Hi y'all. I'm Laugh. I came live at night because I know a lot of you guys have been requesting me to come live at night. So here I am. I'll just straighten this camera up. So I'm trying to get this on my computer screen so I can read you guys comments on my computer. So let's see if it pops up. If not, I'm just... I have to touch the phone for the first little while. Yeah, it's not coming up, so... Sorry. Okay, so hey, how y'all doing? How are you? I'm a lot of few people come on before I start, but as you can see by the title, what the video is about. Too pretty to pay bills. I'm not talking about me, but yeah, I mean, I am talking about me and other women too. There are some women who walk around that look beautiful and they're paying bills and paying other people bills. They don't make no sense. You don't have to do that. What made me talk about this subject today is because I posted something on my Facebook page. And something about women don't need to bring that to the table, except their high expectations and then all the guys went crazy and mad and upset. Then there's one woman. You all know there's always one woman. There's always this one woman come in talking about I want to do, I go 50-50. I'm not going to say her name, but I'm going 50-50. She was actually attracted and I'm like, you don't have to go 50-50. If you go 50-50, you're not smart. You have the look, but you don't have the brains to go with it. Because anybody knows you don't use your own money. Even people in business know that you don't use your own money. You know, you get investors. So you can't get wealthy that way. You can't get wealthy that way. You can't benefit that way. Even in business, people don't use their own money.  They get investors. They get people, they get donators. People that donate, they get sponsors and things like that. If you're smart, you don't use your own money.  Yeah, you might be attractive, but you're not that smart. Because for me, a business woman, a business-minded woman, would understand that you don't have to go 50-50. Use what you got to get what you want. Use other people's money to invest to start your own business. You know, and things like that. You don't have to go 50-50 with them.  So that's what I'm talking about.  Oh, I'm going to build a man. As soon as she's finished building this man, he's going to walk off to another woman who is not going to go 50-50. And she's going to be like, you got to pay everything. And he's going to have the money, the clout, the money, because you paid half of everything for so many years. He got to save up. And then he's going to go and say, hey, this lady over here thinks I'm all that.  Now that's nothing to me. And look how she treats me. She doesn't treat me like her son or her project or someone that she helped build. Oh my God, this feels so good. It turns me on so much. You know, and he's going to go over there. Okay? So y'all can keep help. You can keep help building a man and go 50-50 if you want.  Or it doesn't have to pay for anything because you did that to yourself.  You just got to be smart, too smart to pay bills and too smart to build a man. Okay? If you're doing any of those things right now, you should use your business mind to figure out how to get investors, sponsors, so you don't have to use your own money. You can use your money, save it, let it grow in an account. And prosper. You know what I'm saying?  Okay? So make sure you're not moving backwards in life and that you're moving forward and you're making wise business decisions and you're using what you have to push you further. Okay? Do it. You'll thank me later. You'll thank me later when you're able to live the lifestyle that you deserve. Okay? The woman that probably pays 50-50 is not living half as good because her man is not motivated. You know, if he can depend on her, he doesn't have to have as much ambition. You know what I mean? It's like, oh, I don't need overtime today. Oh, I don't need to go for that promotion. You know, I don't need to work extra. I don't need to stay up later figuring out how to start a business. I got her. She's going to pay everything if I fall off because that's just the kind of girl she is. She's a writer. Oh, you know, she's got half of everything.  I don't have to either strive for more. I don't even need to look for a better job. I don't need to go back to school. I don't need a career. He's not motivated because you're taking care of half of his duties. So why would he be more successful? Why would he be pushed to the next level? You know, and the little that he is pushed, somebody else is going to appreciate it a lot more than you. And they're going to show him that and they're not going to take any credit for it either.  You know, so be careful. Stop, stop being silly. Know your value and start demanding more of the grown man living in your house that you're paying half for. Like, seriously, don't do that. How can you live in a house with a grown man and pay half? Like, and have sex. That's gross. Like, that would turn me off.  Like, don't even come back.  You can't do that.  She might fake it. She might pretend she respects you. But as soon as y'all get in an argument, she's going to throw it out. Oh, I pay half this stuff anyway.  And then where's your masculinity? Where's your manhood? Where's your ego? Can't say nothing. She has the, you know, she can kick you out of the house anytime. Because, you know, she has the kids. It's easier for you to go to a motel.  Now, you're living in a motel. Or, like, when she gets mad at you. You know. She won't, she might not pay the bills this month and then what you gonna do?  I'm not paying anything.  Do I want internet or a car? Don't want to pay my car note this month? Or the light bill? See? So, that's what I'm saying. If men are trying to go half and go 50-50 women, I'm going to pull rank. We just are. That's just how we are. We're going to pull rank. Because we know you as a grown man need us. And we don't see you as a man. We see you as something we can control, dominate over and treat like a child. So, if you're trying to ask us to pay 50-50, you're also asking us to be your manager, your boss, your instructor, your, what else? Your critic. You're asking us to do all that when you ask us to pay anything. You're asking for our two cents, four cents, three cents, instruction on how to do everything. Not even constructive criticism, but straight up criticism. That's what you're asking for.  Because as soon as you get one, you're going to be running away from her, looking for somebody who you can pay their bills for.  That's a man to them. So that's why they leave you for ratchets and women lower than you, because they can't impress you. And you pull rank on them, because you are working just as hard as they are.  So ladies, you're too pretty to be doing that. Then you wonder why you're upset and being cheated on and lonely because you tried to build a man, you tried to finish raising somebody's son. And you didn't realize what you were doing until it was too late.  You didn't know your value. So, do you pick me to look decent? It's not too late.  You can get help now. All you gotta do is know your value and say, look, I'm not paying this no more. This is on you. I don't look too good to pay bills. And they're gonna say, you know you're right. You do look too good to pay bills. And they're gonna say, I don't know how you got over on me this long. Guess I better find a way to make money or you better find a man who can pay you. It's not, you know, I see these beautiful women with these like men and they're working just as hard.  They look older than they should look because they're working like a man to help a man. And that's not right, you know. If I was a 50-50 chick, I would probably look older than my age. I would probably look like 5 years, 10 years older than what I am.  And kids, they ain't gotta do all that other stuff. No, you shouldn't be doing that.  You're being cheated. It's being stolen from you. From a grown man that you supposedly love. You know, if he loved you, he wouldn't let you do that. He wouldn't let you suffer. He wouldn't let you wake up early in the morning, drag yourself to go work like a man, four-man for 8 to 10, 12 hours a day, come home, take care of him and the kids, cooking all that stuff.  And if he lets you do it, then have his hand out to you. That's a child, that's not a man. And I can't respect someone like that because you shouldn't either. If you do, you've been brainwashed to do that. And then you wonder why the man ages so good and looks so good, but then you start to look haggard, tired.  You know, you start to wonder why because you're not supposed to be doing his job. That's why. And then he starts looking at you over with it because you're always at work.  You gotta take care of that man at work, that boss. That makes sure everything is done at work before you can even get home to take care of him. And you're too tired all the time. You gotta do all this and that. So, you know, as soon as he gets home from work, he can go stop at half an hour. You know, find a new girlfriend. You know, blah, blah, blah. He has time to do all that because you're doing the other half of his job. So, trying to tell you.  