jane says, a man can have two cell phone numbers. Should I be worried? Yeah, two, I mean, no, you don't need to be worried. Bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum, bum. Annabelle says, here's our first first, Jonathan. I would feel turned off a bit if I had to pay early in dating. I feel less as a woman just saying. Annabelle, I understand that, okay? I understand that's how you feel. Not everyone subscribes to my way of thinking. I just believe if a woman is genuinely interested in me, she'll want to make effort. That includes planning something and treating for something. That might be a turnoff for you. Good, that tells us we're not a fit. I will tell you ladies this. I posted a question, I just talked about this. I posted this question to a group of 15,000 men in a private Facebook group I met. Men, how would you feel if after a first date, a woman said something to the following? After a first date, she says something like this. Jonathan, I really appreciated that you treated me on this date. Will you allow me to show my appreciation and plan and treat you the next time? How would you feel about that? And I posted this question to a group of 15,000 men. I had over a thousand responses to this and this is what I heard. She's a keeper. She's one of a kind. She's a unicorn. She's partnership material.  This was the response. And a few select men, less than one-tenth of 1%, went into, I would never do that. And the way they responded in all caps is because most likely these are people that are control freaks. They want to be in control. I'm here to say, if a man cannot accept your generosity, because coming back to generous nature, and when I talked about the five signs he's a keeper, generous nature, in my opinion, includes taking turns. That's generous. That shows that you're investing in him. If he resists it, that might mean he has difficulty accepting your love later on down the road. So I'm here to say, mutual reciprocity is a factor in making decisions in relationship. I understand Annabelle, that doesn't work for you, and that's fine. We're not a fit, okay? I'm no worries there. But I invite everyone to process this and decide for themselves what they want most. I guess here's a question. If women expect men to pay for dates, should men expect women for sex? I'm just asking that as a question. Matthew Hussie discussed that in one of his videos, who should pay for a date, okay? So expectation is the mother of disaster, in my opinion. I believe in generosity and reciprocity, those are just too high values for me. And I know I might have lost some of you, that's okay. You don't have to subscribe. I'm here to offer perspective. I'm here to offer perspective. I'm not saying this is the gospel. I'm not saying this is the truth. Generally speaking, most of what I share is consistent. Most of the most important thing I share is the importance of personal development, self-help, and spiritual work. Coming back to loving on oneself. When someone loves on themselves, they radiate and they become a magnetic attractor for what they want and why do I repeat myself on personal development, self-help, spiritual work over and over and over and over again? Because if you want to attract an amazing partner, then become the person you want to attract. Become the person you want to attract. Is this sinking in? Is this resonating? Please let me know. All right. Bella says, I would love to treat more often. There you go. You see, man, appreciate that. Let's see. Bum, bum, bum, bum, bum. Let's see. Da, da, da. Nietzsche says, Jonathan, great point bro. Thank you so much. Jennifer says, I know a woman who always pays the dates right away. She has turned off a lot of men. Okay. What I talked about earlier was reciprocity, taking turns. I'm not talking about paying for every date. That would be a turn off to me as well because what that's not allowing is my generous spirit to come out. So it should come from a place of generosity, not a place of control. Control is a turn off and trust me. A lot of men use paying for dates as a way to control things because if I paid for every date, I can bail on you whenever I want. Just remember that. That's also a possibility. It's not always coming from a generous place. I think we'll take this as the last question. Do you think that some males are takers because they're afraid of being used? I know this is ironic. Yes. I think a significant percentage of men after divorce in particular have felt used in their past relationships and they turn into takers as a result of this. It's a sad state of affairs. I'm not advocating for it, but I do believe that this happens. That a person that might've been generous at one point in his life who felt unappreciated might become a taker. This is why I talk about, when I talk about childhood wounds and adult traumas, this might be an example of an adult trauma that might have caused a man to become a taker after he was a giver at some point. And I see this with women as well. This is equal for each gender. All right, folks, what we just talked about is he a keeper? The five signs, he might be the one. Since I mentioned it earlier, I'll just remind everyone, does he have emotional maturity? Does he have a generous spirit? Does he take care of himself? Do you feel like you can be open to him? And lastly, does he appreciate you? Those are five signs he might be the one and he might be a keeper. I hope you found value in this. I'd like to hear your thoughts. Post a comment below. I do my best to read them all during the first 24 hours. And if you liked this video, please hit that like button. Please share this video and please subscribe to my channel and hit that notification bell as well.  Or has fun at the fantasy suites, all right? Have a wonderful evening, take care. Oh, I want to thank Wanda and Cecilia and Sherry and Beach Lever and Terry and Annabelle. Let's see, Cupcake and Jane, Marianne and Hope and Sovereign Angel and Cecilia. I think I said Lisa, did I say Jennifer? All right, everyone, big hugs. Have a fab.


