So today we're going to talk about if he regrets losing you and what happens when he regrets losing you Now quickly we have to establish that in the early stages of dating Actually most humans date from a very selfish point of view. It's based on what can I get versus? What can I give and what's often missing in the early stages of dating is? Appreciation that's right appreciation for efforts appreciation for kindness appreciation for Generosity and that's not to say that we don't thank someone for maybe treating for a date But more importantly appreciating them for who they are and when an emotionally unhealthy man experiences regret It's because he's reflecting upon what you did for him in the relationship particularly if you expressed Absolute appreciation for him if he felt good about how you treated him Especially because you appreciated him. He might feel regret when he bails He might feel regret when he bails. Now.  You know if the title appealed to you on this video most likely you have an unhealthy attachment or you had an unhealthy attachment with a man who didn't appreciate you and I think it's critically important I want to I can't stress this enough if this title really appealed to you as If you want him to regret losing you then you must look inward and saying what is it about this dynamic? That I need him to regret losing me Because you have to really ask yourself was there enough appreciation in the relationship Now most likely what he's regretting if anything and this happens when relationship ends we we Value what was good about the relationship where you were in Synchronicity with one another in a relationship and yet most likely there was something missing and we're gonna talk about this This is a critically important factor for Relationships success especially for those of us in midlife. This is so critically important So stick around I'll be sharing this in a few moments now remember. I said in the early part of this broadcast. I said Most people operate in the dating realm of what can I get versus what can I give now? I want to establish for critically important factors for critically important qualities of a relationship that makes for relationship success and in this you're going to Appreciate this because the first thing That's critically important in in any dynamic in any human pair bonding is attention for one another giving each other attention and What attention really means is being present to this person not being thinking about the future not thinking about the past Not being stuck on past relationship not focusing on what's going on in work You know oftentimes I see how women are most attracted to the alpha male that's successful male But I'm going to tell you something typically those men are so So focused on their purpose. Okay, we can talk about their purpose their purpose their purpose is to make money Their purposes to change lives. They're so critically focused on that that oftentimes they don't even Create the space to give you attention from a truly present space Or they give you a part of them that's fully present But not all of them who's fully present So attention is critically important and this is true for you ladies towards men as well I see a lot of women who are you know, what do they call it the boss bitch? You know that you're so hyper focused on making a difference in the world You don't actually value the most important thing in your life is most likely your partner attention number two affection Affection isn't just in words. It's also in touch. You know, I think that what I'm about to share these four A's that I learned are really a daily vitamin for relationship success And it's so critically important to physically touch your partner in a gentle loving kind way along with physical intimacy I want you to I'm not discounting the importance of physical intimacy, but just that simple touch. I Remember once I went on a date with a woman first date and we were having drinks at the bar And we're sitting literally really close to one another We were you know facing each other and I just found that she was lightly touching my arm at one point And I really and and you look at some people might say that that was too forward We had already known each other from Facebook for quite a few months So it wasn't some total stranger and I found that affection that she gave me quite intoxicating See when we're giving from these places an emotionally healthy man Will most likely not bail on you. It's those men who can't receive your attention your affections and The third one is appreciation. I can't begin to stress the importance of a daily Reminder to the person you're with how much you appreciate them how grateful you are to be with them and to express those words Now some of you might be saying well Jonathan I've done all those things and he still bailed on me That's because the man couldn't appreciate you or more importantly. He couldn't receive Your attention your affection your appreciation and ultimately the last a in this dynamic there's acceptance see the challenge we have in Relationships is we might like parts of a person But not all of the person it might be a physical attribute with them It might be a dynamic within their personal life. It might be a dynamic in their light Their values it might be a dynamic within their capacity to regulate their emotions. Whatever it is See where I think a lot of friction that happens in relationship Is a lack of true acceptance and true acceptance is the highest form of Unconditional love you see most of us experience relationship with the level of conditional love now listen, let me be clear It's rare That we're gonna meet someone so perfectly aligned that it's just going to be synchronized It's just gonna be like fit like a glove that is so rare There are going to be some radical there are going to be some differences that you're going to experience with a person but ultimately True love is that space of accepting? That person for who they are and learning to appreciate the things you don't like You know I share this story frequently. I was in a relationship with a woman who I'll be candid with you Drove me nuts. She would want to yell anytime. We were gonna go to a restaurant She want to yelp and read the reviews and she would habitually read the one-star reviews now I understand her and you know, I understand why she did that But it bugged me because there was no restaurant that she could go to because they all had one-star reviews And I'm saying this a little tongue-in-cheek Ultimately when our relationship ended I found myself yelping reviews What actually bothered me in the beginning was something I learned to appreciate or more importantly accept a Part of who she was we have I think true love is accepting a person even When they might drive you crazy now. I'm not here to suggest you should accept You know that if you have to call a doctor an attorney or a policeman I am not here to suggest you have to accept that kind of behavior So as I was preparing for this video I began thinking What was one of the downfalls for my most previous relationship and this is gonna relate to regret in a moment Um and and when I say downfall I I'm simply mean to say where there wasn't Alignment okay, where there was there was wasn't alignment alignment feels like this when there's a misalignment is like this and I want to dive into this conversation because it's critically important to understand this for those of us in midlife, okay? See this doesn't apply to that 20 and 30 year old demographic because most people in their 20s and 30s See they're choosing to mate with someone to make babies and raise a family They choose to mate with so their critical importance of the relationship is centered around parenting rate making babies raising children and and so it's no longer about the the two people It's about a group of people. They're taking care of their tribe if you will see for those of us in midlife And this is where a lot of my contemporary dating coaches don't get this the ones that got married and have children They're not in the dynamic that we are in see for those of us in midlife who most likely have gone through a divorce Some of you are widowers or widows. Excuse me or widowers if you're a man watching this Or some of you never been married the challenge for those of us in midlife is most of us Come to the table with a fully curated life, okay, and we have our certain passions within our lives we have our passions within our lives and What I've observed is a misalignment in shared passions a misalignment and shared passions So as I reflected upon my relationship that