And he left me. Yeah, of course he left you because he didn't need you anymore. Once he got to where he wanted to get because you helped him. You know. If you're with a man and, you know, he's asking you to do stuff and you feel proud that you can do it because you have a good job and you feel accomplished, it's a trick. You know, he's playing on your ego to get your money so he don't have to pay for it. You know, it's a trick. You shouldn't offer nothing to him. He should be offering to you. All your money should be yours to save or towards something in your future that's going to benefit you. So, I don't care what any of the guys say. If a grown man is approaching a woman and saying that it's not right. That's like a father approaching his daughter and saying, can I have some money? That's what it's like. Why? Why is it the father and the daughter? Because that's someone's daughter. Okay? And how would her dad feel if he knew that his daughter was giving some grown man money? He would be mad. He would be like, oh, no. Don't do that. If he can't take care of himself or you, you're too good for that. You know? And I know a lot of women will do this just so they can have a man and keep a man and the type of man it is, this is the type of man they could never get in the first place. So, basically, you're just paying for that man.  If you're going 50-50, you're not his type. His type he has not met yet. His type has not recognized him yet.  Then he's going to have a type. Then he's going to be like, oh, yeah. This type of woman. I bet you I could get one now because I'm the man. So, be careful. Don't build a man. If you build a man, remember, just like you built him up, he became this great thing. He might not be great to you, but he's great to some ratchet after you helped him. He's great to a ratchet now because now he's established, he's got a good job, he goes back to school while you paid the bills. You guys go 50-50 so he can have a nice home and this, this, and that. So now the ratchet is seeing his nice car because he don't have to pay half the bills so he can have a nice car. The ratchets are seeing his nice car, his nice clothes because of course he can shop good because half his check is not going to everything. So he got money to spend on other women. And also he has nice shoes so he can get his hair cut. All that. Meanwhile, are you sitting over here, thinking, oh, I got the perfect life, the perfect man, the perfect husband, and we're building up together.  And when those other women see him, they're going to be like, oh my God, he's got it all, he's got a nice car, nice house, but he's married, but he's saying he's not happy because she's never there, she always bossing around, she's always telling them what to do and he don't like her, he's going to leave her any day. He told me. So we're just hanging out right now. He comes over sometimes. So it's very easy for those type of men to cheat who have 50-50 women. I'm going to tell you one more thing before I get off this. Y'all can think all day long that you're helping somebody, that you're only hurting yourself. You don't help grown men. You just don't. If they ain't got it when you met them, pass by that. Why? Because they're not complete. They're not complete, and if they're not complete, they're still looking for more. You don't complete them. You can't complete them. Another person cannot complete another person. They have to feel complete within themselves. And if you think you can help him build and complete him and make this fabulous life, if he doesn't already have that, then once he gets there with you, he's going to go. Because it's in women's nature to nurture and to try to build and create the life that they want. But sometimes they forget that you can't do that to people. You know what I'm saying? So that's usually how it goes. And if you ever notice, they don't have any problem leaving you because they think, oh, she got it. She got a good career. She made good money. Oh, yeah, she don't need me. She can have the house. She can pay for it. She can afford it. She don't need me. I don't. Translation. She's not going to miss me. She can pay all these bills. I'm going to go and have fun with this ratchet chick who thinks I'm all that. Thanks for helping me. Thanks for helping me get this nice car, these nice suits. Thanks for helping me, you know, build my credit. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Now, peace out. Hold me. I'm going to chill with this ratchet chick over here. And we're going on vacation. I'll see you later. Have fun at work. Tell the kids I said, hey. And, you know, we can still be friends. What? Oh, I'm so hurt. I'm so devastated. I gave him my all. That's what your first mistake was.  Big dummy.  And I don't know. Like, that's the stupidest thing you can ever do. And a lot of women are lining up to do it in the comments. Oh, I go 50-60 with a man. I support a man. I hold a man down. I'm going to do this. I'm going to do that. I'm this. I'm that. I'll support you. Okay. That's fine. Good. Help him get up there. Help him get up there. Help him climb that ladder. And so he can climb up the ladder and push it down so you can't climb it. And he can go on without you. Don't listen to me. Go read all the stories. Probably floating around online about how they may have left them after they done did ABCD, GFG, HIJK, LMPQRSTV, HIJK, LMPQRSTV, WFYZ. Okay? After you done done all them steps, then he gone. So, what I'm saying is, expect more, give less. That's it. That's the answer. It's not harsh. It's reality. That's just how it is. How it has to be. You know, how they always say, nice women finish last and men love bitches. It's true. They, the man will say it's not true because they, first they have to go through a woman being their manager, boss, credit, credit repairer, mother, sister. And then when they've lived that life, they're done. They want it now. The ones that say they want that have not, are not built up yet. So you don't want them anyway. The men who are saying, oh, I want a woman that could go 50-50 means I need help to reach the next level so I can get a better woman in the future because, you know, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. They might not realize it until it's too late. They might not realize it until in the middle of the relationship when they feel like they have a mother, a curfew, and a boss and a manager at their home. They might not realize it until then because as soon as you ask a woman for money, you have just asked for a manager. Okay. You have just asked for a supervisor. That's what you've just asked for.  There ain't no way you can do that. You cannot be head of household if you pay in half. You know, you can be up down here. You can't be, you can't be a head of household. Okay. You just can't.  Now, if you want to be head of household barely, then you have to pay all the bills. You know, if you barely want to make a head of household, you got to pay the bills because y'all already know when we're in the household. If the man pays the bills, she let him think he won at least. At least his ego is still in place.  Oh, no, you're asking for another boss. Okay. So don't settle little pick me women. Stop it. You look desperate in the comments.  I'm so lonely. I'm going to say the thing that all these guys want to hear. I'm a pain. I will pay. I will hold you down. I will do this. Look in their background. See why they're so picnic. Go to a background. Check on them. See why they're so picnic. Half of them pick me. Can't, you know, can't get a man. And there's something in their background that you don't know. Am I saying what it is? Because it's a different for everyone of us. Like you've probably been to jail before. They probably can't get a good job.  They probably, you know, have, um, I don't know. But they got something in their background as to why they're so desperate.  I can be this. I can be that. And it's going to get me far in life. Except it's not going to get you far in a relationship. You know, it's going to get you about 15 to 20 good years.  That's what's going to get you. It's going to get you. It's going to get his credit built. You know, think about what you're doing. This is not even your child. This is a grown man. If you're going to put that much effort into a person, let it be your child. You know what I'm saying? If you're going to put that much, if you're going to give, you know, 50, 50, put it in a saving account for your child and let a grown man be a grown man and pay these bills.  Why?  Okay. And to them, you look beautiful. So stop. It's not worth it.  So meanwhile, you know, we're building wealth. We'll build, we're building up our generations. This isn't that. Y'all are falling apart. Your man's leaving you for shark-isha. Your kids are upset.  Y'all are moving backwards. Moving backwards. Okay. Shoot. I might not be, I might not be the best looking thing in the world, but I ain't paying no man's bills. Period. Okay. If you look better than me and you paying bills, something wrong with you. I'm serious. If you're younger than me, skinnier than me, better teeth than me, better hair than me, better weave.  If you look better than this and you paying bills, something wrong. Hi. Hi, Mom. Are you going live? Yeah. I'm live. Hi, Mom. Hi, baby. All right. I'm live so y'all gotta stick out. Y'all go watch TV. Oh, wow. Is the air on? Can y'all make sure the air is on? My baby's looking so much. Um, yeah. So I was saying, yeah, I already told them when they, when they get to teenagers, don't, don't pay nothing on note for no man or no kid, no boy, no nothing. You know, if they can't pay, buy a pass because they can't afford to date. And don't make it easy for them. Okay. If you make it too easy for them, then the next, the next woman that challenges them and piques their interest and it makes them chase, they're going to be intrigued with that. Okay. You make everything too easy, effortless, you know, men are competitors. They like sport. They like challenge. And if you're not that, they're not interested in you after a while.  