Hello everyone Welcome to another Narc Survival Live video. Just checked into this room Two big birds, but it's just me. So if anyone wants to come and enjoy this Jungle view out here. I think you can hear the crickets outside Just been doing some traveling I'm going to explore the National Park tomorrow But yeah, let's talk about this This is something that I've witnessed quite a few times already When Narcissists They always end up destroying themselves in the end And I know a lot of you you look at the Narcissist in your life. It looks like they just swooped in They took everything they wanted from you They robbed you They used and abused you They kept you in a trance. They kept you under a spell for all of this time Where you were constantly catering to them When you were quite clearly overqualified for that You were far too Great far too capable To be submitting to that role You were well above that But they wanted to maintain this authority over you But they could tell you what to do and in actuality by doing that They just ended up shooting themselves in the foot Because you will you should have been the one who was holding the reins You should have been the one who was in control many of you. I know You're attractive people You're successful You've got a lot of experience in your life. You've achieved a lot of things And if you look at it, you were actually far superior to the Narcissist in knowledge, experience In your success and achievements So you should have been the one who is in control of them and they should have been the ones who were submitting to you especially as You may be an empath Empaths are excellent leaders because they're not all about themselves Which means they can guide other people to the right direction So if the Narcissist had just stuck with you and listened to you Things would have turned out very differently And I know that I can see it in my own life Every Narcissist that I've dealt with If they just listened to me If they just followed my instructions They allowed me to have the leadership role if they just did that Everything would have been very different Not just for myself, but especially for them their lives would have been far greater They would have been a lot happier and I know that that is a guarantee in every situation Where I've dealt with Narcissists It would have changed their entire lives But they threw it all away Because of their ego Because of their arrogance and entitlement their competitiveness Their envy and jealousy And all of these things all of these exaggerations. They just let it get to their heads They got to a head of themselves and by doing that they managed to ruin everything for their own lives the very people who Try to bring me down They try to destroy me If they had just come at it a different way And they were prepared to listen to me and to acknowledge my authority Based on my knowledge experience success and achievements I could have led them to a favorable result for both of us. I have no doubt in my mind that I could have done that And it would have changed everything It would have changed their entire lives And yet they just threw it all away Because they don't value relationships. They don't value connection. They look at it like What's the point of them being Under someone else's authority They may be paranoid. They may think that you don't really mean well for them Or they may assume that Because they've just cheated their way through life. They've relied on their manipulation They don't actually have any abilities or skills So under your authority and supervision There isn't really much that they could do anyway Because what are they going to do for you? Yes, you may have the knowledge, the experience, the success and achievements You may have evidence of your capabilities But regardless of that What are they going to do for you? In reciprocation In an equal exchange Because otherwise what is the point in you being with them? If all they're going to do is just Live off your success, your work But what about you? What are you getting out of it? And that is why they just see you as something temporary An object, an extension of them The possession, just something they use And then once they've gotten what they wanted They just take a little bit They settle for the crumbs rather than the loaf And then they just take off and they leave you alone Then they're done with you and they're on to the next But guaranteed they will never find anyone like you again They're not going to find someone who is on your level Someone who did all of the things that you did for them Someone who could have changed their entire future If they just remained with you and listened to you Instead of always arguing and fighting with you They were constantly fighting over control They wanted to be the ones who told you what to do But if they just listened to you things would have been very different While for you things will improve They will steadily get better Despite whatever you had to deal with with them Because unlike them you can take accountability You're emotionally mature So you can accept that you've made mistakes You gave chances to the wrong people And then you can look at yourself and make the necessary changes So that you do better in the future While for the narcissist as we know they never take accountability They got very lucky with you You went too hard on them You gave them so many chances You took care of them They managed to evade accountability for a lot of things with you But with someone else It might not be so easy for them Because all of these things they're doing They're strengthening certain circuits of the brain Every time that they do certain things and they get away with it Or they have a favorable result Or they manage to evade accountability In their minds that tells them That they're okay to do that As though next time it's going to be the same Their manipulation is effective They can get what they want But at some point they may do that to someone Who is not going to tolerate it in the way that you did Because if you look back You were very calm You were very tolerant You were very accepting and understanding Because you had empathy You have the ability to share their feelings While someone else in that same situation I mean just think about that for a moment All of the times that they used and abused you They manipulated you They gaslighted you They spun you in circles They messed with your mind They archaged you with you They got in your face All of these things they did to you You were very accepting and tolerant They stepped in and tolerant Someone else in that same situation They might have knocked them clean out They might have just completely put them away in hospital They might have completely destroyed them So just think about that for a moment And realise that yes they did target you for a reason Because they know that you are very kind, caring and understanding You're willing to give people a chance If they did those same things to someone