What is going on guys welcome back to the channel critical overload here So this would be the recap for the last of us season one episode one The episode title is when you're lost in the darkness So the series opens in 1968 I believe with a pair of doctors discussing pandemics live on a TV show broadcast on the ABC network Dr. Newman is one of the doctors and he discusses the dangers of fungi and how they seek to control not kill Within jump to the year 2003 and are introduced to a teen or pre-teen girl named Sarah and her family She's just walking up It is making breakfast for her father Joel since it is his birthday Sarah is getting ready to go to school but goes upstairs to grab money and her watch And a watch this in her drawer meant to say Uncle Tommy is driving them who is Uncle Tommy who was living with them Both is driving them both to school and work wherever they need to go And we are told that all three of them are located in Austin, Texas After school Sarah stops at a local shop to have Joel's watch fixed and outside We see a cop car and a firetruck speed by the owners of the shop rush her out saying they are closed Sarah goes to visit her neighbor miss Adler and ask if everything is okay because the news has been causing her to be concerned Sarah takes a break from doing her homework to look around miss Adler's house Miss Adler's mother begins doing a weird contortion behind Sarah But Sarah doesn't notice anything weird until the dog begins acting Strange around the old lady Sarah just brushes it off and heads home to Joel Sarah gives Joel the watch as his birthday give and the two-share sweet moment before watching a movie Joel gets a phone call and answers it and it's Tommy saying he's in jail and needs to be bailed out after a bar fight Sarah is taking the bed for the night But wakes up to dogs barking and helicopters flying above the house Joel is nowhere to be found It's presumably gone after Tommy of course to bail him out Sarah turns the TV on to discover a TV alert state is telling her to stay inside the house staying stay indoors She does not follow this order and Sarah ends up going outside to investigate what's going on after a dog named mercy comes up to her window She decides to take mercy home because this again is the atlas dog But the dog runs away and is refusing to go back to that house now She goes inside of the atlas house after mercy runs away from her to check on mrs. Adler Inside the house. She finds mrs. Adler's mother feeding on her and she seems to have mutated into some new creature That's clearly not normal human activity Joel ends up having to kill this old lady to protect Sarah Tommy Joel and Sarah drive off and discuss that the news is saying there's a virus going around forms of communication Are apparently down as well the trio end up having to drive through a crowd of people in town But a plane falling to the falling to the streets ends up crashing and exploding and causes them to crash their truck Tommy tells Joel and Sarah to head to the river after they after they all have regained consciousness He says that he'll catch up with them Joel ends up coming across multiple infected people Mutating and is chased by one into a diner with Sarah in his arms a trooper ends up saving them But then tries to kill them under orders and Sarah is shot before Tommy is able to kill the trooper Joel tries to save Sarah but she dies from her wound unfortunately, which leaves Joel in a very distraught mood, of course We then jump to 20 years later We're now in the year 2023 and are shown a child wandering through the woods Searching for civilization and as revealed we are now in Boston, Massachusetts cities are destroyed We have quarantine zones run by a group named Fedra and life as we knew it is completely different The child is taken in by the group known as Fedra Troops armed forces with everyone to call him at this point We catch back up with Joel who has managed to survive this long in between the 20 years that have passed He is in line to be assigned a job in order to make money We meet a woman named test being interrogated by a man named Robert the room Explodes during the interrogation and test escapes to the surface Fedra and the fireflies a group that opposed Fedra are having a shootout in the midst of all this We are introduced to a girl chained up in a room named Veronica at the time We of course know this is Ellie a man and woman coming asking her to state her name and count to 10 before leaving the room Joel is looking for Tommy who hasn't responded in three weeks Joel goes home for the day and gets intoxicated before passing out Test comes in and lays next to him So we know that these two are clearly together in some capacity in the morning test explains her injuries to Joel and talks About Robert we then meet Marlene a leader of the fireflies who was the one holding Veronica hostage who we come to know as Ellie of course that again is Ellie Marlene lays out her plan against Fedra during the sequence Within jump back to Joel and test who has shown discussing going after the man named Robert and arms dealer who owes them So they want to get payback as a result of this Marlene goes to visit Ellie But Ellie is cold towards her at first until she unchains her Marlene reveals that she knows that her real name is actually Ellie and not Veronica She says Ellie can't go home because she has a greater purpose Test and Joel go into a tunnel with flashlights and guns They make their way to a door that has blood coming from under and on the other side is a hallway of dead bodies Joel comes across Marlene and Ellie tries to attack him But fails Marlene tells Joel and test to take care of Ellie in exchange for supplies They agree and Marlene tells Joel not to mess this up Before they before they before they leave of course with Ellie to complete the task Joel and Ellie hang out briefly after he takes a nap and wakes up in the apartment Ellie tells Joel he mummles in his sleep while she observes the outside from a window Test comes in telling them it's time to go Fedra are shown patrolling the streets test Joel and Ellie sneak around Fedra They get caught but Ellie attacks the Fedra troop Joel ends up killing him in response by punching him to death Now this sequence I found to be very interesting because he's having flashbacks of his own daughter and the things He could have done differently to protect Sarah during this instance because it's something that's clearly just causing him to have a Bad memory of the time where he had this same occurrence of happening He he did nothing when he could have did what he just did now So it seems as though in this moment He's making up for what he should have done to protect Sarah in an effort to now protect Ellie after Ellie Of course causes this by attacking the man then we get tests Who comes to think that Ellie is infected after her test reads negative But Ellie tells them that she isn't and the three continue to make their move the episode ends with that Would like a shot of the Destroyed location that they're in the quarantine zone. So I will say this this is a great start to the show It is very well acted the writing is strong for the most part The characters are all coming to life in the best way possible for me I'm loving the production design. I'm loving the visual effects involved. I'm loving how we how emotionally driven it