And we'll get the program going here in just a few seconds I know exactly how you thought when you saw our charming and elegant first lady come in you wanted to go get an autograph And the only reason I'm asking you to sit on it so I can run over and get mine, you know I'm just kid. Please be seated. We'll have another number from our fine Dixie. And by the way I think we owe them a great round of applause From the United States Marine Corps We'll have another one and get the program started. How's that and I'm from, California And I know there's a lot of love and a lot of enthusiasm in here this afternoon For this very special picnic hosted by our first lady Nancy Reagan. You're having a good time. Aren't you? Yes Now I just want to see one thing We have the foster grandparents here and we have the kids here And I want the grandparents first to applaud and show their appreciation for the kids And then we're going to go vice versa and see who has the most enthusiasm now the grandparents Now let's see what the kids think of the grandparents. Okay kids. I guess it's a tie Well, it is I think this is such a wonderful idea to kick off the new book and The new record and here it is right above us to love a child and the foster Grandparents program. Let me just say this before we get going I want to put this on the record because I've lived out in California for a long long time and Followed our first lady's career and I just want you to know that this isn't something she grabbed on to when she got to Washington because I remember the day that she went out to the hospital there in California and met that young fella And this is how it all it was at 14 or 15 years ago. Maybe more 57 67 so that's a long time So she has your love and of course her support and all and this is going to be great today Now let me introduce you to a young lady The reason I had you do that little warm-up there is I want you to do this for each and every one of the Performers that come up this afternoon. There's a very charming little lady over here And if you're from the Washington area, how many of you let me find out how many of you came in from out of town from Say, Florida, New York or somewhere else That's good see so you won't all know this young lady because she is from Washington if you were from the Washington area You would know her from television because she is one of the top children's performers in this area and award-winning Record artists ladies and gentlemen, please join me in a welcome for Michelle Valerie right here. Here's Michelle Thank you very much. I'd like you to meet my friends And we'd like you to join us in singing this opening tune in every tune after that Okay, this is a song you probably all know the words to to Here we go sing To last your heart sing us the children and I want to make sure that Stephanie and Robert and Kevin and NTN and all their friends sing this one with us, okay? Here play Simon says Did you ever play Simon says? This is like Simon says. Okay, just do what I tell you to Put your finger in the air in the air.   Tell me is it green or red? What color is it? Anybody? Red. Red.  On your head. Alright, one more time.  On your chin. I like this one a lot.  On your chin. Put it on your chin.  Big grin. That's my smile. Oh, that's lovely.  On your chin. Now put your finger on. Put it. Either one. Either knee.  On your knee. Now put your finger on your shoe. On your shoe. I know it's lunchtime.  On your shoe. And you just ate. But put your finger on your shoe. Tell me. Is it brown or blue? Blue. Mine's black. Blue, white.  On your shoe. Alright now.  All together. All together.  All together. You got them all together?  All together. Alright, sing with me. Put your finger in the air. In the air. That's it. Put your finger in. Put your finger in the air. You can put your finger down now. That's it. Okay, I told someone in the audience named Louise from Mississippi that I would dedicate this song to her. Because she said that her husband used to sing this to her all the time. But everyone knows this song. So you're going to have to join us on this one. Here we go. I know. Dedicate this to your foster grandparent.  Alright, this will work. And I'll dedicate it to Louise. You are my sunshine. My only sunshine. Thank you. Okay. And then I wrote, this is another song that you've probably heard. And I'm sure you can join in on this one too. This is called Oh, Susanna. You know this one? Okay, there's a few things you can do. You can play the banjo if you like. Okay. Now to Washington. Now how about it for Michelle Valerie and all of her friends. Ladies and gentlemen, a name that is synonymous in the music world with the very best. Whether it be conducting, composing, arranging, whatever it might be. That name is Costa. And of course, Mr. Costa has been for a long, long time associated in making records with Frank Sinatra and many of the other great, great names on the record labels. We have done with us today. And we also have, and I'm going to have you welcome these two people together. It's very lovely, Nika. That is his daughter. And she is on the record that you have been given. And I know you're all going to take that home. And I was very, very happy to see her signing autographs back here a little earlier. And you're going to say, hey, she's a living doll. I'd like to take her home with me. Ladies and gentlemen, Mr. Don Costa and Ms. Nika Costa. Right here. Give them a great big welcome. Isn't she cute? And she's good too. Well, look where did they come from? Look here. Let's bring them up. Let me tell you who these fine youngsters are. We met them yesterday. And I want to make sure I get this absolutely right because they are the city-wide chorus from the Washington, D.C. public schools. Don't you think they deserve a big hand? Thank you. We took a little poll yesterday to find out what they all wanted to be. We have future astronauts and doctors. And we got one guy that was really honest. He said, I'm very thrilled to be here. And I'm very thrilled to be out of school today. And I think we have a couple of little ladies that want to go to Broadway. That's wonderful. Well, I'm waiting for a cue, ladies and gentlemen. I didn't tell you one thing that I should have. I forgot this. And I think it's very important because you see the book right here. And I read most of that book last night. And I just love all of you foster grandparents because you have done some extraordinary things. And we all owe you another round of applause.  And I'll do it myself.  But, you know, the great thing about this today, this big kickoff for the book and the record is that every single penny in royalty goes to the foster grandparent program so that means we can have more of you and more kids. And that is even greater. Really. Thank you. You're good. You know, ladies and gentlemen, for about 25 years, I was a disjockey. And I don't think I ever did a program without including one of this next gentleman's records. At least one, because I was the kind of a guy that would do a whole hour, you know, because I think he's great. It was a great thrill to introduce him then. And I want to tell you it's even a greater thrill to have him a part of this today, ladies and gentlemen. America's greatest performer and certainly one of our greatest citizens, Mr. Frank Sinatra. Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, you all look so pretty and so nice. And I'm glad to be part of our celebration here today on behalf of Mrs. Reagan and this lovely book about our wonderful grandparents and children and to get a chance to sing like I haven't got enough time to do that, right? I don't know if you've heard the song before, but I think you have lyrics in there, but we'll first do it so that you get used to hearing what you're doing or what we're doing. And if you know it well enough by then, you're very smart, because I'm not too sure myself. No, I'm joking. Are we ready to do it? I'm ready. The sun and the rain to make a tree grow If it takes the moon and the tide to make the sea flow takes the sun and the rain to make a tree grow If it takes the moon and the tide to make the sea flow for a child


The CODIS Force Support Squadron asked Santa Claus to fly by for some photos with service members and families with four-legged friends. Pets from dogs to rabbits got to sit on Santa's lap. I'm FSS so it's always great to see our own events doing well. There's a lot of Facebook pages, a lot of things that they do just for pet owners and it's good to meet new interesting people and different pets. Santa gave his thoughts on spreading holiday cheer to families of all sorts. Some people believe that their pets are also their children. Boys and girls, of course, get all the presents but some of our best friends need presents too. Merry Christmas and we're glad we got to see everyone that is able to come out. Petty Officer Lorelai Vandegrand, Yukota Air Base, Japan.


I think fantastic to be here. I think the mood for the World Cup is coming up. And we can clearly see the energy and the enthusiasm even amongst the audience on the World Cup. So i think good experience. Also for me i think it was interesting to answer the questions on how is the Changing media mix on the World Cup and the importance of digital. And that's going to be very important. And the way we are investing in the World Cup this year i think is going to be an interesting transition here as to how large sporting events are activated. So it is interesting.


