Make sure the camera I was supposed to get on here at 9 p.m. But then had a phone call as I was going through my email had a phone call and so Just got free but want to pop on We come into the summertime so while I'm home With my boy schedule being a little different getting a little closer I'll be able to do more lives and so I'm making up for to the blessed tribe because I Was supposed to be going once a week But sometimes I don't get to go once a week. So I figure I'll do as Many as I can when I can and I'm gonna I'm also be doing these lives in the summertime at different times because sometimes because what I realized When I am on here at 10 p.m. 9 p.m The people in London is middle of the morning So I'm gonna have to you know do something at noon and come on at different times Keesa God bless you. How do you stop beating yourself up so much to be honest with you? That's a That's a lifelong battle That's a lifelong battle, you know, I've heard it said that 80% of our self-talk is Negative so as long as you got a brain you don't have to deal with negative self-talk So one of the things that I do is I try to find like little key phrases like a sentence like I am enough I will win Money is coming blessings is coming opportunity is coming. I try to find little key phrases so that When I'm beating myself up I could just I could hit myself with one of those affirmations so sit down and write out some affirmations on a three by five card or Something put that in your wallet keep that with you read it in the morning read it at lunch read it at night and Until it gets in your spirit.  What do you think about childhood friends becoming a couple? He knows everything about about me friends since sixth grade and we're 33 years old now Um, I have not seen it work I think a lot of men do that out of boredom a lot of men do that because you the one that got away and they Know you getting older. They know a little desperation may be kicking in so they know they can get you on your back rather quickly and Um But I have not seen it work to where you you know each other as kids and then you get together later And it works. I hear about it all the time But it typically and I think the letter today was about that. I think it typically is about um It typically turned out terrible, but You know, God bless you undrilled God bless you now somebody say When trying to set boundaries with my child's father Is it hard to not allow him to come over to see our son, but instead require him to pick him up? No, that's not harsh. You want to have that boundary.  It's a man in there.  So She gonna meet me at the door With my son and his sleeping bag, you know His night stuff his overnight stuff and I'm picking him up from the door or she gonna walk him all the way out to the Car and so setting them boundaries. That's not harsh at all. Ain't nothing harsh about having boundaries Nothing harsh about having boundaries. You need to have boundaries Make sure you put hashtag Q in front of your question so I could easily identify and Now this is not a premiere. This is alive. So on the premiere y'all could just chat chat chat chat chat chat This right here is a Q&A. So Only put questions in the chat only put questions in the chat, you know A little side conversation and all that hold that on these just only put questions I know y'all be ready to you know, get them thumbs to working, but hold that on these Faterica bless you should the 72 hour rule be used on a man who gets physical The 72,000 hour rule if a man get physical that need to be the last time he get physical with you Listen, you can't play with your life now. You can't play enough physical You can't play with your life and that's what sometimes people say. Oh verbal is just as worse. Just as bad That's what you say But it's actually not yes, it's gonna break you down slowly.  But when it's physical That take your life instantly that verbal is a slow.  Oh got to go. All right. Get to your purse. Okay All right, man. Nice knowing you and I'll and while I'm on the way out Calling 911 Yes, can you get over here one two three main street? Thank you very much. All right. See you. All right her up Just like that right there. You can't play with them. Mm-hmm. I'm trying to tell you now I'm trying to tell you now don't play with it None of my relationships have lasted more than two months. Why is there no longevity? So she's gonna need coaching for that.  Is this a Well, see, I don't know what gaslight nails because I didn't I didn't create that term and so when when come to terminology Sometimes it only means something really to the author and so me personally. I Really don't know it. I didn't know what that means. So I try not to speak on other people terms and But I'm gonna tell you what now It what it is it's childish Immature and disrespectful. That's one thing. I know that it is it's childish immature Oh, my light of them broke. Oh I don't burn it counts around. I have my counter burning and forgot it was burning yesterday.   It's just so low I'm out of line doing that. Why did he friend me then get Then get any to learn I was dating again and asked me to not contact him anymore Then get any to learn Why did he friend Yes, let's type that again sister type that again Tony I have an ex who I haven't spoke to since 2014 He wished me happy birthday last night through facebook messenger. He is newly engaged. Why Would he reach out to me? He probably seen all your birthday wishes on there And he also want to just strike that soul tie back up just like that match one more time And um What you shouldn't respond Stephanie God bless you. God bless you now Okay So I see what sister meant Then get angry to learn I was dating again And ask me not to contact him anymore. I'm not sure on that one. I'm not sure on that one Jenae God bless you now should I jump right back into a relationship after a month Breakup or should there be a waiting period? Um After a month break up I'm not really sure exactly what you mean by your question because I'm not sure if you're saying you and him broke up for a month Or if you're saying you was in a relationship with a man and and you've been single for a month And now you wonder should you get into a new relationship? The question is can Can you love as if you've never been hurt?  Thanks Uh shan and god bless you Well, if you're already dating her and you're already in there and she feel like a a wife then You got to ask yourself. Is this my call? Like is this my calling? am I the man who can be Understanding compassionate gentle and generous enough to love this woman so if if She is tugging on your heart her spirit is tugging on your heart and you feel A conviction about being, you know About walking away from it like you feel bad about that And you feel like you are being drawn pulled to her And that she is the one you're supposed to be with and be there for then Pray for the strength pray for the clarity the wisdom and just Tell yourself like this is my calling. I am an empath I am a catalyst. I am a confidant A support system and just if you see it as purpose It'll give you the strength to do it And and that happens to us sometimes Uh zeno god bless you. How can I extract the best from my guy? The best in order to get the best out of anybody is to not settle for less So if he is being his worst or he's being less And you accept that and you settle for that and you are okay with that Then he will never grow and be better But if you say ah, don't talk to me like that.  Can you have a soul tie with someone you've never had anything physical with? Um, yes, you can but again somebody else came up with definition of soul tie So who whoever wrote it it could be something different But what I consider a soul tie is a emotional connection Like a spiritual bond an emotional bond and that is formed through interaction or communication You know any type of communication or interaction So you don't have to sleep together to have that now if you sleep together outside of marriage then that could turn into a toxic and twisted bond If you ain't had nothing physical It still could be toxic and toxic and twisted, but It's not physical It's just emotional. And so yes, that is very and then what but whether you call it a soul tie or not that just semantics um God bless you If a man I am dating always stares at other women in public should I address it if so how yeah, you ought to address it um and in person I wouldn't make a huge deal about it But you ought to address it though because it's disrespectful And he may not notice it or he may notice it and not care So yes, you ought to address it and now remember in a time of peace you prepare for So in a time of peace you prepare for So it could be something when you get in the car and say hey, you know I notice when we walking around you do a lot of staring at women Like can you explain that like why is that and I'm gonna tell you as a man It is as a man. I could take now It's kind of up in the air one woman who is muslim told me On the comments. She have no trouble with looking at men. She have no desire to look upon a man And if she might barely could see if she just got that little slit on her eyes and that Thing that came down too far or come up too high because she's a lot. She a traditional muslim So she might barely could see out of there now If that's not the case and she just have practice Not looking upon men who she think is handsome But I'm gonna tell you one thing I noticed now I don't know if it's because people recognize me Because I do notice almost everywhere I go somebody recognize me So it could be that but when I'm walking through places Women be looking me dead in my face.  I thought women supposed to be modest and I got to turn my head first I'm like Man, how long you gonna stare at me now Because then I'll be watching because you got to remember marlin the king got stabbed by a woman not a man You know, now, of course, there's a man that took it like God rest his soul And you know, God doesn't help us a lot But the man took it like but a woman stabbed him in the chest So I'd be watching my surrounding because I don't never know what's coming And sometimes I'll see a woman and she'd be looking at me like I'm lunch me And she in the middle of the jungle and ain't eight in a week and I'm like, wow So so but now as a man, I do notice That it is a natural instinct To look to look around and notice the now I notice everything But if some look Good in a way that your mind has been conditioned that this good looking you got to catch yourself You got to check yourself. It ain't just no natural thing to where you just Walk around, you know, and can't see nothing you recognize stuff And some women have been honest and say look, I recognize handsome man. That's human nature So And I have one homeboy who is a faithful man He's a faithful man.  I'm not finna torture myself like that. He's like ain't nothing wrong with looking You ain't touching that's human And so that's his take on it and guess what I feel like that's 99% of men take on it and now with e-men sitting in here with stuff spent on their desk Doing they talking It's gonna be hard for you to convince a man that he wrong for Looking at him a piece of booty It's gonna be hard today If there was a lot more men accepting responsibility and talking and saying that it's wrong, it'll be easier But with what's out here today These men gonna be like what if you don't shut up?  