Alright guys day four. I was lunch our next speaker up is Manhoor a returning speaker to the 21 convention. He spoke in 2007 when this event was I Don't say nothing, but pretty close just totally starting up out of nowhere, and that meant a lot to me Came back in 2008 did a killer job Last year he was coming and he got pickpocketed and lost a lot of money. So it sucked, but he's back He's back. It is the grand return of Manhoor and it is an honor to have him here Thank you coming again, man. Appreciate it Okay, so yeah last year I got pickpocketed at the airport and lost my ability to fly here lost some money It's all good. I'm back now If you guys don't know me, I'm what's up. I have to be on the stage Okay I'm ex-military. I'm doing mixed martial arts for almost 20 years I'm trained mentor guys in all kinds of different areas.   It's just a tool It's not your identity as a man. We have a range of behavior that we can fall into You know, I have my side.  I also have a super compassionate side Like I said, I've trained a mentor guys in all kinds of different areas doing it for a long time So, you know, it's not an identity.   And I already mentioned here opening guru style versus closing style So this is like the best illustration I can make so you have your your typical Guru like you've got all that fluff material like coming. Hey guys Let's get a nose done, right? So you got this whole range of like material for opening that opens well Okay, you can come in just hella high-energy dancing and girls like he Okay, but guys that actually fucked the girls they talked to their range of how they come in is a little bit smaller a Little bit different area of the spectrum. Okay, and in actuality a lot of this fluffy opening stuff Some of these guys do actually takes away from their ability to have sex with the girl later You're actually sacrificing That capability with her by doing that. Thanks. Okay I'm gonna tell a story real quick So I I had a date with a girl. I met online And I would say hey meet me at the theater. So she gets there. I'm running late I show up about you know five minutes late, and I see you like 20 feet away. So I March up to her. I grab her from behind like this. Yo, and she flips out. She's like She's like, how'd you know it was me? It couldn't my what if it wasn't me?  She was nervous I went to buy tickets and like she'd always she was standing there I walk up to the counter to get him and she does one of these like one of these right I know as we go inside watch the movie and I you know during the previews or is that movie are Repo men you guys seen that Jude law force Whitaker. I can't stand the idea of an Organization harvesting organs and then killing people when they can't pay.  I was like anger.    I know what's going on. So Halfway through the movie. I said, you know what?  Okay, and Thing is is We'll talk with realness here. Okay, if if these guys in the community had seen me Start start this thing out.  But that's like there's a realness to what goes on here And the realness is is that you're not always going to get good reactions Girls are gonna be all kinds of different states of mind. You're dealing with real life here You're not dealing with some kind of fairy tale magic land Pooh a fairy tale here. Okay, deal with it all that is what this is about This is not about, you know, having it's a pretty little encounter This is about just having the flexibility and the range is a guy to deal with anything that that you see As far as leading You know a lot of guys see leading as I was dominant and I told her what to do Right and of course that comes into play and there are plenty of girls that respond really well to that But leading in the case of this girl was not at all telling her what to do because right off the bat She was scared out of her little mind She was like she was like this and what leading how leading was defined in this case Was that I led myself first, okay? I could tell that she was fretful. I could tell that she was nervous I simply stayed composed myself. Okay. I was just chill and social. I saw this. I didn't care that she was nervous I thought it was kind of funny So I led myself first allowed her her space and her time to get back on my track I showed her aside that she could relate to okay, so in this case, that's how leading would be defined Not some like dominant Bitch get on your knees kind of thing. Okay as far as assholeness. I think I described that pretty well the whole like Talking shit at repo men and Jude Law and force Whitaker. I really can't stand the idea of that And like I mentioned before it is a good. I it is your space as a male to have a strong negative Idea or opinion about stuff and just express it freely. Okay. I mean you can't just be all unicorns and angels You've got to be down here Talking shit, too, man. That's just how it is. I know in the military we We train guys in super harsh scenarios and environments put them under a lot of stress I went through a ton of stress myself and basically what it did is By the time they got to the real job or a real situation.   Okay We're gonna start with opening just because it's pretty much the first thing right Yeah My one of my big mentalities and I try to teach us to students or whatnot I'm the most important thing.  