Hey guys, it's Nate, A.K.A. The Foot Account, and welcome back to the channel. It is Sunday, and that usually means weekly sell-off. We're gonna talk about what that means for the market today and squad battle rewards tonight inside of this rule-breakers promotion that is going on right now. Back to back days, Friday and Saturday, we had new SBCs and new content coming out. Saturday was a bit of a lull day, if I'm being completely honest. I don't think the SBC, you know, I don't think too many people wanted to do the Malong SBC today, in my opinion, and I did not see a ton of hype for that card today. So it was kind of just kind of like a chill day, right? It was kind of just a kind of just an interesting day. Some prices went up a little bit and we started to see in the evening, as I said last night, some of the weekend league sell-off start to happen. So I wanna talk about that week in league sell-off, when prices could get too low tonight, and especially with squad battle rewards, as we've seen the past couple of weeks, what that rewards timeframe can do to the market and people know there's rewards coming out. So they pan-excel for that rewards time period. So let's talk about that today. As we look at the market at the moment, according to Footbin, this is the index 100. You can tell that since about 6 p.m. UK today, it's kind of just trickled down. Now we had an untradable pack supply SBC today. We did have some new promo packs in the store, so this could have contributed to that a little bit. But a lot of stuff is just starting to be sold off. And that's how you can tell, right? Abombing is down to 220, Wambasaka is down, Insignay is down, even like Goretzka, Coman, some of these players that are down a lot, Lewandowski. A lot of these players are Weekend League caliber cards that people are actually selling off and getting rid of from their teams because the Weekend League is getting closer to ending. Sun is 185, who's over 200k. Gomez, I bought for my team last night at 103,000 coins. He's now 98.5. Marsh Yall is down 20k. Bruno's down almost 20k. So a lot of these cards are getting sold off, especially the lower-rated. Right, we're seeing a Gareth Bale 33,000 coins. Lucas is 52. So the Weekend League sell-off is starting now, and I honestly think it's going to continue into the day today on Sunday and throughout into the evening. So if you're just finishing up your Weekend League, I would honestly recommend maybe cashing out on some of those cards sooner rather than later, just to take the coins and some of those, and maybe even save yourself some coins where you might be able to sell a card and then buy it back on Squad Battle Rewards, or even wait until Wednesday before division rivals and Weekend League rewards come out. So you can possibly just save yourself some coins on the weekly. So again, this is normal, right? We see this every single weekend, and people are asking me this weekend, yo, is this gonna be different because of the extended Weekend League? Now in my opinion, I don't think it's gonna be too much different than last week. I still think that on Sunday night, you're gonna see more panic selling and a rise after because so many people are used to buying cards after Squad Battle Rewards in the first couple hours of that, that you naturally see the market rise and it's just an opportunity to actually sell, right? You can actually sell to the investors that inflate the market and people that buy cards after Squad Battle Rewards. But I think until we get to that point later tonight, you are gonna continue to see a lot of these items drop off and honestly take a lot of hit. Like the bail was 40,000 coins. He's now down to like 33, 34, and these lower rated cards and some of the higher rated ones too, even guys that are like 85, 86, they're getting packed more and if they're not super meta and super demand, they're gonna continue to drop off. Bail's 32,000 coins. And again, as we look, there's a lot of cards, not a lot of them, but most of these cards here are not fresh items. There's one, I guess there's a few that are fresh, but a lot is when I was looking across the market today and seeing cards that were being listed up, it's most of these cards that are showing at the 59th minute have chemistry styles on them and they have games played, which tells me like a lot of these Pogba's right here that a lot of people are finishing their week in league and they're just selling the cards off because that's what they do every single weekend, right? Pogba with shadows, if you're gonna use Pogba, you're probably putting a shadow on them. So this just again signals to me that there is week in league sell off happening. As I look across the rest of the market, if you look at some like team of the week cards, some of these guys are maintaining their prices a little bit, I bought a Lasano on Friday night at 105 and he's down. I think there was a little bit of over-investing there. One thing you could get kind of interested in is some possible ones to watch investments. I