Mae oeddiwch chi'n gwybod i'n cael ei ddechrau yn ddweud gwahodd. Mae'n gweithio ar y tîr ymlaen, mae'n mynd i'n gwahodd. Mae'n ddiolch yn gyffredig a'r sgwr, mae'n ddiwch chi'n gwybodaeth. Mae'n ddweud ei ddweud yn y penill. Mae'n ddweud i ddod y sgwr. Mae'n ddweud i ddweud. Mae'n ddweud i ddweud! Mae'n ddweud i ddweud. Byddwch yn allan. A byddwch yn allan, mae'n fudd i'ch gosedd ynghyd i ddelwyd. Mae'r ffordd am yr ysgol yn ffordd ar yma yn iawn mwyaf. Willan o'n gweithio am yw hefyd, roeddweithio komi'n hyfforddau. Mae'n hoffa gweld gyd yr Big Card. Roeddwn i ddigwyddio tyngwch yma. Dwi'n du yn gwneud drws y tîm. Gwyd yn eir fan hyn ychydig, mynd i'n gwybod... Oes? Mae yma ond wefydd 85. Ac wrth gwrs, mewn ymgyrch yn ymddiwch. Roedd yn gweithio'r cerddau. Yw'r cerddau wasiol, i wedi'i gweithio i ddechrau. Felly, mae'n ffilm yn y gweithio'r gwylwydd yma, felly roedd yn gweithio'r gweithio. A'r cerddau wasiol, mae'n gweithio'r llyfr o'r ganddau. Mae'r gaelogau ddangos, ac mae'n gweithio'n gweithio'r gweithio. Mae'n gweithio i ddweithio'r gweithio, yma'n credu gwybod drefwyd â'r dyfod. Rydym ni'n bantei'n tro a ydych chi, oherwydd mae'n cael gwaith a lees yn y peth yn y rhan fawr yn 5 menyn. Rwy'n rhoi ddim yn creu'n rhan, yn rhan iawn, rwy'n rhan o'n trefwyd yn llunio'n gyffredig ac yn ni'n ceisio'n llunio'n tymethwyridd am y bobl. Ym hyffordd trefwyd. Dyna'n defnyddio'n cystio'r bellwyr? Dyna'n cystio'n cystio! Rwy'n credu'n cyfrifio o'r gêm ar y wneud o'r seidngade i ddweud i'r cyffredin yma, dwi ddweud i ddweud i'r hyffredinol. Mae tlockwyn ac rhai bywyd yn gondol rydych chi'n ddechrau a'u ddylchol. Roedd ychydig yr gorfod yr un o'r llyfr yn gyfrifio'r bwrdd yn ymryd. Rwy'n bod yn rhywbeth yng nghymru, adnoddodd i ddim yn gweld so. Ychydig i'r cyfroed yn rhywbeth i gyd i ddweud. Mae'n wedi ei ddweud i ddweud i ddweud i ddweud i ddweud i'r cyffredinol, Silve kit. Silve kit. Iwn ni fodda'r whole thing. We worn a new castle today. By rai rhaid i methu? By y dda fo! Bata 4ate? No dwi'n meddwl i chi. I know i wneud felly y gallwn y cysylltu. Mae'r moll artifod o hyfforddi. By ddweud nifer o fe fydd yn y cysylltu. Dwi'n meddwl mewn ei fydd yn rhoi jy forged, mae'n meddwl i chi gwn i'r bobl ond mae'r unrealistau i ni bobl. Byddwch, mae'n dweud. Mae'n dweud. Yn y ffilm, byddwch. Yn e, byddwch ar ymwneud, mae'n los 3-4-3 ar ôl i'r Llesi, Rhaidtion Chrisbys, ac mae'n byw'r brilliant. A'n mynd i gwybod 5-4-3, ie, Gordon Dey, deadau, ddim, hwpt Chrisbys. Mae'n ddweud. Mae'n ddweud. Mae'n ddweud. Mae'n ddweud. Mae'n ddweud. Mae'n ddweud. Mae'n ddweud. Mae'n ddweud. Mae'n ddweud. Mae'n ddweud. We didn't have any other trouble throughout that competition. If you look at results, the way we play, we won in Bratislavia, Breishgold, Shrithad and stuff like that. Going into the league, we had some magnificent performances that season. Even earlier, when you get to Sunderland and everyone holds that, remember Newcastle at home, we beat them four, they'll be blitzed them, absolutely blitzed them. There was all of that. Obviously we haven't broke about Amfield, United. When you look at, if you take games in isolation, that's what you just concentrate on in the next game. People keep going, oh, you don't really do that. Because nothing else is more important. Take that game, take it in isolation. It doesn't matter if we run six or seven games, it doesn't matter because it's now a one-on. That's how you keep going. You don't take it all one-six, we must win this.  Same as if you lost four and you go into that and you think you can't win.  Every game you've got to beat that one-off. One-off, one-off, one-off. You can feel great going into the game, but you also have to keep a perspective on it and say, right, okay, they're going to be coming here going, we've had to do this today because we're underdogs, so we can go and play and we can do this. We can relax. So we're okay, so you need to keep everything perspective. Each one of these is about to make a mini-cup player and we've got to win this and win this. Win this one, particularly the next. Don't win this, the next one's harder. You're only going to get in isolation. If you don't, you're so carried away with the stuff. That's why all the top teams, you know, you look at the top teams, you keep winning, that's all they do. You don't worry about anything else, apart from, let's focus on this. Doesn't matter anything else. Doesn't matter where we are in the league, where we are in the cup, whatever stage, focus on this. Just concentrate on this, but all your effort into that, and then we'll move on because from this, carry six and you'll be in to that. It doesn't matter because sometimes I look at that. I look at people that always change their teams. You know what I'm looking at cup runs and going, right, six games, you could be in the epic cup final, six games, you could be in that, whatever. Carabou was an animal. It's carabal, yeah, carabou is an animal. So I'm thinking, right, okay. So why are you worried about Saturday? Try and win the cup game and then try and win the next one. Why do you need to change the team? And then what I don't like is that people say, well, it's a squad game, you've got to give everyone a game. Well, if the squad was any good, you'd be the first team anyway. So are you trying to tell me that you're deliberately putting a weak in teaming, or are you telling me that there's only 15 or there's only 11 that you can play every week and they're the best ones? So the other 14 are substandard. So if they're substandard, and we're going to weakly decide by playing them, why have you signed them in the first place? So are you telling me that we have a squad of 25 that can all play in the Premier League and not to determine another team? And if that's a yes, great. So don't tell me that you're weak in your team. You might not be playing the same team, but you can't weak in it because you're putting these people in. If you then come out as a man and say, well, I've got to play these squads, it implies that they aren't as good as the ones he's playing on a regular basis. So that's how I look at the cup competition. Play your best team, always play your best team, and it's up to the others to get the team. And when you come knocking on my door, I turn out another game, that's because basically, mate, you've done nothing.  And if he's better than you, you stay, he stays in. I don't care who you are, it doesn't matter, because that's all that happens.  So when you have 25 or 55 in your squad, it doesn't matter. The best ones play every week because that's what they should be doing, shouldn't they? Well, theoretically, yeah. So why have a 25-man squad? In case you get injured. So what's the 23s for? No, I agree, I totally. Listen, I remember you saying, airing you talking on the radio once, years ago, this is, years ago, about when he decided to change from three subs to five or seven. And I remember you saying, and at the time I disagreed, now you were 100%, right? And you were like, well, it's just an excuse for players to sit on benches and earn a bit more money and keep people happy. And I was thinking, yeah, as a fan, yeah, bring your mind, you've got all this choice if you get an injury, but now all it's done is ruin football because it means that teams can stop pile. And players, I'm happy to sit on your bench for the under, I could play for him in this team. Well, you look at Richard Wright, we've had to Richard Wright. He's got more benches than most of the judges I know. And he went to 14 hours and he was just fair enough. I've heard that, if he was to go all year and then everywhere, he did well. But what I don't like, you know, when I look at a bench, I'm going like, if I'm manager and I look at a bench, I'm going like, we're going to play this way. If you don't go right, how am I going to change it? Have we got someone like Duncan, have we got something else?  Have we got someone to defend perhaps? Perhaps. The bench is all about alternatives, as well as people who can go and do a job to fit in. Fill many of them with the career that I've been after using at most positions. So you can have him on a bench and you can fill most of your positions. And then you've got to say, OK, if we keep playing these three strikers, I've got an alternative for that striker. And if we haven't, why haven't we? Because the idea is that you have something different on your bench. Yeah, of course. As well as something similar, but you have something different. We had arguably the best three bench players ever. The pair of them were incredible. If you look at what they did mentally, I don't think anybody can be as strong as them and the whole team. Because they came from, sometimes, not playing for a month. Going into a tie that was playing really, really well. It's just some of the biggest games that we ever played out of position. Have they just pulled out? I haven't done a decent job. I've done a good job. Nobody else has missed. Let's be honest, I don't think we've missed any player ever, apart from one, that Sheed. And yet, the first cup we won. This old player was left-wing and he puts the cross in, which we eventually showed. The only reason I say we're Sheed is because of the right cup. No-one had a left foot like that. No-one could take the quality that he took. But again, he's a one-legged player.  O lo sreun ar isch gwrdd ar edrych gen'ch mangym. Oh, that's his best mate, Sheed.  Well, I tell you what, he played football. What's the Liverpool game that Tommy can't have? Oh, yeah. He knew when to. It was just that. Well, later on in that, obviously, the 85 season was amazing. We get to the cup winners. You know, we had Bayern Munich. You know, for me, loads of people have said it. And Crankle said they'd be the best team in Europe. Well, let's be honest, I've never met anybody who wasn't there. So the crowd was below 400,000 people. Easily. I was there, I'm behind. The goal, where we scored, well, we're here in the score past you. If we're playing like that. And Big Man Bravery. The minute he stands up on a leggy. Let's not go there. You've just done that to get us going, didn't you? Now, just to the right of that, there's Union's Jack and I'm old in that Union's Jack. But that night, I mean, we went there. The big thing that people kind of bat away is the Nill Nill in the Olympic Stadium. Unbelievable performance. service to even behind. Over there. I'm going to beat it in. He didn't let you kick off the line. Clean sheet. And by Munich. Olympic Stadium. By Munich brilliant. I think that was just keeping you. No, I said to have that.  He went, yeah. OK, nice run. I didn't feel that. The quality was different. It was good. Any of the stadium, any of the city we'd have lost. Yeah. I think sometimes it's nice when people and the fans come as one. Yeah, yeah. I could see. I think the city became that team for the night. And I think we wouldn't have won anyone else. No chance. We'd have probably got a smash for another. Maybe, yeah. Now we would have. And I do think people say all the crowd make a difference. No, because you don't hear them. It's worse if it's two or three. Yeah, yeah. In general, you can hear all the noise. You can't hear what you're doing. So you don't hear the noise. I think that night it just made a massive difference. And the way we played, I think reflected the city. And I think that was important. Because we got through to a couple of years ago. Playing the way the city was. Playing the way the fans were. And a proper, true reflection on what the city was all about. And I think that's what made it special for me. You put that game and you take all the quality out of that game. And you take the city and the values and everything matches. And you get it very often. No. The other crowd have those when they turn games around.  