else Who knows what would have happened It would have really costed them And yet that's the thing Because from dealing with you They learn that they can get away with certain things That they can still have a favorable result From manipulating and deceiving people So then they go on to another situation And they assume that they can do the same thing again While people are starting to educate themselves on this They're starting to understand what is going on So their success is going to start to dwindle They're not going to have the same success as they did before Because I don't know about you But I don't really enjoy being manipulated and deceived I don't enjoy being gaslit and abused And then tossed aside Blamed for everything I don't think there's many people out there who enjoy that But as we know that's exactly what narcissists do They don't play a fair game And of course at some point they are going to run into someone Who is probably not going to play a fair game with them They're going to recognise them at relation They're going to see them come in from a mile away And they are going to be ready for that ass They are going to be ready to jump right on that And they're going to tear them to pieces And even if the unlikely case that that doesn't happen As a result of their arrogance, audacity and aggressiveness Even if that doesn't happen to them The other thing that will most definitely happen Is that they're going to experience failure after failure As a result of their inability to take accountability Because that's really it, accountability is the key to your success When I look back at my own life What helped me to become successful Was the situations where I took accountability For where I found myself in life But narcissists, they are like big babies They go around just blaming everyone else for their situation It's always everyone else's problem, it's never theirs And by doing that They're actually just giving their power away They're giving their power away to other people And if you look at it, the relationships that you were in with narcissists Every time that they did that, they evaded accountability They blamed you for everything What happened? It ended up empowering you in the end It always does, it always ends up empowering the victim When the narcissist evades accountability And I've seen that myself in my own life Every time that they avoided accountability and they blamed me for everything My life just got even greater I became even happier I empowered myself, I became independent I had so many more new experiences without them Well as for them I don't know all of their situations, I mean I have dealt with quite a few narcissists now But for the ones I do know Their lives got progressively worse And I already know that if they had just listened to me And followed my instructions and advice Things would have turned out very differently for them They would have had a completely different future, a completely different life And it's all because they didn't want to listen They couldn't accept While It doesn't really make any sense at the same time Because if you look at it, they target us Because they deem us to be the best of the best They see us as being greater than them A narcissist does not want to be around someone who they think is less than them They want people who are attractive People who have money, power and status People who at least look like they're going somewhere And yet as soon as they get that person They want to put them under a spell, they want to put them in a trance They want to pull the wall over their eyes So that they don't see who they're actually dealing with Even though you are meant to be the captain of the ship You're meant to be the leader in that relationship Because you are the one with superior qualities and skills And yet they want to take on that role And by doing that, the relationship always goes south It goes under They end up destroying it They destroy so many good connections in their lives Due to their own arrogance and audacity Because they want to take on that role And audacity Because they want to be the ones who are in charge They want to be the boss But just look and see where that gets them Because this is common knowledge among professionals Who study this disorder I've seen on many videos on YouTube already By various psychologists But yes, narcissism is self-destructive Which means that Their narcissistic behaviour It just ends up destroying them in the end While the whole point of why they inherited this disorder And engage in the manipulation It's because they intended to deceive people To get one over on us To gain something at our expense When in the end all it really does is affect them They just end up destroying themselves in the end When if they had just worked with you, they cooperated, they listened to you Their lives would have been very different But a lot of them, it's like they can't even see the forest for the trees They're just thinking about it in the moment And they look at it like if they were around you long enough After they exposed themselves and showed you who they really are You wouldn't want anything to do with them anyway Because you would just look at yourself and then look at them And you would just think, what am I even doing around you? And that's the whole point, that's why they have to manipulate you That's why they have to pull the wool over your eyes They have to blame you for everything And get you so that every minute of your day Is constantly focused and directed to them Because you never look at yourself and realise That they're no good for you anyway They've got nothing to bring to the table They can't lead or direct you to a better place So a more progressive or desirable result All they can do is bring you down All they can do is trick you So even if they showed you who they are And they intended to be in something long too You would just end up getting rid of them You would just end up leaving them high and dry And I think a lot of them already know this It's why they rely on their manipulation And their illusion And they don't spend too much time around you So yes it is Accepted now that Narcissism Narcissism It is self-destructive They do just end up destroying themselves in the end Because they destroy all of their connections They blame everyone else instead of taking accountability And by doing that they just end up disempowering themselves Because there is nothing more empowering Than taking that accountability And then responding to the best of your ability Because when you look at it It's really Whatever you're attuned to Are you attuned to working on yourself And becoming the best version of who you are Because that pattern of behaviour is inevitably Going to lead to something good But if you're constantly blaming everyone else You're holding everyone else accountable You're expecting everyone to fix things for you By doing that you become dependent on them You're expecting them to fix and change everything for you When it's an impossible task It's unrealistic They're only going to end up burning themselves out And what are you going to do then? How are you going to empower yourself? How are you going to move on to something greater or something else?  