know there are, there's some, there's more Champions League games, I think coming this week, if I'm correct in that, there would be more Champions League games coming later this week. So maybe some of those cards will rise up for those midweek fixtures just in the hype, but if you're looking at an out-of-packs inform, some of those guys are starting to drop down a little bit as well out of the weekend league from maybe where they were. Let me check a guy like Kyle Walker. Very, very meta inform. I sold this guy yesterday for $470, I believe. How much is he right now? He's probably inflated. Kyle Walker, did he hit 500k today? Wow, Kyle Walker is almost 500,000 coins. This would be a card I would seriously watch the week in the league sell-off on because this is the best center-back in the game in my opinion and there's a lot of demand for this card since he's already up so much already. Definitely watch the sell-off on a card like this. As an out-of-packs team of the week card every single week, basically the lowest point in the week for these cards is usually a week in the league sell-off because if there's no content coming out that will put a new card in the game that will affect their price, they just have no supply. So a lot of that panic selling is where the best time to buy is. So if there's out-of-packs informs, I would definitely start to get on those later into the night tonight before squad battle rewards. In my opinion, whether that's an investment or just an upgrade for your team, that's kind of a low fluctuation on the week that you can see four cards like this. Now, gold cards is the really interesting thing. Now, if we go back over here to footprint again, as I mentioned, a lot of these cards are getting a lot of panic selling. They had a lot of supply this week, right? Rodrigo's 12k, Lucas is dropping, he's down 8,000 coins. Jay Zeus is gonna be down a decent amount. Millie Tao is gonna be down. But other players that are still very meta, you know, like a Sterling is pretty good. If we go back up here to the top, guys like Ferlan Mendi, even a Joe Gomez, Rashford is out of packs, Marcial, Ben Yetter, Ben Yetter's 72,000 coins, man. The guy's really, really dropping. Now, I wouldn't call this a market crash, right? I really wouldn't call it some market crash. This is just weak and weak sell-off, and these cards are getting supplied more and more on the market, which is just making them drop naturally over time. So, our gold cards, in my opinion, are still the cards that are gonna give you your best return on investment on a weekly investing and short-term flipping ratio, because they're cheap, right? Let's say you have like 500,000 coins. You can buy 10 Allens, but you can only buy like two Informed Levent Doskies if you're trying to flip him, right? And let's say you make 10K on two, or 20K on two Informed Levent Doskies, and you're making 5,000 coins here. You know, it's a lot easier with smaller cards like this, especially if they're very hyped up. Ferlan Mendi went from like 100, where did he go on Friday? I know the servers were down Friday, and that was kind of, you know, a very interesting thing, but Ferlan Mendi was down at one, he was in the 120s, right? 116, and he was back up to 130. He's back up to 130 at one point. Same thing with like Joe Gomez. He was down at like 100,000 coins flat, bounced up into the one teens again. Some of these guys are really bounced up from Thursday as well, so one way to kind of value and just watch and see how much a card is dropping down as price is, if you remember, even go back on one of my old YouTube videos from like Friday, right, where I looked at a lot of the market rise from the Weekend League, you can look at the daily graphs on Footbin, right, and they will show you, like, let's get a good example, what, like this Wynaldum, man. Wynaldum went from 60,000 coins on Wednesday night. He went from like the low 60s, all the way up to on Friday morning, 88,000 coins, 88K, now this guy's back down in the 60s, right? If I would see Wynaldum below 60K later tonight, I would get very interested because this is still a card that a lot of people are gonna use in the Weekend League. Yes, he probably got some packs applied later this week, but that's a very meta card, an example of an item that I would maybe look to pick up tonight, or even just to buy some cards that you want for your team. During like the sell off before squad battle rewards, that is what I would kind of look into. Now, let's talk about these rule breakers because these guys are pretty expensive, and I wanna actually check some of these prices on the market because I'm getting very interested, right? Now, one thing that we can commonly see with these brand new promo cards, and this is kind of like the first brand new promo cards of the year, so I wanna spend a little bit talking about this, these cards fluctuate a lot, especially since they're rare for the first two days or so, and there's a lot of demand for them, right? Let's take a look at Harry Kane. He