그럼 지금부터 대안 상공회의소와 인베스트인디아 주한 인도대사관이 주축 인도대사관이 대안 상공회의소와 인디아 주축 인도대사관이 주축 인디아 주축 인도대사관이 주축 인도대사관이 주축 인도대사관이 주축 에칸업을 도전하는 하드테크와 스타맙에疑 인데나 시 để 인데나 시에 인데나 시에 오늘 참석 하신 양 with all the attention and support of the two countries companies here today, I'm confident that our start-up cooperation will become more stronger than ever. I also believe that the business cooperation as well as the policy backing is critical in realizing our aspiration. In this, I look forward to early conclusion of Korea-India separate upgrade talks to facilitate bilateral trade and investment. The future depends on what we do in the present. This is a famous quote from Mahatma Gandhi who celebrated his 71st anniversary of passing last month. I hope that the cooperation between the two countries and companies will become a strong foundation for future prosperity of the two countries. Once again, I thank His Excellency Prime Minister Modi for accepting our invitation despite his busy schedule and wish you all health and good luck. Thank you very much. 위원장님, 말씀 고맙습니다. Thank you very much. Next, I would like to invite His Excellency Sung Yoon-mo, the Minister of Trade, Industry and Energy to deliver address. Namaste. Good afternoon. Your Excellency Modi, the Prime Minister of India. We are truly grateful for your deep interest in Korea and for visiting Korea with your precious time. My deepest gratitude goes to all of you, including Ambassador Sri Priya Langganadan of India to Korea and India-Korea Business Council Chairman Gong Young Un. I wholeheartedly thank you and congratulate the opening of India-Korea Business Symposium. With President Moon Jae-in's visit to India last July, the two countries agreed to form a special strategic partnership with and to co-operate together for three peace, peace, prosperity and plus future. Since then, we have been making progress through the continuous efforts to enhance cooperation. Your Excellency Modi's visit is very meaningful as it is an opportunity to evaluate the accomplishments of the past and to gather the will of the two countries for cooperation. Ladies and gentlemen, India has the strength to distinguish itself from other promising countries with its abundance in talented human resources and flourishing democracy. India has the world's second largest population and world-class engineering workforce of 700,000 people each year. It will be a solid foundation for the Indian economy. The mature democratic traditions of hell from its independence in 1947 will allow India's growth to be sustainable with consideration for the social underprivileged. And I believe that this possibility is becoming a reality thanks to your Excellency Prime Minister Modi. Under the Prime Minister's Make in India initiative, India's infrastructure has expanded and the transparency of the social system has improved. The introduction of GST has greatly improved the reliability of administration. World Bank has paid attention to that in 2017 and 2018. India is the only country that has been selected as the top 10 growing countries for the two consecutive years. But India has to overcome the past success and make greater progress in the future. It is a long journey where many difficulties lie ahead. But no matter how far and how tough it is, you can do it if you have a partner who can get through with you. And for India, Korea is the best partner to open an era of prosperity. It is because Korea is the only country in the whole world that has the strong foundation for the manufacturing industry from experience and know-how that has grown from being the poorest country in the world to the economic power in just 60 years and from the high light industry to heavy chemical industry in IT industry. Based on this strength, Korea will be able to help India overcome any difficulties in achieving further growth. I look forward to expanding our cooperation and I'd like to make a few proposals so that we can become a true partner. First, achieve greater growth in Korea-India-SEPA improvement negotiation. Since its entry into force in 2010, the Korea-India-SEPA has contributed greatly in expanding trade between the two countries. Thinking about the changing trade environment, please, I look forward for your continued support. Next, we need to strengthen our collaboration in the manufacturing sector. Through the bilateral cooperation in the manufacturing sector, India can successfully promote the Make in India initiative, and Korea can advance into new markets and create new growth engines and enjoy win-win collaboration. I'd like to ask you for your continued interest and support for Korean companies. Last year, Korean President attended the inauguration of Samsung's Noida mobile factory with you, and this year, Hyosung's Spandax factory and Kia Motors factory are scheduled to be completed. We look forward for your support. I hope that the cooperation between the two countries will be carried out in other manufacturing sectors so that the investment exchange can be further accelerated. Finally, future-oriented cooperation for the fourth industrial revolution is vital. If Korea's manufacturing competitiveness is combined with the Indian science and technology power, the fourth industrial revolution will offer us a new opportunity. With that in mind, Korea and India agreed to form a strategic future vision group when President Moon visited India July last year and also set up a Korea-India Research Innovation Center, an ICT boot camp. And also digital transformation, future manufacturing and future utilities, healthcare. All of these will be our main four core areas, and digital transformation, future manufacturing, future utilities and healthcare will be the area that we'll pursue. With your Excellencies' visit to Korea, the two countries also agreed to cooperate in the field of start-up. As long as both Korea and India continue to cooperate in this direction, we will be able to bear fruit in the near future. Ladies and gentlemen, President Moon says help your brother on the other ship. Then your ship will arrive at the coast smoothly. I'd like to ask those of you who are sitting here today please join us in bringing each other's ships to move forward to the future and arrive safely. Thank you, Prime Minister Moody once again, and I wish you all the best of luck in the future. Thank you. 잠깐 이 말씀을 잘 들었습니다. And the start-up hub is a joint effort of Invest India and Kutra to enable start-ups, investors and incubators of both countries to foster the knowledge exchange and networking opportunities. And this was first agreed upon at a state visit by President Moon Jae-in. And also through the hub, I sincerely hope that with the backing of the India State Bank and Mahindra Group we will be able to launch a grand challenge for start-ups of India. The grand challenge aims at overcoming, resolving the difficulties of the start-ups and the entrepreneurs on issues of credit valuation and forecast analysis account for holding responses to cyber security and regional medical services area. The Honourable Prime Minister of India. His Excellency, Mr. Narendra Moody, to press the button and launch the India-Korea Start-up Hub. His Excellency, Prime Minister, please press the button. And with the Minister, the Prime Minister is going to press the button and KCCI Chairman is also going to take part in this session. They will now invite the Honourable Prime Minister of India, his Excellency, Mr. Narendra Moody, to deliver the keynote address, please. Your Excellency, Yun Maosong, Minister of Trade, Industry and Energy, distinguished business leaders, friends, a very good afternoon. I am delighted to meet you all today in Seoul. This is my third interaction with the Korean business leaders in the span of just 12 months. This intensity is international. I wish to see more and more Korean business turning their attention to India. Even when I was the Chief Minister of the State of Gujarat, I travelled to Korea. Korea was and still remains a role model of economic growth for me. Friends, India today, a country of 1.25 billion people is going through a great transition. It is changing from an agriculture-dominated economy to an economy led by industry and services. An economy that is close to one that is globally interlink. An economy that is known for its red tap to one known for a red carpet. India has emerged as a land of opportunities. While we work for realising the Indian dream, we seek like and we seek like-minded partners. And among them, we see South Korea is truly natural partner. India, Korea, India, Korea business relations have come a long way in past decade and especially closure in the last few years. India is among top 10 trade partners of Korea and India is the sixth largest export destination of Korean goods. Our trade volume has reached 21.5 billion dollars for the calendar 2018. The negotiations to upgrade comprehensive economic partnership agreement have been fast-tracked to achieve the bilateral trade target of 50 billion dollars by 2030. Not just trade. In investment terms also, we are seeing a positive turn and Korean investments into India have reached a cumulative figure of almost 6 million dollars. Friends, after my visit to Korea in 2015, we have launched a Korea-specific facilitation cell called KoreaPlus to guide, assist and hand-hold investors during the entire lifecycle of the business. Hyundai, Samsung, LG Electronics have become trustworthy brands in India. KIA is soon to join this club. Over 600 Korean companies have invested in India We aspire to welcome many more and to ease your path. Visa on arrival for Korean nestlers has been put in place since October last year. We encourage the presence of Korean trade office in India And I'm glad that we recently had the sixth office of Kotra Open in Ahmedabad. That is my hometown. Let me tell you a little more about what is happening in India now. The fundamentals of our economy are sound. We are well set to become a 5 trillion dollar economy in the near future. No other large economy in the world is growing at over 7% year after year. Hard policy decisions such as the introduction of goods and service tax have been taken. In the last 4 years, we have jumped 65 places in the world banks ease of doing business ranking to 77th. And we are determined to move into the top 50 next year. We are one of the most open countries for foreign direct investment today. More than 90% of our sectors are now on automatic route for approval. As a result of this and the confidence in India, we have received FDI worth over 250 billion dollars over the past 4 years. Friends, in India, we are also focused on making our growth inclusive. It is for this reason that we have taken strong initiatives for financial inclusion. In the course of the past 3 years, we have opened over 300 million bank accounts for those who never had a bank account. Now 99% of Indian households have a bank account and more than 12 billion dollars have been deposited in these accounts. They now have access to affordable pensions and insurance. Under the mudra scheme, we have extended micro-credit worth more than 90 billion dollars to 128 million persons over the past 3 years. 