Hi you guys I'm here What's up? It's late y'all But I still It's been a while I'm gonna wait for some more people Don't get started Okay, um, I posted this link in the group so you often come join too So I'm here Okay, I'm waiting for a few more people so this greetings. Hi. How are you? Okay, so as y'all can see by the title of this video Life is not fair Let's get it. Let's get this straight Life is not fair. It was never fair. It's never gonna be fair. So in this world You got to do what you gotta do to get what you want to get right It's not gonna be handed to you unless you go after it and make them give it to you in your hand, okay So what I'm saying is Too many people are walking around thinking the world is supposed to treat them fair and things are supposed to be equal And things are supposed to be right and things are supposed to be done in a certain way Meanwhile, everybody who knows better is out getting what they're supposed to be getting Any way that they can figure out how to do it, okay? But you're sitting here waiting for the world to be perfect and fair. So what I'm saying is Get out there and do what you need to do to get what you need to get Don't worry about what other people say think or blah blah blah blah because once you have What you want, it doesn't matter what they think They're gonna be asking you how you got it. Okay, so just remember that stop trying to follow This pattern that does not work Okay, stop trying to be the moral good person with all these rules Because that does not work. You know that And this world it's not who follows the rules. It's who breaks the rules Okay, when you when you get tired of following the rules and not getting anywhere And you start breaking some of these rules and going and doing what you want to do Getting what you need to get by Using you know what you know what you have and you get it Then all of a sudden you have this success or formula for success and people flock to you and they're like Well, what did you do? What did you I broke the rules? Basically in a nutshell I broke the rules You know, I think outside the box. I don't sit there and wait for you know the fairy tale So whenever you see a successful person and you want their formula for success The first thing is probably breaking rules You know or society norms or thinking outside the box Or doing something or not doing something. You know what I mean?  What do I want? Because you can't start on a path if you don't know what you want Um And once you figure that out, it's super easy from then You just write all the ways out on a piece of paper that you can get what you want and take the easy as well That's basically it Oh So, you know, um on my other channel a lot of people were mad at me Because I was doing a haul and all this kind of stuff like why are you going shopping when the The state is in crisis and blah blah blah blah blah and You know, I I I dressed it on there, but basically, you know certain things Certain certain people think a certain way And certain people don't think a certain way and that determines how they live as well and how they prosper as well You know, because I'm not reacting like some people are reacting It's because I'm not like those people You know, that's why my life is a bit different Why because I am in control Of you know, my emotions How I react to things how I navigate through life how I choose to react to certain situations All of those choices add up to your life And how you live today. So, you know for you guys Um Who understand this You already know, you know, how you're thinking and how you're feeling is how and how you're vibrating Is how you will be living okay and Everyone is mixed up Most people in certain areas certain cultural backgrounds and certain income levels Their priorities are in the wrong order like Their priorities are all out of order and and it's widely accepted and the reason why it's widely accepted is because A lot of people don't realize that what they're doing Is almost Dooming their future generations, you know what I'm saying? So they don't realize this no one tells them this all they see is other people doing it and the pattern repeating itself So they think that's what they're supposed to do because no one will tell them You know, they will think that it's okay because everybody else is doing it. But then they start to also Get the same problems As everyone else in their circle and those problems are not a good problem. Those are problems that lead Back to the cycle of poverty Okay, so you want to get out of that you have to make smart Decisions you can't do what everybody else is doing Okay, you have to do What makes most logical sense and financial sense, you know what I mean? So I have and still like after all the videos that I've done I have women writing me still asking me the same question This man won't me to have his baby. Are you married? No Okay, if you are not good enough to be a wife, he is not good enough to be a father That's just it. Don't have some random man's baby. Okay, if you've already done it You understand. Okay, you understand that is not leading anywhere good So Y'all need to understand that is not how you do things Things are set in place for a reason Okay That man can walk away any second But if he's married to you it's going to take a lot more to walk away It's going to take illegal documents court and all that stuff. You know what I mean? So think about the child Not oh, he want to have a baby with me. He must love me.  That's backwards in poverty mind. Don't do that Make sure you secure your family first Secure the future of your generations first with a legal document Okay, this is not about love. This is about securing financial and illegal Assets that's all it is.  Okay, otherwise, don't do it Not a thousand air it and if it's a blue 500.  Don't do it again. Let's continue on don't date anymore a broke man. Okay Don't get excited because somebody pay for your meal and give it up. Why because it takes a lot more than that Okay, some people have been treated so bad that when somebody pays for a meal They are impressed Okay, that's not impressed that should not impress a grown woman That should impress a teenager Not a grown woman that you need much much more. Okay a lot of women have been treated so bad. I've been helping them You know realize their worth Helping them, you know improve their image to attract a higher caliber of man And they've been getting higher caliber of dates getting more money spent gifts and stuff like that And I'm just saying this is who you are Okay, this is who you are supposed to be you're not supposed to be Paying for half. You're not supposed to be dealing with broke dudes. They don't deserve to date. I'm sorry. Okay Survival of the fittest, you know That's why you know if if if someone wants to reproduce with you They need to be strong in every way financially mentally spiritually whatever Because if you're going to breed with a weak person your child is going to be weak too Okay, only go for the high caliber. You're not supposed to be bringing weak beings into the planet Into the world and if you do, you know, all you're doing is creating a downward spiral in society.    You can do it right, you know what I'm saying Women have biological clocks men don't You can have babies up into your 60s and 70s.  It has to be said Now for those of you who are past all of this and now okay answer some real questions like Okay, how to upgrade as a woman dress better Hang around better people hang around better areas learn How to operate outside of your comfort zone Open your um Open your mind to different things explore the world You know explore other options Make sure that you're not So moral that you can't move ahead in this world because some certain morals are put on you to keep you down You know, they don't want you to succeed. So they give you this giant moral dilemma And those who follow the moral Will find themselves Looking at the ones who didn't And asking why do they get all of this and why do they get all of that? And I was the good girl and I did this and I'm this and that and that because your morals are in your way Guys don't care about morals They don't They're before they open their mouth to lie to you Do you think they're thinking about morals? Mm-hmm So why are you Why do you care more for them than they care for you? Why do you care more about their well-being than they care about yours?  You know life ain't fair Life, it's not fair and now that women are understanding this Guys are upset because they can no longer Get away with what they're doing Without a woman turning around and doing either the same thing or worse You know and now they're upset because now Women are just As scandalous as they are And they can't take it Someone says my family always said get a rich husband And I always said they were crazy. I guess who's looking for a rich husband now. I'll see Oh My god, I just saw a beautiful dating a bum Yep, how to get money out of a man without sex Be upset until they give it to you don't give them the time of day put them down Hurt their ego until they give you what you want That's all it takes It's very easy. That's the secret formula Now when I say this, you know, you can't be Someone who they can replace easily Okay, this is where a lot of women mess up. They don't they're not on A certain level where they can demand things yet Especially from the type of man that they're trying to demand it from if you don't look 10 times better than that man Then you can't he's not gonna give you nothing That's what I'm saying if you're trying to get something out of a cute guy Or a man who looks good enough to replace you with someone better That looks better or looks just the same It's not gonna happen. That's why you have to get somebody who Will fear losing you Okay Y'all y'all keep asking me this. I'm having trouble. What's your man look like? How old is he 32 by Felicia? Okay What do you think the type graphic bible verses fake christianity with muslim mentality towards them I don't date religious guys unless they're christian and I can manipulate them through the bible because the bible has lots of um Hypocrisy in it and for every verse they have I got a verse to rebut it Okay um So I don't really I I really never date religious guys unless I could use it against them I'm reading somebody's comment. Why do rich have high sexual demands?  You know, my bills are due. I need like I need going on vacation. I'm not feeling it right now. You know You don't turn me on You need to take me shopping.   You know If you're worth it, they'll do it.  I'll just take whatever you give me I'll just take whatever you give me whatever you offer me. I'll take it.  Like look I don't know who you think I am But uh I'm not doing all that and if I did you couldn't afford it Like you couldn't afford to seduce me into doing any of that, you know You haven't even taken me nowhere.   Or she just desperate for money that she really liked me. Well, this girl liked me enough to tell me the truth So maybe I do need to give her some money, you know Because she told me the truth. She's not attracted to me.  