like two minutes and didn't even have it on turn it off baby or put it on the floor they can't hear me I got a gift in the mail one of my subscribers sent me one of the seven seals do y'all see this curl formers now let me let me read y'all this message thank you sis thank you so much for this hey Vivian it's going to be interesting to see how these will work on your hair I apologize in advance for any lack of sleep good luck they become you don't call her that boo-boo only I can call her that thank you so much for this gift oh lord y'all curl curl formers curly formers however you pronounce it are the one the one style I have yet to try so look I have a serious question for y'all did y'all like bluebell ice cream has changed no I'm serious y'all I know the majority of my my subscribers are anyway I feel like it's changed I mean it's good I'm gonna eat it shout out to Teresa Ruiz girl she was throwing me a little bit of shade saying that one minute one minute I like how you talk about losing weight in the next week in junk food yes and I'm down three pounds I probably gained all three of it back tonight y'all y'all JB broke his cell phone which is my husband's own phone so now he's on my phone and he normally uses the phone when he's sleeping you typically first thing in the morning when he's sleepy you broke your phone baby he broke the screen yeah he is so dramatic and animated I wonder where he gets that from he will break out in a fake cry in a minute I'll be ignoring it the last the last episode of the assassination of Gianni Versace girl but do y'all feel like those you I don't know some of you probably watching I feel like they're almost one of us to have some sympathy for this serial killer I really do they want us to empathize with this man and I think that some of those I'm not gonna talk about everything because of you know who I feel like some of it is a stretch now catch this catch this right here one of David's exes is on Amazon.com going in I know y'all like Amazon apparently this show is about a it's based off of a book called what is it called a vulgar vulgar favors I've had a glass of wine it's called vulgar favors look it up I'm linking down below and one of the exes again to David it was like was basically like David is not as innocent as it you know makes it seem I have letters between him and Andrew there is some heart rumors going on around you know but I still love the show it's one of the best shows it was better than the OJ Simpson which I only watched like the first two or three episodes of that but yeah y'all so it starts here like I said I'm off Friday they're gonna be with me all day Saturday my husband and I are dating I think it's really important when you once you get married that you continue to date your spouse so we're going out on a date we're going to salty so here in Paradise Valley Lord so I did my hair flat twist this is a review I'm in the middle of reviewing the auntie's Lord y'all that leave in is make my hair so dry like that I don't know what it was cuz I used to leave in I used to oil my hair was dry it almost it felt like hey yeah the ends felt like hey and Linda said the same thing that hair hair hair felt like straw yeah my we both in the barnyard girl and so I ended up adding some of my leave in my DIY buttercream and then set my hair and twist along with the styling product which was the curl pudding I'm not using any more of that stuff my matter of fact who do I know that can have who have curly hair I don't know anyone on my arm around me I'm maybe I'll give it to D newbie and glam rock you guys no miss D no no no miss D Solomon a Sierra's mommy baby speaking of D newbie and glam rock the natural hair show out here in Phoenix is coming up I believe it's May 12th I would not be participating I probably won't even be able to go because that is the same week as my surgery you guys so if I do do something I want I want to do a workshop or anything I don't want to be stressed out or anything of you cuz my surgery is on a 17 yeah I need to focus on that so if I go it'll be a walk around hey how you doing type thing but I won't be doing a workshop I have participated in the natural hair show for the past four years but this year I won't be able to do it just because of the time constraints you know so so handsome who bought you that car purchase that car for you with oh yeah yes thank you thank you so what are you guys gonna do tomorrow I don't know we're gonna go to Anthem Park and ride the train ride he looks just like me and y'all we have the same eyes the same nose the train training product reviews I have no more room up underneath my shell so now I'm not talking about you know reviewing one or two products I'm reviewing between four and five products I'm buying I should say so I have no more space so yeah let me get this together and start bringing some hair products back here all right so I moved and I'm even half well is this half almost half of my products over this leaves room for the new products I'm gonna be ordering you guys so I can have room up underneath my cabinet so these are the products either I've already reviewed I've tried they're back here they're just sitting back here any products that are in my bathrooms or products that I'm using in between reviews and make a room for new products because I estimate that I'm gonna be ordering at least between now and the end of August between 20 20 to 30 new hair products yeah so I'm gonna need space so everything that I'm reviewing and half review is gonna be coming back over here and I'll hold in spot until I'm ready to use it again yeah I'm looking at what's over here the only thing that I would use the tgin definitely tgin tgin I've been using this twisted sister spray 30-second curl spray I got on clearance I got on clearance for like a dollar fifty at fries your finger what it what sound does that M make okay sound it out okay okay okay and what does what word is that no good job baby what's the next word what's the sound this to a make mm-hmm and it's and baby Matt and good job sweetheart all right now all right so now what do we have I don't think we've read this one this is a new one boo boo I haven't seen this one okay what's the next letter that's right mm-hmm yeah you're right you're right I should probably back up some y'all on our way to church turn off this air and today is more of an orientation day for me because I'm gonna start volunteering at my church through the kingdom kids area either checking in people helping people to check in on actually watching after the kids and orientations at 10 it's not 17 no baby I'm gonna check JB into the area go do a little bit of