What is in my heart? Well, it's a very serious Affair that is in my heart I'm a Penobscot Indian Living on the Penobscot Indian Reservation. Well, I was unfortunately Participated in two wars during my military service. I Experienced in both occasions Things that affected my life Many of them have never heard of Omaha Beach before they landed and made the invasion. I was one of them I landed at 0630 in the first wave Once we get in the area of the beach the Germans had placed these obstacles under the water All up and down the beach and of course we were receiving fire from the shores by the Germans machine guns fire small arms waters survival was on the minds of everybody When we jumped into the water I landed into water up to my chest I went for one obstacle to the next and I left and ran for the beach and I Made it seeing somebody dead. It was very difficult and I had to clear my mind from everything What I was seeing and and do with the work that I was trying to do And I started treating men with that had been wounded Bullet wounds broken limbs Many of the wounded men were flounder and they could not tell themselves they could not move and They were drowning so I dropped what I was doing on the shoreline and I went back to the water Once I was able to move like I started moving up and down the beach looking for wounded and treating them and All I was doing is I came across a friend of mine that I had trained with in England And he was a medic also and he had a serious stomach wound. His name was Edward Murasevic When I saw him, I knew he was dying. He knew it also I think and I gave him a shot of morphine to ease his pain and I did what I could for him, but I could not save his life and well He passed on. I often wondered how come I was able to survive two wars and not even be injured once Dear friends, dear all Thank you for being at our site today to celebrate D-Day and especially honoring Native American soldiers who took part of the battle of Normandy We are very honored to be here today and humbled to Give thanks to all of the people of France for Marie Lagrand For organizing with the Native people to remember Charles Shea while he is here with such a hero among us So we're very humbled The Indian nations answered massively to the call of war by the end of the war over 44,000 American Indians had served in the US Army Some tribes sent 70% of their valid men into war These American Indians would prove their value on all the theater of operations of World War two winning six Congressional Medal of Honor 51 superstars and 47 bronze stars a Great number of these amazing warriors fought here in Normandy 150 Native Americans left their homes to defend the United States in World War two Not only do they do their part, but they went above and beyond any expectations a Third of all eligible Native Americans ended up fighting in World War two and over 99% of the eligible registered for draft Today we continue to honor the past and remember the sacrifice of those who went before us And we express our gratitude for the sacrifice they made for our freedom We have dedicated on Normandy itself the Charles Jay Park Although it bears my name. It is not specifically for me it was meant to Recognize all Native Americans During the Second World War and perhaps in the First World War There were many Native American veterans serving I myself believe that we think I'm foolish, but I believe that I can establish contact with the men With their souls that are still wandering on that beach. I Seem to have met people that are only helping me establish my life and do with some of the things that I had dreamed of in my during my life and Well, this is the end result and I'm very happy with everything. I'm happy with everything that has happened to me


I know it's really what it's in techniques They wanted to catch me and Roger listening to Weezer's cover of Africa as well They know they thought you were wheezing and thought maybe you needed medical attention possibly that we sir. Yeah I mean since I you know basically said anybody who's anybody thinks that Africa by Toto is the best song ever ever created and Tom was like I don't think I agree That's fine. That's fine. We're a good song, but it's okay. Yeah, that's fair But yeah, I get a lot of tweets like have you heard this cover of Africa? I'm like I don't want to hear covers of Africa These are cover of Africa is huge like this we were watching their appearance on Jimmy Kimmel Where Steve Tokaro from from Toto came out for a guest solo on the synthesizer in the middle like a synth solo Since we started talking about that song on DTNS Sarah, it has made a huge comeback I think it's all down to you Coincidence I think not no, you know what you should read about it in the series from Time Life called What is it called the unexplained? Hmm. Okay Well, we're glad you're back Roger and it's time to do the show is everybody ready Everybody's ready Here we go The Daily Tech news show is powered by its listeners not outside Organizations if you get value from the show consider giving a little back as little as a dollar a month keeps great tech news and analysis Coming your way commercial free find out more at Daily Tech news show comm slash support This is the Daily Tech news for Wednesday, June 13th 2018 in Los Angeles on Tom Merritt I'm Sarah Lane, and we're very happy to have on the show from England Charlotte Henry author of not buying it Welcome Charlotte. Oh, thank you for having me back. Yes. Hello all the way from London London literally calling well not literally you're on a hanging Well Charlotte's gonna talk with us a little bit about the the big Time Warner AT&T merger and the fallout from that in a little bit Our producer Roger Chang is back Roger. I'm glad glad you're back. Thank you for having me Thank you for working for us. Let's start with a few tech things you should know Some big news today Comcast officially made an offer to buy parts of 21st century Fox TV and film All cash offer were 35 $35 per share totally and approximately 65 billion dollars Which notably is higher than what Disney was offering. That was a stock based 52.4 billion deal Fox broadcasting Fox news and Fox sports Not part of either offer Comcast was also waiting for the AT&T Time Warner deal to be resolved So that's probably a factor here Yesterday a US federal judge ruled that a merger could go ahead We're going to talk about more of this a little later in the show Microsoft announced a new design coming to office based on the fluent design the one you see in windows 10 The ribbon is now just going to be one row It'll add accessible icons and you will if you don't like that change be able to expand back to the classic version of three rows Office on the web has been rebuilt to run faster and will include avatars for commenters as well as dedicated colors for participants Microsoft says it will deploy new designs to select customers in stages Starting with the new ribbon in the web version of word and then coming to outlook for windows in july and then on and on and on In twitter news twitter will start alerting users at the top of their timeline when a major event is happening For example an earthquake We here in la love those or the world cup or some sort of other event that a lot of people care about Tapping on the alert will take users to a section with curated tweets broken up into categories like Recap or latest or the like the explore tab will focus on these events and twitter is adding new sections for topics like news Sports and also a personalized for you section Australia announced wednesday has agreed to fund new undersea cables and a security center for the solemn islands China's wall way had announced plans to lay cables to the solemn islands Which would have connected on to a broadband hub in sydney and australia didn't like the idea of wall way having that access So they've decided to lay their own cables instead. All right. Let's talk a little bit more about intel Getting into the gpu business Correct in a tweet intel said on tuesday that its first discreet gpu will come in 2020 The company says its gpu will target both data centers and gaming PCs until hired amd's graphics head rajah kadori last november Now last time until attempted a discreet graphics card was with lara b back in 2009 which only made it to data centers Yeah, they were kept talking about a gaming p version of that one coming out and it never did They just came out with the night's landing Version and they're sort of denying that it happened. They're saying our first ever gpu will be coming but I keep talking about intel Getting into the businesses that are next trying to make sure they're ahead of the game And and catch that next wave and not miss out on mobile This is a little bit more of them getting in on a hot market that does seem to keep heating up As gpu's don't used for more and more things like machine learning, etc Uh, i'm gonna chime in here. I think they really need to I think they're feeling the The competition breathing down their neck. They need to have an all-in-one solution That is performance capable now. They already have you say all-in-one, but it's a discreet gpu No, no, I mean like they they have they have an not all-in-one. I don't mean like a single design But I mean like they have an all-in-one shop Uh design that they can Uh farm out in the way that amd has successfully pretty you know rather successfully with their With their gpu as well as their cpu business and you know and viddy is pushing the other way, right? They're trying to they're developing their own Arm-based processors for you know markets that traditionally have been x86 only And so like you know, it's like well, we need something that can compete, right? We have integrated graphics No one no one is going to mistake them for a performance part It's a budget power issue for for for that part But we need to start competing on this other playing field that we haven't been before Dixon's car phone and out. Oh, I'm sorry charlotte. What is that? I find the um Gaming PC version of idea of this that Intel would get into that market more Really interesting because you guys were talking yesterday about the kind of gaming streaming And you know we'll just be playing games stream from our TVs like network Netflix for a monthly thing For monthly subscription and actually suddenly you've got a massive company like and intel go No, what we need is the top of the ring. We want the serious gamers, you know Even in the uk here. We started having e-sports broadcast live on tv. Oh, yeah That's that that intel are thinking. Do you know anyone can do streaming games? But we need to be at the top end of this market And that as we mentioned yesterday that top ends not going away because As good as streaming gets the latency is still going to be bothersome for people who really want to have the best Is not going to ever be the same as a intel powered specific gaming pieces Dixon's car phone announced it has informed the uk's ico fca and the police that it detected evidence of a data breach Attackers access to payment data a lot of times we talk about breach and say well, but they didn't get payment data They just got personal info this time they got both It did not include pin codes or those cvv numbers that are on the back of cards often However, about 105,000 of these cards were not from the eu and didn't have chip and pin protection Meaning they are considering those cards compromised. So they've notified card issuers They have not detected any fraud on any of the potentially compromised numbers The attackers as I mentioned also access name email and address for about 1.2 million records And again, no evidence that data is being used But charlotte, I thought this was interesting because it's the first breach in the eu Since gdpr Since gdpr. Yes, which everyone is still recovering from the eight million emails We all received asked me to subscribe or unsubscribe for gdpr But also what was interesting to me was it kind of gave me a flashback to the talk talk pack Um, which was a huge huge huge news here and the information commissioners office I mean didn't finish all that long guys. There was a massive fun in 2016 the talk talk Uh, so in that case the