Like I walk up like boom. I'm here. Okay I get to hog her attention. It's not even I get to hog it.   It doesn't happen a lot on boot camps But he said afterwards is like, I can't believe it. He's like We were there for five minutes.  I'm like, dude, why do you think they got all pretty tonight? Why do you think they showed up? Okay, you've got to get in your head What your value is to these chicks?  They do it three times a week.  This is a new experience. It's it's savage It's what they want. This is just a simple biology here same thing I'm here, right you walk up like that. That's that's the vibe you project. Oh, okay you get to talk to me simply because I'm standing here and It's not what I'm saying. It's simply the fact I'm standing here. Okay, a lot of guys get Really consume with this idea and I'm telling you I I've been this through these phases of myself Well, I'm like, what do I say?  It's not a question if they like it or not. It's just simply biology at work They want a guy that walks up like boom. I'm here. That is just it just hits our biological buttons Okay, so identify with that mindset. You're aware of it now.  I'm like that must be what's going on through the minds of These beginner guys and then I went out that night.  What does this poo a think of me? What do what are her female friends gonna think of me? What's my buddy gonna think? What am I gonna think?  Okay, so you're not thinking about Her girlfriends over here. You're not thinking about your buddies behind you. You are simply immersed in the moment with her Okay, a lot of stuff comes from that I Contact your vibe, you know just being present with her. I'd like to talk a lot about toly He'll help you a lot with that.  You're simply talking to a girl. You're not trying to raise your poo account. You're not trying to okay What does he think about over there?  It's all here. I am it Okay This is a super important one male female dynamic Poetron versus closer a lot of a lot of guys they walk up to a girl and And they they go into like this whole like back turn I can't really look at a girl and Telling you like if you want to be Inside a girl you've got to establish the male female dynamic. Okay, that's hey man You guys don't open with words you open up with eye contact whether you're going direct or indirect your opener is eye contact Okay, she might see you walk up.  You're like boom eye contact. Yo, what's going on?   There is you know it You know how to talk you've been talking since you were two years old some of you guys maybe like seven Todd muck is not kidding Yeah, okay power of eye contact Erica's big into this a lot of powerful things happen in eye contact I'll tell you right now one of the most enjoyable things about being with a girl is eye contact I mean, it's just so it's just so Powerful right there if you're not making eye contact with a girl. Why are you even doing this? Okay, you're like you're like getting rid of like one of the big boons of doing this. Okay eye contact is super special Really intimate and something you want to be there with tonality You want to talk to her like a man talks to a woman.  He's simply making statements. He's stating facts. He's telling her a story He's just telling the story. He doesn't need her to react to it in any way. We'll go into that in more detail later Breathing correctly and maintaining volume Man Anthony Robbins has a vocal coach that he's quoted as saying This guy changed my speaking and he'd been speaking for like 10 years already the guy's called Roger Love Look him up.  I was speaking wrong You know you guys are talking in a club and you can't get any volume.  Okay, get over yourself Breathe correctly. Okay, make sure you're talking just when your stomach is coming in Because if you're if you're doing anything else, you're basically wrong This also allows you to have natural pauses inside your speech Okay, so when you're like, oh no, I'm running out and did take another breath you pause which is attractive They don't want some guy that's like motor-mouthing like what I'm doing up here, right? So also a lot of you guys and I was with my buddy the other day And he was leaving a voice message and he starts running out of breath and instead of taking another breath He goes.    What's this? It's because you're still trying to talk and you have no air in your lungs breathe, okay? Projecting the right vibe she feels what you feel this is really powerful if you guys can get this down Everything else would be pretty much over I don't walk up as a blank state to it to a girl. Okay. I don't walk up program me now I'm projecting an emotion already.  But no matter what I am projecting an emotion when I walk up, okay? This most of this game has a lot to do with you leading yourselves being able to control yourselves Having a lot of control of your emotional state Okay, so you're not walking up either feeling like crap or you're walking out like Blank slide program me and then at that point you are reactionary because you are waiting for a reaction to tell Yourself how to feel. Okay. That's BS.   He just like if you see the cute girl He's gonna talk to her. So he pulls over.  They don't matter at all Walk up to her.  I love this like get her number of blah, blah It's awesome.  