If you want a man to love you and commit to you and want to be with you forever, there's one thing that you absolutely need. We've talked about this many times before on this channel, and that one thing is called investment. He has to invest in you emotionally, mentally, physically, and from an energy standpoint. The more that he invests in you, the more that he will feel like he wants to be with you for a longer period of time. The more that he will start to justify backwards rationalize in his mind that he's doing it for all the right reasons. So men naturally want to chase women. They want to pursue women. They want to be with women. They want to make women happy. They want to give their everything to women. And so today, what we're going to be talking about is my secret four step formula to getting a guy to chase you and what that looks like. And here we go. So my name is Matthew Coast, and this is Commitment Connection. If this is your first time to our channel, make sure that you hit the subscribe button so that you don't miss anything that we've got going on here. So welcome everybody. If you're here with us, make sure that you say hi. I love it when people say hi, and I really appreciate it. So the four steps, let's talk about the four steps to making a guy chase you. And so we've already talked about why it's important. If you want a long term committed relationship, it's absolutely important. And so there's some myths out there about some of these different things that we're going to be talking about the first step to having a guy chase you is showing interest. And there's a big myth out there about this idea of showing interest, and it's that you shouldn't, right? That men think that showing interest makes you look like you're needy, or it makes you look like you're too easy, or there's all kinds of bad ideas out there about showing interest. Men love when a woman shows them interest, right? Men love all the same things that women like. Men love compliments, men love, you know, okay, well, not all the same things, but many of the same things, right? The same ideas. Men like to be, like to feel like they're attractive. They like to be thought of as somebody that's interesting and is physically and romantically attractive to you. And so if you want him to chase you, if you want him to pursue you, if you want him to invest in you, he has to feel like you're interested in him. And now there's a big difference between the idea of showing interest and kind of being desperate and clingy and needy, which is the problem that a lot of women want. One of the reasons why a lot of women don't show interest is because a lot of times in the dating advice world, we come and we talk to women and they're coming from this space of needing this, this space of cleanness, this space of kind of, I like to call it grasping, right? Like they try to grasp onto a guy and they're like, oh, I love you. And it feels really gross to them, right? It's like when you have a guy that you're not interested come up and say weird things or stare at you or something like that.  It's the same thing that's going on with guys, right? They, they have kind of a similar thing that happens when a woman kind of tries to like cling on to them. Well, that's not what we're doing here. We're showing interest. And the big difference between clinginess, desperation and interest is that interest in a way where a woman is coming from a space of high value when she feels like she's a high value worthy deserving woman. When she feels that way, it's not like she has to get some kind of reaction, right? So sometimes we get women in our community and they'll come on and they'll be like, oh, how do I show this woman or this guy that I'm interested in him without coming off as clean and needy and, you know, pushing him away? And the way that you do it is by not having an expectation around it. One of the biggest problems that a lot of women have is that they come to this idea of showing interest and they expect that something's going to happen, right? If they show interest, if they say, I love you or I'm really interested in you or I'm so, you know, attracted to you or whatever. They expect that the guy's going to do something that they want him to do. And if he doesn't do that thing, all of a sudden they're devastated by the whole thing. Well, one of the things that you have to realize is that sometimes guys aren't going to do what you want them to do. I know, shocking, right? Anyone here been in a situation where a guy didn't do what they wanted him to do? I'm sure every single person here can raise their hand for that. And so, coming from a high value place, you're not expecting anything to happen, right? If you show interest, you're not expecting him to have to show interest or do something or say something specific for you when you show that interest. And usually one of the things that women that are really attractive to men that really get men, one of the things that they know is that there's kind of this long term thing that's going on there, right? You can say something that you can show interest in a guy and not have to have an immediate reaction because you know that you're planning a seed there, right? And so, anyway, moving it back to this Chase idea, he's only going to chase you if he knows that you're interested in him. And so, if he doesn't think that you're interested in him, he's not going to do it because he doesn't want to end up. And I'm talking about romantic sexual interest, right? Not friendship interest.  Well, that's not what guys are looking for right here, right? They're driven biologically.  So they see a woman and it's almost like this hunter thing, right? And there's been a lot of shame around this recently, especially in the United States, but all over the Western world. There's been a lot of shame and shaming of men for having kind of this hunter attitude, but it's a part of us, right? Men biologically, we see women and we have this kind of sexual romantic desire that comes up in us. And it drives us forward.  It just kind of depends on the guy and what's going on.  But what it does is it makes a guy move forward, right? And that's the important part is it drives him. It drives him. It inspires him to do things and it inspires him to do things for you, right? And sometimes you might have a situation where a guy comes on really strong. I've heard about this a lot in our community where they're like, oh, this guy came on really, really strong and then he all of a sudden disappeared.  That comes up. But if you want him to have some of that, because that's that driver.  I want to take it and I'm just so interested and there's this romantic interest and it's like this fiery, passionate, just thing that's going on. And it's just, it's beautiful. It's magical. It's amazing. And so you have to show him some interest, some romantic sexual interest. And we've talked about that in some other videos.  We don't really have time for that right now. However, that's something that you absolutely need to do in this process. And so let's talk about number two. What's number two here? Number two is giving him different ways to chase and pursue you. So you know, one of the things that is always been really, really interesting to me when I've been working with women in our community is that a lot of times women will think, Oh, he knows what he's, you know, these men know what they're supposed to be doing and how they're supposed to be reacting and they're supposed to pick up on these signs and signals that I that I give him. And then, you know, when I give him this sign or signal, it's supposed to make him do this one thing. It almost never works that way. Unless you get a guy that's like a super player, right, who like is is really doing this all the time, right?  Unless you get a guy like that, most guys have no idea what they're doing. They have no clue whatsoever, especially in this day and age, you know, we have a lot of guys that were raised without father. Figures at all. And so they just don't have any idea what's going on. And so the best way to come at this is to give him ways to chase you because like I said before, men have this biological urge and they want to do this. They want men. We want to pursue women. And so if you give him ways to pursue you, it'll make it much, much more likely that he'll be driven to go and do these things. So I'm just going to say hi to everybody that's watching right now. Hello, Kali girl. Hello. Hello, hello. Met Monk. Such a fun name. Okay, so hi, Nikki from South Africa. That's cool. Hello, Yolanda from Kali. So hello, hello, hello. Welcome, welcome, welcome. If you have questions, put your questions in the chat and we will talk about. Some of these questions at the end of this live stream. So if you have questions, throw it in there and we'll chat about it. Okay, so, so let's talk about ways to get him to chase you. Right. So what does this even mean? Right.  Right. It's like a great analogy I think is there. So it's kind of like this bunny analogy. There's always kind of these like rabbit analogies, like, like follow the white rabbit, you know, that comes from what was that Alice in Wonderland.  It's a running game. I used to be a runner and I would go and do these runs with people.  I don't know if you know about this, but there's these runners that go out and they have this. And they have this person that it's like a big group of drinking drinkers, right? They all bring beers and stuff. And there's this person, they call that person the rabbit and that person will go running like five to 10 minutes before everybody else.  And they'll just like drop white, like white, they'll just take some of the flour and just drop it on the ground, right? As they're running. And so it kind of like leaves these little trails for the people to follow when they're, they're coming and running, trying to figure out where they're supposed to be going while they're drinking their beers and run. This is a real thing, guys. I don't know if you've heard of this before, but people do this. I've actually done a couple of those and they're kind of fun back in the day. So anyway, what you're doing is you're giving him things to do, right? You're giving him the direction. You're saying, this is how you chase me, right? And so different ways to do that, right? So one of them is kind of this, it's kind of like a leaning back way, right? And one of the things that we talk about in on this channel a lot is this concept of leaning back. And we talk about femininity and we talk about all these things where you're just kind of leaning back and allowing men to kind of come and do these things. Well, sometimes you'll lean back and a man won't do anything, right? And some of the time it's because he doesn't know that he's supposed to be doing anything. And it also could be that you've been doing something so much that, and you've been kind of leaning forward and doing all the work and pursuing him and chasing him. And so all of a sudden he's, you know, you're leaning back and he's just like, what happened here, right? And he doesn't know really what to do. And he's like, well, maybe if I, and, you know, men get dating advice too. And so he might just be like, oh, well, maybe if I just don't do anything, she'll come back and start doing something. After a while he'll probably start to miss you and start to do something. But you can always give him some help, right? And the help is by giving him something to do. And so the first one that I'm going to talk about is this thing where you, it's an example. And it's also kind of a, like a metaphor or a bigger picture thing. So you're saying, I'm at X, come here and visit me, right? So if there's a guy and he's interested in you and you want him to pursue you and you've let him know that you're interested in him. And you're like, hey, I'm at this, come and visit me, right? Which the opposite, the leaning forward, the masculine energy thing would be for you to be like, hey, where are you? I'm going to come and visit you, right? Instead you want him to do that with you, right? Because that's creating that investment. He's coming to you. He's, he's being the masculine energy force. And that's what you want him to do because that will make him feel invested, which makes him backwards rationalized like what we talked about at the beginning of this video. And there's, so the second example that I'm going to give you. Oh wait, so the, so what we're talking about here for the first example is, it's, it's, you know, going back to the whole leaning back thing, right? You're giving him something to do and you're having him go do it. And you could do this with all, all kinds of different things, right?  