information commissioners office here really Kind of put now their colors to the mast and took it very seriously. So I suspect Cover warehouse are not going to be in pretty easy time here because this is like to say one. It's after gdpr to it comes after The the authorities here had really made their point about breaches and how seriously we were taking it So there's gonna be I think a comfortable uncomfortable months coming up Charlotte just as an aside before we move on to the next story I've always chuckled a little bit at the at the name carphone warehouse Which is obviously it pulled over from you know a previous era Is that something that anybody in uk even thinks about because the stores are everywhere Yeah, well, they've known for dixons now. So it's kind of become more of a thing I mean the bigger thing is actually to people still buy electronics on the high street Yeah, we had we had so you had dixons coffin warehouse merge. We've now had another range of stores called mac pins which has gone under the british high street at the moment Is a under huge huge pressure and the electronic stores are really really facing it because Guess what people just buy their stuff. I've happened. Yeah, nobody was buying radios at radio shack And now no one's buying anything at radio shack Carphone warehouse always kind of reminded me of radio shack. It's like we all know what it is It's just a very antiquated name Okay, well something that isn't antiquated is what's going on in iceland iceland's Aha, which launched a limited drone delivery trial with israeli company fly treks last year Will phase in more drones over the next two years Meaning that reikivik, which is the capital Residents could soon expect drone deliveries to their doorsteps, which is ahead of other european capitals although reikivik is Pretty interesting as a capital if you want to compare it to other european capitals Aha is permitted to fly 13 routes around reikivik and drones can make detours of up to 700 meters in order to reach their customers I mean forget european capitals. This is ahead of everywhere, but orwanda Orwanda is the only place i know of that has like had drone delivery for medical supplies in its case For a long time and it's an established business everywhere else has just been trials up until now I think this is kind of a big deal It's a huge deal, but has anyone ever cracked the security problems as soon as i've discussed this with people and they're like If you saw something cool being flown by the amazon drone, but you just knock out the sky and steal it Has anyone really tackled these security issues? Aha says they're not worried about that because they fly high enough and they fly 50 kilometers an hour They're like most people will not be able to see them. So it is not a Significantly larger risk than say a ups truck or or something like that which you could also Which is probably true to an extent, but if a drone is going to drop something in someone's backyard At some point, you know, even if it's way above what we would see like you're going to see it at some point So yeah, I think sure that's coming down I don't know like you'd like, you know use a BB gun and take a drone down It would have to be your only your neighbor's drone because it's going to be high until it gets close to the delivery Part point then it comes down and leaves it in the secure delivery area This is why you do a trial though, which they did and it seems to have worked. So now we'll see how this works I ask it's going to freak out a lot of authorities. We have a problem here And I don't know if it's such a problem in the u.s Of drones being used to get stuff into prisons a lot of our Are in very built up areas And so it's very easy for people just to be hanging around and trying to fly stuff over the walls So I suspect Authorities particularly here in britain are going to be very very worried about having a load of drones flying around Google announced its next AI research center will be located in akra gana senior google AI fellow Jeff dean and staff research scientist Mustafa siss wrote in a blog post that events like data science africa 2017 Which took place in tansania the 2017 deep learning in daba event in south africa We're encouraging in making the decision to locate in gana the center will focus on applications of AI research in africa so Keep in mind. This is now the trend of of research The the new thing is open your AI research center in a way to encourage people to come there Contribute to your project and that way you can hire some of the most brilliant people Google's now done this not only in europe and the united states and north america but in china and now in gana The tech revolution is happening in america in africa are fascinating Yeah It's just like some of the stuff you read about and hear about happening that is And how connected some of those countries now are without us sounding like silly patronizing Westerners is the level of it innovation happening there is fabulous. It's amazing Yeah, the way we were looking at southeast asia in the 80s and and and india in the 90s You got to be looking at africa like there's going to be some alibaba's and grabs and olas Coming out of africa soon Well, let's take it back to london shall we london tech week is going on and amongst the ar and vr And ai and ball pit for developers deputy mayor rejesh agrawal is touting london over silicon valley Dems writing words. He said quote if you're in the u.s. New york is the finance capital Washington DC is the seat of government silicon valley is where all the tech talent exists But in london we have all of this in one place So charlotte i want to kick this over to you is that true as a resident of london? Can you see this? Yeah, this has always been the pitch with london. So you have literally within walking distance An aerocort always could also be around about they call it silicon roundabout in london And that is within minutes walking distance of the city of london What's known as the square mile there the traditional city of london where the finance centre still is That that is real and then not very far away. You have westness at the seat of government So it is practically there that was one of the reasons why london always tried to make itself the tech centre There's lots of other places I mean gaming for example game development happens across the uk and actually primarily not in london, but um in terms of startups that that's london is the heart of it because it is so easy to Connect with the people who can finance it and that's why they have things like london tech week And it's fascinating we've had a lot of debates happening today brexit is in parliament today We've had mp storming out. It's been a huge controversial day, but one of the things people think Will help win through brexit is if we can have this technological innovation particularly coming from london Yeah, as it's it's good for london either way And certainly necessary if if if there is a more traumatic version of brexit that happens Which is anybody's guess at this point, right? So the word is the gaming development capital of england if not london if there is a city It's extraordinary. I think there's also there's amazing studios over in wales across the whole country But the input the reason why british government has been so supportive of the gaming industry is because it's not london based They felt that it was something that was very regional and so I mean, there's huge technological innovation happening in cambridge as well because of the universities That's another you have to remember about london as well. We have a huge number of universities based here So you have all that expertise as well plus it's within You know short train rides of oxford and cambridge and so so you have a lot of that connectivity But in terms of gaming, I mean it's happening around the uk It's one of the kind of unsung success stories that card visual effects of gaming Around the uk is quite extraordinary It's too bad. They went with silicon roundabout. I would have preferred silicon circus A circus is just another name for a roundabout, right? Is it? Piccadilly circus. I actually never really knew that silicon circus I just never really thought about it I think if you call it silicon circus and yeah, I don't know. We you know sort of like, you know some stocks dip, you know Everyone's like well, it was always a circus. Yeah, maybe that's not the right thing. So many ways it does. It doesn't it doesn't Hey folks, if you want to get all the tech headlines in each day about five minutes is all you need Go subscribe to daily tech headlines. You can even get it on google home And it's I believe on the serri home bud now as well as amazon echo and of course has a podcast at daily tech headlines dot com US district court judge richard leon ruled that at&t's proposed purchase of time warner is illegal And leon even said i'm not going to impose any conditions on this It's kind of made it sound like it's open season You have media company and you want to merge go for it says judge leon The merger will combine time warners hbo turner networks warner brothers film studio Remember, this is not time warner cable. This is time warner the television and movie company Time Warner cable doesn't even exist anymore. It's called spectrum. It's part of charter So this is at&t wanting to buy television networks Particularly cnn tnt with its mba deal hbo the warner brothers film studio That's all gonna exist now alongside at&t's isp and it's pay tv service like direct tv At&t expects the merger to close on or before june 20th US assistant attorney general make on delrahim says the government still opposes the merger It's considering next steps, but judge leon said don't you dare ask for a stay that would be a Horrible thing to do like he really tried to talk him out of it So we'll see if the department of justice continues to oppose this If not, we're probably going to see in fact we as the top of the show mentioned We've already seen comcast come out and say yes We would like to buy the pieces of fox that disney wants to buy so there's going to be a bidding war there The theory is that murdoch actually prefers the disney deal Because comcast was in on the negotiations back in december But the fact that regulatory opposition Might have been one of the things that was a negative about comcast Could be less of an issue now that we've had this decision from the judge But you're probably going to see cbs and viacom heat up will they merge There's rumors out there the charter might want to buy cbs and or viacom or both There's been some talk that maybe verizon would look at them Although verizon seems to be pivoting to focusing on infrastructure with their new ceo Who is an expert in 5g, but who knows maybe oath Would would maybe they'd bring in armstrong and say hey, let's get you a media company There's a great article on recode about this Showing all of the bits and pieces out there that that are available. You've got amc is is is ripe for acquisition You've got cox cable out there. You've got discovery scripts Even sony's pictures if you separate it from the rest of sony Which there's talk that maybe they would spin it off It starts to look like a small piece that could be bought from sony possibly so It's it's sort of open season now. What do you guys think of of where this is all going? I think it seems to me that this is the only way media companies think they can survive at the moment Is they think only yeah, they think they have to be as big as possible And as big as is allowed by the regulators in order to survive that book and What I'm interested in as well is what does this mean in terms of original content? Do you think if that these two merge? This new company's going to have a lot more power to produce original stuff Because that's to me where the battle is Seems to move that they want to be able to complete with the oranges the new blacks and Mr. Robots and everything going on on amazon crime and netflix Yeah, and and I would not be shocked. Well, first of all, they get that with hbo, right? Hbo may be small on the streaming end right now But if you add in all of their cable subscriptions and their worldwide