I feel so little You know, the only thing that's gonna make me feel good about myself again is her Smiling at me and telling me that I'm the man. So guess what I gotta do impress her even more So that's what you gotta do Now you've seen all those Facebook videos of guys bringing their women's cars and keys and stuff, you know before that there was a big argument That's always a big argument a big disappointment or you don't love me no more, you know, things not the same There's always that before that, you know, then this is the makeup gift or either they cheated or did something really wrong You know, you don't get that just because you know, if he's super rich and he is more in love with you Than you are with him. Yeah, you can get it just because but if you have to work on him And you have to convince him You don't have to get mad fake mad The only way to get you out of that bad mood Is to give you what you want Yep, because they already think women are emotional anyway, they already think we live in our feelings So we gotta we gotta act like it.   So guess what they're gonna do go do what you ask Okay, I'll give you the money You gotta play you gotta play it like it's like A whiny baby sometimes because The first thing they they want is the happy you back Once you start changing those moods they get nervous They're like dang i'm gonna have to if the longer I let this go the more I'm gonna have to make up So they don't want to let it go too long But the whole time you're really in control of your emotions. You're just acting Okay, this is how this is how they do and if you Get this if you understand this it will work Tell him you're going to work at Hooters.  Don't say no Hooters Hooters is low-class Sorry if you work at Hooters, but You want to intimidate them. Okay guys that go to Hooters. They don't got real money. Okay Mm-hmm and I I say, you know someone saying say casino Yeah casino, but The other club is way better.  So Think about that What if he calls you selfish? Then he's not then he don't have no money for real and you wasting your time So what if someone calls you selfish say, you know what if I don't look after myself And if I don't get the things that I want that makes me happy I can't make anyone else happy until I'm happy You know, it's selfish of you to want to me not to want me to be happy You know, if a material item is going to make me happy, don't you think it's very selfish of you not to give it to me? If you know, it's going to make me happy. Aren't you being selfish if I'm not happy you're not going to be happy So you you figure that out And you're not my only option. I will find another way to get it and then we'll see who's selfish You know It's like look don't selfish me That's what you tell him it's like if you're selfish for not want me to be happy You know, why do I have to go without?  I go out and get somebody else who wants to make me happy because you don't want to make me happy That's what you say though. You don't want to make me happy a best advice for a newbie is to be mean Say what you want be demanding the younger you are the better looking you are the meaner you can be Okay, don't wait till you get old try to be me. Don't work. Okay. Yep. Get getting fake mad works. Yeah Stop putting materialism on a pedestal. Well, you know women value things that they can count on That makes them feel good And these days it's material so Until men become what materialism has become for women Again, that's what women are going to value. I'm sorry until men are good trustworthy providers and protectors good fathers women are not going to Stop valuing something that they can touch Okay, when you become what they want you to be they're not they're not going to value material things over you anymore Okay, but at this moment in time That's what it is. And that's what you just have to accept and we sorry, but That it is what it is women have been tired of trying to Make excuses for men wait for men to grow up Tired of them having no ambition So we get what we need to get and move forward That's all it is to it. If you don't like it. Don't date Okay I'll go date somebody real young hasn't figured that out yet Because most women want something that they can count on And that's valuable and if it's not a man It's a material thing.  Well, this is another alternative Become materialistic It's sad But it's true And I'm not I'm not saying it to be mean. I'm just being honest You know, it's I'm not trying to bash anybody. I'm just being honest. This is what it is I'm not saying Anything to anybody Negative I'm just saying this is how it is life ain't fair Accept it learn from it or don't So I'm sorry if you see We'll be material but that's all we got We that's all we count on these days. So that's what we're going for Okay Okay Scroll down. I'll see some more of these comments. I'm 20 and I only date me in 25 and up That's so cute They don't even count Men are 10 years behind when it's so basically you're dating a 15 year old No shade no shade I'm just saying 25 is not older. It's just 15 And man, right Someone says you got to be fine as hell or on my money level See men with men with little money always say that And I'm not saying like you're broke. I'm just saying you have a little bit You can impress women with the little bit that you got because if you want a woman to have The same amount of money as you It means you need help Okay, it means you can't handle it all by yourself and you need help And if you get a woman who has what you have you don't have to give her as much Which means you don't have to invest in her as much which means You don't have to make Any real commitments or sacrifices for her So therefore when you ready to upgrade on her With a nut after she's helped you by paying for half of everything And you got to save up build your career after you've done all that now you want a woman You can fully take care of without her being on your income level You're going to dump that woman who helped build you and pay for half of stuff and go get the other woman who don't work Because now you feel like you the man and you can actually do that now See right now you're trying to climb and any smart woman is not going to get with you And pay half of nothing Okay, and if she's fine she's gonna get somebody's super rich not you Okay, so remember that It's just a lack of confidence on your half if you want to uh Get someone Make sure you're paying for everything and that you will get their respect as well You know what i'm saying you got if you asking for half or you know You pay your own rent if you do this and that but i'm gonna sleep with you You're gonna have a rude awakening Especially if they watch this channel Well, i'm 34. What age should i date 60 something? Late 50s early 60s That's it To give you don't give you the most I think i'll get a good-looking but insecure man. Ain't no such thing Good-looking insecure man. It's called an act So back to my title life. It's not fair So don't get mad at women and women would but women They already expect certain things from men like they expect to be lied to now. They expect to be uh tricked and uh You they expect it.  So we already got our list ready of what you need to do to make up for it We already got our Louis Vuitton handbag picked out the one we want when you cheat Okay, we already got our bills and a list of fake quotes Say, you know, we got we double whatever we're gonna ask you for we already got all that We got it ready why because we expect you to mess up and we know we can get some out of it So if you don't mess up, yeah Hey You don't mess up I mean I missed the question. How do you get out in abusive relationship?  I don't know. I need I'm gonna need more money than some Marines But if that's the best you could do Know that they're gonna cheat Just make sure you got your list ready to get what you want Okay, there you go Um doctors cheap It depends on what type of doctor if they have their own practice If they're just starting out, are they surgeons surgeons make money go for the surgeons I can't help y'all like We if y'all not following the formula, you know, some of y'all it's like, oh, I want a sugar daddy But I want a young one Okay, well make sure he's ugly and deformed in the wheelchair because you ain't gonna get no Young guy giving you everything you want. You know what I'm saying so Make sure that you're following the formula. There's a formula to this people understand Why can't I get lucky because you looking for a cute sugar daddy as young And you know This this is that why is he gonna choose you? Okay Get somebody that's lucky to be with you.  Okay, that's what you can do. If you're not following the formula You don't want the lifestyle you want the man, but go get the man Have fun with that until he upgrades and cheats on you and then maybe you'll be ready to follow the formula So You know, if you're not ready to follow this formula, then you're not ready You know go go try to Do what you can do and come back Tell me if you could get a young Attractive Man, they hand you thousands of dollars if you can do that I will give you a shout out and I'll make a whole video about your story. Okay So send me pictures And you know, there are young sugar daddies that would date a young girl, but they're gonna have 10 girls Forings at the same time and you be giving them money to You be like, okay. I'm young.  She'll be my wednesday.  And so that's why they're rushing to get it I know a lot of women are rushing to get it because they get more attention more And things like that. So if men really stop paying attention to that type of stuff women won't do it, you know A lot of women will go for things that they know men like because they know they can get it Men to do whatever they want When they look a certain way Okay, it's kind of like It's kind of like fishing, you know, you have a bait that you know, it's gonna catch a lot of fish. You're gonna use it Okay That's just it My husband married a mistake. Yeah, but he's still got married no matter if it's a mistake or not Too late now Who is he gonna matter some some boring homely girl that stays home and nits while he's out with me Because if I didn't marry him, I'd be a side chick Okay, okay.   I would just act right, you know there are women who will Bypass materialism if they could just get a decent man. They'd be like, you know what? I don't need all those flashy things. I don't need all those nice.   I don't want you to have to go to work.  They don't want you to do that. They want to go on vacation with you They want to take you to dinner. They want you to spend the night Don't have to worry about getting up early in the morning. They want you to be energized for them If they asking you to work and they don't trying to give you money They're not investing in you. They don't take you seriously. They don't really want you But for one reason so either you charge for that reason or you go and find somebody who knows your work How do I know so much because I've done all of this I've been around women who do this all my life Plus I took psychology Go take psychology Take a take a college course of psychology if you're in school. If you're not school take it online It will teach you a lot Someone loves me, but I need to leave to upgrade it's hard. Um, I had somebody Talk to me about this. They had the good they had a good man, but he was mediocre and he couldn't do nothing for her She was getting she was watching everybody else come up. They he was staying the same But what do you do? What do you do? When you love someone but they're not giving you the lifestyle that you want Yep You'll always regret that Why because they didn't do anything wrong to you You gotta set them up make a mess up so you can be upset and leave You know test them out test him Have some girl come on to him see if he bites What if he's rich but stingy don't waste time with rich stingy people You know if they don't want to help you they want to use you it's either one or the other They're helping you or they usually get it Don't be dumb. Okay. Oh, what if he's rich? Okay, you can enjoy saying you date a rich man But if you still walking around and busted up shoes driving a raggedy car and don't have no nice things to show for it What's the use? You know what I'm saying? Okay, either They want to help you or they want to use you Those are only two choices.  