So god bless on that, but I definitely would bring it up Britain god bless you now dating a man that lives with mom slash family six people total Says it works better because of past break-ins. I feel away about it. He's 37 Slash 31 both no kids slash married And I don't know how you're using these slashes because I don't know if that means no kids never married or that means no kids but y'all was married And I'm guessing you saying he 37 you 31 So forgive me if I'm interpreting misinterpreting them slashes, but now Now where do he live at? Because he's staying with you know a tribe talking about because the past break-in what he on old block 64 63rd or whatever the rapper be hollering about where they from So it's like where do he live at? Like is this safe? It's like do you want to get is you're gonna get caught in a drive by get hit in the leg through the door hanging with him So that's first and foremost To hit his butt line because you can put bars on your window. You can put alarm on your house Now if the six of them came to four bars on the window or alarm on the house And let's say it's other issues going on So for one he lying and so this is the thing you have to look at the maturity continuum dependent independent Interdependent If a man living with somebody living off of somebody he's still a dependent So if you is of age if you are of age and you are ready to start dating with a purpose for marriage Then y'all need to be independent able to pay your own Shelter pay for your own transportation pay for your own clothes food and the like if y'all is dependence Y'all don't need to be dating At all y'all need to be focusing on your grind and getting your life in order Now if you live with somebody by choice and you can afford to live on your own that's different Ty God bless you God bless you in family time. I appreciate you. All you doing.  No Lorenzo Blessing. Is it okay for a man to be in a relationship and have female friends? Some of which he claims are more like sisters because he has known them for years No, it's not okay, but it depends on what type of relationship y'all in how long y'all been in that relationship So if you brand new, uh, a man not finna cut off his friends for you Uh catalyst god bless you now catalyst cobert Charlesy god bless you So that's the thing it depends on you when you brand new A man typically ain't gonna cut off his friends for you now So the thing is when it comes when it comes to friends, it should naturally be An organic separation destiny separates them the closer y'all get So if y'all getting closer and y'all a serious item and he's still talking to them friends A lot as much as he talked to you or more than he talked to you That's a sign that he in love with them friends or one of them friends and keeping them close until it's his turn to pounce Because men really are not genuine platonic friends with a woman if a man is heterosexual He's typically it's very very very very very very very rare For a heterosexual man to be a platonic friend with a woman That he can be attracted to Now if she is the complete absolute complete opposite of his attraction Then it gives some what of a possibility But as long as she got something between her legs is still not all the way foolproof I have finished the life coaching course should I sign up for a coaching session with a coach before signing up for my mentor You don't have to but yes, you could use and if you you know, it would not hurt you. I would recommend it um Even if it's one of the 25 dollar hour coaches Just to kind of see how other people run their session If you can afford a hundred dollars then I would do four sessions with four different coaches At 25 an hour to see what you like and what you don't like of course You're not telling them what you're just seeing how they run your session and bring a real problem now, you know bring a real Problem that you working on if it's about building your brand as a coach then Click on the filter and select a business coach or a branding coach or a career transition coach, but coaching Can never hurt you because you're gonna learn or something even if it's what not to do and say What do you think about looking for a woman that will help you in your purpose? You think about looking for a woman that will help you in your purpose Um to be honest with you. That's any woman That's any woman. That's the nature of a woman.  She's a Nurturer by nature. That's why her body produces Milk to feed human life. That's why her body can carry human life and Bring life into the world. She's a nurturer by nature. So to be honest with you Any woman you meet If she checks off the other boxes with her character And her personality her belief system her standards, then She she'll help you in your purpose. Would you suggest speed dating?  You might get lucky and meet somebody at the speed dating that you Actually like so it wouldn't hurt you now The key is to make sure Ted Bundy nephew ain't in there And when you get in that car to go home To be looking in that rearview mirror and when you get back to your house The circle on around the block a couple times to make sure ain't nobody followed you home And hit that block a couple times a few times and make sure ain't nobody right behind you That's the key with that right now that speed dating But it ain't gonna hurt you and it's better than online dating because at least you get to see this man You get to count his teeth. You get to see that. He's a man You get this you get to hear how he talked you get the smell is cologne You get to see how he dressed. Look at them shoes. Look at them fingernails You get to kind of analyze them read his energy, which you cannot do when you online dating So I I would rather People speed date than online date Greatest love. God bless you. Hi Tony being that there are majority grown boys out here today And uh genuine men who honors women and ultimately want marriage or slim to none. What is a good woman to do? Well, the thing about it is you have to get You got to understand perception Because a lot of women who say they're a good woman actually is not a good woman Because they don't understand what a good woman is to a man And so you could be a good woman to yourself But you're not marrying yourself So men and women today have to understand perception and understand what the Person that they're trying to attract what that person or those type of people are looking for because You know, I talked to a lot of women who say, oh, I'm a good catch.  Like you could be an amazing person, but that don't mean that you relationship ready You could be an amazing person by yourself But that don't mean that you ready to go from independent to interdependent And so typically when you're not attracting anything good It's typically a couple tweaks that need to be made Because the cream rise to the top So when you become the cream of the crop Then you're gonna rise to the top and you're gonna start to attract people on your level But it might be one little tweak that need to be made and that might be getting out the house more that might be You know Switching up how you portraying your how you're presenting yourself that might be where you're going So always get you some feedback You know outside looking in Is it a red flag if it Is it a red flag if a man is a fan of alpha man on internet? For one don't be putting nobody else's name on my channel Because everybody don't know who you're talking about for one and then two That's a lot of these men that call themselves alpha men is actually What would really be a beta man? because A alpha man is never going to put a woman down It's never going to demean and belittle A woman a alpha man a real man will never do that He will speak to a woman the truth in love to Share his perspective, but to build her up in the process and create a Dialogue that is healthy and a two-way street That's what a real man gonna do So when you must see the thing is is Is a lot of these men that's out here today that's claiming to be this or that They like, you know, they soothing the sore ears For these grown boys that's out here because These grown boys essentially what the message is is women need to Know their place and get in line And shut up so you could get a man That's what these a lot of these men out here telling these men They telling the men that data prize That they got all the options that they got the upper hand And that women need to be eaten out of their hand kissing they behind and so When men come in and saying that that make A grown boy feel great it make them feel amazing because All this all the messages really the way it's being understood and the way it's being translated is The woman need to work for the man's approval and seek the man's approval and that the man is Quote unquote high value and the woman is low value And if she don't look a certain way or make a certain amount of money or do this and that then She need to Shut up and be happy with whatever a man gonna give her That's the underline message Korean god bless her coach and tasha bless her Christine god bless her Taneetra bless you You you you lia Bless you You lia I don't know who I don't know that was the message that was To leave it I hold the thing too long And if y'all notice I talk about everything but I don't speak names so don't don't speak nobody name I don't speak names because Whenever you speak somebody name that make them feel like they invited into a conversation And um and a lot of these people they get beside themselves You know sometimes I'm just really not the one to get beside yourself with So that's why I don't speak names I talk on everything that I need to talk on now, but if I don't say your name You didn't get called and don't come for me Because I handle things a little differently Ariana god bless her how to get guys attention after being Short with him via text Didn't realize how much he was trying to get to know me till now missed opportunity Yeah, you didn't miss the opportunity now sis. You you know how to communicate That mean you're not ready for a relationship That mean you got to keep you know working on your interpersonal skills and working on your mindset Because it ain't easy to take it's not hard to text So if you was being short in the text that probably was something intentional subconsciously intentional Which is oxymoron, but there was subconsciously intentional because You might was trying to play your little game You might have trying to play your little game trying to be hard to get and then He gone by this business and now you feel nine you didn't play it yourself. It's too late now You don't ever want to run a man off then try to beg him back Go on about your business That's it's a lost opportunity just do better with the next man You're gonna meet because if you meet one man that mean you can meet two men So just keep going about your business because if he was the man for you He wouldn't let you being short in the text run you off He would have called you on the phone. He would have got on FaceTime So if you being short on the text run him off, that's not your husband anyways, so don't try to call him back Okay, this right here Bg 18 month relationship he speaks of marriage In two years He speaks of marriage in two years kids good character feels less than because my standards Encourage and uplift of or just go um If if he is less than your standards, then you need to go anyways He's like what you wasting your time for If he ain't who you want as a man, you know going about your business Going about your business And an insecure man is a dangerous man So a man who don't feel like he worried of you you shouldn't be with him anyways because he insecure and eventually he's gonna end up Flipping that on you.  