deals, uh, they are huge So that is a business that seems to be in the process of transaction of transition Yeah, you get and in in the uk sky, which is obviously connected to was connected to the meldox and so on You get uh, uh, some of the hbo original programming now is on Sky new sky america. Mm-hmm. We have a channel which shows all these those. Yeah. Yeah So so time Warner gets a streaming service in hbo now right right off the bat or I mean at&t gets it My question. Yeah, I think a good question is Do they then take the engine? That makes shows for tbs, which is highly proficient in comedies You don't hear people talking about them as much because they're not dramas, but and you try beca Uh, you know conan o' brian. That's that's all tbs The do they start to create their own streaming services out of the catalog produced by these channels TNT tbs, etc and and shovel it into a netflix competitor rather than licensing those shows out to hulu or netflix or others Yeah, I mean that that to me. I think that is the right question because I think these big companies have almost they've been so big they could rest on their laurels for a bit And they didn't care if netflix or amazon prime were reshowing their shows or whatever But suddenly they were they became production companies that could compete with them and in some cases beat them And I think that's what's really scared a lot of these big media companies netflix is about as big as disney at this point in market cap Uh, so at&t already bigger than netflix or disney One of the other things that I saw a few people talking about is they also get more data They can have customer data harvested out of the cable relationships the hbo streaming packages And start to become an advertising company when they combine it with what they know as an isp with what they know As a direct tv operator And that is really where at&t wants to be they want to be in that trillion dollar market category next to Google facebook amazon apple etc google and facebook dominating advertising right now because they have customer data Yeah, I mean there they it seems like this battle is hitting happen It'll be interesting to see this side of the at&t as well We've got a slightly different media environment. It's slightly more fragmented But um, it'll be very interesting to see if These big mergers actually happen. We've obviously always had we had recently Uh, the kind of the talk over sky. There was a controversy with sky news over here Could the the murdoch own company take that over? So it'll be interesting to see if the the kind of merger free for all that's happening over your side of the at&t Come comes over here. Yeah, and comcast is interested in sky That I don't think they've they've made an actual offer for them yet But that that's kind of the next shoe to drop, huh? Yeah, right exactly. Um, and also it's really worth listening to if you haven't had a chance after you've watched today's tech news show Pete Kafka who you mentioned did a brilliant interview at the recode conference With james murdoch where he talked where james murdoch was very coin about this comcast bit He said we'll deal with it when it happens. Well, it's happened now. So let's let's see how how the murdoch reacts Yeah, absolutely. Uh, and and pete does the lord's work over the recode cover of this too Like he's one of the people I I always listen a little extra close to because He's been following this. Yeah. I mean james murdoch more or less said no, we want to go with disney We're not interested in the comcast takeover, but hostile pickovers don't always work that way How about less regulatory uncertainty and 10 more billion dollars? Does that change your mind james? Maybe it does. Yeah, when you're sitting on the board Somewhere Hey, thanks to everybody who participates in our sub reddit We love you submit stories also vote on other people's stories at daily tech news show reddit.com Want to hang out on facebook? That's fine too facebook.com slash groups slash daily tech news show is where we'll hang out We there and keep the emails coming. We've been getting some great emails We don't read every single one on the show we get more than we could do that with But that doesn't mean it wasn't an awesome email and we try to respond when appropriate as well What's in the mailbag today, sir? Well, we got one from rich and lovely cleveland who says in response to us talking about usbc versus thunderbolt and what iphone might have in the future says I think a lot of confusion around usbc comes from apple leading the charge to do thunderbolt 3 Over the interface as well as using it for device charging if the interface was just used as a reversible usb 3.1 port it'd be straightforward But even an apple's limited ecosystem seeing a usbc port can mean vastly different things the macbook The 13 inch macbook pro the 15 inch macbook pro all use different wattage for charging over usbc So there's no real universal there the pro line can do thunderbolt 3 Which means multiple external displays graphics and pcie speeds the macbook on the other hand much more limited Cables don't make it obvious at a glance if there's thunderbolt support or whether you can get a 5 or a 10 or 40 gigabit per second Relative mystery not to mention half the thunderbolt 3 ports on the 13 inch macbook pro Don't even get full bandwidth rich says this becomes less obvious if you're moving to the larger pc market Although very few exclusively use usbc, which mitigates the issue somewhat He says this will get better as time goes on right now though usbc and thunderbolt 3 pretty confusing Yeah, I guess i've dealt with this by not using usbc for much I've basically use it for charging and almost always use The cable supplied with the device with that device With the exception of you of you of interchanging some phone chargers from time to time But yeah Once all of my peripherals that i'm looking at right in front of me my keyboard my mouse my My mixer all work on usbc all of these issues become serious because I don't want to have to be like Well, wait, which cable actually carries the data at the speed that I need I can't tell like that's that's not a good situation to be in charlotte. How many dongles do you have in your Home office right now Very personal question All right, I'm actually I'm actually still Just about holding out keeping my laptop my keyboard and you know track pad and stuff powered by uh by bluetooth We've got the um, so I use it like on the superfast android chargers Which does a pretty nice job But it's it but if I use an older generation one we can talk It's it'll come up on my phone and I've got I've got an s8 edge It'll tell me oh, yeah, it's going to take six seven eight hours to charge Wow, this is craziness. This is because it's an older cable. What is this 2008? Right seven hours But seriously, I've had messages like four five six hours. This is mad Yeah, and this is because the issues I did to find these are old cables These are you know, it may not be the exact cable that's come in the box and so and things are just not compatible. It's not universal and for all of us, you know Using multiple devices in multiple locations. We want I'm sure you guys are like me that want loads of different Chargers and that you say Sarah dongles and your different bits and pieces to keep everything running whichever room in the flat or office you're in Like we need a bit of compatibility. I also think what I was wouldn't you a list talking about? Uh, if that the uh, iphone might change some of its inputs or yesterday I was just imagining that apple fanboy meltdown about this I mean, I think people have only just recovered from when they changed it the last time and yeah and barely To be in hotel rooms that have lightning ports in their alarm clocks instead of the old version So yeah, people like freaked out over the headphone port situation. So I don't even know what's going to happen next time Well, what we do hope happens next is charlotte henry being on the show Sooner than later again, so fun to have you charlotte let folks know where they can learn more about your book and everything else you've been up to Thanks. Oh, yes, it's been really fun to be back actually. So if you uh go to unbound.com Yeah, there we go unbound.com slash books slash not buying it. That's my first book We've uh, the publisher does everything by crowdfunding. We've done a hundred percent. Yay. So Yay You can still if you if you pledge now get your name in the book. There's some cool extras there as well So do get involved in that There's loads of other stuff from me at charlotteahenry.com or at charlotteahenry on twitter Excellent. Thank you charlotte and thanks to everybody who crowd funds this show and makes it possible. We are actually At almost halfway through the month four patrons ahead of last month. So keep it going Let's see how many more people we can get in the pool because the more people watching the more discussions We have with each other and the more fun it is Especially if you take advantage of some of the perks at some of the higher levels like joining the slack Or getting the the the weekly column with sometimes appearances by alternate tom who is entirely unreasonable That's all can be found at patreon.com Dtns our email address if you would like to give us feedback Whatever it may be is a feedback at daily tech news show dot com We're also live monday through friday if you can join us Please do so for 30 p.m. Eastern 2030 utc and find out more at daily tech news show dot com slash live Justin robber young's back. It's over. We talk to you tomorrow This show is part of the frog pants network. Get more at frogpants.com That was a great show great show charlotte. Yay Wonderful Now I assume unless you eat quite late that you've already had Yeah, I had something to eat. We're yeah, it's like teleport now Yeah, yeah, you guys haven't picked up. I don't I bet it hasn't got over to this terrible program What all obsessed with here love island No, it's called love island and it says love island I love it already. Yeah. No So it's basically sort of 14 of the best-looking human beings you've ever seen in your life Just throw it on an island and then they have to couple up or they get dumped off the island Wait a second. I see that nyle aslam quit the show over insecurities about his ears Honestly, it was big last night.  No, that's all about surviving. This is like This is all like Whoever I don't know has the biggest perk then you get married at the end of the So what's what's the age range for these uh, beautiful people, yeah like 20 20 Who needs it? I had to live. Well, maybe not the attractive part, but like I had a bunch of roommates and It just sounds like a mess There wasn't an island and none of us were interactive, but it was exactly like love island Speak for yourselves Nerd island it would be good nerd island would be great. I would rather have murder island The last we were talking yesterday about terrace house, which that's that's that's a reality show right there. That's that's my speed That's my speed. Oh, I've already picked a title. Uh, bless the ai down in africa Beautiful beautiful. That's so good I do think we should do a kind of there should be some kind of toka based intro Thank you charlotte because sometimes I feel like my opinions are met with disdain derision But we're that That's not true Hey, I'm kidding. There's Everyone knows that todo Africa is the best song ever recorded everyone knows that I just kind of likes to play devil's advocate sometimes. So I don't think it's bad. In fact, I quite like it. I just All those qualifiers saying the best song ever created. That's all well and as I've said to you before, okay Your opinion is fine if invalid but fine. But what is the best recorded song? So come up with that one Reflections by diana ross Lead me on by florid's nightingale I'm gonna fight your your your quasi 70s bleed over in a new age band with motown Did anyone Did not offer to get his knees out About just you know town's not showing his knees. Oh, no, you don't want to see my knees No I'm just saying that he has to say that for a patron level Oh, that's what charlotte was suggesting is that you know if we get more patrons than last month I'll show my knees which is exactly what we got in yeah, we got into this with the with the um With the whole spider thing like people being like We don't actually want you to do that. You don't want to do it, but we don't want it either It might be the same thing is like no it needs to wear shorts. My knees are as appealing as a tarantula Is what we're saying here Well, that's But that's what I'm saying Um, so when was the last time that's harry any of you Learned that a friend was pregnant because you got invited to their baby shower Because that happened to me today. Oh really? Which is not like offensive or anything. I'm just like Hi What in the heck I'm going on Yeah, because it's like a big six months in which you could have told you Right and I understand like, you know at the beginning You keep it under wraps, you know, you want to make sure everything's cool Totally understand, but like, yeah, we're we're getting near the due date at this point. Just heard about it today Maybe she's put not so much of a thing No A little bit, but it's not so much a thing People are much more like weirded out about it Weirded out about baby showers. Yeah, because they're like, what happens if there's no baby yet Oh, just saying yeah making a big deal, right Well, the the thing now is not really among any of my friends, but The gender reveal party Where like you all go to the baby shower and nobody knows if that's a boy or a girl and there's some like Exciting weight, you know, it's either pink or blue, you know balloons or whatever And you know, I've been to a couple of these where I'm like, I don't know just tell me what the gender is like Or not, I don't really care.  