Wasn't it? Even when Hannah scored. The noise that night was incredible. And when Hannah scored, it went silent. It went silent. And it was a lot of... It went back, didn't it? You got a block on it and it went... It broke back and it just... Yeah, you did say that. It's not knock on a critic's eye. Like I said... The one thing the crowd did have was the belief that we did win. Yeah, that's what I mean. We didn't go, oh that's it. Everyone just kind of went, come on. And then as they came out for the second half. And this game, if they hadn't gone off at our time, they'd literally turned around and started again. Well from that silence to that noise, I would have just scored early. Yeah, a couple of minutes. You've just said there, there's something really interesting that you've blocked the crowd, which is hard for us to imagine playing. But what was it? Were you aware of it that night? Yeah, I think it was someone's night. Because you're considering what you're doing. Yeah, yeah. So you don't tend to hear anything else. That's mad, isn't it? You do just hear noise again. You get caught up in... I suppose the easiest way to do it is, you know what, I don't play it, but when you do your Xbox and stuff like that, or you watch a film and everything's right there, and whatever's going on in the house you never hear. Yeah, yeah, cos you're just immersed. You'll do what you're supposed to do. There's a game going on with the game. And that's it. There's this going on round here, and I think it's like a boxer. It's a boxer here in the road. No, he's just looking at the fella. And he's quite glad at all, he wouldn't tell him why he said that. I think you also want to give him our credit because they all change the way we played. Again, set it down for you when I do this, do this, do this. You two smash them.  He came up with the right solution at the right time. And yet he's never given credit for that. And yet he came up with the right solution at the right time. And I think when you look at managers, you look at Marine, your bengar and all them people, and they're all, oh, this is brilliant, this is brilliant. I would do stuff like that. You know, because different time again. Once Sky invented football, they forgot about a lot of other things. That's truly what it is, I believe. I agree. Well, it was like the Gaggin Press and Colin Avi brought that to you. He made it. He made it. He made it. He brought that to you. It means Gaggin Press. Pressing basically. Gaggin means against. Colin brought that to you. He had everything doing that. We'd call it hunting in Pakistan. We'd just talk about Oxford United. That's Gaggin Press. That's good, yeah, that's what he did. Nothing to walking science in football. It's all been done before. Playing between the lines. What does that actually mean? That sounds like a dump, either. You play between the lines here because you can't play in that bit. You have to find your role because you can't trust you there all day. You can't be trusted. What does that mean? What does that mean?  Because it's waste of time. I think we've made it below the Gaggin. Just a kid, everybody, that's all neighbor to you. You know, the way Liverpool play, we play. Yeah, yeah. A bed of anything? You play, we play. It's a hybrid of what everything else is. And they just come up with these terms. For the life of me, I don't understand why I wouldn't play somebody that's pants. And they let the goalie roll the ball out of the box to theirs and they have 40 touches. If I was coming to have it, and I was a little over a team, all these good teamers could be hard working. Everyone goes that way. Well, you've just given me half a pitch to play. You've given me half a pitch. Well, if you've given me half a pitch to play, now I can knock it out. Chef United is a perfect example. I feel great here now I can knock this and that. Chef United had one play. They smashed him to the big fella. And they tried to get the bits off. Right, so, okay. So let's not let them roll the ball out. Let's just make sure they kick it all the time because we've got two monsters at the back who love head in the ball. Fantastic on the floor. But we're not asking them to do that. We're not asking them to be friends back in the ball. We're asking them to defend it. So let them kick it to him. You two monsters go and smash him. That would be days when they get the ball back all the time.  And I see Wales do it a lot against Ajay Mwysan and pants teams like that. Why would you give possession away when it's so hard to get? Why are you showing them that much respect? You're not as good as you, so stop it. You're playing at home. Make sure that every team that comes, especially Liverpool as well. Why would you let Liverpool roll the ball out of the back? And drop off? I don't hear it all. They can play through. If you have to kick it. It's all about then, it's the second ball. And if you've got enough bodies round there, you're going to get the second ball as well. So you disrupt their play. Let them play out in the back. Why would you do that to a top team? Why would you do it to a bad team? A bad team you can pressure and they make mistakes on the ball because they're not as good as you. So you get it back higher at the pitch. A really good team, why would you give them that and try and make them do something that they normally do do? Because they don't want to do that. They'll always want to try, so they'll take a chance. And then you can capitalise on that. I think it's just common sense and I look at them and think sometimes it's unbelievable, the league, unbelievable. The next season, with a good side, we've smoked it off camera before, with the linig here in and we were doing things. But let's be honest, if the Republic of Ireland had a decent pitch, we'd have probably won the double. He's not going to jump out. He doesn't have to say this because I know he won't because I've heard him before. I know. But as a fan, you can't answer this because we were amazing and you got injured. We won, we won. The reason I know he's going to say it yet, because I said it to him. I hadn't have happened. There's different. He said no. I couldn't have done anything to do that. I personally walked all of those games thinking, if only Lord, if only Lord. Honestly. We had back to back clean sheets at Amfield.  One of the Amfields had. The year before, he was straight up. Isn't on the pitch another 50. He's literally running away from you. Exactly. For us, for us, we wouldn't have lost that. We wouldn't have lost the coffat. Well, he got a motor. Smaller club, yeah. No, listen, he was good. He was decent but he wasn't you. It's like having a well-class centre forward and then having a good centre forward who's all right and does all right. But you've got to remember, you will never see it because you were just you. Ironically, the best performance I think I ever saw from you didn't win us anything. It didn't mean anything. Coventry City. No, no. 87-88. We won 1-0, shaved a penalty from Brian Kilclyne by the way. You hit the ball hard and anyone smashed it. He shaved it. And put his arms up. If you can find it on YouTube, find it. Put his arms up like that. And he just comes from nowhere and flicks it over there. We got battered and we won 1-0, because he scored second game of the season. I remember taking a piss out of Tony after the game. Because Tony only scrapped me. He scored a lot of goals. Because I'm sure he did the score against me. He scored that trick the week before. So we were top that day. We won 1-0, yellow kit. He was just remarkable. And we only won. We got battered. We only won because of Neff. The season before though, it might have been the season before that. And we had Middlesbury a few games. When they replayed. And Sheffield Wednesday, it might have been the year after. Replayed, replayed, replayed. I remember one of the away games, the drawn game, it wasn't the end of the one. Sheffield when he scored. We were getting beat 1-0. I think Colin West scored. And he's gone one way. And managed to get back the other way. It's not the one that gets you on. What about that day? He was ridiculous. He was ridiculous. You seemed surprised. I'm not surprised. I'm not surprised. Sometimes someone hits it and you go, and your hand comes and you know it. But the amount of times players went through with you. And I think he won't score. Never did. Now every time someone runs through, I think he's got it. That's about thinking. No, but also the ricochets, sometimes, and you'd be going into one corner, get the shot was on its way, you'd be on it that way there, and by the time you got it, you were already there by the end of it. That's what I mean.  You have to think. What does he want me to do? And if you get into that mindset, then you can out-think him. Because you do what people do. You watch what they like for the left one.  So you can actually trap them if you're clever enough. When they come to you know, I tried to lean on my, so they thought, I'll give it a go that way, so they went that way. You can start trapping people.  Because you're under pressure here, mate. And you can't see behind you. So you don't know what's behind you. So you know there's people coming at you. You don't want me to go down. I ain't going to stay here because I don't get as much money as you. So I'm always going to stand here like a div. And then eventually you're going to have to make a decision. But I'm relaxed enough now to go either way. Because there's no pressure on me, is there? No pressure's on you, mate. So you've got to now think about what you're going to do. And if you can't see me doing anything, you've got to make a decision. But you don't want to make a decision because you want me to make it for you. And I ain't going to do that. So I just can stand here like a div. And then it's up to which one fails. And that's what I think sometimes Jordan now, if Jordan turns his body sometimes, so instead of being this side, you've got that. So one, his head goes away. And two, I know he's trying to do his spread himself, but I'm thinking this is bigger than that. You'd also deflecting the target to minimise it. Think about what you're doing. But Jordan, he's got to stand up because he's got to make himself look as big as possible because he's not. He's not in power mass physically. Right, now if you're six foot three and you start going down, what are you saying to the floor? I'm really worried about putting it on the floor. So all that happens is, they see that and the other fellow wants to go on the floor.  Get better at around your feet. So instead of going down, get weak on that underneath your feet. So that just tells me that they don't do enough work on lower down stuff because you're now showing people that you're frightened.  Look at me, look at what really bothers me this.  Wherever you put your ball, beat me. Then I say so. As well, what always gets overlooked. You said before about how Colin introduced Gagin Press, and that's true.  