Okay. So remember that. Yeah.  The reason they're upset because they know this is true. They know it's true. That's why they're mad because we know this now and we're not going to. Well, there's going to be a lot of women lining up to help you. And there are plenty of them guys. Don't even get mad at me. I'm just saying there are plenty of women lining up to help you right now. There's plenty of women like this. Come take my money. Come get my money. Let me help you. Let me help you. Hi. Can you see me? I'll pay half the rent. Yeah. Pick me. You know, teacher, pick me. Come pick me. Come pick. What else? What else have to write in these comments? I will hold you down. Put clean. What else I can do? Wash your clothes. Pay half the bills. Pick me. Please. I'm begging you. I look good too. That's an added bonus. I will work just as hard as you. I promise. Even when I'm nine months pregnant, I will go to work. I will get a daycare to raise my newborn. I don't care. I'm going to work. I'm going to help you.  You're the king. I'm going to give you a false sense of masculinity.  But no, wait, scratch that last part. Pick me. Oh, and then the ones that have the man who are halfway through the process. Oh, me and my man, we're building up. We got a house. We're doing this. We're doing that. Wait, give it five more years. Give it five more years. Y'all going to be in my image. Can you door reading for me? Is my man cheating on me? Give it five more years. I'm telling you. Give it five more years. He left me. He's seeing this other girl. You know, give it five more years. Y'all, you in the good spot right now. The credit's good. Y'all got a new house. He got a new car. He's balling. You balling. The chartesia's looking. Ooh, look at him.  Oh, he's going to go see what he can drag in with that. He's going to go see what women or he can pull with that. Because he pulled you with a Honda Accord. You easy. Now he going to try to go top you or find someone who is going to do, you know, make, who's going to think he did that by himself. Okay? Don't do it. Y'all know it's true. Look at y'all. Look at y'all in the comments. Y'all know it's true. Men know it's true too. Like, oh, yes. And they even say it. Well, that's why you're going to get dumped for a younger version. Well, because that's what you plan to do, right? Isn't it? You plan to use that 50-50 woman and dump her for a younger version when you get on. You said it at your own mouth, guys. Y'all say it in every video. That's why women get old and then the guy dumps them and leaves them for a younger woman. Why would they say that? Because they plan to do it to you. And once you give them your 50-50, help them save, get that Porsche, got a good 401k, got some good credit, oh, got some real estate investments. Now he got a house, another house, a rental property. Oh, y'all are doing really good. So, you know, that rental house, that real estate that's in his name because, y'all, he had so much money saved up, he started investing. Oh, you know, that can be his girlfriend's new house. He can rent it out to her. He can leave and move in there anytime. When it's vacant, he can use it to meet up with other chicks. So what are you doing? Why are you doing this? He never had this kind of money and lifestyle before. He don't know what type of women he could pool like that. When you get married to your man, it should be he wants you because he wants you and he has everything he already needs. He don't need you to help him. Okay, that means you're the one he chose to be with, not the one he settled with, not the one he helped build his credit with, but the one he chose after he already had the Porsche, the rental properties, the cars, the house, the 401, the savings, the good credit. If you're that woman, then you're smart and you're good. If you're the 50-50 woman, I'm sorry for you.  Okay, so what I'm saying is, ladies, stop being picky, stop trying to give men money.  Okay? I'm just saying it's real. And sometimes they don't even have to be ugly. They're just real men or gentlemen or men who know how to treat women or men who got themselves together or financially stable. They don't have to be rich. They just have to be able to take care of you so that you're their choice or who they chose to help build them up so they can go get a higher caliber woman after you help build their credit and stuff. I'm going to take questions down. We don't ask me. I'm just, you know, where do you go to find a financially secure man? Google most wealthiest zip codes in your city. That's where you go. Those restaurants go to happy hour. Go to lunch at nice restaurants in the bar area. Okay? I don't know. I went a little harsh today but they needed to hear that. They really need to hear that because nobody is telling them this. They're not telling them that. Their mama not telling them. Their aunts not telling them. Their sisters not telling them. Their brothers aren't telling them. Their daddies aren't telling them. So I've got to tell them. I've got to tell them the truth. I have a client work. I have consultations. I hear these stories daily. Every day somebody kind of, my man left me. Well, why? Did you make more money than I? That's why I left you. My man left me. Why? Because his ex-girlfriend came back and this, this and that. Oh, okay. He moved out. So he lived with you? Okay. So every time somebody gets broken up with, usually it's because the man is moving forward or moving on away from the picnic. You know? Because somebody challenged him and they're chasing that challenge. So don't get caught up like that, ladies. I'm trying to tell you. And I've been getting these stories for years. Same story. Back story, over and over. Just different people, different names, different situations. But basically, the builder man, when he feels like he's done being built, moves on and leaves you by yourself with the kids and don't look back. You know? So don't even try. And then you feel bad because you've invested in this man. You thought y'all was building stuff together with Jay-Z, Beyoncé relationship and then all of a sudden he goes and bounces. He's gone. Now you just Beyoncé by yourself and you don't know what to do. Okay? So, if this has happened to you, I'm going to give you some advice. Don't repeat it. The next person you start dating, they're paying for everything. Vacations, shopping, get spoiled.  It's time to get spoiled. You know what I'm saying? You still look good enough. You can do it. I promise. You know? I see women out here, 50, 45, getting stuff done for them all day long.  Stop trying to be a pygmy. Stop trying to get the attention of the men who aren't complete. That's low self-esteem. If you don't think you deserve a man who's already made it, you done. And you feel like you don't deserve it. And that's your fault. I knew I deserved a man who was already done, complete, had some money, bought me this, this, and that. I knew I deserved that. That's why I didn't go for no 50-50. Because I'm not a 50-50 chick and I never will be, never was, don't want to be, don't ever want to be in a future life or a past life. Okay?  I'll be like, this is the wrong life. You know? So, that's the harm-saving. You know how a lot of people say, ooh, if I was born in the time of slavery, I would kill myself. That's how I feel about paying bills. That's how I feel about 50-50. Nope, ain't gonna happen. I can't sit across the room from some wrong man with his hand out. I was just, mm-mm. I slap him five and say, high-five. That's about it. Mm-hmm. So, something about a 60-year-old woman. Hold on. I'm being schooled by a 60-year-old woman. She is mentoring me to get a man to feel good for her. She knows she's talking about. Okay, someone says, I'm 19. Most guys my age want 50-50. They're older. Go get the man that's already been built up. You go be Sharkisha. You get it. 19-year-old you can go get the man who's got good credit because this woman helped him. Don't be the 50-50. Go take the guy who benefited from a 50-50 chick. You know what I'm saying? Or go get someone who's already made it on their own who didn't use the woman to get there. Those are even better. Okay. Yeah, you can't like... And the guys that have used women, this is what they're going to tell you. Oh, my ex... They're not going to talk about their ex-wife bad. Or their ex bad. They're going to say, oh, my ex was great. She was independent. She did this, this, and that. But we just grew apart. We didn't have time for each other anymore. Or it just died out. I wasn't excited anymore. They're going to tell you something like that. They're not going to have no drama, baby mama drama or nothing. They're going to have a good situation, a good ex situation. Basically, he made it and he left. And she couldn't do nothing about it. So, okay, how do you get an older man? Be young. Shoot. This is the ideal woman for most men are between the ages of 18 and 25. And if you're older than that, you're for older men. Old men like young women. That's it. That's like, ask any man. They like younger women. That's just how it is. That's why it's easy to get them. Hmm. Like, if you're 21, you can get a 40-year-old. 40-year-olds still look good. They're still in shape. Most of them, they still look good. They still got their hair. They got gray or just a little bit gray coming out. They got a good career. They write up in there when they start making the good money. They can spoil you. They can go on vacation. They got vacation days. 401. Savings. Freakin' flyer miles. They're doing good. So, 40 is