gets at times Especially when Sarah dies. I love that. I'm loving Pedro Pascal and how he's bringing the character of Joel to life All in all so far. This is a worthy adaptation of this game One of the most popular games that I recall from high school I haven't played it in many years But just everything about this first episode made me very nostalgic makes me want to go play that video game again and Makes me eager to go into episode 2 I have not seen episode 2. I plan to do weekly recaps on this channel I will have the recaps pending on the channel before the episodes air So you guys if you are wanting to hear recaps from me about the last of us, you are going to get that going forward I hope you enjoyed episode one of the last of us if you find it I left stuff out that was on purpose this episode was over an hour and 25 minutes is basically the length of a movie I was not going to include everything But you guys can let me know again what you thought about the pilot episode down in the comment section below What do you think about the last of us in general? Let me know as well down in the comment section below If you haven't already of course make sure you go ahead and subscribe turn on post notifications that you never miss a video in the Description I will have links on my social media accounts. 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Hi, I'm Zor. Welcome to Unisor Indication. We continue talking about units of measurements in physics and today we will measure temperature. This lecture is part of the course called Physics for Teens, presented on Unisor.com. There is a lot of sense, actually, to watch this lecture from the website, even if you found it somewhere on YouTube or wherever. The website is more friendly in a very important aspect. It has a textual component. So there is a video component and there is a textual component right next to each other. So after you've watched the video you can read the text basically. It's like a textbook. Or vice versa, whatever the sequence you prefer. Now there is a prerequisite course, which is called Math for Teens on the same website. Math is definitely needed for studying physics and I do suggest you to either take this course or familiarize yourself with all the necessary mathematical tools for physics. Also there is a very important lecture which was before this one as part of this course. Now there is a chapter called Energy in the Physics for Teens course and you can find it by basically going to Unisor.com opening Physics for Teens menu and you will see Energy as a chapter. In that chapter there is a topic called Molecular Movement and in that topic if you will open that second level menu you will find the lecture Temperature, Pressure and Volume of Ideal Gas. Ideal Gas is a very important substance to study and whatever we will talk about temperature and how to measure it well it's actually measured towards certain constants related to ideal gas you will see. But there is an introduction of certain laws which combine pressure, volume and temperature of ideal gas and these laws are presented in that lecture. So that lecture is actually a prerequisite for the one which we are talking about today. So that's all introduction and now the real talk about temperature and how to measure it. First of all, what is temperature? Temperature is a measure of kinetic energy of molecules if it's water or if it's air or if it's piece of metal whatever it is the way how molecules are moving inside that body maybe not moving maybe oscillating at some frequency if it's a metal they are not really moving very much but they are oscillating. So this is kinetic energy so molecules have kinetic energy and the greater the temperature means the molecules are moving much faster. So if we assign temperature of zero so we will come up with a scale but the temperature equals to zero when there is no movement of molecules at all it's called absolute zero. Well, I mean it's obviously practically impossible to do under our conditions but somewhere up in the space far from all kinds of stars from all kinds of sources of energy body by itself will actually emit all the temperature outside as a radiation and it will remain at absolute zero temperature. The molecules will stop moving. So again we will start with assigning a temperature equals to zero to a state of the object when movement is not really present movement of all the molecules inside that object is not present that's absolute zero. Now then after that no matter what kind of a unit of measurement of the temperature we will choose the temperature will be proportional to average kinetic energy of the molecules. So to have a scale to measure something we need zero and we need a unit. So zero we have basically agreed upon zero is absolute zero when there is no movement of molecules. Now what is a scale I mean what is the unit actually of measurement? Until very recently the unit of measurement in most of the countries was the Celsius system. Now the Celsius system is assigning zero temperature zero degree this little sign is a degree of melting ice and a hundred degrees Celsius is boiling water. Now that's fine. I mean there is another scale which is customary in the United States as a Fahrenheit and there is a connection between Fahrenheit and Celsius which I will talk about a little later. So these both systems are used in the world mostly it's Celsius basically in all countries and in the United States and I don't know where else is Fahrenheit. Fine. So that's how we established a unit of measurement so it's one hundredths of difference between temperature boiling water and melting ice this is my unit this is one degree which we can measure the temperature. So we have an absolute zero as the beginning of the scale and we have a unit one hundredths degree of the difference between these two temperature and that's sufficient to basically assign a temperature to any state of object no matter what this object is and this is so-called Kelvin scale so Kelvin scale is absolute zero Kelvin by the way in Kelvin we don't use this degree sign so this is a temperature of the body with no movement of molecules inside and one degree Kelvin is equal to one degree Celsius that's the same thing, the same unit we're using that was until recently now recently as I was talking about in previous lectures there is a tendency to assign units of measurements in physics related to some kind of world constants, physical constants which we really think are constants and why? Because you see this temperature it's not really very easy to establish standard I mean what kind of a water is this how pure it is or ice it's not really very precise as the precision right now is very important nowadays at the level of our current development of industry and science etc so we need something more precise now so to connect it to some kind of physical constant we really need some kind of a law from which we can actually start and here comes the law which I have presented in the lecture which I was talking about in the very beginning as a prerequisite it's a relationship between pressure of ideal gas volume of ideal gas it's absolute Kelvin temperature in the scale of Kelvin which means absolute zero is where absolute zero is and the degree is the same as Celsius so the law I'm talking about is this one N is number of molecules P is the pressure now how the