was extinct at 1.2. I still feel like, by the way, I still feel like all these cards are overpriced, but I think these are just the first special cards that we have in FIFA, and people are going bananas for him. I think that's honestly what it is, and maybe some of these cards are actually really cracked in game. I think that's part of it too, but what we often see is that people panic sell, especially the high tier cards that are inside of a new promo that are in packs, they panic sell those cards up until about 6 p.m. UK when more pack supply would come out, when the daily content would come out from a Friday into the Saturday, which is what we saw here with Harry Kane. He was 1.5, got panic sold down to 1.34, and then got bought back right away up to 1.5. Now, it looks like it only happened on the Xbox, or on the PlayStation, sorry, but this is something that we see all the time with these new promo cards. They fluctuate up and down in price where the demand goes up and down. I'm honestly, I don't have the facilities for this right now, but if I was somebody looking at Harry Kane, I know we're headed into Sunday, there's probably not as much demand for this card right now because the Weekend League is, we're nearing the Weekend League sell off, but this guy is 1.3 million coins. One thing that I would not be super duper scared of doing is possibly thinking about an overnight flip. And then look at this, man, if this is all, if this is all of the Harry Kane cards at 1.4 mil, if there's one page and they're all at 1.3, I would get very, very interested in that. Now, I know that the market's been glitching and there's a lot of issues with this market, so I'm not really confident that these are all the listings. Actually, I'm more confident now after seeing that 1.4.2 pop up. If I was somebody that was pretty ballsy and I wanted to take a risk, some of these promo cards will probably rebound from when you're seeing me record this video at, what is it right now, five AMUK time or four AMUK time, probably rebound into the daytime UK. Now, that's something that is a bit risky and you have to have some balls to do it, but the most popular promo cards, maybe a guy like Llorente has been bouncing around a bunch. He's been bouncing around from like three, low 300s to like middle 300s, and right now it looks like he is 320,000 coins, 313 right there for Llorente. And earlier today, according to Footbin, let's check this out, this guy was, he was 330, he went up to 380, went down to 312, and then back to 342 on the PlayStation and it's now back down to 317. So if I saw this card get really close to 300K or even in like the 300K flat range, we have 15K of tax here or a little over that. So I could, I mean, I think it's very possible this guy could rise back up to 340 in the morning time on Sunday today, right? So that's one thing with these promo cards is that when the EU goes to sleep, they kind of drop off, the EU wakes up, they wanna play more games, they wanna grind with some of these cards, try them out. Like one that's very interesting for me right now is Douglas Costa, this guy's 449,000 coins according to Footbin, 472, so he was getting really low and it looks like some people bought the card up, man, because this guy went to 564, he was still over 500K for most of the day, 522, after no content, not a lot of content and it's now back down to the 400s. If that 449 might have been a snipe, but if that was the true price, he probably just got cleared on the market because people probably realized that that was just too cheap for Douglas Costa, 470 at the moment. Now I would maybe try to see are there any of these that are on bid that look interesting to me because this guy has got a really crazy amount of supply and it's really interesting to look at, but it looks like some of the supply has dried up for some reason, yeah, this is kind of weird. And now the supply thing, like I mentioned it twice already, it's really hard to tell how much supply you have because of how the menus are glitched this year, but it's really interesting to me, man, it is really interesting to see how these cards fluctuate and this is something that you can do with a lot of the new promos. Ocampos right now is 140,000 coins. I'm pretty sure this guy, checking his flipping graph really fast, Ocampos was 180 on both consoles, went down to 130, so he's actually not really down that much. If I saw this in like the 120s, then I'd get interested. But again, if you wanna do this type of risky flipping with promo cards, this is something that you really wanna do from a Friday night into this Saturday and obviously it depends. Like every single promo is different. Sometimes this does not work, other times it does fantastic. So this time with these cards being really rare and like nobody is packing these cards, it really seems to me like this could be a possible flipping Saturday even into Sunday, especially with the extended weekend league and nobody could get on on Friday night. So 570 for Mertens, that is really