Hi friends, welcome back to my channel and a very special welcome if you're new here. My name is Jen I'm a certified weight loss and nutrition coach. I follow weight watchers and I count calories and macros Friday It's Friday. So let's talk about my week my weigh-in and the WW workshop topic So if you're excited give this video a big thumbs up Subscribe if you're not because I do a weigh-in every single Friday and I upload five videos per week Check out the description box down below for nutrition coaching I do offer personalized to you macros and calories as well as one-on-one coaching if you would like to chat with me Directly links and discounts to my favorite things and come join our Facebook group We would love to have you so let's jump into my week my weigh-in and the WW workshop topic Hey, happy Friday friends. Happy weekend. I hope you had an absolutely Absolutely amazing amazing week. I actually just got home from boot camp got ready for the day and mixed up My motivate burn I have shared motivate with you guys time and time again on my channel And I was on their website perusing because there's a flavor of the burn that I haven't tried yet And so I had to get my hands on it and when I was on their website I saw that they were having a huge huge New Year's ultimate weight loss bundle promotion The ultimate weight loss bundle is $50 off. That's an incredible deal, and I do have a discount code with motivate I'll leave it down below for you. You may be able to stack those codes on the website So the ultimate weight loss bundle includes three products one of which is the burn that is what is in my cup today It is so incredibly delicious. 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I've been go I am going to be trying this out in the future But you're going to get a full-size bottle similar to the detox of the motivate sleep It's been scientifically formulated to boost metabolism improve sleep and speed up the fat loss process It's a natural sleep aid that helps with relaxation and sleep that your body needs You can get a deeper level of sleep where your body can naturally regulate your hormones Plus that plays a major role in your metabolism and hunger You want to take two capsules of motivate sleep 20 to 30 minutes before bed preferably on an empty stomach So like I said, I'll be picking this up in the future I always say that I struggle with sleep and I need some type of sleep aid nightly in order to get quality sleep I don't always have a problem going to sleep. It's staying asleep. That's my problem So I am very excited to try the motivate sleep because I love literally all the motivate products I have them all and I have been absolutely impressed with every single one of them So I will link the ultimate weight loss bundle down below for you with all the discount information Highly highly recommend you can't beat it. You're saving $50 on amazing amazing products So now let's jump in to my week. It's been a pretty good week I did start my cycle this week, which as we know is never a good time I find that I'm a little bit more fatigued and tired and I'm really really hungry leading up to it Which was this last week. So I did allow myself to have some of my favorite foods I mean Troy and I got some donuts from Duncan. So I had a donut one day. I have candy canes left over from Christmas I ate those I just worked them into my day There's nothing wrong with having a sweet treat or an indulgent treat every single day You just work it into your day that really helped me stay on track and not over indulge and overdo it But like I said allowing myself to have something that I really enjoy every single day That's one of the key components that I've that I've noticed about healing my relationship with food Is I no longer binge on things because I do allow myself to have my favorite foods daily despite being on my cycle I was still able to get all of my workouts in I've been loving boot camp in fact on Monday It was raining and I still went to boot camp I still was outside in the rain getting my exercise in because we know my word for 2023 is consistent And I'm going to be consistent rain or shine lucky for me It doesn't rain a whole lot in Arizona So one day out in the rain for an hour to get in my boot camp session was well worth it for me I had something that I really enjoyed indulgent wise every single day got in all of my water I'm telling you the motivate burn really helps me get in my water because it tastes really good And like I said, I can get in a full 30 40 ounces of water with one scoop Overall, I would make rate my week about a nine out of ten and as I continue through the month of January I'm realizing more and more where I am in my journey and kind of what my goals are moving forward I've mentioned that I will be sharing a huge kind of update We need to chat video towards the end of the month. So definitely subscribe So you don't miss it. But before we jump in to this week's weigh-in, let's talk about the WW workshop topic I'm really excited about this week's WW workshop topic and that is how to make activity a little bit more fun I just mentioned that I work out seven days a week move my body seven days a week For me finding something that's actually fun and that I enjoy has been a game changer for me It makes me excited about getting in my workout. It's something that I can be consistent with Something that I can stick with and something I actually look forward to instead of dread So we're gonna talk about how to make activity a little bit more enjoyable when the new year happens We want a fresh start. We get really motivated to do all the things We think we're gonna go sweat in the gym for two hours every day But if what we're doing to move our body isn't enjoyable, we're not gonna stick with it by February We're gonna stop going to the gym So WW wants to share some tips and tricks with us on how to make activity something we can stick with and Enjoy. So first of all try this which sounds most like you I love the energy of a group meeting new people is fun or I prefer being alone I prefer being active alone but want encouragement or I enjoy being active with loved ones that I trust Now you can get other people involved So if you're someone that loves the energy of a group join a local sports league or Activity group like a hiking or gardening club if you want to be alone But enjoy the encouragement set activity goals and check in with a supportive person weekly to discuss Or maybe you just want to focus on being active with your loved ones make a regular walking date with a pal the pal IRL or while catching up over the phone. You can actually leverage your WW community This isn't this includes me and my Facebook group as well So if you like the group setting engage often with a connect group for your favorite activity If you want to be active with accountability share your goals and wins on connect with your coach or at your WW workshop Or if you want to focus on your loved ones post an activity photo on connect ask a fellow WW menu to member to join you Write out a plan to amplify your activity I'm going to involve person or group when I do such activity on such day or date Now you guys know I go to bootcamp three days a week One of the main reasons that I joined bootcamp is for the community aspect We moved to Arizona about a year ago knowing absolutely nobody except for my in-laws So I knew that if I engaged in some type of a group activity It would help me build a community But even more importantly than that it's accountability They depend on me to be there Monday Wednesday Friday and I can guarantee you if I didn't show up I would be getting some type of message either from the bootcamp instructor or my good friend Kate Who I met at bootcamp? I have really enjoyed the accountability and the community that comes along with group activity But I also like to work out alone when I'm going to the gym and lifting weights. I want to do it by myself I enjoy taking walks with friends I've kind of fallen to all three of these categories You have to figure out what type of activity person are you and then find what works for you think about the most Fun workout you've had was it by yourself? Was it in a group? Was it with a friend? Was it with a family member? Think about what types of activities you've done in the past that you've really enjoyed as humans We feel the need to connect with others Sometimes we want to connect and sometimes we just want to be by ourselves So depending on the type of personality you have or the type of workouts you enjoy Make sure that whatever you're doing on a regular basis is something that you feel compelled to continue to do that excites you That motivates you moving is the key to success Whatever that movement is finding a way to move your body every single day or several times a week that you enjoy is really the key to success Not only is it going to help you with your health journey your weight loss journey You may make some new friends and you may find something that you really feel invested in and grow to love I never thought that I would love working out I never thought that I would like doing burpees or mountain climbers or bear crawls or running I never thought I would like any of those things, but because it's an activity that I enjoy I've grown to really love all of those activities. In fact, I just did a 5k last Saturday with my boot camp group That was something I've really never done before and that was so much fun to have the camaraderie and the support of all the members of My boot camp group. I also love going to the gym and lifting weights by myself and just focusing on building lean muscle Find what works for you because that's what you're going to stick with long term So again, I really like this workshop topic I think it's really important again to find an activity that you enjoy that you'll stick with That's the key to success truly when it comes to exercising is enjoying it So now let's jump in to this week's weigh-in like I've mentioned several times January is my month of enlightenment I'm trying to figure out where I am in my weight loss journey Am I is my body where it's going to be am I going to be able to shed anymore weight? Or am I going to or is this the weight that my body is going to stay at because of the loose skin that I have? The lean muscle that I have and the amount of fat left on my body as I promise I will be sharing a huge update video where we'll talk about my body scan. We'll talk about loose skin plastic surgery It's going to be a very interesting video. So again, make sure you're subscribed so you don't miss it So I wanted to see again what my body was going to do this month and like I said, I'm currently on my cycle I started my cycle this week. So I didn't really have high hopes for this week's weigh-in But when I stepped on the scale, I'm actually down a tiny tiny bit point two Which I guess is a huge success being on my cycle and again really not having a lot of weight left to use Anything in the downward projection. I guess is a great thing I maintained my weight last week, which I was thrilled about and I'm down a tiny bit this week point two I'll go ahead and put up here on the screen my overall weight loss so far So I'm really happy with that. Like I said, I'd be happy maintaining This is a month of discovery for me and so far it's been a very very good month of learning more about my body and really where I am in my journey So now I want to hear from you guys. Let me know where you are in your journey How was your weight loss? Did you gain? Did you lose? What do you think about finding an activity that you enjoy and let us know What's your favorite way to move your body down below? Maybe you'll inspire someone to try out a new activity that they may fall in love with and of course If you enjoyed today's video, don't forget to give it a thumbs up Make sure you check out the weight loss bundle on the motivate website I'll link everything down below for you as well as my Facebook group come join us there nutrition coaching and links and discounts to my Favorite things. Thank you so much for watching friends. Happy Friday, and I'll see you in tomorrow's grocery haul You're not gonna want to miss it. Bye


Netflix finally might be ready, finally might be ready for the dead cat bounce, as well as, and I know somebody's gonna turn around and say, well, then it bounced $12 on Friday. Yeah, it did, but it still didn't take out the previous day's channel. Remember, stock cannot go higher, it could go up, but it can't go higher if it doesn't take out the previous day's range. And you can see it stopped perfectly on the previous day's range. This is actually one to watch, especially if they sell off the market early. A little bit of profit taken from Friday's session. Let's see if they could reclaim the five day. And if it can reclaim the five day, maybe you'll get an actual day to run into the mid 30s. So definitely keep an eye on that.