Like, hey, come and get me, right? The second one is I need help with something. Can you help me? Right? And I've talked about this before in videos and some of my programs. The whole thing about help is like men love to help women. And so if you ask him for help and it could be help for anything. I mean, it could be small, little things and it could be big, huge things, right? Depending on how well you know this guy, the, the better you know him, the better doing something that's bigger might help, right? Like an example of something bigger might be like, hey, come, you know, I really need help. I've, you know, need to put up some drawers or some shelves in my apartment or whatever, right? Like is, you know, and I really need a guy to come and help me because I, you know, have no idea what I'm doing, right? And saying something like that, if he has that ability and he can come and help do that. It's, it can be a really, really powerful thing. And guys that are attracted to you, he has to be attracted to you. If he's attracted to you and he sees that you need some help and he wants to be more involved with you, you're giving him an opening there, right? It's kind of this leaning back thing and inviting him in, right? You're inviting him to come. And so he comes over and he helps you with whatever it is that you need help with. Could be smaller things, you know, maybe it's an errand that you need to run or maybe you're trying to find some place or maybe, I mean, it could be anything, right? There's a scale of like something that's very, very small that you need help with and there's something where it's like really, really big where you need help with and it's better to start off really, really small and gradually move up to doing things that are a little bit bigger. One of the big mistakes that some of the women in our community make is that I'll give them things to do, right? And they'll like, you know, and all this stuff is meant to be kind of a process. It's not meant to do one after another, right? We're people, we have lives, we have conversations.  I mean, you can sometimes, but it's like, you know, these things showing interest in a guy, for instance, right? Like sometimes people will go overboard. They're like, oh, well, I'm not used to showing any interest in a guy. And so all of a sudden they're like, oh my God, I'm so interested in you. You know, and the guy's like, whoa, what just happened, right? And it's a slow, gradual process, right? You're building things up. You're not doing everything immediately. You're showing a little interest here and then you're showing a little interest there. And we'll talk a little bit about this in number three. Is everybody getting this? Are you getting this? So hi from Uganda. Hi, hi, hi. Beautiful Canada. Love Canada. It's a beautiful place. So if you're getting it, just let me know that you're getting it in the comment section. We're going to move on to number three. So going back and just reiterating what we're talking about. Number one is showing interest. So you want to show interest. And we talked about the difference between desperation and cleanness or desperation, cleanliness and interest. Number two is giving him ways to chase you, which is basically leaning back and giving him an invitation. You know, it's the, the, the rabbit, the dropping, dropping a flower behind you. So number three is allowing him to make progress, right? So men want to win in three and four kind of go together. And I'll talk a little bit more about fours, a little bit more kind of technique based in, and how to do these things kind of together. So number three is allow him to make progress. Men want to win, right? If he feels like we talked about a little bit earlier, if he feels like he's not going to win with you, if he's not, if you're not interested, he feels like he's not going to get somewhere, right? If he feels like he's just going to end up in the friend zone from chasing you, which is what happens with a lot of guys. You know, there's women out there, by the way, if you don't know this, there's women out there who use men in this way, right? Who manipulate men and basically what they'll do is get guys to do lots of things for them, but never end up, you know, having it go anywhere. And they knew it wasn't going to go anywhere from the beginning, but they did it anyway because they like getting the attention and the validation and, you know, all the free things that men who are romantically interested in them will give them. And then, you know, what ends up happening is men end up getting bitter about it and they ruin it for a lot of other women. So don't be one of those women, right? Don't be one of those women, but allow him to make progress, right? So here's a few different ways to allow him to make progress. What does it mean? What does it mean to allow him to make progress? Number one is reward him, right? So when he does something that you like, reward him. And so what does a reward look like? It can be anything from small to bigger, right? And it depends on where you are in the relationship as to what kind of a reward that you give him. And like we talked about earlier with the other two things, you'll want to start off small and build it and build it and build it and build it. One of the things that a lot of women don't understand is the power of this like feminine emotion, right? So some women have done things where they've shown emotion to men and they've done it in a way that doesn't work. And then they think that men think that emotion equals drama or that men don't like emotion or that men are afraid of emotion or that men think that emotion is unattractive. Men only think that emotion is unattractive when that emotion is tied to something else, right? So if it's tied to like the big one that we keep talking about here is expectations, right?  That and then getting angry that he doesn't do it, that is what men consider drama. Men do not consider emotion in and of itself drama. Men find emotion and especially feminine emotion to be incredibly attractive, right? To be mesmerizing almost, to be like this mystery, this great mystery that they don't understand. But if you do it in the right way and you're doing it from the space of being feminine and connecting with your heart and having no expectations attached to it and just freely expressing, then it's very, very attractive to men. And sometimes it catches men off guard, right? Like you'll do emotional stuff and he's not used to it and he's like, whoa, you know, and he might not react the way that you think that he'd react, but inside his heart, he's feeling like, whoa, that was really, that was cool or interesting or crazy or I don't know what's going on here, right? There's like this air of mystery around it and it's incredibly attractive to men, right? And so one of the ways that you allow him to make progress is by emoting, right? By showing or expressing emotion and sometimes it's excitement, sometimes it's like joy, sometimes it's appreciation, right? Like these positive feminine emotional traits, you know, some of actually some of the traits that people would normally consider negative are actually also attractive to men. It's emotions in general, right? Like sadness or frustration, sometimes, different types of emotion, anger. It can be really attractive to a man if it's expressed in the right way. And so one of the ways that you reward him, going back to the rewards, hoping I'm not losing anybody here, going back to the rewards, just, you know, one stance, one type of reward here can just be the expression of emotion, just the expression of happiness, just the expression of warmth. Another one can be showing interest like we talked about before, right? Showing him like telling him that it's really attractive to you, that he did that, right? Like I talk about that in my, a lot in my Love Frames Toolkit program, which I talk about framing kind of the relationship and kind of rewarding him for doing things that you really like so that he starts doing them more and more. Well, one of the ways that you do that is by talking about how attractive it is, right? Saying that's really hot or that's really attractive. I think it's really attractive when you do that or like, oh my God, that was so hot that you just did that right now, right? Things like that. It's a reward.  He wants to feel like you're attracted to him. And so the next thing that I'm going to talk about in allowing him to make progress is giving him, and we kind of talked about this a little bit before, which is giving him more and more gradually, right? Like another reward is like a kiss on the cheek or like a hug or like, you know, a smaller physical reward is touching him or doing something for him, right? Or whatever, right? There's a bunch of different ways that you can do that, right? Giving him a gift of a reward for, you know, doing this thing where he's chasing and pursuing you. Does everybody understand that part? All right. And so another kind of technique around this is this kind of idea of like going forward and backwards, right? And it not always being kind of this, you know, upward slope of him making progress because that's not realistic, right? That's not realistic in anything in life. Like there's nothing really that you just always continually make progress. If you're working out at some point, you're going to hit plateaus. Sometimes you're going to go down. Sometimes you're going to go up, right? That's a normal thing. It's not bad. And I'm just kind of reiterating the thing that I was talking about a little bit earlier, which it's not bad to necessarily show negative emotions or to kind of pull back if he does something that you don't like or if, you know, there's something that's going on with you or whatever. It's not a negative thing to do that. All right. I think I beat a dead horse with that one. Is everybody understanding what I'm talking about here? All right. So if you understand, just say, yes, I understand. I appreciate the thumbs up there, Brandy. Appreciate that. Appreciate it. All right. So let's move on. So the first one, let's just recap real quick. Showing interest. Number two is giving him ways to chase you. And we talked about how to do that. Number three is allowing him to make progress in this chase, right? The more and more and more that he does, the more it'll become like an addiction for him, right? He'll start to feel like, oh my God, I want to win. I want that kind of feeling of dopamine and that feeling of like I'm investing and it feels really good and she loves it. And it's this thing and we're really bonding and connecting over it. Like you want him to feel that way and it feels really good for him. So step number four is something that a lot of women kind of miss out on. And I don't hear anybody talking about this in the industry at all. And it's this idea of attainability, right? A lot of people talk about being a high value woman and being, you know, having other things going on because there's a lot of, like we talked about earlier, there's a lot of like desperation and cleanness going on in our community. But there's also another side of things, right? Which is being attainable, being somebody that he can win, right? Somebody that he can have the relationship that he wants to have with you. If he doesn't feel like he can have that relationship with you, then he's probably going to quit at some point unless he's like ridiculously aggressive, which he probably isn't. So you want him to feel like he can win. So how do you do that? How do you show him that you're somebody that's attainable, that you're somebody that he can get eventually? Well, one of the things, and this kind of goes back to some of the other things that we talked about before, is becoming warmer and friendlier over time, right? There's kind of this like guy language out there, right? It's this language of sarcasm. And it's kind of this, for a lot of people it's fun, especially if you're from the East Coast of the United States.  