And all the all the balloons are light purple and you're like My mind is like All right, see see this is a real thing. This is a real thing I was reading an article not too long ago about the fact that pink used to be for boys Like in the 19th century And there was some and it was it was it was sort of like colors and and gender weren't very closely related But often pink because it meant rosy healthy ruddy complexion was associated with boys And it wasn't until the early 1900s when and I don't remember the detail some company or something started to push Pink for girls and blue for boys I'm assuming seers Why would seers do it?  I'm I'm making fun. You're guessing. Okay. All right. I'm making fun I'm not guessing When you're serious roger, that's a That's how I make fun. Tom. I have only one mode serious I'm mad about these twitter cameras Because like this is I'm not happy about this situation. I meant to set on the show This is nonsense Which is what we were talking about how twitter is Giving us live event updates I have enough updates and Push notifications on my phone Well, so okay push notifications. That's a whole other thing I also you know a lot of the twitter stuff I sometimes laugh at because I use a third party app to be bought It's so much of what twitter does. I'm like never use it on the web Never see stuff don't have ads I have a whole different experience. I mean tweets are there But this stuff is like not something that I personally will deal with anytime soon I don't know. I mean Let's say, you know, we use the you know the Example of earthquake, right? Um, which is in california. It happens regularly enough where if I feel like there's an earthquake I go to twitter. No, it's not this is not about like we had a 3.5. This is devastating earthquake in Guatemala Yeah, it's like it kills 5 000 people. We're talking about major world events That's when this thing goes into action. Exactly. But I mean, I think for examples like that. Yeah, not As to your point on it's not so much like, hey, did this happen? Is anyone else talking about this? But if I want to go to twitter to talk about something that just happened Somebody died or somebody wanted a sporting event or there was an earthquake or whatever it was twitter is really fun for that Well fun is relative depends on what the news is but I I like the idea of it being Collated somewhere at the top I just personally I'm like I'm not going to twitter web ever I'm not doing it I don't think this is for either of you This is for the majority of people on twitter who don't post Who really just look at it passively to consume it for news And they're leaning into that and I think it's really smart Uh, it may and probably will annoy a lot of the old old guard like us Because it's like great. I don't want more notifications. You know, the timeline was already kind of weird if I'm using it Normal twitter app But but for the person who just relies on it to see what's going on in the world It's actually a better experience. I think depending on how they implement it We'll see but it could be and and that that's sort of twitter saying We're acknowledging that this is our use case our use case isn't posting and sharing our use case is reading With a limited number of professional Shareers or high quality shares not that they're going to stop people from signing up But people just aren't doing it. So we're going to use it for this Uh and let people use it to comment on the news and and lean into that And you're seeing twitter stock values start to recover as people say, oh, okay um and in fact One of the people in the press conference where they announced this asked like well, what do you call this new project? and they answered twitter Yeah The girl who the the the person who's doing that dianna gave you the garden I met her a couple times. She's the one who asked the question. Yeah, no, no. She was the one who works at twitter. She's okay Um, and she she did uh, she started like she ran a women in journalism group here in the UK That's enough change makes me nervous guys. Yeah, it makes everybody nervous It makes me nervous too, but it's sort of like So I don't watch a lot of cable news However, if something If something really big happens, it's like I might be inclined to like fire up cnn Right, like I can't get it anywhere in my house because I don't have access to that But I can get it online and if there's enough like cnn.com will stream something But most of what you watch in those uh instances these days Is a lot of sort of like the anchors kind of like saying and here's a tweet from someone who was live at the scene right Yeah, mom mom Mom lady for 90, uh, who you know, it has this to say so For twitter to be like, you know Our content is actually what's fueling a lot of the stuff in the early stages of news breaking events particularly Why not keep people from? bouncing off of twitter to find that stuff Coming from here anyway, you'll know if this works for twitter if publishers start complaining That twitter is stealing their revenue By there you go You know like like they do about google because right now publishers see twitter is just a way to like send traffic back to them They don't worry about it But if if this starts to work You'll you'll start to see the news outlets complain like well, you're just why should we break news for you? You're just gonna broadcast it on twitter and steal it Yeah, they're gonna start I think they're all gonna start us trying to be streaming sporting events as well. Yeah Yeah, they're gonna do live video streams as part of this new explorer section amazon bought some The premier league stuff. Yeah Is it exciting? It's all changing that's and that's why I I feel like people keep Either ignoring or forgetting or just not not realizing That all of this consolidation in media Is caused by amazon facebook google the fact that those companies are so huge and taking all the advertising revenue That's that's what's causing disney to want to buy fox. That's why comcast is trying to outbid them It's why AT&T wants to buy time warner because they're scrambling to compete in that arena with these Titans now, you know, those of us who've been covering tech for a long time. It's sometimes hard to wrap your head It's like it's not little, you know, serge and larry in the garage in stanford It's one of the five most valuable companies in the world Yeah Yep, yeah, it's true It is true Yeah, and now I'm finding out all about love island on twitter Ha ha ha Love island. What is the name of the show that I'm thinking of? I there's something kicking around in my head too. There was a it was a short-lived reality show in the u.s Where they put singles. Yeah, it was called like passion island or that's not it To be fair all reality shows take place on an island like 70 of them take place because they can't leave without your help Yeah, well, it just it makes it tropical and yeah makes it know what it is is it's a it's a prison But it's a nice prison Life is a prison roger. I mean How to how to watch love island in the u.s in australia It's all gonna be okay I mean now that i'm done with the um Jersey shore reunion Temptation island That's what it was. Oh, yeah, okay, only three seasons now.   Oh dear Very bad Well, we're going to carry on the conversation, uh for the patrons, uh, but we're going to say goodbye to the live video and the Just the video folks live or otherwise. Uh, thanks for watching everybody Bye Bye everybody see you tomorrow


All right, we are now live here My name is Matthew coast and I am here with Helena Hart Say hello say hello Don't say hello say hello or hi Yeah, we're live we're live So Yeah, so today we're gonna be talking about The eight things that make men lose interest So this is a hot topic that a lot of women come and ask me about they're like and what am I doing? Am I doing something wrong here? He's pulling away. Was it something I'm doing, you know, and so we're gonna talk about eight possible things that you might be doing that might be kind of Making him lose interest and potentially pulling away or just like Completely losing interest all together certain some of these things We'll do that, you know and and I just want to throw a little caveat out there real quick where You know, you might not know that you're doing some of these things and that's okay I don't think that any of these things that you can do in fact I don't think anything By itself that you can do if a guy really likes you I mean, maybe like in the first initial dating stages If you if you do some of these things they might be red flags for him and he might want to run But if you're in a relationship or you've got a guy that's really interested in you and you do some of these things He probably Like just initially if you're doing them it won't It might be kind of a turn-off or unattractive for him but usually What makes it like what really makes him lose interest is kind of the long-term game here of him Of this kind of impacting him or being unattractive or being a turn-off long-term So Yeah, without further ado. Do you have anything to say Helena? No, no, I was just sharing this to my Facebook page. Oh, you're joining. Yeah, you're sharing Man we should I Always forget to do that. You only do you want me to share to the group to yeah? Yeah, if you want to share it to our group go ahead Hey, if you're new to our channel make sure that you go and hit the subscribe button It's down on the bottom right hand side. I believe of here. It's somewhere on the page There's there's definitely a subscribe button that you can hit if you want to get more videos on how to have the Relationship that you want how to attract the man that you want And how to create the love that you want in your life So that's that so Yeah, so what what makes a man lose interest? Let's talk about a few things that are kind of giant turn-offs for guys One of the big things so the first one that I've got here is talking about your ex, right? And there's a lot of people do this a lot when they're dating and it's to a guy Actually do anybody to a guy or a woman if you're talking about your ex Really what you're telling the person that you're seeing is that you're still Emotionally connected to your ex right like so you're still potentially in love with your ex, you know, obviously there's special circumstances like You know you have kids with an ex or there's an ex that's still in your life or maybe your ex is a stalker or something But outside of that you really shouldn't be talking much about your ex because it's just like Man, it just feels weird and gross You know like if you're on a date with a guy and there's they start talking about your ex and it just like Makes you want to like put them in the friend zone immediately and you just you don't see them in a romantic way anymore I'm assuming it's like that for guys as well. So Yeah, big turn-off for men and women. I think absolutely And if you're new, wow, we've got a lot of people On her watching this right now if you're if you're Just coming in make sure that you say hi in the comment section leave a like and You know, we love chatting with people we love talking with people these live streams are really for The people that love, you know being interacting with us on our channel and talking to us and hanging out with us And so if you're here hanging out and Make sure that you say hi, you know So, yeah, okay, so was there anything else you wanted to say about that? Elena um, no No, just that it's yeah, it's really unattractive both ways for men and women think about it when a guy does that to you How you feel and it's just like oh, it's just such a turn-off. You know, so it's um, I'm assuming that it's similar for men as well Absolutely, it's similar. It's absolutely similar for men And then there's even kind of this thing where it's like Like when you're on a date and a woman starts talking about her ex it's almost like this like You know like I can't even like it's not even necessarily Describable and in like terms of words, but it's almost just like this sinking like if I'm Like if I'm a guy and I'm listening to it.  