I was a criminology major What's your Miranda right? Anything you say can and will Be used against you in the court of law In a relationship anything you say can and will be used against you in the court of law So don't tell nothing That ain't nobody business. That ain't none of his business.  Hey tony similar to last question guy I'm dating 33 often talking tell stories about women who've thrown themselves at him Or want to sleep with him or have tried him when Out with his friends address how to feel it's really um When we do that as men it's really because we insecure And we want the woman that we telling that to to want us more to desire us more To kind of you know, like we want to feel good It's like we really kind of feel ugly in a certain way and we want to We're trying to convince ourselves that we still got it And so when a man doing that it's it's really harmless Don't sweat him and don't chase him and don't throw yourself on him Just because he's doing that but you kind of just it's it's really insecurity So honestly if you like what she did that? Oh my goodness. That's nasty. Why she's acting like that. Oh, what what the world? Oh my good these women today.  Well, you got it fine.  It's gonna flip it on him because see he insecure and that's why he's sharing those meaningless stories and So but what it is is It's it's really when somebody don't feel like they all the way on your level and we we do that, you know I do that and my wife sometimes Somebody right me and look like they trying to flirt. Hey, baby. Look at it right now But I already told her what that mean and then so she flipped it back home And she said what did you say about somebody who always showing you who trying to holla at them? I said, yeah, you're right. She used to do that to me when we started dating and I was talking to my dad I said why I say, you know, my girlfriend always telling me like, oh, this guy tried to holla at me And he said listen here. He said my daddy told me a long time ago. He said listen She ain't gonna tell you about the man that she won't When he tried to talk to her so tell her don't bring you nothing else So I went right to my wife.  I don't care When since I said that my wife has never ever Juved my girlfriend in and we use a couple months in She's never ever told me nothing about no man trying to holla at her and then to the contrary when I ask her So don't know me and try to holla at you don't nobody try to no at never Ever these men don't try to talk to me because I'm about my business. You see I walk right past you in the mall I don't even notice you in the mall and she is like that. She got tunnel vision We'll split up in the mall and then we coming back together and I'm I'm Walking right towards her. I got to really bump into her for her to see me She'll walk right past me And so that let me know like she really don't be looking around checking and she don't give off the energy that says You can approach me. So see it's like you got to know your person too Because this is the thing if he telling you that Then that mean he kind of open and transparent and his insecurity kind of get the best of him when you when he is Good looking to you and he never mentioned somebody trying to holla at him That could mean he trying to Hire some stuff. So it just you know, it's not one size fits all Jack of God bless you. Should you tell your new boyfriend or three months what your credit score is? I have good credit. He has been married before but she died eight years ago. I never been married but look in the mirror Uh Here's the thing you could tell him as long as you know that you have the strength not to use your credit on him As long as you know, you're not going to let him benefit from your credit And if he asks you what your credit score is That's the only time you should even consider telling him But before telling him you need to make sure he can show you his credit score And so listen, I don't show nobody nothing that they don't show me. So let me see your credit score Let me see your credit score first And so, you know, that's if he asked But sometimes a man want to know that if he a grown boy Which you don't know if he a grown boy because it's only three months in Sometimes a man want to know that to see if he can steal your identity There's a lot of scam artists out here now They've been living all off your credit. Get close until you get that Social security numb Man have business loans and lines of credit trade lines everything in your name And be gone with the wind Unless it got there's a hate Tony. I broke up with my ex kicked him out changed my number and location block via phone Social media even cash out now. He's repeatedly emailing me. Should I file an order or protect? Now if it just email And it ain't bothering you. It's not gonna make you reach out to him.   Thank you.  Yeah, you ain't spoke to him now.   Hey, Tony been dating a guy for seven months We was going out a lot first four months now He stayed in the house on his video games try to invite him out But he say he's saving money any thoughts Mm-hmm. Yeah He don't lie. He don't lie. He don't lie.  So it's like He's making excuses and and uh, somebody already making excuses seven months in got to go Got to go got to go Gone by the business I feel like I met the one he's very attentive to my needs cares about my feelings makes me feel important In my opinion matters. He's 39 on business. He's consistent advice.  Just dig a little deeper Do a little googling do a little facebooking Just check things out now because he could be the one or he could be looking for a rebound because his heart hurting from his girlfriend And he wants somebody he could showcase on facebook to make his ex jealous Okay, could have it been but it been to getting ready to go down And he needs some he needed a little ppp You said I mean so it's other stuff that could be going on So you just got to see if he's gonna stand and test the time Don't get too excited because see what a man does is Like y'all term y'all like to use love bombing A man of bombard you with all this Representative with this perfectness to get you to drop your guard And now your guard posted me up and now you go to dropping that guard And you dropping that guard dropping that guard dropping that guard before you know it You got something in your mouth Boy, you know it.   He didn't got the prize. He didn't want to race knife and get on his video game I ain't got to work for you. No most I worked for you the first four months But now you didn't came off them good grocery. No, I'm on this video game You see what I'm saying? They did a man who within six weeks wanted me To give up my career move to another state with him and let him support us while I discovered myself. I let him go thoughts Oh, you did the right thing. You did the right thing. I mean, that's how you feel You probably could tell that would tell it but So you did the right thing did the right thing all about the business All about the business Hello, Tony will Queen Sheree bless us with her presence again and drop some gems for the ladies love for nyc No, I hope so now she asked me she asked me she ain't um You know, she she ain't pressed for it and one thing I don't do is I don't I don't press her You see what I mean? Because everything and everybody calling And a lot of couples they try to do couple stuff together because it sells But for me, I ain't worrying about trying to sell nobody. You see what I mean? So I don't You don't never want to put somebody in a light that They weren't meant to be in you know, they don't feel called to So for me, I'm hands off with that when she ready You know, she wrote the book with us for she wrote the book, you know with melwama's influence, but That about all I could get now if I ask her to do it she'll do it but She got a mouth. You know, she got a boy. She's strong You know, so if she want to do something she'll tell me so and she see me doing this and she won't ever say You want me to come on there with you Or should I do something for the ladies? She won't never have she she So she feel comfortable. So I let her do her But you know one of these days and the time that she came on there with me it really was In all honesty it was to promote the book. It was kind of almost like a Publishing type You know obligation like you wrote a book you got a show face to promote it But she didn't want to write the book She didn't want to write the book that was our publisher asks my publisher asks Can my second book in my two book deal be with my wife? And so she was like No, but then she she was like, okay And so that's why she did it but she really just she behind the scenes She comfortable behind the scenes because her focus is our sons and also she is she a different type like my wife she cool calm and collected but She she really ain't built for the online stuff and sometimes people come out their mouth sideways and Y'all think I'll be ready to put a hit on somebody my wife would really be about that action And so she'll be trying to find somebody to address and it and a thing could be a bot And so that's why I only put that stress on her because my son's mental health Well-being is more important and when you come into that line like It's a lot get put on you y'all see how they do You know these men's wife if they don't like their outfit if they don't like their body if they don't like their hairstyle People are coming to comments and just ripping new one and I'll be out here like Liam Neeson You hear me on her own for real for real. I'll be out here like Liam Neeson I will find you Because that's one thing right now.  Oh come on out there.  They think in money Me her well-being her mental health That means more to me Got your coaching and health Came through my own self-sabotage of mindset. It's life What's your number one challenge coaching? Women who are still limited in their thinking Um that right there, it's just the challenge in itself, you know, just you know coaching them and understanding that A coat as a coach you can't Make anybody do anything like understanding that your job Is really just to ask questions You ask questions When they say something that doesn't make sense and You know doesn't add up you asked them another question to get them to see it from another angle And then when they say something that you know, it really makes sense and you know, that's the answer Then you affirm them in that and you give them confirmation on that answer And then when they say something that don't make sense and you could tell they limited in their thinking Instead of telling them they're limited in their thinking you just ask them another question And then they kind of end up coaching themselves Is it normal for a man to want to take it slow in the beginning stages of dating? Uh, no, it's not normal It's not normal. That's only normal when he don't When he doesn't feel you're the one But he just need company. He need company.   