And that can be a fun thing. I don't think it's the best thing for relationships in general. However, you know, one of the things that you want to remember is that you need to kind of switch gears, right? At some point. If you're the kind of person that does that kind of teasing, kind of pulling back kind of thing, you know, kind of getting him to chase you all the time kind of thing. He has to feel like he's winning, right? And so the way that you do that is becoming friendlier over time as he continues to do this, as he continues to invest in you and spend time with you and put energy and emotion into you. You want to become warmer and friendlier. The next way to do it is to open up to him, right? To show vulnerabilities, to talk to him about deeper things, to open yourself up and allow yourself to be opened by him, right? And that's a very scary thing for a lot of people. And I totally understand, right? Because if you've been in the dating industry for very long, you've probably had your heart stepped on at least once or twice or a dozen times. And so you realize that it can be painful to open up sometimes. However, if you don't ever open up, you'll never end up getting that relationship that you always want to have. And if you're with a guy and he's a quality guy and you think he's really awesome and you want to have a relationship with him, you need to be willing to open up to him, doing it in the right way and connecting with him so that he can open up to you. So the next one that I want to talk about in showing him that you're attainable, this is attainability here, is pacing his interest. And this is a very, very important one and it's something that a lot of women kind of get wrong. And we kind of have it as a rule. It's a good kind of rule to follow in general, which is pacing his interest, right? So when he's hot, you can be hot. When he's cold, you should be cold, right? And so basically you're giving him space when he needs it or when he's acting badly or whatever, you're giving him space and when he's warming up and being friendly, that's when you're warming up and being friendly, right? And it's a very simple rule. It's harder to do than it is to talk about. However, it's a very simple rule and it's just pacing his interest, right? And it works. It works wonders, absolute wonders. You should talk to some of the women that are in our community about this stuff. It absolutely... And by the way, if you have a lot of questions and you don't want to ask them in a public forum anywhere, we have a way that you can ask your questions anonymously to one of our coaches and get feedback on what it is that's going on with you and your situation. There's a link under here or you can go to thegoddesscommunity.com and sign up for a free 14-day trial to get help with your situation from a coach. All right. So the last thing that we're going to be talking about in attainability, right, is letting him know... And we talked about this a little bit earlier, which is letting him know that what he does is attractive, right? So when he's doing things that are attractive, letting him know that he's doing things that are attractive and it's reminding him, right?  This is what you're doing right now is you're restarting, you're reigniting, you're adding fuel to the fire so that you're saying, hey, remember, I think you're attractive. I think you're hot. I think when you do that kind of thing, it's really attractive to me. And it kind of lights that fire. And he's like, oh, yeah, that's right. We're pursuing a romantic sexual relationship here, right? And so he goes further and invests in you more and remembers all the things that he wanted to do to chase you and get you into that amazing relationship that you want to have. And like I said, if you do these things, if you do these four things, right?  He has to, the one other key ingredient here is that he has to be attracted to you, which I talk about in some of my other programs like my Make Him Want You program. I talk all about how to kind of spark or build that romantic interest if he doesn't have that already or you're trying to build it or rebuild it, re-spark it.  So any questions about that? Any questions? What do we have here? I don't need help, but I need good men chasing me. What if you do and don't know you are? If you do... Brandy, what are you talking about there? If you don't know that if you're chasing him, if you don't know if you're chasing him, the best way to find out if you're chasing him or not is to lean back, right? Is to stop doing things, right? If you feel like you're doing a lot of stuff, if you feel like the relationship that you're getting into or the relationship that you have with a guy is kind of exhausting, that means that you're probably leaning forward. It means you're probably chasing him. And so what you need to do is just immediately stop and just see how that feels, right? It doesn't feel like a weight was lifted off your shoulders. Does it feel relaxing and calming for you to do that? How does he respond if you do that? What happens? That's what you want to do. The first thing that you want to do is to stop. I'm not needy. I'm not emotional at all. Then what? Well, it depends on why... So that was another question by Brandy. So it depends on why you're not emotional. Do you mean like you're not... Like you don't have any... You don't emote. You don't show emotions at all. It might be that you're in your masculine energy if you're not experiencing emotion. And the best way to get out of that is to reconnect with yourself, right? Reconnect with your body. Reconnect with your emotions. Reconnect with nature. Reconnect with things that kind of make you feel like you're connected to whatever. And that is, in my opinion, one of the best ways to do that. So, Kathleen says, how can you tell if he's invested in you? Well, if he's invested in you, he will not want the relationship to end, right? So if he's been chasing you and he's been investing in you and you don't do anything, we talked about kind of this checkpoint, right? There's this checkpoint where you just stop doing things and you just don't do anything. And just see what's going on, right? See what ends up happening. If he's invested in you, he will want to move forward. He will want to connect with you. He'll want to talk to you. He'll reach out to you and start doing things with you, right? He'll start to ask for things, right? If he's looking for a committed relationship, then he will start talking about that with you. He'll want to move the relationship into that realm with you. And if he's not talking about those things, if he's not reaching out to you, if he's not doing those things, he's probably not invested. So Carol says, what do you do when you get close and he pushes you away? So it kind of depends on what happened exactly in this situation where you got close and then he pushes you away, right? So it depends on why he was pushing you away, what was going on when he pushed you away.  What to do when he says he needs us to be friends with benefits first? So that's a kind of a manipulative way to do things, right? I mean, so it depends on what you're talking about, right? So what kind of context are we talking about here? Are you trying to get into, are you like, hey, I just want to be in a committed relationship and he's like, hey, we need to be friends with benefits first. If he's doing that, that's just manipulative and he's just trying to manipulate you into the type of relationship, into being into a sexual committed relationship. What you need to do is make sure that you have, one, you have to have your boundaries set. You need to make sure that you have boundaries around what you want and what you need, right? You also need to make sure that he's emotionally connected with you, right? We need to make sure, and we've done videos on this channel about that, right? Like is he emotionally connected? Is he showing the signs of somebody that is what we call pair bonded, right? Where he's like really into you and there's a part of him where he's like, I'm not sure that, you know, and there's ways to fake that as well, unfortunately, but there's also kind of clear cut signs of pair bonding, right? So pair bonding, if you're not familiar with the idea of pair bonding, it's this idea where a guy is like emotionally like just connected, right?  That's pair bonding, right?  That's pair bonding. So you need to make sure that, one, you set boundaries and two, that he's connected to you in the right way and that he wants the type of thing that you want. And like I said, we talk about that in other videos to great extent. Ruth says, oh, okay, thank you, Matt. You're welcome. You're welcome. How can I reassure him that he isn't going to lose me? Why would you want to reassure him that he isn't going to lose you, right? What kind of a relationship are you in where you think that it's a good idea to reassure him that he isn't going to lose you, right? Are you married to him? Because that's the only time I think that it's really a great idea to let a man know that he's not gonna lose you. So Bruce Lee, I love that name. What if there is soul and heart connection between you both but still the man is not opening up? What does it mean by opening up? There's a soul and a heart connection. That means that he's emotionally bonded but he's got some kind of resistance to this idea of opening up. Like, are you talking about opening up his past and talking about his past? Because I have another video on that where we talk about how to open a man up. Helena actually has a really good video on this channel about how to create a deep emotional connection with a man. I recommend everybody go and check that out. I'll probably put it in the description at the end here. So how do I regain his interest? That's a big one. I could do a whole video on that and I probably will hear. That's not something that I could do right now. So Yolanda says, I would like to know that to regaining interest so you're both interested in regaining interest. Okay, I'll do a video. I'll do a live stream on that one and we can talk just about. So your situation is he friendzoned me because of miscommunication through test. What does that mean? He friendzoned you because of miscommunication. Oh, through text, through text. And takes things I'm not saying in a different way. Okay. That's also, that's something that's going on with him, right? He's doing that because he has something that's going on with him, which is out of alignment. And so he's feeling some kind of misalignment and so he's doing that to you. It's not something that you are doing to him. And again, that's kind of a bigger conversation as well. How to make him commitment of marriage if he is confused and always use word best friends. Are you in a relationship, Nina? Or is this, are you in an actual relationship or are you just friend with benefits or are you not in any kind of a relationship whatsoever?  So, you know, one of the things that we were talking about a little bit earlier with Ruth, right? Where Ruth was saying that she's like, how can I reassure him that he isn't going to lose me? And the reason that I said, why would you want to reassure him that he isn't going to lose you is that one of the things that ends up happening is that men, so men have a lot of different needs and a lot of different desires around relationships and a lot of women don't kind of understand this, right? So getting sexual with a person for a man is not just an emotion, is not just a physical thing. It's also an emotional thing, right? And being in a relationship with a woman is not just a physical thing either. There's a whole bunch of emotional things that are going on there, right? And the deeper he has this with you, right? And sometimes I talk to women and they're like, oh yeah, I'm living with this guy and we're in this relationship and all these things are going on.  Like, how do I get him to put the ring on my finger? And here's my response to it. One is that it's something that we call damage control, right? So damage control is you went and did something that you probably weren't supposed to do and now you're trying to fix it backwards, right? You shouldn't be moving into these stages of a relationship like moving in with a guy and having sex with a guy and doing all these different things with a guy. If you're not also getting what you want, right? You shouldn't be, I don't know what your situation is, Nina, but you definitely shouldn't be getting into, like moving in with a guy if you're not getting married to him and marriage is something that you want, right? And if he's confused and he doesn't know what he wants, he needs to understand that you're not going to be here forever for him, right?  