What do Most 50 year old men find attractive and 20 year old women Young women make old men feel young Okay, men want to feel young And masculine again, and they want to be able to impress a woman. They can't impress a woman their own age So they got to go for a younger woman How do you make a married sugar daddy go back to his wife?  How do I make him feel insecure? But like I'm the youth of this whole life You gotta have to look younger than him because Women usually age faster than men If y'all are the same age And just depends on how he takes care of himself too.  Okay, so I'm not paying 50 50 Okay. Oh, you do this for me and I'll do that for you. No, you do this for me And I'll be seen out in public with you life is not fair. Okay. Oh, okay. Um Well, how about You treat me nice and I'll treat you guys and we'll just see where that goes. Okay. Well, nice girls finish life Life is not fair. You know, stop trying to make stuff fair. Stop trying to make stuff equal.  That's how relationships are supposed to be. It's all or nothing. Look, you can't totally please me You can only please me 50 percent.  But wait I'm doing all of this and you want me to take half my check instead of my whole check.  You know, no I'm gonna stop working.  You know more sex No more no more, you know Going out in public with him Stop it Until he starts paying the whole thing.  I'm sorry You can't claim me in public baby And I'm putting single on my facebook status because I have a roommate not a husband Or a boyfriend. I have a roommate Because if I kick you out, I'm gonna have to have somebody to have pay the other half of the rent Because I'm already getting that half the other half, you know So you sometimes you just got to hurt their feelings and be straight up Because that's the only thing they understand is when their ego is wounded. They don't understand Oh, well, I think They don't understand that they understand You're not man enough for me You're not getting none and I'm not being seen in public with you unless you view the man I need you to be if not go to shark issue You know Bye And you can't be afraid to lose them. Some of y'all so afraid to lose something y'all act dumb and desperate You gotta be afraid you can't be afraid to lose them.  That's how you have to act I'll wish you leave. Come on. I'm waiting on you to leave. I got somebody that's way better than you And I'm waiting on you to mess up. That's how you have to act in all relationships. Like come on. I wish you would I'm you know, that's how you have to act if you're What if what if he leaves me? Have plan B back up. I'm 32 with manship at at 30 years to whatever age you are. That's what you go for, okay? Simple 25 to 30 years add that to your age And that's what you go for Yes If you're in a relationship and you don't want to be there and you know you can do better Upgrade then go You know, don't sit there and try to fix something If you can't if you don't want to do it for himself You can't you're not gonna be able to fix him.  Oh, baby. That's a nice purse. I wish I had one I know your your granddad is gonna buy for me one day my 85th birthday perhaps I'm still waiting on it Better not be from china even He called me selfish for walking it though, but I see you got one. So are you selfish, baby? Oh, okay. You you are selfish. Okay.   They're gonna bury that lady with that purse. I promise you All right, so You know, some people say well, I don't need a man to buy me a purse.   Come on. You being selfish Even if you buy your own purse always tell the person you're with that somebody else bought it for you Okay, even if you buy it for yourself Tell them someone else bought it for you.  Oh, this was a gift from a coworker or my boss Or you know, blah, blah, blah like my sister bought bought her a Louis Vuitton purse for uh christmas So, oh, this is from my but never say you bought it Always say someone else bought it that way They have a competition And you could be lying about who bought it, you know what I'm saying in the back of their mind They're thinking every thought wonder who bought that from it. Was it really her boss? Is she she's cheating on me? Is there another rich man who wants her secretly buying herself? Did they give her money, uh, you know Now they're in competition So always keep your man in competition with somebody even if They don't know who it is, you know And you go you if you went out and and spent your money on that don't tell them say it's a gift Tips on dating three people at the same time Keep a notebook or try to get some people with the same type of names Give them all the same nickname Like anyways somebody asked me how old James was my husband I don't know how old he is anymore. I stopped counting He's like 61 62 one day I can't remember How do you know if older men or marriage-minded are just after six most most guys over 50 They're marriage-minded because they don't want to grow old alone They really they like oh after all that playing they really settle down because everybody around them start dropping dead And they're like I don't want to be founded in my house by myself. I need family. I need I need the woman They start facing their mortality So that's why it's easier and see what I do is I plant stuff in people's heads like I plant scenarios like I'm like when you're when you're upset with somebody you plant scenarios in their mind like You know what that's fine because I'm young I can do whatever I want. You know, you're the one that's going to be living alone all by yourself When you're old, you know, I hope no one finds your dead body in the summertime the air is off I just be painting nasty glory pictures in their mind He's like And I've used my old mortician stories on him too.     She's right. I don't want to be found dead in my bathtub you know hmm And I have been using old lingo from like 10 years ago That's you know, I know that it's got some new words these days I need to stay hip And if I'm with a younger woman, you know, that makes my status look higher like I have more than I really have And She'll make me feel young So they're more liable to marry you than some young guy who thinks he's already invincible You know, I don't need a wife. I'm invincible.  I want him to play for plastic surgery. How do I do it?   So I had money left over. So I just Got a hint or you or somebody else pay for it or I gained weight or I don't know if it's facial surgery Who's Brian Brian man. Oh no, we don't have no more talent. We don't have any morality over here. We end it to win it Okay, when you're in something to win something the morals can't get in the way That's how you lose Anyways, oh, you don't have to block you don't have to block patrols He was just expressing his opinion I mean if there are racist trolls and stuff like that, but if it's just a guy Saying we're wrong. That's I mean that's expected So Yeah, I'm sure he'll create another profile soon. Oh, I'm swollen and say got kidney stones come back with big boobs Oh, I was swollen.  It's all the same to me. I don't care To me it's overrated like seriously, I don't get hung up on stuff like that because I have Goals and my goal is to always be in power in Empower and if I get hung up on oh good sex, whatever, whatever I'm not gonna be in power. You know to me. That's what I use to get what I want You know what I'm saying? So I give it out sparingly.  Yeah, it mattered When I was young it mattered now. I didn't have kids. I'm old Married forever now. It's about the power okay, but when I was young And I wasn't even thinking about money or anything like that It was all about looks and how good you can make me feel but I've matured My mind has matured and to me A man. It's not necessary to feel good. You know what I mean for me. It's not necessary I mean it's an added bonus. It's a good thing, but it's not a priority to me because a priority to me is home car house, you know furniture Savings things like that. They make devices They have viagra They have all that but I don't even care about it anymore. That's the whole point.  I lacked a lot of confidence I lacked a lot of knowledge and I didn't have anything else to fill me up You know what I'm saying, but now that I have so much more Things to do to think about to create it doesn't even cross my mind half the time So when you're you know, if you know anything about shock words When your shock words are off balance or when one is spinning faster than another That's where all your energy is going. So if your Sacral chakra is spinning faster.    You got Three four youtube channels two kids a husband an online store. You do readings Consultations all this other stuff. How do you do it?  How do you do all this?  How do you have time? Because I have all the energy. I have all this energy to create and become Successful at what I do and my bank account will reflect that. Okay.  That's your power And once you once you give it away once you do get it give it out You pull it right back and they have to start all over That's how it is.  No But we're married. I don't care But no, you know, so the power Is in withholding and using that energy to get what you want, you know what I'm saying So It took it took me a while to get to that point. I would say 30 Something was 34 when I came to this realization And after 34, I'm like, you know what I'm gonna I'm refocusing my energy on me You know What do you suggest for low libido? Like low libido is good for women because to me That means you're you're focused on something else You have too much on your plate You don't have the energy You know You need someone to totally please you and you don't and you not do anything in return for them If you want to raise it, they're gonna have to do that for you. You know what I'm saying? They have to totally give you pleasure without you doing that thing because usually When women have low libido, it's because they don't get satisfied during And of course anyway, so they don't even want to do it And men think it's an equal thing. No, it's not You got you you need to make sure that they totally please you before you even let them touch Before they let them pull out their stuff. You know what I'm saying? Okay, there you go How do you keep How do you keep interesting without it? um You know, it's it's different because if you're in a relationship versus marriage, it's totally different relationships it's like Once you get into it for a long the long haul it becomes routine anyway So either you spice it up and tease them for a few days and not give it to them every time they want or promise it to them That's how you keep the interest false promises And teasing how you get older men to approach you when you're very young Look classy. Stop wearing trendy stuff Go to places where older people hang out sophisticated places Make your look look more sophisticated.   