ended some six months ago at the time of this broadcast She had a shared passion for travel where she wanted to travel on average of two weeks a month because she was retired and While I certainly I like to travel. I'm not in the same space as her but more importantly I'm terrible at traveling I am a real pain in the ass to travel with and she sadly witnessed that I Have a lot of anxiety when I'm in a place that I don't feel comfortable with and and I did work on Surrendering to her trusting her to navigate all of this but for her She couldn't accept that that space within me or she had difficulty. Let me just say that and Comet commensurately where my greatest passion lies is in spiritual journeys doing psychedelic journeys doing exploring consciousness and exploring the deeper meaning of life therapy in the Relationships those sort of thing and that was something that she while she attempted to do and while I attempt to do travel We were misaligned Quite frankly on our shared passions and I at first I thought we were a little bit aligned I thought we were a little bit aligned, but we really weren't So as I reflected upon this I thought about my mother and father who had been married for 66 years before my mother passed away Surprisingly my father is 98 and a half years old and he's still kicking by the time of this broadcast okay So they so what's interesting about their dynamic is they didn't have shared passion My mother was my mother was a professional gambler. I mean she was a brilliant card player She loved playing cards, okay And my mother used to travel used to go to Vegas all the time with my sister or The other card places all the time without my father and my mother loved to travel too My dad was kind of indifferent about traveling I think one of the reasons why I was most attracted to my last relationship is she reminded my mother regarding the travel Bear with me you wait for this because I'm gonna share with you What this is all about? Okay, so my father was into He started the Turkish Israeli society in Los Angeles. My father did the Coast Guard They had separate shared passions Okay, so now you're saying well Jonathan that's in contradiction of what you just said you see the difference is is They had a family that was their shared passion Being grandparents being parents to us children, you know and they had forged all of the tough stuff in the early stages Their relationship you see for those of us midlife a shared passion is so critically important to relationship success I mean when I say shared passion is like when you love something and they mutually love something See when you mutually love something together it makes it much more difficult to end a relationship Because you have a solid bond with one another and this is why dating requires a true understanding of self Who you are but more importantly, what's your greatest passion in your life? See I witness women who make poor choices all the time. You have a broken man picker By the way, there's a link below the schedule a discovery call with me of safe work working with a coach is right for you But I can't begin to stress it like so let me tell you about a woman. I connected with on a Dating app some years ago. She lived one mile away Absolutely gorgeous. I swiped right. She swiped right, but when I looked at her picture She's jumping out of an airplane. She's repelling off of a mountain She's snowboarding She's skiing.  I knew that her passions were misaligned with my passions Not that she couldn't appreciate not that we can't appreciate someone's passions But most importantly if you don't share it Especially for those of us in midlife It makes it difficult to create the strong bond to be with one another is this sinking in is this resonating? Please let me know if it is please hit that like button Please make a comment in the the chat box or in the comment section of this video you see regret Comes from a lack of appreciation and when we bond with someone in our core Values our lifestyles are blendable with one another and there's emotional maturity and then couple that with with chemistry If you're an emotionally healthy person You've got the makings for a very successful relationship and when you learn to express appreciation Particularly in your area of shared passion. I remember once meeting a woman on a dating app I think it was millionaire match and I could tell she was a jock type and We developed a friendship we we friended each other on Facebook and we just by the way She lived far away, so we didn't meet but we developed a little bit of a friendship and I coached her a little bit and she met Got her name was sin Cindy and got what was his name? I think it was Jake and she was an absolute physical fitness buff I mean she was a stud okay, and I mean stud I mean not like Arnold Schwarzenegger But she had just her she really was in the physical fitness and the partner She's with is equally in the physical fitness. I mean absolute mirror of her They have this shared passion and When you have a shared passion Relationship might end and you might regret that you've lost that that might happen. Okay, but what's most what usually happens is There's a lack of appreciation for the other person in the totality a lack of appreciation in the person in the totality that causes that relationship to mice So once again, let me reiterate. He'll regret losing you when this happens.  Is this sinking in is this resonating? Please let me know if it is post a comment below I'd like to hear your thoughts if you liked what I shared today. 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I'm like, I'm not negative I just I'm observing the reality of what I I observe Okay, and I'm here to say as well.  I'm here to also say as most humans are rather emotionally fucked up I mean we are swimming in a sea of dysfunctionality Very few people have done the emotional Healing work and very few people have good relationship skills to just be in relationship And then when you're in midlife, you know, most people in midlife they date with 20 or 30 year old eyes They're like they're they're out of shape. They're unattractive They've let themselves go but they still want Brad Pitt or they still want Scarlett Johansson For me, it would have been Grace Kelly or Linda Carter back in the day So we oftentimes date with those eyes and here's the thing for those humans who have truly done the inner work and You connect with another soul who has done the inner work. Believe it or not. You find that human being incredibly attractive See all of the egoic part goes out the window when you've done the work and you've connected with someone Who's truly done the work who is your watermark? That's those are the soul connective Relationships and you oftentimes find that person to be incredibly beautiful or handsome when you've done the work Okay, so I hope I answered your question, but Let me go back to your question. What was it again?  There's no way to really quantify it because because there are situations ships casual relationships serious relationships marriages and even marriages fail at a 50 percent or at a 65 to 75 percent rate So I don't think it can be quantified One of our Facebook group members if you want to have direct access to me on a regular basis Check out the link below to my group called midlife love mastery But here's one of our Facebook group members A guy told me he liked vertical hiking aka cliff Climbing I asked him if he would be expecting me to join him on this or if it would I could be home making romantic dinner after I got very clear with men that they were looking for an athlete They need not keep looking. Okay interestingly enough Like golf might be a passion for someone. Okay, and it's not like you can't but I'm really talking like it Doesn't mean you can't have separate passions. Okay, but it's critically important to find those shared passions And I know many couples that they like for example golf. They do it together You know, you don't have to be good at it to do it. I Recently shared a story where I met a woman and I shared with her that Psychedelic spiritual journeys is something I do on a regular basis. It's it's part of my therapy if you will and She wasn't interested in that and she'd be missing out on a shared passion with me. So anyways, that's I hope I answered your question there Look at we've got a guy in the house Seth Good, I'm not echoing Emma. No, you're fine Look at the camera. Don't look at me. Okay. Okay. Very good. Yes. I got it. Okay. Are you Jonathan? You know who I am, right? Oh, I've seen you on some of my videos, but I don't know you as a boy friend Really