Mae'r digon niad yma i'r gwasanaeth am y nid i'r Nicolau Gwyrdian normalol remewyr i'r amser. Roedd ydych yn meddwl i'r gwasanaeth a fyddwch gyrddian a dwi'n meddwl i'r Gwyrdian. Roedd gwrtho, ac mae'r gwasanaeth o'r gwyrdian yn y iddyn nhw. Mae'r gwasanaeth is i'r union i'r Unedd a'r United States. Rwy'n gweithio yna, jod fe gennym eich gwirionedd. Roedd i heb yn meddwl ein gwasanaeth, i brazyl, i rusiau, Gwyrdian a chynedd yn iddyn nhw. ac yn ystod yn cysylltu'rgus iawn i gweithio am yma yng Nghaerdydd, y Mexicor, y Caerir, y Ddaenys, y Bangladaser. Mae'n cael i ddweud y gweithio nad yw'n hyn yn ei ddechrau rhywbeth. Fyddwn ni'n rhaid i bwysig yr oedd bradriaeth Brynno sydd o'r jaguwr ac y Burbr, rydyn ni'n ystod i bwysig oherwydd byddwn ni'n gofyd agoriennol a'r cyffredin iawn, a'r cyfrodd ettyw credeidio ar gyfer y gwag iawn, ac yn rhoi dweud i gyd-degawr o'r quntydd yma. Mae, ydydych chi'n siarad y ffordd i 350 ysgolwg ymwneud, 70% wedi'i gweithio'r eich bod yn ffosfyrdd cymdeithasol ar awgust, mae'n 30% wedi'u gweithio'r eich bod yn ffosfyrdd. Mae'r cymdeithasol yn y ffosfyrdd yng nghymru yng nghymru yn ffosfyrdd ymwneud yn siarad, mae'r gweithio'r eich bod yn ffosfyrdd, ac mae'r eich bod yn ffosfyrdd ymwneud, ychydig yn ymwneud i'r hyn oedd. Mae'r bwysig ar y mynd i gyflawni'r ysgol yn y ddweud o'r ffawr oedd ymddangos yn y gyflawni'r ysgol, mae'n gofio'r ddweud a'r fawr i'r ddiweddol i'r ffordd o'r hynny, ymddangos y byd ymdyn nhw i'r holl o'r ysgol yn y ddweud o'r market. Freezzur 8 Dus time, almost to the hour. The Chancellor will be stood up, delivering the autumn statement, and in that autumn statement he does have options to help companies in this room, the 1,000 companies boost growth, by investing in house, by investing in roads, an energy and digital broadband? And by providing more incentives to take on young unemployed people? And that's a real opportunity, which I hope the Chancellor will take. I was encouraged by the Prime Minister's speech today because we know that there are lots of first-time buyers out there that are effectively frozen out of the housing market at the moment because they have to put down maybe £50,000 as a deposit in order to get their first house and that's simply not practicable for them unless they've got very rich parents stood behind them. So what he's talking about today is covering that with insurance, giving an insurance which underpins the gap between the loan and the value of the house. The Prime Minister didn't have a lot to say on youth unemployment, he touched on it, until it was drawn out by questions. It was clear from the body of the Kirk that people are bothered about youth unemployment. The CBI's proposals, the Young Britain Credit, to give a £1,500 cash incentive, particularly to small employers, to take on a struggling 16 or 17-year-old who can't find a job. This is vital to avoid the scarring effects of unemployment. I think the infrastructure opportunities for this country are enormous. I've been banging on about toll roads. We don't mind when we go to France or Spain on holiday paying occasionally to go down a smart motorway. As long as there's a choice of roads, the old, perhaps congested road that we pay for through our taxes, and the new road which we can use a bit like the M6 expressway if we're prepared to pay a toll. The government hasn't the money to build those roads but that road investment will lead to significant extra business investment that follows on from it. The private sector can build those roads if we have innovative funding solutions like road tolling. What message would you give to CBI delegates here today? Difficult times, confidence is very low. What would you like them to take away from today? When times are tough you have to dig deeper, you have to dig into those resources which enable you to do the things you've always known you've needed to do. In good times we could sell to people within a 200 square mile. Now we've got to go on a 2,000 or 4,000 square mile basis to get to the markets where people want to buy the products and services we have on offer. So in tough times dig deeper.


So, today let's discuss if the leaving group type would affect the rate of an SN2 reaction. But before we begin, why don't we just recall the mechanism of an SN2 reaction. In this reaction, the attacking nucleophile Y- attacks the carbon attached to the leaving group and the leaving group X- leaves. All of this happens in a single step. So, Y- attacking and X- leaving happens simultaneously and therefore the more stable the leaving group, the faster it would leave and the more would be the rate of the reaction. So yes, the type of the leaving group is going to affect the rate of an SN2 reaction. Let's take up a few problems to understand this better. In this question, we are given three reactions and we have to compare the rates of these three reactions towards an SN2 mechanism. Okay, just look at these reactions carefully and think what are the common things here. Here the substrate apart from the leaving group in each case is the same. The attacking nucleophile is also the same in each case. But in the first case, this nucleophile replaces Br- while in the second case it replaces F- and in the third case it has to replace Cl- right. So what do we compare here? We talked about how the more stable the leaving group, the faster it would leave and the more would be the rate of that reaction, correct? How do I compare the stability of these anions? Well, we use the electronic effects. Remember the electronic effects that we studied about in the previous units? We use them. First, we look at the atom that has the charge. If the atoms are different, we compare them based on the sizes or the electronegativities. If the atom containing the charge in each case is the same, then we go further thinking about resonance, inductive effect, etc., etc. So here, in this case Br- fluoride ion and Cl- need to be compared. What do we know about them? Well, they belong to the same group. Good. What else? If we look at the size, Br- is the largest of them all, followed by the Cl- followed by the fluoride ion. So if the sizes are in this order, let's think a little more deeply. The larger the size of the ion, the more spread out is the charge. And the more spread out the charge, the lesser is the charge per unit area, the lesser the potential energy and the more stable the ion is, correct? So the stability order would be Br- is more stable than the Cl- followed by the fluoride ion. So who leaves the most quickly? It's the Br- ion out of all three and therefore the first reaction would happen the most quickly out of all three and it has the fastest rate. And if we are asked to compare the order of the rates, we say that the rate of the first reaction would be greater than the third one followed by the second one. Let's take up another problem, shall we? And this question, one equivalent of cyanide ion has to attack and replace the leaving group via SN2 mechanism. What do the options tell me? Well, either the bromide ion leaves as in the first case or the iodide ion leaves as in the second case or the both may leave. What could happen? What would be the role of one equivalent? One equivalent cyanide or CN- means it can replace either of the two potential leaving groups here. It would replace either the iodine as iodide ion or the bromine as bromide ion. And how do we know which one is going to go away? Why don't you try it yourself and then we'll do it together. If we think about the size, the iodide ion is much larger than the bromide ion. The larger the size of the ion, the more spread out the charges, the lesser is the charge per unit area and the more stable the ion is. So the iodide ion is more stable than the bromide ion. So who would want to go? The iodide ion. So the answer to this question would be option B. Let's take up another question. Okay, this question asks us to arrange the following in the increasing order of reactivity towards the same nucleophile during an SN2 reaction. Ooh, some things to focus on. We see that the attacking nucleophile is the same and it's happening via SN2. What else is similar in each case? It's the substrate apart from the leaving group, right? Only the leaving group in each case would be different. Think about which of the three leaving groups would be the most stable, okay? In each case, the negative charge resides on the oxygen atom, correct? The negative charge is on the same atom. Ooh, we use the electronic effects. In the first case, the ethyl group attached to the oxygen atom don't need electron density on the oxygen atom via plus-i effect. The oxygen atom is already electron dense. It already has a negative charge plus somebody is pushing more electron density on it. That would make it unstable, right? In order to help it, somebody has to come and take that electron density away rather than pushing more and that is what is happening in the third case. If you look carefully, the negative charge is alternate to the pi bond and there is a possibility of resonance. And due to this resonance, this negative charge spreads out more, right? It is stabilized more, so which of the three leaving groups would be the most stable? The third one would be the most stable one while the first one would be the least stable one. And therefore, the reactivity towards the nucleophile during an SN2 reaction would be CH3CH2OCH2CH3 would react the slowest while CH3CH2OCOCH3 would react the fastest.


