Looks like I lost my internet connection, so let's try this again. All right, I was differentiated between short-term silence and long-term silence, and I wanted to differentiate between the early stage of dating and a more seasoned relationship. Okay, so short-term silence, as I said a moment ago, might be just a day or two, and why that might happen is someone might be checking in with themselves to see if they really genuinely want to explore or just checking in because they have with themselves, because they have something going on in their lives. Maybe they have an issue at work, maybe an issue with children, maybe issue with a parent, maybe an issue with an ex-spouse. So they're taking a little bit of a break because they need to deal with something, versus someone who's experiencing long-term silence, that's seven to 14 days of non-communication. I think that's a clear sign that this person isn't truly a desirous of a serious relationship with the person they're with. And by the way, silence can happen between men and women alike. Now, the primary reason why silence happened, I said this before, is confusion or doubt, but more importantly, it's oftentimes a lack of intentionality, and what I mean by intentionality, a real serious commitment to wanting a life partner, a life partner. I want you to think about this. When men are in their 20s and 30s and they are choosing that they want to get married and start a family, there's a level of intentionality going on inside of them that says, I want a life partner. The challenge with those of us in midlife, because in midlife, the real challenge is many cases, roughly about 70, 75% of singles over 45 years old are divorced. And if you're divorced, that unraveling of the tapestry of an old life might conflict with the previous programming, what I mean to say, if someone has suffered some emotional trauma going through a divorce, maybe a financial trauma going through a divorce, then they're less likely to want to commit to someone in the future. In fact, I was watching a video by an attorney and said marriage is not only outdated, it is a trap from a financial perspective. And a lot of people feel that way. So without this motivation of having a life partner within their psyche, what's going to happen is people are going to use people, not intentionally, but use people that they really like. And I wanna give you an example of this, because most humans are thirsty for companionship, connection and physical intimacy, companionship, connection and coupling. The missing piece in many of these cases is an actual serious commitment to a relationship. I'm gonna repeat that, a lack of serious commitment to a relationship, a life partner. And I know many of people say, look, I don't want to have a life partner. Well, here's the thing, if you're actively dating with the mindset that you don't want a life partner, then what's gonna mostly happen is you're gonna have many either short-lived relationships or something that might be long-term, but you might have one after another and after another. If you don't have that level of intentionality and men that lack that intentionality in the early stages, oftentimes, I jokingly say these men are winging it, they're winging it, but what happens is any little shift in the relationship causes doubt. Any tiny little shift in the relationship causes doubt and that doubt is a pulling back and what happens when someone pulls back is they might go silent for a period of time because they're experiencing doubt. Now, how do we address this? I think the most important thing to understand in addressing this is actually building deeper intimacy in the relationship, building the deep roots of trust in a relationship. One of the things I talk about in my private coaching with clients is the recognition of the five most important areas to build trust in a relationship. And yet, many people don't know what questions they should be asking to build trust. This is why working with a coach like myself and others prepare you so you're not actually, you're not actively winging it out in the process and as I said in the previous video and by the way, this is a part two because my internet went out, what happened in the previous conversation is that many people that go into it with a lack of intentionality, with an actual understanding of compatibility when they hyper focus on attraction and chemistry as the indicator of relationship success, what happens is over a period of time you can find yourself with the wrong person. And the problem is when you're in the wrong person, many people double down on those relationships spending more and more time with the wrong person. How many of you have been married for 20 years plus? Knowing early on this is the wrong person but you hope that magic fairy dust will change this relationship. In some cases, you might have stayed in it for the children, which is a very noble thing to do. And it's important when two people couple together and make children together, they actually find a way to make it work. And yet these days, think about it, the divorce rate is roughly at 50% of new marriages, first marriages. That means basically, think about this, if I was a young person today and I know getting married, I have a 50-50 chance of it not working out, wouldn't it make sense to learn everything you can to know how to make a relationship work as particularly a marriage? Hold on one second, I wanna grab a book for you, where is that book? Oh, I don't have it, can't be, where's my book? It's called How to Make a Successful Marriage by John Gottman, the secrets, the principles to a successful marriage by John Gottman. Why is it important? As I said in the previous video in the Indian matchmakers, they actually understand the important factors to make a successful relationship, particularly having a strong family unit involved. That's one of the primary things amongst many things. But ultimately, if couples aren't working towards building a strong relationship together, what's gonna happen is they're gonna find themselves in situations of doubt and what happens when you're in doubt, you pull back and when you pull back, you go silent. And while men tend to seem to do this more frequently, certainly women do this as well, we can blame some of this on avoidant love attachment style. And when I say we can blame this, if you're not familiar with the three different love attachment styles, I wanna address that really quickly. If you haven't read the book Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, I highly recommend this to understand anxious, avoidant and secure attachment styles. Why this is so important to understand is that if your love attachment style is one of anxiousness, you oftentimes attract an avoidant personality, which means is avoidance on the surface fear love. They deeply want love in their life, but they fear love. And so in many ways, they either sabotage relationships or they keep a distance with another person. And when you're keeping distance, it's difficult to build the deeper intimacy, which as I said earlier builds the deeper roots of trust, the deeper roots of trust. So understanding this, we can judge people for being human. We can judge people for being human. It's kind of seems to be a human thing to judge people for being human. What I mean to say is we can judge bad behavior like someone going silent, or maybe we can approach this from a place of understanding. Why does this happen? And how can we avoid this in the future? One of the things you do is you don't hyper focus on chemistry in the early states of dating. You actually focus on the three more important pieces is do you share the same values? Are your lifestyles blendable? And more importantly, is this person emotionally mature enough to actually lean into a relationship? That when you operate from a place of understanding compatibility and then ignite it with chemistry, you have a greater chance of success because the reality is is these days, I did a real quickly, I did a post that said the following. Where is my phone? I just wanna read this to everyone. I did a Facebook post that said the following. I said, dating in most cases is merely a long drawn out form of friends with benefits. I'm gonna repeat that. Dating in some cases, merely a long drawn out form of friends with benefits. What I mean to say is there's people dating for years that they're not actually building any deep roots of trust with any understanding of long-term partnership in the process. Now, a lot of times women go silent on this. They're the ones who go silent on asking, what are we doing and why are we doing this? What are we doing and why are we doing this? Ladies, if you're not familiar with my book, where is my book?  Anyway, a journey of personal development, self health and spiritual work either where there's a link below to get a copy of my book. Why I'm talking about this is chapter one, is speak your truth, do it with silence. Many of you are doing it with kindness, excuse me, not silence. Many of you are fearful of speaking your truth. You're the one silent in the dating process because you're afraid to lose a guy the minute you ask, what are we really doing here and why are we doing this? What does commitment look like for you? What does a significant relationship look like for you?  