quickly for everybody watching this One of the women in my private group called midlife love mastery has met a man who lives in a nut She lives in Zumba way Seth lives and I believe South Carolina. They connected through a dating app I don't believe the two of you have met yet. Is that right? No, we have I actually flew to Zimbabwe 10,000 miles and spent a little over a week with her. Yep. Okay. It was fantastic Fantastic week and okay coming to the states. We're trying to get that put together. So, okay So you're literally you remind this reminds me of the TV show 90-day fiance Which is people from other countries so But by the way, is she an American or she is in Bob? She's born and raised in Bulaway. Oh Zimbabwe. Yes. Okay. Okay, even though she's a white chick Okay, so are you willing to be are you willing to allow me to be her heart protector a big brother for a moment Grill you right now. They don't call it the hot seat for nothing, right? Okay So as you know, I'm a heart protector for women, right in the sense that I'm their big brother I have a shotgun pointed at you right now. If I literally could be I'd be what's your intentions? Yeah It obviously the two of you have hit it off You've spent you tell me you've spent a significant amount of time in face time Communicating with one another. Is that right? That is correct. Yeah, can you expand upon that for a little bit? So we talk every day during since there's a seven hour time difference So unfortunately, we can't just talk whenever I talk during my lunch break during the weekdays And on the weekends we can talk we've talked anywhere Most weekends we talk at least three hours and honestly we had one weekend where we talked 12 hours over the course of the weekend But so we talk a lot and I think people don't Appreciate that enough, you know, I know I don't believe that at all counts as what did you call it long-distance? bookups or whatever well, I yeah, well Let me just interject here for a moment. What happens often times is That through this cyber connection. I'm using the term cyber internet connection We experience as human beings we experience what's known as artificial intimacy artificial intimacy What that means you I suspect the two of you feel a strong connection for one another Yep, and yet it hasn't been built through the traditional building blocks of Social activities hobbies mutual interest spending time with family and friends traveling together It hasn't built through variety of different circumstances Okay, yeah, and and what also typically happens in long-distance dynamics is what I call a bubble Experience, you know, you're together Especially when you first meet if there's sexual tension, you know, because two people have been communicating They jump in the bed together quickly and I'm gonna ask you that question In a moment. Yes, but what happens is it's a bubble most often. It's not true reality. So So, I mean you don't have to answer this question when you flew out to Zimbabwe did you guys have sex? We did I made a joke with with Deb.  Yeah, okay So She's coming out to South Carolina. When is she coming? She's coming April 20th. So she'll be here April 20th to June 15 Okay, so all pending on her visa, which we're gonna stay confident. That's gonna work out Yeah, now really quickly. So we're in January here. So that's February March.  Can't she just come over here like any other it's taking that long to get a tourist V just a tourist visa Work she was gonna come in to March But then we got the visa thing going and she couldn't get a appointment with the The consulate until April 9th Okay, which is one. Yeah. All right. So let's get into the nitty gritty. Why do you like this? Check I she's incredible. Okay. So first of all, I love that you're asking and I do think of course the default I think she's beautiful. I think she's sexy But the thing is I love her heart. I think I just I love she's a beautiful person in and out So she's kind she's thoughtful. She's good. She's generous Um, she kind of blows. Oh, she has a she has a high capacity for forgiveness. She's had a lot of wrongs in her life Okay, but she I've just stunned sometimes about how she still has connections with people that have wronged her in her life But she doesn't just she doesn't just go on and on about horrible. They are she's you know So I just really her character. I know that's something you said that I love when you say Character character, you know real estate is location location location and relationships is character character Yeah, and I want to be that person that has integrity and character and she has that so, okay, so I'm gonna jump in. Okay, so How tall is Deb? So she is five four Okay, and how tall are you? By the way, no judgment here, okay You know, I'm gonna suspect that you've been rejected by a lot of women because of your height correct Yeah, okay, and you know and not that you're George Clooney answer, but you're not an unattractive guy You're not George Clooney, you're not red So if if Deb we're here And by the way, she was on a previous broadcast, which I heard a clip for it What would she say about your her physical attractiveness towards you She says I'm handsome and you know, it's funny I listened to that first show and you know where she and she said he's not the tall dark handsome Which I thought was funny and he has a little extra. I thought that was hilarious that I can laugh at myself I think that's important But but you know, she said the pictures weren't flattering and when I got to Zimbabwe and it's true I'm not what's the term when someone looked good in pictures? Catfish. Yeah. Well, the point is she when I got there She said you're a lot more handsome in person than on the pictures. So I was like, okay, that's a win I'm gonna take you know Because there's either you either get you're more attractive in your pictures or god, you look, you know, you don't look as good as your pictures Seth I've been on both ends of this, you know, I've been on both ends of either a they weren't attracted to me or I wasn't attracted to them Certainly I'm a big proponent as I'm speaking to the entire audience here I am a huge proponent for every human being if you're going to put yourself on a dating site is to curate a quality representation of yourself including quality photographs Quality photographs. Yeah. Okay.   Okay. That's okay. Absolutely. That's why I'm here You know when if and when dev moves to United States, okay, or you guys spend a significant amount of time together It's important to do a variety of different things together. Yeah to learn about each other number one. Yes You know recognizing but the challenge oftentimes is when somebody moves across The country or to another country is they find themselves that they don't have their own life Yeah, you have your life in South Carolina and she most likely so it's incumbent upon her I can't begin to stress this enough to develop some sort of life outside of you because then it puts so much pressure on the relationship Yes, and by the way in 90-day fiance the other way a woman went from Like the Midwest to South Africa. Yeah, and in South Africa where this guy lived I mean there's bars on the door because there's not a level of safety there He feels safe, but she not only didn't feel safe. She didn't have a life for herself This is the most important thing to have serious dialogue on if this is going to progress any further Is this helping at all? Yeah, it does actually can I make a comment too? And the way I would describe that is the power of dynamic, you know I told her early and often I said I'm a feminist and I think it's an And I don't want to get into all the weeds of that I'm the kind of I'm not a crazy feminist, but part of me is going like I wonder if women would just say I'm looking for a man. It's a feminist to have their problems and go away, but But power dynamics it really mean a lot to me and the power dynamic is so potentially awful She comes here. She's giving up her now She's just coming for a visit for a while. Yeah long-term. She'd be here and she's giving up so much. She can't work I'm supporting her and I think a lot of men could turn that power Dynamic into something awful and so I you mentioned her, but it's also important to me very good I actually support her when she's feeling lonely and she's missing her home and very Make her feel important and all that and so we talked a lot about that that is on me to do that So I just wanted to point that out by the way just for everyone watching I am a feminist as well and what that means to me is people Individuals whether you have a penis or vagina you be treated, you