worship and then go back in and check in cuz it's about 30 minutes we have going on today and then after church I gotta stop by staples pick up my high school reunion form girl I'm going to my 20-year high school reunion in September why is it on Sunday your kids always want to act up like I'm this close I haven't I haven't touched JB in days girl which is I'm trying to check my mood my temper but are you you guys we are out I probably came up here for the orientation it was really good I mean this church is really structured to the fact to where you have to officially become a member before you can actually volunteer but she said we can work with you guys meaning I knew that they were having a membership meeting so I need to attend the membership meeting look I've been going to this church off and on for like three years so I need to officially join they run background checks in the volunteers which I have no problem with you know I'll pass but it's I think that's very appropriate so let me show you what I got at the clearance out at my local fries so the clip the fries I have is what's called a marketplace fries so look at these cute little decorative napkins they were only 79 cents each 79 cents not bad at all you guys I entertain I do small little gatherings I may invite two or three people over maybe you know two or three times a year honestly truly but when I do I go all out so look at this these doilies 99 cents is neck cute these little cute little buckets how much are these 80 cents this would be cute to put straws in or your tin tools one separately for nice spoons and farts really cute now this is what really piqued my interest these are glass isn't this cute have a little topper on there this would be cute with four sordid candies nuts really really cute but this is what really piqued my interest my favorite color is purple matches my nose sort of kind of huh this was four dollars y'all four dollars this would be cute for cupcakes a little mini cakes little mini pies cookies really really really cute so yes y'all what do you call an introvert who loves to entertain I don't know like I love to entertain I love to cook I love to decorate but I don't like a lot of people in my house I think the most I've ever had was doing JB's birthday party and I was feeling real itchy and real itchy and irritated and I think that was a what about 1112 people um yeah this is really really cute really cute so everything together was four five six seven eight nine everything was about 13 dollars which is not bad at all


Hi everybody. First I would just want to thank you for being here and welcoming us and also the whole Team that we've worked with at work camp because you guys have been made things so easy and smooth. So thank you for that So as you heard, I'm Sally Lariman. I lead the trust project I founded it and the trust project is an international collaboration of news organizations working to develop a more trusted and trustworthy press and Today we're going to announce our new WordPress plug-in which was developed by Kay's team. Great. Thank you. So I'm Kay Lima I'm actually now the acting director of INN Labs, which is the product and technology team at the Institute for Nonprofit News and You'll be hearing more about the plug-in in just a bit I'm sharing the mic. So new journalism is in crisis. You know that trust has been declining since basically the dawn of the internet and we have deliberate efforts to undermine trust in the news and On the internet or on any digital space when you look at the information Everything looks the same. So if you're looking at a news story by, you know, a qualified quality Journalist, it looks just the same as a poorly reported story It looks the same as maybe a piece of advertising a piece of propaganda or maybe even Information designed to incite an anger So I thought well, can we flip the picture? Can we use this amazing space to support quality to support quality news and trustworthy news? So that's the idea behind the trust project and what we case showing you here If you imagine the public adrift on the sea of information and then you imagine Thank you the platforms kind of trying to steer people around these massive cruise ships to the right place can The and they're not doing the greatest job. None of us are doing a great job So can news organizations be sort of a lighthouse? And to provide trust indicators on their sites to show This is what who and what is behind the news and then also offer information to platforms so they can surface more quality news So what I did was go ahead and start with the user because if you're gonna change the algorithms You have to give you have to give the algorithm information about Basically what should go into the formula so start with the user and ask them What is it you value in news? When do you trust it? When don't you and then? Took that information to news publishers and we worked with 75 different news organizations to try to marry what we learn from users with Journalistic values to come up with these trust indicators that you now see on About 140 sites which represent it's from about 14 different brands or publishers And we're about ready to launch with and get up to probably about 200 sites from 18 publishers So I want to share with you what we found out from the users and then go Kind of tell you a little show you some trust indicators then Kay will talk about the plug-in What we found we found that they're basically for user types And I'm not going to go into the user types except to tell you one thing that all the way from the angry and disengaged to the avid Hyper user there is a sense that news is important that people want to be informed So that's the good news lots of folks though feel like they're not getting what they want So one of the first things we heard is people Understand that journalists try to be impartial, but they say everyone has an agenda. So what's yours newsrooms? They talk about wanting to feel or to hear from diverse voices people like themselves Unlike themselves and especially not just from people at high levels of business and government They wanted to feel a relationship with journalists. So who is this person? What's their expertise with their agenda? They wanted to know what am I looking at is it news? This is analysis. Is it opinion? Is it advertising content? There was a sense that there was all this blending together. So they wanted to be more informed about that How do you know what you know? So news organizations tell me how this story was built. What are your sources? Then there were a couple of the last ones locally sourced is it does this journalist know about my community