Okay, if they see you're too trendy, they're not going to feel like they have much in common with you, you know For long distance relationships, how could I make up excuses to stay away from them?   I gotta go help my sister move Or you know Blah blah blah blah, but I can't wait to come see you.   Why don't you come up here?  I'm not even at my house. I'm at my sister's house Okay, well, maybe next weekend I promise, okay, I promise I promise Don't be mad. Oh, you know what?   I'm gonna give you some money and be like, oh I got a flat tire now and they said my tire won't be in it's a different It's a rare tire is not gonna be in until next week and I gotta wait and work. I don't feel comfortable driving on this doughnut Get creative Take a picture like get a picture off google of a flat tire and send it to him on the phone When it's that emoji Assure, I'm a virgin at 28. How do I drop the bomb if you are still a virgin you can be a millionaire Okay, don't give that away for you. What are you doing?  Hi, it's better Well, you know they check they'll go they'll take you to the doctor make sure the true virgin before they drop a million on you Come on now Yeah, you can get your whole college tuition paid for books vacation apartment That's what I would do. I sure would like These days guys don't care anyway, you know You like think about who you gave your virginity up to was it worth it? Would you get out of it nothing if you think if you could take it all back Rewind time and somebody would pay you a million dollars Wouldn't you rather do that even if it meant nothing to you? So I I would sell it. I would sell it quick I might even go to you anyway I wouldn't break it to anybody. I'm like, look, I will use it to get more money. Look, I'm a virgin And I've been trying to get this stuff away for so long, but it has to be the right guy, you know, I want, you know So how much, you know, I need a new car Just build it up in his head. What haven't you always wanted a virgin? How did you always want to know what it felt like? to be someone's first I'm scared.  No other man will ever have to touch me You know, if you're rich like super rich, then you can divorce them later on Anyway, she or if my fiance is all I need and doing all the right things should I still do by himself Uh, if that's what you want to do.  You know, we've got to pay to play Um If life was fair everybody would be happy and have everything they needed So I'm just doing what is best for me And some guys will actually admire you for going for what you want They'll be like, I like that. I like that attitude.  You should start a business, you know If you have that type of mentality and you let them know that you know the world is not fair You got to do what you need to do to get what you need to get. They're gonna hand you some of money to invest Here go start your business. You make a good business woman You're making a good business on it because you understand, you know Men a lot of men will Not like what you're doing But the ones with the real money won't be threatened by you and they'll love your attitude About knowing what you want knowing how to get it and not being afraid to go get it, okay Men with real money admire that in women They're not competition. They just women who understand look You got it. I want it. You don't give it to me or not.   It depends on their age if your man is in his 20s or early 30s He ain't trying to get married. No time soon. Okay If he's 45 and up, maybe you can help he can he'll he'll hear you Older man getting possessive but won't break bread had to cut him off. I haven't even heard sound good Yeah, if he old and you and you if he's old Super old and you are seen out in public with him. He should already gave you something All he did was up his status for somebody else that was watching him with you Now they're gonna come over and see what he's about since he was with some young girl So you you gave him. I hope that you weren't seen out in public with him. Remember If you're young and he's old, you're a status symbol if you're seen out in public with him That's the same as a written a card for free. You can't do it. You can't be seen out in public with them if they don't Okay It's like, oh we can meet here You know, we can meet there and private we can meet here in private You give me some money and I'll go out with you to put this in my paypal and I'll meet you at the restaurant. You know what I'm saying I need gas money I need gas money Yeah Don't be afraid get go for what you want and stop Walk it around this world like it's fair when it's not Okay, that's just you know world's not fair No one gets fair treatment only the strong survive and only people that ask for what they want and go get it We'll have it Everybody else sitting there waiting on it Waiting for people do the right thing waiting for the right time and the right place and the right this and the right that Are only going to be waiting While you're living and doing exactly what you want to be doing Okay, if I had waited and done all the right things if I had lived my life by the moral rules and codes I would be in somebody's roach apartment with about two kids and two baby daddy and Sitting there wondering what what happened in my life and how come I filed the rules and still ended up like this Out that's what I would be I broke every rule that I could that I could break And it worked That's all I want to say like every rule break it don't even care about it because they don't care about you They don't care about you. I saw um, I saw Someone on my facebook post A post they said dating in 2017 pretending like a woman go out to eat have sex make a big excuse dump her That's how it goes and they know it So why would you care?   It's not the same for men because that's a man's role That's a man's role, you know to provide If your man is looking for you to be a man to him Then y'all in a messed up relationship Okay, if your man is looking for you to be a man for him y'all in messed up relationship So I don't know that's like you asking your man to go have a baby I don't feel like having a baby this year. Can you go add a baby? Okay, so don't do that If he can't add to you Drupal if he cannot Benefit you Drupal if he's taken from you drop him. He can't benefit you. What are you doing? You're being drained I mean think about it. If you have a son or a daughter a child. Do you want someone draining them? You know The son is supposed to be the male provider The father the head of the household You know provide for the mother and the children, right? Okay, that's normal. That's supposed to be But flip the script you have a woman working taking care of kids and uh supporting a man that don't that don't make sense You know and having the babies Why is he there? What is he doing?   Okay Listen to everything he says figure out What he's capable of doing for you after you have Figured that out if you can't get him to do those things for you move on That's it Another thing about getting an old man.  He won't even know how to work facebook. Okay I'll be like, how you do this? What's what's up? What's this? You know He won't even know how to find you if you figured it out still like Looking for your real name I'm on snapchat, instagram, facebook I tell him I'm on my space. He's gonna be looking on my space. Hey layla What you doing? Um, I'm alive. What's this in your hair? Hey, I can't tell you what I was doing. Okay, no, please don't tell me What y'all doing? Sorry, I cannot tell you what you was doing All right, go get ready for it my space. I'm on my space. I'm gonna fail look Anyways See you don't have no problem. Like I'm not on facebook I'm on my space Older man don't even try to get on facebook like I can't figure that stuff out There are download messengers gotta download the app that secure your password. You gotta There's too many steps and you know, I ain't got you know, whatever What about someone with two baby mamas, but I love him What's love got to do got to do with it? Who needs a heart when a heart can be those other two baby mamas loves him too Okay, that's all I gotta say uh Are you gonna be the one he marries? Are those two baby mamas taking your money because they're taking his child support Will he ever be able to make any money if he's constantly being drained of child support from two different women? Do you love him that much to live in poverty with him? Because I don't I don't see how you can do that because For me I could I couldn't trust you if you already done it twice to somebody else You don't gotta pray and left them and now your turn Don't you want you know, and I still wouldn't marry him because if he can't pay his child support Then you're gonna have to pay it for him if you marry him. So I don't know unless he's rich I don't care about love I'm thinking about the long run.  That's what you need to ask yourself What if my old man died? Oh, no A will life insurance Oh my gosh See, that's the good thing about marrying someone older. They don't do go fund me.  We don't care Do rich white men care about curves dating the black one? If they all they take what they can get you Okay, now If they're young enough to still be social and want to be seen out public with you and If you say curves, but you mean overweight, it's a difference, you know curves and overweight is two different things Most guys, uh, most white guys they like women to be thin or In shape, you know, unless they're super old and that's all they can get So you got to kind of understand You know somebody like it if they're if that's what their thing is, but typically No, you know, so Uh, for me if I was in that predicament I would aim for older black men with money Older black men with money, you know A ugly old You can get more and they like it You'd be like come here baby.  No I just flat iron it How can you get a man to put pictures of you on his facebook after you have been with him for a year?  But it's in his bedroom. Oh my god Say well, you better take it back because i don't accept uh gifts in public Say i don't i don't need that gift baby But are you ready for the public embarrassment if he's up to no good? See that's the thing about facebook It goes two ways You can be up to no good too How can you verify a man has money and isn't fronting? Ask him for a large amount of money Or if you can't ask if you don't feel comfortable asking him with money google him Google his name His address should pop up google that address on google maps if it's in a nice neighborhood You can tell if he owns the house or not If he owns property google All you gotta do is look up your address like okay find an address Like this one i did i looked at my address And there was some website and it shows you who owns the house is next to you You just click on that address and it shows you who owns it how much they paid for it how much it's worth Blah blah blah blah who owned it before then so Look up their address Or look up their name get their address look up their address look up their neighborhood See how much the houses are worth around their house see if they owned it if they're renting it if there's It's easy Like you just have to want to find out you can't just accept people's word for anything these days You gotta know exactly what you're dealing with You know Yeah, and another thing a lot of you guys are asking me about this group Okay last week or last time i went live i let a couple people in and they they They weren't ready. Okay.  