a good age. You know, if you're in your 20s. Now, if you're in your 30s, you got to go for the 50s. They getting ready. They got stuff saved. They got houses. Cars. Stop. Bonds. Investments. You know. Vacation home. Time share or something. They got that. Grown kids. No baby mama drama. Now, if you're 40, you have to go up to the 60. Unless you look young. You can kind of play with that age range. I'm not saying you have to go this over the same. It just depends on how you look. So, some women don't age. Some women do. The women that work a lot and work themselves to the bone like a man, they're probably a little bit more aged. The women that have been doing this all their life getting men to pay for them, they don't look as aged. So, it just depends on what you look like. What the men like. But I think 60 is a good age for a 40-something year old. They're about to retire. Y'all can vacation. Y'all can travel to world without having to worry about working. But if you want someone your own age, make sure you go. Make sure you look way better than that. That way, you're the prize always. Okay? Always. That's the dynamic. It's looks. You've got to look way better than them. If you want someone your own age that can financially support you or go older. Either way, it helps. You can't be equal. You can't look just as good. They can't look better than you or anything like that because they're going to be with the hand out look. I look good.  I don't need you, so pay half. You know? You want somebody that looks so bad when they look at you every morning and they're like, oh my God, am I dreaming? Let me get up and go pay all these bills. And buy this girl the gift and plan this vacation. Oh, yeah. He's in the office showing all his co-workers and boss the picture of his woman. Oh, look at my woman. Oh, yeah. That's what I got at home. Wait a minute. Looking like Forrest Whitaker. Slave to slave combined. He's paying.  Okay, so what's it going to be? As long as you can pay all the bills to some women, that's good. That's great. Like, if you're paying all the bills and you can get her a good gift for her birthday and go on vacation at least once a year to some women, that's beautiful. If you can do that, that should be your goal.  You're there. If they can brag on you taking care of them, you're there. If they're proud of you and tell everybody, oh, my man, take care of me. He's got to meet you. If their neck starts shaking when they talk about you, you're in. Okay. If you got to make excuses for your man, it's a bad economy. Oh, well, you know the system is messed up. Oh, well, you know, he didn't get paid this week, so he got to get my birthday present next week.  Oh, well, he lost his job. If you got to make a thousand excuses for somebody, you don't. You're in the wrong relationship You should be bragging.   And you should be bragging on them because they're taking care of you. They're accomplished and you're proud of them and they're generous to you and they make you feel special. That's how it should be. If you're not in that type of relationship, that should be your relationship goals.  It's like, dumb.  It's not relationship goals. That's relationship nightmares. Sneaking food into the movies in a baby basket. Relationship goals. I know y'all have seen that one. Okay, so.  Because they sell those in the store. So bragging on the man because of the size of his penis or how he does in bed it's not bragging on a man. That's almost like that's almost like, okay, is that all he can do?  What did he buy you for your birthday?    You don't expect yourself up. So don't do that either.  Beyoncé just posted the twins alright congrats I hope I follow the damn rules and had an aneurysm I don't know everybody thinks I'm but I'm happily married I'm just trying to help y'all because y'all are the ones upset people because you did everything right and nothing happened good you're sitting there puzzled I did everything right that was the first mistake I did everything right that's why you're in this situation you did everything right that's why a lot of women who are considered bad dirty whores they're not ashamed of how they got to where they got because while you over here being good, following every rule working yourself to death they're over here driving ferraris wearing the best clothes living in mansions all over the news and the internet and you still sitting here struggling but you did everything right what I'm trying to say is doing everything right does not guarantee you anything in fact it probably will hinder you that gets your hands dirty in this world and I'm not talking about working I'm talking about doing what you need to do to get what you want you know men do it all the time think about it men do it all the time they're not afraid to do it they congratulate each other for doing it for getting what they want you know by cheating lying doing all those things and they're proud of it but when you try to go do it oh it's a problem it's a problem that you are not good it's a problem that you lie it's a problem that you get ahead by deceiving it's a problem but when they do it oh yeah you know I took this girl out and she paid for everything and then we did it and then I left her she let me drive her car and then I wrecked it and then I left ha ha ha onto the next year then you have the next he's like yeah yeah I dated this girl she you know she gave me a bunch of money to pay this off and that off then I disappear ha ha ha then doing that for ages I got a lot of women who tell me these stories okay and they're like I just want him to pay me back he said he was gonna be with me and I loaned him some money you don't loan men money women if you loan anybody some money it's better be your mama or your child don't loan a raw man no money you are not the bank you are not supposed to be doing that and then they're gonna post on Instagram laughing at you with your cash and they hang it up to their ear like the Jay-Z song and you gotta look at that so make sure you understand to get ahead in the world you can't do alright because they okay how did they get ahead they got your money they lied to you they got over a year probably put a down payment on some new car and now they're rolling with some new girl okay it was all a scheme to begin with see somebody get that to me the best I'm gonna tell y'all the best way to get what you want expect it don't ask don't wait patiently expect it make sure that the person you are with knows your expectations and if they can't meet them they can't be with you that's how you do it you can't be afraid to lose it's like gambling you cannot be afraid to lose they're not gonna call your bluff they're gonna be like look if I don't do it somebody else will if I don't give her what she wants some other dude will and then I'm gonna look real stupid and if they can't do it remember somebody else will there's always somebody else that will so don't ever think that's your only option like are you serious that's not your only option there's guys waiting in line for him to leave you just don't, you haven't met him yet they're waiting on somebody like you they're just like oh I wish you had me a nice woman I could do this and that with they're not gonna ask you to pay their bills and loan them money so they can take their real girl for now they ain't gonna do that mm-hmm good girls finish last all time can do it can always find another man to do it I'm 37 he's 47 say homeboy a homebody and loner so third time we spent time together but only at his place how to get him to take me out she says wants to show me his sincere by getting to know me because he's cheap and he can't afford to hate you okay or he don't want to be seen at you seen with you in public places you know what I'm saying I mean that's worse than Starbucks unless he's in this big giant mansion and he's invite you over his house to chill unless he's got a big mansion then no if you in somebody's apartment you don't believe if you in somebody's little house one little little house 47 year old dude in his house that says you not good enough to take out get up and leave tell him you know what I'm not coming over your house just tell him off it's like you know what you cheap I am not coming over your house anymore you know why don't you call one of them other girls then pick me because it's not me baby I will go out I have three men waiting to take me out to see you later do that stop being desperate you know you not even I'm older than you I'm older than you if somebody did that to me I would laugh and think it's a joke so no don't do it if you go over that house if you go over that old man if you go over that man house you deserve everything that's getting ready to happen to you tell him and it's your fault after that you already know you know better you go over there everything after that is your fault right nice high rise condo we co-workers he's not broke six figures then why can't he take you out why he can't be seen in public with you and y'all live in the same condo like you already know what his place looks like you can talk and get to know someone on a date at dinner you know doing other things you work with him he should know you he should know you well enough by now you know if a man got money and he's still cheap that's worse than dating a broke man seriously and you're like nah I'm a pass let me know when you want to go out I feel like getting out I don't feel like sitting down on the couch all night getting on Netflix and chill you two over that tell him you two over Netflix and chill you might have arthritis thinking he'd walk away from you I don't know 