74% of these loans have gone to women. We have leveraged the power of a biometric identity system bank accounts and mobile phones to deliver subsidies and services to the previously unbanked. Government benefits worth more than 50 billion dollars are now transferred directly to the beneficiaries thus removing leakage. We have taken huge strides in rural electrification. India is now recognized by the International Energy Agency as one of the greatest success stories in bringing about rural access to energy in 2018. In renewable energy, we have become the sixth largest producer in the world. These and our initiatives of the International Solar Alliance will enable India to be a pioneer in moving in the direction of a green global economy. That is our commitment to a green and sustainable future. Through these steps, the way of life of our people in all corners of the country is being transformed. It's totally transformed. This in turn is transforming governance and public service. Friends, economic progress is closely tied to world-class infrastructure. Be it transport, power, ports, shipbuilding, housing and urban infrastructure, there is huge demand in India while there are strong technological capabilities and capacities in Korea. We estimate the investment requirements in infrastructure at over 700 billion dollars by 2022. Under the Sanger Mala Project, 4 projects involving investment of over 10 billion dollars have been identified for award in the upcoming 5 years. It is essential to guide the growth of urban utilities and create smart cities which ensure sustainable and clean future for all. More than 500 million of India's population will be urban by 2025 and this opens the scope for cooperation in building smart solutions in India. Recognizing the importance of supporting India's infrastructure development, India and South Korea have identified 10 billion dollars under Korea's Economic Development Cooperation Fund and export credit to finance such projects. While aiming for fast economic growth, India is also rooted in the principles of ensuring sustainable economic growth. For example, in the automobile sector, the national electric mobility mission aims for affordable and efficient electric vehicles. South Korea, being a leading manufacturer of electric vehicles, has a huge opportunity in this sector in India. Friends, research and innovation would be the driving force in the fourth industrial revolution era. And we do understand that the role of government is to provide the support system. In this regard, we have introduced flagship programs Startup India with 1.4 billion dollars fund for four years to create a start-up ecosystem in India. Under the able leadership of President Moon, South Korea has also unveiled a program to spend 9.4 billion dollars by 2020 in a bid to increase capital supply for start-ups and venture friendly environment. This synergy in policy and this synergy in policy regime is a reflection of areas of common interest for both India and Korea. Our vision of an India-Korea start-up center will provide a hub for Korean start-ups and Indian talent to freely communicate. South Korean national IT industry promotion agency has already opened their Indian office in Bangalore to facilitate Korean start-ups to India. In the field of innovation, both countries have decided to establish India-Korea Future Strategy Group, an India-Korea Center for Research and Innovation Cooperation to provide an institutional framework for future-oriented cooperation based on research, innovation, and enterprises. Friends, it is our earnest desire to work with Republic of Korea more closely to realize the dream of our citizens. Efforts by the governments will not be realized unless business leaders like you share the same dream. I would like to conclude here with Korean expression Hunja Kamyon, Palli Khajiman. If you walk alone, you can go fast, but if you go together, you can go far away. That was a Korean expression. I am entirely agree with its meaning that you would go fast if you go alone. But you would go far if you go together. Thank you. Thank you very much. Thank you very much, Saxon C. 네, 인도 나련델 총리, 모디 총리님. 대단히 감사합니다. 훌륭한 기조연설 말씀 잘 들었습니다. 네, 이렇게 기조연설을 함께 하셨습니다. 이제 모디 총리님께서 연설을 마치시고 행사장을 떠나시겠습니다. 내빈 여러분께서는 총리님이 나가실 때 큰 박수로 환송해 주시기 바랍니다. 자, Ladies and gentlemen, Prime Minister Mori of India is now departing. Please give His Excellency a warm round of applause. 다시 한 번 큰 박수로 환송을 해주시면 감사하겠습니다. 다시 한 번 따뜻한 박수로 환송해 주시기 바랍니다. 자, 한번 더 한 번, 기조연설을 함께 하셨습니다. 모디 총리님께서는 큰 박수로 환송해 주시기 바랍니다. 조직ly, 비롯해서, 비롯해서, 비롯해서, 비롯해서, 비롯해서. undilaterally, one million thousand, two million thousand 시스템을 시작할 수 있습니다. 우리의 환자분께 감사드립니다. 시작할 수 있습니다. 우리의 환자분께 감사드립니다.


We've picked up a 750 angle line, which you've seen us in Buries, got a 904b3 for the inside. Get that. No, that's a nice fit. Just look, the blocks are just in such a poor condition, the levels are different, some of the blocks have been broken away completely. So, it just took a bit of trial and error getting them level. We've gone over by a day now. That's what the scouts cost us, an extra day's labor. Well, we've left that pallet. So that's our early morning run to Buries. It's just opened here. Customers asked us to do an extra lintel onto the window we did a couple of days ago. We've had a couple of days off because we're still waiting for the scaffolders. And we're back today. Scaffolders are meant to be coming today, but we can get this lintel done today now. Is it an extra? So just got what we were here to pick up.  That's it, isn't it? Just lintels. Let's go. That's that done. Just have straight a clock. Let's get to the job. Well, it's like you say it's weather ones, isn't it? So people are probably smart and not coming in. Yeah. But the police business is after me. So whether it's you're nipping to pick and stuff up. Right, Friday the 14th. I don't have to check the date today because it was Alex's birthday yesterday. 24 years old. Hey Al. Run for a nice meal with his sister. And her husband and the little one and his mum. It's quite nice that. Nice quiet meal. We've not been in for the last three days because we were waiting for this scaffold to go. Obviously we need a scaffold for that and we need one round the back. So we spoke to the customer last night and he asked if we could put a lintel in this. He asked me if I needed it. I said, well, it's not critical, but he's decided he wants it doing, which is fair enough. So we've picked up a 750 angle line, which you've seen us in Buries. Got a 904b3 for the inside. So because it's such a tiny upstand, we're just going to take two courses out on this. So we're going to take four out of the five out above. Cavity tray, blah, blah, blah, the usual stuff. But it's quite soft this. So it's a quick saws all job. We're just waiting for the car to get moved. We haven't covered it in dust. We're all set up. So we're all set up, ready to go. So Alex is just upstairs measuring up his block sizes. Just see him on the landing there. So he's going to get all his cuts done and then it's meant to be your end this afternoon. So hopefully these lads will be putting the scaffold up and we'll be inside doing the internal block work. I think we've already shown it on the last video, but it's all chopped out, ready to go. So it's straightforward block work up there, both rooms. So yeah, we're all set up. Those bricks are a great match. Obviously a bit light at the moment, but they'll soon weather down, go a bit darker. But a good texture. A lot better than the first ones we looked at, which were bright orange, which are probably as orange as that garage. So yeah, probably a better match than those ones there. So yeah, time to stop waffling and get up there with the saws all. Obviously once the car's gone, so I'll catch you in a bit. Now that's a nice fit. Bed under that, pointed up, gobs of goodin'. Here's all my gear. Knife, insulation knife, reed vents, took pointer, which I've just used. Alex just let me insert the, and just make out the complete lidle there. That was great, that just marked it out, drilled at each side, and just got the saws all straight across the top, letterbox straight in. Bedded on, pointed it up, gobs of goodin'. And because this we've got such a small upstand on the lintel, we've only took two courses out. We normally take three to give us plenty of room on some of the wider ones. We need to take four out really. But Alex was up there doing the block work on the landing, and I'm going to get this bit done. I've just bedded the lintel on. I'm just cutting the little bits of insulation that go in behind the lintel. So they go in there, and then our cavity tray is going to get nailed onto the block here. Nice and easy. Be the silicone across the top. For those people who have a goal is for not chasing it into the block work, it doesn't need chasing it as long as it's flat on the inside skin. The cavity tray is to catch water in the cavity and on the back of the outside skin. It's not there to catch water on the inside skin, because it's very, almost impossible for water to get on that skin unless there's a leak upstairs. Or you've got hundreds of really bad tyre wires that let the water cross. It's never that bad, because even on new builds, when you put the step cavity trays up along the roof, when you put step cavity trays in the plastic pre-formed ones, they just rest against the inside skin. They're not built in at all. So this is perfectly fine.  It's spotting now, but as you can see on the spot board. So let's get cracking and get this done.  So anyway, back to time lapse and I'll get this sorted. Bit rough for the moment, but it's wet, so it needs pointing. Mortar's quite wet. So all you need to know is to save them all. You can just about see the upstand in there, next to the vent. And we've got three vents, a lintel, two lintels. That gets the award for the most straightforward lintel, I've ever done, I think. Yeah. Inside and out done. Cracking job that. So I'm just going to get this tidied up and pointed up, and get all this dropped, and then Alex has nearly done up there, and we've just got the bathroom to do. And that's all the inside work done then, then all that's left to do then, once scaffold up is window, brick up, lintel, round the back, window out, brick up. That's it. And as I say, we've got the dummy frames there, which we're going to fix in like that, and build in. Whereas this one fitted in the hole, they're going to form the window, and we're going to build up to them. So it's going to give us a form to work to. So I have to make sure they're in nice and plumb. So I've been getting windows in. So yeah, it's time to get this pointed up, and get this dropped, and then going off for a quick dinner. It's not rain yet. So... There. That's all the outside work done for today. I've messaged Malcolm the scaffolder, and not had anything back yet. He did say, try and get here Friday. So hopefully, we'll see him here some time today. Fingers crossed. So, right. Get back to you in a minute. I actually do, and I would never have gone off like myself personally, but I think there's going to be some improvement, and I would suggest 12%. Thank you. 12%. Okay, thank you very much. Professor Jaymeyer and Thomas, former cancer surgeon, and Professor Shackleton, Len Shackleton of the University of Buckingham discussing the one stand out thing in the Shesoon X announcement yesterday, which is the guess between what the junior doctors want and what he's offering. Professor, they want 35, and he's offering 6. In lots of other areas, strikes will stop, but not this one. I thought that was time-lapsing. Well, there you go. Done. Just need to trim that damp course off underneath. Do that off a hop-up. Yeah, that's done. Nice to be able to just take two courses out of a change. Nice, straight forward that. Sorry, Alex, it's done up there. Just see if it did last. That's done. We've just got the bathroom to do now, so we're going to have a bit of dinner. Alex can get a bit of a mix in, and I'll get the tides up here. Get all the trestles back in the van, because I don't need these anymore. And then get that thing rattled off the set to do and get going. No sign of Malcolm so far, so we'll give him another text. So we'll catch you after dinner. Nice job, Dad. Thank you. So, yeah, rain's here. Lintel's in. Three nice little wheat vents. So I'll take you inside and see what we've been up to. Well, what I've been up to and what Dad is going to be up to. There you go. There's a nice little look at the concrete lintel. I forgot about that. That just needs pointing up. Same up here. Got that done. Let's see. Stand this way so you can get the light. There we go. So top bit just needs pointing there. And then this needs finishing. I've made a start with the bricks, but we've run out. So I need like two three-quarters there just to keep it from having a small bit. And then three-quarters block. Well, there's my blocks. So there we go. Yeah, it's not the most fun task because it's very cramped and I had to reset all these bricks because I don't know if you can tell, but I took all this off obviously over here, but the blocks are just in such a poor condition. The levels are different. Some of the blocks have been broken away completely. So it just took a bit of trial and error getting them level. That's the kind of work. It's a work one way than work backwards to get to where it is now, but obviously that'll get tidied up on the blockwork. Got my plugs ready. And I'll show you quick before anyone starts complaining. There you go. Tire-wise, that's the only way they could go in at the moment because obviously until that scaffold's up they still need a house to be waterproof. Yeah. That's everything. Tire-wise in. The screw ties are in there. Once this window's out, when the scaffold's going in we can get it that side and get that flushed up and tidy. So for now I will set you up on time-lapse somewhere.  