You're just this really special woman to him. There's much better ways to Connect with him in that way to make him feel like you're amazing than trying to be a doormat or trying to Just like be a you know like a yes woman The term is yes, man, but I you know like I guess yes woman You know, there's much better ways, you know, one is really connecting with your heart, which Helena's really really great at and And there's there's also a ways to talk to him That make him feel like you're an amazing special woman but pretending like you're someone you're not is not one of those things like pretending like You know your life is more interesting than it is, you know that What ends up happening when you do this is that eventually it comes out, right? The reality comes out If a guy's into you He's gonna be into you And if you like he's and you're not gonna need to kind of make up a bunch of stuff in order to Make him, you know feel like you're more interesting, you know, he's gonna Genuinely and authentically be interested in what it is What your life is really like right and the more you kind of Side-step that and try to pretend like you are someone you're not or your life is like someone that it's not Or something that it's not The the more of a disconnect happens, right? And so it's like this erosion of trust It Helena. Yeah. Oh gosh. I have so much to say about that. This headphones driving me nuts. I said, can you hear me? Okay? Yeah, yeah We like got in this little argument right before we alive over It's less of an argument more of like so so you notice that I have these things on my head and I was when I was when I did the Interview with Allison Armstrong.  I mean just horrible horrible bad And so Helena's trying to get used to I don't like hearing myself. It's just really distracting, but if you can hear me, okay, then that's great Yeah, no, I totally agree with everything you're saying like I remember I used to go on dates maybe like ten years ago practically like Rehearsing my lines like I something I thought okay well I need to show this guy that I'm like really easy going and sweet and really like intelligence and and it's just not what makes a Man feel attracted to you and I love what you said about They they can feel that there's a disconnect if you're not connected to yourself in your own heart There's like this incongruence there and it makes a man not trust you on a deep Sometimes like subconscious level. They're like hey well what what she's saying is not congruent with her vibe That's the whole thing they're picking up on is their level of tension or your your level of tension and your vibe So if you're pretending to be super confident and cool and relaxed, but you're not really feeling that way deep down There's this like disconnect and it will you know when you're at that place a man cannot Connect with you and he can't fall in love But when you're like in your feminine energy when you're in your body and being authentic He can you know, he can connect with you and fall in love that way So yeah, really important to not pretend to be someone you're not Yeah, and and and so you know, there's kind of a argument in The dating space, right? There's this like thing where people are like Just be yourself, right? and Well, it's it's hard to like not talk about that, you know, because it's so so important because there's it's like You know, it's really fascinating to me like that the argument I get it, you know Usually when somebody's telling you to just be yourself What they're saying is it's like this pick-me-up thing, right? It's like it's like just go in there and just be yourself, you know, and and you'll like you for who you are, you know And I think there's a lot of value To feel that way and to think that way And I think at the same time You know, like There's so many different multifaceted aspects of ourself, right?  He might not get that second date with you, right? Or if he's You know, just really Really grumpy like I was a little bit earlier If if if he shows up and he's really grumpy, you know, he might not get that second date with you and That's not to say that he isn't a really awesome guy, right and that maybe You guys might be really awesome together What it is to say is that we have different aspects of ourself, right and sometimes if we're if we go out on a date and we're just trying to just be ourselves and You know at the time where we're, you know, there's something weird going on with us or whatever it might be a really Negative experience when you want it to be a really positive experience, right? It could be Really boring when you want it to be really fun and interesting and so I think that there's Like a very very valid thing when somebody says just be yourself, you know, it's it's like Yeah, you know, I want to feel good about myself I want to feel like I'm a cool and awesome person and that people like me for who I am and I Think, you know from a Like connecting with a man from your heart and being an authentic human being like I think that's very important is This whole like not pretending like you're someone you're not And I also think that on the other side of that there's this thing where We're kind of in this is one of the biggest challenges that we are having right now as a society is that When we go on on dates men and women both of us what we do is we expect the best Right, but we aren't willing to live up to those expectations ourselves Right, so we believe that we deserve something Like the best person in the world, but we aren't willing to put in the effort to be that person that deserves This amazing person to come into our lives, right?   Because you have to learn things, right? You have to Learn how the equipment works. You have to learn how your body works. You have to learn how food impacts you, right? And it's kind of the same thing in relationships, you know there's this aspect of us of being authentic and Connecting with ourselves and connecting with another human being from that place of being authentic But there's also kind of this skill thing that's involved in relationships where we need to Learn about each other, right? We need to learn how to connect with ourselves and other people in In ways that that take things deeper, you know, um, and You know and sometimes you run into people and things just work, you know And sometimes you don't you know and sometimes you have to work on things, you know And and in every relationship I've ever been in and every every relationship I've ever taught There's like this thing where a lot of people try to pretend like They they can just show up and things are going to be perfect in a relationship like I'm gonna come in and You know, it's this fairy tale thing and we're in love with each other and you know, things will be perfect forever and Usually when I talk to somebody and they're like, oh my god My relationship is just so perfect and we're the perfect couple and everything's perfect and love and La da da da da da. I'm like, okay, cool You know and I like I'm just waiting because usually what ends up happening is in the next couple months What ends up happening is there's this huge fight because you a lot of times in relationships like that there's like there's two different types of people there's kind of these people that believe that Relationships should just be perfect or they're not right and then there's these people that believe that In order to have a great relationship. You have to work on it, right? And the people that tend to think that a relationship is perfect or it's not right are people that usually tend to have massive fights and Horrible break-ups, you know, they're they're the people that are like, oh everything's so perfect and next thing, you know, they're divorced I know quite a few people that were like that in my life and You know, I think that a healthy perspective is this perspective of looking at things like This is something that we need to work on, you know, I we are a Or a project to to you know, work on to learn about each other to I'll learn about ourselves to grow Together to to grow in general um, oh Yeah, I'm just off on tangents over here You know, I totally agree. Yeah, some of the best relationships that I've seen have had problems because then it's like That's how you work on things and it grow together and it's not this like surface level thing where there's a lot going on under the Surface and it's not being talked about, you know, so I totally I totally agree with that Yeah, and a lot of times people say, oh, you know because I talk a lot about feminine energy and a lot of my work and videos and stuff like that and people a lot of people really like that but some people think it's like pretending like well I'm not naturally that way. So that would be pretending or playing games where nothing we talk about is like a game or a Like a superficial strategy because there is this whole other side of you a lot of time work mostly with women There is this whole other side that's just like waiting to be uncovered So it's about being more of who you are not not pretending to be a certain way that where it doesn't feel authentic yeah, and I just want to speak to that whole like feminine energy thing real quickly because We do get a lot of comments about that and you know, it's interesting like everybody's like Both men and women I get this with For those of you who don't know I used to be a men's dating coach and a lot of guys are kind of resistant to this whole like being a man thing, right? Which is understandable in our society for a lot of reasons and I could talk about that for hours, but You know like if you want to attract a masculine guy You you need to connect with your feminine energy and it's not like this thing where like I'm telling you that you need to go and Pretend like you're someone you're not from like, you know, I don't know that much about feminine energy because I'm a kind of somewhat of a masculine dude and and I have some feminine traits to me or whatever, but You know for the most part I do know about masculine Right being in my masculine and for me like being in my masculine when I'm being a man It just feels so good. You know, it just feels so it feels just right, you know, and There was a time when it didn't and it was because I was trying to like live up to these fake societal standards that Existed and I didn't understand masculinity. I didn't understand being a man and And I think there's like this, you know, like this weird belief system that was in my head when I was growing up that was like, you know masculinity is bad or something and You know, I've totally gotten over that and I love I love