And so, you know, if he's not willing to give that to you and I don't know how long you've been seeing each other, but if he's not willing to give that to you, you need to be willing to walk out of it, right? You need to be willing to leave the relationship and I sometimes hear this from women where I talk to them and they're like, oh well, relationships where you use ultimatums, they don't work, right? Like ultimatums, they don't work and in one sense, ultimatums don't work, right? They don't work in terms of using it as a manipulation tool and the reason it doesn't work like that is because it's inauthentic. If you're like, hey, if you don't marry me, I'm leaving and you have no intention of leaving at all, it doesn't work, right? Because you're just trying to use it as a manipulation tool and the guy calls your bluff and then you're like, oh yeah, I guess I'm not leaving, right? And then your credibility and your trust get ruined with him and now he not only doesn't trust you anymore, but he also knows that he can walk all over you and that you don't have any boundaries and he can do whatever he wants to and you're just going to deal with it. And instead, what you need to do is you need to actually let him know that you're walking away and be willing to walk away and move further away from the relationship unless he's willing to give you what you want. That's it. It's not some kind of big secret. If a man isn't going to give you what you want, you have to be willing to walk away and I've seen women, I don't know how long your relationships been, Nina, but I've seen women that have been in relationships for 10, 12, 15. There's one woman in our community that had been with a guy for 17 years. 17 years. This guy still doesn't consider himself in a committed relationship with her. They're not moving towards marriage, right?  You need to be like, that guy, that guy is, I don't know how long it's been, but if it's been longer than three months, six months, I can tell you right now, he is not confused, right?  And so if he's telling you that he's confused, it's not because he's confused. It's because he doesn't want to tell you what he actually is thinking. And he doesn't want to tell you that because he knows that it's something that you don't want to hear. And so you need to put pressure on him and you need to put pressure on the relationship and show him through your actions that you're willing to walk away from this and be serious about it and actually walk away from it if he's not willing to give you what you want.  You're probably right now giving him what he wants. He needs to give you what you want or you need to walk away and find a man who will give you what you want. All right. Sorry about that. Sorry if that was harsh. I apologize about that. Sometimes you need the truth, right? And you need to hear what's going on. So, okay. So, hi, Matt. I encounter a man in his job and I can tell he's interested. How can you let a man know it's okay to ask you out? So it depends on kind of work situations are really tricky these days, right? Especially with kind of all the different political things that are going on right now. And so, you know, going back to what we were talking about before in this live string, right? Like these different things, you know, showing interest, right? For a man, it's very, very risky for him to show romantic interest in a woman at his workplace, right? I don't know what kind of a workplace you work at, but if it's a bigger kind, it's bigger, smaller, it doesn't really matter, right? If a guy shows interest in a woman and it's unwanted interest in a woman at a workplace, there's a high probability chance that he could get fired, right? That's just what's going on in the Western world right now.  It's not as big of a thing. And so, another thing like we're talking about here on this, you know, one is showing him interest, right? Showing him some kind of like romantic interest dropping some kind of hints, you know, if you're really afraid and you're at work and maybe you think it's a taboo thing there. Another thing is there's kind of this workplace thing that you can do where you kind of like suggest, right? It's kind of this suggestion. People that are becoming friends do this, right?  I actually don't recommend that you date anybody at your workplace. I myself have actually had some really horrible experiences with that and I know people that have just had just god-awful experiences with people that they date at the workplace and although a lot of relationships get started at the workplace, but I'd suggest going through this and doing things that make sense from the different things that I've talked about in this livestream that we've talked about. So showing romantic, some type of romantic interest, right? Showing that you kind of like him, that you think he's cute or, you know, that's a really good one, right?   Or that was adorable, right? Not saying it in like a sarcastic tone, but saying it in like a matter-of-fact tone or another way of showing interest is by doing, I had a friend, I can't remember what he called, he called it rawness, right? It's called the rawness compliment. And what it is is like this compliment where you're just like really just open and honest and genuine and authentic about your compliment and you're just like, wow, you know, you did this, right?  At the workplace, you know, there's a part of it where you're kind of opening up a little bit, you know, and you're being authentic and you're saying something real and at the same time, you know, it's there's kind of this risk factor to it but it's also so authentic and genuine and so not like I'm flirting with you type of thing that even if he's not interested or if he's, you know, normally being flirty with somebody at the office might be offensive or something like that, he'll still end up really loving it, right? He'll be like, wow, that was like one of the best compliments I've received, you know, because most people are just walking around the world and they don't have any real connections. They don't have anybody really like talking to them or giving them real genuine authentic compliments and so when you do that with somebody, it like makes you stand out from the crowd, right?  We live in the age of the hookup culture where men and women are just starved for real genuine authentic connections with each other and so whenever you can do something like that with a guy, it's like just really, really powerful and so if, so RL says, what are the steps? The four steps are showing interest, giving him ways to chase you, allow him to make progress and show him that having you is attainable, right? And so, you know, going back to the workplace analogy, you want to give him all those kinds of things, right? Give him things to do, you know, you can connect with him. Sometimes a really easy way, and I don't know what your age range is, but a really easy way to connect with people and make it kind of this bridge where you're bridging kind of the gap between your workplace world and the real world is by connecting on Instagram.  I think it's okay, right? Especially at the early stages of talking to a guy and dating a guy, I think it's okay to do some things to help him along and make it easy for him to understand and realize that he can chase you and pursue you and come after you.  Like that's a really easy and simple way to like bridge things off into like the real world and then follow up on the message with chat on Instagram until you guys end up meeting up. So yeah, you're welcome. Daydreamer says thank you. You're welcome for that. So we talked about the steps. Is it okay to send him flowers to let him know he's on my mind and I still care to get to know him better. You know, honestly, like the eye, so is it okay? Sure, right? But why would you send a guy flowers? Right? So one of the mistakes that a lot of people make and the men and the women side is that we usually, we look at things and we go, okay, this person's interested in this and I'm interested in this, right? And we just look at what we're interested in and then we go, okay, well, I like to receive flowers. So maybe men want to receive flowers, right? Like, and that's a mistake. It's always a mistake to assume that other people want what we want, right? There's a thing out there called the five love languages. I've talked about this a lot and people want different things, right? So some people want gifts. Some people don't want gifts, right? Like I'm not a big fan of gifts, right? And when somebody brings me a gift, I mean, I understand what's going on there, right? And I understand that they're expressing their love for me and at the same time, it's not that meaningful for me at all. Like if a woman came and brought me flowers, I'd be like, I mean, I'd just be like, wow, that was really interesting. Thank you, you know? But at the same time, it's not like, it's like this really meaningful thing for me to receive flowers, you know? It just doesn't make, to me it just doesn't make any sense. Maybe that's because I'm like a masculine guy and flowers are kind of this symbol of like beauty and like openness and soft flowing feminine nature, right? And so for a guy, if he's a masculine guy receiving flowers, I don't know, it just feels weird. It feels weird to me. I mean, I'm sure that there are guys out there that like flowers, but I wouldn't assume that guy, a guy or guys want to receive flowers. So all right, that looks like all the questions. So Metmonks says, thank you. You're welcome. You're welcome, everybody. Thank you so much for being here with us, about to hit the hour. So I hope everybody got some really good stuff. So what do you do? What do you do? What you do is you find out what he likes, right? Find out what his thing is that he's into. And so, you know, just find out whatever he's into and then give him that, right? Like, so some men, so the way that you find out what people want is that you see what they do, right? How do they express things, right? Does he show his expression of love through giving gifts? And if that is the case, then that's what you do. But if that's not the case, you know, some people, for instance, me, for I am a huge physical touch kind of guy, right?   Because I love touch, and that's my way of expression. Like, I love getting massages. I love hugs. I love, you know, just the more touching, the better cuddling with me. It's just amazing. I love it. It's like my favorite thing in the world.  And so it depends on the guy, right? And what he's into. Like, is he into service? Is he into compliments? Is he into gifts? Is he into, like, what is he, what is he into? And you find out how he does that. And then you go on from there. So Kami asked, where can I get help from you one-on-one? So I do know, I no longer give one-on-one coaching anymore. However, we do have some programs, if you're interested in that. One of them is with a guy is, well, they're all with our coaches, right? So either Anya or Helena Hart are the people that are doing coaching with our company now. I'm not doing it anymore, just because I'm focused on other things for the time being. And so if you're interested in doing coaching, you can either go to Helena Hart's website and sign up with her when she's a fantastic coach. She's amazing. Like the women that have worked with her, you should see these testimonials. I've never seen anything like it. I certainly don't have the same kind of testimonials she has. She's like a miracle worker. She has gotten so many women married.  And so you should check out Helena's stuff, because I think she's a better coach than I am anyway. And if you are looking to get into a long-term committed relationship, go to HelenaHartCoaching.com. And she's got a coaching thing on there. There's a deposit that you have to put down. And then she'll talk to you on the phone about the different kind of coaching options that you have. And then you can get coaching from her or Anya Grace, who's also an amazing coach that we have that works with our company as well. And so, yeah, check it out. So thank you so much again. This is the last time I swear. Thank you so much for being with us today. It's really an honor and a privilege to have you come and allow me to be on your journey and talk to you about the things that I know and the things that I've worked on. I've been in this industry since 2005. I've been teaching in this industry. And so thank you so much for being here. And I hope you have a wonderful, beautiful day. And I will speak with you again soon.