That's how they do And that's how a man will be in dating you'll be like Can I get a moment my goodness every time look at my phone you on my phone like if it ain't a phone call It's a FaceTime. It's a text message. Like my good and brother is everything. Okay Like I got a job That's how a man gonna be when he wants you when a man hollering by. Oh, let's just take it slow. He don't want you He don't want you or he playing mind games Why does a guy flake on a date makes excuses? He don't want you All right. Now that's my next shirt. He don't want you For me to have sitting up in here in the office and not even selling them I'm gonna put these shirts that I be when I'm gonna put them I'm gonna make them available for sale here soon. But I just I just ain't had the energy I ain't had the energy because I don't ride here all this is Weighing on the scale and putting it in the package and all of it right here I'm like, man. I'm an intern again. I've never been an intern, but I'm like, I feel like an intern And then I know I got some offers for people to run it for me. But I just I struggle with trust in humans And and I also know where I'm at right now and I'm just not in the place in the position to be tried And if I get tried You know things to get ugly and I just don't want to go through that right now Veronica God bless you now. You attracted your message So I don't know if you can see that Earth angel God bless you. Hi, Tony. This is a thank you daughter's toxic dad still not leaving me alone after he Got his toxic ex pregnant working with my mentor to best handle this situation after seven years Now 27 I'm done. God bless you now.  Hi, Tony. I work in a male dominant workplace. I have a strong feeling my boss likes me But I don't see him that way.  So you very stiff You very cordial you very direct You very solemn faced stoic You're not all personable and all La la la la because man over read stuff Men read too deep in the stuff.   He's persistent after a year. What do you think? He has issues 55 are you trying to turn it there? See you a goal.   I'ma tell you getting weak You're getting weak, but you got to get strong right now tonight.  So listen Um Moderators god bless you y'all could y'all could start working now to the moderators that's helping me out y'all could start working now Y'all ain't got to monitor the chat because I'm getting ready to get off. So I thank y'all so much Shout out to the moderators who help, you know keep this thing clear for me so I could see the questions Camel and god bless you. I know I probably missed somebody message god bless you But listen when I tell y'all, you know, it's a free Q&A So don't don't send a message With a dollar attached to it for to get a question asked Because I might miss that So now if you send that send that as you saying, hey, I'm supporting this channel And if you can if you see this answer this message, but don't you know do it just for that because it's a free Q&A Um martini god bless you. Okay That's your mama listening to remin martin And she's like well, I can't do remin martin because that took so let me do martini. God bless you. No, that's a cute name Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for one month. He smoked marijuana. I told him I don't want him Doing that. I'm celibate by the way He seems to not have a plan on how he will stop smoking. He claims I'm the one should I just leave y'all going about spending Y'all going about spending one money and you ain't got a chance of beating somebody addiction Don't go on about your business. You ain't got a chance of beating somebody addiction Bejones. I'm finna go to bed. So you might look on the bed. All right Well, you scroll back to the beginning of this, but I just were coming on here for an hour now Uh, hi Tony. I'm dating a guy who was 50. He seems interested but I always want to discuss the mixtile Me and going their own way movement. Should I stick it out or leave leave immediately immediately? I'm gonna tell you and man, come to you talking about a mixtile a red pill yellow pill blue pill high value man Uh, alpha male strategies and man talking about that when you look at the common denominator between all the messages It is about putting Your foot on the neck of a woman It is not about empowerment. It is not about teamwork. It is not about lifting each other up It is about control It is about control. It is about manipulation. It's about using a woman To get what you want from her using her for her body Using her for her credit school Using her for her money and treating her like an option and making her work for you And all of those things are ran by butthurt men Those are butthurt men who call themselves alpha men, but they actually beta males But they call themselves alpha men, but they are butthurt men Who have gotten dogged out and mistreated by women That was out of their league And they tried to get the woman and not a woman Did them wrong and now they won't revenge on all the woman kind The other part of it is men who did a woman wrong And then she held him accountable And she stuck it to him And when he got a taste of his own medicine it now by killing and now he angry and he won't it's revenge Other lambs that's what all them these movements of these men is revenge of the lambs It's revenge of the butthurt men Who can't accept the consequences of the actions that they did in their relationship Or they got hurt by a savage woman and now they want to make every other woman after that pay And in the short and skinny of it that's just what it is and real recognize real and ain't now one I'm gonna look near my face and tell them I'm lying because I done every single thing That they could imagine doing to a woman and with a woman And so I know the game inside not outside and down front and backwards Like my shoe size and and I could tell A fate when I see a fate I could tell a lane when I see a lane Because a real man don't want nothing with don't want no parts of Controlling a woman using a woman Telling a woman What to do and how to do it and stealing a woman voice a real man I want to do that because he doesn't derive his strength from there A real man understand that his strength is his gentleness Hey y'all don't say no more question now. Let me touch on this here His strength is his gentleness and he understand that Don't say no more question. Let me answer this last one fit him on my son's father Seeing him for the first time in five years over the weekend cried Hug spent the day and said he wants to see him more But it's not responding to my son's call the text says he busy. All right. Let him be Let him be gone about the business Let him be gone about the business Now y'all hold on now y'all hold on because I'm getting ready to go now I'm getting ready to go but I'm gonna tell you about what's going on And you you screen record this and shout this with everybody in your text message And because it's a movement I'm gonna keep on talking about it over and over But it's a movement and I'm gonna tell you what it is It's the adversary working to break up the household And what this is is to break up the household so that you have no strength in the home So that the kids are confused so you got single mom home And you got all this brokenness and this movement is being led by grown boys It's being led by and see really the way the adversary work is he'll put a Decepticon in now He the adversary will actually put a man who liked men To talk to women and what they need to do for relationships But the men actually like them a piece of booty hole Don't even want a woman can't even make it work with a woman But will come and try to Destroy the confidence and the self love and the self respect of women To debase women and make women feel less than and like they got a survey man Worship a man compete for a man and settle for whatever treatment this man want to give them Just because this man make money So if the man want to cheat, okay, that's just men being men. That's what they want a woman to believe And what these lames is on here doing Is they teaching men how to deceive women how to manipulate women How to get women to buy into their ways and they doing that because they lame because they soft Because they scared because they weak because they butt hurt because they angry because they got mommy wounds or daddy wounds Because the girl they wanted in eighth grade chose the star quarterback Because the girl they wanted in 12th grade Chose the star basketball player because the woman that they tried to get and tried to buy End up just using them for his money Because she was already Turned on to them dope boys to them other men and she saw this little man come up on her She's looking at the top of his scalp And a lot of times you don't see these men They and when you see a lot of these men that's Um, sending these messages that's dividing men and women and and making men fight against women When you look at the messengers For one They're gonna look like little ugly They look like the the soul of a shoe. They're gonna look like they either look like the soul of a shoe they either overly overly feminine or They didn't hit they didn't ever have their growth spur When you look at these men you're gonna or they was they was bullied or picked on For the complexion they hiked And that scarred them so now That ruined their relationship with women because they had insecurities that was prayed upon That ruined their interactions with women and now they derive their strength From debasing and demeaning women and that's the movement we have online today and it's a bunch of punks and that's why God got me in the trenches doing the work I got to do to level the playing field because You've got to have real men somewhere You've got to have real men somewhere and one thing about a real man because I was a punk I was a grown boy. I was a lame.   That ain't what you created her for Whoa, okay. That's why my life enshambles That's why I can't reach a pure level of peace and happiness and success So when a grown boy have that run-in with his creator, then he realized he's a lame Then he realized he's a punk Then he realized he's a grown boy And that's when his eyes is open And that's when he learns that a woman is his teammate Not his opponent that he needs to beat that he needs to conquer that he needs to use and miss you and deceive And manipulate and control But he needs to speak life into her to support her to love her to include her To allow her to keep her voice instead of trying to silence her voice and take her voice I heard a lame online Took a snippet on my message and gonna put it in his video and because I said my wife's Way is my highway Meaning that my wife mindset is included in my decision-making process But because I include her and I love her and I respect her when I want to make a decision She trusts me to make that decision because she is included She's not debased and demean and degraded. She's not treated like a piece of property. She treated like a person She's a asset not a liability. And so men complaining about marriage Oh and marriage ain't benefit a man marriage don't benefit a man It do benefit you if you do what you're supposed to do in the marriage It's not going to benefit you if you want her to settle for your cheating Settle for your lying settle for your abuse settle for your control No marriage is not going to benefit you because she's going to find her backbone and she's going to divorce you And she's going to get half of everything you absolutely right because use a dog because use a liar Because use a grown boy because you lame and people are always talking about how you feel about prenups and all that I say prenup is a plan to fail because if you Thoroughly vet this person And you date this person with intention you could tell if this person a real Person or not if they a rider or not and you're not going in planning to fail Because the purpose of a marriage is to say I give you my life I dedicate my life to you We're going to be together until death do us part If you go in with the mentality that y'all only going to last five years ten years then you ought not get married So you go in marriage and love is a gamble And when you gamble you could lose it all and if you're not willing to lose it all For this person then you don't really love them.  