It's quite clearly If they did the exact opposite If instead of bringing you down, they empowered you It's clearly clear It's clearly they didn't target you for nothing They targeted you because In that moment they believed that you were the best option for them They believed that it wasn't going to get any better than that So if they had just stuck by you and empowered you They had supported you, they had nurtured you They had been there for you Then you could have become A much greater version of yourself Things could have been so much better for you And what they don't understand a lot of times Is that if things are better for you, things are better for them Except they can't even see that because Deep down they know they don't deserve to be around you anyway They already know they're going to end up weighing you down They're going to be burning you out And then you're going to get fed up Or maybe they just might get bored So they don't really see any point in doing that When in actuality if you look at it That would be the best option for them And it's the best option for anyone If you really want to be around someone Who is on a higher level than you They're greater, they're superior in performance Then you need to be prepared to listen to them Yes, you have to submit to their authority And let them lead you Because they know better They've been there, they've done it And I know that myself and my own experience Of course I didn't just learn everything about narcissism overnight I researched, I studied From people who are far more intelligent Far more educated than I am And that's how I became who I am today From watching other YouTubers From studying and researching From the psychologists That's just the way that things are supposed to work Otherwise things never would have worked out for me on YouTube If instead Of listening To what the doctors and psychologists have to say about it I just went and started making things up on my own But then aside from that Of course I have my own personal experience as well So that counts for something too But what I'm really talking about is Relationships and how you should be working as a team You should be cooperating But because they're so competitive They're so envious and jealous They're very insecure They think they can be better than you When they just have to let go of their ego And accept why they targeted you They targeted you because they believed you were better That's why they put you in a pedestal in the beginning So of course you should have had the authority You should have been the leader I'm not saying that you should have seen them as any less For a person Or not treated them as your equal But you've just got to accept That when there's two people together Or even a group of people And one person Is superior in qualification Abilities, skills, knowledge and experience Yes that person needs to be in charge That person needs to be dominant They need to be the leader They need to make the majority of the decisions Otherwise it's not going to lead anywhere good Some people just don't want to accept that And if you don't want to accept it You're not going to get much out of it You're going to have to settle for the crumbs Rather than the loaf But this is just how it is Narcissists they have too much ego and pride This false sense of satisfaction in themselves This is exaggerated sense of their own abilities and importance To where they don't just want to sit down and listen When the reality is that yes that is exactly What they need to do Not just so they can be a better person for you But also so they can create a better life for themselves Because I know that I've seen it in my own experience so many times And it's not just in my own past relationships I've seen it in family, I've seen it in friends I've even seen it in the workplace Some people they lack the knowledge, the skills that they experience The ability And they just don't want to listen They don't want to follow anyone else's lead And it's because they have too much ego and pride And that never leaves them anywhere good in the end They just end up destroying everything around them And in the end they even end up destroying themselves And yes this is known By many psychologists This is commonly Accepted to be true By people who are professionals, experts in narcissism We know that yes Narcissism is self-destructive It is not self-empowering It never leads to long-term success It never does I've never seen a single situation where it has And I don't think anyone else has either And not only that but anyone Who follows a narcissist's lead They follow their dominance, their authority They submit to their will I've never heard of any situation In my five years of research And a lifetime of experience Not even one situation where that has led The target To a more favourable or beneficial result Their lives always deteriorated It always got worse Every time There is no one who has ever come on my channel With 165,000 subscribers Over 40 million views There is no winning with a narcissist With someone who's only thinking about themselves There is no winning with a narcissist With someone who's only thinking about themselves Someone who lacks empathy They're not thinking about the future They're not thinking about a family or their children There is no success in that There never is There never was, there never has been So there's not going to be any success in that now And we only have to look back to see that It's always been that way Any form of narcissism Any form of conflict Where there's no resolution, there's no understanding Every time it leads To A great deal of loss and destruction And you would think that by now this would be common sense And no, it's not just loss and destruction to the victim or target It's to the narcissist, the perpetrator is as well And it has always been this way But I actually believe that some of them already know Yes, they know that they are destroying themselves as well Because a lot of narcissists, they just don't care They don't even care about themselves They will destroy themselves just to get to you It's like a suicide bomber They will come in with an explosive They will blow up themselves just to harm you Or you could be on a ship together And they will sink the ship, drown themselves Just so they know that they've drowned you That's just how crazy they are And that is what makes them very dangerous It's the fact that they don't even care about themselves So when you're around them You should know that if they don't care about themselves They will come to put you in danger and to cause you harm Because they don't even care about what happens to them They see it as though If anything goes wrong They've got their insurance plan They could just blame