about me? whether demographically or geographically and Also, was it were they there and let me participate a high expectation of participation So what we did was take all that information. I said marry it with journalistic values. So here you see on the page La repubblica is one of our partners is showing their agenda Which as you know as journalists is to serve the public. So what's their ethics code? What are their correct? When do they do corrections? What's their fact-checking strategy? Who owns them? What is their? Coverage priorities and then you can see it on the site page and an article page next one is Author information so structured information about the author who they are what languages they speak where they're based on Both an author page and an article page And then the third example I'll show is just what is this? This is an example Washington Post is showing Analysis this stories analysis is kind of way up there at the top And then they have a shared definition that all of our like a working group of trust publishers decided upon So not only are we showing labels, but these labels all are an agreement So those are just few of the trust indicators. What's in it for the platforms? Well as I mentioned, they're getting now consistent Markup language that matches up with these trust indicators from our publishers Google being Facebook and Twitter all have agreed to use the markup in And they're thinking both about design and in their out Google is using them in their algorithms You can see an example from being showing the type of work on the Search results page and then Facebook. That's an experiment that they're doing In the on the UX side So one last slide. I think I have oh so what's in it for the newsrooms? Well UT Austin did and a study of the trust indicators They had 1,200 people looking at half of them randomly saw the trust indicators have did not and they found that those sites that did have the trust indicators People responded to them thinking that the site was more trustworthy was reputable was reliable told the whole story There were results for the reporter that the reporter was felt to be more have more carefully researched the article was well-qualified And there were behavioral intentions such as being more willing to pay for more news from that site And those are all statistically significant results Trinity mirror did a similar study with the site gone live and they found you know I'll just in summary that you've got the data here about 10% increase overall interest in the site so and then then finally there's just some Kind of good things that you get from doing this project Which is a European broadcast said the trust project has helped push some tidy up bits We needed to do anyway and a regional site said We needed to we haven't looked at our ethics code in 20 years. And so we think it was about time for an update So with that, I think I will hand it over to Kay here who tell you more about the plug-in Great So the iron labs team collaborated with Sally and the trust project to create a plug-in that would then Easily store and display the trust indicators that her team had identified and so what this does is Allows the sites to convey the trustworthiness of their site As well as at a deeper level for the authors and articles themselves We did this by creating back-end settings for posts authors and newsroom information and best practices policies Which then are displayed on the front end and are also that machine readable data There's also a short codes component for the plug-in as well, which makes implementing the front end of the indicators More flexible depending on what your theme may be like So this is an example of the back end of the plug-in just typical settings here but are again specific to the indicators and So what you're seeing here are settings for corrections sourcing and methodology statements, etc And then it can be pulled into the front end either through Again the short codes or in a sidebar say with widgets and This has all been standardized across all of the WordPress sites Through this process of creating the plug-in. We've been able to collaborate with right now a group of five beta testers And through weekly collaboration with them. We've been able to get Feedback for future plug-in improvements, and they've also been able to benefit from working together on editorial Developments as well as the the technical implementation of the indicators And so coming up next we did want to let everyone know that there will be a phase three of the implementations And so we'll be working on a WordPress only phase and hopefully getting at least 20 more WordPress sites to be involved in this testing phase and If you'd like to be Considered for that process you can reach out either to myself or to Sally for that So yeah, we really would love you to join us. And so this is just an example. These are our first 14 companies that We launched in November so you can see these trust indicators on their sites the next slide will show another 18 that are now Implementing so we have a standard that is now Developing global standard that we invite you to participate in it's got user Interface that is I mean not user interface, but structured user Information that is all shared their schema org vocabulary that's shared and so I only showed you we only showed you a few examples and if you want to move to the next slide Oh, here's how you can sign up if you don't get an opportunity to talk to one of us Go this is our website the trust project org and if you click on that collaborator Button you will get to a page just describing how to participate including a form that you can sign in on so with that I think we'll stop I had one more slide, but In case do we have time for questions or not? No, sorry unfortunately, we're we're running so short that I think it makes probably the most sense if there are questions to To find the speakers this evening or tomorrow. We want to make sure everyone can get in their time But thank you so much for your presentation