The Bemidji community food shelf is looking to reach 25,000 pounds of donated items for its annual Stuff-a-Truck event. Last year, area schools gave well over 14,000 pounds of items and are chipping in this year as well. Mel Meyer has more. With liberty and justice for all. Heartland Christian Academy has been helping with the Stuff-a-Truck event for years. In God's Word, it tells us to help the poor and help the needy. And this is one opportunity we have to do that. For the last three weeks, the students have been bringing in non-perishable or personal hygiene items. Lots of pasta and rice and beans and oatmeal. The teachers have used this to create a real discussion about homelessness and hunger with the children. The idea was quite foreign to some of my students as we talked about this that there are people who really don't have food to put together a meal. It coincides with their theme of the month of gratitude and giving thanks. And it has given us really good opportunities to talk about being thankful and really about the abundance that we have been given. She has also used this to talk about the issue at home with her two daughters. It makes me happy to know that I'm helping other people or kids that don't have any food. While they may not be able to see the effects of their good deed directly, the food shelf certainly will. Thank you. The items have arrived here at the food shelf where they will be cataloged, organized, and then they'll hit the shelves. Filling the shelves at a critical time of the year. People often have families visiting during the holidays and so they need extra food and we're so happy to be able to provide that. From Bemidji, I'm Mal Meyer, Lakeland News. The food shelf will be collecting additional donations from Marketplace Foods this Friday and Saturday, as well as at the Bemidji State Men's Hockey Games on November 25th and 26th. If you've enjoyed this segment of Lakeland News, please consider making a tax-deductible contribution to Lakeland Public Television.


Toffey TV is Astro post Brentford draw match reaction and and yeah What you gonna do, you know first and foremost, let me say this There ain't nothing finer in the land than to sing in a way toffee support band, okay The away support today at Brentford was incredible. Okay, and let me just let me just shout out to him road warrior Toffey's okay, because they don't just sing it baby. They bring it by the bus load And and and man like thank you Thank you. Thank you. Thank you If you told me this morning when I got out of bed and was enjoying that first cup of coffee That we'd had a draw out of snatched your hand off for that deal But I have to say after the way to match played out. It's a bit bittersweet sitting here counting only at one point because it feels like there was so much more and Isn't that just fitting with the way Everton is across the board right now, baby Should have had more Doesn't feel like enough Nothing, but a little bit of regret missed opportunity and that boys and girls is what Everton feels like right now regret due to missed opportunity and Chances that weren't taken. That's not just on the field friends. That's in the boardroom.  Okay, or else we're gonna find ourselves Where we don't want to be so hey listen, we go again leads on Tuesday And who knows what we're gonna look like by the end of the window last but never least up them trophies, baby


Hi y'all, how are you? I have to get ready for the camera So the title Hollywood actress mindset now. I know I don't look nothing like no Hollywood actress right about now because it is late I had a long day and I still decided I need to come on and do a live video this week because I didn't go live this week at all Hi NJ princess, how are you? Thanks for always moderating my videos.  Hopefully that will work if I get caught off y'all know what happens, so I'm gonna try to get it in quick Hi, how are you? Okay, so The Hollywood mindset. I mean the Hollywood actress mindset This means you're the star You're the star of the movie. You're the star of the show. Okay any the any guy you associate yourself with If you are associating yourself with an actor, that's the same as you then you know You don't get much advantage, but if you associate yourself with a director The guy behind the scenes the guy with the money, you know the the film producer the people like that Then you're gonna be able to call more shots Have more creative control You know get what you want So it's best to know the director and the producers versus your co-star And what I'm saying is the directors and the producers are the guys that run the show, you know have the money to do this film to support Your needs your wants your desires listen to your creative ideas, you know what I'm saying, so If we talk about this in real life, it's kind of like dating, you know If you're gonna date someone you need to date someone who can who can push you ahead Who can give you what you want who can give you creative control who can give you? Advantage in the industry or in life Okay, so what I'm saying is You're the star you make their movie have it you're the star of their life you make them look good, okay Years and years and years and years and years and years into the future When that movie comes on you're the movie star. You are what carries that movie Into a classic, okay? You are what makes that director stay famous in the future Because of the actors they chose, you know anything especially if it's a movie with a leading lady so just like all the old Hollywood movies with these beautiful Lead actresses no one remembers the director's names of those movies. They only know Who started it? What ladies started it? Why because she's the star.  That's what you have to be. That's the goal. That's the goal If you're not if that's not what's happening when you guys go out you're with the wrong type of man And if they're getting all the attention Then you might be the director, you know, and they're gonna get all the attention That's why I say I don't I don't like dating attractive men I don't like dating guys who look prettier than me that spend more time in the mirror with me Even when I was young. Yeah, I did it for fun, but I would never marry someone like that or take them seriously, okay? So the the moral of story is if you want to be put on a pedestal You have to act like you are the star of the show and if any man does not treat you accordingly then you have to get up and Say you can't you can't work like this. I can't work like this, you know Just like those actresses they get their own trailer in their trailer. They have a list of demands They have a list of demands before they will even do anything. This is what I have to have in my trailer white candles Champagne chilled I gotta have a white I have to have white leather couches. I have to have this type of imported fruit You know, I have to have Fiji water They make a high list of demands of stuff that they have to have in that damn trailer to show up for work If you can't make the same demands as a Hollywood actress to the man that you're sleeping with And he and he does not deliver. You're with the wrong type of man Okay, you are the star of the show the same thing is saying the woman is the prize we carry People into the future we create the future with our bodies. Nobody remembers the directors mean for Certain movies. They only remember the actress who played in it Okay, so don't think for a second That you are not the star and you are not the prize because you are you know Don't settle for less if they don't meet your demands You quit you know what I'm saying if they don't meet your demands, you're not showing up for work that day You're going on strike if they don't meet your demands You know, you're not coming on set You're not gonna play your role either. You know what I'm saying How long do you give up give it up after he cheated and what should he The only reason you should be a man be with the man after he's cheated is if he's rich and paying every bill and we'll give you money to go shopping and do retail therapy and Get yourself to the point where you don't really care if he cheats because you benefit from it That's the only way you take a back of cheater. Okay, if you're taking back a broke cheater Then I don't know what to tell you Okay, go shopping get his credit card if he cheated Go get go get revenge through credit card Okay And less if if he's broke and you stayed Then I hope it's for financial reasons and I hope that you are gonna go cheat too Okay But I would wait a long time like say he has money And he cheated. Okay. Oh my god. I'm gonna be so devastated that I'm gonna get more and more out of it I'm like, you know, I just can't get over this cheating. I don't know if I'm gonna be other sleep with you anymore You know, I just need to get away for a while.  I know I deserve it now When he knows that he deserves it. That's when you give it up. You don't give it up until he feels like, dang, I've done Vacation car Shopping, you know Jewelry now I deserve it. Okay.  No condom.  He's chasing you again. He he's gonna be too busy trying to please you That he can't even cheat anymore because he's spending all his money trying to make up with you. So make sure You milk him for everything until he feels like you owe him something. Okay Because remember you're the hollywood actress. He's just the director. He just upset you He didn't put that white sofa in there and that champagne and he he was uh auditioning another actress and she was reading for your part after you had already You know been making half the movies thinking about Replacing you because this isn't that okay. Well, no, you've got a contract And you're more valuable as an actress And he figures that out because he didn't leave you Okay, now your demands grow higher now. You want more pay a bigger trailer. What else? Make the list So just think of yourself like this lady Put yourself on the pedestal because if men don't who will, you know If you don't put yourself on that pedestal, man won't do it either You got to put yourself up there first for them to look up there and worship you.  Okay Any woman who is in a relationship that is working harder than the man at the relationship is in the wrong relationship Any woman who loves their man more than their man loves them No good, it's not a good relationship Any man I mean any woman that is in a relationship who is giving more affection attention To the man that he is to her wrong relationship Okay, it's it's not right. You're not benefiting from it unless he's paying every single bill and your Fine with being ignored or fine with not Getting the attention that You want because you don't care Fine, but if you're putting in more work than he is You're in the wrong relationship Yeah, and we don't love yourself more than him. You're in the wrong wrong relationship Why My why do women have to love themselves and put themselves first before their man Why must their man love them more than they love them because women are natural Nurtures It's easy for them to overdo it. It's easy for them to fall in love And take things personal and get hurt. It's too easy. Okay.  