pressure is measured well pressure is the force per unit of area right so pressure measured in force which is Newton and the measure of area is square meter now Newton in turn is actually kilogram meter to a second square now we have a square meter and meter cancels so pressure is kilogram divided by meter and second square kilogram and second and meter has already been defined before as units based on certain constants that's in the previous lectures before that I put my lectures in logical dependency actually so we define new units of measurement based on some other measurements and some constants okay the volume volume is measured in meters cube right here we have number of molecules which is just a number there is no kind of a units of measurements now what is KB KB is a Boltzmann constant again I did talk about Boltzmann constant in this lecture about temperature pressure volume of ideal gas so this is the law we will base our definition of temperature now using the old Kelvin scale so the old temperature and pressure and volume and this is number of molecules the constant was defined basically experimentally as 1.380 649 10 to the minus 19 of yes so this is the constant now this constant was defined basically was determined experimentally and obviously it's not exactly this because these are kind of old physical units of measurement the temperature especially so what the physicists did to define the temperature now well they just said okay let's postulate we will just assign this is the constant and we will define the temperature degrees temperature unit in such a way that this law actually is true with this exactly this constant so now its temperature is defined based on this so if you want to determine what's the temperature we have to know what's the pressure what's the volume what's the number of molecules and this we already have defined as this exact number and that's how we get the temperature so this is the same reverse logic as we used before from the constant we define the unit of measurements of the temperature okay basically that's it we have defined the unit and now let's go back and define all other units now we have melting ice that has two 73 0.15 units of Kelvin scale boiling water is plus 100 again it's all from the definition and as far as Fahrenheit and how to determine it well that's a different thing if you have a Fahrenheit then Celsius is actually Fahrenheit minus 32 times 5 N and if you want to find out Fahrenheit temperature from Celsius it's correspondingly 9 fifths of the temperature in Celsius plus 32 which is 1.8 degrees of Celsius plus 32 and Celsius in turn is basically Kelvin minus Kelvin is equal Kelvin is equal Celsius minus 273 0.15 so these are conversions basically and Celsius is equal to Kelvin plus 273 15 ok so these are just very simple formulas which are related from the fact that temperature of ice at some point before melting ice was 0 and from this we have determined that absolute zero was minus 273.15 in Celsius so I think I made a mistake it's the other way around Kelvin plus Celsius is Kelvin no that's correct so Kelvin zero plus 273 so melting ice is 273 that's correct so basically these are simple formulas which are converting one into another temperature but most importantly the unit of measurement in the Kelvin scale which is the scale used by scientists it's not really very convenient in real everyday life because you can say basically ok the temperature at 20 degree Celsius it's actually 293.15 Kelvin that's not very convenient I mean we prefer something simpler right but whatever it is if it's not convenient but physicists are using Kelvin degree because it's part of the formula which is basically gives the laws of dependency between pressure and volume and temperature etc so scientifically speaking we are using Kelvin practically we are using Celsius and Fahrenheit in the United States well that's it now that's one of the lectures about units and I will have couple of more and that would be all about so called base units and again I would like you to very to pay a lot of attention the whole philosophy of units of measurements units must depend on certain absolute objective physical constants rather than certain kind of devices which we are using to establish the standards like in case of a kilogram we had a little like cylinder which we have ok this is a kilogram no right now we are basing our units of measurement on some objective physical constants which exist in the world and do not depend on our actions at least as we see them now as not being dependent at least to the degree that we have the knowledge about about all this alright again this is a very short and very simple lecture there is nothing actually to explain or anything it's a definition definitions are not really explained it's a definition right so you can read the textual part of this lecture on theunisor.com and basically that's it thank you very much and good luck


Good morning, everybody. Hey, can we just quickly give it up for my beautiful bride, Jane, who's joined me on the platform. This is a big deal, Jane. Jane hates the platform, but she loves you and so she was willing to do it and she did such an awesome job last night. So much so, because whether you believe it or not, we don't see the questions. We have no idea what's about to be answered or about to be asked and then answer. And last night, one of the messages that came in said, we absolutely know these questions are already pre-scheduled. Your answers were way too polished. It was too put together and it's just, we need it more raw. And I'm like, there you go, Jane, you did an amazing job. So, excited to have her on stage. And but I did preference it like, please ask nicer questions than you did last week. So, those were pretty intense. I'm like, she can answer all those. I told her she has the Trump card. I said, what that means is that any time you can say, nope, I don't wanna answer that. And so, and then I'll take the brunt of that. So, but this morning we're gonna be answering questions related to marriage, family and parenting. So if you have not texted in or emailed or however you do that, radiant.church slash red hot on our website. If you haven't sent a message in, feel free to do that. And that's for those of you online. We wanna say good morning to Portage. We're glad that you're joining us as well. And we're gonna go ahead and dive in this morning. So, let's down here on the first question. This is somebody named John Z from Richland. Says, is it true that the first time you and Jane went out for breakfast, you said to her, hey, since you like those eggs so much, I'm let you pay for them? Do you guys see what I had to grow up with?  