You are simply responsible for your actions your thoughts your behaviors One of my favorites is and this happened to the night.   I'm like I like Walk up.   I'm just like talking the girl while she's dancing on stage And she goes ha and like we'll have a conversation while her customers are like trying to tip her And I'm just like hogging her attention and do I care if anybody's watching? No, it's not my business That is not my business.  I'm sure you're kind of catching glimpses of that But the beginning is a big deal. It's just because it's where you guys are mostly at It's a nice phone ringer there Okay Unreactedness most importantly to yourself.  It's gonna be you guys. Okay, it's to me. It's still me. All right Your first set of the night say you've been at work all week all week and it's Friday night And you haven't been out in five days and you're like gee I I'm so uncalibrated right now And I've just been talking about you know mathematics and guys.    Okay, sure. I have okay. Maybe I've got a huge ego But it's just not Sensitive to anything.  Okay.  That's it on a biological level She's got to test you so don't worry about it.   Just don't worry about that Um guys will do it to What like a year back?   It just kind of like it is like a fart in the air Like it's like all the air went out of his sails, right?   Okay, it's a zoo out there I kind of already went over this girls trying to blow you out just because they're having a bad day This is real. Okay. This is not poor magic land.  You're the most badass guy ever and they don't care because they're on there It's that time of the month. They just got fired. It doesn't matter. They're having a bad day What I do is I just I just kind of ignored I'll tell you what I'm not talking to her I'm talking to her other friend. That's having a better time. Okay This kind of fades right into that so basically what ends up happening is By being unreacted to it and continuing on with what you're doing What'll invariably happen is they'll actually start apologizing for their friend. Oh, I'm sorry She's not having a good day today. I'm like, don't worry about it.  Yeah, sorry. She's uh, she's drunk Okay Same thing would take our picture buy me a drink. Okay. Most girls that are cool generally won't Ask you that okay, but if they do they qualified in some way if you um the other night a couple weeks ago I had a I was talking to a group of girls one girl in particular and then this idiot girl Walks up take our picture. Take our picture.  She just she just apologized for it Then not less than a minute later. I say give me that camera. All right girls do this I'm like getting all posing so it's not it's not bad to take your girl's picture You just can't do it to that hole like they're trying to tool you kind of thing Okay, and it won't be a cool check you can probably assume if a girl's being a Shit head about trying to actually take their picture buy a drink She's probably not the girl you want to talk to you anyway, so you can kind of I'm kind of shy it shine her on What's going on here? Okay This all comes down to a really big important concept. Okay a girl's harshness is Child's play Jeff he's got a great quote. He's like he's like girls what girls talk when the girls speaks. It's just puffs of air It's just it's just farts in the wind. It goes it just dissipates and that's it doesn't mean anything Okay for me personally like you know, I've I've been in Lots of fights and stuff so to me the idea of a girl being harsh is kind of funny right like what's she gonna do?  It doesn't mean anything guys It is just child play. Okay Yeah, I love that one get that down guys whatever happens.    I'll get into that your behavior dictates her response. Okay, so She freaks out over something You don't react to it or you do respond to her but in a way that shows her That you're not upset over it in any way and she'll calm down and that's all there is to it You if you guys can get this down this would be one of the best things you ever learn Okay, your behavior to her crazy reaction Tells her everything she bases her behavior her subsequent behavior on that You know, she was completely nuts. I was I met this girl out in Michigan It was quick. We were back at her house within an hour of meeting her really cute girl She was taller than me for you guys are worried about height I I'm with girl that are taller than me all the time.    I'm not reactive at all I'm just hanging out with I'm staying calm and positive. You know, I think I slowly put my clothes back on Just whatever same thing. She's still screaming Maybe about 30 45 seconds into it. She calms down drastically. Okay, still talk to her So having that fun playful vibe with her letting her know it's all good, baby. Don't worry about it Two or three minutes later. She's like wait, why are you leaving? I'm like, I'm not baby and we go back to it. Okay Next one tell I was I was out of I think it was a subway This was a few years back and I walked up and the girls were chitchatting at the front I was in a hurry to get somewhere, but I was really hungry. I'm like, yo, can we speak this long? I really got to go and the girl in line turns around to me and gives me a dirty look and Like was waiting for my response.  Okay, and most guys feel the urge to I've got to act this role now Like yeah, I got it. I got it.   