I'd be a very humble student of the market. I'm doing this 23 plus years. I still have a very healthy fear of the market, right? I trade without a doubt, but I have a very healthy fear. That's how I completely stay grounded. And I look at things from... Welcome to Access a Trader, the number one community for those who are committed to taking control of their trading in order to achieve success, profitability, and longevity. Thank you for joining us. Here's Dan Shapiro to help you find your edge, master your process, and own your future. Hey guys, good evening everybody. Welcome to another edition of the Access a Trader.com nightly wrap up show. Hope everybody is doing well. The market continues well to be the market. And the most important part is you wanna put it into perspective what's happening, what's not happening, okay? So here are the cues.  Started when we reclaimed that 296.75 area. Again, if you've been watching this broadcast, you kind of know that number. It's like tattooed in the back of your head, right? So all this is a byproduct of a major area, technical area of supply that got reclaimed after a seven month decline. And now we are getting that aggressive, aggressive move of what happens after the 50 day moving average gets confirmed. So this is the complete opposite of what we saw when the 50 day moving average was lost around January, February, March, April, April the 7th that started a really, really massive decline. That's it, that's all it is. So before you start patting yourself on the shoulder and sticking out your chest and saying how great you are, remember this is just a byproduct of technical analysis confirming, right? The same way you confirmed on the way upwards doing now the same way you confirmed on the way down and set a trend, right? That's all it's doing. And I think this is a type of market, especially for new traders, they forgot that only two weeks ago, they were sitting on their hands screaming cash as a position because they weren't trading on the downside. So keep that in mind. Don't stick out your chest. You're not doing anything special. This is a byproduct of what happens when technical analysis does confirm a green light and when it does, it becomes very, very special. Stay humble, right? Stay humble, learn both sides of the market, understand why things are happening, why things are not happening. That's the most important thing is. And also understand your place in it. The market has a very, very odd and weird sense of humor how they can quickly pull the market right underneath you, both long and short. So it's very, very important to kind of keep that energy inside, right? Be a very humble student of the market. I'm doing this 23 plus years. I still have a very healthy fear of the market, right? I trade without a doubt, but I have a very healthy fear. That's how I completely stay grounded. And I look at things from reality, right? I look for everything from reality. I try to do everything from day in, day out. I don't try to look two days ahead, three days ahead. It's all about the next day. It's all about data from the next day. It's like the Fed. Fed came out with a comment this morning saying, we use our information based on collecting data. That's me, right? That's all we do. We try to collect all our information and trade on data, right? Not the rose-colored grasses that a lot of people have on. It's all about the data going to the next day. And so far, again, so far, so good for the last two weeks and change, we've been on a magical ride. Even yesterday, right? Even yesterday, we talked about, just watch potentially. We talked about watch potentially if they start losing the five-day. We came not even close to the five-day, not even close. It really does show you how strong the market continues to be. The biggest stocks are still moving from below, right? From below supply. And again, think about we're only two weeks in. We're not two, three months in. We're only two weeks in. So you guys have a lot of stocks playing catch up, right? Reclaiming the 50-day level, kind of a trailer of what happened in the indexes. So it's a very, very good market, very aggressive market. Again, just to give you an idea how strong the tape is and how strong they continue to embrace even bad earnings, right? You had Google Walmart Shopify, Google Walmart Shopify. You had, what else did it had? Meta, Microsoft, right? They all reported crappy earnings. And guess where they are? A lot higher than they were when they reported crappy earnings. The latest case was AMD last night. Again, not a great quarter, not a good quarter. It doesn't matter, right? Even with the run-up ahead yesterday, it doesn't matter every dip was bought. So the joke, right? The running joke continues to be, hey, if you want your stock to really, really get aggressive and go to the moon, right? Guide lower, right? Guide lower, announce a reduction in the labor force and you too will have your stocks at the all-time highs. Again, I'm not being sarcastic. That's exactly what's happening here. But again, that falls in line with the domino effect of how strong the market is, where the sentiment continues to lie and that's continue what we need to trade. When this market slows down eventually and it has to slow down eventually and again, we keep on preparing for it but again, they keep on going higher so we continue to push. But eventually what gets tired is, look, eventually it's gonna start taking out the previous day's low and that's when you turn around and go, got it, right? Got it. So again, remember, it is no way a market can tank unless it takes out the previous day's low. Obviously it won't tank until it loses back to 50-day moving average but for now, we're continuing to concentrate on names that are coming off the bottom. And again, we'll get to the pivots in a second and you'll see a continuous theme, right? We talked about Shopify, we talked about Google which I effed up royally today but again, it is what it is. Square continues to be a monster Coinbase. We talked about Coinbase last night. All these monster, monster moves back to the upside and that's where it is. We're in a bull market until we start losing lower levels the previous day, two days levels. Again, the market is gonna continue to hum unless some dagger comes into the market and some unforeseen news hits the wire that kind of shakes the market. But again, if you look at the proof is in the pudding, right? Bad news, higher. Labor workforce reduction, higher. Miss up and, you know, right? Up and top and bottom line, higher. Da da da, higher. So yes, this is not a bear market rally. The bulls are not getting trapped. We're above the 50 day moving average. The shorts are continuously to try to convince themselves this is just a short market rally. This is not until we give up the 50 day moving average. This is what it is. This is exactly what you think it is. Trade from both sides of the market. Enjoy the ride right now. But just again, concentrate on one day at a time, one traded time and everything will be okay. That's it. That's basically the technical view of the market. After the close, you got eBay reporting, right? eBay, not bad, right?  It's coming down a little bit. You had Lucid, which I like. There's a showroom by me on Lucid. I've only seen one Lucid on the road so far. Maybe that's the problem, right? You could say what you want about Tesla. Tesla's everywhere, right?  Can't say so much for this, right? Not so much for this, but again, it's a cool looking car. I did see one in the last several months. Maybe we'll see more on the road. But again, Lucid, it's not exactly a Tesla. Rivian is nowhere damn near a Tesla. I'll get to Rivian in a second. NKLA, just to give you an idea of how strong this market is.  Right? What the hell's a Nikola? Again, it shows you how strong the market is. So let's talk about some ideas I like for tomorrow. Again, it's so much. You can really go through, you could really, really go through the NASDAQ 100 and start looking at channels. But again, concentrate on the bottom channels. I like a firm. If a firm starts taking, again, if you guys notice, it's the same thing, right? Stocks is coming out of deep, deep channels. If a firm reclaims the top of the supply tomorrow, it should wake up, look at Team, another NASDAQ 100 name trying to wake up. That looks good. Shopify, huge breakout today. Really, really big breakout. I still probably have a couple more points in it. NET, I really like. Look at NET, again, coming off the bottom of the channel. It's the same chart over and over and over again. Again, you don't want the ones that up there, right? You don't want up there because up there, they pull, right? You want the ones on the bottom again. So if they fail, you're failing for pennies. You're not failing for dollars. That's a very, very big key. So let's talk about, let's talk about the pivots today. You know, really big move. Yesterday, a Shopify broke out about 37 and a half. Today, confirmed 39 needs to build and Shopify went nuts. Again, I still think it goes higher. It's traded all the way up to the 42 area. I think if it confirms 42 tomorrow, you can see a move pushed to 44, 45. Really, really good looking chart on that.  It didn't go when I thought it needed to go, right? I got long, it went up like 30 cents. They slammed it right back and I said, well, wait a minute, that's something weird. There must be a seller in the crowd. So I sold Google pretty much break even and then I watched the stock move up pretty much two points. I wanted to stab myself repeatedly. But again, it's always safe to be sorry. Again, nobody remembers the trades that they didn't give it, they didn't give it a little more room to play out. They just remember the trades, they get the lose money on it. That's the most important part. Again, if you're not comfortable in a trade, just get the hell out. As much as I saw it run up and blah, blah, blah. That is what it is. Rivian, again, nice move on Rivian 35.60 needs to build. Here was Rivian, again, same chart over and over again. Right guys, they're coming off the bottom of the channel here, right? Here's Rivian, took out the 35.50s level. I still like it. I think it's about 37. I can see 38.40 for the stock. So keep an eye on Rivian for more upside. Too low, one nuts, a little bit too thin for me, but a one nuts, so 91.80, 92 needs to build. Here was too low, right? Here's the 91.92 level needs to build. Just destroyed every aspect, closed right at the high today near 98. Big move there, FIVN, when nuts 112.50, 113 needs to build. Here was FIVN, right? So took out that 12.5.13, went right to supply at 17 and change. This little salt of joy didn't work out, lost about seven cents on this thing. Ran up a nickel and then died out, blah, blah, blah. Who cares? Tesla stopped pretty much at supply. I like this 9.30 area. Stopped really 9.30. Eventually Tesla's going to have to wake up. I think there's a vote tomorrow on whether they're splitting the stock or not. I really hope they don't. I don't see a reason for it, but whatever. We'll see there. But I'm definitely watching Tesla for the next couple of days. Coin went out of its mind. 70 needs to build. Here was coin when it completely out of its mind. So it took out 70, took out 79.  They were buying next month's 100 calls. I'm assuming that's in line with earnings. Microsoft was really good. 278 needs to build. Here's a sneaky area of Microsoft. And this is, guys, this is what we talk about sneaky pivots. A lot of you guys have always asked, what's a sneaky, sneaky pivot? Here's a sneaky pivot. Here's the, you see this whole channel right here? Hold on. You see this whole channel right here, right? The top of the here was 278, right? 278 here. Top here is 278. So once it got above that 278, right? Big, big move here. So here is Microsoft, big move here. 278 needs to build when right to about that 84 area. Really nice move on Microsoft. Again, coin going nuts, Google. And this is when I was vomiting on my face, 1855, next supply, which I broke even on the trade.  Tell me I'm not the first one to punch the air. When you mess up a trade, right? That's what we all do. Yeah, so 280 on deck, went to 283, 284. Coin went nuts, two lows going nuts. MVIS, watch this MVIS.  Keep an eye on this MVIS. If this thing confirms tomorrow, right? Look at this chart here. Beautiful, beautiful little chart here on MVIS. For all you small cap lovers, keep an eye on that. And that is it. So there's definitely a bunch of names that I like. That again, I'm not gonna really talk about here, but there's definitely a lot of names I like that are coming out of supply. We got a lot of value, right? That's where this market continues to give you a lot of value. Again, remember, stay humble, right? Stay humble. You can't be screaming, you know, you can't be screaming, we're in a bare market, cash is the position. And then all of a sudden pounding your chest when the market goes the other way. It doesn't work that way, right? You gotta trade both sides of the market. Right now we're just the byproduct of what happens when technicals confirm and everything is going well.  I will see you all tomorrow. Take care.