It was constant. So, yeah. I said it wrong. It's supposed to be, I'm let you pay for them. Did I say it better? Okay, yeah. Love you, John. Yeah. Sort of love you. Okay. Okay, so here's the first real question from Zach. Portage, can you explain what wives submitting to their husbands and husbands being the head of the wife looks like in God's call for the family? And he quotes a couple different scriptures there. How does it look for a wife to submit to her husband? And for both to submit to one another? Well, let me just start by saying both of those scriptures, I won't take the time to read them. Ephesians five, Colossians three, both layout, responsibilities within the family, husband and wife. And a lot of times when we read those scriptures, they seem to kind of slap us in the face, especially related to the culture and the world that we live in today, because in our world, the word submission is actually a derogatory term. When we say to somebody, submit or you need to submit or that submission or you need to come under submission. And I understand that a lot of that has to do with the tenor by which it is communicated, but the word submit actually means or at least in our culture today, that phrase means less than that you're coming under, you just need to know your place and get there. But before I even touch on the husband and wife part of it, I wanna remind you of what Philippians chapter two said. It says that Jesus, who being the Son of God in the form of God did not consider it robbery to be equal with God, but he emptied himself and he became like a servant. Jesus, the Son of God in the triune relationship of Father, Son and Holy Spirit is equal to God the Father just as much God as the Holy Spirit is, but yet he willingly submitted himself to the Father. And so if submission takes place even within the Godhead, without it diminishing the deity whatsoever, God the Father's God, God the Son is God, God the Holy Spirit is God, but in order for there to be unity within the Godhead and the purpose of God being lived out, there has to be submission, which means one is the head and the other is submitted there. It's submission is not a destructive or a derogatory or a controlling or belittling phrase at all. It's actually the greatest gift that can ever be given is the gift to willingly submit to the will or the leadership of someone else. When we get saved, we submit to God and when we're children, we submit to our parents and within the family, when the Bible refers to a husband as the head of the household, what that means, the word head in the original language means the source or the one who carries the responsibility. And I believe that God has given men, especially within our framework of our families, the responsibility to set the temperature, the pace to provide, to protect within the family structure and also to be the source of encouragement, empowerment and life to our wives and to our children. That's our number one responsibility. Submission has nothing to do with, I'm the boss, you do what I say, that's domination. But a husband is called to be the head and the source, the source of life, the source of leadership, the source of inspiration and empowerment. If I'm not empowering Jane to be everything that God has called her to be, then I'm actually going to stand before God and give an account for that because I'm the one responsible. And I think when it's done right, it just brings confidence to the woman, to the family, to the kids and all that. And so I went as a single woman, like be like scared of that word, but also find a godly man that understands the submission part of that. You know what I mean? Cause we're all submitted to something or to someone. Yeah, and even in Ephesians five, after it says why submit to your husbands, it also says submit to one another. So there are some things that in our family, I submit to you on or if you have a strong conviction about something, I submit to that because I trust your discernment and your leadership. And I think communication is just the key in that. You know what I mean?  I mean, just all those things of just not letting life just go by, but really communicating and talking. And like Lisa, there's things that I'll feel and be like so strong on it. And he'll be like, okay, you know what I mean? Like, if you feel that strongly about it, then we'll let it go. You know what I mean? Instead of being like, oh, I'm the man of the house and this is the way it's gonna go. That would never fly. No, it wouldn't. And that's okay. And that's good. Because I think as women, we ought to be strong. And, but in our strength, also have a tenderness, not a weakness because I don't like that word, but a tenderness towards the Lord first and towards our husband. And God blesses that. So. And in leadership, man, the last thing I'll say about that is we're supposed to be servant leaders, which means we're leading, but not out of a place of domination. But like Jesus said, the world uses leadership to Lord it. Our job is to be a foot washer and a servant and in a relationship to our wives, the washing of the water of the word and inspiration and encouragement. That's our number one responsibility. So that's what we'll have to say about that. Let's take another question. This is Bill from Richland. Excuse me. Where does radiant church stand on birth control? I personally don't use any. And we don't make a mandatory for our members, obviously. Our nursery is exploding. So obviously there's some procreation. It's not the free gift you get when you go to the lab. Yeah. Radiant, radiant labeled condoms or something. I don't know. Where did that come from? I don't know. I just think of branding and logos for everything. So I think birth control is one of those issues that couples have to come into agreement on. I don't think that there's anything wrong with birth control at all. I do think I'm not a doctor and so I can't speak to all the medical components of that. However, I would say that that's something that you wanna consult with your doctor. Some people's bodies don't respond to certain kinds of birth control or those kinds of things. And so you have to be careful. I think that there can be some ramifications physiologically for long-term use of certain kinds of birth control but I think that you and your doctor make that decision. And you and your husband or your husbands and wives coming together to determine when and for how long and what way that you're going to approach that. I don't think in general there's anything absolutely wrong with birth control. I know that there are certain denominations that say that all birth control is evil, that God's the one who opens and closes the womb and so therefore if you want you to have children then you're gonna have them and my pastor when I was coming up he said, you know what you call people that don't use birth control? And I said, what? He says, parents. And so if you wanna have 20 kids, well then you better know if you're not gonna use birth control and unless you're gonna be celibate in your marriage you're probably gonna have a whole lot of kids and you need to be wise about that. You need to be in agreement on that but I don't think that there's anything specific that the Bible has to say about yet or whether good or bad for birth control. You wanna chime in on this? You're the one in our marriage that's actually ever used it, so. I'm sorry, I told her I wasn't gonna do that. I lied. Next question, what happens as a married couple when you get to heaven? Where in the Bible does it talk about this? That is a great question and this is from Lindsay and Richland. The Bible doesn't have a lot to say about that other than let me, I think it's in Luke. I'd have to dig here. I think it's where Jesus is confronted on the subject of marriage and what he says to the Pharisees who came to him is he says, you have no understanding of the scriptures because you don't know and you don't realize that in heaven there is no marrying or giving in marriage that we're actually like the angels in other words that we're no longer in a corporal body where we're reproducing.  