What should I talk about blah blah blah blah?  They love it He's like you're really fun with it, but you just start telling him what to do and they fall right in line and This has a lot to do with eye contact, which is which is pretty simple It's got a lot to do with your your tonality as well If you guys don't honestly at all check out one of Brad's video blogs It's the best example of Breaking rapport yet fun tonality.  I want to see a sexy face and they're like They're like they're like getting in line and stuff. I'm like, yeah And so I'm like taking pictures and I basically walking a group of people I don't know and just start ordering them around now in my mind. Am I ordering them around? No I'm just having fun, but it's something you guys want to pick up if you want to figure out how to like run a group Which is a really big deal and get that down. It's how you talk to them It's eye contact.  You don't question yourself the field is not to question your tactics your techniques that shit's later Okay, don't worry about that.  Okay. This can be minor.  You's not a bad word. I forgot I wrote that what this allows is it?  I guess I'm gonna tell one right now. So I was at a I was on another bootcamp and We just got out of seminar sauce a little bit like yeah a little bit toned down, but I was like boom, right?  So I keep walking.  I'm scanning we like like lock eyes for like less than a second I'm like, oh, it's on right and then she like looks off anyways I From about 15 feet away. I like start walking up on her like this and I'm completely sober by the way. I'm not a big drinker Especially on bootcamp no drinking at all. But yeah, I do this all sober mostly anyways Walk up to her and she sees me coming and she looks at me. She goes like this Like giving me the harshest blowout she can before I even get to her and it doesn't faze me at all Right, I get right up in her girl.    Walking up to a girl.  She just stares at you like this Like what's you know, what's going on in my mind? Nothing. I am just in a dominant friend like boom I'm here right anyways about About a minute in she says a word cracks and then a little bit after that she has she smiles a little bit I'm like goddamn right. I'm in right so I grab her. I'm like hey meet my friends I bring her over to bring her over to Tyler. There's a student here. Let them talk to her Rip her away to the bar.  I think she rejects me trying to kiss her five or six times And since I'm just I have so much momentum.   How many you know, how many ladies, you know, how many time how many experiences with women you'd have right now, you know Oh Yes, this is a good one so so This was like this was a while ago. It's like five or six years ago we're at a taco shop in Pacific Beach in San Diego and I'm telling my buddy. I'm like, you know what? I'm like, it doesn't matter what you say As long as you say it with passion, right? Like that's where I was at in the game at that point, right? So he's like, okay, so if these two hot-ass girls can get out of a van And he walks up to me. He's just like this guy is so black tonight And I'm like, I didn't mean like that and they just it just but it opens them up all over the place Like they love it. So anyways they go inside He says sounds one of the girls and I think the other one's using the bathroom or ordering food and I sit down next to the girl and she immediately goes And I'm like I'm like sitting down just sat down not expecting this at all.  I just like yeah, so get up and walk off, right?  I see this I walk up like 15 minutes later. I'm like, hey, I'm sorry. I'm like, oh, it's okay.   So it didn't end up happening, but if it happened this, you know today, I'd be all over it Yeah, oh, okay. I do this every year telling ridiculous stories with authority a Chill on caring vibe. It's all in a tonality. So I tell people yeah, I Would the bed till I was nine, okay? And there's no like feel sorry for myself like I'm such a bitch, right? It's just like, yeah I want the bed till I was nine, huh, huh? You can do that with anything just you control how people perceive what you say Strictly from your tonality and how you feel about it. Okay? I Have this ridiculous story.   Okay. I had a buddy Dan he was talking to girl he met a girl at the club and He's having a good time with her and he's like, you know, I got a I got it with the bathroom She's like, I gotta go to the bathroom too. So when he goes in the guy's restroom waiting in line and she comes into view waiting in line for the girls bathroom and and You know, she looks at him and he's like like this and she's like like this and there's a couple urinal stalls Open but he's still waiting in line, right?  He just like like this And she's you know, they're doing this like flirty thing right there and whether she knew whether she realized it or not It doesn't matter. He was so boom. I'm here It didn't matter if he was about to drop a huge load at a bar, which is actually pretty nasty in itself Jedi mind tricks, I don't want to go into this too much just because I've I've shown him before and it starts getting abused and stuff But basically, I don't you know I'll kind of point you guys in the right direction and then you guys can you know by the time you get there You'll be ready for it if you remove any trace of emotion or ego from the way you talk to people You can get them to do funny things. Okay, like It's definitely I've got about I've got about 40 girls on video and pictures.  