The first thing that you need to do in order to put yourself in a position of power is to choose, is to change your goal, right? A lot of women come to us and their goal is to get this guy. They're like, I need to get him, right? And you need to switch your goal from the guy that you want to the relationship that you want. Because the relationship, in my opinion, is far more important than the guy, right? A relationship where you're seen, where you're valued, where a man gives you the things that you want.  A committed relationship, a relationship where a guy says, I'm all in in this and I'm not leaving and you're amazing. And I think that you're one of the most amazing women that I've ever met in my life and I love you and I want to be committed to you for life, right? That's the situation that you should be in. And so some women decide that the man is more important. If that's your decision, that's fine. However, I think that you should put the relationship and having the relationship that you want above the man. So switch the goal. The second thing that you need to start doing is start dating other people. Start dating other men. And this is how you get abundance. And so it's one of the pillars. I'm going to be putting out a program here pretty soon in the next couple of weeks. A new program is going to be awesome. One of the pillars of that program is abundance, the abundance principle, abundance principle. And the abundance principle, it's something that you can't rationalize. It's something that you can't visualize. It's something that you have to experience. And the only way you can experience it is by actually having abundance in your life. And so you need to go and start dating other men and create an orbit of men around you who want to be in a relationship with you. That way, once you come back to this situation that you're in, you're not afraid of it blowing up or him disappearing or whatever because you have an abundance of men already. And I can't tell you how important this is. A lot of women in our community want to skip this step. They just want to focus on him and manipulate him into doing it. And I'm telling you, do the abundance approach. That's where your power comes from. The second step or the third step, I think we're on the third step here. The third thing that you want to do is stop sleeping with him, stop kissing him, and stop putting yourself in positions to do these things with him. And from now on, from now until the end of time, do not get into a sexual relationship with a man if you haven't talked about two things. The first thing being what he's looking for in a relationship because most guys will be honest and if they aren't looking for something long-term, they'll be confused, they'll tell you they don't know what they want, they'll tell you all kinds of stupid things, and so you don't end up hooking up with a guy like that. And the second thing that you want to talk about is exclusivity and being exclusive with him. And I talk about that in some of the other videos that I have, but you want to make sure that you have a conversation with him about exclusivity so that you don't end up getting into a situation where he's sleeping with other people while you're sleeping with him because of all kinds of different ramifications from diseases to him having the power in the situation because you didn't talk about it and so he's running around hooking up with other people and that's not what ultimately leads you to having the relationship that you really want. One of the things that I say a lot is friends with benefits is not a stage from meeting a guy to marriage. Most friends with benefits, they've done studies on casual relationships and they found that casual relationships one in three times only potentially have the ability to move to a serious relationship and so my suggestion is that you don't ever get into one of those situations ever again. Never be in that situation because it pulls your power down and you're giving him all these things but you're not getting what you really want in return. And so don't sleep around. Don't get into situations where you're in a friends with benefits relationship or casual relationship or whatever. Don't do that ever again. And then the last thing that you need to do is communicate with him because if you just pull back and stop doing all these things he's going to be like, what is she doing?  And so what you need to do is you need to let him know that you've decided that you don't want a casual relationship anymore and that means and that he means a lot to you. You need to tell him that he means a lot to you. You need to tell him that you really like him. You need to tell him that you have feelings for him and that you think he's a very special person in your life and that you'd love to have a real committed relationship with him. However, that you need to make sure that you're getting what you want as well and it's not fair to you to have you in a casual relationship with him. And so tell him what you'd like him to have and have those conversations about exclusivity and what he's looking for again and make sure that you don't sleep with him again unless he's willing to verbally confirm to you that he's looking for the type of relationship that you want and that he's going to be exclusive with you. And if he's not willing to do that, that's okay. That's why we talk about having the abundance thing in the first place.  You have an abundance of men. You're connecting with other men. You're meeting with other, dating other men and starting kind of these situations with other men so that you can occupy your time, so that you can connect with other guys, so that you can find a guy who does, who is willing to really give you what it is that you want because it's very possible that he's going to say, no, look, here's what we did, what we agreed to from the beginning. I just wanted to be in a casual relationship. I'm not ready for something real. There's a very good possibility that he might say that and there's a very good possibility that he might say that he doesn't want to lose you and that he wants to keep you in his life. And what ends up happening a lot of times is guys will end up saying, no, I just wanted a casual relationship and the woman says, fine, that's cool. I'm going to go see other people and I don't want to continue this anymore and then the guy ends up coming back and being like, okay, you know, like I really miss you and I really want to have you in my life and I'm willing to give you what you want. And you don't want to be in a situation where he doesn't say that and you absolutely have to be willing to walk away. The most powerful position that you can possibly be in is a position of abundance and a position where you're willing to walk away and if you do those things and you're serious about it and you're not just bluffing, you're not just giving him some kind of ultimatum and then stay with him regardless, that's a position of power and you're far more likely to get what you want than if you end up just faking it or trying to force it or whatever other kind of crappy tactics are out there that women use these days. So remember, don't force it. Put yourself in a position of power. The best position of power is a position where you have abundance and a willingness to walk away.