Welcome to the 21 convention in Miami, Florida guys real treat here I've had the pleasure of knowing this guy on an acquaintance level for many years But then had the true pleasure to interview him that interviews actually on the 21 convention channel And it's an amazing thing, but not only that I've gotten to know his entire coaching staff and just amazing people clients amazing people Truly teaching us about ease, delight, love and beauty the founder of ours Amarata, Zan Perrion Let's have a talk Okay, I Thought about I debated I thought about what I was going to talk about today Usually I just wing it I come over the opening sentence, and I just like Start to wing it But I want to talk about a subject today And I'll try and explore it in various ways. So if I ramble a bit and jump around just just Bear with me and the something I want to talk about Which is strong on my mind and has been for many years is the concept and the idea of us Men being men in other words our sexual spirit and our masculine edge The mystique we have as men the Beautiful God-given gift of our sexual desire which in the West Which we're all a product of is Anathema It's wrong. So I want to talk about that and I'm going to explore it and I'm going to think about things as I go that I've discovered over the years and And and see if we can see if we can come to some kind of It's an energetic thing. I'm going to talk about so I've always been interested in the kind of man who women adore and You know what I'm talking about You guys know somebody in college or something that you knew that he wasn't very tall. It wasn't very good-looking He had no money. He was kind of a slaw, but girls loved him. He always had girls around him And I wanted to know what is the energy of that man compared to the rest of us who were doing We're trying to analyze things and trying to analytically analytically figure things out Trying to say the right thing do the right thing to get girls and this guy just like oh, just be yourself. I Want to understand that and I spent my entire life trying to understand that man and that energy and Why do they have a vibration that the rest of us do not have and how can we have it for ourselves? Why do women why do women encounter him and the next day she can't stop thinking about him She's daydreaming.  She's looking out the window Thinking about that guy. That's the only thing. I think that is Has any merit and has any kind of what's the only subject I want to talk about and Truly, I think it's the only subject we need I really do The only thing we need we're great. We're a great generation of nice guys We're charming. We learn how to talk. We're we're learning how to approach girls We're learning how to be where to go to take a girl in a date, but there's no Edging us There's no lower energy These men have a vibration that moves down into the earth like this It's a lowered center of gravity and women can feel it and they go like what they might not even be attracted to him But they go that guy So this is what I've this is what I've been trying to understand all my life for myself And I wrote a book about it called the alabaster girl And you guys all have a bookmark on your on your place in front of you and If and I'll send you a free copy. I'll sign and send it to you from Romania where I live If you go to the website alabaster girl calm, I'll send you a copy I'll sign it and send it to you put your email in there or your mailing address It's just snail mail address and I'll send you a physical copy so the book I tried to write it took me ten years to write it and I tried to capture in there what I've learned in my Years I'll say my story very quickly because I don't want to belabor this point In my I grew up in the in the wilderness of Northern Canada. I Left home when I was 13 My education stopped at 13 I don't have any education beyond that except for self-education and So I went into the wilderness and I helped a mount man run his trap line I wore moccasins on my feet had a fur hat a you know a knife on my side and That was my background and I and I and I was that from 13 years old till 1819 So my teenage years were not spent in a high school type situation Certainly not a college situation Where you learn your social graces you learn your the dynamic of men and women in that's your part of your social education I didn't get it. So I came out of there into the cities of the world and I liked girls More than anything in my life. I like girls crazy, I dedicated my life to that subject and So my 20s remember this I was my teens. I was like in the wilderness my 20s. I I Did everything I could to try and understand women and I tried and failed There is no story. I promise you this There's no story you have about being rejected or lost or confused or or or or Desiring somebody and they don't want you back that I don't have I have embarrassing stories for my 20s Massively embarrassing stories I so I did my but I stayed I wanted to understand it. I want to understand women. I wanted so I spent my whole 20s Trying to understand the concept of female energy and and women and their relationship to me massively rejected across the board and If something happened, I'd be like what happened. How did I get lucky on this? I had no clue. No clue Then about my 30s. I remember this is before Anything like the seduction community. This is I'm an old guy. I'm 52 So this is before the internet Just before there's any kind of instruction or boot camps or workshops or books on the subject at all. There's nothing I Read the the memoirs of Casanova That's all there was so So here I am in my my my my 20s and I and I was like So insecure and so lost I would go to the bar by myself and I'm standard like I'm not gonna approach a girl I was too ashamed and too afraid. So I'd be like this and I'd kind of like lean on the bar till 2 o'clock in the morning when the bar closed hoping something would happen I Was massively insecure and That was my 20s my 30s then I started to go I started to think because I did my my time I did my 10,000 hours. If you know the concept of that I did 10,000 hours trying to understand women I did nothing else. I've had no other hobbies in my entire life I want to know women like I play a bit of guitar, but that's because I like I wanted me girls. I Remember like I like the guys in I was in Vancouver and in some of the guys who works there listen We're gonna go on we have this fishing boat.  Yeah, I'm cut wait. Is there any big girls out there and I wouldn't go There's no girls. I'm not gonna go So that was So that was my whole background So with my 30s is when this thing started with the synapses started to fire I was like wait a minute. You just said this to me girl and I heard this a hundred times before and It meant something use and I thought it meant this but I think it means this I started to get some understanding homegrown I had nobody to help me nobody So So I wrote a book in my 40s Took me from 40 to 50 years old now the bastard girl. It's everything. I've ever learned Everything I've learned in all those years is in that book It's like I something vomited out of my system I had to get it out So read it and if you if you read it send me a message of you if you read the comments and thoughts about it It's it's really it's my life work while my next book too, but anyway so that's my truncated story Now then So this concept of men who get it Who moves to the land of women with ease who women say oh, yeah, that's just him He you have to date me three times to make sure that you're a good guy, but him. No, he doesn't count You all know what I'm talking about right this guy's you just like have a free pass from women How's this possible? It's like women are on the stage and they're giving out all the all the prizes you get a prize and you don't It's like they're the ones in control Like and we don't know what's going on. That's why we say that have the concept of getting lucky because if we feel I don't know what happened Right. Oh this girl had sex. I don't know why Right and a whole community developed around that. Why did that girl or how to make that girl or to how to get this girl to right and And you know when the community came along I mean like Neil Strauss wrote the book the game I was way back in the day if you guys know anything about me at all. I Was back in the day. It was one of the original guys back then talking about it in Anyway But I wrote the book I wrote this book. I'm not kidding guys. I wrote this book for me I wrote it for my young self if I had this when I was 18 19 If I had somebody to say you know what it's gonna be okay And we didn't get it We didn't have a hero to look up to in our generation we didn't have a father figure that said son This is how you hold an axe. This is how you this is how you work in a car And this is how you treat a woman. We didn't get it We didn't get that our generations generation has been failed as men This is why we're scratching our head. This is why we were afraid of the women because we we didn't get that We didn't get what we've always had in history, which is a rite of passage We've always had in all of cultures of all of history every culture of the world has had a rite of passage From boys to men the sue Native Americans had the vision quest and they would take a young man and there's a boy and they say go into the wilderness and Speak your name And you go into the wilderness. He's naked and scared and he's like cold and afraid and he go out there for days Maybe weeks and he'd come back After finding his totem animal This is this is in a lot of cultures and then when he came back they would say Now you can stand with the men stand here the concept imagine this the concept of teenager Including the word teenager did not exist before 1950 The word teenager is invented since 1950. There was no concept of teenager in all of history until now there was boys and men and We didn't get that our generation has been failed That's why you're experiencing what you're feeling Experiencing this this loss of connection with women loss of connection with the female spirit loss of connection with your masculine edge and your sexual beauty We've been failed our society has let us down. It's not your fault Just let us down and so That I wrote this book for that little boy who was lost and scared came out of the wilderness and liked the girls but was so massively rejected from girls and And tried to be cool and tried to learn things tried to like be this guy Tried to like get somebody to Like me and I was so insecure because I thought who would like me. I Didn't I didn't have an education. I didn't have like who would want me every else has got this cool car and I had this feeling all his years and it's like What you learn is this gentlemen Look at you guys and I and I see myself.  Here's how you be strong We have no heroes anymore our heroes are 18 year old rap stars.   I spake as a child when I became a man I put away childish things and it's that critical and that deep and that Absolute that has to happen. We're a generation of boys who are trying to date girls. We're a tinder swiping We're a generation of boys used to play with PlayStation where boys we play PlayStation now, but now we're having fun We're not having fun anymore You see And I'm saying it's strong and I hope you get it strong and I hope you feel the energy of what I'm saying because it's to me It's to myself I wish I would have had a message but there's no message for men. That's real This is fundamental that goes to the core of who we are as men, which is lost in this day and age An interesting thing happened in the last 30 years 30 ish years. I don't know and that is this for all of history men which I see here in the audience had the concept of duty You had the duty to your country duty to your family duty to your community Duty to your fellow man duty to your brothers You had the concept of duty. We had that in her soul in her system In our culture, right? Concept of duty. It has been replaced today by the concept of rights I Have the right to do this and I have the right to not have and we have this generation That has been protected with their little bike helmets Who grew up and are offended in our universities and offended by everything and and and and and We're little snowflakes Something's wrong Something has gone wrong Where this generation of like Fragile beings who need protection. We want everything to protect us because I might be offended the universities in the West Use to teach intellectual pursuits now instead of intellectual education. It's an emotional education Everything's dedicated to like teach them how to be offended and to take a fence And it's wrong I'll stand up and I'll say it and that's gentlemen Who we are and who you're dating you see that what we're missing is our generation Is this conviction of men this desire to to Imagine this our sentences go up at the end We ask a girl we we say to a girl. Hey listen, it was like It was nice talking to you. Would you like to go for coffee sometime? Oh, I have a boyfriend. Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't know you had a boyfriend. I just I didn't mean anything by it That was we flinch We have intent we don't say statements anymore You I'm I'm not talking about anything practical, but here's something practical for you Stop saying questions to women start shifting that into statements by that. I mean Imagine you said to this girl. It was nice talking to you. Would you like to get coffee sometime? That sounds like a great Thing of reaching out and talking to women, right? Sounds good, but if you change it into a statement Instead of saying hey, it was nice talking to you. Would you like to have coffee sometime? You say this It was nice talking to you. I would like to have coffee with you sometime Or we should have coffee sometime and we should go with Thursday night. What are you doing? Let's Cancel your plans if you change your little these queries into statements Suddenly what happens in you is something shifts into an energetic leadership role and She can feel it statements instead of questions Hey, I would like to have coffee. It'd be great. That's a great way of saying it makes sense Little bit of like a micro adjustment Compared to the micro aggressions and triggering that we have in our modern society Which you guys all know you're all aware of that Our convictions, you know, we don't draw the line in the sand anymore We say listen to to women or to men or to anything thus far shalt thou go and no further We're a generation of beige asexual men We're closet heterosexuals Right Time to come out of the closet And I'll tell you like I'm coming out here strong guys because you know what? It's the fight of your lives. I Hope you feel the energy of it because it is that important. It is the fight of your lives We say we want change but we don't really Right you say you want a girlfriend now you don't really Because you know why it's easier to complain to yourself and say I'm not good enough Then it is to go out there and actually meet women there's entire programs and and and and Webinars and seminars devoted to this concept of approach anxiety or the fear of rejection. I Have the fear of rejection. I don't want to talk about a few reject because what if she she's a boyfriend, right? The fear of rejection, but you know what is even stronger. I think for men In this generation the fear of success Because what if she likes you what if you went up there and she's you said hey Like you look you're pretty and I like you what if she likes you now You have to be interesting and dynamic and stop playing world of warcraft on the weekends and hang out with a girl So when you sabotage yourself Well, okay, I don't do that. So like it's a fear of success is just as strong or maybe more strong than the fear of failure Because you're used to your security blanket That's cold and moldy and wet and holding you down, but you're used to it To throw it off is scary. It's scary. Your comfort zone is is You see We're afraid of that fear of success It's that important is the fight of your lives I went to Panama when I was writing this book I went there for four months to sit in the jungle and work on my book sat in the same shorts and t-shirt for like four months sweating my everything off and I came out of there from the people who are who are have Very little anything but they're happy people and I went into Amsterdam to do a major seminar for after four months of the jungle I went there and all I could think the whole time is Was This me centric generation Reality TV self-help multi-billion-dollar industry What do you do for me? This is the women of the world. What do you do for me? Where are we gonna be in five years? What does this mean? What it's all me where it's navel gazing. We're centered on ourselves There's no sense of communion with brothers and sisters that there's no community anymore at all even though we think we're on Facebook and We're not there's no sense of connection And you can feel it you feel it everywhere. There's no sense of gathering and and and brothers and arms and any of this kind of stuff and Me centric generation it's We're overladen with If you watch a lot of porn which probably a lot of guys and audience do you turn it off at the end and what do you see reflected in the screen? you Just you and That hurts that hurts you feel it right here. It's just you there. That's it This is where our failing is This is my crusade So I wrote a book for my young self so I could so if I only had those answers then when I was being insecure and Not sincere and manipulative and trying to be this cool guy only I had this so The question to ask yourself gentlemen a big question a fundamental question, which is the question of my next book is this What exists because of you the thought I what a thought What exists do you feel the energy of that? Everything else is small Girl doesn't text you back. That's small What exists because of you? So my whole Thing that I've been trying to understand and trying to talk about is the polarity which we've lost in this world of men Being men women being women the masculine edge of the masculine spirit of men is a thrusting nature. It's a penetrative energy We can't penetrate our women. We can't penetrate our lives. We can't penetrate our businesses. We can't we're like oh We're apologetic. It's okay. It's good enough. We're beige We can't penetrate anymore and I'll say this is politically incorrect and I'll get slammed for it and I don't care The energy of women is a receiving energy to receive that penetration to receive that masculine energy into the feminine spirit and To rebirth it to give it rebirth The true feminine spirit which is gone from the earth just like the true masculine spirit is gone from the earth The true feminine spirit is a regenerative life-giving energy and If you have and I know you have if you ever been in the presence of a woman that has just even 10% of that beautiful feminine grace You'll never forget her till the day you die. Am I right? Some woman that was just kind and gave you of her generous Feminine spirit breaks your heart. He breaks your heart If you make love To a beautiful woman That is way out of your league quote-unquote Who's a beautiful generous energy of receiving your masculine spirit and giving you the rebirth? That would crave if you're in bed with that woman and she gives you that energy You almost cry it breaks your heart and it's rare As a tiger Lily. It's rare It's a rare spirit When you make love to a beautiful woman imagine this guys all is forgiven all The rejections you had all the mistakes you made talking to women all the the mess ups you made when you thought It's all forgiven everything's forgiven You reset That's Like I said, it's politically incorrect. I'll say it You know like like if I worked at a if I was a professor, I'd lose my tenure if I was a working in Meteor something I'd lose my job. I can't I can't so I'll say it This is the receiving role of women and There's countless women out there trying to restore that balance to believe me You hear all the this strong feminist Bitchy agenda you hear this all the strong men beating their chest painting their faces take back the power from women That's 20% of the voices guys 80% is the silent majority who of men and women who really want restoration one wanted one a beautiful balance again of Polarity of men and women of this beautiful magnetic energy that attracts We don't have that we have sameness We are all born under this so-called second wave equality movement and the goal of the equality movement was equality And we didn't get it 60 years later. We still don't have a quality.   That's our problem You can't um And then I see a guy say to me this well women are mean They're not nice Yeah, well women have their own work to do gentlemen We can't wait for them It's off to you It's up to you to stand on this earth and say you know what no more I want I want to have a great path.  What's your name? Women are mean and they're rejecting and they're the ones in power and they're the ones that pick I like you but I don't like these guys We seemingly think but women are not to blame Women are just as women are no more enlightened or aware or aware than you are They're just as lost and confused and scratched on their head too It's what it's what we're this is our modern age And it's time for a generation of men to say no more Let's let's stand on this earth not in a fight against women not in a fight against this energy But in a reclamation of the beautiful God-given gift of masculine sexuality In our western world If you're a man You're this close to being a rapist and and and we need to on college campuses and in universities and in organizations Programs to teach you how not to rape That's a sin That's a sin Fight it with everything you've got because that's a sin.  You see that? That's wrong I don't buy it. I I'll fight against it. I don't care who says anything about me.  It's not a fight against that as a fight against it's a fight for a new spirit of regeneration Is men and women and the polarity which is a beautiful thing today? We're all gender fluid. I identify that's okay I talk in absolutes. I talk about men being men women being women and there's other people who identify with different things That's okay. I don't talk about that I'm talking about extremes and I am I'm extreme And I get blasted by feminists.  I don't talk about like social I'm talking about tonight I don't talk about social conditions and what's happening in the world today and politics and stuff that Because I want to focus on the light What's beautiful? What is beauty? This book is if somebody said to me in the elevator, what's your book about one word? I'm not kidding. I would say it's about beauty We're missing beauty in art in architecture In everything we've lost the aesthetic thing which we used to have from the Greeks and the Romans of the golden rectangle And everything had to be everything had to be in proportion and and beauty was one of the elements with truth And everything else that was revered And not today and everything's all like art is a cow cutting sections And an artist taking a shit in a can that's art Right We've lost it's that it's true We've lost aesthetic beauty and and in my missions there is to speak to reclaim that so So That's your mission too. That's what I'm trying to say to you I hope you can get this I hope you can feel the energy of what I'm trying to say because it's up to you And if you can take this mission into your heart To speak truth to women say you know what I like this is how it is This is why I'm I'm nervous to talk to you, but I want to talk to you anyway Your life will change and the world will change We're waiting for things for women to be nice to us waiting for things to change and be better. It's not going to happen It's up to you This is for you guys. This is for you. Do you feel it? It's for you It's for my young self my name is 19 and lost and crying for girls This is for you It's for you. Absolutely for you for you We say well, I can't live a life of adventure and because like Because I have to first do that In all of history gentlemen We said, okay, we have I had this bad childhood So like this is why I'm insecure and and have this bad childhood in all of history Was there any ever a time of good childhoods? There was disease and pestilence and migration and and wars and famine Every child before you grew up seeing destruction and death and disease and trouble and famine starvation Getting thrust out of homes and we're whining There has never been happy children happy childhoods ever There's been trauma in all childhoods and we have to resolve our childhood. I don't think so You have to go to therapy to resolve your childhood. No, you don't You're abused. You're abandoned. You were we all were gentlemen in all of history We stand on your earth and say no more no more. It's your job. Nobody's gonna do it.   