They were gossiping screenshoting to other people's groups because uh, you know, they couldn't believe What i would you know what people were doing and They either left on their own or i just kicked them out because one of the rules is you can't screenshot in this group You know the privacy is is very important and the the sad thing is is that You know, they were more upset at me Because they they were saying i don't live the life that i claim that i live I never claimed that i live any type of life, but the life that i'm living right now, you know um I don't know what they were trying to say I'm just trying to help other people Live their best life. There's people out there living way better than me and my group. Okay. I don't hate them for it I I say congratulations.  Okay But don't get mad at me because there's other girls in the group who are Traveling on yachts looking good getting stuff bought for i'm still sitting here making youtube videos. So Am i mad at them?  I just had to say it I'm sitting here telling you the formula you sitting here saying but but but but But but by If you if you already knew the formula why are you here? If you if you could get a man, why are you here? Obviously you don't know the formula Obviously you don't want to follow the formula. Obviously you think you can do better on your own Then go ahead. Bye. You know, I feel like I That person kind of betrayed the group's trust by screenshotting shots of people's conversation and And posting it in another group Of pygmy chicks too. Oh no, okay Um, that's their entertainment to see how well we're doing. Okay Maybe I'll inspire them To do better Like your combination is not working You can't score the type of thing that you're looking for with your current formula. That's why you got into the group You know, you can't argue with the formula that works If you feel like You don't have to change to do what you need to do Then why are you here? So I'm screaming like crazy. I'm I'm asking you questions. I'm asking you questions on morality Looks, are you willing to do? Are you willing to make changes in your appearance if it will help you? Are you willing to accept certain things if it's going to help you? Are you willing to do? You know, I don't are you willing not to screenshot and share with other pygmy chicks because you can't conform You know, I have to ask all these questions down because some of y'all were not ready Y'all were just But how but why but this is but bye, you know, I told y'all this was serious. We ain't playing Okay You are you in it to win it Or you're not Even if you there just to learn You don't go off until you know, you don't you don't do none of that You don't get upset and question things just observe and post every now and then If you're not in full agreement because not everyone is going 100% agree with what you're doing or what you're saying But don't go get up there and get mad and screenshot and talk about people and how they're not living the life that they say They're living blah blah blah. I guarantee I'm living 10 times better than whoever was posting that stuff.  So if I'm not living the life that I say I'm living No matter what life I'm living is 10 times better than y'all Maybe you know, maybe one day you'll get on the level that I'm at So I don't know so y'all need to figure that one out and I'm not letting no more I'm sorry y'all. They don't ruin it for y'all.  I'm not letting none of them back in or any, uh Life coaches. I'm not letting none of y'all in but don't even try Because y'all always got something to add something to say and think that a man wants Something that they don't okay. That's why you are single because you haven't figured out the formula the formula is not morally correct But it works. Okay, if you're trying to do everything fair morally correct, you're gonna be single until you 82 Okay, so Um Someone was saying oh, they don't teach you need to you have you need to have manners You need to be educated you need to do Cardi B Oh, you need to do this. Oh, you need to do that. Oh, you need to be prim and proper Oh, you need to do you need to be no weave. No not a lot of makeup real every day Give me knowledge Oh, you need to do this. This is that you know what those type of women are a type of women men mess over in two seconds Okay, if that's what you want to be go be it You're not going to get the type of men that you really want You're going to get the leftovers You're going to get someone who's going to put you as a last priority You're going to get you're going to get someone that's going to turn their neck to look at somebody with fake stuff on while you sit here looking like um The cleaning lady. Okay, so Y'all can keep that whole tip natural 100 pure stuff over there I'm not downing it, but that's this lifestyle don't mix with that. Okay I'm look It doesn't mix you can't do that And expect to get the same results as somebody with weave and makeup and you know eyebrow, okay You can't Okay Are you hungry? Oh, what you got? I got some orange and water. Thank you I'm going to stop saying it What?  I'm a pikey. That's women of water I'm an ocean ocean, baby She tried to prank me. That was a good one Sasha. I'm glad it wasn't something else nasty I got a little orange Yeah, all right.  Give me some orange juice.  I like to feel like it's like soft We're half a spoon Okay, you can have it Thank you Take your salt water Give it to me. Go Don't give it to leila So i'm sorry that um I'm sorry that it was like ruined by certain people who weren't in you know, weren't having it I warned them before they joined. I was like, look It's a straight up golden group We don't do morals and if if we think we can improve our looks we go for it When we don't look good for how we want to look we we look according to what men like to look at Because that's what's going to get you the money You can't you know, it don't matter what you think is beautiful. What do men think beautiful? What are men willing to spend on? You know what i'm saying? So Well, I don't think I should have to put on makeup. I don't think I should have to comb my hair I don't think I should have to put shave my armpits. Okay I don't think you should be in this group So I'm like You know and and i'm not trying to talk bad against those type of people because you can live a wonderful life and get a wonderful man Looking just like you look when you wake up But you're not going to get uh, you know, you're not going to get the type of lifestyle that you see these other women getting because men like visuals you know Yeah, there's always the exception to the rule but for the majority Men want somebody that looks the part You know of a fantasy You can be a spiritual woman all day. I'm a spiritual person, but I know what gets paid You know, I know what looks will get you paid. You know if you got dreadlocks and uh, you know burn incense and are vegan and natural hair And you know into all the natural things Great, but if you're trying to get a man with money All you got to do is put on some makeup on a wig Upgrade your wardrobe have have one section of the closet for your dating clothes One section of your closet for your hotel clothes. I don't know but When you going out to get these type of guys you can't look like Dusty, okay, because you're going to track dusty man, you know Y'all can look at my old videos. I was dusty looking but I was already married so it didn't matter Okay And let's you do that after you get the ring after you get the money then you go back to that In order to secure the bag You gotta look the part Okay Okay, I got kimonos I got sandals. I got tribal print I got mandela prints I got all that too. I'll wear that whenever I feel like it when I'm going out my husband on the town or something I'm not wearing that Hey, Sasha Is that a bite That made me worse with salted ice. No Sasha. Don't put salt in it It's not an ice on my skin. Not salt. Ice is good. All right. Her salt and ice burns. What's that? Don't waste them because I might need them I don't need that one. Oh, thank you. She said I was never dusty Wear hotel clothes in my private dressing room. No, I'm serious. Like I have seen What what you would call a natural girl transform And to like a teen You know In the group. She was like, look, I know I've been in this group long enough to see what kind of girls get money I I'm gonna change my look real quick and see what I can do and then she's get paid left and right left and right guys were just giving her money and so you know When you Understand what they like to look at. That's what you do You know, it's not about what you like to look like. It's about what they like to look at And when you get home to take up all that stuff And be what you want to be when you're out with them and and you know Trying to get this you look what they want you to look like That's it.   You're gonna have to put some makeup on you have to put a nice dress on some heels You know because you're representing him So that's what it's about. Okay, it's not about you're ugly.  I keep telling y'all y'all need to paint the picture and men's head Men are visual creatures.  That's too close. Is it too scary? You don't scare them away, girl Everyone saying hi ql The baby is whatever Hi Sasha Yes, I'm trying to read all of them. It's just going by People say Ella pretty It was someone saying cute Sasha needs I think of my hair. It's my hair horrible. Uh-huh. It's okay. It's still cute Like a nightmare money. We're trying to get into Very easy. Yes. Keep us in here. Yes So pretty Our I forgot that candle All right, y'all could get in the bed But mom but mom but I want to be on the channel Okay, I want to be on your channel too And come on So guys and you came back with my bubblegum Yes, daddy down there Tell him something good Paper everything tell me about gold digging but we're trying metaphorically There's only one time When you go digging for gold or oh Either way, you're gonna get paid for which one You said some gold diggers fail That's a metaphorical gold digger Oh, yes What do you think swash?   But I want you to go to work And pay half the bills no, what if somebody asks you to do that? What would you do? They'll go get my grandma to do it Grandma to do what I work your grandma Oh, yeah, you're right. I'm asking you. I'm not working.  Don't even look at me You have to I'm not working.   What if he's ugly or old? But he gives you money. I don't care. I just get the money. Why? Because It looks no matter why Looks don't matter money So you could deal with the ugly old guys on the streets giving you money.   