Gold contract up $16.90, trading at 18.25 an ounce, yet Silver up 64 cents, $21.64 an ounce, LightSuite crude up $3.47, $113.97 a barrel, notes and bonds, the 10-year note, up 15 ticks, trading $119.20, the 30-year, up 18 ticks, at $139.21 and $Kingdala, $Kingdala down 328 ticks, trading at $104.235, Euro 104, Yen 129, the British pound, $123 to one U.S. dollar. Well, get over and take a look at the S&P, what you're going to see out here folks is that you got over the high, you're closed underneath it, and you had a contraction of volume. That's a true failure, okay? Well, we did out here today in the spy, you hit 403.97, the high of Friday was 403.38, Friday's bounce had light volume, 104 million, well check it out, today it only could do 73 million, that's a total failure, so it's going to try to get down to the lows again, once again. Now, we have divergence, and this is what the divergence is, the cues pulled back on lighter volume, because it didn't get over the high, so that's a positive, so you get the bull and the bear inside the marketplace, and that's pure divergence, and so what the cues did is this, they had a high of 302.26, well the high of Friday was 302.99, so this is a pullback with lighter volume on the cues, so the cues were going to have a shot, that's how this works, so when you get both of them, one says one, one says the other, guess what, you've got to wait it out, man, that's how this shakes out. Gold, gold performed, gold hit your ABC structure on the way down, we had the price projection of 17.88, we hit 17.85, you did reject it, you rejected it with lighter volume, and it took off like a rocket ship, that's telling me that as we get over to the dollar, that we very well may see this dollar fail, you know the dollar had a nice breakout last week, and it may be a one day wonder, one week wonder, in this particular case, you know, because we're talking about the dollar would have to get back under 103747, and right now we are approximately 500 ticks above it, so we'll see what all shakes out, have a great night folks, have a safe night, come back and visit Tommy tomorrow morning, kicks us off 9 o'clock in the morning, great show folks, have a great one, have a safe one.


All right, so I have a brief presentation about the Moodle universal cash Which it's gonna go in my pocket Which has been around since middle 2.0. I think or 2.1 and Has changed quite a bit The performance profile of Moodle and has had a very important impact in How we use and experience and configure Moodle in at the end of the day? so I'll go very quickly over a little bit of history the first question is why do we need a special cash for For Moodle and one of the key things to be aware of is that when we use PHP every Page that we serve every URL that we serve starts from scratch The PHP engine does not remember anything from the prior request. So we have to Say which files to load which files to compile potentially and Out of Kind of at the outset of serving that page it has no configuration in memory we overcome that by Having a good pre-compiler a caching pre-compiler which now is standard in PHP But for many years we did not that have we did not have that as a standard in PHP So people would use e-accelerator or APC or different forms of off-cache now Almost everybody's using PHP 5.5 which includes off-cache and that's all these things Out of the box. However, it's important to remember that that's not that the mental model or the The general model of PHP step every request starts from a blank slate and that's different from other languages Sometimes used in in web development Such as Java or or Python or Pearl where you can load up a server load up certain amount of configuration and variables and then serve pages we we don't get a chance to preload that and Because Moodle has much of its configuration in in in a database That puts us in a situation where we have to be fetching a lot of information from the database This makes Moodle very configurable, but it makes a bit more work. So the cache is very important And being efficient about how we retrieve things from the from the database is very important during during the one point X During the history of one predicts, which was fairly fairly long We spent a lot of work working on caches, but it wasn't very successful. It was successful But it didn't it didn't have them the the desired impact We did also do a lot of work on improving a little bit the code flow and how we run is sequel queries and that had a fantastically positive impact It was also a lot of work because different from a cache. This had to be On a per area of code. It was a lot more work intensive. So we did all that work a lot of we are very generous we the large group of people applied a lot of work there and and So over the one point X era Moodle developed improved its scalability Basically by improving code flow and improving sequel code now when we went into the two-point X era that wasn't enough and at the same time we had I guess we had learned enough about dealing with caching code that the Moodle universal cache was written and It has a much better API and much better implementation. It's a much more useful cache however, something interesting happened we had we built the Moodle universal cache and Almost no code made use of it because to use the Moodle universal cache You actually the code has to change to use it and very little code in early two-point takes Versions used it. It is from two seven onwards that we have most of the Moodle code perhaps all the Moodle Moodle code base using intensely the the Moodle universal cache and So now we are in another stage in another era of of the performance profile for Moodle So still when we use we use the Moodle cache because it's enabled by default But it's very very hard to configure if you want to stray from the default So one of the questions that I've had for a long time and I'm supposed to know about performance I've been doing this for a little while and And I've been daunted by the Moodle universal cache configuration One of the things that I found that I had to sit down and study all the configuration. I was Sounds ridiculous, but I was I was quite Confused about it at the beginning and although all the terms because I'm familiar with it because I was I didn't implement it But I was part of the only confiliate early discussions when we were talking about the late in the 1.9 Cycle talking about the design of the Moodle universal cache I should know about it, but Took quite a bit of reading and sussing through the code to understand what the hell is going on but it is it is really complicated and It's hard to build up a mental model of what things each type of cache will do and how it'll exactly work out and The documentation is very good about About what each item will do and then it says well go out and test it right and That's fine, but it's fairly hard to test and it's very hard to test reliable It's very hard to measure and to know what are the right measurements So I sit out to do a bit of work for that And to look to learn and to figure out how I should configure the Moodle cache and what What I could say, you know what what I could document and communicate about it and This is a little bit distorted the story of that of that work So the stack used for this experiment that has lasted for the last couple of months not hasn't been my only my only The only hasn't been the only work on my disk, but it's been pretty intensive Has been I have worked both on hardware and virtual machines I have worked when I have worked on hardware. I have worked with hybrid drives and SSDs All the work is based on Linux all the work is based on rel 6 or rel 7 and Also a little bit of testing on on recent versions of Fedora to understand what's happening with New York code all the work has been done using Apache and PHP and two modes mod PHP and Using fast CGI, which is very similar if anybody here is using nginx the performance profile of using a patchy with Mods mod fast CGI It's very similar to using nginx It's been based on Maria dv55 and Recent versions of PHP To further to for more detail about about what the focus was we we were working on on relatively simple configurations looking at how a straightforward one machine configuration or a small cluster running in a virtualized environment will perform in different with different With different configurations of Of them of the mood universal cache. We wanted to keep the configuration simple so any configuration advantage that Requires to complex of a sit-up gets minus points obviously because it's a big hassle to set up And if it's brittle or if it's complex to maintain That all adds to the work we we have to do and we want to keep it streamlined We want to keep it simple easy to upgrade easy to manage Clear easy, you know clear and and straightforward to monitor. That's that's a key That's a key goal and in general we wanted a better understanding of how Moodle performs under pressure and So what did we use for measuring for to take our measurements we worked? We worked our way through several large model installations, so we took an example data set from a large customer of remote learner and we Picked up some reference pages pages that were popular and notoriously heavy So essentially we picked up the moodle home page and a few other key course pages right that's that those are traditionally the pages with the most content and the content coming from the most diverse array of Moodle plug-ins, right because the Moodle course page will require different things from different different blocks and different different Moodle plug-ins, so Those are the pages we use we switched off some of the authentication controls and we use the patching sorry we Don't switch up the authentication But we basically provided a cookie an already authenticated cookie to a patchy bench and we run the system through a patchy bench performance now some people will use Jmeter are you folks here familiar with Jmeter? So with Jmeter and similar tools You take a tour through your web application and it captures all the traffic and then you can replay it That's an alternative approach. It's more laborious and and Quite a bit less practical if you want to change what things you're testing and it's also very prone to giving Giving different results and different And sometimes somewhat somewhat muddled or or false results So we use a patchy bench, which is very simple for a quiz this page or requests that page And we complemented that with visiting the pages in real time while we're load testing to see what an end user what what the actual perceived perceived User experiences does it load quickly in my web browser?  