Nobody will ever love you You look in the mirror and you say this Say this is this is your new thing that you call yourself from now on I'm a student of life If you can call yourself a student of life from this day forward to the day you die You can do no wrong If you talked to a girl last night and she's like And you go home and instead of saying you know what you suck. You should have been more funny. You should have been more You can say hey At least i'm a student of life Were you sincere when you talked to that girl last night? Were your heart sincere? Were you trying to be nice and trying to be interesting and trying to be funny, right?  They didn't have like a okay At least i can go to an atm get some cash out of my parents and call my parents If i get in trouble It's strong guys I hope you can feel what i'm trying to say because I wish i had it It's a message to me.  Hello dear. Sorry There's only one woman here, but i'll say this Every woman Is thinking about somebody Imagine that My question asked myself when i was young I looked in the mirror and i said because they hit me hard and said wait a minute. Have you ever been a woman's fantasy? If not, why not? She's thinking about somebody When she's in the shower she's in her bed. She's daydreaming out the way she's and she's she's excited about Somebody she's thinking about she's fantasizing about some guy Is it is it i said this to me is it you Has it ever been you ask yourself that question?  She's having a sexual fantasy about you If not, why not? Because they're thinking about somebody This is the energy we have to fight for this is where we're going And this is the only place to go And i believe in it 100 percent And i believe in it for you a hundred percent I really do Security you know we want this like we have one assurances if you want security go out here in miami and kill somebody You'll have maximum security You'll have every meal covered you'll you'll be you Right you have security you want security there you go Tennessee williams said a security is a kind of death If you have this and if you have the impulse and the energy and the thought process and the gut is saying I can't do this job anymore. I have to go and fight for something else You have to follow with all your heart no matter you Don't worry about money money will follow you Don't wait for don't wait to have savings that'll find if you go it's going to find you You think well if I like if I go out and follow my dreams I'll be living under a bridge and sleeping in a cardboard box and pushing a shopping cart But I tell you this The guy told us to me like years ago and it's true Nobody who's living under a bridge pushing a shopping cart and sleeping in a cardboard box is there because he followed his dreams Nobody I saw an interview with morgan freeman And he said when I was a morgan freeman a revered actor An actor's actor And when he was young He said you know what the acting wasn't working And I tried and I couldn't get any jobs and I was so broke and so hungry. He was living in my car And I said I have to quit acting But he said I kept going I kept going kept going and he said the lesson I learned Because I kept going it was this If you keep going if you take he said this if you step your foot into nothing Your foot will always hit Something and he said this which is remarkable. Remember what I'm about to say. He said this What I learned is if you continue with beyond the point of of hope and beyond the point of Redemption beyond the point of any possibility of continuance If you keep going Whatever it is Somebody will come into your life and give you the next step Not something somebody will arrive in your life Give you the next step it always that's the way it works The way it works Absolutely, it works that way So like I'll say this I'll take questions at the end but I've got 30 minutes left Um, I know I'm I'm I'm talking very philosophical But I hope you guys get the energy in the in the and I hope you can feel what I'm trying to say because I I mean with all my heart. I really do There's nothing else you need to know There's nothing else you need to know All the techniques and all this like talk to this girl Stand with your shoulders like this and like go like this and none of it matters If you're heading into the size of your life, you know the size of your problems is the size of your life imagine that If your problem is how do I get this girl to text me back Well, what do I do? Well, how do I pay my phone bill? That's as large as your life is going to get If your problem is how do I get some clean water into this this village in Africa? That's a lot your life is a lot bigger Things like the girl not texting you back in your phone bill that doesn't matter take care of itself The size of your problems the size of your life so I'll say a little bit of a metaphor and I hope you guys get it because What I tried to capture in here and it's so powerful. I tried to write about the energy of men who women adore They get a free pass I tried to write about what is it? What do they have? What is the qualities that they have? What is the spirit that they have? And you know, if you if you if you start from here, which is the center of gravity as a man here I don't know anything about chakras, but if you do imagine your Center whatever chest heart chakra You start from an energy force from here as a man, okay? This is this is incredibly important. You start from here like this Your energy as a man moves out into the world from here and it goes up and out It goes like this And it's a beautiful masculine energy. This is you being charming being humorous being inviting being gracious This is you saying would you like some more wine? This is you saying hey, can I get your coat for you? This is you telling a joke and this is you. Hey guys nice to meet you This is a great beautiful upper energy masculine beauty charm empathy sympathy humor all these beautiful qualities of man Comes from here and moves out into the world imagine you're on a job interview Everything about you is high You're sitting across the table from the interview. Yes. I did this and even your eye contact is high You can feel it, right?  It's a beautiful masculine energy And it's needed Now imagine from the same center of gravity here you sent your same heart Or originating place There's an equal counter balancing energy that is necessary to be a man This is an energy that goes down And out into the world It's low on the floor If you vibrates has a vibration Everything's about is lower Your voice is lower. Everything's lower This is your sexual desire Which in the west Is a bad thing toxic You rapist right This is you Why don't you depend the world over this is you seeing a heart shaped asset?  But here's the key And here's the key You need both Both energies If you're only this upper energy guy, which all the dating advice out there All the mainstream media how to be more humorous how to take toast masters how to be tell a joke How to be more tell story storytelling how to be more interesting How to be a what a girl would take a girl on a date is all all of the instruction for men Is how to be more of this nice guy upper energy If you're only upper energy When you say to a girl, hey, I like you would like to go for coffee.  Oh, I didn't mean anything by it. You didn't mean anything by it You didn't you I have a boyfriend. Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't know he had a boyfriend. You're sorry because she had a boyfriend Okay, okay, I respect that and I'm doing my job as a man So this upper energy is what's being taught.  Okay. How to go down on a woman How to her anatomy the reading all these books and programs and like how to please the woman How to massage you with right oils and candles for the right They're pleasing women And women say I want that guy. Yeah, sign me up. No, you don't You don't want that guy Guy goes down to you for 45 minutes. You could get yourself off in two minutes with your fingers But it's nice. It feels good. That's cool But you have no there's nothing in him that makes you think this guy's incredible You see Nothing in us that makes women say, wow, I can't stop thinking about that guy.  There you go. That's what we have Welcome to my history Only upper energy So afraid to show that we have this sexual desire to which is like I said given by god So afraid to show it and society you can't say it. Oh, no, that's bad right Is this lining with you guys? Make sense. This is why we're here It's why we have this problem in our lives, which we're trying to sort this thing out. It's why women are going. Where's the real men? Every country I go in the world the women are saying, where are the real men? Women are doing both roles. They're being the man and the woman because the men are not showing up Woody Allen said Woody Allen said this This 80% of success is just showing up And we're not doing that.  It's incredible Whatever you taught me works incredibly We think that's incredible.  What's today? Saturday Friday he went out tonight and said i'm gonna go up to 25 girls and say hi I'm zen. That's all I know and you look cute. I don't want to say hi You did it 25 times.   Oh, that's nice to meet you and it's gonna get girls. I like you It's the way it works But we don't do it because we think we're not Good enough showing up. That's it It's if you went up and women have told me this over the years If we're gonna have to women say listen, I'm really nervous to talk to you because you're beautiful to me But I want to say hi What's your name?  You're trying to be cool They don't care about an agenda. They care about a hidden agenda You see So there's upper and lower energy guys Does that make sense? It's like a it's like a tree that has foliage and birds and flowers And it's a great masculine energy and you need to learn more of that.   That's true and you're gonna like it if they can't feel that You're a nice guy They need to feel that energy that They need to feel I'll say this and it's not politically correct. This one camera is true, but Take the context of what I'm saying the whole thing if they can't feel your danger The dangerous part of you Eh They'll let you go down on them They'll date you But they don't lost after you do you understand what I'm saying They don't think about you like speaking Chinese when you're in their head And that's the only place to go So all the things like we say well, listen, I'm going to talk to this girl and I'm going to say this I'm going to put my shoulders like this and then I'm going to turn the way like this and I'll go back All that is is a is an approximation of like a real man saying you know what I'm nervous But I want to come say hi to you and what's your name? What's your friend's name?  Hello you or her hair. Oh, you have this beautiful blah blah blah blah This nice guy right right and then we learn you can't do that You can't compliment because it's too needy So we stopped doing that And so we started like knocking them down a bit Right I compliment highly But you know what I compliment women on And it's the truth because the truth is what I see. I don't compliment on her eyes. She's heard it all her life or Her hair or whatever.  So you know what? I'm gonna say this to you. I don't know who you are I'm zan. You have a great. There's something about you. I was over there with my friends I had to come over and say hi to you because something about your energy is something about your aura. It's incredible She's never been complimented on that before And that's what it is. That's attractive to you attractive to you I'll say this last thing and then I can take a couple questions. Okay. I got a few minutes I said I started out my life to try and understand the energy of men who women adore Men who have women in lives all the time women take care of them. They just they love them, right? You know what it is the number one? Well, it's complex, but I'll I'll try and some into a little simple thing The men of all of history Who have women in their lives who love them and take care of them have two qualities Count to balancing remember upper law and energy. I talked about They have this They're simultaneously two women a father figure That says don't cross this line.  Don't do this. I don't like that.  I don't like it, but I like you powerful So there's a father figure that says to put her in her place Don't cross this line because I have this is the way I want it to be my dear It's kind It's gentle. It's invitational. It's sweet. You're not think I don't like this when you blah, blah, blah, blah It's none of that kind of energy. It's like listen listen, baby. Listen.  