Because if you use her, you're gonna have a consequence, which is me. You know, it's interesting. I've been asked by many of my clients to mediate some of their relationships, actually speak to the men in relationships. And it's interesting, one of my clients just reached out to me, said, Jonathan, what did you do with that guy, with my boyfriend, he's a different guy. Well, I set him straight on what are you really doing here and why are you doing this? Folks, if you're not asking these questions for yourself, you could be going down the path of a relationship where you find out that not only is he temporarily silent, he's long-term silent because, and which means ghosting, which means he wasn't really serious and he wasn't really looking out for your best interest. You know, it saddens me today, how many people are in relationship with men and women who the other person isn't really looking out for the other person's best interest. We're rather a self-centric selfish society today, here in the United States anyway, and it saddens me that that's the case. Isn't that sad? A big percentage of the population who's in the dating marketplace only cares about getting their own needs met. You know, true humanity and true community is being of service. I mean, to be part of a community, to be humane, is to be of service and in a relationship, a healthy relationship is being of service to your partner. It saddens because today's dating marketplace is all about what can I get, what can I get, what can I get? Can I get your companionship? Can I get your connection?  Can I get sex? Without any real care for the other person. Anyway, real trust in a relationship is caring about the other person's needs equal to your own. That's where real trust is built. And by the way, certainly fidelity is an important component of that, but ultimately that is what real trust is in a relationship. Is this sinking in? Is this resonating with you? Please let me know. Listen folks, we did have an internet snafu. This is part two, I gotta jump on. Before I jump into Q&A, I wanna address something. I had a couple of moles removed. So hence why the scar on my forehead and the band-aid on my chin. And hopefully they'll heal in the next week or two. So I think it's time to jump in to answer questions. If you have a question of me, okay. Write the word question and post the question thereafter. Or you can purchase a Super Sticker Super Chat. All the monies from the Super Sticker Super Chat goes to a scholarship fund in the name of my son, Connor Asley. That's a picture of him right there with his brother, Colin. That's my son who passed away four and a half years ago and I started a scholarship fund to donate to organizations like the Hoffman Process and Insight Institute, which are personal development organizations to help improve one's well-being. I mean, if I really get simplistic to it. All right, so it's time for Q&A. If you have a question, write the word question, post the question thereafter, or you can purchase a Super Sticker Super Chat. All right, let's see what we've got here. Oh, here we go, Lisa writes question. When a man chooses a woman based on compatibility and SIM, okay, there's not a question there, but I'm gonna kind of infer from where you're going with this, Lisa, I probably could be off base. You know, there's no doubt that chemistry is an important, attraction in chemistry is an important component of a successful relationship. But I want you to imagine this, and I'm gonna choose a younger person for a moment. You want to have children and they don't ever want to have children and they've already had a vasectomy, okay? You can have all the chemistry in the world, but that's not gonna solve that issue. Those are two incompatible people, okay? Let me give you another example of incompatibility for those of us in midlife. You have great chemistry with one another, but one person lives in New York and the other person lives in Los Angeles and they will never move from where they're at. That's an incompatibility. Now, if they want to eventually get married or live together, now I'm using that crudely because some people go, well, if we love each other enough, we'll change that. Well, sometimes that's true, most of the time it's not. Okay, I'm using that as one example. Another area of incompatibility might be a person, it might be a challenge to be in relationship with someone who works nights and someone who works days. That might make it incredibly difficult. Now, it doesn't mean that isn't impossible to work it out, but that's a level of incompatibility. I mean, here's the thing I've noticed the common thread of successful relationships. They're actively involved with shared activities, hobbies and mutual interests with each other as their root foundation of their relationship or it's spending time with family and friends. Those are the primary roots of a successful relationship. And yet if one person is a skier and the other person is a homebody, I'm not saying it isn't going to work, but they might not find that deeper area of connection of intimacy if they're incompatible with one another and let's not get started with values. One example of values might be someone's political ideology, someone might be extreme on the right and the other person extreme on the left. It's going to make it difficult for them to find a space of being eye to eye or what about religion? Some one person might be an atheist and one person might be a devout Christian that goes to church five days a week might be a challenge of compatibility. Maybe someone is a spender of money and the other is a saver of money. Someone might be frivolous with their money and the other person might be frugal. That could be an issue of compatibility. So it's to recognize that compatibility is an important component ignited with chemistry and not the other way around. We operate from a place of chemistry hoping for compatibility and what happens is we see these long drawn out relationships that go nowhere because they didn't start from a premise of compatibility. Anyway, Lisa, that was me just expanding upon your question. All right, thank you so much. Um, Leif right says, going back to the video it's beginning have a fantastic weekend. Thank you. All right, JM writes question. If a woman has been afraid to ask where a long-term relationship is heading how can she initiate the discussion? Great question. So here's the challenge. I think it starts by being crystal clear excluding the man in the relationship ask yourself what kind of relationship do you want? Do you want a relationship that leads to either marriage or living together? Or do you want a relationship where you live in separate homes until you die? Okay, how much do you think about this for a second? You know, you could be 55 years old. Do you really want to be dating until you're if you live to be 90 and he lives to be 90 do you want to just be in a dating environment? Is that what you want? You want to live in separate homes the entire balance of your life? I think it's important to recognize what it is you want. So that's your standard. Now, many of you know my rhetoric and my standard is I was looking at a minimum in the beginning of the relationship where we spent three or four days a night to week together doing shared activities, hobbies, mutual interests spending time with family and friends traveling together teamwork, building skills both in our personal and our professional life intimacy both physical and emotional intimacy that led to either moving in together or getting married. That was my standard. And there's my beloved right there picture with me. We were in a long distance relationship or long distance dynamic. So in our dynamic rather because we couldn't do that because we weren't living in a proximal area with one another. What we did is we did a number of long visits with one another. First visit was four days. The next visit was 12 days. The next visit was 18 days. We spent a concentrated amount of time together in two months and we made the agreement to moving in together roughly about two to three months in. We didn't have a long drawn out dating process. We chose that is our method. That was our standard when we both agreed to that standard. So coming back to your question get clear on what your standard is. So you know what it is. Now you ask him, what is his standard for a relationship? What is it that he, what does commitment look like for him and what does a relationship look like for him? Now your standard is most likely gonna be this and his standard is gonna be, I don't know. I don't know. How's your day going? Did you have a good day? I hope you had a good day. That's his standard oftentimes. That space in between. You know what that's gonna be called? Drama. Because you're desiring of this and his standard might be minimal. Then you have to really ask yourself, do you wanna invest your time, heart, soul and vagina? Please forgive me for that terminology but you wanna invest your body to a man who doesn't live up to your standard.  