interesting. If he can go back over 600K, there's definitely profit in this card. Let's analyze this really fast because that's an undercut right there. Yesterday, Mertens went to 685, 670, 619. So he went to 585, then back to 619. So if I maybe saw this Mertens, that's tricky, man. 570 seems really low for this. I 100% think he goes back to 600. So maybe if I can snag this one on bid at like 550, if I can snag one of these on bid at like 550, then I would probably go for one of those Mertens for a morning flip because there will be some people waking up in the UK or in the EU today on Sunday. Maybe some of you guys are watching this video and they will be trying to buy some of these cards to try out for the weekend league. La Porte is another one that's bouncing around a lot. I think he's down a decent amount right now. He's under 500K if I do believe, 490. 490 for La Porte and this guy has hype because he's French, he's Man City, he gets the links and then his graph today, he went up to 550,000 coins where he was almost all day, content drop, before that he dropped down to 490 and then went back up to 535. So if I saw this maybe at like 10, 15K lower, basically why I want the undercut like a 10, 15K undercut is because that way I'm minimizing my risk of a loss. If it doesn't go up that much, I'm basically covering most of my tax, right? On a card like this, there's 25,000 coins of tax, 5% EA tax on every sale. So if I would sell this a little over 500K, we maybe would have like 26 or 27,000 coins of tax, right? So right now we're at 90K. If I saw this at like, honestly, 475 would be a fantastic buy price for me because that means I only have to let this card go back up to 500K or get a little bit above that to be in the profit zone. So that's kind of what I look for with these overnight flips is you look for like the tax undercuts and that is kind of like a sign of, okay, this guy just got undercut by another 10, 20, 30,000 coins or maybe if it's a Harry Kane card, 50K. If I saw Harry Kane, if I had the coins at 1.25, I would get very, very interested in that really, really quickly because that'd be, what is it all, 1.3 million coin card, we have 65,000 coins of tax or something like that, 70, no. Yeah, something like 65, 70,000 coins of tax as we get towards 1.4 mil whereas where I would want to sell the card and that is definitely a very nice flip. 1.25 to a 1.4 mil is very interesting. So again, this is a very risky way of trading but it's also one of the most fun, right? Ones to watches and overnight flips are very, very, very fun in my opinion. I love these ones, the new promo cards. It's just because people are hyped and people want to try these cards out and that is why it's very interesting. So that's something to keep an eye on. Now, if you want to get into some ones to watches as well, these guys are all low. I know I mentioned ones to watches before but as long as I didn't watch the Chelsea game today but Havart is 310, 318 right now. If you're somebody who likes to swing trade with ones to watches, that's a beautiful buy. You can chuck that on your transfer list or put it in your team even. That's a really good one right there. Let's check ones to watch team one really quick again. Bale was down some, Suarez is pretty cheap right now. Bale was down a little bit, Tellez is pretty cheap. That is really low actually for Suarez. He was like 130 I think today before the game. Yeah, he was like on the 130K range, went down to 111 which is kind of where he's chilling so maybe you try to get at one of these on bid but it's Sunday, man. It is Sunday, a lot of cards are dropping. That's what we expect. Maybe a small bit of a rise on some of the out-of-packs cards and mostly just those rule breakers with people waking up on Sunday and wanting to play with some of these new cards. That's kind of what I would expect to see on some of these in the morning on Sunday. So that's gonna be an interesting watch. See if that does happen on the market and of course we've got two player SBCs in a row. I would probably not expect a third so I'm not really sure what's gonna come for content today. I don't think we have any like new packs or SBCs loaded in the code. So I'm not entirely sure what we're gonna see today on Sunday for content. Maybe some sort of like flashback SBC or something or other but we've already got Anaki and Malung so I don't know if I would expect another player SBC today on Sunday. But if you guys did enjoy this video and you think it'll help you make some coins later on this week, we will be live streaming on Twitch during squad battle rewards so check out the link in the description, that is down there. We'll be opening packs, watching this market and probably making some buys for quick flips into Monday after the rewards wide rise which I do expect to see again this week. So if you did enjoy it, smash the thumbs up on it, comment down below if you have any questions and subscribe to the channel if you're new. It's been Nate, The Foot Accountant. Catch you guys later, peace.