Hello friends, myself Rohit Kumar Vakhtarikar working as an assistant professor in computer science and engineering department at Walsh Institute of Technology, Solapur. Today, we are going to see the array list using STL, Learning Outcomes. At the end of the session, students will be able to perform different operations on array using STL, that is Standard Template Library. Well, let us start. So array is a collection. So array is a collection of the homogeneous objects. It supports the following operations. What we are going to do? Homogeneous objects means what? It is going to store the same data types, values in an array. So can we perform the direct operations on our array? Yes, that is possible. We can perform these different operations like front, back, at, fill or swag. There will be the different operations like front. What is going to retrieve the front element? The back is going to retrieve the last element, at is, you retrieve at a specific specified index element. So fill. We can fill that array with some different values and even we can swap the two arrays values by using the swap method. So let us take some practical views. So see here, we have already implemented those programs. So for that what we need in our code, we need to include this array. First this array will allow us to use the Standard Templates. So now what is meant by Standard Templates? With the help of the Standard Templates, we can use the inbuilt functions where there is no need to create our own methods. So let's say, now let's say we want to create the array of integer with some Phi size. I want to store the Phi elements. So now here, we need to specify like array in the angular bracket integer of Phi. Means what? This array has two parameters. One is a data type and another one is the size. So now here I am going to specify the int size int data type with the Phi element. So now here we can store 1, 2, 3, 4, 5. These are the elements we have stored in our array. So now next one is what? In the same way we have declared one more array 2 with some Phi elements like 6, 7, 8, 9, 10. So now in this code what we have done, we are just trying to display the inserted element and here also we are just displaying the elements of the array 2. So now we will have here to array 1 and array 2. So let's see what it is going to perform. So now for that what we need to do, we need to perform build and run. So let's say we have simply done that one. So here see in the array element, one element will have the 1, 2, 5 elements. In array 2 we will have the 6, 2, 10 elements okay fine. So let's say what if I want to add a one more element here let's say 6 and here I want to add a 11 fine. So let's build it. What we will get? Obviously we will get the error right. Why? Why we are getting this error? Because here what it is going to display? See here this is the error right. So now how we are going to remove this error? See in array 1 and array 2 we are going to insert the 6 element and what we have done we have declared the array with a 5 right. So what if I will make it as a 6. So now once I will make it as a 6 and I will save and I will build and run then I will get the output see here right I am getting the result fine. So still it is going to display only the 5 elements because we have not iterated our for loop till 6 right see here. The code was executed last time but it is not shown the result. Now let's see here. We will have the 1 to 6 element and 6 to 11 element. So in this way we are going to store the total number of 6 elements right. So let's see the other operations. Now here what if I want to retrieve the element at a specific position right element at specific position right let's say I want to second position element. So what I will do simply array 1 array 1 is what we will have declared 1 array right here this is our array 1. So from this array 1 I want to retrieve the second element that is array of 2 fine. So see here what it is going to display see. So element at the second position from the array is 3 right 0 1 and 2 this is the second position right what we have done the at array 1 at 2 means what we have given the 2 index. So index will start from what 0 right. So this 0 1 and 2 on the second index position we are getting the element third. So that's why it's a third position okay. So now what if I want to retrieve the front element of a specific array. So what we will do for front element means what the first element from the array right.  So it is going to retrieve the first element here see the element the first element of the array is 1 see array 1 first element is 1. So in that way the array 1 has a last limit is 6 right. So how we are getting that one simply by writing array 1.back right. So here we are getting the array 1.back. So simply we will get the last element fine. So last element in array 1 is 6 right. So front and last are the 2 inbuilt functions as well as provided to retrieve the first and last element from the array fine. So let's say what if I want to perform one operation which is going to fill that particular array with a specific element right. Let's say I will have the 100 of size array and there will be 100 elements in my array. I want to set the values of that array with some specific value let's say I want to make it as 1 right the complete array I want to make it as 1. So what we will do here simply they have here one more option right array 1.fill of 1. So here array 1 has a element 1 2 3 4 5 6 but when I will say array 1.fill with this 1. So it is going to fill the complete array with 1 1 1 1 1 1 right. So if I want to set some default values let's say I want to make it as 100 fine and I want to simply run it. So let's check what it is going to do. So what it has done the array elements are after fill operation. Fill operation or fill function when we will done at that time we are getting the 100 100 100 in our complete array right. But still here will has a size as a 4 0 to 4 we are getting it means 5 why because we need to update our for loop right our for loop is at the 6 fine. So here we need to simply make it as a 6. So now we will get the elements till 5 right. So these are nothing but the index 0 1 2 3 4 5 are the index of my array 1 fine. So in this way we are getting the values. But let's say this code has retrieving that values fine. Now let's say I want to perform this swap operation means what we will have the 2 arrays right from this 2 arrays I want to swap the content of those array. I want to swap the array 2 values into the array 1. So what we will do we will have a simple one function that is called the swap function right this is a swap function. So now in this way function what we will have array 1 dot swap of array 2 means what array 1 is going to fill with the array 2 values right. So what we will have the array 2 in array 2 we will have the 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 right. So now currently in array 1 what we will have we will have the 100 right because we have done the fill operation. So let's run this code and check what it is going to do. See here so array 1 so now here array 1 elements are what we will have 0 1 2 3 4 5 right. But here what we are getting 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11 right. Why because we have done this operation fine. So after swap operation we are getting these values fine after swap operation we are getting these values. So hope everyone is getting these concepts fine. So let's say we have seen this all the functions. So now let's I will ask one question think and write is it possible to store the heterogeneous values in the array by using stl think and write your answer. Now right because array stores only homogeneous values it is not allowed to store the heterogeneous values. References are observable inter-programmings with a C++ 6 relation by Ival Ghosh. Thank you.