I went for the old guy He knows he knows it, but he doesn't like to admit it Why he don't like to admit it because he's still trying to be young Why does he still try to be young because he has a wife and he doesn't want to app his Because he has a wife. He has a young wife Yeah, I'm gonna ask why he's young. He looks young But You know how old he is He's old enough to get that senior discount At the movie theater Layla know all the discounts All right Sasha, I know Sasha does not like to work. She's not gonna work. I have to big her to do stuff around But you get like she begs me to get a plunger Mm-hmm. She's not going to be the worker type. Yeah, she's not gonna make it in the world either She's gonna make it because i'm teaching her how to make it It's so rude Okay, I'm staying on your lap because I don't want to go bang All right, Layla. What's you what's you gotta do? I'm going to own a thermostat company Okay, that way you will pee me all your money Because you love thermostat I like air conditioning Okay As long as you don't marry no broke man, I don't care what you do Because you know Sasha will talk about you Layla married that broke man You know you will yeah, I'm gonna be in competition That's y'all's goal who can get the one with the most And y'all take care I need to get back on my mommy's lap I'll help you scroll. Okay, you'll help me scroll. Are you gonna scroll now? No, that's it Love the open discussion. Well, I I teach my kids The truth what life is not what? Life is not perfect Why because There's broke people there is people that steal people that kill People that kill Oh The world is always nice. Let's just walk in the park meet some new people. Well, not the real world Don't listen to those cartoons where everyone's nice There's only a few characters every baby's getting bored right now And also There's only the same babies in that show. It's not realistic Watch real tv Watch the news Or if you know, it's not real watch a cartoon My baby, what have I taught my child? To disobey You know to question things and don't just do what people tell under there. That's not disobeying Okay, what else Sasha what advice would you give a lady? Who is in love with a broke man?  What would you tell somebody who? Once a man a man who's rich but stingy. How do they get money from him? Well go through his wallet. You might find something that you can tell about you can find money blackmail She's bad Blackmail blackmail. She says go through his wallet and find something to tell. No, I'm just kidding I'm just kidding. Just go through his wallet and steal his things. Yeah, well, that's illegal So what was the legal way we can do it and they knew Hmm How do you get Layla to give you something when she's being stingy? I don't know. She never gives me it Just beg for it beg for it until they get towns like here we go My chick weeks To get my my toy back. It's gonna take weeks to get my that tablet back too. Oh my arm He used me Very psychology or you buy someone candy No Bribed them with candy. Oh make a trade use me for psychology. Oh the legal ways Reverse psychology. I like that one You know Car No, I'm gonna get it for you Just give it in the stairs like What do you say about um someone who is too nice to people and the people always Take advantage of them Make them sit down and then tell them about the world make them watch the news and then they will Be more human because They will watch their back When people creep around But also Around people that been jail You don't mix What would you do if if some guy told you that he wanted to be your boyfriend? And he was nice to you and gave you a lot of money and then you found out he was married already. What would you do? Take the money and go That's what you that's what everyone to do, right?  What if he says my wife don't have to know I'll just see you on the weekend I'll be there. No No Because you don't like sharing do you?  I'll call the wife and I'll call the wife and I was like, are you okay? He said you don't have to know but You need to know before I can Say we can bust him. Yeah, we can bust him. Yeah, we've been busted. What if what if she says it? What? um, you need to stay away from my husband Oh I know that's why we're doing this but it was But he can choose you It's like I'm at him and then he will be with you. What if he keeps calling you? I don't need to see you. Please. I got some money Please I'll go get the money and then just Until lease his number. I just want the money. Okay.    Yes. Yes, not sure. No, not most of them. Yes. Well, is that what you do? Look this thing. Yeah You think can you read it? That's what I do Yes Okay, so now you know what they do. All right, if someone tries to do that to you Don't let it happen.  Okay You got to get the person before you get bought from that person I don't know what I think I've been watching too much joy in the scammer and media major if they um Maybe if they became best friends join the scammer and media make a movie, please I will watch I will pay however much money I will pay a monthly fee To watch it once Yeah, all right Sasha. Well now you know better I'm gonna get in the bed Let's not some more wisdom the wisdoms are doing I've never slept Hmm I didn't say anything. I just said buy those What what if what if what if a missus? I'm sure I'm running short this month. I don't get paid till next week. Can I borrow 100 dollars? I'll be like, no Please I will give it to you Please I need a hundred dollars Go get another big guy if they say get a hundred dollars. They're golden from you From golden they're golden the guys are golden. Yeah from you And then they want the money that's you. Yeah, but you get money out of it.   I need a hundred dollars. I have to get I have to get gas and food You think I can Say you don't have Have a car by any gas Come on, baby. Come on, baby. You know, I love you.   Give me a hundred dollars Come on because you don't want Get a payday loan. That's just chill. Good thinking. Layla Payday loan Okay, layla one you want to give some advice layla What if a man said Come on, baby. Let's build together. We can build a kingdom Why do we Huh, why did you win a kingdom with Reference people that say kingdom really just mean can you help me pay to build? No Come on, baby.  We can do something big together. It's a month. Okay going twice No, goodbye. Come on, baby. We can build up together. We can build a kingdom.  Okay, layla. What if they say it?  Where's madia and joanne the scammer refused Huh, whoever I'm madia and joanne the scammer refused um Madia the scammer So what if he was really cute and all the girls wanted him and he was like I choose you to build with What if he looked like who you like on tv? What if he looks like the guy you have a crush on? I don't know who it is, but what if he looks just like that? What you gonna do?  I ain't gonna peel half those pills Then you're creative gonna get bad unless all the bills are in his name Yes only playing the bills for the first week of haste. I already pulled this bill I'm gone I'm gone. Oh, yes.   Life ain't found. Layla, I'm gonna have to watch you She said yes quick. Who do you like anyway? I don't even know I know, you know, so I was telling him like Is it someone on tv? someone at her school Oh I need to know what he looks like What if he looked bad now that was years ago Okay, Sasha, thank you for your advice and I'll go get it a bit so I can wrap this It's actually on her own channel I could do how I was telling Bob Bailey All right, why don't you sing something since you want to be on here? Sing it loud. Do the descendants Where's going to rap? No going down. No. Okay, then get out of here. It's embarrassing to sing. But you'll do it so well It's embarrassing.  You know, you're good That's like a crack man. When the song comes in the car, you just start singing.   Okay Yeah, she knows that whole song by heart and she's good at it, but she won't sing it because she's shy If you watch snapchat my snapchat you probably see in her singing it. It's not right into the core by the way It's going down. It's going down Who likes umma or the vk's? Umma's crew or the vk's? Which one do you like more? The Piper crew or the vk's? Look that lady flame flame sniper is quoting Or else the king is gone It looks the vk's more than the umma's pirate crew Okay They want you to sing More they say umma's queen All right, okay sing the other song there What was that song Let me tell you something My leg is hurting Y'all go get in y'all pajamas. No, I'm gonna I'm gonna say goodbye and I'll be down in five minutes. Okay Bye mommy. Bye Bye Sasha. Love you Oh my gosh. Oh, yeah, what's my name? That's what she that's what she loves to sing She she's going now Okay, now gotta uh Wrap this up. Oh, I worry about Layla But Sasha got it down.  She's not having it How do you have sex with him when you don't have feelings for him?  And you know that he was together with her only because He could have he could live rent-free and drive her car Or she buy him a car. It's easy. You just have to have a goal The goal is to secure The lifestyle it doesn't matter about if you're attracted to them or not because Get that out of the way. I always say get that out of the way like go go sleep with someone And That you like But like it doesn't matter.  That's the same thing. You don't want to be there Yeah, you're gonna do it for free to somebody else that you really mean something went but be broke You know, I'd rather not need anything and and have money You just have to some people just Have some wine They'll feel like they mean something until that wine wears off Let's just say this, okay Say you were working Getting like a little bitty paycheck Living in a small apartment and then some men came along who you weren't really attracted to But put you up in a very nice house.    You can go shop, you know Meanwhile this girl waiting on the bus Nine months pregnant holding the hands With her brokeie, okay Which one do you want? Okay All right, you can call turn off the light close your eyes get drunk do what you gotta do If it's gonna be over in five minutes I'm still going live I'm getting ready to down right here.  I can't do streaks on my hair Just put on my Joanna scammer. We can call it You can be on my weekend Put that one on my week. What you do you want to be joined? Where do you look like the little kid on the end of that joy in the scammer video Where uh, it was like dumb in the week. Come here. Let me see Your back does not look good. You just have extra volume Welcome to my Caucasian butterfly Sasha Say it again. Welcome to my Caucasian hand. Welcome to my Caucasian butterfly What else is showing your face? Oh, welcome to my um, um toilet paper of hope Say it again Scammers never die Can't even get out of here The doors are with him are never shut. Maybe you could be joined you could be joined the scammer for halloween I want it Also, there's some extra Need a white coat Sasha scams people all the time. All right. Well, I gotta go because these kids They ain't gonna go to bed unless I Get off of this Computer charger, did you pack it?    They're not going to see the value of you They're only going to start seeing the value of what you can offer them So Most of the women in my group they've already been there and done that and are over it You know some women like I said, they either turn lesbian or they turn gold digger.  