You should know what commitment and trust means to you because these days people are getting attached to human beings who have really no desire or maybe they're not capable of a serious relationship. Think of how many women or men get attached to scam artists. Did you know just on a separate note, there are men and women who spend months if not years communicating with people whom they've never met. And then these people give hundreds, the average person gets scammed out of $9,000 and online dating scams. And do you know that's a billion dollar industry online dating scams? These are people that get attached to total strangers whom they've never met. I want you to think about this. You can get attached to a person who's completely incompatible with you or worse they're not capable of a real serious relationship. Think of, by the way, I'm almost so passionate about this. If we have a 50% divorce rate for first time marriages, maybe human beings should find out why this happens and maybe they should be doing everything of their power to avoid this. But you know what happens? And I am so guilty when I'm about to say I got divorced in my 40s and I just went back out in the dating marketplace first off with 20 year old eyes, number one, and no real understanding of how a relationship works, how to build intimacy with someone.  Now I've spent a significant amount of time learning this but the average person is clueless. This is why second and third marriages fail at even greater rates because you're not investing time to learn how a relationship works. If you haven't read the book, Eight Dates by Doctors John and Julie Gottman, this is what my girlfriend and I did those first few dates together. I'm a walking book.  So you don't find yourself months or years in a relationship asking, where's this relationship going? You should know what someone wants early on. You have every right to get that, get some sort of a semblance of what do they want? Well, I just want something casual. We can figure it out the way we go. You know, we can figure it out along the way. I just need to take it slow because I've been burned before.  And by the way, there's no guarantee when you ask these deeper questions but I get, I'll tell you this, you'll shoo away the wrong guy, a lot of the wrong guys, and maybe the cream will rise to the top with that. All right, I hope I answered your question there. J.M., thank you. Akua says, question. My man is a low effort man when I tell him he should have something to think through if he wants to be with me, he doesn't want to leave. What's your take on this? I, okay. I guess coming back to, I literally shared this in the previous comment. Your standards is this. If someone's not meeting your standard in relationship, then you have to ask yourself, why do I want to be in relationship with somebody who's either incapable or non-desirous of meeting my standard? And by the way, the standard I talked about previously, my own standard, seeing each other a couple of times a week, two, three or four days and nights, on average a week is not, I mean, it's not an exaggerated standard. But Jonathan, I'm raising children and I'm busy, busy, busy, busy. Folks, if two people are really busy, then you're really just an occasional friend with benefits under the guise of calling it a relationship, okay?  My goal as a coach is to put the odds in your favor. That's what I try to do. Anyway, and by the way, there's a link below to schedule a discovery call with me. All right, Pamela says, hey, Pamela, question, can a man go silent early on because he's scared? Absolutely. That's the primary reason why men go silent in the early stages. They're scared. There's doubt. That fear is usually because they operate from a place of either lack of intentionality or they were hurt in their past relationships and they don't want to make a mistake again. This is where deeper communication is so critically important. Folks, if you're not familiar with the book, Emotional Intimacy by Robert Masters, I highly recommend checking out this book. So you can understand emotional intimacy. Ladies, many of you think just because you can vomit your feelings, what I mean to say is, say your feelings out loud to your girlfriend, you have very few human beings have a real understanding of the intricacy of intimacy and true intimacy, true intimacy is being with someone you only enjoy their company and like being with them. True intimacy is feeling so safe that you could share maybe your deepest, darkest secret and know you won't be rejected for it. That is true intimacy. Check out the book. I highly recommend it. Patricia, I hope I helped with your question. Yes, this fear oftentimes causes that. Rose, question. Should I redate my ex-boyfriend who I work with? Sure, go for it. I mean, what do you want me to say? No or yes? I mean, I don't know if you should.  All right, let's keep going. Lisa writes, question. My question sent before I was done typing. When men choose compatibility over desire, is that why seemingly happy men leave when most, when they meet someone that causes feelings or lust of desire? So some men, I think if I'm getting what you're straight is the man has chosen a woman that's compatible with them but there isn't a real sense of attraction with that person. You know, the reality is today, especially today because we get to explore our desires in a way that we never did before. You know, sex in the past was very vanilla to some degree in relationship. And today, we're given permission to explore our desires and our passion within attraction. Now women get this benefit because they're no longer as dependent upon men as they were in the past from a financial perspective. So they get to explore their passions and desires more so than in the past. But ultimately, I mean, for healthy, once you think of, if a table had four legs, okay, it's a stronger, sturdier surface. And those four legs are shared values, blendable lifestyles, emotional maturity and chemistry or attraction. That is usually a stronger relationship than a three-legged table that consists of maybe, well, actually that's not fair. So the thing is, the two most, okay, attraction and emotional maturity are probably the two most important legs of the table. Blendable lifestyles can be worked on within a relationship, okay? And shared values can be worked on. But ultimately, attraction is an important piece, feeling a sense of attraction. Now, attraction shifts from dopamine. Okay, oftentimes attraction is dopamine being released in our body. And actually over time, that can shift into serotonin. But humans oftentimes want that dopamine rush and that's why they have date nights and other ways to make that happen for themselves. But ultimately, you need compatibility and attraction for a healthy, happy relationship. All right, thank you so much for that question. I really appreciate it. Cece writes, question, what man actually choose women is not based on attraction? Maybe yes, maybe no. All right, do we have any other questions? Okay, corny cob, hey, we haven't seen you in a while. Question, do you think some jealousy is natural in relationship? How do you know if it's healthy and unhealthy? You know, well, unhealthy jealousy is based on insecurity within the person. Now, some people, okay, so I want you to imagine this. The man is jealous, excuse me, is insecure.  Well, both people are being unhealthy in that moment, okay? Now, if a woman is simply talking to the clerk at the Starbucks and a man gets jealous over that, he's got issues, okay? I do not subscribe to the idea that there is such a thing as healthy jealousy. I think what's more important in a relationship is not jealousy. Some people talk about mystery and healthy jealousy ignites the relationship. I'm a believer that the most important ingredient of a relationship, and this should be a daily vitamin for the relationship is attention, affection, appreciation and acceptance, attention, affection, appreciation and acceptance. And more importantly, appreciation. I believe that gratitude is sorely lacking in relationship because they take for granted for one another.   And that's my two cents on that. By the way, is that sinking in with you resonating? Please let me know. All right, thank you for that question, corny cob. You know, folks, I think this will be a great place to wrap up today. We had a little snafu in the beginning, so we have a part two of this title. My hope is you found value in the content I shared. I hope you recognize that I'm here to espouse a notion that conscious and intentional dating leads to a greater chance of success because the ambivalent, entitled, ignorant way human beings are entering the dating process is causing probably the number one emotional health issue human beings face today, and that is I'm not good enough, I'm not lovable, and I'm not likeable. And dating can trigger this like nobody's business. I gotta tell you the short lived experiences of people that have one short lived experience with someone and another short lived experience with someone, another short lived wears on our emotional wellbeing. So my channel is here to be your big brother, to be the family member here that looking out for your best interests, because ultimately you're gonna have to look out for your own best interest. And the ignorant, ambivalent, naive, disposable way we date today is serving nobody. So my hope is you've gotten value from this conversation. All right, I think this will be a great place to wrap up this video. First, if you like the content, please hit that like button. Please share this video. Please subscribe to my channel. Check out the links in the description below to schedule a discovery call with me, to join my group called Midlife Love Mastery, to get my books that I recommend, or follow me on Instagram. And I'm gonna wrap up this video as I always do. First off, giving myself a big, gigantic Jonathan Barrett of self love. I'm gonna reach into the camera and give you a hug of love if that's okay. I'm gonna ask you to turn to someone, a pet. Teddy Bear pillow and give Iter them a hug of love because hugs are a great source of love. And let's face it, we could all use more love in our lives. I wanna thank Shamer and Lisa and Rina and Joe and Christina and Courtney Cobb, and Martha and Kathy and Allie and CeCe. Everyone, thank you so much today. Have a fab day, bye now.