You can't be all He left me. I sent him 20 000 texts a day telling him I loved him and You know, he only sent me one and that wasn't enough and you know, it's just like He might start off chasing you You might get used to all that attention and then once he gets comfortable pulls it back Then you start wondering hey, why isn't he giving me all this attention because he's comfortable He's not supposed to be like he was in the first two weeks or the first two months of the relationship You know now you're worried about now you're trying to over Compensate and give him all this extra attention thinking he's gonna give it back to you And now you just turn into the chaser You can't do that.    You you're in the movie. You look good Now here comes Brad Pitt. Okay, but one of his first movies Who is that? Oh my god, who is that? You know now everybody's wondering who is that because he's in this new movie And now he's getting all the attention. No You make sure you're always number one The best looking one in the relationship And the one that they're lucky to have If you do anything else, you're gonna have a hard a hard life. You're gonna be like This is too much work. I'm tired. I'm tired of playing these games You know It's just gonna be extra work. Make sure just make your life easy and take the easy route. You know what I'm saying? It's the best way like I can look on my worst day. I look good to my husband.   So they try to stay with somebody You know in the middle. So that's what I'm saying. If you marry older Are you married a guy who's less attractive? You're always gonna look better than them And they'll never be like, oh Dang why I have to wake up next to this And okay, someone wrote that's why United States have 50% divorce rate The reason why then what we have high divorce rates is because of money. That's the number one reason.  Most people get divorced because of financial reasons. Okay, or you know The other reasons yes, they're there, but most reasons are financial Because you know, it's just that's just what it is Just like that's why I think don't most think about this Most people that married for money are married longer than people that married for love. Okay. I have friends that married for love They've been divorced two three times. I'm still married same guy Why Because I'm married for love. I like none of this stuff that They married for lasted because that's temporary emotions And based on conditions You know what I'm saying? I've just had one condition.  I didn't marry for love. Oh, he was cute. Oh, he got a size 13 shoe or Oh, he he's gonna make cute babies. I am married for none of them reasons Okay, because when I was young I said I would never get married. I'm never getting married I'm never having kids. I want to travel. I want to do this I want to do that only thing only reason I would ever get married is I didn't have to do nothing But you know married somebody with money I don't have to work, you know So that's why I did what I did because I never planned on it. I told my mom don't expect no grandkids No, I have kids, but I don't have to do anything. So You know It just all depends. Do you put yourself on that pedestal? Because if you don't who will You can't come in there looking like You know A bug on the floor. Oh, I hope no one looks at me. I hope no one sees me or I hope no one Says bad things about me. You gotta come in there flying like a butterfly Right I'm just being honest. Okay I'm very I'm being very honest when I met my husband. Yeah, it was for money We got to know each other. He did so much for me I did fall in love with him because he took care of me somebody in my group today was saying There was a term for women that can only get turned on by men with money. It's called what is it called? A demisexual that can only get turned on by financially successful men And I feel like there's a lot of women out there that are demisexual You know, I can only get turned on by financially stable No money. It's just okay. It's it's almost it's sad But it's just like a man who can't get turned on By any any type of woman but a woman with boobs.  We can't find someone Sexually attractive if they don't have financial security. We just can't it's just like You know to us it's different.  It's like, okay I might as well be paying for sex, you know So no You So please Like men don't get mad at women for telling the truth. Most women won't admit this, okay Most women will pretend and pretend like they are only, you know Some women don't know some women will try to give you a chance even if you don't have money because they think you have potential And they'll only give you so long and if you don't reach the potential, they're gone anyway, you know So a lot of women don't want to say this to you. They don't want to say it because they feel like oh, well, I'm not married I don't have no kids yet. I can't ruin my life and my chances are ever getting a guy. So I'm not going to tell the truth I'm just going to let she would say it and I'm going to listen and nod my head Okay, a lot of women won't say this because They're not married or In a good relationship right now. And so they can't say it. So I say it for them, you know Um so If you think about it Think about the jay-z and Beyonce thing, you know She's this she makes him him now like if she were to leave him He would they would totally dog him out like his career could fail.  We are knew that lemonade had come out But she knows if she could take down his whole entire career just by leaving him and that that makes make her feel guilty You know if he messed up real real bad to something that she could not forgive And she was just just mad as hell and it was just done She would ruin his career. She would just leave and everything that he ever built would crumble He's gonna be like R. Kelly. You know what I'm saying? That's just it. So So she's helping him By staying with his cheating, but you know, he didn't spend some money on her promised her the world probably I don't know probably went through some torture or let her watch just so she could stay because that's what I would do I'll be like, look I have a I have a strange mind.  I could buy my own diamond ring.  I'm sadistic like that and I will do it And and I would take pictures so I can remember it when Um It's almost like I'm sure I don't know. I don't think she did that but that's what I would do Because like after a certain point and you're rich and he's like he can't buy you nothing you can't buy yourself So now comes the the craziness now comes the crazy now you're gonna make an album. I'm gonna make an album Please don't leave me. I apologize to you and his album. Please. I'll tell everybody the truth about myself and all these songs Please don't leave me Okay, so You know, that's what he did But she's still the star and she's on the pedestal So I'm saying he loved her more than she loved him He cheated because you know, that's what he's used to doing. He's a man.  Yeah, she probably got those pictures taken in black and white at weird angles So you can't tell what it is look like abstract art and then they'd hang it on the wall And it's him just being tortured and you just don't know like a reminder that would be that's something crazy like rich people would do take sadistic art With black and white photo and zoom in on a certain part. You don't know what it is.   Y'all don't don't take me seriously.  Do you remember Stephen King's the movie cat sign? and at the first show the first episode was this man He wanted to stop smoking cigarettes And they said sign this paper. We're gonna make sure you don't you don't smoke.  We promise so the guy signed up. He didn't know he was signing up for But hit and the contract it said that they could torture his wife and kids um and Do crazy stuff to him if he smoked a cigarette they had people following him around making sure he didn't smoke you know And he like snuck a cigarette he was in traffic He snuck a cigarette and somebody saw him And they went and got his his wife and put her in this uh cage and they were shocking her And she was like jumping up and down because she was getting electric like shocks And he had to watch her get tortured because he smoked a cigarette So it's like it was an extreme uh way to stop smoking, but they didn't know what they were signing up for It was hilarious But he stopped smoking Um anyways So Men like I know a men always say women are entitled and they're they think they're all that and they think they're the prize And they put all these expectations on us and blah blah blah blah blah And that's true and we're supposed to you know, if it wasn't for women, you wouldn't do anything You wouldn't get up in the morning If it wasn't for women, you would not get up in the morning.  You wouldn't even wear the odorant. You know what I'm saying? So of course, we're here to motivate you That's what we do. That's what our that's what our purpose is We're here to make you become a better person and and our reward is you giving us what we deserve I'm sorry. That's just the truth.  I think it's to raise aware of domestic violence or something like that If there were no women in the world okay Most of the men I'm just like most of the men would turn gay They would go towards the feminine men or the men that dress like women. They already do that now, but I'm just saying They would just go because they're highly sexual creatures They need motivation I just saw um My friend kissy on facebook. She's a celebrity blogger and she just posted Bobby Valentino running out of a transgender woman's house With his shorts in his hand and he he did not pay for services. And so she got him off film leaving her her house and he was like um Running down the hallway Forgotten to pay for services. So you know They're not you know, men are not picky. They they will they will sleep with whoever whoever want to give it to them for free or They he thought it was free So don't Don't ever don't ever think That you know I'm just saying The ones you least expect to Yeah So, okay, okay, so, um What was I was I saying? Okay. Yeah, you take all the women out of the world.  