47 is not even worth it I don't know why someone would do that though if they're trying he's not even trying to impress you that should tell you that's clue number one he's not even trying to impress you by taking you out if a man is not going to do that he's already used to you and you're no big deal and you're expendable how I already said that don't lie about your income even my niece got a picture but her mama's still sleeping back what is it about it made me more successful so you don't have to lie about your income isn't it midnight in Houston oh I stay up late I'm a vampire you can stay up late like in the summertime my kids don't have school I don't have to work I can stay up late if I want I don't wake up as late as I want unless I have something to do but maybe I'm not trying to be mean like if I could say this in a sweet nice way like the best way to do ABC and D nobody would listen to me because it's boring I'm not trying to be mean I'm just trying to tell you the best way to get what you want in this world is not being desperate following rules and living by what someone says is the right way that's wrong the reason those rules are given to you is so that they can get a head start while you're sitting here walking in a circle I'm like okay I'm going to keep walking in that circle I'm going to be over here I'm going to be over here the nice place the nice area that paying bills don't have to work because stay up as late as I want go live get room service from my kids I can do all of that so what kind of life do you want do you want to work like a man or are you going to figure out your work sooner or later before you lose all it is most women don't wake up till this is gone then they be trying to find a man and the men looking for somebody other and you wasted your youth paying 50-50 to build up a man who left you for charaketia stop wasting this this is here for a reason if you were not beautiful if you didn't have a good body at a young age it's for a reason you don't get more attractive when you get super old you should already have your stuff by the end you should already got clues houses and stuff by the end you try to start over and it's not you doing it the wrong way avoid all of that a lot of women won't believe it until it happens to them and they're going to say oh it'll never happen to me until one day that phone goes off at 2 o'clock in the morning because his side chick looks at it or stranded or needs a hug or something like that he didn't feel asleep or something and you see it oh my god oh shoot who is that? do I want to check it? do I? no I trust him he would never wait he do got that new nice car he do then you go through his phone and find something you don't want to see and then you be like I didn't work paid for him to go to school I passed up good job and let him finish school and he's like uh huh your heart is going to be broke and he's going to wake up probably with a shoot to his head and he's just going to start telling you everything you did long that's what you're going to do you don't make me feel like a man you keep criticizing me you don't tell me nothing you tell me what to do all the time everything I do is not good enough for you is Sharkisha over here love me for who I am no she loves you for what you got that you'll pick me up to get don't do it it's not worth it and even if you do forgive him he ain't going to give up Sharkisha I'm going to be like Sharkisha let it go Sharkisha let it go I'm going to fix this I promise Sharkisha he's going to get a divorce even though he might not he's just going to play both of them he's going to be like ok Sharkisha over here got my wife over here I could have the best of over now he's sleeping with two women at the same time Sharkisha happy because oh he's getting divorced wife happy because he supposedly left Sharkisha but he's getting it in good now oh yes best of both worlds and then when they find out both of them that's when the wife files for divorce and frees him and then that's when Sharkisha says I finally got my man and then that's how the story goes and then the wife is over here mad bitter upset don't know what to do gotta go to work gotta work that nine to five take care of the kids and the house by herself now she's not going to file child support on him because her mentality is still stupid and picnic and she thinks he's coming back what do I think of Black child I think she's a genius very strategic yes love her ok yeah like she this is the year of the gold digger I'm sorry I posted this a month earlier and Janet Jackson got that big settlement, divorce settlement then we had Rihanna dating a millionaire a billionaire excuse me and Black child got all that you know all that money out of rock got even more famous it's the year of the gold digger face it and people aren't ashamed of it anymore why do you know why women aren't ashamed of it anymore because it's like why not why not why should we be y'all are ashamed of doing what y'all do to women so why should we be ashamed of what we do to men it's no different there's zero difference so I don't know why y'all are ashamed why you think that we should be ashamed because women should not be ashamed of any kind of come up if you came up however you did it good for you she went from stripper in what New Jersey to Calabasas, California and a mansion ok most men couldn't accomplish that in the amount of time that she did that's smart it doesn't matter how you got your fortune it's just you have a fortune it doesn't matter how you got it and it's hot in here you can see my hood is still inch dropping Jane are you still out there you want to get in on my video you been hearing what I'm saying I was talking about gold diggers gold diggers gold diggers how was the year of the gold digger Janet Jackson black china he said don't dig for silver at least they weren't digging for silver if you if you gonna dig you might as well dig for gold right dig for peace dig for peace within you that is so spiritual thank you for your input you have anything else to add goodnight goodnight bye look for peace within you don't dig for peace within you I might use it on my other channel he says better than digging for silver that's true tell me do you keep a man's interest in the beginning stages of dating promise promise promise this this this but say like I can't wait till this this now when you turn me on I can't wait till we get to the point where I would want to just you know blah blah blah you make me like so but I gotta go because you know it's too soon I don't want you to think this let's not with it on two dates we always spent $500 I mean I need a lot more to do make sure they're investing in you spending time with you don't give it up until you've had a lot of money spent or a lot of time and money spent because he can't walk away from that because he's too invested if he's not invested enough it's easy to walk away okay I think I'm trying to read ebt is not gold piece of gold okay try to read these comments some of y'all are crazy is there any pygmies here all the pygmies are they still here are they like trolling I like I don't know I don't think they would be on my channel but is there anybody in there any female here that disagrees with what I said comment I'm not gonna say I'm not gonna be bad I'm just gonna ask you why okay why are we bringing bad karma no I don't believe in karma okay are men bringing bad karma upon themselves by making you work like a man that's the true question okay yeah I can say that I was a pygmy but seeing now how I went wrong making the changes in my life to do better good like I say it's never too late it's not their fault because they've been taught that way and then after they see that that does not work then they wake up either they repeat it or they wake up from it so most people find my videos when they're upset okay that's how they find me they go on Google and type in broke man worse date ever and try to get my man to be more ambitious or something like that you know they've had it and then they pop up so you know hopefully after so long of being pygmies they'll understand their true value and even if they don't you know even if they don't find somebody to do all of that stuff for them at least they're not doing it for them for that guy you want they're investing more in their children and themselves and things like that and not a man who's gonna be gone so if it's too late it's already happening don't go around looking for another man focus on yourself get yourself together build yourself up get your kids then you know once you're stable you're good then go find somebody who can bring you higher not at the same level not lower but higher go for somebody that can bring you up you know otherwise you wasted time tell my husband to give me a bigger diamond well he got me a house in the car so I guess I was the dominant next okay bring all my hands I don't know what to call them you're probably gonna get your woman a chip a dust diamond they call that dusty dusty diamonds for dusty secret arrangement is over saturated I don't know why y'all thought they was honest when I like will you go into it know this all my life don't go in there thinking oh I finally got the good one no stay on your strategy stay on your game get what you came for don't think oh he's different no he's acting different that's just about it stay on your game don't stray eye on the prime I think by nature women worry about karma if I do this this and that's gonna happen to me but that's the only reason you're not doing what you need to do to get what you need to get because of fear that right there