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I owe marita away! This faithful Indian companion taught oh, the daring and resourceful mask rider of the plains led the fight for law and order in the early western United States. Nowhere in the pages of history can one find a greater champion of justice. Return with us now to those thrilling days of yesteryear. From out of the past come the thundering hoof beats of the great horse Silver. The Lone Ranger rides again. Let's go, people. Are you seeing me? A tall, nice-looking fellow about 25 years of age entered the cafe in Flint Rock. He stood a moment looking around, then approached the barkeep. Hi, mister, something for you? Good afternoon, nice to meet you. Hey, haven't I seen you around here before? No, this is my first trip to Flint Rock. Still think I've seen you around? Funny, but now I know.  A fellow by the name of Dave Layton. You knew Dave Layton? Yeah, I used to come in here a lot. Might deny somebody too. But poor Layton isn't here anymore, though. Took a bullet from ambush. Never did find out who did it. I know. You see, I'm Dave Layton's brother, Tom. Oh, so that's it. You fixing to stay in Flint Rock? It's possible. I hope to start up the freight line my brother used to run. Maybe someday I'll find the hombre who shot him. Sam Wellman, stage and freight line owner, ran the town of Flint Rock with an iron hand. He had several hired gunslingers who were ever ready to do his bidding. That evening, two of his men entered Sam's office. Well, boys, seems like you have something on your minds. What is it? We got news for you, boss. Where are you here? Well, I'm waiting, Jim. You tell him, Nick. All right. A young fellow in town fixing to give you competition, boss. Competition? Uh-huh. Remember Dave Layton who tried to start a stage and freight line a couple of months ago? Of course I remember. He ended up in Poothill. Yeah. Well, his brother, Tom, has come here to take over where he left off. He's doing a lot of talking around town, too. That's right. He says he's going to find the hombre who'd done this, brother, and that he's going to start up the freight line again. Very interesting. He's already got an in with John Orwell, the mine owner. You see, it seems, Tom Layton went to school and stayed in Louis with Orwell's daughter, Sally. He's going after the contract to haul Orwell from the mine to the railroad at half your price.  He'll make Layton prove he can bring in the Orwell first. And you're going to let him go ahead and try? Sure. We'll get the new contract with Orwell. And even at a higher price than we charge now. Before I'm through with Tom Layton, he'll wish he'd never come to Flint Rock. That evening, Tom Layton was a visitor at the home of John Orwell on the edge of town. Tom was saying... Mr. Orwell, I came here to Flint Rock to take over the freight line my brother started. I know I can make a go of it if I do hauling for your company. Tom, Sally already told me why you came here. But you're up against a go-in concern. Orwell has plenty of men and good equipment. Oh, I do admit his prices are mighty high. I have three good wagons and I know I'll be able to give good service at almost half the cost to you. You should give Tom a chance, Dad. I know you'll make good. Thanks, Sally. Well, I don't know. Please, Dad. Frankly, I do believe it's bad for the rest to have someone like Wellman force a out-competition. If I thought it would do any good, I might let Tom try. I know I can bring in as much and bring it in as fast as Wellman did. Well, if you do, Tom, then we'll talk about a contract at the end of the two weeks. It was almost dusk when Toto, Indian companion to the lone ranger, left town and returned to their temporary camp in the hills with surprise. Good scout. Oh, father. Easy scout. I'll help you unload the saddlebag, fellow. Ah. Me, here, brother of latent color, who was murdered two months ago, came to Plink Rock. Him, Tom, latent color. He came to hug his brother's killer? Maybe. Let me find out if he's fixin' to start fake line. Brother try to start. I see. There's two fellows in cafe while ago, then talk cutty-loud. Say, it's not good for anyone to work for a newcomer. Oh, really? Me, here, then, work for Wellman outfit. Oh. Well, then we'll do most anything to keep away competition. Not right. Later, we'll have a hard time getting business. Then, say, he'll get chance to bring all of a mind, startin' Saturday.  No. No. He'll get chance to show what he'll do. Then, he'll get contract maybe after two weeks. Oh, he makes it. Wellman's had his way too long. Ah. And latent, no girl whose father owned mine. Him, give young fellow chance. Wellman might cause trouble. Ah. Where a car broke this guy's leg, Tutto. Then, we'll go to the towel and see how well it'll go out. Later that night, the lone ranger disguised his features and changed his clothing. Then, he and Tutto loaded to Plink Rock and pulled rain in the shadows near the cafe. They entered the cafe and sent her to the security table. Tom Layton was talking to a group of men nearby. That's all I feel around this town, Wellman. But because of him, no one will drive my wagons. I reckon maybe it isn't that Layton. He's got an established great land. But he would just attend a foot-tryin' a whole'n in. I don't resent that. I'm not here looking for trouble. Maybe you'll get plenty of it without looking. You try to carry through your ideas. I'll take that chance. I understand your brother took his chance, too. And lost. What do you know about my brother? Everybody around here knows Dave Layton was shot. That's why you better be careful, or what?  Hands off of me, Layton. My thunder, maybe you'll get it right now. Both of you, gun and be quick. Who are you to be buttoned in, mister? If you want gunplay, you'll have it. Put up your gun, I said. I wasn't going to use it, but he was asking for it just the same. Come on, Jim. Let's get out of here. Thanks, mister. You sure got the drop on him, Christ. He seems to have a quick temper. He might have shot you. Hey, stranger, maybe you'd like a job. I could use your friend, too, the Indian. Thanks. We'd grab a side and talk it over, if you'd like. Sure, let's go. After leaving the cafe, the lone ranger and turtle talked to Tom Layton for a few moments on the porch and promised to help him with his wagons the next day. When recorded, Tom went into the cafe and the lone ranger and turtle muttered silver and scout to return to their camps. Come on, come on. The lone ranger and turtle had ridden at a fast pace and so reached the grove in which they had picked camp. While Tom once settled the horses, the lone ranger removed his disguise and changed into his usual clothes. Then, as the two men prepared to roll into their blankets, the great horse Silver raised his head and whinnyed softly. Silver, give one and keep us happy. Yes, he's looking toward the gully to the left. Ah, may not see anyone yet. They move out his braggiest clove. They turn for the shadows and fast. From the gully, Nick and Jim saw the masked man and Indian move quickly toward the shadows. Jim spoke. Hey, look, Nick, they suspect something. He's a tall one, isn't it? Look, he's messed. Anyway, all right, drag it, Jim. This is it. We'll continue our lone ranger adventure in just a moment. A cloud of dust, a flash of light and a hearty hyalomorita. The lone stranger eats again. Well, Pronto, have you been to a picnic before? A little bighorn. That was no picnic, maybe not for cavalry. Why is the lone stranger in Pronto? Hello, ma'am. Hello.  Much obliged, ma'am. Here you are. How come there are no hot dog or hamburger in these buns? Maybe they're vegetarians. Why, goodness gracious, no. We just love the baked, wildestly fresh taste so much. We never put anything in our marita hot dog and hamburger buns. Well, they're very delicious. Thank you and goodbye, ma'am. Oh, my. He handed me a silver bullet. Let me take that. Indian giver. Dune in again for those thrilling days of yesteryear. The lone stranger eats again. Hyalomorita. All right! Now to continue. The lone ranger and Pronto, alerted by silver's warning, suddenly sprang into the shadows just as the shots rang out. Growing their guns, they fired toward the spot where the gun flashes had been seen. Let's get away from here. Come on! A bullet must have creased one of them. They'll saddle the horses and pick up their trailer. Let's go. Through the two gunmen, Nick and Jim, were reporting to Sam Wellman in his office in town. They told him about the trouble in the cafe and of what happened at the lone rangers' camp. When Sam had heard the details, he spoke. Uh-huh. Well, Layton's taking three wagons out of the mine in the morning to bring in some more. I figure he'll drive one of them and the other two men will drive the other two wagons. Yeah, I reckon that's right. Yeah, but what I can't figure is why that cowpoke changes clothes after they got to that camp and then put on a man. I can figure that one out for you, Nick. You mentioned that cowpoke wrote a white stallion out of town. The Indian wrote a paint, didn't you? Yeah, that's right. You know, ordinarily, I would have paused your for starting trouble in the cafe with Layton. Under the circumstances, you turned up something mighty interesting and important. Oh, yeah? Oh, what's that? Ever hear of the lone ranger? Oh, sure I have, boss. Hey, you don't think... Yeah, but I think that mask, man, is the lone ranger. You don't seem to be much worried, boss. No, I'm not. You see, he doesn't know I've learned that he and that cowpoke are one and the same. He'll probably appear to drive the wagon tomorrow, disguised again as that cowpoke. Well, suppose he does. He'll give us a chance not only to get rid of Layton and his wagons, but also the Indian and the lone ranger. Meanwhile, the lone ranger and toddler had managed to follow the trail of the two gunmen to Wellman's office. They waited in the shadows until Nick and Jim came out. They watched as the two men went to a shed behind the office and then came out carrying something which they put in their saddlebags. They're not just something, toddler. Ah, then worked for Wellman. Maybe him planned something. They'll soon find out. They're getting ready to mount. Alright, we'll follow them. Let's go. The mask man and Indian were careful not to let Nick and Jim know they were being followed. They watched from the darkness of a groove as the two gunmen worked on the bluff. Finally, Nick and Jim finished their work and left. Then the lone ranger and toddler walked forward to see what they had been doing. The trail will fall tomorrow from the mine run under this bluff tunnel. Here's where they were working. I suspect it is much. Blasting powder. Fuse. Go back there. Yes, to a point from which they could watch the approach of the wagons. It's good we find out. If them set off blasts, we all get killed. Disconnect the fuse and the blasting powder. There. They tried to cast some red-handed lighting the fuse. You think they'll tell Wellman about the mask? Yes, they could see it playing in the moonlight. What's more, Wellman is apt to guess who I am. Then you'll not use disguise to drive wagon. Yes, I will. So the miners won't be curious. Alright, let's go. The money will have a few instructions to give you and Tom laden. The following morning, the lone ranger again disguised and dressed as a cowpoke drove one of the wagons to the mine and Tom and Tothold drove the other two. Silver and Scout were on tie lines behind the wagons. Later after the wagons were loaded, they started back along the trail to town. Just before they rounded the bend near the bluff, the lone ranger pulled the lead wagon to a stop and called the others for a talk. Hold on, hold on, hold on. Hold on, Tom, hold on a minute. We near a bluff. I hope they don't know that plan has been discovered. Well, they have to take their chairs, Tom. Did you speak to Mr. Orwell? Yes, he's following with some of the miners. Good. Around the bend we'll be inside of those gunmen for a few minutes. Then as we approach the bluff, we'll be hidden from view. That's right. We'll run tie lines from the horses on the second wagon to the rear of the first one so they'll stay in line. Why do you do that? Because I want you to take my place in the lead wagon, Tothold. Tom will drive the last wagon. The second one will be driverless. Where do you go? That bluff is flat on top and slopes down either side. I'm going up to the bluff to catch some of the active light and the fuse. Let's get the wagon moving. Right. Get up there!  