I don't like this behavior.  Don't do it again That father figure saying no, don't do it.  And he goes Okay, well, you're so cute. You can have a cookie In other words, the strongest men with women are men who say don't cross this line.  I've never heard anybody in my life say it Men who love women are loved by women. That's the way it works They get a free pass now this If you're the the man of all of history who have women who just like oh, that's just him He gets away with it. You have to prove something to me. No, that's just him. He's on our side He's on our side. You guys know what I'm talking about This man who get a free pass well Is because they have this strong father figure engine. Don't don't here's here's how I want it to be, baby I want you to be like this and that's what I wanted to be and that will not bend on that Instead of following her around We hear about this leadership energy guys are guys are being taught this If you want to do something you tell the girl I want to do this. I want I choose this movie but There's no point in that With my girlfriend. I say hey, baby. Listen, let's go to a movie today. Why would you like did you have a preference? Because I don't care and if she's right and if she says, um You know, I don't I'm not sure this one then I decide. Okay. Okay. I'll decide. Let's go So there's still a give and take is still an energy of that You see I'm not I'm not demanding my way or the highway. No, no, no not at all I love my girl and you want to do this. Okay, baby. Let's go.  But if she crosses the line I don't like it, baby. Listen. Don't listen to me. Listen to my voice.   I don't want this energy around me. Don't do it You see at the same time If you give that I'm emphasizing this point.  We want that and we're missing it across the board Modern women saying well, what do you can do for me and blah blah? What do you do for living? And modern men like It's all broken But take hard because it's going to change it's going to change I feel it's going to change. I talk and you know all over the world. They talk to different groups And uh, they can't sustain it's going to change Anyway, I talked a lot. I got a few minutes left for any questions He's got questions for zan Hi girls in the back Hello Hey, uh, really great talk. I especially love the end piece about the warriors and poets And I was just hoping that you could speak towards uh So i'm someone when I first meet someone I have a lot of like a wide range of interests and ways in which I can act authentically And can you explain like how you transition from the warrior to the poet when you're just meeting someone So it doesn't come off as you're being incongruent with yourself totally if that makes sense Yeah, kind of I think um I don't know like It's a simultaneous thing If you feel the energies of both that whatever you're talking about the poet in the in the warrior And you express it to her that's powerful That's a powerful thing like i'm a big advocate of speaking your truth whatever's going on in the moment I really I believe it if you like a girl if I like a girl I'll say I like you I don't know why but I like you if I wonder my bad. I want you in my bed. That's what I know Hello, what's your name? I usually be a great lover for me. I say it so so to speak that what you're talking about Is uh, there is no transition is what I'm trying to say You're simultaneously both And you forgive yourself everything all singing mistakes And I think that's a that's a powerful takeaway. I hope you guys get you forgive yourself Every seeming mistake Because we think we're not good enough, but we're more than good enough And I'm not kidding about that guys I am not kidding about that. I hope you Hope you get that. I hope you really receive that Any other questions? I I know I got I got some questions um So you have always been known about talking about ease and delight How would you put that In a nutshell how does one live a life of ease and delight? You know what I tell you this I guess it goes back maybe to the Stoics Who talked about No, it goes back to the book of ecclesiastes There's nothing new under the sun All is vanity says the preacher King Solomon went out there and found he had 500 concubines and 300 wives He had the riches above all the riches. He had wisdom above wisdom And he writes the book the ecclesiastes which is I sought all of this in this world And all is vanity by that it means None of it matters The sun rises on the rich and the poor the good and the bad Imagine this mark twain said this When you die They memorialize you for an hour And forget you forever When you die everything all your possessions Are going to disappear like the wind And here's the truth nobody's going to remember you That's the truth What a shocking thought When I look at it like I'm from Canada So I grew up in the wilderness with no sense of history of no old buildings The people in Europe have all this like history that they grew up in and they take it for granted And that you know when I see a portrait I see a photo Of a woman from 1880 She's smiling like this with a glass of wine looking at Black and white photo of this woman. I'm thinking she's young and pretty she's probably 21 years old And she's 100 forgotten today Gone And that shocks my mind.  This is it. We're waiting for something else to happen. We're waiting for women to be nice finally It's not gonna happen We're waiting If not now then when That was from a Greek philosopher If not now then when Ask us of that if not now then when well when I save up some money when I If not now then when There's this is I'm telling you guys. This is a call to leadership.  It's in my book and you're gonna see it in my book because it It affected me greatly It's this Every great life Has had a great renunciation Every great light. I'll say that again Every great life has had a great renunciation We're this self-help generation everybody here has got self-help books sitting on their shelf You've got programs you've signed up to To try and understand something by yourself And it's not necessary to read the book It's enough that I bought it and sitting on the shelf. I got the answer right there. Yeah Right We buy these books. We don't read them because uh, but there's the answer right there And when we read that book, we read the next one reading next one We go to the next program the next weekend conference. We go all these conferences.  Like I said earlier Go climb a mountain and mountain and don't tell the soul that you did it Go into the world and hang around your heroes Go seek them out say, well, I wanted to learn something. I want to fight for something. I want it That's where you go. That's what that's the power. It's that important Every great life has had a great renunciation. What does that mean renunciation to renounce things in your life that keep you small That means your parents expectations The college education while I took this education. I should continue with computer science.  That's not a politically correct thing to say But I mean it with all with everything Another question we got another five minutes. Yes, what would you say to The audience who's not used to hearing this message because of the generation they've grown up in And maybe the first response is to what the hell's this guy a rejection of this What my opinion is a very strong And a message I agree with what would you say as these as we leave That they could if I may renew their mind Yeah, this message and well, I'll say this because many would say it's too big. I don't even know where to start Yeah, yeah Okay, because I wanted because this is important Because I want I want guys to know that they're sitting in the sea here. They're going back to Pumphandle, Iowa or wherever they live Where there's no girls, right? And there's no and there's no and and you work at your your father's accounting firm And I don't want to say hey, you can be all you can be Just be yourself, which is like that's the same as saying. Hey, just follow a budget means nothing to us We all know what it conceptually means. We can't do it Just be yourself. What kind of advice is that? Uh be unattached unattached to the outcome. How can you be unattached to the outcome of this beautiful girl when you're horny? You can't How can you be unattached to that is like are you something you want love?  How can be unattached that? Oh, yeah It's artificial So all these these trite sayings They mean nothing we post on facebook Right you make it like a little image and post it as a quote means nothing So your question is very strong and very powerful And all I can say is this Awareness is curative Just by becoming aware that if I knew this guys when I was young When I was trying to figure it out when I was so lost and lonely Awareness is curative. Awareness has the answer in it Just by being Knowledgeable that maybe there's a better path for you Will cure you You don't know your next step. I get that You don't know what you want.  I had no man. I had no I had no Buddy to say anything to me when I was young I it's a deficit I had I didn't have a father figure Didn't have a hero to look up to And if you can get any kind of like traction or any kind by reading this book Listen to guys like brian or the other speakers who've who've beaten some down some of the trees and paths before you Man, you can accelerate it took me 10 years of a confusion from 19 to 29 Then 10 years of like, huh, huh, huh from 29 to 39 And then 10 years of writing and trying to write it down from and refine it from 39 to 49 if you can get any kind of um Jumpstart on I wish I would have had it. That's why I believe in everything I'm saying I believe in I believe I wish I had it when I was young. I don't have to answer your question, but I guess what I'm trying to say is The question is like in this generation that we don't believe it for ourselves. You you might believe it, but others might not I believe it for you I really do No, and it needs to be It needs to be taught in schools this Yeah It's it's Yeah, and maybe it's confusing. I don't know maybe I'm confusing you guys maybe But you know what I'll tell you this and I'll say it quickly. I spent my 20s. I'm not kidding to learn how to be a seducer of women This is on film, but I'll say it anyway And I was good I could talk a woman in the bed give me a glass of wine and a woman for an hour She might be married or have a boyfriend and it's not going to happen, but I can make her go I know how to talk to women I spent my my days. I said I'm I'm this lost little boy.  I'm going to learn how to seduce women And I hit it down that path To the point where I could talk to women and I know what she's thinking I could say the next thing I could adjust things around what I wanted my worldview to be And what you learn over the years Is the greatest essence of seduction and the greatest Attractive quotient you have is to be authentic And simplicity to me is incredible these days I don't weave words. I'm I'm I wrote a book I'm a wordsmith. I love words and my book's very poetic. I like this kind of like But I don't weave words when I talk to women.  I hit on her side of the court boom You can do whatever you want with a deer I say to go.  I want to see you again. That's all I know She can pick up the ball and walk off the court. She can take off she can hit it back Whatever it is doesn't matter. I did my job as a man. I showed up So for me, it's all It's like did I do my job as a man? That's why I can't get rejected Not possible if I say to her go listen, I like you and and your friend's cute and what's your name And she goes like like this At least I did my job as a man. I showed up in the world. Hey, I'm good If I if you compliment a woman say hey, there's something you look beautiful to me and your friend is beautiful It's up to her now. The ball is in her court What here's the thing about compliments Compliments and this is why they're so bad Can't compliment a beautiful woman.  Hey, you have such beautiful eyes.  You're so beautiful. This is beautiful. That has nothing to do with her at all It's like me trying to say something and buy her a drink. So she likes me in other words my compliment He's saying I'm gonna say this to you and I hope you like me back.  I don't know if I went in a rabbit trail there or what I think I'm I got 30 seconds left All right guys Hey, thanks for watching my whole talk and and I hope it had a lot of value for you And I and you know, I want to honor the the work that these guys are doing with the 21 studios So subscribe to their youtube channel. It's good work. It's like it's necessary work for all of us And if you want to for you want to find out more about me go to ours and rada.com Or xanperian.com which should be linked down here