What about a woman who cheats on me?  Oh See there did right here. This one sided message. No, the message is Stop making excuses and start making changes Except responsibility for your life Except responsibility for your choices if my wife turned out to be a cheater You guess what? It ain't a loss. It's a lesson because now I realize. Oh, I misread this situation So do that mean I need to go take it out on the next woman No, that mean I need to learn and I need to recognize the red flags that I miss So the next time when I see this. Oh, okay Scratch a lion find a thief like she's saying the ray movie scratch a lion find a thief.   Half of them like men And it's like okay.  They want me to speak on them But what they don't understand is that i'm going to god and i got to pray not to Put them let put them You see i'm saying send them to meet they make up Because i'm gonna play about my name i'm gonna play about mine. You see what i'm saying?  He told my You know, he uh, he told my his wife way is his highway So this whole soft kind of man Because that man he this mean he let his wife make business decision Women don't know nothing about no business women can't make no business decision It's like that is the absolute dumbest thing in the world Because if women can't make business decision, then it wouldn't then Oprah wouldn't be no business now If women can't make business decision, then Kamala Harris wouldn't be no vice president You see, I'm saying and if women can make no business decision, then guess what?   They need their daddy But you was a broken man You a lost man You a weak man because you don't understand manhood because you don't understand manhood is about building your woman up Lifting your woman up putting your woman beside you and not beneath you not behind you And when you understand that as a man, that's when you really elevate So it's like this right here when I thought I was a man I was losing when I was doing the thing that men tell us is okay to cheat to be to lie to deceive To manipulate I was losing. Yeah, I could touch a little money, but I couldn't touch no peace I was sleeping with a 380 under my pillow a nightmare with a blew my brains out because the gun was under my pillow Had I got stopped by the police I would have been in a federal penitentiary because I was trafficking cross state lines But see it was a woman Who god used to reach me? Because what the man was telling me ought to be doing and what the man was condoning and okay It had me broke busted and disgusted But when I allowed my wife To speak into my life and use her brain because she used a different side of her brain than me Because she articulate and she thinks different than me when I was allowing to hear her Guess what now i'm a millionaire who worked two hours a day Instead of being a man working 21 hours a day and still just over broke Still living paycheck to paycheck, but when I let god's creation Speak into my life And be there with me and bill with me She helped me become a millionaire Doing 10 hours of work a week Because she supported me in the seasons that I had to work 80 hours a week Because I was living right and doing right and her only thing was if you talk to me with respect if you honest with me Then i'm going to support you when you work in 80 hours a week because you on your grind Because you're building 50 plus streams of income and the day's gonna come When you could work 10 hours a week and still make millions Because that's what you could do as a teen Ain't no jordan without scotty pippin You see what i'm saying? So when I stopped seeing her as my opponent And I realized that she on the bulls with me. She's not the pistons She on the bulls with me when I realized that she's my opponent that she's my teammate My teammate and not my opponent That's when I started winning But you lose it in your household and marriage is hard and marriage fail because you're competing Because you're trying to win you're trying to deceive her you're lying to her you're manipulating her You're controlling her you're telling her what she can and cannot do Where she can and cannot go how she can and cannot think what she can and cannot be What she can and cannot say You've turned her into a robot.  She is a backbone. She is a support system.  It's still a teaming up and letting her help you win That's why you losing. That's why you are weak in daddy That's why you can't be in your children life because you disrespecting their mama But when you cherish their mama, you respect their mama And when you realize that a child sees your love for them based on how you treat their mama Because they come from their mama. So when you understand that that's when you become a man Man, I gotta go because what I'm saying is too much like right But in this world we praise ignorance over intellect We praise stupidity.  That's the world we live in So to the men out here with a platform stop operating from your brokenness Stop operating from your bitterness. Stop operating from your pain.   What woman do you see winning? So how are you making women your opponent?  Don't even understand what right of passage means Don't even understand how to spell right of passage and don't understand That learning how to love a woman purely The way god loves her Is your right of passage to manhood And as long as you are debasing and demeaning and degrading and lying to And cheating on and manipulating and using a woman you are losing You are lost. You are ignorant and you are broken This woman is not your opponent She was created to be your teammate But in order for her to be your teammate You have to allow her to play her role But what you have to understand about her role is that you don't get to decide her role Her role was coded in her DNA God her creator has decided her role And you as a man don't get to say your role as a woman is the kitchen Is the laundry room Is the bedroom Is the back seat You don't get to decide her role Her creator has created her to flourish at her highest level and when you let her be who she was called and created to be That is what's going to benefit you But when you steal her righteous mind And you take advantage of the fact that she was created She was created to be in unison with you. That's why your body fits perfectly into her body That's why your body Works with her body to reproduce life She was created to be in unison with you in harmony with you To have cohesion with you and when you understand that And you stop trying to deceive her and demean her and control her And you let her flourish in her gifts let her flourish in her call That's when you're going to realize your highest self That's when you truly become a superior man And superior man does not mean inferior woman It means that you are your highest self forget what the author told you because I listened to the book and it was foolishness And people promoted and women even promoting it because they don't know what it means to a real man They don't know that that book not empowering a woman That is putting a man on a pedestal and debasing a woman even if it's one sentence And then it's mashed with a whole bunch of other Cover up See men don't know what it is to be a real man today And that's why I try to let these men know and I try to let these men understand what you're pursuing money What you're pursuing peace what you're pursuing You're only going to get that when you treat in god's creation the way He intended for her to be treated and he didn't create her to be your footstool He didn't create her to be your opponent He didn't create her to be at odds with you That's why your bodies go together That's why your bodily reproduces that chemistry And that's why she coded to see what you can't see to hear what you can't hear to do what you can't do Her body does what your body can't do and when you understand that she's an asset not a liability That's when you win When you truly become a man and you can let her be her You can let her call her shots That's when you're going to realize what submission means Submission is a two-way street It means that you are submitting and she is submitting You're submitting to her gifts and her powers And she's submitting to your gift and your powers and you putting them together And now you win the battle But when you fight against Your own camp by cheating by lying by deceiving by controlling by manipulating How you're going to win against the enemy When you create an enemy behind the lines When you create an enemy in your woman And now you've got to sleep with one eye open Because of the monster you have created with the way that you treat her But I guarantee you I challenge you As a man I challenge you to wash her with love I challenge you to be 100% faithful to her in mind body and spirit.  That's why everything you got Could be 10 x could be 100 x could be 1000 x if you realize That a man Who winning Is not telling you how to win for the clout of a woman Because if you could find a woman that i'm sleeping with other than my wife I will give you 10 million dollars If you can find a woman that i'm sleeping with and i know some of y'all men like you a piece of booty so For your sake Anything or anybody That you think i'm sleeping with other than my wife Anything or anybody That you think i'm sleeping with other than my wife. I give you 10 million dollar You're not going to find it.    So that's why i told you i was a dog. I was a womanizer.  