The narcissist acts differently when they are not around you. There are at least two aspects of the narcissist, two personalities, two ways of acting and behaving. They are too faced. They are insincere and deceitful. They are not expressing genuine feelings. They are deceiving people. They are giving them the wrong idea or impression and hiding who they really are and what they're really about. They're fake people. They're not real or genuine to you or anyone else. They're just pretending to feel or have an emotion, illness or injury to get what they want. When most people get involved with them, they are giving them what they want to see. They are displaying this selfless, kind, caring character which is designed to manipulate people into doing what they want. They pretend like they care about you. They pretend like they're respectful of you. They pretend to have values and morals. You might have an argument or disagreement with them, but you still see it as normal. You recognize and understand that normal, functional people have arguments too. So it's not something you're really alarmed about. As time goes by, you begin to accept that the false character is who they really are. You begin to see them as someone who is caring and respectful. Someone who does have your best interest in mind. You accept these qualities and traits as being a part of their personality. You accept the false character that they are displaying to you as being real or genuine. You listen to what they're saying. You observe their actions, so you accept that they are who they say they are. But what you don't realize is that the narcissist has been studying you. They have studied your likes and dislikes. They know what you want to see. They know what you want to hear. And they display all of this to you. It's like buying a used car. When you first go to purchase the used car, it's all polished nicely. They might have put some new ties on the car. There doesn't appear to be any obvious issues. The seller knows exactly what the customer wants to see when they are buying the car. They know how you want the car to look. They know that you want it to be clean. They know that you want it to run effectively. So they take the necessary steps to ensure that it appears this way. Because they want you to buy the car. They've presented it to you as something that might be good for you. So you are happy to buy the car. And at first, it all seems to be going well. But after a few months, you begin to notice problems with the car. There's all kinds of rips and tears in the interior that you didn't notice when you first bought it. The wheels are out of alignment. So you take it to a repair centre. And then you discover that there is irreparable damage to the engine. The car isn't even safe to drive. You invested your money into this car. And now you're forced to accept that there's nothing you can do with it. You can't even sell it onto someone else.  You've been fooled. And the way in which the seller sold this car is the exact same way that the narcissist sells themselves. They have to do this to close the sale. To secure you as their new source of supply. They show you everything that you desire, everything that you want to see when you first meet them. But as you begin to spend more time with them, you then realise that there is another side to them that is opposite in nature to the character that they first displayed to you. From what they had showed to you at the beginning, you would never have expected them to function in this way. Because they hid all of that from you. They didn't reveal any of that to you at the beginning. They have a lot of problems or issues that they keep hidden from you until they've got you locked in. Many of them have anger issues, drug addictions, things that they never revealed to you at the beginning, things that they did their best to hide. And they trick you into believing that the false character is who they really are. But who they really are is someone who is very reckless. Someone who acts foolishly and carelessly without thinking about the consequences of their actions. Many of them excessively indulge in sex, alcohol or drugs. Because they're not happy with their lives and they're trying to escape from reality. They don't care about what is right or what is wrong. And there is nothing that they won't do to get what they want. The character that they displayed to you at the beginning was not real or genuine. They don't have any real values or morals. They don't really care about you. That was just to lure you in. You may think that you have gotten to know them. And you know what they're really about and what they're capable of. But how do you really know that? You were displayed a character at the beginning and that wasn't really them. So what if the character you're seeing now isn't really them either? They could be hiding a lot more than you don't even know about. As I've said in a previous video, what you see from them is only the tip of the iceberg. There's a lot of things that you don't know about them. A lot of things that you may never know. They displayed these qualities and traits to you at the beginning.  You are only getting to know the false character. That was who you believed in and trusted. You had a firm belief in their reliability, truth or ability. You felt as though you had a connection with them. You developed certain expectations from a character that wasn't even real. And then time goes by and you wonder why they are no longer capable of meeting those expectations. When that character was never real in the first place, you don't know who they really are.  You don't know if they're giving that same character to someone else and trying to lure them in. Whenever they're not around you, you can be sure that they're doing something that is not in your best interest. Without any care or consideration for you because the person you got to know doesn't even exist. That person who seemed to care so much about you isn't really them. That was just who they knew you wanted them to be. And once they've pulled you into that trap, it's too late. Now it's not so easy for you to get yourself out of there and the kind, caring character that you saw at the beginning is now nowhere to be seen. But you still have this connection to the false character. You feel as though you want to be with them. As though you love them, when the truth is, they don't even exist. You fell for something that wasn't even real. It was an act. They behaved in the way that you wanted them to because they knew that would make you want to be involved with them. They knew that would lure you in. They act differently depending on who they're around. Depending on what they think people want to see and what they think will get them what they want. Because that's all it's really about. That's why they created the false character. It wasn't to provide anything to you. It was only to trick you into giving something to them. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonated with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos. If you liked it tonight, my PayPal link is in the video description. Coaching inquiries you can email me at lastweathercoaching at gmail.com. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.