Catch anybody. Literally catch anybody alive, this fellow anyway. However, E would come out to the edge of his area. Now centre half stand where he used to stand now. So we had a goalie, who by the way wouldn't go on goal until a Friday. I ain't saying it. Could play football with the ball at his feet. All of these things when we look back now, you're like, oh yeah, everyone does it. Well guess what, they really weren't doing it at the time. And that's the actual secret about why we made this film because we believe those things are not just precious to us, they're actually special in football. That's just said it there. If the back pass real was in, he wouldn't have had the problem anyway. No, but he wouldn't have had an issue anyway because he could play with his feet. I played out against Bruce, you could look back. I played in midfield, into my grandmother. So it's good to know that. I think it's what you see. I remember training and you wouldn't have gone and go. This man. This man, I've got to say this out loud. I've been missing me now. I didn't take the penalty. Because he looked at the situation and said, this is my club, my house, and this is not happening today. In the end, he took the ball off him, but he actually, we talked about Duncan Ferris before, about people standing up, about characters.  He stood up and said, give me the ball. It was out of two choices. I was going to miss. Now, but that's incredible to write that about. I want to do it. That's why you're an icon. You should do it. That's all I look at. I miss. Okay, I miss. But the ball to take it, you know what I'm talking about. Don't forget, you're always going to see it differently to us, because you're in it in the moment. You can control. I look at it differently than you look at it. I take it, I take it. When I found out about that, it nearly made me cry. It doesn't surprise me. You just got to go on down here. What was the best little after that story? I've kept you for hours, shall I apologise? What league was the most tougher to winning your eyes? The 85 one or the 87 one? The 87 one only, because I've been injured for so long. By the time we won it, I couldn't wait for it to finish. Because you're not. Because if you look at Go Mises and you know, I basically, I didn't break my leg, but I just kept my ankle. That was about nine months. And I came back and I was great for the first 10 games. It felt fantastic because I didn't know anything about it. I don't worry about, you know, what it's going to hold up on. Get back to them 10 games, because if you come back in the October, if you go over Christmas and then come to the end of January, I'm like, this is hard work. I'm feeling it. Physically fantastic. Mentally. I found the games really hard. And I had to make sure that I tried to rest my head in the week, because when you're out for a long time, there's always a damp when you come back. And if John Finkel's here tonight. He's supposed to be coming.   Doing that, I want to do this. I don't want to do this. I didn't really fight. Money didn't know. I would have told him. And at the time, we had a real barri out on the pitch, and he said, well, I want to did it. I pulled my Achilles. So he was right, but we nearly had a fight every day. So, and then when you come back after all of that, you're basically going like the first, I was lucky because the first tackle, I think you play Mockford, and I had a block tackle outside the box for somebody. And I thought, I'll be days. That's all right there. Because mine was basically a paratroop. And then you get through that, and you get past Christmas, and even though we're winning, and after he feels great there, I was going, my body's relaxed, my brain's relaxed. I'm no longer here. I'm now here because I fought for nine months to get back to where I wanted to be. I worked really hard and all of a sudden, I'm going deflated a bit here. Because I've done my, I've set out to do a comeback. What I didn't think it was good, and then you get these games and you try to get back to this level, and I'm probably there. And then we're in the league, and it's honestly coming back. They were all buzzing about with the bus, and I was thinking, God for that. I wonder if I can go and see them and say I ain't going to play any more. Really? And I thought, no, I can't do that. I want to finish the season. But the last couple of games, to be fair, I felt like a boxer, just punched them. Then when they look at people and they come back, and you look at Seamus, and he's been out for a long time, and he comes back and he's good, and then all of a sudden he has a dip. There's your dip, because mentally it's hard work. And people don't realise that to get back to where you wanted to be takes an awful lot of effort and a lot of willpower and a lot of mental strength, and all of a sudden you get to a point where you go back and you get held. You get held. I wonder why that is, because your body said to you, oh you need the rest man. You need the rest. I've kept you nice and tight and you're all there to accomplish what you need to accomplish. But now you're here. And your body goes, and all of a sudden you go, I'm so tired. I'm really, really tired. I'm winking at the season finish. If I'd have had a couple of weeks' rest somewhere, it would have been alright. It would have refreshed you again. You know what you look at, but you wanted to play because you were in the league. By the way though, that team, also the injury, Brian Abong said, did Holy Trinity team with the only three man teams who won the title? Well that's not true. Kevin Sheedy, Trevor Stephen won the title that year because everybody else got injured that extended 10 games plus injuries. The gap at it always slides by.  I played before I came back. Do you know how many games I had to play before I come back in the first team? One. I'm sure I played an 18 game and another one. And then you threw me straight back in. And that was it. Sharp he was out, it was either one game or a couple of games. That's mad. That was really good. We had to get it back. We had a pull power didn't we? And he was brilliant wasn't he? Because he came in his cover but he started and was brilliant. It was a marvellous performance. I think for me that mentally that was hard to read. And I was glad we won it. But it didn't feel the same as the first one. You know what? You know what? After we played one of the football games one of the similar cup games we lost. The epic cup final we lost 3-2. We lost to Forrest as well. Forrest was 4-3. I think it was a 3-2 game. On the Sunday I was due to go to Wales. I was in bed with George. So you can't go. I stayed in bed and I was lying there. Because I was drained after that. Absolutely drained.  No. I think on the Monday I got up and thought I might as well go. So went. I went and I joked down and I played. That's what you have to do. Every time we turn up at 3 o'clock on the track we expect them to be fully fit robots. Play, play. I remember going down with Pat and rushing a car to Wales. Pat was doing his I Wanna We business and we were just taking the piss out of him. So we never did it. Then we didn't do it. Then we didn't do it and then we were going 90 mile an hour and they weren't wanting to pull the scene. I rushed his hands in 4-3. So we got there and everyone had a burger. I had a beard. I was ill. The next day I had food poisoning up to Wednesday morning I was in bed until Wednesday morning and they got up and I had chicken chips. I went back to bed and I played at night. Because they wanted me to play. You played away at Millmore and my Mrs had chicken pox. She was before when they got back to us. So I said okay whatever. So I couldn't go in the day so I drove downward. I think Joe Murray had on that. So I never went to Millmore. I stopped outside Millmore's ground. Up the road there's a cafe and we are making sarnies. They went and played the game. So different era. Different world. I'm saying if you can do that then I like when I used to train my goalies I like goalies you come out of the pub and tend to free and can play.  So they can go. I don't like the people who aren't flexible. They have to do things because you've got to be flexible for your footballer. I'm sick of people who are like I see an iPad. Give me a break. I've always seen this on my iPad. Someone sat there as a penalty ticket. So I'm sat there as a goalie and my goalie comes with it. He's done this, this, this and this and the last six penalties. And I'm thinking wow. I bet he doesn't know I know. And he's over the other side going well he knows I know. So what am I going to do? I'm thinking why don't why don't you need an iPad? He's put the last six in the top corner great. But he knows that I know that he's put the last six in the top corner. So when is the what I liked about it Gaffer sometimes say well you know he's put the last two penalties to the left and so what? When I get there and I make my decision because I don't listen to anybody. Yeah.  That's not what I thought. You saved a few by the way. Well yeah. That means you saved a few. 40-50% of my penalties I saved I think. You saved a few in fairness to you. You've got to have some responsibility yourself you know people keep telling me oh you can't do this you can't do that as a man you can't let these go. Who's responsibility is to play football for them at the football club? Is it a man who's your responsibility to keep you ready? To play? It's there to prepare you put your team I put it up to you. You put it up that's your responsibility. I think if you're ready but you have the authority to keep your confidence you must be fit and you must be ready to play every game.  Come on! When I sat in my house on a Friday I was not one for showing things down your throat. He believed in you as a man and he believed in you as a player. People say to go, you know, to go and he's going and watch all the goals going in and all the ones that are there they go and analyse him. Okay. So now I've made the mistake of setting this up for you. Felly wedi bod yn dweud y dŵr negatif. Felly nid, mae'n dweud y dŵr yn digon. Mae'n dŵr yn dŵr, ond rhai ddim yw'r dŵr, ond yw dda'n wedi'i ffordd, ond rhai dyfodd, ond rhai'r dŵr yn dŵr. Felly nid o'n rhaid o'r dŵr. Ond rhaid o'n dŵr, ond rhaid o dŵr, ond rhaid o dŵr, ond rhaid o dŵr. Ond rhaid o'n dŵr i'n dod hynny. Rwy'n ein bod yn ysgrifent o'n ni. Rwy'n meddwl de'ch cymuned yn mynd ni bydd yn llawer o'r lle'r lle arallol. Efallai. Rwy'n meddwl eu cymdeithasol, nid yn angen i weld mae'r lle'r cyfrannu. Rydyn ni'n ziwch am yr ystod. Rydyn ni'n mynd i'ch weld y sefyllfa dros satydu a gweld i'r sefyllfa ar y gwleid o'r dydw i'n hawddfa'r bod hynny. A'r ddefnyddio achos pob oeddi. Rydyn ni'n nhw y gallwch yn bobl y ddefnyddio. I want to be with you, don't you with me because I don't need it. You've been negative, take the negative away. Coming on a Monday, I knew what their favourite door was, we always do the favourite door. Get them back into it where they're there. I want them positive. I don't want them negative.  We talk about it and they probably come and say well your Saturday. What happened to you? You want to do this? yw'r ysgol yw'r ddadon. Rhaid hynny'n gweithio'r science. Mi'n gweithio'r cyfeiriadau yw'r negatif. A'n eu cyflwyno yw'r cyflwyno'r cyflwyno. A dyna am ddod o'r ardyn nhw, ymdweud o'r cyflwyno'r cyflwyno'r arif, oedd hynny'n gweithio'r cyflwyno'r cyflwyno. Felly yr yw'r cyflwyno? Beth yna'r cyflwyno'r cyflwyno'r cyflwyno? Rydych yn gyflwyno'r cyflwyno'r cyflwyno. 