I ain't talking about somebody i slept with 15 years ago I ain't talking about somebody that i done dealt with when i was in the streets As a clown in my early 20s I'm talking about since god gave me a platform and said young man use Your story to help somebody overcome what they're struggling with Since i done said listen hey this the game Since i done said hey this the game i ain't played the game Since i done say hey this the game since god gave me a now before god gave me a platform Before god gave me a message and a real mission and a real purpose before i tapped into my purpose I was all like the reckless selling draw stealing Lying going toting sleeping round womanizing doing everything a grown boy could do But when i had that run in on the road to Damascus And i was shown my ways and a mirror was put in my face and i saw The ramifications of my actions i saw the destruction that i was doing by my weak mindset as an immature man That's when i woke up and i realized that my battle is not in flesh and blood That this is spiritual warfare that my battle is not against a woman That my battle is not to debase and demean a woman and to control and compete against a woman That's not my battle That's my soldier on the front line with me That's my teammate And when i did that that's when i really started winning that life That when i started winning that life and that's why i look at a lame and i could tell he losing Because of what his mind said at because he think the competition is a woman He think that a woman need to be less than him and she need to shut up and be quiet and not speak when a man's speaking And she need to know her role and get in her place So because he think that a woman is inferior to him that a woman is his subordinate That's why he miserable. That's why he single. That's why he lonely Or that's why he setting himself up for failure pretending to be married, but about to go through another divorce Listen to me It's a blueprint But that blueprint come from purity It come from righteousness It come from integrity It come from love It come from self-love. It come from fairness. It come from decent You can't be indecent Disrespect for demeaning and degrading and expect the win in life And men got to get it together and we got to stop waging war against women That don't make you a man Telling no woman about herself Putting a woman in her quote unquote place that don't make you a man That make you a punk Let god deal with her if it's some dealing that need to be done What you're supposed to be doing is uplifting and inspiring and encouraging And you hold the people who look like you Who got the same thing you got between your legs?  So if this woman is a savage woman You're gonna recognize it and you're not gonna get played when I see savage women In my DM I recognize it it jumped off the page I could tell she a savage because i'm operating from a place of purity But see if I was cheating on my wife If I was lying to my wife If I was controlling my wife if I was demeaning my wife and degrading my wife I would be operating from a place of ego I would be operating from a place of arrogance I would be operating from a place of ignorance So therefore when this savage woman in my DM Or she hired me for coaching But she got ulterior motives because she want to set me up and she want to get me into the bed with a jezebel spirit I wouldn't even recognize it because i'm operating from ego Because i'm smelling myself and believing my own hype And that's how these boys falling because they believe in their own hype They think they got power. You know why because god didn't send them the devil sent them To build up hope in people and they want to be a god to men and women They want to be praised by women. They want to be praised by men. They want to be praised by somebody They want to be in a limelight. They want to be special. They want to be a celebrity They want to be somebody.   I was I was winning But I was still Not every well and everything I wanted to be And every single day I woke up and I said Pass this cup from me I said why me Why was I giving the voice and the message? To up end what the adversary doing? Why am I called to break the quote unquote man law? G code man code Why was I called? Why do I have to do this? Can somebody else do it? I don't want to be known I don't want no cloud. I don't want nobody to know my name.  Tony is not a loud person Tony is a man of few words. Tony do not do no shucking and jiving Tony is not finna be the life of the party Tony is not finna be the center of attention anybody who done met me in person But see they'll see me online operating in my purpose Not understanding that because it's my purpose My savior my that he who which has called me He which who has called me has put a battery in my back So i'm operating under a supernatural power When i'm in my purpose, but when I have to get up out of here I go right back to being me An introvert quiet To myself don't want to be seen don't want to talk to but then I got to come back to work I got to come back to work And then when I come back to work That's when I got to show up But see what you don't realize about those who call They didn't even want to come But see if some people out here today that they desperate for a platform They desperate to be fake to be famous. They desperate to have a name And that's why they married they marriage don't hold no weight.   You lost boy. You saw boy. You broke him.   But when a man talk to you He man bashing He or something he's soft I ain't even gonna get violent with you I ain't even gonna get violent with you because I got pray to the lord Not to put hands on you When you try me I got to remind you that yes, I serve god But moses was a killer Saul who became apostle paul and wrote 13 books in the bible was a killer So listen to me. Jesus went in the church and flipped over table. Don't think just because I love my wife And I treat her like a queen. Don't think that make me soft Because a man is a man in respect to a dog But see these men got the nerd at halibut. Oh, you a simp. Oh, you soft.  You lost boy. You broke it. You need prayer. You need god You need healing.    I want her to feel emboldened I want her to feel like she could conquer the world But if I put my foot on her neck and I debase her and demean her and de and degrade her i'm breaking her down And if I break her down then i'm breaking my children down If i'm breaking her and my children down then i'm breaking my heritage down i'm breaking my generation down i'm breaking my lineage down i'm creating generational curses and i am putting damnation on my family and Line after line the rest of my lineage will suffer and will lose to the real oppression in the world Because I have broken my backbone And that is the trick of the enemy to put men against women And to feel like we have to strategize and compete and manipulate and to gain one another Instead of the man coming in And being open being real being transparent being honest Being faithful and being willing to love this woman And then watching her embrace her nature And watching her embrace her nature, which is a nature of love Because she is not naughty by nature.  That's why Jeff Bezos Went through a divorce. That's why Bill Gates went through a divorce because they didn't know how to treat their wife Ain't now one of them hollering by my wife was cheating on me.  So I don't have to move in fear I don't have to protect myself with a alpha male strategy With a midtown mentality with a high value man low value woman approach I don't have to protect myself in that because I trust the process I trust and the boy who started saying that the nba player who started saying that follow me on twitter Got it from me. I trust the process because I understand Why are you trying to be the woman into submission? You could love her Into unity into cohesion And what's gonna happen when you wash her with love? The good books they present her Blemish and spot free When you do that guess what?  He let his wife call the shot. He a simp No I respect my mind my wife mine. So when I want to call a shot I say baby what you think about this And she presents to me The pros and the cons And I say I agree with you here on these pros I disagree with you here on these cons and I present this right here to you And then she says if you feel good about it And if that's what you want to do I'm gonna support you But I just wanted to share with you what I think And then when I sit back and I'm gonna give you an example This example right here. I'm gonna give you a real life example.  Let me give you a real life example of how your woman When you love her right she a support system Let me tell you so I'm sitting here I'm sitting here, right? And I'm at home And I'm earning seven figures multiple seven figures seven figures mean a million dollars Sometimes one time somebody asked me what do six figures mean? I did not know that people that there were people that did not know what that mean So now I have to explain. I want to explain things. I'm earning multiple seven figures. Okay And I'm writing it all off like trump now So if you work for the ira don't come bothering me come in trump and bill gates and bezos got the same cpa So don't be bothering me Okay, I'm earning multiple seven figures. All right, and I'm sitting here at home And I'm working two hours a day I'm working two hours a day and I'm earning multiple seven figures and I said baby on board On board I say ump in the tape And and find a headquarters I say I want a headquarters. That's like five thousand square feet And I say I want to um do programs in there So like for the community so it could be single moms class single dads class credit class this kind of class that kind of class And I'm finna start looking So I go out and I start looking and she said she said I don't know about that She said I don't know about that because you hate routine She said you hate routine. She said you hate monotony She said you remember you just had that the high rise office overlooking the whole city On the 33rd floor of the sun trust building And you was paying three thousand dollars a month in rent For several months and you went in there five times Out of several months you went in there five times and you were paying three thousand dollars that's more than 90 percent of Americans mortgage You were paying double the average americans mortgage on this high rise office that you never went into she said She said you like to sleep in at nine o'clock You like to sleep in at ten o'clock some days You like to stay up and watch some on youtube or whatever prime tv To two o'clock in the morning sometime You hate routine I say yeah, but you know this gonna give me something to do It's gonna give me something to do. I'm gonna get up. I'm gonna create program I'm gonna do my life coach certification in there And this how a woman can be a asset But but men think that men make all the right decisions So I get on the market and I'm looking around and I see this building 7,000 square feet and it's vacant I see this other building six thousand square feet and it's vacant I see this other building 10,000 square feet and it's vacant. They all own by men And I go in there and I'm like why is it so many Commercial buildings completely vacant and it hit me It said He didn't listen to his wife He want to be a mogul He want to be a mogul But the man he's looking up to got a million dollar loan from his daddy The man he's looking up to Oh three four hundred dollar million dollars in debt The man he's looking up to and guess what?  I'm listening to what he's saying And so I go to look for commercial real estate and my wife say toning She don't call me toning. She said babe. Think about this She said you make multiple seven figures and you work two hours. She said what you did today I said I shot a youtube video For an hour and I coached the client for an hour She said what are you doing right now?   