should tell you that it was instilled in you for a reason why why was that instilled into you who instilled that into you who created that was it a man or a woman you know those rules to keep certain people alive okay but yet the makers of those rules don't even follow the rules okay so why do you follow them if the people that make the laws and the rules and all that stuff don't even follow oh I'm above that you know think about it really think hard why there are mass murderers that get away with murder karma never got them why because they don't believe in it why because they weren't it wasn't instilled into them therefore they're not vibrating on a level of guilt that karma is gonna come get them and therefore they don't attract karma because they don't feel the guilt and they don't attract a punishment that's why all these guys out here can go do what they want because they don't feel the guilt behind doing these things but you haven't even done them yet and you already feel guilty that is what I'm talking about you can't do that you can't live like that if you're living like that it's because you were trained to live like that trained that's not in you you weren't born with that you were taught that it's like a bad kid you know they might go and do something but they don't know it's wrong they don't feel guilty about it because they have not been taught that it's wrong you have to unlearn that old way of thinking in order to get ahead some people call transmuting that guilt or that karma into something else profit you don't feel it because it's not it's up to you you have free will and if you have free will and someone told you a set of rules and you break the rules and you feel guilt you're automatically attracting your punishment right there if you break the rules because you know that they're there to hold you back you don't feel no guilt you'd be like that's the rules I'm getting ahead and you get ahead don't do it it's not worth it don't stay locked up don't stay in this box get out of the box come teach my mom she plays nice but I try to get her sometimes you can't teach older people they just set new ways they're just like one day it's gonna happen I just know it one day they're gonna be old and gray and they ain't ever coming okay true doing a lot how do you respond when a guy says that he is a good catch I'm a good catch I was like oh really you know you're really I was like oh really well how are you a good catch ask him how is he a good catch if he starts naming some stupid stuff they don't have nothing to do with a house car property then he ain't a good catch I'm an artist okay now we know that's a lie I'm thoughtful yeah when you want some I'm a good cook good microwave and I'm clean okay good but that's still not a catch catch is funny like the catch is funny you ain't a good catch unless you own something you got some money that's not a good catch it's a good catch but you gonna throw that back real quick like take a picture with it throw it back that's what you are so yeah when they say oh I'm a good catch that means I'm not really a good catch but I have to say I am so you know you can ask me why I'm a good catch so I can distract you from my brokeness and tell you all the other stuff that's good about me that's what that means that's what that means I'm so sorry she's asking all to subscribe to her facebook or something something I don't know a guy that is 24 year old just told me that his mom told him never let a female use you so in a relationship should be 50-50 I agree with you that it is taught yeah but the funny thing is a guy like that if he finds a woman out of his league that said I'm not going 50-50 50-50 with you baby you can go live with your mama he's gonna go 100 believe me he's gonna tell his mom but mom it's my life I can do what I want I can afford it she's not using me it takes a certain type of woman to get a 50-50 man to stop going 50-50 she gotta be way out of his league believe me he'd be like oh my god I wanna date her so bad but I know if I tell her to pay for half the date she gonna turn me down so I'm going 100% I would never tell if I had a son I would never tell him you better go make some money because you ain't gonna be able to get the type of woman you want you're gonna get the pick-me's and the scraps you're gonna get that money and then so you can take care of me too you know that's what I would tell my son I'm like no okay no I'm not doing ASMR I'm not lazy it take a lot to get this hair done, this face, this makeup this outfit this camera setup these lights I don't have to work I don't have to work I don't look like you I don't look tired from just leaving away all day that's what I do I work a lot like doing consultations and reading YouTube actually that is my job I do have a job it's YouTube, it's social media it's reading consultation can I please have a shout out okay Amber, shout out been here for only a few minutes but I see that there is an equivalent time of okay well too much words to say yeah there are a lot of you know why you know online they are you get one of these in real life mm-hmm you would be good at ASMR thank you I have an ASMR channel mm-hmm it's called ashira star no it's not it's called she was seven one and it's me with curly hair yeah if you want to work you should work and he should still pay all the bills and you save your money mm-hmm mm-hmm oh that's nice that's nice can we talk about that I think most men like attractive women just like most women like men who can provide it's just the same thing no men out there talking about I want an ugly woman never heard it, never will if you see somebody with an ugly woman they've had all the if you see a rich man with an ugly woman and he chose her it's because he's had all the beautiful women and this ugly woman is like gets him and if he wanted to cheat anytime he's super hit a pretty woman because he's got that much money but what I'm saying is he's had it all it doesn't matter to him everybody looks the same and you know it's a novelty it's like having an abstract art after you've had all the beautiful monies and things like that then you go get this ugly Picasso that looks crazy and possessed and it's your favorite mm-hmm but to the average normal guy they like beauty that's what they're attracted to um that's it so it's to lure them in get them interested distract them make them do what you want to do that's what it's for what else would you have it to decorate the world right it's like what else would you use it for what it's for what's yours you don't know no Pisces by now one Pisces the perfume well it's sold out and the manufacturer is in Europe and so the order has to be placed as a whole for a certain amount of bottles and then they have to make it and then they have to ship it so it takes like 12 weeks pre-orders to like get some we have to wait until the order is placed again so I don't know how long but the other bottle the lobby jus with the jewels in that's still for sale and my alchemy bath set is also for sale there's like bath bombs and it's soap and stuff like that so that's up there but the other probably gonna be I don't even know because it has to be ordered and created it's already been created but it has to be manufactured and bottled and all that stuff so whenever the company purchases you know the new lot then I'll let you guys know but it's sold out in two days thank y'all for buying it it's like one o'clock in the morning over here so I'm gonna go these lights are like so I'm gonna go I'll see y'all later thanks for tuning in if y'all just scrolling by and clicked on here and y'all are not subscribed subscribe to my channel if you know some pygmies and you think that they would love this video post it on their Facebook or whatever I'll see y'all later goodnight bye


So today people, I bring you the complete, Nomad, Legendary Cloving Armour Set, Locations. How's it going guys, my name is DPJ and if you enjoyed this video, leaving a like really helps out and if you'd like what you're seeing when I see more Cyberpunk on a daily basis, be sure to subscribe. Okay, so there are four Legendaries in total within this set. The trials seem to be missing, I don't know if they're in the game, I just don't think they are, they probably will be added within a future update, but at the moment they ain't here. All of these, by the way, you can freely grab besides the jacket, the jacket requires you to be a level 13 to open a door which easily lies behind, but other than that you are good people. A couple of things to note, you can re-roll the items to get better stats and max mud sluts, max mud sluts per item, you can see on the screen now, now to re-roll these stats you can do this by saving the game before picking up the item and just keep loading that save until you find the stats you want, or you can run 50 meters away from said item and come back, this also sets the item's stats, but yet guys I will leave you now to watch how these are obtained and the locations of them on the map. If you enjoyed the video leaving a like really helps out, if you're new around here and want to see more Cyberpunk be sure to subscribe and if you never want to miss a video I upload, you can turn notifications on by hitting that bell button, but guys thanks as always for stopping by and hopefully I will see you on that next one. I've got quite an unusual one for you, I need you to deliver Trevor Brez's remains to the address attached, the young life inside was snuffed out by her wreaths and bullet, Trevor's parents can't bury their son until he's back home, you can help have attached all the info you need.