But not any of the associated resources It's a it's a combined approach that allowed us to move faster and test much faster than if we we had used a more in-depth test of each run which we did many many runs and When we did want to look at a particular run We did go very deep but over a particular runner and over a particular type of request So while we are load testing and throwing a lot of traffic at the server we would run One query With the php profiler on so we would get a very clear path a very clear record of where time was spent in execution and What we found was extremely interesting so The middle universal cache is very well used so moodle today issues very few database queries and that that's very good news so that that's excellent news and On the other hand we see a huge number of queries to the cache itself, which it's good but it's a tricky aspect of good because What we find is that the the flip side of the cache performance is that we see that any change in latency to on the on the With regards to accessing the cache has a big impact on the overall times so We basically focused on local cache because we found that the shared cache didn't make a large difference and Working on the local cache we worked we tested MIM cache and mongo but found that the latency the added latency Made the performance quite a bit worse We essentially found that the note the standard file cache which is what is enabled out of the box It's fairly good, and it's what you should be running, and that's what you are running anyway and We did find that after a little bit of work and a little bit of patching There's an in-memory cache Which is based on the old a PC which is a PC you which can be loaded in a modern php by five That's even faster than Local files probably by a factor of 10 now Here's the thing we can make The cache go much much faster. However It does not change the overall page load time. It does not change the time to serve pages we're hitting the cache a lot and The per request time is 10 times better if we use a PC you Because it's in memory, and it doesn't incur the cost of calling the kernel to retrieve a file The the kernel is very fast because it retrieves a file that is essentially in memory But by skipping the kernel we can get each request much faster. However, it did not matter It moved it it only improved overall results very little less than 5% and So we went to the PHP profiler to find out why and the reason why is that we spend something like 20 to 30 percent of our CPU time We are having a CPU bound when we are under when when a web server is under a lot of traffic And we spend more than 20 percent of our time running muck code so so the improvements are real the overall the overall improvements are real and But the you know when we are developing we all and we're working on performance We work on one bottleneck and so this bottleneck is resolved and now well now there's the other bottleneck right and that's that's in a sense That's always how it works. And so we have resolved in a sense muck has been very successful about Resolving the bottleneck in terms of database access and it has in turn well has expanded what we can do in a single single machine installation or even in a cluster sit up, but it has moved the ball to to muck itself so From an admin point of view from a mule admin point of view It's the the my conclusions are simple. You can just use local files the standard that the default is a good default You don't have to stress about it. You don't have to worry about it use use the file store. It's okay However for the development team the the results are a little bit of an interesting of an interesting challenge because We spend what seems to at first blush a lot of time just deciding which Which cash store are we going to query? And this time is significant right I Did work through the profiles and it wasn't clear It's not like there is one particular function that is a hot spot There there wasn't a particular place where we were spending all the time is prayed all across the muck So the question is can we devise a strategy to simplify and to streamline the mule universal cash? Perhaps might be even worth to lose some capability or to lose some option In order to cut this down significantly because one of the key things when you're developing a cache is that it's going to be used a lot and and so the code that is supposed to Make your application faster that code itself has to be very efficient So my I was already talking With Dan here one of my projects for the hack face on Friday will be to look at what we can do on that front The other aspect that I think it's interesting is that Is perhaps of secondary order because the defaults are very good But I think it's worthwhile to look at whether we can simplify the configuration Now with these changes with with with the changing of performance profile that comes from from the improvements in Moodle in recent versions of Moodle 2.7 2.8 2.9 One of the things that changes is that we used to be heavily Database bound the that the database used to be the thing that held held Moodle back in terms of performance and now that has shifted and now we are very very strongly CPU bound and in that context one of the Extremely strange findings is that reducing the number of a patchy processes or or of PHP processes Improves the response times Right and that is a very counterintuitive Conclusion, but it has the the ideal number of PHP processes. It's a multiplier Usually two times the number of CPUs dedicated the number of cores dedicated. That's a very that's that's that's a Radical change from the type of configuration we did for a patchy in years past Anyway, has that been geeky enough? Is that being technical enough? Okay Anyway We do have five minutes. I hope that I So currently it seems like we're set up perfectly then because our web server has 24 cores and And so yes, but we're looking at examining Amazon cloud etc in other ideas So and we also just use one web server so that one's itself to using the local cache the file cache. How do you have multiple web servers and Local local file cache for the for the muck Is it do you? How does that work out so? Okay, so once one of the things is that You have so the local cache will store things that are safe to store locally and So it will be distinct from from the the cache that has to be shared the Once you have a cluster yes for the shared Cache you do have to use memcache or mongo. I I think in that space what dominates or in our testing what dominates there really is the TCP latency So you need to work on on on your network. You need to make sure that it's as fast as you can And you probably want to run mongo As as a cache rather than as a store. So there's the option to tell mongo To basically give you asset like warranties. You don't want that right you want to say go fast and lose It doesn't matter if you lose your data. So that's what you can do to Make sure that the rights are as fast as you can but the limitation on reads is going to be your latency So I do have a few ideas to improve To to reduce the impact of latency because we shoot lots and lots of queries I'm gonna work on that at the hack fist and that should Improve the performance the plan that I have should improve the performance of stores that are shared such as mongo and and And meme cache and the plan that I have should apply to all of them Shouldn't be like just a fix for mongo or just a fix for meme cache. We'll see how it works So you're saying about using Apache bench rather than JV to but Presumably just doing very primitive get requests And no posts and no dealing with session, you know session keys and all that kind of stuff I mean with Jamie to you would do you could do more complex Performance tests. Yes. Yes. So it is admittedly a narrow view My intent was squarely to force a lot of work on the middle cache. So Yes sessions are a concern and in a sense what I've done is I have Work my base to remove them as a factor right from this testing reasonably like if you put your sessions, so if your sessions Your sessions can run fairly well on any face and can run fairly well on on meme cache or mongo, but You only do one pitch although the session is sizable. You it's it's just one pitch and perhaps one right per per request, right Whereas we're issuing maybe couple hundred reads and from from the from the move cash and Let's say I did my best to remove that as a factor from the variations I tested, right? I'm Yes, there's there's also work to be done there Now to kind of follow-up from a question or comment over here We did a bunch of work on clustering memcache for latency reasons and we added that in core in two Seven I think maybe two eight So basically you get zero latency on reads, but at the sacrifice of latency on writes And I'm curious if you'd looked at that feature said any I'm guessing by the face the answer is no We can talk after this. Yeah, I'm interested in that. I'm really interested in that. Yeah So you get even if you get zero zero latency and reads even if the store is It's in a different system. No, it's the way that it works is that We call clustered memcache and it's you have a memcache instance on each front end and The the the store configuration is such that when you write you write to everybody But when you read you read from the local host version, right? So the rights are very expensive. I understand So on stores like strings Right where it's very rarely updated, but very heavily read you get a huge perform Well huge in a sense performance benefit out of that Because you're never updating but you get near zero latency on the read because it's just on the local machine So that's something I haven't seen it. Yeah, I'm keen. I'm keen on catching up about that I'm pretty new to the caching with a moodle idea But how how do expirations usually work is always on a schedule or there are certain actions that cause caches to expire or How is that coordinated by the universal cache? The if okay, if I remember right the expiration on the file cache So the API allows you to say the time to live which marks an expiration different Cache back hints will use that differently I Think memcache handles the expiration internally So you just it just gets handled by memcache for those backing stores that don't have native support for it We store the expiration inside the payload and check it Maybe maybe we do find a payload, but we read it and say well actually it stale so when we won't You know that the driver for it for that Backing store will not we'll say I didn't find anything because it found something, but it was old In terms of the file store We did find that It did not effectively it I'm not sure if it didn't happen often enough, but we found that we needed to prune Expired entries more aggressively than moodle did so we ended up We ended up running a few extra cron jobs to clean up File stores, but but there is an input there is a TTL and it is and it is enforced But you could end up You could end up with Entries that exist in the in the cash store That are expired, you know the code will read them and And not really reported back to the calling to the calling Code the code that uses the cash. However, they can Add to the burden of carrying the cash, right? So sometimes is for some backing stores you might need to run a cron job to clean it up to prune old entries All right, I think that's all the time we have today. Thank you Martin. Thank you


You know, lying doesn't work because of our means of survival, if the way in which we create stuff is to reason. Reason means what? Reason means absorbing information and analyzing it and being what about that information, being honest about it? We want real facts.   You're not going to get good stuff out of feeding. If you have a computer up here, it's kind of a computer. It's more than a computer, right? If you feed it garbage, it's going to spew out garbage. If you feed it lies, you're going to fail. And you think that you can hold the lie separate from the truth? Good luck. Because, as I said, our minds are integrating machines. They love to integrate stuff. Our mind, our subconscious, doesn't know what you've defined as a lie and what isn't. It's going to mesh them up. People who lie constantly can't tell the difference. Now I'm pretty old, particularly in this room, right? And I have a hard time remembering what actually happens, right? Like a week ago, you asked me, what did you do a week ago? I have to really think about it? I don't remember. I really don't. Now what happens when you lie? You have to remember what you did, and then what else do you have to remember? What you told, the lie. And the lie comes with all kinds of complicated circumstances, right? Because you have to remember what you lied, who you lied to, and who you didn't lie to. I mean, it's, wow, it's way too complicated. And you're going to fail. I can't remember one thing. Now you want to even remember two or three or four. And it's, you know, and it's layered. You know, I used to do these seminars at this company, and I used to give this example of a guy who, you know, goes out and drinks with his buddies and comes home and tells his wife, oh, I was at work late. And I used to explain why this was, you can't sustain a lie like that, even a simple lie like that. Just can't sustain it. Because what if the wife meets one of the buddies and other buddies have to know that you're lying, and they have to say, yeah, he works late, and what if she bumps into your boss and complains to the boss, how come he's working late all the time? And the boss says, he's not. So somebody raises the hand and says, this is exactly what happened, right? This guy was telling his wife he was working late, he was out drinking or whatever. And the wife called the boss and said, how come my husband's working late all the time? And the boss says, he's not. Guess how that relationship worked out, right? Lies don't work because they're anti-reason, because they're anti-reality, because they're anti-fact.