Hi everyone, Sean with jaspyscasebreaks.com here doing 2020-2021 Panini Prison Basketball two box hobby break, two random teams each number seven where 15 spots everyone gets two random teams NBA and no vet common ship. Release day looking incredible stuff and this is for my fresh case. So here is our list of customers from Chuck down to Yuji Kihara and since every spot gets you two teams we need to double up the list. So Yuji with last spot mojo times one and times two and the teams from the hawks down to the wizards dice roll to randomize both lists and pair them up a four and four eight times eight the hard way eighth and final time from Yuji down to Chuck you guys take advantage of that discount only a couple minutes left on that don't let it don't let it go eight times on the randomizer eight times on the dice now eight times on the teams eighth and final time from the nets down to the pacers eight times on the randomizer eight times on the dice nets down to the pacers So Yuji Kihara with the nets Joshua Cherry with the magic Thon Ka with the spurs Sean Maddock with the nicks James Connell the bulls Chuck Stamaris with the 76ers Michael Dwan with the sons Chuck Stamaris with the pelicans Joshua Cherry with the pistons Miguel Martinez with the Grizzlies and Cavaliers Chuck Stamaris with the thunder Thon Ka with the raptors Yuji Kihara with the blazers Brian Ferguson with the bucks Chuck Stamaris with the clippers and the nuggets Thon Ka with the heat Sean Maddock with the hornets Chuck Stamaris with the timber wolves Thon Ka with the wizards Michael Dwan with the warriors James Connell with the rockets Brett Pusatari with the Mavericks and Celtics Chuck Stamaris with the hawks Brian Ferguson with the Lakers and Chuck Stamaris with the jazz kings and the pacers there you go so trade window is open i'm going to leave the trade window open while i figure out which boxes we're going to do so i want to pop this case open here like i said this is from a fresh case only a minute left on that discount guys do not let it pass because once again it's going to sell out you're likely by spot but if you buy it right now put up Omar how are you sir cool so since this is a two box break fresh case 12 boxes i just made them stacks of two boxes each have to fix the mats afterwards so you can see up here on the nit cam one two three four five and six so for everybody looking on this cam this is one this is two this is three the stack behind this is four the stack behind this is five and the stack behind that is six and you can see those are two stack boxes two box stacks as well let's do a dice roll real quick whichever dice we roll on that's the stack we're going to end up with and it's a six so this is our stack right here i'm going to take these two boxes and mark them as rts so we know so these will be the boxes from this case that we're going to use for the rest of the random team breaks next one is in the store since we're doing six we're going to keep that one there and we'll take these two out of the way there you there you go so those are our boxes do we have any toxic trades it didn't look like it do we have any toxic trades doesn't look like it right so i guess everybody's good with their teams it's printing rip uh for trade window close so there you go there you go i'm not sure rex i mean you know rex dodgers in a full season never works out well give him a half season unbeatable this year foreshadowing white sox podre's it's a good one i mean i can honestly see you see uh white sox mets oh rex stop it everybody says wasting trout wasting trout he chose to be here chose to be with the angels all you teams need to be introspective and look and see what's wrong with my team that mic trout didn't want to be with me you know that whole thing like where people say like it's not you it's me with mic trout it's not him it's all you i mean if we've got stuff for me to do a jay absolutely he is that good that's the thing i honestly thought the angels because they were uh i mean it's good that the mets locked him up because legitimately the angels have so much money clearing off next year that i thought that they were gonna make a big play at francisco lindore the mets are no dummies good luck everybody dianta murray silver for the spurs and thonka chris paul red wave for the thunder and chucks de meris lebron james widescreen for the lakers brian furgeson onyeka kangwu for the hawks chucks de meris sedique bay for the pistons and joshua cherry nice jordan and warra rookie silver for the bucks brian furgeson and donovan mitchell silver fireworks for the jazz chucks de meris isaac coro for the calves miguel martinez and tyrese maxi for the 76ers and chucks de meris by the way i really like the penny hardaways now in the set love that dirk nevitsky hyper for the mavericks bret pusatary and davis bertanz orange to 49 for the wizards and thonka elijah hues for the jazz chucks de meris kept walls drafted justin upton andotani i like that i like that a lot joe we were just talking about uh wash i know we were talking about marsh washes i like wash a lot too kevin porter jr silver for the cavaliers miguel martinez rj barrett red wave for the nicks shon matik lebron james fireworks lakers brian furgeson looks like we got a purple cracked ice coming up the purple ice caches stanley for the pacers and chucks de meris lani walker purple ice for the spurs thonka to 175 and tyrell terry rookie signatures for the dalis mavericks bret pusatary james weissman for the warriors michael duane dante divin chenzo hyper for the bucks brian furgeson and paul george blue to 199 for the clippers chucks de meris kairi flashback for the nets yuji