Look at prison. Look at prison. Let's just look at prison Look at prison women prison versus men prison okay You don't have that problem that you do in a male prison That you do in a female prison. It's it's less of a lot less. You know what I'm saying? So make sure you understand um The man's main focus when they first meet you when they first, you know start dating is to have sex with you That's the main purpose.   Okay, because the the thing that you're giving away free Is what most men will pay for and chase for months You know if you're smart about it might not be the one that looks like You know, uh tray songs But he's gonna be spending like tray songs Okay So don't forget it Men will tell you they're only interested in sex. Look in the look in the comments.  That's all I think about So why would you give it away for you?  I don't know You know what I'm saying?  Why because what do they want?      You're gonna do laundry.  You're gonna take the kids here.   Yeah, it's good. It's okay, but it's not as good as it is to you. You know what I'm saying?    I'm saying benefit from what you have you know Benefit from it. Don't give it away and be like, okay. Now what? It's just like being scammed. Okay. It's being scammed out of something valuable and you get nothing in return Okay, if you don't get anything in return, then what's the point of giving it? The point of giving it up to someone if you get nothing in return You're not gonna get his love Because that's not why he was interested in you the first one. So you just want to sit You know what I'm saying So why would you Why would you give that up to him and give nothing?   I didn't So if you want to be a man who appeals to women Who they want to sleep with don't try to sleep with them. That's the key don't want to sleep without All right, you reverse psychology.  He's not trying to sleep with me. Okay I gotta figure this out Okay, so is he gay? Does he already have a wife? Does he just want a friend? Now she's trying to think about what you're doing And what you're about now. She's becoming intrigued with you. You know what I'm saying?  It's so easy You know what I'm saying if men were less thirsty We will actually have to think We got actually have to contemplate.  I can't figure this one out because I think he's gay or I think Maybe he doesn't have enough money or maybe he's not interested in me Maybe he's not attracted to we're gonna be like checking ourselves because you're not you're not trying to sleep with us You know, it's it's refreshing. It's like dang. He's trying to sleep with me. I think I like him Then you become more attracted to us and we're not trying to sit up here and and use you You know, we might deem you special. You know, okay. Well, I'm not gonna go dig on him. I'm gonna go dig on the other dude I'll save him For when I want a real relationship Okay, we're gonna save him for last That's the kind of you marry Um, I don't know if y'all watched that show queen sugar on own network Well, what's her name? She just met this guy She played terra in a true blue. Okay, so I'm gonna call it terra She met this guy and he's not all trying to sleep with her He's like really trying to get to know he's like a total gentleman and they you know, they're interested in the same stuff He got money. She got money, you know So he's like really trying to impress her with other things besides that They they phone to visit each other in different states. They haven't slept together There's you know walk and talk and drink coffee like the stuff I tell y'all not to do But you know, they're both like well established people so I wonder where that's gonna go if y'all watch that show Hold on a second. I'm trying to make sure my phone is charging more in a second Okay Anyway So guys if you want us to be baffled and take you seriously stop trying to chase for sex That's all I'm saying As long as you're chasing we charge you So as long as the demand is high The price is too Think about it business and economics, okay um so Remember ladies always put yourself first high Make sure the man loves you more Do not marry somebody who you love more than they love you. It will never work out. Okay Why I'm saying this is because Naturally, you're gonna fall in love with this person or naturally You're gonna grow closer to this person Anyway, and the little affection you do give this person or the the good amount of affection that you give this person Is the right amount if you love them more than they love you and you're giving them this much affection And they're giving you this much affection.  Okay, so make sure The balance is right.   Like do something what? Girl, he's broke too.  There's something wrong with this picture. Why because you Ended up with a man that you love more than he loves you and you Sit there and let him talk to you like that.  That's how you look when I see stuff like this I'm just watching.  She ain't doing that and I'm like I'll just start snapchat.  Y'all got a connection. Oh, that's my soul mate.        Okay We're not in the animal kingdom. We're in civilization We're building up real estate. We're getting uh Money market accounts. We're doing this. We're doing that. We're not in the animal kingdom Okay, if you want to be in the animal kingdom the way I'm bad thinking man, go ahead and do that but If you like sex you need to profit off of liking sex you need to make a man Crawl on his knees because you didn't put it on him. So good. Okay If you if you if you're not doing that and you love sex, but you need to figure out how to do it You know what I'm saying? Perfect example rihanna We know she's a freak.  Okay, so remember that Classy freaks And don't ever tell people you like to have sex. That's a secret. Okay. That's what that's the classy part Like these women who are posting on facebook.  They're gonna be trying to do everything in the book to you Whether you like it or not because you you a freak Okay, keep it classy. Don't post your stuff on facebook. I see a lot of these women Oh I'm you know, I'm sexually free. I like sex.  You don't post about sex. I know some of y'all have been trained better than that I've seen it on facebook.   You don't know what we're gonna do. You don't know if we're a freak or if we're Conservative we're probably both but you won't know until it's happening Okay Keep it like that. That's that's the secret know your value You know people that advertise too much people that do this too much and you know people just If she got to do all that it must not be all that you know what I'm saying Let it be let it be a mystery so make sure If you're overcompensating for some type of insecurity by posting sexual stuff Just to get the attention of men because they're not giving it to you any other way They already know that First of all, they already know that oh she can't get attention any other type of way So she must have low self-esteem So let me slide up in her inbox because I know she's gonna get it give it to me And then two weeks later these women are crying. I was taking advantage of this man used me He borrowed money from me and of course he did why because you were advertising it I'm I'm desperate Come take advantage of me. That's all you were doing. Okay Call them pick me chicks over sexually pick me chicks. That's what they're called. We'll stop doing like that Okay, don't do that.   That's what it is Oh, we know We see it too much It's a pattern now So I'm just saying it's just the pattern we see it If you're going to advertise yourself like that, don't be don't advertise how you got dogged out the next week At least keep that a secret if you can't keep nothing else a secret pretend like you win it at least I know if I were in that situation and I kept getting dogged out because I was a pick me chick I would at least keep the part where I got dogged out a secret I mean that's only common sense Like I'm not telling y'all I got missed over Okay, anyway So y'all have any questions? Y'all have any questions? I need a talk show they would they would not put me on tv unless it was cable Because well, I guess it could be like basic cable It could be on a basic cable. You think Oprah would hire me for own You know how they have uh, y'all I fixed my life I would be like the extreme version of that I would be like I would just tell like I don't even want to help you too much of a mess You're gonna have to pay me over gonna have to pay me some extra money on this one Oprah I'm here if you need me How you doing? Now Oprah getting into science fiction now.  She's not she's not trying to do the reality tv shows or talk shows hardly anymore She's moving up to the big leagues Getting her own producing her own shows and stuff I actually did do a pilot for an Oprah show back in the old days back in the old days um it was 2000 and Eight or 2009 I did a pilot Um these people wanted me in the pilot. I didn't I did not go looking for it They came looking for me.  So, um I don't think it ever got picked up, but it was fun to do it Right and That was the last time I was in well, I actually um I never I never try to audition for things people always try to come to me. I'm like, I'm not no actress I'm not an actress Okay, anyway So Make a long story short if I ever do get a tv show It's going to be over. I gotta be for all network.   They talk so funny about trolls.  Don't worry about them.  Don't worry about them.  They're single They can't get a girlfriend. They have nothing else better to do Oh, yeah, it was hilarious.   They really have no It's friday. It's saturday night and y'all at home trolling. Wow Y'all can't even afford to go out Are y'all in prison y'all trolling from prison Is it y'all this uh internet time on the clock? Hey god, they're trolling from prison Okay I'm gonna get through the trolls. Okay Just ask them I can see them It's like they're little kids and they get off on saying bad words because they're not supposed to be saying bad words It's hilarious Can you post the clip please of the pilot? I don't have the clip of the pilot. It was like years ago I don't even have that same computer. It was years ago I wish I still had it So God these trolls have like 20 names.  Yeah, that is reptile dysfunction too Right. What is your proudest achievement so far? self-control self-control because I you know self-control is a is an achievement because People can make decisions and choices based on certain things and it could ruin their life And if you can learn how to control yourself Everything else will fall in place, you know It says if you can master yourself you can master anything So once you master yourself a hundred percent 90 percent 80 percent you're gonna master other things, you know So I think my greatest achievement is self-control and and self-improvement, you know I don't say anything else is an achievement. I think it's an outside reaction or a response to your self-control And the decisions and choices you make in life, you know what I'm saying?  