know fairly with one another That's what that means, you know, yeah, and particularly in relationship. What that means to me is I don't then again I'm speaking only for myself yourself is I don't believe in the one-up one-down Dynamic of a relationship that are powered controlled where the man is the leader of the relationship Must admit to her man. I just don't believe that I believe in partnership Very similar to two attorneys who decide to start a law firm together to CPAs who start a law firm together to doctors to start a Medical practice together they have equal say in the outcome of the shared dynamic that to me is feminism, okay Well listen Seth we have a lot of questions coming in from others I just want to share my appreciation for you coming on. Thank you so much and I wish you to all the best, okay? Thank you very much, John. All right. All right. All right. I love love Thank you. I appreciate that Folks, you know, I'm I'm a big prop, you know to the extent that I do have criticisms for long-distance dating There was always the exception to the rule the clock is the broken clock is right twice a day And it might be that Seth and Deborah or Deb might be able to go the distance I wish them all the success it sounds like they're going in very consciously with Sensuality which is a lot different because most people that enter into the long-distance dating dynamic It's all about the good feelings the good feelings and they haven't really addressed The mechanics to a healthy happy relationship and since Deb has been indoctrinated in the Jonathan Asley Philosophy and she's part of my group called midlife love mastery. There's a link below to join the group She's operating from a from a greater sense of awareness And it sounds like Seth is also in the same space as her and because of that they have a greater chance for success So I Jonathan endorsed this long-distance dating dynamic All right, we have more questions that came in Julie Jonathan oh and again if you want to join if you want to be brave enough to join the hot seat There's a link right there Julie is in the house. She says Jonathan. Could you please give an example of bread crumbing bread crumbing is simply Giving a little bit of attention and then going silent for a while and giving a little bit of attention and going silent for a while And giving a little bit of attention going silent for a while. That is bread crumbing. Okay Question John from Sandy I know it's difficult when Marie and you by the way, it's Marie not Maria you separated How have you gotten through the hard times because this is what I'm dealing with right now. So great question You know folks, there's no doubt I was rather attached to Marie and while cognitively speaking I Recognize a lot of why I chose this relationship what I needed to heal within myself in this relationship What gifts she gave me from this relationship?  I really miss that Okay, so which I suspect maybe Sandy you feel the same way um, I Asked I I've really examined intro I've gone introspective and recognized that While I might I don't feel like I had an unhealthy attachment to her But I certainly was attached that was experiencing my love attachment if you're not familiar with the book um Wired for love by dr. Stan tackin and attached by Amir Levine Rachel Heller I really recognize what was going on for me and my dynamic of why I was Rather attached to this person number one But I but I'm healing that attachment. I've been healing it for decades So I don't feel like the pain like I don't feel heartbroken I'm just sad because I miss a lot of the good things I'm just sad that I miss a lot of the good things, but I don't feel heartbroken. I don't feel regret So and I believe she feels the same way So the most important thing to do sandy is to be introspective Recognize the gifts that you came from this relationship. How did you heal? How did you grow? Appreciate the good stuff and that's will help you get it through it. At least that's my way of doing it Okay, hope that helps All right, we have a lot of people that um have been asking questions if you asked a question earlier repeat it because um, I may not be able to find it How do you know when you've done enough inner work for a healthy relationship? Okay, here's one of many When you can look at your past relationships And not feel a charge You don't feel a need to throw them under the bus You don't need to feel the need to be negative about them when you can like I I I have so much Gratitude towards Marie. I have so much gratitude towards sherry. I have so much gratitude towards my ex-wife Um, and I don't mean to exaggerate this gratitude, but certainly Um, and you know, there were things wrong in each one of these relationships I mean again, if you didn't have to call a doctor an attorney or a policeman police person, excuse me a police officer excuse me um You know and and even if you had to call any one of those three if you don't have a charge You're you're in a good place to enter into a new relationship if you still have a charge Um, then I would say take time to heal. Okay. Great question. Angie.  I mean look at I'm in that category I mean, all right. Let me be clear. I want sex. Okay, and I want companionship. I want connection. I want emotional maturity. I want a Partner to do things with okay. I get it. What do you do when by the way? Yeah most men are remember I started this broadcast. We mostly date from what can I get? Sex is part of the way men operate. How do you address that by asking deeper questions? In the early stage of dating. That's what I teach in my private coaching There's a link below to schedule a discovery call with me to see if working with a coach is right for you I teach you how to be intentional take a step back. Look at Seth and and debora debora grilled Seth.  You are absolutely supposed to Interrogate people I say it tongue-in-cheek But absolutely your job is data collection Ask the deeper questions to see what they really want.   No, I'm just an average guy That's just done a little more work than the average person. That's all All right, let's keep going um Julie said going back to Seth and Deb. Oh my god, it's like 90-day fiance. It's right all right Bump bump bump bump Sarah's in the house I dated a man who was previously a friend for years He broke up after six months saying he didn't want to be with me anymore Why would a guy say he wants to be alone? Is this a cop out? Well, there was probably something within the dynamic that wasn't resonating with him for whatever reason doesn't have to be A healthy or it doesn't have to be an unhealthy reason, but And honestly, you know when we separate from someone we need to be alone We need time to heal from a relationship So, um, but no, I mean every human being wants can companionship connection and sex Okay, but it doesn't mean that they want commitment And maybe he just reached the max point Within for you of how far he could go for commitment, but no it's a cop out I mean to say I want to be alone I guarantee you he he still wants to have sex somewhere. Okay, and maybe he needs a prostitute. Oh, excuse me sex worker All right, let's keep going bump bump bump bump Um bump bump bump bump bump if you have a question write the word question then post the by the way Why doesn't anyone purchase a super sticker super chat our goal today is 50 dollars for the Conor Asley scholarship fund Give us some love. Okay. Give us some love Leanne bandy is in the house If loving him is loving the bad with the good I need help with loving his bad He deeply regrets how his marriage ended 16 years ago His affair and it's impacted on his kid. Should I run? Well, if he hasn't healed from his past relationship Then it's not then he can't fully embrace It's very rare. I'm not saying listen. There's always the exception to the rule the broken clock It's very rare that someone who has deep regret Well, let me actually that's not true I have to rewind for a second I have some I have regret I have regret. Okay I have real I regret that I wasn't a better husband. I have to I have to own that piece Um, I regret I wasn't a better father. So Is it deep regret? Well I've gotten over the shame and I've forgiven myself for it. Okay So I'm aware of I've got so I'm not I'm not charged by it Okay, I do have regret folks. I'm not proud of the fact. I wasn't a great husband I'm not proud of the fact. I wasn't a good father. I was an unconscious human being for a lot of years I just followed the doctrine taught to me be the provider protector I did that role my ex-wife even said you did a great job doing the role of provider But I wasn't really a