That's what it means when it says that we're like the angels.  Paul said that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. And so that's talking about our spirit and soul. And it's called the intermediate state because it's not the final state. The final state will be after Jesus returns, he judges the living and the dead. There will be the resurrection, physical resurrection of both the righteous and the unrighteous to be judged. The righteous will be given glorified physical bodies and we will live forever in the kingdom of God. The unrighteous in the resurrected bodies will be cast into a lake of fire where they will be tormented.  So that's gonna be the separation. In the kingdom of God it implies in scripture that we will know, obviously know each other. We will know then as we have been known. So there's going to be the ability to know who everybody is. So we're gonna have relationships and friendships, but it's probably not going to be like it is here, especially when it comes into regards with marriage. It's not like, Jane and I have talked about this. It's like, heaven must be so good that when we get there, there's not gonna be any level of disappointment because on this side of eternity, just to be honest, there's times where it's like, when we get to heaven, I kind of, I wanna have a little house together, you know, over there on the outskirts of the kingdom of God. I've already kind of picked out my spot in Cape Cod where I wanna be. But yet the Bible seems to imply that it's not gonna be like that. Married couples, marriage is, if you've ever noticed in the vows, until death do you part. It's a covenant here on this earth, but there's a very strong family reality in a sense that is present in the kingdom of God because Jesus mentioned, people will come from the east and from the west to sit down with Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. That's a generational covenant that is eternal. So there's aspects of family that will be recognized and honored in heaven in the kingdom of God. But when it comes to marriage, marriage is dissolved as soon as we die on this planet. Hopefully that there's, hopefully we can hang out together in heaven, we can go for walks together. And who knows, I don't know what heaven's gonna be like. It's gonna be amazing. Paul said, I has not seen, ear has not heard, nor has it even entered into the heart of man what God has prepared for those who love him. So how many know heaven's gonna be amazing? It's gonna be good. Nobody's gonna get to heaven and go, oh, this is a bummer. I like it better the other way. Now we're gonna get to heaven and be like, whoa. And it's gonna be amazing. So that's all I can say about what the Bible has to say about marriage in heaven. Just says that we will, there's no marrying or giving in marriage and we will be like the angels in heaven. Okay, let's take another question. Okay, well, we just jumped right from angels in heaven to the M word, here we go. Is it okay to masturbate to, by the way, before I read this question, if you have children, I'll give like a five second thing, plug their ears. Okay, is it okay to masturbate to pictures or videos of your own wife when she isn't in the mood to be intimate? Well, welcome to church this morning. And this is definitely one of the ones he's gonna answer.  So here's what I would say about this. God's design for sex within marriage is to be mutually pleasing to one another and to approach it from the standpoint of not just getting my needs met, but meeting the needs of your spouse. That's love, love is self-giving. And there's two things that I will say about this.  I don't know if it's inherently simple, but it's inherently selfish. And I think that in this particular situation, we need to have a focus where it's more about, A, sex is a bond in marriage. It's a celebration of covenant.  I realize those needs can be very strong and there can be a strong pull, but I think that there can be ways even within the marriage bed where it can be like, where I'm not really in the mood, but let me take care of you. Let me help you. Let me be a part of it where you're doing it together and it doesn't have to be full-blown intercourse or those kinds of things. And the other thing I would say is that we need to emphasize more about the fruit of the Holy Spirit and one of the fruit of the Holy Spirit is self-control. And it's like, do you have to have it? Let me just be blunt. Do you have to have it so bad right now that you'll settle for a Polaroid? It's like, come on. It's like the whole thing is I'm married to you and I love you and I wanna be with you and this is intimate. This is intimacy, not just having a need net. So I wouldn't say that it's necessarily inherently sinful, but it's not the best and I think we can do better. And I think with better communication, and if a marriage is healthy and you have those levels of intimacy, you don't have to mess with that stuff because I'm fearful that that kind of thing can just lead to you have your own sex life and I have my own and then that bleeds into not just pictures of my wife, but then porn, which is so easily available in our culture. And we don't wanna get into a mentality where sex is just me by myself taking care of my own needs and self gratification. We wanna celebrate the covenant and celebrate marriage. And then just on a practical note. You really are gonna chime in. Yes. I'm just gonna say like on a practical note, it's like, okay, masturbation to pick or video of your own wife, when she isn't in the mood to be intimate.  Just have sex. Just have sex. You know what I mean? To me, that'd be a heck of a lot. Easier and like self, like. I would like to have some pics though. Oh honey. I don't think I'm gonna get any, but. We have one more service and I'm not gonna do it if you're gonna be naughty, so it's just kind of like, if you're gonna go through all that work to do that, then just. Amen. Love your husband, just do it. I don't know. All right, we're moving on. John, online. How do I raise my child as a Christian without force feeding Christianity on them? That's an awesome question.  And it starts with your example and your model. So in the Old Testament, the way that God commanded His people, Israel in the very beginning of covenant about training up their children is found in Deuteronomy chapter six. It's called the Shema. It's a declaration of our faith and of what we believe. But if you read all of chapter six, what you'll find is that God gives them the instruction about how to pass that on to their children.  That's the Shema. And then it says, and these words I command you today, verse six.  You shall teach them diligently to your children.  You shall bind them as a sign on your hand and they shall be as frontlets before your eyes.  