I'm not gonna I'm gonna sit here and worry about it My life Improved, you know it might not have felt good to do But the self-control not to do what My emotions were saying to do but my logic were saying was saying to do Got me to a better position. You know what I'm saying? So self-control and self-love is my greatest achievement Y'all like my miss america answer? I will win Who is smarter rihanna or Beyonce? I say rihanna smarter y'all. I'm sorry Beyonce is great, but rihanna is way smarter And she's slick like she's like she'll compliment you and and dis you and you won't even know what happened You don't even know which one she did Okay I think she's smarter, but you know, she's a lot younger than Beyonce I think when she when if they were the same age you would definitely see who was smarter Beyonce is a great entertainer It's just like saying, you know, it's just like saying who's smarter prince or rihanna I mean prince or michael jackson. They're both smart michael was the best entertainment prince had this mind He was a genius like he could play every instrument. He was strategic. He was smart. He was slick. He was sly so I would say Beyonce would be like mj And rihanna would be like prince. They're both smart, but one is just slick about it. You know what I'm saying? One is just slick Yeah mj and Beyonce are both very Somebody's talking about black china.  She's like that's her new hobby revenge What is your hobby revenge? Tell me the things that you like revenge getting people back dating people's brothers Having children and collecting the child support checks and then leaving Hey, I'm not knocking her up. I think She made a life for herself out of doing the things out of her hobbies When you can get paid for doing for for for doing your hobby you'd have made it You know how to say you don't have to work for people if you find something you love and do it Something you would do for free And eventually you'll get paid for it. That's what that's all black china did She just followed her instinct and her talent and she got paid off of it Some people some people's talents are different, you know some people's talents Are sewing and making clothes and designing some people's talents are hooking men and you know get money from them and blackmailing them and Getting revenge on them Taking them to court to sue. There's a lot of things That's just her talent She's just she just profited off of her natural born gifts. You can't be mad at her for that Hey Where do I find a rich man And do you suggest any dating sites? Seeking arrangements. You can find sugar daddy there Seeking arrangements they tell you how much they make too on that site Okay Tips on dating with children Don't tell the man you have children unless you're serious about them. You know what I'm saying? Um I would say if you're going to date someone They don't need to know you have kids unless you plan on being serious with them You know what I'm saying?  I can't talk right now. I'm busy You know, you know make up something but don't tell someone you have kids because first of all They're gonna stereotype you label you think that they can get more out of you for giving that giving you less because They feel like single Moms are more desperate and will accept less so don't tell them Say hey You know if they hear some kids in the background. Oh, I'm babysitting my nephew If you know, you're not going to be serious about this If you know, you're going to be serious about this do wait until a couple of You know, maybe a month and then I have kids Well, why didn't you ever tell me? Well, I don't I didn't know if we were going to be serious But now I think it's time to tell you by time by that time they're hooked They're like, oh, okay. Well, I want to meet them. You know now they're all in love. You don't put it on them Now all of a sudden they want to be a step daddy So don't tell them until they're hooked. That's how you do it Haven't you learned don't you see all these women getting married with all these Who have kids from other marriages? They put it on them and get them hooked then they say, oh, guess what? I got some kids Okay And y'all know y'all seen it. I'm sorry I'm sorry guys will take care of them other people's kids before they take care of their own kids Why because that lady's putting it on and if he stopped taking care of her kids, he can't get another Sad truth Hi Yes, Laila. I'm still live What are you doing? Go put your pajamas on and go to bed All right, I'll be down in a little while Good night Love you Okay I'm trying to read How to teach a man a lesson if he doesn't get it It after what first try to teach a man a lesson how to How to teach a man a lesson if he doesn't get it after first try I don't think that man need a lesson but men are going to try to do that. That's just their nature. What like That's all right. I don't know what country you live in but if you live in america, that's just normal You just deny it's like, oh, I don't do that unless I'm in a committed relationship You know If he's a commitment folk, he'll run and I'll never try to do it again Or he'll try to get to pretend like he wants to get in a relationship with you And if he pretends like he wants to be in a relationship with you, that's when you give him Your relationship standards. Well, if I'm gonna be in a relationship with somebody, you have to pay my bills Or I need an allowance I need you to give me this much a month if I'm gonna be if I'm gonna call you my man and take myself off the market You know, so Then they want to do that And if you're worth it They will if you're not and they was just trying to get some and they have other people that they can get some from They're just going to like forget you and we'll get some somebody else will pick me chick or something But after they get tired of pick me chicks and they want a challenge or a woman that's out of their league They're going to do the work They're going to do the work eventually and When they get tired of the hood rats to pick me chick the desperate the desperate chicks They're going to Level up and say okay. I've had all that now. I'm focused on getting this. This is what I want. I'm going to put in the work for this That's why when you get the older men, they're ready to put in work. They didn't had all the pick me chicks They didn't had all the uh The hood rats the pick me chicks They've elevated and graduated now. They want a classy woman that challenges them. Okay so If you have someone who just interested in you for one thing and they dismiss you when you don't give it up They're not done playing with the pick me chicks Okay, so make sure you don't don't even worry about them. They weren't going to be good for you anyway They were a waste of your time, but you did get something like a free dinner out of it at least Okay What age did you originally want to have children I want to wait till I'm 27 right here. That's what I had my first child at 27 At my first child at 27 Then my next child at 28. So I don't think it was too old. I still look I'm the youngest woman I'm one of the youngest moms at those kids school like where I live in the neighborhood These women wait till like like 40 to have kids You know, so I'm still young compared to unless they just look old. I don't know They say 37 is too old 36 is too old not 27. That's like your prime when you're like very fertile And I think they I think they meant 37 not 27 because that's like Two years after being 25 Do I recommend visualizing a lifestyle with a rich man? Yes, that's how I visualized my whole life Like you know how when you're young you imagine your life in five years from now Or what are you going to be driving? How are you going to look? What's your hair going to look like? What kind of house you're going to live in I imagine all that Like super nice and I I didn't know how it's going to get it But I know some man was going to pay for it Yeah visualizing helps, okay What if you're only average attractiveness? How do you compete with these other build a vixen type women? You build yourself into another vixen.  Okay. Do y'all remember in the early 90s and late 80s There was two types of women Long chicks long hair long hair light skin chicks and and then then there was like Short hair light skin chicks and then there was bald head light skin chicks And then there was dark skin chicks and then there was this chicks and there was that chick Now everybody got a weave makeup And then everybody can be on the same level if you don't take that chance And you don't compete then I don't know what to tell you I I wear wigs our makeup I got to compete with people that's competing with me. You know what I'm saying? I got to compete with men too Men that dress up like women so And it's not really a competition, but you know what I'm saying I'm saying everyone has to compete if you're not here to compete then you have to go home You know what I'm saying?  You know what I'm saying? Look I have a blank canvas. Let's see how good I can make it look You know what I'm saying because everybody else is painting. Let me paint something on mine, too, you know um It's very rare And I'm just being honest We buy honesty here. Okay. It's very rare that you're going to land a financially six successful man When there's all this competition out there and you're not competing Okay It happens, but it's very rare That's all I'm saying.   I've seen a grown man with the beard turn it into something better looking than Beyonce, okay If you're average you don't have to be that's all I'm saying You choose to be average I'm average Okay, I'm average The people when they take all their makeup off their average, you know We got to enhance what you got You have to enhance what you got you can't just Well, I'm just not gonna do anything and see what happens Okay Okay With all the multi talk arm in making 150 range right now If they can take care of every bill you have give you a nice lifestyle and give you a nice car And don't ask you to work That works. Okay, if they can fully provide and protect you And you don't have to worry about nothing go for it. I don't I never said you have to Be with a millionaire. I just say as long as they can take care of you And you and you can splurge every down then and you can go on vacation Then go 150 it depends on what state you live in you can live good or you can live average It just depends on where you live. You know what I'm saying?   Don't be happy unless They're taking you a shopping to the mall or giving you a gift card saying Oh, I really want this, you know, don't don't think about nothing else.  