provider from an emotional perspective because I was never taught it I just was singularly focused on what I was taught was to be the one who paid the bills Okay so But I've healed from that so But when you say he deeply regrets it, it sounds like he still has a charge and because of that he you know I would have some real reservations. I would see where you're Where you share the same values where your lifestyles are blendable and more importantly his emotional maturity Thank you so much for that question Bum bum bum bum bum bum bum bum Mayo my oh Regarding prenups my top values we pride prioritize and trust each other my ex-husband prenup made me feel I don't trust you. I don't prioritize you. He called me a gold digger. Okay. I'm all in favor for prenups and let me explain why especially for those of us in midlife a legal Illegal marriage is a contract with the government It is a legal contract with the government where the government has has set rules on What happens when a relationship ends? It's not what you two decide. It's what the government decides The prenup is the design to decide how you to want to View the relationship particularly if it ends. So I think it's it's a great. It's an important conversation I think we absolutely need to have a contract Our own contract not the government's contract.  I this is a charge for me I don't believe the government should rule our life. I don't believe a judge has a right to rule my life Okay, and I wouldn't want you to give your power to a judge either. So yes, I'm in big favor of prenups Even if it feels like it's it's not an issue of trust It's a marriage is a business contract because otherwise what I mean really it's a business contract if you think about it And you could form your own business contract without it Jonathan have to say this is probably one of your best Realist loving videos to date. Yes, it resonates with me Bravo. Thank you for sharing your authentic input here chef kiss on the video Chef kiss on the video. Okay Thank you. I appreciate that. I appreciate that. Remember our conversation was about appreciation. I appreciate that Julie wants to ask Jonathan. Did you read Steve Harvey's book? What did you think? You know I I appreciate A lot of the sentiment that Steve Harvey has professed in his book I do believe that he Sometimes overly criticizes men and I can understand why because I overly criticize men. I think he under Under estimates how women are equally messed up in the dating dynamic I don't think he has a real grasp on that or at least in the book I didn't what is it act like a lady think like a man. Where is it? I know I have that book somewhere Oh, um, maybe I don't anymore. Um, I'm giving it away. Um So I can appreciate that, you know, his 90 day rule I understand that the I understand the dynamics for that I do agree that people should build trust with one another before the penis goes inside the vagina I prefer the book eight dates by doctors john and jolly gotman particularly chapter one reading it But ladies before you ever go on the first date read this first chapter. It's so critically important to understand What trusting commitment is all about? Okay, so thank you for that Jonathan, did you read he's just not that into I love the book. I saw the movie So yeah, I've seen the movie Do you think you should ask for parents blessing before getting engaged? Well, my parents aren't around or my dad still is um, you know, that's a that's a that was I think of younger people where culture is critically important for a relationship I could see the the need for that for those that are mating within their culture Um, I don't think it's necessary for those of us in midlife, you know, maybe your children Maybe it'd be better to get your children's blessing for those of us in midlife because that's an important critical factor In your relationship more so than your parents, but for younger people that don't have children Yeah, I could see it from a cultural perspective the value of that. Okay Um Billy holt is hey, let's give jessica some props for the $10 super sticker. Thank you so much That means we have $40 to go for this broadcast. Come on. Give some love Billy question. Can you please can you tell these women to toughen up and quit?  What's wrong with a woman being masculine if he can be a feminist?  That's what it means to me. Okay Treating each other as human beings not based on their gender Okay That's all how you treat someone. You know, whether you treat them equally or fairly That's how I view it. So that's my opinion on that And yes toughen up so I don't you know, stephanie. I'm not again to get into the legal marriage stuff again. I shared my point of view Question. I'm wondering if you changed your photos as they are both on the same Yes, I did switch them around from the last broadcast Uh All right, leon gave us some love. Thank you for the 20 dollar super sticker. That means we have 20 less for today Thank you for the love. We appreciate it. Jessica has just come in and said love you jonathan Everybody please support this wonderful man his beautiful cause. I wish I could do more today. Thank you so much I appreciate that billy holt just gave us some love Thank you for the 10 dollar. So we have 10 dollars more to go for today. Maybe let's shoot for 100 so You know, um Sandy, thank you so much for that. All right. So what else I really am hyped on this shared passion piece um I didn't realize that it's one thing to try someone's passion. Okay It's another to really embrace it to really embrace it and I think of a couple I'll probably interview him on my channel.  I don't know if you guys remember a few months ago where I threw out my back um, but what's interesting is stephanie has equally gotten passionate about golf and she gets together with other women and plays golf and this is something What's cool about golf and it's not a it's not a full A regular size 18 whole course. It's an executive course But in three hours you get to spend time with your partner in a fun loving way And then you talk about it. You see the thing about shared passion It isn't that you just do it together But then you talk about it together you talk about and by the way, think of like, oh my god, honey Remember when you made the birdie on that hole. Oh my god. I loved it I'm like, I can't believe you were stuck in that sound sand trap for four or five shots, you know And you get to talk about the experience And so I'm a big proponent of human people Sharing having at least one solid shared passion together. I think this is again a lot of my contemporaries who are raising babies Can't understand how critically important this is for those of us that are empty nesters That our children are grown And if your children are your highest priority ladies if your children are your highest priority Then you need to think about it very few men are going to accept your children as their highest priority The two of you have to find that mutual Passion together. Otherwise, it's most likely going to be a bit problematic. I'm just putting it out there By the way, thanks roller gore for the two dollar super sticker. I appreciate that Beach lover says golf is golf golf golf is a great way to ruin a lovely walk in a beautiful park I don't I don't feel the same way, but I get how you can feel that way Power cheese says I knew a guy that was using steve harvey's Way to play women. He had manipulated women that 90 day rotation while he was waiting 90 days For you.  Interesting Well, yeah, I mean that happens. Yes, that happens So what so what that's what that guy did. That's his journey Who cares what matters most is your journey hope is in the house With no regrets in mind and when a relationship is over How should I heal from a relationship that ended with no duality of conversation and still no contact from the other side? So forgiveness and gratitude Listen, I I'm going to share something with you about my own personal relationship that ended This has helped me get through it First off, I forgive myself for For some of my choices in the relationship and and I forgive her for some of her choices in the relationship And they're they're not that big of a deal to really be overly critical about but what most important is I'm in a state of gratitude Folks, you've heard me talk about marie with rev I mean with absolute reverence with absolute respect You know, I feel like when you can and if you can't feel like you respected the person Find what you're most grateful for and even if it's just the learning lesson you got from the experience That's how you put yourself in a space of being ready To be able to join up with someone new in your life And I will tell you the by the way I I read women's dating profiles I can literally read how every guy has hurt them in the words that they express in their dating profile as an example And I can tell that's a human being that hasn't healed You'd be surprised how sub how victim consciousness is so subtle in communication And yet it's so prevalent to why a lot of relationships don't succeed. That's just my two cents on it Hey, this has been fun on a Saturday morning to share my perspective He'll regret losing you when this happens folks who gives a crap if he regrets losing you what's most important is you show up Giving attention affection appreciation and acceptance and if he can't do it equally for you Then you have a misaligned relationship and I would say it's time to move on. All right Listen, if you found value in this if you have something to say post a comment below I like do my best to read all the comments in the first 24 hours if you like this video here Please hit that like button. 