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You need to join at level two. All right, let's get started here. And the first item comes from MSG's Treasures and he is a major Bolo finder. You are gonna wanna go over to his YouTube channel and check out what he's sourcing and where he's sourcing it at because he is finding some amazing stuff. The first item he sold is this... Oh, okay, we're gonna start with these. These are money clips and he got these at an estate sale. He paid $5 each and he sold 10 of these for $159 all to the same person. So they did a bundle deal, but I just kinda wanna show you some of the different money clips here that he sold. And again, all to one person for $159. So $5 each and 10 of them. So his cost of goods was $50. He probably could have held out and sold them for more individually to different people, but just move an inventory quickly is there's a plus to that side of it. So move it quick. All right, the next item he sold is this palm tree. Check it out. And this is... Somebody told me how to say it, they broke it down for me, but I think I'm gonna say it wrong. Svorsky, Svorsky, I'm not sure. It's a palm tree and it is a figurine. He got this off of hybrid. He did pay $35 for it, but it sold for $149.99 free shipping. The next item he sold is this microphone. It's a vintage hyal or heel H-E-I-L dynamic microphone with a black leather carry case. He got this at an estate sale for $20, took a best offer of $150 free shipping. The next item comes from Terry, mindful recycle. And she is getting close to 2,000 subscribers. So sub her up. I absolutely love her what sold videos. I just am always in awe of the things she finds. She goes to a state sales and this gal can source like a machine. She is amazing. Definitely check out her channel. All right, what did she find? She found this Dawn Post Halloween mask. And if you wanna learn more about Halloween mask, stay tuned or check my channel because I have a video either coming soon or it already posted on Halloween mask to be on the lookout for. Some of them can go for crazy money. And in that video, I teach you what to look for. This item she picked up at an estate sale for $5 and sold it for $249 plus shipping. The next item is this book. It is a Magyar MAG YAR fairy tales. It's a book. It's an old, old book. And you can see the condition is not even that great. I'm telling you, she has an eye for finding things. Now this one is the first edition. It's from the 1930s and it is rare. She got this for $5 within a state sale and sold it for $169 plus shipping. The next item is this Panda Palace Department 56 snow village. So Department 56 ranges from bread and butter to big money but I will tell you that Terry seems to find all of the big money, Department 56. Oh my goodness, if you watch her channel, you will see so many Department 56 that she buys and sells for crazy money. She got this at an estate sale. She paid 20 or 28, I can't read my writing and sold it for $249.97 plus shipping. Lake Threads is next. And he has a newer YouTube channel. So go show him some love with a sub. He's also a Bola finder. Find some really fantastic items. What did he sell? He sold this vintage alabaster ceramics cake plate and dome. It's got the ribbon and bow here. Kind of hard to see with the line through it. Good old Mercari there sold this for $113. And he got this at a thrift store for $20. The next item is this Jen Air fan rocker switch, four tab, three position. Okay, so what he did was, this is fun. He went to a friend's house and he thought what would Noelle Farm Girl Scavenger do? So Noelle likes to part things out which I like to part things out too but Noelle parted out a Mr. Christmas item and that may be what he's referencing here. I like to part out doll houses and play sets and stuff like that, vintage games. And he ended up, so his friend was getting rid of their old range and he decided to part it out. He sold this for $67.99. It's just a part of this old range. How funny is that? So shout out to Noelle Farm Girl Scavenger. This is her YouTube channel. Check her out. She is definitely a Bola finder and she does part things out but some of the things she sells are absolutely amazing. This is an Orvis performance sport coat. He got this, says he paid $40 for it but I'm not sure where he got it. And he ended up selling this for a best offer of $118.99 plus shipping. The next item is this building set and I have actually sold these before. They are definitely a Bola item. They come in different sizes so the bigger it is, the more you're gonna get for it. But it's Cuba Maze and it's a stunt set, complete open box, stem toys. He got this at a yard sale for 10 bucks and sold it for $69.99 plus shipping. Flipping it good. He is our retail arbitrage Bola finder. He goes into Ross, Burlington, different places like that and he has also been buying, what are they called? Not pallets, but yeah, lost cargo pallets but it's lost cargo, amazing. And he also finds stuff at yard salesman but his channel is awesome. Definitely give him a sub. He got these cleats speaking of a retail arbitrage at Ross and he ended up taking a best offer of $190 because they are a smaller size. They only sold for 190. Like, what do they sell for if they're a good size? He paid $19.99 for those at Ross. The next item he sold is this scope. It's a Bosch and Lawn black waterproof rifle scope made in Japan. He got this at a yard sale for $1 and sold this for $160 plus shipping.  I don't know, but these came from a lost cargo pallet. He paid $30 for those and they sold for a best offer of $200. Lola's trunk treasures. She does not have a YouTube channel. This is her eBay store. Lots of cool finds. I will have it linked down below. You can check her out there. And she sold this stocking. It's a $19.99 gold collection dimensions. Anytime you can find dimensions gold collection, definitely pick it up. I do have a video on cross stitch kits to be on the lookout for. If you guys would like to check that out, it is under this, it's on this channel. She got this at an antique mall for $3 and sold it for $79.99 free shipping. These are Goosebumps paperback books. She did pay up for these.  And she sold these for a best offer of 115. So she pretty much broke even after fees and free shipping. But if you can get Goosebumps for like a quarter or 50 cents a piece, you know, or get a whole lot for a low price, they are definitely a bolo, but just be careful you don't pay too much. The next item is this Lennox happy birthday express train car. And she sold this for $70 best offer and she paid $10 for it. And I'm sorry, I'm not sure where she got that, but really cool little piece. 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And she sold this Design a House building set, Goodwill $3.99 and took a best, I'm sorry, she sold it for $97.69. And this is just a really, really cool thing here. I definitely would have picked that up. The next item she sold is these Ralph Lauren throw pillows. She got these at the Goodwill Benz for a quarter a piece and she sold these on Best Offer for $65. And she sold these O'Neill Element Motocross Motorcycle Off-Road Riding Boots. She got these at a yard sale for $5 and took a best offer of $90 on those. Check them out. All right, the next item comes from Be Carried Away and she is a big money bolo finder. Also, with an amazing YouTube channel, she specializes in high-end vintage clothing but also sells a lot of vintage items and has a very great skill of titles and descriptions. So if you're looking for keywords and how to create better listings, definitely her out. I am very, that is not my, I'm not the best at keywords, especially on clothing. Clothing gets me, it's tough and she's really good at it. So she sold these McCoy Pottery Mushroom Canisters. She got these at the Goodwill for $7.99 and sold these for $70.19 plus shipping. She also sold this vintage cast iron patrol motorcycle toy metal police car or motorcycle. And she got this at the Salvation Army for $2.99 and sold it for $47.99. This is a vintage 70s mod-made trench coat, women's size small, brown cream, spread collar and hood belt. So see what I mean? Like all of those important key words that I would not know what they mean but this thing is awesome. And she got this at a garage sale for $1 and sold it for $49 plus shipping. And there is the inner tag. So really awesome Bolo's. Thank you guys so much for being here. Let me know in the comments what was your favorite Bolo and leave me an emoji of a hat if you made it this far. 