1975 a ydych chi'n eu amser i ymddangos i ddweud am y bwrdd cyhoeddi, i dwi'n meddwl i ddweud am y simbol, chyngwch y byddai chi i ddweud i ddweud i ddweud, chi i ddweud i ddweud i ddweud i ddweud i ddweud i ddweud, achos y ffordd, simply roeddwn ni wedi ddweud iawn. Gwiydd y ffordd, ac e'ch gweithio ddweud o'r aipod ar y ysgol yn y gallu rhywun. Ac mae'r bod yn y gallu y mod, mae'n dweud i amhawn y rai treuid, Facebook. I need to tell you where to go and stand but you have not seen any of it. So I will spend the next five minutes going through every position on the page and showing the bookload to stuff so you can go on and mark the right player. Despite having worked on it from Monday to Friday, anyway. Why did you do the work? So you should be saying, listen you nuggets, it's a free kick, look at it.  It's worth it because you should be as interested if you're not playing as you are interested. If you aren't playing and if you don't, see you later.因为 you are no use to me because that means you're only thinking about yourself and not the team. So do not show me loads of paperwork before I wanna reach because that might hear the interest because I already know what you've got to spend hours and hours and the manager will say that the manager will take me aside and he spent five minutes paperworking the manager will tell me what to do because surely I'm watching the game and I'm thinking like if I go on I need to do this this and this. Oh now he's going to tell me all that. It's all right. I'll just sit here and I'll think right I'm going to get in my car tonight. d-d-d-d-d-d-d-der am y gofyrdd. Wysbeth o'i ddim yn ei jabon i gyrddiaeth. Ondau, dwi am ffordd, eraill ymu. A yna erioed. Be ni'n gweithio i'r ddechrau. Dw i gweithio i ddechrau. Ydw i'n mynd i'r wilach i gそれwch. Felly e'n ddylfonio'r peidiol am gweithio ym mhreithio. Felly rydyn ni i'n ddweud. Dwi gweithio'r ddwy'n tynnu. Felly mae'n ei gweithio i'r ddechrau, Mae'n bwysig i'r rhaid i'r comwys i'r cofyniad i chi gael eu cyfnod o'r ystyried i'r ymwneud. Mae'n gweithio eich ymwneud yn ffraeg gyda'r cerddau a'i yn gweithio eu bod yn gweithio mewn. Mae'n dweud i'r cyfnod o'r eich cyfnod, mae'n bobl yn dweud i'r cyfnod, fel ei gyfnod i'r cyfnod i'r cyfnod i'r cyfnod i'r cyfnod. Felly fe'n gweithio eich cyfnod i'r cyfnod i'r cyfnod i'r cyfnod i'r cyfnod, maen nhw rydyn ni chi. Dylun i ddenidog o'r holl. Nid ydych chi'n rhai'trwydd yn yr unig? Nid dylun i ddenidog o'r holl ffaith ym mhelyd? Rydyn ni chi ddweud gwasan ar gyd. Mae rhaid i fydda i digwydd 30 menny. Nid oedd yn rhaid i sicrhau gael. Efallai rhaid i gael. Pwysig ymddangos a daith. Hele fyddwch chi a gwybod. Rydyn ni wedi ei bod yn ymarfer. Bethaminga'r hyffordd yma. Gwydion â'r holl. Mae'r wneud yn ei gwrs eich bod yn ymryd i'r rhan oherwydd! Mwysgwch yn ymryd i gael. Doeth gwrs eich bod yn ei gael, mae ydy'r hwn yn gweithio yn fathodol. Mwysgwch yn ymryd i'r dweud. Mae'r rhoi'n i'n eu digon, mae'r rhoi'n i'n rhoi'n i'r rhoi. Mae'r rhoi'n i'r rhoi'n i'r rhoi. Mae'r rhoi i ddim yn ymryd i'r rhoi, mae'r rhoi'n i'n rhoi'n i'r rhoi. Mae'r rhoi eich bod yn ni. caused you can't remember, I never see joxtain making notes. Yn ni'n no inscription on them, how many beers he had made? Yeah, what time? I have time to sign. Why are these people in Cape roll? What did Alex Ferguson make notes? Oh, I don't have the paperwork... All the best mannerism? What did he make notes on? I am sure, Marino doesn't make notes on people like that. I am sure it was just maybe all s**t. Let me ask you this before we finish. A'r mynd achod sta'u i ffordd yn oed y ten, awdstodd. Rhaid, mae'n rhaid yn dyn nhw, mae'n ffordd, fyrdi, fyrdi cwychlu, ffyrst y ffordd. A'i astabbwyll sydd yn oed y post ar leisio y fwych ym mwy, mae'n rhaid i ddod yn arnydd y game. Nau'n awd yn y dyfrom ond, rhaid? Mae'n ddifrwm ond, rhaid? Mae'n ddifrwm ond, rhaid? Mae'n ddifrwm ond, rhaid? Mae'n ddifrwm ond, rhaid? Mae'n ddifrwm ond, rhaid? Mae'n ddifrwm ond, rhaid? Mae eiffan yn ffordd yn ddifrwm ond. Rhaid? Mae nifer o'n ddifrwm un wedi direm Cyngor hefyd wedi gweld i chi nhw? Byddai chi weithio. So chi Be'n gweithio'r cyfrannu i ni. Ac rydych chi'n ceisio chi oheri ar gwrs y fwy o���. A syniad, hefyd mae'n nhw wedi ei ar scoop, mae'n galw i mwynhau a gweld iawn. Fe ddim yn rhanio! Mae'n meddwl i'r cymdeithas, byddai trys iawn i'r gyflymser o chi flynebu. na'i'r ystyried, i wych yn diriol. Na'i'r gwneud i'r gwneud i ni, waith cyntaf, ni'n wneud yn y ddech chi. Mae ei rynnod, na'i ddim yn ffeinio. Nid yw ei ddwy'r rhanol? Mae'n gweinio ar y rhanol! Rhaid i gael, oed fynd i'w gobeithio i'w gwneud. Yn rhai gwneud… Yna rhaid i gael, i gael, i gael, i gael, i gael. Rhaid i'w gobeithio i'w gweinio i'w gobeithio i'w gweinio. Byddwn i gynnwg ar gyfer hwn fel dyw'r oed. Rai oeddwn ni'n angen am eu bod chi'n dweud o beth o ddweud o beth o beth am eich passengers. O'r ymdéu gyda'r yr ymddech chi'n resiwn a'r dweud o beth yn Cymru. A'r bleid o'u ddweud o beth o beth o beth o beth o beth. A'r rhaid i'r ddweud o beth o beth o beth o beth o beth o beth o beth. Ieg ddwy i ddech chi'n ddiweddol yn ôl hynny gwneud o beth drwng. Maewn i ddim yn rhoi rhyddoedd o'i rhoi. Rwyf ni wedi bod yn rhoi chi. Rwyf ni'n rhoi, rwyf ni'n rhoi i'r gyfanol, rwyf ni'n rhoi, nid yn rhoi'r gyfeanol. Rwyf ni wedi rhain' i'r brif hon. Rwyf ni wedi rhoi, mae'n drfod ac yn gwneud. Rwyf ni'n rhoi i'r bobl. Rwyf ni wedi rhoi, rwyf ni wedi rhoi. Rwyf ni wedi'i rhoi, rhyfno nad yr anagwyle. Mae haf ddyfodol yn hysgrifio y cyfrifnig ddiwedd yn gael yn argynniadau, ond byddw'n ei gennym i gael ei gael, i wneud am hynny'n gallu gydmau. Diolch bod rhai oEE, Nad yw rwy'n cael ei ddiniwch yn ei gael yn ôl hynny. Roi fynd rhywbeth yw cael ei ddiniwch am pwysig yw trefaniaid. Bond. I'm not sure whether he at that stage was I think he was struggling himself. So I think what he was trying to do was to be cruel to be kind. Maybe it was me being thick going. Obviously you know what, he may as well go. I thought we're not having that because he got a bit of contact. Rwy'n meddwl i'w ddysgu'r stoc, sydd wedi'i sfrifau i'r ffordd bod yn ymddiadol yn ffordd, dwi'n meddwl i'r stoc, bwrs, bod yn ymddiadol yn ffordd bod yn ei ffordd. Mae'r rhaid i'n mynd i chi'n ffordd, mae'r rhaid i'n ffordd. Ac mae'r ffordd yn ffordd, mae'n meddwl i'n ffordd. Mae'n meddwl i'ch ymddir yn ffordd fel y ballgau. Mae'n meddwl i'ch ymddir, mae'n meddwl i'ch cymaint, sydd ffwrdd fel gyntaf. Ac yw Chychbates a Allanderben. A Allanderben a Ixas Wolsh Anton Agroes. They both had the job and they both messed it up. When I got there, my other thing must have sort of do the reserves at Stokevall. So I was there all alone anyway to the end of season. And from day one, Chychbates and Allanderben just chypt away at Cwysyllmarra all the time. Cwysyllmarra was training, was good and the other fellow comandant was really good. Mae'n gweithio y cwesti, ac rwyf wedi bod yn ni'n gweithio'n tyfu ar gyfer y tîm amser i ddyddag. A chyflodd ar hynny, ond rydych chi'n ddysgu'n, ond rwy'n gweithio'n ddysgu'n ddysgu'n ddyddog. Rwyf wedi bod yn ôl ychydig yn gwneud o aeth, ac nid oedd yn gweithio'n ddysgu'n ddysgu'n ddysgu'n ddysgu'n ddysgu'n ddysgu'n ddysgu'n ddysgu'n ddysgu'n ddysgu'n ddysgu. ac efallai mae'n gweithio 40 oed yn dweud, felly allan o'r prif sy'n seisio arall felly eu cyflwyno. Mae'n medlaid... Felly mae'n medlaid yn medlaid, mae'n medlaid yn medlaid. Mae'n medlaid yn 40 oed yn dweud, mae'n medlaid. Mae efallai eich seisio arherwydd, ac mae'n medlaid i'n medlaid i'n medlaid, iddo i'n medlaid i'r ffrindio'r ffrindio. Yw'r bwysig cyllideb i'w gron, ti o'n gwirio ffodaeth a beth sy'n gwirio i'w cherddai i'w bwysig i'w cael hwn. So, ffoc, dwi'n gynnwys. A i chi ddim yn ffordd, ac rwy'n ddych chi'n gweithio amlu. Wrth gwrs, dyna dwi'n gweithio y bwysig iddyn nhw. Ac oedau amlu a i chi gyda nhw, ac wedi gwirio i hefyd, mewn gwych i'w fath gwmfac, a dwi'n gallu rheiniadau i chi oedd. Dyna yn derbyn ddim yn hynny. On ddim ychydig o'r cael adeiladol. Yn olygu'r ddwy'n ddechrau, mae dyna'r olygu ar gyfer eu cyfriddol. Ok. Dyna mae'r ddechrau, mae'n wych yn ei gael i fod. Ym laen… Maen nhw'n mynd i'n ddechrau. Fe'n anud, ym mwyn o'r adeleis āni, mae'n angen i ddwy peth oedd, ac mae'n angen i ddwy peth oedd ac mae'n angen i ddwy peth oed. Mae'n arser chi'n gwybod i ddwy peth oedd yn ydw i, i unig i chyfnodd yma ac yn gwybod, dyma'r gyllid yn ei deffordd i chi'w rhan oedd yn gyflinio. Nodd yn ôl i chi fel amddangos, yw gyddo chi chi'n sharel. I'n gyddo. Ar y cael gwirio'n gwneud i chi yr unig, ac yn gyddo chi gynnig felly i chi yn gael ddechrau. A mae gennym law ysbryd. Mae'n affort gwiseddol yn y gilydd yma ac mae y gyddo chi, bod chi wedi cychwyn hyn wedi eu cyffort. Ond wedyn chi'n gallu cyfryd Cymrae'r Cymraeon ac was. There was rumours that Paul Stewart was going to go again, he went in for the job because the players wanted Paul to do it and they wanted me to go help him. I think they saw it as a threat. But they were horrendous to work. So when it finished like that I thought, I don't believe this is rubbish. Ma ganddiad am y teimlo i chi wedi'i ei wneud i ffordd i gyddo. Felly, anywch ymateb hwnnw nai, i chi i ei bod yn cyfrifondi i chi oherwydd am rhan o'r ddechrau? A at y pannau gŵr hynno fe yw'r ddifol, felly i chi'r ddellol, rwyf nhw'n gosir hefyd ar gyfer o'r ddechrau. A gydw i'r ddaf yn hynod o'r地odraeth ei eu gwirio. Ty算? Ydyn ni wedi gweld y dda'r ddodi? On e'n byw'r ddodi, Mae'r clwmb dros y bydd erbyn hefyd a rydyn ni'r llwb y diolch o y clwmb. Er bydd hi fedrwch yn ymddangos i ungu'r llwg. Rwy'n meddwl am ardal o'r clwmb a, ac a trafion o'r gweld, dwi'n meddwl ganemyr credu. Rwy'n meddwl, bod hwn ar bobl yna'r ystodfa'u rydyn i'r llwg. A rywbeth i'w credu... If you look at it, I got dropped by him doing that. I joded him more or less the same thing.  I said, why not? He said, well you understand when you get older. I thought I'm pretty 38 so I understand that. I don't know where to see him at.  You wouldn't let him go to Chelsea because he came in with an offer. Yn y gwrth gwrth gwrdd yma, dwi wedi gweld gwyddo i gael o'r magnetimiaeth bowl a'r sefydliadau fo. Mythi i'n ddysgu eich gyrdd. Felly faciwn i wych yn ei bair, ac dweud i'r ddechrau at yw i'r gwrth i'r ddau, Rwy'n ei ddweud i'r ddau. Rwy'n ei ddweud i'r ddau. Mae'r rai ei mynd i'r lle rywun wedi ddechrau'r cyfros, Cael hynny wedi cael eu hyn. Felly galli rhoi, yw'r ysgol yn beth o'r llawer y maen. Felly yw'r ysgol yn ardal. Y rhai ran hynny, rwy'n credu ddim yn olygu'r ysgol. Rwy'n credu'n credu doedd yn yr oedol i pa mwynol cyfnodd. Rwy'n credu'n credu'n credu'n credu'n credu... Mae reply i gyda'r tun yn dag, yn cael ei wneud eishingod. Mae'r newydd am eich sicr fe rawwch i ni. Ac efallai gwylio eu ddo الآ wedi gwynau enwed d düşünion. Rydda i ddim pa yma dda. Dw i'n gweithioMarri sorry gwyd. Mae'r prif yn gwneud iawn i'r ymddangos, phwyl, o beth o'n coirio, os ydych yn gorffodd. G經ffy yw'r ddechrau. Felly, mae'n eu peirio'r ddydd yn adeilad. Mae'n ddim yn gwneud i'r ddidd. Mae'n ddidd. Fe gen i ddechrau'r ddidd, byddwn i'n gondol. Mae'n ddidd yn gwneud i'n ddidd a'i tynnu. Rydw i ddim oed eich bod oedd y brif, ond ond o'n eu llunau'r ddidd, neu oed o'r ddidd. I've got a lot of time for John Boyle. That's why I think John could be back at the club. Looking at the next manager, because I think he's gone to wicked. I'm like, come on. Why am I using him? I really wanted a special about Mike Walker, but I've not gone out. We haven't got the time. We can talk about football managers and we can talk about Mike Walker. I just thought he would have been gull but we haven't got the time. He's also just given you three and a half hours. So arolaeth gweithio, ac mae'n lle'r lle i gael gyda ei bod yn cael ei bach effaith fel hynny. gyda'n bwynt ar hyd yn rhan... No, no, a hynny, ac mae'r lle i gael... Rwy'n gwneud i'n meddwl, mae'r legendary yn ysgrifennid ar ddaeth wrth nos yn mynd. Cod eich holl ddim? Mae'r lle i ddim, mae'r lle i bydd yn ddud i'r holl dduliadau yn gwneud yr oden yn cynnig yn ymmerdd. Llynydd i'n meddwl ymddydd ar y cinny. Rwy'n meddwl pob i'n meddwl. Cwm yn fawr i'r ffilm. Peis iawn.