being masculine now, you know, but My guess is that there's something similar in being feminine like it's this primal like for me It's like this primal thing where I get into it and it's like, I mean, I just feel at home, you know, I feel alive in ways that I don't feel if I'm like trying to be feminine or trying to Like trying to Be somewhere neutral or something like that when I get into my like my primal masculine Kind of archetype or, you know You know, what whatever that is that that when I'm being masculine that I get into it Just it just feels so good, you know, which is another reason why when you're talking to a man and you say things that Show that he's being masculine like he loves it, you know, guys love that kind of stuff because it's it's Talking to this this deep internal primal part of him where he Where it's just this powerful thing that it is that he looks up to and he from like a Deep deep inner space just loves, you know, even if he hasn't spent that much time in it Or he hasn't really explored it or discovered it or whatever I think that with most men There's kind of this, you know, like this masculine thing that we A lot of us have lost because it's in many ways. It's not necessary In our current society If you're in the United States and in most places in the United States that there's definitely some places where like danger exists and things are You know, you need to kind of be in your masculine when you're out there if you're a man to survive or whatever All right, I'm going off on tangents again, Elena No, I told yeah No, like you were saying where something doesn't feel right when you're not in your masculine same with Well, I guess I can speak personally. Yeah, if I'm not letting myself feel something. It's like the worst It's almost like an out-of-body experience. I happened to me yesterday. I was really Feeling really really depressed yesterday, which I don't experience all that much these days And I was like driving around running errands like holding back like tears It's kind of embarrassing to share but I think it might be helpful like just on the verge of tears like all day long and Let me know type it into the chat if you've ever like just been like blinking back tears all day And just like finally let yourself cry and like feel it then you're done And then like five ten minutes Then you feel like yourself again and you get through it and then that's it but it's that holding back of Not letting yourself feel what you're feeling that causes this disconnect a lot of times All right, cool screen just froze. Can you see me still something? Yeah, I can I can see what screen froze Yeah, you are screen froze for a second my screen froze Okay, you're good. All right, so I just want to say hi to some of these people talking to us in chat, so Lore Lorea Lorea hi Hi go on so miracle love. Hey, it's Neil says I get it Julie says why does a man playing cat and mouse games with you? We can talk about that later But when you conform to them you lose yourself Yeah, yeah, so it's Neil was saying that there's definitely um That's kind of a that's a I'm not sure if we're gonna be talking about that or not No, we aren't but there is this thing where a lot of times I hear from women like they'll say things like you know, I gave my everything to this relationship and He ended up taking me for granted or he ended up losing interest And I think that there there's definitely You know, there's kind of this noble thing where a lot of women are like, yeah, I gave my all to this relationship I'm giving myself completely to this relationship and usually the problem in there is that you're smothering a guy, right? and so When you smother a guy like that his natural reaction is to pull back and if you continue moving forward He'll just keep moving backwards so That's I'm not sure if that completely answered that That's a really common thing over functioning over giving I always say anger and resentment build in direct proportion To the amount of effort and energy you're putting out as a woman So if you're trying to do all these things and give to a guy to try to Get something back from him in the relationship like get him to step up and commit or something like that If he doesn't behave the way that you're hoping he would you're going to feel angry and resentful So when you start to feel that way, you can always ask yourself where am I putting in too much effort? Where am I hoping that this man is going to do something where do I have an expectation? That's not being met and you can rain it back in that way. Yeah, absolutely We could talk about that for a long time as well So let's go on to the next one. So here's the number three number three thing That makes a guy lose interest is trying to be his mom, right?   There's nothing attractive about Mothering a man, you know, there's there's this feminine element that is incredibly attractive, which is like being nurturing but There's kind of this over-the-top element of like being mothering and being like, you know, you shouldn't do that and you know, let me you know, you should start behaving this way and Did you have any Yeah, men don't want to romance their mothers, right or their teachers a lot of clients I haven't go into this teaching mode or mothering mode or even like a counselor mode kind of telling a man how he should behave or What a you know a good man in a relationship should do this and this and this and it just like turns a man off faster than Almost anything else I found Yeah, it's pretty kind of destructive for relationship long-term especially and that kind of Kind of moves us into this number four number four like doing that number four is treating him like a slave, right?  You know, I mean as a guy I would never ever want to be treated the way that she treats him She's just constantly like you need to be back here, you know at this time and you need to you know Do this and you know stop hanging out with those people, which is kind of the mothering thing as well But you know, she kind of like puts them down and it's just really really painful for me to watch he kind of likes it You know, maybe he's just into Emotional abuse. I don't know. There's some people that are into that kind of thing But for most guys, it's not attractive at all, you know mocking a guy, you know making fun of them there's this kind of like playful banter thing that you can do with a guy and That can be attractive in small parts, right? What I've noticed is that a lot of women end up going like full mode into this and it's like, you know A guy can't even open up to that woman without being like berated and mocked and like made fun of and you know totally stupid or something and If you've gone that far, it's kind of like this masculine thing and it's For most guys, it's just really really unattractive and if you're an attractive woman like physically You what will end up happening to you is you'll end up being in lots of casual Relationships, you'll end up thinking that guys don't want anything long-term. You'll think that guys don't You know don't want to get serious at all, you know, it's it's kind of interesting talking to women that I don't I don't do a lot of coaching anymore, but back when I used to do coaching It's like the transformation that a woman can go through when she goes from being like this like masculine, you know berating like tell a guy what to do all the time type of a woman and like Into her feminine and the difference that she experiences with men who all of a sudden are like You know into her like asking her for marriage, you know, like, you know It's it's funny because there's like these women out there who are like And I'll see this in my comment section, especially on our Facebook page Is you'll see a bunch of comments of these women that are like men don't want anything serious men don't want You know aren't looking for a commitment men just want one thing and it's sex and then you go over and you See these other women that are commenting and they're like in these, you know I mean, it's like every guy I meet, you know wants to get married to me every guy I mean wants a committed relationship with me and a big difference between that is feminine energy and What did I tell you right before we started this Yeah But just a woman like that the tiniest little shift in this other direction that we're talking about can't get you the biggest most Incredible results just the tiniest little shift into your feminine energy if you tend to be that type a kind of Driven sort of person that wants to tell everyone around you what to do this the smallest shift I was I always want to say lean back, but If you can just lean back just a little bit and start to see the kind of results you'll get I mean that we've seen comments Even just in the past couple days where people are like I've gotten the most incredible results even just a day of doing this It's it's pretty amazing Yeah, absolutely. Um Okay, so the next thing I want to talk about so this is number five is thing that is really unattractive is I put it as being too easy But really it's not even really saying that being easy is a turnoff, but it's like It's like So so there's a couple different elements to this right one is like being Like too sexually aggressive which can be fun for a guy like short term Or if he's like kind of a submissive in the bedroom or whatever but the other side of this is like You know Like being too Too easy for Like for for him right like just kind of being a doormat or just like doing whatever he wants This is a problem. Like there's there's this thing called boundaries, right? And nobody Really wants to talk about it But it's like one of the most important things that you can do in your dating and relationship life is have boundaries because it Makes a man feel that you're really valuable, right? And the more valuable a man feels that you are the more special He feels that you are and so if you are just like letting him do whatever he wants to do especially initially he will lose He he might come on hot, but then he'll end up losing interest and it's One of the things I talk about in my programs is that Men commit because of investment, right? So the more a man invests in you, right? A lot of women like to call this chasing, right? I like to call it pursuing But the more a man invests in you the more he'll feel like he doesn't want to let you go, right? So it's like if you ever look at this is probably a Guy-topic, I don't know if you look at stocks for instance, right? A lot of people what they'll do is they'll There's been a whole bunch of research on this people will like do a whole bunch of Like research into stocks, right? And they'll be like, okay, and they'll find a stock that they really really really believe in and Then they'll put all their money into this stock, right? And it might do well or whatever but at some point it starts going down and it might go down a lot, right and What ends up happening is that a lot of times these people end up losing all of their money because They have so much invested in the research that they've done on this stock And they were so certain about it that they're willing to Write it all the way down to the bottom because they're like, no I picked instead of doing smart things with stocks, which is selling at a certain price They just write it to the bottom and they end up losing all their money and This is gonna sound really bad like transitioning it over to men, but like a man Will if he invests a lot in you I'm not just like monetarily, but like Emotionally physically from a time standpoint the more he invests in you the less he'll want to Lose you right the less he'll want to let you go and so if you give a man everything without Making sure that he's Putting effort into This potential relationship that you have Then it won't feel like a big deal if he leaves you, right?  