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Hi everyone, Joe for jasphyscasebrakes.com coming out to be 2013 at Topps Museum Collection Baseball Asia Edition We're doing one of the mini box in there, Random Team Break number three And at the end of the break we're giving away nine immaculate baseball spots That should be pretty cool. And if you're watching live, you can see I crossed it out We're doing break three right now. We've got to do one more of these Then we're in Brakesville on that immaculate. So go check that out on jasphyscasebrakes.com Now as always we're going to do the break itself first. So big thanks everybody here For giving this a shot nine out of the 30 spots are going to win spots It's not a bad not a bad return Let's roll it. Let's randomize it four and a six ten times for names and teams and the giveaway spots the giveaway randomizer will be a different dice roll One so let's do the break first two three six Seven tenth and final time and a tenth and final time now no trade windows in these little filler breaks I'll just show you the teams really quick and then we'll select a mini box and we'll go from there All right, so here's the first half of the list right here And the second half of the list right here We're your 2013 MLB rookies anyone know off the top of their head So there's two mini boxes left from the last time we did these filler. So we're gonna select a die One two three for the left mini box and four five six for the right side off the table right here It's five one two three four five six So this one will say for break number four Which is already on the site right now and this will this will unlock that immaculate half case break All right, so there's Justin Verlander tigers edition seven out of fifty That's gonna go to Sean and TJ's reporting that's already down to 21. Thanks TJ Let's go and get it. Here's the final print out. There's Joe Maurer. There's Prince Fielder and behind Nolan Ryan Rangers edition is just a relic. It's Dustin Ackley six out of ten Momentous materials and that is for Todd and Seattle All right, nothing too crazy here, but let's see who's gonna win those spots and that immaculate break big Thanks everybody for For taking a chance on this David down to Ryan. Here's some new dice. There's a new list and there's David down to Ryan and everybody in between. Let's roll it and randomize it again top nine after Four three and a one four times One two Three good luck everybody and a one fourth and final time After four again, it's the top nine After four we got four right here, so from ten on down Ryan sad times From between ten and thirty, but I appreciate everybody given this a shot Again, we do have to do one more of these so if you feel like taking another shot Jaspy's case breaks calm Go for it top nine happy times for Drew PJ PJ Joshua C drew Tyler David Oliver and Tyler Congrats the top nine happy times for you. Thanks for trying and getting in congrats. Congrats. Congrats. I'm Joe I'll see you a little bit later tonight for that immaculate break. Bye. Bye


Thanksgiving dinner price drops in Wisconsin. Teen arrested after fiery crash in Manitowoc. Red Cross faces severe blood shortage. These stories and more on this edition of Community News Review. This is Community News Review. Service WSDS-TV News content provided by WHBL. I'm Maddie Fister and this is Community News Review for Monday, November 19th, 2018. One person was arrested after a fiery crash in Manitowoc Wednesday night. The Sheriff's Department says a deputy tried to stop the car on South 21st Street in the city. And the 17-year-old driver from Manitowoc fled. And when he tried making a turn to get away, went over a curb, slammed into a tree, which caused his engine compartment to start on fire. The deputies helped the driver and two passengers out of the vehicle. And the driver was arrested for felony fleeing, causing bodily harm. And all three people in the vehicle had minor injuries. The Red Kettle campaign for the Cheboygan Salvation Army had a kickoff on Saturday at Festival in Cheboygan. From 11 o'clock to three, they had Tinker, the bell-ringing miniature horse, on hand, along with hot chocolate, candy canes, some musical performances, the volunteer bell-ringing shift sign-up list, and of course, Santa Claus. And Captain Darrell Mangiri will be freezing for a reason from December 10th to 14th outside of Festival. He will sleep out in the cold to raise awareness and support for the hurting, hungry, and homeless in our community. Their fundraising goal this year is $611,000. The American Red Cross faces a severe blood shortage in Badger, Hawkeye region, Wisconsin, and Iowa. Blood donors are needed urgently. The blood products are going out to hospital patients faster than they're coming in the door, spokeswoman Laura McGuire said. Obviously, we never want to be in a position to tell someone that we do not have blood. We strive to have a five-day supply on hand, and right now, we are at a three-day supply. All blood types are needed, but a few types are in critically short supply. What we are really trying to put out the message for is type O negative and O positive blood, McGuire said. I would recommend going to redcrossblood.org, and you will be able to find eligibility requirements. You can also call 1-800-RED-CROSS to find your nearest donation location. A Madison entrepreneur is celebrating a new investment in her company. Kate Field runs the Kombucha shop and home brewing supply company, and took a deal with two of the sharks on Shark Tank last night. She gave up 10% of her company to Sarah Blakely and Barbara Corcoran for $200,000 and $150,000 line of credit. Field opened her store five years ago to sell supplies to people where they can make their own Kombucha at home. She has sold 60,000 kits with half of her sales coming in this year. They cost between $45 and $80. Kombucha is a fermented tea and Field founded her company five years ago when she was just 26. Baby Jesus and the Wise Men are coming back to West Bend and local organizers hope they make it through Christmas this time. Anna Jensen with Downtown West Bend Association says that the town will unveil its nativity scene on Monday. Thrive Financial is paying for it and it costs $3,500. West Bend lost part of its nativity scene last year just after someone stole Baby Jesus. The Jesus figurine was eventually recovered, but its head was missing and was badly damaged. The older nativity scene was gifted to the town in 1960s. It was a handmade from Germany, but was showing wear and tear. Jensen says that they will have a security camera at the scene around this time and it will be displayed at Old Sadler's Park. Family and friends of a missing man are searching for clues to his disappearance. 53 year old Toby Clesby has not been seen since November 5th. Volunteers searched the area last weekend along the Chabua River banks near where Clesby's car was found in Eclare County two days later. About 100 people assisted in the search on Sunday and volunteers were asked to look for any clues like car keys, his cell phone, or articles of clothing. A drone was brought in to assist the area where the woods was too dense to be searched. The circumstances surrounding his disappearance are still unknown and Clesby was a postal worker who worked in Mondovi and he also has five children. And finally, good news for anyone responsible for feeding a crowd this Thanksgiving Thursday. The Wisconsin Farm Bureau Federation says that the average price to feed a family of 10, a traditional dinner of turkey and dressing along with cranberries, dinner rolls, and pumpkin pie dropped by more than $2 this year to $45.01. Officials say a recent decline in the price of a 16 pound turkey was the biggest reason for the savings. In 2017, we found that the average price was $20.96 and this year we found that it was down $1.92 to just $19.04, said Sarah Hedkey, the director of communications for the WFBF. Hedkey says that 2017 was a good year for Wisconsin turkey producers, which also factors into the drop and 631 turkey farms statewide produced about 3.4 million birds last year. Additionally, neighboring Minnesota is the nation's leading turkey producer which also helps drive down costs for Wisconsin consumers. Wisconsin's price is also a bargain when compared to the national price tag of $48.90, according to that survey. Hedkey says that this is because several items like milk, cream, and cranberries can be found close to home as well. The farmer's share of this year's $45.01 price tag for a family of 10 is about $8.78. According to the USDA, farmers receive about 14.8% of every food dollar. Wisconsin's Thanksgiving market basket survey is an informal annual review of food price trends in relation to changing farm prices whether and wholesale and retail marketing. Wisconsin Farm Bureau members collected price samples of 15 Thanksgiving food items in 27 communities in November. Farm Bureau volunteer shoppers are asked to look for the best possible prices without taking advantage of special promotional coupons or purchase deals. And that is all we have for today. Join me again next week for another recap of our local news from all of us at Community News Review. Have a great day. News content for this program provided by WHBL in cooperation, WSCSTV.