you They could just hold you accountable and expect you to change or fix it Which again is narcissism And whatever happens is going to be self-destructive It's going to destroy them in the end anyway So when you look at it, yes there really is A clear lack of not only empathy But emotional intelligence as well A lot of them really are stupid Because if they were smart they would not do that They would be thinking about the consequences, the future They would be realising that Holding everyone else accountable And not taking accountability themselves And responding to the best of their ability Yes of course that immediately puts them at a disadvantage But this is just what narcissists do It is self-destructive It will destroy them in the end It may look like they're winning now It may look like they've moved on They got away with it They got one over on you They manipulated, they lied, they future faked They used and abused you They gaslit you But it will all affect them in the end It always does every time And they never learn They just go around doing the same things To everyone they encounter And just that lack of accountability It's what destroys them in the end Or they treat you a certain way And they think they can do that to someone else But not everyone responds the same way Not everyone will tolerate and accept the things that you did So yes All very important things to be aware of It's really what they do They shoot themselves in the foot They hang themselves And sometimes they don't even see it coming They don't even see what they do Because they're so fixated on you They're just so envious and jealous and competitive It's all about just trying to destroy you They don't even see what they're doing to themselves But there really is nothing you can tell them There really is nothing you can do All they're ever going to do is just think about themselves And whatever they think is going to put them in a better position Not realizing that Yes, there's lack of accountability and empathy That is what sets them up to fail It is what destroys them in the end Which is why I do and as I have always done I do always promote empathy and compassion I promote for people to be considerate Of other people's feelings and needs Instead of only thinking about themselves Because that's what I really want for the world Is to be more empathic Because by doing that it makes it a better place for all of us And do you realize this if you have emotional intelligence Do you know that this is true? Unfortunately it is something that narcissists Will never learn or never care about They will just keep doing the same thing And one day it will really affect them As for us What I recommend and what I continue to promote Is that Despite what you go through Despite what they do to you You don't just lay down and give up You take accountability for where you find yourself You continue to respond to things that are within your control You can't control everything outside of you You can't control what other people do But that's just it Life Is 10% of what happens to you And 90% how you respond to it So respond to things in a way that Protects and empowers you And prevents you from getting caught up in the same situations again It's really the key to success Accountability Responding to the best of your ability I mean all you've got to do Is look at anyone Who is living a difficult life Anyone who is going through a lot of things They're not where they want to be They're not happy Do you really think those people have responded To the best of their ability? Do you really think that those people Didn't have opportunities In their past Where they could have achieved something great They could have established a meaningful relationship With someone Of course yes We've all had opportunities in our lives And at times maybe we didn't respond To the best of our ability Or maybe we got manipulated We got deceived Because of course yes that happens as well We think we found something good And we do respond to it efficiently But then we ended up getting tricked Used Deceived Is the problem with a lot of people today They think the world is unfair They blame everyone else While they may have had all of the opportunities In the world They didn't choose those opportunities though They didn't respond To the best of their ability And if they did Then maybe they wouldn't be In the same predicaments and circumstances That they are now in And that's not just me Picking on people Because no I'm saying this to educate people And not only that I'm saying it because of course I can recognise that myself In my own life Of course there were situations Where I had choices And I made the wrong choice There were situations Where I did not respond To the best of my ability And then I had to deal with the consequences So yes this is something We all need to educate ourselves on We all need to be aware of it Because a lot of times yes That is what we do We could have picked a completely different situation A different opportunity But we chose to Go along with the narcissist We gave them a chance We overlooked the red flags When there could have been A much better situation for us But it's because we follow these patterns Of behaviour from our childhood That's what led us into it So yes I know it's not always something That people want to hear Of course I understand that as well If you've been through it You might be going through it right now They're doing all of these things to you Maybe the last thing you want to hear Is for someone to come around And say You just need to look at yourself You need to take accountability Because of course I know That's not going to change them We can't control other people Or what they do But remember yes we can Hopefully we can control How we respond to it Because yes I understand A lot of narcissists They engage in black magic Witchcraft Mind control So not only in those situations You can't control what they do It's like at times You can't even control yourself It's like you don't even have free will Because you're under their control You can't even make your own choices And decisions And the odds are that yes In a lot of situations If they were not present If they were not there You may have made a very different choice And it may have led you to a better result So yes But just understand Narcissism it is Self destructive The way that they're self absorbed They lack empathy They're just all about themselves All about these ideas in their minds These delusions Which they're constantly trying to project On to other people All of these things They don't lead them anywhere good They just end up destroying themselves And I hope that does bring people some comfort In knowing that In being aware of it They don't just get away with it It doesn't matter what they do to you They may do all of these things But it always catches up with them in the end These actions These patterns of behavior Yes they do lead them somewhere And it's not anywhere positive or good And I'm