Hey curlfriends, I'm Bianca Renee, and you're watching Bianca Renee Today, and today in a no, you see it. This really red color you see is not hair dye. It is not permanent.  It's also not those waxes that you see all over Instagram. This is actually a gel. I know, right? I'm happy to introduce to you the Curlsmith Hair Makeup. It's a temporary hair color that will not stain your hair, will not stain your hands, is transfer-proof, and it's a gel. It's a styling product that adds color. I've never heard of that before. If you are familiar with Curlsmith products, all their products are sulfate, paraben, silicone-free, no phylates, no DEA, no mineral oils. I'm talking good ingredients. And usually we have to sacrifice good ingredients to have a fun little color thing. And usually even hair dye is very damaging if you don't do it correctly. So that's why I've never branched out into the really fun colors like red before, even though I've wanted to. But now for us chickens, we can get the color we want without having to commit or worry about damage. So Curlsmith has started off with five initial colors. Ruby, which is what I have in my hair right now. They also made a copper, turquoise, rose gold, and gold. So whatever you're feeling, you can switch out your color weekly if you wanted to because they rinse off in one wash. So I thought this was a very bold move of Curlsmith to have a colored gel because not only does the color have to look good, it also has to be a good styler. We don't want pretty color on top of frizzy curls. But as you can see, this product can do both. So in today's video, I'm gonna show you how easy it is to apply these products and how easy it is to wash out. Let's get started. So now I'm going to start off with a leave-in conditioner. It's not mandatory, but it's suggested. So I'm gonna grab the Curlsmith Weightless Air Dry Cream, which is a favorite leave-in of mine for someone that doesn't really use leave-ins. Just use it a little bit to add that moisture underneath this gel cast, really focusing on my ends like it most dry, raking it through. Smoothing it down. One side done. A little bit more on the other side. Get those ends. Like this stuff is called hair makeup. We are priming our hair like we do our face. So now I'm going to actually attempt to do my hair in sections, as you guys know, I struggle with.  So I'm grabbing my Curlsmith Hair Makeup in the color Ruby. Here we go. It says you don't need any gloves. It's transfer resistant. All right, let's just go for it. Ooh. All right, it's a very shimmery, thick consistency. That might be too much for this first little patch, but let's just try. Oh, snaps. Ooh. Oh snaps. This is gonna be pretty. All right, I'm just gonna rake this through like I do a gel. But I guess the more you apply, the more it will show up. So it looks a little light right now and I wanna go a little extreme. So I'm just gonna glob it on there. Let's just try patting it. There we go. That's kinda how I want it to be. One side done, one side to go. So I'm gonna let this air dry for a little bit or to drying nicely. Then I'll come back to diffuse. And I'm back. It is drying pretty quickly. I think I wanna start diffusing so it doesn't dry too flat. So let's begin. Let's get the finished look. Adding dimension because it's going on to a different color base. So that's kinda cool. I could add more. Should I add more color? I can't see it. Can't tell. Hopefully it looks nice and even. I'm obsessed. What a great idea. My hair is still super soft. Like it has enough cast of a gel that I think we all are comfortable with. But it's not like that super hard, gross, crunchy feeling that those spray on colors have. And then I'm even assuming the wax ones would probably be really hard and they probably leave a weird residue and like wax is super thick and kinda hard to get out of your hair. Well, this is Sulfate Paraben Silicone Free Strawberry Beat Extract Rubos and Watermelon. It kinda smells like watermelon. This says for a more intense pop add a little bit more product once the color dries. So just to see how it looks. Let's just add a, why not? Let's get this little curl right here. So you're not so blonde. Ooh, that bounced back nicely. I thought I was gonna want like crazy super duper red but I'm kinda like in this ruby burgundy mixing with my highlights. I think I'm done. Let's pick it out a little bit. This as a gel is impressive. Cause we have to remember this isn't just a color. It's a styling product. So the gel could have sucked and the color could have been good or vice versa, but. So once again, here are my hands. Nice and clean, did not stain my nails. Well, let's really put this non-transfer claim to the test so I have a paper towel. Let's just, wow. Literally nothing. But let's take it one step further and put on a white shirt. Now we're getting real dangerous but I don't see any transfer. Let's go ahead and give it some shimmies, some celebration shimmies. That's what you do when you dye your hair, right? You do shimmies. Good to go. So although my hair looks fire, I do wanna show you how easy it is to rinse out. Party is such sweet sorrow. But to do so, I'm gonna use some more new curl Smith products. They also released a new shampoo and conditioner specifically for color-treated hair. And not necessarily this pretend color that we put in our hair, but for those of us that do already have actual hair dye in our hair. So let me show you how I apply both of these in the shower. So this hair is actually my day three hair. Yes, you can refresh with these colored gels. And as you can see when I shake it out, I could have lasted even longer because my curls still look super defined but I had to wash it out for this video. And just to be clear, you don't have to have the shampoo conditioner to rinse it out. It'll rinse out with any shampoo conditioner but I do wanna show you the new products for color-treated hair. And honestly, just by using water, you will see that just about all the color rinses out just with water alone. So that's how easy it is to remove this color. It will not stain your hair even if it's blonde. So here are my little blonde highlights. Still looks good. But to get a really good clean, let's add the Vivid Tones Vibrancy Shampoo. It smells really good. It's like a sweet candy smell. It's supposed to be delicate shampoo for all hair types. It's supposed to add luster, full radiance and color protection. But whether you rock your natural hair color or you have some hair dye, this formula is supposed to enhance your hair's vibrancy and shine. I usually only apply shampoo to my scalp but because I am trying to get rid of all the red hair makeup, I'm going to apply it to my lengths just to make sure that I get all the color out. Then once it feels nice and clean, I rinse it out and then I grab the Curlsmith Glow Perfecting Conditioner. This is a rinse out conditioner for all hair types. It's supposed to enhance color, detangle, smooth, add vibrance and shine. And as you can see, it has really good slip. It's honestly been so long since I got my hair dyed with pregnancy and quarantine. So I don't even know if I qualified to be someone with color-treated hair but my ends are popping. And as you can see, my curls are now back to normal. It did not stain my hair, even the blonde parts. And it was super easy to rinse out. But since I already missed this little temporary color, let's just end the video with the red. So I know you're also excited and curious to give these a try. So let me know what color you would wanna put on your hair. The Curlsmith Hair Makeup is available on the Curlsmith website as well as Ulta Beauty and these are three fluid ounces and they're sold for $19.99. You probably can get maybe three or four uses out of one bottle depending on how much hair you have, the length of your hair, how thick it is, how vibrant you want it. If you wanna just do like highlights, streaks, or full color, it's totally up to you. You could have a lot of fun with these. So I'm only glad I started with the Ruby because this was just such a fun, different, bold color. But remember, there's still turquoise, rose gold, gold, and copper. Comment below and let me know what color you want me to try next. All these products are available on the Curlsmith website and they're also at Ulta Beauty. 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0.765 is a pretty high, अगर दो आस्ट्रिक लगे मैं, इसका मतलब है, कोरलेशन अपकी सिएक्निफिकंत है, और हमारी उसने P-Value भी कैल्कलिट करती है, 0.004. तो हमारे 0.01 के उपर results सिएक्निफिकंत है, कुके 0.004 is less than 0.01. तो 0.765 is a significant correlation between the two variables. अगर आप देखें तो ये बेसिकली हमें इस्टा मेट्रिक्स में कोरलेशन देता है, क्रिम्स की प्रिवेंचन के साथ कोरलेशन, प्रिवेंचन की क्रिम्स के साथ. तो वो तार अडेंटी कर दाएगनल होता है, तो ये तो you can report only or look at only one value, which is 0.765. तो औंगे क्ता, फम जो शब लेडिए लगडेन् नगजे क्रिम्स की के साथ हे रूँने भाई, मोझके प्रिवंचन देखेंगे घब कोरलेशन कास्थ, ये औंगे तो लगडेए मैं क्रिम्स देगे वाई, तो तो अडेंगे जर तो आप साथदा गो साथ. the Pearson correlation r is 0.77 you can just go round kardia or p smaller than 0.01 so you will be reporting the r value and then the p value indicating a significant positive correlation between number of crimes and the amount spent on prevention the more number of crimes people commit the more time or amount is spent to prevent these crimes so this is the interpretation and reporting and apart from this if you see how significant our correlation is it is usually given as small, medium, large or for correlation coefficient size of the value of the coefficient ranges from minus 1 to plus 1 the value indicates the strength of the relationship and according to the condition of the cone if it is between 0.1 to 0.29 then it is a small correlation coefficient and if it is between 0.3 to 0.49 then it is medium and if it is above 0.5 then it is a high correlation or large correlation coefficient and same is for the negative as i told you earlier that the sign is just telling us the direction strength or magnitude is not decreasing so as per this cone's criteria the correlation coefficient of 0.65 or 0.77 is a pretty large coefficient correlation which is significant so finally reporting the results as per apa once you conducted a study you tried to find out correlation between the two you will be reporting in this way the relationship between number of crimes in amount spent on prevention was investigated using kiosk and product moment correlation coefficient preliminary analysis were performed to ensure no violation of the assumptions because we had to check the assumptions which i have told you 5-6 assumptions before we run correlation we need to ensure that all our assumptions are being put forward in normality independence scale so assumptions there was a strong significant positive correlation between the two variables r is 0.77 n is 12 and p is smaller than 0.01 with more number of crimes associated with the more time spent on prevention so you will be stating the results so first defining that what have we done then stating the results and then finally interpreting it that what does this correlation mean always remember that whenever you have told the correlation coefficient after that it is necessary to tell that what is the meaning of this 0.77 and even if you report that there is a positive correlation and the coefficient is 0.77 still you need to spell out that if one variable is increasing then what does that mean that if there are more crimes then the amount spent v is more so there is a positive correlation between them