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I'm just going by G Willy There's a Sam Howell there Can you pick it? And this is jumbo Jersey to 240 plates and patches Jalani Woods that is AFC South Jalani Woods Got a Romeo Dobbs number to 99 playoff momentum rookie Hutchinson Prism Black and Breeze Hall Again guys tomorrow. 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Mr. Golden Corral there to 199 for the NFC South On the essentials auto got a silver Damien Pierce AFC South Breeze Hall views Jones Tyquan Thornton Johan Dotson we got a silver AFC East Breeze Hall I'm on sauce Gardner Alec Pierce already got box five Shawn Thornton out the fortnight logo or the the Batman the batsman Trying to get people get up get on Tyquan Thornton John Michi We got another printing plate. This one is out of mosaic storm chasers Alvin Kamara That'll be one of one for the NFC South there yellow plate out of mosaic nice Kamara there And we got Josh Allen on the green prison black this one's number to 49 I said their AFC East and AFC East right behind it Garrett Wilson another prism black. There's a kidney picket And for the bucks we have that's a Joe burrow There's a 240 plates and patches jersey or shot white. I pulled it in this burrow with stuff That's a 199 read from Chronicles Joe burrow Drake London and Jalen Hertz James Cook Sam Williams. This is Sam Howell nice one there number to 49 second Great Iron Kings auto Nice if they're AFC East on the howl got a silver party out of Dynagon Malik Willis and Garrett Wilson. Yeah, I wonder how he's gonna do this here And he didn't they grab a did they grab a running back the Saints can't remember There's a Christian Watson Brock Purdy there on the note when this is esteem, maybe This is just like panini silver score Ken Walker. Like I said, that's what the P is. Yeah, gotcha Trying to think of all the P's I could possibly be prestige pristine Here's just a strict like the knee. Yeah, there's a lava NFC South Ritter NFC South Maddie Corral NFC South and two one 49 AFC South Malik Willis Got a Drake London from score and a Malik Willis Johan Dotson Johan Dotson. We've got Otto. This is LeVon Kirkland on the invincible auto to 50 AFC North Quite the neck roll going on that's who just jacked to LeVon Kirkland their number to 50 Got a London number to 99 AFC South Rodriguez and Hutch Box six Appreciate everybody grabbing some orders. Um, like I said, we got release day tomorrow double release day And we'll also have some more Personals tomorrow starting at five. We are full for tonight. We'll get a couple going after this case here But we're full on the personals tonight Bailey zappy rookie We've got so 149 Desmond Ritter photogenic Bailey zappy score of Jabbo I don't think so smack. I don't think so. I think he's pretty solid You'd be a second straighter. Yeah, they were saying from a like reports out of campus that Willis or not Willis Um, Levis isn't doing really that well. So Willis might actually have a chance to Stay on there's a auto there. That is George Pickens on the orange prism black auto Nice one there 20 out of 49. I said AFC North on the pickings Got a silver Petrie Maddie Corral from flux and a clear vision Pierce I mean, obviously a lot of teams don't use like the the running gun style. That's kind of more Willis is Desmond Ritter there I think he finds the right team now. I think they could definitely get something going. He's pretty solid Saw Skardner there rookie His prices have dipped real hard too. So if you guys are looking for some someone to invest in Wouldn't be a terrible decision. I don't think there's a dent there on that crystal Lave.  Yeah. Yeah, it's pretty close Maybe like six years ago That's a 199 Herbert on the Chronicles Jersey. Yeah, sorry about that on how Hopefully they'll replace that one to 199 got Trayvon Walker momentum AFC South and Crystal Lave clear vision see some more rookies and low numbers here guys And a great break so far God cave on tibido this one is some 99 for the NFC East sauce Gardner AFC East and CMAC What do you think smack? What's your thoughts on Willis? There's a Kenny Pickett Chronicles base There's a Christian Watson And this is sauce Gardner. That is nine out of ten nice one there on the goal There are the platinum there sauce Gardner nine and ten on the rookie Well mag this one for you AFC East great hit there to ten very nice sauce AFC East right behind it. We got a blue rookie of Breeze Hall to 25 great pack for the AFC East Ken Walker and a crystal Lave momentum Already guys box seven. I Think a Lave was my favorite rookie receiver out of last year He's really good Out of a wide receiver you Ohio State Ohio State Wide receiver you It's getting out of hand now Joe burrow we've got Traylon Burks on the blue that one son 99 AFC South got a Sam Howell score and Justin Fields I think Marvin Harrison is probably the best out of any of them so far, but he's still got another year He could easily have been in the draft Still got another year though. There's a Desmond Ritter Brock Purdy base Sauce and a Kobe Dean And we got another silhouette. It's nice one here out of crown Royale. This is the 25 Isaiah Spiller Nice three color patch. They're just some of my favorites out of chronicles these silhouettes from crown Royale We've got an orange AFC East that one's Breeze Hall on the Dynagon. That's the 75 Carlot this and a Ritter momentum Yeah, that's true Randy. That's true. It is. I mean they got two quarterbacks in front of them I did hear a little bit about Him playing a little better than Levis, but I mean Levis still has to get used to it. So He's still got some time. There's a sauce rookie base Got Crystal Lave there on the luminance Silver Malik Willis Dynagon and Sam Howell on the prism black rookie Crystal Lave clear vision. There is Sam Howell on the canvas Can you pick it on the canvas and redemption? We've got score rookie Rookie signatures end zone Jima Williams. I'll be NFC north on the Jameson Williams Got a silver from score Brian Robinson, can you pick it? C-MAC Drake London Hutchinson base. There's a Ritter from luminance Jalen Hurts, that's the 25 nice one there chronicles black for the birds Drake London and Crystal Lave momentum Willis' biggest problem is gonna stop feeling like he has to run Does it feel like he was looking downfield a lot when he was doing pre-season games? Yeah, that's true I think that's gonna be his biggest fault. Yeah, he did kind of look like he was a Just like scared almost out there running Got a Christian Watson Like he didn't trust his arm or something. Crystal Lave to 199 chronicles jersey NFC south Out to 199 Justin Jefferson NFC north Drake London and O'Java Ready guys box eight Ready guys like I said, we got one football tomorrow. Oh Yeah, sorry, what'd I say MLG? I'm sorry about that. Yeah, I thought you said Jameson Williams NFC north for sure.  Obviously. I'm not trying to call him out wrong. There's a Sam Howe NFC east We've got Jersey for the NFC west of 199 photogenic of George Kittle Nice one there. We've got clear vision to 99 Malik Willis for the AFC south Crystal Lave on the Dynagon and a Drake London. No, Randy, you're right Like I'm just I'm just saying from what I've seen like in last year's free season Like the chances he got I just didn't see enough. Yeah, but yeah, you're right. He hasn't got I agree like Jerry's still out on him For sure. I mean, yeah, he hasn't got a lot of chances to be fair There's a Christian Watson got a Drake London Hutchinson and red number two 149 is Sam Williams cowboys NFC east got Kenny Pickett on the score rookie and DK Macf Yeah, it's kind of like I always say it's kind of like doing a doing like flashcards doing the divisions cases Just trying to remember everything when I cut when they come up to it. Here we go We got triple auto there or triple relic auto to 25 Maddie Corral got the golden Corral for you on hell That one's the 25 on the momentum RPA. Nice one there. That is 18 at 25 Maddie And gold is to a numbered 8 out of 10 nice one there AFC east It's a mere white is a mere white We've got another silver that one's Desmond Ritter NFC south got a Malik Willis on the AFC South Prism black and Christian Watson momentum I Also, I don't think the Titans current playbook like fit his style. Yeah, they were like the Tannehill obviously Yeah, it's tractor-seed. Oh man. So it's a little ball. Yeah, so it's a little bit I think they designed some for him. He'd be better. We'll see silver wandale flux Got a rookie there at a legacy that is Bailey zappy and Desmond Ritter clear vision I feel like this year that on hell I feel like there's gonna be some plays this year that will like they'll put Willis in to specifically for him Like I feel like they'll start rotating him in a little bit more Got read to 199 to Sean Watson Got a Garrett Wilson a Dynagon rookie and Patty cuz Tannehill's got like what one more year. Is this his last year on contracts? I'm not sure I'm not sure what they're planning to do with Tannehill I don't have him as like a mentor. I guess. I don't know. I don't know if they're planning on starting him I think the plan would be to start Willis, right? If you dropped him in the first