not just talking about in the next life I'm talking about in this one as well I can hear the crickets' own side You know I do love the sound of nature It's very peaceful out here I just enjoy being alone with myself My own thoughts and ideas That's what's very empowering for me But yes I do hope that you got something out of this video I hope that it brings you Come forth Come forth It brings you Comfort in knowing That they don't just get away with what they did to you It does catch up to them in the end Well for us We can take accountability We can recognize that At least maybe some of us We could have made a different choice or decision There could have been some other alternative Something else that we could have done A way out of the situation Of course yes I know I understand That is not the case for all of us Those of us who are under Extreme control You're condensed, you're contained There isn't really Too much you can do in those situations All you can really do is be aware If you can Just stay down Lay low And then just make your exit plan And leave at the earliest opportunity But yes I do hope this video was helpful And if it was you can show your support down below By giving this video a thumbs up You can leave your thoughts in the comment section as well I do read your comments every day Share the video Hit that subscribe button down below as well And the bell icon to receive All of the notifications for my future videos And if you'd like to talk to me one on one That service is 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everybody and welcome to the LA Convention Center where it is all going down this week as we lead up to Super Bowl 56. This is the home of the fan experience. And of course radio row is where as well where all of the members of the media are broadcasting from this week. And hello welcome into our set welcome into the Fandals Sportsbooks more ways to win studio here. What's up football fans. I'm Lisa Kearney here in Los Angeles where the Super Bowl is now just a few days away. Very exciting times and I am joined by the rest of the guys here on set with me. We are breaking down this big game between the Rams and the Bengals. We're going to get to them but we have got huge guests on the show. You guys Broncos running back Melbourne Gordon stopping by along with Hall of Fame running back Eric Dickerson just off the side of our set waiting. He will be sitting in one of these seats in just a moment. What's up guys. We're back together. This is officially day two of our Super Bowl preps. How's the energy? How are we feeling the energy of pacing ourselves. The vibe is good in LA. And Dave you put me onto a whole different way of betting last night. I've got a whole new philosophy after our dinner date. We had a great dinner last night by the way.  My pleasure. Anytime. Little birthday shenanigans a little team dinner if you will got to know each other a little better. Lots more to come on that. I'm sure whatever we can share here on the show it's family program guys. Before we dive into our analysis so a reminder that all of you can place all of your bets. We're talking about in the show right now in the Fandall Sports Book app and for all of our new users sign up for that new account using the promo code more ways 1000 you can get your first bet risk free up to 1000 bucks. So get on that. You can download that app right now. We're going to get into this show and kick it off and get right into this match up because I mentioned you know we're going to talk a little bit about these Rams and Bengals. We're going to start with the spread guys Rams laying four with the Bengals in town. Dave I'm going to start with you which side are you backing. It's been kind of going back and forth for four and a half back to four. You know you look at the experience of Matthew Stafford. You know played over 150 games in the NFL. Joe Burrow 29 games. Is it too much to ask for this young kid to get it done in the Superboy. You think he's been clutched. I think it's too much to ask especially with what the Rams defense is going to do to him. You know we've seen it all playoffs long. They've been phenomenal and you know that Rams defense and Cooper Cup the combination of those two things think the Rams cover. I'm blown away by his poise. Joe Burrow. I mean every time I think he's going to crack all the moments too big for him. 21 3 they come back. They win an overtime in error had to beat Lisa's Chiefs. So I'm not taking the Rams. I had to put that in there. You're wearing red. My red today. So look I'm not going to say I'm picking the Rams because I'm anti Joe Burrow but it's the three guys that are healthy now and are playing that they got in Von Miller Odell Beckham Jr. Cam Acres and I think those reinforcements call help the Rams cover minus four. Yeah especially when it comes to Von Miller of course he's looking to snag another Super Bowl MVP and bring that home. But when it comes to winning close games and Cincinnati Bengals that's what they've been able to do all season long. They've won 10 ball games this year by three points or fewer. So when you look at what they're able to do in those close knit contest and Joe Burrow as we talked about yesterday here on set. We talked about Joe Burrow not losing a big game and then Ed has to go bring all kinds of rain to the parade and say well he did lose a state championship in high school but high school for Joe Burrow a whole long time ago and on Sunday. Well not long ago. I think he's going to get a big gold chain that it doesn't last is swag is your not swag is not going to count for three four points when you know computing the numbers here. I want to push back on this idea when it comes to OK well the Bengals can win a lot of close games. No I want a team that's dominating opponents and we saw that in the playoffs with the Rams against the Cardinals with that defense did to Kyler Murray was absolutely epic. What the Rams have done against weaker competition has been absolutely epic. Meanwhile the Bengals have played a lot of close games especially when it comes to the playoffs. I want a team that's going to dominate and that tends to be be more predictive going down the road. That's why I like the Rams to cover. I'm the man on the island here. Just you know even though we're sharing a love seat you're on an island. I did notice that yesterday. Not a couch over there. You know Bengals have been disruptors right. They've come in and they've done things they weren't supposed to do. Here the Rams are fourth shortest odds to start the season. We talked about it yesterday Dave month ago 18 to one odds and then here they are hosting the Super Bowl in their home stadium and the Bengals can come in and do something that a lot of people aren't expecting them to do as they are getting four points in this game and I want to turn our our conversation out to player props because a big part of you know especially later in the season Odell Beckham junior has been a big part of in this