And when the Lord God brings you into land that he swore to your fathers, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob to give you with great and good cities, houses full of good things. It basically goes on and don't forget the Lord your God. So if you notice, he says, here's the prescription for training your children up. Number one is make this declaration. Hero Israel, the Lord our God is one God. Okay, so that's our mission statement and our statement of faith. And then it says as parents, talk about it when you're leaving the house, when you're in the car, when you're in the minivan, when you're putting them to bed, when you're having dinner, and when you're playing football all out in the back and set it as frontlets before their eyes. In other words, make it visual. Write it on the doorpost of your house so that when they, every time they come in the house, there are reminders of that. And so I would say that there are some very formal things that you can do. And there are some informal lifestyle things that you need to do. And your faith needs to permeate every aspect of your life. It can't just be, oh, I doctrinally believe this and so you should believe this, but I live differently. You have to have a consistent lifestyle where Jesus says at the center of everything that you do. We talk about them in our house. We pray in our house. We read our Bibles in our house. When we sit down at the dinner table, it's our conversation. What God doing in your life? What did you think of that sermon? You've got youth group this week. What's going on in youth? Those kinds of things. What did Miss Dawn teach you in Sunday school? Those kinds of things need to be a part of just everyday life in the car, worship music that you have playing. Signs that you have with scripture, scripture on the mirror in the bathroom or on the refrigerator, those kinds of things. Even what you watch on television and then I'd say the formal things are, make church a priority. Listen, I'm preaching to the choir because you're all here. But listen, the average churchgoer in America, so born again, Bible-believing Christian, attends church 1.8 times per month. So that means more than half the time they don't attend church. And the reason why we don't, I get it, is because of work sometimes, those schedules, but a lot of things has to do with sports, competitions, just don't feel like it. And what you don't make a priority, don't expect your kids to make a priority. I think the greatest thing that parents can do to impart their faith, number one, is be an example. Number two is make church a regular habit where you come week in and week out and youth group is a priority. You do those things, your kids aren't gonna like go, oh, we love Jesus so much. But they're gonna know that it's a priority and it's important. When you train them up when they're young, they will not depart from it when they're old. And then what you need to have is an amazing mom like our kids had who, Jane did a phenomenal job during the day. She stayed home with the kids and she constantly had worship music on in the house. She made sure that our kids were constantly, what they were watching was healthy and was Christ-centered and those kinds of things. She took them and had them spend time like in vacation Bible schools and different things like that. Anything you wanna add to that? I know, just basically like, just know they're watching you. You know what I mean? Like from a young age, even older. And so like Lee was saying like, and think you're pulling the wool over their eyes or whatever and live one way and then do another, but they see it. And we're all guilty of that at one point or another. I'm not gonna sit up here and say that we've done everything perfect, but they do know, and it's funny as they get older, they'll be like, do you remember when, blah, blah, blah. And so just to remember that, that they're little Christ followers and they're following you as you lead them. That's our job to lead them into a relationship with the Lord. I think some of the greatest times you can, as a parent, is when you blow it, when you've made a mistake is to own it, admit it and say you're sorry to your kids. That speaks tons of volumes. I can't, Jane and I have, I know it's hard to believe, but at times we've blown it or said something that we shouldn't or gotten an argument in front of them. And we've always made it a point to go back to our kids and just say, you know what, I shouldn't have said that and I'm really sorry. When you do those kinds of things, it actually, you don't have to say to them, I'm doing this because I'm a Christian.  So I think. Because it's even funny as kids get older and they go through their phases of questioning or whatever, one of our kids came home and I had worship music going on and he goes, you know how I know all these songs, mom? I'm like, it's because you played them all the time when we were growing up. And I was like, thank you, Lord. You know, it's a seed that's planted like right now. I can wonder, is it taking root? You know, did he get anything?  We brain washed them. Yep, so no. Literally, yeah. And sometimes their brains need some washing and so we want them saturated in the presence of God in our house. And two, this might seem like super religious, whatever but I don't care. I think too that you have to just be careful when they're younger of what you let them read. And I know our kids would probably stand up here and go, oh my gosh, mom, you didn't let us read Harry Potter. You didn't let us read Goosebumps. You know, I'm just thinking of stuff that was important, like was popular when our kids were little and I didn't because I felt like they were in that formative years that I didn't want that to influence them, you know what I mean? So I was like, okay, well, let's find something that is good. And if you have, I mean, I'm not condemning whatever but for us, it was just like one of those things like, I'm going to wait until you're older, more mature.  That kind of way and so one of the kids have read it and they're like, oh my gosh, this is amazing, blah, blah, blah. You guys were so strict. And I go, yep, and you wait until you have kids and you'll be strict some day too. And I can't wait for that day to just sit back and watch them as they raise their kids and I'll just be like, I don't know. And I think I said this last night that as parents we just can't be afraid of our kids.  Like you have to set the limit and boundaries because really that's what they want. And they might be mad, they might be ticked, they might hate you for a minute, but in the end they'll love you. Because I remember Tiffany, I think she was like in seventh grade and we're out of state. Of course these things always happen when you're out of state and she's texting me and I'm like, I wanna go to a community dance party. And I'm like, mm-hmm. No. And I'm like, but I didn't say no right away. I like I wanted to, but I just kind of like ask questions. I'm like, well, who's gonna be there and who's it open to? And is there gonna be a parent there? And no, no, no. And I'm like, well, no, you know what I mean? And she was so mad, but I didn't care. I was just like. She didn't talk to us for like 20 days, but it was great because it was quiet in her house. I loved it. But it was just like, I could have easily have just been like, okay, go. And maybe it would have been fine. I have no idea. I didn't know what it was. And I was like. I know what it was. I don't. It was like a meat market for high schoolers and they're all getting together and they weren't doing the waltz. So. So, you know, and then the whole thing, a parent's gonna take us and pick us up and you're going at every angle and I was, you know, trying to break you down and they do do that. You have to be brave parents. Yes. Brave and strong.  