The thing almost has a mind of its own. As for the motorcycle moment, it overstays its welcome, but thankfully Vin Diesel doesn't show up halfway through with double guns riding a jet ski. That would have been absurd. All right, let's move this on. Set phasers to done. Clon, bring up conclusion. Clon, Clon, Clon! But it's also very generic, very run of the mill, very much like this show. They do what they wanna do, say what they wanna say, live how they wanna live, play how they wanna play, dance how they wanna dance, kick in to slap a friend, Adam's family. What? That's the lyrics? Kick in to slap a friend?  I'm leaving today. Aurora is not typically talked about when comparing hottest Disney princesses, but I think that's insulting. She's a beauty if you ask me. A sleeping beauty. Thank you. Good night, everyone. Let's move on to the final round. Wow, great transition, Adam.  Plus victory, fate's out. Lex did a great job labeling those folders though. I'll give him that much. Nice sheen to him, nice polish. Everybody had their own little icon. Everything was in place. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. I just got this new set. They're screwing it all up, tap, stop them, tap! The big standout for everyone I talked to, which was basically just my mom. The seaweed is always greener in somebody else's lake.  I guess someone forgot to tell Ariel that or she wasn't paying attention when Sebastian busted out that beautiful number because she had no problem trading her soul to an evil sea witch for a pair of nice legs. Oh, you need to attract a good-looking human you met for all the five seconds. I have an idea. Go seek out the sketchiest, scariest-looking mirwitch you can find and give her your voice for some flimsy promise. Ursula could have given her giant mammoth legs for all she knew. Elephantitis, what was stopping her? She's a sketchy individual. Ariel may be deep in the ocean, but man is she shallow. Then there's Batman, the world's greatest detective who didn't know that Superman had a mother? He didn't bother doing any background research on this guy at all. Figure out that he's Clark Kent. He can't figure out that this mammoth of a man puts on glasses and works at the Daily Planet. Are you kidding me? I can figure that out. I see that guy in the streets. I'm like, that's Superman. Will Ferrell brings the funniest and evil billionaire dictator named Donald Trump. I mean, President Business. Trigger warning! He just got triggered. According to the Joker himself, gets a toned down voice this time by Zach Elf and Nekendicka. And this film has a star-studded cast. I'm so nerdy. It's open. I'm such a nerd. Honey, where are my pants? All right, it's time to wrap this up. I got 12 more videos to post today. This is more than just reviews. This is Movie Feuds. This is Khaleesi Grimes, 1982. Signing out. How hypocritical can you be, Preston Packard?  No, you lost that privilege long ago when you lost my respect.  Who am I talking to? Even as a fictional character. Let's move on. Reboot film, full of reboot people, waking up to say. I think it's gonna be the- Stop, stop everything, Adam. There is a war coming if you continue this feud. A rift will take place between those that prefer the original cast to the new toddler version.   You haven't aged a day. You're still wearing the same clothes and have the same crappy hairstyle, as a matter of fact. Almost like this show has no budget. We don't have time for banter. You must put an end to this madness before it's too late. X2 or Days of Future Past is gonna win anyway, so who cares? I'm not worried. No, you have it all wrong. X-Men Origins Wolverine wins. Bebop and Rocksteady stole the show and Crang was off the chain or hook if you must. Casey Jones, however, left a lot to be desired. Y'all low? Anybody home in there? This is not what this guy's good at. He's known for playing a hard-ass vigilante and other things, just use him at what he does best. Nothing screams America more than a song being sung by Canadian. Biggest question here today though is what happens to a toad that is struck by lightning? The same thing that happens to everything else. I'm doing that. More than just reviews. This is Movie Feuds. Honestly, you are just a specimen. No, I know. I'm breathtaking. The Ecto One, the Proton Packs, Slimer, the Staypuff Marshmallow Man, crossing the streams and one big Twinkie still get referenced