European Union warns Russian victory in conflict will have serious consequences for U.S. and Europe. A Ukrainian loss to Russia would hurt Washington's credibility as a security provider. The European Union's high representative for foreign affairs and security policy, Josep Borrell, warned during a trip to America, Kiev can't wait for the presidential election in the U.S. to get more aid, he added. Borrell spoke to the press in Washington after meeting senior U.S. officials, including Secretary of State Antony Blinken. He said his message was that Ukraine badly needed the additional assistance which was currently blocked in the U.S. House. The next months will be decisive. Many analysts expect a major Russian offensive this summer and Ukraine cannot wait until the result of the next U.S. elections. Brussels' top diplomat said, a Russian victory in the conflict will have enormous repercussions for America and for the system of alliances built around the U.S. and Europe, he added. Should that happen, no country could be sure anymore that Washington would come to help any ally under attack. Since Ukraine is not a NATO member, the U.S. is not bound by any obligation to defend it. U.S. President Joe Biden has pledged to help it fight Russia for as long as it takes to prevail. Last year, Ukrainian forces attempted to launch a major counter-offensive using Western-donated heavy weaponry but failed to score any significant territorial gains. Amid Kiev's battlefield failures, the issue of continued aid has become embroiled in U.S. parties and politics. The Republican-controlled House has blocked Biden's request for an additional $60 billion in assistance with Speaker Mike Johnson, arguing that the White House was unable to present a convincing strategy for achieving victory in Ukraine. Borel pledged the European Union's continued military support for Kiev but said the U.S. needed to pull its weight, too. Moscow perceives the Ukraine conflict as a U.S.-led proxy war against Russia and has stated that it is risking far more than the West. U.S. tries to persuade Iran to use its influence over Houthis. The administration of U.S. President Joe Biden reportedly held behind the scenes negotiations with Iran to solicit Tehran's help in pressuring Yemen's Houthi rebels to halt their attacks on commercial cargo ships in the Red Sea. The talks were held in January in Oman. The Financial Times reported citing unidentified U.S. and Iranian officials. Omani officials acted as intermediaries shuttling between the American and Iranian negotiators so they could communicate without making direct contact with each other. The Houthi attacks have continued unabated, suggesting that the secret negotiations failed to achieve the desired results. The Financial Times did not specify whether Iran rejected the U.S. request or tried unsuccessfully to persuade the rebels to cease their rocket and drone attacks. Iranian leaders have claimed that although Tehran supports the militant group politically, the Houthis act independently. Iran has reportedly sought to avoid escalation of tensions with Washington, discouraging its affiliated militias from further attacks on American military bases in Iraq and Syria after three U.S. troops were killed in a drone strike near the Jordanian-Syrian border in late January. An Iranian official told the publication that when a key general visited Baghdad last month, he advised Iraqi militias to manage their behavior in a way that will not allow America to engage Iran. U.S. negotiators led by White House Middle East advisor Brett McGurk and envoy Abram Paley also expressed concerns about Iran's expanding nuclear program according to the report. Iran was represented by its Deputy Foreign Minister Ali Bagheri Khani, who is Tehran's lead nuclear negotiator. The Biden administration sees indirect communication channels as a method for raising the full range of threats emanating from Iran. The Financial Times said the White House negotiators conveyed to the Iranians what they need to do in order to prevent a wider conflict as they claim they want. A second round of talks reportedly scheduled for last month was delayed because McGurk was focused on trying to help broker a ceasefire in the Israel Hamas War.


Looks like you guys had a good time last night.  That's always good to know So five years ago. I was on the floor of my parents house. I Was living in an apartment that I not only couldn't afford I had no idea why I was even there and you know, it had all started a year prior where I had a dream job I was a national journalist. I was married. I was in my early 20s. I had money I was independent. I had the start of a dream life. I had what I thought was my dream life I had gotten my master's. I was working in politics I had just been drafted as the talent for an on-air brand new television concept I thought my entire life was starting to finally make sense But after the start of that dream life a year later My marriage my then marriage was done. It was over. My job was gone all in the same month My independence everything that I thought was starting out so well was gone. I Had my dream job and my future dream job fall apart all in the same Month I had literally packed up my entire life in California and moved to Virginia Beach To start what I thought was gonna be my dream life. I had everything in these two suitcases And I was so poor that I couldn't even afford any other furniture in my house So my two suitcases turned into my dresser. And so I thought to myself as I was falling apart What had happened? Why is my job gone? Why is everything that meant so much to me gone? I did everything I was trained to do. I listened to the system. I took the test. I went to school I did everything everyone told me to do so I did Well, I did everything that I just knew to do. I started applying for jobs I was looking for opportunities and I thought that maybe I could have some sense of mission and purpose if I just Did what the system had always told me to do start applying for jobs The job that I had been training for that I had checked all the boxes for Didn't exist. It was after all the internships and all the conferences I went to and all the hands that I shaked and all of the Decisions that I had made all the sacrifices I had made to get this job now this job no longer wanted me Back and so I had to figure out what in the heck I was gonna do with my life again at 24 so What's insane is when your life? Doesn't have purpose and you wrap your entire life in a job You start to think about is there anything more? What else can I do? Because said I had followed the rules. I had gone to college I had done everything my parents told me to do that the guidance counselors told me to do and None of it was working and because I didn't have my dream job anymore. I didn't feel significant. I Had made the biggest mistake of my life without ever knowing it I had interested my purpose my direction even my own value and the hands of my boss and the hands of my parents and the hands of a system who was supposed to tell me what I was supposed to do With my life and the process and when it was all Supposed to happen Because no one ever told me that my value is directly tied to my purpose that I had the power to write my own paycheck To create my own system of values once I understood who I was and what I could offer to the world around me So truly the biggest mistake we were making at the time and in our early 20s was waiting for permission Waiting for permission from our parents from our professors from a system From media to give us the to give us the permission to go out and do what we were meant to do and Here we were broke starting over Not knowing what to do next Now my mentor in the midst of that brokenness my mentor ran a hundred million dollars speaking in live events company And I was talking to her and she's like Brian you just need to pursue your purpose I was like that was that was the worst advice because I'm here on the floor. I don't know what that means It sounds very fluffy sounds emotional. I'm not sure what to do with that But what's interesting is I begun the process to discover my purpose and what it meant to live it out I was then able to help others find their purpose and translate that into companies books and movements around the world So let me tell you what my purpose is I Discovered that my purpose was to help others discover and utilize their purpose to increase their income their influence their impact That has allowed me to live life on my terms and live the life that we love so much And it allowed me to determine my own value the marketplace five years ago told us told me that my life was only worth $46,000 a year. I closed a $46,000 deal yesterday Equivalent to my annual salary. Is it all about money? No money is the way we measure our impact in the economy It's the way that we keep score and measure progress How many of you have a hard decision that you have to make or raise your hand if you've made a hard decision in the last year or so Raise your hand. Who's in the midst of a tough decision?  They're sometimes just crippling We call them decision fatigue We've seen as Millennials who study our generation and what motivates us that our generation is Stalled for growth because oftentimes we have so many decisions to make we don't make any decision Which by the way, no decision is still a Decision we don't know what to do and the reason that we don't know what to do the reason that decisions are so difficult Is because you don't know what your purpose is When you know what purpose is and when you understand it that every small decision every big decision everything that comes along you can either say Yes, that fits into it or no It doesn't becomes a filter by which you decide how you're going to engage and what you're going to do with it What do we mean by purpose?  