And then build up to the effort first. Gradually press up until you're pressing as hard as you can.  It seems to help as far as keeping proper position. And then as you start to press up, gradually build up until you're pressing up into it, as hard as you can. Think about putting your heels through the platform. And then once you feel like you're pushing as hard as you can, then hit the left side and just fight it all the way down. Just press into it as hard as you can, literally try and break the machine. Just keep driving into it. Keep driving into it. Keep pressing. Three more seconds. And there. And just follow it up. And then gradually build up to a maximum effort and fight it on the way down again. Keep pressing into it as hard as you can. And fight it. Keep fighting. Keep pressing into it. Two more seconds. And stop. Now follow it up. You'll notice after a rep or two, just following it up without even pressing starts to get hard. A little further forward with the hips. Keep your hips forward. You don't want to get too close to the screw. Right now just standing back up. The thighs are pretty much right after two reps, which is why three is about the maximum we'll do when we set up this feed. Now gradually press into it harder and harder until you're pushing as hard as you can. And then fight it all the way down. Last rep. Just give it everything you've got. Stay on it. And keep pressing. Keep fighting. 100%. Three. Five more seconds. Four. Three. Two. Ease off. And then step out. Be careful stepping out because your legs are going to be a little shaky after it. Damn. Yeah. Careful. Careful. They're going to be very, very wobbly. I'm going to get the stuff out. I'm going to get the stuff out. I'm going to get the stuff out. I'm going to get the stuff out. I'm going to get the stuff out. I'm going to get the stuff out. I'm going to get the stuff out. It's going to be very, very wobbly. I'm going to get the stuff in place to get the dips. That's pretty brutal. I think I might have bumped this little bell. Use center. Just three. How am I doing the moving on? Turn over so you're facing this way and then just press the left handle until it's all the way down. You're going to need the bell. You want to move the left handle or press on the left handle until it's down as far down as you can. And you want to sit towards the front edge of the seat so that you've got yourself centered over the handle, and just let it all the way down. And you just want to crank that belt down as hard as you can. It's going to pick you right up out of the seat and actually stretch the belt. The production model is going to have a belt that actually has like a ratchet on it and a heavy pad underneath. Now what you want to do is get the hands in position so that you're bracing yourself on top of that. And the heel of the palm, begin to press down into it as hard as you can. Just tighten up the chest, tighten up the shoulders and triceps, but leave a little bit of a bend in the elbow. Because if the elbows are locked, you're going to press you right up in the shoulders. Keep just a little bit of a bend, lean down into it a little bit so you're at a little bit of an angle. And then gradually push down a little harder, a little harder, until you're pressing down as hard as you can. Once you're pressing as hard as you can, then hit the right side and fight it as far as you can go comfortably. If you start feeling like the chest and shoulders are getting a little bit too tight, then let off a bit. So just lean into it a little bit. Now my back down is following? Yeah, just follow it on the way down.  If you go the other way, you're going to fight it now. Think chest, shoulders, triceps. Keep driving down into it. Keep squeezing, press it down as hard as you can. Try and stop it. Good. And just follow it down. And then just start pressing into it as hard as you can again. Chest, shoulders, triceps. And when you're pressing as hard as you can, then start it on the way up and just fight it. And start pressing out as hard as you can again. Chest, shoulders, triceps, fight it all the way up. Keep pushing it down. Try and stop it. Keep pressing into it. Keep on it. Four seconds, four. Three, two, good. And then take a couple seconds. Get your breath. We're going to go in the reverse direction. We're going to be kind of a low, rowing movement. And this is more traps, rear delts, more of the muscles in the upper back. Luke, got to watch out for that. Same movement in reverse. So what you want to do is let it down just a little bit. And then hold on the handle, start pulling up. And then think about squeezing the shoulder blades together and driving the elbows back. Start. As far as you try, you can't stop the machine. Yeah. It's literally like using a forklift for a manual resistance exercise. Now start to pull up. Think traps. Traps, rhomboids, rear delts.  It's kind of like doing an upright row except parallel movement, which is a little bit not cranking your wrists funny. So, and left-hand side of this one. And start by pulling up. Gradually build up to a maximum after pulling up. Think traps and rear delts. And then fight it all the way down. Just keep pulling as hard as you can. 100% traps. Same traps. Keep fighting. Keep fighting as hard as you can.  Got a belt? Don't need the pad. That one digs in a little better. Right about there. Now start to pull up. And again, think traps and rear delts. Focus on the biceps here too. Keep pulling up as hard as you can. Try and slow it down. Try and stop it. And just keep fighting it. And then follow it up one more time. I'm going to go for one more rep. And last one. Traps, rear delts, biceps. Pull up as hard as you can. And just keep on. Keep contracting. 100%. And good. Now have you step out for a second. I'm going to move it up. I'm going to do the calf raise before the press and the pull down. Not that the calf raise is going to be easy, but it's a little bit of a breeze compared to those. Give it a little bit of time for the arms. And then back over there for a couple of quarters together. And then actually do the calf raise before the press and the pull down. This is it. You want to get roughly in the center between the calf raise. Put the pads on me? Yeah. Roughly center the pads.  You want to be for the hips a little forward. Just want to be clear of the screw there. Just follow it up with your calves until you're close to the top. But keep just a little bit of a bend in the knees. And this is a little bit of a shorter one. And then when you're in the top, start to gradually press up a little harder, a little harder. So you're pressing up with the calves hard as you can. And then follow it on the way down. Be really conservative with this stretch. You're fighting it on the way down. Keep pressing into it. Keep pressing into it. Okay.


Chemical reactions happen at many different speeds, they can be fast like when you turn on your gas burner and ignite it, it immediately catches fire or it can be slow like the slow rusting of an old abandoned car. But how exactly do we measure the speed or the rate of a chemical reaction? How do I put a value to how fast this reaction is happening or how slow this one is happening? So in this video we are going to see how we record and measure the rate or the speed of a chemical reaction. So how do we measure the speed or the rate of a chemical reaction? Well, in any chemical reaction there are these reactants that are converted into the products. So out here we have some reactants and during the course of the reaction it gets converted into the products. Now this conversion can be fast or it can be slow. So the speed or the rate of a chemical reaction should be thought of as how fast the reactants get converted into the products in the course of a chemical reaction. So how do we measure how fast the reactants convert into the products? Well, we can do that by checking for the change in the amount of reactants that is happening per unit time in the course of this reaction. A greater change in the amount of reactants means that the conversion is happening faster and so greater will be the speed of the reaction. Now instead of checking for the change in the amount of reactants, we could have instead checked for the change in the amount of products per unit time. And similarly we could have said that a greater change in the amount of products per unit time means a faster conversion of the reactants into the products and so a greater speed of the reaction. So the speed of a chemical reaction can be thought of in terms of the change of the reactants per unit time and this is commonly referred to as the rate of disappearance of the reactants or in terms of the change in the amount of products per unit time which is referred to as the rate of appearance of the products. Let us now take a few examples to help us understand better. Let us say we have a hypothetical reaction in which some gas A converts into the gas B. Now let's assume that initially at time t equal to 0, I had 10 moles of air. So there are 10 moles of air out here initially and let's assume that after 10 minutes all of this air gets converted into B. So in this reaction 1 mole of air gives 1 mole of B. So 10 moles of air on complete reaction in 10 minutes gives me 10 moles of B. So how do we calculate the rate of this reaction? The rate of this reaction. So the rate of a reaction can be thought of in terms of the rate of disappearance of the reactants or in terms of the rate of appearance of the products. So let us try and calculate the rate of disappearance of air out here. Now the rate in disappearance of air is the change in the amount of air per unit time. And change in the amount of air out here can be measured in terms of the change in moles. So the rate of disappearance of air can be thought of as the change in the moles of air by change in time. Right. So now if I ask you what the rate of disappearance is, you can say that 10 moles of air disappears in 10 minutes. So the rate of disappearance of air is 10 moles in 10 minutes. So it's going to be 1 mole per minute. Let me bring this out here. So the rate of disappearance of air you would say is 1 mole per minute. However, if we use this formula then change always represents final minus of initial. So change in moles will be n final minus of n initial while change in time will be t final minus of t initial. So if I now plug in the values the final moles of air is 0 while initially I had 10 moles of air. The final time is 10 minutes and the initial time is assumed to be 0. So the rate of disappearance of air will come out to be minus of 10 by 10. So it will come out to be minus of 1 mole per minute. Right. So should we call the rate of disappearance of air as 1 mole per minute or should we call it as minus of 1 mole per minute? What do you think it should be? Well, the rate of disappearance of air will be 1 mole per minute and not minus of 1 mole per minute because 1 mole is disappearing per minute not minus of 1 mole. So to correct this what we are going to do is we are going to introduce a negative sign in front of this formula. So it's going to be minus of this which will be minus of this which will ultimately come out to be 1 mole per minute. So the rate of disappearance of air should be written as minus of change in moles by the change in time. Similarly, the rate of appearance of B can also be thought of as change in moles of B by the change in time. So should we put a minus sign out here? Before we think about that just by looking at this data let us try and think about the rate of appearance of B. Well, 10 moles of B appears in 10 minutes. So the rate of appearance of B is again 10 mole in 10 minutes. So it's 1 mole per minute, right? Now if we use this formula change is final minus of initial. So it's n final by minus of n initial by t final minus of t initial. So finally I have 10 moles of air and initially I had 0 divided by 10 minus of 0. So this will come out to be plus of 1 mole per minute, right? So the rate of appearance of B using this formula comes out to be plus of 1 mole per minute as expected. So we don't need to put a minus sign out here and just to drive home my point, let me write it as plus of change in moles by change in time. Now instead of calculating the change of A and B in terms of moles, we could have done it say in terms of concentration or in terms of pressure. For example, out here we had 10 moles of air in a 2 liter container. So instead of saying that we have 10 moles, we could have said that we have 10 moles in 2 liters that is 5 molar of air. Molarity is number of moles per unit volume. So we had 10 moles in 2 liter. So in 1 liter we had 5 moles. So it's 5 molar of air. Now after 10 minutes, we again had 10 moles of B. So instead of saying 10 moles, we could have said 10 moles in 2 liters. So we could have said that we had 5 molar of B. So now instead of calculating the rate of disappearance in terms of moles per unit time, we could have also calculated it in terms of the change in concentration of air per unit time, right? So out here 5 molar of air disappears in 10 minutes. So by unit time, the rate of disappearance will be 0.5 molar per minute. Similarly the rate of appearance of B can also be measured in terms of the change in concentration of B per unit time, which will also come out to be 0.5 molar per minute out here. Similarly we can also calculate the rate in terms of the change in pressures, especially if the reactants are gases. So out here initially we had 10 moles of air. So we had 10 moles in a 2 liter container at a temperature of 100 Kelvin. So using the ideal gas equation, we can calculate the pressure which will come out to be 41 atm. So initially I had 41 atm of air. Now after 10 minutes all of the air converted into B and we had 10 moles of B. So again if we use the ideal gas equation, we will find that the pressure of B comes out to be equal to 41 atm. So the rate of disappearance of air and the rate of appearance of B in terms of pressure will be 41 atm by 10 minutes, so it will be 4.1 atm per minute. So even this will come out to be 4.1 atm per minute. Now we generally express rates in terms of concentration or pressure and not in terms of moles because it turns out as we will see in a later video that rates of reactions depends upon the molecular density that is the number of molecules per unit volume rather than on the absolute number of moles. Both concentration as well as pressure gives us an idea about the molecular density. So rates is generally expressed in terms of concentration or in terms of pressure. So out here the rate of the reaction can be thought of to be equal to the rate of the disappearance of air which will also be equal to the rate of appearance of B which will be equal to 0.5 molar per minute or 4.1 atm per minute or 1 mole per minute. Let us take one more example. Let us say that out here initially I had 10 molar of air and let's assume that after 5 minutes the concentration of air becomes 0 while that of B and C increases to 20 molar and 10 molar respectively. So what will be the rate of disappearance of air, the rate of appearance of B and the rate of appearance of C in this case? You can pause the video and think about the answer. So 10 molar of air disappears in 5 minutes so the rate of disappearance of air will be 10 by 5 which will be 2 molar per minute, right? Similarly 20 molar of B appears in 5 minutes so the rate of appearance of B will be 20 divided by 5 which will be 4 molar per minute. Also 10 molar of C appears in 5 minutes so the rate of appearance of C will be 10 by 5 which will be equal to 2 molar per minute. Now what will be the rate of reaction in this scenario? Do we say that it's 2 molar per minute or is it 4 molar per minute or is it something else? So how do we report the rate of reaction in such a scenario when the rate of reactants and the rate of the products are not equal? We will explore this question in detail in the next video.