There's no ego. There's no I'm not following her Like is you got to know that they freak out sometimes They do and I have to calm them down and continue filming them telling them to get back to work kind of thing You can I get out of try I get out tickets with cops All the time. I don't get tickets You know It happens all the time say you need them to open up a new I need check out window in line at the supermarket You say hey, can you you open up a new one?  This is kind of going back into immersion Unreactedness to anything around you nothing exists, but you and her okay, you guys are in a little bubble This is not about being director indirect, but you have got to be just there with her eye contact Okay, unreactive to everything else going on doesn't matter if her girlfriends are screaming for her to come follow them Unreactive, okay There are so many times where they're trying to drag her off and simply because you're not reacting to that and you're Just staying there with her like this just calmly talking She's just rooted right in place and the world could be falling down around her But since you're right here with her. She's ignoring everything else as well.  He just quiet and pulls her in okay a lot of guys They get in this like mindset where somehow they're gonna batter her defenses down and convince her to go home with them And that's really not how it works You have to make her want to go home with you one way to do that is just like be there with her We'll get into the more of that later Huge This is a huge thing right here Existing outside of a social tension as man. It is our role our We it does we exist outside of social tension. I think the first time this was driven home was Tyler on the blueprint He said he's like look social there are socially tense situations that go on all the time You're gonna find yourselves in them constantly. It's like but as a male you that is not you you do not respond to tension You don't even feel it and you can have the craziest nonsense going on around you That's got nothing to do with how you feel right here Just the other night.   It's not your role. You don't respond to it at all. Okay, forget it Oh, man, this is a good one. So I move out of my buddy's place. We're really good friends he has a two cute girls move in and One of them is I think more my style than the other I started making her up She wants to play Super Mario Wii with us, but she wants to go to Target and buy a pink controller So like, okay, right? So we go to Target. We're walking through.    I'm chasing us through the supermarket.  I I banged her Not that day, but you know having a whatever points Next one bathroom poles. Okay, bathroom poles Relatively easy the social tension you guys are gonna be forced to deal with Getting a girl in the bathroom is the hard part. Okay, it's the social technique You can spy girls all night long They do want to have sex you right there. They know that Power to the people.  I'm left like I'm like yo the girls like So up in Michigan I'm pulling a girl home and She's already got a guy meeting up with her to do her right so the guy actually calls her We're walking back to her place. He calls her on the phone and says blah blah blah and she's like Oh, yeah instead of dealing with it and telling him anything she hands the phone to me So talk about like okay, so I'm like yo, dude. What's going on? It's like hey, I'm on my way I'm walking over to her house. I'm like, yeah Yeah, me and her on our way there right now So, yeah, I don't know man and you can hear it in his voice like oh And I you know and you're gonna and you know he he went home I I got her you know and then I faded back to San Diego and he probably had her for the rest of her life I don't know but you're gonna be putting these situations where you just have to deal with it And that's all there is to it.  So Halloween party my buddy's a referee He's got a notebook and he's got a bunch of phone numbers on it from girls he's collected for like some kind of tryouts He leaves the notebook in my car bad mistake. I start calling these girls up. I'm like, yeah, we're doing this tonight They're like, who is this? I'm like, I got your number from a notebook. So they're just assuming I'm this guy, right? I Get two of them to meet up. I End up banging one of them the same night that she came out the same night the same day I started talking to her my my buddies Has sex with the other one like a couple weeks later and I'm driving this girl back to her place and she's like She's like so how'd you um? How'd you get my number? I'm like, oh, I You know I was on that notebook.  So there's gonna be these situations you just you just deal with them You know sometimes you you are with a girl and you forget her name that kind of thing You're like, yeah, sorry it happens. Whatever check her mail This is very big part of communication, I don't generally argue with people at all I tell them I have a way of saying blah. Okay.  