Catching a bit. There we go. That's the lintel officially finished. Good job Dad. And this has just been a slog this part, but that part's done as I was showing you before. That's a top-point of that. Once the window's out we can get it out from the back as well then just to get any bits we've missed. Especially on this one because this one's finished but they just see the tiles are in the way of top-pointing. So when we come back here when the scaffold's up we're going to top-point it from the back instead and then we can patch up any gaps there as well. But that was that was a challenge. But that's the blockwork done.  So task now is get this as tidy as we can get it and get ourselves ready for Monday. So, see you then. Good Monday morning. Monday the 17th of July and it's about 10 past eight. Currently putting this up which is our recital scaffold. The only reason I'm putting this up is for one brick which is way up there round here somewhere because you've got the crack from the little where the rust jacking's gone. It's false way all the way on there and gone up there. When it's gone up it's took a brick with it. So of course we said he wants that brick replaced so we're putting this up to get us up there to replace that brick and then we'll move along and get this bed pointed up and then hopefully by then the scaffold lads will have been scaffold up. I've been told today but no one here yet. We're going to get this one today because today's probably the best day of the week. So we're going to get this done and then that leaves with this one up here and the thing with that one is we'll be able to rig something up off the roof with a bit of plastic or something if we need to for a bit of a shelter. We're here, we're exposed so we're going to get this one done plus this has got lintel to do as well so there's more work involved in this one. That one's pretty straight forward but yeah we're going to whip this scaffold up quick as we can, get that brick out get the points in done and then see where we get from there. So yeah we've been off again, we keep it we can't get it going because we can't get obviously we need the scaffold to finish this job so he did say today it's a fingers crossed it will be but until then we'll just crack on. Right what we're on, one o'clock isn't it because it's just had the news and we thought we were packing up and going home but they'll have to stand up about an hour ago and whack beast to open in flood time. Yeah so I packed all the van up. So Alex thought he was going home so I've disappointed him. It's not that, it's the fact that Yeah so we're all set so the plan now is just do the take the brick work out of the lintel today we're not going to take the window out, it's too late so we're going to jump up on this one which is the side window the back one all sorted again that's that's going to be awkward because the scaffold is high but because of the ridge on the porch it's like it's worth to put the actual deck. So we're going to take the saw pipe out and use the saws all for the tooth and then put the distinct pipe back on after. So no windows out today now it's too late if we took a window out now it'd be until 7 o'clock tonight so we're going to concentrate on the lintel and even if we don't get any brick work back in we'll get it taken out and propped up ready for tomorrow and then just concentrate on all brick work tomorrow so when we're back tomorrow I can jump on this one Alex and jump on this one we'll see how it goes anyway so I'll take you up there and we'll start taking some of this brick work out and get it propped up ready for the new lintel so catch up there there's the first few I've got out as usual it's never as easy I think it's rock hard because this is jacked all the way across it's absolutely knackered so it's not just listed in one spot like it usually does look at that, but it's tripled in thickness that so you can see the big bed where everything's lifted when it's pushed up pushed along there pushed the whole pike all the way across there so that whole pike has been lifted by 10mm it's all held in, there's no danger of falling down it's just obviously got a big crack in there you can see here the water running down here as I was drilling here water's pouring out of it and if you look at this tray this tray wasn't doing much because it's ditched so where's the water supposed to go I think back then the idea of the water on the tray was to go along the edge and run off into the cavity and down into the floor but obviously modern modern ones it's all sailed and you've got the vents in it but this thing was holding water and it wasn't going anywhere because it poured out when I was drilling into it you see how wet the water is still wet up there so that's obviously getting in here so Alex, I'm just going to jump down there now and get the hole cut out for the bottom strong boy and then get this one propped up because of where the crack is they only get this propped here before I carry on and usually they all come out loose but it's jacked up that tight it's solid and it's hard to get the saws off because of this bitumen cavity tray so I'm just slowing it down but as we always do we just persevere and keep going yeah, we've been on the radio so there you clive talking about the neighbours but yeah obviously quite recap all those halves and three-quarters are coming out and we're going to break up to there and then from there we'll be putting a new lintel in across here with a new tray so it's only a little lintel but we have to take all this out which is a shame but anyway well, it only has to take out to there no, I don't have to take it all out because I've got to get the lintel out so, yeah I'll probably take out three courses out to there and then just take one course out there so we can slide the lintel out no, yes, because the new tray hasn't come from here yeah, we've never done one like this before like reducing the window new lintel, it's like two jobs in one so it's just getting me head round it so yeah we've got to come to here, probably about here take these out to the then from there we'll just take the bottom out so we can slide the lintel out of the this rotten piece of crap let me just get it show you how bad it is it's gone bottom and it's back, it's that crow's you can probably snap it the core of the flet isn't rusted the rest of it's rusty weight so there's the core that's left the strongest thing in the world nothing stops it so yeah, we've got to get this sacro in and crack on and we're out that was freaking hard work they don't usually put up a fight like that but this was hard motor a lot harder than down there it just proves when it's mixed it's inconsistent so look at the state of this lintel I think this takes the award for the worst one we've had look at that it's right by the wind but it's going to gale away let me just do it prof that is powerful powerful stuff rusted that much, there's not much actual unrusted steel left the actual core is very thin it's time to tidy up we're all propped up so yeah, I'm going to tidy up up here and we're going to get out of here back tomorrow, hope the weather isn't too nasty to us again sorry about the wind I'm going to put it at the top here a bit of a pain to put the mics on so I'm going to whip this thing out now you can see it's about 160 feet in there about 100 there I'm going to just centre it we'll be taking this off and tucking our tray underneath this lip that's tomorrow, actually pull out because there's no fixings in the windows believe it or not another bit of points up there to do and get this back in so tomorrow is whip the winder out chew it out, get the brick work across lint along and brick that up we've gone over by a day now that's what the scaffold costs, an extra day's labor so, let's get this thing tidied up and get out of here right for today, I actually just took the rubbish down in the tub coffee made while we tidied up I'm going to get this stuff down there's what's left of the bricks, I've got some other bricks here this is just wedged up I'm not going to stop anything dropping not that anything is up, because there's a bang and it's solid this has got the two strong boys in and our crows down there and yeah that's pretty solid that's lifted from there that's just put in again temporary that could come out tomorrow this is just because we're leaving overnight like I say, we never usually leave this overnight but that's the way it is today it's that, I'll go on my dinner time we've made good progress so yeah nice solid woodlintle get the tray under there and then get the bits off tomorrow get all the back of Alex's block obviously you couldn't get that when you built it and finish off the tuck point in there at the back and yeah I'm pretty sure the three quarters are going to be coming out tomorrow as well so quite a bit to come out I hope I'm still going to skip on one of our last jobs because that cost me a bit let's just drop a bit of woodwood in that skip


me What's up, man? How's it going? How you doing? I'm doing well. You're doing well. You're with your family.  Yes, sir. All right I took this song cuz they don't know Hey, hey listen everything happens for a reason, right? Yes, sir room with you and we talk Exactly why you guys are playing so well in Cincinnati that chip on the shoulder that y'all had right the way I'll play it the way I thought the way I'll compete it You know that sign up that says how you do anything is how you do everything. Yes, sir That's how we do things here. All right. Yeah, we're gonna get it done there


Hey, what's up guys? Welcome to my channel. Today I'm going to uni. I haven't actually been in on Tuesday because I have appointments. This is my first day going in on Tuesday. So come with me to uni. Day five. It's what it sounds like on the floor again. I have to really get dressed the rest of the day. Kitchen drama series. Good. I would say this is in the realm of... I mean five of the producers are reading the log line and I just see this. In the realm of kitchen, some sort of transmission, or in any case a thriller of a personal drama. Okay? As you say drama. Drama means... In the industry a drama doesn't mean it's a tragedy necessarily. It's just the opposite of family. So a thriller is considered a drama although it's a thriller. So if I see this, I think either some kind of a thriller having to police or maybe even, you know, company, but something to do with the thriller. This, you know, this dark white-ish thing. This perspective to people in this strange, closed place. That looks like mentality. This is not even an interior. This interior is the interior of either a big company or a factory or one of these places where James Bond always ends up. So I can think of that. But I couldn't think of a personal drama. In no case I would ever think of a psychological drama or whatever. So now let's see the log line. And then the title, Highway. Yeah, log line. After two brothers run the van, they can no longer hide. So they must run out every obstacle they are faced with until they can't. Okay. Yeah, so this one, this gives a little bit more information because we know it's two brothers that made the robbery and now they are on the run, escaping. But the moment will come when they won't be able to escape anymore. So in a way it's giving me the idea that this is going to be like an adventure. Thriller, action, adventure, okay. Until they can. So this is appealing. So this is a log line, okay. It gives enough information, doesn't reveal everything. And you continue in the same line of corridors. Okay. Alright. Okay, that's really good. I like it a lot. Alright, so let's have ten minutes and two minutes break. And then you will, and then you... So we're doing great work. We're very lucky. Okay. Then just do the next episode. The wife is on the side of that. She's doing it again to come back. He has to pick between whether he's going after this one or if he stays along with the problem. If he goes back his wife and he's probably going to go after this one. He's gone. It turns total to the person now. So because, okay, the resolution is, yeah, the police gets them because of the call. They trace them and locate them. But in the midst of the raid, Shannon shoots the brother. And then she's, you know... So you are, you're like, getting into a more personal or a personal revenge on the part of the wife you should have chosen immediately. So, yeah, it's okay. This is okay, all right. Yeah, but it's a shift, I would say, in general. So now when you deal with characters, it will be very important to create characters that... Because usually you create the characters first. You think of the characters and then how... And then you'll create the plot because you already know the characters. But I wanted you to do it the other way around. I'm absolutely exhausted. I'm going to order some food. Get ready for bed. Thanks for watching this vlog. Peace.