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The challenge of the Yukon It's Yukon King swiftest and strongest lead dog of the Northwest Blazing the trail for Sergeant Preston of the Northwest mounted police in his relentless pursuit of lawbreakers Gold gold discovered in the Yukon a stampede to the Klondike in the wild race for riches Back to the days of the gold rush with Sergeant Preston and his wonder dog Yukon King as they meet the challenge of the Yukon Sergeant Preston was returning from patrol one morning and was mushing along the trail bordering Venture Creek His great lead dog Yukon King was running ahead of the team as loosely In the distance to the small cabin suddenly King increased his speed and sprinted forward Then the sergeant saw what had attracted King's attention. It was a body lying in the snow in front of the cabin It's a girl King the sergeant raised her head and pushed back the hood of her Parker The girl was young not more than 19 or 20 at the most her face was deadly pale and her cheeks were hollow Still alive King had better carry her into the cabin as the sergeant later down on the bunk the girl's eyes flickered open Sergeant Preston Northwest mounted police.  Oh, I see Thank You sergeant I'm Mrs. Redford and need a red what happened. I was feeling quite ill a while ago Thought perhaps if I went outside got some fresh air Well, I might feel better Yes, I fainted. How do you feel now? All right, quite all right. Where's your husband? He went out honey. Look, uh, How long has it been since you've eaten? Well, I don't know what you mean Tell me the truth You're right What's the point in lying? I Haven't eaten since yesterday morning. You stay right there. I'll fix you some food The sergeant went out to his sled and returned with an arm full of his own supplies Then he fixed Mrs. Radford a nourishing meal When she was through she turned to him with an embarrassed smile. I can't tell you how grateful I am Terribly embarrassing to have to accept charity charity has nothing to do with it country like this the person gives help when he can Accepts it when he needs it. I suppose that's the common sense attitude. Of course it is Your husband's claim played out Well, I'm afraid so he never did get much gold out of it only a few hundred dollars worth We spent the last of that two weeks ago. I don't mean to be inquisitive, but what are your plans? Well to tell you the truth. We don't have any Weird our wits and Chris has tried to get a job in Dawson or at one of the mines, but so far He hasn't had any luck. Oh When I get back to town, I'll ask around see if I can turn up anything boy We'll certainly be grateful if you can That must be Chris now Nita, what's wrong? Nothing Chris. I'm all right. I just painted out in front of the cabin. That's all Sergeant Preston brought me inside. I might think when you happen to long sergeant. I'm Chris Radford. I don't know you Chris Did you have any luck hunting? No, none at all. I brought in some supplies. You'd better have something to eat Thanks, but there's no need for charity holding the truth Chris. Oh Don't look so pained everybody shares his supplies up here. It's an unwritten law You've probably fed more than one traveler yourself. Of course we have I doubt if there's a sourdough in the U Count who hasn't been down on his luck at some time or nothing It's nothing to be ashamed of I suppose you're right Chris. Your face seems very familiar Haven't we met before not that I know of sergeant You may have caught a glimpse of me in Dawson sometime Sergeant Preston says he's going to inquire around and see if he can locate a job for you Chris.  I'll do my best What do you folks come from the States? Philadelphia to be exact. Do you have parents or any other relatives who might help you? None that I know of Need us an orphan and my mother died last year just before we came to the U Count. What about your father? Dad left mother when I was a kid and you don't know where to locate him. No, he never saw him again after he left And if I did know where to locate him I still wouldn't ask for help not even if you were a millionaire I see Well, we'll see if we can find you a job in the meantime those supplies on the tape isn't there We'll last you for a week or so. You've been mighty kind sergeant. You certainly have still wish I knew while your face seemed so familiar Maybe it'll come to you by the time you get back to town. Maybe so come along gang I'll drop back again in a few days. Let's go boy When sergeant Preston arrived back at headquarters, he was told to report to Inspector Conrad. Oh Yes, sir constable Ross, did you want to see me? Yes, I have a new assignment for you rather a vague assignment. I'm afraid The American authorities on Alaska just sent us a warning about a dangerous gang led by a man called Hawk Webster there in the territory. Yes, apparently they slipped over the border about a week ago Do you have pictures of the gangster? No sergeant. That's the trouble. All we have to go on are some very brief descriptions Here you can take the report and study it. Oh very well, sir. Oh All I'm here. There's something I'd like to speak to you about sir.  Certainly. He's the owner of the spread Eagle cafe. Does he have a police record? Yes, we have him covered in our files He served time in the States for train robbery and later on he got in trouble in Alaska Received a one-year sentence. However, he's never given us any trouble here in the territory. You know his real name. Yes It's Jackson Radford Radford. Does that mean something to you? This morning? I met a young fellow out on venture Creek named Chris Radford His face seemed familiar, but it couldn't place him and later on I realized he's almost a double for Klondike Jack They're probably related. I believe their father and son Chris told me he hasn't seen his father in years Doesn't know where he's located. What's the reason for your interest sergeant? Chris and his wife are practically destitutes. He claims played out and he can't find a job Well, Klondike Jack can certainly afford to help them out. He's making a fortune out of his cafe Trouble is Chris won't accept help from him. Feels very bittersweet. It's funny Well, at least you can let them know about each other. Perhaps you can bring them together, Sergeant. I'll do my best, sir At that moment Klondike Jack was seated in his office at the rear of the spread Eagle Cafe He was talking to a visitor a gaunt cruel looking man with a beak-like nose and a scar across one cheekbone The visitor was the outlaw Hawk Webster Jack was saying I Thought you and your gang were still operating in Alaska What in thunder are you doing here in Dawson the United States Marshall got on our trail and started making things hot for us So we decided to look for happier hunting grounds. What did you come to me for?   Is that it? Yeah, that's it I'm not interested now.  