What's good y'all Chris from jaspercasebreaks.com doing a fun one potentially a new one here for us 2023 We've sold pack football edition five box case break number one 32 spots Everyone gets a full random team of the NFL one card per box Five box breaks one buyback card buybacks can be from brands like tops, Panini, upper deck etc So we'll see what it's all about That's our fresh dice and our fresh list Victor with the last 17 spots to fill this one out But Logan, Kristen, Donald, Sonny, Jared, Brian, Logan and Jonathan Next we're giving this one a shout y'all and our 32 teams from the Cardinals down to the commanders All right, let's roll the dice and randomize two and five seven times for our randomizes. Good luck y'all one two three four five six and seven seven times Victor down to Victor and Seven times here. Good luck one two three four five six and seven Seven and final time Giants down to bears So I'll do a little bit of a trade window here if anybody wants to I'm gonna grab the case I'm gonna come back. We'll see what's going on But try to get your own risk for a buyback part like this never know what you could Never know what you're gonna hit. All right, but let's see how it all shook out first half here Victor with the Cardinals Sonny with the Falcons Donald with the Ravens Victor with the Bills Panthers and Bears Sonny with the Bengals Tristan with the Browns Victor with the Cowboys Broncos and Lions Logan with those Packers Logan with his backers nice Victor with the Texans and Colts Jared with the Jaguars Tristan with the Chiefs Second half here Jonathan with the Raiders Victor with the Chargers Sonny with the Rams Logan with the Dolphins Brian with the Vikings Tristan with the Patriots Victor with the Saints Giants and Jets Jonathan with the Eagles Victor with the Steelers and Niners Logan with the Seahawks Victor with the Buccaneers and Titans and Tristan with the Commanders All right, I'm gonna pause the video real quick see those in the trades grab that case and we come back We're up that five boxer of leaf solo pack football. Thanks y'all All right, we are back. No trade discussions So we're gonna get right to it for our five boxes of leaf solo football. Let's switch screens Here it is We've sold pack football five box case There's our list from Victor to the with the Cardinals all the way down Tristan with the Commanders Let's let's see what we got here. Yeah If we're digging it if we're liking it if it's hot hey, we'll upload number two right after Anything it can even be a boat. Here's our first box y'all Thanks again, good luck Use a thing to hide already first up From prism blue crag dice sensational signatures Fran Tarkenton I Had a 3 out of 60 for the Minnesota Vikings. That's gonna go to Brian. Nice Pretty good start. That's what 22 prison to yeah, 22 prism. So this is the most recent year of prison football Sorry about that Next up 2021 select Justin Fields working card PSA 10 That's for the Chicago Bears gonna go to Victor He's had a couple solid games his last game. Obviously. It was awesome But let's hope for more of the same room for the kid box 3 old-school 1978 tops of PSA 8 Tony Dorsett 1978 tops for the Dallas Cowboys Gonna go to Victor Pretty cool right there old-school PSA label up top, too Cool so they had 2022 2021 and then jumping way back to 1978 box for nice From contenders optic 2022 and Aiden Hutchinson on-card rookie Otto Having a monster years so far for the Detroit Lions. That's one more for Victor. Nice hit and the fifth and file box Pretty fun $20 a spot. I'll upload number two. See you. I don't see why not Could be another fun case But it's a quick one. It's an easy one Last card. Thanks again everyone gonna be From Immaculate Collegiate. It's Christian Watson signature moves on the auto. This is 2022 So this is a rookie are technically for the Green Bay Packers is gonna go to Logan all to the OG With his Packers signature moves on the auto All right, there we go. Nice. That's a fun one. Thanks So I'll upload number two and check it out on the site jazz these case breaks calm. Bye


really just a few weeks of being there, presented on my desk for my review and approval, was a revision of our copyright policy that they had obviously been working on for the last several months, I gather. And I took a look at it and I had done, as you know, some work previously in my previous position with an explication of the code and its meaning and teaching people about how to apply it. And I took a look at this policy and it seemed to be at several levels, not at all applied to the kinds of new principles that I knew we were trying to enunciate and the principles we were trying to pursue. So I drew upon that experience from my previous position and contacted all of you and gracious enough to come and help us essentially do what I think of as sort of the second generation of the code work, which is basically to take this wonderful theoretical framework and principles and begin to actually apply it to put it in action in policy. I really think that this sense of liberation was really a reflection of the fact that we have all labored under these assumptions, if you will, and these pretexts about how to apply fair use that we've all known from the very beginning, were rather artificial, didn't really apply fair use very well and required us to be sort of not particularly good in enforcing policies and procedures that we knew weren't really reflective of the principles we were trying to enforce anyway. And so I think there was a real sense of relief that where we were finally able to take the principles that we believed in and be able to apply them in a policy was something that I think was really a relief for everyone and a real joy to be able to work in and apply. Legal context in which it presents itself, the foundations it has really we found went a great, a long, long way towards working with legal counsel who are essential partners in developing an application really carried a lot of weight with them in terms of knowing that the applications and the risk that is being talked about on the part of the university was well-based and well-grounded. And pleased to say that as a result of the discussion with everyone involved, we were able to take the principles that were outlined in the code and the concepts, and this is I think a great thing about them, about the code and how it's written, is it's a really nice theoretical orientation or context that you're then able to take and apply it to a campus situation in very real terms. And for us, that worked extremely well, so we had all that context of theory and context and legal background and precedent and being able to put into application on campus with legal counsel present and participating was extremely helpful and made it work.


The police officers asking questions with an upward tone or making statements with an upward tone constantly. Sometimes things go horribly wrong. They're gonna nail you with it. They're gonna pin this on you. Ryan, the suspect, is telling and telling hard. Trying to get me to hit something I didn't do. I didn't do it. If I did something, then I would know that I did it. Okay. All right. I'm innocent. I'm not involved in this in any way. He's emphatic with his body language. He's emphatic with his words. He's emphatic with his voice. He's emphatic with everything he's doing. In fact, the only times we see him not emphatic is when he's hopeless. I don't have it. And he shows that with his body language. I look for congruency when a person uses choice of words. Their vocal, where their voice is making the same sounds or a downward telling tone, their cadence is correct, their pitch is correct. And then I look for nonverbals and all that body language and those exposed fingers extended out and driving his point when he tries to make it. I don't think this guy did it just based on that.


hey friends so I am back I am back I've been ill let me tell you something when you get older it's harder to fight a cold so much tougher to fight a cold but I dread when people going on about being sick so I'm not gonna do that okay so excuse me but today well let me back up a little bit first hello to all my new subscribers how are you if you're new and you're seeing this go ahead and just give me a thumbs up down in the comments section I didn't really want to leave y'all hanging and definitely not my oldies but goodies so this is how my first faith spread turned out I loved it I loved it I loved it actually I missed well I did the full week the 20th through the 26 today is Thursday the 28th so I've missed two days because I've been sick but I wanted to kind of start fresh on excuse me you first let me get this out of here now I didn't have anything in mind as far as a layout for this coming month a week and that's something else I have to do I had so many plans I had so much on my to do list that I wanted to do and I just didn't get anything done so this week was going to be the week well I got these cute stickers here from hobby lobby and I didn't realize there were like 12 in each pack so I bought two thinking it was just a few so I want to kind of change it up a little bit this week as I've stated before I don't like measuring but I understand that it is necessary in some instances so I'm gonna draw out my lines kind of how I want this to go and I'll be right back but I think that'll do right my own dates in because I've been practicing my handwriting think this summer dude is this like a blue I was green and say I have a nice green in my markers I love these markers I want this if I didn't think I'd lose them I take them all out that's what I want to do that might be too dark you might put them in a little cup or something there's a certain green I'm looking for and maybe this is going to do but it's to do I'm just gonna go in where the dates are gonna be I'm just going to mark where I'm gonna put the dates and now think about it I could have done a lighter color like a pink and y'all know me I really want to outline these boxes but I'm not trying to be trying to get out of my comfort zone and I still may do it and I don't need anything to be neat because I really enjoyed my scripture writing it was such a blessing and I went too far with that one okay like that didn't happen okay I'm gonna take my micron pen in 03 let's pray for this writing y'all if not we'll be using stickers and these were on sale and that's in like an upcoming video is just a video on how you can not spend so much because it can get costly and a little discouraging sometimes as usual have a rhyme or reason for putting these down and these feel kind of like down paper let me see come up pretty easily I've been requesting the rest all week in the house to be quiet I know my family's upstairs tripping right now you've been in the bed for three days for you down in it loving this don't know by now going it's my favorite color and pink and yellow but mainly green let's add some more these flowers I didn't mean to put that one right beside each other good thing is it comes up easily let me cut this and I said I wasn't gonna do that yeah when I tell y'all I am sweating bullets I am sweating bullets this cold is trying to come up I didn't know how cute let's do some more cut that oh no this is gonna be pretty to look at now even though I'm a creature of habit every now and then I like to switch things up I do I get bored cuz I'll wear stuff out that's the thing I'm a creature of habit but I'll wear it out until I don't want to do it no more it's just part of life so then I have to eventually switch it up it was like a continuous like flow so let's say for instance we were like in Philippians the whole week we stayed in Philippians so I could just kind of follow along and know what was coming back it's for the 27th through May so I probably have to make another one but how cute are these florals they came out so good so I'm gonna take a picture I'll probably post it before the video hits because this was supposed to have been up this week and I think the video of the one I just did or just finished that was supposed to go up this week but I doubt if it'll make it because do to me being sick but again thank you all so much for watching if you're new to my channel and you're just tuning in I appreciate you stopping by and just taking the time to watch my video if you would like to see more from me hit the subscribe button don't forget the notification bell and I will see you all in my next video bye


Plead with him to draw you to himself in love. Plead with him to give you a new heart. Plead with him to make you a new creation. Plead with him to work in you. Repentance, faith, obedience, and faithfulness. Plead with him to put his spirit within you. Plead with him to write his law upon your heart. Plead with him to cause you to love and obey and cherish and treasure his word. Plead with him to cause you to cling to him and to never stray from him. Plead with him to preserve you in the faith to the end that you might be saved.