round Or do I see even first round or use the second? Yeah, he was like this first or second picking the second Gotcha Yeah, Tannehill is definitely serviceable like photogenic can you pick it? No problem with Tannehill He doesn't have a way now. Yeah, there's another kitty pick it to 149 nice one there. Um, AFC North Garrett Wilson rookie score and a Brock Purdy Let me check and see if we have any listed Eric I'm not sure that we have that much left in stock Up to three and two Yeah, I don't think we have any listed for right now, so I'm not a hundred percent sure Eric If we're gonna be doing any more of the three and two breaks But there's not any listed at the moment There's a photogenic sauce with the cheese head another sauce base There's a party base rookie and This is Otto to 15 Kirk Cousins on the Paramount auto That one is in a CNorth you like that there it is and photogenic on the ASC East remandry Stevens into 25 Yeah, I like it too Eric. I like it too. I like the encased autos and all that Get some nice prospects in there as well Drew Jones and all the Le de la Cruz some fun people in there. There's a chronicles of Lave. I Just don't know that we ordered anymore. I know we don't have too much left Might just be personal some here on there's a Christian Watson And redemption this one is prism black signatures orange Garrett Wilson. There we go. AFC East Very nice one there on the prisms black orange. I Think that one's a 50, but I'll check here in a minute. There's a score silver breeze Hall Drake London rookie clear vision Damian Pierce I just read the back of the box here, but probably It's orange prism black Or is to 75 75 on that gotcha Desmond Ritter Nice one there aFC East Garrett Wilson, we've got red to 199 Dak for the NFC East. Yeah, you mean she will he G Willy. You're right. You're right. You're right I'll keep it going smack. I'll keep it going There's a pretty photogenic And silver nice one here is George Pickens on the silver prism black rookie AFC North and a Jameson Williams NFC north on the prism black Dotson we got a Sam Howell This is Bailey zappy number to 240 on the timeless treasures Jersey there AFC East Got a clear vision of 199 Alec Pierce AFC South Got a JMO base and a Michi Box 10 Hutchinson got a breeze Hall This is Jameson Williams on the jersey to 199 photogenic Jersey NFC North Got to 199 playoff Skymore. That's with the AFC West Malik Willis score and Traylon Berks Also, I think Berks is really good. He got her like midway through the season. That should help as well Yeah, Berks will help me not necessarily that will this will be a throwing to him But it'll help the Titans overall. Yeah, there's a Garrett Wilson G. Willie photogenic There's a kitty picket and a sauce This is Bailey zappy number to 99 there AFC East there's a Brock Purdy acetate clear vision NFC West. It's like a prism black green coming There's a crystal lava photogenic Drake London Drake London And auto this one is out of essentials auto to 99 AFC South Alec Pierce Nice auto there and breeze Hall is our rookie green from prism black nice one there to 49 Great hit there for the AFC East Got a Brock Purdy base prism black as well. Gee Willie Traylon Berks. We've got a Desmond Ritter nice one there on these silver Silver prism black rookie NFC South quay Walker and Malik Willis There's a party Chronicle space To 75 nice one here. We got score rookie auto Ken Walker. That one's going to the NFC West on the score auto Damian Pierce AFC South Christian Watson and Hutch clear vision some of these photogenics man. He's Keep thinking they're upside down How would you think that was up there's a Brock Purdy luminance? I don't know You're dying for a dive Brock Purdy we've got blue to 99 that one's a Christian Kirk photogenic Desmond Ritter score and John Taylor Already guys box 11 to left. Good luck. Good luck guys. This is full case number five random divisions of Chronicles I'm not sure they might have had one back in the day. I know they make diamond Kings They make court Kings They just I mean combined a couple in here You mean like outside of being a part of Don Russ to 99 we got Garrett Wilson on the luminance He's good iron Kings are insert Don Russ. Mmm. There's a Bailey zappy there clear vision Yeah, I like it too smack nice canvas cards See a little bit of like a My greatiness to him on the canvas Trayvon Walker Trayvon Walker, this is going to be Derek Stingley their number to 49 a FC West on the purple and Mahomes on the blue Prism black nice one there chiefs that is five out of 25 nice ma homie Go a FC West got no lava a prison block as well And Justin Fields. Okay. Yeah, so you mean a full circle. I mean that would be that'd be pretty cool I mean good iron Kings. They do a good job of it Definitely, I think it'd be cool. There's a Bailey zappy AFC East Christian Watson, we got a silver breeze hall also a FC East Jordan Davis and Ritter momentum Sauce Gardner We've got Seyquan on the Jersey there to 199 for the NFC East To 199 a of C's we got playoff momentum G. Willy Kitty pick it on the flux and crystal lava momentum Another redemption I believe it is breeze hall on the essential autographs that one's going to the AFC East AFC East breeze Nice one. They're essential autos We've got a silver rookie prison black of Trayvon Walker AFC South Crystal Lave There's a Brian Robinson number to 99 rookie there for the NFC East Crystal Lave score and CMAC Righty guys box 12. Good luck. Good luck. This is full case number five get some personals going next guys We are full on those personals if you guys did get an order in Probably before around five o'clock today. Honestly before we started We'll get that personal done If not, we'll go tomorrow starting at five if you guys want to get a personal order now It would rip tomorrow starting at five Be pretty close to the front of the list If you did order now Tom Brady Brian Robinson This is George Pickens number to 199 on the photogenic jersey AFC north Ooh, nice one here number to 10 on the acetate got a clear vision jahan dotson That is a sick-looking card there on the speckles That one is five of 10 on the dotson nice one there NFC East That's a sweet one Wondell Robinson g willy I really wish luminance would Go to chrome, but I don't think they'd be able to with like the full art. I think that probably at the bottom Yeah, yeah, probably would ruin it. So ridder photogenic kind of has a down downside to it Romeo doves. We got Wondell Robinson to 149 NFC East I think Desmond Ritter prison black rookie and Romeo doves Couple packs left. Good luck guys. You guys said we'll get personals going next This is auto number to 25 out of playoff momentum. That is uh cardinals tray mcbryde NFC west on the auto Fields to 199 Damian pierce and rasha white I cannot wait till luminance comes up this year The design looks so much better than 2022 My opinion. So I haven't seen it. I'm excited.  Good luck. Good luck. We'll get personals next G willy this is essentials auto to 199 johann dotson. Let's go into the nfc east Sam house silver rookie nfc east Sam house rookie nfc east A bunch of uh combos So nice. They put it twice. That's right. That's right crystal lave God photo jetta 49 tyreek hill the cheetah carlottis and a jalen beatry Alrighty guys that will do it for our break here. We'll do a hit recap of the autos here Had johann dotson to 199 Tray mcbride to 25 priest hall derrick stingley had ken walker Alec pierce to 99 We had prison blacks orange of garret wilson to 75 afc east Kirk cousins to 15 on the auto nfc north Maddie corral to 25 triple relic rpa We had isaias spillard to 25 afc west george pickens that one is number to 49 on the prison black rookie auto We had levon kirkland to 50 invincible auto to 49 sam howell nfc east matt corral to 199 nfc south to 199 sauce We had the 25 nico collins afc south. We had desmond ridder on the silver prison black rookie We had dante halton 100 for the chief's afc west 299 johann dotson uh rookie auto to 75 sam howell To 199 sam williams and our mags. We had number to 10 sauce gardener 9 out of 10 and we had garret wilson on the 8 of 25 prison black rookie Nice hits. They're all around guys. Appreciate y'all uh getting in the breaks tonight. Got personals coming up next