Please open in your Bible, if you will, to Acts chapter 16. As I was praying about what to share with you tonight, what God wanted us to study together in the Bible, he really strongly put on my heart to have us look at Acts chapter 16. And the title of our Bible study tonight is Looking for Divine Appointments. A few weeks ago, my wife and I were headed up to a meeting at Lake Arrowhead, and we got off the freeway, we started winding up the hill, and when we got past the Lake Gregory turnoff, we're on that rim of the world drive so many of you have been on, and the road got to a narrow place, and off to our right, of course, was the guardrail and the cliff that goes way, way down. And on the left, the mountains that go up. And as we rounded the bend, there was a silver SUV that was in the other lane that had stopped, and I wonder what in the world is going on, maybe they were having car problems or something, and so we slowed down and I rolled down my window, and when I got near the SUV, I could see why they had stopped because just behind them, there was a car that had flipped over and was in the ditch, and I rolled my window down this lady, she's in the SUV, and I said what happened, she said this car was right in front of me, and it just flipped and it's upside down, there's a man inside. And so the road's so narrow, you can't park anywhere, and I'm thinking people are going to come up and plow me from behind or come down the other way and plow her from behind. We went up the road just a little bit where there was a turn out, and I pulled over and I said wait here, Colleen, and I jumped out of the car and I ran down to where the overturned car was, and by the time I got there, some other cars had stopped, and there were two men that were trying to pull open what was the passenger side door, it was upside down, and they couldn't do it because it was wedged down in on the asphalt of the road, and they were working hard at it, and I thought you know, I could probably get around the other side and get in there, I'm a skinny guy, and so I went around the back of the car and crawled through the bushes, opened the back door, and crawled in the compartment, there was still the dust of the airbags that had gone off, and in that upside down car I stuck my head in between the two front seats, and here's this man hanging on his seat with his seatbelt on, and I got right up in his face and I said are you okay?  And I got out, the car went around the other side, I told the guys I said you know what, we can get in on the other side and help this guy, and so we ran around the other side, we opened the driver's side door, we got up underneath him, unhooked the seatbelt, pulled him out and took him away from where the car was, and we sat him down on the rock, by then there were a lot of cars that were stopped, and I just began to talk to him, I said what's your name? And he said my name is Jim, and I said the police, the paramedics, they're on their way, you're going to be okay. Is there anyone that I can call for you?  And he said well, he said my wife is down in Belflour, he said we actually are from Texas, he said my son committed suicide two days ago, and that's why we're here in California, and I said to him Jim can I pray for you? And right there by the side of the road, along all those strangers I never knew, I just began to pray for this man. A few moments later, a fire truck came up, the paramedics came, there was a swarm of people, and I backed away, ran up the roadway and jumped in the car with Cole, and we started to drive away, praying for Jim. And we started talking, and I said that's amazing that we just happened to be right there, right then, at just the right time. If we would have left our house a few minutes later, we never would have been there. If we had taken a different route, we wouldn't have been there. And we begin talking about how that was a God thing, how that was what we call a divine appointment. It was something that was ordered by God, it was something that was orchestrated by God. Theologians used the big word providence, it was the providence of God. The God has plans and God has purposes, and He works all things after the counsel of His will, every single thing in your life and my life. Because each day and every day, all throughout the day, there are circumstances and situations that He has ordered for you, and only for you that we call divine appointments. In Psalm 37 of verse 23, the Bible says that the steps of the righteous are ordered of the Lord, and He delights in their path. The steps of the righteous are ordered of the Lord, and He delights in their path. In other words, in the ordinary events of life, there are extraordinary opportunities that God will put before you and He'll put before me. Indeed, the whole book of Acts is one series of things that God will put before you and He'll put before me. Indeed, the whole book of Acts is one series of divine appointments after another. Peter and John, they go up to the gate beautiful in Acts chapter 3, and there's a lame man there, divine appointment. Acts chapter 8, the Lord leaves Philip out into the wilderness road, and He just happens to meet with Ethiopian treasure. In Acts chapter 9, Ann and Isis told to go and meet this persecutor of the church Saul, another divine appointment. In Acts chapter 10, the apostle Peter sees a vision and goes to see Zaria and meets a man named Cornelius, and the gospel starts going to the Gentiles. As you read the book of Acts, you discover day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year, God's people just kept walking into one divine appointment after another. But if there's any chapter in the book of Acts that shows how we ought to be looking for divine appointments, it's in Acts chapter 16. Because in one chapter, we see three amazing divine appointments. Paul, and those who are with him, they have a divine appointment with a wealthy fashion designer. They have a divine appointment with a demon-possessed fortune teller. They have a divine appointment with a hardened, unbelieving prisonkeeper. They have a divine appointment with someone who had a soft heart. They had a divine appointment with someone who had a bound heart. And they had a divine appointment with someone who had a hard heart. As we come into Acts chapter 16, the apostle Paul and Silas are just beginning the second missionary journey of Paul. You'll see a map on the screen of the missionary journey of Paul as it begins in Paul's trip to Philippi. In his first missionary journey, the apostle Paul took him in named Barnabas and they went into the area of Galatia, Pisidia, and Antioch. They came back to the city of Jerusalem. There was what was called the Jerusalem Council in Acts chapter 15 where they had to decide are the Gentiles going to keep the law or not and so a decision was made. And then Paul and Barnabas, they go up to a place from Jerusalem. You see in the lower right to a city called Antioch which was the launching pad for all the missionary journeys of Paul in the book of Acts. And as they've been there for a little while, Paul tells Barnabas, let's go out and take another trip. And Barnabas wants to take a young man named John Mark who had deserted Paul and Barnabas on the first trip and Paul says, no way, no how. And Barnabas says, yes, sir. And Paul says, no way. And the Bible says that they had a disagreement about it. And so Barnabas takes John Mark and goes to his home island called Cyprus and Paul picks up a man named Silas and goes his own way. Through all these 30 years of teaching in Bible colleges, they didn't always ask me, Pastor Larry, who was right and who was wrong? Was Paul right and Barnabas wrong? Was Barnabas right and Paul wrong? My answer is doesn't make any difference. Before that, there was only one missionary team. After that, there were two. Is it possible God could even work through disagreements of people to accomplish his will and his purpose? Absolutely. God's math is always way different than ours. He has a way of working all things together for good, no matter what they are. And so Paul and Silas, he picks up Silas and heads out and Acts chapter 15, notice how it ends in verse 40. But Paul chose Silas and departed being committed by the brethren to the grace of God and they went throughout Syria and Silicia strengthening the churches. Silas, you can study about him later, was a prophet and a key leader in the church in Jerusalem. Silas was among those that were sent out from Jerusalem in Acts chapter 15 to take the decrees of the apostles to all the Gentiles. Silas was also called Silvanus. He helped Paul write first and second Thessalonians and he helped Peter write the book of First Peter. He was a very key and important person and God was putting together a team to get at the right place at the right time for a divine appointment. And so Silas and Paul, they set out and in Acts 16 then he, Paul, came to Derby and to Lystra. You see these cities on the map. Behold, a certain disciple was there. His name was Timothy, the son of a certain Jewish woman who believed but his father was a Greek. He was from a mixed family. His father was probably an unbeliever. His mother was a believer. There are many people who come from such families. Timothy was like that. He was well spoken of by the brethren who were at Lystra and Iconium and Paul wanted to have him go on with him and so he took him and circumcised him because of the Jews who were in that region for they all knew that his father was a Greek. Paul didn't have to do that. Timothy didn't have to do that. The Jerusalem Council said they didn't have to do that. That's what they were going to go and tell all the Gentiles but Paul didn't want to create a problem. He later would write, we become all things to all men. In other words, we give up our rights for the sake of reaching other people. And young Timothy was willing to submit to this because there was a higher calling on his life, the call of God. What might you need to give up so that you can fulfill the call of God on your life? What might the Lord be asking you to lay down for a greater cause, the sake of the gospel? So he takes Timothy and circumcises him and as they went through the cities he delivered to them the decrees to keep which were determined by the apostles and elders at Jerusalem. So the churches were strengthened and faith and increased in their numbers daily. Timothy in a sense was a divine appointment. Paul's going along with Silas and they come and there's Timothy. And Timothy would be huge in Paul's life. Huge. Timothy would become a son in the faith for Paul. Timothy would be Paul's favorite co-worker. Timothy would later become the pastor of the church at Ephesus. Timothy would be there when Paul died. Paul would save him. I don't have anyone else like him. He's like my son. Paul was going through life. Paul was following the Lord and all of a sudden Timothy now is added to the team. So you have Silas with Paul and now you have Timothy. Verse 6, now when they had gone through Phrygia and the region of Galatia they were forbidden by the Holy Spirit to preach the word in Asia. And after they had come to Misia they tried to go into Bethany but the Spirit did not permit them. Pause there for a moment. This is amazing. You see on the map as they're going along they wanted to go down into Asia Minor and the Holy Spirit said no. Then they wanted to go up into Bethany and the Holy Spirit said no. Now I find this remarkable because Jesus said to go into all the world and preach the gospel. And yet the Holy Spirit is saying but I don't want you to do it over there. And I don't want you to do it in this other place. You ask how did they know that? How did the Holy Spirit tell them that? We