I don't like dealing with people really I'm an introvert I'm bought my business if somebody mess my brand up I'm gonna have to go to prayer every day not to take their life And that's really on everything Like I really will be talking to god not to Send his child to meet him early for messing up What he done helped me bill That was my wife She saved me 120 thousand dollars a year And she showed me you living the dream You make multiple seven figures you work two hours a day You could sleep in you could get up work out on your own schedule. You don't have to pay nobody. You don't have to do nothing Why would you create a headache of a job and have to keep all of this stuff? Going and flowing so this building pays for itself and you got to create 7500 to $10,000 a month worth of programs just for the building to break even She say now look at this man in Atlanta Who went and got this building and turned it into a co-working space and they got no co-workers in there Because he would chase an ego because he wanted to look like a boss She say the problem with the world is is people trying to look like a boss And she say what you don't understand is you already are boss she say You need to be teaching what you do Because you don't have she say listen.  She say now you tell me Which one is the better business model?  You got royalty checks coming in the mail. You don't got to go nowhere This is what you call a woman's influence You doing six figure book deals you write a book in three days She say baby, you ain't got no work God don't bless you The way you don't have to be like these other men, but she say the different cells Look at how they live their life and look at how you live your life This is what I try to tell these men about real manhood, but they don't want to listen Hey, this Tony gaskin. God bless y'all We'll talk soon And hey, thank y'all everybody who sent a blessing. I see my cash out showing I never gave out my cash out um I think it's miss caramel kiss has gave out my cash out and I really appreciate that Because it says something to me because I'm sitting here and y'all see I run business and y'all see I do business But then you be blessing me And that's actually biblical That's actually biblical and and and it just kind of confounds me and that's why when you go on my page That's why you don't see my cash out nowhere my paypal nowhere Because I'm not asking for any donations, but that's biblical And that's another testament to when God in the midst And when you live in The way you was created to live And that's what i'm trying to get me in to understand stop being a punk Stop being a lame stop listening to these lames stop listening to these lanes who butt hurt Who got their things up between their legs?  It is time to gas and god bless you We'll talk soon


I'm talking about a process, a crazy process that starts with a protein and there's actually like 25 proteins involved in this crazy cascade of chemical reactions that you do not have to know them all. The end result of the compliment cascade, the end result of the compliment cascade is something called MAC, which is a membrane attack, oh yeah, complex. That says complex because that's what the MAC attack is about. MAC, dude, this is so cool. Through the process of start here, something will initiate the compliment cascade. And if all the proteins come along through the process, you'll actually end up with this thing that all the proteins come together and form essentially, it's almost like initiating apoptosis. It creates a complex that pops the bad guy. So the membrane attack complex pops the pathogen and it's a general thing. And here's what's really interesting. If something initiates compliment, you can actually have antibodies initiate compliment. Remember what antibodies look like? And antibodies, we've seen them already when we talked about blood typing, but we're about to enter the world of holy antibody fun times with the acquired immune response. Antibodies have this little place, this little receptor zone in their armpit and that actually binds with one of the first chemicals in the compliment cascade and can initiate the cascade. So the presence of antibodies, there's lots of antibodies if you are initiating a serious immune response to a bad guy, especially after we've activated the acquired immune response, which we haven't talked about yet. Lots of antibodies mean we'll have lots of opportunities to go through this compliment cascade. Members now, the end game is this membrane attack complex, but the fact is that all these 25 intermediate chemicals along the way also have various functions. For example, some of them are inflammatory cytokines or mediators of inflammation, inflammation molecule. So they're going to initiate an inflammatory response. Others are opsonins. Oh yeah, what's that word mean? Opsonin. I honestly can't remember if I told you what this meant yet. Opsonin is any chemical that initiates phagocytosis. So this compliment cascade pops the bad guy, but along the way initiates inflammation and phagocytosis. So we're basically creating a chemical doodoo storm and we have an immune response. And even though we've separated out innate and acquired, they absolutely overlap. The next lecture, we're going to talk about the acquired immune response and highlight those places where there actually is significant overlap. But you can save that fun times for then. So goodbye now.


Okay, so good afternoon, I hope you had an enjoyable lunch and now we will have a session about the ultralow power in the STM32U5. I have some slides here and it's the same information as you have in the sheet sheet, so you can follow it here if you like or as a reference later on. So let's get started here. So the first we'd like to mention is that the U5 comes in two versions. We have one sub-family with only LDO and one with both LDO and S&PS. And this is an internal voltage regulator and it supplies and creates the V-core voltage. So it's for the V-core domain, so it's the voltage to the core to the SRAM and some digital peripherals and as well to the flash memory. So this S&PS and LDO in the version that is called Q, it has the both. In this one you can switch between the LDO and the S&PS whenever you like on the fly. So they are in parallel. So and it's always like it started in the LDO and then you can switch over to S&PS. The advantage of the LDO is it's less noise in that one, but it consumes more current, more power. And for the S&PS it has better efficiency. And this we will demonstrate later on in the hands-on. And these two versions without Q and with Q it's important to mention that they are not pin-to-pin compatible. We will have a look into some package here later on. And also the power, a lot of the voltage that is generated from this S&PS can only be used for internal loads. So even if it's out on the pin, you cannot supply external components with this voltage. That's important as well. So if we first look to the packages here, we have the 144 pins package. And in this one you can see down on the bottom side here that the pins are actually shifted one step to the left in the Q version. So you can see here that if I assume VDD and VSS here will not be the same as here in this picture for the Q version. You see that there's one PA3 here in the corner, but here it's the VDD and VSS. So it's shifted one step to the left. And the most important to actually notice is that here on this side we have VDD as a pin number 72, I think this. But here we have VSS. So it's very, very important because they have switched the voltage supply and the ground pins. That will be the consequence of this one-step move. So just as you aware of this, that you have to take care. So you cannot just drop and replace between these two functions. And you see the same. There is some difference up here on this side and as well up here as well as some differences. So just to be aware of that. And also the same here for the 64 pins LQFP versions that it's the same as you have VSS on the Q version here and VDD on the non S&PS version. And also the VCAP here will be the VSS here. So that's important to know. If we come to the next slide here, we will talk a little bit about the run mode, the different power consumptions in this and the different ranges. And inside we have four different voltage ranges. That is for the VQR. Voltage range one is 1.2 volts and it goes from 0 to 160 MHz. The range two can only run up to 110 MHz and so on. So the lowest one is the range four that is 0.9 volts and can goes up to 24, I think actually it's 25 MHz here, could be type here. And if we look to the power consumption, we have in this table here the consumption with LDO and this one is with S&PS instead. So you see for the highest frequency performance range one. You will have almost 50% drop in current consumption. And then it goes down, as you say, it's also around 50%. And even down in range four it's even higher, so almost around 60% difference. So you can save a lot of energy if you use the S&PS. And also you can see if you go on this way from range one to range four, if you go down in your performance you can also win like 20% in power consumption for the LDO version. And here on this side I think it's almost 40% drop. So this U5 is one best in the class for the ultra-low power MCUs. It's like half of the dynamic power consumption versus the L4 and L4+. And also like it's like a third versus to the L5. And this range four is replacing the low power run mode from the L4 and L5 families. So if you go to the different European modes, we can just first have a look to this slice here. The U5 is designed to perform dynamic scenarios in autonomous mode, what we call LP BAM. And this means that it can handle the different scenarios without the MCU. So the MCU can be stopped in sleep mode. So in the traditional way, it's like working normally like in the previous legacy, a center choose that yes, you run and stop and waking up and interrupts. But now when having this autonomous mode, we can offload the core domain. And that will reduce the number of wake up sequence like these red ones. So in this case, the MCU can stay in stop mode. And the autonomous mode can do all the dynamic scenarios. So we will with this make having lower average current consumption for this U5. So that's something new that it's introduced, the LP BAM handling. And that is a way for, for example, sensor data to be transferred into the SRAM from the peripherals. And also like ADC acquisitions and DAC generations. And also, as we said from Jeff sessions, that's like I2C and SPI UR transfers can be done with this autonomous mode to the SRAM from the peripherals. We'll actually see it more in next session. For this U5 has a new architecture. There is two now digital domains, CPU domain called CD and the smart run domain SRD. And this means that this SRD can handle a staff of features when the CPU domain is stopped. So for example, here we have the core to 733 in this box here. And all this green CPU domain can go in stop mode and the smart run domain can still exist and do some peripherals transfers. So in this SRD, the smart run domain contains only a reduced setup of all the peripherals like agency 4, the DAC, as we see, SPI UR and as well as run 4. And also you can say that in run and sleep, stop 0, stop 1, the both domains are fully powered. So all peripherals are functional thanks to the GPDMA and the LPDMA. But in stop 2 mode, the CD will go in low retention, so only like a lower leakage mode. So that would be now dynamic activity possible in stop 2 mode. But in stop 2 mode, the smart run domain is fully working, so it can handle the autonomous peripherals. And that's all thanks to the LPDMA can handle that. So that makes that we can save a lot of power when you're going to stop 