وأقولوا في القرآن ما جاءت به آياته فهو الكاريم المنزاله وأقولوا قال الله جل جلاله والمصطف الهدي ولا أتأوّاله الحمد لله رب العالمين والصلاة والسلام على عبد الله ورسوله نبينا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه أجمعين السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته نبدأ with the praise of Allah and we ask Allah to exalt the mention in grand peace to our messenger Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم to his family and his companions We're still talking about this topic of Tarbiyah as it relates to our children and what I would like to talk about now are some Ahadith that we can extract from them and آيات we can extract for them from them principles in Tarbiyah and I'm going to ask everyone watching this video at home to help me out with this إن شاء الله وطعاله and try إن شاء الله to each time we mention an evidence we mention an ayah we mention a hadith I want you to have a think about it and try and have a think about what are the principles or the essential things we can take in terms of how we raise, nurture and prepare our children's principles as it relates to Tarbiyah the first is the hadith of Anas رضي الله تعالى عنه أرضاه that he said خدمت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم عشر سنين فما قال لي أفن قط وما قال لي لشيء صناعته لما صناعته ولا لشيء تركته لما تركته الحديث the hadith narrated in Bukhari and Muslim from the hadith of Anas رضي الله عنده he said I served the messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم for 10 years and he never said to me أف not even once and أف is the smallest expression of displeasure that a person can show the smallest thing it's like a tut like when you say like that you tut to someone it's the smallest expression of displeasure the Prophet ﷺ never said to me أف even once and he never said to me when I did something why did you do this nor did he say to me when I didn't do something why did you leave this okay this is our first little mini test have a pause of the video have a chat if you've got people watching this with you at home and discuss with one another how do you think what are the what's the usal or the principle or the قاعدة we can take from this hadith إن شاء الله تعالى so إن شاء الله تعالى you had to think about that the principle that I think you can take and there's more than one way of wording it but here we need to distinguish between two things we need to distinguish between matters of the religion and in matters of the religion you need to be firm with your children and you need to make sure that they are clear about what the limits are in that regard but here when it comes to personal matters when it comes to personal matters don't be hard on your children for matters that are not matters of the dean أي they are not matters of the حلال and the حرام they're not matters where the child has fallen into a حرام but they're matters which are personal matters أي they chose something or they decided to do something they made a decision and it's not a matter of حرام it's a personal matter something you ask them to do you say bring me one of bring me something bring me some food from the kitchen surprise me and they brought the wrong kind or they brought something you don't like it's not a matter of حرام in these matters that are not matters of حرام don't be hard upon your kids don't say to them or try not to say to them why did you do this for why didn't you do this for you know why is this you know when you get angry with your kids about things that don't are not important in the sight of الله the Prophet ﷺ used to get angry when it was a matter of the rules and religion the rules of the religion the rules and the laws of الله ﷺ he used to get angry and he would express his anger and his displeasure we've already heard the حديث of آيشة رضي الله وعنها when the Prophet ﷺ saw there was some horses with wings and the آيشة had made had a curtain and it had horses with wings the images of horses with wings on it and the Prophet ﷺ became angry and he ripped it down and you see from this سبحان الله that it's appropriate to show you displeasure to set the limits when it comes to the religion but when it comes to matters of taste and preference and when it comes to choices your kids make they didn't fall into the حرام don't go hard on don't be hard on them and don't want to say them why did you do this and why didn't you do that this is from the excellent etiquettes of the Prophet ﷺ that he had with آيشة رضي الله وعنه despite the fact and we're going to hear this in other آيشة that آيشة didn't always do the Prophet ﷺ told him to do or what the Prophet ﷺ would have wanted him to do he was a young boy sometimes he didn't get things exactly right sometimes your children might not get things right but if it doesn't fall into the matters of the حرام and it's not from the things that make Allah angry then don't make it a big deal don't make a big fuss out of it don't say bad words towards them and don't criticise them and second guess them in matters that aren't related to the religion as for the matters of the religion here deserves for you to be firm for you to set the limits for you to be clear about what's allowed and what's not allowed but so many times in their life your children are going to make decisions things they want for themselves they want to buy for themselves or they want to do for themselves don't be hard on your kids when it comes to matters that don't relate to the حلال and the حرام and I guess what this حليث really tells us is it talks to us about two things which I think are vital number one that when you are giving tarbiyah to your kids when you're nurturing your kids and educating them that you do so with the best of manas because look at what stuck with Anas SubhanAllah it wasn't just the words the Prophet ﷺ said it's even the words he didn't say it's not just what he said it's that he never ever raised his voice to me he never said to me أف he never said to me why this why not that but SubhanAllah when it was the matters of the religion the Prophet ﷺ took it seriously so the first is the excellent manas when educating your kids the second principle is العولة ويات having levels of importance some things are important some things are less important we talked about this in the husband with his wife if you pull your wife up for every little thing you're going to end up divorcing if you pull her up for every little small thing that you don't like so the kids are the same you can't you know you can't pull your kids up for every small thing you don't like save your displeasure for what's displeasing to Allah SubhanAllah and don't worry about the things of preference and choice generally speaking don't give your kids a hard time in those in those particular issues so that's our first principle our second حديث we have is a حديث of أبي أماما from his own statement فأني this is not or it is better or more authentic as a statement of أبي أماما رضي الله عنه that he said حبيب الله إلى عباده he said make the servants of Allah love Allah make Allah beloved to his servants make Allah beloved to his servants have a think if you've got more than one person watching this video at home have a chat to the people around you discuss it come together and see if you can take a principle from this make Allah beloved to his servants so inshallah you had to think about that I take from this is in the tarbiyah that you give your children especially as it relates to Islam make your children love Islam don't make your children run away from Islam don't make something Islam something burdensome for them and something hard and something that they run away from and you can take this also from the statement of the Prophet ﷺ يسروا ولا تؤسروا وبشروا ولا تنفروا make things easy for people and don't make it difficult for people and make give people glad tidings make people feel good and don't make them run away now that doesn't mean that we compromise on our religion it doesn't mean that we we compromise in a way where we take away some of the things that are haram and we kind of you know ignore them and let our kids do them because then they'll come to love Allah but we want our children to love Islam to love the Quran to love studying Islam and learning about Islam and we don't want to make our children hate Islam and that's what we can take from the statement of Abu Umama رضي الله عن حبيب الله عالى عباده make Allah beloved to his servants and give an example of that when it comes to the recitation of the Quran and reading the Quran some parents are really really you know sometimes really strict with their kids in this and they might send their children to a teacher they don't like and the teacher is teaching them in a really harsh and rough way and the kid ends up leaving there with a feeling that they don't like reading the Quran and now their whole life that feeling goes with them now I'm not saying you shouldn't be strict with your children in teaching them the Quran because to be honest that's something beloved and that's something praiseworthy and beautiful for someone to be strict with their children in terms of making sure they stick into their memorization and they take it seriously but if it reaches the stage where your children start to hate reading the Quran and they start to hate going to the masjid or they start to hate studying Islam then really as a parent that's something wrong with that Tarbiyah you should make your children love Allah make your children love Islam make Islam the most exciting and the most interesting thing and one of the things we can take in this is rewarding your children rewarding your children in relation to Islam making Islam exciting and rewardable so often we reward our children as it relates to the worldly life you pass your exams you get a party a reward you know you get you know to buy something you get some money but when it comes to Islam it's like we make it bitter for them and hard for them but instead you should reward your children for Islam make them enjoy it and I