there's nothing I like talking about more on my channel. This is just a personal thing. Then the Legend of Zelda franchise. I'm gonna be completely honest. It is one of if not my favorite franchise in the entire world and it has some of my favorite games ever. Whether we're talking about Tears of the Kingdom and Breath of the Wild or Majora's Mask and Wind Waker or even Zelda to the adventure of Link. I love the Zelda franchise and today we have a fresh rumor for you coming from a person that I would put on the reliable scale for rumors but they're not gonna be added to my scale officially simply because we're actually talking about LEGO. Now look we already know a Deku Tree LEGO set exists and I can tell you why we know because we talked about it last year. The entire set actually leaked online. We had images and everything of which I can't show you. Why? Because the LEGO company copyrighted my video with it. So we already know that this is a thing that exists and we just didn't know when it was gonna come out but it sounds like it's actually arriving this year and could be announced fairly soon. Now the question of course surrounding all of this is will they be pairing the LEGO set with a video game? So first we're gonna dive into the news and then we're gonna get into some speculation because there does tend to be a correlation with LEGO set releases and video games. Now I felt like a great way to get this news is to go directly to the source of a known LEGO set leaker. This LEGO set leaker is known as 1414 Falcon Fan over here on Instagram and here's what he put out there that the set number would be 77092 and it says LEGO Legend of Zelda 2024 the great Deku Tree 2500 and the potential release seems to be 2024 and he claims that this all comes from Brickmerge. I can't seem to find in earlier source other than this online Brickmerge could just be behind the scenes but these are known LEGO set leakers they are very popular and when they put stuff out there it generally happens. Now of course we already know as I mentioned earlier the great Deku Tree set does factually exist I was copyright striked over it like literally they gave a strike to my channel the first strike on my channel in seven years so it's a big serious thing and LEGO does not like you talking directly about their sets or showing their set so we got to be a bit careful about going into some of the details we learned from the leak I'll give you one the great Deku Tree could be two different versions one of those versions is the version you see in Breath of the Wild and Tears of the Kingdom that shouldn't be shocking but it's the other version that's going to get us talking and that version seems to be the version from Ocarina of Time now it's possible the set has been redone a bit to maybe be able to create the Wind Waker version as well but from what we know from what leaked last year it was a multi-version Deku Tree it could either be the Breath of the Wild, Tears of the Kingdom or Ocarina of Time now with September being the supposed release date the thing is it'll probably announce pretty soon they do like to announce their LEGO sets ahead of time so people can get their pre-orders in and this is definitely a LEGO set I'm going to be looking into getting my hands on too but here is the deal setting aside my personal wants and desires and us building this great Deku Tree in a live stream we have to also start to speculate a little bit because look for a long time we've been talking about the idea that there could be an Ocarina of Time remake in the works now we have no idea what studio would be making it there technically is a rumor out there for it I'm using that term loosely because it came from Zippo last year so I don't really want to put a ton of stock into it but what I will say is this idea that it is time to bring Ocarina of Time back isn't new right they've already brought back all their 3ds all the games including Ocarina of Time and Majora's Mask with the 3ds versions and now that we've got everything through Skyward Sword HD it's maybe time to go back and revisit games that haven't been brought in the HD yet and that would include games like Ocarina of Time and Majora's Mask so it is entirely possible the great Deku Tree could be time to release if not when an Ocarina of Time HD and or remake or remaster gets released it could at least be coming out around the time that an Ocarina of Time HD remaster remake or whatever could actually be announced remember September is a normal time for a Nintendo Direct they essentially do them every February June and September and they pretty much never miss September outside of 2020 and even then they still did news events in September so they still treat September as a major time to make announcements and again they could be announcing a 2025 Ocarina of Time remake remaster etc this September now again this is just speculation this is just connecting the dots we already know this LEGO set exists so you know you throw in the fact we know that this exists they just did Animal Crossing then you toss out the fact that hey you know despite the Animal Crossing and Mario stuff now we're getting rumors from you know LEGO brick insiders I guess that's a thing that this is coming this September it makes sense to me that they would pair the launch of this with an announcement maybe even a release I do think it's a little early to release an Ocarina of Time remake this year but then again is it if there's an Ocarina of Time remake like coming it's who knows how long it's been in the works right it could have been in the works for years even before Skyward Sword HD came out so we'll just have to you know sit back and see what happens you know we all have our hopes and our dreams and I'm probably doing a little hoping and dreaming here you know we like to be dreamers here at Nintendo Prime but we'll see I don't know I just want the LEGO brick thing to happen I am really excited for Zelda LEGO sets I've been wanting these ever since I was a kid obviously if you think we're getting the Great Deku Tree you gotta figure we're gonna get other types of LEGO sets on who knows maybe they decided to bring Korok so like a Korok LEGO set I would like obviously Link and Zelda and I don't know Lawn Lawn Ranch or something or you know what would be really cool what about a Temple of Time LEGO set now that would be sick I mean Hyrule Castle is what come on I love my Castle LEGO sets and if you're gonna tell me a Hyrule Castle LEGO set might exist oh yeah anyways guys let me know what you think about this down in the comments below obviously you see I'm wearing my Jordan Love jersey because guys it's go pack go day good luck Packers don't know if you could beat the 49ers but I believe in you love all you need is love


know that tomorrow will be your evaluation as an intern because I was scared like when I read your project I was scared I was scared for you and for myself I'd love to live here one day hello and welcome this is coffee with smoke and today we have a guest and our guest is Jay Jay is intern here at Amazon and he kindly agreed to join us on our show so this is a first guest of mine I'm very pleased to have you well here's all mine thank you so Jay tell us a bit about yourself so you're an intern here yeah where you're from so I came from Portugal I studied computer science in Lisbon and this summer I spent it all in London interning at Amazon with Rafal as my mentor so you decided to give up your summer in Portugal yeah come in London and known for its awesome weather awesome awesome climate and fantastic beaches yeah like Lisbon so was it hard for you to like decide on the step and all risk I'd say it wasn't hard at all doing an internship at a big company like Amazon is something that I wanted for a long time so when I knew that I got it I just said yes I didn't think twice about it to something that I wanted for a long time and I was sure I wasn't kind of regret it so how do you like London so far do you enjoy it here I like it a lot like London is one of the few cities in Europe where you can find anything that you want be like if you want anything related to art culture very niche specific things London is one of the few places in Europe where you can find it like it's a great place and I love to live here one day you end up getting a better life here if you don't count rent and some services which are much more expensive basically more buying power I think yeah yeah I understand like the whole transition to London and to Amazon was a bit hard like an adventure but at the same time you know how was it yeah it was a shock at the beginning but I think when you come here and you start dealing with the people here you realize that everything's much more chill than what you might have thought about before you actually came basically what you're saying was you are not afraid to deep for to go come to London yeah it's like when you're afraid of things but at the same time your response to being afraid is just like ignoring the fact that you're afraid and going at on and kind of forgetting that you're afraid some people deal with it that way I think this was an experience and I dealt with my fear that way and everything turned out okay so yeah right did you manage a logic accommodation transport of your things by your own or did you have any help I did it on my own so transport of my things I just brought what I brought on a plane so that was easy and the accommodation Amazon referred one student accommodation here in London which takes internees during the summer so