Yeah, I'm just reading the chat. Yeah, Candice Pretending you're okay with something casual when you really want a relationship. Yeah, definitely It goes right along with that. Um, I Totally agree. I think you said it all there. That was great. Cool. Hey, hey, if you're just joining our chat Make sure you say hi We like it when people say hi to us if you're new to our channel Make sure that you hit the subscribe button to get more videos on how to have the relationship. You've always wanted so next thing that we're gonna talk about is This is number six is of eight just in case you're You just got here and you don't know we're doing eight here so eight things that make men lose interest and and You know, these are things that are unattractive things that make a guy pull away things that make a guy lose interest And so this other thing is kind of It's gossiping about him too much, right? So there there's this kind of thing where there's this loyalty thing around men, right like men want loyal women, right if I was to Lump all men together, which we tend to do in a lot of this stuff on men want loyal women And so it's like if you're talking about a man To other people You know talking about him in a positive light is Can be really beneficial because when he talks to other people they'll be like, oh, yeah I heard so many cool things about you And if you talk badly about him behind his back he'll probably find that out and It'll destroy your relationship But there's this other thing which is kind of talking a lot about him, right and To a guy it makes him like if a guy figures out that you're talking about him a lot to other people Even if it's your own friends you're your best friends, right and and he talks to them and they're like, oh, yeah I know this one thing and they say this one thing that's like personal and private to you um a Guy will start to Like lose trust in you, right? He'll feel like He suddenly can't be as open with you and tell you all these things that he wants to tell you because um It'll feel like You're you know because he's he's he becomes afraid of what you might end up telling people which could end up ruining his ruining his reputation um and He might end up seeing it as like being manipulative or something um Yeah, I tell a lot of times I just tell my clients Just just if you can try to avoid talking about the guy you're dating or your boyfriend when you're with your friends Just because it can you can get into like complaining and that just you that gets in your energy And it just get it creates this like negative thing around your relationship And also I love what you said to you like men need to feel like they can safely open up to you And when they feel like they can trust you and confide in you and tell you things that they don't necessarily tell Everybody else or anyone else in their life. That's what makes them feel like they like this is the one woman I can't live without so it's really important Absolutely, absolutely. All right. So moving on. Let's see if we oh, hey, hi Easter Pastels pastels Thanks for the important tips on how to handle ourselves be yourself room for improvement Oh, you guys are these comments are great. Hey love your channel I recently found y'all and love your content. Thank you We love you guys You know really the best part of our channel is really you guys, you know Yeah, all you women out there that are a part of it Who help each other out who ask us questions who? You know are growing there's nothing more rewarding to me than seeing a woman Go from being in a space where she feels like she's stuck to being in a space where you know All of a sudden all these amazing things are happening to her with men It's just so like it's just so rewarding. It's it's really really powerful and so yeah, thank you Thank you for being here And being a part of our channel. So yeah, if you're new if you're new to the live stream Make sure you say hi we love it. We love it when you guys say hi, so Okay, moving on to the next one number seven. So we've got two more So number seven is being too hot and cold and so This So there's this like Viral video out there right that talks about like a woman's attractiveness to crazy scale Right Yeah, it's it's kind of like it people show I've seen it like I've had people send it to me multiple times And it's it's over years over a few years. I've had people send it to me multiple times and You know, this is really what people are talking about on the crazy scale, right? Is this like being too hot and cold like a man? So men have most men have kind of You know, they have a limited amount of So there's this book out there. It's called the way of the superior man And it's by a guy named David data and one of the things that he talks about in that book And I found this to be incredibly true is that men are like on this path Right like they have this thing that they're going for if a man is is a mature masculine man he is on a path going somewhere in his life and Yeah, you know, they they kind of describe this masculine energy as kind of this dull You know forward like darkness like And they describe feminine energy as like this Light this beauty this flowing this dancing. I'm like giving my feminine thing right now and For a man who like runs into feminine energy It can be this really a luring kind of distraction almost right and it can be really really powerful for him to kind of join forces together and them to you know, like come together and You know because she'll kind of pull him off this path and and give him these fun detours of Experiencing life right like I've heard feminine feminine energy be described as like The experience of life, right and masculine energy is kind of this cold hard Thing that is just you know this forward driving force this really powerful forward driving force So some women out there take this to the extreme, right and they go like Hot cold, you know, and you know, maybe you've even experienced guys doing some of this before but it's it's usually for a guy It's like distracted, you know, like path distracted path whereas for women in their feminine, it's like this Kind of like flowing like all over the place at least from a guy's perspective when he sees it He's like he's like seeing this like woman go from these different polarizations and It's really kind of confusing for a man. Um, it can be interesting initially But if it goes like way too far, what ends up happening is he feels like it's just like this weird confusing like Annoying sometimes if he's getting pulled too much off of his path, you know Like to the point where he can't even he he can't even focus anymore He can't even like go back on to his path because he's being so distracted by this feminine energy that that is sporadic and Kind of just all over the place it can be really detrimental to The potential relationship that they have and a guy will immediately throw a woman into like this woman is Crazy wild and fun, but not relationship material category Very very quickly if he experiences too much of this Do you have anything to say about this? I've never heard anyone put it that way before so I was just listening. No, I think that was totally I think that was totally brilliant I mean especially if you're being hot and cold is like a Game or a strategy to try to make a man to manipulate the way He feels about you or try to get him to behave in a certain way a lot of times a man Won't he might not be able to tell what you're doing But if he can tell you're doing something He can tell you're doing something to affect him in some way That will cause him to want to like stay at a distance and not come too close. I found Yep, for sure for sure Yeah, it'll keep him at a distance Yeah, Julie Julie says why does a man play cat in mice games with you? That's kind of like the other side of it when the man is hot and cold or when he's trying to do something To affect you. Yeah, it depends, you know So there's kind of You know, we could probably do an entire video on just on that. Yeah so for a man it could be a Like a conscious thing that he's doing and it could also be a like completely Subconscious like, you know, he's not aware that he's even doing it right because you know, I've actually had women accused me of doing that in the past and Usually when they're saying that to me, I'm like, I don't even know what you're talking about You know, like they've made up in their mind like this whole Scenario that's going on. I'm playing games with them. I'm doing all these things and really At the time I think what was going on with me was that I was really just conflicted, right? I had kind of this thing where I wanted to Like date this woman, but at the same time I was kind of It wasn't my priority, you know, and so it would come up It was like, yeah, I want these emotional connections. I want this woman.   So if a guy is consciously doing it, that's a huge red flag But it's it's kind of, you know, I've never dated a guy before so I don't know How to say like this is a game You know, I know that in dating women I've had suspicions that women were playing games with me But it's hard to ever pinpoint whether it's they're doing it consciously or whether it's not, you know Because it's like, okay.  I've been playing games with you, you know Who's gonna admit to that? You know, maybe some people But for the most part it's difficult to determine whether it's conscious or not and If it's not conscious then it's it's it's just a matter of priorities and the question isn't whether Whether he's gonna whether he's playing games or not, but whether he's in a space to make your priority or in a Open at all to Having a relationship as a priority in his life if he's if he's not because some men aren't, you know, there's there's I'm going back to Allison Armstrong again. So Allison Armstrong has this book. It's a great book. You should go pick it up it's called The keys to the kingdom, right and it talks about Men and these stages that men go through in their lives, right? And there's like I think she she calls it like the I can't remember what the the young one is.   I don't you know, I'm just gonna You know make this sound ridiculous if I try to see what they are But but there's different stages that men go through right and there's like the stage where a man is like on this adventure, right and To have a woman with him if he's still in this kind of immature Adventure stage he needs a woman that isn't gonna try to tie him down Right, he needs a woman that is willing to go on this adventure with him, right? And then there's this next stage where a guy is like building his kingdom, right and I might be skipping a stage I don't know but there's a stage where he's like really really like focused on work and usually there's two types of men in That category one is like this man who isn't going to Commit to any woman because he's not ready yet He doesn't feel like he can be in a relationship without having you know part of his kingdom built already Right, and then there's another type of man who Is willing to bring a woman along as long as she is in like this supportive role or Kind of like in alignment with his growth as a man Into building his kingdom and supporting him in building his kingdom And then there's other stages. There's like this stage where a guy's like totally over all of that and he's like I Think they call him like the king or something and he like is like Focused on like giving back and helping other people and in all kinds of other things But anyway, it's a good book go read it the keys to the kingdom Alice and Armstrong great book I Was am I am I going on a tangent again? No, no, I can see why you like that one. So I think yeah, that's great Totally right on a lot of times you like women will ask me like why Why is a man doing this? Is he playing games? Well, and it's like there's like you said There's it's hard to know the why and you can't often change the why so it's I would sort of I was Recommend like not placing meaning on every little thing a man says or does you know just focus on what he's doing Effort in is he making you a priority is he pursuing you or not? And how are you feeling when you're with him then getting up in your head? Analyzing trying to figure out why a man is doing every little thing that he does So if you can try to not place so much meaning on every move a man makes that will help you a lot That'll help keep you out of that masculine energy analyzing place Yeah, absolutely. So, um So do are we on eight is that one we're on all right? We're on the final one here We're on the fire. We're on the final countdown So we're on number eight and number eight and this is if you got lost in my My ranting These are things that make a guy lose interest pull away or unattractive to a guy especially long term And if you're new to our channel, make sure you subscribe. I'm gonna say that like 12 times in every video from now on All right, and so the last one number eight is Being desperate right and so a desperate woman is like The way that a man Feels around a desperate woman and when I'm talking about desperate I'm talking about like a woman who's like just You know like any man will do type of women, right? And this is like you can tell She's almost on a hunt, right?  