I am using my head. That's why I'm turning you down I have been going straight ever since I hit the Yukon territory. I aim to keep on going straight. Oh, wait a minute. Come on in Okay, wait a minute wait a minute who's this sergeant press That's what I figured look how about hiding me somewhere around here till he clears out some manner He's never seen you at Marshall may I send my description to the Mounties? Getting that closet over there and keep quiet. He probably won't be here long. Okay, hurry up and get rid of him All right, send them in Sam. All right, boss moment later sergeant Preston enters the office Howdy, Sarge. Hello, Jack. Have a chair. Thanks What's on your mind Jack? I believe you used to have a family once upon a time Yeah, I guess maybe I did How'd you know any idea what happened to them? Oh I wrote my wife a couple of years after I left her but I got no reply Later on I went back, but they were gone moved somewhere else Couldn't trace him. I see What are you driving at Preston? Do you know anything about him? Suppose I do Well then for the love of Mike man hurry up and tell me what about my wife? Is she all right? She died last year I I'm sorry Jack. Well, what about my boy? So they didn't know where to locate you and if he did he still wouldn't accept help from you Even if you were a millionaire, it's like that. I'm afraid so Jack But there's anything I can do to patch things up between you. I certainly do it. Thanks, sir I appreciate that I appreciate it a lot, but let me try to talk to him first No, I'd like to do that Scaven's about halfway up the creek is a big boulder on the bank of the creek right in front of it You can't miss it. Oh, I'll find it. Let me know how you make out. I sure will sergeant I am plenty grateful to you for telling me about my boy. Come along King It's all alongside Yes, he's gone if that's what you mean now about that proposition I was offering you It changed your mind, huh? No, I haven't as far as I'm concerned you can clear out right now and don't come back sure Sure, I'll clear out You know, I got a hunch you may be sorry you passed up my offer One dyke jack started out for Venture Creek. It was late afternoon when he arrived at Chris's cabin. Oh Oh Hello, Chris.  I'd like to talk to you Me to this is my father. How do you do? Well, so you're my daughter-in-law Come here. Let me look at you My thunder you're as pretty as a picture As pretty as Chris's mom was when she was your age. How did you know we were living here?  Yeah, I guess he must have figured it out after he left you I reckon so Well now that you're here. What do you want with me? I I want to help you son. I Don't want your help. Listen to me Chris.  I couldn't trace you. You could have if you'd tried hard enough. I Reckon it's no use trying to excuse myself. I've done wrong Chris. I know that but I've paid for it Believe me. I've paid for it How can't you let bygones be bygones?  No, I don't But I want to help you son. You need money. All right. I've got money lots of it. You can have it all Thanks But I'll get along without your help That's your final word. Yes That's my final word. All right. I can understand how you feel That's the way it's got to be I'll clear out but if you should change your mind Well, I'll she'll be glad to see you You can find me at the spread Eagle Cafe in Dawson. Just ask for a Klondike Jack. Goodbye. Goodbye Good luck to both of you Both Chris and Anita were silent for a long time after Chris's father had left the cabin But later that evening Chris burst out with the thoughts of her uppermost in his mind You blame me don't you for turning dad away as I did of course I don't blame you Chris. I can understand how you feel just the same you think I was too harsh with him I do think he's sorry for the past and he's terribly unhappy He wants to make it up to you any way that he can what you mean as he wants to buy me off He thinks he can save his conscience with money It's the only way he has to make up for what happened. Yeah, I know and in the meantime, I'm broke I can't support you properly. Can't even feed you. Please don't talk that way Chris Things are bad right now, but they won't always be like this You'll find a job. Yeah, maybe what's going to happen if I don't Howdy you're Chris Radford ancient that's right. I'd like to talk to you about something Come on in. Are you alone on my wife's here? Maybe we'd better talk outside What I got to say is private. Oh What's this all about you need money it'll be worth your while to listen All right Wait a second. I get my coat I don't know he wants to talk to me outside. I won't be too long Right What's on your mind? I'd you like to pick up 5,000 bucks? bucks For doing what wearing a handkerchief over your face and holding a gun. What's that? See here. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah simmer down a minute and listen to me. Will you use the idea? Tomorrow night. I'm aiming to rob a cafe in Dawson.    Just help keep the customers covered. That's all Me and the boys will handle all the details and take care of any trouble that comes up How did you find out about what's the difference? Point is I heard you were broken up against it So naturally I thought you might be interested in picking up some easy money and maybe winding up in prison.  What's more. I'm offering you 5,000 bucks. That's guaranteed.  I'd rather stay honest and starve to death. Is that it? Well, what if I would that's my business, isn't it? Look, maybe you don't mind starving out here, but what about your wife? You suppose it's any fun for her It's not my fault if I can't find a job. It'll be your fault if you don't get her out of this mess You can do a lot with 5,000 bucks, right for it It'll take you back to the States in style back to where you can find a job give your wife the kind of life She deserves. I Alright, I'll do it. I'll go in with you. Now you're talking sense It was late at night when a hawk Webster returned to the cabin on the outskirts of Dawson Which he and the other three members of his gang were using as a hideout From the evil grin on his face as he stepped into the cabin his three henchmen could tell that his mission had been a success Looks like you got what you went after our sure idea. You mean the young Radford's coming in with us on the holdup That's right. I promise from 5,000 bucks and he couldn't resist Not that he'll ever see that fight You're gonna be funny when Jack finds out his own son's helping to rob the cafe It'll be funny. All right, but Jack won't be laughing You'll know who robbed him, but he won't dare give us away for fear his own kid might get caught Well really haven't strapped huh? Yeah, and that ain't all Besides the bootle we get from the holdup. We'll be able to blackmail Jack from then on you mean about his kid Sure either Jack pays offer we send the Mounties a note telling them that young Chris Radford took part in the holdup Yeah, but if we do that the kid will squeal on us himself. Let him squeal The Mounties will have to catch us what he can do anything to us besides we won't have to worry about that Jack'll pay off fast enough when it's a question of his own kid going to jail Bar Thunderhawk you figured out some slick deals in your day, but this job is a slickest of them all What times young Radford gonna show up? He's gonna meet us here at the cabin tomorrow night around 10 o'clock and We'll give him an empty gun and head for the cafe The following evening Sergeant Preston came to Chris Radford's Cabin on Venture Creek Hello, Mrs. Radford Take off your pocket Sergeant sit down. Well, thanks. I won't bother to take off my pocket I can't stay long reason. I came was to talk to Chris about his father. Have you seen him? Chris his father I mean and see told me about the talk he had with Chris yesterday Asked me to intercede with Chris see if I couldn't help bring them together. Oh, I wish you could Sergeant. Where is Chris? I guess he's in town Frankly, I'm quite worried about him. I saw well He left early this morning and said he'd be coming right back Said his business in town wouldn't take more than 15 or 20 minutes at the most He still hasn't come back. Do you know what he intended to do in town? No? No, I don't That's partly why I'm so worried. What do you mean? Well last night a stranger came to see Chris He wouldn't come in because I was here Yes, Chris to step outside and talk to him. You have no idea who he was No, I just caught a brief glimpse of him in the doorway. Oh, go on After he left Chris seemed very disturbed He wouldn't tell me what they talked about All night long he turned and tossed and hardly slept a wink Then this morning he seemed a lot quieter and steadier as though he'd come to some decision And that's when he told me he was going into town. If you're seriously worried I can have my dog trailing Do you think he could find him? I'm quite sure he could. He's the best tracker in the territory. Then I wish you would Sergeant Maybe I'm being foolish, but it would relieve my mind a lot We'll need a piece of clothing that Chris has worn recently. That'll give King his sense. All right, Sergeant I'll get something right away Several hours later four men gathered in the darkness behind the spready Gucafein The leader of the group was Hawk Webster. I all got your hand chips tied in place All right boys.  