postseason getting some numbers putting those up. So let's talk about his over under 61 and a half receiving yards for OBJ. Pony will you start us off here. Absolutely. I think Ed said was it four years ago you coined it do not succumb to recency bias. He said that for the first time I'd look it up. I'd look it up online. Yeah. Like what is this. Okay. If you just go by what's happened lately Odell Beckham junior should blow that away. Should go over right. But you go back the last five or six games before the NFC championship game 40 yards a game 50 yards. Right. The volume of the body of work in this body of work says go under. I think he's going to be more of a decoy in diversion in this game day. He's hit it the last three makers the last two games he's hit it but since joining the Rams four out of 11 where he's gotten right. That's what I'm talking about. I'm saying under. Yeah I'm going with you. All right you guys let's move on here and Ed and Cole this one is for you quarterback to throw a touchdown pass first. Do you think it's going to be Stafford or do you think it's going to be borough. What do you guys think I'm going to have to go with Joe borough at plus one 10 when you take a look at the team that's able to score first in the Super Bowl. They're 36 and 19 so if Joe borough is able to calculate some of those numbers and devise a game plan to get to the end zone who knows who are we going to see that strike to. Well that's yet to be determined but I'm going with Joe borough to throw that first touchdown in. It's awfully close when it comes to red zone passing but the Rams pass in the red zone 59% of the time. The Bengals do it 57% of the time. Cincinnati is also big when it comes to establishing the run. They're much more committed to that than the Rams are so to me Stafford's my pick. Okay all right. All right you guys well there are we're gonna have lots more conversations on these guys they just keep going. You know what I'm just here I'm just a decoy I'm just a prop. And another thing.  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gonna be a great conversation as he's got his hat on let's start with these rams now LA traded for math staffer before the season i've always been a Matthew Stafford fan and it's nice to see him get a chance here in LA to do the biggest thing here um you know they they collecting other players you know obj comes in what is your taking in all of and all of the the rams have put into really refining this roster both offensively and defensively i think they've done a great job i think less needs done a great job putting this roster together um i'm not out you know i think people are always big on draft picks the first round draft picks but i'd rather have a proven product guys who have played like a von miller you know and and Matthew Stafford you you've got those guys and that's what you want i mean it's it's almost sad because it's like people want Matthew Stafford to fail it's like oh he's not want to play off game or he won one or ain't that one another player go on that or ain't that going he's not gonna be the 49ers we get the superbowl oh well he got lucky it's like wow what can the guy i if he wins the superbowl i'm sure to be something else yeah well he has a he has quite a story and in his journey to get here has been a winding one so we'll see what he can get done on sunday but um Dave i know that you have a question for eric's i'm gonna turn over to you yeah first of all i brought my ball you signed this probably 10 years ago i don't know but i picked it up at a golf tournament and i know you do a lot of charity work here in southern california you like to do things like that so thank you for that thank you for the contribution um the question for you is you play with coach robinson yes um however many years he coached the ram never got a chance to go to the superbowl here's Sean McVeigh it's his fifth year as a head coach second trip already to the superbowl what if you could grade him as a head coach Sean McVeigh what would you give him oh man that's a tough course i don't like to grade coaches like i'm a great players but i mean you have to give him a at least an eight and a half you know because you you know i think the big thing is he hasn't won the superbowl that's everybody you got to win the superbowl so if he wins the superbowl he has to get a 10 because you have all these coaches coming from under Sean McVeigh there's head coaches there's other head coaches and i think that it shows you know Sean's knowledge of the game and the guys that have come after him so i'd have to give him an eight and a half all right it's a pretty good rating right there eight and a half not too shabby especially when he's playing for another Vince Lombardi trophy now ed we talked about guys who could play big-time roles in the superbowl on sunday of course von miller obj and cam makers when it comes to cam makers how does he dig deep we know he was played by injuries this year how does he dig deep and maybe in this game become the heroine channel his Eric Dickerson well the thing is is that you have to have i have the opportunity to run the ball yeah i mean that that comes first and the guys have to make the blocks but the thing i like about cam is he always seems to be going forward you know not falling back he can make the great cuts he doesn't take long to hit the holes and i saw that when he came back many's hitting those holes so fast and that's that's what we've that's what we've been missing we know we can't be an out you know it's interesting because i got a message that i was not allowed to ask you why you aren't wearing an smu hat because recruiting is a 24 7 process ed you know this but i do want to ask you as far as uh when when you're evaluating a running back when you're watching on film for the casual fan how can you tell when a running back has it and how can you tell when it's the offensive line and the structure establishing that run game well first of all you have to have both i don't care how great you are if you don't have the guys up front you can't do it but from for for me my my my best after a beat people say what what makes you so great or good i say my acceleration from zero to 60 you know to be able to cut because as big as i am i was six three two twenty but i could go stop and go and and that's that's the difference from a guy when you stop and make them rounded stutter steps or you're not sure about it and then sometimes you have to punish you have to punish the hole you have to punish the hole you know like you have to make a hole and i could do that too uh your single season rushing record still stands today still stand good that's hard to do man i you know the league has gone more past heavy do you see that record being broken and if you do who could do it you know someone will break it one day now i'll say this to do i wanted one to break it hell no i'm gonna hang onto my records you know people i was oh records are meant to be broken you don't have a record