Don't be don't be nice. Okay. Remember nice women finish last If you I told my husband the first the first real gift here about me was a Louis Vuitton purge And I kept reminding them about that. I said, you know, my birthday is this week You know, this is before this is when we first started dating like one month after we started dating I said, you know, my birthday is next week. He's like, well, what do you want? I say I want I gave him the number and everything I want the Louis Vuitton such and such and such a purse It Louis Vuitton stories in the gallery on the third floor.  I told him the directions everything. I said this that's what I want He said that you don't want anything else. I said, nope.    Like it's important to you You have to pretend like I'm not that shallow. I don't care. But if I want something I'm going to pretend I'm going to pretend I'm shallow. I'm like, oh I can't go out. I'm embarrassed. You know, I'm wearing last season's Boots I need some new boots I can't go out this fall with last season this on I'm sorry. I can't go out. It's just you know I don't want to go. I'm not even in the mood. I can't even get turned on right now. I gotta figure out how to get these boots that you know I'll get you the boots.   You know, they're gonna like game. I better get it for her. She goes around get get it from somebody else I need bill money more than clothes Well, then ask then then say that so you know what? You know, I really like you And I can't really get excited because I'm worried about you know my monthly bills And I can't you know, I can't get in the mood if I'm worried about money You know, I it's you know, I can't really concentrate on this relationship because I'm worried about money Can you like help me out this month? Can you put something in my bank account because I need my bills paid and then I can relax We can go on a weekend vacation. We could get away. I can be more relaxed. I'm so stressed right now I just have all this stress. I need to release And I just I can't concentrate until I get these bills paid You're gonna pay your bills and like, okay. Well, let's go away for the weekend Let's go out this evening and like get all the stress out blah blah blah blah. Okay That's how you gotta play that, you know And a lot of women are very independent and that's beneath them And this advice is for the people who are asking the question. It's not Advice for everyone, you know what I'm saying every woman can't do this every woman don't want to do this every woman Does not think this is the correct way. Okay, and that's understandable some women have um pride And they want to be equals and they want to be this and they want to be that when it comes to relationships And paying and things like that and they would never do that What I'm saying for the women who do want to get paid and get taken care of and spoiled by men You gotta play a game, okay Yes, you have you have to act like a kid protect if you have kids You know how they act when they get to the store. Oh, can I go to the toy aisle?   You can't be like, oh, thanks Oh, thank you so much. You have really just oh my god. You don't understand Like that's going to make them want to do it more like all this praise that you're giving They don't get that praise They don't get that praise from anyone and they're like when they buy you something They're what they're paying for is your affection and praise And gratitude that's what they're paying for really, you know, because no one else gives that to them Everybody expects things from them all the time.  Get that excited around them You know It's a turn on So, um Someone said what what did you say stop blocking me? Trying to read some of these Yeah, act extra impressed when they do get you a gift How do you get him to pay for your cosmetic or? Procedures I want later laser hair. Oh stop. Okay Everything has to do with sex.  I need this laser hair remover And I'll just feel so much sexier if I got that I'll be smooth like start like giving them visuals That would be so smooth and Um, this this isn't that and it would just be such such a Better experience, you know, and they're like, oh, well go get it I'll pay for it because they think they want to reap the benefits You don't give it to him before that Then after you get the laser hair removal Then you say, oh, you know what I'm still a little bit insecure.  You know, they can finance it or something. I don't know Do you like black china did? She was pregnant. She didn't want to do nothing. Oh, it's the baby. I don't want to do nothing Oh, I'm still fat. I can't I don't feel sexy. I need liposuction. Oh, I need I need to get plastic surgery. I just don't feel like myself.  So That's what you want. That's how you get it. You promise them something that they'll never get Or you promise them something they think they're gonna get you might give it to them. I don't know But that's how you do it.  You have to have that dynamic. You can't get someone equal, you know Either they gotta be much older and richer Or much uglier and richer. You can't get somebody your age or 10 years older than you gotta go way older if you want that plastic surgery Or way more or way less attractive How do you build self-esteem to attract a man of better and wealthier caliber? It's hard in my religion, Muslim Okay, y'all you can't ask me about religion because I'm not religious. Okay um The best thing I could say for you is to manifest The type of man you want and don't entertain anything less than what you want. Don't even talk to anybody Don't entertain anybody. Don't don't look at anybody. That's not what you want. Okay In certain religions, they're set up to hold women back Okay, certain religions are set up to keep you in a place or you have no power So it's very hard to navigate in certain religions unless you are not strict in the religion. You know what I mean So I don't know how to answer that but I would just say Manifest And only entertain the type of man that you want to be with Like that means only talk to the type of man You want to be only smile at the type of man who you who you want to be with and don't give anybody else any of your time Okay Okay Okay, how do you break away emotionally from a man after watching your videos? I realize that he doesn't have enough money anymore However, I do care for him and I Do I get myself out of this mindset? That's why you don't fall in love.  He never made it. Oh wait I love him now. I can't leave him because I spent too much time and effort into him and invested too much time into him Now I feel bad if I leave him No, you got to get only get with people that can benefit your life If he can't benefit your life in the beginning if he's not stable in the beginning If you can't provide for you in the beginning, you're not with him for the right reason You're with him for emotional Uh reasons you know You know how when someone says oh, you're just emotionally dependent You know what's worse being emotionally dependent or financially dependent? It just depends or both, you know If you if you're financially dependent you can get up and leave any second and find a replacement If you're emotionally dependent, it's hard to get up and leave and find replacement because You're emotionally attached So become emotionally You know unattached just Stop, you know if you did it backwards, you know, that's why I keep telling women don't date guys That don't have anything and fall in love with them because then now you're stuck And you're in love and that's hard Okay, that's why you that's why I say the man has to love you more Because the women love too much and they get stuck even against all logic So a lot of men say when women argue they have no logic and they don't use logic when they argue When they love they don't use logic either and that's why they're stuck in those positions So you gotta use the logic first If anything, you know If the guy is help is is doing good for you and he's not hindering you or dragging you down in any way Then it's really not fair to him if you leave him just because now you're Wanting some guy to buy you Louis Vuitton and stuff and he can't you can only buy you target or whatever What what you need to do is like reevaluate Why you fell in love with this person, you know, do you really want this material life? You know, sometimes it's not for everybody. Sometimes if you fell in love and that's who you love Then that's the life that you want to have, you know But you can't just start watching youtube videos one day and say, okay, I think I want a rich man now But I can't leave my poor man, you know Just watch it for entertainment.  That's the number one cause of divorce. It's financial issues Wait till you naturally fall out of love with him I For me it was easy because I'm a I'm a demisexual. That means I can't get turned on unless you got money How do you avoid telling them you have kids that they can't change the subject? Oh, do you have kids?  That's how you like. This is how you lie and not lie I always said that I would have you know four kids when I When I finally settled down, you know How many do you want or how many do you think? Is another you think four is a lot of kids that this is how you can get information out of them They'll first of all, they'll think you don't have kids if you want to always want to have four kids because you never Said no or yes because you might have four kids You might always want to have four kids and you got four kids Yay, or you might have three kids and you might want to have one with him So get around the question like that. Oh kids.  I always wanted to have about four kids What about you? Is that a lot of kids? You think you would want to have four kids? Oh, no, I already have three and I he'll tell you if he gets kids Oh, really you got three kids.  What is him knowing that you have kids gonna do if you don't even plan on marrying him Nothing.  Don't do it.   I'm not I'm not online too much.  But who are you talking to? Are you asking me if I know what color is in these or someone else in the comments? Oh, yeah, so don't drive up in your own car because they can run your plate Yeah, go over or park in the back and walk around Okay Are you all arguing in the comments? I hope that's not a girl talking back about Is there a pygmy in here? Like a pygmy chick. Oh my gosh Okay Pygmy chicks are like higher from brazil pygmy chicks are like women who Will say that's your gold digger. You shouldn't be doing that. You should only be dating for love and blah, blah, blah, blah That's a pygmy chick. That's like Someone who really believes that love is enough And someone who will help build a man and someone who will build up a man until that man's built up enough to Leave them for another woman so The pygmy chicks they're gonna go strong and hard For true love and building up a man and then once that man gets built up and leaves them for somebody else Who's a gold digger? They're gonna understand so don't y'all have to teach them a lesson. They're gonna learn it on their own. Okay Just leave them alone Y'all figure it out. Most of y'all used to be pygmy chicks until it happened to you I'm not trying to be mean but for real Yeah Um or or do valet, you know valet park You better be going to a nice place anyway I don't have like-minded friends How do you use your vice as a gay man? Well, if you're if you're the feminine aspect of the relationship duo, I would say Play hard to get don't be so needy know your worth like. Oh my god.   