I have no idea even what that means What is purpose for us? We define purpose as what you have inside you to serve others I'm gonna say that again purpose is what you have inside you to serve others now up until this point You've never really known what purpose meant behind some you know beyond some fluffy emotional experience And it's not your fault that you don't know what purpose really means in the marketplace Because society talks about destiny they talk about your life matters or maybe five years ago You sat in front of a sunset and you got goosebumps and you felt significant, but you didn't know what to do with it Purpose has always been described so Really meaningless But purpose is less about feeling and emotions. It's more about doing The higher education system certainly fail this how many would you agree? How many how many agreed that the higher education system failed filled many of us Some of you are still in the middle of it. You don't realize how much it sucks I you know, I probably wouldn't nothing I probably wouldn't have gone the higher education system has failed us for sure It really taught us to ask permission to get the syllabus from the professor It was the it was the document with the the 12-point font Times New Roman one-inch margins turning in like this Don't ask any questions. Just do what we tell you we weren't taught to solve problems. We were taught to ask permission Most of our life We've been trained to check the boxes to go to a good school and then to go to a good college and then get a good job We've had this whole process laid out for us that we were supposed to do We were one of the first generations that it wasn't if you're going to college it's what college are you going to go to and whether you went to college that determines your value which for those Of us who graduated were on the other side of that, you know a few hundred thousand dollars in debt Realized that that value exchange wasn't exactly worth it We were taught how to study not how to solve not how to build not how to create not how to Experience life not how to experiment We were told to trust them the system our professors and to question everything else when in reality We should have been trusting our principles and questioning everything else Now it didn't have to be this way the system didn't have to be structured that way And I think that's why we see so many of the problems that we have in our society today But when you stop believing that a system defines your worth and start realizing that your purpose defines your worth That's when purpose is no longer a feeling an emotion or a moment. That's when purpose becomes life on your terms Now we're about to show you this process that we have developed having worked with Thousands of individuals around the world to help them find and better yet apply Their purpose and take that purpose and turn it into a career turn it into a job turn it into a nonprofit Turn it into a movement turn it into a family What we're about to show you is going to help you not only discover the importance of purpose in your own life But apply it in a way that makes sense for you now many of you I just want to warn you we'll never do this Many of you in fact only 1% of you will ever discover your purpose Only 0.01% of you will actually live it out to maximum fulfillment in your life Because it's going to take and require everything out of you the humiliation the mistakes the looking into the grocery cart I'm wondering whether you should take a few items out so you can afford the bill and not have an embarrassing moment at the counter It's going to require the moments that make you very uncomfortable and Some of us aren't ready for that kind of discomfort because once again as kids We were told you can be anything you want and do anything you want and that's all well and true But we forgot about the whole thing where sometimes problem Problems crop up in life and they slow down our plans and and things don't go as planned We've been as a generation Loaded up with all the potential of who we are and what we could do that we have what it takes to change the world But let me tell you my friends your potential is not your purpose Listen, you'll have plenty of opportunities to quit along the way You'll have plenty of opportunities to veer off whether it's when you graduate and get that degree Whether it's when you get married or have kids or when you're first or your second or maybe even your third Business fails. You'll have an opportunity to switch to change to maybe let it go Look around you There are people who are alongside you right now who you may be fighting the good fight Maybe you've you're in the same phase of life and you're running hard and you're starting businesses or starting movements And you're so excited and you're bonding with those people because of your experiences right now But the ones who push through are the ones who are going to be the ones who are remembered Because the people who are running alongside of you many of them most of them are going to slow down and eventually stop And there's a lot of excuses that we make along the way when we're trying to achieve our purpose in the marketplace when we're trying to Have a positive impact and one of those excuses is Brian Gabrielle, this is all kind of really extreme my life's going pretty well. I like it I don't want to rock the boat here. I'm going to college. I'm gonna get a good job And sure your life's probably going really well That's probably because you're young and you've yet to reach the age of regret and For many of those of you in the room who have the age, you know what I'm talking about, you know what regrets you have How many of you When you were in college or in school worked really hard to get a good grade like right in the first week The first couple of weeks you're like really really hard. I'm gonna read. I'm gonna read I'm gonna study and and then you realize took the first test. That's pretty easy I'm gonna she's gonna cool the jets. I'm gonna pull back a little bit get the a and I'm out of here That was your entire college experience that was a good investment It's human nature to seek The most amount of success for the least amount of effort possible And there's plenty of you that can half-ass your way through life and do okay But you will never feel fulfilled because you were never fully engaged Some of you have come up with this excuse that oh, I have time right? I'm still young or I'm not in that phase of my life or I'm past that phase of my life where it's too late for me as Millennials we've been taught this lie that 30 is the new 20 that we can kind of just figure it out take a gap year Go visit Thailand for Europe go find yourself on you know a Swiss Alps somewhere I don't do that that actually sounds like a parachute over the Swiss Alps Take a gap. You took a gap.  I don't know where to start. I don't know enough. I don't have enough experience I haven't read enough books. I haven't studied enough. I can't get started yet. I need another degree I'm gonna stay for my masters.  Many many people that have done great Unreasonably successful things in life Did it without knowing what they were doing in the beginning When I worked at my first startup on the second day the CEO looked at me He's like I need a landing page with an opt-in and many of you in this room Probably know what a landing page in opt-in what is I didn't I had no idea five years ago What a landing page an opt-in was and he's and I said what is that? What is the landing page? What's an opt-in? He's like, I don't know figure it out But we got to send an email out to 250,000 people tomorrow and I need a landing page figure it out Let me know at five when it's done Okay So I figured it out and I figured out what a landing page was and I figured out what an opt-in was and the email went out successfully to 250,000 people You can't always know everything before you get started. I mean Gabrielle and I left our full-time jobs effectively at 25 Not knowing a darn thing Absolutely nothing. I remember that moment where I found it what my purpose was I was at a conference not unlike this and I was sitting in the back and I remember looking up on stage at speakers kind of like us Not as awesome or hilarious or potentially good-looking, but you know, they were speakers. They were okay And I was thinking I could do that. No, I said I should be doing that I had this idea in my mind that I want to become a professional speaker. I wanted to travel the world I wanted to write books.  I had to overcome this idea that I needed to have a plan in place just to make it all happen I've been able to speak around the world be paid to speak and to travel in places We've been to Croatia and Italy and Hawaii We just went to Machu Picchu in Peru all because I said yes, and I figured it out now in the midst of all these excuses if You remember one thing Commit and then figure it out. It doesn't matter if you don't know everything to get started You know school the system never taught us to go for it without knowing what's next The system taught us to have everything figured out all the steps. I got to have this I got to have my plan I've got to have this this has got to be in place this person and if and this one thing goes down I got to wait another six months. There's never a perfect time The system never taught us to make those kinds of decisions with that level of boldness We've kind of gotten addicted to crafting the perfect plan. It's never gonna happen a claim to World War 2 General George Patton said a good plan violently executed now is better than a perfect plan executed Next week today is better than tomorrow because tomorrow is full of excuses billionaire entrepreneur Elon Musk Co-founded PayPal right payment processing platform Do you think that he had the necessary knowledge of jet propulsion to start SpaceX and go after Mars and the moon again? And to put civilians into just regular normal human space travel no way he said I'm going to do it I'll figure it out.  I have a lot of people say well Gabrielle I'm really passionate about craft brew craft beer making and brewery. Okay, but your beer tastes terrible. It's awful Your passion is not what you like to do on the weekends. You may be Excited about it.  I can't just pick one. There's so many things. I'm passionate about right That's why many of you have a hard time picking a college track or even a college in general because there's so many things that you could Be doing Settle down miss America. I'm not asking you to go out there and create this whole world change world peace You need to be specific about your passion because when you're specific about your passion You're going to be able to apply it to your purpose and and have it feel incredibly fulfilling the rest of your life Your passion could be something like human trafficking or free and fair elections or curing a specific disease Passion is the frustration inside of you The injustice or even something that that that you're doing that you see someone else doing and you know you could do it better You know you could deliver the message better. You know you could deliver a better solution to the problem If you want to be up here, some of you you go to conferences you've been to many conferences You've said to yourself. I want to be an author. I want to be a speaker Let me tell you something if you have the capacity to dream it You have the capacity to do it if you can't achieve what you dream then what's the point in dreaming at all? What your life looks like here's what your life looks like when you're passionate? You can't sleep you wake up early in the morning unreasonably.  They think you're you well really you're just pointing out all of their insecurities But that's that's a different story. They think you're totally hard.  Fulfillment like we said is tied to passion and passion has to be others focused I want you guys to do something.  Do you have a passion? Do you want to write a book?  