know there is an issue of Ikhlas which we have to develop in our children and we don't want them to be living off of rewards like in the sense where they don't feel like they need to do anything for Allah because they just want if you're going to reward me I'm going to do it but in the beginning when they're young make them love Allah make them love Islam and from this is even celebrating the عياد the days of ايد ايد الفطر and ايد العضحة and making a big deal of it and really making the children enjoy and love it so the children learn to love Islam and love Allah make Allah beloved to His servants and I feel this is something many parents out of maybe out of a love for their children they go wrong in this they want good for them so they're strict and they're tough and they push them but sometimes they push them to the state where they start to they stop having that love for Islam and that love for Allah سبحانه وتعالى so when you see that you need to adjust your تربية yes there's got to be some strictness in there there's got to be some sternness in there but you have to adjust it to the level where you still see your children have that love and that desire for learning Islam and that love of Allah and that love of Islam our next evidence we're going to take from an ayah and سورة الفرقان الله عز وجل سد والذين يقولون ربنا هبلنا من أزواجنا وذرياتنا قررة ععن وجعلنا للمتقين إماما those who say our Lord give for us from our wives and our children those who are a pleasure to our eyes and make us for the متقين and imam make us imams examples for the متقين for the people of Taqwa so again if you've got people watching this video with you have a chat have a discussion try and come up with where you think this ayah where do you think this ayah fits into the principles of تربية I don't want the dua I want a a principle of تربية here and if you're by yourself then have a think jot down some ideas pause the video and inshallah we'll give you the answer after that so inshallah you had to think about it here I believe that the reason I brought this ayah is for the last part وجعلنا للمتقين إماما in every aspect of تربية the parent should be an example for their children and it's so sad to see that many times and it's from I believe it's from the goodness that the parent wants good for their child but sometimes subhanAllah the parent wants good for their child and they don't want it for themselves and they sort of encourage their children to do good but they don't encourage themselves now we're not going to say in that situation that the parent should stop doing good you know stop doing good stop telling your children to do good that's not what we mean but what we do say is that as a parent you want to be an example for your children and that is one of the greatest means of تربية one of the in fact it could even be considered to be one of the most fundamental parts of تربية is that you as a parent have to be an example for your child you can't be telling your child أقيم الصلاة وأمر بالمعروف وانحعني المنكر وصبر علماء الصابك perform the prayer and order that which is good and forbid that which is evil and be patient over what happens to you if you yourself don't do those things now don't get me wrong you telling your children and not doing it is still better than you not doing it and being silent that's the worst situation the worst situation is you do nothing and don't tell anyone to do anything either and at least it's a little bit better that you tell them but you're not doing it yourself but unless you're an example to your children and for your children then ultimately that تربية is not going to be achieved in the way that you want it and you might think that looks like a mountain that is very hard to climb how am I going to be an example for my children how am I going to start doing these things I'm not doing these right now learn with your kids be honest with your kids sit down with your children and talk to them and say to them look I know I'm not really doing what I should be doing right now but I'm going to I'm going to ask you to help me out we're going to learn together I'm so proud that you start and maybe you miss a day you lose a day you forget something you fall into something but you keep going back to your children you're being honest and one of the most one of the greatest things we can instill in our children is honesty and truthfulness as an example from ourselves and to them so you're trying to be an example for your kids and you sit down with your kids and say look I know I'm not doing exactly what I should be doing right now but I'm going to try and we're going to learn together and if it's about learning Islam learn together go to classes with your kids together and Subhan Allah you might see that your children learn benefits that you didn't learn and they take on knowledge that you weren't able to take on because their mind is more suited to it and their abilities are greater to absorb that information and there's no harm in you learning them from them Dylan Ibrahim say to his father يا أبتي إني قد جاءني من العلم ما لم يأتيك فاتبعني أهتيك صراطاً سوية يا أبتي لقد أردت معرفة أنها لم يأتي لك لذا اتبعني و سأساعدك على طريق مرحب Subhan Allah نستطيع أن نعلم from our children لا يوجد شيء أفضل إذا أعلم from our children نحن نعلم و نعلم as a family and this is one of the goals that we had behind this course and all of the courses that we were are providing via المدرسة العمارية and particularly the AMAU at home initiative just to get the families together learning together and then Subhan Allah slowly you will see parents become that example of Taqwa as for the parents being an example this has to happen لا محالة you can't get out of it you are an example to your children whatever you do your children are going to pick up on your habits your things the things you say the things you do there's no escape from that but here we want to be an example of Taqwa not an example of evil or an example of sinfulness or an example of disobedience but an example of Taqwa as for you being an example you can't escape that every child takes their parents as an example even the children the teenagers when they start getting a bit boisterous and a little bit you know when they say that I don't want to be like my dad or I don't want to be like my mom or they try to like rebel a little bit but they still take their parents as an example they take their parents as an example so be an example for Taqwa be an example for Taqwa don't be an example for for something bad or something wrong our next حديث that we have is a حديث from أمر بن شعيب عن أبيه عن جده رضي الله تعالى عنه أرضه the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم he said مر أولادكم بالصلاة وهم أبناء سبعين وضربوهم عليها وهم أبناء وعشر سنين وثرقوا بينهم في المضاجع أمر ابن شعيب نرated from his father from his father's grandfather who is Abdullah bin Amr ابن العاصر رضي الله عنهما command your children to pray when they are at seven years of age and hit them in order for them to pray when they are ten years of age and separate them at that age at ten years separate between them in their beds what benefit are you going to take from this? what principle of tarbiyah there's many benefits you could take ten, twenty benefits from this hadith but what principle of tarbiyah are you going to take from this hadith we had alluded to it in previous lectures maybe I've mentioned it briefly so you might have quoted that so have a chat with the people around you have a discussion and see if you can come up with the answer Insha'Allah so hopefully you've had time to think about that Insha'Allah the principle I take here is there are two principles you can take from this particularly that I saw you may have found others and you may have found better ones than the ones that I found but particularly age-specific tarbiyah that your tarbiyah needs to change and adapt to the child's age so here the Prophet ﷺ gives specific instructions with regard to the salah as it relates to the child is seven years old and specific instructions as it relates to the salah for the child who is ten years old the second principle that I would take from this is that you need to be ahead of the curve as it relates to your child and that is because as it relates to the salah at what age does the child earn sin if they don't pray at what age is the child sinful if they don't pray puberty right you don't earn sin before puberty and let's just say puberty 14 years old let's just put an approximate average figure of 14 years old on the age of puberty so until the child reaches 14 years old they are not sinful for leaving the prayer so why are we disciplining them at 10 years old why are we telling them at 7 years old pray come on pray salah time come on pray pray pray and then if they say no at 10 years old we're disciplining them where's that coming from if the child is not sinful until 14 because as a parent you are obliged to be ahead of the curve your tarbiyah must precede the time when it becomes obligatory there's no point teaching your child about the etiquettes as it relates to the opposite gender after the horse is already bolted from the stable and then you close the then you close the stable door you bolt the stable door after the horse is already left there's no benefit to that as a parent you have to be ahead of the curve so you have to be teaching and giving that tarbiyah to your child before it becomes an obligation on them and that's why this hadith implies that you would teach them how to pray before 7 years old so if we put this hadith in order we have 4 ages we have before 7 years old we have at 7 years old we have at 10 years old and we have at 14 approximately puberty 14 years old approximately so how does this work before 7 years old we teach them how to pray because how can we command them to pray if we haven't taught them how to pray how can I say to a 7 year old come on for your time pray start up what's praying I don't know what do I do what do I say obviously I have to have taught him before