I've only had sex with five guys and and I'm just like what are you and I told the good fuckers later I'm like, what are you doing? He'll argue with girls like this doesn't make any sense You just you have to like lead them right like otherwise. They're just gonna spit out random nonsense Well, my buddy, you know same thing he ends up railing the girl That uh that said that that she'd only had been with five girls and she was like this innocent little thing It's just like yeah, they have to say that right You don't argue with them over that stuff. You don't even bring that up and it's just not how it's supposed to be Don't push draw and kind of a big concept. I already kind of touched on it You don't want to be trying to batten down her doors trying to get at her trying to convince her You want to just be like showing so much value that she just gets emotionally drawn and pulled to you Okay, remember that if you are getting resistance from a girl don't be trying to let's logically convince her or Trying to like ah come on.  Oh That's a big one. Okay, so when I grab a girl I'm gonna hit on this one too at the same time. No, I'm not when I grab a girl. I'm manhandling her.  I am manhandling her This is not about getting reaction out of her I am simply physically enveloping myself around her and like to make her do things. Okay, if you think about it I mean back in the back in the caveman days Did they have like incidental and overt Kino or you know, whatever that whole whatever, you know Like traditional way of doing things. They really have a no like they just picked them up, right? It's just natural. That's how it's supposed to be So grab them do whatever without any thoughts of their reaction that being said though This is all about push-pull. See grab a girl pull her in push her back out Okay, you pick a girl up you try to put her in a trash can. Okay, you there's a push-pull here We're like you don't have me. I'm just playing with you. Boom get away from me, right all we push-pull is One of the most important concepts and everything we do.  No I'm really not okay. A lot of times.  It's all relative But I am definitely not all over all the time because that's just basically needy and it's just not natural I don't feel like doing that. It's just too much work Dominant grip versus gentle grip. So I Def I'm I have both sides of that. Okay, I can grab a girl and I can also lightly stroke her and that's a really big deal I broke into a cemetery with the girl.  I did you inside the cemetery.  I'm like, oh, yeah, baby. It was like, okay, whatever No one would escalate hard. Okay Some people try to misconceive this as like predatory, you know physical But when a girl like starts getting that giggly like ha ha like that vulnerable take me now I'm surrendered thing like that's when I that's like blood in the water like I grab her and pull her in Okay, it's not sexual harassment. This is biology. She is putting herself Into a sexual state when you see here get all hyper or like like this. I'm like, yo That's that the queue. She's putting herself in a sexual state jump on that. That's where it's all at. Okay Prize keynote.  It's not going anywhere. Try this prize stuff. Try push pull dominant gentle We're gonna exercise for puatrons. I showed this to Tyler.   We lift up right here You keep your arms straight like this that is an exercise designed to pick up chicks Literally pick them up. You don't bet you don't bend your arms.  Where's my pointer? Okay It's on Kino. This is funny This is gonna maybe shock some of you guys and you'll be a little uncomfortable But man, this is where it's at Random random grabbing of girl to communicate what this is all about regardless of vibe. Okay, it could be sexual might not be so Just the other night about a month ago Do I tell the story here? I do tell the story here.   It's all good. What it did is it showed her what this was about Okay, it communicated on a really clear level. What was going on here?  Okay a lot of these creeper guys out there. They're like Like this and they're like ashamed of their like strong sexuality. Okay by doing this I'm literally like we'll make an eye contact with her and doing this and she can look at my eyes and be like, wow This guy's gonna rail me. Yes. Okay. Nothing to hide there. Um, so, yeah, I Ended up taking that girl home.  Oh, you know, so she just got to latch on to that and the next time we hung out Alone she was already there. Okay. There was no hiding. Okay. She knew I was like social like I was like in you know I wasn't like a weirdo.  If you guys have a problem getting sexual in the field learn some jokes I did it. I used to have a whole repertoire, man. I tell them they're hilarious. Okay t-shirt hell.com I see one of these shirts.  Don't get that one kind of thing But t-shirt hell.com learn some playboy jokes.    Okay. I already went over physical boom boom, right? Like I kind of mentioned you can be talking to a girl about the weather.  But that tells a girl what this is about.  It's a really good bite. I still like to read it.    I want to kiss you a little bit weaker But it's good for girls that you have to kind of broach it and then get then get beyond that later Like I just use that I just saw what you look like having an orgasm This is for a girl.  I'm running out so you guys can read that one. It's a it's a call two nights at the cave man It was from 2007 when I first came here and started speaking good one read it Fucking cool Quotes. Oh, yes. Okay. This is just I do this every year.  