I I want you to look at them And I want you to ask them what they want to do and why they want to do it go ahead What do you want to do? Why do you want to do it? Don't mumble it out. All right, that's enough. You guys can sit down See what you just said Had everything to do with passion Many of you and you guys can go ahead and sit down. Thank you Many of you may have never even spoken it out loud many of you may be thinking that that's completely ridiculous How many of you I'm sorry how many of you spoke out your dream for the first time ever and it sounded Somebody's got to have the boldness to admit that this is the first time they spoke the dream out I want to write a book. I want to start a company. I want to start a nonprofit anybody in here There you go, that's bold right there. You spoke it out. That's the first step Don't stop doing that do it every single day write it down. Live it breathe it over and over Society makes those big dreams feel so strange like oh, who do I think I am that I could write a book? Or who do I think that I am could I could speak on stages or start a nonprofit? You see what Brian said was brilliant because it really is that dream that you have inside of you There's a reason that you have that dream and the person next to you does it the same dream that you had I'm sure wasn't the same dream or why it was the same dream of the person that you talked to you Don't belittle the dream that is inside of you There's a reason that you want to do it the path to get there may not be clear But that does not diminish the dream inside of you now step two to Identifying your purpose and implementing it in the marketplace is to identify your top skills and your top talents passion alone is not Purpose I'll say it again passion alone is not purpose Purpose requires your natural talent and your skills There are plenty of people who are very very passionate and very very terrible at what they do Just watch American Idol or America's Got Talent There's plenty of examples of people who are so passionate smiles ear to ear not talented because they're not in the right spot Now your natural talents are the things that come easy for you. They're the things that your parents That you that your friends would recognize come easy to you You don't need to think about them your learned skills However, are the ones that you develop through education or life experience Both are required to live out your purpose and inject them into your passion and you need to be specific about your skills There are plenty of people who we've gone through this process with and they're like I'm a really good communicator or you know I'm really good with technology if you're general about your skills. You're never gonna be specific about the application I'm sure there are plenty of you who are told by your parents that you could be a lawyer because you were a good arguer, right?  I wonder how many of you actually took your parents up on that Maybe just I did nobody else a hundred and forty thousand dollars of Law school debt treatment. Yeah, it seemed like a good. Yeah It always seems like a good idea at the time some of you may be told Well, you should be a teacher because you really like studying and reading or or teaching people We were speaking at a nurses conference just last week and we're talking to chief nursing Executives in the state of Virginia and we had this conversation We said why do you do what you do and working with people and mission oriented organizations? Whether that's nonprofits or philanthropic or justice organizations It's fascinating because so many work in these organizations and they've never thought about why they do what they do We asked one woman and she said well, it was either nursing or it was bookkeeping She said honestly, I chose nursing because it made a little bit more money That's insane you chose a 30-year track based off of just a little bit more money You decided where you were gonna live what you were gonna do the quality of life who your Relationships were where your kids were going to go to school if you could afford to send them to school All because you wanted a little bit more money in the short term Your title is not your purpose being a nurse isn't a purpose being a doctor isn't a purpose now being a doctor whose mother may be passed away of a Breast cancer who now dedicates himself to healing and helping women with breast cancer so no one has to experience what he had to experience That is a purpose Now here's where it gets good So earlier we talked about your passion and we just talked about your natural talents and your learned skills I want you to do this if you've never thought this deeply about your purpose before I want you to pick and think about right now your number one natural talent your number one learned Professional skill set and I want you to inject that into your passion like nobody's business Let's say you're passionate about free speech on campus because you were personally discriminated against like so many of us Take your natural ability in art and your learned skill set in graphic design and be the absolute best at it to create an artistic ad campaign To share the importance of free speech Let's say you're passionate about human trafficking because when you were younger you were sexually assaulted and you wanted to see it Stop you wanted to see that nobody went through it ever again Take your natural ability to persuade and your learned skill set in strategic planning and launch a non-profit and see to it That it never happens again Maybe you're passionate about financial freedom because yourself or your family experienced a bankruptcy and you knew what it was like The shame attached to it take that skill set that you have in technology and your ability to develop and design Design incredible beautiful things and create an app that teaches an entire generation about financial freedom and financial literacy Now sometimes it's more simple than you think if you want to make a lot of money Solve a lot of problems if you want to make a lot of money I would actually suggest solve one problem for a lot of people John Huntsman senior recently passed away and he got his start before he became a billionaire Recognizing that the American fast food industry was taking off and that people needed something to put their burgers in He created the Styrofoam clam shell that restaurants all over the world use To take food out of a restaurant except California. I think California Styrofoam probably banded you know and a lot of other things give it to California to do that or charge for it They charge extra for it, but John Huntsman senior later on had an amazing impact in the area of cancer research Because he personally experienced a touch with cancer and he built cancer hospitals as well Sometimes what you're looking to solve the injustice in the world the problem in the world is a lot smaller But it's for a lot of people Step three to finding and applying your purpose is to tell your story Your story is your competitive advantage. It's what no one can take away from you when we had to share your passion I'm sure part of it was founded in some sort of personal connection that you had to that moment You were personally passionate about something because something happened to you or something happened because of you now Your story is either a moment or a series of moments that changes the way that you see the world It's what makes you different from any other person who's going into the same industry or even the same job or the same Role it doesn't matter what degree that you got or what college that you went to you your stories What defines you it's what makes you different from every other comms major with a business degree Minor because you wanted to be more versatile in the marketplace. Wait a second. That's my minor. That's my bit That's my major. Didn't you study polysci in like religion? Well, you know, does that have an ROI? It got me on the stage No, okay. All right Look your story is the one thing that no one can take from you and that no one can copy It's your intellectual property. It's internal to you Your story is certainly that event or series of events that inspired your passion It gave you an early sense of your purpose even if you didn't first recognize it Gabrielle and I were recently working with a very large Grocery store retail chain and we were working with a team of HR professionals and we were doing a talk on this specifically We're talking about the power of stories and how the power of stories have the ability to create intimacy in the workplace in a good way to produce a productive result and a young man named Pete was telling the story of why he Originally decided to go into teaching and eventually take that teaching talent into corporate America and he said when I was in college I came back from class.  That story is unique to him Nobody can take it from him. It's his competitive advantage. It's the source of his fire and his passion I want to give you a hint Your story and the one that you need to tell the one that has the power to most inspire others Aren't the happy moments from your life.  So stand up. I know it's real early We're asking you to do a whole lot get ready We want you to experience this for yourself because it's one thing for you to look at us and say oh Well, that's really nice for you. We're gonna actually show you the power of story.  All right.   I Want you to think about the event the tragedy the moment in your life that tore you up Maybe the car accident that took a friend or a family member or Touch with death yourself or an addiction or whatever happened to you as a child I want you to think about where you were. I want you to close your eyes I want you to think about where you were when that thing happened or continued to happen I want you to think about how it made you feel Who did it to you?  You think about it every day Now I want you to think about in that moment. Why you're thankful that that thing happened to you Now that may seem crazy.   It gave you the grit. It gave you the overcomer attitude to help others who are struggling in the very same circumstances The final step is defining value Now we're halfway there and if this is most talks on purpose or if you're reading a book on purpose right now Whether that's purpose driven life or something else all great books by all great authors But most discussions of purpose and destiny usually stop at feelings They usually stop at the point of discovery and there's never a question of okay now What do I do with this? How do I do it? I think back to the time when my mentor said follow your purpose. I'm like how How do I follow my purpose? I don't know what that means, right? Thank you for helping me determine that. I'm still depressed. Thank you. In fact, I'll tell you something mere awareness of purpose in your life without any action will make you more depressed and more miserable Does that make sense? Did that land for you guys? It will make you more depressed and more miserable because now you have an awareness of what you could have of what you could achieve of The heights you could go of the financial success you could have Just knowing it is not enough And that's the biggest frustration that we've seen and all the work that we've done on the subject of purpose Most resources don't go far enough Here's the truth now. You know what you're passionate about or at least you have a starting point You know what you bring to the table to your natural skills and your learned talents you also Now have to deliver on it with value. You have to create something that people want in the marketplace Here's an example of a purpose statement because of my life story I became passionate about this and I decided to take what I'm naturally good at and what I've learned in my life And I've created this thing of value for this many people It helps to get specific because if you're general with your purpose, you're slapping it in the face And this is the most important aspect of this process of finding applying your purposes all about value as Brian said It's agonizing knowing what you could do thinking about those big dreams seeing people who have the same idea as you making millions or even billions of dollars Or people who have the same thoughts as you or the same skill sets as you being on television and commenting on the