kaihara what'd you do shon if joe madden went after chris brian i don't know if that'd be the smartest use of money for the angels like i love the name on paper but i don't know if that'd be the smartest use i do like uh i saw a thing today that said with the angels starting uh with the the pitching rotation our bullpen we have one name that was a carryover from last year's team in our bullpen that's it total overall jordan and warra for the bucks brian furgeson dwayne wade silver for the heat thonka seth curry red wave for the mavericks bret pusatary lebron james fearless for the lakers brian furgeson malachi flinn for the raptors and thonka evan fornie silver for the magic joshua cherry and downtown silver paul george for the clippers chucks de meris sobbing lee for the pistons and joshua cherry robert covington hyper for the rockets james connell and yannis widescreen hyper for the bucks brian furgeson yeah i feel like i mean it's a rental you know what i mean for brian zion fireworks pelicans chucks de meris reggie bullock silver for the nicks shawmatic buddy healed red wave for the kings and chucks de meris luka donchich flashback for the mavericks bret pusatary zavier tilman for the grizzlies miguel martinez patin pritchard for the Celtics and bret pusatary kelly ubray jr blue for the suns we got points michael duane it's 1500 points so let me put those off the screen right there that kelly ubray jr blue was to 199 suns michael duane so here is the points 1500 points that'll be randomized to one person in the break after this kira louis jr for the pelicans chucks de meris rj hampton for the nuggets chucks de meris kenyon martin jr rookie hyper for the rockets james connell and kevin porter jr red to 299 for the cavaliers miguel martinez luka donchich for the mavericks bret pusatary well that's the thing rex is i think a lot of people agree with you they know what his overall potential is but i think everybody else is also saying what's going on like i feel like people are like i don't like he's not gonna be cheap you know what i mean so i think people are scared to one give him the amount of money it's gonna cost and two take him on take him on for that long you know no not at all i don't think so i don't think that's a a reach at all trout at two who got who went one and akunia akunia or soda zik nagi for the nuggets chucks de meris john collins hyper for the hawks chucks de meris christin red to 299 for the bowls james connell robert woodard for the kings chucks de meris duane wade silver for the heat thonka mark gasol for the raptors little red wave thonka zion retro for the pelicans chucks de meris grant riller for the hornets shawmatic nick richards for the hornets and shawmatic damari carol silver for the rockets james connell and lebron james widescreen hyper for the lakers ryan furgeson luka donchich fireworks for the mavericks brett pussatari apologies to dwayne wade and the silver the mats our safety net trey jones for the spurs thonka christian wood hyper for the pistons joshua cherry torrey craig purple ice for the nuggets chucks de meris that is to 175 erik gordon silver for the rockets james connell danny green red wave for the lakers ryan furgeson kenyan martin for the rockets james connell obi toppen for the nicks shawmatic john marant grizzlies miguel martinez zik nausea blue for the nuggets chucks de meris that is to 199 and terry comings signatures for the bucks brian furgeson lebron james lakers ryan furgeson i know it's pretty incredible i think that price will come down a little bit but hey anybody that's quick to post it sell it now and can buy it back a little bit later and once the prices kind of regulate i don't think that's a bad idea precious ashua for the heat thonka devin vossel for the spurs and thonka laury hyper for the raptors thonka terry rozier red wave for the hornets shawmatic de onto murray silver for the spurs thonka yannis fearless silver for the bucks brian furgeson john marant retro for the grizzlies miguel martinez denny abdija for the wizards and thonka jameis ramsey rookie silver for the kings chucks de meris russell westbrook wedway red wave for the rockets james connell they'll get back to you oh mar and last stack we should have one more auto here alexi pokazhevski for the thunder and chucks de meris eric paskall silver or hyper for the warriors michael duane caches winston rookie red to 299 for the wizards thonka isaas steward for the pistons and joshua cherry bojan bogdan or bogdan bogdanovitch silver for the kings chucks de meris jj barrea red wave for the mavericks bret pusatary vernon kerry jr for the hornets shawmatic col anthony for the magic joshua cherry norman powell blue for the raptors thonka number to 199 and precious ashua rookie auto sensational signatures for the heat thonka is our last auto and that finishes it off for us guys there you go you gotta give away those 1500 points so let's pop back over to the randomizer we're gonna use the original list of 15 names for that 1500 points so let me grab that list real quick there you go so you can see the original list here from ugie last spot mojo back up to chuck dice roll name on top after four and a five nine times gets those points ninth and final time thonka you're gonna get those 1500 points to go with everything else that you got in the break as well there you go thon that's for you and there you go guys thank you very much that was the break that was 2020-2021 panini prison basketball two box hobby break number seven two random teams each from jaspyscasebreaks.com i'm sean jaspyscasebreaks.com thanks for hanging out i'll see you next time


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