today. Now we jump to the dickless cast of 2016. It's true, these women have no dicks. They look so fake and that says a lot coming from costumed people. Their mouths never sink to their voices. Splinter didn't even have legs. He looked like he should have been on Sesame Street. La, la, la, la, la, la, la, Splinter's world. If you thought that was a tacky joke, bite me. On a related note, the voice of Splinter also was the voice of Elmo, so that was a topical joke and you can talk to the hand. She decides that being dropped off by a complete stranger, she tells not to return to pick her up even though she has no idea how she's gonna get home. In a remote location, she doesn't even know the name of, amongst a few sketchy individuals, is a nice day at the beach. The film also weaves in Robin's tragic backstory about how he loses his parents the same way most of us will, in a freak circus accident. And remember, this is more than what the hell is going on Future Adam or Fatum for short, wearing the same outfit I am from the future.  I warned you that X-Men Origins Wolverine was gonna win on that X-Men feud and you did it anyway. This cannot continue to go on. We cannot allow Origins to go any further. Stop the comic bracket. And side note, you missed a ton of 80s and 90s slang terms. Don't have a cowman, bodacious, righteous, tubular, cowabunga, you didn't even say the main line from all the Turtles movies. You had one job. I could look at your pretty face all day long but we need to finish this episode. Shall we outro together? More than just reviews. This is Movie Feuds. The red capes are coming. Look to the left and the red capes are coming. Look to the right and the red capes are coming. Everybody gets a red cape now. Everybody gets a red cape now. Red capes are coming. He may still be Santa but he lacks any real presence. Thank you. Speaking of killer soundtrack, Suicide Squad has probably 80 songs in its movie. That's at a minimum. There's a little something for everyone. The music in Catwoman matches the quality of the film. Let me pair it with a fine set of dance moves from some other famous people that made themselves look like idiots. Woo! Fist away to the North Pole. This is me whisking. Can we talk about the elephant in the room? Mina, voiced by Tori Kelly, is my least favorite cliche. He may have the qualifications to run a theater but he's short on dough. As always, the celebrity voices are out in full force. Superman 4 is considered by many to be the worst of the franchise and that's understandable.   Nuclear Man makes his big screen debut. He's a killer queen with razor sharp claws and a flash dance-esque leotard. Watch out fellas, kitty can scratch. Anyway- That's because I have done this episode before, Adam. Future Adam again. Yeah. I'm actually past Adam. Oh, okay. I never really understood past Adam. How does that even work? How would you know about anything going on in the future? You know what, it doesn't matter. What do you want? Here's the deal. You covered the fantastic four films.  There's no reason to redo them. So let's do the glorified clip show and move past this one. That sounds good to me. Okay, let's phone this one in. Oh, we're starting. We're doing the things. Citizen Kane, Jaws, The Godfather, The Shawshank Redemption, X-Men Origins, Wolverine and Suicide Squad, all timeless classic works of art.  Not the people that voted in this comic book movie bracket featuring almost 100 contenders. All these great characters and moments is quite impressive. If I had to pick one personally, it'd be that Guardians. However, if you pick any of these four, I couldn't really argue with you. Which is crazy, because this is a show called Movie Feud, so you'd think they're the viewers. Come on! They told you this was gonna happen if you did another comic book episode and here we are. And there's more of me again. When did this happen? Don't worry about it. It's on like Jaws We Don. Just came up with that. Let's fight poop base. Whatever!  Wolverine Origins will not win. It was a joke. My fans won't let it go any longer. You failed them, Adam. You were the chosen one! I'm sorry, wait. Did you just quote a line from the shitty Star Wars prequel? I know, in the future it's one of the most critically acclaimed movies of all time. I'm just gonna go. No wonder this channel doesn't have more subscribers. No! More than just reviews, this is Movie Feuds.