Like she's so Needs this guy to be Her boyfriend her husband her fiance her provider Whatever, you know that she's so desperate about having that it's not about him, right? He doesn't feel like she cares about him. She she feels like he's she's she's just using him to To be whatever position she needs him to be which Temporarily some guys can find attractive, but like I'm saying over the long term this pretty much Like if a guy gets into a relationship like this, which usually he won't you know, usually guys can smell and Feel this a mile away, right?  Or do you really see him? Like are you actually seeing him getting to know him for who he is or do you only see what you want from him?  She's looking. She's looking To fill a role and she's not really like seeing who I am Sort of what I got from that. Yeah, and and moving kind of back to this whole thing Of being desperate and acting desperate, right? It kind of goes back to that whole thing where we're talking about chasing and pursuing right a guy needs to Be feel invested. He needs to feel like he's going after something He needs to feel like he's winning something right and if you show up and you're like, I'm already won You know, you're the most amazing man. I've ever met. You know, I mean, he doesn't feel like Any of those things are happening, right? He doesn't feel like he's You know winning somebody he doesn't feel like he's with somebody who's valuable, right? He doesn't feel like Like he he wants to Pursue or chase or invest in or put effort in, you know, because he doesn't need to you know He can sit back and the woman will chase him, you know, which happens a lot And it's just not attractive.  So Yeah, so yellow Rosa says yellow am I am I yellow? Is that what's going on here?  I don't think she's I don't know what yellow means I Pilot judgment says hi, Helena The sound just cut out really quick. Can you still hear me? I can hear you green froze. I don't know Okay, green froze. Okay. No, it's back now. It's back. Yeah Technical difficulties. No, I think it's okay Are you reading these comments? Are there any questions that you want to? I Felt loud so we can meet her And talk about it. He's cool with it. I'm not sure what She's saying Okay, so um, oh Yeah, we just hit the hour time limit. So let's just cut it where it's at right now I just want to thank everybody for being here. Thanks so much. If you're new to our channel make sure you subscribe and Thanks, Elena for your valuable input in this conversation. I don't think I'm yellow But Anyway, thank you. Thank you everybody for being here


Welcome learners, this is the second video lecture of the unit consumer attitudes and this one is your from consumer behavior marketing specialization of MBA fourth semester course. So in this video lecture basically we will discuss about different models of consumer attitude and how attitude can be changed. So first we will start with strategic models of attitude, there are basically four strategic models of consumer attitudes which are tricomponent attitude model, multi-attribute attitude model, the trying to consumer model and then attitude towards ad model. So we will be discussing these models one by one. First we will go to the tricomponent model. So here basically three components are there as the name indicates cognitive component, effective component and cognitive component. The cognitive component consists of an individual's knowledge or perception towards few products or services through personal experience or related information from various sources. This knowledge usually results in belief which a consumer has a specific behavior. Then comes our second component that is effective component. The second part is the effective component. This consists of person's feelings, sentiments and emotions for a particular brand or product. They treat them as the primary criteria for the purpose of evaluation. The state of mind also plays a major role like sadness, happiness, anger, stress and all these factors influences in the attitude of a consumer. Then the third component is your cognitive component. This consists of a person's intention or likelihood towards a particular product. It usually means the actual behavior of the person or his intention. An individual can get affected by the environment in which he lives. His culture, his social class, his psychology and his personality also influences. Then we will go to the multi-attribute attitude model. As the name indicates there are multiple attributes which influences in our attitude. So it portrays consumers attitudes with regard to an attitude of objects like product, service, catalog, direct marketing or idea as a function of consumer perception and assignment of the key attributes or beliefs held with regard to the particular attitude assessment. The multi-attribute attitude model, it portrays consumer attitude with regard to an object, attitude towards a product, service, catalog, direct marketing as a function of consumer perception and assessment of the key attributes or beliefs held with regard to a particular attitude objects. Although there are many variations of this type of model but basically like we will discuss of three types. One is the attitude towards object model, then attitude towards behavior model and then attitude other theory of reasoned action model. So first I will discuss the attitude towards object model. This is specially suitable for measuring attitude towards a product, service or category or a specific brand. According to this model the consumer's attitude towards a product or specific brands of a product is a function of the presence or absence of an evaluation of certain product specific beliefs and or certain kind of attributes. Thus our consumers have favorable attitudes towards those brands that they believe have an adequate level of attributes that they evaluate as positive or negative. Then we will discuss the attitude towards behavior model. This model is designed to capture the individual's attitude towards behaving or acting with respect to an object rather than attitude towards the object itself. So this model corresponds closely to actual behavior compared to the attitude towards object model. And then the theory of reasoned action model. So this model presents comprehensive integration of attitude components into structure that is designed to lead to both better explanation and better predictions of behavior. It consists of all three elements like cognitive element, effective element and cognitive elements like tricomponent model but are arranged in different patterns. Then the theory of trying to consume model. So the theory of trying to consume model focuses on a purchase situation where the action or act of behavior in terms of actual purchase is not certain and may even be sometimes in future. So as per this model the action or act of behavior is directed towards a goal. In such process of trying the resultant outcome cannot be predicted for certainty. Then we will go to the another model that is our attitude towards ad model. So this model lays emphasis on the impact of an advertisement either in print or in audio visual on the formation of consumer attitudes towards product services or the brand. Once exposed to an advertisement a consumer forms the cognition that is knowledge about and the effect or component of the attitude. It leads to judgment about the ad and the feelings from the ad. The cognitive component leads to belief about the brand as well as attitude towards the ad. The effect component also leads to belief about the brand as well as attitude towards the ad. Thus both the cognition and effect component affect the consumer attitudes towards the ad and belief about the brand. A mere exposure to the ad can also lead to belief about the brand. Finally, the belief about the brand as well as the attitude towards the ad leads to the development of an attitude towards the brand. So, the theory behind this model states that consumers form judgment and feelings as a result of exposure to an advertisement. So, not only does a consumer form attitudes towards the advertisement, he or she also forms an opinion towards the brand. Research has shown that the model holds good for new product and service offerings than for existing one. So, for new products when the consumer will have positive attitude or negative attitude towards a particular product, this model helps in gaining a positive attitude towards this product or brand. Then we will discuss how attitude can be changed. As we know like attitude again we can form attitude either through direct experience or through social influences. So, attitude changes are also learned. There are different like attributes which influences in attitude change, like strategies of attitude change. Changing attitude is generally very difficult. The major attitude changing strategies for marketers are changing the consumer's basic motivational function, then associating the product with admired group or events, then resolving two conflicting attitudes, then altering attributes of multi-attribute model, then changing consumer beliefs about competitors brand. So, some of these factors we will discuss in this video lecture. First suppose we will discuss changing affect. One approach is try to change the affect which may or may not involve getting consumers to change their belief. One strategy uses the approach of classical conditioning. Try to pair the product with her like stimulus. Suppose one person, one particular person he or she doesn't like a product, he or she has negative attitude towards a product. Then what the marketer can do, they can add some component, suppose some celebrity they have endorsed whom this person likes. So, by using this kind of classical conditioning theory, he or she may have changed their attitude towards a particular product. He or she may started liking the product because of the celebrity endorsement. Then changing behavior. People like to believe that their behavior is rational. Thus, once they use a product, chances are there they will continue unless is able to get them to switch. So, someone unless someone like make them to switch the product, they will try to use the same product. Then changing belief. Although attempting to change belief is obvious way to attempt attitude change, particularly when consumers hold unfavorable or inaccurate ones. This is often very difficult to achieve because consumer tend to resist. Like whatever belief we have, it is very difficult to change our belief. But if marketers have proper strategies, suppose earlier a customer doesn't like a product, he or she has negative attitude towards the product. But if the marketer changed that particular product, maybe modified the product and if they were able to change the belief of the customer like now this product is better, the better version of this product has come to the market. So, then he or she may like the product and they may change the belief. So, that's all about this video lecture. In this video lecture, basically we have discussed about different consumer attitude models like tricomponent attitude model, then multi-attribute attitude model, then trying to consume model and then attitude towards the end model. And then at last we have discussed how attitude can be changed. Like attitude changes are influenced by personal experiences and under factors. Different forms are like strategies for attitude change, different strategies are there like changing affect, changing behavior, changing beliefs, all these factors influences in changing the attitude. Thank you.