Um, and then when you get it the extra appreciative, you know what I'm saying? I know a lot of men of gay guys They're very much into looks Unless they're into money. Okay. It's either a or b it's not both It's like either you're it will strictly into looks or you're strictly into money. You know, it just depends on which one you are Where do pick me chicks hang out? I need to get my rocks out McDonald's um, they hang out at McDonald's they hang out at fast food joints Mostly the nail shop at Walmart Um Y'all are silly y'all Bowling someone says bowling. They like to go bowl. Oh parks. They love parks Free parks Y'all y'all make it y'all bad Free park the museum anything free and cheap. That's what they're hanging out. Okay Applebees Y'all I'm terrible. Oh my god. Y'all are terrible. They're naming them in the comments. I'm like, I'll say no more Y'all know where to find them How do women sell their virginity online? To the highest bidder, okay Question how you get a dude to give you Money he wants it. I'm not giving it. I need to get some money to give Make sure he old and wants you more than you want him If it's if they're too close of y'all too close at the same age, you're not gonna get as much money Promise it to him Live do the same thing they do gosh Promise them stuff just like they promise y'all relationships and stuff like that for and then you give it up and then they Go shoot do the same thing. I don't see why y'all can't do that. They do it to y'all all the time every day all day Oh, I'ma give it to you. Oh, yes But at first I need to go get some new tires and they cost like 400 dollars And then I'm coming to your house put in my PayPal Then don't show up. Oh, they couldn't get to me today. Oh, they have to order my tire Oh, just know that change didn't have your number changed Or say, you know what now they said something else is wrong with my car I need this much money to get it figured just keep lying to them like they lie to y'all I don't see why women feel so guilty for doing the same things that men do to y'all all the time A woman feels guilty because we love more. That's why you have to protect yourself more women will feel guilty for lying to a man To get what he she wants but he will lie to you To get what he wants But you feel guilty about it or you don't know how to do it. Are you uncomfortable doing it? Get comfortable doing it, okay Just get comfortable doing it. You know why because they're very comfortable doing it. They're so comfortable doing it It's an art form to them now okay, so I don't feel guilty for nothing I would take your money the only way the only reason I would feel guilty is if I know you were broke Like and you had to pay your rent and you might get kicked out I don't deal with those kind of guys because they don't have enough to spare Go with someone who has something to spare You know who has something Then you won't feel any guilty if you're trying to go dig on a broke man.  I can't do it right now, but I still love you wait for me um, you know I still love you. I'll be the only one I'll ever love even though I'm married to this person Don't worry about her. She's just the white, you know They do it to you all the time and you got issues I'm not talking to you individually who asked the question. I'm just in general. I don't think I'm mad at you I'm like talking in general Women stop feeling guilty or doing the same thing that men do to you Okay Making an art form if you make it an art form and you get really good at it Becomes fun. You know what I'm saying? It's like, oh, I bet you I can get about 3000 out of him Watch, you know how guys say well, I bet you I can get her I bet you I can get her to have six of me and one week watch Oh, I'm just gonna tell her I love her and then she the type of woman I want wife and she's gonna give it up Watch, oh, I'm just gonna tell him that he's the type of man that turns me on and I can't wait to see what he got Watch, I'm gonna get some money out of him first though because I need I'm gonna pretend I need some tires, you know Do the same thing because they're doing it to you anyway. They're trying to do it to you at the same time. You're trying to do it to them Right I am the more feminine part of the relationship. So should I add more feminine like a woman would To her boyfriend or husband well Okay, feminine Is is can mean so many different things.   Oh my god He just has so much, you know Talent and that and then make him feel like important. You stand in the background You don't steal the spotlight You stand in the background because you're already the spotlight. They don't look at you anyway But you praise him make him look good. You're He's the director.  You are the star of the film in 20 30 years from now the No one's going to remember that producer or the director's name of a film They're going to remember the actress who was the lead role you play the lead role But you make him look good. Okay. That's how you got to do it You're the lead role because they're looking at you not because you're leading The director leads but you're you're getting all the The face he's getting the praise. He's gonna get the award You might win this actress, but he's gonna get the award. He's gonna, you know, get the big paychecks people are gonna film his stuff in the future That's why the title of this is be a Hollywood actress have that mindset because You're the star of the film. They're the director. They got the money.   You're gonna make them look good. Okay So make sure you know your value as a, you know, have those demands. I want this in my trailer I need that in my trailer Or else I can't be on your film You know know your value Okay So i'm about to wrap it up in five minutes y'all What I am deactivating my facebook if I ever get kicked out the group and I Don't do that. Okay I needed your wisdom the counselor the escape We need dowry systems here in the us or men be paying for marriages Um I at the osprey acceptance speech. I'm gonna thank you. She Thank you You think guys to expect 5050 are guys who grew up with single moms and no strong male figure Yeah, I think they think they're women and I think that it's because they grew up watching a woman struggle and 5050 is being fair to them like okay. Well, you ain't got to pay everything so I guess I'll pay half That's that kind of man Those kind of men need to be corrected and a woman has to correct them They have to say look, I know you think that's normal But it's not You know And if they come up with some damn excuse about the economy say there are so many other people in this world In the same economy that don't ask their woman to pay 5050. That's not a good excuse Okay, if you want me as your woman, I'm not paying for happy fields If you want sex out of me, I'm not paying for happy fields Okay, you want a roommate that sleeps in a different room. Okay, I can do that. I can pay these bills But don't you come up in there unless you got some money Okay Better bring a bill in a checkbook So, you know, I don't do 5050. I can't get turned on by somebody with the handout. It just don't it won't work for me I'm like Sorry, but you know, you're excuse. Well, I'm a demisexual and I can't do 5050 because I I just Would not be sexually turned on by you. That's the real term. Yeah Demisexual look it up google it walk away That's just what I am. I can't help it. Now some people get turned on by feet Same thing Can you help it? Some men will let me say the bottom of your foot Someone will let me see that bank account You know same thing Sorry some wires that crossed in my brain And that's what I'm attracted to I'm so sorry I've been diagnosed Seriously, I went to a psychiatrist And they labeled me Demisexual It's just the fetish Just some wires that crossed in my brain and you know how some guys are attracted to feet And sexually attracted to feet. Well, I'm like that with money And so they'll be like what I never heard of that. Oh, look it up. It's a real thing like seriously I was I didn't know what was wrong with me. I could not Be sexually aroused with the guys that I was dating just make up a lot And I thought it was something like mental So I went to a therapist and they diagnosed they told me this is what I was and They told me that I should only date successful men And so I followed, you know what they said and I started dating successful men and What do you know like oh my god, I was turned on at the best sex ever in my life I you know, I was I was pleased well pleased and it was just like That's what it was just be like telling the story and like Don't be looking at you like Okay, so she's not a gold digger. She's a Demi sexual.  Go hang out where they hang out Okay, y'all know I know where to hang out after every game Usually in their hometown, they're going to the the nicest club The nicest steak houses A lot of the the big clubs will pay them to make an appearance after their games So on game night go out to the club close Or you listen on the radio, they'll say oh the after party for the game is going to be at such and such club All the basketball players will show up there a party drink and then you be there and that's how you meet them Okay, they're always in the clubs after the Games they get dressed they take a shower they get dressed and they go out. That's what they do Even if they lose they're going out Okay, and they're always in the vip section. You gotta look good. You gotta compete You gotta go in there looking your best so you can get into the vip you get into the vip by looking good Okay, they don't just let up anybody up in there.  Let's go in. Let's get in. Okay. That's just how it goes.  