A few minutes later around the bluff, Nick spoke to Sam Weldon. Yeah, I see the wagons moving along close together. Yeah. It'll soon be time to light the fuse. And all we have to do is wait for what happens. Sure. We better be in it as soon as it's over.  Several minutes went by as the three killers wakened tensely. The wagons had passed from sight and were about to move under the bluff. Finally, Sam spoke. All right, Nick. Set a match to that fuse. All right. There. Hey, look, the cowpoke, he sneaked up the side of the slope. You're rich, mister. I'm right behind you. Good work, Jim. Bring him over here, Jim. I see you've already lighted the fuse. But you're in for a surprise, Weldon. You mean you're in for a surprise, mister. We checked when we came back here. We found the fuse disconnected, so we fixed it again. Then the power will explode in a couple of minutes now. The Lone Ranger realized his plan had failed, and that in a short time, Toto and Tom would be killed by the explosion. It'll soon be there. Yeah. The wagons should be just beneath now. The Lone Ranger still held his guns in his up-raised hands. Once more, he glanced at Jim, who held a gun behind him. Then he went into action, kicking backs up, and he caught Jim on the skin with his spear. Stop it! As Jim, taken completely by surprise, bent over in pain, the Lone Ranger fired. He had aimed at the fuse between the blasting powder and the glowing end. His bullets severed the fuse a short distance ahead of the powder.  Oh, I'm hit! Here, you should come. What's your guess, one? No, I'm not sure. Of course, when it's coming up the slope, I'm getting out of here. You're not leaving with him? No, please be. Why is thunder on the ground? Got that gun with him? Oh, oh, oh. Keep the tour of the ground covered, man. Thank you, mister. All right, come on. For a moment, the Lone Ranger has done full support.  While the miners watched, Elmond was a big man, and he fought with Fury, but the Lone Ranger was more than a match for him. You should do it! Take it!  Our plan almost fell through, Tom. It reconnected the fuse to the Blaston powder. What is all this, anyway? These men planned his head off and exploding to stop Tom. Yeah, we would have been killed, buried alive. It was Wellman's plan, Nick, and I just worked for it. Wellman's plan, eh? That's right. You'll find Blaston powder on the edge of the bluff for the burnt-out fuse nearby. They planned to stop Tom's wagons by bearing them under tons of dirt. Well, I'll take a look there. Yes, the cowpokes ride. There is Blaston powder here, and up to blow tons of dirt over the trail below. How on earth did you find our Tom? My friends, they found out about it last night, the cowpoke and the Indian. I sure owe you two a lot. And you have steady jobs if you want them. Well, thanks, Tom, but we have other work to do. Tom, I think you'll get my contract for the hauling. And we'll take these killers to the sheriff for some explaining. You might have Wellman explain how his men got rid of Tom's brother. You can't pin that on us. Wellman paid us to ambush Dave Lane.   You're just fixing a loose for yourself. And for you and the other fellow too, Wellman. Yeah, the sheriff will sure be glad to question these ombrés.  Bye, Jiminy. Hold it, Tom, hold it. Let the law take its course. Yes, he's right, Tom. And I reckon Sally'd think twice before she, well, let a killer come to court her. Sally, what? Say, Mr. Orwell, you mean you'd be willing to let Sally... I promised Sally I'd bring you home to dinner, Tom. If you continue to get the wagons through for the next two weeks, I reckon you'll get the contract. Gosh, it ought to be easy now without Wellman to interfere. I sure have a lot to thank this cop, old four. Mr. I don't even know your name, but I... You mean you didn't know who he is? Never mind that. Wellman men like you never learn that others in the West deserve a chance to make good. You've learned it now, and it's... and it's too late. Goodbye, Tom. Perhaps when we come this way again, congratulations will be in order. I hope so. Maybe you'll have a chance to be best man. We'll see. Goodbye and good luck. Goodbye, sir. Hey, Wellman, you acted a minute ago as if you knew who that hombre is. Well, speak up. Who is he?  He's the only hombre you could have helped a tenderfoot competitor like you get a chance of that contract in spite of my plans. Well, he's just a drifting cowpoke. How could he hope my eye? We saw him last night when he had his other clothes and a mask on. A mask? I saw him wearing a mask. But why should he wear a mask if he's not an outlaw? Why don't you tell him, Nick, that cowpoke stuff is a fake. That hombre's really the lone ranger. 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The flickering light from the single lamp on the table cast weird shadows around the large front room. And Ruth shivered whenever she glanced at the bleak, uncurtained windows. Hal, I just thought, what do we do about water? There must be a well around here. In fact, I remember Mr. Logan saying the cabin. I'll go get some water. Hal, do you think it's safe to go up there in the dark? Of course. Hal walked around the cabin to the back and peered through the darkness to look at the well. I think I see it right back there. As Hal slowly approached the outline of the covered well, a figure moved out from behind a tree.  He'll sure wonder what hit him when he wakes up. Now I better get back to the others. Listen to the Lone Ranger brought to you by special recording at this same time. Here, a copyrighted feature of the Lone Ranger Incorporated is produced by Trenville Campbell Muir Incorporated. A part of the Lone Ranger is played by Brace Beamer, your announcer, Fred Foy.


Now, who owns the business you work for? For about 250,000 employees, rough estimate, they do. I mean, the workforce owns the company. It's called employee ownership. A trend for people to own their own companies, or companies they work for, really took off in 2014 when the coalition government introduced another tax breaks, which helped companies make their change. Now, the Employee Ownership Association is asking for more help, saying these kinds of companies have more motivated, happier workforces, they've got less staff turnover, they've got greater productivity, they're more resilient to downturns. Let's find out why and more. Deb Oxley is the Chief Executive Employee Ownership Association. First, let's look at what happened in 2014, because that rather changed everything with the finance act then, didn't it? It gave tax breaks, and it really made people want to do this, to actually change the companies into employee ownership companies, didn't it? Yeah, good afternoon. It certainly did. The tax incentives have been very important in helping to raise awareness of employee ownership, but what we're calling for today is an investment by the government of about £2 million in order to grow and expand the voluntary growth of employee and worker ownership, so that there can be an ownership dividend for a million UK workers across the country. Yes, but I think my point really is, why should an employee or an employer, sorry, do this? I mean, what's in it for them? And it is to do with this act, isn't it? They gave them a tax break. Can you explain what that tax break was? Yeah, well, the reason many owners want to move to employee ownership or many entrepreneurs want to start a worker co-op is because what they want to do is share, having a stake and a say with all employees, which, as you said earlier in your introduction, is proven to deliver higher levels of productivity, stronger levels of resilience in the business. And these are businesses that actually give more to the local communities in which they're best. What I say is that the shareholders, the original shareholders who want to sell the company, they usually sell it to a trust, don't they, which holds them on behalf of the employees, in most cases. They actually get a tax break in terms of, they don't pay any capital gains tax, do they, on the money which they make from that sale to the employees? That's right. If owners opt for the employee ownership trust model, which is the 2014 legislation you mentioned, then they don't pay any capital gains tax on the proceeds of the sale. But equally, the employee owners, who are the new owners of that business, also get a good tax advantage from tax-free bonus payments in the future. So it's a win-win for both the owner and the future employee owners. They can make something like £3,000 extra a year, can't they, tax-free? Yeah. If a company's doing well. Of course, if a company's doing badly, they do have to take some of the pain.  Yeah, the evidence is that the majority of businesses that become employer-earned actually experience a woosh effect of positivity straight afterwards, because when the employees are more engaged, they're putting in more discretionary effort. Actually, what you see is a direct impact on the bottom line, which collectively, when you get a number of these businesses in the same region, you end up with some strong regional economic performance, which is why we're calling for the government today to invest in the spending review in the voluntary expansion of worker and employer-earnership in the future. Dev Oxley, thanks very much indeed for joining us.