Can I do that? Can I take you out? You want to be my girlfriend? You want to date me? They're that some guys gonna always be up in the woman's face always Okay If the woman is no longer interested in what's coming out of their mouth They're only interested in this They're gonna give them the time of day. They can't get what they can get out of them.   Okay.  She already said she ain't working She ain't doing none of that because she watches TV.  She sees all that stuff. She knows disney fairy tales are not true She sees the real world You know, she's not getting ready to go work for somebody who's gonna cheat on her behind her back I know I would So men It's how you treat women You create This new generation you've created Women who don't trust you you created the materialistic woman because if you ask any young girl before they've been Uh messed over all they want is love and a cute guy Look, give me a cute guy that that I could be in love with that's all they want Okay, then as they get older they start wanting more why because they realize That cute guy is gonna cheat that you guys gonna break their heart The love it was lust and not love You loved he didn't okay. They're gonna start to realize this and add it all up. It's like I have nothing to show But a broken heart You know, then they're gonna start looking at these other women Oh, how'd she get that nice car when she get that purse from I like them shoes. What are you doing? Yo, you're with that old man. Oh, why are you with him? What he pays all your bills? What he paid your college? He bought you that purse now it's starting to Oh, maybe I can deal with men again You know, then the light bulb goes off.  No, I don't think it's too old at all.  You'll never get older than them And they like that age because you don't look so young that you look like an escort, you know what I'm saying?  You don't look like he robbed the cradle You know, he you look like he got a young wife because he has something but he doesn't look Foolish as foolish as he would with a 20-something.  Y'all hear something funny? Every time we've moved All the movers were calling James my dad Where's your dad? I'll just play along with it. Oh, he's at work Oh, he left. Oh, he'll be back The lawn man, where's your dad? He's not here right now So, you know, whatever I don't it doesn't matter to me as long as those bills bills are paid I'm good, you know so I'm like Sasha. I'm not getting ready to go to work. I've already been to work I've worked and every job that I've had like seriously every job that I've had I've been sexually harassed on my job So why would I why would I work? You know It's it's hard for a woman to go out and work in the workforce. Anyway without being harassed I'm like I could stay home and get harassed by my sisters been Um And I have to even go to work Okay So no and I told my husband like say every job I get I get harassed sexually So I can't work every job I have my boss wants to sleep with me Yes And that's that's kind of sad But it's true like my first job. Oh my god, I was 15 and I was getting sexually harassed by an old man So my first job second job same thing All it the only job I was never sexually harassed on I worked at a dentist office And the movie theater that's it those are only two jobs that I never got sexually harassed on but every other job Yep So when when I say I don't want to work And if you make me work something gonna happen because If you're if you're being sexually harassed by somebody every day every day and they're trying to win you over and win you over And you're spending more time with that man than your own husband, you know, it's like, dang, you know I gotta keep this job I want a promotion.  They won't hire you no more. It's just it's messed up, you know You don't have proof You know, so it's almost like You might as well get what you can out of it You know our lunches Free vacations, you know, but that's why I don't work no more because that's another reason I don't work no more because If I did And I was sexually harassed on my job, then I'd have to deal with that as well So I'm like, look I can't work Because uh, you know what happens when I go to work I get too many stares when I go out with my old man. I'm 26 and he's 50.  That's what they're thinking. They're not thinking. Oh, how can she be with that old man because they're thinking Oh, yeah, because he gives her everything and she don't have to do nothing Okay, and what they're thinking with him is oh, he must have money He must have money if he can afford a young woman It ups his status and it makes you seem like you're getting whatever you want, you know When I go out with james, that's when they stare at us He feel like he driving a Ferrari. Okay, and I feel like People think I'm just some spoils the good woman that gives everything, you know And so it's like you own it. You own it. You just walk on like, yes, I don't work Yes, I've made Yes, I'm with the old man Because I'm smarter than you because you're with you're on the bus, you know, so own it Stop worrying about what people think. Oh, I'm with this old man. Oh, no Yes, I'm with this old man. He pays for everything.  They know why you with him because he's got money Then they sitting there splitting the check what they mean Okay, so don't even worry about that Right, my man could take me and my friend out and pay for everything.  Yeah, I would be embarrassed too As long as he's paying everything give gifts treating you good. It doesn't matter um The first millionaire I ever went out with he was ugly he was old But when I went out with people knew who he was so that that helped me out. They're like, wow You're with him. Yeah I'm gonna date You know Oh, okay Um Next time they see me without him. I'm still getting good treatment. Oh I remember you you came in with such a. Oh, yeah, how's he doing? Oh, he's great You know, you gotta play the game Now he was gross. I never did that with him.  I just I'll go be seen out with you. I'll make a few people jealous I'm you know, this isn't that you'll give me some money and then I'm gone and I'm not calling you for a couple of months But well this man he was married And he took me to his house.  I look at his ex-wife picture and she looked just like me. I'm like This thing over I know what you're trying to do you know Try to replace me try to replace her with me And I was like, no, thanks. I can't you know, I can't do this Um, so it's like, so why did y'all divorce? I've been on nosy I'm pretty sure he cheated but you know how they don't tell that part.  I'm like, okay Whatever you cheated I go if I don't if I'm not interested in them I ghost them like a long time ago I would date you if you had money. I'll go out with you You know, I'd be seen out public with you and you can buy me a gift and then after that date or the second date I'm ghosting you if I don't like you You know, uh because back then my options were a lot like There were a lot. I would meet rich men every day. You know, this was before Like websites and seeking arrangements and stuff like that. This was like I just go out in public places And meet people, you know the the line of business that I was in, you know There were a lot of rich people around me all the time so It was just easy but If you don't like them and you don't have chemistry and you can't go any further and they don't not drop I know serious money. Anyway, just ghost them. Don't don't keep pushing for it If a man wants to give you money, he's going to shower you with it You know, you don't have to you don't have to do all the extra work Find one that likes you more than you like them and they will just be smothering you Here you want this here the first day I went out with James The first night I went out with James. He kept asking me do I want stuff But can I do you want this you want to go get your nails done? Do you want this? Let's go buy this. Do you want some new music? Let's go buy some CDs. He was trying to buy everything I mean like That's that's the type of man that will just hand you money for no reason you know, um James started off as my sugar daddy and I was like, okay. Well If you want to be intimate with me, we're gonna have to be in a relationship because I don't do anything outside of relationship Okay, well, I can do that. Okay. Well, and then, you know, if we're in a relationship And you're my boyfriend, you can pay all my bills Because you know you need to take care of me Because if I go to work My boss, he got a crush on me. You know, he liked me So I can't work anymore So you don't have to take care of me. You don't have to pay my bills my car new Okay, how much is it? I told him. Oh, that's not a problem Been like that ever since You know, so you find one that likes you way more and wants to give you money Jackpot, you know what I'm saying?   Yeah, let's go Oh, can I get this? Okay Oh, yeah, no problem.  What is he doing?  Yeah James is a Sagittarius somebody asked her what James would do. He's a Sagittarius How did you make your husband want to hand you money for no reason? I told him that I can't work anymore my boss Pastor pimp was my boss. Oh, y'all know who pastor pimp is Some of y'all do okay this guy used to work for Um, what's my boss at the time and he was actively pursuing me actively pursuing me And I told James look I can't go back to work because my boss wants to date me You don't have to go back to work You can just hang out with me all day like Okay Tell me your boss is not is after you. You ain't gonna have to work no more Why don't you just find it or they'll help you find another job? Well, I'll find you a better job. You can work for me or you don't have to work. You can just relax I'll pay for your bills Because when you're young your bills aren't that high anyway, so it's not even a problem for most guys with money, you know and When I met James I was like 22 And he had his own company We had a nice car, you know very stable Bragging on himself a lot, so I took advantage of it. I was like, okay.  He need to pay for all this. He need to be paying for all that if he's that old And I said, you know, you're right. So I showed up in my suitcase. I said, guess what? I'm moving in He said come on in He was happy to have me, you know, and then, you know We started moving to nicer places Uh, we we lived like, you know, the water we lived downtown in a high ride We lived in a really nice high rise with like, um A concierge Valley parking and all that kind of stuff. We lived it all we lived a good life And You know, we enjoyed our life for five years before we got married and had kids So we got All that fun vacation, you know, all that kind of stuff out of the way and then Then I got pregnant with Layla And so then we got a house in the suburbs And, you know, started a family, but We enjoyed ourselves first, you know We didn't just straight up and get pregnant because that's a lot of mistake a lot of people do Before they can really get to know each other You know, so that's also important when you want to get in a relationship and be taken seriously And I was always spontaneous crazy had a weird sense of humor. I was different And I felt like that's why he liked me so much. Plus I was young and I was very attractive and um He thought he hit the jackpot, but he was paying me. So I don't know I thought I hit the jackpot. He thought he hit the jackpot. So It was mutual So, yeah Always go for the man that acts a fool over you You'll you'll he might be goofy when you meet him. He might be like You might think he's corny, but if he's watch his actions if you will do anything for you imagine What you can get from him like imagine the life with him He ain't never gonna tell you no, right y'all. All right. Well, I'ma see y'all later. I've been on here too long Oh my god forever So Thank y'all for watching If y'all have any last questions Ask them now because I'm getting ready to go Good night y'all You're welcome. I'm sure sasha and layla say good night to see y'all later