don't know. It might have been through circumstances. It might have been through a prophecy. It might have been as they were in prayer. They just felt what we call a check in their spirit. They just knew no, this is not the right way to go. We're not supposed to go that way. And we're not supposed to go that way. And the Lord will often lead us in that way at Romans 8 and verse 14. It says as many are led by the Spirit of God. They are the children of God. They are the sons of God. And each day and every day God wants to lead you. If you listen, if you have the ears to hear that still small voice. So they wanted to go down and the Holy Spirit said no. They wanted to go up and the Holy Spirit said no. They can't go back. There's only one direction. Forward. Forward. And what was a disappointment to them was going to become the greatest blessing they could ever imagine. Some as well said that if you take the word disappointment and you change the first letter of that word from a D to an H. A disappointment becomes His appointment. Just change one letter then you see that obstacles can turn into opportunities. That God has a better way and a better path. You think well, why didn't I get that job or why didn't we get this house or why couldn't I go there or why couldn't I do this? Maybe God's in it. Because He has divine appointments waiting for you that will blow your mind that are far beyond your imagination. That's what's happened to God's people in so many times throughout church history. There was a great missionary named William Carey. He so wanted to go to Polynesia. He ended up in India. This is another missionary, great missionary. David Livingstone, China, China, China. Oh God sent me to China. I went to Africa. Had an iron judge and he wanted to go to India and God sent him to Burma. Why? Because God knows what's best. God knows what's best and the steps of the righteous are ordered of the Lord. And He delights in their path and God was putting something together here that was going to be absolutely incredible. Now, let's go forward. After verse 7, after they had come to Missia, they tried to go into Bithynia, but the Spirit did not permit them. So passing by Missia, they came to Troas. You see it here on the map. They ran out of land. They just came to the ocean. And they're waiting there in Troas. And verse 9 says, and a vision appeared to Paul in the night. The man of Macedonia stood and pleaded with him, saying, come over to Macedonia and help us. Macedonia, as we'll be learning, was the northern part of Greece. And the most important town there was a town called, a city called Philippi. And as you're going to learn in a minute, the people there dressed in a very particular way. So anyone knew who was a Macedonian and Paul has a vision. There's a man of Macedonia saying, come over here and help us. You know, God can speak to people through visions. You read the book of Acts in Acts chapter 10, Peter had a vision. And God still does that kind of thing today. I remember when we were in Bible college, there was a missionary was telling about how his father went to Panama City. His father was a wealthy banker in San Jose, but he felt the call of God on his life. And so he began to take classes in a Bible college at night to prepare himself to go on the mission field. And one night God gave him a vision. He saw this man in Panama. He was out in the middle of a field with a plow. And the field was half plowed. And in his vision, this man said to him, come to Panama and help me. I thought, oh, this is amazing. He figured if he's going to go to Panama, he needed to know Spanish. And so he started taking Spanish classes. He eventually went down to Panama City, began to work there. God began to bless it. All kinds of churches and fruit. And God was blessing his ministry. One night he got a call on the phone. There was someone from a hospital that was nearby. And they said, there's this old man in the hospital room. And he doesn't have any family or friends. And he needs somebody to come and visit him. He said, would you be willing to come over and just talk to him and pray with him? And so the missionary went over and the moment he walked in the door, it was the man he had seen in the vision. The man was a Methodist missionary. He was in Panama and didn't know what to do. And he was crying out to God, saying, send us some help. Lord, we need some help. We need some help. Please send someone in the field. Paul has a vision. God, supernaturally, is ordering and directing his steps. Oh, look at it again. Verse 9 in the vision appeared to Paul in the night, a man of Macedonia stood and he pleaded with him saying, come over to Macedonia and help us. Now, after we had seen the vision immediately, we sought to go to Macedonia, concluding that the Lord had called us to preach the gospel to them. I've emphasized a couple of words, the word we and us. This is Capriciapuccino Valley. So you guys are careful students of the Bible. And those two words just jumped off that page because you know that Luke wrote the book of Acts and now all of a sudden Luke is including himself in this team. The team of three has now become a team of four. Luke the doctor, you study about his life, you discover that Luke was from a city called Philippi. He had a huge medical center in it and he trained there to become a doctor. He became a doctor to a wealthy person in Antioch. Later he moved to the city of Troas. In Antioch he would have met up with Paul and Silas. Now he lives in Troas and when Paul and Silas and Timothy come to Troas, all of a sudden they connect with Luke. Now he's working something out. The steps of the righteous are ordered of the Lord and he delights in their path. So he says in verse 10, now after he had seen the vision immediately, we sought to go into Macedonia concluding that the Lord had called us to preach the gospel to them. Therefore sailing from Troas we ran a straight course to Samothrace and the next day came to Neopolis. You see on the map Troas goes over to Neopolis, halfway in between about 150 miles from Troas to Neopolis. Halfway in between is an island about the size of Catalina Island. And one day there and one day the next. Got there in two days. Normally it took five days. The wind was behind them. When you're in the will of God. It's amazing how God blesses your life. The Lord was giving them favor. The Lord was sending them on their way. They had no idea that the first church in Europe was about to happen. They had no idea the unbelievable divine appointments that were waiting them. They were just trying to be obedient day by day to listen to the voice of God, to follow the spirit of God, to do what the Lord told them to do. To do what God was showing them to do. Verse 11, Therefore sailing from Troas we ran a straight course to Samothrace and the next day came to Neopolis and from there to circle this, Philippi, which is the foremost city of that part of Macedonia, a colony, and we were staying in that city some days. You'll see on the screen an artist's rendition of what the city of Philippi looked like when these four men, Paul, Silas, Timothy, and Luke, walked into it. Philippi was one of the largest, most strategic cities in Europe. It's an interesting history. It was called Crenities, which means the fountains, because originally there were fountains there. The Greeks started a city there that was named Philipi, because the father of Alexander the Great, his name was Philip. And Alexander the Great named that city an honor his father. And it over the years fell into decline, but then there was a very famous Roman battle that was fought there. All of you probably heard of Julius Caesar. He was assassinated by two Roman senators, Brutus and Cassius. They fled to the area of Philipi. The Romans sent two generals, two other senators after them, Anthony and Octavius. They surrounded the city of Philipi. They defeated their armies, and Brutus and Cassius committed suicide so they wouldn't be taken. And a lot of the veterans in the Roman army, they settled down there. And they started to build up the city and build up the city and build up the city. And it really grew when a main highway was connected to it, called the Ignatian Way. It linked the then known worlds. It was right next to a very important river called the Gangetus River. That's going to be very important in a moment. When you see right by the river was this city. There were gold mines nearby, so they had lots of money. And because they had all these Roman army officers that settled it, they decided they were going to make the city like a miniature Rome. It was a colony, Luke writes. Colony is place in another place where someone has citizenship from another place. We know it here in America because these used to be called the colonies. English citizens lived over here in the colonies. And every single person who was in the city of Philippi, they had Roman citizenship. Rome was in the country of Italy. Philippi was in the country of Greece. But every single person in the city of Philippi had Roman citizenship. That's why Paul will later write to this church in Philippians 3 and verse 20. Our citizenship is in heaven because they understood that more than anyone. And they prided themselves on being Roman citizens so much so that even though they were in Greece they spoke Latin like the Italians did. Even though they were in Greece, they ate Italian food, pasta, spaghetti and all that stuff. Even though they were in Greece, they even dressed like the Romans did so that when you went into that city you looked around and thought, this is like a miniature Rome. And it was a city of around 20,000 people which was huge in those days. It had, as I mentioned, a medical center, a large jail. And very important, it was mostly gentile people. There were not even 10 Jewish men in this city. We'll understand that in a moment because there wasn't a synagogue there. There were 10 Jewish men called a Minion in order to establish a synagogue and there was no synagogue there. In fact, it's kind of interesting you can read the book of Philippians later. Did you know there are no Old Testament quotations in the book of Philippians? All right, because the Gentiles were not familiar with the Old Testament. So into this thoroughly Roman, into this thoroughly pagan, into this thoroughly Gentile city, four men, Paul, Silas, Timothy, and Luke, the right people in the right place at just the right time. And they have three divine appointments with a woman who had a soft heart, with a girl who had a bound heart, and with a man who had a hard heart. Their first divine appointment was with a wealthy fashion designer. Her name was Lydia, and she had a soft heart. Notice in verse 13. And on the Sabbath day, we went out of the city to the riverside where prayer was customarily made and we sat down and spoke to the women who met there. So very important are those words. Why? It was the Sabbath, and Jewish people would worship on the Sabbath, but there was no synagogue, so they went out to the riverside. Why did they do that? Because Jews all throughout the world when they were scattered at the end of the Old Testament, if there wasn't a synagogue, they would try to find a riverside to meet and pray. Because in Psalm 137, verse 1, by the rivers of Babylon we went, and they would find a riverside. And Paul, Silas, Timothy, and Luke, they knew if you're going to find any people that are inclined toward the things of God on a Sabbath, they're going to be by the riverside. So they'd go out by that gangedish river, and the women are there. Why? Not pen Jewish men. There's not even a Jewish synagogue there. And as they go out there, it's a Holy Spirit setup. The Holy Spirit's got it all arranged. Verse 14, now