Just settle that issue. Love them and make the decisions for them that they can't make for themselves and they will thank you later. Okay. Let's take another question here. This is Alice online. As someone who is getting married soon, congratulations and thinking about having a family. It is getting increasingly harder to think about bringing children into the world with the state of things as they are today. What does God say about this? Well, you know, understand this. I totally resonate and can understand what you're saying. It's easy especially today to look around and say the world is going crazy, morals are going out the window, there's, you know, norovirus or coronavirus or whatever it's, you know, it's around. It just seems like so many things are going wrong and we're nearing the end times and all that, I'm not sure if I should have kids. But here's the thing. We have to have more faith in the power of God's sustaining grace than we do in sin's ability to corrupt and destroy. And I think having children and having kids as Psalm 127 says children are the heritage or the reward that God gives us. And so we don't wanna be motivated in our lives and in our marriages by fear. I understand there's some sobering times that we're living in, but the reality is that there's never been an age, never been an era where there weren't similar challenges as there are today. They may have looked different. They may be on accelerants today as opposed to other times, but for example, if you raised kids during the Middle Ages, the mortality rate was 50%. And so people could say, well, I don't wanna have kids because 50% of my kids are gonna die and I don't wanna deal with the grief of that. Or during the bubonic plague era during the Middle Ages where, you know, 30% of the world's population died. You could look at that and say it's the end of the world. There's too much disease or too much war or different things like that. And we, if we're not careful, we can allow fear to become a more dominant factor in how we view life and view our families and the promises of God than we do faith. And I think God actually, what we need is we need more Christians, listen to this, having children and then intentionally raising them to be disciples of Jesus, to be salt in light in a world that needs it, as opposed to us having less and less children. Jesus comes back next week, praise the Lord, that'll be awesome, but we're not gonna live our lives going well because things are getting worse and that kind of thing that we're just gonna put it on pause. So I would say to you, Alice, get married, love your husband, have a family, train them to love Jesus, come to church, dedicate them, train them up to be salt and light and let God use your family to change the world. And I can't remember, I know it's in Psalm somewhere, but just about the children being an arrow in the hands of...   Yeah, they're arrows. Yeah, we can train them up to be instruments of righteousness and that goes back to the birth control thing. You need to have a quiver full of them. See, see how I worked that right there? So have like 10 kids, that'd be awesome. So, Alice, have fun, have kids. It's gonna, you know, Jesus is able to sustain them and strengthen you as a parent in the middle of whatever battle you're facing. Okay, we're gonna take another question here. This is Mary online. What would you say to a couple that is going through infertility? It is the hardest thing that we have had to go through in our lives thus far. I am at the point where I'm trying to understand why this is happening to me and how can I find meaning in this dark time? Well, Mary, first and foremost, we just, all of us wanna just say that we are so sorry that you're going through this. We've never gone through infertility so I have absolutely no idea what you're feeling or the pain and the questions that you're going through. Jane and I have gone and walked through fertility with close friends and we've seen the tears and we've also seen the laughter and the joy on the other side of that battle and that journey. But first and foremost, I wanna say that we're sorry you're going through that and Mary, we will pray for you and for the journey you're going through and for anybody else who's listening, wherever you're listening, if you've gone through this, probably some of you in this room have gone through similar type of thing and you know what Mary is going through. I would encourage those of you who've been through that to just pray for Mary. You may not know her but you know her name so add her to your prayer list. And we recognize that it's one of the hardest things that parents can go through because you have a desire to be a parent, to wanna have kids and for whatever reason, bodies aren't cooperating with that and what I would say to a couple that's going through infertility, number one is don't give up hope. Don't give up hope. Number two, do not feel like God is against you or has cursed you or has judged you because that is not how God operates. God is not the orchestrator or the initiator of your infertility. You haven't done anything wrong. God is not disappointed in you. He's not mad at you. This isn't judgment. That is not at all what this is. We live in a fallen world and sometimes our bodies aren't the way that they should be. And so don't accept the lie from the enemy that you've done something and this is payback for that. Don't give up hope that God is still at work and then I would encourage you to use every tool at your disposal depending on what the Holy Spirit leads you to do. For some people, they say we're just gonna wait it out and we're just gonna continue to pray and believe and do that. And if that's what you feel God has led you to do, then go that route. Other people say, no, we're gonna avail ourselves to every avenue that is out there and there are some amazing breakthroughs in medical technology right now for that. And I would encourage you if that's what you're feeling led to do with wise counsel, pursue that. And I'm gonna throw one more thing out and this is just a generalized statement. I know that oftentimes we look at this next thing that I'm about to say as kind of a last resort, but realize this that there are over a million children in our foster care system across our nation that desire and want families as bad as you want a family and adoption may be and should be a huge option for all of us. Look at what God has done adopting us into his family. And there are no second class sons or daughter in the kingdom of God. We're adopted in, he loves us just like he begot us. And I would say for those parents who are going through infertility, consider adoption, pray about adoption because we know some people that have done adoption and their lives have been radically changed. They would now say on the other side of it, looking back in that journey, we kind of thought we didn't wanna go that route, but now that we have, we are so glad that we did because we have actually not only have we got a family, but we've changed the trajectory of somebody else's life who would have not had a family. And I think it's an incredible option. And it's all, it all needs to kind of be brought back around to God, you may not have caused this, but you are not absent from this. So God is standing with you in whatever battle you are in as a parent and as a potential parent or a desirous parent. And you just say, Lord, what would you have me to do in this situation? And submit your desires, submit your frustrations, pour them out, surround yourself with wise counselors, seek out some people who've been through it, who are Christ followers and say, how did you go through it? There are all kinds of support groups, people that you can talk to. And at the end of the day, get your marching orders and use every tool that is available to you. And I believe Mary, I believe your best is coming. I don't know what this story is gonna look like in the end, but I know that God's intentions for you in the end is to bless you and to bless you indeed.  