if you want your record to be broken um you know the guy that i look at this kind of like me is is derrick henry big he's physical and he's fast enough he's fast like fast and i thought he was so if it's a guy that has a chance right now that i see it's him or someone that's not even in the national football league yet let me ask you this question because you're looking good i might say thanks i'm hard to know there's like after the Super Bowl like 200 and something days until week one if you got a contract for one game next year do you think you could get a hundred yards absolutely not what i don't know i was waiting for a yes first of all the way when i watched the guys hitting that and i go oh i just can't believe i should do that yeah no i might i might look kind of looking i would take the ball and probably just drop it you can't make that hole anymore i can't make i can't make that hole anymore to find the sideline as fast as you can right so you got some running backs some really good running backs in this game in the Super Bowl is there any one talent or treat that you are looking for from these guys that makes you believe that look if they've got a lead you can salt it away because of their ability with that one trait well you know being able to take the punishment that's that's what it comes down to being able to take those hits because you know as the game goes on the games get more physical you know when it gets when it's a close game or you know just they you hit you hit or you're gonna run the football we can run the clock out can joe mixon do that i like joe mixon i know i know can cam not a big guy but he can take the hits and the thing about cam is he's almost like me he can almost slither through a hole he don't take the big hit so both the guys are a great backs okay well that single season rushing record as lisa alluded to it still stands and when you're talking about legendary records i don't know if you remember let's ram it that's a legendary track right yes how about your man please don't it ain't don't it ain't 16 by it and already you remember your verse and when's that 2022 remix coming man man it ain't coming okay i told those guys we did that don't do this a bad idea we don't you don't do it you can't do it and sure enough you look you're talking about this yeah 30 years later sorry i had to bring it up my bad the record still stands and there are a lot of stories that will be passed on in this book right here watch my smoke you guys check it out eric this is your new book that's out what can you tell us about it what what are your readers going to take away from your story i think one thing that readers take away from me people who know me know if you ask me a question i'll take the truth that that's that's one thing but another thing is is that how the media made me into this villain you know when i when i was going through my contract disputes and and a lot of it is you know we had no outlet we had no instagram we had no twitter so what the media wrote everyone believed and i think that to me i get a chance to tell you know my my story david is going to take this home with him he is going to ask you to sign it he's going to pass it on to his daughter and her kids it's going to live along for a long long time uh thank you for the the stories that you've passed on in your book you know i'm not going to let you go until i ask you who's going to win this game on sunday come on now who you think i'll win the los angeles rams can you predict a score for us what do you think you know i i'm gonna say this much you know i've since been saying since that we've gotten the playoffs if we don't turn the football over we control this game solely i said that when we played tamper about time brady but i said we don't turn the ball over we win it easily i'll say this again we don't turn the ball over i say this will be a 30 to 14 game we turn the ball over it's going to be a field goal it'll come down to a field goal and i don't mean once i mean like two or three times all right it's gonna be a great game regardless cannot wait especially the way these playoffs have gone absolutely epic eric dickerson pro football hall of fame wide receiver thank you for joining us is an absolute pleasure again eric's book watch my smoke is out now you can you can pick that up thank you eric appreciate it thank you obviously some great insight from ed here on the show we have another great guest ahead of us coming up right here on our set and just a little bit broad goes running back melvin gordon will be here everybody we have a ton of stuff to talk with him about he is a free agent so where does he see himself playing football next year and of course there are a lot of rumors about erin rodgers possibly heading to denver to be a bronco next season what are his thoughts on that he'll break down the running back matchup for the big game ahead of us on sunday between the rams of the bangles and you know i'll be 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situation to get him the ball uh-huh for the first score he's going to get it that's my guy cam makers and you didn't cash out and you didn't hedge no cash i love that about you you stick to your guns uh you've convinced me i'm going to go with acres too you know he had that fumble at the end of the Tampa Bay game he could have easily been in the doghouse for the nfc championship just go with sony michelle been there down that one in super bowl when they're on the red zone acres usually touches the ball first so i'm going to go with cam acres plus 650 colt all right well i'm going to jump with us come on i'm going to different direction just because everyone's jumping out the bridge of course you have to do that i'm going to go with odell cornelius beckham jr because uh we know obj well he's seen somewhat of a renaissance over the last few games and when it comes to that conference championship well the first 0100 plus receiving yard game that he's had since 2019 so when it comes to obj he's going out there and he and matt stafford what when they get together well they make some sweet music frank viola style uh that passer rating 124 just a skosh under that so i'm gonna have to go with obj scoring that first touchdown i don't know how you're feeling about mr beckham but i'm feeling good well beckham's fine but this is a bit of a hedge as far as like you know first touchdown throw but if i'm looking at the bangles i'm looking at drus sample the backup tight end for the bangles in large part because look when you get close in the red zone you want a big physical guy and cj uzama is obviously going to be you know the target so to speak and so who's going to be open might be the backup we'll see what is the odds on him uh 21 to 1 ability not big enough we're not big enough to take it all right great stuff guys all right that's just a little bit of the props they're all available for you right now on the fandals sportsbook app we've got plenty more coming up on the show including broncos