a certain woman named Lydia heard us. She was a seller of purple from the city of Thyatira who worshiped God, and the Lord opened her heart to heed the things spoken by Paul. She was a seller of purple from the city of Thyatira. Every one of those phrases are important. Purple in ancient times was the color of royalty. Only very wealthy people wore purple. I mean, it could say something like, she lived on Rodeo Drive and sold Gucci. Then you would understand who she was. In the Word of Life Study Bible, they describe Thyatira. It says, Thyatira was a thriving manufacturer in a commercial center. Its trade in purple was renowned in the Roman world. Purple was the most expensive of dyes and was a mark of wealth and royalty. This purple dye came from a shellfish found only in the northeastern section of the Mediterranean coast. It took, listen, it took 8,000 shellfish to produce just one gram of purple dye. Yeah, I have a word for that. You just heard it. Wow, that's amazing. They say purple cloth was ranked in value with gold and was important not only for adorning emperors and temples, but for tribute and international trade. We don't know when or why Lydia relocated to Philippi, but it was a smart business move as the Philippians were known for trying to outdo Rome in their dress. Might have been a smart business move in her mind, but it was a God thing. Because God got her in that place for that time. So she can meet those four people. Look again, verse 14, a certain woman named Lydia heard us. She was a seller of purple from the city of Thyatira who worshipped God. There was, she was a Gentile who knew about the God of the Hebrews, who knew about the God of the Bible. She didn't know about Jesus, she didn't know about salvation, but she had a soft heart toward the things of God. And as they began to preach about Jesus Christ, and Him being the only way of salvation. Verse 14 ends, the Lord opened her heart to heed the things spoken by Paul. And when she and her household were baptized, she begged us saying, if you have judged me to be faithful to the Lord, come to my house and stay. So she persuaded. So listen, if you've got four guys coming over to your house, it's got to be a pretty big house. She was wealthy. She had a huge house.  What a perfect place. The church in Philippi was going to meet in her house. God got her in Philippi just for the right time. And Paul puts, God puts Paul, Nicholas, Timothy and Luke there to share the gospel. She comes to faith. I tell you, the steps of the righteous are order of the Lord. And He delights in their path. But Paul and his companions are going to have another divine appointment. With another lady, she's totally different than Lydia.  Lydia was wealthy. This girl was poor. Lydia was free. This girl was a slave. Lydia was inclined toward the things of God. This girl was so bound in darkness, it's indescribable how bound she was in darkness. Notice in verse 16, now it happened, as we went to prayer that a certain slave girl possessed with the spirit of divination met us and she brought her masters much fortune, much money by fortune telling. Now, it's interesting, it says, we went to prayer. The Jews would pray three times a day because in Psalm 55 in verse 17, it says, morning, noon, and night. They would pray at nine. They would pray at 12. They would pray at three. And Paul and Silas and Timothy and Luke they kept going back and forth to the river to pray all throughout the day. And as they were making their way down those streets of Philippi to go and pray, there's this demon-possessed slave girl who's bringing much profit from her masters and she followed them and cried out saying, God. Now, interesting, it says here she, in verse 16, she was possessed with a spirit. The Greek literally reads she was possessed by the python. She was possessed by the python. Pastor Chuck in his commentary in the book of Acts describes it, he says, in the Greek world the word for divination is from the root python. In the center of Greece, there was a prophetic center called the Oracle of Delphi. According to Greek mythology, Apollo had killed a great snake called Python at that site. The snake spirit was said to have remained in that spot and would inhabit prophets or prophetesses there. People would come to the oracle to get guidance. Python threw these channelers who would speak to them in a strange voice. These channelers were demon-possessed which is how they were able to speak for things they couldn't otherwise have known. Such was the case with this girl at Philippi whose masters charged people money to come and get guidance from her. Evidently, some wealthy men going through the oracle of Delphi, they found this poor girl and she was giving out these channeling words. And they bought her and they brought her back to Philippi so they could make money on her. I can think of nothing more horrible than being bound by men and being bound by Satan. And as pollensilists are going back and forth to pray, to pray, to pray all throughout the day, here she is in this hideous voice saying, verse 17, men are servants of the most high God who proclaim to us the way of salvation and she did this for many days but Paul being greatly annoyed turned and said to the spirit, I commend you in the name of Jesus Christ to come out of her and he came out of her at that very hour. Now this is interesting the girl is saying these men are servants of the most high God. True? Yes. And they're proclaiming to you true? Yes. But Paul is greatly annoyed he's greatly disturbed. Why? Because Satan is the most deceptive when he tells the truth when he puts forth all kinds of error but then he includes truth that's what happens with the cults. There are many things they say that are true but it's not all true James Montgomery Boyce, the great pastor in Philadelphia once wrote the greatest danger to the church is when satanic agents false teachers tell the truth for that is when they are the most deceptive Irenaeus in his ancient book called against heresy said error is indeed never set forth in its naked deformity lest being thus exposed it should at once be detected but it is craftily decked out in an attractive dress so is it to appear to the outward in its outward form to make it appear to the inexperience more than the truth itself and she did this for many days these are servants of the most high God they're telling you the way of salvation these are servants of the most high God and they're telling you the way of salvation and verse 18 says she did this for many days but Paul being greatly annoyed that's a good translation but not the best translation it means troubled it means grieved but Paul was experience inner pain over this why? not only because satan is using this girl to deceive people but i believe he cared about her he cared about this bound demon demon possessed girl who was being used by men who was being used by satan and pain in his heart grieved in his heart he said that's enough in the name of Jesus Christ come out of her and immediately she was delivered immediately the power of God is much greater than the power of satan Paul didn't say give me your name let's pray for 2 or 3 or 5 hours no he said in the name of Jesus come out of her and she was instantly totally sat free why? because whom the sun sits free is free indeed doesn't make any difference how bound the person is doesn't make any difference how possessed the person is doesn't make any difference how much darkness they're in when God says a person free they're free indeed listen i'm so glad Paul listened to the Holy Spirit i'm so glad he was obedient to the Lord because now this demon possessed slave girl is set free and you don't think that brought attention in Philippi well there's a divine appointment with a wealthy fashion designer she had a soft heart there's a divine appointment with a demon possessed fortune teller she had a bound heart but this would lead to a third divine appointment a divine appointment with an unbelieving hardened prison keeper he had a hard heart notice what happened verse 19 but when her master saw that their hope of profit was gone they seized Paul and Silas and dragged them out into the mark a place to the authorities and they brought them to the magistrates and said to them these men notice being Jews trouble our city we're Romans we're Gentiles these guys the problem is that they're Jews and they're troubling our great city verse 21 and they teach customs which are not lawful for us being Romans they were in Greece but here they call themselves Romans to receive or observe then the multitude rose up together against them and the magistrates tore off their clothes and commanded them to be beaten with rods and when they had laid many strights on them they threw them into prison commanding the jailer to keep them securely and having received such a charge he put them in the inner prison and fastened their feet in stocks wow wow we need to think about this for a moment it says here in verse 22 that they were beaten with rods you all know about the scourging of Jesus using a cat of nine tails another form of corporal punishment in ancient times especially used by the Romans who was beating with rods they would take a bundle of birch branches sometimes they would put a sharp object in the middle of them they would rip the clothes off of people they would tie their arms to a post of some kind and then they would take that bundle of rods of sticks and quack quack quack they would just beat the living daylights out of a person and this frenzied mob they take Paul and Silas to the magistrates they rip off their clothes they start beating them with rods and they had laid many stripes on them they threw them into the prison commanding the jailer to keep them securely many stripes by the way this happened to Paul five times in the course of his life and the jailer puts them into the inner prison and fastens their feet in stocks now you read that word in English stocks you know where a person would stick their head in there and their hands in there or something like that not like the stocks of the Romans the stocks of the Romans were not to keep a person they were to torture a person they were in the shape of an X in what they would do they were graduated markers and they would just start stretching out the person their arms and legs as far as they possibly could get until their backs are bleeding their muscles are cramping whatever that was you oh lord I was obedient he said you said not to go down into Asia man I didn't do it you said not to go up into Bethany I didn't do it I just went over to Troas I saw this vision this man in Macedonia come and help us and I did lord the Lydia got saved and her old family got saved and this demon possessed slave girl now she's set free and what do I get for it I've never been there but God had a purpose he was allowing this to happen because of an amazing divine appointment an absolutely amazing divine appointment and Paul and Silas they had the right perspective they were fully surrendered to God and they had joy in their heart and were willing to suffer the most amazing verse but at midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God and the prisoners were listening to them at midnight at the darkest part of the night what are Paul and Silas doing they're not saying oh god oh god they're doing this to me they're saying oh lord oh god why are you doing this to me oh they understood oh dear ones they understood the steps of the righteous are ordered to the lord every step is ordered to the lord sometimes we find ourselves in hospitals sometimes we find ourselves in courtrooms sometimes we find ourselves in difficult places in life but God is allowing it sometimes when you're in the