She's from out of town. She doesn't know anybody. There's a lot Then then promise him something You're gonna love me I promise Okay, literally What about older women over 35? Don't play victim now. I know when someone's acting. Oh my gosh. What are these fat? Come back to the light We're light Um older women over 35 have to be more mature They can't meet like they got to go for the retired athletes You know or they got to go for the older guys the older men with money They're here to go hang out at classy places where they can wear dresses and heels And classy not showing everything, you know where they can wear their nice jewelry and just be um Classy like they'd like fine wine Um Things like that, you know, you can't be a little Groupy girl. You gotta be classy So like i'm just being honest like people are asking me questions. I'm being honest I can lie to you all day and say oh Love only for love be you know Do out to others as you want them to do out to you but that those rules don't apply in this world And we already know it. We already know the world is not fair. Why are we keep acting? Why do we keep acting like the world is fair?  That's just it. That's the world we live in and if you are in denial about that I'm sorry But I want to keep it real, okay I don't play fair. I never will play fair because playing fair gets you nowhere and that rhymes too Right There's either the predator or there's the prey. There's no in between. Which one are you? Be one Think about it. If you're if you are in a relationship You were either the predator or you were the prey There was no in between You either got taken advantage of or you took advantage That's just it Oh, I don't know what y'all are talking about in the comments Whoever whoever thinks I'm lying about whatever whatever. I'm not lying. Whatever I'm saying is coming out my mouth is true I don't have time to lie. I don't have a reason to lie, you know I'm already married I keep I can say what I want to say, you know, I don't have I don't have To pretend I'm something because I want To get a decent guy I already got me So whatever I'm saying is to help y'all it's not to help me. I'm already I'm already good, you know anything so I feel like by telling the truth it can wake a lot of people up like About their relationship status and how they view relationships and how they view men or how they view women, you know Secretly women aren't going to come out and tell you this They're going to pretend and act and do this this and that to get what they want to manipulate because that's what women do Men they always all they want is what's in your pants They're going to try to get it anywhere they can if you trick them into getting to know you Long term investing money into you and then they get it They're not going to be so quick to leave if you're special to them if they fall in love with you Yeah, they might end up getting married to you and have some kids with you But make sure that they always love you more than you love them or else you won't have a problem And that's just the honest to god truth In a nutshell, okay, that's that's how it has to be if it's any other way It's trouble That's just it. It's just trouble Just being so direct about being and for the money scares some wealthy men off No, because okay, think about it They already know that you don't mess around mess around with broke man Okay, because you only want them They know you don't mess around with losers.  Well, she doesn't value herself and she doesn't know what she really wants She's still messing with baby daddies and you know stuff like that.  I want to be a lady of leisure. I want to go travel I want to you know Be your arm candy.  They got that money so they can get women Duh Why would you get all this money if you can't benefit from it? You know what I'm saying only new money little new money I mean Little new money like multi millionaires and guys that have their life together That can spend money. They don't they're not worried about that. That's why they made all that money So they can get their choice of women Not Anybody who will give them attention or settle for them, but their choice And if their choice still happens to not be rich, but they like what that woman looks like and how much fun She is they're gonna go for it. Okay.  Just like you got wealthy So you can have the nice clothes and the business that you have, okay everything That wealth brings the next is an extension of that man His car is an extension of him His home is an extension of his wealth his Woman is an extension of his wealth.  She's gonna be happy, you know so That's how wealthy men view women who are not wealthy and only want them for their money They like well, I'm sure sure glad I make money because I sure want you Okay, that's how they're gonna be I sure want you I'm sure glad I made this money because I know If I didn't have two dimes to rub together you passed me on by and that is true People say I'm a feminist But y'all need to go look up that definition so y'all start flinging that word around I just empower women. I'm not a feminist You can be you can empower a man and not be a feminist you can empower them for their To value themselves. Okay Not to try to be equal or take over the world.  Think about it Back in the old days and the biblical days and the days before, you know television and stuff The most powerful women were the most feminine women Okay So remember that the women that could get what they wanted had the most influence over people the most iconic women were not feminist They were feminine There's a difference Then use what they had to get what they wanted so I'm not a feminist You know, I believe in equal rights, but I don't believe that it means the death of chivalry either You know, I believe that I should have the right the same rights as a man But I don't believe that The man should stop paying for things and opening doors, you know That's just like saying, okay, a man will have equal rights as a woman, but the woman should stop uh sleeping with him and Doing other things, you know, oh, we're equal. I'll have to do that You know So it's it's silly so Feminist versus feminine You'll be a feminine feminist But at the end of the day the most powerful woman Gets what she wants just by being herself and not trying to be equal or better than somebody else Okay People men that watch my videos They don't like what I say, but They understand it They absorb it They think about it And they put it into action and it's in their subconscious mind It's in their subconscious mind. They know what women secretly want. Just like we know what men secretly want So either a they're gonna lie pretend they have it or promise it to a woman who's naive enough to Fall for the trick be they're gonna try to actually improve themselves to be the type of men women actually want Or see they're already on the way to being that type of man and they're just getting some more reinforcement and Ideas and things like that. Those are the only type of men that watch my video trolls Men who don't want to hear the truth but need to hear the truth to scheme Men who are trying to wake up and do what's right and get on the right path Men who are already on the right path get more information to become better men Or you know trolls That's it And the only reason i'm so blunt and forward is because men need to understand This is how women really think when when they're not trying to Get picked or pretend that you know, they're This perfect wife material.  You don't want it wants that Nobody wants to pay rent with a grown man living in the house asking for sex. Nobody wants that Nobody wants to help finish a man being a man. They're supposed to be that already You know, they don't want that They don't want to build no empire together in this bad economy. They don't want to do that Yeah Okay, so You're already supposed to be the man that have built something for your queen or your goddess Or your woman or wife or whatever and then you bring her in you don't bring her into a collapsing building To help you to help you hold it up. You bring her into a nice place What's wrong with y'all? Okay What are you doing? I was made in 88 I need 85 under It's close. Okay. I'll keep it just in case. What are y'all doing? What are you having a drawing competition? Just to help her be to go y'all my kids is still awake. What time is it? Oh, I'm a few. You better go get in your pajamas again a bit We'll get in your Yeah, go pick it out and get in your pajamas and I'll be done I'm just wear something comfortable You can get something new but just make sure it's comfortable. I'm reading these comments What do you do if you are not a very feminine woman or a girly girl? Act Ask any man Most men don't want a masculine woman Okay They don't would you want a feminine man? I keep telling y'all act go get some acting lessons or something What if I'm not this what if I'm not that act You know Keep doing it until it becomes part of you.  I love them hard chicks and hard women because they why because they can work just as hard as a man And do their job.  Find your femininity. You've been made masculine You're too masculine for too long. You can get it back. Just Study other women just act until it becomes part of you Practice okay We're softer colors. We're dresses. We're heels.   Okay. I can do it Okay Gotta be versatile Yeah, now she's the cover girl.  How much y'all paying? Okay Let me get my actress heels together Hi easy breezy beautiful cover girl Put that weave on get the makeup get that makeup on get them dollars in That's how you get it. You gotta act Women have to play many roles Man gotta pay like man gotta play one role. We gotta play a thousand roles Somebody say easy breezy scammer Yes Just like joey and the scammer That's all an act and he got got him paid. Okay He wasn't very feminine either Till he put on that wig and that dress Okay Like every excuse y'all come up with there's a solution for it Every problem y'all have there's a solution for it, you know, you just have to figure out what it is like You know, I heard that you're supposed to do this is that well Does that ever worked for anybody like no then do the opposite? Okay, well, I can't do this. Well has somebody ever done it. Yes, we'll do what they did I'm five six shorties aren't going to work for me I Welcome to my Caucasian home That is hilarious The funniest thing about Joanne is that Joanne has a beard And he's like really convinced that he's this woman the beautiful woman That's the funniest thing that confidence right there is how a ugly woman can get Yes, Laila Go to bed go where's your pajama? Go find some go put on a t-shirt and some shorts or something You have some there you just haven't put up your laundry No saying Like Joanne has this full beard and chest hair sticking out but has the confidence Of a perfect 10 That's how y'all gotta be That's how you gotta go into it. Okay Um, so I'm gonna go now. I'll see y'all on the next video And it was fun and I'll see y'all Remember fake it till you make it life ain't fair. Don't play by the rules And sometimes shooters win. All right. See you later. Bye