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Yes, that's trouble enough for any man a point he's now impressing upon his girlfriend, Mildred Anderson. Gee, I get so darned a scourge, Mildred. Oh, now you mustn't, Dennis. You've still got me. And I'd be proud to be your wife no matter what you were earning. No, Mildred. I can't even afford to buy a wife the necessities of life much less the little things other women have like shoes. Well, it won't always be this way. I know it won't. Doesn't Mr. Willoughby hold out any hope for the future? Oh, sure. He says I could make more money right now if I'd help him swing the deal, but I don't know Mr. Harding. Wait a minute. What deal? Who's Mr. Harding? Oh, he's the president of the Seattle, San Antonio, Montreal Railroad. Yeah, and Mr. Willoughby wants me to think of a way he can sell him his property on Maple Avenue. Mr. Willoughby wants you to think of a way? Yeah, he says he's tried everything a normal mind could conceive. But why should Mr. Willoughby think Mr. Harding could use his property? Well, it's got something to do with a new right of way. Oh, I see. Yeah, I didn't even know what a right of way was until Mr. Willoughby explained it. I thought it was something done unless you're crazy you give to another driver if she's a woman. It must be a new right of way for Mr. Harding's railroad. And Mr. Willoughby's promised to erase if you can help him, huh? Yeah, he's pretty safe, don't you think? Ah, I do not. Dennis, you're going to sell that property to Mr. Harding for him. Me? Why not? All you have to do is go to this Mr. Harding and talk to him personally. Oh, no, Mildred, really, I... What's the matter with you? Dennis, you have absolutely no confidence in yourself. Well, who's got a better right? Dennis, he isn't an ogre. He's just a man like yourself. All you have... Oh, good morning, Mr. Anderson. Good morning, my boy. Morning, Mildred. Hi, Daddy. Did Mother make her train all right? Yes. The chief pulled out with the chief at 747. Well, that's good. Daddy, you've got to help me. I'm having trouble with Dennis. Trouble? Yes, can you imagine a person being afraid to talk up to another person? Why, no. Not since 747.  But, gee, this Mr. Harding is such a big shot. Well, what if he is, my boy?  Who, me? Sure. Now, I'll show you what I mean.  Okay. All right, now, here we go. Mr. Harding, I want to see you. Just who are you, young man? My name is Dennis Day. Drop dead. No, Dennis, he wouldn't say that. He'd certainly be polite. Okay, please drop dead. Oh, he wouldn't say anything of the kind. He'd say, come in and talk, young man. I like your spunk. To me? Well, certainly. Boy, are we pretending. I'm sure, Daddy's right, Dennis. If you'll just try to be a little aggressive. Absolutely. Firmness, that's what you need. Now, say it like I do. Mr. Harding, I want to talk to you. Mr. Harding, I want to talk to you. Not my voice, Dennis. My tone. Now, say it again, and for heaven's sake, try to be aggressive. It's no use, Mr. Anderson. I've got too much you in me. Dennis Day, you've got to go through with this. You've been a tame little kitten long enough.  A tiger? A tiger. If you want to be convinced it's the only way, go down to the store and try it out on Mr. Willoughby. On Mr. Willoughby? See, that's not a bad idea, my boy. All you have to remember is not to let your courage run away from you. Oh, it won't. The rest of me will be going much too fast for that.    Well, here goes. Mr. Willoughby? Yes, Dennis? Ah! That was my new personality coming out, Willoughby. Well, put it back in and start mopping the floor. Mopping the floor? Why, that makes me laugh.  Huh? You heard me. I'm not a tame little kitten anymore. I'm a great, big, hungry tiger. From now on, I'm going to act like a tiger. Dennis, don't you like your job here anymore? Oh, yes, sir. Well? Well, I just wanted you to know that while I'm mopping up, you might hear a little snarling. It's more like it. What came over you, anyway? Oh, I was just trying to develop a new personality for your sake, Mr. Willoughby. I'm going to take over the harding deal for you. You're going to take it over? It sounded less fantastic when I said it. Sound fantastic if anyone said it? But it isn't. I can be a firm, aggressive salesman when I want to be, Mr. Willoughby. I'll just march up to him and say, Mr. Harding, you need Mr. Willoughby's property because... Well, because... Say, maybe he doesn't need it. Now, look, Dennis, I asked you to think of an idea, but that's all. I don't want you messing up this deal.  Stay away from him. But, Mr. Willoughby... That's final, Dennis. You're a fine, fine floor mopper. And you carry out an excellent pale of garbage. That's where your talents end. Yes, sir. Which reminds me, when you're through with the floor and the garbage, I have an earned view. Do you know where the express office is? No, sir. Good. Drive over there in my car and pick up two cases of K-Lag water for the store. Mr. Willoughby, if I don't know where it is... It'll take you that much longer to get back. Goodbye, my boy. And so our young hero sadly busied himself with the floor and the garbage. And when these menial tasks were concluded, he was off in Mr. Willoughby's car to do his errand. And as our hero drove toward the express office, the bitterness within him that not wanted feeling grew stronger with each block. The depressing knowledge that he... Hey, wait a minute. Is there something wrong with that front wheel? Well, yes, it's loose. Dennis, watch it. It's coming off. Dennis, look out! It's all right, Dennis. I'm here with you. You've been in a smash-up. Oh, my gosh, yeah. I remember now. Gee, I'm in a hospital, huh?  Mildred, did they... Did they pick up all of me? Of course, silly. You're all right. The doctor says you can leave in an hour or two. You were just unconscious from shock. Mildred, what about Mr. Willoughby's car? Is it... is it... Yes, it's a complete wreck, Dennis. I just phoned him. He should be regaining consciousness pretty soon, too. Oh, you should have heard him, Dennis. He says he'll be waiting for you the minute you get out of the hospital. Oh, Mildred, stand on that chair. On the chair? What for? You're going to kick me right in the appendix. Oh, don't be silly. Dennis, there's got to be a way out of this. Mildred, this time I'm afraid I'm finished. That car will cost $500. You're going to kick me right in the appendix. I'm finished. That car will cost $500 to replace. And if I know Mr. Willoughby, it's either that or jail. Perhaps I can help you, young man. Huh? Who said that? It's the man in the next bed. The one completely wrapped in bandages. Yes, your conversation just now gave me an idea. Oh, I see. Would you mind pointing your face in my direction, sir, so I can tell which end of you is talking to me? Permit me to introduce myself. My name is William Harding. William Harding? Not THE William Harding, but the one man Antonio in Montreal Railroad. That's right. Good golly. The one man in the whole world I wanted most to see.  Harding, did you really say you might be able to help Dennis out of the trouble he's in? I did. I'll gladly give this boy a check for $600 right now. Enough to pay for that car and still have something left over. Providing, he agrees to impersonate me for a period of 10 days. Impersonate you? I beg pardon, Mr. Harding, but are those bandages covering a big hole in your head? You see, I'm having a little, uh, domestic difficulty with my wife. There's another, well, another, uh... Woman, if you'll pardon the expression.  Well, my doctor has told me I must have 10 days of rest and quiet. Or he won't answer for the consequences. So I can't have these two descending on me here at the hospital. However, if it's reported that I'm not here, but back at my office... But, Mr. Harding, Dennis probably doesn't look anything like you. My dear, I've been in a bad accident. This boy is about my build and a good makeup man could do wonders with a gray wig, dark glasses, a little paraffin here and there, and a bandage or two. Nobody expects me to look exactly as I did. Oh, golly, Dennis, this may be the answer to our prayers. I'll bet you can look like Mr. Harding.  I don't want to look like someone else. But it's only for 10 days. And besides, Mr. Harding may have been a very handsome man. What do I care about a different type of good looks? I'm happy as I am. No, Mildred, I won't do it. I won't, I won't, I won't. Dennis, think. We'll be waiting outside of this hospital for you. You mean? Yes, Mr. Willoughby. Okay, send for my face. Good boy. This is as far as I can go with you, Dennis. Here's Mr. Harding's offices. Gosh, I hope this works. Do I really look like him? Your makeup's perfect. Only remember to stay out of warm places. You know what the man said about your nose melting? Believe me. I'll never stick it into a hotter corner than this. Well, goodbye, Mildred. Goodbye, dear, and lots of luck. Oh, I'm Mr. Harding. Uh, hello. Oh, I can't tell you how wonderful it is to see you back with us, Mr. Harding. Thanks. It's nice to be back, Ms. Jones. Williams. Oh, yes, sorry.  Nine years. Oh, of course. Sorry, not quite myself yet. Well, I guess I'd better step into my private office here. Oh, not that door, Mr. Harding. Huh? Oh, yes. For a minute, I didn't see the sign. It's your office right here. Are you sure you're all right, Mr. Harding? You seem so different somehow. Well, naturally. Terrible accident, you know. Whole locomotive blew up. Yes, I know. But your voice, it's changed completely. Oh, didn't they tell you? Smoke stack hit me right in the throat. Well, I better get down to business, Ms. Williams. Yes, sir. Now, first, there's the case of Ms. Shirley Dolan. I'm in alone, Ms. Williams. But Ms. Dolan's case is very important. We fired her, and she claims we had no right to. She says she's a member of the Railroad Brotherhood. The Railroad Brotherhood? Oh, yes.  Certainly not. Well, that's all, Ms. Williams. Oh, there's one other thing that's really important, Mr. Harding. It's the track foreman on section 12. He's worried about the grades there. What would you advise, sir? I don't care. Give them all A's and B's. Mr. Harding, really, you should go home. Hello? Boo? Joyce at Grove City? Have I decided to build a roundhouse there? Don't be silly. If I build it, it'll be a square one like everybody else's. Williams, you may go now. Yes, sir. Thank you, sir. And please, sir, do take it easy. Well, Dennis, my boy, so far so good.  