courtroom there's a divine appointment sometimes when you're in the hospital there's a divine appointment sometimes when you're in a car accident there's a divine appointment and God may allow difficulty to come into your life in my life because he needs you to be at a certain place at a certain time and Paul and Silas they knew that they knew that they would suffer that someone would be in heaven an illness an accident a bankruptcy a legal case would you be willing to suffer that would you be willing to go through something so that God could use you that somebody else might be in eternity forever that somebody in their whole family could be saved that a church could be started that the gospel could go into a new region that you would never imagine Paul and Silas understood and at midnight the darkest part of the night they're praying and the tense in the original is continuously they're praying over and over and over again and they were singing over and over and over again and here's the amazing thing it says here verse 25 and the prisoners were listening to them do you know people are watching you do you know they're listening to you all the time your life is a testimony your life is a witness Paul and Silas were praying and singing and something happened verse 26 suddenly there was a great earthquake in Greek a mega seismos so that the foundations of the prison were shaken and immediately all the doors were open and everyone's chains were loosed listen they weren't they weren't singing and praying to get set free they were singing and praying because they were free no captivity could take their freedom they were free and they were worshiping the Lord and all of a sudden there's this great earthquake verse 27 and the keeper of the prison awakening from sleep and seeing the prison doors open supposing the prisoners had fled drew his sword and was about to kill himself just like Brutus and Cassius when the Romans came to get him they committed suicide he is about ready to commit suicide why because what they would do to a keeper of the prison in this case is they would torture them and then they would kill them and they knew that was going to be his end so he takes out his sword and kills himself but Paul called out with a loud voice the Greek reads a megaphone don't stop he calls out with a loud voice saying do yourself no harm for we are all here then he called for a light and he ran in and he fell in town trembling before Paul and Silas so amazing backs laid open and bloody from those being beaten with ross stretch out in those stocks in the innermost prison singing and praying and all of a sudden the keeper of the prison of the biggest city in that part of Macedonia a very very important official comes running in falling down on his hands and knees trembling and he called for a light verse 28 says Paul called to the loud voice saying do yourselves no harm for we are all here and he called for a light he ran in and he fell down trembling before Paul and Silas and he brought them out and he said what must I do to be saved they were singing about Jesus they were singing about salvation they were singing about the Lord he had been watching them now he says what do I need to do and Paul says give a lot of money to the church now 36 apostles creeds no what must I do to be saved and they said just believe on Jesus believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household in other words everyone in the household that would believe would be saved they spoke the word of the Lord to him and to all who were in his house and he took them that same hour of the night and washed their stripes and immediately he and all his family were baptized there was no baptism of infants they all believed if you believe and everybody in your house believes then you're going to be saved and they were saved and gave the outward sign evidencing that by water baptism what an amazing divine appointment you see the ones the steps of the righteous are ordered of the Lord and he delights in their path and it's amazing what God can do if you just listen do this little small voice and you be obedient because God wants to use you as I was praying about what to share with you tonight the Lord just so put it on my heart go over to Chino Valley and give them the divine appointments are waiting for them all over the place if they'll just pray for them and just ask for them and I felt so much in my heart were three weeks away from Easter what a great time to invite someone to Good Friday what a great time to invite them on Easter Sunday and who are they they live next door to you they live across the street from you tomorrow morning at Starbucks they're waiting for you at the gas station they're waiting for you in the supermarket they're waiting for you in the mall they're waiting for you in the beach they're even waiting for you in the traffic there's people all around us and here's the wonderful thing the church in the book of Acts didn't grow like it did because all the superstars were doing the work we live in a day of celebrity Christianity that's now Bible here's Bible all of you do the work of the ministry if it's up to David Rosales to go invite everybody he possibly can to be here on Easter there's not going to be very many people but if every single person at Chino Valley would just be looking for those divine appointments would wake up in the morning and say I just want to be used by you please Lord bring people in my path that I can talk to that I can pray with that I can invite St. Peter, are you telling me I've forgiven the four spiritual laws and jammed the gospel down their throat no, and I'm saying that I'm just saying be who God has called you to be and look for those places because you never know what will happen in August 2005 a category 5 hurricane hit the Gulf Coast and did so much damage in the city of New Orleans and as God's people always do in responding to tragedy and need they run so many Christians went down to the Gulf so many were there in New Orleans and I remember a friend of mine telling me about something that happened to their group when they went down there it was so amazing when they finally got down there they divided up into teams and they were going to go from house to house just trying to help people in whatever way they possibly could and so his particular group was given a slip of paper or go to the house at this particular address so they looked on a map and tried to figure out where they were going they started making their way to the house well because of the floods and the damage and everything the signs were knocked down and crazy and so they went down the wrong street and they went to the wrong house they knocked on the door and said we're Christians and we've come here to help you in whatever way we can we were sent over here the group sent us over here and they said we didn't ask for any help I said well can we help you is there anything that we can do so they opened the door and they began to just share God's love with them and they found out this older couple that was there because they had lost everything they were in such discouragement and despair the husband was about ready to take his gun, shoot his wife and then take his own life and because they went down the wrong street to the wrong house those people came to Jesus and are alive today I tell you the steps of the righteous are ordered of the Lord and He delights in their path pray for and look for divine appointments


Man, give me everything. Oh, a coin ambulance, coin ambulance, but not for me. If you need men 21 coins for anything, make sure to go to buymuntcoins.com. Check it out with the link in the description and my code MMG is 15% off. Yo, what's that TikTok? I saw a TikTok, everyone was tagging me in it. It was like Zeke Elliott on third and 19 when he rushes for three yards. Yo, they drop the, what's this program called? All right, YouTuber. I have no idea what this program's called. Superstar MVP, which they had last year. It's dope because they come stock with some really good abilities. This Zeke, weirdly in my opinion, has jukebox, fight for it and then reduce zone objectives in the second half. I don't even know what that one's called. I figured he would have bruiser or arm bar instead of jukebox, but I'm not mad. I'm excited to get more pranks with jukebox. Plus, fight for it is the nastiest ability. I have watched my Bo Jackson literally just like, dude, like he'll be two yards away from the first and he'll be like, reaching for Bell Delphine's only fans account link. 214,500 coins for feed Zeke.  I just got to throw them in the lineup and rip it.  These stats are really solid too. 87 speed, 88 Excel is super, super good right now. A lot of halfbacks have like the slowest speeds right now. So that's really good. 89 agility, 88 carry, 85 call of duty. Gotta love that. 83 truck and 84 break tackle.  All right, so we do have to change up our abilities here. How much does Zeke cost? He might be a little too expensive. Oh no, he's four, perfect. Jukebox, closer, reach for it. It's exactly as much as I can afford. All right, boys. Also, dude, I was so confused. I couldn't find RPO Peekzone bubble. I realized I didn't put Titans offense on. Although it's not that good of a play this year, I'm being honest. Still jaded about that. All right, Zeke, let's see what you got, my friend. Top three, Lamar Jackson, Drabley the goat and Zeke Elliott. He's got Preston Smith, Minka and Leroy Glover. I feel good. I feel good about that. Ninja pig, what about abuse pig, huh? What about that, bud? Starting out on defense, let's clamp. Let's get an easy clamp and then feed Zeke until it's GD. What do you got? You got nothing. Oh, I take, I completely take it back. You have something and it was 20 yards worth. Zone coverage is not as good as it used to be. Who is that at half back? It is a run. I said I was scared. We got him.  I was about to fill that hole. You know me, always fillin' holes, baby. Do it, do it. Uh-oh, the half back is open. The half back is not open. Take it to the house.  Slow. The half back was open until I made the play of the century. Now I really could just get the feel go in the game, but hey, this is a Zeke Elliott video. Let's try out Jukebox. I'm still learning how to use it properly. It's kind of tough. A lot tougher than last year. But you could argue that last year was just too good. Last year was unfair.  Damn, he really wants it. Let's take this right side. Go, go, see, did I get it? He got that. I guess we'll just find out what happens.  I will gladly feed Zeke.  Come on, Zeke. You know you want to. Oh, he clearly doesn't want it bad enough. Zeke, if you wanted that bad enough, you would have had it. See what happens. Oh, it's there. Oh, Juke. Ah! Oh! Jukebox has still got it, bro. That's one game in the books. Easy though. Run it back, baby. Everybody's loving this Preston Smith. I wonder what ability he has. People are abusing it. I got a little Danimals. It's Off-Bret. It's Trader Joe's California vegan weirdo. Danimals, but it's Danimals. These boys schlap. Oh, we're playing a Cowboys fan too.  See ya, man. Oh no, hold that block. That's such a touchdown.  No in between. All right, let's see it. Let's see it. Let's see it. No. He's rock committing. He knows what I'm doing.  Tell me how Larry Fitz isn't super wide open here. Oh, Zeke isn't even in. I'm sad. That's open. No!  How do we get this? I need Zeke in the game, bro. We have to get this with Zeke. Damn it, Bo Jackson is in. Well, I could throw a touchdown. That's always good. Sorry, guys. I wanted to give it to Zeke, but I was in a bit of a pickle there. I don't mind a touchdown on fourth and ninth.  He just did the same thing. The exact same thing.  