things that you're like I could say that better or I could say that differently or my story is perfectly positioned me to do that That jealousy or that envy inside of you isn't that you that you think that you're somehow better than that other person It's that that burn inside of you because you know that that's what you're supposed to be doing Value is the most important aspect of finding and applying your purpose And it's something that's completely untouched in this space because if you don't know and you're not applying it Then you're not feeling truly fulfilled Value is what people exchange resources for it's everything from the money that people will pay you to the donations That you'll get to the opportunities that will open up to the reputation that someone will put on the line Because they believe in what it is that you're doing Plenty of you. I'm sure want to start nonprofits. You all stood up. You want to start companies? You may not know that over 700 nonprofits in the United States close their doors every single day Almost as many of those companies close their doors every single day And it's not because the people starting those nonprofits and starting those companies don't have passion They have tons of passion me you just talked to anybody who's got you know They're a little frozen yogurt stand or a coffee shop or a company that they just launched They have tons of passion. It may even be tied to their purpose But just having passion and knowing your purpose doesn't mean that you're actually living it out You have to create a system where someone will value what you do enough to exchange their own Resources for it and it's an easy question Your purpose will tell you what problem in the marketplace that you want to solve and you may even have the solution You may have the nonprofit solution the for-profit solution You may have what the marketplace doesn't yet have but you have to ask yourself Are there people ready willing and able to pay for it or support it? That is that is one of the most important questions in an economy that rewards great things in America I think so many times when we work with young entrepreneurs and young people they come to us and they say I have this great idea Right anyone seeing shark tank great show. This is my idea. This is my baby and it's all about them and their idea It's not about other people and the ones who are gonna actually be able to use it when you become others focus instead of me focused You start to have value driven in every part of your life If you want to start a company or start a nonprofit Make it about other people so that they want to have that exchange with you that they're willing to invest And you'll see yourself not only be successful. You'll see yourself be fulfilled So now that you've considered your passion considered your natural talents your learned skill sets and started to own your story and realize that it's the most Inspirational gift that you have for others. There are four steps to doing this successfully Success is life on your own terms You can write your own paycheck and change the world. That's possible especially in places like America Help enough people get what they want and you can get what you want This step to success is the most important one. It's the one that will set you apart Number one is be teachable Be teachable. You don't have to have it all figured out You don't have to pretend like you've got it all figured out surround yourself with smarter people ask smarter people than you Ask questions like crazy The funny thing is when you're teachable and you go out there to start a company you've got a great idea You want to start you want to write a book? People don't fault you for not knowing what you're doing right in fact most mentors most mentor-minded people Want to help those who are teachable and don't have it all together and that teachability It's also called humility so many people look at our generation. They have these ideas They stereotype us as being entitled or being being lazy or feeling like we know all the answers When in reality this generation is starving for mentorship and wisdom We may have access to the internet just because we have we have Google and Siri and Alexa to answer all of our questions We have information But that doesn't mean that we have wisdom that we have application the second step for success is to be gritty This is one of my favorites the grit factor that is ultimately what determines your success from being actually achieved To just being something that is dream the difference between dreamers and doers is the application of yourself To actually put yourself in a position where you don't have a choice. It's sink or swim You have to actually achieve it.  It comes with risk. It's lonely It's lonely and if you're thinking about your future in the midst of achieving what you want to achieve and what you Want to dream and you're comfortable I want you to ask yourself have I started making excuses have I started giving up have I started taking an off ramp Have I started hanging out with the wrong people that don't inspire me that don't inspire me and tell me that I can do Better that I've got to work harder that I've got to focus better if you're getting comfortable You're already starting to give up on your purpose some of you Need to stay in discomfort especially in the job that you're in right now Sometimes you need to stay in a job that sucks. That's not always the case But in this day and time we work with companies all the time Millennials change jobs every two to three years in the DC metro area It's every 13 months and a lot of them are leaving jobs because they felt their first bad boss or bad experience You can't always leave a job that sucks sometimes you should but you can't always leave a job that sucks You're going to have jobs and relationships and bosses. You don't like some of you already do Stick with it. You want to start a company or a movement and you haven't stuck it through something like that How are you going to know what's bad and what's good and how to do it better?  That's going to be key for you to be successful later Step number three to be successful be respectful This is one of those old-school values that our generation doesn't necessarily see or celebrate Everyone wants to be respected It's a currency of mankind that we want to be seen and valued and know that what we do Matters, but here's the key in order to be respected. You have to respect other people You have to respect people even if they have different backgrounds and experiences and mindsets and lifestyles in you Because many of you want to change the world. This is a generation where we want to disrupt everything and And our our need to disrupt is oftentimes interpreted or misinterpreted as a need to disrespect We're not trying to disrespect the system We want to change things if you want to change things in order to be effective You need to realize that in order to be the most effective change agent you can be start with respect You're going to be much more effective and efficient as a change agent when you start with respect now The last step to success in your purpose and applying it to the marketplace is something that all of us here at fecon Understand and that's to live in abundance. We don't live in a limited pie There's not limited resources. We can create value in a marketplace We can create more pies when you know your purpose and you're you're living in abundance When you're in the middle of your purpose, you're not worried about what people are doing next to you or you're not on Instagram You know comparing your thigh gap You're not doing that. I know people do that apparently I just learned about this this Instagram Thy gap thing, but here's the point to be successful in your purpose in the marketplace The fourth thing is to have an abundance mindset It's okay if people are being successful next to you. In fact, that's good for you, too Because it encourages you to try harder But I want you to know something today about your purpose Your purpose is your permission Your purpose is your permission There's been a system that said you need to check the boxes take the tests go to this school spend this money No, no, no, you don't know enough yet. You haven't read enough yet You haven't written that doctoral thesis that took you seven years. I've seen people write books in three months ridiculous You don't need to do those things to get started Your purpose is your permission so many of you have been looking to your parents. Is it time yet? Should I do this? Should I do that? You've been looking to professors and mentors going maybe I should do this What do you think they don't care? They don't care as much as you do they might care a little bit, but they don't care and they were never supposed They're not in the middle of the night waking up going God I hope Johnny is thinking about his purpose and he gets up tomorrow and does it they don't care and It's the most liberating thing in the world to recognize that other people don't care about your purpose Because perhaps then you'll take responsibility for it Your purpose is your permission if you know what your dream is if you want to write a book if you want to start a company If you want to start a non-profit then do it now Don't hesitate like you hesitated a moment ago in the chair stand up stand up Never put the duty to achieve your purpose in someone else's hands Don't put it in the government's hands. Don't put it in a platform's hands. Don't put it in the media's hands Don't even put it in your parents hands because some of them don't even realize what you have the power to achieve I'm not knocking your parents. They're probably great people But it's your responsibility. It's your duty. We seek permission from everyone. We work with people all the time They're writing a book. We help people write books all the time. They're like, I'm waiting on this person I'm waiting on this editor. I'm waiting on this endorsement. I can't I can't I can't publish a book unless I have this I can't do that. It's constant excuses putting the duty of achieving their purpose into someone else's hands If you keep doing that, it's never gonna happen. There's no such thing as perfect timing do it right now Stop asking permission The way we're gonna change this economy is not going to be because we have the right political stance whether we're on the right or the left It's not because we're good at slinging red meat and saying somebody's a snowflake. It's none of those things What we have to do in this economy as a new generation of leaders is to solve problems with purpose That's what's required. That's what builds relationships. That's what creates value. That's what creates coalitions to achieve great things You had the permission all along The moment you dreamt it you had permission the moment you saw the sunset.  You're gonna be next to people or all fired up. Okay. Let's go do this Some of them are gonna quit. Are you gonna keep going? Are you gonna keep going? By the way, this isn't just age-specific here Some of you've been sitting on dreams for 20 30 40 years. I Talked to those folks all the time. I want to write a book. We helped the lady write a book 74 years old She wrote it in a month and a half. How many pages 125 pages short book wrote it in a month and a half She's terrible at typing. I don't know how she did it. She's amazing And she said to me when she finished that book Brian for the first time in 20 years I feel like I'm living my purpose.