All right, let's go Leaving Deuce behind the other three crooks advanced toward the front of the cafe Before emerging from the shadow as they halted for a moment and watched the passers-by in the street Then when he was satisfied that all was clear Hawk gave the signal to rush toward the front door. All right boys now Man Anymore you want a dose of the same medicine All right, then keep your hands high and don't go reaching for your gun What's the next move boss? You stay here, but the door keeping covered red You move around among the tables grab their pokes right? I'll go back in the office and see about Circling around the tables Hawk Webster made his way past the bar and threw a doorway into the rear of the cafe There he found Klondike Jack and several employees standing with their hands in the air as Deuce covered them with his gun I've got everything under control boys. Good work. Deuce. What?   All right. All right get moving red Open the door and go in My thunder Hawk you won't get away with it. So you'll recognize me. Yeah, certainly.  Oh far from it. You see one of the boys out front who's robbing your customers right now Happens to be a young fella named Chris Radford. What's that?  I don't like to be called names like that You better lay off or I might start squeezing this trigger. Hurry up and get that safe open Helpless to resist in the face of Hawk Webster's leveled gun Klondike Jack obeyed the order and opened his office safe Then the Hawk produced a bag which he'd been carrying under his parka and forced the cafe owner to stuff into it the Gold and currency which had been stored in the safe When he was through Took the bag from him and told him to open the door leading out into the corridor. All right get going Get your hands up again stand right we are still keeping the cafe owner covered with his gun Hawk backed out into the corridor Heard the rest of those jasper's into the office here along with Klondike Jack. We'll lock them in Come on inside only That'll hold them for a while. We make our getaway Come on go back out front again. See how red and snagger making out with the customers. Yeah, we sure pull this job off slick and hot What's going on out there? We'll soon find out They've got red and stank. Come on. We got to get out here Slamming the door that led to the front of the cafe Hawk and Deuce turned and ran toward the back door But Sergeant Preston came charging after them Deuce had just reached the back doors the Mount he closed in on them both cooks and hosted their guns But Hawk turned and tried to draw The sergeant leapt at Hawk and brought him down with a flying tackle Seeing his leaders play Deuce paused and jerked out his gun But before he could fire at the sergeant a great dog sprang through the open door The gun flew from Deuce's hand as he went down under King's sudden attack Meanwhile Hawk and the sergeant were trading savage blows at short range As Hawk weakened under Sergeant Preston's terrific punishment He suddenly stopped punching and grabbed the money around the throat In answer the sergeant let go a series of hard rights and Get up on your feet then On your feet mister Alongside your partner there. You're both under arrest in the name of the crown After a handcuffing his prisoners sergeant Preston released Klondike Jack and the other persons who had been locked in the office Klondike's expression was tense and worried as he faced the sergeant. I Suppose you captured Chris. No Jack. I didn't you mean he got away I mean he didn't take part in the holdup fight of his due to him. We were able to prevent it But Hawk said he was out front helping the guy. He was lying Last night Hawk persuaded Chris to help rob a cafe because he needed money so badly Chris didn't know it was your cafe and anyway had a change of heart overnight Came to town this morning and told Hawk. He wasn't going through with it. The gang captured him was holding him prisoner Hawk was simply bluffing when he told you Chris was taking part in this robbery sergeant How come you found all this out when I went to Chris's cabin this evening his wife was worried because he hadn't returned home I put King on his trail and tracked him to the crooks hideout and Chris told you what Hawking his gang were up to is that it That's right.  Here he comes now, Jack I think he has something to say to you. Hello there Chris Hello dad. I I'm wondering if you still want to be friends with me After the way I talked last night.  I told you I didn't blame you for feeling the way you did There's nothing in the world. I want more than to be friends with you and your wife. Oh But how are shaking hands on that dad by thunder Chris Sure makes me happy to hear you say that and Listen, you're going to let me help you out now.  There's a $5,000 reward for the capture of Hawk Webster in his gang That reward will be paid to Chris just as soon as this case is closed We now take you to Northwest Mounted Police headquarters in Dawson You sent for me inspector. Yes, Sergeant Preston. I did I Suggest that on your patrol duty to Selkirk you stop and investigate the deserted settlement of Beaverton There are reports that strange happenings are taking place there in spite of the fact that it's a ghost town very well Inspector King and I'll start that way this afternoon. Come on thing Yes, Sergeant Preston will investigate Beaverton But it may be that he and King will find that they've come up against a great deal more than they bargained for They might even find themselves in a death trap Be sure to listen to this next exciting adventure the Beaverton legacy These radio dramas are feature of the challenge of the Yukon Incorporated are created by George W. 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I'm Jonathan Mann. I have been writing a song every single day for the last 5,032 days. Thank you. You don't have to clap. You don't have to clap. It's fine. It's fine. It's OK. It's been four years since I was on stage at Prague. I'm super honored to be back here with all of you. And I'm especially honored to have an opportunity to pay tribute to these extraordinary group of people who did this unfathomable feat of making the merge not only happen, but happen without a hitch. It was crazy how that happened. You guys, so in order to really make this tribute pop for these folks who poured their blood, sweat, and tears into making the merge happen, I need all of your help. Singing these lyrics, you may recognize these. If you watch the merge call, I sang this song on the merge call as it was happening. We're going to do a rendition of it today. So I'm going to sing it once. We're going to practice it together. And then I'm going to start the song and we'll go and we'll see how it turns out. So the chorus goes like this. How's it go? And a bear has been turned on. Now she's singing the carbon footprint is all gone. That's why she's singing the merge song. Can you try that with me? Maybe. I want to hear you. I'm also filming you. So you'll be in this Song of Day song. You're going to be part of Song of Day history. But only if you sing loudly. All right. You ready? The lyrics are right there. One, two, three, four. Panda bear has been turned. Beautiful. You guys sound great. All right. Very good. My specialty is folk songs about a theory. Nimbus kept the light client dream alive. Prism was the first team to write code for the beacon chain. Security team quadrupled the bug bounty size. Tech who built the tool to pick good fork time. House optimistic sank. Bess who merged the bonsai trees. Geth built the catalyst. Aragon pushed the boundaries. And still they stayed on track and calculated the difficulty bomb correctly. Loadstar was a daft lion DJ. And Dankrad was focused on scaling. Parish out of Fort so unfailing. And Tim Baco was coordinating.  Panda bear carbon foot. Yeah, that's right. Made sure to keep us all chaotic good. Justin lowered the minimum stake from 1,500 to 32. That's a big one. Axic rewrote the beacon chain deposit contract. Sea monkey tested every client pair through and through. Ovega wrote the test. Xiaowei made the pandemic. Light client and Alex both kept an eye on MEV. All the while, Marius pushed us to work harder, merge faster without bugs. Mario Havel made Bordell.  Lambda did rayonism. Trent and FD merged exhibition. I guess that guy did some stuff, I suppose. That's why she's singing. Now we're going to bring it way down. And I want to hear you sing. So we're going to sing very softly now. Because the merge is done. We all need time to rest. Yes, that's all right.  I want to see. That's it. That's why she's singing the merge song. Thank you. Thank you all so much for the merge. Hang.