Wait a minute. He's going to run this. He's going to run this. He's going to run this. Oh, I got it. I got it.  Let's go! Trinavius White. Oh, and I can take it back too.  Oh, come here, Julio. Come and get me, buddy. Dude, why is Trinavius White so fast? Like, I know he's fast in real life, but they made this dude zoom. Easy, easy, easy. Easy, easy, easy. Easy, easy, easy. Easy, easy, easy. Why are you gay? 13 is zero. He's out of the goal line, too. That's tough. How's your rules, Five Lynch? All right, sorry. That game didn't include any feeding of Zeke, so let's get back to it. Ah, it's competition. Andre Johnson, Lamar, Jackson, Jerry Rice, let's go. Oh, and he's got the jerseys. I was rocking before. What you got here? What you going to throw?  That's a good throw. He was out of bounds. I like to see that.  Second and 10. I'm on Bobby Bell. I don't think that's open. I don't think. Ooh! Ooh! Be ready for it. It's not. Could be Bo underneath again. No! Good, stop. The Andre Beverly. You're taking the feel-good one. This guy must be really confident in his defense. Unless it's a fake. It is a fake. I respect that. But Leroy Glover with the clamps! Leroy Glover detackled actually just defended against that.  That was actually such a clutch play.  Imagine snacks. Imagine David Harrison running back and defending in the end zone. You gotta love it, dude. You gotta love it. Zeke rolling forward for five. That's what I like to see too. If this edge sets, this will be a big game. Ah, get that joke, yes sir. I need that. He knows, but it's never the question of whether they know. It's the question of if they can stop.  Here it is. There it is! That's the game! Let's go! Zeke Elliott. That's game. Andre Johnson, Anas Williams, Aaron Donald. Big boys. All right, let's get it. We're on the feet of so far. I'm not worried. I might need to get Zeke involved in the passing game though too. Let's just see how this sets up. That juke box has been looking nice. Okay. Can we get the juke? Yes! Damn, too bad there's a guy there because I dusted that man. We'll go I form run to the right.  Ooh! Whoa! Damn! That is fight for it in action right there. I got a third and one out of that trash play. I guess Bo Jackson's gonna have to take this one for us, but I don't mind. Bo is also really good. Let's go RB on peak zone bubble. I said I gotta do the passing game. Oh no, he knows. Damn, he 100% knew. That's sad. This has potential. If I get, if those blocks hold, this has a lot of potential. All right Zeke. Juke! Yes! Oh, he broke that tackle, but I need one still. Fourth and one. Let's go Zeke. Come on baby. Fourth and one. George Kittle. Come on. Let's go. I'm what, four and oh five and oh? Doesn't matter what you throw at me. Oh wait, is this a subscriber? He, dude, he did laser himself over to peak zone bubble. He might be messaging me. It might be a subscriber.  Just now, is this the real MMG? Yes sir. Hey big boys, when you see this video, I love you bro. Thanks for watching.  I just killed you. You're so bad at this game. Oh, this might not be the play here.   Oh my, no, he didn't get it. Damn, it really looked like he was about to get that. That was weird. Well I drew him out of the end zone.  If he scores, it's GG. Oh, he's going with a run play too. Not going anywhere though. That's a play action. I got this. Uh oh, Lamar's taking off and he lays down. Good decision. All right, I'm on Atwater. That is an actual run play and it is going nowhere. It's like a 83 overall Bobby Bell too. We just got to guard all the deep routes. All right, I see it. Uh oh, that's open. That's a touchdown. I just lost, no. Dude, zone is trash now. Hey big boys, I love you bro.   I deserve an L. He just homied me right there. He already beat me. I can't take this dub. If this is an outside run, I might be in trouble. Ooh, yeah. Like I said, oh, Atwater. That was very big. They played perfect defense on that. My dude just fell over. We were right there. This is a run, right side. Yep, yep, yep. We're all, oh, we were all over it. We're not all over it now. He gets the touchdown. Dude, even after handing me the dub, he's still going to take the dub. That's raw. So does he actually kick this one and make it 13 to six? You know, wait, did he miss that? If I score, I cannot go for the two point, but I got to score first, you know?  All right, Zeke up the middle. He invited me to a party, hold up.  I knew I had a mic. All right, let's get my guy. Can you hear me? Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Oh my god. Are you kidding me? Yeah, let's get it, boys. How we doing? Yo, you're serious.  I love you so much. Yo, thank you guys. Hey, you guys are going to be in a video. Wait, are you sure? I'm recording, I'm doing Zeke Elliott gameplay. Bro, by the way, thanks for clutching up and not kicking the PAT. That's a homie move. Yeah, I know. I wanted to do that so I could. Oh my god. Oh my god, no way. No way. Oh my god. This is a feed Zeke video, if you can't tell. Yeah, and we're feeding. Okay, it's him, it's him, it's him, it's him. Yo, if you got any of the boys that are going to see this video, you can say whatever you want right now, because everyone, they'll be able to see it.    The bears are going to lose to the Lions tomorrow too. What's up, what it comes?  Trubisky is the greatest bust of all time. I have to agree. All right, let's see, Zeke. I think he's going to be on the right. Oh my god.  That was nasty. I just got my ankle broken like five times in one play. Yeah, bro, but you won the game already though. Oh yeah. So, so I can't, I can't take anything here. I won't go for anything, I can't. I'm doing fake P.A.T. rollout pass. You got to go guard it. Yeah, I'll do a safe man. No, I'll get burnt. Watch this. Good luck, my guy. Imagine the scene if you get swerved by an okay. Shit. I don't care, that's legendary. You're trying to get swerved? Just don't get put on the thumbnail. This is definitely a joint-sync draw to a laugh here. On God, you might get put on the thumbnail because those Deeks on that last juke were pretty nasty. That's the, yeah, where are you guys from? Oh, we're from San Diego.  I'm in your state now. I just moved to Los Angeles. Yeah, we just saw the video. It's so smoky. Yeah. You moved down like a fire out. I know. I kind of took it out. I did not move at the right time. That's okay. It's still fun, dude. I've loved it so far. It's been awesome. And this might be my final Zeke feat if we can take it. Come on, baby. Go for the shift. Oh, my God. Shit, fourth and five. All right, this is the play of the game, bro. Big boys, this is the play of the game right here. You better get ready to clamp this. What do you think I'm running? I don't know. You don't think it's RPOP's own bubble? Yep. I think it's a slant to the left side.  Zeke, get it. Go. No. That's no. Shit. Stop. Stop. Good stop. I'm running the special gear. Oh, you can't tell me, bro. All right. Damn. It's not. Uh-oh. I'm in trouble. Slipscreen, no. You dog. You dog. OK, good stuff. This is for the game. No. No. No. No. Shit. Hey, Gigi, my guy. You're still in. Hey, Gigi. Thanks for hopping on. Yeah, dude. Hey, thanks for keeping the game alive. If you had ended it, I would have joined the party. But I figured after you kept the game. Yeah, I know. I noticed it. And that's why I am. Hey, peace, boys. Gigi, thank you so much. Thank you. Damn, those guys are cool.  Like, not only did he beat me once by not taking the PAT, but then he continued to beat. Like, that's savage. All right, boys. That's going to be it for the Feed Zeke video. This is the slow part of the Madden season. Like, we're just waiting for the Thanksgiving content and the Halloween content and the Christmas kind.  I'm so excited for that. So, yeah, I thought I'd drop this. And I'm really glad I made this video because that was really fun to play with those guys, so. Hey, I'll see you, boys, in the next video. Thanks for watching. So, peace out.


Have you ever met someone and thought to yourself, Man, I could spend the rest of my life with this person? Then, as you get to know them over a few years or maybe it's only been a few months, but the challenges you face start tearing you guys apart. They call these growing pains, but when does the pain stop and why does it feel like you're shrinking instead? Are you wondering where you and your partner went wrong? Here are 10 common relationship mistakes. 1. You take your partner for granted. Psychologist Susan Whitbourne says it's too easy to dismiss the people you're closest to because you expect them to be there no matter what. Although it's great that you trust your partner to stick around on the bad days, it doesn't mean you have to force them to sync with you each time. In the long run, selfish behavior only resorts to resentment. 2. You overstep your partner's boundaries. No one's perfect, not even your soulmate. So when you don't leave room in your relationship to show your flaws, it can easily lead to relationship dissatisfaction. Professor Lee from the University of Toronto, shout out to our Canadians, discovered that people who view relationships as a perfect unity have worse relationships than those who see it as a journey of growing. 3. You play the assumption game. Have you ever been upset because someone jumped to the wrong conclusion? Dating and relationship coach Brooke Bergman said this happens all the time in relationships when we assume we know what our partners need. But sometimes, not knowing can be humbling and asking never hurts. 4. You and your partner avoid conflict. There's a difference between a happy relationship and being happy every day. And more often than not, establishing a healthy, fulfilling relationship includes fighting. 5. You obsess and fight over everything. On the other hand, if you swing too extreme and get mad over the small details, this can also be bad for the relationship. Before reacting, take a step back and consider whether your partner's actions are true dealbreakers. 6. Your happiness depends too much on being with your partner. Asking for help is good when you're being honest about your needs. But if you need to consult your partner before making every decision, you'll forget to be your own person. 7. You constantly question your relationship. Do you think about what problems your relationship will face before they actually occur? Constantly ruminating will only bring you to a dark place when you could be using that time instead to talk things out with your partner. 8. You keep score in your relationship. Psychology professor and relationship expert Marissa Cohen sees this one happen a lot. When you obsess over keeping things equal with your partner, whether it means exchanging gifts or doing favors, you no longer focus on the relationship. Instead, it's about you. 9.  Based on his studies, psychologist John Gottman can predict with up to 94% certainty which couples will be either broken up or still happy and together many years down the road. It all comes down to one factor. The minute you show contempt for your partner, the less likely you already are to work things out. 10. You feel hopeless and give up on the relationship too soon. Social media often shows you the sweet side of relationships. The hand-holding, adorable pecs on the cheek and the anniversary celebrated. But behind the scenes it takes hard work and commitment to keep the flame living. When you give up too soon when the going gets tough, you also miss out on building resilience together. Which of these relationship mistakes do you often run into and what would you like to do differently now? Please share your thoughts with us down below. Don't forget to subscribe to our channel as well. With your help, we can reach more people and provide more support. Thanks for watching!