We believe that with all of our heart. Can we just support Mary and that, put our hands together for her? Okay, can we all stand up? We're gonna pray and close. This morning, thank you for all of your questions and for all of your encouragement. I wanna encourage you to bow your heads in our prayer team to move into place this morning at both of our campuses.  Because when it comes to family, when it comes to marriage, when it comes to raising kids and parenting, it's not a question of if you're gonna face challenges, it's just a matter of which ones and when. And the great thing that we stand in is not that, Jane and I don't stand up here because we've never been through battles. We stand up here in the grace of God because we've never faced a battle that God didn't come and fight for us. And I believe that whatever challenge you might be facing today, you're not alone. Because God will fight your battle for you and he will stand with you. And this morning I'm gonna pray and then we're gonna dismiss, but if you have a battle that you're facing or a need or maybe you just need somebody to pray for you or you're going through something that's really, really painful in your family, maybe you're here single and you're going through a battle about an issue that you're going through, maybe with your extended family, maybe about your future family. And you need prayer or maybe you're a grandparent today and you've raised your kids, but you need a restoration in your relationship with your kids or maybe you've got marital strife and tension right now and you need a breakthrough. The good news is that God is able to make all grace abound to us. And after I pray and dismiss and invite the Holy Spirit to come and to meet us at this altar, if you need prayer for anything, if you're going through a battle and you just want support and you want prayer, I'm gonna invite you wherever you're at to just linger and come and make your way to the front and receive prayer today because he is here. Jesus meets us when we reach out. He says, pray for one another in James 5 so that you might be healed. He is our healer today. So Lord, we reach out to you. We trust you. We stand in the grace that is found in you and we ask you Lord to meet us. Lord, I pray that as we leave this place today, I pray that your blessing would be upon every household, every family, every individual, every past, present and future. Lord that we would walk in strength and grace as those who love God and are following his ways. Help us to be salt and light and Lord meet those who come forward for prayer today. Lord, we need you.  Would you meet us? Would you touch us? Would you heal us? Would you bring about miraculous breakthroughs that only you can bring? In Jesus' name we pray. Amen, amen.


Yn dweud, r murderswydd yn ei gynhyrchu ym Mwysfyrdd haf y llygaiddio'r ystyried yma. Gyd yn gynhyrchu! Rhyw flow. Cynhyrchu'r ym Mwysfyrdd? Fyn yn fan i'r gynhyrchu, ac mae'r brannu sarcodd. Mae'r gynhyrchu'r yeis ar gyfer обlygiad, ac mae femwys trying, mae'r gynhyrchu'r gyd yn cymryd o'r bod yn rhaglenio cyffredig yr adeiladau a'r adeiladau. Rydyn chi'n gyfentio, ger producing gylwg a'r adeiladau? Winter? Do you want your own lipstick range? Yeah! Not only that. She's bringing out a new range of lip glosses. And looking for someone to be the face of that. Who could that be? For, wait, me? Yeah.  Not only are we doing lip lines, Mandi wants us to be brand ambassadors. And I'll have to do posts that set times for eyelashes and brushes. I better set a lamb because I'm really bad at my time keeping. I'll probably be sacked in a week or two. Initially, we're talking three months, 10,000 pounds. Oh my God. OK. 10,000 pounds, that is amazing.  You mean them? Show you money? OK. All the big baby brands are there. Bugabooth, Baby R Us, Baby Beyond. It's just such a great opportunity for baby and Trent to actually make them up. This baby show is an incredible opportunity for baby on Trent. It's got 24,000 people here every day, along with some of the most established names in the industry. And the teacher will need to work really hard to stand out. Hi. You OK? Hi. I've asked Sean from the office to go, along with another of my existing clients, to help her out. Do you know what the circle is? Yes. Guys, did you bring a steamer? I said to Luke to bring a steamer. We're going to have Crease Claws. Went on to bring a toe. There's a steamer. There's a steamer. Sean, you're causing me stress. Everyone else at the show is all set up and they look proper professional. We, on the other hand, look like total amateurs. Luke has half his turn, OK, and we're sitting on the stall. Sean's steaming clothes. He hasn't brought me the price list. There's no stock here. We've got like six items up on the railings. It's just a shambles. Luke is ignoring me and I just feel really overwhelmed. On top of everything, I've got hardly any stock. Luke sent all the bigger sizes and I just feel disappointed, to be honest. I really wanted to use this baby show to show off the new range and it's just turning into a massive flop. It's just embarrassing. I've come to a baby show and I've got five-year-olds closing in. Six-year-olds.  This is just embarrassing. Not only were we late from the stall up, nobody's interested in the clothes. I'm just so worried that my products can't compete with these other brands. When I'm stressed, it could be really nice to get back to Wales. So I'm taking Winton and Ben back to my old stomping ground in Butalbert. When I was a reality TV star, I released a book called Wait for It. Valued. Oh, look at that. So mum used to live. At the end of the book, I said that I would love to have a baby with Ben and it happened, so it's really nice for them to come home with me. Can you see Nana? She's over there, look. Now that my life's changed so much, Luke seems to think it'd be a great idea to get some new chapters written in the book and the publishers have agreed that they may update in the future. So I'm meeting with Alyssa, the woman who helped me write the original book, so she can start working on some new material. What's the brand that you've come up with? Oh, so Baby on Trend is basically just like a children's clothing wear, because I thought like I need something secure that Winton could take on when she's older. She has literally changed my life for the better. Like she's my best friend, my everything. I'm a cry-in.  Come in home to Wales really puts things into perspective for me. Like I'm so proud of how far already I've come. Just a couple of years ago I was working in a fish shop. I was partying every weekend and I didn't care about anything. But now I've got this beautiful daughter and I no longer have a fish grease in my hair.