So there's some girls like we Second night. I'm like see you tomorrow.  It's just like random stuff There's not a lot of people here. They all left. I'm like, yeah We should make some more right now. Yeah, she's like, oh my god Okay, I walked out of my room one time. There were some girls over early in the morning I'm like and I'm like like like wearing like a thin thing. I'm like, don't worry. It's not a burner. This is normal And they go like And if you really want to impress your friends, I'm selling this one for 499.  They're like, no No, my big nipples are nice like I will say this and there'll be a group of guys watching over here and they're like Like what does the guy say to walk up to a group of girls and have them just start flashing their titties at a bar, right?  There you go Okay See stripper quotes I saw we're gonna strip clothe and in no way that I want you guys to think that I only Go for strippers or not a girls. No, I'm I'm What's that mean power Okay, yeah, yeah, okay 15.  You know, uh, I skip kindergarten.   I worked there.  It's a birth control the ring a girl puts in her vagina. Okay um, anyways So about 15 minutes later. She's like walking by and she sees me and I have it and I go like this I'm like thinking I'm just teasing her and she's just like Oh, I was like really, okay. Well, yeah, just just random nonsense here. Okay Extracting pulling know your logistics beforehand. No shit, right?  No, what's gonna happen beforehand have a place to go moving girl around club beforehand probably Shit one of the most important things that defines guys That are really good with chicks and look great And the guys that actually take them home If you're not pulling a girl around the club and leading them around to the bar to the bathroom to meet your friends Blah blah blah blah blah You're gonna fail. You can't expect a girl.   She's like, yeah, we've been doing that all that long.    I it's baby steps Okay, she knows she's hoping it ends in that okay, but I'm like yo, uh, I'm hungry. Let's get a burrito Okay, that's easy. Hey, I heard there's another barbie. Let's go over here. Okay, cool Alcohol, let's get alcohol. Okay. You're you're you're incrementalizing the process to get back to your house Okay, this ain't about this ain't about I mean you can you can literally just Go from like start to finish in one fell swoop, but it's so much easier You get so much more success if you just incrementalize what's going on here freebie Guys, come on. Hey girls. We got to get out of here. We got to get liquor before they close it too Done how easy is that what girl is going to say? No, I don't want to get alcohol before they close it too. Fuck. No, so, you know use that. It's a great way to extract Uh closing game is ruthless. This is k. We're getting down to like the nitty-gritty like the actual Penetration here closing game Is ruthless? Okay uh That that on that program where may not student pull those two checks I yanked my girl into the room within five minutes of being there He took a long time finally got to a room and she cried. She said About seven or eight years back.  Anyways, same thing.   I'm not trying to be insensitive. This is just biology speaking here uh, okay this is a good okay, so um I uh Had a couple of strippers come over. I I pulled one from the club first night.  So I'm sitting back on the couch.  I'm like, yo, do you want to come here?  You know, I mean gotta be one of them, right?    Know what's going on with that Okay, taking video pics. I already touched on this um You know, it's gonna be different, you know some girls you're gonna be like uh boom and then others You know, you got to like deal with stuff that being said I would appreciate it If you guys didn't take advantage of this and start posting it on like my ex-girlfriend.com or whatever I have never done that one of the reasons why I take so many videos and pictures because they know I would never Break that trust. Okay. That is my stuff. That is my stuff with her uh hardcore kino this is This is good. Um, okay, so We were on boot camp pulled a couple of girls This was how I uh, this was how I closed her. I pulled her into her room The girls were going to cook for us before they started cooking and pulled her in her room I put her again pushed her against the wall kissed her took her shirt and ripped it down She was just like unlike her. She's all exposed.  Okay, like there was no like Like, you know, like I don't know. There was nothing in between. I went from standing up to I just grabbed her and just did this And there are so do I tell this one? Yeah, there are so many times where that's just I'll walk into a girl's house There was another girl didn't know where that.  Okay, and don't you guys I mean if you guys think about it Isn't that the way you actually do want to take girls?  I girl love it, man I think they do I don't really ask him Yeah, it's it's hot. They're into it Okay, nine's and tens a lot of guys are one of the misconception that they've got to be like Nicer to these girls because they're so high.  Sure.  They know what they want. You got to give it to them.  