I spoke with them and I arranged my own accommodation through them all right so basically no brain error yeah everything laid out for you that fantastic like when I was applying to different jobs back in my time I often heard about this you know notion that interns often do unimportant tasks like brewing coffee running for office supplies back and forth but you've been tasked with something that I would consider difficult for me right when I read your task I was kind of worried that I'm going to be your mentor and at the same time I don't really understand the task in its entirety right and there was a lot of sections that I don't know how to help you with and I was worried that you know you're gonna ask questions I won't have answers so yeah the the project that they gave me was design or redesign these old feature of our product and yeah as you said it wasn't completely straightforward or just fetch coffee yes type of task so this is your what eighth nine ninth week today yeah ninth week yeah so total is 10 weeks and how are you liking it so far so I'm loving it here so when you're an intern you're given a project to work over the summer so you get to design your own feature your own like little piece of something that it's used by thousands of people and you get tons of feedback for from amazingly talented people and you get to incorporate all that and get a lot of help and just grow over the summer probably like I've never liked grown before I'd say don't worry you have plenty of that to come given your experience so far could you say that you learned a lot what have you learned actually here in Amazon I'd say that computer science related things I've learned a lot about code quality about testability making sure things not only work but they work properly and everything is in place for for the future and for other people especially because when you go for yourself or on college projects you don't care so much about that but here is really important and I start to really care about those aspects of my code and I'd say that the thing that I got most from my internship here is actually dealing with other people talking to customers being able to write good documents that other people can understand and what people usually call soft skills are something that you really need and I think they should be as hard as the other ones yes so having that said I think that forgive me but I don't know but I think that in university you don't get really work on design docs or any sort of documentation right this is not a part of no it's mostly you get okay so do these and then you do it and you submit it and that's it so what parts of like the college knowledge is actually important what what parts of this knowledge is helping you I'd say that what you get from college in computer science is mostly the experience of like knocking your head on the table and getting things to work at the beginning things don't seem it seems almost impossible or you can do the things they ask you but after like a week of extreme struggling you came out and you say okay I made these and it works and I think what you get from college is mostly the experience of being terrified and having no idea how to make this thing work and then you're actually able to do it and then you come to a place like these and you get a little bit of the same feeling but since it's something that you've known before and you dealt with and you got past you come here and you're not so stressed about because you know okay I've been in a situation before like I had no idea how to do things than I learned here is gonna be the same no need to panic so stress of or rather fear of ambiguity and navigating around that fear this is something that I've yeah it's kind of important to like understand that oh even if you don't know something there are people that will help you even like direct you into a way like you can reach out and you get the help so let's try this I know it's a hard one yeah so what would you say is the best thing at Amazon so far so I don't have much of a reference because it's my first internship my first experience with the real companies I really can't compare it to other things but I've loved the people I work with the work I'm doing and the work life balance is great the salary as well can't ignore that yeah and the environment in the company I think overall it's great you don't feel over pressure to I think it's a good balance of everything okay good happy to hear that so a trick question what how's surprised you the most in Amazon what did you not expect and it happened or did you have any expectations and they didn't happen again since this was my first internship I literally had no I didn't know what to expect I came in like getting ready to accept things that came my way what surprised me the most I'd say it was mostly how I was expecting a big corporate environment and what I ended up with was like a four-person team and with the same dynamics that I would have in like a group project in school so that was really nice that's great to hear yeah yeah I think that was the thing that that was more against my expectations okay and it was a good thing I think when you come to a place like this you really learn to talk to people to just okay you don't know this all this part of the software works who you talk to rough would be this part of the software they tell talk to someone even if he doesn't know he points you in the right direction you go you speak to them people are super friendly they tell you like okay so explain you what's going on what do you need to do to achieve what you want to achieve and you start learning like your surroundings like that mm-hmm what you're scared at the beginning yeah like it can be a little intimidating but when you get past your fear and I think you're real you realize that you can yeah like because I was scared like when I read your project I was scared I was scared for you and for myself I think it's the thing that talked about you that you gain from college yeah it's scary but you know that in the end you're gonna get there mm-hmm that's great so would you recommend the internship in Amazon to others yeah I would for sure recommend the internship so these three months just flew by they were like super fun I didn't I almost didn't feel like I I was like slaving and working and not being at the beach like it just went smoothly and I'd recommend it to anyone because you get great experience Amazon looks great on your CV either way and the work is interesting you meet tons of great people they organize like a lot of events for interns you can have fun with people your own age as well and at the end it's just a summer well spent and you also managed to make a little bit of money over the summer which is always good as well right so I know that tomorrow will be your evaluation as an intern so I wish you all the best good luck have my fingers crossed and I'm hoping that you'll get an offer because yeah I don't know if you guys know but every internship here in Amazon or at least almost everyone is like finalized with reviewing the project that intern did and you may end up getting an offer from Amazon so that's what I wish to you Jay yeah I wish that as well all right what happens and anything else you want to add no I think that's mostly it I think I cover a lot of things that I myself have questions about before I came so I hope it helps someone was considering it at least right so people shouldn't be afraid of relocation and living and no I mean it's just a great experience like you you grow so much and it's totally worth it even if you're scared just ignore that just go okay so thank you so much hey thanks for joining coffee with small and you just have to reach and yeah don't be afraid I'd say that's the most important thing thanks so much for joining and remember you can always do a comment and subscribe see you in the next one bye cheers and that's usually like a huge spike on yeah so you can tell me the some recorded and they don't have to do the whole thing again actually you didn't but don't worry we have this 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Hey, Van, first of all, congrats on the new Baby Boy. That's exciting. I wanted to ask you a question in regards to your role on this offense with the Rams and Matthew Stafford. In your personal preference, do you prefer to be like that Cooper Cup six, eight, 10 targets kind of guy at game? Or do you really like your role right now as an intermediate to deep threat for Matthew Stafford? I just take my role as, you know, I mean, whatever they need me to do for that game. You know, if that's getting six to eight targets that game, then that is. If it's getting one to two targets that game, then that's what it is. I mean, you know, I just try to play the best of my ability and make a play when the ball is thrown my way and play the role to the best of my ability and just go out there and play.  And you know, everything else to take care of so. Appreciate it. Good luck.


Hi, I'm Paige. Welcome to a day in my life as a Purdue student.  After that, I head over to the couch to get ready for my online PR class. Then I really didn't get ready and dressed until the afternoon, so there's that. Then I got ready to head to my class on campus, have the essentials, a water bottle, because it's been so hot this week. And then I head over to Bearing Hall for my calm research class.  And then I ended the day doing some research for my internships and enjoying the weather.


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