running back melvin gordon joining us right here on set in just a couple of moments you will not want to miss that but first we're going to give our dfs players a little love you know we always like to take this little break here in the show to give you guys a little love fandal is hooking you up with millions in prizes for free just head to fandal dot com sign up for the super bowl dfs contest set your roster play and win and this week you'll be playing a single game slate which requires specific strategy right so we turn to senior writer and editor for number fire jim sonnis he gives us some tips on setting your lineup for super bowl sunday hey jim thanks lee so yeah single game slates are a different beast and the full slates we've been playing throughout this entire year but there are a couple of key things to keep in mind that can make things a lot easier and the first thing is decide how you think this game will play out first because there will be a 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much to get to um thanks for being here we appreciate you being here um first things first it is uh early in the week i want to know how you're spending your week leading up to super bowl sunday i'm just chilling my mom at the crib right now so you know we just posted up at the crib uh i live in orange county so i'm just kind of relaxing see a couple of my friends uh kick it with keenan um i'm just posted up all right just hanging i asked if you're doing the car wash making your rounds on all the media i mean you're right here in radio row just hitting up all the fandal exclusively so it's a fandal exclusive sounds like um all right great having you on this i know these guys have a million questions and dave's going to start us off yeah well you know rams bangles you guys played the bangles week 15 very very close game but a but a low scoring game anything you remember from there that kind of stands out about the bangles defense uh their nose guard was really good um that's what i remember yeah their nose guard was uh he played extremely well that game um you know i felt like it was a game obviously we could have won um but you know i think pass or tame he did his job one you know he did his job on chase uh but obviously they did enough to win the game but um you know we see what happens on the super bowl you think it of yourself as a bronco right now you we call it your broncos running back yeah you think denver's the place for you what do you think of melvin i mean i hope so you know you know i hope so it's it's tough trying to you know and it's not hard for me to to you know i got a i got a big personality so i can go to teams and you know and and start relationships but it kind of sucks you know you kind of build relationship with guys and then you know you just have to leave in this part of the game we all know that and understand that but you know i'd rather not have to do that i'm not really i'm not really big with change i really don't like it you know i just like being stable and just kind of you know just being where you are but you know like i say this part of it not really big with change but i haven't seen you since you got the haircut looking good all by the way and uh i appreciate it talk about those relationships you're able to build you're going to check in with keenan allen and you talk about you're the former teammate von miller von miller obviously and now a member of the rams to see him get potentially another vince lombardi trophy and maybe you know super one vp that's got to be pretty good when it comes to those building bonds in french yeah and and you know i i really von was definitely one of the biggest reasons that i you know came to the different broncos um you know his first person i called asked about the broncos a man what the team is about um and you know i actually live with von i stayed with von for a few days out the week especially with snowing because i live so far away um so von kind of took me in under the wing and and just the stuff he do behind the scenes it's just crazy i mean just the stuff he do he fly people in to get his body taken care of i mean he spent so much on his body now i wasn't spending that much but you know he definitely he definitely looked out a little bit for me you know but um you know uh good things happen to good people and he and he he pride itself on being a great teammate man and i think everything that's happening to him is happening for a reason and that machine is the moneymaker too you gotta gotta take care of yourself got to uh hey there's a little little conversation about erin rogers uncertainty of his future yeah i don't know if you've heard anything about you know maybe he's a good fit uh there in denver how much of that conversation you know kind of comes into the locker room and and you know when did you guys start hearing about that and what's your take on it i mean i mean we heard about it the first year um you know i mean we thought that erin rogers was gonna come in and end up not happening and uh now we're really hearing about it now um so i mean it's a chance you know we can't get the high you know our hopes up too high you know um but uh it's crazy man i mean we love the guys that was in the room let's not take credit no discredit them for what they were you know what they've done um but you know he's a hall of famer you know what i mean and who who would love to have erin rogers right so um you know hopefully it works out for denver to come there um we'd definitely be happy for that to happen open arms if it works out erin rogers you heard it here from velvet gordon um hey there's a big game on sunday i don't know if you know put a little thought to it but we got rams bangles and i need to know from you who's gonna win that game ah see it's tough because my best friend i grew up with play on the bingles okay trade lanes trade lanes and then you know i got vile miller on the other side along with some other guys i'm really close with joe mixing um i built the relationship with sony uh hopefully the rams play him a little bit more um i don't know it depends on the front it depends on what that front do it it's going to be hard stopping those boys i've seen what happened to titan's game and they got a block here and donald that's what i'm saying right we all seen that titan's game that that's what scared me nine sacks nine sacks shoot vaughn miller and boys might go forward i don't know vaughn i've talked to vaughn he he you know he on a different level right now mentally man so i don't know man i'm just hoping i'm just hoping for a good game it will be don't worry about that i think he said rams i think he said rams oh we'll take it rams all right melvin gordon everybody thank you so much for joining us you're awesome we wish you all the best uh in denver or wherever you might find yourself in the nfl i hope it all works out for you man appreciate you being here oh and what's a super bowl without a 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