Okay, so um To be honest, I wasn't always like the best at this like there were plenty of chicks I was like, well, I wish I could make her come. She might call me back, but it's not going to happen, right? Well, I had to like learn how to do this stuff So the way I see it as you can rail at her All night long, but until you get into her sinking her rhythm It's like you feel that bite and you pull There'll be a certain time with the girl where you sense her going to a particular state Where she if you follow this path with her and and take it from there She will have an orgasm for you guys that that uh, you know Have sex regularly you guys understand what this is for me.  It's okay. I like to do it just because it's something to do with the girl Come shots. I definitely do like She says no you say yes And that's pretty much how it works.  No Yes, and that's that's really how it goes Really, you know how like the Jedi mind tricks about taking the emotion out of your voice telling you that's how that works If there's no like you don't validate her her emotional, you know fear of what's going on it's going to happen Sex god method. I guess that guy was here.  It is awesome Turning your lot hard. Oh, okay, so cemetery Um, we break in her cemetery I'm like grabbing this girl. This girl is a ring girl in vegas model She's like six feet tall you know, um We break in her cemetery And I'm like, uh, and I think I don't know what it was I think I think she wanted to find a an actual a real tombstone to get naughty on But there was none around it was like it was the it was the cemetery that michael jackson's buried at It's all like scenery and stuff scenic anyways.   I'm just like talking nasty to her the whole time.  I gave it to her, right? So, um Yeah cemetery times good stuff. Okay managing your girls Um, yeah, sometimes I don't remember their name Whatever, uh, there's one time I railed a girl And uh, I didn't remember her name. So she leaves the room.  She comes back and I'm like, hi miss samson or whatever And then she leaves again. I go through more of her mail. I finally find her like real name But you know, if you it's gonna happen like I've called girls by their wrong names and just you know It just happens just deal with it if you try to let them judge you or post past judgment on you They will but just don't let it affect you um So one of the a girl I'm dating She's a real big fan of saying this is the last time You're not my type You know, I just I just don't date guys like you and I listen to this like it's like what is that 10?  So yeah, um, I listen to this like it's radio chatter, you know, like I don't care I don't even respond to it by not responding to it. It never becomes real So we you know, we've hung out seven or eight ten times since then, you know, and it's just it's not I never validated Okay, remember her reaction to you is shaped by your behavior. You dictate her reaction Oh, that's a good one. Okay. So I'm arguing with the chick You know, I'm just like babe. You freak out over random stuff.  I think this is the last time we're gonna hang out. Okay, whatever So anyways, we get back She goes to bed follow about five minutes later. I go to start macking her body and she was no What are you doing? I'm like just chill And that was it And uh, it was not love making what I did to her after that Like I don't think she enjoyed it at all. But basically what happened is by By saying just chill just chill Right. No emotion in my voice. I was communicating to her that she that we were not where we were before I did not validate her emotional response. I was right here right now with her and I was about to penetrate her And that's all that counted. She's like, okay um Okay, yeah, so, you know a lot of girls in my life I've known them for years and I'll text them. I'll find their number again. I'm like, oh, what's going on like? Hey, okay, and I never introduced negativity. So it never fades off. There's never a reason why it it ends A lot of my guys that are that are have these skills like they're like Oh, she didn't do this. So I'm dropping her.   Um They they do the right. It's it's not that I it's not the things that I do you to keep these girls around It's the fact that there's a lot of things I don't do I don't argue with them. I don't need to I don't introduce negativity My role as a male is to be solid and unchanging Okay, when they wrap themselves around a wheel mentally I'm just like, it's okay. I grab it. It's okay on don't worry about it. And that's it. That's my role I don't make it any bigger than that You know that and that's all they need is for Call out my girls.  Two minutes, um What okay, so I got two minutes to go through slides and I better not uh, okay.   I I'm into you. I am into you right like I like you Okay, like the value is you are finally giving her what she wants get that in your guys's heads Um, even if it's in the bar bathroom Okay, I'd love to tell these stories.  Do I really don't have time, huh? Okay, well, maybe we'll do that one next year. I'm sure Okay, okay. Well anyways guys, um, I had some more but I guess we're running out of time So I appreciate you guys being here and thanks a lot


You can make the right decision and get the wrong outcome and you can also make the wrong decision and get a good outcome And you have to understand when that outcome was a result of luck and when it was a result of good or bad decision making