that okay now at 7 years old I'm telling come and pray but sometimes he or she they might say Dad I don't want to pray I know I don't want to pray I'm not going to pray so we let it go when this between 7 and 10 we let it go but it's on a sliding scale it's not like and the day before the 10th birthday we say to them okay let it go and then on the 10th birthday we say come and pray it's not like that that doesn't work right you have to have a sliding scale where you get more and more serious as they get older and older but by the time they reach 10 years old now we're going to discipline them and this principle we can take from this a 3rd principle we can take from this حريف is the right of the parent to discipline their child and the disciplining your child within the limits set by Islam is an important part of تربية that you discipline them like the Prophet ﷺ said hit them if they don't pray from 10 years old so now we have a next phase which is a phase of discipline and that shows you it begins with educating them after we educated the child now we are requesting the child after we requested the child now we're going to discipline the child and now upon that then the child reaches that stage of being regular in the prayer way before the time when the prayer is actually sinful for them because your discipline is a parent you're not going to hit them hard you're not going to make them you know hurt themselves or something like that it's the same kind of discussion that we had when we talked about the man and his wife and so on but here when you discipline your children you're discipline them which is better for them that you discipline them and teach them at 10 years old or that they are punished by Allah يوم القيامة isn't it more befitting that we should discipline our children before Allah as it will punish them and us for our shortcomings as it relates to our children so here we have teaching we have sort of inviting or encouraging then we have discipline and all of that comes before the Islamic obligation actually comes into play so this حديث is one of the most beneficial a حديث that we have which educates us and informs us about the tarbia of our children and it contains many principles and benefits relating to that our next حديث عن عائشة رضي الله عنها زوج النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم أنه قال إن الرفق لا يكون في شيء إلا زانة ولا ينزع من شيء إلا شانة عائشة نريد the wife of the prophet she narrated from the prophet that he said softness was never put into anything except that it made it beautiful and it was never taken out of anything except that it made it ugly gentleness softness رفق and this one is an easy one to get I'm not going to ask you to think about it it's the principle that our tarbia should be مبنية it should be built upon الرفق ولين gentleness softness and being easy going with people and that's why the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم was told فَبِمَا رَحْمَةٍ مِنَ اللَّهِ لِنْتَ لَهُمْ وَلَوْ كُنْتَ فَضَّنْ غَلِظَ الْقَلْبِ لَنْ فَضُّ مِنْ حَوْلِكِ and if you were harsh and hard-hearted they would have ran from around you by the mercy of Allah you were gentle with them if you were harsh and you were hard-hearted they would have fled from around you so the principle is that of softness and gentleness does that mean that we never get angry does that mean we never shout doesn't mean that because ultimately at the end of the day the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم got angry when the limits of Allah were crossed he would show his anger but our basic principle with our children is not anger our basic principle with our children is not screaming or shouting our basic principle with them is softness and gentleness and kindness and ease and that's why the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم mentioned from among the people that the fire is prohibited for الله has made the fire حرام for them and them haram for the fire the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم mentioned كله هيينين ليينين سهلين قريب everyone who is easy going and gentle and soft with the people and near approachable and that's how a parent should be they should be soft they should be gentle they should be approachable they should be friendly they should be kind that's how we should be with our children and there is a time for discipline and there's a time for raising the voice and that's why the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said وضربوهم عليها هتهم if they don't pray at 10 years old there's a time for discipline there's a time for raising the voice there's a time for getting angry but the basic way we deal with our children should be one of gentleness and softness our next text that we have يا إيوه الذين آمنوا ليستأذينكم الذين ملكت أيمانكم والذين لم يبلغوا الحلومة منكم ثلاثة مرات من قبل صلاة الفجر وحين تضعون ثيابكم من الظهيرة ومن بعد صلاة العشاء ثلاث عورات لكم ليس عليكم ولا عليهم جناح بعدهم طوافون عليكم بعضكم على بعض كذلك يبين الله لكم الآيات والله عليم حكيم صورة النور آية نمب 58 لذين الذين يبينوا right hands والذين لم يأخذوا قبل صلاة الحلومة لذين يجعلونهم إستأذان لذين يجعلونهم على دورك ويجعلونهم إضافة لذين يجعلونهم إضافة منكم في ثلاثة قبل صلاة الفجر وحين تضعون ثلاثة لجمعوا في الظهيرة في قبل صلاة عندما يجعلون قبل صلاة ومن بعد صلاة العشاء عندما يجعلون قبل صلاة العشاء ثلاثة لك ثلاثة قبل قبل حولك لا يوجد حام علىك أو علىهم بعد هذه وفي أي حال يأتي ويزقون يأتي ويرى بعضكم على بعض ويأتي بعضكم على بعض وفي هذا المكان يجعله يجعله قبل صلاة لك ويجعلون الله عليم حكيم نحن نقوم بسرعة ولكن أريد أن أعلم بعض الأشياء here أولا هي للتأكيد هي لك Hate لي هل زالة هل حاولها struggling تجاوز قبل ما س sake لا ومنها إعترار المنطقة والطبع والطبع الذي نضعه في حالنا ونحبه في حالنا فهذا يهم جداً أن التطبيقات المتحدة بها وأن نحاولهم المتحدة ونحاولهم في كل ما يفعله نحاولهم المتحدة ونحاولهم الوصول ونحاولهم when they interact with people later on and one of these simple ones is at least it's mentioned in Surat An-Nour just knocking on the door and asking permission can I come in before Fajr after Isha when the person goes to sleep in the middle of the day knocking on the door and the child saying can I come in to the parents room for example this is a beautiful etiquette and it's about teaching our children adab that our tarbiyah shouldn't just be teaching them about the ibadat that are in terms of salah and zakah and so on but also teaching them about the adab about manners and about how to behave with other people and how to interact with other people particularly the issue of modesty and haia and everything they do and that's why the Prophet ﷺ saw a man who was criticising his brother about modesty he was giving him a hard time over modesty and the Prophet ﷺ said leave him alone everything about modesty is good leave him alone because everything about modesty is good everything about modesty is good so I believe that that is worth highlighting even though there's many adab that we teach our children but the adab of modesty and particularly that we teach our children a part of the tarbiyah as we teach them how to behave with other people and if they don't learn how to behave like that within their family then how can we expect them to learn to behave like that outside of it does that make sense how can we hope for them to have good behaviour when it comes to the guests and when it comes to when they go out to the real world and they mix with people at the end of the day if they don't learn that from the family from the family then where are they going to learn it from our last hadith for this episode is a hadith of أمر بن أبي سلمة رضي الله عنه and he said he said كنت في حجري الرسول الله ﷺ وكانت يدي تطيش في الصحفة فقال لي يا غلام سم الله وكل بيمينك وكل مما يليك سعدي انا ريت انبخاري المسلم من الحديث عمر بن أوبي سلمةwho said that i was in the apartment of the messenger of Allah ﷺ and my hand was going all around the tray all around the plate and was taking food from the far side of the plate and from the near side of the plate so he said to me يا ببي سم الله سي بسم الله and eat with your right hand and eat from what is near to you I'm going to take a few benefits لأنه يتعلق مع التربية هنا فقط as we conclude the episode أولاً أن أبناء يجب أن لا يجوز تأخير البيانة ووقت الحاجة لن يستطيع أن تدليل لك تحاول أبناء ما يحتاجه when the time is there that they need it وعندما كان يفعل شيء مخطئ فالأبناء لم تدليل وقال سأفعل معه when he's too older سأفعل معه في 10 سنة و5 سنة و2 سنة و2 سنة وقال to him أبناء أبناء قل بي the name of Allah وقال بي مع right hand and eat with what is near to you وعندما يستطيع أن تأخذ من هذا أنت تأخذ كل شيء that you think they will need هنا أمر أبن أبي سلمة أنه يتكلم أنه يفعل one mistake which is that his hand was going all over وقال بي that the Prophet hasn't taught him three etiquettes وقال بيسم الله تأكل مع right hand and eating from that which is near to you لأنه يستطيع أن يكون أبناء لذا أنت تأخذ ما تعتقد أن أبناء أبناء will need أنت لا تأخذ أنهم يفعلون one thing إذا كانوا يفعلون شيء مخطئ ليس فقط one that one thing only ولكن أنت تحاول أن تفعل it to the other things that you think they might need on a similar topic وقال بي that the Prophet hasn't addressed this وقال بي that the Prophet hasn't spoken about this هذا هو ما لدينا time for in this episode في next episode إن شاء الله سوف نتحدث عن how you teach your children Islam لأننا نتحدث عن تاربيا أجنرally ونحن سنذهب إلى أجنرally لن نرى كيف مني كما تتحدث عن how you should teach your children Islam وكيف يجب أن نتحدث عن تاربيا أجنرally لإن شاء الله أين تبدأ؟ وكيف تتحدث عن them? هذا يأتي في next episode إن شاء الله ونحن نتحدث عن في next episode إن شاء الله كما تتحدث عن تاربيا أجنرally في الحياة العالمية وإعادة تاربيا أجنرل والشيء like homeschooling أو إعادة تاربيا أجنرل أو كيف يمكنك أن تلعب في حالك تاربيا أجنرل ولكن قبل ذلك سنضع الإسلام first سنتحدث عن إسلامية لأجنرل ونحن تأتي في next episode والله يعرف أفضل والصلاة والسلام على أبينا محمد وعلى آله وصحبيه أجمعين السلام عليكم إذا كنتم تحبين هذه الفيديو وكأنك يحبون اليوم مع كل هذه المحاولات 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