This may be my... Ms. Williams, I told you... Oh, you're not Ms. Williams. Billy! Oh, darling! Dearest darling! I take it we've met before, ma'am? Don't mock me that way. Aren't you even going to kiss me? Take it easy, kid. My wife may drop in any minute. Your wife? But I'm your wife. Oh. How do? Why must you toy with me like this? If you don't care about me, at least think of Bernice. Bernice? Our daughter. Oh, that Bernice. She cried into her pillow all last night. And do you know why, Billy? She couldn't find her handkerchief. Oh, Billy, what's wrong? You speak so strangely. You look at me so strangely. I'm doing the best I can, dear. This is no cinch. Billy, what did that accident do to you? I never heard you talk like this. Pardon me, Mr. Hart... Oh, am I interrupting? Yeah, it's a pleasure. What's up, Ms. Williams? Well, is that Mr. Willoughby, sir? He's here again about some property. He's been here every day this week. Shall I have him leave? Oh, no, no, no. Tell him I'll meet him back at his store in 15 minutes. Well, too bad, dear.  Oh, I thought maybe... Well, today's the 24th, you know. The day I always buy flowers for my mother. Yeah, too bad I can't go with you. Why don't you buy her a nice gardenia corsage? A corsage? Sure, the old girl will get a big kick out of it. Oh, you beast. You know perfectly well that mother passed away in 1922. Gosh, well, in that case, I guess you wouldn't get a kick out of anything. Yes, sir? Mr. Willoughby, I'm William Harding. Mr. Harding, you did come. Oh, you don't know how happy this makes me, sir. Thanks, Willoughby.  No, thank you. I don't smoke, drink, or enjoy myself. I'm here to discuss your property. Oh, yes, sir, my property. Well, I don't know, Willoughby. Oh, please, Mr. Harding, please, sir, consider, after all, I'm practically an employee of yours. You're an employee of mine? Well, everybody knows that you're the biggest stockholder in the Weaverville National Bank, and of course the bank owns this building, so you might say I'm your employee. By Jove, I believe we will say that. Mr. Harding, what is this look of wild elation on your face? Willoughby, this place is filthy. Get to work scrubbing that floor. Huh? You heard me hop. Oh, see, here. About your property? Yes, sir, I'll get a scrubbing brush right away. I want a real job, Willoughby. You'll use a toothbrush. A toothbrush? The property, Willoughby. Whatever you say, sir. I understand you have a boy working here who usually takes care of the floor and the garbage. I understand also that he's very badly underpaid. Mr. Harding. Willoughby, I'll consider your property on only one condition. This boy must have a good raise.  Yes, sir. How much should I pay him? $12 a week. Yes, sir. And I want that in writing, Willoughby. I won't even talk about the property until I get it. Yes, sir. If you say so, I'll take care of it right this minute, Mr. Harding. Boy, this is really living. I should have thought of a new face long ago. I could have had all the... Belly, sherry, mocti, sho-sho, my beautiful, lovely Belly. Huh? Oh, Belly, what is the matter with you? It is me, your little Madeline.  But of course I'm French. What did that accident do to your head? Don't you remember how we used to talk in French for hours? Oh, sure, man, Appetite. Oh, you darling, you don't need to be so insolent with me because you haven't even come to see me while I was in the hospital, have you? Yes, ma'am.  No, please, this face would never stand up under it. But it is your... Oh, oh, pardon me, Mr. Harding, I didn't know you had a visitor. Oh, that's all right, Mr. Willoughby. This is Miss...Miss, uh... A girl I'm pretty sure I go steady with. I beg your pardon. So, she did follow you here. I've caught you two together at last, eh? What right have you to object? Billy is mine.  I'm his wife. Oh, but it is me, love. What? Perhaps I'd better leave. Oh, no, please, stay and keep me company. Billy, you come here. Don't you listen to her, Billy, if you're mine. Yes, he spent every day for the last five years with me. Is that not true, Billy? Uh, if you say so. Oh, yes. Well, he spent every night of the last ten years in our home. Isn't that true, Billy? You bet. Gee, I wonder how I ever got time to run the railroad. I'm his wife and I'm taking him. He belongs to me. And I say he belongs to me. Oh, is that so? Come here, Billy. You take your hands off him. Come here, Billy. Girls, please, you're getting awfully grabby. He's mine, I said. Now, let go of him. I will not. I'll show you. Hey, wait, don't hit her. No, you're taking her part, eh? Willoughby, believe me, I can... Force me to give you a raise, huh? Wanted me to scrub my own... I suppose you also wanted me to carry out the garbage. Oh, no, sir. I'll go right in and get to work on it. Yes, do that. Only we're not carrying it out in pales anymore. We have a new system. Here. Oh, my gosh, a pair of tweezers. Dennis Day will be back in just a moment with a song. 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Thank you for staying with us. You're still watching the breakfast and plus TV Africa and by now time for our second hot topic Yesterday the vice-president of Nigeria Kashim Shetima unveiled the light of Nigerian project in the South East Well, during this to just talk about this is engineer Israel S. O'Gene Abraham is a president chartered Institute of Power Engineers of Nigeria. Good morning, sir. Thank you for joining us Okay, so we're talking about project light up Nigeria and this is happening in the South East region So the vice-president talked about it yesterday and it's supposed to you know Just have like clusters of lighting up certain region. What do you think about this? Okay, just explain to us really what this means Last Sunday yesterday the ABAP project was also commissioned and it was The impact is to ensure that the ABAP corp is safe, market and everything around the ABAP and the Metro Police and orders are taken care of from that power plant. The vision is that virtually every aspect of that area is fully lighting up Small as it may look but we are taking all sections out. If you have similar situations where you can take up a particular Metro Police maybe take a bullet for this house or maybe one locality and you can actually power it completely. It means the economic activities in that area will get to optimal. You know, virtually everything you want to do but production, manufacturing, there are commercial activities. We will all spring up because people who are looking towards how to buy fuel to power the generators you know that I look towards how to maybe look forward to go forward to be trying to have alternative way to pass push equipment or such services they want to provide. Even banking and all the rest, network and telecoms, they will all come up because you will not have such failures as you normally have. You got the old BGS that is the antennas that are supposed to carry out the power or telecom lines. We all on a full blast of power. So power is central to every development. So we do not have development at all. The first measure to use in measuring that a place is developed or developing or coming up to standard is that there is power. I mean that is present economic metrics to show that someone is developing or being developed. So does this mean that in this South East region there's going to be like 24 hours of power for the foreseeable future because we've seen cases whereby they say oh you know we're working with the power but then you barely see the power. So is this going to be maybe something that would happen for just a month or two maybe like a photo op and then subsequently there's no power or then it is reduced significantly. Hello sir. No, no I don't think so. I think the above project for instance, I'm not seeing the above project as a kind of example of what we're trying to discuss here. The other is large but above is just a a metropolis or a kind of hub of its own with a lot of manufacturing going on from shoe manufacturing to engine machines and all the rest going on in that area. Maybe locally and being done kind of not optimally because of lack of power and lack of other infrastructures. So but like I said power is the first measure that you used to first measure a particular development in indices in an environment and I would want to say that if you have such kind of project replicated in different other locations maybe Enubu for instance, Oumuahia and so on that's how you cannot have them in clusters to come up to have essentially you can say there's no power or no failure in supply. For the above power project, I don't believe there will be a kind of situation where you are going to have power going out and a reversal but that's not going to happen. The reason is because the projects designed, those who designed the project already have all the facilities, have their own gas line to power the plant which means they will power and they also went ahead to have the distribution lines themselves. So they are doing both sides both from generation down to marketing. It's a holistic arrangement from them which I would say is totally novel. It's novel in the sense that from where they generate down to where they distribute to the consumers they are in charge of it all. So they can actually take care of all of that. They don't know anybody acutely whether or not delivering power or not secure power or whatever. All that will be out of it from this example we are just giving right now from the above power project. So if we have such replicated in other areas I think it will actually change narrative around the country because you are sure of wanting that as you generate, you know how to lose their money, not distribute it.  