Apparently originally tapas were thin slices of bread or meat that sherry drinkers in Andalusia in Spain used to cover their their glasses in between sips and this was practical because it prevented fruit flies from hovering over the sweet sherry and getting at it and the meat was normally ham or chorizo both very salty so the the owners were very happy with this because you know they've been drinkers for the thursday and they didn't drink more and soon the the tapas became everybody's important as the alcohol and tapas of course have evolved over the years and they come in all not necessarily all sizes but all shapes and all varieties now and there's big national competition every year in Spain to decide on the tapas champion and there's an international competition as well a world tapas competition and that's in Spain also in the city of via Doid and I think that's how it's pronounced and there's 15 participants from 15 different countries that take part in that and the fifth one is coming up shortly the fifth such competition and it will involve someone from bunny go Joseph McFadden Joseph is now living in Orlando but he has been announced as one of the finalists in the world tapas finals and and led that Joseph now actually joins us on the line and on screen as well we're on facebook live from florida Joseph good well good morning to you there good morning to me and good afternoon to you guys I guess it is isn't it it is indeed yeah how's how things in florida today I imagine it's a bit I'm hoping it's a bit drier than it is here it's sunny very sunny I should have put the sunglasses on but that's sunny but didn't want to look too cool on here you know and uh what's this was it's as warm as it normally is in florida it's it's cool down there we actually the cold front start there on sunday but by cold front like we're not oh 80s so it's still still pretty warm yeah i don't imagine okay tell me about ending up in this tapas competition um well first of all let's just go back away but how come you've ended up in Orlando cooking cooking there um long story short they've had a love affair with the usa for a long time i've been over and back over the last 22 years and uh almost eight years ago i made the decision to to move to Orlando i had a great opportunity and i was with um interstate hotels and resorts there for six years and then covid hit and the opportunity then for margaritaville resort came and it took that so they're almost a year now they work in in the famous famous margaritaville resort margaritaville made famous from the jimmy buffett song jimmy buffett song yeah uh um yeah i'm the executive chef there i've been there it'll be a year november 6th is it is is it as exotic and as uh relaxing as the song would suggest it's more so it is actually it is actually a inland paradise that's the theme and when you walk in actually when you drive into the resort you feel like you're in that island in the bahamas or somewhere it's beautiful oh wow would it get many international um a visitor well in a normal year would it get a lot of international visitors or it would be mostly people from the states we get a lot we get a lot of international visitors um we're really close to disney as well so people will use it as a like a stop as well um they get they get the pool in the morning they can do their disney in the evening or they can switch that around if they want we have live music at all of our pools we have five different restaurants and then we have the sunset walk as well which is another 32 shops and restaurants plus other businesses so you don't have to go anywhere it sounds like it sounds good you're definitely selling it and with five different restaurants and uh your your days are busy very busy very busy but thankfully i have a good team there um great management team so um just like the island field we have we have that family field when it comes to your associates i i don't think i've worked anywhere with that sort of continuity and i think the resort just makes people feel happy when they go to work right yeah i can imagine in those surroundings but as an executive chef you probably aren't hands on so is this going to be a bit of a stretch for you now when you have to create these tapas i haven't lasted yet john i'm not suggesting for a second that you have but just when you're out of practice it might be even harder yes i understand you're correct there i'm more management and financials now than than anything but i still have to jump in and get stuck in you know uh i i did a i did a good two months spent uh at night when we were changing the restaurant from the euphoria to the euphoria fish house so euphoria was jimmy buffett's first yacht that was the name of his first yacht so that's the name of our restaurants yeah yeah yeah so um yeah so sorry just as you mentioned jimmy buffett there does he actually have an association with the resort is he like an ambassador or something he does he's been there yeah he goes around them and he makes sure that he's seen seen at the resorts yeah oh yeah interesting all right now it's all right you're gonna say i haven't got to sit down and play with him yet but one day and he hasn't come into the kitchen to do any cooking with you either has he that's that's yet to happen as well he might have to come to spain and help me with this tapa well how did the tap thing come about like how does an Irish man cooking in Orlando end up in a tap as fine in spain um it was an online application the process was all online um did my came up with my idea did my video did my photo shoot for it uh refined the recipe sent them all off and i i i want it so i get to represent the USA and all its territories so i'm extremely proud of that um it was it was a tough one because you want to keep it simple when it comes to the tapa but at the same time you want something unique and and modern as well so i think i think i got it on that i i presume that some of the restaurants that that you oversee uh or maybe all of them serve tapas what what what's the more more popular uh tapas in Orlando they like a lot of ahi tuna here they like they like their seafood here right definitely the uh this the scene here is definitely seafood in Florida we have an abundance of it from each coast um so that the ahi tuna we sell a lot off and then wouldn't really call it a tapa but it's a huge seller first would be shrimp ceviche it's uh it's like you can do it with any fish really as long as it's fresh but it's more or less marinated in uh citrus and and uh red onion and and items like that there beautiful pure pure delicious and then oh it's beautiful stuff like and here um there's a big there's a big latin field here in Florida as well like there's a lot of island influence so we have to cater for that so it works in our favor well it also works in your favor and that you're from Dunfany so you've been no you've been no stranger to fresh fish absolutely i used to pick the mussels in the bay there you go dig the cockles with a spoon there you are well that was a good grounding that was a good grounding and how many how many tapas do you have to create i mean uh i there's i presume that there's the set tapas what you applied with is what you're going to have to present or have to final yeah just one one per chef okay one per chef but um we'll get teamed up with a restaurant from the city i think you pronounced it right when you got it i think it was via the lead so yeah uh each chef will get teamed up with a restaurant and then we will actually sell that tapa from that restaurant for the duration of the competition okay so um i'm not sure who i'm teamed up with yet but we'll be work we'll be working on that and then uh on the final day we present for the judges and it's 11 Michelin star chefs no pressure no pressure 11 Michelin star chefs yes that's pretty intimidating it is just a little but i'm sure you can mix it up with the best of them and uh i when when the final zone and i get i fly november 6 to the 11th so the company that that organizes the whole thing east bay and they'll be they'll be reaching out to us soon and giving us the full itinerary so buy the six get there the sevens and then we compete until a tense there's the last day so just waiting on east bay and then the itinerary and then we'll know more from there but the dates are set and how has the last 12 months or so been at margaritaville it's you know it's been it's been tough here in hospitality here in ireland i'm sure it's been tough there as well it has been but i can tell you this and it might shock you margaritaville broke every record it ever set this year with with staycations yeah a lot of staycations and a lot of locals using the resort as a getaway just from the cabin fever that was going on you know and weddings banquets conferences they're all picking back up again we did 14 weddings in one month there wow yeah so and we're looking pretty busy for next year as well so going good everybody's being safe and sensible that's the main thing you know especially with the staff it's we got to be on on the ball when it comes to safety and sanitation and stuff definitely we had the high standards but we had to really up them just and make sure we're sanitizing every 30 minutes instead every two hours now you know yeah yeah so the last time i was in ireland though i was blown away literally by hurricane katrina so what's the hurricane season been like um that we've been we've not heard any any big reports or big stories so nothing nothing thankfully there it's been a quiet year everything musters are turned back out to sea or um yeah we got lucky i was actually on here i think maybe four years ago i can't remember who i was talking to but i was reporting from the hurricane coming through okay yeah yeah the one that turned can't remember it was down to port urico and then all of a sudden it just turns through the state was maria and all our members katrina that she's kind of spoiled our holiday but uh there's been sure you're well used to hurricanes there so yes i'm not done at all and i'm not on that scale thankfully oh no listen the best look in the competition and it's been great chatting to you joseph and uh and uh the best luxury we'll keep an eye on on your progress and uh and maybe chat again but in the meantime many have listened to good luck over in spain and and for the future into the matter thank you john i'll keep you posted and all right quick shout out to my three boys michael allen and christin love you all and love danigal check on a little bit