2 mode and still have some functions running thanks to this LPDMA. So if we go to the different modes, we have the sleep mode. And this one, the CPU is stopped. The CPU clock is turned off, but all the high speed clocks are still running. And as you see, we have the same regulator as the run mode. Functional peripheral wake up sources is like before in a way. And it's quite similar to the run mode, but just the CPU is stopped in this mode. The sleep range 4 here, as we said before, is replacing the older one, low power sleep mode. So we check the next stop modes. So this is the lowest power mode with full retention and peripheral activity, this LPBAM. So here is the same, the core is stopped, and there's now execution from the MCU. But still the high speed clocks is running, but only on the preference demand. So the core will be still stopped in this mode. We have full retention of SRAM and the peripherals registers. And we can also individually power down the different SRAM pages in all the stop modes. The 0, 1, 2, and 3. When we wake up, it will run on ASI 16 or MSI. MSI is a new clock in U5. And it can run up to 24 megahertz, but only in range 4. And also we can ultra low power mode enable this bit. You can reduce the consumption. It makes that run out will be operating in sample mode. But we need to have some care about the VDD falling slow rates. So that you have to have an ion in that mode. So here is the stop mode summary, what we have. So here you can see that in stop two, the smart run domain is active here. And also we have some dynamic control of up to 16 IOS in this stop two. You can see that the power consumption is also dramatically reduced from stop 0 and stop 1. And the wake up time, the lower you go in the stop modes, the longer time it takes to wake it up. Here we have the other standby and shutdown and VBAT modes. You can see here that still we have a lot of stuff is still working out to see internal watchdog temperature detection. And also the clocks is the LSE, we have this CSS that is the clock security system. So this one can, if they see something wrong, it can go back to another clock. So you are sure that you can wake up. And also the memories you have standby mode, you have SRAM 2, 64 GB available. And also some pull up and pull down IOS and wake up pins. And you see here also, now we're talking about the nano amps consumption in these modes. And also the wake up time is increasing. And in this one it's the VBAT, it's only, yeah. Backup voltage. So how can you now do for making lower consumption in your application? So here's some tips how we can do. We have already talked about this eye cache a little bit. So if you enable this in one way, you can enable flash prefetch. So you don't need to load or jump so much in the program execution. So that will save energy. By enabling the S&P as regulators, we see in the power consumption was much reduced. These two as I mentioned are parallel and can be selected if you need on the fly. We can power down the unused flash banks. So for example, if you're just using the half of the memory, you can power down the other flash bank to reduce the power consumption. We can also power on unused SRAM, as we will see as well in the hands-on. So that is also a way to save a lot of energy. So and also if you're not using a peripheral, you can switch off the bus clock and that will also reduce. And as usual as you're designing with low power MCUs, you can use adequate voltage scaling. And if you don't use peripherals, switch it off. So we have the different clocks here. We have the HSA external high speed from 4 to 50 MHz with this CC. So if it's a failure, it can automatically switch to HSI. And that's thanks to this clock security system. We have the HSI-16, the internal RC 60 MHz, which also is user-trimmable with some registers. This can be used as a way to wake up from stop clock sources during the stop modes. We have the 48 MHz HSI-48 that is aimed for USB that you need a quite high precision. Also for the SDMMC and random number generation. We have the clock called SHSI and that is for the secure AES co-processor. It's dedicated for that one with a second or clock with 48 MHz and quite large ether. And then we have the PLLs, free independence. And we have the LSI, both 32 GHz and 250 Hz. And this you can select via registers. If you have a look into the new MSI, it's done for the multispeed internal RC. Actually it's two output clocks that is generated, the MSI-K and the MSIS. MSIS can be selected as a system clock and the MSI-K can be selected for a kernel clock for the peripherals. And from four different clocks you can combine this. So you have 16 frequencies from 100 kHz up to 48 MHz. And I think this one here, the 3.72 is aimed for some audio frequencies. I think it's for the audio sample rates. If you have 48 kHz sample rates and 64 channels, it will be this 3.72. And all of this can also be trimmable through some registers. And here we have also the pre-scalers, so you can divide the signals so you get more frequencies you want. We have also now something called autonomous peripherals clock request. If a peripherals is autonomous, it will not impact on the core power mode. So the peripherals can make a request to have the kernel clock and then it will get some clock here. But also the bus clock request can be done in this way. And then we have a new control bits for clock gating. So for the core domain we have the SMEN, that stands for the sleep mode enable. And another one bit, that is the autonomous mode enable. And that is active for the smart line domain. So these control bits can be handled from the different stop modes. And you also need to have some attention that when it's ready, this clock will be propagated to all the enabled peripherals. So it's important that you have a well-controlled setup to reach the very best power consumption in ultra-low power modes. So you have control over these bits. And then finally the XTI. So all events can work out the system from stop 01 and 02 modes. You can select the trigger edge, which one should be active. And you have a direct link from the peripherals to the vector int table. So peripherals request the HB and APB clock. It generates an interrupt and the interrupt wakes up the device that is directly connected to the Enrich.


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I know a lot of you have worked with the Course, Jesus says in the workbook that the Holy Spirit must work with specifics in order to undo your belief in them. So, a lot of times I hear people say, all is God, all is one, love is all. But they still have a lot of belief in specific issues, specific relationship issues with children or partners, specific financial issues around not having money or bills or investments or strategies. They still have specific issues with the environment, allergies seemingly or anger at political leaders, presidents and so forth. They still have a lot of specific issues that they haven't addressed and they've been using the Course of Miracle principles to metaphysically ghost over those unconscious beliefs without bringing them to the light. Without bringing them to Jesus from the bottom up, as Jason says, if you don't do that, then all that glossing over with all that pretty spiritual phraseology is like putting icing on a cake of mud. You know, if you keep just taking the top of the cake and getting the icing, you can keep fooling yourself that things are sweet. But unless you dip down under that icing and get your finger down in some of that mud and actually push the icing away and say, Jesus, that's right, your Course is about bringing the darkness to the light. Your Course is about exposing the beliefs, exposing these thoughts, exposing these self-concepts. If I'm just using affirmations and I'm just using the Course to just play around with my finger with the sweet icing on top of the cake, then you should know why you're not experiencing consistent peace because you're not doing the Course as it was intended. You're misusing the Course. The ego is trying to use the Course to keep hidden, to keep covered up. So I think one thing that has really come to me is you also remember from reading the Course where Jesus says, you know, Jesus was the first to complete his part in the plan of Atonement and now he is in charge of the plan. Jesus also says in the Course that he can work miracles indiscriminately that basically all were to do is to ask Jesus, how would you have me serve? What would you have me do? And Jesus says, I will perform miracles through you and Jesus can perform them indiscriminately because Jesus knows where in the plan they would be most helpful, where your strengths would be most helpful. He's got the bird's eye view, so to speak, the spirit's eye view of everything and can use miracles in a constructive way to heal as many errors and clear as many errors away for the entire sunship if you will allow your mind to be under his direction. So in other words, doing the Course is one thing, but if you look back at the history of Christianity where there was no Course in Miracles, did St. Teresa of Avila have a Course in Miracles? No. Did St. Francis of Assisi have a Course in Miracles? No. Did Meister Eckert have a Course in Miracles? No. Did Mary Baker-Eddie have a Course in Miracles? No. I mean, I could go on for 20 minutes to tell you of all the mystics and saints who did not have the benefit of a Course in Miracles and yet did they lead very expansive, mystical, heart-opening, mind-opening lives? Yes, they did. And what were they using? Many of them were using the Bible. It always fascinates me when I hear Course in Miracle students being so critical of the Bible, when there's so many mystics and saints that use nothing but the Bible and prayer to reach a state of beautiful union with God. So again, this is an ego attempt at trying to project out onto the form. And in Slava's case, since Jesus is in charge of the plan of Atonement and she was so willing to just listen and follow what Jesus was saying, that's the fast track. That's faster than sitting there and let your little human eyeballs move over the course for 25 years and chit chat about it when there's a direct connection with Jesus Christ that's available to everyone. And if you plug into that, that voice will tell you, I've got it. I will handle everything for you. If you'll serve me, that voice will tell you, I will handle your relationships. I will handle your body. I will handle your health issues. I will handle your financial issues. I will handle your educational issues. I will handle everything that you're concerned about in time and space if you will simply just listen and follow to me and follow my instructions. You see how fast that is of a fast track?  There are many problems on the level of form that will just distract you away from really your one requirement which is simply to tune in and listen to the wayshower who has transcended time and space and let the wayshower direct you in very specific ways of how to collapse time for everybody. You see the difference there between just reading the Course and going through this intellectually versus actually going into the goal of the Course which is to forgive under direct guidance of Jesus and the Holy Spirit and then to come to the happy dream. If you want a realistic goal, the happy dream is a good one.