I mean I would say they are in control of that vanishing within that hope and state. They know when and how they have the power to take power. So they know that. I think that that is the answer from the, that's not a challenge because they are a private entity. The customers also have the obligation for them to pay back or at least fund the activities. So I think it's a new solution to come right with such kind of arrangement. Okay so I love this. I mean I love the idea. I love the fact that you know this has been implemented because I mean we can also buy right to our generators now in coming years but if we're starting with the above power project how soon can we start to see you know other clusters springing up across the country because like it says it's project light up Nigeria so it's not just project light up Abba. How do we start to see you know a change in our power sector because obviously everybody needs to get fuel or diesel to be able to power their generators and it's not even cost effective at all. So when do we start to see you know other power projects springing up? You will hear from all the work in three cases or whatever kind of addition and position for whatever kind of development up to that 20 years before we get production savings. I want to believe that that to come up to a different level and the settlement and the individuals who go to this this narrative all the actions are passed through this situation to be able to deploy their own all the facilities and of course the market is there Nigeria's are hungry to use power just like you're that everyone needs to use power in our homes in our small workshops small factories or whatever business we want to do we need power so this is something that everybody needs the question is use Nigeria as a case and let me go straight aside as a case in point they have to have become sincere of purpose before we have to have more sincere because you cannot say you want to do something you want to get so to work and not do the right thing doing the right thing means look at the portraying professionals you need to look towards who are those to do this thing who are the people that are to carry out these activities you need to rely on them and much more you need to rely on your own people are you that one of your own people because whatever kind of the development of this you want to do you need to get your people involved if you don't have a government go to Japan and go to India or go to their big Chinese are happy to be for you it's not sustainable i'm not going to say i'm going to get some power but sustainability is what you need what is sustainable in the same statement you need your people to be on board you need to rely and trust the people as it stands before the government of Nigeria are probably going to trust something to do this thing for them that's the reality so i want to be that light of Nigeria is created by the government and they will try looking at how to take their professionals and give them put them inside of the writing putting the right on the ground to those of square boxes square holes so you can actually have the right people deploying what you want to deploy and it's sustainable because they know what to do and they train the next generation to maintain and manage and follow not just sustainability otherwise you'll just see that we are trying to do something i'm not going to try because we are doing the wrong thing all your employees wrong for all your own appointing the wrong people to be inside of what you want to do you try to be in zero hello sir i think his his audio is a little bit bad um so one question i was going to to ask um about this whole light up project i mean like i said i i want power all the time and i think power is like you know a major thing in nigeria as he has said you know even economic development you know relies on power but then are we going to really see the power because we've seen cases whereby we're you know giving power to other countries right but then nigeria is still lacking in this what is going to be the impact of their bar power project now especially with other ones and i wanted to ask the continuity of government because if they are bar power you know planters taking over 20 years that shows that from different from one administration to another they've come in and just take gun on with it so isn't that what we're supposed to be looking at in nigeria and i wanted to get his thoughts because you know just having to say okay this is what we want to do and i'm sure that that's something we you know even spoke about earlier in the show this is what we want to do this is what we're looking at for nigeria in the next 20 years so the importance of continuity in government yeah he said something about um sustenance or sustainability because uh if you bring foreign people and they do and then they go how will you maintain it and all those kind of things and i was just asking myself um are people really that trustworthy but you give them buildings to build you give to the professionals they want to cut corners especially now that the cement is very very i don't know how how many buildings will be collapsing right now okay so but you know they have to work on themselves yes i know that if the government has not done much to uh to build manpower that can do what they need to do and to monitor what whatever they are doing but he made a valid point that we should look in what's looking what does not just mean trusting someone with something but also monitoring that person to make sure that he does the the right thing uh at the right time okay i think we have him back yeah okay okay fantastic so i was just speaking to him go here and i was just asking him about like continuity in government um the fact that the about power project has taken this number of years before we're seeing this breakthrough um doesn't that show that each government each administration that comes in you know needs to just continue from the last one that way we can now make those breakthroughs because if we're saying you know what i want to come and do my own stuff um whatever was done before me is abandoned and then we will we might just never see a breakthrough like this one yes i agree with you completely on that uh but that is part of why i say that the we must look at it from the point of a strategic view and not just bringing people in just for critical opportunity because that is very critical uh uh i mean put this comes in every government must see it as part and parcel of what define development when a government see that when it comes easier but i mean i think we're in a good case in our country where every government just like you know like you think that oh i come out to do my own good so we need to change our culture first of all because that is not something that just easy or you can actually do there have to be a kind of culture culture enough uh physical space to know that one government must always always enjoy that the next one is doing that same thing they have to be kind of plan and it's not if you don't have plan it's not if you don't have you don't have plan uh in the in the country it's not again the only plan is natural you know not correct it in place 25 years 30 years 40 years or so all these plans are there the difference is doing the government following them who is actually in charge of this plan and how is that person doing anything for people to follow this is what is missing so there is a big new uh a new knowledge on how government can see that it has a project and that project cannot stop whatever project that's awarded for a particular section you know the more you compare by the next one before you take up a new project i don't know i'd imagine i'd say we'll come up with that kind of idea as long as it comes to economic uh infrastructures like power like labor and so on you can have such kind of um of in place that stop the government from just jump into a vital and this approach the politics of a crisis i think you know what you know that I think the audience is too bad. That's what happens with our network. If we have steady power, maybe we won't be finding this. But yes, I think this is a good way to wrap it up. I was just wondering, briefly, if we do have the power, can we pay? Because it's one thing to have it. It's another thing to be able to afford it. So maybe we're not saying bye-bye to generators yet. Because even right now, the places that have nearly 24 hours' power supply are negotiated with the people, the nepers we call them, that we can pay more, so give us more power. So they've been doing that. A lot of estates have nearly 24 hours' power supply every day, but they pay through the roof to get that. So will that be the same thing that will be replicated everywhere if we have steady power? That's a question that needs to be answered. If we cannot have it cheaper than we are having it now, then it will be almost the same thing. Especially with the Minister of Power coming out to say that they subsidize electricity. They cannot even subsidize electricity. Anyways, we're speaking to engineer Israel Esorgane Ibrahim. He's the President, Chatted Institute of Power Engineers of Nigeria. We've just been talking about the project Light Up Nigeria that has happened in the South East. So yeah, but this is what we'll have to wrap it up on the show. It was so nice having breakfast with you today. Thank you for joining us. We'll see you again tomorrow. My name is Romer Paulsen. Let there be light. My name is Nyam Gul. Let's do it again tomorrow.